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Speaker 1: All right, we are back. It usually is give them

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Speaker 1: Laala with Randall. But today, after a popular popular demand

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Speaker 1: and request an obsessive text to me, you have got it.

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Speaker 1: Today is the Dad Podcast. We have switched it up.

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Speaker 1: We have bow back.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, gold clap, golf clap.

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Speaker 1: And and Jack's who usually is in our Dad Podcast

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Speaker 1: is out of town and we have replaced Jacks today

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Speaker 1: with the incredible he Man Conan, the barbarian.

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Speaker 3: Stud of Studs Brock.

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Speaker 1: All right, so you asked for it, it's back. We

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Speaker 1: said we're going to try to do this a little

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Speaker 1: more often.

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Speaker 4: Bo.

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Speaker 3: You know, we we all got a little busy with

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Speaker 3: having kids.

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Speaker 2: You know, changing diapers, it's it's, it's a thing.

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Speaker 3: So we have a we have a full hour today

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Speaker 3: for you guys.

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Speaker 1: Laala is in New York doing Watch what Happens and

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Speaker 1: we are here to talk about children and fatherhood. Yes,

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Speaker 1: all right, so my first, my first question, and then

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Speaker 1: you guys, you know, I think we should just do

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Speaker 1: what we do. What what for you guys, because you

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Speaker 1: guys are first time fathers, What for you is the

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Speaker 1: like the coolest thing now that your baby is nine

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Speaker 1: months abo and your your baby's five months. What's the

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Speaker 1: thing like that that was madule for you. That's changing,

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Speaker 1: that's evolving.

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Speaker 2: Her, her walking, her getting like now what she's she's

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Speaker 2: she's you know. I think I posted on my Instagram

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Speaker 2: when she first stood up. We were in Boston. I

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Speaker 2: think this was like a month ago, maybe month and

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Speaker 2: a half ago, but she first just stood up. So

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Speaker 2: that was like losing my ship.

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Speaker 5: Yep.

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Speaker 2: Now she's crawling upstairs, she's crawling everywhere. I have like

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Speaker 2: little I made like little baby Ninja, like like little

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Speaker 2: obstical questions of the big water jugs. Yeah, so I

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Speaker 2: put them all. I have like five of them. I

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Speaker 2: put them all around. I space them out so she'll

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Speaker 2: crawl up it and then walk to the next one.

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Speaker 2: Walk to the next one, walk to the next one.

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Speaker 2: Wow to the couch. Wait a second, So she's not

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Speaker 2: she can't stand up and walk by herself, but she

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Speaker 2: can walk holding on stuff.

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Speaker 3: Right. So Okay, So that's that's huge. That's been that's huge.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. So it's like been my whole like the last

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Speaker 2: like three weeks. That's just been like, Oh, I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: put an optical course here, and then I'm gonna put

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Speaker 2: like a box well, she crawled under the box, pop

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Speaker 5: Wow boxes kids best toys, right, I can't wait to

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Speaker 5: do some. We've we saw an app. It's like it's

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Speaker 5: development phases where you can have the box and you

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Speaker 5: can go and put some it woolen string through so

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Speaker 5: you can go ahead and give them like lasers when

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Speaker 5: they walk through and call through. I demoed this app

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Speaker 5: and I can't wait for that phase. We're not there yet.

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Speaker 2: What's the app called.

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Speaker 5: I'll pull it up on my phone real quick. We're

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Speaker 5: not there yet with some. She's definitely yeah, just lerting

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Speaker 5: her voice. Last night we actually found out that she

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Speaker 5: had a vocal call and she was just sitting there

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Speaker 5: with her mouth wide open. Gone. Ah, it was the best.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: Like her thought process was, it's like good.

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Speaker 5: That's funny. Yeah, look, I'm all for it. I think

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Speaker 5: I think watching can't wait for to stop walking. But

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Speaker 5: kids have just imaginations, right, and they're completely blank. So

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Speaker 5: they're just trying to learn how to do anything. I

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Speaker 5: want to put my hand up and they figure that out,

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Speaker 5: motors skills and all that. It's so exciting every step

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Speaker 5: of the way. But congratulate watching your little walk around you.

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Speaker 2: Know, because there's there's someone we know that I think

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Speaker 2: I found that out maybe like three months ago, and

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Speaker 3: Like, ten months, ten months, that's aggressive, And I was.

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Speaker 2: Like, we have to we have to tie that.

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Speaker 3: We have to beat that. You get your kid to walk.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So that's what I'm doing. She's nine and already

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh my gosh, can we do this because

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Speaker 2: I'm literally I look at other babies that are older

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Speaker 3: Get Oh yeah, because you want to win.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I want to win, or at least tie.

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Speaker 3: Well, I want to win. Well my kid, my.

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Speaker 1: Kid's going to be doing triathlons at seven months. I'm

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Speaker 5: It's teaching how to do the triathlons. You in, no,

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Speaker 5: do I look like a guy that.

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Speaker 3: I could barely run down the block?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 2: I remember you said that when the what is it?

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Speaker 2: The baby revealed? I was like, so what do you

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Speaker 2: want to boy or girl? And You're like, I want

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Speaker 2: a girl? You think I want to run aroun playing

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Speaker 2: fucking soccer In like three years out, He's like, girls

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Speaker 2: are chill. I'm like, okay, that's smart. But also going

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Speaker 2: actually sucks because now have more stress. It's like because

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Speaker 2: now she's crawling all over the place, and it's like,

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Speaker 2: I need I'm gonna be that parent with a leash. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: I'm totally okay to be that parent. Oh you're gonna

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Speaker 2: do that. I'm gonna be I'm gonna care. Somebody get

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Speaker 2: gonna clip it to my belt. Squeak sweet sweet. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 2: there's those two squeaky sea. I don't think I really

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Speaker 2: am going to be the leash because I would always

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Speaker 3: But do you think Statsy would buy the leash thing?

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Speaker 2: No, unless it was chic.

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Speaker 5: What it was the leash with like the cold on

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Speaker 5: the ex spade. That one's a little bit better. You

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna have to do that if we go to

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Speaker 3: Just disney Lands a different game. Disneylands a different game.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, it's it's just the stress is already there

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Speaker 2: and then I had to go buy all those things

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Speaker 2: the cabinet you know, locks do you guys?

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Speaker 3: Guys? Fine, this is with Lala, at least Lala.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know if it's just hormones or it's

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Speaker 1: Lalla's you know, just very emotional person. But every time

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Speaker 1: she has like a monumental moment, Laala like loses.

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Speaker 3: She's like, she's.

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Speaker 1: Growing up so quick, and I'm like, babe, this is

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Speaker 1: the exciting shit. She's like, I know, and are they

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Speaker 5: Look, Shana is just overwhelmed with anything that my child does.

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Speaker 5: Anything she obviously excited, full sounds like, it's a great support.

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Speaker 5: I'm like, oh, it's okay, cool, that stops.

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Speaker 2: Yeah I think I mean we are too impressed. Maybe

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Speaker 2: yeah exactly, Yeah, no, no, the same thing that stops.

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Speaker 2: It's like whatever she does, it's like, you know, when

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Speaker 2: something new, we're like, oh my god, get out the camera,

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Speaker 2: get that out the camera. But then now Harford knows

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Speaker 2: what the camera is. So I don't know how you guys,

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Speaker 2: are when it's like she's doing something cuan on some

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Speaker 5: She stands at that.

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Speaker 3: Wow.

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Speaker 2: She loves FaceTime. She loves looking at herself. Wow, I

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Speaker 3: Ocean Ocean likes. She loves the camera. She doesn't let go.

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Speaker 3: Like it's morning at FaceTime.

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Speaker 1: Laala in New York and had the camera, you know,

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Speaker 1: in front of her and she she's trying to hold

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Speaker 1: the phone and she's at that point but I don't

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Speaker 1: know like how detailed the awareness, but she can see

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Speaker 1: her mom and you could see she was smiling.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 2: Those are Those are great moments that I remember that

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Speaker 1: Time have you guys had have you guys had any

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Speaker 1: you know, like near miss I just I.

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Speaker 3: Don't mean like tragic, just like near like, oh my god.

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Speaker 1: She she rolled off the couch, you know, I mean

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Speaker 3: Off the couch a lot. That's why the way I am.

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Speaker 1: But I'm saying, like, did anything like that happen?

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Speaker 3: Did she you know, take it fall? Or is just

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Speaker 2: Or I mean, you know, there's some nothing crazy, but

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Speaker 2: every time she does fall and like bumper, and especially

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Speaker 2: now that she's up, yeay, yay, you bumped your head.

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Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's so good, just.

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Speaker 2: And then you wait and then you wait for and

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Speaker 2: then she giggles and you're like, okay, good, I do that.

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Speaker 1: I do that like somebody's like I was changing the

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Speaker 1: the diaper because clearly Lalla posted.

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Speaker 3: We saw and we were.

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Speaker 2: Like, oh, Dad wants to do something wrong.

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Speaker 1: If you guys were look at.

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Speaker 3: I'm not gonna comment on that.

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Speaker 1: By the way, no, but I literally sebody call me

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Speaker 1: you know, not to change. Thenper I go, bro, I'm old, okay,

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Speaker 3: And then I put the ship on. I was like

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Speaker 1: She goes, it's on backwards, camera comes out the fucking

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Speaker 1: video in the picture, and I go to work or whatever,

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Speaker 1: and then people start calling me like you can't put

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Speaker 1: a diaper on?

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Speaker 3: Right, I'm like, this fucked up?

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Speaker 5: She got so you know what I did.

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Speaker 3: True story. I went to the nanny, of course, but

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Speaker 1: She was out, and I was like, I was like, Liz,

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Speaker 1: hook hook me up. Let's have a little sit down.

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Speaker 1: She's like, what do you mean. I go just these

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Speaker 1: diapers are a little tricky for me. They look the

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Speaker 1: front and the bad the same. She goes, I got you.

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Speaker 1: And then we practiced for like twenty minutes. Did you

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Speaker 1: practice on ocean or like a fake baby doll?

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Speaker 3: No, on ocean? On ocean? How to take the ocean?

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Speaker 5: How to take the gun?

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Speaker 3: She's just strap hole tight, tight tight.

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Speaker 2: And I was like, all right.

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Speaker 3: Then I came on, I'm gonna change the type. I

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Speaker 3: got this bumble shit good job. Like, oh, you're not

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Speaker 3: posting tonight.

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Speaker 5: He's not posting. I post that success.

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Speaker 2: Do you know what a milk cart is? A milk

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Speaker 2: He was acting like they you know, he like he's like, yeah, my,

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Speaker 5: Yeah no, that's uh. I love my mom.

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Speaker 3: Say hello, Jack's how you doing? Hey, buddy, you got

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Speaker 5: Are you jealous?

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Speaker 1: We got Brock here and myself and Bow we were

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Speaker 7: First of all, it's not a milk carton. It's an

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Speaker 4: It was an egg crate.

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Speaker 7: My parents were borderline hippies. Okay, okay is the hippie generation.

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Speaker 7: No, it was like it was like I was like

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Speaker 5: Well raised, Yes, you were. When we go on holidays,

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Speaker 7: They didn't have a ton of money, but they like

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Speaker 4: We're camping like they do.

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Speaker 7: Now, there's no such thing as packing place in nineteen

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Speaker 7: I'm sorry. But as you go camping, we went to

442
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Speaker 7: ten camping. My parents were going to sleep in. My

443
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Speaker 7: parents are going to sleep in at ten You think

444
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Speaker 7: I'm going to sleep in anything better than that?

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Speaker 2: What exactly is ten camp tent camping a normal camping?

446
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Speaker 7: No, because because like some people camping campers some people

447
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Speaker 7: some people camp under the stars.

448
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Speaker 4: Well, we went in uh intense.

449
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Speaker 5: He's bringing up points like that kind when we sleep,

450
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Speaker 5: we sleep and sleep.

451
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Speaker 2: Did did did they have like an extra small little

452
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Speaker 2: tent forward the milk crate or was it like did

453
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Speaker 2: they put you in the big one with the family.

454
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Speaker 2: We're just trying to get.

455
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Speaker 3: A visual where did you? Where were the milk crates?

456
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Speaker 4: Random has a picture of it. Let it shows show you.

457
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Speaker 5: He does.

458
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Speaker 4: He's gotta pay. It's a fucking box.

459
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Speaker 5: It's just a corboard box.

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Speaker 2: Hey do you have do you have a main popping

461
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Speaker 2: one of your forehead right now?

462
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Speaker 5: Jack trying to explain what the boxes?

463
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Speaker 2: Can we can we get a photo of a box

464
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Speaker 2: and then frame it and then just have it here

465
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Speaker 2: in the studio.

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Speaker 4: Just look up eggbox, says eggs on the side.

467
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Speaker 3: Says eggs. You have to set. You have to set

468
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Speaker 3: us a picture of you in.

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Speaker 1: The top drawing Jacksie the egg box and we're gonna

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Speaker 1: post it on her.

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Speaker 4: Sorry, all your parents were ballers. When you're a kid.

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Speaker 2: No, we didn't do the nature thing. So nos in Miami. Yeah,

473
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Speaker 2: I was in Florida. We just went to the beach.

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Speaker 4: Arents like two Nichols are running together, what do you

475
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Speaker 4: want them to do?

476
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Speaker 3: But didn't worry you were raised in Michigan or you

477
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Speaker 3: were raised in Florida.

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Speaker 7: No, I was never. I don't know why people say

479
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Speaker 7: that I was never raised in Florida. My parents moved

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Speaker 7: to Florida when my sister and I got out of

481
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Speaker 7: high school, so we never would.

482
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Speaker 1: People just assume my mother's from the Chigan too, And

483
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Speaker 1: I'm willing to bet that she wasn't raised in an acrol.

484
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Speaker 2: Remember we did call his sister and she did verify

485
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Speaker 2: she did. Remember, Well, we called Jenny.

486
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Speaker 3: We need a photo of I really want to see here.

487
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Speaker 7: There was some other interesting things that your mother did

488
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Speaker 7: with you as a child.

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Speaker 4: I can just imagine.

490
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Speaker 1: Wow, this podcast South real quick, my god.

491
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Speaker 2: Jackson on the Boxing Gloves, I'm.

492
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Speaker 3: You know, Jack says a funk around.

493
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Speaker 5: He goes for t Kow.

494
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Speaker 2: He just goes to write for the Dicks.

495
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Speaker 7: To say, I'm like, listen, I'm not the old My

496
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Speaker 7: parents weren't crazy.

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Speaker 4: It was just the norm for camping.

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Speaker 1: Britney's from the south, from Kentucky. So Brittany, Well, ask

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Speaker 1: Brittany what what what? What boxes she slept in?

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Speaker 4: She doesn't remember, she doesn't remember.

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Speaker 1: I'm willing to bet that Brittany did not sleep in

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Speaker 1: a box ever. And she went camping probably one hundred

503
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Speaker 1: times more.

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Speaker 3: Than you did.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and she lived on a farm, and she lives

506
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Speaker 2: on a farm and living on a farm, so yeah,

507
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Speaker 2: she probably is like, no, I slept on the crip.

508
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Speaker 3: I said, all right, well shot born.

509
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Speaker 5: Oh here we go with the year age yourself.

510
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Speaker 3: That's why she was born on the spaceship my back.

511
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Speaker 2: Yeah, about.

512
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Speaker 4: Was born, remember.

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Speaker 2: Jeff, Remember Jack's has to walk to school on the

514
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Speaker 2: snow and cars before the cars.

515
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Speaker 3: Were so he wrote it. He wrote a dinosaur, like

516
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Speaker 3: I did.

517
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Speaker 5: Someone on that principal the.

518
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Speaker 8: Strange down here. Maybe maybe that's right, maybe we're like

519
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Speaker 8: it's a little yeah. I always thought that too, And

520
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Speaker 8: then when I went down there, I was like, someone

521
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Speaker 8: lies to me.

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Speaker 3: All right, Jack Jack's were so grateful. We love you, Brittany,

523
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Speaker 3: we love you, thanks.

524
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Speaker 5: For being on. Take care after that.

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Speaker 3: We're gonna take a quick I love you guys, we're

526
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Speaker 3: gonna we're gonna take it.

527
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Speaker 1: All right, We're gonna take quick break. We're gonna take

528
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Speaker 1: and come right back and we are back with Give

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Speaker 1: them bo Brock with Randall, give them bow and Brock

530
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Speaker 1: with Randall. That's the name of this podcast, Give them

531
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Speaker 1: bow and Brock with Brandon. I'm always I'm always third billing.

532
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Speaker 1: Oh with Jackson a great. I mean, we love Jack's

533
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Speaker 1: but boy, he just gives it to it. He just

534
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Speaker 1: feeds it to us.

535
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Speaker 3: I mean he's just teas it up. All right.

536
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Speaker 2: Well, I was gonna ask about do you have like

537
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Speaker 2: a playroom, play area? I created like this fun because

538
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Speaker 2: you know, Stas is very like we need to keep

539
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Speaker 2: everything chic. Wen we got this house and then wasn't

540
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Speaker 2: you know this house is not very baby asked. We

541
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Speaker 2: didn't know we're gonna have a baby.

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Speaker 3: So I was like, okay, okay, it's right because people

543
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Speaker 3: don't know. I've been in your house.

544
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Speaker 1: It's beautiful to in the Hollywood Hills, except it's like

545
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Speaker 1: three levels, three levels with tons of stairs, tons of.

546
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Speaker 2: Stairs, three levels, and it's just like and it's everything

547
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Speaker 2: just looks very nice. So like, where are we going

548
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Speaker 2: to have like all these plastic things and colorful things.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like you're like when I see your house, I'm

550
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Speaker 1: like architecture digest like very very Hollywood like veryish, very.

551
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Speaker 3: So so how did you so for me?

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Speaker 1: You know, we in her nursery, Lalla set up like

553
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Speaker 1: a bunch of like you know, play stuff and all

554
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Speaker 1: types of stuff, and then in our bedroom we also

555
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Speaker 1: have like stuff. So I kind of that's kind of

556
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Speaker 1: where we're at right now because she's not moving around

557
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Speaker 1: so aggressively yet I think we're getting pretty close.

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Speaker 2: Well, see, we had that we still I mean obviously

559
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Speaker 2: she has the nursery and we have all the fun

560
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Speaker 2: stuff in there. But now that she's moving around, you

561
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Speaker 2: have go to a different section. So it's like we

562
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Speaker 2: want we want to hang out upstairs. I have to

563
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Speaker 2: have something. So behind the couch, I just pushed Like

564
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Speaker 2: we have a huge living room, so I pushed the

565
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Speaker 2: couchs up closer to the TV, and I have a

566
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Speaker 2: good about eight by six feet in the back.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's smart.

568
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Speaker 2: I went on and designed like a floor plan, like

569
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Speaker 2: a floor mat. There's like soft tiles.

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Speaker 3: It's like, oh yeah, I like the soft house. Yeah,

571
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Speaker 3: we have those upstairs in the nursery that the little cushion.

572
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Speaker 2: Cushion, and then I got just I had to buy two.

573
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Speaker 2: But they're like the little plastic plate pen fences I'm

574
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Speaker 2: talking about, just like a gate. So then I just

575
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Speaker 2: right behind there and it's just below the couch, so

576
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Speaker 2: if you walk in, you can't really see it. Oh

577
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Speaker 2: you And then so it's like it's almost like an

578
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Speaker 2: invisible plate pair until you walk up towards the best

579
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Speaker 2: and then you see it. And then you see it.

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Speaker 3: So when you guys are chilling watching TV, she's got

581
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Speaker 3: her own like fun area.

582
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and then usually to sit back there because there's

583
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Speaker 2: a little bench so we can have the television on,

584
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Speaker 2: still watch and then play with her.

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Speaker 1: Well, I just want to say, and then I want

586
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Speaker 1: to hear you, but I just got to say this.

587
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Speaker 1: So I'm still in a three and a half year renovation,

588
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Speaker 1: as you know, and.

589
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Speaker 2: It's like renovation, got a pickleball cort done first?

590
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Speaker 3: I push those.

591
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Speaker 4: I need this.

592
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Speaker 1: I push those permits hard on the no. But we're

593
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Speaker 1: we're like we're like like days away from getting our

594
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Speaker 1: final permits, which is taking twelve months. I'm a family

595
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Speaker 1: room and I obviously when that's done, we'll we'll have

596
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Speaker 1: a whole area like that, which I think is toys

597
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:08,480
Speaker 1: and yeah, and that's that that that's inspiring because now

598
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Speaker 1: I'm thinking, okay, when we put the couches, like, well,

599
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Speaker 1: that's a smart thing to do, because.

600
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Speaker 2: They'll start to get bored. Like if they're just in there,

601
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Speaker 2: if they're just in a candle yea yeah, I mean

602
00:24:17,520 --> 00:24:19,320
Speaker 2: exact thing that, they'll just get board. It's like they

603
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Speaker 2: can run around and play with the same toys and

604
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Speaker 2: then all of a sudden it's like, wow, is that

605
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Speaker 2: a plastic bottle. I'm like, you want to sit there

606
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Speaker 2: and play with the plastic bottle for five hours? Not

607
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Speaker 2: the thousands of dollars of freaking you know, toys and

608
00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:33,760
Speaker 2: stupid shaky things, but Disneyland I built. You want the

609
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Speaker 2: arrowhead bottle water.

610
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Speaker 5: Listen to the crunch right, yes, yes, yes?

611
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Speaker 3: And what about you? What's your setup?

612
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Speaker 5: With the setup was? I mean, we had like some

613
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Speaker 5: soft blankets and all that, but now she was kind

614
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Speaker 5: of definitely moving, She's definitely on the floor, and so

615
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Speaker 5: I wanted to give him more firm things. So we

616
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Speaker 5: ordered the tiles and there's actually some really good options

617
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Speaker 5: online where you can go ahead and get really nastys

618
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Speaker 5: on on ones. We didn't go that route. We just

619
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Speaker 5: got the cheap colored ones for now. But I called

620
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Speaker 5: it a candle. Sorry, I call it a canne. And

621
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Speaker 5: she had told me off for that because it's a

622
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Speaker 5: plate pan. Yeah, eas not tell people you'll put in

623
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Speaker 5: your child into a candle. In trouble, you do, you

624
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Speaker 5: have to go on vacation. Just dropped her in the kettle.

625
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Speaker 3: I dropped her off, dropped her off at the kettle.

626
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Speaker 5: But yeah, so I'm looking forward to that. She's still

627
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Speaker 5: like walking around. She's got all the nice expensive toys,

628
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:30,800
Speaker 5: and then there's also the cheap stuff, the cardboard and

629
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Speaker 5: the anything in the mouth really wow.

630
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Speaker 2: And he puts the the like a ziploc bag and

631
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Speaker 2: then dried pasta shells in there, and it's like this

632
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Speaker 2: perfect little that she can eat and chew on and

633
00:25:40,920 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 2: shake around and.

634
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Speaker 3: Throw and wow.

635
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Speaker 2: I'm like really, I'm like, you don't want the shakers

636
00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:46,960
Speaker 2: lived and it lights up and it plays and it

637
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Speaker 2: talks to you. You don't want Elmo, you don't want

638
00:25:49,160 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 2: Peekapoo Elmo. You just want you just want the cactus.

639
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,600
Speaker 2: Have you seen my Instagram stories and I follow you

640
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:58,959
Speaker 2: the freaking cactus. It scared the ship out of her.

641
00:25:59,000 --> 00:26:01,480
Speaker 2: He press a button, Yeah, it goes look at my

642
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:05,120
Speaker 2: mom mo. It has like a hundred songs of these

643
00:26:05,160 --> 00:26:08,000
Speaker 2: weird I can't tell it's it's not Spanish, it's not Portuguese,

644
00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:11,159
Speaker 2: not Italian. I think it's like Japanese or Chinese. But

645
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:14,120
Speaker 2: they they're making the voices sound like they're from others.

646
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:16,159
Speaker 2: I have no idea. And then also you press a

647
00:26:16,200 --> 00:26:19,399
Speaker 2: button and when she goes it will it will do

648
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:23,359
Speaker 2: it again. It's literally I've seen that it does it,

649
00:26:23,400 --> 00:26:26,119
Speaker 2: but it also like it imitates her, and so she

650
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,880
Speaker 2: says the best it's the best thing. I get that Amazon.

651
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:32,520
Speaker 2: But there's like literally fifty different versions. You have to

652
00:26:32,560 --> 00:26:34,359
Speaker 2: find the one with all the music and that and

653
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,880
Speaker 2: it back. Yeah, I mean it's all the same things,

654
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:39,160
Speaker 2: but it's just it's just weird music. You're like, where

655
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:40,000
Speaker 2: is it from?

656
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Speaker 3: This sounds great? Loves it.

657
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Speaker 2: She sound loves it. It took her like three because

658
00:26:43,600 --> 00:26:45,560
Speaker 2: the first three weeks he hated it. But you got

659
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Speaker 2: two of them, one in the upstairs platean and one

660
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Speaker 2: of the nurseres.

661
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Speaker 3: So it's all you're doubling.

662
00:26:48,720 --> 00:26:50,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you doubling that she loves that thing so much.

663
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:53,560
Speaker 5: It's just like wow, So she can dance in front

664
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:54,560
Speaker 5: of it and then you know, the.

665
00:26:54,600 --> 00:26:58,719
Speaker 2: Thing just moves around and it's just like I mean,

666
00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:00,399
Speaker 2: it's and I have all like at least three So.

667
00:27:00,520 --> 00:27:02,639
Speaker 3: You have to you have to post a video this

668
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:04,679
Speaker 3: week because I want to see how when.

669
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:07,320
Speaker 2: We post about this, I'll put it on yeah, yeah, yeah.

670
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:10,479
Speaker 5: We'll post our crib set up.

671
00:27:10,680 --> 00:27:11,440
Speaker 3: Yeah exactly.

672
00:27:11,680 --> 00:27:14,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll show you mine like a little walkthrough.

673
00:27:14,880 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 3: I'll open like lifestyles exactly.

674
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 1: You brought up something on the break that you had

675
00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:27,000
Speaker 1: to deal with this weekend, like going to football and

676
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,879
Speaker 1: stuff and how you face your partner, whether it's a

677
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:33,120
Speaker 1: real support of go and joy or it's bullshit, it's

678
00:27:33,160 --> 00:27:36,119
Speaker 1: a trap. Tell me how your how your house works,

679
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,679
Speaker 1: tell me how your house, tell me how your prison

680
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:41,399
Speaker 1: cell works.

681
00:27:42,000 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 2: I was like, that sounds more correct, No, nos, fantastic,

682
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 2: but it last night was it was a little difficult.

683
00:27:49,880 --> 00:27:51,400
Speaker 2: But the majority of the time, I'm going to say

684
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:53,600
Speaker 2: eighty percent of the time, it's not like Russian roulette.

685
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,719
Speaker 2: Eighty percent of the time you're good. Go. But then

686
00:27:56,920 --> 00:28:00,320
Speaker 2: after last night. I was like, oh there. When she

687
00:28:00,359 --> 00:28:02,159
Speaker 2: said go out, I'm like, are you sure? Are you

688
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:06,480
Speaker 2: sure I can stay a messenger at halftime? Hey, rams

689
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:09,320
Speaker 2: are losing. I can totally leave right now, right now

690
00:28:09,400 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 2: and be okay right and then you know, of course

691
00:28:11,320 --> 00:28:13,520
Speaker 2: I c I was with Tom Schwartz and and then

692
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:15,360
Speaker 2: she's like, no, go ahead. So then we walked down

693
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,800
Speaker 2: to hamburg Er Marry and it's drag show. And then

694
00:28:17,880 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 2: next thing you know, I'm like, okay, I said her,

695
00:28:19,640 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 2: I'd beat back at six, and I'm like Tom and

696
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,240
Speaker 2: his little half half shots half shots, half shots, and then.

697
00:28:25,200 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 3: He's what is with his half shot bullshit?

698
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:29,680
Speaker 2: Well I finally got him. I finally was like no, mother.

699
00:28:30,520 --> 00:28:32,399
Speaker 2: I was like, if you're bull shot, you're gonna put

700
00:28:32,400 --> 00:28:34,399
Speaker 2: something in my face, you better drink it too. So

701
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 2: that's that's the thing. So it's like, if I'm going

702
00:28:36,160 --> 00:28:37,639
Speaker 2: walking out here toasty, so are you?

703
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 3: So he drinks.

704
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, So he drank and I left. I came home

705
00:28:41,840 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 2: and I was like, I'm gonna hang out with baby

706
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:47,560
Speaker 2: and washer get you know, take the bath, and and

707
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:50,400
Speaker 2: thing was fine. Then once the baby got put down, no,

708
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 2: and I was like I was like I don't know.

709
00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:55,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, are you baby, I'm like, you told me

710
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,000
Speaker 2: that I could go out, and she's like, no, it's fine,

711
00:28:58,040 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 2: it's just I just didn't. I'm like, but I asked

712
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:01,080
Speaker 2: you I could. I told you I could go back.

713
00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 3: It's like, it's like you just like you said.

714
00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 2: And I was like, I was like five, no, you

715
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:09,480
Speaker 2: can't do this to me.

716
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:09,920
Speaker 3: It's wrong.

717
00:29:10,000 --> 00:29:10,320
Speaker 2: It's wrong.

718
00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 4: It's wrong.

719
00:29:11,920 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 3: And then you get so righteous about it.

720
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 2: And then I made a pizza and I was like,

721
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:16,960
Speaker 2: and I guess we texted wrong. And I made like

722
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:19,160
Speaker 2: this flatbird pizza and then it was not very good.

723
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:23,160
Speaker 2: And then I was drunk, drunk pizza pizza making and

724
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:25,920
Speaker 2: for myself and then I you know, she's on a

725
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:28,239
Speaker 2: like you know, after pregnancy kind of diet and weight

726
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,480
Speaker 2: she's eating. So I said, I told her. I'm like,

727
00:29:30,560 --> 00:29:32,520
Speaker 2: it's I'm pulling it out, you know, thinking that she

728
00:29:32,520 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 2: would come buy. So she didn't, and I threw the

729
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:36,200
Speaker 2: pizza away because it also was gross. I kind of

730
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:39,200
Speaker 2: over undercooked it and I threw it away. And then

731
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 2: next thing you know, she comes up and she goes,

732
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 2: you threw the pizza away. I wanted something and I'm like,

733
00:29:43,760 --> 00:29:44,720
Speaker 2: oh my god, I'm so sorry.

734
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 3: It's so bad you were losing everything.

735
00:29:46,920 --> 00:29:48,760
Speaker 2: I have another one. I went to the garage. I

736
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,040
Speaker 2: got another pizza. Literally takes ten minutes to make, put

737
00:29:51,080 --> 00:29:53,000
Speaker 2: it in there. I don't want it, you don't want

738
00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:54,600
Speaker 2: and then I'm like, I can just make it. It's

739
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 2: it's a pizza. I can literally make it right now.

740
00:29:57,440 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 2: And then I was so angry. So then I threw

741
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 2: that pizza away she wanted. But then I did not

742
00:30:01,520 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 2: like me throwing that second pizza away, and then it

743
00:30:03,320 --> 00:30:05,840
Speaker 2: was just me being a brat and an asshole. It's

744
00:30:05,920 --> 00:30:07,720
Speaker 2: just but I was like, well, fine, you know, and

745
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 2: then and then I'm like, I'm really sorry. I am

746
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:14,320
Speaker 2: so sorry, like truly, like thought in my heart I didn't,

747
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 2: but I didn't know because you know, so now never

748
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:17,720
Speaker 2: throw pizza away.

749
00:30:17,800 --> 00:30:19,720
Speaker 1: And by the way, I want to say something, Normally,

750
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:23,520
Speaker 1: normally i'd be like looking at you, like what a

751
00:30:23,640 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 1: sad life you have, But then I think about my

752
00:30:25,960 --> 00:30:26,280
Speaker 1: life and.

753
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 9: It's the same, exactly, It's exactly the same, Like like

754
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:34,440
Speaker 9: literally this week, I I the World Series of Poker

755
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 9: just started in Vegas, and I was like, she knows it.

756
00:30:37,080 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: Normally because it's normally in June, but you know, because

757
00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,320
Speaker 1: of COVID, they moved it. So I was like, I'm

758
00:30:41,360 --> 00:30:43,440
Speaker 1: really not playing as many events as I would normally play.

759
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:46,080
Speaker 1: And I was like, I'm like, it already started. I

760
00:30:46,200 --> 00:30:49,000
Speaker 1: missed like seven events because I'm home. And I looked

761
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:50,960
Speaker 1: at you first she went to New York, and I said, Babe,

762
00:30:51,360 --> 00:30:52,400
Speaker 1: I love you so much.

763
00:30:52,840 --> 00:30:54,880
Speaker 3: I love you so much, and I want you to

764
00:30:55,000 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 3: have the best trip of your life in New York.

765
00:30:57,720 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 3: She was yeah, I said, nobody.

766
00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:01,280
Speaker 5: I really mean that, just trying to high pop, like,

767
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:03,480
Speaker 5: enjoy this experience, and.

768
00:31:03,520 --> 00:31:05,560
Speaker 3: You're going for three days, and I want those threas

769
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:08,120
Speaker 3: to be magical. And then I was wondering on.

770
00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:09,480
Speaker 1: Tuesday if I could go to Vegas for one of

771
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:10,840
Speaker 1: them in the World Series Poke, come right back on

772
00:31:10,840 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 1: Wednesday morning. It's exactly how I say it, so and

773
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:16,920
Speaker 1: and and it's like quiet and she goes because she's

774
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:20,320
Speaker 1: really cool about all that, and she's just like, Babe, yeah, yeah,

775
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,560
Speaker 1: go I go, so hold on, so I could definitely

776
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:25,160
Speaker 1: got then, and I'm like enunciating, I'm like, so I

777
00:31:25,280 --> 00:31:27,960
Speaker 1: can definitely go to the World Series of Poker in

778
00:31:28,120 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 1: Las Vegas on Tuesday back Wednesday, babe, Yes, okay, okay,

779
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go. Okay, I love you like It's like

780
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:41,360
Speaker 1: I'm petrified because even though she says, yes, what happens

781
00:31:42,120 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 1: tomorrow morning when I get on the plane.

782
00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:47,480
Speaker 2: And go or Wednesday. Here's the thing what made me

783
00:31:47,520 --> 00:31:49,160
Speaker 2: think of this, how you're like, I love you. You

784
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 2: need to do that for like going to dinner or

785
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:52,840
Speaker 2: just any of the smallest thing. So you keep saying that,

786
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 2: so when you do have to ask for something, it's

787
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:56,200
Speaker 2: numbed out right.

788
00:31:56,280 --> 00:31:56,480
Speaker 4: Yeah.

789
00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 2: Also, get on your get on your Instagram live and

790
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:03,040
Speaker 2: then record her saying that. Then you have proof.

791
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:04,080
Speaker 3: That's the world.

792
00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 2: So she wants to shame you.

793
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:09,240
Speaker 5: And you could be like, oh, well look at this,

794
00:32:10,720 --> 00:32:14,280
Speaker 5: he is playing at the same level you are. Right.

795
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 2: That just popped in my head.

796
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 3: You are you are?

797
00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:19,720
Speaker 1: You are thriving, right, I mean look at Brock and

798
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: Eye were so we're so beat down, We're like, tell us.

799
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:26,400
Speaker 5: More, I went pants. I just don't pick him out

800
00:32:26,440 --> 00:32:30,120
Speaker 5: every morning. And she I'm talking under the thumb wear

801
00:32:30,160 --> 00:32:31,640
Speaker 5: the pants, she tells me, trying to win.

802
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:36,160
Speaker 3: That is okay, by the way, and Lala would like

803
00:32:36,400 --> 00:32:38,120
Speaker 3: right now, she was listening. I mean, she was here,

804
00:32:38,240 --> 00:32:39,720
Speaker 3: she'd say, you know, that's bullshit.

805
00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 1: I let you do you know where you want to,

806
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:43,120
Speaker 1: And I'm like, she does give me, you know, because

807
00:32:43,120 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 1: I travel for work and all that stuff.

808
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:46,080
Speaker 3: But but at the end of the day, like when

809
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:46,720
Speaker 3: it comes to like.

810
00:32:46,760 --> 00:32:49,880
Speaker 1: A personal, real straight up personal trip like that, yeah,

811
00:32:49,880 --> 00:32:52,840
Speaker 1: I have to I have to ask for for for mercy.

812
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 2: And we're also not like we're not we're not trying

813
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 2: to sound that. Our wives are like, are like, no,

814
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:01,480
Speaker 2: we you know, gives me so much freedom and so

815
00:33:01,640 --> 00:33:03,840
Speaker 2: and she's some fantastic other word. But this but this

816
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:07,000
Speaker 2: is just how ladies and gentlemen or ladies who's listening

817
00:33:07,000 --> 00:33:08,959
Speaker 2: to this? This is basically what we talk about if

818
00:33:08,960 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 2: there was no mic, because we sit there, we gossip,

819
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 2: we complain, but when then we go back, we're like,

820
00:33:12,240 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 2: what if you want baby, Yeah, okay, sure you know.

821
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:17,360
Speaker 2: And that's literally how how it is as being a dad.

822
00:33:17,400 --> 00:33:19,400
Speaker 2: You know, we sit there and we talk and gossip

823
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:21,240
Speaker 2: about all the you know, well she did that wall,

824
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 2: I want to do this. I'm taking control. I'm the man,

825
00:33:23,800 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 2: I could do this, and then we're like, yeah, what

826
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:27,400
Speaker 2: do you want? Okay, I'm sorry, I'm so sorry. Can

827
00:33:27,440 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 2: I make you another pizza?

828
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:32,320
Speaker 5: Okay, right, it's about you? What about you? I mean, well,

829
00:33:32,400 --> 00:33:34,160
Speaker 5: I'm going through it right now because we're going we

830
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 5: have the same issues because it's kind of like I

831
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:38,520
Speaker 5: want to fly, but at the same time, well, I

832
00:33:38,560 --> 00:33:40,240
Speaker 5: got to do it with planning, and I'm the worst

833
00:33:40,280 --> 00:33:43,520
Speaker 5: of planning like that. So the only way like where

834
00:33:43,560 --> 00:33:45,560
Speaker 5: it makes sense and when I get an men is

835
00:33:45,600 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 5: when I'm asking her to do stuff but she's like, yeah,

836
00:33:47,760 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 5: but you didn't plan for this. You just want to

837
00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:52,760
Speaker 5: spontaneously don't hang out your friends. Sounds fucking fun, but

838
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,680
Speaker 5: I'm gonna have to plan. Yeah, So if I can

839
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:59,520
Speaker 5: plan ahead, I get one hundred percent. Yes, I get

840
00:33:59,520 --> 00:34:00,880
Speaker 5: a hundred pcent. But it has to be planned.

841
00:34:00,960 --> 00:34:05,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's why I ask like five six days ahead even.

842
00:34:04,920 --> 00:34:06,760
Speaker 2: Have they plan just for like baby dates and stuff.

843
00:34:06,840 --> 00:34:09,919
Speaker 2: You have to plan to do anything. There's no going

844
00:34:10,000 --> 00:34:11,760
Speaker 2: out by yourself like last.

845
00:34:11,600 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 5: Minute, no sporadic stuff. And then and then what I

846
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:15,600
Speaker 5: try and do is I double down on the emotional

847
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:17,319
Speaker 5: deposits because I'll be like, hey, honey, are you sure

848
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 5: you don't want to go out with your mum and

849
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:20,839
Speaker 5: and your mom and your friend tonight, like I'll stay

850
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:23,000
Speaker 5: home with baby. I didn't want to go out anyway,

851
00:34:23,080 --> 00:34:25,279
Speaker 5: but I'll stay home with the cats. Whatever. But if

852
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 5: I can give her those emotional ones, so I can

853
00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 5: like take those take that credit and just cash in

854
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:31,919
Speaker 5: and have the credit in there, but be like, hey, honey,

855
00:34:31,960 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 5: I'm gonna double down right now. And they go to

856
00:34:33,360 --> 00:34:36,919
Speaker 5: Vegas Randall see Alana And as long as it's planned.

857
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:40,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think less said Lala. As easy as good,

858
00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:41,399
Speaker 3: cool as they get.

859
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 1: But you know again, I think just notice like she

860
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:47,200
Speaker 1: wants to say to me, like, hey, I'm going to

861
00:34:47,280 --> 00:34:49,880
Speaker 1: go with my girls to dinner, like with the girls,

862
00:34:49,960 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 1: and she says it.

863
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:52,719
Speaker 3: Like, you know, hey, tomorrow I want to do this whatever.

864
00:34:52,719 --> 00:34:54,400
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, go have fun. And I think it's

865
00:34:54,400 --> 00:34:54,680
Speaker 3: the same.

866
00:34:54,719 --> 00:34:56,560
Speaker 1: I think it's just you know what, we're joking about

867
00:34:56,560 --> 00:34:57,920
Speaker 1: our girls being like that. But at the end of

868
00:34:57,920 --> 00:34:59,920
Speaker 1: the day, I think it's just mutual respect. It's like, hey,

869
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,680
Speaker 1: I want you to feel safe and comfortable. I'm going

870
00:35:02,760 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 1: to go on this trip.

871
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 3: Is this okay? Do you feel okay? And what about you?

872
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,320
Speaker 3: How's it with you? Soon? Same like the planet, it's.

873
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,200
Speaker 5: It's the plant planning. This is a tough one for

874
00:35:12,320 --> 00:35:14,879
Speaker 5: me because I'm having nanny, I have a mother in law.

875
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 3: Oh that's that's a whole other leg a whole.

876
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:22,600
Speaker 4: Other share with us rock.

877
00:35:22,800 --> 00:35:25,920
Speaker 5: But it's it is honestly like this weekend we had

878
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:28,840
Speaker 5: we had a blow up and then reflected and I actually.

879
00:35:29,640 --> 00:35:31,799
Speaker 1: Hold on, Okay, you can't just skim over that here

880
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 1: on them with Randall when today is give them owen

881
00:35:35,239 --> 00:35:36,200
Speaker 1: Brock with Randall.

882
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:40,400
Speaker 3: Don't skim over that like a rock. What is just

883
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,000
Speaker 3: to find blow up? Because we've all had them. So

884
00:35:42,160 --> 00:35:44,520
Speaker 3: I just want to know what deaf Colm was this

885
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:45,640
Speaker 3: ten eight?

886
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:48,600
Speaker 5: It was difficult. This was difficult ten like who been

887
00:35:48,640 --> 00:35:50,120
Speaker 5: at home for two days by myself?

888
00:35:51,360 --> 00:35:51,880
Speaker 2: America?

889
00:35:52,200 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 5: Like that kind of Yeah, we had we had words

890
00:35:56,080 --> 00:35:58,640
Speaker 5: from Vegas go back. Well, here's here's the reason. You

891
00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:00,919
Speaker 5: don't put somebody in a car when you have different

892
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 5: opinions of somebody for four hours to Vegas and four

893
00:36:03,840 --> 00:36:06,520
Speaker 5: hours back, three out of four weeks in a month.

894
00:36:06,680 --> 00:36:09,360
Speaker 5: Oh that's why. That's why I put it down. So

895
00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:11,560
Speaker 5: we just had enough of each other and each other's

896
00:36:11,600 --> 00:36:12,800
Speaker 5: opinions and then I lost this.

897
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:15,360
Speaker 3: Wait is it you and she in a different opinion,

898
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 3: or you're the mother.

899
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:18,799
Speaker 5: Me and Sheen are me and himm you against both

900
00:36:18,800 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 5: of them?

901
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, oh this is this dude, what you are knowing?

902
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:23,319
Speaker 2: What you're done?

903
00:36:23,360 --> 00:36:23,560
Speaker 4: Dead.

904
00:36:24,640 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 3: By the way, I get out, I get out.

905
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:28,839
Speaker 1: I get out in Death Valley in the one hundred

906
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 1: and twenty two degree heat, and I walk. I won't

907
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: by the way, Laura would have kicked me out of

908
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:36,279
Speaker 1: the car. I wouldn't have a choice. So yeah, I mean,

909
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:37,759
Speaker 1: it wouldn't have been an option. I would be like

910
00:36:38,040 --> 00:36:40,320
Speaker 1: driving and she'd be like, stop, get.

911
00:36:40,480 --> 00:36:42,800
Speaker 3: Get the fuck out uber your ship to Vegas.

912
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:44,840
Speaker 2: I could see, like her, the window roll down and

913
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:47,960
Speaker 2: then like a bottle and then she pursys on half

914
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:49,239
Speaker 2: of it and then puts the cap on and then

915
00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:49,920
Speaker 2: throws it at you.

916
00:36:50,320 --> 00:36:52,880
Speaker 3: And then were you there on that trip? Every went on,

917
00:36:53,920 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 3: I was.

918
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:55,839
Speaker 5: Passing by, just going to golf.

919
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:56,800
Speaker 4: Hold on.

920
00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:58,640
Speaker 3: So you guys had a different opinion. Do you want

921
00:36:58,640 --> 00:36:59,919
Speaker 3: to get into that or that's.

922
00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:02,520
Speaker 5: Well, it's the same. It's the same as opinions. It's like,

923
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:04,719
Speaker 5: right now, you can't ask anyone what they believes are

924
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:06,839
Speaker 5: in politics. It's cool.

925
00:37:10,160 --> 00:37:12,240
Speaker 3: Why are you doing this on the way to fucking

926
00:37:12,320 --> 00:37:13,000
Speaker 3: lost Vegas.

927
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 5: No, it's just my cool value. When somebody else says

928
00:37:15,680 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 5: the egg values and I'm just sitting there driving in

929
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:22,239
Speaker 5: a car after they listen to it until I get

930
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 5: there and get out of the car, I'm like, honey,

931
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,800
Speaker 5: we're not doing this for a while. And that was it.

932
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 2: That's like, that's like talking about that in Christmas and

933
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:31,640
Speaker 2: the eki me. You just there's certain things you don't eat.

934
00:37:31,600 --> 00:37:33,800
Speaker 3: Or something like it's a given. Oh my gosh, I

935
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:36,320
Speaker 3: want to be in a card for no, no, no, no, no,

936
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 3: I'm not getting anxiety right now.

937
00:37:37,600 --> 00:37:39,600
Speaker 2: It's like it's like at least at home Thanksgiving those

938
00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 2: dinners you leave, at least you can like.

939
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:42,160
Speaker 3: Go to the bar and like you could get up

940
00:37:42,200 --> 00:37:43,120
Speaker 3: literally and get.

941
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 2: A little and then go back down.

942
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:46,000
Speaker 5: You're like, yeah, you know what you get least week,

943
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:48,040
Speaker 5: pull on the gas station. I just get out, calmly,

944
00:37:48,120 --> 00:37:50,840
Speaker 5: walk inside, get a red pool, staying there for ten minutes,

945
00:37:51,160 --> 00:37:53,239
Speaker 5: walk back in the car, crack it and keep your.

946
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,600
Speaker 2: You're gonna walk around the back and be like start

947
00:37:57,680 --> 00:37:58,600
Speaker 2: punching the garbage can.

948
00:37:59,160 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 1: Honestly, I don't think there's any version of this experience

949
00:38:02,160 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 1: that I could tolerate. I do you know there's airplanes today, right,

950
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,560
Speaker 1: and you could for ninety nine dollars you.

951
00:38:07,600 --> 00:38:10,600
Speaker 3: Could get on like Southwest, and it's worth the peace

952
00:38:10,719 --> 00:38:12,200
Speaker 3: of mind because.

953
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:16,439
Speaker 1: This four hours between your daughter Sena and the mother

954
00:38:16,520 --> 00:38:18,239
Speaker 1: in law. I mean, and I, by the way, I'm

955
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 1: down for Shina.

956
00:38:19,239 --> 00:38:22,080
Speaker 3: I love Sheena. She's one of my friends. But like

957
00:38:22,239 --> 00:38:24,879
Speaker 3: you put two women in a baby in a car

958
00:38:25,040 --> 00:38:26,879
Speaker 3: with you, I mean, what do you think is gonna happen?

959
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:28,080
Speaker 5: Exactly what happened.

960
00:38:30,239 --> 00:38:32,719
Speaker 2: I think about two when she's older that you can't

961
00:38:32,760 --> 00:38:33,920
Speaker 2: have that kind of argument too.

962
00:38:39,160 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 5: I was completely silent for four hours, Oh my god,

963
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:44,320
Speaker 5: because I was just hairy opinions, and so I just

964
00:38:44,400 --> 00:38:47,160
Speaker 5: bubbled it up. I wasn't responding to anything.

965
00:38:46,840 --> 00:38:47,439
Speaker 3: For four hours.

966
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:49,879
Speaker 5: I was just like, oh my god, we can tell

967
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 5: my god, I say. When we got there, I was like, honey,

968
00:38:52,440 --> 00:38:54,759
Speaker 5: this is how I feel about that last four hours.

969
00:38:55,440 --> 00:38:59,040
Speaker 5: And I delivered it very poorly, and we all fuck

970
00:38:59,120 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 5: up there and then so she's like, look, I'm going

971
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:03,839
Speaker 5: to stay at my mom's for tonight. You and Joy,

972
00:39:03,920 --> 00:39:05,759
Speaker 5: you go get focused, you get what you need to get.

973
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 5: And the role of the story was I was just

974
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,319
Speaker 5: projecting on my frustration with work and trying to find

975
00:39:10,360 --> 00:39:12,839
Speaker 5: my balance out that when I have somebody else they're

976
00:39:12,840 --> 00:39:15,160
Speaker 5: having their opinions about this stuff, I just snap on them.

977
00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:17,440
Speaker 2: And it just happened to be My mother had like

978
00:39:17,480 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 2: this stereotypical law relationship. I like, I don't like Dana

979
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 2: Stacey's mom. Godsend like godsend, yes, you know sometimes twenty minutes.

980
00:39:28,160 --> 00:39:28,920
Speaker 5: What do you guys hear that?

981
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:35,640
Speaker 3: Hold on? That's kissing an ass. Now let's take it.

982
00:39:35,880 --> 00:39:37,480
Speaker 3: Let's take a break right here, and let's give it

983
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:40,200
Speaker 3: up to Dana. All right, so you can guess all

984
00:39:40,600 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 3: look at the fu is this no, but it's true.

985
00:39:45,200 --> 00:39:47,800
Speaker 2: But also it's like having having a parent or like

986
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:49,840
Speaker 2: someone a family member close because my mom's in Florida

987
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:51,960
Speaker 2: my dad, Yeah, that is.

988
00:39:52,040 --> 00:39:54,279
Speaker 5: And that's why that's what it's like. It can be

989
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:57,319
Speaker 5: frustrating for me. But at the same time, you're lunch

990
00:39:57,320 --> 00:39:59,880
Speaker 5: in Australia, but you're lucky family, you know what I mean. Like,

991
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:03,000
Speaker 5: so I respect that and that's where my issues, when

992
00:40:03,040 --> 00:40:04,560
Speaker 5: it comes down to it, is just my issues, and

993
00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:06,200
Speaker 5: I have to be like, all right, broke the shut out,

994
00:40:06,239 --> 00:40:06,759
Speaker 5: You'll be fine.

995
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:09,880
Speaker 2: And also the help that you get from from as

996
00:40:10,000 --> 00:40:13,360
Speaker 2: much annoying as you that you guys hit, She's a blessing.

997
00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 2: I would always be by the way, I bless you, blessing, blessing.

998
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 1: I agree, Like I'm also lucky because we have her mother,

999
00:40:18,800 --> 00:40:25,600
Speaker 1: who is at the house lot, like twenty five days

1000
00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:27,319
Speaker 1: out of the month. But the thing is, I love

1001
00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:29,160
Speaker 1: Lisa is like my like one of my best friend's

1002
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:31,400
Speaker 1: true story, Like she's there for Lala and I and

1003
00:40:31,480 --> 00:40:34,480
Speaker 1: she's phenomenal. But I'll tell you, having Lisa be able

1004
00:40:34,520 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 1: to get an hour and sixteen minute flight, like last

1005
00:40:37,160 --> 00:40:38,640
Speaker 1: night she came in Lalla in out of town and

1006
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 1: I was like, come help and be there with me,

1007
00:40:40,760 --> 00:40:43,239
Speaker 1: and like, you know, just it's it's It does make

1008
00:40:43,280 --> 00:40:46,280
Speaker 1: it easy for me because my mother's you know, she's

1009
00:40:46,520 --> 00:40:49,440
Speaker 1: in her seventies and she lives. I mean, she flies

1010
00:40:49,440 --> 00:40:51,439
Speaker 1: all the time, but she's in Miami. That's a six

1011
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:54,520
Speaker 1: hour flight, three time zones. Lisa, I could call within

1012
00:40:54,600 --> 00:40:56,120
Speaker 1: an hour and she's here an hour, you know, a

1013
00:40:56,160 --> 00:40:56,680
Speaker 1: couple hours.

1014
00:40:56,760 --> 00:40:59,120
Speaker 3: So I think it is nice. Like somebodys, we take

1015
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:01,279
Speaker 3: it for granted and we you know, we all get it.

1016
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:06,160
Speaker 5: You guys are miss because of Miss Lisa Lisa is

1017
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 5: not best. It was still a flight away, and yours

1018
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:09,879
Speaker 5: is a flight away.

1019
00:41:10,040 --> 00:41:12,720
Speaker 2: No, no, no, no, Dana's only an hour and a half.

1020
00:41:12,520 --> 00:41:14,840
Speaker 5: Away, twenty minutes down the street.

1021
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 3: Similar, it's kind of similar trips.

1022
00:41:17,239 --> 00:41:20,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's twenty minutes down the street. I thought she

1023
00:41:20,440 --> 00:41:23,319
Speaker 5: was like in Zusa, Issa, so on the freeway there,

1024
00:41:23,360 --> 00:41:24,280
Speaker 5: it takes like thirty minutes.

1025
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:26,000
Speaker 2: Okay, But what's.

1026
00:41:25,840 --> 00:41:29,319
Speaker 3: The biggest fight you ever had with your mother in law?

1027
00:41:29,719 --> 00:41:29,919
Speaker 1: Oh?

1028
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:32,960
Speaker 5: It was just oh, it was just no, no, no.

1029
00:41:33,120 --> 00:41:34,800
Speaker 5: We had one down in San Diego where she was

1030
00:41:34,840 --> 00:41:37,439
Speaker 5: worried about the people setting up the tent too close

1031
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:39,040
Speaker 5: to the footpath. And I was like, why are you

1032
00:41:39,160 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 5: talking about somebody else's They have nothing to do with us,

1033
00:41:42,840 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 5: Like you're talking about something that doesn't affect our life

1034
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:48,000
Speaker 5: in zero ways. And I don't want to have this conversation.

1035
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:50,959
Speaker 5: And I sounded like an asshole, and I made her upset.

1036
00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 5: That was the biggest one, by the.

1037
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 1: Way, and I am we've all by the way, we've

1038
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,560
Speaker 1: all been listen, we've all been there, and like, especially

1039
00:41:57,640 --> 00:42:00,720
Speaker 1: during COVID when like it was really intense and business

1040
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:02,840
Speaker 1: and you know you're stressed just to put food on

1041
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:04,879
Speaker 1: the table and all that stuff. You know, we've all

1042
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,359
Speaker 1: done things and I've listen. You know what I love

1043
00:42:07,400 --> 00:42:10,360
Speaker 1: about Lisa, honestly is truth both of us. When we

1044
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:12,520
Speaker 1: have been wrong and she's been wrong and I have

1045
00:42:12,640 --> 00:42:15,320
Speaker 1: been wrong. One thing we have in our group is

1046
00:42:15,440 --> 00:42:17,759
Speaker 1: we can always apologize and be forgiven. Like that's the

1047
00:42:17,800 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 1: thing I'll saytest because I don't have that with everybody

1048
00:42:20,640 --> 00:42:22,480
Speaker 1: in my life. Like there are people who hold on

1049
00:42:22,600 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 1: a ship for a long time. If I fuck up

1050
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:26,320
Speaker 1: and I say, at least I'm really sorry I said that,

1051
00:42:26,520 --> 00:42:28,640
Speaker 1: or I'm sorry that I acted a certain way that

1052
00:42:28,800 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 1: hurt your feelings, she forgives me and vice versa. She's

1053
00:42:31,680 --> 00:42:34,640
Speaker 1: come to me and said I shouldn't have whatever done that,

1054
00:42:34,880 --> 00:42:37,279
Speaker 1: and I'm like, thank you. So I think as long

1055
00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:41,320
Speaker 1: as you can always own it and be forgiven, then

1056
00:42:41,360 --> 00:42:44,080
Speaker 1: it always things work out, at least in family, you know,

1057
00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:46,719
Speaker 1: because I think a lot of family members sometimes go

1058
00:42:46,880 --> 00:42:48,960
Speaker 1: on for decades not speaking. I mean I have friends

1059
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:51,719
Speaker 1: out there that don't talk to their parents or their

1060
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 1: in laws because one thing happened and both sides can't

1061
00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:57,680
Speaker 1: politics right.

1062
00:43:01,800 --> 00:43:04,839
Speaker 3: It's like, yeah, I just think life's too short.

1063
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:06,399
Speaker 1: And you know, family at the end of the day,

1064
00:43:06,640 --> 00:43:09,239
Speaker 1: no matter what happens in life, you're always going to go.

1065
00:43:09,480 --> 00:43:11,319
Speaker 3: You know, the family's never gonna they're not leaving.

1066
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:13,680
Speaker 5: But I feel like your feelings are always valid at

1067
00:43:13,680 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 5: that point in time. You feel like that for a reason.

1068
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:18,600
Speaker 5: So even if you express him, didn't apologize for and after,

1069
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:19,440
Speaker 5: it's okay.

1070
00:43:19,239 --> 00:43:20,280
Speaker 3: To be wrong. Correct.

1071
00:43:20,320 --> 00:43:22,320
Speaker 5: So you just felt like that, correct and that, and

1072
00:43:22,520 --> 00:43:24,000
Speaker 5: that gets you go to as long as you're going

1073
00:43:24,040 --> 00:43:25,360
Speaker 5: to eat it off and be like, you know what,

1074
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:27,640
Speaker 5: that was my bad. But as long as the other

1075
00:43:27,719 --> 00:43:29,360
Speaker 5: piss on the stands that they could be in the

1076
00:43:29,360 --> 00:43:31,280
Speaker 5: wrong too, and I acknowledge that as well.

1077
00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:32,800
Speaker 2: Right, But then it's also being the bigger person to

1078
00:43:32,920 --> 00:43:34,759
Speaker 2: just take it just I'm gonna take this. I'm just

1079
00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:36,719
Speaker 2: going to take this lost, and I think we all

1080
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 2: have to do that.

1081
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:37,359
Speaker 3: Something.

1082
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:40,919
Speaker 2: It's just you know, something, it makes it It's just why,

1083
00:43:41,239 --> 00:43:42,959
Speaker 2: like you said, life's too short, you know, and keeping

1084
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:45,160
Speaker 2: fam especially now that we have kids and you know,

1085
00:43:45,280 --> 00:43:47,759
Speaker 2: the holidays are coming up, our holidays and like later

1086
00:43:47,840 --> 00:43:50,920
Speaker 2: down the road, you want as much family around that,

1087
00:43:51,080 --> 00:43:53,480
Speaker 2: you know, around our daughters that that you know, so

1088
00:43:53,560 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 2: it's not like she just has us and like maybe

1089
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:58,200
Speaker 2: like one mother for for Christmas or Thanksgiving.

1090
00:43:58,280 --> 00:43:58,440
Speaker 6: You know.

1091
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:00,360
Speaker 2: So I'm always like, oh, do you would you like

1092
00:44:00,400 --> 00:44:01,600
Speaker 2: to be a part of my family? Like would you

1093
00:44:01,719 --> 00:44:03,719
Speaker 2: you know? Because I'm an only child. So it's like, well.

1094
00:44:06,160 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 5: When you went camping?

1095
00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:10,279
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, we didn't do the camping, but I was

1096
00:44:10,280 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 2: just wanted, like, you know, like a whole bunch of

1097
00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:13,880
Speaker 2: family around, right, you want.

1098
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:15,880
Speaker 5: Like the big gap in Italian You probably did you

1099
00:44:15,920 --> 00:44:16,399
Speaker 5: have your family?

1100
00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:18,480
Speaker 2: I didn't meet them until I was like twenty two.

1101
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:18,959
Speaker 5: Damn.

1102
00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:19,840
Speaker 3: So oh wow.

1103
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 2: Yeah so my birth yeah, my birth father, my dad

1104
00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:26,359
Speaker 2: is when my mom was like six, gotcha. So that's

1105
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:27,000
Speaker 2: been my family.

1106
00:44:27,120 --> 00:44:27,439
Speaker 3: So yeah.

1107
00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:27,719
Speaker 5: Yeah.

1108
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:30,439
Speaker 2: But now with Hardford, I'm just like really excited about

1109
00:44:30,480 --> 00:44:33,360
Speaker 2: Thanksgiving where we're doing it, you know, Christmas, wait.

1110
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:35,440
Speaker 3: Let's talk about the holidays. Where are you doing your Thanksgiving?

1111
00:44:35,640 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 2: We're doing an Arrowhead, but then we might do it

1112
00:44:37,480 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 2: at our house too. We don't know. We're still trying

1113
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:42,440
Speaker 2: to figure that out. But for Christmas definitely, we were

1114
00:44:42,440 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 2: thinking about renting like Airbnb and Big Bear. But then

1115
00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:49,560
Speaker 2: I'm like, we have I think twelve fifteen people coming,

1116
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:53,239
Speaker 2: you know, it's mostly like Stussis and then my mom,

1117
00:44:54,600 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 2: do you know how expensive that is?

1118
00:44:56,440 --> 00:44:58,239
Speaker 3: You know how expensive that is?

1119
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:00,600
Speaker 2: And I'm just like, I really want like a white

1120
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 2: Christmas like snow and all that ship. And I'm like,

1121
00:45:03,400 --> 00:45:05,279
Speaker 2: but that's so expensive, and I really like, what do

1122
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:06,360
Speaker 2: we want to spend our money on?

1123
00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:07,040
Speaker 6: You know.

1124
00:45:07,160 --> 00:45:09,840
Speaker 2: It's like, so we're just it's such a hard and

1125
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:12,879
Speaker 2: La is just so not like I've never really lived

1126
00:45:12,920 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 2: in a Christmas area from from Nashville to naturally Miami

1127
00:45:16,160 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 2: in La Yeah, Florida, Austin, you know, so these aren't

1128
00:45:18,880 --> 00:45:22,239
Speaker 2: very Christmasy times in Los Angeles. So we're still trying

1129
00:45:22,280 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 2: to figure it out. What about? What about?

1130
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,080
Speaker 5: So we've got we're gonna we're doing a Hawaii trip.

1131
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:27,879
Speaker 5: She has done with her family the last three years.

1132
00:45:27,920 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 5: So we're gonna go to Hawaii and maybe if Australia

1133
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:34,920
Speaker 5: opens up their borders, my mum will fly over to

1134
00:45:35,000 --> 00:45:35,600
Speaker 5: spend it with us.

1135
00:45:35,960 --> 00:45:36,719
Speaker 2: They can't even come out.

1136
00:45:36,960 --> 00:45:39,000
Speaker 3: They're the borders pretty tough.

1137
00:45:39,080 --> 00:45:41,160
Speaker 5: They might be opening up in December to leave and

1138
00:45:41,280 --> 00:45:43,719
Speaker 5: come back, but right now it's it's still close. So

1139
00:45:43,760 --> 00:45:45,880
Speaker 5: we'll be doing Hawaii and then that will be before

1140
00:45:46,000 --> 00:45:49,000
Speaker 5: Christmas and then we'll be back we'll just be back here.

1141
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:49,800
Speaker 5: We haven't got any.

1142
00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:52,239
Speaker 2: Point like un years, I have no idea.

1143
00:45:52,400 --> 00:45:53,640
Speaker 5: I mean that's a little bit too far.

1144
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:56,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean six days from Christmas.

1145
00:45:56,719 --> 00:46:00,160
Speaker 2: Christ because it's a specific. Also, New Year's suck. I

1146
00:46:00,200 --> 00:46:02,600
Speaker 2: don't remember what I did is overrated. I don't think

1147
00:46:02,640 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 2: I had a great New Year, you know since I

1148
00:46:04,040 --> 00:46:04,640
Speaker 2: was like seven.

1149
00:46:04,719 --> 00:46:05,560
Speaker 3: You know, I like New Year's.

1150
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:07,000
Speaker 1: I like the New Year's because it's just a vacation

1151
00:46:07,160 --> 00:46:09,560
Speaker 1: time where everything's closed and allows me my only two

1152
00:46:09,600 --> 00:46:13,160
Speaker 1: weeks between Christmas series to just be chill, like you

1153
00:46:13,200 --> 00:46:15,279
Speaker 1: know what I mean, without worrying like, oh my god,

1154
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:15,840
Speaker 1: who's doing this?

1155
00:46:15,880 --> 00:46:17,200
Speaker 3: Because really, people checked down.

1156
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 5: Nobody's doing any people end of December, beginning of January,

1157
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:22,800
Speaker 5: you're not getting any like up top day, you know,

1158
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:23,879
Speaker 5: doing any business wise.

1159
00:46:24,040 --> 00:46:24,360
Speaker 3: Correct.

1160
00:46:24,600 --> 00:46:26,360
Speaker 2: And also New Year's with a baby, how that's going

1161
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:28,000
Speaker 2: to be a totally different New Year. Maybe we all

1162
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:29,800
Speaker 2: get together do baby supper or something like that.

1163
00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:32,320
Speaker 1: We're gonna be where for New Year's will be in Miami,

1164
00:46:32,840 --> 00:46:35,360
Speaker 1: So everybody, if you guys want to come down obviously,

1165
00:46:35,440 --> 00:46:38,600
Speaker 1: and we're gonna babies on the beach chill, you know, the.

1166
00:46:38,680 --> 00:46:42,440
Speaker 3: Babies on the beach and then Christmas.

1167
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:44,360
Speaker 1: You know, like because my whole life I grew up

1168
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:46,719
Speaker 1: in Miami in La right, so like I never had

1169
00:46:46,800 --> 00:46:51,440
Speaker 1: a white Christmas. Ever, the Lalla has really driven at

1170
00:46:51,480 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 1: home that for Ocean throws Christmas. She wants to spend

1171
00:46:54,040 --> 00:46:56,520
Speaker 1: it in you deer valley. Yeahah, and we're gonna run

1172
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,879
Speaker 1: a place up in the mountain and first time ever

1173
00:47:00,080 --> 00:47:00,879
Speaker 1: Christmas in the snow.

1174
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:03,439
Speaker 2: That's awesome. Yeah, that's that's what that's what we want. Yeah,

1175
00:47:03,440 --> 00:47:05,360
Speaker 2: this is the kind of same type of snow vibe.

1176
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:08,560
Speaker 5: And yeah, I don't want a snowy No, I'm fine

1177
00:47:08,600 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 5: with the beach.

1178
00:47:09,239 --> 00:47:11,560
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, but I mean, I you know, she's

1179
00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:14,640
Speaker 1: the boss, so you know, so she gave me Miami

1180
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:16,440
Speaker 1: for New Year's and I and I'm gonna, you know,

1181
00:47:16,840 --> 00:47:17,920
Speaker 1: we compromise on Christmas.

1182
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:20,720
Speaker 3: You like, okay Christmas. But you know what I like skiing.

1183
00:47:20,760 --> 00:47:22,640
Speaker 3: And the thing is is that every year I go

1184
00:47:22,719 --> 00:47:23,080
Speaker 3: to Sunyan.

1185
00:47:23,080 --> 00:47:25,439
Speaker 1: It's the only time ever ski And because Sony Ants

1186
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:27,239
Speaker 1: has been canceled, you know, in terms of live the

1187
00:47:27,320 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 1: last couple of years, this will be nice to go

1188
00:47:29,280 --> 00:47:31,839
Speaker 1: and I'll be able to ski and and oh she'll

1189
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,399
Speaker 1: be able to have her first Christmas in the snow

1190
00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:36,160
Speaker 1: that she'll never remember a little.

1191
00:47:36,000 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 3: Yeah, but you know what if she'll never remember, with.

1192
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:39,960
Speaker 2: All the videos that we take of it, she's gonna remember.

1193
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:41,719
Speaker 3: By the way, By the way, I agree, good point,

1194
00:47:41,760 --> 00:47:43,240
Speaker 3: because there's so much video.

1195
00:47:43,680 --> 00:47:44,560
Speaker 5: It's just so easy.

1196
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:46,440
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like I have, like the hard copies back

1197
00:47:46,480 --> 00:47:47,840
Speaker 2: when I was a kid, Jack's hies with black and

1198
00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 2: white copies of photos.

1199
00:47:49,520 --> 00:47:51,200
Speaker 3: Jessica sets, Oh yeah, I have those too.

1200
00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:52,799
Speaker 2: I was saying, Jack's has like, you know, old black

1201
00:47:52,840 --> 00:47:54,640
Speaker 2: and white photos because he was born you know, back

1202
00:47:54,680 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 2: in the seventies fact before color was invented. So I

1203
00:47:58,000 --> 00:47:59,960
Speaker 2: was born in eighties, so that was nineteen eighty that's

1204
00:48:00,080 --> 00:48:02,680
Speaker 2: right when color card photos, Jack Jacksie.

1205
00:48:02,719 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 3: Our photos are like polaroids, and it's always like March

1206
00:48:06,840 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 3: eighty one.

1207
00:48:08,880 --> 00:48:12,279
Speaker 2: February seventy written in cursive on the back, and I

1208
00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:14,479
Speaker 2: faded because it's like the blue ball point.

1209
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:18,280
Speaker 1: It's like faded, and all your ship, all his ship's

1210
00:48:18,360 --> 00:48:19,880
Speaker 1: like you know, fucking video.

1211
00:48:20,160 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 5: It's it's actually, how old are you?

1212
00:48:23,239 --> 00:48:23,560
Speaker 3: How are you?

1213
00:48:23,760 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 5: I'm thirty one now, not even forty one, okay, so yeah,

1214
00:48:28,360 --> 00:48:32,399
Speaker 5: and I'm fifty. That's a little right in the middle. Yeah, wow, yeah,

1215
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:35,640
Speaker 5: like you were born like I was born before Nintendo.

1216
00:48:35,680 --> 00:48:39,320
Speaker 5: You were born what like Super Nintendo the second.

1217
00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:43,160
Speaker 3: I was I was born Atari twenty six hundred.

1218
00:48:44,080 --> 00:48:45,799
Speaker 2: I had that. My dad had that with the freaking

1219
00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:47,960
Speaker 2: orange orange.

1220
00:48:49,320 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 3: Pop.

1221
00:48:49,680 --> 00:48:54,160
Speaker 2: Of course, there's an instagram that pops up that it's

1222
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:56,040
Speaker 2: like has all the game consoles and they're like, which

1223
00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:57,560
Speaker 2: one are you? And I'm like the first one.

1224
00:48:58,640 --> 00:48:59,520
Speaker 3: I was the one before that.

1225
00:49:00,400 --> 00:49:02,919
Speaker 5: There was the test before it became a little die.

1226
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:05,360
Speaker 5: Oh yeah, sketch it.

1227
00:49:05,680 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, Oh my gosh wow.

1228
00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:09,760
Speaker 1: And then what about I mean, it's just fun and reminisce.

1229
00:49:09,800 --> 00:49:13,239
Speaker 1: But what about technology? So when you were so we'll

1230
00:49:13,239 --> 00:49:15,319
Speaker 1: start with you when you were born, when we were young.

1231
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:18,880
Speaker 5: Technology is also slower in Australia than it is a little.

1232
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 1: Bit when you were a teenager, like because that's the

1233
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:21,960
Speaker 1: time you want to run, Like when you were thirteen

1234
00:49:22,000 --> 00:49:24,560
Speaker 1: and like seventeen, what device did you did you rock?

1235
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:25,120
Speaker 4: Oh?

1236
00:49:25,200 --> 00:49:26,640
Speaker 5: I didn't even have a fine I'll grow up in

1237
00:49:26,719 --> 00:49:27,600
Speaker 5: the country, so I was.

1238
00:49:27,640 --> 00:49:32,080
Speaker 3: Nothing nothing, Okay? Uh was what was your first phone?

1239
00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:32,640
Speaker 2: You ever got?

1240
00:49:32,719 --> 00:49:35,359
Speaker 5: That you that you can remember thirty three fifteen when

1241
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:36,280
Speaker 5: I was like sixteen.

1242
00:49:38,800 --> 00:49:42,680
Speaker 3: Noia Kia was just the square device.

1243
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:44,719
Speaker 5: Yeah, I remember, okay, and that was my first mine.

1244
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:47,919
Speaker 2: You had a pager and I was paid Yeah ninety

1245
00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:50,480
Speaker 2: three pager, that pager where you would like you could

1246
00:49:50,600 --> 00:49:50,799
Speaker 2: you have.

1247
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:52,520
Speaker 3: To go to the sety three Wait ninety three.

1248
00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 1: I was graduating college and I had my first flip

1249
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:57,840
Speaker 1: phone in and then I remember I was so excited

1250
00:49:57,880 --> 00:50:00,879
Speaker 1: going to the flip ninety three flip phone ninety four

1251
00:50:00,960 --> 00:50:02,080
Speaker 1: when I was graduating college that.

1252
00:50:02,320 --> 00:50:03,600
Speaker 2: Maybe my mom just didn't buy it for me.

1253
00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:05,719
Speaker 3: You probably didn't get it. Yeah, you got right, I

1254
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:08,279
Speaker 3: got we all have. I had a pager. I had

1255
00:50:08,280 --> 00:50:10,000
Speaker 3: a pager al during college, but then I got I

1256
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:11,719
Speaker 3: was able to like, in my what does a page

1257
00:50:12,000 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 3: it's a little much, it's a little any way, take

1258
00:50:14,239 --> 00:50:16,320
Speaker 3: a moment. Please just take a moment. Take a moment.

1259
00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:21,600
Speaker 1: This is what's amazing about generational gap. Brock just said it,

1260
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:23,160
Speaker 1: by the way, not even making fun of me. I'm

1261
00:50:23,200 --> 00:50:24,440
Speaker 1: just saying, wow, Well.

1262
00:50:24,400 --> 00:50:26,080
Speaker 5: Because I always see them in the movies like oh

1263
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:27,600
Speaker 5: I got a page and they looked down and it's.

1264
00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:30,160
Speaker 3: Like, oh, I just want to take this moment.

1265
00:50:30,200 --> 00:50:31,920
Speaker 5: I mean, he's being sincere.

1266
00:50:32,040 --> 00:50:33,759
Speaker 3: That's what's amazing. I feel like I feel like I

1267
00:50:33,840 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 3: just grew another ring.

1268
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:36,960
Speaker 2: I think I just age you.

1269
00:50:37,120 --> 00:50:39,280
Speaker 3: I'm picking up my coffee. You have to I'm picking

1270
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:40,560
Speaker 3: out my fucking casket.

1271
00:50:41,000 --> 00:50:41,520
Speaker 1: The fuck.

1272
00:50:41,600 --> 00:50:47,080
Speaker 3: Let's go look at what? Tell what the pager is?

1273
00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:50,240
Speaker 2: So patrons, this a little like you know, device square

1274
00:50:50,320 --> 00:50:52,080
Speaker 2: thing where like your mom would call you and like

1275
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:54,040
Speaker 2: it would be from her number and the like you

1276
00:50:54,120 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 2: got to pull over.

1277
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 1: This one would show up. It would show up and like,

1278
00:50:57,360 --> 00:50:58,920
Speaker 1: this person's reaching you, and then you have to go

1279
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 1: to a pay phone. But in a back then it

1280
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:04,399
Speaker 1: was a dime and then to like hey, and you'd

1281
00:51:04,400 --> 00:51:05,640
Speaker 1: be like, oh mom, Like he's got a page for

1282
00:51:05,719 --> 00:51:06,960
Speaker 1: It's like what time you're gonna be home?

1283
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:09,560
Speaker 5: You like says She's kind of cool. When you on them,

1284
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:11,560
Speaker 5: it's a vibrant.

1285
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:14,400
Speaker 2: And it gets the number. But then like in high school,

1286
00:51:14,440 --> 00:51:16,280
Speaker 2: you could send message. You would do like you message

1287
00:51:16,280 --> 00:51:18,000
Speaker 2: it one for three. If you're dating someone, she would

1288
00:51:18,000 --> 00:51:19,759
Speaker 2: just randomly message you one for three I love you.

1289
00:51:20,520 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, And then you can do certain little things

1290
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 2: like the little codes and stuff. Yeah, your friends would

1291
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:28,919
Speaker 2: know that this is like you know, like like where

1292
00:51:28,920 --> 00:51:31,200
Speaker 2: we're going to meet all types of like her number.

1293
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:33,440
Speaker 2: Then next would be like like like another code of

1294
00:51:33,520 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 2: like all ones, which means like an exclamation point is

1295
00:51:35,560 --> 00:51:37,200
Speaker 2: an emergency, get you know, get over there.

1296
00:51:38,400 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 3: My parents had My parents had phones from the minute

1297
00:51:41,200 --> 00:51:44,040
Speaker 3: they came out. My parents were like like into the technology.

1298
00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:45,959
Speaker 3: And my mom had that first brick phone.

1299
00:51:46,160 --> 00:51:48,040
Speaker 2: I was so one of the with the backpack.

1300
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 3: My dad had the back yeah, the big thing with

1301
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:52,120
Speaker 3: the big thing. It was like it looked like you

1302
00:51:52,200 --> 00:51:53,760
Speaker 3: were working, you know, working on like an aircraft.

1303
00:51:54,760 --> 00:51:57,040
Speaker 2: Like one in his car. I remember it never worked.

1304
00:51:57,200 --> 00:51:59,359
Speaker 2: He had one in the car, the car he had

1305
00:51:59,360 --> 00:52:01,920
Speaker 2: in a car there's and it never works, like this

1306
00:52:02,000 --> 00:52:03,640
Speaker 2: is a brand new car. This thing doesn't work with

1307
00:52:03,760 --> 00:52:05,880
Speaker 2: the cord, I mean with the cord of the whole thing,

1308
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:08,960
Speaker 2: like in the car. Did you ever see like the

1309
00:52:08,960 --> 00:52:11,360
Speaker 2: Beverly Hillbillies movie from over the nineties, Remember when like

1310
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:14,279
Speaker 2: the Beverly hill Billies, Like it's like the nineties movie

1311
00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 2: and they're sending the back of the limo and they

1312
00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:17,200
Speaker 2: just you know, get out of their country and she

1313
00:52:17,360 --> 00:52:19,279
Speaker 2: pulls up the brick phone and they're like and the

1314
00:52:19,360 --> 00:52:21,720
Speaker 2: woman like she think she's talking to somebody.

1315
00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 3: Earl oh, my god like that.

1316
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:27,759
Speaker 5: When I moved to America, That's why I got a

1317
00:52:27,840 --> 00:52:29,840
Speaker 5: four to four number, because I wanted.

1318
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:34,160
Speaker 3: No, oh my god, That's why.

1319
00:52:36,280 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: I was the same wh when I moved to LA

1320
00:52:37,600 --> 00:52:39,399
Speaker 1: I wanted three one old. Just be like oh, because

1321
00:52:39,400 --> 00:52:40,920
Speaker 1: at that time there was no four two four, It

1322
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:42,719
Speaker 1: was three one oh. There was only three one o

1323
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:44,239
Speaker 1: and two one three and eight one eight. So if

1324
00:52:44,239 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 1: you were like two and three, you're a Hollywood person.

1325
00:52:46,120 --> 00:52:47,279
Speaker 1: If you were eight, when eight you were the Valley

1326
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:48,800
Speaker 1: and three and oh you were like Beverly Hills. I

1327
00:52:48,960 --> 00:52:52,160
Speaker 1: was broken and a nickel and I'm like, I'm yeah.

1328
00:52:52,200 --> 00:52:54,479
Speaker 1: I mean why I parked my car sixteen blocks away

1329
00:52:54,520 --> 00:52:57,480
Speaker 1: from the valet because I didn't want Tony to see,

1330
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:00,440
Speaker 1: you know, the rundown car I had because early work.

1331
00:53:00,600 --> 00:53:04,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, that was I'm ee. Because when I first moved here,

1332
00:53:04,000 --> 00:53:07,239
Speaker 2: I moved lived in Tuluga Lake for I think the

1333
00:53:07,280 --> 00:53:09,040
Speaker 2: first yeah, for the first year, and then Silver Lake.

1334
00:53:09,520 --> 00:53:10,600
Speaker 2: You kept it and I just kept it.

1335
00:53:10,719 --> 00:53:14,439
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you yeah, twenty one years, same number, same number,

1336
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:17,080
Speaker 1: twenty one years. Well, I think I've had about three

1337
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:20,560
Speaker 1: in the twenty one years, but one is like legit

1338
00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:21,120
Speaker 1: and I've.

1339
00:53:21,000 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 2: Had it for so long that sometimes people like mess

1340
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:25,000
Speaker 2: like when we like when you know, people found out

1341
00:53:25,040 --> 00:53:26,680
Speaker 2: that I had a baby, I'll sudden just getting all

1342
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:29,239
Speaker 2: these random numbers like congratulations, and you have no idea,

1343
00:53:29,680 --> 00:53:31,960
Speaker 2: no cloud, no idea, no clue, like I.

1344
00:53:32,000 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 5: Still my bad friend. I'm like, who who's these I

1345
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:35,200
Speaker 5: have with semi random numbers?

1346
00:53:35,280 --> 00:53:38,160
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm the same and you know, and and

1347
00:53:38,239 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 1: then I start like I always want to change my

1348
00:53:40,239 --> 00:53:42,239
Speaker 1: number because I'm like, I just you stopped with all

1349
00:53:42,320 --> 00:53:45,120
Speaker 1: the constant messages. And then I'm like that I get

1350
00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:47,480
Speaker 1: an anxiety, like, oh my god. Then what about business?

1351
00:53:47,560 --> 00:53:49,719
Speaker 1: What about that guy like that I dealt with three

1352
00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:51,200
Speaker 1: years ago? What if he wakes up and wants to

1353
00:53:51,239 --> 00:53:52,359
Speaker 1: do a deal with me this year?

1354
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:52,759
Speaker 2: I can't.

1355
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:53,240
Speaker 1: I can't.

1356
00:53:53,400 --> 00:53:54,560
Speaker 3: Yeah, It's like I freak out.

1357
00:53:54,880 --> 00:53:56,479
Speaker 2: Yep, I loved Now.

1358
00:53:59,160 --> 00:54:02,640
Speaker 5: I go on for you? How's going back off the

1359
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:05,000
Speaker 5: pages in the final spring? It back into being panenting?

1360
00:54:05,600 --> 00:54:08,200
Speaker 5: What about the sex lot? How are we doing it?

1361
00:54:08,719 --> 00:54:13,200
Speaker 5: How's it affected you guys? Has anything changed? Because I mean, yeah,

1362
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:14,840
Speaker 5: let's why are you guys starn to me?

1363
00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:17,920
Speaker 3: Here's the thing I say. I think we're looking at

1364
00:54:17,960 --> 00:54:20,480
Speaker 3: you because you're nine months in so you have the

1365
00:54:20,600 --> 00:54:23,319
Speaker 3: most runway away from the birth.

1366
00:54:23,440 --> 00:54:25,440
Speaker 1: Okay, so let's start with you, and then I'll go

1367
00:54:25,520 --> 00:54:27,560
Speaker 1: to me because I'm ahead of Brock, and then Brock

1368
00:54:27,719 --> 00:54:29,600
Speaker 1: is the closest.

1369
00:54:29,200 --> 00:54:29,640
Speaker 3: To the birth.

1370
00:54:29,840 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 2: Okay, So I've I guess I'm I'm frustrated with myself

1371
00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 2: because at forty one, I should be like like buying

1372
00:54:37,120 --> 00:54:39,000
Speaker 2: those pills at seven eleven to the front that like

1373
00:54:39,120 --> 00:54:42,040
Speaker 2: get you know, because forty one, I thought that my

1374
00:54:42,160 --> 00:54:44,719
Speaker 2: mojo is supposed to like go down. I don't know

1375
00:54:44,800 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 2: what happened, but like after when I like after, I

1376
00:54:47,000 --> 00:54:49,359
Speaker 2: feel like, yeah, after Harford was born, I I like, also,

1377
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:51,800
Speaker 2: I'm so attracted to my wife that I'm just like

1378
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:54,239
Speaker 2: you know when she like just changes, I'm like, hey,

1379
00:54:54,960 --> 00:54:57,520
Speaker 2: I'm so attracted to my wife, and my brain is

1380
00:54:57,640 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 2: so like sexually activated, like the past nine months, my

1381
00:55:00,800 --> 00:55:02,800
Speaker 2: body is like I feel like I'm I'm a rabbit.

1382
00:55:02,880 --> 00:55:05,200
Speaker 2: I just I'm always thinking about it. I always thinking about.

1383
00:55:05,040 --> 00:55:07,920
Speaker 3: Her hold on in pregnancy. How often you have.

1384
00:55:07,960 --> 00:55:10,640
Speaker 2: All the time, which is all the time at least

1385
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:11,760
Speaker 2: to at least.

1386
00:55:11,560 --> 00:55:14,200
Speaker 1: To talk about we were like it just got like

1387
00:55:14,320 --> 00:55:17,160
Speaker 1: we did, but like it got like awkward. I thought

1388
00:55:17,200 --> 00:55:21,920
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, yeah, yeah.

1389
00:55:21,760 --> 00:55:22,799
Speaker 5: I definitely slide down.

1390
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:25,440
Speaker 3: I was like, it was a little it was a

1391
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:27,960
Speaker 3: little yeah, it's a little mental for a small penis.

1392
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:28,440
Speaker 2: So I didn't have.

1393
00:55:30,800 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 6: You guys are like my big old dick was going

1394
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:36,120
Speaker 6: to pop it in the head. Get at scientifically, no

1395
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 6: way whatever you have on her half I heard it

1396
00:55:40,680 --> 00:55:40,880
Speaker 6: was just.

1397
00:55:40,920 --> 00:55:42,760
Speaker 5: Like there's a lot going on there. I was like, honey,

1398
00:55:43,000 --> 00:55:45,640
Speaker 5: this isn't working for me. It just it just got

1399
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:46,520
Speaker 5: It was emotional.

1400
00:55:47,000 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 3: It was a mental for me to doing now now

1401
00:55:49,160 --> 00:55:52,520
Speaker 3: what about after after so so on? So are you saying?

1402
00:55:52,920 --> 00:55:56,880
Speaker 2: So I would sit there and she would be like,

1403
00:55:57,280 --> 00:55:58,759
Speaker 2: you know, I have to get like you can't just

1404
00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:01,120
Speaker 2: we're not you know, it's not like first year that together,

1405
00:56:01,120 --> 00:56:03,759
Speaker 2: which instant. So now I'm like, now I found the way.

1406
00:56:03,760 --> 00:56:05,640
Speaker 2: I'm like, would you like, would you like a midday

1407
00:56:05,680 --> 00:56:08,640
Speaker 2: massage because there's there's no more morning sex because hardfer's

1408
00:56:08,640 --> 00:56:09,120
Speaker 2: gonna wake up.

1409
00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:11,960
Speaker 1: I'd rather sleep now, you know, you know what the

1410
00:56:12,000 --> 00:56:15,040
Speaker 1: hardest thing for us, and and and she's all about it,

1411
00:56:15,120 --> 00:56:17,520
Speaker 1: and she you know, we just had a conversation like

1412
00:56:17,560 --> 00:56:20,160
Speaker 1: you know, when she gets back from this trip, like she's.

1413
00:56:20,239 --> 00:56:21,440
Speaker 3: Really feeling it.

1414
00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:24,359
Speaker 1: And the thing about is is time and that's something

1415
00:56:24,400 --> 00:56:26,360
Speaker 1: that we're now working on in the relationship, is like,

1416
00:56:26,880 --> 00:56:29,120
Speaker 1: you just have to make sure that time in the

1417
00:56:29,160 --> 00:56:30,320
Speaker 1: relationship is a priority.

1418
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:31,880
Speaker 3: And I think that was hard for both of us.

1419
00:56:32,160 --> 00:56:34,759
Speaker 1: I think the baby came and everything was about the

1420
00:56:34,800 --> 00:56:37,720
Speaker 1: baby and then work and then coming out of a pandemic,

1421
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:39,640
Speaker 1: trying to make a living, trying to put you know,

1422
00:56:39,760 --> 00:56:43,400
Speaker 1: trying to get back to some level of even because

1423
00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 1: I mean, it wasn't a great time. And I think

1424
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:48,960
Speaker 1: now we've looked at each other and said, there's nothing

1425
00:56:49,040 --> 00:56:51,720
Speaker 1: more important than time together.

1426
00:56:52,080 --> 00:56:53,239
Speaker 3: And I think it took us.

1427
00:56:54,040 --> 00:56:57,000
Speaker 1: We're six months into to ocean, but I think it

1428
00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:59,480
Speaker 1: took us about four and a half months we started saying, Okay,

1429
00:57:00,360 --> 00:57:00,920
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter.

1430
00:57:01,360 --> 00:57:02,600
Speaker 3: We have to have time for each other.

1431
00:57:02,600 --> 00:57:03,720
Speaker 2: Because why, guys are the foundation.

1432
00:57:03,800 --> 00:57:05,880
Speaker 3: You need them. You need to keep that correct and

1433
00:57:05,960 --> 00:57:07,279
Speaker 3: I and I think people forget that.

1434
00:57:07,320 --> 00:57:09,200
Speaker 1: I think you know, when you ask people, they'll say,

1435
00:57:09,239 --> 00:57:11,480
Speaker 1: and therapists have told me this, you know that I've

1436
00:57:11,520 --> 00:57:15,239
Speaker 1: gone to in my life. Uh, you know, just on

1437
00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:17,480
Speaker 1: an individual base, they saying, you know, just so you know,

1438
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:21,200
Speaker 1: relationship has to be the priority. Yeah, because if your

1439
00:57:21,240 --> 00:57:23,840
Speaker 1: relationship is healthy, your children will be healthy. Yeah, your

1440
00:57:23,840 --> 00:57:25,160
Speaker 1: relationship is dysfunctional.

1441
00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:27,160
Speaker 3: Your your children's dysfunctional.

1442
00:57:27,200 --> 00:57:31,360
Speaker 1: So I so we both took that as meaning not

1443
00:57:31,640 --> 00:57:35,520
Speaker 1: we're dysfunctional, but just like your kids are going to

1444
00:57:35,560 --> 00:57:39,000
Speaker 1: be great, but if you're great, they're going to be phenomenal, right,

1445
00:57:39,080 --> 00:57:41,800
Speaker 1: Like they're gonna be okay. So now we're saying okay,

1446
00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:44,720
Speaker 1: time together, date nights, trips, like.

1447
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:45,680
Speaker 3: You know, we just on this floor.

1448
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:49,920
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, And there's nothing more important to us now

1449
00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:51,560
Speaker 1: is creating that time together.

1450
00:57:51,760 --> 00:57:53,040
Speaker 3: So that's that's for us.

1451
00:57:53,120 --> 00:57:55,960
Speaker 1: It's helped us in the in our sex life and

1452
00:57:56,200 --> 00:57:59,640
Speaker 1: and being reconnected in a more positive way because and

1453
00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:03,000
Speaker 1: more positive but just in a healthier way, because our

1454
00:58:03,160 --> 00:58:06,480
Speaker 1: attention between work and our baby was taking up like

1455
00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:09,160
Speaker 1: consuming us. But now it's like no, no, no, no,

1456
00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 1: Tuesday's date night doesn't matter what the fuck's going on.

1457
00:58:11,720 --> 00:58:14,280
Speaker 1: We're going out to dinner and we're coming home and

1458
00:58:14,400 --> 00:58:15,120
Speaker 1: we're getting it on.

1459
00:58:15,760 --> 00:58:18,880
Speaker 2: See yeah, Moday Night's definitely that's easy.

1460
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:22,240
Speaker 5: Going to get home for the date night. It's like, wait,

1461
00:58:22,320 --> 00:58:23,920
Speaker 5: we have to Oh. I felt like we did the

1462
00:58:23,960 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 5: same thing Sina and I we had We were like

1463
00:58:26,120 --> 00:58:28,280
Speaker 5: we got to make time for ourselves. But then then

1464
00:58:28,320 --> 00:58:29,800
Speaker 5: it got to a point where we're putting so much

1465
00:58:29,840 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 5: pressure on coming home and having sex that it wasn't

1466
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 5: happening because I was just like for me, I was

1467
00:58:34,720 --> 00:58:36,960
Speaker 5: kind of like I was like, oh, I'm just gonna

1468
00:58:37,000 --> 00:58:40,080
Speaker 5: go to bed, like I'm tired. And so to get

1469
00:58:40,120 --> 00:58:41,720
Speaker 5: over that, we tried it a few times, went to

1470
00:58:41,800 --> 00:58:45,280
Speaker 5: Palm Springs and even during like our first time having

1471
00:58:45,280 --> 00:58:47,600
Speaker 5: sex after baby was like four months into it, and

1472
00:58:47,680 --> 00:58:50,800
Speaker 5: then everybody even trying was like halfway through making that

1473
00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:53,040
Speaker 5: with her in like full play, I'm like, I like,

1474
00:58:53,160 --> 00:58:55,800
Speaker 5: look at her, what are you thinking about right now? Well,

1475
00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:57,360
Speaker 5: she's like, oh, I'm thinking is it still the same

1476
00:58:57,440 --> 00:58:59,280
Speaker 5: down there? Is my baby inside? Like I was like,

1477
00:58:59,760 --> 00:59:02,360
Speaker 5: it's and then that doesn't do it for me? Yeah,

1478
00:59:02,640 --> 00:59:04,360
Speaker 5: and needs you win with this? This is I need

1479
00:59:04,440 --> 00:59:06,439
Speaker 5: a response for that to get that energy gone.

1480
00:59:06,520 --> 00:59:08,600
Speaker 1: So like you need the connection and you also and

1481
00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:10,640
Speaker 1: you're also also probably and I know you because your

1482
00:59:10,680 --> 00:59:12,560
Speaker 1: sense of a person like you want her to feel

1483
00:59:12,640 --> 00:59:15,200
Speaker 1: safe and connected. So you're asking her like are you

1484
00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:18,600
Speaker 1: all right? And she's also has the insecurities, which which

1485
00:59:18,640 --> 00:59:21,760
Speaker 1: I know you know Lala has or had you know,

1486
00:59:21,800 --> 00:59:23,720
Speaker 1: I think in the beginning, but it's like I just

1487
00:59:23,800 --> 00:59:25,880
Speaker 1: tell her like it's you and I like, don't don't worry,

1488
00:59:25,920 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 1: like when we're in that moment, like let's just and

1489
00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:31,280
Speaker 1: she's she's you know, she h yeah.

1490
00:59:31,400 --> 00:59:33,400
Speaker 3: I think. I think you've got to just work on

1491
00:59:33,480 --> 00:59:35,440
Speaker 3: it because it thinks not it. There's no book to it.

1492
00:59:35,520 --> 00:59:39,240
Speaker 5: It's like, well, exactly what worked for us was just spontaneously,

1493
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:41,600
Speaker 5: So what instead of me going like, hey, like let's go,

1494
00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:43,480
Speaker 5: we're gonna go to dinner, it's not get it on.

1495
00:59:43,600 --> 00:59:45,520
Speaker 5: After I was like, hey, honey, I'm getting the shower quick,

1496
00:59:45,560 --> 00:59:48,080
Speaker 5: come with me. And then I dumped in shouting and

1497
00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:50,320
Speaker 5: it was like, oh that was easy, see where it is.

1498
00:59:50,640 --> 00:59:52,360
Speaker 5: And then it just took all the stress of going

1499
00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:54,120
Speaker 5: to dinner and coming home and playing and have six

1500
00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:58,640
Speaker 5: like the mental runway there. I was just like handy

1501
00:59:58,720 --> 01:00:00,560
Speaker 5: jumping shower with me real quick that we just started

1502
01:00:00,600 --> 01:00:02,200
Speaker 5: making out and the it what God.

1503
01:00:02,080 --> 01:00:04,040
Speaker 2: It's almost like those like the nerves like when you're

1504
01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:05,640
Speaker 2: saying it's like the nerves on the first date, you're

1505
01:00:05,680 --> 01:00:07,080
Speaker 2: like all the day, like do I kiss her when

1506
01:00:07,120 --> 01:00:08,720
Speaker 2: I drop her off? I mean like I got to

1507
01:00:08,760 --> 01:00:10,240
Speaker 2: the restaurant yet, But do I kiss her when I

1508
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:12,600
Speaker 2: drop her off? Oh my god, what do I do?

1509
01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:15,240
Speaker 2: What I or you know, or just even that first yeah,

1510
01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:17,240
Speaker 2: this first moment. But we sit there and uh, we

1511
01:00:17,400 --> 01:00:18,920
Speaker 2: just kind of I just have the thing like I'm saying,

1512
01:00:19,000 --> 01:00:21,840
Speaker 2: midday massage and you know, and I go midday massage,

1513
01:00:22,000 --> 01:00:24,160
Speaker 2: no touchy like, no sexy time, just to be like,

1514
01:00:24,400 --> 01:00:27,240
Speaker 2: if she doesn't want sexy time, you still get a massage, right,

1515
01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:29,560
Speaker 2: Sometimes she does, so then it's like it's it's a

1516
01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:31,960
Speaker 2: win when she gets a massage and you know, we

1517
01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 2: get to you know, make a love.

1518
01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:35,040
Speaker 5: I love that.

1519
01:00:36,240 --> 01:00:36,439
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1520
01:00:37,040 --> 01:00:40,040
Speaker 5: I've never been so happy and like happy in any

1521
01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:42,840
Speaker 5: relationship my entire life. But now with this one, she's

1522
01:00:42,920 --> 01:00:45,280
Speaker 5: she's a mother of my child, and it's she's amazing.

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Speaker 5: It's just the best. Like, and talk to guys that

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Speaker 5: have the same situations going on, like I just always

1525
01:00:50,920 --> 01:00:52,600
Speaker 5: want to make sure I did the best version of

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01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:55,280
Speaker 5: myself for my family now, and that's the pressure I

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01:00:55,360 --> 01:00:56,040
Speaker 5: put on myself.

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Speaker 1: And it's an evolution, like we're all nobody's perfect law

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01:00:59,200 --> 01:01:00,800
Speaker 1: is not perfectly I'm not for you guys, like, but

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Speaker 1: but as long as you work on it and you

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Speaker 1: put the effort in.

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Speaker 3: I think we're all in up in the right place.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I think we're doing pretty damn good.

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Speaker 3: I think we're over I think the three of us

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Speaker 3: are overachievers.

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Speaker 5: I definitely didn't put my kid in a bulks yet

1537
01:01:12,800 --> 01:01:20,280
Speaker 5: now or it sucks, I'm going to order ed Carton's

1538
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Speaker 5: milk car what is it?

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Speaker 2: Carts for all of us?

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Speaker 1: All right, all right, this was awesome and honestly this

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01:01:27,800 --> 01:01:29,920
Speaker 1: is probably my favorite podcast. This is the ship I

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01:01:30,000 --> 01:01:32,440
Speaker 1: love and I know you guys like it. So we

1543
01:01:32,560 --> 01:01:35,400
Speaker 1: got to try to make this, you know, every eight weeks,

1544
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Speaker 1: like we were out to try to do this because.

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Speaker 3: This is like good guys. You know, we don't get

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Speaker 3: the time like to just talk with.

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Speaker 2: We need to have like at least enough time for

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Speaker 2: new things to happen.

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Speaker 3: A couple of months goes.

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Speaker 1: By and we come back in and now, you know,

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Speaker 1: and now your daughter's you know, sprinting, My daughter's in marathons.

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Speaker 5: One's still in the pen.

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Speaker 1: Well, dude, I want to thank you guys for the

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Speaker 1: give Them Bow and Rock with Randall podcast today. I

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Speaker 1: had the best time. Uh, everybody, Brox Instagram is.

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Speaker 5: Brooke on the School on the School Davies, the good.

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Speaker 3: The bad, bogie uh yeah, and you know where to

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01:02:10,160 --> 01:02:12,160
Speaker 3: find me with my six followers. There you go, Thanks

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Speaker 3: for having and we'll see you guys next week.

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Speaker 5: See you guys,