Speaker 1: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Horrible Decision. Every
Speaker 1: time you smile like that, you look absolutely Asian. Shut up,
Speaker 1: I'm your girl, Mandy, I'm wheezy. Hi. And we are
Speaker 1: back and this feels so good because we're actually recording
Speaker 1: on time. Like, so this is a week where we
Speaker 1: get to talk to you guys about what the funk
Speaker 1: is going on. Yeah, you know, we do a lot
Speaker 1: of hoe I mean regular travels, and so with that
Speaker 1: we have to like pre record for you and we
Speaker 1: try to be consistent and you know, and we know
Speaker 1: that you guys have short attentions. Man, So once something
Speaker 1: is fucking gone, it's gone. And y'all don't want to
Speaker 1: hear us talk about something two weeks later and we're
Speaker 1: trying to keep you. So thank you to everybody, um
Speaker 1: who left us an iTunes review, just to let you know.
Speaker 1: This is how we gain traction and how people end
Speaker 1: up finding us. Oh my god, did I tell you
Speaker 1: about the guy that I fucked years ago? It was
Speaker 1: the first white guy I've ever fucked. He sends me
Speaker 1: a text, He's like, Hey, it's Matt, Matt, Where does
Speaker 1: this Where is this coming from? My? A? D? D
Speaker 1: Just let me tell the story. Jeez. He said, I
Speaker 1: found us after listening to the Joe Rogan Show. And
Speaker 1: I think it's because we've been getting more reviews coming
Speaker 1: in and now we're popping up and suggested podcast. Well.
Speaker 1: I also have a lot of my followers that are
Speaker 1: telling friends to hey, check this out, and they're binge listening.
Speaker 1: So I want to thank all of you guys who
Speaker 1: have been listening, leaving reviews UM and actually writing us
Speaker 1: emails UM for you guys who don't know, maybe this
Speaker 1: is your first time tuning in. We love to get
Speaker 1: you guys as horrible decisions and questions. UM. So you
Speaker 1: guys can go ahead and email us at Horrible Decisions
Speaker 1: at gmail dot com whatever you want. UM. D M
Speaker 1: I D like crazy and I've been enjoying it so much. No.
Speaker 1: I love especially like the girls with kids that are
Speaker 1: like I used to be a hoo and I'm like,
Speaker 1: it's yeah, we get for you find a lot of followers.
Speaker 1: And you know, I'm married now, so I'm living through
Speaker 1: you guys. Still do this, Mary, but nothing of the
Speaker 1: top week. UM, you just got back. You has had
Speaker 1: a trip to Orlando, and I just did Miami and Orlando. Um,
Speaker 1: seeing family, Lord, why are we always away? We're always
Speaker 1: away catching him? Like two weeks, I'm going to Europe
Speaker 1: to see loverboy hugging. I hadn't sat here and told
Speaker 1: my boss I'm done with the traveling for a while. UM,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go ahead and let her know I do
Speaker 1: want to keep working, because Lord knows, she probably think
Speaker 1: I ain't even trying to work no more and she's
Speaker 1: never here. Um. I want to cut you off for
Speaker 1: a second though. Me and Mandy were talking um a
Speaker 1: few hours ago, and I wanted to address something with
Speaker 1: you guys. The more and more listeners we have, especially
Speaker 1: new people, I just want to give you guys a
Speaker 1: little background on us. Mandy and I haven't been friends
Speaker 1: for five years. We got each other for ten. We
Speaker 1: dead at each other because we're not gonna get in today.
Speaker 1: But if we shade each other or you think we're
Speaker 1: slept shaming, it's because we still kind of don't like
Speaker 1: That's that's pretty pretty accurate. Look, we can make some
Speaker 1: money out of his podcast, but you're still a home Yeah.
Speaker 1: Like it's like, I don't ever want to shoot on
Speaker 1: a woman like this extent for you and The problem
Speaker 1: is to the way we talked to each other when
Speaker 1: we don't understand each other about something or what we're
Speaker 1: going through currently. You have to remember we let off
Speaker 1: five years ago is when we stopped talking, so we
Speaker 1: were at our biggest whole phases, like twenty one. She
Speaker 1: had just gotten out of a relationship. I was just
Speaker 1: hopping on flights every goddamn weekend for whoever booked them.
Speaker 1: So so us shading each other, We're still seeing each
Speaker 1: other as these year old trying to find each other
Speaker 1: our sexuality, still experimenting, still doing this, and so we're
Speaker 1: still catching up with each other as far as what
Speaker 1: we're doing now in our lives, um, and how we
Speaker 1: have grown. We still do. I don't know if you
Speaker 1: have heard for the first episode, but if you have,
Speaker 1: you would know. When we first met, we fought. We
Speaker 1: fought her. Her ponytail was flying around the club. It
Speaker 1: was the DJ was yelling as your ponytail was being
Speaker 1: passed across money. This was a team. This is how
Speaker 1: long ago. We're not gonna edit this out. I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna take it because now a bitch has hang time. Um. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like so I think that it's just in our nature
Speaker 1: to always kind of talk and argue like this. Actually,
Speaker 1: Mandy and I got in a fight after the Promiscuity
Speaker 1: episode and she was going off on me and I
Speaker 1: was like, I just want to tell you my feelings,
Speaker 1: and at the end of it, she goes, Okay, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: Are you being sarcastic? Bit because you know we we
Speaker 1: we should on each other so much. I don't know
Speaker 1: what I don't know. We're still getting to know each
Speaker 1: other too, guys, so please bear with us if you
Speaker 1: find that we are too mean to each other. I
Speaker 1: don't want you to think we would be mean to you.
Speaker 1: I also, I just want to say I've had a
Speaker 1: few people write me and tell me it kind of
Speaker 1: hurt my feelings. I didn't even tell you this yet,
Speaker 1: but tell me that they think I am encouraging cheating.
Speaker 1: And I just want to say that cheating to me
Speaker 1: is hiding and lying, and I'm not encouraging cheating. I'm
Speaker 1: encouraging openness. And what works for me may not work
Speaker 1: for you. Maybe you're not gonna eat with your man,
Speaker 1: Maybe you just gonna, you know, look at bitches together online.
Speaker 1: Maybe that's your way of you know, cheating or checking out,
Speaker 1: girls out together with being mind. We're gonna fuck. That's
Speaker 1: all I'm saying. What I do ain't well, I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go ahead this actually, Um, we do have a guest
Speaker 1: coming into the studio. But this actually brings me to
Speaker 1: an email that we received from one of our listeners. UM,
Speaker 1: and we have another one that we're gonna do later
Speaker 1: in the show. UM that weezy got. But I'm gonna
Speaker 1: go ahead and read this because it does. We're gonna
Speaker 1: do an email first, and then we're gonna do the
Speaker 1: second email towards the end of the show. UM. But
Speaker 1: this email actually is about cheating. And I don't know
Speaker 1: if you guys have listened yet, but about two episodes ago,
Speaker 1: we talked about why women cheat and we actually received
Speaker 1: an email from a man whose woman cheated. UM, please
Speaker 1: don't do your side comments. I'm not going to do
Speaker 1: the side comments. UM. But so this is the email.
Speaker 1: It says, hello ladies. Found you guys like a week ago,
Speaker 1: and I listened to every podcast you ladies have published.
Speaker 1: I am so into mostly all the freaky Nancy ships
Speaker 1: y'all talk about. I performed in a room full of
Speaker 1: people at two or three sex parties with my then girlfriend.
Speaker 1: See look at your sad by the way, you're both beautiful.
Speaker 1: I'm writing you to get some honest advice. Be not
Speaker 1: both okay, my bad? I saw be Mandy be you know.
Speaker 1: I'll try to make this as short as possible. So
Speaker 1: I've got a girlfriend and we've been together for five years.
Speaker 1: Was ready to marry her, but asked God for a
Speaker 1: sure sign. So come to find out, she cheated on me.
Speaker 1: Now we've talked about it, and her reason was she
Speaker 1: believed I was cheating on her. I admit I talked
Speaker 1: and entertained two girls, but never got physical with them.
Speaker 1: It was more of me just making sure I still
Speaker 1: had it, and they pursued me more than anything. Anyway.
Speaker 1: The guy she cheated with, I shook this nigger hand
Speaker 1: when I met him, and he was just her homeboy. Now,
Speaker 1: this dude knew all about us, but when she thought
Speaker 1: I was messing around, she let him get in her head.
Speaker 1: And she claims they only fucked once for not even
Speaker 1: a minute in a bathroom. Not even a minute, because
Speaker 1: apparently a dick in my pussy for a minute doesn't count.
Speaker 1: That's her logic. Come assuming, so you can didn't get
Speaker 1: in the mouth, and then it's okay, okay, I can't
Speaker 1: even don't like I take my time, so then hello,
Speaker 1: it takes time anyway, So you can imagine my level
Speaker 1: of piss, especially to think you let some nigga fun
Speaker 1: you in a bathroom. To add the insult to injury,
Speaker 1: I didn't find out until four months later. You wouldn't
Speaker 1: believe how I found out. I say all this to
Speaker 1: say what do I do moving forward? He didn't say
Speaker 1: how you found out? He just said you wouldn't believe.
Speaker 1: We bitch, I don't give me, you know ship, I
Speaker 1: don't believe. The question is what do I do moving forward?
Speaker 1: I love her and we have a child together, but
Speaker 1: I just don't know if I can get over it.
Speaker 1: It's like it's damn near all I can think about
Speaker 1: when we are about to have sex. Help a brother
Speaker 1: out because we're either gonna work this out or I'm gone.
Speaker 1: Thank you, beautiful sisters for your time and hope to
Speaker 1: hear from you with love from a loyal as just
Speaker 1: as freaky as you two are fans. Well, damn were
Speaker 1: you like? So? I don't do you want to go
Speaker 1: ahead and start with the advice for we'll go ahead
Speaker 1: and give our advice, and then maybe we'll go ahead
Speaker 1: and introduce our guests and see what she has to say.
Speaker 1: You're going to have to decide to get over it.
Speaker 1: That's what I would say. I mean to me, and
Speaker 1: women decide to stay. Don't you the same? I would
Speaker 1: tell the same to a woman. Absolutely, but absolutely don't
Speaker 1: think it's I mean, if you can't look past it,
Speaker 1: if you think about it during sex, then don't be
Speaker 1: I mean, you have a child, and you said that
Speaker 1: you want to work on it, but you know that's
Speaker 1: something that you have kids. I feel like you could
Speaker 1: be together when he's four, when they take some time.
Speaker 1: If you find yourself back together, find yourself back together.
Speaker 1: But I don't know how invested they are and like
Speaker 1: living together or they've been together five years? Well should
Speaker 1: she do so? He said, he keeps thinking about it
Speaker 1: during sex. You can't say. You can't say, right, And
Speaker 1: I think that it's also it should be noted because
Speaker 1: you were clearly entertaining two women. Regardless of you had
Speaker 1: sex or not. You you were seeking some type of something,
Speaker 1: whether it was approval, whether it was attention, whether something. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he said that he was entertaining two girls, but they
Speaker 1: were pursuing him more, but he didn't get physical with them.
Speaker 1: And to me, this ship is word. Hello, listen, if
Speaker 1: I got a dick in the bathroom, wait, I don't
Speaker 1: know how Wait please, what are you about to say?
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you. I was texting for
Speaker 1: a second and I didn't pay attention. Of course, of course,
Speaker 1: if I just randomly fox somebody in the bathroom, I
Speaker 1: feel like that's just a little bit better than you
Speaker 1: continue to text a bit because good morning text and
Speaker 1: all that. Ship. That should take effort. Bro, No, it does. Absolutely,
Speaker 1: That's the only reason this dude be on point. So
Speaker 1: this should probably be something where both of you admit
Speaker 1: your wrongs, say you won't do it again, and move
Speaker 1: on from it. At the end of the day. Cheating
Speaker 1: is something that you're you can't go back and change.
Speaker 1: She had that dick in help pussy mouth whatever for
Speaker 1: the one minute in the bathroom that she was in
Speaker 1: it like sixty seconds, sixty seconds? Why are you still
Speaker 1: it happened? Why did you stop? You stopped because you
Speaker 1: felt like it was wrong, and you stopped because he
Speaker 1: came like, what are you saying? So what for a minute,
Speaker 1: you for an hour sixty six? You technically we're entertaining
Speaker 1: two girls at one time. So I don't know. To me,
Speaker 1: entertaining a female is still cheating. That's my thought process
Speaker 1: on it. I don't know if everyone agrees. Um. Speaking
Speaker 1: of everyone, guys, I want to introduce you, guys to
Speaker 1: our guest um for this show, the Birthdaker. She is
Speaker 1: the birthday girl here in New York, all the way
Speaker 1: from Denver, Colorado. I'm coming to the stage, Lady W.
Speaker 1: I had to throw the eighty seven. That's that's that's
Speaker 1: the Twitter hand. You ain't on twit. You all know.
Speaker 1: First of all, didn't you change your thank you? Okay?
Speaker 1: Well talking about best friends, Well, guys, we have dubbed
Speaker 1: here um and she is super popular around the Twitter
Speaker 1: streets and black Twitter. And wait, she's a little off
Speaker 1: black Twitter. You don't really do black Twitter. I feel
Speaker 1: like black Twitter is its own thing, and you're like,
Speaker 1: she's black gate Twitter. I think, what is that? Kind
Speaker 1: of like I'm adjacent to black Twitter. I'm not a
Speaker 1: black Twitter comment because if I run into a white
Speaker 1: two on the street, whatever I say, Lady W may
Speaker 1: not know you well, black person that uses Twitter might
Speaker 1: know they might know you, bro. You kind of tweet
Speaker 1: A lot of Twitter has a really negative connotation. No,
Speaker 1: not butter on Twitter Twitter, Like if I meet a
Speaker 1: nigga and I see he's a part of black Twitter,
Speaker 1: where I gotta dead you bro, we can't talk no more,
Speaker 1: dude with someone who uses that in conversations. Well, she's also, guys,
Speaker 1: a part of um and this was funny. I did
Speaker 1: want to share this with our with our listeners. Me
Speaker 1: and Wheezy used to watch her videos on YouTube before
Speaker 1: we all became friends. We sound like stalkers every time,
Speaker 1: every time because Girls Cutty came on the show and
Speaker 1: we're like, listen, bit, we've been following you since two
Speaker 1: thousand by how we met to a lot of people
Speaker 1: talk about like making online relationships and being so scared dub.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I wrote you were what? But
Speaker 1: it was on Twitter ten years ago? No, okay, like
Speaker 1: oh nine, so like eight years okay, So I don't
Speaker 1: know how we hit each other up. But I was
Speaker 1: dating at the time, and I remember I was like, look,
Speaker 1: this girl's coming to Florida and she's gonna stay with us.
Speaker 1: And I was like, what, Yeah, in my first meeting
Speaker 1: with I've never done this with anybody, like maybe talked
Speaker 1: for twenty minutes and we sat in our bed, me
Speaker 1: and his bed, and fucking talked about like deep ship
Speaker 1: and then and then you came just totally connect. And
Speaker 1: then by the second time you came, we all went
Speaker 1: on a cruise. You girls crew that we we snucked
Speaker 1: liquor into shampoo bottles because we weren't yet of age.
Speaker 1: I tell everybody that now heause I was also like, twenty,
Speaker 1: hold on, y'all, remember how you snuck this fucking ex
Speaker 1: on me? Okay, but I'm gonna tell you. I don't
Speaker 1: know who did it, but I don't know. I was
Speaker 1: super scared of my ex because he was a piece
Speaker 1: of sh it. I was so scared to get of
Speaker 1: my friends and I had a drink. I was real scared.
Speaker 1: I was like, eve gonna find out I had a drink.
Speaker 1: And when you just said, look, you're going to feel
Speaker 1: a little something, that had to because that was the
Speaker 1: first time I ever did Molly. Yeah, we all did Molly.
Speaker 1: That the first that revelation came, I was like, you
Speaker 1: know what, I think I'm done. And I was super,
Speaker 1: not like this free trip to Paris. I wasn't I
Speaker 1: wasn't here. I wasn't even here to take the Molly
Speaker 1: on the cruise and then by the time we got
Speaker 1: to like and then then I took that ship by
Speaker 1: the time we got back to Orlando downtown and then
Speaker 1: ended up in a car at the end of the day.
Speaker 1: I don't say something about because I want to be
Speaker 1: on this briefly, but Molly almost ten years ago is
Speaker 1: totally different from from what it is now. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: I it's been years. I'm telling you I couldn't. I'm
Speaker 1: not even interested. I see, I'm no, I don't want
Speaker 1: for free. I don't want to if you pay me broth.
Speaker 1: That ship is scary. I feel like the heroin and
Speaker 1: cracking it like, well, you never know, you never know.
Speaker 1: The Molly that my mama had, she's like what we
Speaker 1: called it ecstasy and it was great. So, UM, you
Speaker 1: heard the story when you came in. So do you
Speaker 1: have any advice on um? And I guess this will
Speaker 1: lead into you and how you date, because I know
Speaker 1: we had this conversation last night at dinner about monogamy period,
Speaker 1: so we'll get into that later. But what would your
Speaker 1: advice be to a guy who's trying to get past
Speaker 1: the fact that his female, just his woman, just cheated
Speaker 1: on him. I mean, I liked my advice would be
Speaker 1: a combination of both of what you guys said. You said, Tim, yeah,
Speaker 1: and heals everything right and pretty much also they both
Speaker 1: were in the wrong and just doing that set of communication,
Speaker 1: like listen, this is why I did what I did,
Speaker 1: This is how I felt, and then let her do
Speaker 1: the same and then you either accept it or yeah,
Speaker 1: you either at this point you just have to accept
Speaker 1: it or that's why I liked your advice. Just move on,
Speaker 1: like either gonna be over or you're not or not.
Speaker 1: I feel like you's gonna be over here, and there's
Speaker 1: no point someone if you're gonna be thinking and like
Speaker 1: hurting heart breaking your own heart over and over. It's
Speaker 1: gonna be mean. But I'm kind of in that mood today.
Speaker 1: You and that mood. But you over there on your
Speaker 1: goddamn phone. You only wrote in because you wanted us
Speaker 1: to tell you something that's gonna make you feel better.
Speaker 1: There's not anything to say to make him feel like
Speaker 1: just deal with it or don't, Like, I feel like
Speaker 1: you want to be coddled. I feel like a lot
Speaker 1: of people ask advice to situations they already know when
Speaker 1: I asked of it. Oh, I mean, you know you
Speaker 1: don't think an remember like no, I just want you
Speaker 1: to say something's gonna make me feel better, and you
Speaker 1: know I'm not. That's why he brought up the kid.
Speaker 1: That's why he tried to say he did something wrong,
Speaker 1: because he wanted to be like, Okay, well you did
Speaker 1: it too well and we're gonna move on. And there
Speaker 1: was besides the fact that we loved dub Um, there
Speaker 1: was a reason that we wanted to bring her on
Speaker 1: the show today because again, we like to inform you
Speaker 1: all and give you guys different you know, ways of dating,
Speaker 1: relationships and just the different mindsets of people. So, um,
Speaker 1: I guess we think, do you want to introduce what
Speaker 1: what it is that partakes in Well, I don't want
Speaker 1: to seek for you, but I will say a lot
Speaker 1: of you guys, I was excited to bring dub on
Speaker 1: this episode because a lot of you guys ask about
Speaker 1: threesomes and how do we find people. That's a off
Speaker 1: of frequent our kink of the Week to with the
Speaker 1: title is called a unicorn and a unicorn by definition,
Speaker 1: according to Urban Dictionary, is the girl you can't catch.
Speaker 1: Everything is perfect, unfathomable. She is truly a blessing. Uh N,
Speaker 1: I got my face up, don't. I'm just laughing right
Speaker 1: now because I read the wrong definition and it is
Speaker 1: a bisexual but single female generally at a swinger's party
Speaker 1: looking for couples. Um. So I bring this up because
Speaker 1: the threesomes that I have had, even though I found
Speaker 1: women one on tender, is not necessarily with a unicorn.
Speaker 1: Just because there's a single woman. I don't know if
Speaker 1: you would agree with me on this, but just because
Speaker 1: there's a single woman that might suck you that night,
Speaker 1: doesn't mean she is a unicorn. Dove is somebody that
Speaker 1: seeks couples, that enjoys couples, that plays the role so
Speaker 1: to speak, right, that knows how to be treated. And
Speaker 1: I want a lot of you guys to listen to
Speaker 1: this because if you are single out there and you're
Speaker 1: thinking about joining a couple, but you feel like it's
Speaker 1: too slutty, or you feel like, oh, you know, there's
Speaker 1: gonna throw me to the side. After she's had Yeah,
Speaker 1: she's had very meaningful relationships with couples and seemingly long
Speaker 1: term could be. And I'm hoping that we're gonna read
Speaker 1: your minds because we're about to ask her some questions.
Speaker 1: So I truly hope that we are able to ask
Speaker 1: the questions that maybe floating through your mind, like what
Speaker 1: then does this do? So so we're gonna go back
Speaker 1: and she's a black guy, because y'all be acting like
Speaker 1: it's all white people should wps. Nope, not this time.
Speaker 1: So I with, uh, I want to bring into the
Speaker 1: app how you use it? But um, what the funk?
Speaker 1: How did it start? How did starts started? Accident? It
Speaker 1: was a total accident. So I've been very monogamous my
Speaker 1: entire life. Um, and I was people don't know me.
Speaker 1: I am notorious for going on vacation and fucking that's
Speaker 1: what I do. Going on dates, I say, but just
Speaker 1: going on dates, meeting people. So I was in Denver
Speaker 1: visiting and I was dating on around. I was on
Speaker 1: tender and I saw this couple and I never swiped
Speaker 1: right on couples, but I was in Denver and I
Speaker 1: was like, like, what the and the girl was really cute,
Speaker 1: so I was like and so we matched, and so
Speaker 1: they were like, let's take you out to sushi and
Speaker 1: we'll go out. I'm like, guy, and so I was
Speaker 1: actually really nervous. I'm like, I'm about to go on
Speaker 1: a date with two people at the same time, and
Speaker 1: I don't know how it's gonna go. I've never been
Speaker 1: with a girl at this point. I've wanted to, but
Speaker 1: like I did, never happened. And so, yeah, they took
Speaker 1: me out. They wanted to die me and she was
Speaker 1: super hot in person, he was lying. It's so crazy
Speaker 1: because I feel like that is how most of it works.
Speaker 1: When I matched with couples, all either really liked the
Speaker 1: girl and not so much the guy or vice versa,
Speaker 1: right and so and so you're okay with maybe not
Speaker 1: being completely attracted to both parties. I'm a little firmer
Speaker 1: on that rule now, So like I need to be
Speaker 1: at least you guys both need to be best. The
Speaker 1: worst case be minus. Do you do the minus plus
Speaker 1: just to be okay? Okay, up, But it's really the girl, Like,
Speaker 1: if I'm not little girl, I'm not gonna do like Okay,
Speaker 1: she is a pathway to you getting me to the guy. Okay.
Speaker 1: So that's so the girl is still mostly in charge
Speaker 1: and this No, I'm just saying in terms of being attracted,
Speaker 1: like I have to leave be very attracted to her,
Speaker 1: and then I'll be like, yeah, you get a pass. Okay.
Speaker 1: So this was the first time in Denver that you
Speaker 1: did this, and how how did it play? It went great?
Speaker 1: Went back to his nice as a partment. You gave
Speaker 1: me a whole bunch of free week and a whole
Speaker 1: bunch of liquor. They were nice. It would be just
Speaker 1: you don't start going at it. And I loved it.
Speaker 1: I was like on a high. Like after that, you
Speaker 1: think it's because you had two people like swooning over
Speaker 1: you. You You had two people that wanted to suck you.
Speaker 1: It was more hot than just one, definitely. And it
Speaker 1: was also that I wasn't little girl at that point,
Speaker 1: and like I had only been with women in three situations.
Speaker 1: I've never been yet, not yet after your experience with them,
Speaker 1: obviously it went well. Um, I want to talk about
Speaker 1: and I'm sorry to Rushy, but we have a lot
Speaker 1: of questions. Let's go. Let's go. How did it end?
Speaker 1: And from what you know now? Yeah, so I feel
Speaker 1: like this could be inevitable. But if someone doesn't right
Speaker 1: it won't. So no, yeah, so let's called her Lucy.
Speaker 1: Lucy was very she was very jealous, very insecure. That's
Speaker 1: how it ends, which normally and see to me, that's
Speaker 1: how most threesomes or a third party coming in now.
Speaker 1: And it's not just her, it was him. He was sneaky.
Speaker 1: He was inviting me places without telling her. Ain't. So
Speaker 1: it was both parties and so it was just my
Speaker 1: one of my hard rules is no fucking drama. I'm
Speaker 1: not doing it. I'm not sorry, Okay, No, I get that.
Speaker 1: I get that. Okay. So I asked you this at
Speaker 1: dinner last night. Um, and I'm gonna go ahead and
Speaker 1: ask the followers because I want them to know that
Speaker 1: this is something that you're choosing. So this didn't arise
Speaker 1: from a heartbreak or you being like getting like. It
Speaker 1: didn't arise from that at all. You genuinely seek couples
Speaker 1: and you are fine with being emotionally unattached, so to speak.
Speaker 1: How does that work? I mean, so I'm in a
Speaker 1: casual space period, whether it's a guy, whether it's a couple,
Speaker 1: I'm just so casual, like I'm just doing me kind
Speaker 1: of thing. But I would absolutely get in a serious relationship,
Speaker 1: not monogamous, but serious relationship with a couple and get
Speaker 1: very emotionally invested with them. UM. So that's an option.
Speaker 1: It could go both ways. It could be very casual.
Speaker 1: It could just be like a one night kind thing
Speaker 1: for you nights. I don't really do one night or anymore,
Speaker 1: but like a few, a few months whatever, fool around,
Speaker 1: or we can really date and be together. Okay, So
Speaker 1: I wanted to compare the two of you because if
Speaker 1: you guys listen to this goddamn show, Wheezy always talked
Speaker 1: about wanting to bring a girl in. However she has
Speaker 1: to be in charge. She does, but she also said
Speaker 1: she would never co star. You are like bitch, co
Speaker 1: star be right here like hello, you prefer to co star.
Speaker 1: So what is the actual difference between the two of
Speaker 1: you as far as your mindset? Why would you not
Speaker 1: co star? And why are you so only into co star?
Speaker 1: And because clearly you don't have um a boyfriend to
Speaker 1: bring girls in? UM, but sheould neither did she and
Speaker 1: she still made it had it always has to be
Speaker 1: like a guy and the guy that she's things and
Speaker 1: you are both were pretty close to me, So maybe
Speaker 1: you can tell me, I feel like again we wait, wait,
Speaker 1: we just talked about a five year break, so in
Speaker 1: my eyes, still don't eat pussies. I know, like because
Speaker 1: with the mom and she calling, everybody loves her and
Speaker 1: real quick, mom, I'm the recording right now and so
Speaker 1: love you. I'll talk about three something crazy. Soa keep
Speaker 1: asking exactly what they thought they would hear at that point.
Speaker 1: So okay, so what is your what is your reason
Speaker 1: for the hell why you? I am confident in myself, Okay.
Speaker 1: I don't feel ever ugly or like get jealous of women,
Speaker 1: but I wonder if I may have an insecurity of
Speaker 1: feeling left out, like away from them, like feeling too apart,
Speaker 1: not necessarily like I don't know, I don't know jealousy
Speaker 1: is the word, but I feel like I may be
Speaker 1: insecure about what's happening behind the scene. Are you good? Jealous?
Speaker 1: That's what it is you don't want? She did is
Speaker 1: jealousy for sure, And I think it's something that you
Speaker 1: pride yourself on not being so that you really are
Speaker 1: bro Because I don't know how I could say that
Speaker 1: in one breath. When I'm seeking these things out all
Speaker 1: the time, I want them, you want them because you
Speaker 1: like both men and women. But I do genuinely enjoy them.
Speaker 1: You genuinely enjoy threesomes, which is and I enjoyed like
Speaker 1: the emotion when I was like group chatting all the time,
Speaker 1: having that great thing go. I loved that, right, But
Speaker 1: at the same time you brought them. You weren't the
Speaker 1: co stars. So in your eyes, you knew when they
Speaker 1: saw each other outside of seeing you. They had some
Speaker 1: pretty much report about that when I was in Cuba
Speaker 1: and they was without me and they sent you pictures, right,
Speaker 1: But you it's because you felt like you was in
Speaker 1: charge that you had they they gotta send me pictures.
Speaker 1: You wouldn't have enjoyed it if they didn't send you anything,
Speaker 1: and you just knew they were together that night by
Speaker 1: themselves were I would enjoy that. You don't have to
Speaker 1: tell about Back to the interview with dub. So for me,
Speaker 1: you I literally get off the connection between the two
Speaker 1: people we're sitting there having done like I am like
Speaker 1: getting off on that. The more in love they are,
Speaker 1: the more turned on I am. And so no, not
Speaker 1: at all. No, Well, first of all, I'm the guest
Speaker 1: to them, you know what I mean, They're providing a
Speaker 1: gift to themselves. Serious. I told her about this girl.
Speaker 1: I was gonna you remember and you I sent this piture.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know, a you're talking about three
Speaker 1: some You're like, well, don't sunk up the energy. This
Speaker 1: is a spiritual connection. And if you're just gonna have
Speaker 1: a threesome just to funk your waist of time work, yes,
Speaker 1: like this is serious. You're entering two other people's space. No,
Speaker 1: it's so crazy. I sent you a picture of a
Speaker 1: girl that was down for a threesome. I was like,
Speaker 1: I think she's not cute. I don't think she's attractive.
Speaker 1: I was like, but I do go want. I think
Speaker 1: this is awesome that we all three do. Like are
Speaker 1: on the opposite sides of threesomes, because me, I have
Speaker 1: threesomes just with niggas I'm sucking and friends. Like it's
Speaker 1: just something that happens. I love. I love threesomes that way,
Speaker 1: like I love when they're unplanned, or like the guy
Speaker 1: is sucking me and he's sucking this other bitch. Who
Speaker 1: are I mean, he's not my niggers, so I know
Speaker 1: he sucking the bitches and he brings us together, like
Speaker 1: or it's like hate that. Yeah, I'm gonna be honest,
Speaker 1: I could suck a couple before I could have a dude,
Speaker 1: just be like, oh I know this other I know
Speaker 1: this other bitch, and that's all I do threesomes with
Speaker 1: friends too. Oh yeah, so I'm a little on the
Speaker 1: I've like I've like the girl friend. Yeah yeah, we
Speaker 1: used to. Well I'm not gonna, yeah, we gotta not
Speaker 1: because they don't like when we have to put all
Speaker 1: these bleeps so damn brown ship. Then then she'd be
Speaker 1: getting mad like, oh my god, I have to sit
Speaker 1: here and listen back and see when I said that, Like, bro,
Speaker 1: just let's say this ship you want to fight with
Speaker 1: me on? Oh she was turned on when people love
Speaker 1: each other and but yeah, I don't know. But see
Speaker 1: it's so weird because like how you like the emotional connection.
Speaker 1: She likes to be in charge. I just like the
Speaker 1: fun of it. So like even the friends that I
Speaker 1: have had three sons with, we have we couple a
Speaker 1: couple of together. I've never sucked a couple. I've never fucked. No,
Speaker 1: it's always been How I think that would turn you on?
Speaker 1: Mm hmm. See, I don't think it would get me
Speaker 1: because I'm such an emotional person. Y'all know I have
Speaker 1: an emotional I think I want those hinder and I
Speaker 1: told you all swipe couples. But right when I think
Speaker 1: of getting there, I'm just like, I just kind of
Speaker 1: stopped the conversation because then I think about, like, damn,
Speaker 1: I'm just being brought in and I'm just giving them
Speaker 1: looking like that is everybody still us. I've learned with
Speaker 1: couples that, I mean, I don't really like doing this anyway.
Speaker 1: It's easier to have a little bit of a texting
Speaker 1: relationship one guy, not with couples. So how do you okay,
Speaker 1: so so so for our listener, if you swipe, yeah,
Speaker 1: if you swipe right swipe, you know, and you initially meet,
Speaker 1: whether it's on an app, whether wherever you're saying, don't
Speaker 1: go through the texting and kind of talk you to death.
Speaker 1: If the couple's about it. I mean, I'm not my business,
Speaker 1: and I'm there for a couple of things, okay, literally couple. Um,
Speaker 1: I'm there for some free food because it's double incomes,
Speaker 1: and I'm also there for um, well we don't you
Speaker 1: don't have anal sex then, because that's cheese and c
Speaker 1: and be eaten for free. But I'm also there for
Speaker 1: like the undercurrent is the threesome, Like that undercurrent, that's
Speaker 1: the unspoken thing that we're all trying to get to.
Speaker 1: And couples will sit there and talk you to death,
Speaker 1: and so I believe do you think are nervous? It
Speaker 1: could be a million things, but I don't give a
Speaker 1: funk what it is. You're never gonna understand the couple's vibe,
Speaker 1: and they're never gonnaunderstand your vibe until you're in person.
Speaker 1: Would you mind talking? I'm starry to interrupt you, but
Speaker 1: I want to talk also about the worst. I don't
Speaker 1: know this is the worst, but like when you've got
Speaker 1: flown recently, Um, I want to talk about how they
Speaker 1: fucked it up so that people can avoid making those mistakes. Yeah. So, um,
Speaker 1: I was recently in New York or like a few
Speaker 1: weeks ago, and this couple flew me out met the
Speaker 1: moment three math that you were talking to for a year,
Speaker 1: but like talking it was like very one and off,
Speaker 1: but like we were in contact for a year for
Speaker 1: a year, and we just never could get up. And
Speaker 1: so they finally didn't have my son, and so they
Speaker 1: flew me out, and um, the initial was fine, like
Speaker 1: she was actually sleep when I arrived, and he and
Speaker 1: I we talked for like three hours and we ended
Speaker 1: up started sucking and then we woke her up. We
Speaker 1: all started sucking. It was fun. But in the morning
Speaker 1: we went out to breakfast and it was like they
Speaker 1: were on a date and I was not there now
Speaker 1: one thing specifically, kept saying that, but what would talk
Speaker 1: to her? And I could barely hear him. Now, if
Speaker 1: you're on a date and you're saying it's a little table,
Speaker 1: little cafe, if you're on a date, you're gonna be
Speaker 1: like hello, not even if. But he was just like,
Speaker 1: it's probver to her and just like talk and have
Speaker 1: a conversation. I'm sitting there across eating my fucking crossng
Speaker 1: Like what the funk, I can't hear you. And so
Speaker 1: it was just like and she was fine, let me
Speaker 1: be clear, Like she was always into me. She was
Speaker 1: always making an effort. But he was kind of like
Speaker 1: I would go as far to stay stand off ish
Speaker 1: a little bit, and it was just like he was
Speaker 1: just with her, like he knew how to be with
Speaker 1: her really well. But the key for couples is that
Speaker 1: if you're going to bring a unicorn in, if you're
Speaker 1: gonna find one to even show up and meet with you,
Speaker 1: you're going on a date with the unicorn, not with
Speaker 1: each other. Y'all niggas had years to do that it right,
Speaker 1: But now you are now dating again, right, And that's
Speaker 1: what some that couple forgot and I actually have really
Speaker 1: you know, you know, I have really great experience with couples.
Speaker 1: Usually have you spoken to her neither the thing that
Speaker 1: you're talking about. It was so hard to imagine that
Speaker 1: that happened, because that's the reason that I love being
Speaker 1: with someone and then meeting a girl, you date them
Speaker 1: together like you you have already had the first day.
Speaker 1: You already know your connection with this person, and now
Speaker 1: we get to do it again together. Because I feel
Speaker 1: like with couples, yes, like I'm still going to be
Speaker 1: in love with you, but that like excitement that spark
Speaker 1: that getting ready, but I'm gonna now you get to
Speaker 1: have it with somebody else and learn a whole new
Speaker 1: person over again and retell stories, whether you retell them
Speaker 1: together as a couple or sharing with someone else learns.
Speaker 1: It's just fun and so for someone to bring you
Speaker 1: all the way to New York and then go out
Speaker 1: together and leave you. I just didn't. I can't understand.
Speaker 1: It was just very and like he was. I mean,
Speaker 1: he's very boring. He was born he was boring. And
Speaker 1: see this is then you never sucked him, no, and
Speaker 1: he never had his penis inside me. No. But he
Speaker 1: hate to funk out my post. But there's people that
Speaker 1: there's couples that are scared to do this because just
Speaker 1: like you said with the one couple, the guy tried
Speaker 1: to see you outside, and there's so many quote unquote
Speaker 1: rules that can be broken and that can funk up
Speaker 1: the situation. So to me, it would be like you're
Speaker 1: literally opening Pandora's box every time you invite a unicornet.
Speaker 1: So I think this is the thing about that. I'm
Speaker 1: glad you brought that up because I think it's responsibility
Speaker 1: for both the couple in the unicorn. So from my end,
Speaker 1: it's my responsibility to be a woke as bitch. Like
Speaker 1: if I'm serious about not having drama in my life,
Speaker 1: I gotta have to ask the right questions. I have
Speaker 1: to be very intuitive. I have to like watch body language,
Speaker 1: especially her, and see what's going on, and you said
Speaker 1: that because a woman is probably gonna be the one
Speaker 1: to it the most insecure. Absolutely yeah and also funny enough,
Speaker 1: I felt like in your story the guy was he
Speaker 1: was definitely insecure and that, but normally it's usually the woman.
Speaker 1: If anyone's insecure, also um the guy. Usually usually they
Speaker 1: try to Usually they try to take control, okay, and
Speaker 1: then they might try to be in the rule. You know.
Speaker 1: Niggas are my point exactly, and you give him an
Speaker 1: they want to take him off time talking about yours.
Speaker 1: I always try to be an ally to the woman.
Speaker 1: I try to let her know right away I am
Speaker 1: your ally. I'm always gonna be here, just on some woman.
Speaker 1: First of all, want everyone to know I'm gonna stop
Speaker 1: you right there. Devi is dream girl. You just ain't
Speaker 1: gonna get no listen. You might have to watch out though,
Speaker 1: because deb is a different breed, and I think that
Speaker 1: just speaks to your character that you're not that shady
Speaker 1: behind your back save a check because I've been with
Speaker 1: I've been on dates where the chick will be like, yeah,
Speaker 1: let me get your number two and yours, and I'd
Speaker 1: be like, yeah, I let the couples have control in
Speaker 1: terms of like communicating with me. So if it wants
Speaker 1: to be a group tex, that's fine. You'd rather have
Speaker 1: the guy text me fine, rather be a girl whatever.
Speaker 1: Like you guys make the rules, but like I asked
Speaker 1: about the rules, what are your rules? Give me a
Speaker 1: list of rules, and I know upfront, I make sure
Speaker 1: they look at each other and talk about these goddamn rules.
Speaker 1: And I want to have them discussed their rules. And
Speaker 1: to me, that's the weirdest rule you've ever heard, like
Speaker 1: something that's basically kissing. I know a lot of people
Speaker 1: don't like kissing. That's too intimate. Never had a kissing rule.
Speaker 1: That's because that's because white people like that. You're going
Speaker 1: really one of your game. That's just stupid, that's just stupids.
Speaker 1: I do want to go ahead and and and just
Speaker 1: bring it back a little bit because I like to
Speaker 1: people listen to this stuff and automatically it's so taboo
Speaker 1: to people. What industry are you in? You're an actual
Speaker 1: working woman. She's in media. So I want you guys
Speaker 1: to know that these aren't couples paying her for sex.
Speaker 1: It's nothing, but you you hear it a lot that
Speaker 1: this is what people look for. In Vegas, and you know,
Speaker 1: it's one of those where you pay a girl and
Speaker 1: then that keeps the emotions from from being attached to it.
Speaker 1: And this is genuinely something where it's like, listen, I'm
Speaker 1: not trying to ruin your relationship. I'm coming in because
Speaker 1: this is what I enjoy and y'all hit me up
Speaker 1: when you want to see me. But it's genuinely because
Speaker 1: this is what gets you off. Can you get any women? Um?
Speaker 1: Because we want to ask you another question too. I
Speaker 1: think I told you about the phone actually, but just
Speaker 1: women that are thinking about doing this, um and feel
Speaker 1: like no, like single women. I think that unicorns are
Speaker 1: so hard to find, and I think that they feel
Speaker 1: like they're yeah, and they're just gonna kick me to
Speaker 1: the side. Like what should you tell women to or me?
Speaker 1: Because wh I'll be swiping left, I'd be swiping right
Speaker 1: on couples like that hang up that women hang up?
Speaker 1: You just get bored or you just it's like, I
Speaker 1: want to go through with it. You used kind of
Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna lie, Like to me, that's something
Speaker 1: like and I'm not gonna lie. That's why I just
Speaker 1: made the mention of it to me, like, if you're
Speaker 1: bringing another woman in, she needs to be benefiting, and
Speaker 1: to me, that's compensation. But it's just like, you know what,
Speaker 1: Like you're going and bringing a bitch in and she's
Speaker 1: having a third, both of y'all, and you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. So to me, it's just like, am I
Speaker 1: really just I'm really just coming in fucking these two
Speaker 1: and then going back home. Like so like if you're
Speaker 1: gonna see if you're gonna view it like that, I
Speaker 1: wouldn't recommend doing it because you don't you do it
Speaker 1: for you. I really do it for me. And see,
Speaker 1: that's why I like the spontaneous. I feel like when
Speaker 1: it's planned, it just there's so much that can go
Speaker 1: wrong and you're planned yeah, and they all go fine, yeah,
Speaker 1: I've been doing this, like and yours are playing. I
Speaker 1: should try to plan three. Something I've ever felt like
Speaker 1: dating in my skin. Honestly, I think you're coming into
Speaker 1: something that's already working too enough. That's why I said.
Speaker 1: The more the more in tune they are with each
Speaker 1: other and the more that chemistry is, they're the easier
Speaker 1: it is. My job is my hang up? Is? I
Speaker 1: guess maybe the feeling used to think I don't know,
Speaker 1: maybe not only that I can't. Like I said, I'm
Speaker 1: very yeah, but I'm also very shallow when it comes
Speaker 1: to like what I like physically, and like I said,
Speaker 1: everything that I found on tender, I really like, you
Speaker 1: need to get on field, bitch. That's right, that's what
Speaker 1: I'm thank you for bringing it up. It used to
Speaker 1: be Thrinder back in the day when I assuming they
Speaker 1: got sued, but it's called field now. F E E
Speaker 1: L d uh. If you guys want to check it out,
Speaker 1: you can be a single unicorn by yourself. You can
Speaker 1: be uh, two men looking at one chick like gang bang. Actually,
Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you, guys something that I never
Speaker 1: thought I would say on this show. I listening. You
Speaker 1: already brought it up. I was watching a lot of
Speaker 1: male male female porn. I love it, and I might
Speaker 1: have told, but I made a profile that with my face,
Speaker 1: and I just wanted to see what I would get. Huh.
Speaker 1: I never met up with two dudes, but I was
Speaker 1: so turned on. They're like, oh my god, we're both
Speaker 1: gonna do this. Don't go do this, and you're the
Speaker 1: sucking goddess and blah blah blah, like, I know, but
Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I did get this
Speaker 1: very like, I don't know. I don't think I'm secure
Speaker 1: enough to just not sleut shame my own self, right,
Speaker 1: And it's definitely something where you just have to take um.
Speaker 1: You have to look at yourself and be like, if
Speaker 1: this is what you want, it's at the end of
Speaker 1: the day, you're in a bedroom with these two people.
Speaker 1: And that's my problem with a lot of the things
Speaker 1: I kind of want to do. It's like, should let
Speaker 1: me wait, Like I gotta go out of the country
Speaker 1: or something, because I don't want anyone knowing that I
Speaker 1: did it. I'm not going I've met men that The
Speaker 1: last restaurant guy was a hundred percent down doing it
Speaker 1: with me. He it was like, I mean, it's gonna
Speaker 1: be weird for me. He's like, with the jealousy is
Speaker 1: that's why I sucked another dude and it went to
Speaker 1: his house. I remember it's five. He said it would
Speaker 1: be hard. He's like, I'm not gonna like watching you
Speaker 1: second day is gonna kill me. But he's like, the
Speaker 1: wanting you are feeling teased, feeling is hot, and so
Speaker 1: do you do that going into couples have you ever
Speaker 1: done two guys who maybe my sexual or two girls
Speaker 1: and we should be open to it, both very open.
Speaker 1: That's lit. Yeah, but two dudes is tough because if
Speaker 1: you give me French guys that oh okay, you're gonna
Speaker 1: have to share that story another time. And all y'all
Speaker 1: gotta know is it was Central Park, they walk me
Speaker 1: home and it almost happened. Oh no, it's a good story.
Speaker 1: What's happening? There's just with me scared. I'm like, I
Speaker 1: almost happened stories. Then I'm telling the story real quick.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, tells talking to this dude and then
Speaker 1: his brand came and was cute, so she started kissing
Speaker 1: that one and another one got jealous. She's like, but wait,
Speaker 1: why we gotta fight? No Savin. Well, what we haven't
Speaker 1: had the chance to do on this show because we
Speaker 1: always run out of fucking time because we doesn't want
Speaker 1: to pay for my studio time is do a topic
Speaker 1: called vanilla ship. So vanilla ship is where we like
Speaker 1: to talk about something current topic and give our insight
Speaker 1: on it and talk about, you know, just the bullshit.
Speaker 1: There's one other thing we also haven't done either. I
Speaker 1: don't know if I'm a percent right on this. But
Speaker 1: I don't believe we've ever had a mother on the show. No, no,
Speaker 1: I don't besides your mama second dead guys. Um, So,
Speaker 1: what we're gonna talk about now, especially because we are
Speaker 1: actually recording on time? We want to talk about the
Speaker 1: Rob Kardashian and Black China saga. So I almost want
Speaker 1: to introduce it, but if you don't know, I don't
Speaker 1: know how to introduce it. Like I was going to
Speaker 1: talk about it, but like, how could I even talk about?
Speaker 1: Who do you? How do you not know? I literally
Speaker 1: just want to talk about the memes I've seen. You've
Speaker 1: been just kidding? A spell surgery? No, no, ship, that
Speaker 1: was terrible. What was your favorite Rob prodes um? Oh God,
Speaker 1: I don't even think I can think of. Well, the
Speaker 1: latest news is so we all knew this happen. Literally
Speaker 1: I went home Harley from work. God, I hope they
Speaker 1: don't hear this, and I was like, Bro, I fell
Speaker 1: in the rabbit hole. Bro, I couldn't stop. It was
Speaker 1: so I was reading, like how I was reading all
Speaker 1: of the the he was going hamp the office, so
Speaker 1: I couldn't do it. So again, you need to be
Speaker 1: in bed for that for you guys that don't know um.
Speaker 1: Apparently China sent him a video kissing another man UM
Speaker 1: in the bed that he paid for that he pays
Speaker 1: rent at the house. Let me like sum it up
Speaker 1: as a cosmopoult took as first thing he posted was
Speaker 1: a video for kissing another man, apparently on fourth to
Speaker 1: July to make him jealous the number of screenshots, allegedly
Speaker 1: explaining that someone told him she cheated on pictures of
Speaker 1: her naked pussy, her titties, her having surgery dollars. But Injewelry,
Speaker 1: you played yourself gradually and a hundred dollars of surgery.
Speaker 1: So we're going to do something different about this. Because
Speaker 1: I'm sure that you guys listened to amazing podcasts just
Speaker 1: like ours. That's good, but that talk about gossip, right,
Speaker 1: there's so many podcasts to talk about gossip. I want
Speaker 1: to flip this. We have a mom here. A lot
Speaker 1: of what Rob was doing was saying that your mom
Speaker 1: shouldn't be doing this. You've seen the Amber Rose Bush thing.
Speaker 1: Your mom, you shouldn't be doing this. What how do
Speaker 1: you feel as a mother seeing people constantly throw that
Speaker 1: in somebody's face. It's trash. I mean, people try to
Speaker 1: act like being a parent is a one size fits
Speaker 1: all kind of thing where it's just not it's just
Speaker 1: parents a parent. And then if you're a woman who
Speaker 1: has any sort of sexual freedom, and then if you
Speaker 1: talk about it on top of that, or if you
Speaker 1: put pictures online or whatever the case, or they get
Speaker 1: leaked or you're or or whatever, it's just the it's
Speaker 1: just an unnecessary amount of pressure because that to me,
Speaker 1: that has nothing to do with your parents are one
Speaker 1: of the best mothers, swear to God, I mean everything
Speaker 1: you do, and you are also one of the only
Speaker 1: friends I have that I'm like, you did what last night? Right?
Speaker 1: So this was this is my question regarding that a
Speaker 1: little bit. So of course you still live your life
Speaker 1: even though your mom. My question is we're now in
Speaker 1: an era like dream Kardashian. We'll see all of this
Speaker 1: ship when she gets older. And your son, Um, how
Speaker 1: how do you go about talking freely on Twitter anymore?
Speaker 1: Or even you're you're also you have a new podcast
Speaker 1: three so anyone by the way, um, she has her
Speaker 1: own podcast and even your videos from YouTube at any
Speaker 1: point in time, all of this stuff that is now
Speaker 1: on the internet, do you feel like you have to
Speaker 1: explain that to your child or do you feel like
Speaker 1: it will come to a point where you need to Well,
Speaker 1: I bought talk to my son about my videos. He
Speaker 1: knows they're sexual, he's seen them. Hold on, let me
Speaker 1: scale back. It sounds like a DoD porn makes really
Speaker 1: funny She makes really funny YouTube video. Right, it's just
Speaker 1: her face. There's no problem, no other they're very sexual.
Speaker 1: I didn't even think about that. But all she does
Speaker 1: is talk about She talks about basically how we talk
Speaker 1: how we talk about second and SI. She does it
Speaker 1: on a video very like pioneer stages of vlogging, right,
Speaker 1: And I'm just I'm telling stories. It's one thing to
Speaker 1: like tell the guys and how you second dick. No,
Speaker 1: I'm like, I saw this date last night and it
Speaker 1: was white. And that's what her videos are like. So
Speaker 1: I'm not afraid you. Which is the name of the video.
Speaker 1: If you guys want to see her video, it's I'm
Speaker 1: not a freak. And you guys can see these big
Speaker 1: lips that she said everyone wants to kiss. So any
Speaker 1: did you ever or any of your friends that have children? Um,
Speaker 1: clearly this is mom baby Mama drama and baby daddy
Speaker 1: drama back and forth. What do you feel about putting
Speaker 1: that information and going back and forth on social media
Speaker 1: so that I'm not that's not cool? Okay, So I
Speaker 1: think there's definitely a line. So like when it comes
Speaker 1: to my son, I think when okay, so I separate
Speaker 1: the two. If there's something that will directly affect him,
Speaker 1: then I try to keep it pretty private. So like
Speaker 1: I would never go back and forth with my baby
Speaker 1: father one okay, Okay, I talked dumb shit about him,
Speaker 1: so that's my prerogative and he ain't ship shout out
Speaker 1: to that. But um, but like I'm not gonna go
Speaker 1: back and forth. I'm not going to do all that.
Speaker 1: But like when it comes to my sexual freedom, I
Speaker 1: worked very hard to earn that sexual freedom and to
Speaker 1: be like wake up every day and to go to
Speaker 1: sleep every night knowing the ship I did and I'm
Speaker 1: okay with my girl. And so I'm not gonna let
Speaker 1: my son say like I think a few people will
Speaker 1: be confused when you say that, And I want you
Speaker 1: all to know there are a lot of women who
Speaker 1: do this but can't handle it, or they go back
Speaker 1: and forth on their emotions This is somebody that we
Speaker 1: brought on this podcast that owns their sex just much
Speaker 1: like we do, is comfortable with it, and is aware
Speaker 1: of what they're doing, not for any benefit other than
Speaker 1: her own her own, not to just please somebody, not
Speaker 1: to appease the couple, not like Okay, I'm here. This
Speaker 1: is somebody that knows what they're doing, is fully aware,
Speaker 1: and loves it. So for someone to say that they are,
Speaker 1: they've earned that right. It takes a lot of work
Speaker 1: to be able to funk like this. And I looked
Speaker 1: right at you because I wanted to be like I
Speaker 1: got the bruise of the provement and I'm just like,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna let anyone take that away from me,
Speaker 1: my son or some person on Twitter. It's like, oh
Speaker 1: your hell, your mom, Like yeah, they could do both
Speaker 1: multitasking and speaking of speaking of the hole, that's mom.
Speaker 1: That's all that's been saying. That's been said at the memes,
Speaker 1: Like even the celebrities, Snoop Doggs, all of them are like,
Speaker 1: y'all know before you got and that's what you know,
Speaker 1: Like we really don't know because this is the name
Speaker 1: by Rob Rob Crazy. He'd done this before he did
Speaker 1: with Rita or and with I think the ledge. So
Speaker 1: the nigg is a little nuts. So we don't even know.
Speaker 1: You know, men are quick to you might you might cheat,
Speaker 1: and you might do it one or two times, but
Speaker 1: they quickly be like she five niggas everybody, everybody, And
Speaker 1: the shitty thing about society is that they're quicker to
Speaker 1: believe the guy the most. And he shaded her so
Speaker 1: much for doing drugs. And I don't know if she did,
Speaker 1: but she talked about the coke and all this and
Speaker 1: blah blah blah like my nigga, I know he was
Speaker 1: doing that when Hello, bro Scott disick him was tight. Hello,
Speaker 1: you're telling me you ain't do it all drugs. Secondly,
Speaker 1: another thing that really bothered dub I remember when we
Speaker 1: mentioned on the phone, was when he goes you had
Speaker 1: to quit breastfeeding after four weeks just a drink. You
Speaker 1: got bigger titties at home. Have no idea what it's
Speaker 1: like to breastfeed. I'm not saying I don't know what
Speaker 1: she did in her private time, but I do know
Speaker 1: breastfeeding and that ship is fucking hard. It can if
Speaker 1: the you have haven't you seen like people like I
Speaker 1: don't even like, well, after you breastfeed, you're tired, you're
Speaker 1: just even though you're just sitting there, and it's it's
Speaker 1: a mind fun because my mom said she did it
Speaker 1: for three days. She said she was so drained physically.
Speaker 1: I did it for three months, ship and I was
Speaker 1: dancing at the time, I was still dancing in Boston.
Speaker 1: Um anyway, because she didn't strip. She you, I wasn't
Speaker 1: tip okay, so you were go go dancing. Wasn't ballet,
Speaker 1: the Rocket Feller Center or at Rick's cataracts. But I
Speaker 1: only breastfear for three months and then a quick that
Speaker 1: she was hard. Especially you gotta work, you just to do.
Speaker 1: And again, I don't know what she's doing in the
Speaker 1: private time is really none of my business, but for
Speaker 1: him to shade her, but like, you should be you
Speaker 1: should be home for two years breastfeeding. My like, men
Speaker 1: and women are so quick to say that when they like,
Speaker 1: you have no idea how hard it is to just
Speaker 1: alone breastfeed on top of having just a newborn. Because
Speaker 1: I don't know if they were together or if they
Speaker 1: were separated at the time, but I think that's the
Speaker 1: all bygone on it. And I think what hurts him
Speaker 1: the most is at the end of the day, China,
Speaker 1: you my baby mama, and I'm paying for everything. But
Speaker 1: for you to have these niggas in the bed, that's
Speaker 1: the big issue because to me, no, no, no, that's trifling,
Speaker 1: like for any female listening. But he was hurt and
Speaker 1: he brought a social media and he took it too far.
Speaker 1: It is. But at the same time, if if I
Speaker 1: know she didn't deserve what Rob did. However, if I
Speaker 1: had to take sides, if it's true that she had
Speaker 1: these niggas in the bed that they made dreaming that
Speaker 1: he pays the rent for and she driving the cars
Speaker 1: he paid for or everything, said, I don't give a funk.
Speaker 1: She need to have the decency to fund these things
Speaker 1: in a crib. Well, I'm gonna scale it back for
Speaker 1: a second, just be definitely advocate. So what he pays
Speaker 1: for the rent and it was the same bed, why
Speaker 1: wasn't he there? Do they not live together? That's my point.
Speaker 1: I don't know if they're separated or not, because if
Speaker 1: you pay for my rent, that don't necessarily mean I
Speaker 1: can't fund nobody in his bed? Are we together? If
Speaker 1: she's still coming up if he's still coming over sucking
Speaker 1: hurt and if that's what they're doing, well, that's my
Speaker 1: same thing. That's spaculation. We don't really know that. I
Speaker 1: didn't think of that point until then. But like, my
Speaker 1: baby isn't here. So if you gonna pay for this
Speaker 1: rent because you know I can't afford it, paid for it,
Speaker 1: I don't say. I wan't gonau bro, listen to me,
Speaker 1: then you then you sit here and you fuck. She
Speaker 1: paid for my own tips. Nobody else paid for them.
Speaker 1: But if they did, I would not funk nobody for
Speaker 1: the rest of my life. No, of course, not that
Speaker 1: as you put your money on the same I think
Speaker 1: it's easy to be like funking notice house. But like
Speaker 1: she's tired, she got a baby, baby sleep, she got
Speaker 1: a nice house. Come over, dude, if you're not that
Speaker 1: he's not there for a reason. Did anyone question that?
Speaker 1: What are you crazy? It might not be together? Bro,
Speaker 1: Well we're not together and you moved out. You're telling
Speaker 1: me you're gonna believe ain't suing nobody else that nigga.
Speaker 1: Now I see what she did, So I alsode have
Speaker 1: the drug thing because I don't know much about that,
Speaker 1: but I didn't flinch at anything else. She said, only
Speaker 1: because Mom's get such a hard rap. Anything you do,
Speaker 1: especially if you're actually open, you're gonna be on you sluttiest,
Speaker 1: which is what everyone says. Mother possible, you don't desire
Speaker 1: to have your kid. It's such a leap. I wasn't.
Speaker 1: It wasn't encouraged women just like anyone else, but they
Speaker 1: just have a child. And again I don't know the details,
Speaker 1: but it was just the drug thing that made me
Speaker 1: be like but I just don't know because he didn't
Speaker 1: say he was just saying, oh, you you you're doing
Speaker 1: drugs or you've done drugs, like so have you robbed?
Speaker 1: You're in l A. I'm sorry if you give me
Speaker 1: a few million a year and moved me to l A.
Speaker 1: Cocaine's on the list, bro, I'm sure expense like I've
Speaker 1: got goddamn lights Gardner a coke dealer, and cocaine is
Speaker 1: in the air in l A. No, you're right, like,
Speaker 1: I have never seen people do cocaine in my life
Speaker 1: until like l A. I'll never forget it. Of the
Speaker 1: st K with my man. The show wasn't about to like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, I love your outfit. I was like, thanks,
Speaker 1: I love you. She was like and I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: now she's in the lovely city of New York City
Speaker 1: where they do the same goddamn yeah. But you know what,
Speaker 1: New York is a little too today offering a ship
Speaker 1: up like l as California, Cally. People are happy. They
Speaker 1: just want to share their weed. They just want to
Speaker 1: share the You in New York. You see somebody in
Speaker 1: bathroom not gonna the fun. Bitch, I share you know
Speaker 1: how much the ship is. See Calli Cooke comes from Mexico.
Speaker 1: I watched documentaries. Bitch, I know where all the drugs that,
Speaker 1: of course he did not like I'm looking for them.
Speaker 1: I'm just saying it's very close and problem. York is
Speaker 1: very expensive everything pussy drugs. Sure, the second we leave here,
Speaker 1: I need to get bucked. It's raining. It sounds loud
Speaker 1: as yeah, but it's ninthtime nervous. We all know. Anyway. Anyways,
Speaker 1: we want to thank you dub for coming on our show.
Speaker 1: I wish we had a longer time. We would have
Speaker 1: to get you one again. So glad you happene Where
Speaker 1: can our listeners find you and tell them about your podcast?
Speaker 1: Where they can listen to that. Yes, So my cash
Speaker 1: app is datters sign dubbs. Du there's the first one.
Speaker 1: My Twitter is at dubs underscore duh do you be s?
Speaker 1: And then our podcast is called Threesome Anyone and you
Speaker 1: can find us on Twitter at threesome anyone and they
Speaker 1: can listen to you on SoundCloud, iTunes now literally all
Speaker 1: of them, Google all of them. Okay, awesome, check us out.
Speaker 1: And if you guys want to stay up to date
Speaker 1: with us and what the hell we're doing and we's
Speaker 1: making all this goddamn noise digging at her empty as purse,
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Anyways, you guys can follow us on
Speaker 1: Twitter at Horrible Underscore Decisions. Also, please please please email
Speaker 1: us your crazy shit um at Horrible Decisions at gmail
Speaker 1: dot com. Or you can email our asses. Um did
Speaker 1: I say email? Oh? D m r asses. So I
Speaker 1: am on Twitter and Instagram like electronic mail. Yes, I
Speaker 1: love it, girl. When I blocked niggas, that's how they
Speaker 1: contact me, you girl. Um, you guys can go ahead
Speaker 1: and d m me on Twitter and Instagram at full
Speaker 1: core pumps and where can they find you? One place
Speaker 1: we already know, go ahead and say it's only on Instagram.
Speaker 1: I just want to say a lot of y'all haven't
Speaker 1: sending me your penises that I didn't ask for, and
Speaker 1: I don't know why I'm getting them, but I feel
Speaker 1: like I've invited this with my openness on this podcast,
Speaker 1: and I don't want it. I don't want to see
Speaker 1: I want to let you guys know just because we
Speaker 1: talk about sex does not mean we want to have
Speaker 1: sex with you. I think that takes to me that
Speaker 1: are dusty. I see trash hands in the corner, and
Speaker 1: I hate dirt around the toilet here, and y'all have
Speaker 1: been sending me some dirty dicks. I don't want to
Speaker 1: see your clean Maybe I do, but a lot of
Speaker 1: them don't want to send clean dicks to at Wheezy
Speaker 1: w TF on Instagram. Or if you want to send
Speaker 1: us your porno flix like into the email, maybe will
Speaker 1: play the audio if it's good. Oh that sounds cool. Um,
Speaker 1: So this has been yet another episode of horrible decisions.
Speaker 1: See you guys next week. Bye.