WEBVTT - The Story of “Easter Jana” 0:00:01.920 --> 0:00:05.359 Wind Down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heart Radio Podcast. 0:00:07.040 --> 0:00:11.240 Hey guys, hi all look cute as a new style? 0:00:13.080 --> 0:00:14.360 I like this? Is it two shirts? 0:00:14.480 --> 0:00:14.560 No? 0:00:14.760 --> 0:00:17.239 Just one? Oh it's so cute. Thanks, I don't think 0:00:17.280 --> 0:00:18.680 it's so new. You don't think so. 0:00:18.880 --> 0:00:21.040 I'm not like it's like she's got a T shirt 0:00:21.079 --> 0:00:24.240 on the hesitation is that I didn't invent it. It's 0:00:24.520 --> 0:00:28.920 it's been I'm like, I like, I done it, I 0:00:29.000 --> 0:00:29.800 pieced it together. 0:00:29.880 --> 0:00:32.240 But this is just one. I think it's cute. 0:00:32.360 --> 0:00:33.080 It's so cute. 0:00:33.240 --> 0:00:36.560 Jeans too structured. Pant means I have business to do today? 0:00:36.920 --> 0:00:39.960 Do we have anything done? Just a little lunch? Gemini 0:00:40.000 --> 0:00:42.480 season is upon us, so listen. 0:00:42.479 --> 0:00:44.000 I think we just need to get right into it. 0:00:44.600 --> 0:00:49.240 Uh. Kristen has something she wants to talk about and 0:00:49.320 --> 0:00:51.319 she's pulled to me, and it's really pissed me off, 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:54.440 actually for just you know, because I always say, save 0:00:54.440 --> 0:00:56.480 it for the podcast, save it for the podcast, you know, 0:00:56.840 --> 0:01:00.200 And so the other day she was like, I'm saving 0:01:00.240 --> 0:01:04.039 it for the podcast. I was like, oh, doesn't want 0:01:04.080 --> 0:01:07.560 your genuine reactions. I want your like, I want your 0:01:07.640 --> 0:01:10.880 unfiltered And and this is we've talked about this a 0:01:10.880 --> 0:01:13.040 lot on our group chat. People wouldn't know this part, 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:16.920 but we want to share our authentic experiences. But it 0:01:17.000 --> 0:01:19.240 is tricky because we're living a life where maybe some 0:01:19.280 --> 0:01:23.640 of these people also listen to the podcast. So I'm 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:26.000 hesitant because I don't want to throw anyone under the bus. 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:28.080 But it is a story, it is factual. It happened 0:01:28.080 --> 0:01:29.920 to me, and it's the truth, and I think this 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:32.880 is this is the piece where it gets tricky because 0:01:34.000 --> 0:01:37.920 we have I have spoken about things. It has then 0:01:38.000 --> 0:01:43.200 been made public to the people and listen. I chose 0:01:43.480 --> 0:01:46.360 to speak about it sure knowing that it very well 0:01:46.640 --> 0:01:48.520 might go back to that person, and I have to 0:01:48.560 --> 0:01:52.200 be okay with that either a conversation with that person, 0:01:53.480 --> 0:01:55.960 like you too, Catherine, She's like, well, my mom called 0:01:56.000 --> 0:01:56.920 me the other day, you know. 0:01:57.560 --> 0:02:01.080 So it's like we have to be okay with sharing. 0:02:02.120 --> 0:02:05.000 But it's too hard to go thirty thousand feet above 0:02:05.240 --> 0:02:07.400 is so it's like you have to come down and 0:02:07.440 --> 0:02:09.160 then you have to be okay with it this person 0:02:09.240 --> 0:02:11.359 if it gets to the person, because these salutes that 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:14.120 just listen to pick us apart, well, then find the 0:02:14.160 --> 0:02:16.080 person to then send it to the person you know, 0:02:16.720 --> 0:02:19.680 and it's like, okay, yes, I said that. So I 0:02:19.680 --> 0:02:21.520 have to either a own it and be have the 0:02:21.560 --> 0:02:25.840 conversation or be fine with maybe a relationship not like 0:02:26.320 --> 0:02:28.640 with okay, with a relationship falling apart. But I've actually 0:02:28.720 --> 0:02:31.720 had positive conversations from when that's happened. 0:02:32.400 --> 0:02:32.640 Yeah. 0:02:32.680 --> 0:02:35.679 I mean I think we're usually pretty avoid your mom. 0:02:35.800 --> 0:02:35.960 Yeah. 0:02:36.040 --> 0:02:39.000 Yeah, she shaid something again old and I pushed her 0:02:39.040 --> 0:02:40.400 to voicemail. I was like, wait to handle it. 0:02:41.360 --> 0:02:43.400 She said something again the other day that didn't have 0:02:43.520 --> 0:02:45.520 but it made me know that she heard. 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:47.440 Off that and I was like, oh, okay, we're just 0:02:47.520 --> 0:02:50.160 going to keep avoiding. No I did. I avoided, but. 0:02:50.160 --> 0:02:52.520 It's your truth, and so you either going to spark 0:02:52.520 --> 0:02:55.560 a conversation or listen to your mom. So it's not 0:02:55.600 --> 0:02:58.000 like she's going to disown you, right all. 0:02:57.919 --> 0:03:01.520 The other things. I feel like we're usually pretty like, hey, 0:03:01.560 --> 0:03:04.400 this is what happened, this is how I felt. 0:03:04.680 --> 0:03:07.200 This is and I think that that's all fair. 0:03:07.480 --> 0:03:10.160 Whether we're ready to have that conversation like I wasn't, 0:03:10.480 --> 0:03:12.680 or we you know, I still think it's okay to 0:03:12.720 --> 0:03:15.120 talk about it and say that this is how I felt. 0:03:15.240 --> 0:03:17.839 Knowing that there's always another side to a story. There's 0:03:17.880 --> 0:03:20.519 always feelings on the other side, you know, all those things. 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:22.920 I don't think we're doing anything bad, but it is 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:25.200 hard to like even our social thing. 0:03:25.240 --> 0:03:27.840 For today, I was like, ooh, it was. 0:03:27.800 --> 0:03:32.639 A little like a little obvious to that person, probably 0:03:32.720 --> 0:03:34.720 who I was referencing. But I was like, but that's 0:03:34.760 --> 0:03:36.960 okay because I've talked to her about it. She knows 0:03:37.000 --> 0:03:37.600 that's how I. 0:03:37.520 --> 0:03:40.440 Feel, same at this situation. So I think it's okay. 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:42.920 So, but I need to know does Janna not know 0:03:43.080 --> 0:03:45.400 for real or does she know she doesn't know? Okay, 0:03:45.400 --> 0:03:46.960 so this is like a real one. We saved it 0:03:46.960 --> 0:03:47.800 for I even. 0:03:47.640 --> 0:03:51.040 Called her the other day because something happened where Okay, 0:03:51.040 --> 0:03:52.240 so I had my oblasion. 0:03:52.400 --> 0:03:55.120 We're going to get to it. Yeah, I always tell 0:03:55.120 --> 0:03:58.520 this this mine can easily be a little whine about 0:03:58.560 --> 0:04:02.680 it too. Okay, Well it dat it's a good trans No. 0:04:02.840 --> 0:04:05.360 So I had So I had my official So I 0:04:05.360 --> 0:04:07.480 had two test blockers, and then I had my official 0:04:07.480 --> 0:04:10.880 ablasion on Monday, where they put the needle in your 0:04:10.880 --> 0:04:14.160 back and then they burn off the specific nerves they 0:04:14.160 --> 0:04:16.800 think are causing you pain. The funniest piece about this 0:04:17.000 --> 0:04:19.000 was I've now done the two test blockers, which I've 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:21.760 been nervous in them and asked a million questions like 0:04:22.279 --> 0:04:24.000 will I be able to like what happens if you 0:04:24.080 --> 0:04:25.839 hit the wrong nerve? Will I then lose all like 0:04:26.360 --> 0:04:28.400 movement in my legs? And like can I be pairs? 0:04:28.600 --> 0:04:31.359 All valid questions. I was say, very this is not 0:04:31.480 --> 0:04:33.960 you being it's your back you so that's right, and 0:04:33.960 --> 0:04:35.920 that you're close to the spine, like what if it's 0:04:36.000 --> 0:04:38.599 like hits the spinal cord and then them paralyzed, like 0:04:38.640 --> 0:04:40.920 I mean all the things of like run and I'm 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:44.680 a Googler, so a google. So I go to the 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:49.479 appointment and they had said that you like they usually 0:04:49.480 --> 0:04:51.520 give like a light sedation like a x annex because 0:04:51.520 --> 0:04:54.240 it's only it takes like twenty minutes, so there's no 0:04:54.360 --> 0:04:56.800 real point to like go down for like yes, they 0:04:56.839 --> 0:04:58.960 just want you to not move and most people aren't 0:04:58.960 --> 0:05:02.160 as anxious. Sure that can just lay there because you're 0:05:02.160 --> 0:05:03.760 pretty much numby, feel a little bit of the pain. 0:05:03.880 --> 0:05:04.200 Whatever. 0:05:04.320 --> 0:05:07.040 So nurse comes in and she gives me a x ANEX. 0:05:07.360 --> 0:05:09.520 About two minutes later, she comes in with the second 0:05:09.600 --> 0:05:11.880 XANX and she goes, here's a second one, and I go. 0:05:11.880 --> 0:05:14.960 To doctor Todd tell you to didn't tell you to 0:05:15.000 --> 0:05:17.039 give me a second xanex. She goes he did. 0:05:17.800 --> 0:05:20.960 I was like okay, I was like, well can I 0:05:21.000 --> 0:05:22.480 take I was like, I don't like taking things, and 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:23.600 I've already taken one, but. 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:25.799 I only feel the one. So she's like, take THEA. 0:05:26.800 --> 0:05:29.880 So I took two, right, which is a lot for me, 0:05:29.960 --> 0:05:32.479 Like I'm used to taking a half of a half like, 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:36.600 so like, oh yeah, this is good math. This is 0:05:36.680 --> 0:05:40.479 also a lot for any human too. Xanax right, I 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:40.920 don't know. 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:44.400 Yeah, Like most normal people that take XANX take like one. 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:48.440 It's like they usually it's like anywhere from a Like 0:05:48.520 --> 0:05:50.599 I'm I'm used to point two five, Like that is 0:05:50.600 --> 0:05:52.800 what I took. Like if I'm on an airplane and 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:54.560 I'm having me, that is what I have with me 0:05:54.640 --> 0:05:57.839 in my little safety net of a xanax right bottle, 0:05:57.920 --> 0:05:58.600 But I don't take. 0:05:58.640 --> 0:06:00.480 I just keep refilling and I don't years. 0:06:00.560 --> 0:06:03.279 Yeah, like the one that I have expired in February 0:06:03.279 --> 0:06:05.040 of twenty five, like and I just still have them 0:06:05.080 --> 0:06:08.240 a little baggy like so I actually carry it for 0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:10.680 the same reason, just to I haven't taken it in years, 0:06:10.760 --> 0:06:13.560 but I know it's there. Yes, it's a nice little 0:06:14.400 --> 0:06:18.200 it's like my you know, my my water bottle, like 0:06:18.480 --> 0:06:21.560 it's my companion emotional support Zana. Yeah, just to know 0:06:21.600 --> 0:06:23.640 it's there. I'm never going to take it unless I 0:06:23.640 --> 0:06:26.320 really need it. So anyways, last time I took it 0:06:26.320 --> 0:06:29.400 was actually on my wedding, oh, because I couldn't sleep. 0:06:29.640 --> 0:06:33.719 Oh yeah, I had just had to sleep. Like that 0:06:33.880 --> 0:06:38.480 was finally. Anyways, Okay, so I take the Tuesday anexas 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:42.479 it is Lion's birthday and you so I get I 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:45.000 come home. I am like, thank goodness Alan drove because 0:06:45.000 --> 0:06:46.960 obviously I had to have a driver. I am falling 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:50.960 over in the parking lot. Like, procedure goes great, everything 0:06:51.040 --> 0:06:54.040 is awesome, and I'm like doctor Todd, I'm so relaxed, 0:06:54.480 --> 0:06:56.000 like this is good news. 0:06:56.160 --> 0:06:56.360 Right. 0:06:56.960 --> 0:06:59.760 So and then it really hit me once the procedure 0:06:59.760 --> 0:07:02.520 was over, because again it's so short, and so I'm 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:04.640 like falling over in the car, fall asleep, and I 0:07:04.640 --> 0:07:09.440 don't even remember did we talk Kramer? I wish, I said, 0:07:09.560 --> 0:07:12.960 I am one percent repeating this whole story on the podcast. 0:07:13.280 --> 0:07:15.600 And because you were drugged, I and I told you 0:07:15.640 --> 0:07:18.160 that I was going to I still get to because 0:07:18.200 --> 0:07:20.240 I told you it was going to So she calls me, 0:07:20.320 --> 0:07:24.040 she's like, hey, so calm because I was like, hey, 0:07:24.080 --> 0:07:25.520 I'm trying to figure this out. Well, well, she was 0:07:25.520 --> 0:07:27.440 trying to figure out her lion's birthday and I don't 0:07:27.440 --> 0:07:29.680 want to say no. And I didn't tell her about 0:07:29.720 --> 0:07:32.160 the oblasion because I'm like, you know, it's her daughter's 0:07:32.200 --> 0:07:34.280 second birthday, and like, yeah, I'm gonna try to make it. 0:07:34.280 --> 0:07:36.000 If I can't, I don't know how I'm gonna feel sure. 0:07:36.000 --> 0:07:37.560 And this isn't even a big thing. It was just 0:07:37.640 --> 0:07:39.960 cake and singing, and then I was doing it before 0:07:40.000 --> 0:07:42.000 we had to head to Legends baseball game. I was like, 0:07:42.040 --> 0:07:44.520 it's going to be so quick and tiny. 0:07:44.640 --> 0:07:46.640 Do I even do it? Is it worth it? So 0:07:46.760 --> 0:07:50.320 she calls me, don't remember? Oh we were? 0:07:50.400 --> 0:07:53.600 It was Eastern Jana Oha is. 0:07:53.600 --> 0:07:55.000 Our favorite Janna. 0:07:55.800 --> 0:07:57.920 For those of you that don't know, Eastern Jana is 0:07:57.960 --> 0:08:00.440 a character that was invented at Easter when Jenna had 0:08:00.440 --> 0:08:03.040 her boobs done and she came waltzing in a vallium 0:08:03.160 --> 0:08:06.040 to Easter brunch and we were like, jan Hello, She 0:08:06.120 --> 0:08:08.360 put her sunglasses on, she curled up in a tiny 0:08:08.360 --> 0:08:10.240 little ball snug is a bug on a lawn chair 0:08:10.240 --> 0:08:11.880 in the hot sun, and she just. 0:08:12.560 --> 0:08:15.600 Kids, ran around, ran around the pool. She's like, it's 0:08:15.640 --> 0:08:16.600 all good. 0:08:18.200 --> 0:08:21.120 Hunting. I was like, that's what they're doing, honey, good job. 0:08:22.200 --> 0:08:23.040 So she calls me. 0:08:23.000 --> 0:08:26.840 An Eastern Jana Moe and she goes, I mean, and 0:08:26.880 --> 0:08:29.000 I don't know that the Ablasian happens. I'm just like, 0:08:29.080 --> 0:08:31.240 what am I dealing with here? Like I know she's 0:08:31.280 --> 0:08:34.560 not drinking, Like, what is that in mid afternoon at best, 0:08:35.320 --> 0:08:38.320 real slow, real calm? And she said, well, I just 0:08:38.640 --> 0:08:41.880 you know, and I I had the Ablasian. 0:08:42.040 --> 0:08:44.120 I haven't. Can I share the meeting that you had? 0:08:45.000 --> 0:08:47.640 What meeting? A very important point? Yeah? 0:08:47.679 --> 0:08:50.679 So she goes, I have a Netflix meeting today at 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:55.640 four And I said, Janna, what's going on? Oh the Ablasian. 0:08:55.920 --> 0:08:59.120 They gave me two xanax. I just woke up from 0:08:59.120 --> 0:09:02.720 my exanax. And I'm like, are you sure you're awake? 0:09:03.520 --> 0:09:06.960 And she goes, well, you know, the Netflix calls at 0:09:07.000 --> 0:09:11.480 four and I go, yeah, that's in fifteen minutes. Like 0:09:11.520 --> 0:09:13.960 I'm starting to get nervous, and she doesn't. She doesn't caffeine. 0:09:13.960 --> 0:09:15.120 So I'm like, how are we going to get this 0:09:15.200 --> 0:09:16.720 chick out of it? Like I feel like I'm watching 0:09:16.880 --> 0:09:19.920 like a really bad after school special, Like you're going 0:09:20.000 --> 0:09:21.800 to lose the gig. And I couldn't cancel it because 0:09:21.800 --> 0:09:23.559 we had canceled on her because of our flight. 0:09:23.760 --> 0:09:26.240 And I've wondered when you said yes to this in 0:09:26.280 --> 0:09:27.800 the first place. I was like, oh, this thing must 0:09:27.880 --> 0:09:30.280 not be a big deal at all, which obviously like, 0:09:30.400 --> 0:09:32.080 but who knew you were going to have Tuesday? 0:09:32.320 --> 0:09:33.920 Oh no, like so Eastern Jamma. 0:09:34.160 --> 0:09:37.599 So then she goes, yeah, I had an as i 0:09:37.720 --> 0:09:42.160 e bowl, fell asleep eating that, so that's all. 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:41.760 Over the comforter. 0:09:41.840 --> 0:09:44.000 She was over my stuff. 0:09:46.440 --> 0:09:48.160 Well, the funny thing is is I thought you were 0:09:48.200 --> 0:09:50.720 going to come home and go straight straight to sleep. 0:09:50.880 --> 0:09:53.160 I was like, she's napping. I will not bother her, right, 0:09:53.200 --> 0:09:56.240 I did sleep immediately. 0:09:56.040 --> 0:09:56.640 Because she started. 0:09:57.280 --> 0:09:59.199 You started answering emails. 0:10:00.520 --> 0:10:01.959 They were not bad, but I was just like, she 0:10:02.200 --> 0:10:04.839 sleep and you get emailing, and then I saw the 0:10:04.880 --> 0:10:06.480 picture of the assa you bon and then finally you 0:10:06.520 --> 0:10:07.360 were like, okay, I'm going to. 0:10:07.320 --> 0:10:09.920 Say with a bowl on top of me? When then 0:10:10.400 --> 0:10:13.719 the worst over? Yeah? Yeah, man, super fun times. So 0:10:13.760 --> 0:10:15.960 she said, I want to know what happened? Will you 0:10:16.000 --> 0:10:18.120 tell me? And I said, nope, saving it for the podcast. 0:10:18.120 --> 0:10:21.760 Oh BF, that's not fair, but that's okay. And I'm like, 0:10:21.960 --> 0:10:24.320 we what are we doing right now? Twenty wait? 0:10:24.360 --> 0:10:26.280 But did you make it? You made it to lions though, right. 0:10:26.200 --> 0:10:30.240 Well, so here's the thing. So she's like, friend, do 0:10:30.360 --> 0:10:31.920 not worry about it. And the problem is is the 0:10:31.960 --> 0:10:35.600 cake was at six thirty, Roman's bedtime at six thirty. 0:10:35.760 --> 0:10:36.560 I moved it. 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:38.000 It wasn't it was going to be four o'clock in 0:10:38.040 --> 0:10:40.000 and out a herd out because we had a baseball game, 0:10:40.080 --> 0:10:41.840 but I had the Netflix meeting at four too, so 0:10:41.880 --> 0:10:44.079 I will definitely couldn't have done that time. But she's like, 0:10:44.120 --> 0:10:46.720 we changed six thirty, and I'm like, oh shit. I 0:10:46.760 --> 0:10:49.880 was like, Roman goes to bed at six thirty and 0:10:49.920 --> 0:10:52.280 we were having dinner and I said it to Alan. 0:10:52.320 --> 0:10:54.240 I said, hey, so you know, it's Lion's birthday today 0:10:54.200 --> 0:10:55.920 and they're having this cake thing at six thirty and 0:10:55.960 --> 0:10:57.880 it's going to be in and out real fast. He's like, oh, 0:10:57.920 --> 0:11:00.320 he's got a bedtime and I was like, I know now, 0:11:00.480 --> 0:11:03.160 and I was like, yeah, it's it's too much like 0:11:03.320 --> 0:11:05.080 we had said he made a date twenty five minutes 0:11:05.120 --> 0:11:06.720 there and back, you know what I mean. So I 0:11:06.760 --> 0:11:09.839 was like, it's fine, and then I said after dinner, 0:11:09.880 --> 0:11:12.400 I go, no, we're going, Like I was like she always. 0:11:12.559 --> 0:11:13.679 I was like, you showed up. 0:11:13.520 --> 0:11:17.160 To Roman's first birthday with like kids in the car 0:11:17.600 --> 0:11:20.559 panicked as ever, I was like the right thing to do. 0:11:20.720 --> 0:11:23.440 I was like, I will regret not going. And I 0:11:23.559 --> 0:11:26.480 was totally like you don't. Like there's no pressure, I know, 0:11:26.559 --> 0:11:29.200 but it was like in me going like my friends 0:11:29.240 --> 0:11:30.680 would do this for me, and I need to show 0:11:30.720 --> 0:11:33.360 up how they show up for me. Well, Preston was impressed. 0:11:34.360 --> 0:11:39.760 He was like, it's bedtime, and I said, it's best friendship. 0:11:39.800 --> 0:11:41.920 It's this whole nother territory I know. I was like, 0:11:42.000 --> 0:11:44.520 I need to show up because I don't. I haven't 0:11:44.559 --> 0:11:46.040 showed up in the past. Because I'm like, oh nope, 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:47.559 it's bedtime. At six started, I'm like I have to 0:11:47.600 --> 0:11:50.600 start bending where I haven't bended before for people that 0:11:50.640 --> 0:11:52.040 bend all the freaking time. 0:11:52.040 --> 0:11:55.439 For me, Cramer, this is all moments making me emotional. 0:11:55.720 --> 0:11:57.400 And so I texted her because I was like, what's 0:11:57.400 --> 0:11:59.840 your address again? Because I didn't want to zoom up 0:11:59.880 --> 0:12:02.599 or no, no, no, no, it's time for that, but 0:12:02.880 --> 0:12:05.160 I know it, but like, you know, no please so 0:12:05.720 --> 0:12:08.600 uh and then I just said ETA six thirty two, 0:12:09.200 --> 0:12:11.680 six thirty one, actually six thirty one, and then she 0:12:11.720 --> 0:12:15.520 sent me like a little crying emoji because it's Romans 0:12:15.559 --> 0:12:18.240 really Lion's only friend, kind of like she doesn't she 0:12:18.360 --> 0:12:19.160 just plays the big kids. 0:12:19.200 --> 0:12:21.040 But then I hope that's not going to be upset. 0:12:21.160 --> 0:12:24.720 Oh no, I like I saw it and I was like, oh, 0:12:24.760 --> 0:12:27.480 this is funny. 0:12:28.280 --> 0:12:31.840 Do you think too? Yeah, we just did neighbors in Romans. 0:12:31.840 --> 0:12:34.280 It was great. It was tiny but funny. I want 0:12:34.440 --> 0:12:36.079 and I wanted to do something on the side to 0:12:36.120 --> 0:12:37.560 be like, hey, just by this, you know it's really small. 0:12:37.559 --> 0:12:39.000 And I was like, no, I don't know. You're not 0:12:39.000 --> 0:12:40.360 doing that. No, that's what I said to you. I 0:12:40.440 --> 0:12:41.640 was like, do I do it? And I was like nope. 0:12:42.120 --> 0:12:45.880 Also, I have hosted so much. That's a life update. 0:12:46.280 --> 0:12:48.560 I hosted the one the most one could host all 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:51.560 of last week and I did post about it. 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:54.800 And wine Downers were like, oh that you did it. 0:12:55.040 --> 0:12:57.640 I'm like, I did it. 0:13:09.080 --> 0:13:11.080 Well. The funny thing was, is the person that she 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:13.200 wants to talk about, which we'll go into our segrament 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:15.400 wine about it is the girl that was at the 0:13:15.400 --> 0:13:18.199 birthday party? And what funny is I trying to get 0:13:18.240 --> 0:13:21.040 sweaty as I even clopped who this person might be, 0:13:21.080 --> 0:13:22.480 and I said, is it this person? 0:13:22.800 --> 0:13:24.079 Because I felt a little something? 0:13:25.280 --> 0:13:25.520 Did you? 0:13:25.720 --> 0:13:29.679 She said me no, okay, yeah, I said not at 0:13:29.679 --> 0:13:31.640 all and she said yes, and I go, oh, I 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:33.480 can't wait. I was like, why don't you can? I go, 0:13:33.520 --> 0:13:35.040 can you tee me up? And she goes, no, no, 0:13:35.080 --> 0:13:38.680 I can't. I do think this situation probably happens to 0:13:38.880 --> 0:13:41.880 a lot of people, but the most I've heard about 0:13:41.880 --> 0:13:45.679 it is in laws doing this to people grandparents most likely, 0:13:45.720 --> 0:13:48.400 I should say a lot of grandparents do this where 0:13:48.400 --> 0:13:52.320 they kind of like, so I will speed date us 0:13:52.320 --> 0:13:55.880 through it. But Ryan's birthday turning to I'm like, I 0:13:55.920 --> 0:13:57.480 don't want to party. I don't want to make this 0:13:57.520 --> 0:14:00.520 a big deal. I love the slowness of days and 0:14:00.600 --> 0:14:02.839 just it being just our family, so I don't need 0:14:02.920 --> 0:14:03.560 any extra. 0:14:03.679 --> 0:14:06.439 I don't ever feel that I do. 0:14:06.960 --> 0:14:10.600 Love like this baby, specifically because she was one that 0:14:10.679 --> 0:14:12.880 was prayed for for two years and just you know, 0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:15.280 like there's these people that like. She kind of is 0:14:15.320 --> 0:14:17.000 a different kind of kid too, So she kind of 0:14:17.000 --> 0:14:19.440 gravitates towards her people, and there's just certain people she 0:14:19.560 --> 0:14:21.680 loves a lot, which is sweet to me. So I'm thought, 0:14:22.200 --> 0:14:26.880 this is cute. She's gonna have all these little people around. Fine, Okay, 0:14:27.920 --> 0:14:30.280 I want to preface by saying, I understand I'm a 0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:34.600 details person. Details and intention matter excessively to me, from 0:14:34.600 --> 0:14:36.840 the way I style to the way I speak. So 0:14:36.920 --> 0:14:39.480 I know that this I could be considered high maintenance 0:14:39.520 --> 0:14:42.440 in this situation. I did talk to therapist Amy about 0:14:42.440 --> 0:14:45.480 this yesterday. Okay, not about movie and high maintenance. 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:51.120 Never. Okay, where's Easter, Janna? Okay, So. 0:14:52.760 --> 0:14:55.960 There's a carousel, a new handcrafted carousel that has been 0:14:56.920 --> 0:15:00.720 opened up in Franklin. Yes, it's a factory beautiful, Yeah, stunning, 0:15:00.760 --> 0:15:03.520 handcrafted over thirty years. And when I tell you, you can 0:15:03.680 --> 0:15:07.080 the attention to detail on this thing. It is gorgeous, beautiful. 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:09.240 We were going to go check it out this coming weekend. 0:15:09.400 --> 0:15:09.960 You should do it. 0:15:10.040 --> 0:15:14.040 Yeah, I mean like gorgeous. So I told the family, 0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:16.600 my family, Preston and the kids. I said, let's go 0:15:16.680 --> 0:15:19.520 on Lion's birthday. She loves animals. It'll be she's never 0:15:19.560 --> 0:15:22.680 ridden the carousel before. This is going to be like perfect, 0:15:22.720 --> 0:15:24.520 and she'll be in her little tool dress that love 0:15:24.640 --> 0:15:27.320 or on her second birthday and we'll just have the 0:15:27.560 --> 0:15:30.160 you know, we'll just have the Core five and maybe 0:15:30.200 --> 0:15:32.320 Saint Christine like with us, and we'll just go do 0:15:32.400 --> 0:15:34.720 that and we'll do a pretty bakery and just make. 0:15:34.600 --> 0:15:36.040 It sweet and easy. Okay. 0:15:37.040 --> 0:15:40.320 So then fast forward. Another friend of ours has a 0:15:40.360 --> 0:15:42.680 Gemini as well. So she's like, Hey, we're going to 0:15:42.760 --> 0:15:45.120 meet at the factory in Franklin on Sunday and we're 0:15:45.120 --> 0:15:48.160 going to do the carousel and ice cream. And I said, perfect, 0:15:48.160 --> 0:15:50.560 we'll be there, another important family one we will always 0:15:50.560 --> 0:15:54.080 show up for. So we go and on the way there, 0:15:54.120 --> 0:15:55.840 I was like, we're not doing the carousel today, or 0:15:55.840 --> 0:15:57.800 at least lions, not for sure, Like the big kids 0:15:57.840 --> 0:16:00.440 have already done like Disney World whatever, not yourself, but 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:02.080 I really want to save this one. I want to 0:16:02.120 --> 0:16:03.920 be with her her first time. I think it's cute, right, 0:16:03.920 --> 0:16:07.000 I'm just trying to She loves animals, so sweet, little 0:16:07.000 --> 0:16:11.120 memory and special, and we've done the zoo, so we 0:16:11.120 --> 0:16:12.600 could have done the zoo, but she's done that a 0:16:12.600 --> 0:16:13.400 million times. 0:16:13.800 --> 0:16:14.200 Okay. 0:16:14.800 --> 0:16:19.120 So we get to this location and she sees it 0:16:19.160 --> 0:16:20.960 through the windows and she's kind of like, oh, but 0:16:20.960 --> 0:16:22.880 there's so many other things. There's a million kids in 0:16:22.920 --> 0:16:25.760 pretty dresses, and there's milkshakes, and everyone's doing cartwheels in 0:16:25.760 --> 0:16:28.000 the grass in between, and so it's like very easy 0:16:28.000 --> 0:16:28.440 to keep. 0:16:28.280 --> 0:16:30.640 A two year old abbay right. It was like, she 0:16:30.640 --> 0:16:32.440 can even go look at it. I just don't. Just 0:16:32.440 --> 0:16:33.280 not the ride today. 0:16:33.400 --> 0:16:37.080 Okay. So there's another family that comes up that we 0:16:37.160 --> 0:16:39.080 love and do a lot of life with, and they 0:16:39.120 --> 0:16:43.560 are wonderful people and very loving and not malicious. I 0:16:43.600 --> 0:16:45.120 want to make it that, like very clear. These are 0:16:45.120 --> 0:16:49.720 not people that are like shisty. So I say, yeah, 0:16:49.760 --> 0:16:51.480 we're going to come do that tomorrow. I say it 0:16:51.560 --> 0:16:53.720 very clearly to them, We're going to do that tomorrow. 0:16:53.840 --> 0:16:55.880 She's wearing the tool dress. It's going to be precious. 0:16:55.960 --> 0:16:57.480 I'm just for me. 0:16:58.080 --> 0:17:00.680 And it was interesting because even producer wrote to my 0:17:00.760 --> 0:17:02.880 story of lying on the carousel on the birthday and 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:05.080 was like, this makes me want to cry, and I 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:08.119 was like, because it's emotional to watch somebody see something 0:17:08.119 --> 0:17:10.919 for the first time ever. It's just why motherhood is 0:17:10.960 --> 0:17:12.760 so miraculous. 0:17:12.920 --> 0:17:13.119 You know. 0:17:14.440 --> 0:17:18.280 So this is lion Eve and it's somebody else's birthday party. 0:17:18.280 --> 0:17:21.040 I'm like, that's also seems like kind of like discounted 0:17:21.080 --> 0:17:24.320 if I take her, you know. So, I'm like, we're 0:17:24.320 --> 0:17:26.840 all aware. I you know, I hear this other mom 0:17:26.920 --> 0:17:28.560 say to Lion, I know you want to go over there, 0:17:28.560 --> 0:17:30.240 but your mom is saving it tomorrow. It's going to 0:17:30.280 --> 0:17:32.080 be special. And I'm like, yep, it's going to be special. 0:17:32.160 --> 0:17:33.560 It's going to be great. Right, we're in and out. 0:17:33.560 --> 0:17:36.000 This is ice cream and we're up, so I take 0:17:36.080 --> 0:17:38.159 Love and their oldest daughter. They have to go potty, 0:17:38.320 --> 0:17:40.440 so I take them in. Takes about ten minutes. We're 0:17:40.440 --> 0:17:42.360 making our way through this little store. We come back 0:17:42.400 --> 0:17:46.080 out and I see Legend. He's drinking his little milkshake 0:17:46.080 --> 0:17:48.320