1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:01,359 Speaker 1: How was donkey up to day? 2 00:00:03,720 --> 00:00:07,880 Speaker 2: Damn he hogged It's time for Donkey Day. 3 00:00:08,400 --> 00:00:10,639 Speaker 1: I ain't trying to be donkey today no more. They 4 00:00:10,640 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 1: should be embarrassed by what they already did. I'm not 5 00:00:12,840 --> 00:00:13,880 Speaker 1: making these people do these. 6 00:00:13,800 --> 00:00:16,759 Speaker 2: Days called Donkey of the Day, and it really caught 7 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:17,480 Speaker 2: me off guard. 8 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 1: Damn Charlamagne. Who got the Donkey of the day today? 9 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:25,439 Speaker 3: Well, just hilarious donkey today for Monday, June ninth goes 10 00:00:25,480 --> 00:00:29,680 Speaker 3: to Willie ray Norwood Junior, professionally known as ray J. Now, 11 00:00:29,680 --> 00:00:31,960 Speaker 3: if you know anything about the history of Breakfast Clubs, 12 00:00:31,960 --> 00:00:34,120 Speaker 3: then you know, once upon a time, ray J was 13 00:00:34,159 --> 00:00:37,120 Speaker 3: woven into the fabric of this illustrious. 14 00:00:36,440 --> 00:00:39,159 Speaker 1: Hall of Fame radio show. Ray J was our first 15 00:00:39,560 --> 00:00:40,520 Speaker 1: guest ever. 16 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:43,720 Speaker 3: Okay, The first person who ever stepped foot into the 17 00:00:43,720 --> 00:00:46,159 Speaker 3: Breakfast Club studio and sat down with us for a 18 00:00:46,200 --> 00:00:48,920 Speaker 3: conversation was ray J. That is the answer to a 19 00:00:48,920 --> 00:00:52,120 Speaker 3: breakfast Club trivia question if anyone needs it. The first 20 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:56,160 Speaker 3: ever huge viral moment we ever had was when ray 21 00:00:56,240 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 3: J called in and threatened to put the booty goons 22 00:00:58,320 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 3: on fabulous. Okay, these are all facts. Nobody up here 23 00:01:01,480 --> 00:01:04,240 Speaker 3: will ever deny the history We have with Willie ray 24 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 3: Norwick Junr. But Donkey of Today does not discriminate. And 25 00:01:07,080 --> 00:01:09,400 Speaker 3: I saw something this weekend that should be a teachable 26 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 3: moment for us all. 27 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:10,840 Speaker 1: See. 28 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 3: Ray J was on his live stream this weekend and 29 00:01:13,640 --> 00:01:15,240 Speaker 3: he had this to say about Sexy Red. 30 00:01:15,319 --> 00:01:16,679 Speaker 1: Let's listen, I. 31 00:01:16,680 --> 00:01:21,160 Speaker 4: Slept with Sexy Red, playing with me talking about our 32 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 4: party with Sexy Red. I slept with Sexy Red. Ask 33 00:01:25,560 --> 00:01:29,759 Speaker 4: her that's on the Dead Homies now, I slept with her. 34 00:01:32,240 --> 00:01:35,119 Speaker 3: No one man on the Dead Homies though, Yeah, yeah, 35 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:37,520 Speaker 3: no one man should have all that corny. Okay, ray J, 36 00:01:37,640 --> 00:01:40,720 Speaker 3: you are forty four years old getting online bragging about 37 00:01:40,720 --> 00:01:43,480 Speaker 3: people you slept with. You going to superhead Route in 38 00:01:43,520 --> 00:01:46,640 Speaker 3: twenty twenty five. Are you that desperate for relevancy? 39 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: Ray J? You should be way past to do anything 40 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:50,120 Speaker 1: for cloud Era. 41 00:01:50,480 --> 00:01:53,120 Speaker 3: I remember ray J calling me one time and expressing 42 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:56,240 Speaker 3: how he has the desire to be seen as a businessman. 43 00:01:56,320 --> 00:01:58,320 Speaker 3: He said that we should be focusing more on what 44 00:01:58,360 --> 00:02:00,320 Speaker 3: he's doing in the tech world, and I agree. 45 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:03,520 Speaker 1: Okay, ray J has had some success with those scootie bikes. 46 00:02:04,000 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 3: When ray J was with Raycon, they had a valuation 47 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:08,440 Speaker 3: of like eighty five to one hundred million dollars. 48 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:10,960 Speaker 1: That's no small feet, that's big business. Okay. 49 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:12,919 Speaker 3: It's an amazing thing to see a black man be 50 00:02:13,280 --> 00:02:15,040 Speaker 3: a part of something like that. Then he sold his 51 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 3: steak in Raycon and opened up the Tronics Network. He 52 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 3: allegedly put like five million dollars of his own money 53 00:02:21,360 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 3: into the Tronics network. 54 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:25,760 Speaker 1: That too, it's big business. But I don't even hear 55 00:02:25,840 --> 00:02:27,800 Speaker 1: him talk about the Tronics network anymore. Okay. 56 00:02:27,840 --> 00:02:29,959 Speaker 3: My point is ray J has done incredible things in 57 00:02:30,000 --> 00:02:32,959 Speaker 3: the world of business, but his antics like this always 58 00:02:33,080 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 3: overshadow it. 59 00:02:34,080 --> 00:02:36,919 Speaker 1: Okay, Willie ray Now, junior, you will never get your 60 00:02:37,080 --> 00:02:37,280 Speaker 1: just do. 61 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:39,239 Speaker 3: For what you've done in the business world if you 62 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:43,160 Speaker 3: online still moving and talking like we were in our twenties. Now, 63 00:02:43,400 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 3: what did Sexy Red have to say about this? Well, 64 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 3: she took to Instagram to say, coll ball ass, lying 65 00:02:49,120 --> 00:02:51,480 Speaker 3: on your meat is weird? Play in your ass? 66 00:02:51,480 --> 00:02:52,000 Speaker 1: Not with me? 67 00:02:52,480 --> 00:02:57,200 Speaker 3: But what Then she said even to be saying we 68 00:02:57,320 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 3: slept on the plane together, I said hi and pushing 69 00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:03,720 Speaker 3: is you cuckoo? And she reported the screenshot of her 70 00:03:03,800 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 3: sending RAYJ to video saying, so this is what you're 71 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:08,720 Speaker 3: doing playing with people name on the internet. Ray J replied, 72 00:03:09,040 --> 00:03:12,280 Speaker 3: I said, right after we slept on the plane together. 73 00:03:12,440 --> 00:03:13,280 Speaker 1: You know I'm playing. 74 00:03:13,400 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 3: I'm always trolling, and you know I love you. I'll 75 00:03:15,800 --> 00:03:18,280 Speaker 3: make it clear right now on my main page. Sorry 76 00:03:18,280 --> 00:03:20,240 Speaker 3: if you mad at me, I'll make it right now. 77 00:03:20,480 --> 00:03:24,160 Speaker 3: The problem with the apology, though, is the apology is 78 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,239 Speaker 3: never as loud is the offense. 79 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:28,920 Speaker 1: The truth is never as loud is the lie. 80 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 3: The lie that RAYJ slept with sexy Red went around 81 00:03:32,320 --> 00:03:35,320 Speaker 3: the world twice. Why the truth is still putting on 82 00:03:35,360 --> 00:03:38,480 Speaker 3: his shoes. Ray J did do a more formal apology. 83 00:03:38,560 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 1: Let's listen. 84 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 5: I want to apologize to sexy Red because sexy Red 85 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 5: is one of my favorite artists. 86 00:03:45,600 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 1: And sexy Red. 87 00:03:47,240 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 5: And I was on a plane and we were both 88 00:03:50,480 --> 00:03:54,560 Speaker 5: flying somewhere, randomly saw each other. She was sitting by me. 89 00:03:55,360 --> 00:03:58,560 Speaker 5: She had her space, I had my space, She had 90 00:03:58,600 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 5: her own blanket, her own I had my own blame 91 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:04,120 Speaker 5: and my own fellow. And we had a long flight 92 00:04:04,800 --> 00:04:07,400 Speaker 5: and we both retired, you know what I'm saying. So 93 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:09,520 Speaker 5: we just we went to sleep, just like we would 94 00:04:09,560 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 5: sleep with anybody else that was sitting next to us 95 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:15,240 Speaker 5: on the plane. I went out of control and I 96 00:04:15,320 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 5: said that I slept with Sexy Red, and that's just 97 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 5: that's that's insensitive and it's not okay, and it's trolling 98 00:04:22,640 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 5: at the highest level. And I want to say, Sexy Red, 99 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:26,080 Speaker 5: my bad. 100 00:04:28,360 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 1: Here's the teachable moment. June is Men's mental health mother. 101 00:04:31,720 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 3: If you feel the need to get online and be 102 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:37,480 Speaker 3: a chronic and compulsive liar at the age of forty four, okay, 103 00:04:37,560 --> 00:04:40,839 Speaker 3: lives of the manipulative and damaging that could hurt relationships 104 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:44,240 Speaker 3: with people, could hurt careers, even yourself, then you might 105 00:04:44,320 --> 00:04:46,560 Speaker 3: be dealing with an underlying condition that you need to 106 00:04:46,560 --> 00:04:48,719 Speaker 3: sit with a mental health professional about them. 107 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 1: I'm serious, my brothers, we got to do better. 108 00:04:50,920 --> 00:04:54,440 Speaker 3: Okay, Ray j is forty four, Sexy Raiders twenty seven. 109 00:04:54,720 --> 00:04:57,680 Speaker 3: At this point, Ray, you should be teaching the next 110 00:04:57,720 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 3: generation how to move. They should be looking to you 111 00:04:59,839 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 3: to know how to move, but instead you got them 112 00:05:02,440 --> 00:05:05,200 Speaker 3: looking at you like you washed you moving like you 113 00:05:05,279 --> 00:05:07,919 Speaker 3: on the corner with a Starbucks cupping your hand, dancing 114 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:10,040 Speaker 3: to wait a minute, hoping somebody gives you a couple 115 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 3: of dollars. 116 00:05:10,880 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 1: And you can't tell me you just doing this to 117 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:14,000 Speaker 1: build up your chat. 118 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:16,640 Speaker 3: Okay, you can't just tell me that, because in the 119 00:05:16,640 --> 00:05:19,760 Speaker 3: screaming world, I don't even see the screamers moving like this, Okay, 120 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:21,680 Speaker 3: not the ones I watched. The ones I watch got 121 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:24,520 Speaker 3: very high emotional like Q's Kits and not of course, 122 00:05:24,560 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 3: and little Reggie Duke Dennis. I don't see them resorting 123 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:30,279 Speaker 3: the line on their beef whistles saying they slept with 124 00:05:30,320 --> 00:05:33,720 Speaker 3: certain celebrities to garn our attention for their chaps. Ray, Je, 125 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:36,440 Speaker 3: you got a daughter, you got a niece. Would you 126 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:38,680 Speaker 3: want somebody playing with their name like that? Would you 127 00:05:38,680 --> 00:05:40,800 Speaker 3: want somebody playing with your sister's name like that? 128 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:43,800 Speaker 1: Huh? The answer to those questions and no. 129 00:05:44,200 --> 00:05:47,360 Speaker 3: Okay, Ray, I know you want to be down with 130 00:05:47,440 --> 00:05:49,960 Speaker 3: this new screaming world. Okay, you be sitting up in 131 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:52,480 Speaker 3: your room in front of that laptop trying to keep 132 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:55,320 Speaker 3: up with them youngsters. But if I had one wish, Ray, 133 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:58,240 Speaker 3: that wish would be for you to grow up. Okay, 134 00:05:58,279 --> 00:06:00,960 Speaker 3: I'm not saying anything right now. I told you before 135 00:06:01,200 --> 00:06:04,160 Speaker 3: grow up at forty four. There is a level of 136 00:06:04,160 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 3: emotional maturity you're supposed to have. 137 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:07,280 Speaker 1: Okay, you need to sit with. 138 00:06:07,240 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 3: A therapist, are some mental health professional and ask what 139 00:06:10,440 --> 00:06:14,320 Speaker 3: is this attention seeking behavior you constantly display? Is it 140 00:06:14,400 --> 00:06:17,120 Speaker 3: learned from childhood? You didn't grow up in a toxic environment? 141 00:06:17,160 --> 00:06:18,560 Speaker 3: As far as I know, what is it? 142 00:06:18,880 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: Okay? Look, I'm no mental health expert. I've never claimed 143 00:06:21,680 --> 00:06:21,839 Speaker 1: to be. 144 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 3: I'm just a man who's had some experiences and I'm 145 00:06:24,560 --> 00:06:27,680 Speaker 3: a man who had to confront my own emotional immaturity. 146 00:06:27,960 --> 00:06:29,440 Speaker 3: And it comes to a point in our lives when 147 00:06:29,480 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 3: we have to look in the mirror and stop avoiding 148 00:06:31,520 --> 00:06:35,040 Speaker 3: accountability our uncomfortable truths about ourselves. 149 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,800 Speaker 1: And the truth is if a man. 150 00:06:38,240 --> 00:06:41,480 Speaker 3: Is forty four years old still lying for attention, it 151 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:44,960 Speaker 3: might not always be a clinical diagnosis, but it's almost 152 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:49,720 Speaker 3: always a sign that he hasn't healed something was his 153 00:06:49,920 --> 00:06:54,800 Speaker 3: fear and security or trauma, something deeper is driving the behavior. 154 00:06:55,040 --> 00:06:59,400 Speaker 3: And Willie ray Norwood Jr. I sincerely hope you heal. 155 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:02,320 Speaker 3: Please let me get ray j the biggest he hug. 156 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:06,880 Speaker 1: He ha, he ha. Stupid mother? Are you dumb? 157 00:07:07,279 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 2: No? 158 00:07:07,600 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 1: Just a liars? Is a man ever lied on your 159 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:10,440 Speaker 1: poom poom? 160 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:10,600 Speaker 3: Oh? 161 00:07:10,640 --> 00:07:12,160 Speaker 1: Absolutely he said he hit when he didn't. 162 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:14,920 Speaker 2: Yes, absolutely, And I don't know why the gentleman did that, 163 00:07:14,960 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 2: but he did that. Recently too, yeah, oh recently, absolutely 164 00:07:18,920 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 2: damn And like a couple months ago, what a clown. Wow, 165 00:07:22,120 --> 00:07:24,080 Speaker 2: somebody that I wouldn't even think would be a clown. 166 00:07:24,160 --> 00:07:26,720 Speaker 2: Somebody that, oh y'all know, and we talk about this 167 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:28,000 Speaker 2: person don't frequently. 168 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 1: Please don't push, don't don't do it. Don't push. 169 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 6: In the world of entertainment, no, don't push the please please, musician, 170 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:34,400 Speaker 6: just don't stop. 171 00:07:34,560 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 1: No, not a comedian, not a musician. 172 00:07:36,760 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 6: Lord, Please don't let just say no names, a spiritual 173 00:07:40,200 --> 00:07:42,840 Speaker 6: a pastor. Lord, Please don't let you just say no names. 174 00:07:43,120 --> 00:07:44,840 Speaker 1: We'll get back eight hundred. 175 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 2: One. 176 00:07:47,280 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 6: As somebody lied on you before, lied on your poom poom, 177 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:53,760 Speaker 6: lied on your meat. Let's discuss eight hundred five eight 178 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:56,320 Speaker 6: five one oh five to one. We'll do it when 179 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:58,960 Speaker 6: we come back. Don't play with just please this morning. Please, 180 00:07:58,960 --> 00:08:00,920 Speaker 6: I'm begging you. I'm begging you. All right, it's the 181 00:08:00,920 --> 00:08:01,440 Speaker 6: Breakfast Club. 182 00:08:01,480 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 1: Good morning. 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