1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:05,000 Speaker 1: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Horrible Decision. Every 2 00:00:05,040 --> 00:00:08,520 Speaker 1: time you smile like that, you look absolutely Asian. Shut up, 3 00:00:08,560 --> 00:00:12,240 Speaker 1: I'm your girl, Mandy, I'm wheezy. Hi. And we are 4 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:15,240 Speaker 1: back and this feels so good because we're actually recording 5 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:18,320 Speaker 1: on time. Like, so this is a week where we 6 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 1: get to talk to you guys about what the funk 7 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:22,360 Speaker 1: is going on. Yeah, you know, we do a lot 8 00:00:22,360 --> 00:00:25,680 Speaker 1: of hoe I mean regular travels, and so with that 9 00:00:25,800 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 1: we have to like pre record for you and we 10 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:29,480 Speaker 1: try to be consistent and you know, and we know 11 00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:33,120 Speaker 1: that you guys have short attentions. Man, So once something 12 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: is fucking gone, it's gone. And y'all don't want to 13 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:37,400 Speaker 1: hear us talk about something two weeks later and we're 14 00:00:37,400 --> 00:00:39,919 Speaker 1: trying to keep you. So thank you to everybody, um 15 00:00:39,960 --> 00:00:42,400 Speaker 1: who left us an iTunes review, just to let you know. 16 00:00:42,479 --> 00:00:45,239 Speaker 1: This is how we gain traction and how people end 17 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:46,839 Speaker 1: up finding us. Oh my god, did I tell you 18 00:00:46,840 --> 00:00:48,640 Speaker 1: about the guy that I fucked years ago? It was 19 00:00:48,640 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 1: the first white guy I've ever fucked. He sends me 20 00:00:51,080 --> 00:00:56,760 Speaker 1: a text, He's like, Hey, it's Matt, Matt, Where does 21 00:00:56,840 --> 00:00:58,720 Speaker 1: this Where is this coming from? My? A? D? D 22 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:00,640 Speaker 1: Just let me tell the story. Jeez. He said, I 23 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: found us after listening to the Joe Rogan Show. And 24 00:01:03,760 --> 00:01:05,920 Speaker 1: I think it's because we've been getting more reviews coming 25 00:01:05,920 --> 00:01:09,360 Speaker 1: in and now we're popping up and suggested podcast. Well. 26 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:11,399 Speaker 1: I also have a lot of my followers that are 27 00:01:11,400 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: telling friends to hey, check this out, and they're binge listening. 28 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:16,800 Speaker 1: So I want to thank all of you guys who 29 00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:22,320 Speaker 1: have been listening, leaving reviews UM and actually writing us 30 00:01:22,360 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: emails UM for you guys who don't know, maybe this 31 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:27,759 Speaker 1: is your first time tuning in. We love to get 32 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:31,640 Speaker 1: you guys as horrible decisions and questions. UM. So you 33 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:34,560 Speaker 1: guys can go ahead and email us at Horrible Decisions 34 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:38,080 Speaker 1: at gmail dot com whatever you want. UM. D M 35 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: I D like crazy and I've been enjoying it so much. No. 36 00:01:42,040 --> 00:01:44,840 Speaker 1: I love especially like the girls with kids that are 37 00:01:44,840 --> 00:01:46,280 Speaker 1: like I used to be a hoo and I'm like, 38 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:49,520 Speaker 1: it's yeah, we get for you find a lot of followers. 39 00:01:49,520 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 1: And you know, I'm married now, so I'm living through 40 00:01:53,160 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: you guys. Still do this, Mary, but nothing of the 41 00:01:56,400 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: top week. UM, you just got back. You has had 42 00:02:00,280 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 1: a trip to Orlando, and I just did Miami and Orlando. Um, 43 00:02:05,000 --> 00:02:08,720 Speaker 1: seeing family, Lord, why are we always away? We're always 44 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: away catching him? Like two weeks, I'm going to Europe 45 00:02:11,400 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: to see loverboy hugging. I hadn't sat here and told 46 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:18,639 Speaker 1: my boss I'm done with the traveling for a while. UM, 47 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go ahead and let her know I do 48 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 1: want to keep working, because Lord knows, she probably think 49 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 1: I ain't even trying to work no more and she's 50 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: never here. Um. I want to cut you off for 51 00:02:29,600 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 1: a second though. Me and Mandy were talking um a 52 00:02:32,160 --> 00:02:34,520 Speaker 1: few hours ago, and I wanted to address something with 53 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:36,480 Speaker 1: you guys. The more and more listeners we have, especially 54 00:02:36,520 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: new people, I just want to give you guys a 55 00:02:38,600 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 1: little background on us. Mandy and I haven't been friends 56 00:02:41,360 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: for five years. We got each other for ten. We 57 00:02:43,680 --> 00:02:46,519 Speaker 1: dead at each other because we're not gonna get in today. 58 00:02:46,760 --> 00:02:49,320 Speaker 1: But if we shade each other or you think we're 59 00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:51,920 Speaker 1: slept shaming, it's because we still kind of don't like 60 00:02:54,840 --> 00:02:57,359 Speaker 1: That's that's pretty pretty accurate. Look, we can make some 61 00:02:57,400 --> 00:02:59,480 Speaker 1: money out of his podcast, but you're still a home Yeah. 62 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:01,520 Speaker 1: Like it's like, I don't ever want to shoot on 63 00:03:01,520 --> 00:03:03,760 Speaker 1: a woman like this extent for you and The problem 64 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: is to the way we talked to each other when 65 00:03:06,240 --> 00:03:08,760 Speaker 1: we don't understand each other about something or what we're 66 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: going through currently. You have to remember we let off 67 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:14,880 Speaker 1: five years ago is when we stopped talking, so we 68 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:19,360 Speaker 1: were at our biggest whole phases, like twenty one. She 69 00:03:19,440 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 1: had just gotten out of a relationship. I was just 70 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 1: hopping on flights every goddamn weekend for whoever booked them. 71 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:29,720 Speaker 1: So so us shading each other, We're still seeing each 72 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:32,760 Speaker 1: other as these year old trying to find each other 73 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:36,600 Speaker 1: our sexuality, still experimenting, still doing this, and so we're 74 00:03:36,640 --> 00:03:38,760 Speaker 1: still catching up with each other as far as what 75 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:41,560 Speaker 1: we're doing now in our lives, um, and how we 76 00:03:41,680 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 1: have grown. We still do. I don't know if you 77 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 1: have heard for the first episode, but if you have, 78 00:03:47,160 --> 00:03:48,960 Speaker 1: you would know. When we first met, we fought. We 79 00:03:49,120 --> 00:03:53,560 Speaker 1: fought her. Her ponytail was flying around the club. It 80 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: was the DJ was yelling as your ponytail was being 81 00:03:57,680 --> 00:04:00,600 Speaker 1: passed across money. This was a team. This is how 82 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:02,200 Speaker 1: long ago. We're not gonna edit this out. I'm just 83 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:08,400 Speaker 1: gonna take it because now a bitch has hang time. Um. Yeah, 84 00:04:08,440 --> 00:04:10,800 Speaker 1: like so I think that it's just in our nature 85 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: to always kind of talk and argue like this. Actually, 86 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:15,160 Speaker 1: Mandy and I got in a fight after the Promiscuity 87 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:18,440 Speaker 1: episode and she was going off on me and I 88 00:04:18,480 --> 00:04:19,960 Speaker 1: was like, I just want to tell you my feelings, 89 00:04:19,960 --> 00:04:23,280 Speaker 1: and at the end of it, she goes, Okay, I'm sorry. 90 00:04:23,720 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 1: Are you being sarcastic? Bit because you know we we 91 00:04:26,360 --> 00:04:27,880 Speaker 1: we should on each other so much. I don't know 92 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 1: what I don't know. We're still getting to know each 93 00:04:30,680 --> 00:04:33,720 Speaker 1: other too, guys, so please bear with us if you 94 00:04:33,760 --> 00:04:35,440 Speaker 1: find that we are too mean to each other. I 95 00:04:35,440 --> 00:04:37,159 Speaker 1: don't want you to think we would be mean to you. 96 00:04:37,800 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: I also, I just want to say I've had a 97 00:04:41,320 --> 00:04:44,560 Speaker 1: few people write me and tell me it kind of 98 00:04:44,640 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 1: hurt my feelings. I didn't even tell you this yet, 99 00:04:46,240 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 1: but tell me that they think I am encouraging cheating. 100 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 1: And I just want to say that cheating to me 101 00:04:52,640 --> 00:04:55,720 Speaker 1: is hiding and lying, and I'm not encouraging cheating. I'm 102 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,640 Speaker 1: encouraging openness. And what works for me may not work 103 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:00,560 Speaker 1: for you. Maybe you're not gonna eat with your man, 104 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:04,559 Speaker 1: Maybe you just gonna, you know, look at bitches together online. 105 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:06,840 Speaker 1: Maybe that's your way of you know, cheating or checking out, 106 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 1: girls out together with being mind. We're gonna fuck. That's 107 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:13,840 Speaker 1: all I'm saying. What I do ain't well, I'm gonna 108 00:05:13,880 --> 00:05:16,280 Speaker 1: go ahead this actually, Um, we do have a guest 109 00:05:16,320 --> 00:05:19,120 Speaker 1: coming into the studio. But this actually brings me to 110 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:23,520 Speaker 1: an email that we received from one of our listeners. UM, 111 00:05:23,560 --> 00:05:25,200 Speaker 1: and we have another one that we're gonna do later 112 00:05:25,200 --> 00:05:27,720 Speaker 1: in the show. UM that weezy got. But I'm gonna 113 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 1: go ahead and read this because it does. We're gonna 114 00:05:30,120 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 1: do an email first, and then we're gonna do the 115 00:05:31,960 --> 00:05:34,720 Speaker 1: second email towards the end of the show. UM. But 116 00:05:34,880 --> 00:05:38,000 Speaker 1: this email actually is about cheating. And I don't know 117 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:40,920 Speaker 1: if you guys have listened yet, but about two episodes ago, 118 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:44,280 Speaker 1: we talked about why women cheat and we actually received 119 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:48,000 Speaker 1: an email from a man whose woman cheated. UM, please 120 00:05:48,000 --> 00:05:50,240 Speaker 1: don't do your side comments. I'm not going to do 121 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:53,480 Speaker 1: the side comments. UM. But so this is the email. 122 00:05:53,680 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 1: It says, hello ladies. Found you guys like a week ago, 123 00:05:56,440 --> 00:05:59,280 Speaker 1: and I listened to every podcast you ladies have published. 124 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:02,360 Speaker 1: I am so into mostly all the freaky Nancy ships 125 00:06:02,400 --> 00:06:05,159 Speaker 1: y'all talk about. I performed in a room full of 126 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:11,040 Speaker 1: people at two or three sex parties with my then girlfriend. 127 00:06:12,480 --> 00:06:15,680 Speaker 1: See look at your sad by the way, you're both beautiful. 128 00:06:15,920 --> 00:06:20,120 Speaker 1: I'm writing you to get some honest advice. Be not 129 00:06:20,279 --> 00:06:23,480 Speaker 1: both okay, my bad? I saw be Mandy be you know. 130 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:27,719 Speaker 1: I'll try to make this as short as possible. So 131 00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:29,960 Speaker 1: I've got a girlfriend and we've been together for five years. 132 00:06:30,560 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 1: Was ready to marry her, but asked God for a 133 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:36,600 Speaker 1: sure sign. So come to find out, she cheated on me. 134 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:39,160 Speaker 1: Now we've talked about it, and her reason was she 135 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:42,800 Speaker 1: believed I was cheating on her. I admit I talked 136 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:46,240 Speaker 1: and entertained two girls, but never got physical with them. 137 00:06:46,320 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 1: It was more of me just making sure I still 138 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:51,680 Speaker 1: had it, and they pursued me more than anything. Anyway. 139 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:54,440 Speaker 1: The guy she cheated with, I shook this nigger hand 140 00:06:54,440 --> 00:06:58,479 Speaker 1: when I met him, and he was just her homeboy. Now, 141 00:06:58,520 --> 00:07:00,880 Speaker 1: this dude knew all about us, but when she thought 142 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:03,640 Speaker 1: I was messing around, she let him get in her head. 143 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:07,039 Speaker 1: And she claims they only fucked once for not even 144 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:10,360 Speaker 1: a minute in a bathroom. Not even a minute, because 145 00:07:10,440 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: apparently a dick in my pussy for a minute doesn't count. 146 00:07:13,400 --> 00:07:15,960 Speaker 1: That's her logic. Come assuming, so you can didn't get 147 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: in the mouth, and then it's okay, okay, I can't 148 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:24,040 Speaker 1: even don't like I take my time, so then hello, 149 00:07:24,120 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 1: it takes time anyway, So you can imagine my level 150 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:30,320 Speaker 1: of piss, especially to think you let some nigga fun 151 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:33,280 Speaker 1: you in a bathroom. To add the insult to injury, 152 00:07:33,480 --> 00:07:36,080 Speaker 1: I didn't find out until four months later. You wouldn't 153 00:07:36,120 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: believe how I found out. I say all this to 154 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:42,240 Speaker 1: say what do I do moving forward? He didn't say 155 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:44,400 Speaker 1: how you found out? He just said you wouldn't believe. 156 00:07:44,440 --> 00:07:48,000 Speaker 1: We bitch, I don't give me, you know ship, I 157 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: don't believe. The question is what do I do moving forward? 158 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:56,040 Speaker 1: I love her and we have a child together, but 159 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:58,320 Speaker 1: I just don't know if I can get over it. 160 00:07:58,320 --> 00:08:00,360 Speaker 1: It's like it's damn near all I can think about 161 00:08:00,360 --> 00:08:02,520 Speaker 1: when we are about to have sex. Help a brother 162 00:08:02,560 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 1: out because we're either gonna work this out or I'm gone. 163 00:08:05,960 --> 00:08:08,120 Speaker 1: Thank you, beautiful sisters for your time and hope to 164 00:08:08,160 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 1: hear from you with love from a loyal as just 165 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:13,560 Speaker 1: as freaky as you two are fans. Well, damn were 166 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:17,000 Speaker 1: you like? So? I don't do you want to go 167 00:08:17,040 --> 00:08:20,680 Speaker 1: ahead and start with the advice for we'll go ahead 168 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:22,120 Speaker 1: and give our advice, and then maybe we'll go ahead 169 00:08:22,160 --> 00:08:24,280 Speaker 1: and introduce our guests and see what she has to say. 170 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:26,000 Speaker 1: You're going to have to decide to get over it. 171 00:08:26,440 --> 00:08:28,800 Speaker 1: That's what I would say. I mean to me, and 172 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:34,560 Speaker 1: women decide to stay. Don't you the same? I would 173 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 1: tell the same to a woman. Absolutely, but absolutely don't 174 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:39,960 Speaker 1: think it's I mean, if you can't look past it, 175 00:08:40,000 --> 00:08:41,840 Speaker 1: if you think about it during sex, then don't be 176 00:08:42,160 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: I mean, you have a child, and you said that 177 00:08:44,000 --> 00:08:46,200 Speaker 1: you want to work on it, but you know that's 178 00:08:46,200 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 1: something that you have kids. I feel like you could 179 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 1: be together when he's four, when they take some time. 180 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:53,560 Speaker 1: If you find yourself back together, find yourself back together. 181 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:55,120 Speaker 1: But I don't know how invested they are and like 182 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:58,199 Speaker 1: living together or they've been together five years? Well should 183 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:00,000 Speaker 1: she do so? He said, he keeps thinking about it 184 00:09:00,080 --> 00:09:02,800 Speaker 1: during sex. You can't say. You can't say, right, And 185 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:06,000 Speaker 1: I think that it's also it should be noted because 186 00:09:06,360 --> 00:09:09,280 Speaker 1: you were clearly entertaining two women. Regardless of you had 187 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:13,040 Speaker 1: sex or not. You you were seeking some type of something, 188 00:09:13,040 --> 00:09:16,520 Speaker 1: whether it was approval, whether it was attention, whether something. Yeah, 189 00:09:16,520 --> 00:09:19,439 Speaker 1: he said that he was entertaining two girls, but they 190 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: were pursuing him more, but he didn't get physical with them. 191 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:27,760 Speaker 1: And to me, this ship is word. Hello, listen, if 192 00:09:27,800 --> 00:09:31,040 Speaker 1: I got a dick in the bathroom, wait, I don't 193 00:09:31,040 --> 00:09:34,599 Speaker 1: know how Wait please, what are you about to say? 194 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna be honest with you. I was texting for 195 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 1: a second and I didn't pay attention. Of course, of course, 196 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:41,560 Speaker 1: if I just randomly fox somebody in the bathroom, I 197 00:09:41,600 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 1: feel like that's just a little bit better than you 198 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:45,480 Speaker 1: continue to text a bit because good morning text and 199 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,800 Speaker 1: all that. Ship. That should take effort. Bro, No, it does. Absolutely, 200 00:09:47,840 --> 00:09:50,760 Speaker 1: That's the only reason this dude be on point. So 201 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:53,600 Speaker 1: this should probably be something where both of you admit 202 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:56,480 Speaker 1: your wrongs, say you won't do it again, and move 203 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: on from it. At the end of the day. Cheating 204 00:09:58,240 --> 00:10:00,360 Speaker 1: is something that you're you can't go back and change. 205 00:10:00,679 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: She had that dick in help pussy mouth whatever for 206 00:10:03,080 --> 00:10:04,640 Speaker 1: the one minute in the bathroom that she was in 207 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: it like sixty seconds, sixty seconds? Why are you still 208 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:12,480 Speaker 1: it happened? Why did you stop? You stopped because you 209 00:10:12,520 --> 00:10:14,160 Speaker 1: felt like it was wrong, and you stopped because he 210 00:10:14,200 --> 00:10:16,680 Speaker 1: came like, what are you saying? So what for a minute, 211 00:10:16,679 --> 00:10:20,200 Speaker 1: you for an hour sixty six? You technically we're entertaining 212 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:23,480 Speaker 1: two girls at one time. So I don't know. To me, 213 00:10:23,880 --> 00:10:28,120 Speaker 1: entertaining a female is still cheating. That's my thought process 214 00:10:28,200 --> 00:10:31,800 Speaker 1: on it. I don't know if everyone agrees. Um. Speaking 215 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:35,319 Speaker 1: of everyone, guys, I want to introduce you, guys to 216 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:39,840 Speaker 1: our guest um for this show, the Birthdaker. She is 217 00:10:39,880 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 1: the birthday girl here in New York, all the way 218 00:10:42,400 --> 00:10:50,160 Speaker 1: from Denver, Colorado. I'm coming to the stage, Lady W. 219 00:10:53,480 --> 00:10:56,560 Speaker 1: I had to throw the eighty seven. That's that's that's 220 00:10:56,559 --> 00:11:00,840 Speaker 1: the Twitter hand. You ain't on twit. You all know. 221 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 1: First of all, didn't you change your thank you? Okay? 222 00:11:05,720 --> 00:11:09,760 Speaker 1: Well talking about best friends, Well, guys, we have dubbed 223 00:11:09,800 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 1: here um and she is super popular around the Twitter 224 00:11:14,840 --> 00:11:18,959 Speaker 1: streets and black Twitter. And wait, she's a little off 225 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:21,440 Speaker 1: black Twitter. You don't really do black Twitter. I feel 226 00:11:21,480 --> 00:11:23,600 Speaker 1: like black Twitter is its own thing, and you're like, 227 00:11:24,120 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 1: she's black gate Twitter. I think, what is that? Kind 228 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 1: of like I'm adjacent to black Twitter. I'm not a 229 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:39,319 Speaker 1: black Twitter comment because if I run into a white 230 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 1: two on the street, whatever I say, Lady W may 231 00:11:43,440 --> 00:11:45,800 Speaker 1: not know you well, black person that uses Twitter might 232 00:11:46,800 --> 00:11:49,880 Speaker 1: know they might know you, bro. You kind of tweet 233 00:11:49,920 --> 00:11:52,679 Speaker 1: A lot of Twitter has a really negative connotation. No, 234 00:11:53,720 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 1: not butter on Twitter Twitter, Like if I meet a 235 00:12:00,960 --> 00:12:02,800 Speaker 1: nigga and I see he's a part of black Twitter, 236 00:12:03,360 --> 00:12:05,199 Speaker 1: where I gotta dead you bro, we can't talk no more, 237 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 1: dude with someone who uses that in conversations. Well, she's also, guys, 238 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:15,439 Speaker 1: a part of um and this was funny. I did 239 00:12:15,480 --> 00:12:17,520 Speaker 1: want to share this with our with our listeners. Me 240 00:12:17,640 --> 00:12:23,840 Speaker 1: and Wheezy used to watch her videos on YouTube before 241 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:26,559 Speaker 1: we all became friends. We sound like stalkers every time, 242 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 1: every time because Girls Cutty came on the show and 243 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:31,440 Speaker 1: we're like, listen, bit, we've been following you since two 244 00:12:31,480 --> 00:12:33,679 Speaker 1: thousand by how we met to a lot of people 245 00:12:33,800 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 1: talk about like making online relationships and being so scared dub. 246 00:12:38,120 --> 00:12:39,439 Speaker 1: I don't know if I wrote you were what? But 247 00:12:39,480 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 1: it was on Twitter ten years ago? No, okay, like 248 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:49,520 Speaker 1: oh nine, so like eight years okay, So I don't 249 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:52,079 Speaker 1: know how we hit each other up. But I was 250 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:55,160 Speaker 1: dating at the time, and I remember I was like, look, 251 00:12:55,160 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 1: this girl's coming to Florida and she's gonna stay with us. 252 00:12:57,000 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 1: And I was like, what, Yeah, in my first meeting 253 00:12:59,480 --> 00:13:02,440 Speaker 1: with I've never done this with anybody, like maybe talked 254 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 1: for twenty minutes and we sat in our bed, me 255 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:08,440 Speaker 1: and his bed, and fucking talked about like deep ship 256 00:13:09,160 --> 00:13:11,679 Speaker 1: and then and then you came just totally connect. And 257 00:13:11,679 --> 00:13:13,240 Speaker 1: then by the second time you came, we all went 258 00:13:13,240 --> 00:13:19,320 Speaker 1: on a cruise. You girls crew that we we snucked 259 00:13:19,480 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 1: liquor into shampoo bottles because we weren't yet of age. 260 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:30,600 Speaker 1: I tell everybody that now heause I was also like, twenty, 261 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 1: hold on, y'all, remember how you snuck this fucking ex 262 00:13:33,200 --> 00:13:34,920 Speaker 1: on me? Okay, but I'm gonna tell you. I don't 263 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:37,040 Speaker 1: know who did it, but I don't know. I was 264 00:13:37,080 --> 00:13:38,600 Speaker 1: super scared of my ex because he was a piece 265 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 1: of sh it. I was so scared to get of 266 00:13:40,040 --> 00:13:43,000 Speaker 1: my friends and I had a drink. I was real scared. 267 00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 1: I was like, eve gonna find out I had a drink. 268 00:13:45,559 --> 00:13:47,120 Speaker 1: And when you just said, look, you're going to feel 269 00:13:47,120 --> 00:13:50,480 Speaker 1: a little something, that had to because that was the 270 00:13:50,480 --> 00:13:53,480 Speaker 1: first time I ever did Molly. Yeah, we all did Molly. 271 00:13:53,520 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 1: That the first that revelation came, I was like, you 272 00:13:57,240 --> 00:13:59,560 Speaker 1: know what, I think I'm done. And I was super, 273 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:02,520 Speaker 1: not like this free trip to Paris. I wasn't I 274 00:14:02,559 --> 00:14:05,160 Speaker 1: wasn't here. I wasn't even here to take the Molly 275 00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 1: on the cruise and then by the time we got 276 00:14:06,800 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 1: to like and then then I took that ship by 277 00:14:13,520 --> 00:14:15,680 Speaker 1: the time we got back to Orlando downtown and then 278 00:14:16,160 --> 00:14:17,800 Speaker 1: ended up in a car at the end of the day. 279 00:14:17,960 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 1: I don't say something about because I want to be 280 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:24,360 Speaker 1: on this briefly, but Molly almost ten years ago is 281 00:14:24,440 --> 00:14:26,960 Speaker 1: totally different from from what it is now. Yeah, I mean, 282 00:14:27,280 --> 00:14:30,880 Speaker 1: I it's been years. I'm telling you I couldn't. I'm 283 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:33,160 Speaker 1: not even interested. I see, I'm no, I don't want 284 00:14:33,200 --> 00:14:34,640 Speaker 1: for free. I don't want to if you pay me broth. 285 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 1: That ship is scary. I feel like the heroin and 286 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:40,240 Speaker 1: cracking it like, well, you never know, you never know. 287 00:14:41,040 --> 00:14:43,080 Speaker 1: The Molly that my mama had, she's like what we 288 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:49,440 Speaker 1: called it ecstasy and it was great. So, UM, you 289 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 1: heard the story when you came in. So do you 290 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:54,480 Speaker 1: have any advice on um? And I guess this will 291 00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 1: lead into you and how you date, because I know 292 00:14:57,960 --> 00:15:00,960 Speaker 1: we had this conversation last night at dinner about monogamy period, 293 00:15:01,160 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 1: so we'll get into that later. But what would your 294 00:15:03,800 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 1: advice be to a guy who's trying to get past 295 00:15:07,480 --> 00:15:10,080 Speaker 1: the fact that his female, just his woman, just cheated 296 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:13,080 Speaker 1: on him. I mean, I liked my advice would be 297 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 1: a combination of both of what you guys said. You said, Tim, yeah, 298 00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:22,400 Speaker 1: and heals everything right and pretty much also they both 299 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:24,760 Speaker 1: were in the wrong and just doing that set of communication, 300 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 1: like listen, this is why I did what I did, 301 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:28,520 Speaker 1: This is how I felt, and then let her do 302 00:15:28,600 --> 00:15:31,160 Speaker 1: the same and then you either accept it or yeah, 303 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 1: you either at this point you just have to accept 304 00:15:33,640 --> 00:15:35,640 Speaker 1: it or that's why I liked your advice. Just move on, 305 00:15:35,680 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 1: like either gonna be over or you're not or not. 306 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:39,640 Speaker 1: I feel like you's gonna be over here, and there's 307 00:15:39,680 --> 00:15:42,160 Speaker 1: no point someone if you're gonna be thinking and like 308 00:15:42,240 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 1: hurting heart breaking your own heart over and over. It's 309 00:15:45,400 --> 00:15:47,720 Speaker 1: gonna be mean. But I'm kind of in that mood today. 310 00:15:48,680 --> 00:15:50,240 Speaker 1: You and that mood. But you over there on your 311 00:15:50,280 --> 00:15:53,160 Speaker 1: goddamn phone. You only wrote in because you wanted us 312 00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 1: to tell you something that's gonna make you feel better. 313 00:15:55,640 --> 00:15:58,600 Speaker 1: There's not anything to say to make him feel like 314 00:15:58,680 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 1: just deal with it or don't, Like, I feel like 315 00:16:00,640 --> 00:16:02,040 Speaker 1: you want to be coddled. I feel like a lot 316 00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:04,760 Speaker 1: of people ask advice to situations they already know when 317 00:16:04,800 --> 00:16:07,800 Speaker 1: I asked of it. Oh, I mean, you know you 318 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 1: don't think an remember like no, I just want you 319 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:11,880 Speaker 1: to say something's gonna make me feel better, and you 320 00:16:11,920 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 1: know I'm not. That's why he brought up the kid. 321 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:16,240 Speaker 1: That's why he tried to say he did something wrong, 322 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 1: because he wanted to be like, Okay, well you did 323 00:16:17,720 --> 00:16:23,680 Speaker 1: it too well and we're gonna move on. And there 324 00:16:23,880 --> 00:16:26,680 Speaker 1: was besides the fact that we loved dub Um, there 325 00:16:26,760 --> 00:16:28,920 Speaker 1: was a reason that we wanted to bring her on 326 00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:31,680 Speaker 1: the show today because again, we like to inform you 327 00:16:31,760 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 1: all and give you guys different you know, ways of dating, 328 00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:38,680 Speaker 1: relationships and just the different mindsets of people. So, um, 329 00:16:38,720 --> 00:16:40,720 Speaker 1: I guess we think, do you want to introduce what 330 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:43,600 Speaker 1: what it is that partakes in Well, I don't want 331 00:16:43,600 --> 00:16:45,640 Speaker 1: to seek for you, but I will say a lot 332 00:16:45,680 --> 00:16:47,680 Speaker 1: of you guys, I was excited to bring dub on 333 00:16:47,720 --> 00:16:50,520 Speaker 1: this episode because a lot of you guys ask about 334 00:16:50,640 --> 00:16:57,280 Speaker 1: threesomes and how do we find people. That's a off 335 00:16:57,320 --> 00:17:00,280 Speaker 1: of frequent our kink of the Week to with the 336 00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:04,080 Speaker 1: title is called a unicorn and a unicorn by definition, 337 00:17:04,080 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 1: according to Urban Dictionary, is the girl you can't catch. 338 00:17:07,720 --> 00:17:14,680 Speaker 1: Everything is perfect, unfathomable. She is truly a blessing. Uh N, 339 00:17:17,000 --> 00:17:21,639 Speaker 1: I got my face up, don't. I'm just laughing right 340 00:17:21,680 --> 00:17:27,000 Speaker 1: now because I read the wrong definition and it is 341 00:17:27,040 --> 00:17:30,480 Speaker 1: a bisexual but single female generally at a swinger's party 342 00:17:30,560 --> 00:17:34,960 Speaker 1: looking for couples. Um. So I bring this up because 343 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:38,720 Speaker 1: the threesomes that I have had, even though I found 344 00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 1: women one on tender, is not necessarily with a unicorn. 345 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 1: Just because there's a single woman. I don't know if 346 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:47,640 Speaker 1: you would agree with me on this, but just because 347 00:17:47,680 --> 00:17:49,280 Speaker 1: there's a single woman that might suck you that night, 348 00:17:49,320 --> 00:17:52,760 Speaker 1: doesn't mean she is a unicorn. Dove is somebody that 349 00:17:53,320 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 1: seeks couples, that enjoys couples, that plays the role so 350 00:17:57,560 --> 00:17:59,560 Speaker 1: to speak, right, that knows how to be treated. And 351 00:17:59,600 --> 00:18:01,600 Speaker 1: I want a lot of you guys to listen to 352 00:18:01,600 --> 00:18:03,160 Speaker 1: this because if you are single out there and you're 353 00:18:03,200 --> 00:18:05,040 Speaker 1: thinking about joining a couple, but you feel like it's 354 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:07,400 Speaker 1: too slutty, or you feel like, oh, you know, there's 355 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:10,160 Speaker 1: gonna throw me to the side. After she's had Yeah, 356 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:15,520 Speaker 1: she's had very meaningful relationships with couples and seemingly long 357 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:19,639 Speaker 1: term could be. And I'm hoping that we're gonna read 358 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 1: your minds because we're about to ask her some questions. 359 00:18:22,480 --> 00:18:24,640 Speaker 1: So I truly hope that we are able to ask 360 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:26,880 Speaker 1: the questions that maybe floating through your mind, like what 361 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 1: then does this do? So so we're gonna go back 362 00:18:31,480 --> 00:18:34,960 Speaker 1: and she's a black guy, because y'all be acting like 363 00:18:35,119 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 1: it's all white people should wps. Nope, not this time. 364 00:18:39,920 --> 00:18:46,159 Speaker 1: So I with, uh, I want to bring into the 365 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:48,920 Speaker 1: app how you use it? But um, what the funk? 366 00:18:49,040 --> 00:18:53,760 Speaker 1: How did it start? How did starts started? Accident? It 367 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 1: was a total accident. So I've been very monogamous my 368 00:18:56,600 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 1: entire life. Um, and I was people don't know me. 369 00:19:01,800 --> 00:19:05,080 Speaker 1: I am notorious for going on vacation and fucking that's 370 00:19:05,080 --> 00:19:07,639 Speaker 1: what I do. Going on dates, I say, but just 371 00:19:07,680 --> 00:19:09,560 Speaker 1: going on dates, meeting people. So I was in Denver 372 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 1: visiting and I was dating on around. I was on 373 00:19:12,920 --> 00:19:16,240 Speaker 1: tender and I saw this couple and I never swiped 374 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 1: right on couples, but I was in Denver and I 375 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 1: was like, like, what the and the girl was really cute, 376 00:19:23,520 --> 00:19:26,600 Speaker 1: so I was like and so we matched, and so 377 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:28,639 Speaker 1: they were like, let's take you out to sushi and 378 00:19:28,640 --> 00:19:30,520 Speaker 1: we'll go out. I'm like, guy, and so I was 379 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:32,080 Speaker 1: actually really nervous. I'm like, I'm about to go on 380 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 1: a date with two people at the same time, and 381 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:35,320 Speaker 1: I don't know how it's gonna go. I've never been 382 00:19:35,320 --> 00:19:38,120 Speaker 1: with a girl at this point. I've wanted to, but 383 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:42,440 Speaker 1: like I did, never happened. And so, yeah, they took 384 00:19:42,480 --> 00:19:44,639 Speaker 1: me out. They wanted to die me and she was 385 00:19:44,760 --> 00:19:50,960 Speaker 1: super hot in person, he was lying. It's so crazy 386 00:19:50,960 --> 00:19:53,200 Speaker 1: because I feel like that is how most of it works. 387 00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 1: When I matched with couples, all either really liked the 388 00:19:55,359 --> 00:19:57,840 Speaker 1: girl and not so much the guy or vice versa, 389 00:19:58,560 --> 00:20:01,239 Speaker 1: right and so and so you're okay with maybe not 390 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:05,760 Speaker 1: being completely attracted to both parties. I'm a little firmer 391 00:20:05,800 --> 00:20:08,120 Speaker 1: on that rule now, So like I need to be 392 00:20:08,240 --> 00:20:12,320 Speaker 1: at least you guys both need to be best. The 393 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:15,360 Speaker 1: worst case be minus. Do you do the minus plus 394 00:20:15,359 --> 00:20:19,639 Speaker 1: just to be okay? Okay, up, But it's really the girl, Like, 395 00:20:19,640 --> 00:20:22,280 Speaker 1: if I'm not little girl, I'm not gonna do like Okay, 396 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:25,879 Speaker 1: she is a pathway to you getting me to the guy. Okay. 397 00:20:25,960 --> 00:20:28,520 Speaker 1: So that's so the girl is still mostly in charge 398 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:31,280 Speaker 1: and this No, I'm just saying in terms of being attracted, 399 00:20:31,359 --> 00:20:33,760 Speaker 1: like I have to leave be very attracted to her, 400 00:20:33,800 --> 00:20:35,960 Speaker 1: and then I'll be like, yeah, you get a pass. Okay. 401 00:20:35,960 --> 00:20:37,720 Speaker 1: So this was the first time in Denver that you 402 00:20:37,760 --> 00:20:40,320 Speaker 1: did this, and how how did it play? It went great? 403 00:20:40,359 --> 00:20:42,360 Speaker 1: Went back to his nice as a partment. You gave 404 00:20:42,400 --> 00:20:44,000 Speaker 1: me a whole bunch of free week and a whole 405 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:50,080 Speaker 1: bunch of liquor. They were nice. It would be just 406 00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:52,159 Speaker 1: you don't start going at it. And I loved it. 407 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:55,679 Speaker 1: I was like on a high. Like after that, you 408 00:20:55,680 --> 00:20:58,120 Speaker 1: think it's because you had two people like swooning over 409 00:20:58,160 --> 00:20:59,879 Speaker 1: you. You You had two people that wanted to suck you. 410 00:21:00,040 --> 00:21:02,320 Speaker 1: It was more hot than just one, definitely. And it 411 00:21:02,400 --> 00:21:05,600 Speaker 1: was also that I wasn't little girl at that point, 412 00:21:05,800 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 1: and like I had only been with women in three situations. 413 00:21:12,760 --> 00:21:20,800 Speaker 1: I've never been yet, not yet after your experience with them, 414 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:24,280 Speaker 1: obviously it went well. Um, I want to talk about 415 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:25,960 Speaker 1: and I'm sorry to Rushy, but we have a lot 416 00:21:25,960 --> 00:21:29,640 Speaker 1: of questions. Let's go. Let's go. How did it end? 417 00:21:29,880 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 1: And from what you know now? Yeah, so I feel 418 00:21:34,320 --> 00:21:37,080 Speaker 1: like this could be inevitable. But if someone doesn't right 419 00:21:37,119 --> 00:21:39,639 Speaker 1: it won't. So no, yeah, so let's called her Lucy. 420 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:46,440 Speaker 1: Lucy was very she was very jealous, very insecure. That's 421 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,320 Speaker 1: how it ends, which normally and see to me, that's 422 00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:54,000 Speaker 1: how most threesomes or a third party coming in now. 423 00:21:54,040 --> 00:21:56,640 Speaker 1: And it's not just her, it was him. He was sneaky. 424 00:21:56,720 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: He was inviting me places without telling her. Ain't. So 425 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:04,000 Speaker 1: it was both parties and so it was just my 426 00:22:04,200 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 1: one of my hard rules is no fucking drama. I'm 427 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:13,600 Speaker 1: not doing it. I'm not sorry, Okay, No, I get that. 428 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:16,680 Speaker 1: I get that. Okay. So I asked you this at 429 00:22:16,720 --> 00:22:18,919 Speaker 1: dinner last night. Um, and I'm gonna go ahead and 430 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,520 Speaker 1: ask the followers because I want them to know that 431 00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:24,920 Speaker 1: this is something that you're choosing. So this didn't arise 432 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:28,399 Speaker 1: from a heartbreak or you being like getting like. It 433 00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:32,520 Speaker 1: didn't arise from that at all. You genuinely seek couples 434 00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:36,520 Speaker 1: and you are fine with being emotionally unattached, so to speak. 435 00:22:36,920 --> 00:22:38,639 Speaker 1: How does that work? I mean, so I'm in a 436 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 1: casual space period, whether it's a guy, whether it's a couple, 437 00:22:41,880 --> 00:22:45,360 Speaker 1: I'm just so casual, like I'm just doing me kind 438 00:22:45,359 --> 00:22:48,720 Speaker 1: of thing. But I would absolutely get in a serious relationship, 439 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 1: not monogamous, but serious relationship with a couple and get 440 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:55,399 Speaker 1: very emotionally invested with them. UM. So that's an option. 441 00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:57,960 Speaker 1: It could go both ways. It could be very casual. 442 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:02,720 Speaker 1: It could just be like a one night kind thing 443 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,600 Speaker 1: for you nights. I don't really do one night or anymore, 444 00:23:04,640 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 1: but like a few, a few months whatever, fool around, 445 00:23:07,680 --> 00:23:10,800 Speaker 1: or we can really date and be together. Okay, So 446 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,400 Speaker 1: I wanted to compare the two of you because if 447 00:23:13,480 --> 00:23:16,400 Speaker 1: you guys listen to this goddamn show, Wheezy always talked 448 00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,400 Speaker 1: about wanting to bring a girl in. However she has 449 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:23,000 Speaker 1: to be in charge. She does, but she also said 450 00:23:23,080 --> 00:23:26,639 Speaker 1: she would never co star. You are like bitch, co 451 00:23:26,800 --> 00:23:29,880 Speaker 1: star be right here like hello, you prefer to co star. 452 00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,919 Speaker 1: So what is the actual difference between the two of 453 00:23:32,960 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 1: you as far as your mindset? Why would you not 454 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,920 Speaker 1: co star? And why are you so only into co star? 455 00:23:37,960 --> 00:23:41,680 Speaker 1: And because clearly you don't have um a boyfriend to 456 00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,439 Speaker 1: bring girls in? UM, but sheould neither did she and 457 00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,159 Speaker 1: she still made it had it always has to be 458 00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:49,119 Speaker 1: like a guy and the guy that she's things and 459 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:51,280 Speaker 1: you are both were pretty close to me, So maybe 460 00:23:51,280 --> 00:23:56,840 Speaker 1: you can tell me, I feel like again we wait, wait, 461 00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:59,480 Speaker 1: we just talked about a five year break, so in 462 00:23:59,560 --> 00:24:02,160 Speaker 1: my eyes, still don't eat pussies. I know, like because 463 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:05,280 Speaker 1: with the mom and she calling, everybody loves her and 464 00:24:06,920 --> 00:24:12,520 Speaker 1: real quick, mom, I'm the recording right now and so 465 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:27,800 Speaker 1: love you. I'll talk about three something crazy. Soa keep 466 00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:31,440 Speaker 1: asking exactly what they thought they would hear at that point. 467 00:24:32,200 --> 00:24:34,879 Speaker 1: So okay, so what is your what is your reason 468 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:38,240 Speaker 1: for the hell why you? I am confident in myself, Okay. 469 00:24:38,280 --> 00:24:42,679 Speaker 1: I don't feel ever ugly or like get jealous of women, 470 00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:46,200 Speaker 1: but I wonder if I may have an insecurity of 471 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:50,600 Speaker 1: feeling left out, like away from them, like feeling too apart, 472 00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:55,560 Speaker 1: not necessarily like I don't know, I don't know jealousy 473 00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:57,040 Speaker 1: is the word, but I feel like I may be 474 00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:01,160 Speaker 1: insecure about what's happening behind the scene. Are you good? Jealous? 475 00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 1: That's what it is you don't want? She did is 476 00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:09,639 Speaker 1: jealousy for sure, And I think it's something that you 477 00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,719 Speaker 1: pride yourself on not being so that you really are 478 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:14,439 Speaker 1: bro Because I don't know how I could say that 479 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:16,959 Speaker 1: in one breath. When I'm seeking these things out all 480 00:25:16,960 --> 00:25:19,239 Speaker 1: the time, I want them, you want them because you 481 00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:22,440 Speaker 1: like both men and women. But I do genuinely enjoy them. 482 00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:25,720 Speaker 1: You genuinely enjoy threesomes, which is and I enjoyed like 483 00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:29,200 Speaker 1: the emotion when I was like group chatting all the time, 484 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:32,240 Speaker 1: having that great thing go. I loved that, right, But 485 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:35,439 Speaker 1: at the same time you brought them. You weren't the 486 00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:38,040 Speaker 1: co stars. So in your eyes, you knew when they 487 00:25:38,080 --> 00:25:41,200 Speaker 1: saw each other outside of seeing you. They had some 488 00:25:41,320 --> 00:25:44,240 Speaker 1: pretty much report about that when I was in Cuba 489 00:25:44,920 --> 00:25:48,280 Speaker 1: and they was without me and they sent you pictures, right, 490 00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:50,080 Speaker 1: But you it's because you felt like you was in 491 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:53,399 Speaker 1: charge that you had they they gotta send me pictures. 492 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:56,639 Speaker 1: You wouldn't have enjoyed it if they didn't send you anything, 493 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,560 Speaker 1: and you just knew they were together that night by 494 00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:02,159 Speaker 1: themselves were I would enjoy that. You don't have to 495 00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:07,200 Speaker 1: tell about Back to the interview with dub. So for me, 496 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:11,040 Speaker 1: you I literally get off the connection between the two 497 00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:13,320 Speaker 1: people we're sitting there having done like I am like 498 00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:16,560 Speaker 1: getting off on that. The more in love they are, 499 00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:20,520 Speaker 1: the more turned on I am. And so no, not 500 00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:26,760 Speaker 1: at all. No, Well, first of all, I'm the guest 501 00:26:27,040 --> 00:26:29,320 Speaker 1: to them, you know what I mean, They're providing a 502 00:26:29,320 --> 00:26:33,160 Speaker 1: gift to themselves. Serious. I told her about this girl. 503 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 1: I was gonna you remember and you I sent this piture. 504 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:37,199 Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know, a you're talking about three 505 00:26:37,200 --> 00:26:39,479 Speaker 1: some You're like, well, don't sunk up the energy. This 506 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:42,199 Speaker 1: is a spiritual connection. And if you're just gonna have 507 00:26:42,200 --> 00:26:46,200 Speaker 1: a threesome just to funk your waist of time work, yes, 508 00:26:46,960 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 1: like this is serious. You're entering two other people's space. No, 509 00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:54,720 Speaker 1: it's so crazy. I sent you a picture of a 510 00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:56,600 Speaker 1: girl that was down for a threesome. I was like, 511 00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:58,720 Speaker 1: I think she's not cute. I don't think she's attractive. 512 00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:00,440 Speaker 1: I was like, but I do go want. I think 513 00:27:00,480 --> 00:27:03,240 Speaker 1: this is awesome that we all three do. Like are 514 00:27:03,359 --> 00:27:08,199 Speaker 1: on the opposite sides of threesomes, because me, I have 515 00:27:08,359 --> 00:27:12,120 Speaker 1: threesomes just with niggas I'm sucking and friends. Like it's 516 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:16,480 Speaker 1: just something that happens. I love. I love threesomes that way, 517 00:27:16,520 --> 00:27:19,840 Speaker 1: like I love when they're unplanned, or like the guy 518 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:22,480 Speaker 1: is sucking me and he's sucking this other bitch. Who 519 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,520 Speaker 1: are I mean, he's not my niggers, so I know 520 00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:27,560 Speaker 1: he sucking the bitches and he brings us together, like 521 00:27:27,800 --> 00:27:30,480 Speaker 1: or it's like hate that. Yeah, I'm gonna be honest, 522 00:27:30,480 --> 00:27:32,240 Speaker 1: I could suck a couple before I could have a dude, 523 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:33,480 Speaker 1: just be like, oh I know this other I know 524 00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:36,800 Speaker 1: this other bitch, and that's all I do threesomes with 525 00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:39,080 Speaker 1: friends too. Oh yeah, so I'm a little on the 526 00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:46,320 Speaker 1: I've like I've like the girl friend. Yeah yeah, we 527 00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:52,280 Speaker 1: used to. Well I'm not gonna, yeah, we gotta not 528 00:27:52,400 --> 00:27:54,119 Speaker 1: because they don't like when we have to put all 529 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:59,439 Speaker 1: these bleeps so damn brown ship. Then then she'd be 530 00:27:59,440 --> 00:28:01,080 Speaker 1: getting mad like, oh my god, I have to sit 531 00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:03,840 Speaker 1: here and listen back and see when I said that, Like, bro, 532 00:28:04,359 --> 00:28:06,359 Speaker 1: just let's say this ship you want to fight with 533 00:28:06,359 --> 00:28:12,120 Speaker 1: me on? Oh she was turned on when people love 534 00:28:12,160 --> 00:28:14,640 Speaker 1: each other and but yeah, I don't know. But see 535 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,640 Speaker 1: it's so weird because like how you like the emotional connection. 536 00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:20,280 Speaker 1: She likes to be in charge. I just like the 537 00:28:20,320 --> 00:28:22,720 Speaker 1: fun of it. So like even the friends that I 538 00:28:22,760 --> 00:28:27,879 Speaker 1: have had three sons with, we have we couple a 539 00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:31,320 Speaker 1: couple of together. I've never sucked a couple. I've never fucked. No, 540 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:33,760 Speaker 1: it's always been How I think that would turn you on? 541 00:28:37,760 --> 00:28:40,000 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. See, I don't think it would get me 542 00:28:40,040 --> 00:28:43,200 Speaker 1: because I'm such an emotional person. Y'all know I have 543 00:28:43,280 --> 00:28:46,720 Speaker 1: an emotional I think I want those hinder and I 544 00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:49,320 Speaker 1: told you all swipe couples. But right when I think 545 00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:52,040 Speaker 1: of getting there, I'm just like, I just kind of 546 00:28:52,080 --> 00:28:55,480 Speaker 1: stopped the conversation because then I think about, like, damn, 547 00:28:55,520 --> 00:28:57,640 Speaker 1: I'm just being brought in and I'm just giving them 548 00:28:57,720 --> 00:29:01,200 Speaker 1: looking like that is everybody still us. I've learned with 549 00:29:01,320 --> 00:29:04,240 Speaker 1: couples that, I mean, I don't really like doing this anyway. 550 00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,560 Speaker 1: It's easier to have a little bit of a texting 551 00:29:06,960 --> 00:29:12,440 Speaker 1: relationship one guy, not with couples. So how do you okay, 552 00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:17,040 Speaker 1: so so so for our listener, if you swipe, yeah, 553 00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 1: if you swipe right swipe, you know, and you initially meet, 554 00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:23,440 Speaker 1: whether it's on an app, whether wherever you're saying, don't 555 00:29:23,440 --> 00:29:25,880 Speaker 1: go through the texting and kind of talk you to death. 556 00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,240 Speaker 1: If the couple's about it. I mean, I'm not my business, 557 00:29:28,440 --> 00:29:35,760 Speaker 1: and I'm there for a couple of things, okay, literally couple. Um, 558 00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:38,400 Speaker 1: I'm there for some free food because it's double incomes, 559 00:29:38,400 --> 00:29:46,600 Speaker 1: and I'm also there for um, well we don't you 560 00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 1: don't have anal sex then, because that's cheese and c 561 00:29:51,600 --> 00:29:56,120 Speaker 1: and be eaten for free. But I'm also there for 562 00:29:56,240 --> 00:30:01,160 Speaker 1: like the undercurrent is the threesome, Like that undercurrent, that's 563 00:30:01,200 --> 00:30:03,760 Speaker 1: the unspoken thing that we're all trying to get to. 564 00:30:04,080 --> 00:30:06,360 Speaker 1: And couples will sit there and talk you to death, 565 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,520 Speaker 1: and so I believe do you think are nervous? It 566 00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:11,120 Speaker 1: could be a million things, but I don't give a 567 00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:14,440 Speaker 1: funk what it is. You're never gonna understand the couple's vibe, 568 00:30:14,440 --> 00:30:16,720 Speaker 1: and they're never gonnaunderstand your vibe until you're in person. 569 00:30:16,760 --> 00:30:18,520 Speaker 1: Would you mind talking? I'm starry to interrupt you, but 570 00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:22,040 Speaker 1: I want to talk also about the worst. I don't 571 00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:23,760 Speaker 1: know this is the worst, but like when you've got 572 00:30:23,800 --> 00:30:26,320 Speaker 1: flown recently, Um, I want to talk about how they 573 00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:30,920 Speaker 1: fucked it up so that people can avoid making those mistakes. Yeah. So, um, 574 00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 1: I was recently in New York or like a few 575 00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 1: weeks ago, and this couple flew me out met the 576 00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,560 Speaker 1: moment three math that you were talking to for a year, 577 00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,600 Speaker 1: but like talking it was like very one and off, 578 00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 1: but like we were in contact for a year for 579 00:30:44,640 --> 00:30:46,440 Speaker 1: a year, and we just never could get up. And 580 00:30:46,480 --> 00:30:48,720 Speaker 1: so they finally didn't have my son, and so they 581 00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:52,959 Speaker 1: flew me out, and um, the initial was fine, like 582 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,440 Speaker 1: she was actually sleep when I arrived, and he and 583 00:30:56,480 --> 00:30:59,240 Speaker 1: I we talked for like three hours and we ended 584 00:30:59,320 --> 00:31:00,880 Speaker 1: up started sucking and then we woke her up. We 585 00:31:00,880 --> 00:31:03,480 Speaker 1: all started sucking. It was fun. But in the morning 586 00:31:03,480 --> 00:31:06,920 Speaker 1: we went out to breakfast and it was like they 587 00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:10,440 Speaker 1: were on a date and I was not there now 588 00:31:10,560 --> 00:31:14,400 Speaker 1: one thing specifically, kept saying that, but what would talk 589 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:16,560 Speaker 1: to her? And I could barely hear him. Now, if 590 00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:18,640 Speaker 1: you're on a date and you're saying it's a little table, 591 00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:20,520 Speaker 1: little cafe, if you're on a date, you're gonna be 592 00:31:20,600 --> 00:31:25,120 Speaker 1: like hello, not even if. But he was just like, 593 00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:27,360 Speaker 1: it's probver to her and just like talk and have 594 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:29,920 Speaker 1: a conversation. I'm sitting there across eating my fucking crossng 595 00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:32,720 Speaker 1: Like what the funk, I can't hear you. And so 596 00:31:33,000 --> 00:31:35,400 Speaker 1: it was just like and she was fine, let me 597 00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:37,920 Speaker 1: be clear, Like she was always into me. She was 598 00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:40,560 Speaker 1: always making an effort. But he was kind of like 599 00:31:40,960 --> 00:31:42,760 Speaker 1: I would go as far to stay stand off ish 600 00:31:42,760 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 1: a little bit, and it was just like he was 601 00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:46,680 Speaker 1: just with her, like he knew how to be with 602 00:31:46,680 --> 00:31:50,120 Speaker 1: her really well. But the key for couples is that 603 00:31:50,160 --> 00:31:51,800 Speaker 1: if you're going to bring a unicorn in, if you're 604 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:55,000 Speaker 1: gonna find one to even show up and meet with you, 605 00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:57,719 Speaker 1: you're going on a date with the unicorn, not with 606 00:31:57,720 --> 00:32:01,920 Speaker 1: each other. Y'all niggas had years to do that it right, 607 00:32:02,280 --> 00:32:05,600 Speaker 1: But now you are now dating again, right, And that's 608 00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,640 Speaker 1: what some that couple forgot and I actually have really 609 00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:11,200 Speaker 1: you know, you know, I have really great experience with couples. 610 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:16,360 Speaker 1: Usually have you spoken to her neither the thing that 611 00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:19,280 Speaker 1: you're talking about. It was so hard to imagine that 612 00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:22,440 Speaker 1: that happened, because that's the reason that I love being 613 00:32:22,480 --> 00:32:24,560 Speaker 1: with someone and then meeting a girl, you date them 614 00:32:24,600 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 1: together like you you have already had the first day. 615 00:32:26,800 --> 00:32:28,600 Speaker 1: You already know your connection with this person, and now 616 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:30,840 Speaker 1: we get to do it again together. Because I feel 617 00:32:30,880 --> 00:32:33,720 Speaker 1: like with couples, yes, like I'm still going to be 618 00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:35,760 Speaker 1: in love with you, but that like excitement that spark 619 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,960 Speaker 1: that getting ready, but I'm gonna now you get to 620 00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:39,760 Speaker 1: have it with somebody else and learn a whole new 621 00:32:39,760 --> 00:32:42,440 Speaker 1: person over again and retell stories, whether you retell them 622 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:45,440 Speaker 1: together as a couple or sharing with someone else learns. 623 00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:49,920 Speaker 1: It's just fun and so for someone to bring you 624 00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:51,840 Speaker 1: all the way to New York and then go out 625 00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:55,320 Speaker 1: together and leave you. I just didn't. I can't understand. 626 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:57,360 Speaker 1: It was just very and like he was. I mean, 627 00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:00,640 Speaker 1: he's very boring. He was born he was boring. And 628 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:04,240 Speaker 1: see this is then you never sucked him, no, and 629 00:33:04,400 --> 00:33:06,120 Speaker 1: he never had his penis inside me. No. But he 630 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:12,200 Speaker 1: hate to funk out my post. But there's people that 631 00:33:12,600 --> 00:33:16,000 Speaker 1: there's couples that are scared to do this because just 632 00:33:16,040 --> 00:33:18,240 Speaker 1: like you said with the one couple, the guy tried 633 00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:22,040 Speaker 1: to see you outside, and there's so many quote unquote 634 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,400 Speaker 1: rules that can be broken and that can funk up 635 00:33:25,400 --> 00:33:28,040 Speaker 1: the situation. So to me, it would be like you're 636 00:33:28,080 --> 00:33:30,880 Speaker 1: literally opening Pandora's box every time you invite a unicornet. 637 00:33:31,000 --> 00:33:33,480 Speaker 1: So I think this is the thing about that. I'm 638 00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:38,600 Speaker 1: glad you brought that up because I think it's responsibility 639 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:40,960 Speaker 1: for both the couple in the unicorn. So from my end, 640 00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:45,080 Speaker 1: it's my responsibility to be a woke as bitch. Like 641 00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,200 Speaker 1: if I'm serious about not having drama in my life, 642 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:49,400 Speaker 1: I gotta have to ask the right questions. I have 643 00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:52,280 Speaker 1: to be very intuitive. I have to like watch body language, 644 00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:56,680 Speaker 1: especially her, and see what's going on, and you said 645 00:33:56,720 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 1: that because a woman is probably gonna be the one 646 00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:02,800 Speaker 1: to it the most insecure. Absolutely yeah and also funny enough, 647 00:34:02,840 --> 00:34:05,160 Speaker 1: I felt like in your story the guy was he 648 00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:08,279 Speaker 1: was definitely insecure and that, but normally it's usually the woman. 649 00:34:08,520 --> 00:34:16,040 Speaker 1: If anyone's insecure, also um the guy. Usually usually they 650 00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:20,239 Speaker 1: try to Usually they try to take control, okay, and 651 00:34:20,280 --> 00:34:22,279 Speaker 1: then they might try to be in the rule. You know. 652 00:34:22,360 --> 00:34:25,719 Speaker 1: Niggas are my point exactly, and you give him an 653 00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:31,960 Speaker 1: they want to take him off time talking about yours. 654 00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:35,759 Speaker 1: I always try to be an ally to the woman. 655 00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:38,080 Speaker 1: I try to let her know right away I am 656 00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:40,880 Speaker 1: your ally. I'm always gonna be here, just on some woman. 657 00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,719 Speaker 1: First of all, want everyone to know I'm gonna stop 658 00:34:43,719 --> 00:34:46,359 Speaker 1: you right there. Devi is dream girl. You just ain't 659 00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:48,399 Speaker 1: gonna get no listen. You might have to watch out though, 660 00:34:48,719 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 1: because deb is a different breed, and I think that 661 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:53,680 Speaker 1: just speaks to your character that you're not that shady 662 00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:55,799 Speaker 1: behind your back save a check because I've been with 663 00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:58,359 Speaker 1: I've been on dates where the chick will be like, yeah, 664 00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:00,799 Speaker 1: let me get your number two and yours, and I'd 665 00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:05,960 Speaker 1: be like, yeah, I let the couples have control in 666 00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:07,919 Speaker 1: terms of like communicating with me. So if it wants 667 00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:09,759 Speaker 1: to be a group tex, that's fine. You'd rather have 668 00:35:09,800 --> 00:35:11,840 Speaker 1: the guy text me fine, rather be a girl whatever. 669 00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:13,880 Speaker 1: Like you guys make the rules, but like I asked 670 00:35:13,880 --> 00:35:16,279 Speaker 1: about the rules, what are your rules? Give me a 671 00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:18,839 Speaker 1: list of rules, and I know upfront, I make sure 672 00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,279 Speaker 1: they look at each other and talk about these goddamn rules. 673 00:35:21,280 --> 00:35:23,000 Speaker 1: And I want to have them discussed their rules. And 674 00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:26,600 Speaker 1: to me, that's the weirdest rule you've ever heard, like 675 00:35:26,640 --> 00:35:30,239 Speaker 1: something that's basically kissing. I know a lot of people 676 00:35:30,239 --> 00:35:33,600 Speaker 1: don't like kissing. That's too intimate. Never had a kissing rule. 677 00:35:34,160 --> 00:35:38,279 Speaker 1: That's because that's because white people like that. You're going 678 00:35:38,400 --> 00:35:44,560 Speaker 1: really one of your game. That's just stupid, that's just stupids. 679 00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:47,399 Speaker 1: I do want to go ahead and and and just 680 00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:50,360 Speaker 1: bring it back a little bit because I like to 681 00:35:51,080 --> 00:35:54,600 Speaker 1: people listen to this stuff and automatically it's so taboo 682 00:35:54,640 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 1: to people. What industry are you in? You're an actual 683 00:35:58,160 --> 00:36:00,960 Speaker 1: working woman. She's in media. So I want you guys 684 00:36:01,000 --> 00:36:04,520 Speaker 1: to know that these aren't couples paying her for sex. 685 00:36:04,640 --> 00:36:11,440 Speaker 1: It's nothing, but you you hear it a lot that 686 00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:14,640 Speaker 1: this is what people look for. In Vegas, and you know, 687 00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:16,200 Speaker 1: it's one of those where you pay a girl and 688 00:36:17,040 --> 00:36:19,920 Speaker 1: then that keeps the emotions from from being attached to it. 689 00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:22,600 Speaker 1: And this is genuinely something where it's like, listen, I'm 690 00:36:22,600 --> 00:36:26,040 Speaker 1: not trying to ruin your relationship. I'm coming in because 691 00:36:26,120 --> 00:36:29,160 Speaker 1: this is what I enjoy and y'all hit me up 692 00:36:29,200 --> 00:36:31,800 Speaker 1: when you want to see me. But it's genuinely because 693 00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:36,120 Speaker 1: this is what gets you off. Can you get any women? Um? 694 00:36:36,200 --> 00:36:38,239 Speaker 1: Because we want to ask you another question too. I 695 00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,719 Speaker 1: think I told you about the phone actually, but just 696 00:36:40,880 --> 00:36:43,759 Speaker 1: women that are thinking about doing this, um and feel 697 00:36:43,800 --> 00:36:47,680 Speaker 1: like no, like single women. I think that unicorns are 698 00:36:47,680 --> 00:36:49,720 Speaker 1: so hard to find, and I think that they feel 699 00:36:49,800 --> 00:36:52,880 Speaker 1: like they're yeah, and they're just gonna kick me to 700 00:36:52,920 --> 00:36:56,040 Speaker 1: the side. Like what should you tell women to or me? 701 00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,400 Speaker 1: Because wh I'll be swiping left, I'd be swiping right 702 00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:01,680 Speaker 1: on couples like that hang up that women hang up? 703 00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:05,040 Speaker 1: You just get bored or you just it's like, I 704 00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:08,879 Speaker 1: want to go through with it. You used kind of 705 00:37:09,160 --> 00:37:11,920 Speaker 1: and I'm not gonna lie, Like to me, that's something 706 00:37:12,160 --> 00:37:14,040 Speaker 1: like and I'm not gonna lie. That's why I just 707 00:37:14,120 --> 00:37:17,480 Speaker 1: made the mention of it to me, like, if you're 708 00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:22,279 Speaker 1: bringing another woman in, she needs to be benefiting, and 709 00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:27,400 Speaker 1: to me, that's compensation. But it's just like, you know what, 710 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:31,719 Speaker 1: Like you're going and bringing a bitch in and she's 711 00:37:31,800 --> 00:37:36,000 Speaker 1: having a third, both of y'all, and you know what 712 00:37:36,080 --> 00:37:37,719 Speaker 1: I mean. So to me, it's just like, am I 713 00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:41,000 Speaker 1: really just I'm really just coming in fucking these two 714 00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:43,359 Speaker 1: and then going back home. Like so like if you're 715 00:37:43,360 --> 00:37:44,880 Speaker 1: gonna see if you're gonna view it like that, I 716 00:37:44,880 --> 00:37:47,480 Speaker 1: wouldn't recommend doing it because you don't you do it 717 00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:49,719 Speaker 1: for you. I really do it for me. And see, 718 00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:51,880 Speaker 1: that's why I like the spontaneous. I feel like when 719 00:37:51,920 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 1: it's planned, it just there's so much that can go 720 00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:58,319 Speaker 1: wrong and you're planned yeah, and they all go fine, yeah, 721 00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:00,680 Speaker 1: I've been doing this, like and yours are playing. I 722 00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:04,239 Speaker 1: should try to plan three. Something I've ever felt like 723 00:38:04,360 --> 00:38:10,000 Speaker 1: dating in my skin. Honestly, I think you're coming into 724 00:38:10,040 --> 00:38:14,000 Speaker 1: something that's already working too enough. That's why I said. 725 00:38:14,000 --> 00:38:16,319 Speaker 1: The more the more in tune they are with each 726 00:38:16,320 --> 00:38:19,400 Speaker 1: other and the more that chemistry is, they're the easier 727 00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,640 Speaker 1: it is. My job is my hang up? Is? I 728 00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:25,120 Speaker 1: guess maybe the feeling used to think I don't know, 729 00:38:25,719 --> 00:38:28,840 Speaker 1: maybe not only that I can't. Like I said, I'm 730 00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:32,080 Speaker 1: very yeah, but I'm also very shallow when it comes 731 00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:34,719 Speaker 1: to like what I like physically, and like I said, 732 00:38:34,719 --> 00:38:36,680 Speaker 1: everything that I found on tender, I really like, you 733 00:38:36,719 --> 00:38:39,960 Speaker 1: need to get on field, bitch. That's right, that's what 734 00:38:39,960 --> 00:38:41,360 Speaker 1: I'm thank you for bringing it up. It used to 735 00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:45,560 Speaker 1: be Thrinder back in the day when I assuming they 736 00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:48,479 Speaker 1: got sued, but it's called field now. F E E 737 00:38:48,800 --> 00:38:51,440 Speaker 1: L d uh. If you guys want to check it out, 738 00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:54,040 Speaker 1: you can be a single unicorn by yourself. You can 739 00:38:54,080 --> 00:38:58,320 Speaker 1: be uh, two men looking at one chick like gang bang. Actually, 740 00:38:58,360 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 1: I'm going to tell you, guys something that I never 741 00:38:59,800 --> 00:39:03,560 Speaker 1: thought I would say on this show. I listening. You 742 00:39:03,680 --> 00:39:07,160 Speaker 1: already brought it up. I was watching a lot of 743 00:39:08,480 --> 00:39:11,759 Speaker 1: male male female porn. I love it, and I might 744 00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:14,640 Speaker 1: have told, but I made a profile that with my face, 745 00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:16,400 Speaker 1: and I just wanted to see what I would get. Huh. 746 00:39:17,960 --> 00:39:20,440 Speaker 1: I never met up with two dudes, but I was 747 00:39:20,520 --> 00:39:22,279 Speaker 1: so turned on. They're like, oh my god, we're both 748 00:39:22,320 --> 00:39:23,480 Speaker 1: gonna do this. Don't go do this, and you're the 749 00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:26,279 Speaker 1: sucking goddess and blah blah blah, like, I know, but 750 00:39:26,760 --> 00:39:28,200 Speaker 1: at the end of the day, I did get this 751 00:39:28,320 --> 00:39:31,000 Speaker 1: very like, I don't know. I don't think I'm secure 752 00:39:31,080 --> 00:39:34,359 Speaker 1: enough to just not sleut shame my own self, right, 753 00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:38,560 Speaker 1: And it's definitely something where you just have to take um. 754 00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:40,839 Speaker 1: You have to look at yourself and be like, if 755 00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:42,920 Speaker 1: this is what you want, it's at the end of 756 00:39:42,920 --> 00:39:44,720 Speaker 1: the day, you're in a bedroom with these two people. 757 00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:46,479 Speaker 1: And that's my problem with a lot of the things 758 00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:48,600 Speaker 1: I kind of want to do. It's like, should let 759 00:39:48,600 --> 00:39:50,400 Speaker 1: me wait, Like I gotta go out of the country 760 00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:52,440 Speaker 1: or something, because I don't want anyone knowing that I 761 00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:55,799 Speaker 1: did it. I'm not going I've met men that The 762 00:39:55,880 --> 00:39:59,040 Speaker 1: last restaurant guy was a hundred percent down doing it 763 00:39:59,080 --> 00:40:01,319 Speaker 1: with me. He it was like, I mean, it's gonna 764 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:03,040 Speaker 1: be weird for me. He's like, with the jealousy is 765 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:04,759 Speaker 1: that's why I sucked another dude and it went to 766 00:40:04,800 --> 00:40:09,000 Speaker 1: his house. I remember it's five. He said it would 767 00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:10,640 Speaker 1: be hard. He's like, I'm not gonna like watching you 768 00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:12,920 Speaker 1: second day is gonna kill me. But he's like, the 769 00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:18,080 Speaker 1: wanting you are feeling teased, feeling is hot, and so 770 00:40:18,200 --> 00:40:21,279 Speaker 1: do you do that going into couples have you ever 771 00:40:21,400 --> 00:40:24,560 Speaker 1: done two guys who maybe my sexual or two girls 772 00:40:25,080 --> 00:40:27,320 Speaker 1: and we should be open to it, both very open. 773 00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:31,279 Speaker 1: That's lit. Yeah, but two dudes is tough because if 774 00:40:31,280 --> 00:40:36,959 Speaker 1: you give me French guys that oh okay, you're gonna 775 00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:40,080 Speaker 1: have to share that story another time. And all y'all 776 00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:41,560 Speaker 1: gotta know is it was Central Park, they walk me 777 00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:44,439 Speaker 1: home and it almost happened. Oh no, it's a good story. 778 00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:50,160 Speaker 1: What's happening? There's just with me scared. I'm like, I 779 00:40:50,640 --> 00:40:55,839 Speaker 1: almost happened stories. Then I'm telling the story real quick. 780 00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,839 Speaker 1: Oh my god, tells talking to this dude and then 781 00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,160 Speaker 1: his brand came and was cute, so she started kissing 782 00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:03,840 Speaker 1: that one and another one got jealous. She's like, but wait, 783 00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:17,520 Speaker 1: why we gotta fight? No Savin. Well, what we haven't 784 00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:19,400 Speaker 1: had the chance to do on this show because we 785 00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:21,719 Speaker 1: always run out of fucking time because we doesn't want 786 00:41:21,719 --> 00:41:25,520 Speaker 1: to pay for my studio time is do a topic 787 00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:29,200 Speaker 1: called vanilla ship. So vanilla ship is where we like 788 00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:33,280 Speaker 1: to talk about something current topic and give our insight 789 00:41:33,400 --> 00:41:35,960 Speaker 1: on it and talk about, you know, just the bullshit. 790 00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:37,960 Speaker 1: There's one other thing we also haven't done either. I 791 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:39,799 Speaker 1: don't know if I'm a percent right on this. But 792 00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:43,879 Speaker 1: I don't believe we've ever had a mother on the show. No, no, 793 00:41:44,120 --> 00:41:51,520 Speaker 1: I don't besides your mama second dead guys. Um, So, 794 00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:54,480 Speaker 1: what we're gonna talk about now, especially because we are 795 00:41:54,600 --> 00:41:57,920 Speaker 1: actually recording on time? We want to talk about the 796 00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:02,200 Speaker 1: Rob Kardashian and Black China saga. So I almost want 797 00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:03,680 Speaker 1: to introduce it, but if you don't know, I don't 798 00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:05,400 Speaker 1: know how to introduce it. Like I was going to 799 00:42:05,480 --> 00:42:07,200 Speaker 1: talk about it, but like, how could I even talk about? 800 00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:09,480 Speaker 1: Who do you? How do you not know? I literally 801 00:42:09,480 --> 00:42:12,120 Speaker 1: just want to talk about the memes I've seen. You've 802 00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:16,000 Speaker 1: been just kidding? A spell surgery? No, no, ship, that 803 00:42:16,160 --> 00:42:20,320 Speaker 1: was terrible. What was your favorite Rob prodes um? Oh God, 804 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:24,719 Speaker 1: I don't even think I can think of. Well, the 805 00:42:24,800 --> 00:42:27,160 Speaker 1: latest news is so we all knew this happen. Literally 806 00:42:27,200 --> 00:42:28,640 Speaker 1: I went home Harley from work. God, I hope they 807 00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:30,439 Speaker 1: don't hear this, and I was like, Bro, I fell 808 00:42:30,440 --> 00:42:32,520 Speaker 1: in the rabbit hole. Bro, I couldn't stop. It was 809 00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:35,799 Speaker 1: so I was reading, like how I was reading all 810 00:42:35,840 --> 00:42:39,120 Speaker 1: of the the he was going hamp the office, so 811 00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:40,759 Speaker 1: I couldn't do it. So again, you need to be 812 00:42:40,800 --> 00:42:43,240 Speaker 1: in bed for that for you guys that don't know um. 813 00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:47,040 Speaker 1: Apparently China sent him a video kissing another man UM 814 00:42:47,239 --> 00:42:49,399 Speaker 1: in the bed that he paid for that he pays 815 00:42:49,480 --> 00:42:51,279 Speaker 1: rent at the house. Let me like sum it up 816 00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:53,960 Speaker 1: as a cosmopoult took as first thing he posted was 817 00:42:54,000 --> 00:42:56,200 Speaker 1: a video for kissing another man, apparently on fourth to 818 00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:58,799 Speaker 1: July to make him jealous the number of screenshots, allegedly 819 00:42:58,840 --> 00:43:03,239 Speaker 1: explaining that someone told him she cheated on pictures of 820 00:43:03,360 --> 00:43:08,840 Speaker 1: her naked pussy, her titties, her having surgery dollars. But Injewelry, 821 00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:11,600 Speaker 1: you played yourself gradually and a hundred dollars of surgery. 822 00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,880 Speaker 1: So we're going to do something different about this. Because 823 00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:19,360 Speaker 1: I'm sure that you guys listened to amazing podcasts just 824 00:43:19,520 --> 00:43:22,239 Speaker 1: like ours. That's good, but that talk about gossip, right, 825 00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:24,359 Speaker 1: there's so many podcasts to talk about gossip. I want 826 00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:27,040 Speaker 1: to flip this. We have a mom here. A lot 827 00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:28,920 Speaker 1: of what Rob was doing was saying that your mom 828 00:43:29,000 --> 00:43:31,759 Speaker 1: shouldn't be doing this. You've seen the Amber Rose Bush thing. 829 00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,320 Speaker 1: Your mom, you shouldn't be doing this. What how do 830 00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:38,960 Speaker 1: you feel as a mother seeing people constantly throw that 831 00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:42,719 Speaker 1: in somebody's face. It's trash. I mean, people try to 832 00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:46,200 Speaker 1: act like being a parent is a one size fits 833 00:43:46,280 --> 00:43:48,440 Speaker 1: all kind of thing where it's just not it's just 834 00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:51,399 Speaker 1: parents a parent. And then if you're a woman who 835 00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,400 Speaker 1: has any sort of sexual freedom, and then if you 836 00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:56,239 Speaker 1: talk about it on top of that, or if you 837 00:43:56,480 --> 00:43:58,920 Speaker 1: put pictures online or whatever the case, or they get 838 00:43:59,080 --> 00:44:04,239 Speaker 1: leaked or you're or or whatever, it's just the it's 839 00:44:04,280 --> 00:44:07,759 Speaker 1: just an unnecessary amount of pressure because that to me, 840 00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:11,040 Speaker 1: that has nothing to do with your parents are one 841 00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:16,400 Speaker 1: of the best mothers, swear to God, I mean everything 842 00:44:16,480 --> 00:44:21,040 Speaker 1: you do, and you are also one of the only 843 00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:24,239 Speaker 1: friends I have that I'm like, you did what last night? Right? 844 00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:26,640 Speaker 1: So this was this is my question regarding that a 845 00:44:26,719 --> 00:44:28,759 Speaker 1: little bit. So of course you still live your life 846 00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:31,040 Speaker 1: even though your mom. My question is we're now in 847 00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:34,920 Speaker 1: an era like dream Kardashian. We'll see all of this 848 00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:39,319 Speaker 1: ship when she gets older. And your son, Um, how 849 00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:42,920 Speaker 1: how do you go about talking freely on Twitter anymore? 850 00:44:43,080 --> 00:44:45,760 Speaker 1: Or even you're you're also you have a new podcast 851 00:44:45,880 --> 00:44:48,319 Speaker 1: three so anyone by the way, um, she has her 852 00:44:48,360 --> 00:44:52,080 Speaker 1: own podcast and even your videos from YouTube at any 853 00:44:52,120 --> 00:44:54,000 Speaker 1: point in time, all of this stuff that is now 854 00:44:54,120 --> 00:44:55,719 Speaker 1: on the internet, do you feel like you have to 855 00:44:55,840 --> 00:44:57,560 Speaker 1: explain that to your child or do you feel like 856 00:44:57,719 --> 00:44:59,600 Speaker 1: it will come to a point where you need to Well, 857 00:44:59,600 --> 00:45:01,440 Speaker 1: I bought talk to my son about my videos. He 858 00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:04,400 Speaker 1: knows they're sexual, he's seen them. Hold on, let me 859 00:45:04,520 --> 00:45:06,920 Speaker 1: scale back. It sounds like a DoD porn makes really 860 00:45:06,960 --> 00:45:11,840 Speaker 1: funny She makes really funny YouTube video. Right, it's just 861 00:45:12,000 --> 00:45:17,360 Speaker 1: her face. There's no problem, no other they're very sexual. 862 00:45:17,880 --> 00:45:20,399 Speaker 1: I didn't even think about that. But all she does 863 00:45:20,480 --> 00:45:23,560 Speaker 1: is talk about She talks about basically how we talk 864 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,400 Speaker 1: how we talk about second and SI. She does it 865 00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:29,719 Speaker 1: on a video very like pioneer stages of vlogging, right, 866 00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:32,320 Speaker 1: And I'm just I'm telling stories. It's one thing to 867 00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:34,560 Speaker 1: like tell the guys and how you second dick. No, 868 00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:36,480 Speaker 1: I'm like, I saw this date last night and it 869 00:45:36,680 --> 00:45:39,040 Speaker 1: was white. And that's what her videos are like. So 870 00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:43,560 Speaker 1: I'm not afraid you. Which is the name of the video. 871 00:45:43,719 --> 00:45:46,000 Speaker 1: If you guys want to see her video, it's I'm 872 00:45:46,080 --> 00:45:48,279 Speaker 1: not a freak. And you guys can see these big 873 00:45:48,360 --> 00:45:51,839 Speaker 1: lips that she said everyone wants to kiss. So any 874 00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:57,640 Speaker 1: did you ever or any of your friends that have children? Um, 875 00:45:58,280 --> 00:46:02,280 Speaker 1: clearly this is mom baby Mama drama and baby daddy 876 00:46:02,360 --> 00:46:05,560 Speaker 1: drama back and forth. What do you feel about putting 877 00:46:05,680 --> 00:46:08,359 Speaker 1: that information and going back and forth on social media 878 00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:12,600 Speaker 1: so that I'm not that's not cool? Okay, So I 879 00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:15,719 Speaker 1: think there's definitely a line. So like when it comes 880 00:46:15,760 --> 00:46:18,160 Speaker 1: to my son, I think when okay, so I separate 881 00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:21,759 Speaker 1: the two. If there's something that will directly affect him, 882 00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:25,239 Speaker 1: then I try to keep it pretty private. So like 883 00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:26,839 Speaker 1: I would never go back and forth with my baby 884 00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:31,080 Speaker 1: father one okay, Okay, I talked dumb shit about him, 885 00:46:31,320 --> 00:46:34,120 Speaker 1: so that's my prerogative and he ain't ship shout out 886 00:46:34,200 --> 00:46:38,320 Speaker 1: to that. But um, but like I'm not gonna go 887 00:46:38,360 --> 00:46:40,400 Speaker 1: back and forth. I'm not going to do all that. 888 00:46:40,600 --> 00:46:42,880 Speaker 1: But like when it comes to my sexual freedom, I 889 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:47,480 Speaker 1: worked very hard to earn that sexual freedom and to 890 00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:50,360 Speaker 1: be like wake up every day and to go to 891 00:46:50,440 --> 00:46:52,680 Speaker 1: sleep every night knowing the ship I did and I'm 892 00:46:52,719 --> 00:46:54,920 Speaker 1: okay with my girl. And so I'm not gonna let 893 00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,279 Speaker 1: my son say like I think a few people will 894 00:46:57,440 --> 00:47:00,040 Speaker 1: be confused when you say that, And I want you 895 00:47:00,040 --> 00:47:01,400 Speaker 1: all to know there are a lot of women who 896 00:47:01,520 --> 00:47:04,399 Speaker 1: do this but can't handle it, or they go back 897 00:47:04,440 --> 00:47:06,840 Speaker 1: and forth on their emotions This is somebody that we 898 00:47:06,920 --> 00:47:09,680 Speaker 1: brought on this podcast that owns their sex just much 899 00:47:09,719 --> 00:47:12,360 Speaker 1: like we do, is comfortable with it, and is aware 900 00:47:12,360 --> 00:47:15,879 Speaker 1: of what they're doing, not for any benefit other than 901 00:47:16,320 --> 00:47:19,320 Speaker 1: her own her own, not to just please somebody, not 902 00:47:19,440 --> 00:47:21,400 Speaker 1: to appease the couple, not like Okay, I'm here. This 903 00:47:21,560 --> 00:47:24,160 Speaker 1: is somebody that knows what they're doing, is fully aware, 904 00:47:24,239 --> 00:47:27,480 Speaker 1: and loves it. So for someone to say that they are, 905 00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:30,120 Speaker 1: they've earned that right. It takes a lot of work 906 00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:35,600 Speaker 1: to be able to funk like this. And I looked 907 00:47:35,680 --> 00:47:38,160 Speaker 1: right at you because I wanted to be like I 908 00:47:38,280 --> 00:47:41,160 Speaker 1: got the bruise of the provement and I'm just like, 909 00:47:41,280 --> 00:47:43,040 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna let anyone take that away from me, 910 00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:46,279 Speaker 1: my son or some person on Twitter. It's like, oh 911 00:47:46,360 --> 00:47:48,480 Speaker 1: your hell, your mom, Like yeah, they could do both 912 00:47:48,520 --> 00:47:51,920 Speaker 1: multitasking and speaking of speaking of the hole, that's mom. 913 00:47:52,040 --> 00:47:54,719 Speaker 1: That's all that's been saying. That's been said at the memes, 914 00:47:54,800 --> 00:47:56,840 Speaker 1: Like even the celebrities, Snoop Doggs, all of them are like, 915 00:47:57,440 --> 00:48:01,520 Speaker 1: y'all know before you got and that's what you know, 916 00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:04,160 Speaker 1: Like we really don't know because this is the name 917 00:48:04,200 --> 00:48:06,879 Speaker 1: by Rob Rob Crazy. He'd done this before he did 918 00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:10,680 Speaker 1: with Rita or and with I think the ledge. So 919 00:48:10,719 --> 00:48:12,520 Speaker 1: the nigg is a little nuts. So we don't even know. 920 00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:16,040 Speaker 1: You know, men are quick to you might you might cheat, 921 00:48:16,400 --> 00:48:18,000 Speaker 1: and you might do it one or two times, but 922 00:48:18,040 --> 00:48:29,239 Speaker 1: they quickly be like she five niggas everybody, everybody, And 923 00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:33,080 Speaker 1: the shitty thing about society is that they're quicker to 924 00:48:33,440 --> 00:48:39,480 Speaker 1: believe the guy the most. And he shaded her so 925 00:48:39,680 --> 00:48:41,440 Speaker 1: much for doing drugs. And I don't know if she did, 926 00:48:41,560 --> 00:48:43,000 Speaker 1: but she talked about the coke and all this and 927 00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:45,800 Speaker 1: blah blah blah like my nigga, I know he was 928 00:48:45,840 --> 00:48:50,360 Speaker 1: doing that when Hello, bro Scott disick him was tight. Hello, 929 00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:52,480 Speaker 1: you're telling me you ain't do it all drugs. Secondly, 930 00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:55,680 Speaker 1: another thing that really bothered dub I remember when we 931 00:48:55,719 --> 00:48:57,600 Speaker 1: mentioned on the phone, was when he goes you had 932 00:48:57,640 --> 00:49:01,320 Speaker 1: to quit breastfeeding after four weeks just a drink. You 933 00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:05,399 Speaker 1: got bigger titties at home. Have no idea what it's 934 00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:07,520 Speaker 1: like to breastfeed. I'm not saying I don't know what 935 00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:09,600 Speaker 1: she did in her private time, but I do know 936 00:49:09,680 --> 00:49:15,759 Speaker 1: breastfeeding and that ship is fucking hard. It can if 937 00:49:15,840 --> 00:49:19,680 Speaker 1: the you have haven't you seen like people like I 938 00:49:19,719 --> 00:49:23,960 Speaker 1: don't even like, well, after you breastfeed, you're tired, you're 939 00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:25,640 Speaker 1: just even though you're just sitting there, and it's it's 940 00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:27,680 Speaker 1: a mind fun because my mom said she did it 941 00:49:27,719 --> 00:49:29,680 Speaker 1: for three days. She said she was so drained physically. 942 00:49:30,040 --> 00:49:32,800 Speaker 1: I did it for three months, ship and I was 943 00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,680 Speaker 1: dancing at the time, I was still dancing in Boston. 944 00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:44,279 Speaker 1: Um anyway, because she didn't strip. She you, I wasn't 945 00:49:44,360 --> 00:49:48,120 Speaker 1: tip okay, so you were go go dancing. Wasn't ballet, 946 00:49:52,560 --> 00:49:58,000 Speaker 1: the Rocket Feller Center or at Rick's cataracts. But I 947 00:49:58,080 --> 00:50:00,560 Speaker 1: only breastfear for three months and then a quick that 948 00:50:00,680 --> 00:50:03,560 Speaker 1: she was hard. Especially you gotta work, you just to do. 949 00:50:03,719 --> 00:50:05,000 Speaker 1: And again, I don't know what she's doing in the 950 00:50:05,000 --> 00:50:06,840 Speaker 1: private time is really none of my business, but for 951 00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:09,520 Speaker 1: him to shade her, but like, you should be you 952 00:50:09,520 --> 00:50:12,640 Speaker 1: should be home for two years breastfeeding. My like, men 953 00:50:12,840 --> 00:50:15,440 Speaker 1: and women are so quick to say that when they like, 954 00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:18,000 Speaker 1: you have no idea how hard it is to just 955 00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:22,600 Speaker 1: alone breastfeed on top of having just a newborn. Because 956 00:50:22,640 --> 00:50:25,160 Speaker 1: I don't know if they were together or if they 957 00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:28,400 Speaker 1: were separated at the time, but I think that's the 958 00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:31,080 Speaker 1: all bygone on it. And I think what hurts him 959 00:50:31,160 --> 00:50:33,400 Speaker 1: the most is at the end of the day, China, 960 00:50:33,640 --> 00:50:35,880 Speaker 1: you my baby mama, and I'm paying for everything. But 961 00:50:35,960 --> 00:50:38,120 Speaker 1: for you to have these niggas in the bed, that's 962 00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:41,920 Speaker 1: the big issue because to me, no, no, no, that's trifling, 963 00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:44,719 Speaker 1: like for any female listening. But he was hurt and 964 00:50:44,800 --> 00:50:46,520 Speaker 1: he brought a social media and he took it too far. 965 00:50:46,719 --> 00:50:49,759 Speaker 1: It is. But at the same time, if if I 966 00:50:50,000 --> 00:50:52,120 Speaker 1: know she didn't deserve what Rob did. However, if I 967 00:50:52,200 --> 00:50:54,520 Speaker 1: had to take sides, if it's true that she had 968 00:50:54,560 --> 00:50:56,960 Speaker 1: these niggas in the bed that they made dreaming that 969 00:50:57,120 --> 00:50:59,399 Speaker 1: he pays the rent for and she driving the cars 970 00:50:59,480 --> 00:51:02,480 Speaker 1: he paid for or everything, said, I don't give a funk. 971 00:51:02,680 --> 00:51:04,479 Speaker 1: She need to have the decency to fund these things 972 00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:06,520 Speaker 1: in a crib. Well, I'm gonna scale it back for 973 00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:09,520 Speaker 1: a second, just be definitely advocate. So what he pays 974 00:51:09,560 --> 00:51:11,239 Speaker 1: for the rent and it was the same bed, why 975 00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:13,600 Speaker 1: wasn't he there? Do they not live together? That's my point. 976 00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:15,640 Speaker 1: I don't know if they're separated or not, because if 977 00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:17,759 Speaker 1: you pay for my rent, that don't necessarily mean I 978 00:51:17,800 --> 00:51:19,480 Speaker 1: can't fund nobody in his bed? Are we together? If 979 00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:21,760 Speaker 1: she's still coming up if he's still coming over sucking 980 00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:25,080 Speaker 1: hurt and if that's what they're doing, well, that's my 981 00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:27,640 Speaker 1: same thing. That's spaculation. We don't really know that. I 982 00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:29,160 Speaker 1: didn't think of that point until then. But like, my 983 00:51:29,280 --> 00:51:30,680 Speaker 1: baby isn't here. So if you gonna pay for this 984 00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:32,120 Speaker 1: rent because you know I can't afford it, paid for it, 985 00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:36,000 Speaker 1: I don't say. I wan't gonau bro, listen to me, 986 00:51:36,120 --> 00:51:39,200 Speaker 1: then you then you sit here and you fuck. She 987 00:51:39,360 --> 00:51:42,080 Speaker 1: paid for my own tips. Nobody else paid for them. 988 00:51:42,200 --> 00:51:45,080 Speaker 1: But if they did, I would not funk nobody for 989 00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:46,560 Speaker 1: the rest of my life. No, of course, not that 990 00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:49,440 Speaker 1: as you put your money on the same I think 991 00:51:49,520 --> 00:51:51,840 Speaker 1: it's easy to be like funking notice house. But like 992 00:51:52,120 --> 00:51:55,080 Speaker 1: she's tired, she got a baby, baby sleep, she got 993 00:51:55,120 --> 00:51:58,080 Speaker 1: a nice house. Come over, dude, if you're not that 994 00:51:58,239 --> 00:52:00,480 Speaker 1: he's not there for a reason. Did anyone question that? 995 00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:04,719 Speaker 1: What are you crazy? It might not be together? Bro, 996 00:52:05,160 --> 00:52:09,319 Speaker 1: Well we're not together and you moved out. You're telling 997 00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:11,759 Speaker 1: me you're gonna believe ain't suing nobody else that nigga. 998 00:52:11,800 --> 00:52:15,680 Speaker 1: Now I see what she did, So I alsode have 999 00:52:15,760 --> 00:52:17,640 Speaker 1: the drug thing because I don't know much about that, 1000 00:52:17,880 --> 00:52:20,439 Speaker 1: but I didn't flinch at anything else. She said, only 1001 00:52:20,520 --> 00:52:24,360 Speaker 1: because Mom's get such a hard rap. Anything you do, 1002 00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:28,160 Speaker 1: especially if you're actually open, you're gonna be on you sluttiest, 1003 00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:32,320 Speaker 1: which is what everyone says. Mother possible, you don't desire 1004 00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:34,279 Speaker 1: to have your kid. It's such a leap. I wasn't. 1005 00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:37,839 Speaker 1: It wasn't encouraged women just like anyone else, but they 1006 00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:40,640 Speaker 1: just have a child. And again I don't know the details, 1007 00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:42,279 Speaker 1: but it was just the drug thing that made me 1008 00:52:42,320 --> 00:52:45,160 Speaker 1: be like but I just don't know because he didn't 1009 00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,600 Speaker 1: say he was just saying, oh, you you you're doing 1010 00:52:47,719 --> 00:52:50,920 Speaker 1: drugs or you've done drugs, like so have you robbed? 1011 00:52:50,960 --> 00:52:55,160 Speaker 1: You're in l A. I'm sorry if you give me 1012 00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:57,239 Speaker 1: a few million a year and moved me to l A. 1013 00:52:57,520 --> 00:53:03,040 Speaker 1: Cocaine's on the list, bro, I'm sure expense like I've 1014 00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:10,320 Speaker 1: got goddamn lights Gardner a coke dealer, and cocaine is 1015 00:53:10,400 --> 00:53:12,560 Speaker 1: in the air in l A. No, you're right, like, 1016 00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:15,120 Speaker 1: I have never seen people do cocaine in my life 1017 00:53:15,200 --> 00:53:17,920 Speaker 1: until like l A. I'll never forget it. Of the 1018 00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:21,080 Speaker 1: st K with my man. The show wasn't about to like, 1019 00:53:21,080 --> 00:53:22,640 Speaker 1: oh my god, I love your outfit. I was like, thanks, 1020 00:53:22,680 --> 00:53:26,080 Speaker 1: I love you. She was like and I was like, oh, 1021 00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:28,640 Speaker 1: now she's in the lovely city of New York City 1022 00:53:28,680 --> 00:53:30,640 Speaker 1: where they do the same goddamn yeah. But you know what, 1023 00:53:30,719 --> 00:53:32,319 Speaker 1: New York is a little too today offering a ship 1024 00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:37,040 Speaker 1: up like l as California, Cally. People are happy. They 1025 00:53:37,040 --> 00:53:38,279 Speaker 1: just want to share their weed. They just want to 1026 00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:40,120 Speaker 1: share the You in New York. You see somebody in 1027 00:53:40,160 --> 00:53:42,960 Speaker 1: bathroom not gonna the fun. Bitch, I share you know 1028 00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:46,080 Speaker 1: how much the ship is. See Calli Cooke comes from Mexico. 1029 00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:48,719 Speaker 1: I watched documentaries. Bitch, I know where all the drugs that, 1030 00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:51,239 Speaker 1: of course he did not like I'm looking for them. 1031 00:53:52,160 --> 00:53:55,160 Speaker 1: I'm just saying it's very close and problem. York is 1032 00:53:55,280 --> 00:54:04,239 Speaker 1: very expensive everything pussy drugs. Sure, the second we leave here, 1033 00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:09,759 Speaker 1: I need to get bucked. It's raining. It sounds loud 1034 00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:17,280 Speaker 1: as yeah, but it's ninthtime nervous. We all know. Anyway. Anyways, 1035 00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:21,200 Speaker 1: we want to thank you dub for coming on our show. 1036 00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:22,800 Speaker 1: I wish we had a longer time. We would have 1037 00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:25,640 Speaker 1: to get you one again. So glad you happene Where 1038 00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:30,560 Speaker 1: can our listeners find you and tell them about your podcast? 1039 00:54:31,120 --> 00:54:33,320 Speaker 1: Where they can listen to that. Yes, So my cash 1040 00:54:33,440 --> 00:54:38,160 Speaker 1: app is datters sign dubbs. Du there's the first one. 1041 00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:43,279 Speaker 1: My Twitter is at dubs underscore duh do you be s? 1042 00:54:43,719 --> 00:54:47,120 Speaker 1: And then our podcast is called Threesome Anyone and you 1043 00:54:47,160 --> 00:54:51,560 Speaker 1: can find us on Twitter at threesome anyone and they 1044 00:54:51,600 --> 00:54:58,080 Speaker 1: can listen to you on SoundCloud, iTunes now literally all 1045 00:54:58,120 --> 00:55:02,239 Speaker 1: of them, Google all of them. Okay, awesome, check us out. 1046 00:55:02,400 --> 00:55:04,680 Speaker 1: And if you guys want to stay up to date 1047 00:55:04,840 --> 00:55:06,560 Speaker 1: with us and what the hell we're doing and we's 1048 00:55:06,640 --> 00:55:08,959 Speaker 1: making all this goddamn noise digging at her empty as purse, 1049 00:55:10,239 --> 00:55:13,759 Speaker 1: Oh my god. Anyways, you guys can follow us on 1050 00:55:13,840 --> 00:55:18,640 Speaker 1: Twitter at Horrible Underscore Decisions. Also, please please please email 1051 00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:24,480 Speaker 1: us your crazy shit um at Horrible Decisions at gmail 1052 00:55:24,520 --> 00:55:28,279 Speaker 1: dot com. Or you can email our asses. Um did 1053 00:55:28,360 --> 00:55:30,640 Speaker 1: I say email? Oh? D m r asses. So I 1054 00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:34,759 Speaker 1: am on Twitter and Instagram like electronic mail. Yes, I 1055 00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:37,279 Speaker 1: love it, girl. When I blocked niggas, that's how they 1056 00:55:37,320 --> 00:55:43,880 Speaker 1: contact me, you girl. Um, you guys can go ahead 1057 00:55:43,920 --> 00:55:48,120 Speaker 1: and d m me on Twitter and Instagram at full 1058 00:55:48,160 --> 00:55:50,879 Speaker 1: core pumps and where can they find you? One place 1059 00:55:50,960 --> 00:55:53,240 Speaker 1: we already know, go ahead and say it's only on Instagram. 1060 00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:55,479 Speaker 1: I just want to say a lot of y'all haven't 1061 00:55:55,480 --> 00:55:57,800 Speaker 1: sending me your penises that I didn't ask for, and 1062 00:55:57,840 --> 00:55:59,640 Speaker 1: I don't know why I'm getting them, but I feel 1063 00:55:59,719 --> 00:56:03,000 Speaker 1: like I've invited this with my openness on this podcast, 1064 00:56:03,080 --> 00:56:04,600 Speaker 1: and I don't want it. I don't want to see 1065 00:56:04,719 --> 00:56:06,840 Speaker 1: I want to let you guys know just because we 1066 00:56:07,000 --> 00:56:09,800 Speaker 1: talk about sex does not mean we want to have 1067 00:56:09,960 --> 00:56:13,560 Speaker 1: sex with you. I think that takes to me that 1068 00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:16,920 Speaker 1: are dusty. I see trash hands in the corner, and 1069 00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:21,040 Speaker 1: I hate dirt around the toilet here, and y'all have 1070 00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:23,279 Speaker 1: been sending me some dirty dicks. I don't want to 1071 00:56:23,280 --> 00:56:25,719 Speaker 1: see your clean Maybe I do, but a lot of 1072 00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:29,360 Speaker 1: them don't want to send clean dicks to at Wheezy 1073 00:56:29,600 --> 00:56:32,120 Speaker 1: w TF on Instagram. Or if you want to send 1074 00:56:32,200 --> 00:56:34,640 Speaker 1: us your porno flix like into the email, maybe will 1075 00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:37,560 Speaker 1: play the audio if it's good. Oh that sounds cool. Um, 1076 00:56:37,800 --> 00:56:41,960 Speaker 1: So this has been yet another episode of horrible decisions. 1077 00:56:41,960 --> 00:56:43,920 Speaker 1: See you guys next week. Bye.