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Speaker 1: First Date follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury Attorneys

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Speaker 1: online at Advocateslaw dot com.

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Speaker 2: Jared is on the phone today for a first day

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Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Tess.

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Speaker 2: So in a few minutes we'll call her see if

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Speaker 2: she'll tell us why she's ghosting and maybe get him

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Speaker 2: another date. But first, Jared, how long has it been

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Speaker 2: since you talked to tests?

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Speaker 3: About a week?

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Speaker 4: Have you ever tried to reach out to her a

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Speaker 4: few times?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, she hasn't gotten back to me at all. You know,

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Speaker 5: we both have like the script red scripts off, so

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Speaker 5: I have no clue if she's reading my.

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Speaker 3: Text or not.

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Speaker 6: Well, tell us about the date.

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean, honestly, I thought it went really well.

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Speaker 5: We went to this really fancy, you know, like fixed

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Speaker 5: menu experience kind of places. I really wanted to impress her.

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Speaker 5: And the food was great, you know, it was fancy,

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Speaker 5: but not like stuffy, you know, it was it was

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Speaker 5: kind of chill, laid back.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I thought we had a great time.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what made you feel like it was a

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Speaker 1: great time? Is laughing as you get a little cuddly.

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Speaker 5: You know, it was really I think the connection that

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Speaker 5: we had as people. Like I felt like after getting

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Speaker 5: to talk to her a little bit more that I

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Speaker 5: saw like a flash of somebody that I could build

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Speaker 5: a future where someone I could respect, because she takes

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Speaker 5: her like life, her romantic life, her career like all

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Speaker 5: very seriously. And we're both kind of not into like

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Speaker 5: hookup culture, you know, like there's nothing made. Those people

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Speaker 5: want to have fun, but we're both looking for something deeper.

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Speaker 5: You know, we don't want to just date randomly, like

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Speaker 5: we're looking for a real connection and like marriage.

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Speaker 6: You know, Oh you talked about all that on the

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Speaker 6: first date.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was really it was a pretty long time.

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Speaker 5: We just you know, it's a lot of courses, and

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Speaker 5: on top of that, the conversation was just so good.

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Speaker 3: You know, who.

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Speaker 1: Initiated the conversation about looking for marriage and all that

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Speaker 1: kind of.

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Speaker 3: Stuff I tested.

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Speaker 5: You know, she was really like, I'm very much not

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Speaker 5: looking to just date without like she's looking to light

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Speaker 5: very deliberately, you know, not like oh, there's just a guy,

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Speaker 5: let me go see if he's cute. It's kind of like, no,

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Speaker 5: I want somebody I can really.

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Speaker 3: Build a life with.

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Speaker 1: And you responded to that well, I'm just wondering if

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Speaker 1: maybe how he responded could be part of the reason

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Speaker 1: why she that's true.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Like, did you bust out a ring and ask

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Speaker 6: her to marry you right there?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 5: No, I held back a little bit. You know, I'm

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Speaker 5: not going to be like, oh, this is it, but

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Speaker 5: I did. I did get like, yeah, this is what

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Speaker 5: I'm looking for too, So I was excited.

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Speaker 4: Did something else happen? Did you have food in your teeth?

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Speaker 5: I hope, Well, really I did feel a little bit underdressed,

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Speaker 5: I will say that, but I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't think she'd be bothered by that.

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Speaker 5: Somehow. I also wonder if maybe the restaurant was a

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Speaker 5: little bit too fancy, a little bit too like here's

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Speaker 5: your next course. You know, I'm wondering if it's too

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Speaker 5: nice and maybe too many like here's our dish with

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Speaker 5: the special sauce, and this is how the chef intends

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Speaker 5: for you to eat it, you know, like it's kind

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Speaker 5: of like very showy, very experienced kind of thing.

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Speaker 3: And I don't know, some people weren't into that.

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Speaker 4: Did she seem like she wasn't into it?

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Speaker 5: I thought she was, but you know, sometimes like it's

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Speaker 5: hard to read people, you know, are.

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Speaker 1: Just thinking if there was any point in your rounds

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Speaker 1: of dinner that she started to get a little awkward,

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Speaker 1: or did you notice anything changed.

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Speaker 5: I didn't really, I thought, because by the end of it,

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Speaker 5: you know, we had a very nice hug. Like you said,

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Speaker 5: we're both kind of not into like moving too quickly

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Speaker 5: hook up culture, so it wasn't like anything too much.

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Speaker 5: But we had a very nice dinner, very nice hug.

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Speaker 5: I mean, I do wonder I've gained some weight, and

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Speaker 5: I'm not talking about like bustle weight, so I do

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Speaker 5: wonder if that might be a problem. I really hope not,

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Speaker 5: because that would be a little bit I was dating

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Speaker 3: Was the case.

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Speaker 6: Do you remember the last thing that she said to you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, she said, I had a great time.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well we'll try to figure it out. We'll

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Speaker 2: play a song come Back, and then call her and

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Speaker 2: see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you, and

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Speaker 2: maybe get you another day if you still want one.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, sounds good.

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Speaker 6: All right, we'll play song come Back, get your first

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Speaker 6: day follow up next if you're just joining us.

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Speaker 2: Jared is on the phone for a first day follow

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Speaker 2: up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Tess.

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Speaker 2: We're about to call her and ask her if she'll

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Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting him and then maybe get

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Speaker 2: him another date. But first, Jared, why don't you refresh

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Speaker 2: everybody's memory about your date with tests?

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Speaker 5: So we went to a very nice restaurant, one of

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Speaker 5: those experience kind of based six menu, fancy places. We're

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Speaker 5: both looking for the same thing, no hook ups, like

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Speaker 5: real connection, real relationship, ultimately leading to like something serious.

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Speaker 5: And then we laughed amicably, and then all of a sudden,

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Speaker 5: I'm not hearing for her.

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Speaker 3: For like a week.

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Speaker 6: All right, well we'll see if we can figure out. Man,

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Speaker 6: you're ready for us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, here we go.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, man, speak to the test please. My name

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Speaker 2: is Jebil. This is a radio show. It's called The

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Speaker 2: Jewel Show.

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Speaker 4: I'm Mena.

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Speaker 6: Also on The Jewel Show.

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Speaker 4: Hi, I'm Victoria.

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Speaker 6: We're calling you today.

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you listen to the show or not,

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Speaker 2: but we do a segment on the show it's called

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Speaker 2: the first Day follow Up. What that is is if

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Speaker 2: you go out on a date with somebody and then

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Speaker 2: you ghost them, they can email us to get you

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Speaker 2: on the phone and ask why you ghosted them. Oh,

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Speaker 2: so you are currently ghosting somebody. I am you are okay?

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Speaker 2: His name Jared, Yes, his name is Jared. That would

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Speaker 2: be who he emailed us.

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Speaker 3: Oh good.

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Speaker 2: He said that he had a great time with you

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Speaker 2: and he doesn't know why he's been ghosted. So we're

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Speaker 2: on the phone right now to ask you if you'll

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Speaker 3: Yeah, sure, why not? Jared? Uh was so sweet.

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Speaker 7: He took me to this like very he knows that

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Speaker 7: I'm a foodie, and he knows that I really want it,

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Speaker 7: like when I go out, I like to have like

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Speaker 7: an experience that that's like a huge plus for me.

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Speaker 7: And so he found this like really cool restaurant and

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Speaker 7: I like, I loved it. I love the restaurant. And

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Speaker 7: he was so kind and our conversation was great. We

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Speaker 3: And with that.

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Speaker 7: Conversation also comes like the conversation about careers. And Jared

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Speaker 7: told me that he is getting like pretty antsy with

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Speaker 7: debating a career change and like I I'm a huge

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Speaker 7: only really, the only thing was is when I asked

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Speaker 7: his answer was just like pretty off putting to me.

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Speaker 7: He wanted to become a truck driver and see the

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Speaker 7: the computer and stuff. And I think that is so

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Speaker 7: cool that he wants to, you know, leave his job

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Speaker 7: just don't want to be married to a truck driver

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Speaker 7: that I'm never going to see. And if I learned

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Speaker 7: that now, then I just thought I would spare.

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Speaker 6: A You're gusting because he wants to be a truck driver.

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Speaker 7: I'm ghosting because no, I'm not because he wants to

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Speaker 7: be a truck driver, but because that is a profession

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Speaker 7: going to those restaurants with.

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Speaker 2: How come if you're going that far like on a

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Speaker 2: first date, Like, why wouldn't you just tell him?

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Speaker 7: I didn't want him to think I was being superficial

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Speaker 7: about the truck driver thing. So if I'm being honest,

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Speaker 7: I was like, it's just the first date, you know,

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Speaker 7: like you just don't know how to say things sometimes,

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Speaker 6: Well, thank you for being honest with us. I appreciate that.

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Speaker 2: And I will also be honest with you and let

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Speaker 2: you know that Jared is actually on the phone right now.

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Speaker 2: He's been listening this whole time and wants to talk

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Speaker 3: I said, oh, hidered, Tess, I'm not even a trucker yet.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and I and I hear you, and I just

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Speaker 7: was taking everything you were saying like pretty seriously, Like

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Speaker 7: you know, you're talking about marriage and this and that.

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Speaker 7: So it seems like pretty definitive that like you had

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Speaker 5: Oh no, I mean I was really just talking about options.

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Speaker 5: That was kind of like the most you know, go

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Speaker 5: like there are other options that I'm willing to go through,

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Speaker 5: you know that that doesn't have to be that one,

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Speaker 5: And what other options are thinking about maybe getting into

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Speaker 5: something deeper than than what I'm doing now as a programmer,

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Speaker 5: And I'm trying.

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Speaker 3: I'm struggling, guys, what are.

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Speaker 4: We changing dreams after the first day?

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Speaker 5: Guys?

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Speaker 1: I mean I understand wanting to be you know, flexible

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Speaker 1: and here out whoever your partners is and what their

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Speaker 1: concerns are. But after one date, I mean, if you

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Speaker 1: want to be a truck driver, Jared, I mean, there'll

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Speaker 1: be a truck driving a truck driver own it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean I wouldn't mind doing something like acting.

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Speaker 4: That's so cool.

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Speaker 6: Sounds like we got a free spirit here.

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Speaker 5: You know, just something that isn't so tied down to

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Speaker 5: that's kind of the idea more than anything.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you just said okay to that. Is that

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Speaker 3: like that changing your mind? Yeah?

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Speaker 7: I mean what I meant was like when I said okay,

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Speaker 7: was that I appreciate that thought, and I just want

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Speaker 7: to make sure that this isn't We've only been one date,

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Speaker 7: and I just like, don't want you to be changing

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Speaker 7: like that's that is a lot of pressure. So I

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Speaker 7: I don't want to make you change, you know, your

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Speaker 7: free spirit. I think that's a wonderful part about you,

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Speaker 7: especially since it's only been on the first date.

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Speaker 5: That's true, but you know, bringing the consideration up, I mean,

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Speaker 5: I think a lot of people. I think most people

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Speaker 5: it's something to think about. You know.

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Speaker 3: That was just my opinion.

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Speaker 7: You don't know that, Like you might find somebody that

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Speaker 7: is compatible for you, that's cool with that, and then

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Speaker 7: you both get what you want.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, maybe it's possible, you know, find somebody

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Speaker 5: that wants to live in a truck with me most

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Speaker 5: of the year, But I don't know. I just you

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Speaker 5: never really know. I mean, there's a lot of different

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Speaker 5: made a connection that night, and I really want you

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Speaker 2: Sounds like he's in it for the long haul. Would

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Speaker 2: you like to go on another date with Jared? Will

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Speaker 2: pay for it?

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Speaker 6: You know what?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 5: I will go on to say, Okay, oh dude, awesome,

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Speaker 5: Maybe we can go camping.

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Speaker 2: I was going to say just a truck stop.

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Speaker 8: Ye, Like yeah, like a camping after dinner or before,

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Speaker 8: like what's the vibe, you know, after dinner and then

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Speaker 8: we get used to being in a small space like

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Speaker 8: a like a semicap.

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Speaker 2: Okay, there you go. Well, thank you you guys. Congratulations

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Speaker 2: you got a second date?

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Speaker 7: You Wiles.

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Speaker 6: First Day follow up