WEBVTT - How Do We Deal with Violence Within our Own Community?

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<v Speaker 1>What's Good Family. I'm Tamika D. Mallory and it's your

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<v Speaker 1>boys in general. And this is street Politicians, the place

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<v Speaker 1>where the streets and politics meet, the place where the

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<v Speaker 1>streets and politics meet. What's good Nice, it's going to Amica.

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<v Speaker 1>You are traveling. UM. I was on vacation. I had

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<v Speaker 1>a very long, amazing vacation. But we're back back and loaded. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>And unfortunately the Internet does not want me to be

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<v Speaker 1>great today, so I think I have a pixelated view.

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<v Speaker 1>But hopefully folks can hear me and see me well enough,

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<v Speaker 1>because today's show is going to be really powerful. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>It's something that has been impacting my life and and

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<v Speaker 1>something that's touched me for so long. We've been talking

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<v Speaker 1>about the issue of violence and how violence is on

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<v Speaker 1>the rise across the nation and particularly looking at what's

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<v Speaker 1>happening in our communities. I don't think we've ever stopped

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<v Speaker 1>talking about violence in the black community, but we know

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<v Speaker 1>that there is an uptick. The pandemic has caused so

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<v Speaker 1>many different issues for so many people. UM, and we're

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<v Speaker 1>seeing violence at an all time high. Although if you

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<v Speaker 1>listen to the stats, there's some um, you know, some

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<v Speaker 1>things that might be a little different, but anyway, we're

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<v Speaker 1>seeing some dangerous numbers coming out in terms of what's

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<v Speaker 1>happening across the country with guns and with violence in general.

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<v Speaker 1>And so for the next several weeks, we're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>really really focused on this issue and bringing people from

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<v Speaker 1>different states and different areas, folks who deal with different

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<v Speaker 1>types of issues that may cause people to pick up guns.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna be talking to mothers, We're gonna be talking

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<v Speaker 1>to people who've actually pulled a gun, who've been shooters

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<v Speaker 1>in the past US. We're gonna be talking to folks

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<v Speaker 1>who have been who are victims of gun violence, UM,

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<v Speaker 1>and also elected officials and other community members who are

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<v Speaker 1>working to make a change UM. And so it's not

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<v Speaker 1>the type of show that you can do in one week.

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<v Speaker 1>We had a great show just recently where we talked

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<v Speaker 1>about the issue of gun violence. We had our brother

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<v Speaker 1>Shanon Duke mcfadder from g MAC and Brooklyn on to

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<v Speaker 1>talk about how he works on gun violence. And actually

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<v Speaker 1>Shan Duke lost his brother, UM, you know, in and

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<v Speaker 1>in in a terrible incident that took place in a

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<v Speaker 1>nightclub in New York City where he was shot and

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<v Speaker 1>killed on camera, um, and so we've been covering the

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<v Speaker 1>issue already, but we're really gonna be intentional going forward

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<v Speaker 1>about making sure that all the different elements of how

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<v Speaker 1>we deal with violence in our communities it's out there,

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<v Speaker 1>so people won't be able to say they didn't know

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<v Speaker 1>or they don't know what to do and how they

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<v Speaker 1>can support. We want to pull folks in to the

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<v Speaker 1>world that we live in every day because we are

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<v Speaker 1>actively engaged in the movement to to curb and try

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<v Speaker 1>to end to the degree of which we can gun

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<v Speaker 1>violence and violence in general. Um. Also, mass shootings. Mass

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<v Speaker 1>shootings is a real thing. You know, some people believe

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<v Speaker 1>that mass shootings is only something that happens in white

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<v Speaker 1>schools and white communities, but if you think about the

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<v Speaker 1>shootings that have taken place in grocery stores, malls and

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<v Speaker 1>other very public places, anyone can be harmed. And to

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<v Speaker 1>be clear on street politicians, we don't want mass shootings

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<v Speaker 1>to happen to white folks either. We want to try

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out what is causing this type of disturbance

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<v Speaker 1>and danger um in all sectors of our communities and

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<v Speaker 1>of our lives. And so um, you know, I am,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess excited might not be the best word, but

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<v Speaker 1>I am excited to have an opportunity to showcase the

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<v Speaker 1>work that I've been involved in, that we've been involved

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<v Speaker 1>in for so many years, and also to give an

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<v Speaker 1>opportunity for people to speak on solutions and things that

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<v Speaker 1>can be done to to fight this terrible, terrible epidemic

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<v Speaker 1>within our society. Yeah, definitely when I when I look

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<v Speaker 1>at these numbers, you know, they say more than two

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<v Speaker 1>hundred thirty people were fatally shot across the US on

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<v Speaker 1>the fourth of July weekend, and about six eighteen people

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<v Speaker 1>were injured by gun violence, and more than five hundred

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<v Speaker 1>shootings across the country. Like that's crazy. I was just unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>I was on the internet and there's this video that's

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<v Speaker 1>been viral and it's about two young men, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and they're sitting there talking to each other and one

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<v Speaker 1>of them just gets shot, like literally why they're on

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<v Speaker 1>camera on a live conversation on Instagram. The boy works

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<v Speaker 1>up being shot. It sounds a a shots and he

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<v Speaker 1>was pronounced dead on on the scene when you know,

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<v Speaker 1>when the ambulance showed up, and it's just like the

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<v Speaker 1>disregard for human life and it's dealing is with the trauma,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, with the epidemic and the pandemic has cars

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<v Speaker 1>and and and when you look at trauma, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>me being formally incarcerated, understanding what being secluded right, being

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<v Speaker 1>the reason why we fought against to end the box

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<v Speaker 1>and end um solidtable confinement because we understood the ramifications

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<v Speaker 1>of that. Right, A lot of people that come out

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<v Speaker 1>of those situations come out more traumatic, come out way

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<v Speaker 1>more violent. They don't want to be around people they have.

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<v Speaker 1>You're dealing with mental issues, you know, you're dealing with anxiety,

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<v Speaker 1>dealing with all types of stress and those things of causes.

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<v Speaker 1>So we're looking at the ramifications of what came after

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<v Speaker 1>the epidemic and the pandemic. So, you know, I think

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<v Speaker 1>it's really important that we have this conversation and we

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<v Speaker 1>bring people from all different levels. Like you said, we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna have some government official is, we're gonna have people

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<v Speaker 1>who actually wore shooters, we're gonna have victims, we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>have family members, we're gonna have everybody, so we can

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<v Speaker 1>talk about this in totality because it's really something that

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<v Speaker 1>needs to be focused on. I don't think that you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that people are talking about it, but I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think that people are delving into what are the

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<v Speaker 1>causes of this violence and and how do we actually

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<v Speaker 1>stop the violence? What are the things that's needed to

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<v Speaker 1>stop that. Everybody's saying, oh, it's a problem, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and and and a lot of people, oh, we just

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<v Speaker 1>need more police and and I'm so anti that because,

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<v Speaker 1>like I always say, police have never stopped violence in

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<v Speaker 1>our community. The only thing they've ever done is arrest

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<v Speaker 1>the people who committed the violence, right, So we we

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<v Speaker 1>don't need just people being arrested. We were trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get We're trying to interceed before there is an actual

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<v Speaker 1>crime committed. We want to figure out how do we

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<v Speaker 1>mediate situations, How do we give these people in the

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<v Speaker 1>communities the resources needed so they don't have to feel

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<v Speaker 1>like violence, How do we get the mental health situations

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<v Speaker 1>that they need to make sure that they're okay. So

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just glad that we're going to be really delving

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<v Speaker 1>into this over the next few weeks, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's it's very gonna be very informative. I

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<v Speaker 1>hope that people are paying attention, you know, because this

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<v Speaker 1>is a topic that is is definitely is literally between

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<v Speaker 1>life and death. It absolutely is. It absolutely isn't it.

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<v Speaker 1>It makes me, um think about like how I got started,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, outside of my personal issue, which you know,

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<v Speaker 1>everybody knows or at least many people as have listened

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<v Speaker 1>to me at any point. You know that my son's

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<v Speaker 1>father was shot and killed, and um, Oftentimes people say, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I can't believe that you guys don't work

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<v Speaker 1>on violence in the community and whatever. And I think

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of times there are some people who are

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<v Speaker 1>just trolling, but there are other people who really just

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. They don't know because either you know, one

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<v Speaker 1>thing I think that's important is that folks are they

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<v Speaker 1>only know what they see on the media every single day.

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<v Speaker 1>And so when a Brianna Taylor is killed, or George

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<v Speaker 1>Floyd or the names go on and on and on,

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<v Speaker 1>you're going to see that more often because unfortunately it's

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<v Speaker 1>the media that makes it, uh, they make it salacious,

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<v Speaker 1>um sort of, which is unfortunate to have to use

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<v Speaker 1>that language, but it's true they in in many ways, um,

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<v Speaker 1>not so much glorified, but they certainly exploit uh these issues.

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<v Speaker 1>And then of course you have many people who run

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<v Speaker 1>to these incidents and get involved because of the fact that, um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it is high profile and and it's in

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<v Speaker 1>those moments that you see the intersection of racism that

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<v Speaker 1>is really, really present, and it's clear as it connects

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<v Speaker 1>with the loss of black life or the loss of

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<v Speaker 1>brown life. And so folks find their ability to fight

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<v Speaker 1>in the struggle in those moments. Uh, they feel like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>this is this is when I get to confront the system.

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<v Speaker 1>But in our situation, and for as long as I

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<v Speaker 1>can now remember, in terms of my career and as

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<v Speaker 1>long as I have been working in this movement, I

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<v Speaker 1>have understood that the violence happening in our community is

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<v Speaker 1>also a form of systemic oppression. That racism and white

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<v Speaker 1>supremacy and all of those things play a role in

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<v Speaker 1>why the ray Rays and others of our community feel

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<v Speaker 1>like violence maybe the only choice. And so we have

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<v Speaker 1>to look at confronting the system on many different levels,

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<v Speaker 1>because once once we confront the system, so many different

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<v Speaker 1>things will be corrected, if you will, in our in

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<v Speaker 1>our society, I believe that confronting the system gives us

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<v Speaker 1>the ability, as they say, to take one stone and

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<v Speaker 1>hit several different licks. Um. And that's and that for

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<v Speaker 1>me is why this show and and this this this

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<v Speaker 1>time period is so important because I think we get

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<v Speaker 1>the opportunity to educate people on how they can also

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<v Speaker 1>be a part of this movement. Now. What I do

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<v Speaker 1>understand though, and what I will never ever allow people

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<v Speaker 1>to make us feel, is like, if you are in

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<v Speaker 1>the police accountability movement, you're no good if you're not

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<v Speaker 1>also in the movement to end gun violence, or in

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<v Speaker 1>the education space, or in the housing space. I think

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<v Speaker 1>each person has the right to be in the fight

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<v Speaker 1>and to focus on the thing that is most passionate

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<v Speaker 1>for them and the thing that they have some level

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<v Speaker 1>of expertise in and what impacts them on a daily basis.

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<v Speaker 1>I do not think that we should get into trying

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<v Speaker 1>to force folks that, well, if you do this one thing,

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<v Speaker 1>what the only thing that will make you credible is

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<v Speaker 1>if you work on these other issue us as well.

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<v Speaker 1>I think it's a false narrative. I think it is

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<v Speaker 1>a form. It is being used, if you will, as

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<v Speaker 1>a way to uh to diminish our movements on many

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<v Speaker 1>different levels. Um, we all have something that has impacted us,

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<v Speaker 1>has touched us in a certain way, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I was online one day. I won't I think we

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<v Speaker 1>already talked about the individuals, so we won't bring up

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<v Speaker 1>his name today. I saw you know this person on

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<v Speaker 1>a TV show again, won't name him today on Twitter

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<v Speaker 1>basically saying, oh, you know, we get so upset about

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<v Speaker 1>everything else. But does black violence or you know, the

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<v Speaker 1>death of black people, particularly a young black girl, does

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<v Speaker 1>that mean anything to us? And I find that offensive.

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<v Speaker 1>I find it offensive because there are a number of

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<v Speaker 1>activists who are out here every single day who really

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<v Speaker 1>don't work in the police accountability space. A lot of them,

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<v Speaker 1>some of them do, but many of them are deeply

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<v Speaker 1>in the gun violence awareness and and really working to

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<v Speaker 1>combat gun violence. They are out there every single day.

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<v Speaker 1>They do protests, they show up at their elected officials offices,

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<v Speaker 1>they organize, They do a great deal of work. But

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<v Speaker 1>we don't help them. We don't support them in the

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<v Speaker 1>ways in which we should. And I say we as

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<v Speaker 1>a greater community because me personally and you personally, my son,

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<v Speaker 1>we do actually support them. We do actually help to

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<v Speaker 1>bring their the fights that they're involved in. Um, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>to bring more awareness. You have led several marches and

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<v Speaker 1>and other occasions and efforts to try to bring gang

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<v Speaker 1>members together and to and to to actually mitigate violence.

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<v Speaker 1>I've watched you in the projects late at night working

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<v Speaker 1>with Erica Ford and others to try to address some

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<v Speaker 1>of the issues that's happening. Like really, I mean in

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<v Speaker 1>the details, the granulate details of going out there and

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<v Speaker 1>talking to young men, not just standing up at a podium,

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<v Speaker 1>but literally being in the middle of two people who

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<v Speaker 1>could kill each other the next minute, not the next day,

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<v Speaker 1>not the next week, but the next minute. And so

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<v Speaker 1>we do do that work, but as a greater community,

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<v Speaker 1>we do not focus as much of our attention on

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<v Speaker 1>helping these individuals who are out there doing that work

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<v Speaker 1>every day. And that's where I think we need to

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<v Speaker 1>put more of our efforts, not in saying that if

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<v Speaker 1>someone is doing gun violence work that they're they're no

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<v Speaker 1>good if they're not working as much on uh, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>on some other area. I think what we need to

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<v Speaker 1>do is focus on uplifting those who are actually doing

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<v Speaker 1>the work, because there are thousands, thousands of people who

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<v Speaker 1>are out here with organizations and other initiatives and campaigns

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<v Speaker 1>to help deal with gun violence. So that's what I

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<v Speaker 1>have to say on that that's pretty much it I

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<v Speaker 1>think for me, man, it's it's just it's really just

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<v Speaker 1>disingenuous when people make that argument, it's just to try

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<v Speaker 1>to discredit, you know, or because they don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>do any work right. It's it's a lazy argument. It's

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<v Speaker 1>like all lives matter, you know, I say, I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's it's just something to distract from what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's like it's every it's so much violence and

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<v Speaker 1>this in our communities that we deal with every day.

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<v Speaker 1>I know how your inboxes flooded with people about this happen,

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<v Speaker 1>and this happened, and this happened. And unfortunately we can't

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<v Speaker 1>talk about everything right because what happens is it gets

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<v Speaker 1>overwhelmed and this one when we're trying to focus on this,

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<v Speaker 1>and we just keep on talking about all the things

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<v Speaker 1>that happened. We we don't have the capacity, No one organization,

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<v Speaker 1>no one individual has the capacity to talk to talk

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<v Speaker 1>about every act of violence that goes on in the community.

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<v Speaker 1>So what happens is people want to utilize that to

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<v Speaker 1>discredit the fact that you're talking about something, and they

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<v Speaker 1>don't they don't look at the fact that it's not

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<v Speaker 1>that you're especially in our case. It's not that we

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<v Speaker 1>talk about the cases that are getting highlighted. It's that

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<v Speaker 1>the cases that we talk a about tend to get highlighted.

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<v Speaker 1>We don't jump on cases that everybody's, oh, let's do this.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not what we do. You know, we we see

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<v Speaker 1>a need for Southern If we find we find a

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<v Speaker 1>family member or someone we notice into you know, into

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<v Speaker 1>in contact with family members, contacts us and say hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we need help with this, and we see the significancy,

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<v Speaker 1>right then this is something that we really need to

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<v Speaker 1>get on top of, you know, and and and and

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<v Speaker 1>and Another thing is we're we're fighting against a system

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<v Speaker 1>that has not figured out how to have reprimanding and

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<v Speaker 1>how to have consequences for the system. Right this Unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>we know that when Ray Ray shoots Johnny, he's going

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<v Speaker 1>to do jail time when he gets caught. This is

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<v Speaker 1>we're actually advocated for the system to be held accountable,

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<v Speaker 1>and we also want the resources and things needed in

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<v Speaker 1>our communities so that we can stop the violence in

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<v Speaker 1>our communities. The police are being paid to protect and

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<v Speaker 1>serve us, The police of an oath that they live up.

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<v Speaker 1>These are professionals who went to school, They've studied, they

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<v Speaker 1>went two courses, they understand how to it's ject they're

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<v Speaker 1>supposed to have the escalation tactics. All of these things

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<v Speaker 1>are supposed to being played. So when we talk about that,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not to diminish the fact that Johnny and ray

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<v Speaker 1>Ray are shooting at each other, because we're going to

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<v Speaker 1>deal with that, but it's a different method in which

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<v Speaker 1>we deal with that. Because John john we understand that

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<v Speaker 1>they're dealing with mental health. They don't have resources. They're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna they're gonna do life in prison when they and

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<v Speaker 1>this is a that's why the jails are overwhelmed with

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<v Speaker 1>people who look like us, because there's accountability for those individuals.

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<v Speaker 1>We're looking at a system who does not have accountability.

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<v Speaker 1>We're looking at the system where officer Johnson decides that

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<v Speaker 1>he's gonna shoot and kill somebody, there's a very little

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<v Speaker 1>chance that he's gonna be held accountable for that. Right.

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<v Speaker 1>So these are two different issues. Yes, they are definitely

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<v Speaker 1>both black murder, and we will, we want to fight

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<v Speaker 1>for them, but they have to be fought on two

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<v Speaker 1>different fronts, and they have to be fought two different ways.

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<v Speaker 1>So do not try to diminish the fight that we

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<v Speaker 1>have to try to fight that the system is held

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<v Speaker 1>accountable for killing us, and and then try to interchange

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<v Speaker 1>it or interconnected with the fight that we have and

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<v Speaker 1>trying to stop the violence in our own communities. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>they're definitely both violenced, but there are two different fights.

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<v Speaker 1>So start trying to connect all of them and try

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<v Speaker 1>to make it seem like if we fight for one,

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<v Speaker 1>we can't fight for both, or we don't fight for both. No,

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<v Speaker 1>I I agree with you, and I'll just say this

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<v Speaker 1>really quick point. I think that one thing we know

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<v Speaker 1>is that if we are able to win in our

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<v Speaker 1>efforts to defund police and refund our communities, that is

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<v Speaker 1>one way that the two things connect. Because if we

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<v Speaker 1>can take resources out of the six billion dollar budget

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<v Speaker 1>in a place like New York City that police officers

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<v Speaker 1>at this point now enjoy that the police department is

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<v Speaker 1>able to draw down on a six billion dollar budget,

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<v Speaker 1>If we're able to take a few billion dollars of

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<v Speaker 1>that budget away, and if it to our communities to build,

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<v Speaker 1>to uplift, to empower our people, we do believe that

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<v Speaker 1>it will help to mitigate much of the violence that

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<v Speaker 1>we see and that's why we will never stop talking

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<v Speaker 1>about defunding police. No matter what folks say the word

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<v Speaker 1>they don't like. Find come up with any word you want,

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<v Speaker 1>and I support it as long as the word is

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<v Speaker 1>attached to taking the resources and moving them to our community.

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<v Speaker 1>Before we go to the next segment and have our

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<v Speaker 1>special guests joint, we're gonna take a quick break for

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<v Speaker 1>our sponsors, I said, you know what, what what my

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<v Speaker 1>thought of the day is for today. I have a

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<v Speaker 1>friend who's a Republican and um, I follow him on

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<v Speaker 1>social media. I don't really know if his him being

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<v Speaker 1>Republican plays a role in this thought, but it's important

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<v Speaker 1>to mention that for me because he and I often

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<v Speaker 1>have debate. However, he's a great guy. He's in New York. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>he's a very you know, he's a uh, he's not

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<v Speaker 1>really an elected official, but he's worked in government and

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<v Speaker 1>he's a pretty powerful person. And so I noticed that

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<v Speaker 1>lately he's been posting the shootings and you know the

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<v Speaker 1>aftermath of these violent situations, he's been posting stories that

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know about. Um in the media that

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<v Speaker 1>shows you know, young girl, young man or whatever. Massive

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<v Speaker 1>shootings where multiple people are hurt in the hood, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's been saying, you know, what the hell are we

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do about this? He obviously is extremely frustrated and um,

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<v Speaker 1>and he should be, because what we're seeing happening in

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<v Speaker 1>this moment is definitely absolutely unacceptable, and it's happening all

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<v Speaker 1>too often. Um you know. But the other day I

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<v Speaker 1>saw a post that he put up about a white

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<v Speaker 1>woman who was attacked and mauled by mauled, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>by a white man. And um, you know, the woman said,

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<v Speaker 1>just out of nowhere, this man attacked her. And the

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<v Speaker 1>one thing I will say is that this guy, my

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<v Speaker 1>my friend. He is an equal opportunity person who's frustrated

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<v Speaker 1>about everything. He gets frustrated with the Republicans. He certainly

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<v Speaker 1>was not a Trump supporter. Um you know, he gets

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<v Speaker 1>frustrated with the Democrats. He's all he's he's he's always um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, bringing attention to things that's happening that are wrong.

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<v Speaker 1>But the statement he made as a part of this

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<v Speaker 1>particular post about the white man who harmed this white

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<v Speaker 1>woman was at what point are we going to stop

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<v Speaker 1>and deal with the mental health issues happening in our nation.

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<v Speaker 1>And I sat with that and said, I'm gonna write him,

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<v Speaker 1>which I haven't done yet because I wanted to come

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<v Speaker 1>here and talk to you and get your feelings. I

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<v Speaker 1>didn't you and I haven't discussed this. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>understand why is it that when that people seem to

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<v Speaker 1>go automatically to punitive measures, because he said, lock them

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<v Speaker 1>up when they've been shooting, you know, when he sees

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<v Speaker 1>shootings and bad things happen, and lock them up. You know,

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<v Speaker 1>these guys need to be caught. You can't defund the

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<v Speaker 1>police when you have this type of behavior. Where are

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<v Speaker 1>the cops? They need all of that. But when it

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<v Speaker 1>came to this white man attacking a white woman, his

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<v Speaker 1>thing was when are we going to deal with mental

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<v Speaker 1>health services? And I think for me, my thought of

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<v Speaker 1>the day is that we need mental health support in

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<v Speaker 1>the black community today more than we probably ever have

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<v Speaker 1>because coming out of this pandemic, as we have been saying,

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<v Speaker 1>and we'll talk about more during the show, people have

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<v Speaker 1>been harmed in real substantive ways, being locked into their homes,

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<v Speaker 1>um you know, having beasts that have now started online

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<v Speaker 1>because people weren't out interacting in the street, they don't

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<v Speaker 1>have jobs, they have family members who may have died. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>they have lost in general. And as you used to

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<v Speaker 1>say all the time, just watching the news every day

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<v Speaker 1>had a mental impact, a negative mental impact on all

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<v Speaker 1>of us because of the fear and you know, just

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<v Speaker 1>feeling so it was, it was uncomfortable. So why don't

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<v Speaker 1>people see the need for us to have the mental

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<v Speaker 1>health support that they automatically see when it comes to

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<v Speaker 1>white people. You let me to answer that. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>same reason why you know, when there was, uh, the

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<v Speaker 1>the war on drugs, you know, and in the crown

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<v Speaker 1>wars were to lock us up and then and when

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<v Speaker 1>the drugs went to the white neighborhoods, it became a

0:23:04.119 --> 0:23:09.960
<v Speaker 1>health crisis. Right, it's the same because unfortunately black people

0:23:10.040 --> 0:23:12.720
<v Speaker 1>have been dehumanized. You know that, I've seen it. I

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<v Speaker 1>actually seen a video going around and it's this young

0:23:18.400 --> 0:23:22.040
<v Speaker 1>man talking on the video and he's talking how there's

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<v Speaker 1>a gene in black people that gives them perplexity to violence.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I forgot the name of the gene, but he

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<v Speaker 1>literally gave the name of the gene and said that

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<v Speaker 1>black people have this gene in them that makes them

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<v Speaker 1>naturally more violent. I mean, listen, it's the dumbest sh

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever seen, because history history shows you who's been

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<v Speaker 1>more violent, who's been more priding about So we that

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<v Speaker 1>that what I'm trying to tell you. It's the mentality, right,

0:23:49.440 --> 0:23:51.000
<v Speaker 1>and that's what it is for me. And it's not

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<v Speaker 1>so much of political party is not democratic Republican. It's

0:23:55.600 --> 0:24:01.000
<v Speaker 1>the Republican mind state, right. The mind state of Republicans

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<v Speaker 1>is those who are the least of these are the problems, right,

0:24:06.040 --> 0:24:09.000
<v Speaker 1>That is them. That is the mindset that people have encompassed.

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<v Speaker 1>They have encompassed that when you go to these these

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<v Speaker 1>neighborhoods where people have nothing and they're poor, and it's

0:24:15.160 --> 0:24:18.439
<v Speaker 1>because there's something wrong with them. It ain't because the

0:24:18.480 --> 0:24:21.600
<v Speaker 1>structure of the system has created that. It is those

0:24:21.640 --> 0:24:24.040
<v Speaker 1>people are bad people. We need to get rid of them,

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<v Speaker 1>and in their mind states, we need to get rid

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<v Speaker 1>of them one way. We need to lock them up,

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<v Speaker 1>we need to do whatever we need to do. But

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<v Speaker 1>we we just don't need them around hurt and our

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<v Speaker 1>good people. So when you see the white people who

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<v Speaker 1>you automatically attribute, because we've already most of black people

0:24:40.800 --> 0:24:43.680
<v Speaker 1>think that the white man's ice is colder. Right, So

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<v Speaker 1>when you see a white man who most of the

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<v Speaker 1>time you see him being portrayed in a positive light.

0:24:51.359 --> 0:24:54.480
<v Speaker 1>He's portrayed as a businessman. They own the companies you'll

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<v Speaker 1>be at, they live in all the nice neighborhoods. You

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<v Speaker 1>can't attribute anything other and then there has to be

0:25:01.240 --> 0:25:06.080
<v Speaker 1>something mentally wrong with this individual, right, So you attribute

0:25:06.119 --> 0:25:08.920
<v Speaker 1>that to a white person because in your mind, these

0:25:08.960 --> 0:25:12.520
<v Speaker 1>are good, successful people, will have everything. What else would

0:25:12.560 --> 0:25:15.480
<v Speaker 1>make them just be violent? When you look at black people,

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<v Speaker 1>you say, these are people who come from nothing, there

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<v Speaker 1>in the worst neighborhoods. This and that that. Everything that

0:25:21.000 --> 0:25:24.320
<v Speaker 1>we've ever been taught about this species, these people, this

0:25:24.520 --> 0:25:29.320
<v Speaker 1>human species that we dave dave somehow eliminated us from

0:25:29.359 --> 0:25:32.800
<v Speaker 1>some level of humanity, right, Everything that we've been taught

0:25:32.840 --> 0:25:36.720
<v Speaker 1>about them shows us negativity. So we just don't even

0:25:36.720 --> 0:25:38.720
<v Speaker 1>want to be around that. We want to help the

0:25:38.760 --> 0:25:40.800
<v Speaker 1>white man because we see that there has to be

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<v Speaker 1>some mental issues that can be changed. But in our mind,

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<v Speaker 1>what we've been shown about black people, our whole lives,

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<v Speaker 1>is everything negative. You can't help them. We just need

0:25:51.440 --> 0:25:53.879
<v Speaker 1>to lock them up and get rid of them, and

0:25:53.920 --> 0:25:56.120
<v Speaker 1>that's it. And that's what that's where the mindsett comes from.

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<v Speaker 1>So even as a black man, when you when you

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<v Speaker 1>share Republican value use right, even as a good person,

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<v Speaker 1>it's mean that you have been indoctrinated into a mind

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<v Speaker 1>state that makes you believe that even your own people

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<v Speaker 1>are the problem. You don't even want to say it.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't say it publicly because you want to because

0:26:15.440 --> 0:26:18.679
<v Speaker 1>to believe that you, when you're a successful black man, right,

0:26:19.160 --> 0:26:23.720
<v Speaker 1>that that luck didn't play a part that position in

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<v Speaker 1>that time, and that all the things that you're to

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<v Speaker 1>not believe that you're an exception to that rule. When

0:26:30.280 --> 0:26:32.160
<v Speaker 1>you when you can look in and say, the majority

0:26:32.200 --> 0:26:34.480
<v Speaker 1>of people that look like me do not have the

0:26:34.520 --> 0:26:38.320
<v Speaker 1>same opportunities and resources and things that I've had. If you,

0:26:38.440 --> 0:26:41.200
<v Speaker 1>if you have conditioned your mind to believe I made

0:26:41.240 --> 0:26:43.800
<v Speaker 1>it out, everybody can make it up. Once you get

0:26:43.800 --> 0:26:47.760
<v Speaker 1>that mind state right, once you've indoctrinate that mind state,

0:26:47.840 --> 0:26:51.879
<v Speaker 1>then you you've disconnected yourself from the real reality of

0:26:52.040 --> 0:26:55.320
<v Speaker 1>ninety more percent of black people. You know, once you

0:26:55.359 --> 0:26:59.600
<v Speaker 1>start realizing you're not the rule, you're the exception and

0:26:59.200 --> 0:27:02.120
<v Speaker 1>you and you not realizing that, then you you've you've

0:27:02.160 --> 0:27:05.000
<v Speaker 1>going somewhere else, and you can't really help us. It's

0:27:05.040 --> 0:27:08.080
<v Speaker 1>impossible for you to help us because the mentality and

0:27:08.080 --> 0:27:12.560
<v Speaker 1>the strategy that you think can help us can't. M Wow,

0:27:13.680 --> 0:27:18.760
<v Speaker 1>it's pretty deep, pretty deep. But less help ourselves by

0:27:18.840 --> 0:27:21.479
<v Speaker 1>making sure that you know. And one of the bigger

0:27:21.560 --> 0:27:24.920
<v Speaker 1>issues that we're dealing with are the economics in our community.

0:27:25.000 --> 0:27:28.800
<v Speaker 1>And that's why we've been using our platform to ensure

0:27:28.960 --> 0:27:33.480
<v Speaker 1>that people know about black businesses, small businesses, UM, so

0:27:33.520 --> 0:27:36.360
<v Speaker 1>that people are out here and able to go and

0:27:36.440 --> 0:27:41.240
<v Speaker 1>continue to support. Support, support, support those folks who have

0:27:41.359 --> 0:27:45.000
<v Speaker 1>held out through this entire pandemic. They were already probably

0:27:45.040 --> 0:27:48.000
<v Speaker 1>struggling and you know, struggling with trying to find their

0:27:48.000 --> 0:27:50.640
<v Speaker 1>way as a small business, but certainly over the last

0:27:50.680 --> 0:27:52.280
<v Speaker 1>year it has been even more so. If you want

0:27:52.280 --> 0:27:55.399
<v Speaker 1>to help us in any way to address the issues

0:27:55.440 --> 0:27:58.119
<v Speaker 1>happening in our community, one of the main things that

0:27:58.160 --> 0:28:00.560
<v Speaker 1>you can do is support black business. Is because we

0:28:00.640 --> 0:28:04.600
<v Speaker 1>hire our people more, we give more opportunities to UM,

0:28:04.640 --> 0:28:07.440
<v Speaker 1>you know, those folks who look like us and UM.

0:28:07.440 --> 0:28:09.720
<v Speaker 1>It takes us off the street, right, It takes a

0:28:10.240 --> 0:28:12.800
<v Speaker 1>small business owner off the street, and and and and

0:28:12.800 --> 0:28:15.360
<v Speaker 1>puts them in a position where they're able to take

0:28:15.400 --> 0:28:17.320
<v Speaker 1>care of themselves and they don't have to resort to

0:28:17.520 --> 0:28:21.040
<v Speaker 1>any form of negativity or crime in order to survive.

0:28:26.200 --> 0:28:29.320
<v Speaker 1>Because we have a beautiful guest with us today, someone

0:28:29.440 --> 0:28:32.280
<v Speaker 1>who has been through a lot. You know, we don't

0:28:32.280 --> 0:28:35.439
<v Speaker 1>really talk about how women are impacted by gun violence.

0:28:35.480 --> 0:28:37.800
<v Speaker 1>We talk about how brothers are locked up because of

0:28:37.800 --> 0:28:40.560
<v Speaker 1>gun violence. Our brothers are losing their lives. For black

0:28:40.560 --> 0:28:43.920
<v Speaker 1>women are definitely impacted. They are victims of it, They've

0:28:43.960 --> 0:28:47.040
<v Speaker 1>seen it. They are mothers who've lost children. And today

0:28:47.120 --> 0:28:50.640
<v Speaker 1>with who we have with us today is Miss Patience Murray. Now,

0:28:50.680 --> 0:28:54.000
<v Speaker 1>I first met Miss Patience Murray an event that a

0:28:54.040 --> 0:28:57.000
<v Speaker 1>friend of mine, Miss Maggie Carry, was throwing cold wounded

0:28:57.040 --> 0:28:59.840
<v Speaker 1>with the lives and it was a room full of

0:29:00.360 --> 0:29:03.880
<v Speaker 1>women who had been impacted, who had been shot, who

0:29:04.000 --> 0:29:06.680
<v Speaker 1>had lost loved ones. It was one of the most

0:29:07.680 --> 0:29:11.520
<v Speaker 1>emotional rooms I've ever been in. I actually started shedding

0:29:11.520 --> 0:29:14.320
<v Speaker 1>tears just hearing their stories. You know, there were women

0:29:14.400 --> 0:29:17.200
<v Speaker 1>who had lost their sight, women had got shot in

0:29:17.240 --> 0:29:21.480
<v Speaker 1>the odds, women who were had bullets still inside them.

0:29:21.560 --> 0:29:25.320
<v Speaker 1>There's so many different issues that I never had talked

0:29:25.320 --> 0:29:28.320
<v Speaker 1>about or even experienced, you know, So this is one

0:29:28.360 --> 0:29:31.120
<v Speaker 1>of the most life changing rooms I've ever been. And

0:29:31.160 --> 0:29:34.080
<v Speaker 1>hopefully we'll have our sister Maggie to talk about her

0:29:34.120 --> 0:29:37.920
<v Speaker 1>foundations and what it represents her being a survivor herself.

0:29:38.240 --> 0:29:41.320
<v Speaker 1>But today we have the beautiful miss Patience Mary, who

0:29:41.640 --> 0:29:45.800
<v Speaker 1>is of a survivor of the shooting in the post

0:29:45.960 --> 0:29:50.160
<v Speaker 1>nightclub situation that happened in Orlando, Florida, Florida in the

0:29:50.240 --> 0:29:55.040
<v Speaker 1>year sixteen. It was all over the news and she

0:29:55.240 --> 0:29:59.400
<v Speaker 1>is one of the survivors of that. Unfortunately, her sister

0:29:59.800 --> 0:30:02.760
<v Speaker 1>was one of those who did not survive that situation.

0:30:02.880 --> 0:30:06.480
<v Speaker 1>So she survived actually the shots as to being wounded

0:30:06.920 --> 0:30:09.400
<v Speaker 1>and and then had to deal with the loss of

0:30:09.400 --> 0:30:12.440
<v Speaker 1>her sister. So this is gonna be something that is

0:30:12.560 --> 0:30:16.120
<v Speaker 1>very life changing and and I'm just glad in honor

0:30:16.200 --> 0:30:19.600
<v Speaker 1>to have you with us today. Patients. Well, I'm so

0:30:19.640 --> 0:30:23.680
<v Speaker 1>blessed to be here. Thank you, Patience. We're so sorry

0:30:23.680 --> 0:30:25.959
<v Speaker 1>about your sister. You know, I saw you grab your

0:30:26.040 --> 0:30:29.400
<v Speaker 1>chest and I'm sure that it never gets better, you

0:30:29.400 --> 0:30:33.320
<v Speaker 1>know that it it's just constantly a feeling of um,

0:30:33.360 --> 0:30:35.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, just why do we even go that night?

0:30:35.880 --> 0:30:38.000
<v Speaker 1>What else could we have done? You know? All the

0:30:38.120 --> 0:30:42.760
<v Speaker 1>things that you probably are experiencing that never ever go away.

0:30:42.760 --> 0:30:46.080
<v Speaker 1>And I think too many people don't understand what it

0:30:46.200 --> 0:30:50.920
<v Speaker 1>feels like to lose UM, a loved one in general,

0:30:51.080 --> 0:30:55.360
<v Speaker 1>but specifically to lose a loved one UM in the

0:30:55.400 --> 0:30:58.240
<v Speaker 1>midst of something that has now become such a high

0:30:58.400 --> 0:31:04.600
<v Speaker 1>profile event. Unfortunately. UM, you know there's a difference. It is.

0:31:04.760 --> 0:31:07.480
<v Speaker 1>You know, there are there are shootings, there is murder,

0:31:07.680 --> 0:31:10.360
<v Speaker 1>there's all types of things that take place, But when

0:31:10.360 --> 0:31:13.360
<v Speaker 1>it is in the midst of something that becomes a

0:31:13.520 --> 0:31:18.520
<v Speaker 1>media issue or a big media moment, it takes on

0:31:18.560 --> 0:31:22.920
<v Speaker 1>another layer because you're constantly reliving it, You're constantly having

0:31:22.920 --> 0:31:26.280
<v Speaker 1>to talk about it, You're constantly having people wanting to

0:31:26.440 --> 0:31:30.800
<v Speaker 1>probe for their own reasons, not necessarily because they really

0:31:30.880 --> 0:31:34.040
<v Speaker 1>care about you and or your loved one. UM. And

0:31:34.080 --> 0:31:36.560
<v Speaker 1>you wrote a book, and I want you to talk

0:31:36.600 --> 0:31:39.640
<v Speaker 1>about that book and talk about what made you sit

0:31:39.680 --> 0:31:42.600
<v Speaker 1>down and say, you know, I want to write my story.

0:31:42.760 --> 0:31:45.920
<v Speaker 1>This is the time for me to tell this story. UM,

0:31:45.960 --> 0:31:49.280
<v Speaker 1>you know what was the motivation? Thank you so much

0:31:49.320 --> 0:31:52.120
<v Speaker 1>for that. Honestly, I know you understand what it's like

0:31:52.200 --> 0:31:55.320
<v Speaker 1>to experience loss, and I had to do my homework

0:31:55.320 --> 0:31:58.520
<v Speaker 1>about YouTube, and I'm sorry for the loss that you

0:31:58.640 --> 0:32:03.960
<v Speaker 1>experience with Jason, and that's the loss is always the

0:32:03.960 --> 0:32:07.560
<v Speaker 1>transformational experience. I feel like that thrust you into your

0:32:07.600 --> 0:32:11.480
<v Speaker 1>destiny and your purpose. And Akira married. She was actually

0:32:11.560 --> 0:32:14.400
<v Speaker 1>my sister in law, so I actually didn't get to

0:32:14.520 --> 0:32:18.280
<v Speaker 1>grace that experience with her while she was alive. So

0:32:18.480 --> 0:32:22.520
<v Speaker 1>my husband is her older brother, and we found love

0:32:22.560 --> 0:32:24.440
<v Speaker 1>after this whole tragedy. And I talked about it in

0:32:24.440 --> 0:32:27.040
<v Speaker 1>the book Survived and Lived the Patient's car to Story

0:32:27.520 --> 0:32:33.120
<v Speaker 1>and ultimately it's the beginning from everything that happened before

0:32:33.160 --> 0:32:36.280
<v Speaker 1>Paul's leading up to that moment in that night, and

0:32:36.280 --> 0:32:37.720
<v Speaker 1>I feel like I have to just touch on it.

0:32:37.760 --> 0:32:41.800
<v Speaker 1>But I was there with two friends and we went

0:32:41.880 --> 0:32:45.640
<v Speaker 1>there a regular girl's night and then at one a

0:32:45.880 --> 0:32:49.200
<v Speaker 1>m gunshot started going off. And I'm from Philadelphia, which

0:32:49.240 --> 0:32:52.479
<v Speaker 1>is also nicknamed Philadelphia, but I never experienced gun violence

0:32:52.480 --> 0:32:56.040
<v Speaker 1>in Philadelphia. My first experience with gun violence was in

0:32:56.080 --> 0:32:59.240
<v Speaker 1>a mass shooting, So that kind of stewed my view

0:32:59.240 --> 0:33:02.320
<v Speaker 1>of gun violence. Little bit and match. You things account

0:33:02.320 --> 0:33:07.480
<v Speaker 1>for one percent, just one percent of gun violence in America,

0:33:07.800 --> 0:33:11.959
<v Speaker 1>Yet that's all we see on the news right and

0:33:12.040 --> 0:33:15.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm a mating survivor, so I had this very skewed

0:33:16.000 --> 0:33:19.840
<v Speaker 1>deal of gun violence. But the reality is that the

0:33:19.960 --> 0:33:25.480
<v Speaker 1>most people affected by gun violence are black people in America, right,

0:33:25.600 --> 0:33:28.920
<v Speaker 1>And it's everyday violence. It's not just match you, it's right.

0:33:29.600 --> 0:33:32.680
<v Speaker 1>So having to grapple with that, that's where I am

0:33:34.200 --> 0:33:40.880
<v Speaker 1>so so so I hate to ask for this, but

0:33:41.040 --> 0:33:45.480
<v Speaker 1>unfortunately it's important to bring people to that night. M M.

0:33:45.960 --> 0:33:47.720
<v Speaker 1>I know you talked about this on a number of

0:33:47.720 --> 0:33:51.840
<v Speaker 1>platforms MO times, but street politicians listeners may not have

0:33:51.920 --> 0:33:55.200
<v Speaker 1>heard it or may need to be reminded. So can

0:33:55.240 --> 0:33:59.600
<v Speaker 1>you take us that to that night you decided to

0:33:59.600 --> 0:34:03.120
<v Speaker 1>go out with two friends. What happens? You guys are

0:34:03.160 --> 0:34:09.640
<v Speaker 1>having a great time, and then what happens. Wow, we

0:34:09.719 --> 0:34:13.200
<v Speaker 1>were having a great time. That's the most important thing.

0:34:13.280 --> 0:34:15.399
<v Speaker 1>And anybody can just be out having a great time

0:34:15.400 --> 0:34:18.839
<v Speaker 1>with their friends right at the club that night, it

0:34:18.880 --> 0:34:21.279
<v Speaker 1>was the best night ever. Like there's like really no

0:34:21.360 --> 0:34:23.200
<v Speaker 1>other way to say it. It It was the best night ever.

0:34:23.360 --> 0:34:26.000
<v Speaker 1>We had a blast. Akira, Tier and I were all

0:34:26.040 --> 0:34:29.239
<v Speaker 1>there for vacation, so I'm in Philadelphia. That was my

0:34:29.239 --> 0:34:34.640
<v Speaker 1>first time getting on the plane. Guys, Because when you

0:34:34.680 --> 0:34:37.080
<v Speaker 1>said you were from Philadelphia. Early I was thinking you

0:34:37.120 --> 0:34:40.720
<v Speaker 1>met you from Philadelphia, but you moved to Orlando, and

0:34:40.840 --> 0:34:43.200
<v Speaker 1>you know you you were living in Florida. What you're

0:34:43.200 --> 0:34:46.120
<v Speaker 1>saying is that you all were on vacation and went

0:34:46.200 --> 0:34:49.680
<v Speaker 1>out that night as a part of a vacation. That

0:34:49.760 --> 0:34:53.480
<v Speaker 1>was the first night of vacation. Wow, all right, So

0:34:53.520 --> 0:34:57.400
<v Speaker 1>I spent So I was actually shot in both in

0:34:57.400 --> 0:34:59.920
<v Speaker 1>my legs, and the bullet that entered my right thish

0:35:00.000 --> 0:35:02.200
<v Speaker 1>stuttered my femur. So I have a metal ride and

0:35:02.239 --> 0:35:04.560
<v Speaker 1>screws for the rest of my life. And I actually

0:35:04.560 --> 0:35:06.880
<v Speaker 1>have a bullet fragment that's going to be there for

0:35:06.880 --> 0:35:08.759
<v Speaker 1>the rest of my life unless it gives me problems.

0:35:09.080 --> 0:35:13.399
<v Speaker 1>But the reality is it was just vacation. It could

0:35:13.400 --> 0:35:15.360
<v Speaker 1>have been anybody. It could have been any three girls

0:35:15.400 --> 0:35:19.200
<v Speaker 1>walking into a club from Philly experiencing that situation that night.

0:35:19.640 --> 0:35:21.600
<v Speaker 1>So and the fact that I'm even here, the fact

0:35:21.600 --> 0:35:24.200
<v Speaker 1>that I'm alive, that I had breath, that's a miracle,

0:35:25.080 --> 0:35:27.040
<v Speaker 1>the fact that I'm able to do all this stuff.

0:35:27.160 --> 0:35:28.799
<v Speaker 1>And I wanted to get to it. I definitely want

0:35:28.800 --> 0:35:31.600
<v Speaker 1>to get to it. But I'm I'm the intending chief

0:35:31.719 --> 0:35:35.360
<v Speaker 1>vision officer for the Gun Violence Survivors Foundation, And I

0:35:35.480 --> 0:35:38.200
<v Speaker 1>never understood how important it was to have a foundation

0:35:38.320 --> 0:35:42.759
<v Speaker 1>just solely dedicated to survivors, because I thought that there

0:35:42.760 --> 0:35:45.480
<v Speaker 1>were all these resources for gun violence survivors, because my

0:35:45.600 --> 0:35:48.759
<v Speaker 1>view of gun violence, being a gun violence survivor, was

0:35:48.760 --> 0:35:51.880
<v Speaker 1>in this mass shooting. So I had this outpour of

0:35:51.880 --> 0:35:55.200
<v Speaker 1>community love and support from Orlando. But the reality is

0:35:55.280 --> 0:35:57.920
<v Speaker 1>people experience gun violence every day and they don't get

0:35:57.920 --> 0:36:01.239
<v Speaker 1>that outward blood. They don't get, of course support. So

0:36:02.000 --> 0:36:09.480
<v Speaker 1>the Gun Violence Survivrus Foundation basically is the foundation that

0:36:09.560 --> 0:36:14.759
<v Speaker 1>answers those unmet needs, those unseen survivors, those people who

0:36:14.760 --> 0:36:18.560
<v Speaker 1>feel neglected and feel forgotten. That's what I'm trying to address.

0:36:18.640 --> 0:36:21.080
<v Speaker 1>And this whole experience has truly just changed my life.

0:36:22.000 --> 0:36:24.640
<v Speaker 1>And there's so many things that changed my life, especially

0:36:24.680 --> 0:36:27.600
<v Speaker 1>my brother died last year at the start of COVID.

0:36:28.000 --> 0:36:30.319
<v Speaker 1>He was my oldest of my oldest brother. He died

0:36:30.320 --> 0:36:32.840
<v Speaker 1>at thirty four years old. But he died with a

0:36:32.920 --> 0:36:36.279
<v Speaker 1>smile on his face. It was a smile stuck on

0:36:36.320 --> 0:36:40.040
<v Speaker 1>his face in the casket, and that sparked my spiritual journey.

0:36:40.080 --> 0:36:43.839
<v Speaker 1>And I know you're spiritual as well, but sparked this

0:36:43.920 --> 0:36:46.120
<v Speaker 1>journey of trying to figure out how can I get

0:36:46.160 --> 0:36:48.879
<v Speaker 1>this joy, true joy on the inside of me now

0:36:48.960 --> 0:36:55.200
<v Speaker 1>while I'm here and service serving others. Serving others is

0:36:55.239 --> 0:36:57.719
<v Speaker 1>the joy. And I get to serve with the Gun

0:36:57.800 --> 0:37:01.320
<v Speaker 1>Bounced Survirus Foundation among so many great people, and I'm honored,

0:37:01.600 --> 0:37:03.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm truly honored to be here with you to be

0:37:03.600 --> 0:37:05.640
<v Speaker 1>able to bring this up and talk about this. There's

0:37:05.680 --> 0:37:10.640
<v Speaker 1>no federal funding for gun violence survivor research. There's a

0:37:12.200 --> 0:37:15.720
<v Speaker 1>paste and gun violence, but as far as gun violence

0:37:15.760 --> 0:37:20.239
<v Speaker 1>survivors go, and you're gun violence survivor, you experienced gun violence,

0:37:20.280 --> 0:37:24.480
<v Speaker 1>and your survivor, what were the unmet needs that you

0:37:24.520 --> 0:37:28.320
<v Speaker 1>may have experience with less of access to mental health care,

0:37:28.320 --> 0:37:32.000
<v Speaker 1>free free disservices, of talking to someone, And that's the

0:37:32.000 --> 0:37:36.080
<v Speaker 1>things that people don't have. So that's what you're fighting for.

0:37:36.760 --> 0:37:39.680
<v Speaker 1>That's what we're fighting for, the gun violence survivors. And

0:37:40.640 --> 0:37:44.480
<v Speaker 1>there was the spike and gun violence, right so that

0:37:44.600 --> 0:37:47.839
<v Speaker 1>also means there's a spike in families that have been

0:37:47.880 --> 0:37:51.040
<v Speaker 1>affected by gun violence. And there's been a spike of

0:37:51.080 --> 0:37:54.640
<v Speaker 1>gun violence survivors. So there's this group of people and

0:37:54.840 --> 0:37:58.239
<v Speaker 1>Ben Do she's our vice president right now. She has

0:37:58.280 --> 0:38:01.560
<v Speaker 1>done this research, and there's no federal funding for gun

0:38:01.640 --> 0:38:04.359
<v Speaker 1>violence survivor research, but she's done this on her own.

0:38:04.719 --> 0:38:08.520
<v Speaker 1>There's over one million gun violence survivors who aren't receiving health,

0:38:08.880 --> 0:38:12.680
<v Speaker 1>not free health, not free healthcare, not free mental health care.

0:38:13.320 --> 0:38:17.279
<v Speaker 1>Even the certain codes for medical billing they judge in

0:38:17.320 --> 0:38:21.040
<v Speaker 1>the coding. There's no code for a person that was

0:38:22.040 --> 0:38:25.400
<v Speaker 1>injured by an assault rifle, but it wasn't their fault.

0:38:25.880 --> 0:38:29.280
<v Speaker 1>So if it goes under assault in the medical coding,

0:38:29.480 --> 0:38:32.680
<v Speaker 1>you're not gonna get reaversed for your medical bills, simply

0:38:32.719 --> 0:38:34.840
<v Speaker 1>because the way it's coded. But there is no code

0:38:34.920 --> 0:38:37.480
<v Speaker 1>for gun violence survivors who just happened to be shot

0:38:37.960 --> 0:38:40.839
<v Speaker 1>like me, who just happened to be in a situation

0:38:41.040 --> 0:38:44.080
<v Speaker 1>on vacation, who just happened to be leaving school, who

0:38:44.120 --> 0:38:46.239
<v Speaker 1>just happened to be at the wrong place at the

0:38:46.280 --> 0:38:49.520
<v Speaker 1>wrong time. But this is the reality of everyday violence.

0:38:49.640 --> 0:38:53.239
<v Speaker 1>There are people experiencing this, this crime every day, and

0:38:53.280 --> 0:38:57.399
<v Speaker 1>they're not able to get the access to resource they need. Wow,

0:38:57.600 --> 0:39:01.240
<v Speaker 1>that's that's that's really that's really telling, just to understand

0:39:01.239 --> 0:39:04.400
<v Speaker 1>that just the way that word is worded and coded,

0:39:04.760 --> 0:39:08.480
<v Speaker 1>that there's actually no one who's been held accountable or

0:39:08.600 --> 0:39:12.200
<v Speaker 1>have resources to give you. So just listening to the things,

0:39:12.239 --> 0:39:15.000
<v Speaker 1>it seems like your life has changed a life. What

0:39:15.400 --> 0:39:18.239
<v Speaker 1>other ways can you say that since this night your

0:39:18.280 --> 0:39:23.759
<v Speaker 1>life has changed well and positively. I found love. I'm

0:39:23.840 --> 0:39:29.360
<v Speaker 1>married now, my husband, Alex Murray is there's a miracle

0:39:29.400 --> 0:39:31.719
<v Speaker 1>in itself. Let me just tell you so, to hurt

0:39:31.760 --> 0:39:34.640
<v Speaker 1>people are obviously going to hurt people. My husband was

0:39:34.680 --> 0:39:39.360
<v Speaker 1>struggling with his own loss of his sister that was

0:39:39.400 --> 0:39:43.040
<v Speaker 1>his best friend, that was his best friend, right and

0:39:43.160 --> 0:39:45.320
<v Speaker 1>I was dealing with being shot in both of my legs,

0:39:45.320 --> 0:39:48.320
<v Speaker 1>experiencing being held houstage for three hours and having to

0:39:48.400 --> 0:39:51.960
<v Speaker 1>unravel all the the PTSD from my own childhood and

0:39:52.000 --> 0:39:55.720
<v Speaker 1>bringing all of that into one relationship right fast forward.

0:39:55.880 --> 0:39:59.560
<v Speaker 1>There is life after tragedy. You can't find love after tragedy.

0:40:00.120 --> 0:40:02.440
<v Speaker 1>You don't have to stay broken forever. My husband and

0:40:02.480 --> 0:40:06.480
<v Speaker 1>I are now two years in Hey and our anniversary

0:40:06.480 --> 0:40:09.800
<v Speaker 1>has come up August. Funny fit and we we actually

0:40:09.800 --> 0:40:13.600
<v Speaker 1>got married at the Lincoln Financial Field in Philadelphia and

0:40:13.680 --> 0:40:16.640
<v Speaker 1>they're a championship team on if you guys know about

0:40:16.680 --> 0:40:20.000
<v Speaker 1>the Philadelphia Eagles. But um boring and braids and Philly,

0:40:20.080 --> 0:40:22.239
<v Speaker 1>so I have to shout out the eagles, and we

0:40:22.280 --> 0:40:24.919
<v Speaker 1>had our loving wedding there and it was beautiful. I'm

0:40:24.960 --> 0:40:27.880
<v Speaker 1>grateful to have that experience with love because for a

0:40:27.920 --> 0:40:30.560
<v Speaker 1>long time I thought I couldn't receive it, and for

0:40:30.600 --> 0:40:34.160
<v Speaker 1>a long time I identified with this tragic experience as

0:40:34.200 --> 0:40:36.120
<v Speaker 1>the only I didn't be that I would ever have.

0:40:36.760 --> 0:40:40.719
<v Speaker 1>And the reality is, this experience has given me so

0:40:40.880 --> 0:40:43.920
<v Speaker 1>much more purpose and I've never honestly, if I look

0:40:44.000 --> 0:40:46.759
<v Speaker 1>back at me in school and growing up in Philadelphia,

0:40:46.800 --> 0:40:48.000
<v Speaker 1>I would have never thought that I would be an

0:40:48.000 --> 0:40:51.880
<v Speaker 1>advocate for gun violence or advocate for gun violence survivors.

0:40:52.160 --> 0:40:55.640
<v Speaker 1>And even when my situation first happened, I received so

0:40:55.760 --> 0:40:59.000
<v Speaker 1>much pushback from conspiracy theorists of just from speaking out,

0:40:59.400 --> 0:41:03.880
<v Speaker 1>just from sharing my story. And I'm sure you understand

0:41:04.239 --> 0:41:06.239
<v Speaker 1>what that's like to have a community people just hating

0:41:06.280 --> 0:41:08.880
<v Speaker 1>you for no reason. Um, but that scared me away

0:41:09.080 --> 0:41:14.640
<v Speaker 1>from my advocacy, and to be here now, unafraid, it

0:41:14.680 --> 0:41:17.040
<v Speaker 1>feels good. And it feels good to know that nothing

0:41:17.120 --> 0:41:20.239
<v Speaker 1>is gonna stop me from changing lives, changing lives that

0:41:20.320 --> 0:41:22.439
<v Speaker 1>I was put on this earth here to do, and

0:41:22.520 --> 0:41:25.600
<v Speaker 1>that's helping me understand why I survived in the first place.

0:41:25.680 --> 0:41:28.360
<v Speaker 1>Why did I survive and for you and other people didn't?

0:41:28.719 --> 0:41:31.719
<v Speaker 1>Why was I still made it out? I made it

0:41:31.760 --> 0:41:34.120
<v Speaker 1>out of the club, but I went back in and

0:41:34.160 --> 0:41:36.239
<v Speaker 1>I still made it out a second time, and that's

0:41:36.239 --> 0:41:38.799
<v Speaker 1>a miracle. So I'm happy to be here. I'm just

0:41:38.840 --> 0:41:41.359
<v Speaker 1>so blessed in this moment to be speaking with you

0:41:41.400 --> 0:41:44.440
<v Speaker 1>guys and sharing this awareness about gun violence survivors and

0:41:44.760 --> 0:41:47.160
<v Speaker 1>what they need. Why did you go back in the club?

0:41:47.520 --> 0:41:50.480
<v Speaker 1>What made you go back? One of my friends were

0:41:50.520 --> 0:41:54.040
<v Speaker 1>still in there, so Akira is the one that did

0:41:54.040 --> 0:41:56.560
<v Speaker 1>not make it, but she and I both made it out,

0:41:57.320 --> 0:41:59.520
<v Speaker 1>So we made a decision to walk back into the

0:41:59.560 --> 0:42:02.560
<v Speaker 1>club for our other friend, Tierra, her cousin. So a

0:42:02.680 --> 0:42:07.960
<v Speaker 1>cure is shot you. So at this point, none of

0:42:08.040 --> 0:42:09.960
<v Speaker 1>us were shot. So this is how it happened. It's

0:42:10.040 --> 0:42:13.440
<v Speaker 1>at one fifty a am. Shooting started breaking out. I'm

0:42:13.480 --> 0:42:15.720
<v Speaker 1>scooting on the floor backwards and I feel the ground

0:42:15.719 --> 0:42:17.600
<v Speaker 1>on my hands because they just happened to be this

0:42:17.719 --> 0:42:20.960
<v Speaker 1>exit door. And I made it out, and I saw

0:42:21.000 --> 0:42:23.439
<v Speaker 1>Akira running towards me. I look up at her before

0:42:23.440 --> 0:42:25.120
<v Speaker 1>I know she's over top of me, and I see

0:42:25.120 --> 0:42:28.400
<v Speaker 1>this skuy behind here. I'm like, where's Tierra. Tierra was

0:42:28.440 --> 0:42:31.919
<v Speaker 1>still inside. We have to go get her. A cure

0:42:32.000 --> 0:42:34.400
<v Speaker 1>runs in, I go in, and at that point we

0:42:34.440 --> 0:42:37.400
<v Speaker 1>had to make a decision. Everybody was running into the bathrooms,

0:42:37.440 --> 0:42:40.720
<v Speaker 1>nobody was running to the exit door, so we decided

0:42:40.760 --> 0:42:42.879
<v Speaker 1>to follow the people going into the bathrooms. And that's

0:42:43.040 --> 0:42:47.320
<v Speaker 1>what started the gunfire, the gun actually coming into the bathroom,

0:42:47.600 --> 0:42:50.239
<v Speaker 1>and the three hour hostage wait for the police to

0:42:50.280 --> 0:42:52.839
<v Speaker 1>come in and get us. And Akira unfortunately didn't make

0:42:52.840 --> 0:42:56.600
<v Speaker 1>it through those three hours. So you guys made it outside,

0:42:56.719 --> 0:43:00.520
<v Speaker 1>but your friend was still inside and got shot when

0:43:00.520 --> 0:43:06.160
<v Speaker 1>you return inside to try to find your friend. Wow,

0:43:06.200 --> 0:43:11.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean that is it's that is such an incredible story.

0:43:11.840 --> 0:43:16.880
<v Speaker 1>And also I think it speaks so much to your advocacy,

0:43:17.040 --> 0:43:20.400
<v Speaker 1>the fact that you're going back inside again, over and

0:43:20.520 --> 0:43:24.440
<v Speaker 1>over again, You're going back inside. I am I'm just

0:43:25.400 --> 0:43:29.799
<v Speaker 1>completely you finished me. I'm finished, Mike. Maybe you can

0:43:29.840 --> 0:43:32.439
<v Speaker 1>help us because I'm finished. I just I just think

0:43:32.480 --> 0:43:33.960
<v Speaker 1>for me. First of all, I just want to just

0:43:34.120 --> 0:43:37.239
<v Speaker 1>um commend the bravery. You know, there ain't too many

0:43:37.239 --> 0:43:41.720
<v Speaker 1>people running back into the club with someone to shooting

0:43:41.760 --> 0:43:43.680
<v Speaker 1>to get a friend. You know, so that that and

0:43:43.920 --> 0:43:46.719
<v Speaker 1>that in itself needs to be commended, and I just

0:43:46.760 --> 0:43:48.920
<v Speaker 1>and I also just want to say I'm sorry that

0:43:48.960 --> 0:43:51.720
<v Speaker 1>you even had to experience that, you know, three hours

0:43:52.320 --> 0:43:55.160
<v Speaker 1>in the level of trauma and PSTD. I know that

0:43:55.200 --> 0:43:57.560
<v Speaker 1>you had to experience just sitting there. You know, my

0:43:57.640 --> 0:43:59.480
<v Speaker 1>song makes up words on street and I think I

0:43:59.560 --> 0:44:06.839
<v Speaker 1>didn't say PTZ PSTD God because well sometimes I make

0:44:06.880 --> 0:44:10.319
<v Speaker 1>up my warriors, but PTSD, the level of PTSD that

0:44:10.400 --> 0:44:14.160
<v Speaker 1>you had to be experienced after sitting in a bathroom

0:44:14.280 --> 0:44:17.080
<v Speaker 1>for three hours shot and trying to figure out hope,

0:44:17.120 --> 0:44:19.120
<v Speaker 1>and that you actually make it out of there with

0:44:19.239 --> 0:44:21.440
<v Speaker 1>other people in their shot, some of them who didn't

0:44:21.480 --> 0:44:25.319
<v Speaker 1>make it like that in itself, it's something that I

0:44:25.360 --> 0:44:27.799
<v Speaker 1>couldn't even fathom having to deal with. So, you know,

0:44:27.840 --> 0:44:31.040
<v Speaker 1>we just want to say we commend you, and you

0:44:31.080 --> 0:44:33.759
<v Speaker 1>know you also have our condolences, and I was we

0:44:33.840 --> 0:44:35.799
<v Speaker 1>just I just wish to have the strength that you have.

0:44:36.680 --> 0:44:39.040
<v Speaker 1>You know, it's not me, it's not me, it's God

0:44:40.520 --> 0:44:42.960
<v Speaker 1>is my strength. And that's what I'm staring right now.

0:44:43.000 --> 0:44:45.360
<v Speaker 1>And this is why I'm stepping into this leadership because

0:44:45.360 --> 0:44:48.880
<v Speaker 1>it wasn't me. For five years, I was crumbling for

0:44:49.000 --> 0:44:52.320
<v Speaker 1>five years, crumbling pretending to be healed, pretending to be happy,

0:44:52.360 --> 0:44:56.160
<v Speaker 1>pretending to be this advocate. Right now, I'm finally where

0:44:56.160 --> 0:44:58.600
<v Speaker 1>God has designed me to be, and it feels great,

0:44:58.719 --> 0:45:01.760
<v Speaker 1>and I want to share the message with other people, like, listen,

0:45:02.880 --> 0:45:04.800
<v Speaker 1>you don't have to stay broken. You don't have to

0:45:04.800 --> 0:45:06.799
<v Speaker 1>stay broken. And I can go through what I went through.

0:45:07.560 --> 0:45:09.239
<v Speaker 1>You can make it through whatever it is that you're

0:45:09.239 --> 0:45:16.200
<v Speaker 1>going through right now. Wow, Well, we are so thankful,

0:45:16.480 --> 0:45:20.960
<v Speaker 1>so grateful, so humble or honored, so blessed to have

0:45:21.080 --> 0:45:25.560
<v Speaker 1>had you on, especially for the first of a now

0:45:25.600 --> 0:45:28.359
<v Speaker 1>a series. For the next several weeks, we're gonna be

0:45:28.440 --> 0:45:31.960
<v Speaker 1>talking about gun violence, and we wanted to be intentional

0:45:32.040 --> 0:45:37.360
<v Speaker 1>about addressing women and the fact that women are also impacted,

0:45:37.400 --> 0:45:40.960
<v Speaker 1>because people often see gun violence as just being something

0:45:41.000 --> 0:45:44.919
<v Speaker 1>that exists within um, you know, with with our men um.

0:45:45.120 --> 0:45:47.400
<v Speaker 1>And we know that that's not true. We know that

0:45:47.440 --> 0:45:51.960
<v Speaker 1>women UM, as my son said, I become the caretakers

0:45:52.040 --> 0:45:55.080
<v Speaker 1>of people who have been killed, experienced the pain, but

0:45:55.200 --> 0:46:00.840
<v Speaker 1>also that women actually are victims, physical victims, UM. And

0:46:00.960 --> 0:46:03.080
<v Speaker 1>to have you on today, to have you here to

0:46:03.160 --> 0:46:06.400
<v Speaker 1>tell your story, all that keeps coming to me is

0:46:06.440 --> 0:46:09.800
<v Speaker 1>that you continue to go back in UM and take

0:46:09.920 --> 0:46:12.200
<v Speaker 1>some of us with you, take as many of us

0:46:12.239 --> 0:46:16.520
<v Speaker 1>as you can, back into our communities, back into those

0:46:16.600 --> 0:46:21.440
<v Speaker 1>difficult places where where we may sacrifice ourselves. But at

0:46:21.440 --> 0:46:24.479
<v Speaker 1>the end of the day, what good does it make

0:46:24.560 --> 0:46:27.640
<v Speaker 1>that we are alive and well and thriving if our

0:46:27.719 --> 0:46:30.879
<v Speaker 1>people are caught in the midst of such trauma, are

0:46:30.960 --> 0:46:34.479
<v Speaker 1>trapped in trauma, trapped in the bathroom. If you will,

0:46:35.080 --> 0:46:38.759
<v Speaker 1>UM and so patients. God bless you, God bless you

0:46:38.840 --> 0:46:41.600
<v Speaker 1>on your journey. Thank you so much for telling your

0:46:41.600 --> 0:46:44.759
<v Speaker 1>story today. It's not enough time. We can talk more

0:46:44.800 --> 0:46:47.960
<v Speaker 1>and more and more, but we appreciate and love uh

0:46:48.280 --> 0:46:51.960
<v Speaker 1>you so much. And you always have an audience here

0:46:52.000 --> 0:46:55.120
<v Speaker 1>at Street Politicians that any time you want to come

0:46:55.120 --> 0:46:57.759
<v Speaker 1>back and bring us any information, when you want us

0:46:57.760 --> 0:47:01.520
<v Speaker 1>to share anything, we want to do that to support you. Yes,

0:47:01.560 --> 0:47:03.359
<v Speaker 1>tell us the name of your book, where can we

0:47:03.400 --> 0:47:05.920
<v Speaker 1>get the book, Tell people how they can follow you,

0:47:05.960 --> 0:47:07.680
<v Speaker 1>because you are a leader and you definitely need to

0:47:07.719 --> 0:47:10.440
<v Speaker 1>be followed. To give all the information so we can

0:47:10.440 --> 0:47:13.440
<v Speaker 1>share it with the audience. Well, my book Survived and

0:47:13.560 --> 0:47:16.359
<v Speaker 1>Lived is available everywhere and Survived and Live dot com.

0:47:16.480 --> 0:47:19.200
<v Speaker 1>And you can follow me on Instagram at p A. E. Carter.

0:47:19.680 --> 0:47:23.360
<v Speaker 1>That easy. Amen, Well I'm gonna follow you. I'm having

0:47:23.440 --> 0:47:32.000
<v Speaker 1>follower right now to know I am. You know, make

0:47:32.040 --> 0:47:37.279
<v Speaker 1>sure please drop drop your information for me in the

0:47:37.360 --> 0:47:43.719
<v Speaker 1>chat before you go. Thanks, take care, keep doing God's work.

0:47:49.000 --> 0:47:53.279
<v Speaker 1>I think Maggie is with us. You know, she's a

0:47:53.280 --> 0:47:57.440
<v Speaker 1>hot girl, hot girl song all day long. Okay mess

0:47:57.560 --> 0:48:01.000
<v Speaker 1>right now, you're not a hot mess. We just had

0:48:01.040 --> 0:48:06.560
<v Speaker 1>Patience Murray on um who attended Wounded but Alive. She

0:48:06.719 --> 0:48:09.719
<v Speaker 1>was there for an incredible event that you hosted, and

0:48:09.760 --> 0:48:13.000
<v Speaker 1>she just talked about her situation. I mean, obviously you

0:48:13.080 --> 0:48:16.799
<v Speaker 1>know the story. She was shot in post nightclub um

0:48:17.280 --> 0:48:22.080
<v Speaker 1>barta uh. And but she's now in an organization called

0:48:22.239 --> 0:48:28.520
<v Speaker 1>Survived Survive then Live, Yeah Live, and she's doing great work.

0:48:28.600 --> 0:48:31.799
<v Speaker 1>And um, my son and I thought that we didn't.

0:48:31.800 --> 0:48:34.000
<v Speaker 1>We thought you would come another week. You know, we're

0:48:34.040 --> 0:48:38.240
<v Speaker 1>doing a series of about six shows on gun violence.

0:48:38.280 --> 0:48:41.480
<v Speaker 1>But we wanted to be intentional by starting with this

0:48:41.560 --> 0:48:46.320
<v Speaker 1>conversation around how women are impacted because not enough it

0:48:46.400 --> 0:48:48.920
<v Speaker 1>is out there, not enough information, not enough conversation, is

0:48:48.960 --> 0:48:52.560
<v Speaker 1>not enough resources and advocacy. And my song was saying,

0:48:52.560 --> 0:48:56.560
<v Speaker 1>but we need Maggie on We met patients through and

0:48:56.640 --> 0:49:00.960
<v Speaker 1>here I am. I'm gonna side of the hallway, but

0:49:01.040 --> 0:49:05.680
<v Speaker 1>I'm here. That's what that's what that's having friends do

0:49:05.760 --> 0:49:09.920
<v Speaker 1>your friends on the side of the hillway. I'm on

0:49:10.040 --> 0:49:12.440
<v Speaker 1>the side of the turnpike, but I'm here. You're not

0:49:12.440 --> 0:49:14.440
<v Speaker 1>gonna keep you on the side of the turnpike. We

0:49:14.480 --> 0:49:17.240
<v Speaker 1>don't want to do that. I just want to know Maggie.

0:49:17.680 --> 0:49:20.759
<v Speaker 1>You know, Will will fill people in on the details

0:49:20.800 --> 0:49:24.640
<v Speaker 1>of what happened to you. M urban plaza. There's no

0:49:24.920 --> 0:49:29.840
<v Speaker 1>urban palace of Plaza Plaza Plaza Plaza. We'll fill folks

0:49:29.920 --> 0:49:32.839
<v Speaker 1>in on that while you're gone. But you started an

0:49:32.960 --> 0:49:35.960
<v Speaker 1>organization and you bought women together and you've you've been

0:49:35.960 --> 0:49:38.520
<v Speaker 1>doing that work along with all the other things that

0:49:38.560 --> 0:49:41.640
<v Speaker 1>you're involved in. Why did you Why did you decide

0:49:41.680 --> 0:49:45.839
<v Speaker 1>to start an organization? UM? I feel like when I

0:49:45.920 --> 0:49:49.920
<v Speaker 1>got shot, I couldn't identified with anyone I felt like

0:49:50.000 --> 0:49:52.560
<v Speaker 1>I was with I was at the time dating someone

0:49:52.640 --> 0:49:55.120
<v Speaker 1>who also been shot. But I feel like a man

0:49:55.320 --> 0:49:58.880
<v Speaker 1>being shot or a man being injured is way worse

0:49:59.080 --> 0:50:01.960
<v Speaker 1>than a woman being injured. And they don't identify with

0:50:02.080 --> 0:50:04.279
<v Speaker 1>us because you know, guys just you know, pick up

0:50:04.280 --> 0:50:06.680
<v Speaker 1>and they're talked to just shake it off. And we

0:50:06.640 --> 0:50:09.480
<v Speaker 1>were deal with our own insecurities daily. I wake up,

0:50:09.480 --> 0:50:13.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm worried about my hair, my eyelashes, this that now

0:50:13.120 --> 0:50:15.120
<v Speaker 1>I have a bullet in my leg and a rod

0:50:15.280 --> 0:50:16.839
<v Speaker 1>from my knee in my hip, and I know I

0:50:16.880 --> 0:50:18.600
<v Speaker 1>can't run, No, I can't go to the gym. And

0:50:18.600 --> 0:50:21.320
<v Speaker 1>they see self conscious moments that I felt like, I

0:50:21.400 --> 0:50:23.400
<v Speaker 1>knew it was other women out there that I needed

0:50:23.400 --> 0:50:28.719
<v Speaker 1>to speak to. Mm hmmm, no, no, that's real. And

0:50:28.760 --> 0:50:30.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, and I was just saying that they we

0:50:30.880 --> 0:50:34.920
<v Speaker 1>don't really focus enough about how women are are impacted

0:50:34.920 --> 0:50:37.319
<v Speaker 1>by gun violence. Our women are victims, you know. And

0:50:37.320 --> 0:50:39.880
<v Speaker 1>I was saying how when we actually went to your event,

0:50:40.560 --> 0:50:42.479
<v Speaker 1>it was life changing for me. It was a bunch

0:50:42.520 --> 0:50:45.000
<v Speaker 1>of women in there that you had to have visible

0:50:45.080 --> 0:50:49.040
<v Speaker 1>scars and had a lot of different stories that actually

0:50:49.040 --> 0:50:51.680
<v Speaker 1>had me in tears. You know. It was one of

0:50:51.760 --> 0:50:53.759
<v Speaker 1>the most life changing events that I went to. And

0:50:53.800 --> 0:50:55.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, and and I just want to say thank

0:50:55.719 --> 0:50:58.200
<v Speaker 1>you for having me there, you know, thank you for

0:50:58.239 --> 0:51:02.160
<v Speaker 1>allowing me to even visual thank Yeah, it was it was.

0:51:02.200 --> 0:51:04.359
<v Speaker 1>It was a life changing experience. I just want to know, like,

0:51:04.719 --> 0:51:06.680
<v Speaker 1>you know, we know that you started the organization, how

0:51:06.760 --> 0:51:09.920
<v Speaker 1>was it being like, because you talk about the trauma

0:51:10.040 --> 0:51:13.080
<v Speaker 1>and way men deal with certain things, how has it

0:51:13.120 --> 0:51:16.520
<v Speaker 1>been for you just dealing with that situation that happened

0:51:16.520 --> 0:51:21.359
<v Speaker 1>with you? Well, it's hard. Um, we've been having his rainstorms.

0:51:21.560 --> 0:51:23.799
<v Speaker 1>I'm pretty sure you gotta see. And like, so when

0:51:23.800 --> 0:51:27.799
<v Speaker 1>it rains, my leg malfunctions, like it gives out at

0:51:27.840 --> 0:51:31.440
<v Speaker 1>any moment. And then when when I'm running errand so

0:51:31.480 --> 0:51:33.239
<v Speaker 1>I have to go to the supermarket or the post

0:51:33.320 --> 0:51:35.000
<v Speaker 1>office or the bank, and I pull up in the

0:51:35.080 --> 0:51:37.480
<v Speaker 1>handicap and up on my handicap signing, and I got

0:51:37.520 --> 0:51:39.799
<v Speaker 1>these old people looking at me crazy. Are regular people

0:51:39.800 --> 0:51:42.160
<v Speaker 1>looking at me crazy? But they don't know like what

0:51:42.200 --> 0:51:44.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm going through, So it's hard to like And then

0:51:44.800 --> 0:51:46.279
<v Speaker 1>I want to go to the gym, I want to run.

0:51:46.280 --> 0:51:49.080
<v Speaker 1>I only could do the StairMaster or you know, people

0:51:49.120 --> 0:51:51.239
<v Speaker 1>don't you know, they don't look at that, or they

0:51:51.280 --> 0:51:54.800
<v Speaker 1>don't understand the daily struggles of not only the scars,

0:51:54.800 --> 0:51:57.440
<v Speaker 1>Like I have three scars, so I got one covered

0:51:57.520 --> 0:51:59.200
<v Speaker 1>up for like a tap two of a feather that

0:51:59.360 --> 0:52:02.080
<v Speaker 1>was sent to men too. But it's hard and this

0:52:02.120 --> 0:52:04.440
<v Speaker 1>is why I wanted to do more in my organization.

0:52:04.480 --> 0:52:06.520
<v Speaker 1>I actually wanted to start a four where we can

0:52:06.560 --> 0:52:09.560
<v Speaker 1>go to different cities and meet women like actual and

0:52:09.600 --> 0:52:12.239
<v Speaker 1>the actual tour bus and get airbnbs and give them

0:52:12.280 --> 0:52:14.839
<v Speaker 1>all these services because I just want people to know

0:52:14.920 --> 0:52:17.160
<v Speaker 1>that we see them, these ladies, to know it was

0:52:17.239 --> 0:52:19.080
<v Speaker 1>women there that you know, been shot in the face.

0:52:19.160 --> 0:52:21.560
<v Speaker 1>Someone got shot when she had a five month baby

0:52:21.600 --> 0:52:24.120
<v Speaker 1>and she's paralyzed. She had to rock her baby in

0:52:24.160 --> 0:52:26.640
<v Speaker 1>a in a in a chair. So and I know

0:52:26.719 --> 0:52:28.480
<v Speaker 1>it's women like this all over the world. So I

0:52:28.520 --> 0:52:30.360
<v Speaker 1>just want to be able to reach them because although

0:52:30.440 --> 0:52:32.839
<v Speaker 1>I may not show it every day and my my

0:52:32.920 --> 0:52:36.360
<v Speaker 1>social as I am going through exactly what they're going through. Wow,

0:52:36.480 --> 0:52:42.000
<v Speaker 1>what we want to Maggie. You know that you you're um,

0:52:42.040 --> 0:52:45.560
<v Speaker 1>such a beautiful sister and your little sister to us

0:52:45.880 --> 0:52:48.440
<v Speaker 1>and we love you so much. And and and I

0:52:48.520 --> 0:52:51.040
<v Speaker 1>know the struggle. You know, I've heard you talk about

0:52:51.080 --> 0:52:54.880
<v Speaker 1>the struggle of how deep it is this mental space

0:52:54.960 --> 0:52:57.799
<v Speaker 1>of of having to keep going but also having that

0:52:57.960 --> 0:53:00.839
<v Speaker 1>memory of what took place that night. You just out

0:53:01.040 --> 0:53:04.760
<v Speaker 1>having a good time. You weren't thinking in any way,

0:53:04.800 --> 0:53:06.920
<v Speaker 1>shape or form, that you could get shot, that it

0:53:06.960 --> 0:53:10.560
<v Speaker 1>would be you, of all the people it was, but

0:53:10.640 --> 0:53:12.799
<v Speaker 1>it was you for a reason. It was you for

0:53:12.880 --> 0:53:17.560
<v Speaker 1>a reason because you had the profile and the audience

0:53:17.640 --> 0:53:20.399
<v Speaker 1>to be able to bring other women together to tell

0:53:20.440 --> 0:53:23.279
<v Speaker 1>their stories. And um, and we want to continue to

0:53:23.320 --> 0:53:27.000
<v Speaker 1>support you. We probably haven't done enough. Let's do more.

0:53:27.560 --> 0:53:32.560
<v Speaker 1>How can people support you, you and your organization right now? Well,

0:53:32.719 --> 0:53:35.200
<v Speaker 1>right now we just have our Instagram up which is

0:53:35.239 --> 0:53:39.480
<v Speaker 1>wounded but a live w B a UM. I'm also

0:53:39.560 --> 0:53:42.319
<v Speaker 1>gonna take now that COVID is like calming down. I'm

0:53:42.360 --> 0:53:45.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna see how to get to different cities and just

0:53:45.160 --> 0:53:50.440
<v Speaker 1>provide services, local services with the hairstyle is and manicurists

0:53:50.440 --> 0:53:53.320
<v Speaker 1>and massagists and then we all do our healing session

0:53:53.320 --> 0:53:55.160
<v Speaker 1>where we sit in a group and we just talk

0:53:55.280 --> 0:53:57.040
<v Speaker 1>and we let it out and then we drink and

0:53:57.040 --> 0:53:59.040
<v Speaker 1>then we paint and then we I just want to

0:53:59.040 --> 0:54:01.560
<v Speaker 1>do that just and re single state that I can touch,

0:54:01.600 --> 0:54:05.160
<v Speaker 1>because gun violence is happening everywhere and us women are

0:54:05.200 --> 0:54:07.400
<v Speaker 1>the ones that are being hurt and we have no

0:54:07.440 --> 0:54:10.560
<v Speaker 1>one to talk to about it. Yeah, Well, we're inviting

0:54:10.600 --> 0:54:13.200
<v Speaker 1>you publicly to be a part of the state of

0:54:13.239 --> 0:54:19.120
<v Speaker 1>emergency Tour until Freedom. Our organization is our organization is

0:54:19.120 --> 0:54:22.400
<v Speaker 1>starting a tour very very soon, and we'd love to

0:54:22.480 --> 0:54:24.799
<v Speaker 1>have you to join to be a part of it

0:54:24.920 --> 0:54:26.880
<v Speaker 1>so that we can help you with some of the

0:54:27.000 --> 0:54:31.040
<v Speaker 1>costs for what you're doing, um and you know, so

0:54:31.120 --> 0:54:33.680
<v Speaker 1>that we could help to provide some of the structural

0:54:33.800 --> 0:54:36.879
<v Speaker 1>resources that you may need to make sure that it

0:54:37.000 --> 0:54:39.560
<v Speaker 1>is uh, that it's done properly and that is done

0:54:39.640 --> 0:54:43.640
<v Speaker 1>in Maggie carry fashion. I would love that. Yeah, so

0:54:43.760 --> 0:54:46.360
<v Speaker 1>we needed you, love to have you to be a

0:54:46.400 --> 0:54:49.920
<v Speaker 1>part of their Other organizations and individuals who will be

0:54:50.000 --> 0:54:53.640
<v Speaker 1>joining the tour dealing with many different issues, um, and

0:54:53.680 --> 0:54:55.239
<v Speaker 1>to have you to be a part of it would

0:54:55.239 --> 0:54:58.480
<v Speaker 1>be great as well. Yes, I would love that, I

0:54:58.560 --> 0:55:01.239
<v Speaker 1>need it and I would love I would love that. Well.

0:55:01.280 --> 0:55:04.160
<v Speaker 1>Once again, we want to congratulate you on turning your

0:55:04.719 --> 0:55:08.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, your pain into triumph and a lot of

0:55:08.080 --> 0:55:10.160
<v Speaker 1>people are not able to do that. So I'm just

0:55:10.239 --> 0:55:13.040
<v Speaker 1>waddling it. You've taken that pain and you've been able

0:55:13.080 --> 0:55:16.399
<v Speaker 1>to utilize your pain to help other people grow and

0:55:16.480 --> 0:55:19.880
<v Speaker 1>you know, feel comfortable and have a foundation that invites

0:55:19.960 --> 0:55:22.480
<v Speaker 1>others and show them that they're not alone. So you know,

0:55:22.560 --> 0:55:25.440
<v Speaker 1>once again. We love you, so we're gonna see love

0:55:25.560 --> 0:55:31.439
<v Speaker 1>you guys. He'd be safe when you get off the highway.

0:55:30.080 --> 0:55:35.120
<v Speaker 1>But you know we're about to start parenting. I know

0:55:35.320 --> 0:55:37.879
<v Speaker 1>I will. I'll put my signal on when I go out.

0:55:38.239 --> 0:55:42.200
<v Speaker 1>Please there, Well what is it ten and six or something?

0:55:42.440 --> 0:55:45.840
<v Speaker 1>I don't know which way it goes? Then you look,

0:55:46.120 --> 0:55:52.560
<v Speaker 1>put the phone down. I am go slow, probably got

0:55:52.680 --> 0:55:55.040
<v Speaker 1>to go fast do old school. Put a hand up

0:55:55.080 --> 0:55:59.839
<v Speaker 1>the window, so this is the turn pack. I gotta

0:55:59.840 --> 0:56:06.120
<v Speaker 1>do them in there. But thank you, guys, I love you.

0:56:11.960 --> 0:56:18.200
<v Speaker 1>That was I love Maggie. I done. Has a beautiful spirit.

0:56:19.520 --> 0:56:23.000
<v Speaker 1>She's amazing. And Patience also has a beautiful spirit. And

0:56:23.080 --> 0:56:26.279
<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know you've been so you know, uh

0:56:27.280 --> 0:56:29.959
<v Speaker 1>impatient in a lot of ways about getting the State

0:56:30.000 --> 0:56:32.719
<v Speaker 1>of Emergency tour up and running. But I think God

0:56:32.840 --> 0:56:36.160
<v Speaker 1>is like putting all the pieces in place, because I

0:56:36.200 --> 0:56:40.760
<v Speaker 1>didn't know Maggie had that concept of taking that event

0:56:41.520 --> 0:56:43.960
<v Speaker 1>that she did that we attended on the road. And

0:56:44.000 --> 0:56:47.480
<v Speaker 1>I think it's an important component because you um and

0:56:47.480 --> 0:56:50.319
<v Speaker 1>and the brethren, if you will want to get out

0:56:50.320 --> 0:56:54.760
<v Speaker 1>there and do work in the community, working with folks

0:56:54.760 --> 0:57:00.480
<v Speaker 1>to create peace treaties between gangs and other rivaling peace folks.

0:57:01.440 --> 0:57:04.080
<v Speaker 1>Um and and really to to put some boots on

0:57:04.120 --> 0:57:06.439
<v Speaker 1>the ground and some support for these folks in these

0:57:06.440 --> 0:57:10.319
<v Speaker 1>different communities. UM. I know that from from my perspective

0:57:10.320 --> 0:57:14.600
<v Speaker 1>and also working with uh Linda and uh Linda sars Our,

0:57:14.680 --> 0:57:18.920
<v Speaker 1>other co founder Angelo Pinto and of course Erica Ford

0:57:18.960 --> 0:57:21.600
<v Speaker 1>and others that are in the work. And now we

0:57:21.720 --> 0:57:25.240
<v Speaker 1>have the fun piece movement apart that I would like

0:57:25.320 --> 0:57:27.960
<v Speaker 1>to have happen on the State of Emergency Tour is

0:57:28.040 --> 0:57:32.439
<v Speaker 1>helping elected officials and organizers understand how they can come

0:57:32.480 --> 0:57:36.560
<v Speaker 1>together to create, um, you know, crisis management efforts the

0:57:36.600 --> 0:57:39.160
<v Speaker 1>way that we have in New York City. UM. And

0:57:39.200 --> 0:57:42.360
<v Speaker 1>then we have Maggie who can help to deal with women.

0:57:42.720 --> 0:57:46.000
<v Speaker 1>And there are others among us who have different things

0:57:46.040 --> 0:57:48.920
<v Speaker 1>that they do, you know, looking at the spiritual element,

0:57:49.040 --> 0:57:52.200
<v Speaker 1>looking at mental health support. So I think the State

0:57:52.200 --> 0:57:55.600
<v Speaker 1>of Emergency Tour is shaping up and it's gonna be

0:57:55.720 --> 0:57:58.560
<v Speaker 1>something that's really really powerful. And of course all of

0:57:58.560 --> 0:58:01.320
<v Speaker 1>our books will be on a so folks who have

0:58:01.400 --> 0:58:04.040
<v Speaker 1>been asking when are you come into our cities, they

0:58:04.040 --> 0:58:06.960
<v Speaker 1>will be able to have direct access to us across

0:58:07.000 --> 0:58:10.720
<v Speaker 1>the country as well. Yeah, So that was always my vision. Man,

0:58:10.800 --> 0:58:13.560
<v Speaker 1>I knew the state of emergency meant so much more

0:58:13.600 --> 0:58:18.960
<v Speaker 1>than just one thing. You know, is gun violence, is education,

0:58:19.280 --> 0:58:22.600
<v Speaker 1>is mental health, is women's issues, and many issues and

0:58:22.720 --> 0:58:24.920
<v Speaker 1>so many It encompasses so many things. So I'm just

0:58:24.960 --> 0:58:27.280
<v Speaker 1>glad to see that. You know, soon it will be

0:58:27.320 --> 0:58:30.120
<v Speaker 1>taken off and we're gonna have everything we need to

0:58:30.160 --> 0:58:36.360
<v Speaker 1>make it successful at subolutely. So thanks to Patients Mary

0:58:36.920 --> 0:58:39.080
<v Speaker 1>for being all We've got to bring her back as well.

0:58:39.280 --> 0:58:41.720
<v Speaker 1>It's almost time for us to start bringing a bunch

0:58:41.760 --> 0:58:45.040
<v Speaker 1>of folks back because there we've been touching on these issues,

0:58:45.080 --> 0:58:47.400
<v Speaker 1>but there needs to be more time. I think that's

0:58:47.400 --> 0:58:49.920
<v Speaker 1>the one thing about media is that it does not

0:58:50.240 --> 0:58:53.480
<v Speaker 1>give an opportunity to really dig deep into the issues.

0:58:53.880 --> 0:58:56.720
<v Speaker 1>But Patients is such a beautiful person. Of course, our system,

0:58:56.720 --> 0:58:59.600
<v Speaker 1>Maggie carry and as we as we talked about gun

0:58:59.680 --> 0:59:02.520
<v Speaker 1>violence us. You know what I really just don't get.

0:59:04.240 --> 0:59:08.560
<v Speaker 1>You know, there's been this online conversation I've been debating

0:59:08.600 --> 0:59:12.439
<v Speaker 1>and going back and forth about the impact of hip

0:59:12.520 --> 0:59:16.280
<v Speaker 1>hop in the violence, you know, and and I realized

0:59:16.320 --> 0:59:18.880
<v Speaker 1>that there is a lot of violence in the hip

0:59:18.880 --> 0:59:23.320
<v Speaker 1>hop music. But I don't get how people don't understand

0:59:23.960 --> 0:59:27.360
<v Speaker 1>that the violence of the music is reflection of what

0:59:27.480 --> 0:59:31.080
<v Speaker 1>people are actually dealing with. And I think for me,

0:59:31.760 --> 0:59:34.840
<v Speaker 1>the real problem is not what the music is reflecting,

0:59:34.880 --> 0:59:38.240
<v Speaker 1>because people are gonna talk about their reality. Unfortunately, when

0:59:38.240 --> 0:59:40.920
<v Speaker 1>we look at the drill music that comes from Chicago

0:59:40.960 --> 0:59:43.720
<v Speaker 1>and we look at those artists, these are artists who

0:59:43.720 --> 0:59:46.760
<v Speaker 1>are actually engulfed in the street life of violence. This

0:59:46.840 --> 0:59:49.200
<v Speaker 1>is what they this is what happened to them. So

0:59:49.240 --> 0:59:52.240
<v Speaker 1>they're told they're actually living that. And you can tell

0:59:52.320 --> 0:59:54.640
<v Speaker 1>that by when they actually get their record deal and

0:59:54.640 --> 0:59:58.800
<v Speaker 1>they get signed that this violence follows them. You know,

0:59:58.920 --> 1:00:02.800
<v Speaker 1>the street things that they were getting signed for are

1:00:02.840 --> 1:00:05.080
<v Speaker 1>the things that actually got them killed when they got

1:00:05.120 --> 1:00:08.800
<v Speaker 1>these record deals. Right. So I don't get why people

1:00:08.920 --> 1:00:13.120
<v Speaker 1>don't understand that the reality is that if we don't

1:00:13.160 --> 1:00:17.000
<v Speaker 1>promote that type of thing, if we're not making artists

1:00:17.000 --> 1:00:20.280
<v Speaker 1>feel like you're gonna be successful when you talk about violence,

1:00:20.480 --> 1:00:23.040
<v Speaker 1>if we don't put up the videos with such and

1:00:23.080 --> 1:00:25.320
<v Speaker 1>such as robbing such and such or such and such

1:00:25.360 --> 1:00:27.280
<v Speaker 1>as shooting that, and we don't talk about it and

1:00:27.440 --> 1:00:30.640
<v Speaker 1>hype it up and give them some level of credibility

1:00:30.680 --> 1:00:35.000
<v Speaker 1>and honor for those things, then we can eliminate the

1:00:35.080 --> 1:00:39.000
<v Speaker 1>need and the actual activity. Because these young kids that

1:00:39.040 --> 1:00:41.280
<v Speaker 1>are growing up and they want to get a record deal,

1:00:41.760 --> 1:00:43.200
<v Speaker 1>you know, and they and they're trying to figure out

1:00:43.200 --> 1:00:45.320
<v Speaker 1>how do I get out of my circumstances. I'm living

1:00:45.360 --> 1:00:48.600
<v Speaker 1>in complete poverty. And they go to the Internet and

1:00:48.600 --> 1:00:51.520
<v Speaker 1>they see that these big sites and these big um

1:00:51.840 --> 1:00:55.000
<v Speaker 1>record labels and things are promoting people who are killing people.

1:00:55.400 --> 1:00:58.000
<v Speaker 1>Like they see when you go to the Internet and

1:00:58.040 --> 1:01:00.320
<v Speaker 1>you see that this video or such and such robbing

1:01:00.400 --> 1:01:03.120
<v Speaker 1>such and such, or this video talking about how somebody

1:01:03.200 --> 1:01:06.280
<v Speaker 1>kills somebody got five million views, and now in that

1:01:06.400 --> 1:01:08.800
<v Speaker 1>same artist that they're talking about just got a million

1:01:08.800 --> 1:01:11.600
<v Speaker 1>dollar record deal. Why you don't think these kids are

1:01:11.600 --> 1:01:14.360
<v Speaker 1>gonna follow suit, Why you don't think that they're gonna say,

1:01:14.360 --> 1:01:16.440
<v Speaker 1>O care, I need to be involved in that, because

1:01:16.440 --> 1:01:19.600
<v Speaker 1>that's what happens in the streets. When you understand street culture,

1:01:19.680 --> 1:01:23.200
<v Speaker 1>you understand that these young kids look up and they idolize.

1:01:23.200 --> 1:01:25.960
<v Speaker 1>What you say is quote unquote lit in popping. So

1:01:26.000 --> 1:01:29.000
<v Speaker 1>when you're saying that people are shooting and robbing and

1:01:29.080 --> 1:01:31.200
<v Speaker 1>killing and doing all those things, are the people that's

1:01:31.280 --> 1:01:34.240
<v Speaker 1>lit These young sixteen and seventeen your kids want to

1:01:34.240 --> 1:01:36.880
<v Speaker 1>be lit, they want a record deal. So that's why

1:01:36.920 --> 1:01:38.720
<v Speaker 1>you get the cloud chase, and that's why you get

1:01:38.720 --> 1:01:41.640
<v Speaker 1>the videos every day as somebody saying they're gonna shoot somebody,

1:01:41.680 --> 1:01:45.040
<v Speaker 1>somebody recording the robbery, somebody recording the shooting, and they're

1:01:45.040 --> 1:01:47.160
<v Speaker 1>putting it on the Instagram. We're saying they're bugging. No,

1:01:47.320 --> 1:01:51.560
<v Speaker 1>they're not bugging. They realized that this is a recipe

1:01:51.840 --> 1:01:55.560
<v Speaker 1>to gain money, to gain cloud, to gain success. So

1:01:55.640 --> 1:01:58.560
<v Speaker 1>I don't understand why people don't understand that there is

1:01:58.600 --> 1:02:01.840
<v Speaker 1>a two pronged problem. Yes, we have to stop the violence,

1:02:02.040 --> 1:02:04.440
<v Speaker 1>but we have to stop the people who promote and

1:02:04.560 --> 1:02:10.640
<v Speaker 1>advocate and celebrate the violence as well. So two things

1:02:10.680 --> 1:02:16.760
<v Speaker 1>that come to mind. First is how much you have evolved?

1:02:16.840 --> 1:02:20.200
<v Speaker 1>Because you talked about violence in your music, uh, you

1:02:20.240 --> 1:02:23.120
<v Speaker 1>know when you were younger, and while you may still

1:02:23.160 --> 1:02:27.280
<v Speaker 1>at this point talk about some of these situations, there

1:02:27.360 --> 1:02:29.760
<v Speaker 1>is an evolution, right, And so I guess we have

1:02:29.840 --> 1:02:32.800
<v Speaker 1>to understand, which I know you do, that some of

1:02:32.840 --> 1:02:36.919
<v Speaker 1>our young people have not evolved, and it's not their

1:02:36.960 --> 1:02:41.200
<v Speaker 1>responsibility as far as I'm concerned. I think the second

1:02:41.200 --> 1:02:44.280
<v Speaker 1>thing that comes to mind is who is the day

1:02:44.320 --> 1:02:49.320
<v Speaker 1>that that's promoting it as the conversation people don't like

1:02:49.560 --> 1:02:53.080
<v Speaker 1>to get into. Of course, you know we talk about

1:02:53.120 --> 1:02:57.880
<v Speaker 1>it often. People don't want to identify they, and you

1:02:57.960 --> 1:03:00.600
<v Speaker 1>know that that's my new thing When people ask me,

1:03:01.120 --> 1:03:05.000
<v Speaker 1>what do I, um, you know, say to young people

1:03:05.120 --> 1:03:08.400
<v Speaker 1>who are organizing or women or you know, what what

1:03:08.440 --> 1:03:10.600
<v Speaker 1>do I say to people who are starting out in

1:03:10.640 --> 1:03:14.560
<v Speaker 1>their careers? As I'm speaking across the country, I'm asked

1:03:14.560 --> 1:03:17.680
<v Speaker 1>that question all the time. Or people will say to me,

1:03:17.920 --> 1:03:21.120
<v Speaker 1>what has been you know, one of your biggest challenges

1:03:21.200 --> 1:03:24.640
<v Speaker 1>in terms of your own growth? And I say that

1:03:24.760 --> 1:03:30.040
<v Speaker 1>I've had to identify Day. I've had to identify Day

1:03:30.080 --> 1:03:33.320
<v Speaker 1>as the oppressor and not just say oh, it's they,

1:03:33.400 --> 1:03:36.680
<v Speaker 1>as in white people, because that is not an accurate

1:03:36.720 --> 1:03:42.480
<v Speaker 1>description of who or what our oppressor looks like. Um.

1:03:42.520 --> 1:03:45.760
<v Speaker 1>You know, I've had to identify Day in my personal

1:03:45.800 --> 1:03:49.280
<v Speaker 1>life in terms of those people who may be impacting

1:03:49.320 --> 1:03:52.720
<v Speaker 1>me and making me feel not so good about myself.

1:03:52.960 --> 1:03:56.720
<v Speaker 1>I've had to to identify Day online. I've had to

1:03:56.800 --> 1:04:00.360
<v Speaker 1>I've been identified Day in terms of my money. I mean,

1:04:00.400 --> 1:04:04.560
<v Speaker 1>there has been so many different days, ways, and situations

1:04:04.600 --> 1:04:08.720
<v Speaker 1>where I've had to get deeper into who is they

1:04:08.920 --> 1:04:14.080
<v Speaker 1>and in this particular situation, I think they has should

1:04:14.080 --> 1:04:17.720
<v Speaker 1>be or can be identified as some members of the

1:04:17.800 --> 1:04:23.320
<v Speaker 1>media and also record labels. And in fact it is

1:04:23.400 --> 1:04:27.040
<v Speaker 1>also a part of a system that I believe has

1:04:27.120 --> 1:04:31.520
<v Speaker 1>been designed to keep our people in the conditions in

1:04:31.600 --> 1:04:34.840
<v Speaker 1>which we fight against every day. Why do I say that,

1:04:35.120 --> 1:04:39.320
<v Speaker 1>Because the more that they can keep us believing that

1:04:39.560 --> 1:04:43.160
<v Speaker 1>the way to success is through hurting and harming your

1:04:43.200 --> 1:04:46.880
<v Speaker 1>brother or sister, then they have a strap, if you will,

1:04:47.360 --> 1:04:51.120
<v Speaker 1>or or a noose on our next because our young

1:04:51.240 --> 1:04:56.880
<v Speaker 1>people can't see themselves outside of violence, outside of drugs,

1:04:56.960 --> 1:05:01.080
<v Speaker 1>drug dealing, drug use, UM. And And what we know

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<v Speaker 1>is that while yes, there's heavy metal rock, while there

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<v Speaker 1>are other uh forms of of you know, I guess negativity.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna say heavy metal rock is negativity. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>just saying sometimes heavy metal rock can have a certain impact.

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<v Speaker 1>So we've heard on people who are listening to it UM.

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<v Speaker 1>But there are other things that definitely happen in white

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<v Speaker 1>communities that young people get access to in their date

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<v Speaker 1>and it can have a negative impact. But the reality

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<v Speaker 1>is that if you pay attention to their shows, you

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<v Speaker 1>pay attention to UM, their their pop culture. They do

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<v Speaker 1>not have an oversaturation of violence and drug abuse and

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<v Speaker 1>everything that you can think of that is harmful to

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<v Speaker 1>their community. There is a balance, and most of the

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<v Speaker 1>time the balance leans on the side of making sure

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<v Speaker 1>that a white kid sees themselves with many options and

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<v Speaker 1>seize themselves in better situations. It is only our communities

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<v Speaker 1>where when you turn the TV on or you turn

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<v Speaker 1>social media on, you can find millions of views on fights,

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<v Speaker 1>on violent situations, um, people using drugs looking like they're

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<v Speaker 1>high all the time, and that's what's being promoted. And

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<v Speaker 1>so I personally think that yes, there is. You absolutely

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<v Speaker 1>are doing the work of addressing people who have major

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<v Speaker 1>platforms that are constantly promoting on this negativity and this

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<v Speaker 1>this this trauma in our communities, and that's important. But

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<v Speaker 1>I think we also have to look at who is

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<v Speaker 1>funding those individuals who are out here using their platforms

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<v Speaker 1>to promote bad things within our communities. Where are they

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<v Speaker 1>getting their resources, who are there advertisers, what platforms are

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<v Speaker 1>they on. So we can also take our movement and

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<v Speaker 1>elevate it to a level where one you and people

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<v Speaker 1>like you are telling folks that directly this is not

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<v Speaker 1>good for you. But that there is also a layer

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<v Speaker 1>of the movement that seeks to attack those people who

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<v Speaker 1>are actually funding and keeping those individuals um you know,

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<v Speaker 1>in in in position to be able to tear our

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<v Speaker 1>communities down. Well, I think I think that definitely needs

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<v Speaker 1>to be the work. And you know, today, for me,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the conversation started with DJ Academics, Who's somebody

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<v Speaker 1>that I've always said was a cancer to this culture

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<v Speaker 1>just the way that he represents And and it's not

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<v Speaker 1>just because DJ bladd is somebody who also advertises negativity

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<v Speaker 1>and things in the culture too, So we're not just

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<v Speaker 1>focused on saying that he's the only person who does it,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm just saying the way that he does it

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<v Speaker 1>is exacerbate. It is way different than anybody like we

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<v Speaker 1>we have people that exploit we like people say Wendy

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<v Speaker 1>Williams to talk about negativity that we have. We've had,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we've had media people who've always um talked

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<v Speaker 1>about the negativity within the excluded it and utilized it

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<v Speaker 1>as their way. We had start buck Wild, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>Star has always done those things. There are media outlets

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<v Speaker 1>who've always done those things. But I think when you

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<v Speaker 1>are someone who's not of the street culture, never been

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<v Speaker 1>in the street, You've never done anything negative. You you

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<v Speaker 1>had a good upbringing, and you utilize your voice, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>your privileged voice, with the platform with five and six

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<v Speaker 1>million people, to encourage people to quote unquote slide on

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<v Speaker 1>somebody because he supposed he shot somebody. He looks too comfortable.

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<v Speaker 1>When these are the words that come up, and or

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<v Speaker 1>he's looking too comfortable, or he's having a good time,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to have you up a slide on him.

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<v Speaker 1>This is a real beef. People lost their lives in

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<v Speaker 1>the street already behind this, and you're utilizing your platform

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<v Speaker 1>to encourage someone to slide now when you don't understand

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<v Speaker 1>that a young boy who is impressionable, that's in Chicago,

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<v Speaker 1>that's sitting around, he ain't got five dollars in his pocket,

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<v Speaker 1>and you are advocating, and you play the video from

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<v Speaker 1>this guy, he's getting these millions of yous. You advocated

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<v Speaker 1>to say, somebody need to slide on him. Somebody sees

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<v Speaker 1>him as a meal ticket, a young boy who might

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<v Speaker 1>not have been violent prior to this conversation. You might

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<v Speaker 1>not have even thought about that. He's just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>find his way out. But understands that were in the

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<v Speaker 1>error right now to where they promoting everything that's violent.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to do it the right way. I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do it this way. And now all I see

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<v Speaker 1>is being promoted is somebody who sliding or somebody who

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<v Speaker 1>shot somebody. So now this is my method to get

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<v Speaker 1>myself out of my reality. It ain't something that I

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<v Speaker 1>thought about before for me watching you with all these

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<v Speaker 1>millions of you as, I actually think that it's cool

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<v Speaker 1>and it's and the thing is that that's what's going on.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm watching so called old g s and gez Co

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<v Speaker 1>signed this dude because they want to utilize his platform

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<v Speaker 1>so that they artists can get promoted. They want him

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<v Speaker 1>to promote their artists and and and and and fuge

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<v Speaker 1>within it. And this is what this is what's happened

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<v Speaker 1>within the coach. It just the new wayf you look

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<v Speaker 1>through out. I said it the other day. If you

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<v Speaker 1>look in Chicago, the only way you getting signed now

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<v Speaker 1>is if you had to be for somebody. This is

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<v Speaker 1>what they signed. They're not signing rappers who have talent

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<v Speaker 1>and this and that your criteria to get signed is

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<v Speaker 1>that you have beef. You put it on the internet.

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<v Speaker 1>People know about it, the song, you talk about it.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna promote that song, turn it into a song

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<v Speaker 1>where you get millions, and next thing you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>got beef and that when you get shout at killed

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<v Speaker 1>or we're gonna say is damn it's messed up. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not messed up. The messed up part is that

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<v Speaker 1>you navigated, you promoted, and you agitated a situation that

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<v Speaker 1>you knew was detrimental. So those are the days all

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<v Speaker 1>the people who contribute to that. We need to go

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<v Speaker 1>after the labels. We need to go after anybody who's

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<v Speaker 1>gonna contribute to the to the disenfranchisement and the destruction

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<v Speaker 1>of our culture. And on that we are done. H

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<v Speaker 1>It was a dope show. Shout out to Maggie Carrey,

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out to Patience Murray. Go get her book, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>please go get her book. She as a survivor, she's

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<v Speaker 1>a leader. And just see her continue to smile and

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<v Speaker 1>just in that grace, you know, after losing her sister

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<v Speaker 1>in law in that situation, there's a lot and and

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<v Speaker 1>being injured, having rods and things echather. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we just got to celebrate her and continue to command

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<v Speaker 1>her and support her. Go get her book and um.

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<v Speaker 1>Once again, we finished another dope episode. I appreciate you

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<v Speaker 1>to our fans, We appreciate you for making us the

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<v Speaker 1>number one podcast in the world. Yes, the number one

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<v Speaker 1>podcast in the world. We number one. Man. You see

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<v Speaker 1>this evolutionary. We are evolving the coach. I'm an evolutionary,

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<v Speaker 1>evolving the coaching man. Shout out to everybody that supports us.

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<v Speaker 1>If you've got a topic for a show, reach out

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<v Speaker 1>to us, let us know, let us know. If you

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<v Speaker 1>hate us, let us know if we love us. Whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>we take your hate, we take the love everything. We

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<v Speaker 1>embrace it. Man. For me, I love that they hate

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<v Speaker 1>turns into love for me. You know what. I turned

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<v Speaker 1>to hate this into people who love me every day.

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<v Speaker 1>So please give it all to me and listen. We're

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<v Speaker 1>not gonna always be right to me, is not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>always be wrong, but we will both always and I

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<v Speaker 1>mean always be authentically slot. That's how we owned it.