Speaker 1: Okay, So Marie, I feel like every week I'm like
Speaker 1: thinking about, like, oh, what's what's like. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: think of like a bigger mess to like tell yes,
Speaker 1: but this one is gonna be it's gonna be very
Speaker 1: small for you.
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's gonna be a big bang boot, but.
Speaker 1: I just want to I just want to bring the
Speaker 1: heat because you know, we started the podcast off so
Speaker 1: hot because you you came with oxtails.
Speaker 2: And every single time.
Speaker 1: I said, man, I've been trying to reach that level
Speaker 1: of stardom and I haven't got it yet. But my
Speaker 1: mess is that I cannot find my socks.
Speaker 2: I keep losing socks.
Speaker 1: I keep losing important item socks, panties, bra socks, panty bras,
Speaker 1: losing them constantly.
Speaker 2: I cannot find them.
Speaker 1: But also it's because I don't put things where they
Speaker 1: need to be.
Speaker 3: But I are they in the house or they out
Speaker 3: in the street, I don't know.
Speaker 2: I think they leave.
Speaker 1: I think they was like enough, it's enough, and they
Speaker 1: leave me. They're like, how long you.
Speaker 2: Going to run run down racket? Do better than this?
Speaker 4: Well, you did say you're sleeping thong, so that we
Speaker 4: need to rest give us a free socks is Harriet Tubman,
Speaker 4: he said, we're going with the song.
Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, first of all, I actually tried. After we
Speaker 1: talked to Bretta, I was like, oh, you know what,
Speaker 1: let me try and not sleep with any underwear at all.
Speaker 2: You know I don't like it.
Speaker 4: Why, well, maybe what's your threat account?
Speaker 2: How dare you be close to five hundred?
Speaker 1: I don't know if five hundred is like it's like
Speaker 1: basic exactly, it's basic. Okay, if you want to give
Speaker 1: me some Egyptian sheets for my birthday, I would love that.
Speaker 2: What size bed. Oh, it's gonna be full queen. It's
Speaker 2: gonna be a.
Speaker 1: Queen full time, a fully queen, fully queen, fully queen twin.
Speaker 4: That's a fully queen twin.
Speaker 2: Yes, fully queen.
Speaker 4: Listen when we when it's settled, when the dust settles,
Speaker 4: Uh huh.
Speaker 1: I will get you some sheets that you're talking about
Speaker 1: the dust that's like on my socks or like what kind.
Speaker 2: Of dust the dust of your life? Oh wow? Yeah?
Speaker 1: No, I want to know where my things are, put
Speaker 1: them in the right place. But I just feel like
Speaker 1: socks be leaving us. I like, I bought so many
Speaker 1: socks I bought so many. I remember I used to
Speaker 1: order from Savage Fatigue locks. No underwear broad right, I
Speaker 1: can't find any of that stuff, or or I find
Speaker 1: like one the top, but I can't find a bottom.
Speaker 2: Then I don't think so I don't. I don't think
Speaker 2: they care that much. I think they're not pressed.
Speaker 1: I think it's me just really mishandling important things of mine.
Speaker 3: M mm hmmm, yeah, that feels like it missed something else.
Speaker 4: But okay, yeah, mishandling important things.
Speaker 3: Okay, tell me more.
Speaker 1: And uh, Marie, what about you? Any cute mess for up?
Speaker 4: You know I'm a piggyback off of what you just said,
Speaker 4: because you know, I dropped my laundry off too, and
Speaker 4: I usually let it sit in.
Speaker 2: The laundry bags for a really long time. Oh and
Speaker 2: I like.
Speaker 3: Live out of the bag, like I'll be like, oh,
Speaker 3: where's mine?
Speaker 2: Sucks? But it's a girl on the go energy too,
Speaker 2: so don't feel bad.
Speaker 4: I do be at the house stepping over the bag.
Speaker 4: But when I when I step over the bag, I
Speaker 4: do go. So the girl do be going.
Speaker 1: But they but I heard that's the thing with using
Speaker 1: like outside people to take care of your laundry. If
Speaker 1: you did your own right, you brought back home, and
Speaker 1: you brought it back home, you would put it away
Speaker 1: because you've already in the process of moving around.
Speaker 4: If I gotta do it and then drag that giant
Speaker 4: Ikia bag back to the house, I'm I'm stepping over
Speaker 4: that at the house as well. I think the only
Speaker 4: way that I would put my laundry away is if
Speaker 4: I had a washer dryer in the unit, because I
Speaker 4: would wash like two pairs of jeans at the time
Speaker 4: and be like, oh, i'm a I'm gonna put these up.
Speaker 1: Should we put that on a pur list washer and
Speaker 1: dry next? In your next life?
Speaker 2: Should I ask that man to get it for me?
Speaker 1: Oh?
Speaker 2: That man? Which one? We'll figure it out. That's one
Speaker 2: for you.
Speaker 1: Gotten two men won't put a wash anyway.
Speaker 2: Anyway.
Speaker 4: I just want to finish what I was saying, because
Speaker 4: this is my I guess my mess for the week
Speaker 4: is I put my laundry away soon, like early, and
Speaker 4: I was going through my underwear draw and there was
Speaker 4: panties in there that did not.
Speaker 2: Belong to me. I think you told this one, did I?
Speaker 4: Well, sometimes you do that, but this is just repeat
Speaker 4: you know the epilogue.
Speaker 1: Yes, but you understand that. It's I think your mess
Speaker 1: is putting your stuff away. But because you built a closet, now,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you built a Does it look good?
Speaker 5: Whoa?
Speaker 4: It's so big and it's not done because the top
Speaker 4: of one was damaged.
Speaker 2: So I gotta wait five.
Speaker 4: Yea, iqias girl, aqia my money back?
Speaker 2: Kias this giant closet built it. I feel like I
Speaker 2: live at a costco. Now do you have a picture
Speaker 2: of the closet? Yeah? Oh yeah. While I while I
Speaker 2: do that, let's bring it out. Okay, let's bring in
Speaker 2: our guess. Okay, wait, oh my god.
Speaker 1: First of all, in my eyes, I can't I can't
Speaker 1: even look, and I am like, wow, you're just you're
Speaker 1: You're stunning your everything.
Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't know if I want to hug
Speaker 2: you or like if you are living. Oh no, not that.
Speaker 1: I was like, I want to take everything you got.
Speaker 1: I want to single white female you. But our guest
Speaker 1: is a movie star, ev star, a single so a
Speaker 1: girl on ago a girl and a period period you
Speaker 1: could see uh he she they and and Fire Island
Speaker 1: or the show that I you know, I did a
Speaker 1: little appearance in as well, Fantasmas on Max.
Speaker 2: Give it up for Tomas. Very booked.
Speaker 1: Ways, you just go by Tomas. You what's your last
Speaker 1: name's giving?
Speaker 2: Thomas Mattos. That's your last name is Isatos?
Speaker 6: Yeah, and fun fact, it's the same letters it is
Speaker 6: is giving.
Speaker 2: What's that word? I think it's like.
Speaker 6: Anagramma something the home phone, it's a hold of the phone.
Speaker 2: It's a hold of the holes the phone. Period.
Speaker 3: So your real name is Thomas Mattos.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 5: I have two middle names too, but I don't really
Speaker 5: use that.
Speaker 6: What are they Joaquin Jose, Thomas Jauquin Jose Matos.
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a mouthful. It sounds like you're on the
Speaker 2: run and you don't want to give. It's very Hispanic. Yeah,
Speaker 2: my mom was doing too much? Are not doing enough?
Speaker 1: We can know another name in there, Joaquim Davante.
Speaker 6: But like my family calls me TJ because my middle
Speaker 6: name is Joaqui and my first name is Thomas.
Speaker 2: But I don't see you as a teacher. My whole
Speaker 2: family calls me TJ.
Speaker 6: Really yeah, fun fact, no exclusive, I don't think I've
Speaker 6: ever told anybody know this is new.
Speaker 2: I don't like t J.
Speaker 1: I don't well, I don't like when people just make
Speaker 1: up nicknames that it's like, did you ask me if
Speaker 1: that's okay?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 3: Yeah, no from childhood. It's from when you're a kid.
Speaker 6: But like a part of me is like, let's say
Speaker 6: if I don't I don't know if this is going
Speaker 6: to happen, but like, let's say I wanted to transition,
Speaker 6: like TJ is a really good gender neutral name.
Speaker 2: Oh, I didn't think that. I you know, I'm not
Speaker 2: going to say.
Speaker 6: You know, I'm not saying I'm going to transition, right,
Speaker 6: but like just in case, just in case, you should say.
Speaker 1: Well, that's so funny because you know when you came in,
Speaker 1: I said what's your pronouns?
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you said any And I said that's a
Speaker 2: new way. Sydney said, oh any all. She was like, oh,
Speaker 2: so all of them are here to say yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: anyth here y'all any and all of them is all
Speaker 2: up and through your baby building and now you're in.
Speaker 2: I truly fell in love with you. I was like,
Speaker 2: we're meant to be.
Speaker 6: Like can I just say, like this is truly like
Speaker 6: a dream come true? Like I'm not someone who likes
Speaker 6: no shade podcasts.
Speaker 2: Like I don't record, you don't yeah podcast on the
Speaker 2: regular like on iHeart Radio.
Speaker 6: No shade and everybody who does podcasts, I'm not so
Speaker 6: like my Spotify rap was not giving, like ooh, you
Speaker 6: listen to mad podcasts like it was given. I barely
Speaker 6: no shade, right, But I will say when I when
Speaker 6: I found out about Mess, that was the first time
Speaker 6: that I was like, oh, I'm excited for Thursday to
Speaker 6: come out.
Speaker 5: You know what I'm saying, I'm excited for the next episode.
Speaker 6: That's the first time, like this is the first sort
Speaker 6: of like podcast that I'm like, oh, I'm a fan.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, I remember when I met you. I'm trying
Speaker 1: to remember. Did I meet you at an event or
Speaker 1: I might have met you at a party? Oh, it
Speaker 1: was a party during fashion week and I saw you
Speaker 1: walk in. I said, wait, who the hell oping theeromony cemony?
Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you told me that you were sober?
Speaker 6: Yeah yeah what Yeah it was we was out there
Speaker 6: drinking Liquid.
Speaker 2: Death, showed out to Liquid Death. You know, I like water.
Speaker 2: I'm not the biggest hit, but Liquid Death. I will
Speaker 2: I will say that on the record.
Speaker 6: They need to put like MEO or something in it.
Speaker 6: What do you mean like they need to put like sweetener.
Speaker 2: Oh no, they have different flavors, but.
Speaker 6: For me, it's like it's not really given sweet. Wait okay,
Speaker 6: but what's the in the can?
Speaker 2: You got a y ouch?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm gonna make my own like.
Speaker 2: You want honey.
Speaker 1: And that's not what Liquid death is trying to provide
Speaker 1: hydration that yeah, kill your That's what are we sponsored
Speaker 1: by Liquid Death today?
Speaker 4: I mean y'all should be Yeah, hey Michael from Liquid
Speaker 4: Death literally friends with Liquid Death.
Speaker 2: Period. We'll send a case to the crib.
Speaker 1: So tomorrow you're here because you're your topic of mess.
Speaker 1: I'm fully and blocked in period, but we're here to
Speaker 1: talk about Twitter.
Speaker 2: Yeah, is a Twitter messy? The answer? I feel like, yes,
Speaker 2: it's a a.
Speaker 6: And it's like I think there's two types of mess
Speaker 6: There's like mass derogatory and then there's mass complimentary.
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying.
Speaker 6: I I think I'm messy, but I think I'm messy complimentary.
Speaker 6: You know what I'm saying, Like it's like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 6: I'm a mad Twitter is Matthew bitch. I is giving
Speaker 6: for the birds.
Speaker 2: Literally. I remember when it was a good time. Though.
Speaker 2: It was a time where you could.
Speaker 1: Like really make connections with people you've never met before,
Speaker 1: you probably will never meet, but from all walks of life,
Speaker 1: and you're getting the you're just getting the words. And
Speaker 1: then they moved into like vine videos, and then it
Speaker 1: was photos and then it was like okay, and then
Speaker 1: everybody thought that there was a journalist yes, and reporting
Speaker 1: something and storytelling and then I think that's when it
Speaker 1: got out of here.
Speaker 2: Storytelling?
Speaker 3: Yes, wait, did y'all see what was it?
Speaker 2: Zora Sola?
Speaker 3: It was like people will go through like tell.
Speaker 4: Stories like in a thread and then one of those
Speaker 4: threads on Twitter turned into a movie a period.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's giving what's her name?
Speaker 1: Sola was the original for Sola, like crawled Sosa.
Speaker 2: Something Soola crawl. So Resa could make them videos in
Speaker 2: her car that is fifty part movies.
Speaker 4: Every single video she was in the car going somewhere
Speaker 4: or coming from somewhere, and people in the comments was like,
Speaker 4: this is interesting, but where are you going?
Speaker 2: Are you still ain't get that? You still ain't reach now?
Speaker 1: What what's your beef with Twitter right this moment? Because
Speaker 1: we'll walk through it.
Speaker 6: Okay, Like I I think I have not always hated
Speaker 6: Twitter or act or whatever it's called nowadays.
Speaker 1: Let's just keep it. It doesn't X for me, use
Speaker 1: its dead name for that, right and who cares about that?
Speaker 2: Yes?
Speaker 6: But like I feel like when I think of old Twitter,
Speaker 6: like I use Twitter as like a way to just
Speaker 6: like say what I want, and it's not given following
Speaker 6: for me on Twitter, Like I literally just use my
Speaker 6: Twitter because I'm like, oh I want to say something,
Speaker 6: or like you know, I'll post a photo of me
Speaker 6: at some like random screening and be like, oh, I
Speaker 6: really like this film, like I should go see for like,
Speaker 6: you know, my five thousand people who are on there,
Speaker 6: how it's given five it's even five K, So it's
Speaker 6: not given like you know, people come and look at
Speaker 6: my page for dissertation. Okay, Like it's not it's not
Speaker 6: giving that, not yet.
Speaker 2: Not yet. Point is giving private account, private account or
Speaker 2: close friends?
Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean i'd be you know, I use my
Speaker 6: private account now as my close friends because the people
Speaker 6: that are on there are like nice to me. Because
Speaker 6: I just came into an experience where like something that
Speaker 6: I have posted got on the algorithm and it got
Speaker 6: like it got out there.
Speaker 2: What happened? What did you so tell me let's unpack this. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: should here?
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, you need When I tell you it's giving trauma,
Speaker 6: I already talked to it like I'm fully traumatic.
Speaker 1: It's like, but is that just Twitter or that's social
Speaker 1: meaning in general because any yes, and Marie, you've.
Speaker 2: Talked about this.
Speaker 6: Like the comments on Instagram, they could be very messy,
Speaker 6: but like for me, the mess that I see on
Speaker 6: Instagram is very like, oh you're a homo. Oh you're
Speaker 6: going to hell, like bitch, you don't know me. Also,
Speaker 6: like I don't give a talk about you think. Twitter
Speaker 6: was the first time that like I experienced people's thoughts
Speaker 6: and opinions about me based on me, Like I felt
Speaker 6: like they were coming for me personally, they knew like
Speaker 6: they knew you.
Speaker 2: Yes, like they were like.
Speaker 6: Tomas from Phantasmas, You're a piece of ship for this thought, okay,
Speaker 6: for this tweet.
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 6: So, so I went to a screening of Queer. It
Speaker 6: was a Taste maker screening. It wasn't giving, you know, premiere.
Speaker 2: I was just they.
Speaker 5: Told you and I went your influencer. It was giving influencer.
Speaker 6: It was giving, like we want you to come and
Speaker 6: you know, post about it if you liked it were
Speaker 6: like movie about Queer is based off a book, Okay,
Speaker 6: and it's Luca Guadanino's next film, it's Daring Daniel Craig.
Speaker 2: Okay and soon Okay, what else did Luca do? Luca
Speaker 2: did call me by.
Speaker 5: Your name Challengers?
Speaker 2: Okay.
Speaker 6: Luca's like very he's a very famous like he like
Speaker 6: he'd be doing the things right.
Speaker 7: Give him miss flowers, like I'm gonna give him as flowers,
Speaker 7: you know what I'm saying, Like Luca, like you like
Speaker 7: you be eating in film?
Speaker 2: Okay, But.
Speaker 6: Like I my tweet was no se Luca before a
Speaker 6: film titled Queer, it was giving very white Cis gay
Speaker 6: man because everyone in the film was a white Cis
Speaker 6: gay man. And it's not just like I should, I
Speaker 6: should also preface by saying Omar Apollo is in it,
Speaker 6: but Omar Apollo is in.
Speaker 5: It for one minute and a half and giving like
Speaker 5: cameo for Omar.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and like it's not only queer, it's also called
Speaker 6: me by your name like Luca has I think a
Speaker 6: reputation of not really like hiring people of color unless
Speaker 6: you're like you know, and in that case, Zendea hired
Speaker 6: him because then there.
Speaker 2: It was the EP.
Speaker 6: So she brought Luca on and you're coming with receipts,
Speaker 6: no shade, like you know.
Speaker 2: What I'm saying.
Speaker 6: And I'm also coming at it from a point of
Speaker 6: like you're an artist. I'm like, I'm just pointing out
Speaker 6: what I see. And girl, the people on Twitter got mad,
Speaker 6: like when I.
Speaker 1: Didn't realize, do you have some of the tweets like.
Speaker 5: I didn't realize they were going out hard for Luca
Speaker 5: and but.
Speaker 1: Those are big movies. You wouldn't think that they would.
Speaker 1: And these people are fans. That's with fans. Do We
Speaker 1: actually had a whole episode on fans and how messy.
Speaker 6: Fans are messy. But I was like you were scared, yes,
Speaker 6: because they were. They were being mean, like they started
Speaker 6: coming for me, and like some of it was funny,
Speaker 6: no shade, Like someone was like, oh, so this is
Speaker 6: a book.
Speaker 2: This is based off a book, not a Hulu original,
Speaker 2: And I.
Speaker 6: Was like, that's funny because you're coming for me, Empire.
Speaker 2: That's funny. Yeah, shade, but no shape, but shade.
Speaker 6: And I was like ha ha, like you know, like
Speaker 6: I'm a I'm a respond I responded with like the
Speaker 6: the clip of Lord roach being like you ate that.
Speaker 1: I like when people know how to fight fire with
Speaker 1: fire with like something funny and then it's a good
Speaker 1: exchange on the thread and I'm like, I'll go down, but.
Speaker 2: Serious to me, I don't like that.
Speaker 3: I want and how are you mad about my opinion?
Speaker 5: That is true though, exactly, Like a lot of people were.
Speaker 6: Saying, oh, the word queer in this scenario is like
Speaker 6: used as a derogatory term, like back in the day
Speaker 6: they used to be, like they used to call people
Speaker 6: in the alphabet mafia, Oh, you're a queer. But I'm
Speaker 6: like that would also go for queers who are people
Speaker 6: of color. Everybody was queer, so.
Speaker 2: Queer back then only was for white people, you know,
Speaker 2: which is not the case.
Speaker 6: Yeah, And I think some some people were also like, oh,
Speaker 6: what did you expect, Like the writer is a white man,
Speaker 6: Luca is a white man, like, and that's something that
Speaker 6: I took away from that. I was like, you're actually right,
Speaker 6: like I shouldn't be expecting representation from from, you know,
Speaker 6: a white gay man when that's their experience, you know,
Speaker 6: that's their point of view, right.
Speaker 2: You're not watching Ava Duverna.
Speaker 6: You're you know, I think like helps me be like, Okay,
Speaker 6: that brings purpose to what I do as a as
Speaker 6: an artist, Like that is my path of being Like Okay,
Speaker 6: well I'm gonna just pave my own way, I guess.
Speaker 6: But I think that was the point of my whole
Speaker 6: tweet of being like sometimes it would be nice to
Speaker 6: not have to you know, blaze and and like, you know.
Speaker 1: They came for you considering you're a person of color,
Speaker 1: and you're like usually when we say something, it's like, okay,
Speaker 1: well they have a little bit more authority of it
Speaker 1: because we're the marginalized group and.
Speaker 2: This this does affect us if it affects all of us.
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I feel like you can't tell white game
Speaker 3: that they the majority.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 6: And like the other thing is, like I think is
Speaker 6: Twitter messy is like a sub It's like a sub
Speaker 6: culture of our white gays messy, you know, like I
Speaker 6: think I think that is where it's like that's the
Speaker 6: tree and that's where it like falls down because no shade.
Speaker 2: A lot of the tweets that I.
Speaker 5: Were getting back were from the white gays because they.
Speaker 4: Probably love the movie. They they're like see me, yeah,
Speaker 4: see you you don't know that people don't see them
Speaker 4: because all you see is you.
Speaker 1: But also I think when we're in these different groups,
Speaker 1: we're like, hey, I can't focus on everybody. I could
Speaker 1: just focus on the people that I'm focusing on right now,
Speaker 1: and that's my people.
Speaker 2: And I guess they have every right to do that, right.
Speaker 1: But when we talk about inclusion and the storytelling for
Speaker 1: all of us, it would make sense that we're included
Speaker 1: because when it's time to piggyback off of us and
Speaker 1: you myself of like, oh, yes, we are, you know, marginalized,
Speaker 1: and you know all this hate comes in, it's like,
Speaker 1: but who gets the.
Speaker 2: Brunt of it? Yeah? Exactly who?
Speaker 1: When does it really be like, Okay, when we march in,
Speaker 1: who we marching for?
Speaker 2: Huh?
Speaker 4: It sounds like we the three of us, need to
Speaker 4: make a movie we make all yeah.
Speaker 6: And like the other thing not to like, you know,
Speaker 6: keep harping on this film, but like there's not much
Speaker 6: fem representation in the film and Luca's discography there tends
Speaker 6: to not be And I think like the only FEM
Speaker 6: representation that you do see in Queer is like the
Speaker 6: the theem representation is either you know, hated or literally
Speaker 6: disembodied to a point of like, that's not a real person.
Speaker 2: So you consider yourself a fem Yes.
Speaker 6: Okay, I think I I my non binary pinery puts me,
Speaker 6: like I think, very nicely in the middle where I
Speaker 6: think I've you know, my my everyday life is balancing
Speaker 6: the masculine and the feminine versions and parts of me to.
Speaker 2: Haves of a whole. You know what I'm saying. Because
Speaker 2: I'm seeing the nails and the arms.
Speaker 6: Yeah, and that, you know, and the beast, and I
Speaker 6: think that that is I think what makes me me.
Speaker 6: But also like you know, I think the part of
Speaker 6: me wants to see more fem representation, you know what
Speaker 6: I'm saying. And like, I think all I was trying
Speaker 6: to say was that like the default lens of a
Speaker 6: queer story tends to be white his gaze and and.
Speaker 1: You know what, And this is where I'll hit you
Speaker 1: on that. It's like if you would have just tweeted that, yeah,
Speaker 1: then that could have been like that is the issue.
Speaker 2: You have to make it specific.
Speaker 1: But you also went to that movie as a critic
Speaker 1: the whole discourse. So and that's the thing that gets
Speaker 1: lost in Twitter and Internet in general. Everything is nuanced
Speaker 1: and it's only a certain amount of words, and people
Speaker 1: want to get off their ship. They know, they're like,
Speaker 1: are we here to actually have a conversation or I'm
Speaker 1: gonna win? You know?
Speaker 2: Did they increase the word limit what they used to
Speaker 2: be twenty?
Speaker 5: I was like, yeah, yeah, but now it's giving dissertation down.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he used to. I did.
Speaker 1: Like when Twitter when it was messy, but it was
Speaker 1: just like people were going at jabs.
Speaker 2: Like remember when Rihanna was on Twitter era age was
Speaker 2: doing so much.
Speaker 1: And she she this is when she was like the
Speaker 1: Navy era when she had the blonde like swoop things.
Speaker 4: I don't know what the hair was given, but I
Speaker 4: just remember good luck booking that stage.
Speaker 2: In one Sweet. I was like why.
Speaker 1: I was like, what's the problem why they keep going
Speaker 1: back and forth with each other?
Speaker 6: The reason, well, she was I feel like she she
Speaker 6: likes the like back and forth, she likes the clap
Speaker 6: back of it all.
Speaker 3: Yeah, because she was going back and forth with Tiana Taylor.
Speaker 2: Yea, yeah, I mean she this was when.
Speaker 1: What was her because Chris Chris Brown and that what
Speaker 1: I didn't That's when I was like, Arianna, you really it.
Speaker 2: Was had the rice cakes.
Speaker 4: Yeah, okay the last and I was like, okay, really.
Speaker 2: She did write it up, but.
Speaker 1: You said you said, there's like the fucking twitter and
Speaker 1: then it's a derogatory and it was like, you know,
Speaker 1: miss min you were That.
Speaker 2: Was a line that was absolutely cross. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think people want to talk to shit and
Speaker 1: do what they want to do. And that's so funny.
Speaker 1: That wasn't wait. Rihanna and Tianna was going at it.
Speaker 3: Well, Tianna jumped in because she's Chris's friend.
Speaker 4: Yeah, and it was like protest, we're not talking to you.
Speaker 4: And I think that was the Rihanna's energy about that
Speaker 4: because it was like girl. And then didn't somebody make
Speaker 4: their header Rihanna's photo the night that Chris hitter her.
Speaker 2: It looked like Tiana or maybe it was Caruci.
Speaker 4: I don't know which one did it, but it was
Speaker 4: like babe, you lost?
Speaker 2: Wait is now lost? Wait?
Speaker 1: This is the this is the Sierra tweet that really started.
Speaker 1: It was like trust me, Rihanna, you don't want to
Speaker 1: see me on or.
Speaker 2: Off the stage. That's when Rihanna was like, good luck
Speaker 2: with that stage. You speak up. I'm like yo, I said,
Speaker 2: if you're gonna start something. Give us that. It's giving
Speaker 2: us a plot, it's giving.
Speaker 1: Us joke bar for bar bars, and we can do
Speaker 1: something with it. It's just like when it starts getting long.
Speaker 3: Ah, that's why we don't need too many characters. Bring
Speaker 3: it back to one.
Speaker 4: Yeah, so you gotta get it in. You know who
Speaker 4: else was always in a Twitter beef as Elia Bank.
Speaker 2: Babe?
Speaker 4: But she with every race, every gender, every tax bracket,
Speaker 4: just any and everybody she could fight with.
Speaker 2: And didn she get banned from Twitter? Yeah, I mean like,
Speaker 2: but you.
Speaker 1: Know she she'd be wrong, loud and wrong. But there
Speaker 1: will be sometimes where she's like, you know what she read,
Speaker 1: she knows how, she's a library, and she knows how
Speaker 1: her from heart and now I'll give her that. And
Speaker 1: but also Twitter is toxic, so that's why she was
Speaker 1: thriving on The girl used to lean And then you're like,
Speaker 1: you know, she's the type of person that you're like,
Speaker 1: I know that you're tweeting in the dark. I know
Speaker 1: you're you're using this nothing is on in the house
Speaker 1: on the phone and.
Speaker 2: The screen is hitting your face and you're like, I'm
Speaker 2: I'm gonna.
Speaker 4: Tell you why I oughta you know, It's like it's
Speaker 4: given too many a special martiniz because why are you up?
Speaker 3: How charged is your battery?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 4: I think that's why the Rihanna stuff was so fun
Speaker 4: because you knew she was just in her car on
Speaker 4: the way to something.
Speaker 1: Right.
Speaker 3: She wasn't late night like when Trump was late night
Speaker 3: tweeting from the toilet.
Speaker 1: It was like, babe, give it bad. That's when that's
Speaker 1: when I really was like, oh, I'm through with Twitter,
Speaker 1: because it's like, hey, sir, you're a president. I don't
Speaker 1: want to see my First of all, I don't want
Speaker 1: to see you as a president, but I don't want
Speaker 1: to see my president tweeting. Do you know how like
Speaker 1: Calmon that is? Do you know how like pedestrian? You
Speaker 1: are a you are a president and you're using your
Speaker 1: actual things to write to the public. Somebody else should
Speaker 1: be on a sonographer, should be saying your words.
Speaker 2: You should not be.
Speaker 1: Doing that on your own. It just gave this is
Speaker 1: this is for this is for the commoners. I don't
Speaker 1: I don't like it, and people and I would see
Speaker 1: more negative things than positive, and so I was like
Speaker 1: do I really want that in.
Speaker 2: My head all the time.
Speaker 1: Remember, there was a woman who was like basically like
Speaker 1: talking about her day and like saying how like amazing
Speaker 1: It is like yes, She's like, oh, you know how
Speaker 1: to have a cup of coffee and then sit outside
Speaker 1: and with my husband And I.
Speaker 8: Was like, oh I couldn't like costly Emily, you know,
Speaker 8: they they turned into dragging this woman sharing a like
Speaker 8: just a sweet moment, and they took it to the
Speaker 8: next It was like.
Speaker 4: People were like people were like some of us don't
Speaker 4: have yards. Other people were like, I don't have a husband.
Speaker 4: That's single erasure. People were like, must be nice to
Speaker 4: be able to sit instead of go to work.
Speaker 2: It was like this it was the nicest tweet.
Speaker 4: It feels so good to wake up and have a
Speaker 4: couple of coffee with my husband in the yard before
Speaker 4: going to yoga or someone.
Speaker 2: And they were like this tweet sucks.
Speaker 6: Idam Mass I feel like that's also the issue with Twitter.
Speaker 6: It's like it's it's not giving, Like you can misconstrue,
Speaker 6: like misconstrue something really easily. Yeah, because you know, it's
Speaker 6: just plain text, you know what I'm saying, Like people
Speaker 6: can easily like not make sense of what you're trying
Speaker 6: to say.
Speaker 1: But That's why I tell people all the time. If
Speaker 1: you got something to say to somebody, why are you texting?
Speaker 1: You better pick up that phone. You gotta meet the
Speaker 1: main person. Because if I'm reading something, I'm thinking about
Speaker 1: your tone. Yeah, and your tone. I know how you speak.
Speaker 1: So I'm reading this and you're like, what's a question mark?
Speaker 2: Oh? I'm bothering you? Are you right? Like? What's see?
Speaker 2: We got there's a problem. What's up? What do you mean?
Speaker 2: What's it? Doesn't it doesn't sound inviting? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Yeah, you know. So that's the same thing with Twitter
Speaker 1: when people are bringing things. I think, if you want
Speaker 1: to be toxic.
Speaker 2: And mean, you go to Twitter. Yeah.
Speaker 1: If you if you want to say nice things, I
Speaker 1: don't know, you better get a Tumblr or something.
Speaker 2: You better like you better substack, substack. No threads nowadays, right,
Speaker 2: I think? Okay? No, Like I feel like Threads is
Speaker 2: kind of had.
Speaker 4: I was on it actively for like the first week,
Speaker 4: and then it was like.
Speaker 2: This feels like work. Why is it fat for you?
Speaker 5: Because it's connected to your IG? Okay, So, like the
Speaker 5: people who.
Speaker 6: Follow you on i G follow you on Threads and
Speaker 6: vice versa. Like who you follow on IG, you also
Speaker 6: follow on threats?
Speaker 2: Would you be putting on threads? Yeah?
Speaker 6: Like whatever whatever I post on my ig gets syndicated too.
Speaker 2: Oh so it's kind of like is it connected.
Speaker 6: Yeah, they're connected, But like I can also post, like
Speaker 6: I know, say I post what I post on Twitter
Speaker 6: on my threads.
Speaker 2: Okay, So can we read some of your tweets? Yeah,
Speaker 2: talk loud.
Speaker 1: I want to know what exactly are the talking about,
Speaker 1: like talking Toomas.
Speaker 2: Okay, that's an actual.
Speaker 1: Talks I like that already. That's your YouTube because you
Speaker 1: know that's where you can monetize.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I see like most of my Okay.
Speaker 2: So I don't explain that and just say it.
Speaker 6: Like I posted the photo of me at queer right,
Speaker 6: and then I posted another photo after that went viral
Speaker 6: of like people coming for me at another screening being
Speaker 6: like this was so good.
Speaker 7: Oh my god, I have no critique, Sabrina Carpenter, you
Speaker 7: ate that to the Christmas thing and I was like, girl,
Speaker 7: it's not like I'm not saying my critiques no more
Speaker 7: because they will drag me.
Speaker 1: Okay, but what's like a regular like a regular tweet
Speaker 1: that doesn't have anything.
Speaker 4: To look at the last thing was we tweeted how
Speaker 4: about that, Yeah, the last thing you tweeted, let me go.
Speaker 2: Can I get into my Twitter? I don't even know
Speaker 2: I'd be deleting stuff.
Speaker 6: So you know the account film updates they post like
Speaker 6: a whole, but they post like all.
Speaker 2: The things about films pretty much on Twitter.
Speaker 6: They had posted the first look of my upcoming film,
Speaker 6: Queens of the Dead, and was like, starring, give me.
Speaker 2: In stuff scene you were an actor, and no, you don't.
Speaker 2: You do it.
Speaker 1: You are you are who you are, and I see
Speaker 1: it and it translate very well period on camera on screen.
Speaker 2: So what is it? What did you say?
Speaker 6: They So they posted the first look photo of Queens
Speaker 6: of the Dead and they said starring. You know, everyone
Speaker 6: that's in the photo except for me, and in the
Speaker 6: photo I'm It's pretty much like there's six spots and
Speaker 6: I'm the center spot in the photos.
Speaker 5: So then not even get named.
Speaker 2: They cropped you out. You're in the middle.
Speaker 5: I'm in the middle of the photo that was posted.
Speaker 6: They I'm not named, So they said everybody else who's
Speaker 6: in the photo except for me? And so I was
Speaker 6: like center snowflake spot but not name check is giving
Speaker 6: Angie K because ANGIEK is currently on. She's the center
Speaker 6: snowflake in this season of the Housewives call like City
Speaker 6: and she's.
Speaker 5: Eating down but she tends to get overlooked.
Speaker 6: And so that's what that's what you did for you
Speaker 6: because I was like, you know what I'm saying, like
Speaker 6: they overlooked meriends now I know the more you know,
Speaker 6: But like Housewives of Salt Lake City right now is
Speaker 6: it's so good. No, like not to be like riding
Speaker 6: for them, because I don't really ride for them.
Speaker 2: They are they are very specific forms.
Speaker 6: Yes, but it's very similar to like the height of
Speaker 6: when Atlanta was good like that, that's the yes when
Speaker 6: need was popping white refrigerator.
Speaker 5: Yeah, girl, let's get you a home, very very bad.
Speaker 6: Heats, give me beat okay, And that's one of my
Speaker 6: tweets like that.
Speaker 2: I feel like it's like, you know, like regular can't
Speaker 2: see the picture. Yeah, yeah, we have to add it.
Speaker 4: Well add it in the dump. Yeah, you're literally in
Speaker 4: the middle and the closest. They tagged everybody else.
Speaker 2: You literally everyone amazing.
Speaker 1: Do you hate that when someone's just talking about your looks?
Speaker 1: You're like, wait, I have no girl, don't you down?
Speaker 2: I don't do it for that you know me now,
Speaker 2: also another title for I'm not mad at that? Thank you?
Speaker 1: Okay, Marie, do you have any tweets that you the.
Speaker 3: Last week that I tweeted or you just want me
Speaker 3: to read something that I tweeted?
Speaker 2: Yeah? Okay.
Speaker 4: The last thing that I tweeted was on November sixteenth,
Speaker 4: twenty twenty four, and I wrote, who's struggling more?
Speaker 2: Netflix? Or Tyson kept glitching? I love that. We love that.
Speaker 1: That was a good friend. Yeah, you really know how
Speaker 1: to bring it together. I can't even find my tweets, Like,
Speaker 1: how do you do that? What do you mean?
Speaker 2: I can't find my tweets? How you ain't been on
Speaker 2: Twitter that long? No?
Speaker 1: No, and I have. I have twenty nine thousand followers.
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, okay, so this one this was a long
Speaker 1: time ago. But brownies with or without nuts, the nuts
Speaker 1: are unnecessary and fuck up My chewing float brings nothing
Speaker 1: to the table except chaos. Individuals who want nuts in
Speaker 1: their brownies are unstable and cheating relationships.
Speaker 2: They went viral, So I do what I can.
Speaker 3: Brownie, and I don't really like nuts and anything, honestly.
Speaker 6: Yeah, no, I mean this little snack had nuts in
Speaker 6: it that I just had it was Nasty Boots.
Speaker 2: Nasty Boots. I don't like it. It's not for me.
Speaker 1: And but also, you know what, I think like the Internet.
Speaker 1: It just I'm trying to figure out when it was peak,
Speaker 1: when it was like, oh, this is a safe space.
Speaker 1: And I think it's when like Christian Lubatons was a
Speaker 1: big deal. I think, what's that like the twenty ten,
Speaker 1: two thousand, two thousand and ten, Yeah, twenty ten. I
Speaker 1: think that was when they had that specific filter that
Speaker 1: when you you do on Instagram where you're like, it's
Speaker 1: kind of orange cpa CP.
Speaker 2: Yeah, used to be that girl.
Speaker 3: I think I was like, Okay, this is like Bengie.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I took the photo today, but maybe I took
Speaker 4: it in nineteen thirty two.
Speaker 1: Yeah, CPS sometimes gives a wad in the water.
Speaker 2: Gives John Legend's voice.
Speaker 4: Yeah right, Yeah, struggled, but we got the shot.
Speaker 2: We got the you might need. That's a good clip.
Speaker 2: Wished to be but yeah, shot.
Speaker 1: Is there any time that you've seen a friend tweet
Speaker 1: something and it maybe be like I don't know if
Speaker 1: I like you, like I remember you know, I'm not
Speaker 1: speaking of the person's name, but I remember they were
Speaker 1: tweeting this person was tweeting crazy about the bear, and
Speaker 1: they were just like this is not Chicago, Like this
Speaker 1: doesn't make sense, Like they were just they kept talking
Speaker 1: about the bear and our our beloved ioe isn't it
Speaker 1: And it was just like, no slander on the bear.
Speaker 1: Our girl is doing it in the in the show,
Speaker 1: and let's talk about that, like that's that's It's kind
Speaker 1: of like probably the fans of queer like, can we
Speaker 1: just uplift this because we need more of this or
Speaker 1: more of this person so quite quite on set?
Speaker 2: Damn Yeah. So that maybe that's how.
Speaker 4: Now I felt I stand beside your tweets about it.
Speaker 4: Having never seen the movie. I just saw the trailer
Speaker 4: and I was like, I can't.
Speaker 2: And I like Daniel Craig.
Speaker 6: I mean, he was really good in it like that,
Speaker 6: you know, I saw, you know, he's snatching he's snatching
Speaker 6: nominations left and right right now because of it.
Speaker 1: But like I think being I think being in this
Speaker 1: industry and then talking about people or thinks, it's a
Speaker 1: tough one, especially if you're doing it on a platform
Speaker 1: like Twitter, because it could come off shady.
Speaker 6: You know what I was thinking Nicole Kimmen is doing
Speaker 6: press right now for baby Girl, and there's a clip
Speaker 6: of her that's going viral from pop Crave, who is
Speaker 6: also a Twitter page, being like, Hi, where pop Crave?
Speaker 6: And she's like huh, She's like who what pop Crave?
Speaker 6: And then she starts laughing because she's like, oh, okay,
Speaker 6: pop And for people who know Popcrave, pop Crave is
Speaker 6: like they post all of the things, like all of
Speaker 6: like the high profile things on Twitter, and the fact
Speaker 6: that Nicole Kidman doesn't know that just shows I feel like,
Speaker 6: how how like detached from social media she is, which
Speaker 6: I think I want to be, like, I want.
Speaker 2: That, I want to be like that. But I think
Speaker 2: Nicole Kitman, who a MC.
Speaker 1: Got it okay, the mother of movies, is really sitting
Speaker 1: on like Twitter talking about crazy. Yeah she's and and
Speaker 1: That's what I'm talking about is like, if you are
Speaker 1: that big of a star for the president, you.
Speaker 2: Should not be like that.
Speaker 1: You should be having an assistant that stuff. When we
Speaker 1: hear their copy, it sounds like, oh, somebody who's an
Speaker 1: internal wrote that, not coming from you.
Speaker 4: Because that's the thing about Twitter. A lot of us
Speaker 4: learned that some of our faiths can't.
Speaker 1: Spell read, it's hard, can't can be read.
Speaker 4: But remember when amber Rose and Kanye were going at
Speaker 4: it and she called them a finger in the booty
Speaker 4: ass bitch she did.
Speaker 1: They took that and ran with it, honey. They were like,
Speaker 1: oh god, that's oh.
Speaker 4: She said, I'm sorry that I hurt your feelings.
Speaker 2: And he was like, that's not okay. Remember don't kink
Speaker 2: chain our king.
Speaker 4: Well, I don't remember what he was saying, but whatever
Speaker 4: he was saying, I think he deserved it at the time.
Speaker 6: I mean from someone who is a finger in a
Speaker 6: booty ass bitch, Like, that's not.
Speaker 2: A fact. Yeah, And now what But Kanye was like.
Speaker 4: The only tweets in cat But is there anything about
Speaker 4: Twitter that you're like.
Speaker 2: Yes, positives, positives.
Speaker 4: Like for me, it was always like watching something live
Speaker 4: and live twelve yees because it's like we're all all
Speaker 4: watching we're all watching the halftime show, we're watching the Grammys,
Speaker 4: we're all watching the inauguration And why did j Lo
Speaker 4: say that?
Speaker 1: Yeah didn't you didn't you have some stuff go viral
Speaker 1: when like Bernie Bernie Sanders was sitting Yeah, Bernie the
Speaker 1: with the.
Speaker 2: Gloves something, Yeah, with the winter coats zipped.
Speaker 1: You were like you were like Bernie was like he
Speaker 1: has something else to do. He was going to the
Speaker 1: post office after.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was really good.
Speaker 4: But that that photo went viral, like we were putting
Speaker 4: Bernie in the boat with.
Speaker 2: For what is it called bird bird bird Bird? Yeah,
Speaker 2: what happened to great great memes.
Speaker 1: I like when things get meme If I think abbot elementary,
Speaker 1: they do great job of meming that. I think making
Speaker 1: fun and like a polite way, like cute something that
Speaker 1: we were like, we're all, we're.
Speaker 2: All in it. I could appreciate Twitter for that, but
Speaker 2: we it's lost the plot. It's lost the plot.
Speaker 4: Now people are paying to be verified because they took
Speaker 4: away all the checks.
Speaker 2: Oh that also took it down a notch and it's
Speaker 2: like what Elon bought it? It was like, well, I'm gonna go,
Speaker 2: I'm a head.
Speaker 6: Out and if you have a blue check, then you
Speaker 6: can get paid if your stuff goes viral.
Speaker 5: That's how people monetize Twitter.
Speaker 3: But they're paying for Twitter.
Speaker 6: Yeah now now yeah, like if you have to pay
Speaker 6: for it to get paid, that's dumb. So people engagement farm,
Speaker 6: which is what it's called, and.
Speaker 1: You know what I think, And the making the money
Speaker 1: of this stuff has taken away from the fun because
Speaker 1: when I was having the most fun, the money was
Speaker 1: just happening. But now it's like that's the that's got
Speaker 1: to be on your brain constantly, like how how were we
Speaker 1: gonna get this paper, how were we gonna get that bag?
Speaker 1: How are we going to make this content? And so
Speaker 1: it's just not I think that's what's driving so many
Speaker 1: people now, and it's and that's what that's what's missing
Speaker 1: the storytelling. It's like what can I do to like
Speaker 1: blow up?
Speaker 2: And it's like.
Speaker 5: Just just live, like yeah and then you'll blow up.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: That's the one thing that I dude like about TikTok.
Speaker 1: They have this viral moment now, this this trend where
Speaker 1: it's like a muppet and people are saying, like the
Speaker 1: worst times that has ever happened.
Speaker 2: They just keep using slides of the same muppet.
Speaker 1: The video that had me like crying in my eye
Speaker 1: is not crying crying in.
Speaker 2: My eye, which is like crying in my mouth, crying
Speaker 2: my nipples.
Speaker 1: But this boy, he goes to the gas station, he
Speaker 1: comes out, he goes to the bathroom. He's not sitting
Speaker 1: on the toilet, but you know, he got his butt out.
Speaker 1: He's like, all of a sudden, he feels like this
Speaker 1: burning sensation in the crack of his butt. A bee
Speaker 1: has stung him in his butt.
Speaker 2: He gets up.
Speaker 1: He comes out, he's telling his parents, like a bee
Speaker 1: stung me, and they're all laughing because they're like, how
Speaker 1: is this not a funny moment. But then he's like,
Speaker 1: he's feeling ill, spelling, very sick. He is allergic to
Speaker 1: be Oh my god, he just did not know that
Speaker 1: until this moment.
Speaker 2: Stung in his ass.
Speaker 1: And so he's in his car with Fortunately, so he's
Speaker 1: his parents is in one car, his grandparents are in
Speaker 1: another car.
Speaker 2: They're like, he can't breathe. He's literally his throat is
Speaker 2: closing up.
Speaker 4: There's no bee stung him in the butt, because if
Speaker 4: my butt starts burning at a gas station, I'm like, oh,
Speaker 4: I must.
Speaker 1: Know, because then you know that he must like the
Speaker 1: bee dies and you see the toilet.
Speaker 2: So then he pulls he had to pull the bee out.
Speaker 2: Oh my god. So then what's doing in the bathroom.
Speaker 2: He was taking a pe taking a dump as well.
Speaker 4: He's like he was like occupy, you know, when you.
Speaker 2: Try to reach I'm in there. He is like, I'm
Speaker 2: not decent.
Speaker 1: So then he can't breathe. So his par parents they're
Speaker 1: in a car. He's like, okay, we're going to the
Speaker 1: emergency room. And then his grandparents are in another car.
Speaker 2: They're driving.
Speaker 1: They're trying to get there as fast so he doesn't
Speaker 1: literally die from this beasting.
Speaker 2: They're on the way to the hospital.
Speaker 1: He gets to the hospital, they're like, okay, they rush him.
Speaker 2: They tell the doctors what happened. They get a phone call.
Speaker 1: Grandparents got in a car accident all the way to
Speaker 1: the ambulance, so they had to go. They're going to
Speaker 1: another hospital. They took their grandparents to another hospital. His
Speaker 1: dad and mom had to leave him to go to
Speaker 1: this with his fees. They were like, you got a beasting,
Speaker 1: you'll be fine, right, you're in the hospital.
Speaker 2: We got to go to the grandparents.
Speaker 5: Why didn't they just take the grandparents to the same.
Speaker 2: Hospital because they had two different cars. I guess they
Speaker 2: were doing like a family.
Speaker 5: Trip or whatever in a one stop shop, right, So
Speaker 5: then they.
Speaker 1: Go to the parents, the grand the grandfather survives whatever,
Speaker 1: and then and then you know, the son, he's Okay,
Speaker 1: he's fine. Two weeks later, grandfather dies, like that is
Speaker 1: it is a wild wait? But the grandfather was fine.
Speaker 2: The grandfather was fine, but then I think died. I
Speaker 2: don't know. I can't remember. If it's from the it
Speaker 2: was a.
Speaker 1: Bee it Why did you tell this dirt?
Speaker 2: But it was every slide I was. I was like, no,
Speaker 2: I said, yes, more of this. Tell us the worst
Speaker 2: time in your life. I need it. It's beautiful. I
Speaker 2: do love a good story.
Speaker 4: But I think everybody you need it, right, you need
Speaker 4: me some twists and turns, say something and then if
Speaker 4: it's it's funny, then.
Speaker 2: That's a plus. Yea.
Speaker 1: Do you have like if you were to do a
Speaker 1: Sola moment on Twitter? Yeah, do you have a story
Speaker 1: that's like each moment you're like, what are we on
Speaker 1: the edge of our seat?
Speaker 2: No, you gotta keep going. Yeah, what's your resa, Tisa?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: What is my recess? Lisa?
Speaker 6: It would probably be like like something from high school,
Speaker 6: you know, in high school?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I went to high school in Manhattan. Oh yeah,
Speaker 2: already know? Did you alternative high school? What's that mean?
Speaker 3: That means the kids probably can't really.
Speaker 1: The kids needed special attention because they need, they need
Speaker 1: to be smaller, a smaller school. I went to an
Speaker 1: alternative high school. My mine your business and watch your mount.
Speaker 6: So the alternative high schools are the ones where like
Speaker 6: like you would you would have like a uniform.
Speaker 2: No, no uniform.
Speaker 1: But like I went to School of Physical City and
Speaker 1: so I went there, and you know, all the kids
Speaker 1: that went there were cool. They were like air maxes,
Speaker 1: they got they're wearing they're wearing name brand jeans, fat
Speaker 1: all of that.
Speaker 2: So and they're cool. These are cool, these are cool
Speaker 2: city kids. I was not.
Speaker 1: I was not cool, you know I was. I was
Speaker 1: wearing the bear buffer. I was not wearing a north face.
Speaker 2: The marshals wom yes, and I there.
Speaker 1: And then my mom smoked cigarettes, so I had a
Speaker 1: couple of holes in mind. So and I smoke like cigarettes.
Speaker 2: It was not It was not. But I I went
Speaker 2: to alternative school would.
Speaker 5: Have been friends with you.
Speaker 1: You think I don't want one friend that I was
Speaker 1: cool with. She her name is Jordana. She looked like
Speaker 1: like a Hondurian Aliyah.
Speaker 2: So we was cooler. Yeah, and she addressed yes, yes,
Speaker 2: com DC one. So I went. They ran me up
Speaker 2: out of there. They ran me about it.
Speaker 6: There.
Speaker 1: I I ended up like, uh, a girl that I
Speaker 1: was friends with, you know, somebody she lost her virginity.
Speaker 1: You two up, you're fooling around with And the girls
Speaker 1: were mad. They were mad. They were like the sugarcoating.
Speaker 2: They wanted to avoid me bad to leave. I had
Speaker 2: to leave it.
Speaker 1: I went to another alternative high school where they also
Speaker 1: hated me.
Speaker 2: There, I was like, it's me, I'm the problem. Is
Speaker 2: the problem. It's me?
Speaker 1: And I came in and I was wearing like a
Speaker 1: clueless inspired outfit and this is in Spanish Harlem, so
Speaker 1: they were like they didn't care about clue.
Speaker 2: So I thought I was dion but I had me.
Speaker 1: I had knee high socks and they were like those
Speaker 1: look Arthur like for orthopedic, like it's shriving grandmama. But
Speaker 1: I with the chunky heels and the skirt like imagine
Speaker 1: you are ahead of your time. Yeah. And they did
Speaker 1: not like me because I was friends with another girl,
Speaker 1: my friend Kawana, who was like she was it, light
Speaker 1: skinned girl, light eyes, dated a guy named Otis and
Speaker 1: they were like how dare you and they hated her.
Speaker 2: And then I came in. I was like best friend,
Speaker 2: and you.
Speaker 3: Know how cool you have to be. The data guy
Speaker 3: named ODIs Otis.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he was security too.
Speaker 3: And for people to be like, that's a couple, Yeah,
Speaker 3: Otis is a.
Speaker 4: Yes, didn't look likea was coming.
Speaker 1: To see ODIs. They were the cutest couple. Everybody heard them.
Speaker 1: But they all I had.
Speaker 2: I had a time.
Speaker 1: They her to run me out of there too. They
Speaker 1: somebody threw skittles at me all day, Like.
Speaker 2: I was, how big was the bag of skittles? Family size?
Speaker 1: And they were throwing and they only threw a certain colors,
Speaker 1: and then at the end of the day they threw
Speaker 1: the rest of the bag, which was just orange and purple,
Speaker 1: which is supposed to be the worst ones.
Speaker 6: So I mean, that's what Nicky says, but yeah, the
Speaker 6: worst one. Yeah, in her rider, it's like only green skittles.
Speaker 2: I get it.
Speaker 1: I did not like getting hit with the orange and purples,
Speaker 1: but I know I turned around and.
Speaker 2: I was like, who the fuck do the skittles?
Speaker 1: And they and then it was like these two two
Speaker 1: two girls. That was just like what I was like,
Speaker 1: you were getting.
Speaker 2: A penny prown because when you said the girls like this,
Speaker 2: I thought.
Speaker 1: Girl sisters yeah, yeah, who they was waiting outside ready
Speaker 1: to jump, mean, Sidney, how many alternative high schools did
Speaker 1: you go?
Speaker 2: Just went to two after that one.
Speaker 1: I was like, well I just gotta stay, I guess,
Speaker 1: saying we got to work it out.
Speaker 2: But there was a girl named Mushy. She her name
Speaker 2: is Muschine. She was trying to mush me. For sure.
Speaker 4: I already can see what Mushy looked like in my mind.
Speaker 4: Mushy looked like one of the bad baddie South girls.
Speaker 1: Yeah. She always something like a slippy shot.
Speaker 2: She had the bang that you know was curled when
Speaker 2: you used to like curler.
Speaker 1: That was the soft one was tight, Yeah, it was,
Speaker 1: it was. And she had the like the vans and
Speaker 1: leather and she would she would have the Jibo jeans
Speaker 1: and she was Yeah she was a bully and I
Speaker 1: was like, you are not.
Speaker 2: You are not going to do nothing to me.
Speaker 1: And then I had to stay at school till eight
Speaker 1: pm because they were like the.
Speaker 2: Blood is outside thick out the back.
Speaker 1: No, I said, well, you know, they don't care about school.
Speaker 1: They're not doing the homework, so they're just waiting outside.
Speaker 2: Yeah, they was for you. They're playing spades.
Speaker 4: Those are the kids that bought the one notebook to
Speaker 4: school with no pan yeah nothing.
Speaker 2: Yeah, backpack empty just es.
Speaker 4: But you know what's then, you had to go through
Speaker 4: all of that to become the nice person that you
Speaker 4: are now, because you could be mushy.
Speaker 2: Yeah that's its cute to be mushy.
Speaker 1: No, I had to I had to really just lean on,
Speaker 1: you know, being nice to people, because I know that
Speaker 1: nice gets you a lot further than being mean.
Speaker 2: But do people respect nice? I respect nice? You respect? Yeah? Yeah?
Speaker 2: Me and almost all money they all.
Speaker 6: That sounds like I prefer a nice person. I was
Speaker 6: the only friends with nice people growing up.
Speaker 2: Well, you seem like a nice person. Yeah, I think
Speaker 2: I'm not.
Speaker 3: I feel like you seem nice.
Speaker 2: But I could also see like a Regina George in
Speaker 2: your past. It's no, I swear that's not.
Speaker 6: I think that's what people perceive me as before they
Speaker 6: know me, because that is what I give off.
Speaker 2: Really give off, like pretty cute off. Really, that's what
Speaker 2: people have told me.
Speaker 1: What eyebrows like that brows like Wumming's up to me.
Speaker 1: You know, I'm like, hey, party, let me go.
Speaker 6: But I think I understand what you're saying because people
Speaker 6: have told me that, like I give off mean girl,
Speaker 6: But that's just because I get scared. I get nervous,
Speaker 6: and that's the front I put up.
Speaker 5: But I think, yeah, I'm nice, No, you are, You're
Speaker 5: very nice.
Speaker 1: Should we do messages and get well probably get your
Speaker 1: advice with the messages?
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, period? Yeah? Yeah, we didn't talk about porn
Speaker 2: on Twitter? How do you feel about the porn on Twitter?
Speaker 6: That's the only thing that you're that's keeping me on
Speaker 6: Twitter is my is my porn thread?
Speaker 2: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Girl, that's that's where I watch my porn on Twitter.
Speaker 6: It's so sad because if I give it to my Twitter,
Speaker 6: where am I gonna watch my porn?
Speaker 1: I see a lot of the waterfalls on there, like
Speaker 1: when I would when the last time I was on there,
Speaker 1: it would be a waterfall like the And that's when
Speaker 1: girls are squirting.
Speaker 2: Oh period. Yeah.
Speaker 1: And there's this one girl who's she's I mean, I
Speaker 1: don't are we can I say that on here?
Speaker 2: Yeah? She's she's squirting and you think I think a
Speaker 2: super root as soon as super sporting.
Speaker 1: She's I mean so much moisture. I'm like, how much
Speaker 1: water do you drink? Like? I want aspire to be
Speaker 1: that hydrated. Yeah, yeah, yeah, So I don't even look
Speaker 1: at it in a sexual way. I just look at
Speaker 1: it like, damn, I need to drink more water, Gatorade
Speaker 1: or pedialide or something like to squirt. Yeah, it makes
Speaker 1: me want to be a better person.
Speaker 2: Well, drink a babe.
Speaker 4: It's a lot that's still water that.
Speaker 2: The podcast has sponsored by water.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, sponsored by squirt. Okay, what's the message? This
Speaker 1: is gonna be after this?
Speaker 2: But this is this?
Speaker 4: Christmas has already happened when you hear this, but this
Speaker 4: is the one that we have. I refuse to go
Speaker 4: to family Christmas.
Speaker 2: That's the title.
Speaker 3: Hey, I'm Danny, first time messaging, so small.
Speaker 2: Backstory and I love a backstory when they send us.
Speaker 4: Okay, I love that period small backstory. I have tried
Speaker 4: my whole life to please my mother in any way. Example,
Speaker 4: I was married to a man for five years. I've
Speaker 4: been gay my whole life, but my mom has made.
Speaker 2: It so hard. Skipped it.
Speaker 3: This year I finally left my ex husband.
Speaker 4: My father and grandmother passed away, so I was in
Speaker 4: a low place by February.
Speaker 2: By February period.
Speaker 3: Did you go to an I was actually in the
Speaker 3: National On Society.
Speaker 4: In April, I met the most amazing woman, and we've
Speaker 4: now been together for going on seven months. As of Christmas,
Speaker 4: I talked her into going to Thanksgiving to my mom's
Speaker 4: because my mom said she'd act right, and she even
Speaker 4: offered us a room to stay in. I don't want
Speaker 4: to stay at my parents with my boods. I was
Speaker 4: shocked at this, so I decided to give it a try.
Speaker 4: My girlfriend agreed and thought that was a big step
Speaker 4: for my mom. So we go to Thanksgiving, and the
Speaker 4: entire time my mom made us feel very uncomfortable with
Speaker 4: the remarks she would make and say different little comments.
Speaker 2: My girlfriend and I decided we didn't feel.
Speaker 4: Comfortable and didn't feel comfortable to even go back for
Speaker 4: any visit, much less a holiday. I haven't told my
Speaker 4: mom I'm not coming for Christmas or New Year, but
Speaker 4: I feel horrible about it because it's Christmas. Then on
Speaker 4: the thirtieth is my dad's birthday, then New Year's, then
Speaker 4: a week later is the first anniversary of his death. YadA,
Speaker 4: Should I feel bad about not spending this time with
Speaker 4: my mother or do I feel good about staying home
Speaker 4: with the love of my life and making our first
Speaker 4: Christmas and new traditions the best ever.
Speaker 2: Here's a picture of us. I don't want to.
Speaker 3: See the picture, but you didn't attach You must have
Speaker 3: sent this for my android.
Speaker 2: Do I should.
Speaker 4: I feel bad about not spending this time with my mother?
Speaker 4: Or do I feel good about saying with my boo?
Speaker 2: What do we think?
Speaker 5: You know, I'm looking forward to creating my own.
Speaker 2: Sort of holiday traditions. So I say, you know, start
Speaker 2: that next chapter. Bull Also, you was just there for Thanksgiving? Yeah?
Speaker 4: Yeah, like give mom one of the holidays. She got one,
Speaker 4: she messed it up. She don't get the next one.
Speaker 4: That's the cool thing about being an adult. You get
Speaker 4: to do what you want to do. That part, that's
Speaker 4: the only good thing about.
Speaker 1: Do you want to be homophobic? Do you want to
Speaker 1: be so homophobic that you don't see your family? If
Speaker 1: that's it, so be it stand ten toes down on
Speaker 1: your homophobia bed. But like, if you're gonna do that,
Speaker 1: then you're gonna miss out one the person or you
Speaker 1: know me, Has that ever happened to you?
Speaker 2: Oh?
Speaker 5: Yeah, when I came out, I got kicked out.
Speaker 2: When did you come out? I came out at sixteen? Oh,
Speaker 2: that's so young.
Speaker 5: Yeah, and I live with my grandparents.
Speaker 2: Now, oh yeah, it was not having it well.
Speaker 6: I was with my mom at that time, so my
Speaker 6: mom kicks me out and then I moved in with
Speaker 6: my grandparents and I still live with.
Speaker 2: My grandparents to that day. Yeah, I'm in my childhood bedroom.
Speaker 2: Are you sing in a twin excel? Yeah, girl, in
Speaker 2: a twin bed. I'm not doing this with you. Twin bed. Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's like you're talking like Twitter right now. Girl, I'm
Speaker 2: safe sized metrics. This is a safe space. But also
Speaker 2: I don't pay rent because I live at home.
Speaker 6: I don't have to wash my dishes because sometimes my
Speaker 6: grandma watches them for me.
Speaker 5: And I don't have to cook dinner because my grandparents
Speaker 5: are one thousand.
Speaker 2: We got to open room. I want to. I'm having problems.
Speaker 2: I don't know where you are. You should check out that.
Speaker 7: And I know that's where you live.
Speaker 2: I know that's the copy yard.
Speaker 6: Took the boat to the PoDL I took a boat
Speaker 6: a bike both.
Speaker 5: I'm but that just goes to show how much I
Speaker 5: love y'all.
Speaker 2: But maybe I love maybe wait hold on the ocean
Speaker 2: for us. You the Hudson River Santa Maria losing.
Speaker 1: Promise, you screaming, I'm upset that you said you should
Speaker 1: check out that now and you shouldn't be like come
Speaker 1: live with me.
Speaker 5: No, I'm like, you gotta check out down on the
Speaker 5: first because what if you don't.
Speaker 1: Like she don't For all you were selling me, you
Speaker 1: were like, no, somebody's cooking, no dishes, and.
Speaker 6: I feel like, you know, I'm chill. My grandparents are chill.
Speaker 6: I have a dog. It's just one cat, but the
Speaker 6: dog and a cat, but they chill.
Speaker 5: I mean my dog is a little crazy, but you
Speaker 5: know he nice kind of dog.
Speaker 2: His name is Rico, but he's not.
Speaker 4: Yeah he got a backstory. Yeah, what what's kind of collarco? God,
Speaker 4: it got spikes on it.
Speaker 5: No, it's a regular No, it's regular blue.
Speaker 6: If it were if we go were mine mine, oh Gucci,
Speaker 6: it would give Louaton around his neck, it would be
Speaker 6: a little but you know my grandparents dog.
Speaker 1: Oh no, you got to switch it up and it
Speaker 1: be like the best for Rico. Like, but what who's
Speaker 1: paying for that?
Speaker 2: Like me?
Speaker 6: I mean they always become for me for like all
Speaker 6: my packages, because you know, I you proach it.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I purchased a lot. You know. You know what
Speaker 2: I'm saying, Like, Jessica Simpson just broke the shoes. I
Speaker 2: was like, thank you? Are you serious? Yeah? She gave
Speaker 2: me like five pairs of shoes. I would not have
Speaker 2: guessed those were Jessica Simpson.
Speaker 4: Yeah, gid not giving Jessica.
Speaker 2: No.
Speaker 1: I stand by Jessicas. I stand by that Jessica, Little
Speaker 1: Jessica Simpson mixing on my wife.
Speaker 3: Sorry Sarah, Jessica Parker Simpsons.
Speaker 2: They should do it, they should.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this has been incredible. We went on
Speaker 1: a journey, so many things and many start I.
Speaker 3: Don't know how we ended up in stan Island, but
Speaker 3: we did.
Speaker 1: We did a myself. It might be the title as well.
Speaker 1: That'll take us, That'll take us somewhere. Tomas, what do
Speaker 1: you have to promote with us?
Speaker 5: Well, I don't want to promote Twitter. Don't follow me
Speaker 5: on Twitter.
Speaker 2: Don't don't.
Speaker 6: It's private anyway, so you can't even get in if
Speaker 6: you wanted to.
Speaker 2: You he outside of the club. You can't even get in.
Speaker 6: But you can follow me on I g at Tomatoes underscore.
Speaker 6: That's like Tomato without the E. Because my name is Tomas,
Speaker 6: my toast, which kind of sounds like Tomato.
Speaker 3: I love that that's your real name. That was your
Speaker 3: screen name like.
Speaker 6: Noah, Well no, my aim was t J.
Speaker 1: A k. A.
Speaker 6: Thomas, which is my email today. Yahol do not Yahoo girl.
Speaker 2: We're not doing all that. I'm an AOL girl.
Speaker 1: Everybody like to email you. Everybody send your mess That
Speaker 1: is our new email, t J. You can find me
Speaker 1: there right now if you want to.
Speaker 2: Open up a new account or you know Netflix.
Speaker 4: Or when I you yeah, really do live with your
Speaker 4: grandparents Aol dot com.
Speaker 2: I don't make hurt. I know it's yeah. No, it's okay,
Speaker 2: it's okay. I'll change it one day.
Speaker 4: No, you don't have to have to leave it now,
Speaker 4: because this is what the listeners will message you.
Speaker 2: I'm gonna get the requests.
Speaker 1: Yeah, the messages, messengers period from the mess.
Speaker 2: Okay. So you you promoted that you you have music.
Speaker 2: I have music.
Speaker 6: You can check out some of my singles on Spotify
Speaker 6: or wherever you listen to music. And also I have
Speaker 6: a film, Queens of the Dead, which is coming out
Speaker 6: hopefully sometimes soon.
Speaker 2: I have no clue.
Speaker 5: That's not my journey, that's not my ministry.
Speaker 2: I just show up and and do.
Speaker 1: They will be there, Queen Queen.
Speaker 6: It's giving horror comedy of the roomain old legacy zombie films,
Speaker 6: which is like the first kind of start of zomblification.
Speaker 6: Georgi Romero passed away, but his daughter is kind of
Speaker 6: taking the reins and is queering the cannon, so to speak.
Speaker 1: And so let me tell you, Tomas, this pr train, honey,
Speaker 1: you give us.
Speaker 2: You're gonna give us some tea and some fashion the elevator.
Speaker 1: Thank you, thank you, are you so much from us?
Speaker 2: You have to come back.
Speaker 1: We obviously have to hang after this as well, because
Speaker 1: I don't know when your.
Speaker 2: Boat is leaving. Where's the last What time is the
Speaker 2: last boat?
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like a thirty, But it's fine a minute.
Speaker 2: We'll do something downtown South Street. Yes, yeah, that'd be
Speaker 2: really easy for me. Thank you.
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, you guys, keep sending your messages, keep reviewing
Speaker 1: us on Apple and we love the little comments that
Speaker 1: you live on Spotify.
Speaker 2: Keep gassing us up, send us all of your love,
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Speaker 4: and hosted by Sydney Washington and Marie Foston. Executive produced
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