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Speaker 2: Kyle is on the phone today for our first date
Speaker 2: follow up and he's getting ghosted by Lindsay. So in
Speaker 2: a few minutes we're gonna call her and see if
Speaker 2: she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get
Speaker 2: him another date. But first, Kyle, how long has it
Speaker 2: been since you heard from Lindsay.
Speaker 3: It's been about it been about ten days. Okay, it's
Speaker 3: been a little bit of time.
Speaker 4: Yeah, So I'm getting a little nervous about it, but
Speaker 4: I'm really hoping I can get some kind of answer
Speaker 4: because it was great. It felt like such a great
Speaker 4: first start, and I really had like a great feeling
Speaker 4: about her. I think I just think Leanta bed awesome.
Speaker 4: I get nervous on some dates, and I feel like
Speaker 4: this was very low key kind to hang out. I
Speaker 4: think a lot of people get nervous on first dates sometimes,
Speaker 4: so you know, we took it really just chill, and
Speaker 4: that was kind of the vibe we agreed on. And
Speaker 4: I that's what I prefer for initial no. When you
Speaker 4: meet someone and you know no, there's no like you
Speaker 4: don't have to feel it obligated to do anything or
Speaker 4: say anything.
Speaker 3: Essentially just kind of like a as you come and
Speaker 3: it was good.
Speaker 4: We we basically we we actually went to some food
Speaker 4: trucks and you know, got.
Speaker 3: Food and we're just getting to know each other. And
Speaker 3: as the afternoon.
Speaker 4: Went on, we actually ended up kind of like stargazing
Speaker 4: a little bit in the park because we just we
Speaker 4: just kept talking and like the sun was setting and
Speaker 4: I realized, I'm like, oh crap, like three hours have
Speaker 4: gone by.
Speaker 3: So it was it was nice.
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, and she just she just made me feel
Speaker 4: very what's the word, very very grounded.
Speaker 3: I would say. And I just.
Speaker 4: Felt like she's just like someone I could see myself
Speaker 4: like spending a lot of time with where I'm like, oh, yeah,
Speaker 4: you just you know, a good like partner kind of
Speaker 4: in crime kind of thing.
Speaker 3: So that was awesome.
Speaker 4: And I honestly, I'm a little worried that I said
Speaker 4: something dumb because I tend to just kind of talk
Speaker 4: on and on and on when I get nervous or
Speaker 4: I don't know really what to say or do.
Speaker 3: But the good thing is we eventually went back.
Speaker 4: To my car and I was gonna, you know, drive
Speaker 4: her home before we did, you know, there was a
Speaker 4: bit of a vibe, you know, and in a good way.
Speaker 4: There kind of was this chemistry and we ended up
Speaker 4: making out for a good like five ten minutes. So
Speaker 4: it was it was really really nice, you know, it
Speaker 4: was it was hot, it was really really fun. But
Speaker 4: since then I have not heard from her. I've only
Speaker 4: sent her like a couple of messages, like maybe three
Speaker 4: messages I think, maybe like a like a thanks so much,
Speaker 4: I had such a great time, and then like a
Speaker 4: day or two later I sent her like a hey,
Speaker 4: how's it going, And then still nothing, and then the
Speaker 4: most recent message.
Speaker 3: Was like yesterday, So it's been a little while.
Speaker 4: But the last ones I sent her was just like
Speaker 4: a like a real on Instagram Okay, but yeah I
Speaker 4: sent it to her and still no answer. And if
Speaker 4: she's not feeling it, that's that's fine, I guess, but
Speaker 4: I was. I'd be a little let down, especially because
Speaker 4: I don't she doesn't seem like the kind of person
Speaker 4: that would just like totally drop off. Like she's active
Speaker 4: on Instagram still, like we spokley follow each other and so.
Speaker 5: You are seeing her interact and do things socially but
Speaker 5: she hasn't texted.
Speaker 4: Yeah, she's like posted on her story, you know. But
Speaker 4: I'm like, I get the people will get busy, Like
Speaker 4: I understand, like if I if I open up my
Speaker 4: phone after like a long day of work, and like
Speaker 4: I have like twenty text und years for different people,
Speaker 4: it's overwhelming and I don't want to answer them initially,
Speaker 4: you know, because it steals daunting.
Speaker 5: Let's go back to what you said, Kyle, because it
Speaker 5: sounds like, you know, you were having a good time.
Speaker 5: But what do you think you said that could potentially
Speaker 5: be what threw her off?
Speaker 4: Oh my god?
Speaker 5: And did it happened before or after the makeout?
Speaker 3: I mean, I guess I didn't.
Speaker 4: I think I said anything. Honestly, I don't think I
Speaker 4: said anything inappropriate. I just think that we're like offensive.
Speaker 4: I just think that, to be honest, I think I
Speaker 4: could imagine myself like kind of rambling on to a
Speaker 4: point where she's like, all right, this guy's a little annoying.
Speaker 5: You know, So did you let her get any words in?
Speaker 3: I tried to. I tried to.
Speaker 4: I know it's not something I'm great at, but I
Speaker 4: mean it's not for any lack.
Speaker 3: Of liking her I really like her.
Speaker 4: Obviously, I'm she might have felt a little like steamrolled
Speaker 4: by me in conversation.
Speaker 2: Maybe, Okay, we'll find out if you steamroll her just
Speaker 2: a second, like not in the good.
Speaker 3: Way I saw him.
Speaker 2: Come back, and then call her and see if she'll
Speaker 2: tell us why she's ghosting you and maybe get you
Speaker 2: another day in your first day follow up.
Speaker 3: Okay, okay, thanks so much, guys.
Speaker 2: Yeah, please, I'll come back be your first day follow
Speaker 2: up next if you're just joining us for today's first
Speaker 2: day follow up. Kyle is on the phone and he's
Speaker 2: getting ghosted by Lindsey. So we're about to call her
Speaker 2: and ask or why she's ghosting him and maybe get
Speaker 2: him another date. But first, Kyle, why don't you catch
Speaker 2: us up on your situation?
Speaker 5: Oh jeez.
Speaker 4: I went on a really really great first date little Envy,
Speaker 4: really low key. We just got food and just really
Speaker 4: talked and got to know each other and it was
Speaker 4: so easy and nice, and we went stargazing basically, and
Speaker 4: I had a great time. We made out for like
Speaker 4: five minutes straight.
Speaker 3: It was awesome.
Speaker 4: And I have not heard from her since, so I'm
Speaker 4: a little worried, and you think it might be because
Speaker 4: you maybe talked too much steamrolled there.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think I think it's. The technical term is
Speaker 3: diarrhea of the mouse. I just I ramble. So I'm
Speaker 3: afraid about that, but I don't know who knows. Okay, well,
Speaker 3: are you ready for us to call her? All right? Yeah,
Speaker 3: that's all right.
Speaker 4: Let's here.
Speaker 3: Here we go.
Speaker 2: Hello, Hi, massweak to Lindsay. Please, yes speaking, Hey Lindsay,
Speaker 2: how are you. My name is Jewbel. I'm calling from
Speaker 2: a radio show. It's called The Jewbil Show.
Speaker 5: Hi, Lindsay, whole shows Here.
Speaker 3: I'm Nina, Hi, and I'm Victoria. Hi. Have you ever
Speaker 3: listened to the show before?
Speaker 6: It's familiar? Yeah, I mean I think off and on.
Speaker 3: Okay, sweet, Well, we do a segment on our show.
Speaker 3: It's called the first Date follow Up.
Speaker 2: That's where if you go on a date with somebody
Speaker 2: and then you end up ghosting them, that person can
Speaker 2: email us to get you on the phone and ask
Speaker 2: why you're ghosting them. And we got an email about
Speaker 2: you from somebody.
Speaker 5: Oh, okay, are you go seeing somebody?
Speaker 6: Well? Is this about Kyle?
Speaker 2: It's about Kyle? Yes, Oh, Kyle told us about your date.
Speaker 2: He said he really liked you. But he's confused. He said,
Speaker 2: it's been like ten days and you haven't talked to him.
Speaker 6: Well, it was it was a really it was a
Speaker 6: really nice date. I mean, Kyle is a real sweetheart.
Speaker 6: Oh my gosh, I can't believe I'm talking about this
Speaker 6: on the radio. The date was was really nice. Kyle's
Speaker 6: a really really sweet guy. He really is.
Speaker 3: So why are you ghosting him?
Speaker 6: Then?
Speaker 1: Well, I mean it's not about him exactly, it's just,
Speaker 1: to be honest, it was about the car snacks, like
Speaker 1: the snacks.
Speaker 6: He has enough car.
Speaker 3: You're not calling him back because of car snacks.
Speaker 6: No, No, I mean that sounds bad. I know.
Speaker 1: It's just more of like we made out because there
Speaker 1: was some chemistry there. And when we were making out,
Speaker 1: I kept tasting sour cream.
Speaker 6: And onion chips. Oh, couldn't get past it. It was
Speaker 6: like kissing the chips. It was just it was a lot.
Speaker 6: It was a lot.
Speaker 5: It is kind of weird though, whever you kiss somebody
Speaker 5: and you taste anything though, so but you didn't think that,
Speaker 5: you know, if he had a mint or gum or
Speaker 5: like you kind of next time you went to kiss him,
Speaker 5: there's like some mouthwash or something. Like you can't get
Speaker 5: past sour cream and onion.
Speaker 1: Well, well, I mean I said to him at the time,
Speaker 1: I said, hey, you know, do you want to I
Speaker 1: have some gum in my purse.
Speaker 3: Do you want to have some of it?
Speaker 1: Yeah? I know, but I said, and he said yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: and he had some and it just didn't really help.
Speaker 6: And I could still taste the chips.
Speaker 5: Did he just get chips like? Or is that a
Speaker 5: lingering thing? And he just happens to taste like sour
Speaker 5: creaman onion where she would have known if you had
Speaker 5: just ate the chips.
Speaker 6: I mean, I guess, I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not the worst flavor, but you know,
Speaker 1: when you're kissing someone, you don't really want to be
Speaker 1: tasting sour cream and onions.
Speaker 2: Like I could think of worse things to taste like,
Speaker 2: but it would be distracting because I would be thinking
Speaker 2: about snacks.
Speaker 3: Very distracting the whole time I'm kissing.
Speaker 2: Okay, and that's the reason you're not calling him back
Speaker 2: because of his sour cream and onion breath.
Speaker 6: Honestly, yeah, that's really the reason why.
Speaker 3: Huh Okay, Well, thank you for being honest.
Speaker 2: I have to let you know, now, lindsay that Kyle
Speaker 2: is actually on the phone listening and he wants to
Speaker 2: talk to you.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Okay, hi Kyle, Hi, Well this is
Speaker 1: this is worse than I could have even imagined.
Speaker 3: I'm so sorry. I don't know if they told you,
Speaker 3: but I was.
Speaker 4: I was really worried that I had just you know,
Speaker 4: talked and talked and talking to death and you were,
Speaker 4: you know, annoyed with me or just over the whole thing.
Speaker 3: And and I never in.
Speaker 4: My life imagined that it would have been that my
Speaker 4: breath was bad. And I am so absolutely mortified. I
Speaker 4: am so sorry.
Speaker 3: She didn't say it was bad. Yeah, she actually said
Speaker 3: it was pretty good.
Speaker 2: But just like you know, you can't hide too many
Speaker 2: chips like that, then you do start get tired of them.
Speaker 3: It's it's it's it's it's my laze, you know, sour
Speaker 3: cream on onion.
Speaker 4: But those are like my like go to I always
Speaker 4: have like a little like mini bag like in the car,
Speaker 4: I you know, when I go on long drives and stuff,
Speaker 4: traveled to see my parents, so it's you know, sometimes
Speaker 4: I gotta throw some snacks in the carpet.
Speaker 3: I'm sorry, I really am. I should have thought about that,
Speaker 3: and I don't know what the hell I was doing.
Speaker 3: But did you eat sour cream chips before the date?
Speaker 3: I did eat those before the date.
Speaker 4: I also just you generally usually carry a little kind
Speaker 4: of bag in my pocket.
Speaker 2: You know, but you love sour cream and onion chips
Speaker 2: more than anybody I've ever hed.
Speaker 3: It's like a binkie.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I mean, look, it's not always sour cream. Sometimes it's barbecue,
Speaker 3: sometimes it's ranch. You know, who's who's to say?
Speaker 4: But I will say, you know what.
Speaker 3: I know it's a little strange.
Speaker 4: But if you ever, you know, need of a snack, bunch, sugars,
Speaker 4: low or anything, I'm your guy.
Speaker 3: I got you.
Speaker 6: He's a literal.
Speaker 3: Lindsey. What do you think about that?
Speaker 6: I guess it's is sure.
Speaker 1: You know, it's nice to have someone around who always
Speaker 1: have snacks.
Speaker 6: I'll give you that. I'll give you that.
Speaker 3: Listen.
Speaker 4: I'm totally fine also being told my breath.
Speaker 3: Is bad, you know, it helps me fix it.
Speaker 4: If if my breath smells like sour cream or barbecue
Speaker 4: or cool ranch or you know, any of those. Really
Speaker 4: we're one of the other flavors. Doesn't matter, Just tell
Speaker 4: me and I'll fix it. I'm okay being that.
Speaker 3: Okay, Lindsey, Well, would you like to go on another
Speaker 3: date with Kyle?
Speaker 2: Will pay for it and you tell you have complete
Speaker 2: freedom to tell him if he's got flaming hot cheeto breath?
Speaker 1: Well, I suppose yes, if I have that freedom, and
Speaker 1: if you promise to avoid you know, maybe the tower
Speaker 1: creaman onion next time.
Speaker 6: I think that'd be nice.
Speaker 4: I just want you to know I'll be I'll be brushing,
Speaker 4: I'll be mouthwashing, washing. I got everything, I got mentos,
Speaker 4: I got I got all the stuff everything, I'll be ready.
Speaker 6: I think that would be very fun, Kyle. I think
Speaker 6: it'd be fun.
Speaker 1: And you know what, if you are going to bring
Speaker 1: a snack, my favorite is goldfish, just so you know,
Speaker 1: you know.
Speaker 3: What you want goldfish. You got goldfish. I'm doing it
Speaker 3: all right. Congratulations, Kyle, you got another date. Thank you
Speaker 3: guys so much. Appreciate it. Yeah, jud first date