WEBVTT - MARCUS SPEARS PART 2

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<v Speaker 1>This is cut to it with Steve Smith Senior at

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<v Speaker 1>production of The Black Effect and I Heart Radio. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>Steve Smith Senior and I'm Little John and this is

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<v Speaker 1>cut to it. Cut do it, Cut do it. Let's

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<v Speaker 1>get down to do it. God do it. We asked

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<v Speaker 1>the questions you always want to know, but no one

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<v Speaker 1>ever asked, let's cut to it. If you ain't heard

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<v Speaker 1>about it, then we're about to let you know. It's

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<v Speaker 1>all My uncle Phield used to tell me. Literally, I

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<v Speaker 1>got an uncle nay Field, Philip Spears, and my grandfather's brother.

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<v Speaker 1>He used to tell me all the time. The smartest

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<v Speaker 1>men in the world know what they don't know like

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<v Speaker 1>and you can't be you can't be um so immature

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<v Speaker 1>and not the not acknowledge that. Like man, Listen, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>I've spent the last four years with Dan Orloski. I've

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<v Speaker 1>learned more about quarterback play in the last four years

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<v Speaker 1>than I did mind Ticker in the NFL, because that's

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<v Speaker 1>his area of expertise. And tell walkers, walk us through

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<v Speaker 1>what you've learned and get and give Dan some credit

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<v Speaker 1>walking through what you've learned over what he's he's giving you.

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<v Speaker 1>Because people do look at Dan and I and and

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<v Speaker 1>you could tell him. I said this because Dan is

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<v Speaker 1>Dan's text someone that's text me to tell Dan said,

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<v Speaker 1>stay off such as such. But you know the quarterbacks.

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<v Speaker 1>But I just I'm on the quarterbacks a lot because

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<v Speaker 1>they get paid so much money. I've said this. We

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<v Speaker 1>had Doug Williams on and I asked him. You won't

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<v Speaker 1>hire a receiver that can catch. You won't keep a

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<v Speaker 1>running back that can't hit the whole your damn show,

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<v Speaker 1>won't let the left tackle who can't block stay. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you'll give a quarterback a bonus, extend him for being

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<v Speaker 1>a I. And then he goes, well, let's talk about

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<v Speaker 1>just backups, right, and I, oh goodness, talk about back ups.

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<v Speaker 1>You allow a backup who you hope, Let's be honest,

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<v Speaker 1>you pray that backup never ever, ever, ever place unless

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<v Speaker 1>you need folks. Right, So tell us about Dan, What

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<v Speaker 1>what he's taught you, and why why has that been

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<v Speaker 1>so good? And what what exactly? Just just big up

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<v Speaker 1>Dan and just what he's done for you. Well, one thing, man,

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<v Speaker 1>is you know we we never sit in quarters. Well

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<v Speaker 1>I never said in a quarterback meeting, So to hear

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<v Speaker 1>some of the verbis that go on, how those meetings

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<v Speaker 1>are conducted, and then to just like quarterback play from

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<v Speaker 1>you know, this meeting, like you were talking about Tyrek

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<v Speaker 1>Hill crayon routes and all of that. Um, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know how important it was to marry your feet with

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<v Speaker 1>your upper body. Um, to have your shoulder pointing to

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<v Speaker 1>your target. Yeah. You don't play golfer, No, not at all.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why a lot of the quarterbacks are extremely well golfers.

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<v Speaker 1>So a lot of the technique with it right, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>A lot of the things that they have to see

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<v Speaker 1>prior to a ball being snapped that that is either

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<v Speaker 1>gonna help their team or put their team in the

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<v Speaker 1>worst possible situation they can be in. Still a line,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to get your line to use, quarterbacks must

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<v Speaker 1>confirm where they're going with the ball before the snapper,

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<v Speaker 1>before not discovering. If you're discovering and you that receiver, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that bad news. We wanted you to be that way.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm speaking as a defensive We wanted you to be

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<v Speaker 1>that way. We didn't like what we talked about with

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<v Speaker 1>Peyton and what we talked about with Tom is that

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<v Speaker 1>they know where you're going before you know. Sometimes they're

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<v Speaker 1>telling you the line of hey, shift, don't exactly like

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<v Speaker 1>big fella. If you don't move, we're gonna run right there.

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<v Speaker 1>But but but I'd have been up before with Peyton,

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<v Speaker 1>like bro first year in Baltimore, Payton through six touchdowns

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<v Speaker 1>on us when I was with the Ravens and me

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<v Speaker 1>and me and Terrel so Sizzle was sitting on the bench.

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<v Speaker 1>Sis said, they ain't nothing we can do. We we

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<v Speaker 1>We called Dan ps who was out decordinator, said, Dean,

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<v Speaker 1>you know everything we're doing, he said, he said, best

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<v Speaker 1>to luck to y'alls. You're talking to. Dean is with

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<v Speaker 1>the defense, courting that he's in Atlanta right now. Dean

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<v Speaker 1>was in Baltimore to Dean, but he came to tell you, hey, well,

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<v Speaker 1>all we can do is bless him. All we can

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<v Speaker 1>do it. Thanks go or you come in the offense

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<v Speaker 1>and defense they say, hey, office, we need some help

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<v Speaker 1>from you. Yep, reality bro. So I think a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of it, man, A lot of it. Um is just

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<v Speaker 1>see kind of seeing the picture through a guy that

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<v Speaker 1>was behind center. And honestly, like when I'm when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>on set, like even with even with Ryan Clark RC,

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<v Speaker 1>the secondary plate. Now I had a great idea of

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<v Speaker 1>that because when I was at L s U, we

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<v Speaker 1>did a lot of his own pressure. So I had

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<v Speaker 1>to understand um coverages. I had understand where dudes would be,

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<v Speaker 1>where my flat area was, where my drop hooks was,

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<v Speaker 1>all of that type of stuff. But but just like

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<v Speaker 1>seeing it from a safety who played downhill, like what

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<v Speaker 1>it is like when you what it's like when when

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<v Speaker 1>when Marvin Harrison running a running a crosser and you

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<v Speaker 1>know that you can't run with it, Like what's the

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<v Speaker 1>technique to try to intercept him? Not the ball, just

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<v Speaker 1>to get him on the grounds, right. So it's just

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<v Speaker 1>it's a it's a lot of stuff, man, And and

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's why, Um, that's why for me, like

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<v Speaker 1>being around on different different guys like and and to

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<v Speaker 1>your point, different levels of expertise. Louis Riddick was in

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<v Speaker 1>the front office is also you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he had to break he had his job depended

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<v Speaker 1>on getting the right guys, like making sure that the

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<v Speaker 1>talent he was seeing allaying with what they was gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do when they got to that team or he was

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<v Speaker 1>out of them. Um, So it's just a lot, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>It's a lot Man. Even Mina comes and I know

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<v Speaker 1>people get crazy. Bro, I have the amount of film

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<v Speaker 1>and breakdown in time that Mina puts into understanding football

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<v Speaker 1>and really knowing by talking to players. If you ever

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<v Speaker 1>with Mina comes around the NFL like people, why how

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<v Speaker 1>many players show her respect? I met her? This is

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<v Speaker 1>the first time I get I got the meter. We're

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<v Speaker 1>at the combine and I said that was great me

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<v Speaker 1>and you. I love what you do and your respect.

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<v Speaker 1>And she came and gave me that look like yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>sure you do right. But here's the problem. But here's

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<v Speaker 1>the problem. I don't hand out those compliments to everybody

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<v Speaker 1>because there's a lot of times I see a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of people on television. I don't think they're great. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think they do a good job. I think sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>they're lazy, right. And the reason I know is because

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<v Speaker 1>there are times I've been lazy where I I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I know I'm gonna be on a show where maybe

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<v Speaker 1>my football knowledge is not required as much they want

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<v Speaker 1>to store they want to They desire the storyteller, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't like the storyteller. I like the storytelling in

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<v Speaker 1>in like this setting where we can we can mixture football,

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<v Speaker 1>and the storytelling amplifies the conversation, but not where the

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<v Speaker 1>storytelling and it minimizes the football knowledge because the people

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<v Speaker 1>that are getting paid to represent a talk about football

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<v Speaker 1>actually don't know any football. So I try to show

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes I'm just kind of you to do that. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't say this man like, I don't go that far.

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<v Speaker 1>I just listened to the people. I think, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell they're talking about? Well, I like to

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<v Speaker 1>I like to watch everybody because it gives me. It

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<v Speaker 1>gives me a sense, right I And is so much

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<v Speaker 1>sports out there that I also I stay out of

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<v Speaker 1>it because you can get inundated. You can go down

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<v Speaker 1>a worm hole, a false false like I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>can find some alternative facts. Yeah, you start getting, you

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<v Speaker 1>get You get a post for sixteen seconds that people

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<v Speaker 1>are following you. One point five million people view a

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<v Speaker 1>sixteen second post because I'm in the New York Giants uniform,

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<v Speaker 1>UH coaching staff and say, hey, I'm going to coach

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<v Speaker 1>it on. Oh it must be real And it happens

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<v Speaker 1>every summer for both of y'all being in this sports

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<v Speaker 1>media game. What has changed that you're a fan of

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<v Speaker 1>and then what would you like to see you change.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a fan of players having a voice, and they

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<v Speaker 1>all platforms. I like that, um because when when smittic

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<v Speaker 1>in the test when we was in the league, you

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<v Speaker 1>only got what you gave a sound bite up. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>You know this whole thing with Drake Muond and this

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<v Speaker 1>podcast right now after after games and he's not playing

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<v Speaker 1>well that that he not muted because he didn't play

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<v Speaker 1>a good basketball game, Like you know what I'm saying,

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<v Speaker 1>Like now, you could get into what he's doing spending

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<v Speaker 1>this time. I don't care about that. That's a grown man, um.

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<v Speaker 1>But ultimately I understand the other side is that you

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<v Speaker 1>know people watching that, watching you playing the finals, and

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<v Speaker 1>they yeah, they quote unquote had his expectation of what

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<v Speaker 1>you should be doing when you're not playing, um, living

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<v Speaker 1>your life. And I run into issues with that, But

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<v Speaker 1>that's for a whole another podcast when we get into it. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But ultimately, for me, man, I like players having a voice. UM.

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<v Speaker 1>I like I like when they say stuff because you

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<v Speaker 1>get to you get to know how they really think it.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah they see. That's the other part too. It does

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<v Speaker 1>give you a peek into who they are, right and

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<v Speaker 1>and and the one thing I do love about podcasts

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<v Speaker 1>that I love to listen to. It's how they transition.

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<v Speaker 1>The transition tells you how they're thinking from the game

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<v Speaker 1>to the podcast in the conversations. A great, great example

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<v Speaker 1>Tarik Hill or Cheetah. I listened to it, how he transitioned,

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<v Speaker 1>what he said, how he said it, his eyes, his

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<v Speaker 1>his attire. Right, he's wearing his his jersey with a suit.

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<v Speaker 1>He's trying to fix it and figure it out, and

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<v Speaker 1>he's utilizing his stuff. The only advice I'll give him

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<v Speaker 1>is when he's no longer, can he sustain it? And

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<v Speaker 1>can he does he give hisself an opportunity and does

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<v Speaker 1>he give his helf from the opportunity? Like we are

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<v Speaker 1>where people are engaged and there's enough things to discuss

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<v Speaker 1>in its organic And that's my that's my only thing

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<v Speaker 1>is he's hot right now. But at some point will

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<v Speaker 1>you be able with my coach? She always tells me,

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<v Speaker 1>Jail Montgomery, right, shout out to Jail. Make it about

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<v Speaker 1>the other person. Yeah, right, And so that that's the

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<v Speaker 1>only thing right, even even you though, like right like

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<v Speaker 1>I heard I heard, I heard M J. J. Reddy

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<v Speaker 1>Uh say something that that that was intriguing to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Y'all know, I love basketball, man, I love talking about it. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But he talked about um steps, competitive stamina right Like.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't accomplished all this, Bro, I canna walk away

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<v Speaker 1>from the game as one of the top seven, if

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<v Speaker 1>five players ever in the history of the NBA. That's

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<v Speaker 1>why I have a tremendous amount of respect for Lebron.

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<v Speaker 1>Tremendous amount of respect for use to me a career

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<v Speaker 1>where you continue to elevate, but in the off season

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<v Speaker 1>you approach it like you saw it right like, and

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes that don't translate to being a Hall of Fame

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<v Speaker 1>or great player. I work my ass off in the

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<v Speaker 1>off season like I approached every off season like I

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<v Speaker 1>had to earn a job because you went in saying right,

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<v Speaker 1>I never went in saying I'm a first round pick

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<v Speaker 1>them up. I'm gonna how this. They're gonna know. I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta earn this job every single year. Um, And some

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<v Speaker 1>dudes don't. Some dudes they stuff, you know what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 1>They like the stuff. It ain't they run out of

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<v Speaker 1>the energy to continue to prepare and get ready. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>But for me, like to your point, having an inside

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<v Speaker 1>view of how these guys not only operate when they balled,

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<v Speaker 1>because we could see that they got the footage of

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<v Speaker 1>that um, But like, you know, what's important tool what

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<v Speaker 1>kind of stuff are they saying? You know, we could

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<v Speaker 1>see the tend we could see the thirty second minute

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<v Speaker 1>and a half workout clips, but is it translating to

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<v Speaker 1>what we see when you play on Sunday or what

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<v Speaker 1>we see when you're playing on the court. So I

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<v Speaker 1>just like that. I like that they have a have

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<v Speaker 1>a voice because for me, it says you can't lie

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<v Speaker 1>to me through sound bites, and and so that leads

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<v Speaker 1>that leads me to the one thing I dislike about

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<v Speaker 1>working in media is former players have to when we

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<v Speaker 1>when we break news, they have to verify. Yeah, but

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<v Speaker 1>other media people who are not former players, there's no

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<v Speaker 1>verification required, go with it. Yes, And that that's the

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<v Speaker 1>one thing, and and and as a former player I

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<v Speaker 1>dislike I the one thing. There's a few things I dislike.

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<v Speaker 1>One of the other biggest things I dislike is beat

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<v Speaker 1>writers who give a false a false security, a false

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<v Speaker 1>sens to the fans that they actually do know the

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<v Speaker 1>players they're covering because they don't like not every beat

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<v Speaker 1>writer actually has a really good relationship, but understanding of

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<v Speaker 1>that individual. They sometimes only know that individual for the

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<v Speaker 1>fifteen or twenty minutes of open locker room based off

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<v Speaker 1>if they even speak to him. They may see someone

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<v Speaker 1>and say, oh, he's always upset. Sometimes maybe they just

0:14:32.760 --> 0:14:37.320
<v Speaker 1>have that resting face, that's his demeanor. But oh, he's

0:14:37.360 --> 0:14:39.960
<v Speaker 1>always angry. But have you ever spoke to him? Right,

0:14:40.040 --> 0:14:42.320
<v Speaker 1>And then they go to, well, I have to write

0:14:42.320 --> 0:14:46.200
<v Speaker 1>the article based on like my eight year old grandmother

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<v Speaker 1>is reading it, meanings, I have to state all the

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<v Speaker 1>bad things, not the good things, all the bad things

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<v Speaker 1>to tell you how he got to today. And a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of beat writers the fans stink, oh you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm using to us an example. Gerard little John has

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<v Speaker 1>a great relationship with all of the all of the

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<v Speaker 1>Carolina Panthers players here, So when he writes this article,

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<v Speaker 1>he must have talked to several people. He may talk

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<v Speaker 1>to one scout who may have a extra grind or

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<v Speaker 1>a reason to talk about that individual, So there's a

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<v Speaker 1>false narrative of that. They're all close ahead. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get an example. Let's tell you what I hate, all right,

0:15:33.640 --> 0:15:36.600
<v Speaker 1>and it just happened I hated this Davante Aaron Rodgers thing.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, bro, it's coming sense for Davante Adams not

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<v Speaker 1>the one to be in Green Bay. He don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if it's the quarterback coming back, but I said it

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<v Speaker 1>on television and I'm hating you when you just don't

0:15:48.720 --> 0:15:52.240
<v Speaker 1>like Aaron Rodgers. No, if if me, it's me to

0:15:52.320 --> 0:15:55.840
<v Speaker 1>go into business together. And every day on summer he

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<v Speaker 1>telling me, Man, I'm about to bow out. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say on my half, I'm gonna sell my share, and

0:16:01.280 --> 0:16:04.760
<v Speaker 1>an opportunity comes along for me to have stability. And

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<v Speaker 1>I've been on this roller coaster with Smitty, I probably

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<v Speaker 1>should take that stable situation and the business with your

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<v Speaker 1>best friend that you that you grew up with ya

0:16:14.880 --> 0:16:17.720
<v Speaker 1>playing high school, so I had I had a big

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<v Speaker 1>issue with the whole um. No, No, it's they. It's fine.

0:16:22.800 --> 0:16:26.040
<v Speaker 1>They they love each other. They hug when he threw

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<v Speaker 1>his hundred touchdown and look broke a lot of NFL

0:16:29.840 --> 0:16:34.600
<v Speaker 1>relationships in locker rooms are necessity. It ain't real. Circumstantials,

0:16:35.360 --> 0:16:38.520
<v Speaker 1>circumstantial ain't real. Friendships that ain't real. Brothers were cool.

0:16:38.560 --> 0:16:41.000
<v Speaker 1>We go alone and get along at times, and sometimes

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<v Speaker 1>we just flat out no, like some of our team. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's the reality. So that that's the part that that

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<v Speaker 1>bothers me about some of the media now is that

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<v Speaker 1>it's it's either because of the success that they see

0:16:54.760 --> 0:16:58.160
<v Speaker 1>it happened in a three hour window. They assume that

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<v Speaker 1>this alliance and brotherhood just exists, like we're doing dinner together. Bro.

0:17:02.920 --> 0:17:05.520
<v Speaker 1>Majority of the NFL players go home to their family

0:17:05.640 --> 0:17:08.000
<v Speaker 1>and don't talk to their team. They say it said

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<v Speaker 1>the next day, are you serious? I know, dudes, but

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, man, like, but but you know something to

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<v Speaker 1>your point, man, Sometimes it's this false narrative that that

0:17:19.880 --> 0:17:23.919
<v Speaker 1>it's just this one structured way to have success. Like

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<v Speaker 1>if a team win a championship, everybody is on the

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<v Speaker 1>same page. That's a lie. No, they ain't. Like there's

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<v Speaker 1>here's the thing that a lot of people don't know, man,

0:17:34.760 --> 0:17:37.000
<v Speaker 1>that Baltimore Ravens team when they want to super Bowl,

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<v Speaker 1>it was anarchy. It was beef and it was like

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<v Speaker 1>inmates was about to overtake the press. I'm not even

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<v Speaker 1>gonna get into it, but I'm just I just know

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<v Speaker 1>it was bananas what I heard. But yet when I

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<v Speaker 1>got to Baltimore, we had some issues oh, it's just

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<v Speaker 1>like such a such year. We I was like, what yeah,

0:18:04.600 --> 0:18:10.399
<v Speaker 1>and I heard and that just lets you know, well,

0:18:10.440 --> 0:18:11.840
<v Speaker 1>I had a good I had a good time. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me say this. I had a good time in Baltimore

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<v Speaker 1>because I was still in checks. That was really all

0:18:17.680 --> 0:18:21.800
<v Speaker 1>that investment I wanted the two gaps played first second down,

0:18:22.200 --> 0:18:24.720
<v Speaker 1>get three or four tackles a game, and then let

0:18:24.720 --> 0:18:27.040
<v Speaker 1>the young Bucks come in and get all that pass

0:18:27.119 --> 0:18:29.320
<v Speaker 1>rushing and all that our new system. So I had

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<v Speaker 1>a great time. I had agreed that I went downtown

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<v Speaker 1>with Smidia after games and we got at the what

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<v Speaker 1>it was that the Ritz and we would sit there

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<v Speaker 1>at the ball and enjoy ourselves. And not for one

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<v Speaker 1>minute of that season when I was in Baltimore that

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<v Speaker 1>I think I need to I need to get I

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<v Speaker 1>need to come out here and I need to be

0:18:48.600 --> 0:18:53.520
<v Speaker 1>a great superstar player. Not one time, not one time.

0:18:53.920 --> 0:18:56.399
<v Speaker 1>I just wanted to do my job and get my

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<v Speaker 1>check and get the hell out of there. When the

0:18:58.240 --> 0:19:01.399
<v Speaker 1>season was over, and and and and the Lord be

0:19:01.480 --> 0:19:03.920
<v Speaker 1>knowing what we need, because they cut me week eight

0:19:04.200 --> 0:19:06.760
<v Speaker 1>and submitted the next day. I was back in Dallas

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<v Speaker 1>at my I love cut to it and I love

0:19:18.240 --> 0:19:22.399
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0:19:22.840 --> 0:19:25.080
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0:19:28.160 --> 0:19:33.280
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0:19:40.080 --> 0:19:43.000
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0:19:43.040 --> 0:19:47.760
<v Speaker 1>wherever you listen to podcasts. I got all my answers questions. Uh, yeah,

0:19:48.400 --> 0:19:51.760
<v Speaker 1>I got all my questions answered. That's what I'm here for,

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<v Speaker 1>a brother, cut to a podcast dot com. What did

0:19:55.680 --> 0:20:00.320
<v Speaker 1>you think about retirement would be? Yeah? And and now

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<v Speaker 1>you're retired, what has it been? Um? I thought retirement

0:20:05.119 --> 0:20:08.040
<v Speaker 1>would be I want to just do whatever I want

0:20:08.080 --> 0:20:11.240
<v Speaker 1>to do all the time, no schedule, I just wanna.

0:20:11.560 --> 0:20:13.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm fishing, hun, I'm a comfortable I fish. I

0:20:13.880 --> 0:20:16.600
<v Speaker 1>thought that's what I was gonna be doing, and following

0:20:16.640 --> 0:20:18.760
<v Speaker 1>my kids around because I figured they'd be athletes. My

0:20:18.800 --> 0:20:21.439
<v Speaker 1>wife played in the w n b A, so we

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<v Speaker 1>knew our kids was gonna be athletes and some some capacity. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>but but then not realizing, Man, I think a lot

0:20:28.560 --> 0:20:30.479
<v Speaker 1>of players I went through like I went through like

0:20:30.680 --> 0:20:34.439
<v Speaker 1>two and a half three weeks of depression. Um, I

0:20:34.480 --> 0:20:36.879
<v Speaker 1>didn't know how to define it at the time, but

0:20:36.920 --> 0:20:38.440
<v Speaker 1>my wife was like, I think you need to gonna

0:20:38.440 --> 0:20:43.480
<v Speaker 1>talk to somebody because but for real, bro, seriously, Like

0:20:43.880 --> 0:20:46.120
<v Speaker 1>and I thought about it, man, after you know, after

0:20:46.160 --> 0:20:48.439
<v Speaker 1>talking to the therapist. I thought about it. From the

0:20:48.520 --> 0:20:50.560
<v Speaker 1>age of six until I was thirty one, I knew

0:20:50.560 --> 0:20:53.600
<v Speaker 1>what my year was gonna look like. I knew football

0:20:53.600 --> 0:20:56.600
<v Speaker 1>season was coming, basketball season, and then when you get

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<v Speaker 1>to the pros, you know how structured we are. We

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<v Speaker 1>got our times in the yield, what we decided to do,

0:21:01.280 --> 0:21:03.280
<v Speaker 1>what we do, and then when it's gone. And that's

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<v Speaker 1>what I tell everybody, Bro, they don't throw no parade,

0:21:05.520 --> 0:21:08.200
<v Speaker 1>they don't throw like there's no there is no exit

0:21:08.560 --> 0:21:11.440
<v Speaker 1>program that you go through to to get you ready

0:21:11.480 --> 0:21:15.879
<v Speaker 1>for quote unquote normal civilian life. Um, Jared Jones ain't

0:21:15.960 --> 0:21:17.960
<v Speaker 1>called me one time to check on me to see

0:21:17.960 --> 0:21:20.760
<v Speaker 1>how I'm doing right. So it's it's just it's just

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<v Speaker 1>one of them things where I went through that phase

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<v Speaker 1>and then when I what I realized is and retirement

0:21:27.119 --> 0:21:30.679
<v Speaker 1>holdamn overrated, bro, I gotta have something to do, Like,

0:21:30.720 --> 0:21:33.080
<v Speaker 1>I gotta have something to do. I gotta have a

0:21:33.200 --> 0:21:37.200
<v Speaker 1>purpose outside of my main purpose, which is to love

0:21:37.240 --> 0:21:39.399
<v Speaker 1>my wife, take care of my kids, and let the

0:21:39.440 --> 0:21:42.320
<v Speaker 1>Lord lead me where I need to be. Um, but

0:21:42.400 --> 0:21:45.280
<v Speaker 1>from a work standpoint, doing what I'm doing in television now,

0:21:45.720 --> 0:21:47.439
<v Speaker 1>I tell people all the time, bro, the reason why

0:21:47.480 --> 0:21:50.640
<v Speaker 1>I have a great time is because this, this job

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<v Speaker 1>is still not real to me. Like, I can't believe

0:21:54.320 --> 0:21:57.680
<v Speaker 1>you can make this much money talking about football like that.

0:21:57.840 --> 0:22:03.399
<v Speaker 1>I just didn't. I never equated potentially making more in

0:22:03.480 --> 0:22:06.560
<v Speaker 1>a television career than I did in my football career.

0:22:06.920 --> 0:22:09.520
<v Speaker 1>I never thought that was like something that was possible.

0:22:09.560 --> 0:22:12.320
<v Speaker 1>And then and then the other part, man, is like

0:22:12.720 --> 0:22:15.640
<v Speaker 1>I like structure as much as I can probably say

0:22:15.680 --> 0:22:17.359
<v Speaker 1>it all my life. I want to be where I

0:22:17.400 --> 0:22:18.880
<v Speaker 1>want to be. I don't wanta know about it telling

0:22:18.880 --> 0:22:21.120
<v Speaker 1>me where I need to go. I do like having

0:22:21.160 --> 0:22:24.200
<v Speaker 1>a having a having a calendar. I do like having

0:22:24.280 --> 0:22:27.800
<v Speaker 1>things that I want to get accomplished, but also having

0:22:27.840 --> 0:22:31.879
<v Speaker 1>a having a job structure of Look, you're gonna be

0:22:31.920 --> 0:22:36.359
<v Speaker 1>doing this between September and February, right, and you got combined,

0:22:36.359 --> 0:22:38.960
<v Speaker 1>and you got um the Super Bowl, and you got

0:22:38.960 --> 0:22:41.280
<v Speaker 1>the Pro Bowl, and then to all of the experiences

0:22:41.320 --> 0:22:45.520
<v Speaker 1>that TV has afforded me as well. Smitty, I met

0:22:45.560 --> 0:22:48.240
<v Speaker 1>you in Charlotte because of television, like I was working

0:22:48.240 --> 0:22:51.560
<v Speaker 1>at the SEC Network at the time. Um, So it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's a lot of that, man. So I've I've enjoyed

0:22:54.280 --> 0:22:57.159
<v Speaker 1>not only having you know, being able to work at

0:22:57.760 --> 0:23:01.080
<v Speaker 1>ESPN and you know, ascending and have success in this

0:23:01.280 --> 0:23:05.960
<v Speaker 1>in this arena, but also like the stuff that what

0:23:06.040 --> 0:23:08.359
<v Speaker 1>I tell people all the time is the gnomes for

0:23:08.440 --> 0:23:12.320
<v Speaker 1>me should be the nomes. I'm never gonna sacrifice time

0:23:12.400 --> 0:23:16.800
<v Speaker 1>with my wife or my kids when when it doesn't

0:23:16.840 --> 0:23:21.400
<v Speaker 1>need to be for any job because I don't have to, right,

0:23:21.520 --> 0:23:25.040
<v Speaker 1>like the Good Lord gave me a long career to

0:23:25.160 --> 0:23:29.879
<v Speaker 1>care my money and I'm fine, um, But also do

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<v Speaker 1>value my responsibility to my job and to my co

0:23:33.960 --> 0:23:35.800
<v Speaker 1>workers who depend on me to do what I do.

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<v Speaker 1>So that to balance both of those things and still

0:23:39.359 --> 0:23:41.800
<v Speaker 1>be able to live within those and give the proper

0:23:41.840 --> 0:23:45.080
<v Speaker 1>amount of time and attention that they need is something

0:23:45.080 --> 0:23:48.400
<v Speaker 1>that I enjoy doing. So the retirement thing is overrated

0:23:48.440 --> 0:23:51.840
<v Speaker 1>to me. Bro and and and honestly, where I'm from,

0:23:51.880 --> 0:23:54.000
<v Speaker 1>my mom lives with me, has been living with me

0:23:54.040 --> 0:23:56.840
<v Speaker 1>since I started playing in the league. Um, and she would,

0:23:56.960 --> 0:23:59.040
<v Speaker 1>she would, she would, she told, you know, told me

0:23:59.040 --> 0:24:02.000
<v Speaker 1>when I was young. But tell me, like most people

0:24:02.040 --> 0:24:06.280
<v Speaker 1>died when they were tired. Um, and they don't have

0:24:06.320 --> 0:24:10.359
<v Speaker 1>a purpose to be living for. So I playing on working,

0:24:11.480 --> 0:24:13.399
<v Speaker 1>you know, as long as I as long as they

0:24:13.480 --> 0:24:17.800
<v Speaker 1>keep making these direct deposits, I'm gonna. I can tell

0:24:17.840 --> 0:24:20.880
<v Speaker 1>you it's really interesting. Man. Just had a I want

0:24:20.880 --> 0:24:26.359
<v Speaker 1>to say, epiphany, but I had a a thought. Um.

0:24:26.440 --> 0:24:29.159
<v Speaker 1>You know, we go to Central up in Charlotte and

0:24:29.200 --> 0:24:31.760
<v Speaker 1>Loran was it was killing it right, and he was

0:24:31.840 --> 0:24:35.240
<v Speaker 1>just talking about um community and he's just talking about

0:24:36.200 --> 0:24:39.080
<v Speaker 1>before the Lord comes and something that's happened with my

0:24:39.119 --> 0:24:43.480
<v Speaker 1>wife family and they just got some Her parents are

0:24:43.480 --> 0:24:46.920
<v Speaker 1>getting older. My wife is the youngest of seven, um.

0:24:47.640 --> 0:24:51.720
<v Speaker 1>And so you know with her being the youngest of seven,

0:24:51.800 --> 0:24:54.399
<v Speaker 1>we have a niece. We got nieces and nephews that

0:24:54.440 --> 0:24:59.840
<v Speaker 1>are like two years younger than us. My wife's sister

0:25:00.000 --> 0:25:03.399
<v Speaker 1>in law, God arrest her soul is almost is literally

0:25:03.440 --> 0:25:07.440
<v Speaker 1>like a year the same age as my mother. Right,

0:25:08.800 --> 0:25:15.520
<v Speaker 1>and my wife's uh Angie, her oldest brother sixty soon

0:25:15.560 --> 0:25:21.720
<v Speaker 1>to be sixty one, and he's he's still working and grinding,

0:25:22.480 --> 0:25:28.639
<v Speaker 1>and until I actually connected the dots right, I was

0:25:28.680 --> 0:25:34.840
<v Speaker 1>just going, Wow, it's been a blessing that at forty three,

0:25:35.320 --> 0:25:40.200
<v Speaker 1>sometimes I got to decide on to take off my plate. Yeah,

0:25:40.640 --> 0:25:44.040
<v Speaker 1>and this, you know, my brother at sixty one is

0:25:44.080 --> 0:25:48.320
<v Speaker 1>just trying to he just he's just trying to maintain right.

0:25:48.480 --> 0:25:53.919
<v Speaker 1>And it's just such a different dynamic that in playing

0:25:53.960 --> 0:25:57.760
<v Speaker 1>football is you know, we we we talked about a

0:25:57.760 --> 0:26:00.520
<v Speaker 1>lot on the podcast. Geez from North Carolina is from

0:26:00.600 --> 0:26:03.760
<v Speaker 1>lexing to and there are parts of him that I

0:26:03.760 --> 0:26:11.720
<v Speaker 1>get jealous of because you grew up here in close proximity,

0:26:12.600 --> 0:26:16.280
<v Speaker 1>but I didn't. I never, very rarely, I would never

0:26:16.359 --> 0:26:18.720
<v Speaker 1>run into anybody that I went to high school with

0:26:18.880 --> 0:26:22.560
<v Speaker 1>here that I know. I never run into somebody that

0:26:22.640 --> 0:26:25.119
<v Speaker 1>knows me from back when I was little Steve On.

0:26:27.800 --> 0:26:31.080
<v Speaker 1>They only know me from football. They don't know me

0:26:31.160 --> 0:26:34.840
<v Speaker 1>from when I was when I'm still hungry, when I

0:26:34.880 --> 0:26:36.600
<v Speaker 1>was when I was really really when when I was

0:26:36.720 --> 0:26:39.479
<v Speaker 1>when my stomach was growling, right when I had stomach pains.

0:26:40.960 --> 0:26:44.400
<v Speaker 1>And but yet I've been able to. I live here,

0:26:44.520 --> 0:26:48.840
<v Speaker 1>my my kids, like my my oldest son roommates with

0:26:48.960 --> 0:26:52.200
<v Speaker 1>his best friend from high school. He went to Walford,

0:26:52.240 --> 0:26:54.880
<v Speaker 1>he went to Georgia, and now they're living here and

0:26:54.920 --> 0:26:58.679
<v Speaker 1>he's complaining and talking about figuring out, you know, the

0:26:58.760 --> 0:27:02.119
<v Speaker 1>prices of red here in Charlotte sho I buy and

0:27:02.359 --> 0:27:06.800
<v Speaker 1>just all of those things that I've never had the

0:27:06.800 --> 0:27:13.840
<v Speaker 1>advantage of experiences and tell them to the interest rates. Right.

0:27:13.920 --> 0:27:18.280
<v Speaker 1>But but one of the cool things is is football

0:27:18.400 --> 0:27:22.560
<v Speaker 1>has afforded us the opportunity to look at life at

0:27:22.600 --> 0:27:27.199
<v Speaker 1>such a different perspective. Yeah, but we still deal with

0:27:27.240 --> 0:27:33.000
<v Speaker 1>the same things. Stuff. Are we good enough? How long

0:27:33.040 --> 0:27:35.760
<v Speaker 1>will it take for them to find out that maybe

0:27:35.760 --> 0:27:40.320
<v Speaker 1>we are declining, right, or maybe we weren't as sharp

0:27:40.440 --> 0:27:43.000
<v Speaker 1>as we used to be, or maybe the promotion they

0:27:43.040 --> 0:27:45.960
<v Speaker 1>gave us they realized the new responsibilities are a little

0:27:45.960 --> 0:27:52.639
<v Speaker 1>bit more then we can handle. Yeah. Right, And I

0:27:52.800 --> 0:27:57.080
<v Speaker 1>explained to your point, bro, it's my sister is a

0:27:57.119 --> 0:28:02.320
<v Speaker 1>police officer, and God bless her. Yeah, man, you know,

0:28:03.080 --> 0:28:07.399
<v Speaker 1>especially having a having a black female police officer, with

0:28:07.480 --> 0:28:11.680
<v Speaker 1>everything that's transpired in this country. And I know every day, bro,

0:28:11.800 --> 0:28:14.800
<v Speaker 1>she goes to work to try to make a difference positively,

0:28:15.600 --> 0:28:20.080
<v Speaker 1>right and um, but but you know, obviously, like us,

0:28:20.240 --> 0:28:24.200
<v Speaker 1>she gets lumped into the negativity of the job as well.

0:28:25.119 --> 0:28:28.440
<v Speaker 1>And you know, we've we've had a million discussions about

0:28:29.080 --> 0:28:31.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, She's like she like, you play the game

0:28:31.880 --> 0:28:34.040
<v Speaker 1>and you made this, and I'm I'm trying to protect

0:28:34.040 --> 0:28:38.520
<v Speaker 1>the serve and I make this, and I'm like the kids,

0:28:38.520 --> 0:28:41.600
<v Speaker 1>like how do you deal with them? And I get

0:28:41.680 --> 0:28:46.840
<v Speaker 1>so tired of money being the answer for people that like,

0:28:46.920 --> 0:28:52.040
<v Speaker 1>don't complain, don't have Like it ain't that serious, dude,

0:28:52.320 --> 0:28:57.240
<v Speaker 1>we go it's the same. It's all relative, uh to

0:28:57.240 --> 0:29:00.200
<v Speaker 1>to what you go through, what you deal with. My

0:29:00.240 --> 0:29:03.560
<v Speaker 1>grandmother passed three years ago, really close with her. I

0:29:03.600 --> 0:29:07.840
<v Speaker 1>ain't think about my bank account one time. Um my

0:29:07.880 --> 0:29:11.240
<v Speaker 1>mom got say, hey COVID, I ain't think about my

0:29:11.280 --> 0:29:14.520
<v Speaker 1>bank my bank account one time. Like real life, bro,

0:29:15.320 --> 0:29:18.520
<v Speaker 1>don't give her a damn what you got or who

0:29:18.560 --> 0:29:20.880
<v Speaker 1>you are, what you didn't accomplish or what you've done.

0:29:20.920 --> 0:29:23.520
<v Speaker 1>So it's just hit home here and you talk about

0:29:23.520 --> 0:29:25.960
<v Speaker 1>that submitted because a lot of times even in this job,

0:29:26.120 --> 0:29:32.040
<v Speaker 1>right like you, I'm more quote unquote famous now because

0:29:32.080 --> 0:29:35.320
<v Speaker 1>I'm visible. I don't have a helmet on, Like I'm

0:29:35.360 --> 0:29:40.800
<v Speaker 1>more recognized. People see me, talk to me when I'm out. Um,

0:29:40.840 --> 0:29:45.240
<v Speaker 1>and you know, I love having real, rich conversations about look,

0:29:45.280 --> 0:29:48.040
<v Speaker 1>bro is relative, Like, yeah, I get to enjoy some

0:29:48.120 --> 0:29:51.080
<v Speaker 1>things that most people can't, right, Like I get to

0:29:51.120 --> 0:29:53.520
<v Speaker 1>travel certain ways, I get to do certain things. But

0:29:54.120 --> 0:29:57.560
<v Speaker 1>when when, like the crux of life, ultimately we all

0:29:57.640 --> 0:30:01.000
<v Speaker 1>gotta we're all going through the same name. It's as

0:30:01.040 --> 0:30:04.640
<v Speaker 1>funny as my kids. My kids are my oldest who's

0:30:04.760 --> 0:30:07.760
<v Speaker 1>and whatnot? My my seventh year old Boston, who's very

0:30:07.840 --> 0:30:10.880
<v Speaker 1>much like me. It's I got four kids, but there's

0:30:10.960 --> 0:30:16.640
<v Speaker 1>two just like they dad here. And some days that's good. Um.

0:30:16.760 --> 0:30:20.760
<v Speaker 1>And some days my wife goes, she calls us the triplets, right,

0:30:22.200 --> 0:30:26.120
<v Speaker 1>and sometimes my seventh year old. But he he'll say

0:30:26.240 --> 0:30:30.960
<v Speaker 1>like me, he goes, m hmm mm hmm. And he

0:30:31.040 --> 0:30:36.240
<v Speaker 1>finally said something. He uh I was. I was deposited

0:30:36.280 --> 0:30:40.000
<v Speaker 1>of the check for one of my businesses, and uh

0:30:40.040 --> 0:30:42.680
<v Speaker 1>I told him to hold this. I didn't say hold

0:30:42.680 --> 0:30:44.640
<v Speaker 1>it to look at it, but hold it because I

0:30:44.680 --> 0:30:49.480
<v Speaker 1>was reaching in the drive through and he looked at it.

0:30:49.520 --> 0:30:52.120
<v Speaker 1>He goes, and you've been talking, MYO. We ain't got

0:30:52.120 --> 0:30:56.840
<v Speaker 1>no money, right. And I realized, probably about a year

0:30:56.840 --> 0:31:01.400
<v Speaker 1>and a half ago, I realized, even even though I

0:31:01.520 --> 0:31:03.840
<v Speaker 1>played as long as I played and saved my money.

0:31:04.040 --> 0:31:11.680
<v Speaker 1>I still operate as if I'm broke. Yes, Lord, ay

0:31:11.760 --> 0:31:15.560
<v Speaker 1>the worst thing, bro. I my kids, I tell them

0:31:15.560 --> 0:31:20.000
<v Speaker 1>all the time. And we were talking about being poor earlier,

0:31:20.080 --> 0:31:23.160
<v Speaker 1>and I still believe that a lot of the values

0:31:23.240 --> 0:31:26.560
<v Speaker 1>when when we didn't have much are the reason why

0:31:26.560 --> 0:31:29.600
<v Speaker 1>I am what I am today. Your parenting, parenting or

0:31:29.680 --> 0:31:32.440
<v Speaker 1>living out of fear of what you experience as a

0:31:32.480 --> 0:31:40.560
<v Speaker 1>young bro. You don't want to go back exactly once

0:31:40.600 --> 0:31:43.920
<v Speaker 1>you reach Once you get to a certain point, right

0:31:44.480 --> 0:31:48.080
<v Speaker 1>you you don't want to go back to that. You

0:31:48.240 --> 0:31:52.160
<v Speaker 1>start realizing how eft up it was in certain situations,

0:31:53.400 --> 0:31:57.680
<v Speaker 1>like the naivete of being young and poor, and you're blessed.

0:31:58.120 --> 0:32:01.560
<v Speaker 1>It's kind of blessed a little bit. It's parents operating

0:32:01.640 --> 0:32:04.320
<v Speaker 1>in this me and that they've been in for so

0:32:04.400 --> 0:32:07.920
<v Speaker 1>long that it's normal to them, and and that becomes

0:32:07.920 --> 0:32:10.720
<v Speaker 1>your your normal. And then you reach a certain level

0:32:10.720 --> 0:32:13.959
<v Speaker 1>and you see different and you're telling me, I gotta go, bro,

0:32:14.160 --> 0:32:17.360
<v Speaker 1>I gotta go back to Southbound Rouge with a one

0:32:17.400 --> 0:32:20.920
<v Speaker 1>and a half bedroom house and share it with my

0:32:20.960 --> 0:32:23.640
<v Speaker 1>sister and and my mama come in sometimes and be like,

0:32:24.240 --> 0:32:27.480
<v Speaker 1>do y'all want the lights on the water this month, Like,

0:32:28.360 --> 0:32:31.160
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to go back to that. I learned

0:32:31.200 --> 0:32:35.280
<v Speaker 1>some valuable lessons from that that that helps me, to

0:32:35.360 --> 0:32:38.080
<v Speaker 1>your point, not get to the point where I'm like, man,

0:32:38.120 --> 0:32:42.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna go splurge and be outlandish, but also like

0:32:43.360 --> 0:32:45.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to go back. I don't go back

0:32:45.960 --> 0:32:49.760
<v Speaker 1>because I've I've I've experienced things that you know, that

0:32:49.760 --> 0:32:52.280
<v Speaker 1>that that lets me know that that that is not

0:32:53.120 --> 0:32:56.360
<v Speaker 1>as enjoyable as I thought it was, but the lessons

0:32:56.480 --> 0:33:01.440
<v Speaker 1>were those lessons were more valuable than anything I've learned.

0:33:02.320 --> 0:33:06.960
<v Speaker 1>Since I attain a level of wealth, the only thing

0:33:07.840 --> 0:33:11.400
<v Speaker 1>I've that I have for me that's always been a

0:33:11.440 --> 0:33:16.800
<v Speaker 1>place that I, you know, have money, is I wanted

0:33:16.840 --> 0:33:20.120
<v Speaker 1>to see the world, Yeah, and taking my family with

0:33:20.160 --> 0:33:23.920
<v Speaker 1>me to see it. Like that's one thing that I

0:33:24.800 --> 0:33:30.600
<v Speaker 1>personally have to be careful of because sometime I'm always like, uh,

0:33:30.720 --> 0:33:36.959
<v Speaker 1>that's a that that's a sixteen hour flight, and I'm like, okay, right,

0:33:37.440 --> 0:33:42.440
<v Speaker 1>but she's like that's not realistic, right, And so it's like,

0:33:43.600 --> 0:33:47.680
<v Speaker 1>because I have so much hunger to see the world

0:33:47.720 --> 0:33:53.440
<v Speaker 1>because I know that there's so many people who haven't, right,

0:33:53.600 --> 0:33:56.240
<v Speaker 1>and I also know what I have learned and how

0:33:56.320 --> 0:34:01.480
<v Speaker 1>my eyes have Like when I started traveling and investing,

0:34:02.520 --> 0:34:06.040
<v Speaker 1>I found myself this maybe this t M I. I

0:34:06.120 --> 0:34:12.240
<v Speaker 1>was using the bathroom in Israel and learned what who

0:34:12.320 --> 0:34:16.920
<v Speaker 1>Kimberly Clark was. Do you know who Kimberly Clark is

0:34:17.160 --> 0:34:18.759
<v Speaker 1>the only thing I know? It was a manufacturer like

0:34:18.760 --> 0:34:22.239
<v Speaker 1>paper products. Yes, I'm from I'm from ath Carolina, exactly right.

0:34:22.600 --> 0:34:27.600
<v Speaker 1>But I didn't know. So I text at the time

0:34:27.640 --> 0:34:30.359
<v Speaker 1>I washed my hands after I text my guy app

0:34:31.160 --> 0:34:33.759
<v Speaker 1>I know. I text my guy was like, Hey, we

0:34:33.800 --> 0:34:37.439
<v Speaker 1>need to get some Kimberly Clark stock. He's like, where

0:34:37.440 --> 0:34:41.520
<v Speaker 1>did that come from? Well, I didn't really I connected it.

0:34:41.560 --> 0:34:42.839
<v Speaker 1>I so I was like, wow, I'm all the way

0:34:42.840 --> 0:34:46.759
<v Speaker 1>to Israel and they made stuff here. Wow, And it

0:34:47.000 --> 0:34:52.719
<v Speaker 1>just blew my mind. It was Nestlee similar to what

0:34:52.920 --> 0:34:55.719
<v Speaker 1>Marcus was saying, like, Yeah, Kimberly Clark plant was up

0:34:55.760 --> 0:34:58.680
<v Speaker 1>from where I grew up in in Lexington. So that's

0:34:58.719 --> 0:35:01.600
<v Speaker 1>that is one though just learned. I don't even know that. Yeah,

0:35:01.600 --> 0:35:03.239
<v Speaker 1>that's one of the that's one of the big employers.

0:35:03.239 --> 0:35:04.920
<v Speaker 1>So you either go to Kimberly Clark, you either go

0:35:04.960 --> 0:35:07.000
<v Speaker 1>to LFI, or you go to Dixie and if you

0:35:07.000 --> 0:35:09.600
<v Speaker 1>don't know if you're work in one of those those factories,

0:35:09.600 --> 0:35:12.080
<v Speaker 1>and if not, then you either on the streets or

0:35:12.120 --> 0:35:14.520
<v Speaker 1>you're hoping that you're gonna make it out. So but

0:35:14.640 --> 0:35:19.080
<v Speaker 1>that just kind of ties into we all have our ignorance, right,

0:35:19.120 --> 0:35:22.680
<v Speaker 1>the true essence of ignorance lack of knowledge. And some

0:35:22.760 --> 0:35:27.200
<v Speaker 1>of the things that I've learned about myself discovered about

0:35:27.239 --> 0:35:31.320
<v Speaker 1>myself have been in those times where I'm sitting either

0:35:31.360 --> 0:35:35.000
<v Speaker 1>in a different country or somewhere on a trip by myself,

0:35:35.160 --> 0:35:40.040
<v Speaker 1>asking myself, what did I learn or what don't I know?

0:35:40.480 --> 0:35:44.399
<v Speaker 1>And it's and it's been a lot of times. It's

0:35:44.400 --> 0:35:46.319
<v Speaker 1>a hell of a lot of stuff I don't know

0:35:46.440 --> 0:35:51.080
<v Speaker 1>that I'm just I'm just mat That's why, go bro,

0:35:51.680 --> 0:35:54.239
<v Speaker 1>I'm just mature to it because because I I man,

0:35:54.280 --> 0:35:59.360
<v Speaker 1>I'm fascinated with hearing you say that, because I've just learned, um,

0:35:59.480 --> 0:36:04.799
<v Speaker 1>how how much, how important it is too, like experience

0:36:04.920 --> 0:36:09.000
<v Speaker 1>outside of the things that you know. Now we all

0:36:09.040 --> 0:36:11.960
<v Speaker 1>act like we know what it feels like, right, we

0:36:12.000 --> 0:36:15.160
<v Speaker 1>could read and I'm I read. I just like as

0:36:15.200 --> 0:36:17.480
<v Speaker 1>I've gotten old, I've started to read a lot more.

0:36:18.400 --> 0:36:21.520
<v Speaker 1>Was not a fan of reading growing up. Um, but

0:36:21.640 --> 0:36:24.840
<v Speaker 1>that's something from from a maturation that I've I've started

0:36:24.880 --> 0:36:29.120
<v Speaker 1>to do because I haven't had those experiences of going

0:36:29.640 --> 0:36:32.920
<v Speaker 1>to a lot of places outside of the US, outside

0:36:32.960 --> 0:36:36.920
<v Speaker 1>of the normal Jamaica's and Kabo and all of that stuff. Um,

0:36:36.960 --> 0:36:39.799
<v Speaker 1>but books have opened me up to the knowledge of

0:36:39.800 --> 0:36:41.920
<v Speaker 1>those places. And now I'm like, man, I need to

0:36:41.960 --> 0:36:44.719
<v Speaker 1>go see what I just read about. I need to go,

0:36:44.880 --> 0:36:48.160
<v Speaker 1>you know, examine what I just read about. Um. I

0:36:48.200 --> 0:36:51.120
<v Speaker 1>watched this documentary on Netflix called How on the Hall

0:36:51.760 --> 0:36:55.719
<v Speaker 1>and it's about the historical like the cuisine and the

0:36:55.760 --> 0:37:00.520
<v Speaker 1>historical um story of of black cooking and chefs in

0:37:00.560 --> 0:37:04.640
<v Speaker 1>the origination of it. And man, this dude went to

0:37:04.680 --> 0:37:08.520
<v Speaker 1>Sierra Leone, he went to and and just had those experiences.

0:37:08.520 --> 0:37:10.200
<v Speaker 1>And I told my wife, I said, but we gotta,

0:37:10.400 --> 0:37:14.520
<v Speaker 1>we gotta, we gotta do something different. Um. And And unfortunately, Bro,

0:37:14.560 --> 0:37:16.680
<v Speaker 1>we're like, we're not like a lavish family. My kids

0:37:16.680 --> 0:37:18.560
<v Speaker 1>are because they you know, they look at all of that,

0:37:18.719 --> 0:37:21.239
<v Speaker 1>But we ain't. My one vice as shoes, I'm gonna

0:37:21.280 --> 0:37:24.560
<v Speaker 1>buying shoes. I love tennis shoes. That's like my one

0:37:24.640 --> 0:37:27.960
<v Speaker 1>thing that I do. But to your point, man, like

0:37:28.000 --> 0:37:32.480
<v Speaker 1>I envy will will travel world travel people, and not

0:37:32.600 --> 0:37:35.319
<v Speaker 1>in a negative way. I just be I'll be like, man,

0:37:35.360 --> 0:37:37.080
<v Speaker 1>I gotta go there. Tell me why I need to

0:37:37.120 --> 0:37:41.719
<v Speaker 1>go there? Cut do cut do. Let's getting down to

0:37:41.760 --> 0:37:46.640
<v Speaker 1>do it. Hey, Gerard, why did you get that T shirt?

0:37:46.719 --> 0:37:49.080
<v Speaker 1>You mean this thing? Oh? Yes, I got it from

0:37:49.120 --> 0:37:52.600
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0:37:52.800 --> 0:37:54.600
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0:37:54.680 --> 0:37:56.800
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0:37:56.880 --> 0:38:01.399
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0:38:01.440 --> 0:38:05.120
<v Speaker 1>as you're traveling like me, you know, going get the

0:38:05.760 --> 0:38:08.719
<v Speaker 1>was it a far? That book? I get that. I

0:38:08.760 --> 0:38:12.279
<v Speaker 1>actually get that subscription to the house, and then I

0:38:12.320 --> 0:38:14.279
<v Speaker 1>throw it in my bag and so when I'm on

0:38:14.320 --> 0:38:18.319
<v Speaker 1>the airplane, I'm just reading, right, I see that, check

0:38:18.360 --> 0:38:22.400
<v Speaker 1>it off and then just try I love travel books.

0:38:22.400 --> 0:38:24.440
<v Speaker 1>I got this other book that someone gave me for

0:38:24.520 --> 0:38:28.040
<v Speaker 1>my birthday long time ago, and it tells you, based

0:38:28.080 --> 0:38:31.720
<v Speaker 1>on a month where they go, uh and so there's

0:38:31.719 --> 0:38:34.520
<v Speaker 1>some places in there. I'm like, I don't even know, right,

0:38:34.560 --> 0:38:37.600
<v Speaker 1>but I love It's not that I love to travel.

0:38:37.640 --> 0:38:41.040
<v Speaker 1>To Brack. I talked about traveling a lot on here,

0:38:41.719 --> 0:38:48.440
<v Speaker 1>it's because I've learned so much about so many different things,

0:38:48.480 --> 0:38:51.520
<v Speaker 1>and I've had to sit and look at myself and go,

0:38:52.440 --> 0:38:56.719
<v Speaker 1>you didn't know that? Why and why submitted to your point, man,

0:38:56.760 --> 0:39:00.160
<v Speaker 1>I just probably four months ago I finished the auto

0:39:00.160 --> 0:39:06.560
<v Speaker 1>biography of Malcolm X, and the part in that book

0:39:06.800 --> 0:39:09.640
<v Speaker 1>to me, like of all the lessons that that that

0:39:09.760 --> 0:39:13.560
<v Speaker 1>were being taught in that book and listening to Malcolm

0:39:13.640 --> 0:39:15.799
<v Speaker 1>X's journey and all of that, the trip to Mecca

0:39:16.080 --> 0:39:21.399
<v Speaker 1>had changed his changed his perception of the entire world right,

0:39:22.120 --> 0:39:26.600
<v Speaker 1>And it's not something that's highlighted when we talk about Malcolm. Absolutely,

0:39:26.640 --> 0:39:31.600
<v Speaker 1>they don't talk about the shift and the shift they

0:39:31.960 --> 0:39:36.280
<v Speaker 1>exactly that that that was made about his his his

0:39:36.280 --> 0:39:41.120
<v Speaker 1>his different connection two people of all nationalities and racist

0:39:41.880 --> 0:39:44.799
<v Speaker 1>um and and man. When I got to that part,

0:39:44.840 --> 0:39:46.560
<v Speaker 1>and I thought about all of the things that had

0:39:46.560 --> 0:39:49.359
<v Speaker 1>transpired leading up to that, with what he went through

0:39:49.360 --> 0:39:52.040
<v Speaker 1>with the Nation of Islam and for him to for

0:39:52.120 --> 0:39:55.319
<v Speaker 1>what he preached about white devils and the white man

0:39:55.560 --> 0:39:58.560
<v Speaker 1>and all of the things that that was attributed to

0:39:58.680 --> 0:40:02.719
<v Speaker 1>Malcolm X. And one trip changed, one journey and he

0:40:02.800 --> 0:40:06.080
<v Speaker 1>knew what he was going for, but still to pray

0:40:06.160 --> 0:40:09.879
<v Speaker 1>with people of different nationality, skin code and realize like

0:40:10.160 --> 0:40:13.600
<v Speaker 1>humanity is way bigger than what's going on in America.

0:40:13.719 --> 0:40:18.840
<v Speaker 1>That's that's exactly two thousand and I think four or

0:40:18.960 --> 0:40:23.320
<v Speaker 1>five two thousand six. Growing up in l A, someone

0:40:23.400 --> 0:40:27.840
<v Speaker 1>that that helped raise me was talking about uh l

0:40:27.920 --> 0:40:33.400
<v Speaker 1>A was primarily uh you know, obviously Latino, and they

0:40:33.440 --> 0:40:35.760
<v Speaker 1>had bill boards in my town side of the town

0:40:36.160 --> 0:40:38.600
<v Speaker 1>where it was, you know, it was an English and Spanish,

0:40:38.680 --> 0:40:42.920
<v Speaker 1>and I remember uh someone saying, if you're in our country,

0:40:43.520 --> 0:40:46.360
<v Speaker 1>you need to speak our language. And so I found myself.

0:40:46.440 --> 0:40:50.880
<v Speaker 1>I went on the MRS trip to uh to Toko Lomi,

0:40:51.160 --> 0:40:54.040
<v Speaker 1>which is a French colony, and on the way back,

0:40:54.080 --> 0:40:59.000
<v Speaker 1>I got an opportunity to stop in Paris and our time,

0:40:59.200 --> 0:41:01.760
<v Speaker 1>I had to go through all these all this stuff anyway,

0:41:01.800 --> 0:41:04.239
<v Speaker 1>and I went to Nigeria as well, which is an

0:41:04.239 --> 0:41:07.680
<v Speaker 1>English colony, and so I had to do all this

0:41:07.800 --> 0:41:10.280
<v Speaker 1>stuff to get my password. Is I never had a passport,

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<v Speaker 1>didn't any one never thought I'd go anywhere, and and

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<v Speaker 1>I remember that. So I was in Paris and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>just a ninja, I'm you know, what you don't do,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's go to the mall, to the mall right, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>all away in Paris, and all I want to do

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<v Speaker 1>is go to the mall. So I go. I'm trying

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<v Speaker 1>to find out how to go to the mall, have

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<v Speaker 1>no idea how to get around, and so I try

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to a few people, and you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>speak friends, you know, and I'm looking at them, and

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<v Speaker 1>I remember the individual who said that, who I respect

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<v Speaker 1>to this day said and I replayed that individual's It

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<v Speaker 1>was my grandpa. My grandpa said, if you're in our country,

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<v Speaker 1>you need to speak our language. And my grandpa had

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<v Speaker 1>in my head. My grandpa said, when you're in our country,

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<v Speaker 1>need to speak their language. And I was like, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>in their country and I have no idea how to

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<v Speaker 1>speak their language. And I felt so ashamed. And then

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<v Speaker 1>I realized how small we are in America. We're we're

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<v Speaker 1>a financial powerhouse, but yet there's so many other countries,

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<v Speaker 1>continents that have been around longer, longer than us. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And after that, I saw how ignorant I was, how

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<v Speaker 1>I thought America was the standard. And ever since then,

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<v Speaker 1>I've been wanting to see the world because I know

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<v Speaker 1>I'm in their country and I don't speak their language,

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<v Speaker 1>and I want to and I want to adapt. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>I barely, I'm I'm still figuring out this English, Stuy,

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<v Speaker 1>but I I want to see. And one of the

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<v Speaker 1>biggest things when I was a kid, you know, growing

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<v Speaker 1>up in l A reading and Frank. I want to

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<v Speaker 1>see and I've been, I've been to Poland, but I

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<v Speaker 1>want to see in Denmark the museum that they have

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<v Speaker 1>of her house because of what I just remember, the

0:43:11.040 --> 0:43:14.959
<v Speaker 1>oppression of what I remember of that as a kid.

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<v Speaker 1>That's challenged me to see so many parts of the

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<v Speaker 1>world and to take my family because I'm learning at

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<v Speaker 1>forty three and thirty five what the world looks like.

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<v Speaker 1>But my kids have seven, one and seventeen. They know

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<v Speaker 1>exactly the way the world looks and it's a lot different.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me get this, man, because I gotta I tell

0:43:40.960 --> 0:43:45.279
<v Speaker 1>like my kids man, um speaking of knowledge and people

0:43:45.320 --> 0:43:49.120
<v Speaker 1>that I talked to um, you know when. And I'm

0:43:49.160 --> 0:43:52.920
<v Speaker 1>not an excuses guy. I understand that things happen, circumstances happened,

0:43:52.920 --> 0:43:55.040
<v Speaker 1>that you can't get stuff done. But I tell my

0:43:55.120 --> 0:43:59.200
<v Speaker 1>kids all the time, man, and hopefully it registers to

0:43:59.239 --> 0:44:01.520
<v Speaker 1>them as they get then older and listening and talking

0:44:01.560 --> 0:44:04.359
<v Speaker 1>to you guys, which has been amazing. Bro. I'll tell

0:44:04.400 --> 0:44:06.799
<v Speaker 1>people all the time. Nelson Della spent two decades in

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<v Speaker 1>prison and became president. Why can't you do what you're

0:44:09.800 --> 0:44:13.520
<v Speaker 1>trying to do right? Like? And that's the example that

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<v Speaker 1>I use when I'm even in my head about like, Damn,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm tired, man, I can't like, I just need to

0:44:18.719 --> 0:44:20.600
<v Speaker 1>I need to take a couple of days off. Bromn

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<v Speaker 1>Della spent two decades digging rocks and became the president

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<v Speaker 1>and ended the part time n then the reason why

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<v Speaker 1>behind it too? Yeah, exactly, and then we know we

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<v Speaker 1>gotta let you go, man, We know you got your

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<v Speaker 1>ready for the NFL. Love man, and make sure you

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<v Speaker 1>go check out Marcus M. Spears ninety six on Twitter

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<v Speaker 1>at m speed nine six on Instagram. Brother has been

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<v Speaker 1>a pleasure. Happens, Hey, tell tell Mina and and Dan.

0:44:43.719 --> 0:44:48.080
<v Speaker 1>I actually respect him, I really do. And all right,

0:44:48.520 --> 0:44:51.480
<v Speaker 1>and then tell it till till will it mag when

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<v Speaker 1>we get the end of for nationals in volleyball with

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<v Speaker 1>our daughters, don't be walking around because he no long

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<v Speaker 1>bech good right, tell him that and and then and

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<v Speaker 1>and uh smack Ryan upside to head for me. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>you are a unique person. You are well worth it,

0:45:13.840 --> 0:45:18.439
<v Speaker 1>you are competent, and most of all, your lovable. I'm

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