1 00:00:00,880 --> 00:00:02,200 Speaker 1: Second date up dated. 2 00:00:03,640 --> 00:00:06,200 Speaker 2: There's a new trend that's happening right now where people 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:12,720 Speaker 2: online are posting dating rapped videos. 4 00:00:10,680 --> 00:00:13,680 Speaker 3: Like you're Spotify rapped, but like, wait, how many matches? 5 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 3: And so are you guys? 6 00:00:14,400 --> 00:00:16,920 Speaker 2: Yeah, like an end of the year recap of their 7 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:19,960 Speaker 2: dating life from the past three hundred and sixty five days. 8 00:00:20,079 --> 00:00:21,320 Speaker 1: I feel like that could go really wrong. 9 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:23,279 Speaker 3: It's like who you swipe on, what you don't like, 10 00:00:23,280 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 3: who you know? 11 00:00:24,360 --> 00:00:25,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just it's like a type. 12 00:00:25,720 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 2: Of person, yeah, or like the total amount of dates 13 00:00:28,560 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 2: that you tried for the past year and you're patting 14 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:32,639 Speaker 2: yourself on the back again. 15 00:00:32,560 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 3: Day Okay, it's not about the failure. 16 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:37,160 Speaker 2: And today's caller, Kelly, mentioned in her email that she's 17 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:39,400 Speaker 2: dated around a lot over the past year, so our 18 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,159 Speaker 2: producer asked if she could give us a dating. 19 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: Rap for herself. 20 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:44,040 Speaker 4: All right, so. 21 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:46,160 Speaker 2: We're gonna hear that in a second. First, Kelly, welcome 22 00:00:46,159 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 2: to the show. 23 00:00:47,479 --> 00:00:49,640 Speaker 5: Hi, thank you, thanks for having. 24 00:00:49,400 --> 00:00:51,360 Speaker 1: Me, Thanks for being on with us. 25 00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:54,600 Speaker 2: We want to hear about what's your dating rap briefly 26 00:00:54,680 --> 00:00:55,120 Speaker 2: for us. 27 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 1: If you can. 28 00:00:55,840 --> 00:00:57,800 Speaker 3: Every time you say rap, I wanted to like break down. 29 00:00:58,000 --> 00:00:59,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, don't you don't need this hip. 30 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:03,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I wanted. 31 00:01:04,040 --> 00:01:04,600 Speaker 1: Just give me. 32 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:06,160 Speaker 3: I can give you a beat if it would make 33 00:01:06,200 --> 00:01:07,240 Speaker 3: the wraps way more through. 34 00:01:07,720 --> 00:01:10,240 Speaker 1: There's a quick breakdown. What was your dating life like 35 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:10,959 Speaker 1: last year? 36 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:13,559 Speaker 5: Yeah, that's funny. I wish I could wrap my rats. 37 00:01:13,560 --> 00:01:21,640 Speaker 5: But it was sixteen first dates total, okay, mostly mostly Americans. 38 00:01:21,720 --> 00:01:26,199 Speaker 5: I had two Australians, one Irish guy, one guy who 39 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:29,160 Speaker 5: I don't know what his action was, but I think 40 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 5: he may have been homeless also or. 41 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:38,360 Speaker 2: Just that your version homeless just pick accents from wow judgment. 42 00:01:38,440 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: So that's good. It sounds like you're keeping your options open. 43 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:43,000 Speaker 2: Was there anything more? What what did you think about 44 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 2: the sixteen guys that you were with? 45 00:01:44,959 --> 00:01:46,520 Speaker 4: That sounds like. 46 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: That, you know what I meant? Sixteen guys you met 47 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,800 Speaker 1: separately during the year. How did they go? 48 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:59,560 Speaker 5: Yeah? You know, like the sixteen six made to a 49 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:03,120 Speaker 5: second day. Out of those six, only three made it 50 00:02:03,120 --> 00:02:07,400 Speaker 5: to a third date or more right, Yeah, Now, all 51 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 5: the guys two flat out rejected me right after the date. 52 00:02:11,800 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 5: Eight were like mutual ghostings. Three I rejected and told 53 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:21,079 Speaker 5: them it just wasn't going to work. And one block 54 00:02:21,240 --> 00:02:24,360 Speaker 5: to me like immediately after the date. But I was 55 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:26,160 Speaker 5: he was a little suss I think he might have 56 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:26,639 Speaker 5: been married. 57 00:02:27,240 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 4: Oh oh god, yeah, nothing you did wrong there other 58 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:32,680 Speaker 4: than go out with him. 59 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:36,520 Speaker 2: I suppose alexis looking back at her sixteen first dates. 60 00:02:36,560 --> 00:02:38,560 Speaker 2: How would you grade her overall experience? 61 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:41,560 Speaker 3: It's not like a good but one sixteenth for being blocked, Like, 62 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 3: that's not bad? 63 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: What sixteen? 64 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 4: And it wasn't for something she did exactly, that's a good. 65 00:02:49,840 --> 00:02:51,280 Speaker 1: Aspect, I mean. 66 00:02:51,600 --> 00:02:54,000 Speaker 5: And out of the sixteen, I only had to pay 67 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:57,640 Speaker 5: half on like one of them. And I'm really old 68 00:02:57,680 --> 00:03:00,880 Speaker 5: fashioned and I prefer the guy to pay. That's just 69 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 5: how my mom and dad taught me. 70 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:03,399 Speaker 3: Old fashion your cheap. 71 00:03:03,480 --> 00:03:04,200 Speaker 1: Let's be honest. 72 00:03:04,280 --> 00:03:06,040 Speaker 3: I mean I know both. 73 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:10,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, just how it was. And I cried over two 74 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 5: guys last year and ended up with zero. 75 00:03:14,639 --> 00:03:16,280 Speaker 1: And I do make a lot of women cry when 76 00:03:16,280 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 1: they listened to the show. Oh yeah, we do. So 77 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:19,079 Speaker 1: tell me. 78 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:22,600 Speaker 2: None of the sixteen guys worked out. But now apparently 79 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 2: you say there's a new guy and that's why you 80 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:25,359 Speaker 2: reached out to us. 81 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:29,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, there's a new guy. I was hopeful. I don't 82 00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:31,480 Speaker 5: know yet. His name is Steve. It was like an 83 00:03:31,480 --> 00:03:34,760 Speaker 5: online match and it was just a casual date. It 84 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,280 Speaker 5: was really like less than hour, like a forty minute. 85 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 3: Oh so you went out with them already. 86 00:03:39,280 --> 00:03:39,560 Speaker 4: Yeah. 87 00:03:39,640 --> 00:03:43,600 Speaker 5: We just got Cuban sandwiches from this little sandwich shop 88 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:46,040 Speaker 5: and just went to the park and you just ate 89 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:49,400 Speaker 5: and talked and we were by this playground with kids 90 00:03:49,440 --> 00:03:50,440 Speaker 5: running around and. 91 00:03:50,520 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 3: What that significant in some way? The playground that's my kid. 92 00:03:56,080 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 1: No, it's a lot of information coming at us. 93 00:03:58,640 --> 00:04:01,600 Speaker 2: I mean, there's sandwiches there, there's a park, there's a playground, 94 00:04:01,600 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 2: there's children. Does that sound like a good date? 95 00:04:03,960 --> 00:04:09,480 Speaker 1: First? Like, overall, alexis no kids around? Sandwich. Sandwich is okay, 96 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:10,520 Speaker 1: sandwich is okay. 97 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 3: Honestly, the playground was empty. I'd play on it. But 98 00:04:13,240 --> 00:04:17,080 Speaker 3: it's a kid. 99 00:04:18,120 --> 00:04:20,800 Speaker 5: That would be a fun date, that would be No, 100 00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:23,080 Speaker 5: it was really just kind of a lunch date really 101 00:04:23,120 --> 00:04:25,720 Speaker 5: because like the sandwiches are really messy. And at one 102 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 5: point he was like, you got something on your face 103 00:04:28,279 --> 00:04:30,840 Speaker 5: and I was like, oh where, and he was like, 104 00:04:30,920 --> 00:04:34,120 Speaker 5: you pointed to like my entire lower half and he 105 00:04:34,200 --> 00:04:37,400 Speaker 5: was like everywhere under your nose and. 106 00:04:38,880 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 4: That he's paying attention, you know, he's looking at you. 107 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 4: You have like a I'm not even joking when I 108 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:47,760 Speaker 4: met my husband. I didn't realize I carried so much 109 00:04:47,760 --> 00:04:49,800 Speaker 4: food on my face until I met that man, and 110 00:04:49,839 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 4: I was like, he always has something to point out. 111 00:04:53,240 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 4: No one else before him ever said anything. 112 00:04:56,440 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 2: How the women on this show can spin anything into 113 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:00,000 Speaker 2: a positive for. 114 00:05:00,080 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 4: Another You heard the odds, Jeff, I don't think that's bad. 115 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:05,839 Speaker 3: I mean, how'd you guys end it? 116 00:05:06,240 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 6: After we ate? 117 00:05:06,760 --> 00:05:08,440 Speaker 5: We were just kind of like, oh, if we had 118 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 5: a frisbee, we'd throw it, but we just kind of 119 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:13,400 Speaker 5: kind of like picked up a stick and was kind 120 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:14,800 Speaker 5: of playing with it and then. 121 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:19,159 Speaker 1: Go get it, Go get date. 122 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:22,080 Speaker 5: I mean I got no, but it got a little awkward. 123 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:23,720 Speaker 5: You know. I was really hoping he'd say, like, you 124 00:05:23,760 --> 00:05:27,080 Speaker 5: know what, let's grab a drink and proceed to like 125 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:30,520 Speaker 5: a nighttime thing. And he's so cute. I'm sure he 126 00:05:30,520 --> 00:05:33,680 Speaker 5: gets a lot of attention from women on on the 127 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:34,400 Speaker 5: app so. 128 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:36,560 Speaker 4: Well, he doesn't sound very good at a date. I mean, 129 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 4: he didn't even bring a frisbee. 130 00:05:37,680 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 3: He didn't even get the sandwich place. 131 00:05:38,839 --> 00:05:42,239 Speaker 1: He went to a park. Why is the man in trouble? 132 00:05:42,400 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 1: We're paying for the saying which she's the one that 133 00:05:44,640 --> 00:05:46,039 Speaker 1: he date. 134 00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:48,640 Speaker 4: I'm just saying that I don't think he's getting hit 135 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:50,719 Speaker 4: on as much as she thinks because he is not 136 00:05:50,839 --> 00:05:52,320 Speaker 4: as experienced as he should. 137 00:05:52,160 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 1: Be, which was a ride. 138 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:57,240 Speaker 2: I'm sure it's the man's fault somehow, but let's prove it. 139 00:05:57,279 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 1: When we come back. 140 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:00,720 Speaker 2: We're gonna call Steve for you try and get you 141 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 2: your second date update right after that. If your name 142 00:06:02,960 --> 00:06:08,080 Speaker 2: is Steve, you better pick hold on second date update. 143 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 2: I feel like in the first part we definitely miss 144 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:14,800 Speaker 2: something we miss and by we I mean Brook. 145 00:06:14,880 --> 00:06:16,280 Speaker 1: Okay, I know. 146 00:06:16,320 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 3: That we were going there. 147 00:06:17,360 --> 00:06:20,599 Speaker 2: Brooke was out that even though the guy is the 148 00:06:20,640 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 2: one not calling Kelly back, yes, and Kelly said herself, 149 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 2: he's very good looking and must get a lot of 150 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:28,919 Speaker 2: attention on the dating apps, and Kelly's the one that 151 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 2: had sandwich pieces all over her face. Brook hurt all 152 00:06:31,160 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 2: of that and says, Nope, the guy is a bad 153 00:06:34,360 --> 00:06:35,160 Speaker 2: date planner. 154 00:06:35,600 --> 00:06:37,520 Speaker 1: I bet no women want to go out with you. 155 00:06:37,640 --> 00:06:37,919 Speaker 3: No. 156 00:06:37,920 --> 00:06:39,960 Speaker 4: No, I didn't say no women. I just said I 157 00:06:39,960 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 4: don't think that he's as wanted as she thinks. I'm 158 00:06:42,000 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 4: trying to hype her up. Okay, she has something to 159 00:06:44,480 --> 00:06:47,400 Speaker 4: offer on this table and he is going to maybe 160 00:06:47,560 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 4: maybe he was too intaminated by how awesome she is. 161 00:06:50,520 --> 00:06:52,320 Speaker 1: You know, the sandwich all over her face. 162 00:06:54,040 --> 00:06:57,760 Speaker 4: Listen, I've gotten food on my face. It shouldn't stop anything, Okay, but. 163 00:06:57,800 --> 00:07:00,480 Speaker 1: No, actually stop normally. 164 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 2: Yeah, eat politely once one of your dates. 165 00:07:03,360 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 1: Try that. 166 00:07:04,400 --> 00:07:07,479 Speaker 2: But look, the whole thing is Kelly really liked the 167 00:07:07,480 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 2: guy that she met up with, Steve. They did a 168 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 2: casual date in the park with Cuban sandwiches. They tossed 169 00:07:12,200 --> 00:07:14,320 Speaker 2: a stick back and forth. It was a great time. 170 00:07:14,760 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 3: The stick was a little straight, yeah, I mean. 171 00:07:17,200 --> 00:07:19,240 Speaker 1: They weren't sure what else to do. It was short though. 172 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:19,600 Speaker 3: Yeah. 173 00:07:19,640 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 2: And so now afterwards she's hoping to get one more 174 00:07:21,960 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 2: shot with him because he's been kind of ghosty. 175 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:24,280 Speaker 6: Yeah. 176 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 3: Yeah, have you heard from him at all, Kelly? 177 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 1: I haven't. 178 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:31,679 Speaker 5: And now I'm nervous because I was really slobby. Maybe 179 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:37,600 Speaker 5: I grossed him out. I don't know. 180 00:07:37,720 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 4: The passion that you had going into that sandwich is 181 00:07:40,680 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 4: what it isntanding. 182 00:07:45,680 --> 00:07:49,040 Speaker 2: If you could do that to a sandwich, just imagine what. 183 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:49,520 Speaker 1: Else you could. 184 00:07:49,720 --> 00:07:52,200 Speaker 4: That is, right, Jeffrey, we are here to hype. 185 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:53,960 Speaker 1: Sandwich. 186 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 2: Yeah it's disgusting, all right, that's not what he says. 187 00:07:58,880 --> 00:08:01,360 Speaker 2: But here we go with Dilla's number. We'll see what 188 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 2: he has to say. Let's do it. 189 00:08:10,840 --> 00:08:13,360 Speaker 1: Uh, Hey, we're looking for Steve. 190 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 2: Speaking and Hey Steve, I said, we because you're on 191 00:08:18,480 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 2: the radio right now with Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. 192 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:22,480 Speaker 3: He ste how you doing man? 193 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:26,880 Speaker 6: Uh, you're from the radio. 194 00:08:28,520 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 3: And podcasts podcast. 195 00:08:30,040 --> 00:08:31,720 Speaker 1: To Yeah, we got a good podcast. 196 00:08:31,720 --> 00:08:33,079 Speaker 3: We are multifaceted here. 197 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,199 Speaker 1: Yeah, we're in the future with our entertainment. 198 00:08:35,960 --> 00:08:38,280 Speaker 2: We're focused on you right now because one of our 199 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 2: listeners went on a date with you the other day 200 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:43,600 Speaker 2: and really had a good time. He wants to see 201 00:08:43,600 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 2: you again, but that hasn't quite happened yet, and she's 202 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:48,199 Speaker 2: not sure why. Her name's Kelly. 203 00:08:49,640 --> 00:08:50,160 Speaker 6: Oh Man. 204 00:08:52,520 --> 00:08:57,160 Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, oh Man. Yes, yeah, it's still. 205 00:08:58,600 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 2: The fact that you're not reaching out for another date 206 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 2: is kind of hinting that you're not interested. But we're 207 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:05,719 Speaker 2: not sure if that's true or not. We want to 208 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 2: know what you think about Kelly. 209 00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:12,559 Speaker 6: Uh, she's very nice, like, Kelly's cool, But you know, 210 00:09:12,640 --> 00:09:14,480 Speaker 6: I just don't think it's going to work out. 211 00:09:14,640 --> 00:09:17,160 Speaker 4: Okay, Is there is there a reason? I mean, did 212 00:09:17,240 --> 00:09:19,559 Speaker 4: you went into it thinking that it could work out? 213 00:09:19,640 --> 00:09:19,880 Speaker 1: Right? 214 00:09:20,920 --> 00:09:24,840 Speaker 6: Yeah? I mean definitely, but you know, like we got 215 00:09:24,840 --> 00:09:26,520 Speaker 6: some food and then we went to the park and 216 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:30,839 Speaker 6: it just it started to get a little weird. But like, 217 00:09:31,080 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 6: you know, I don't want to blow up a spot, 218 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:33,839 Speaker 6: like I don't even know you guys. 219 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 1: So see, we didn't hear anything like weird. 220 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 2: She said she had like some food or something on 221 00:09:37,559 --> 00:09:39,000 Speaker 2: her face, but nothing stood out. 222 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:39,400 Speaker 1: To be weird. 223 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:41,480 Speaker 4: I mean that's weird to him, you know, like maybe 224 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:43,880 Speaker 4: it's weird to him to have a female have food 225 00:09:43,920 --> 00:09:44,560 Speaker 4: all over their face. 226 00:09:45,320 --> 00:09:47,079 Speaker 6: No, no, actually I thought that was kind of cute. 227 00:09:47,240 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 3: See I talked you guys, turn off. 228 00:09:53,280 --> 00:09:55,240 Speaker 1: What was the issue? You said it was weird? 229 00:09:55,559 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, I'm like, so, you know, we were sitting 230 00:09:59,520 --> 00:10:02,679 Speaker 6: on the bench, were chilling and there's like a playground, 231 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:05,320 Speaker 6: you know that's in those parks that we're in, and oh. 232 00:10:05,200 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 3: Yeah, she randomly mentioned that to us too. 233 00:10:07,240 --> 00:10:10,719 Speaker 6: Yeah yeah, and she so there's like a bunch of 234 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:12,960 Speaker 6: kids playing, and all of a sudden, she points and 235 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:15,679 Speaker 6: she's like, oh my god, look imagine if Will we 236 00:10:16,360 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 6: had that many kids and those were all our kids 237 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:22,400 Speaker 6: running around and there were like either like eight ten 238 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:23,840 Speaker 6: kids playing on the playground. 239 00:10:24,080 --> 00:10:27,120 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, so she was describing a nightmare, right, Like 240 00:10:27,240 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 4: that's how she meant, like, imagine how chaotic. 241 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 1: Our life would be. 242 00:10:30,600 --> 00:10:32,080 Speaker 6: She sounded thrilled. 243 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 3: Oh thrilled. 244 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:35,120 Speaker 1: Okay, so that's a red flag to you. 245 00:10:36,120 --> 00:10:36,920 Speaker 4: That's a lot. 246 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:39,520 Speaker 6: Yeah. Yeah, I mean like I've known you for like 247 00:10:39,640 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 6: twenty minutes and now now we're having eight kids together. 248 00:10:43,600 --> 00:10:44,800 Speaker 3: Yeah Okay. 249 00:10:45,320 --> 00:10:48,199 Speaker 4: In her defense, I will say, it sounds like maybe 250 00:10:48,200 --> 00:10:50,199 Speaker 4: she was just trying to fill the void, like maybe 251 00:10:50,200 --> 00:10:52,440 Speaker 4: there was like an odd because she said, like it 252 00:10:52,520 --> 00:10:54,800 Speaker 4: kind of died at the end your guys' date. 253 00:10:54,840 --> 00:10:57,000 Speaker 3: Maybe she was just trying to, like I say, dumb things. 254 00:10:57,080 --> 00:10:59,360 Speaker 1: Could you understand that point of view? 255 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:02,440 Speaker 6: Maybe, Steve, I mean I guess I could. But she 256 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 6: started getting like really into it. Oh, she was like 257 00:11:05,160 --> 00:11:05,760 Speaker 6: naming them. 258 00:11:06,240 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 5: Oh. 259 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,200 Speaker 6: There was like another one we were saying where she 260 00:11:09,320 --> 00:11:11,160 Speaker 6: wasn't feeling one of the kids and she was like, 261 00:11:11,559 --> 00:11:13,480 Speaker 6: he's not playing nice. You would put him up for. 262 00:11:13,440 --> 00:11:17,360 Speaker 2: An option, Okay, she's obviously kidding, Well that should be 263 00:11:17,440 --> 00:11:19,600 Speaker 2: a positive for you because you don't want that many. 264 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:20,440 Speaker 3: He would only have seven. 265 00:11:20,559 --> 00:11:22,400 Speaker 1: There you go. 266 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:24,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, she'd say she was a good. 267 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:28,480 Speaker 2: Mother, just a mother, Okay, but that it sounds like 268 00:11:28,480 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 2: it was all that conversation kind of scared you was 269 00:11:31,320 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 2: too much for you joking or no? 270 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:33,240 Speaker 6: Yeah? 271 00:11:33,320 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 4: I mean you know, like yeah, but if she was joking, 272 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 4: maybe you could work it out. 273 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: Yeah. 274 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 2: And there's a perfect person to find out whether or 275 00:11:39,920 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 2: not it was a joke. That's Kelly, who's on the 276 00:11:41,840 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 2: other line right now waiting to talk to you. 277 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:50,520 Speaker 1: Wait. Yeah, Kelly and her seven children say hi, Oh. 278 00:11:50,520 --> 00:11:52,439 Speaker 3: Did she give another one up for adoption? Or we 279 00:11:52,520 --> 00:11:52,960 Speaker 3: out of six? 280 00:11:53,040 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 6: Now? 281 00:11:53,360 --> 00:11:53,520 Speaker 4: Yeah? 282 00:11:53,600 --> 00:11:57,600 Speaker 5: Ever since she heard that Kelly there, Yeah, Steve, it's Kelly. 283 00:11:57,840 --> 00:12:03,320 Speaker 5: I am I like fuming, I'm so offended. Yes, because 284 00:12:03,640 --> 00:12:06,160 Speaker 5: and you know what this is why and how I 285 00:12:06,240 --> 00:12:09,760 Speaker 5: realized why I had sixteen unsuccessful dates last year. It's 286 00:12:09,800 --> 00:12:12,560 Speaker 5: because they were all like you, Steve, like emotionally and 287 00:12:12,600 --> 00:12:13,920 Speaker 5: intellectually scented. 288 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:16,120 Speaker 3: Why are you upset? Why are you so mad? 289 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:16,960 Speaker 6: Yeah? 290 00:12:17,040 --> 00:12:22,080 Speaker 5: Because, my god, Brooke, you were totally right, Steve, you 291 00:12:22,320 --> 00:12:23,880 Speaker 5: stock at planning a date. 292 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 3: I'm just trying to hide you up, not tear it down. 293 00:12:29,120 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 1: What happened. 294 00:12:30,640 --> 00:12:32,720 Speaker 5: Listen, if you even had like an ounce of a 295 00:12:32,760 --> 00:12:35,240 Speaker 5: sense of humor, like you would get that I was 296 00:12:35,360 --> 00:12:38,760 Speaker 5: obviously joking, and I was for you to actually think 297 00:12:38,800 --> 00:12:41,640 Speaker 5: that I was serious, like, oh my god, like you 298 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:42,160 Speaker 5: must be a. 299 00:12:42,120 --> 00:12:44,320 Speaker 6: Narcissist, But you would think I would reach you. 300 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:46,880 Speaker 5: For forty minutes and suddenly want to have your babies? 301 00:12:46,920 --> 00:12:48,719 Speaker 1: All right, well, all right, I think we're I. 302 00:12:48,640 --> 00:12:50,280 Speaker 2: Think we're going down a path we don't need to 303 00:12:50,320 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 2: go down any farther we were. 304 00:12:52,480 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: You weren't happy with Steve's response. There, Steve, are you there? 305 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:59,000 Speaker 6: Zerah? Yeah, yeah, you're barely, but I'm still here. 306 00:12:59,280 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 2: Would you like to respond to any of the allegations 307 00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 2: just against you. 308 00:13:04,440 --> 00:13:05,839 Speaker 4: I thought you guys were all gonna have a big 309 00:13:05,920 --> 00:13:09,800 Speaker 4: laugh about how it was a miscommunication. Steve. 310 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:15,200 Speaker 5: Bottom line, you planned a boring date and now I'm 311 00:13:15,200 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 5: paying the price for it. 312 00:13:19,280 --> 00:13:21,800 Speaker 1: That's nut, Steve. You see your data, and I'm not 313 00:13:21,800 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 1: going to go for. 314 00:13:22,520 --> 00:13:25,079 Speaker 5: Just the looks like I thought you were super. 315 00:13:24,880 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 1: Cute too much? 316 00:13:31,600 --> 00:13:34,240 Speaker 6: What kind of radio show is this? You just trash, dude? 317 00:13:35,520 --> 00:13:36,960 Speaker 1: It depends on how many drinks Brooks. 318 00:13:38,440 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 4: I was just trying to make her feel better about 319 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:43,280 Speaker 4: you not calling her, And now I don't know. 320 00:13:43,520 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 3: I think that this was already happening and I didn't 321 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:46,520 Speaker 3: realize it. 322 00:13:46,679 --> 00:13:48,880 Speaker 6: You know, you don't have to tear somebody else down 323 00:13:49,080 --> 00:13:51,000 Speaker 6: just to try to make somebody else feel fatter. 324 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:54,840 Speaker 3: That's a good life. I agree with you, all right. 325 00:13:54,960 --> 00:13:57,240 Speaker 1: I wasn't trying to tear you down. I don't know. 326 00:13:58,120 --> 00:13:58,959 Speaker 1: I didn't know. 327 00:14:00,000 --> 00:14:02,319 Speaker 3: I don't think you said anything wrong, Steve. 328 00:14:02,040 --> 00:14:04,040 Speaker 1: Those are thoughts that should have happened before you said 329 00:14:04,040 --> 00:14:04,760 Speaker 1: the terrible thing. 330 00:14:05,679 --> 00:14:06,000 Speaker 5: Me either. 331 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 6: I'm just being on it. 332 00:14:06,920 --> 00:14:09,760 Speaker 1: Okay. Oh, everybody be honest with everybody. 333 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 2: This is a good chance to have Steve admit that 334 00:14:12,679 --> 00:14:14,880 Speaker 2: maybe he didn't plan the best first date. 335 00:14:15,480 --> 00:14:18,400 Speaker 1: Yeah he did, Okay, Okay. 336 00:14:18,320 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 2: And maybe Kelly didn't make the best conversation trying to 337 00:14:23,280 --> 00:14:26,119 Speaker 2: invent an entire family of eight twenty minutes. 338 00:14:25,840 --> 00:14:26,560 Speaker 1: Into the conversation. 339 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:27,680 Speaker 3: Oh that Kelly owned that. 340 00:14:28,240 --> 00:14:31,120 Speaker 5: Well, I'm sorry that I was so bored. I had 341 00:14:31,120 --> 00:14:32,920 Speaker 5: to use my freaking imagination. 342 00:14:34,800 --> 00:14:37,880 Speaker 1: Okay, that was an apology. 343 00:14:38,160 --> 00:14:40,119 Speaker 4: I could have imagined the kids in like a sweatshop 344 00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 4: or something. Don't It's like I wouldn't have been a 345 00:14:45,280 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 4: red flag Brooks trying. 346 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:48,080 Speaker 1: To get her business planned. 347 00:14:51,200 --> 00:14:54,120 Speaker 2: So, Steve, if you're hearing what I'm here, and then 348 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:56,440 Speaker 2: you probably see the same thing as me, which is 349 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 2: potential for true love. 350 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:00,240 Speaker 1: And that's why we would. 351 00:15:00,280 --> 00:15:03,000 Speaker 2: Be delighted to send you out on another date that 352 00:15:03,040 --> 00:15:05,360 Speaker 2: we would pay for. Yeah, I don't know, on the 353 00:15:05,400 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 2: same day, messy sandwiches and all put it on our tap. 354 00:15:08,640 --> 00:15:11,720 Speaker 1: Okay, adoption fees, Brook is going to cover that? 355 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:12,080 Speaker 6: Yeah? 356 00:15:12,400 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 1: Sure, what do you say? 357 00:15:14,400 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 6: No, no, no, I'm not going out with her yet. 358 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:18,840 Speaker 6: I don't know what she's talking about. You went on 359 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:21,960 Speaker 6: sixteen failed dates like what? Like this? This woman is 360 00:15:22,160 --> 00:15:28,240 Speaker 6: blew out the only though it's about to be two. 361 00:15:29,680 --> 00:15:35,520 Speaker 4: Well, I'm sorry, dear humor some day. 362 00:15:35,720 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, no, it's okay, Brooke. You know you're absolutely right. 363 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 5: This guy knows nothing about planning and we should absolutely 364 00:15:42,960 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 5: own this. 365 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:51,760 Speaker 2: God, if you're going to hope for all women, congratulations Brook, 366 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:54,560 Speaker 2: Jeffrey in the morning. That call was a great example 367 00:15:54,640 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 2: of the power that Brooks words have with our listens. 368 00:15:58,600 --> 00:16:00,360 Speaker 3: I don't know what what went so wrong. 369 00:16:00,520 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 1: I really don't. I don't know how I went. 370 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 3: From trying to hype somebody up, like I. 371 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:08,320 Speaker 2: Don't know, you weren't hyping anybody up, though you were 372 00:16:08,360 --> 00:16:11,960 Speaker 2: pushing the guy down to because played out at the 373 00:16:12,040 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 2: end of the first part, Brooke could have said, Okay, 374 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 2: you guys did like a sweet little day in a 375 00:16:17,200 --> 00:16:18,360 Speaker 2: park out in nature. 376 00:16:18,880 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 1: He got you a meal. You guys spent time talking 377 00:16:21,840 --> 00:16:23,120 Speaker 1: and getting to know each other. 378 00:16:23,240 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 4: She was feeling self conscious because she's like, this is 379 00:16:25,440 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 4: a really hot guy and he's probably got tons of girls, 380 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 4: And I'm like, mad, the guy doesn't even bring a 381 00:16:29,200 --> 00:16:30,080 Speaker 4: frisbee to a date. 382 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:30,920 Speaker 3: He doesn't know anything. 383 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:33,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, you call the guy boring because he didn't book 384 00:16:33,080 --> 00:16:37,359 Speaker 2: a midnight laser light show with free drugs or whatever types. 385 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:39,960 Speaker 1: Of dates that you're in. And look what happened. 386 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 2: Immediately hopped onto Brooks opinion blew up into a tirade 387 00:16:44,720 --> 00:16:47,840 Speaker 2: against every man who's ever let her down. Ever, it's 388 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 2: a good reminder that we, and when I say we, 389 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 2: I mean you again, Brooke, we need to stay open minded. 390 00:16:54,040 --> 00:16:57,080 Speaker 2: If it's not your ideal cup of tea first date 391 00:16:57,160 --> 00:16:59,720 Speaker 2: idea doesn't mean other people can enjoy it. 392 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:02,520 Speaker 4: Was trying to make her feel better, Jeff, how many 393 00:17:02,560 --> 00:17:03,760 Speaker 4: times we have to tell you. 394 00:17:03,640 --> 00:17:07,359 Speaker 1: That it's not worth it let other people feel sad. 395 00:17:07,480 --> 00:17:08,880 Speaker 1: Sometimes I've got to a. 396 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:11,560 Speaker 4: Fast food burger place with a Bogo coupon on a 397 00:17:11,600 --> 00:17:12,280 Speaker 4: first date and. 398 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 1: Still gone out with the guy again. 399 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:19,200 Speaker 3: I don't care. 400 00:17:17,160 --> 00:17:21,240 Speaker 2: Everybody er says low as Brooks are and your dating 401 00:17:21,280 --> 00:17:26,200 Speaker 2: life couldn't possibly be bad. We're just saying we can 402 00:17:26,240 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 2: try and help you with your date life. 403 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:30,440 Speaker 1: Email the show if you ever need help. We'll call 404 00:17:30,480 --> 00:17:31,520 Speaker 1: that person who wasn't calling 405 00:17:31,560 --> 00:17:34,240 Speaker 3: You back freaking Jeffrey in the morning.