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Speaker 1: Hey guys, Bobby here, I'm in a kitchen in California,

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Speaker 1: so it sounds a little weird. That's why this is

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Speaker 1: and obviously with us doing the same Jude Radiothon. There

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Speaker 1: recommend one of our shows here on the Nashville Podcast

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Speaker 1: Network that I think you'd like. My buddy, Chuck Wicks

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Speaker 1: has a podcast called Talk to Chuck. The whole premise

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Speaker 1: You may know him from you know, a big hit,

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Speaker 1: with him on this show. He's about to have a

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Speaker 1: baby with his wife, Cassie, and he brought her on

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Speaker 1: in a recent episode to talk about their IVF journey

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Speaker 1: really good podcast. I think this episode's a good one

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Speaker 1: to listen to and see. If you like it, then

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Speaker 1: maybe you subscribe over there. If you love country Talk

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Speaker 1: to Chuck, subscribe on iHeartRadio or wherever you listen to

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Speaker 1: your podcast, wherever you're listening right now, whatever it is,

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Speaker 1: go search for Talk to Chuck and subscribe and see

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Speaker 1: what's up. Check it out. Here is Chuck Wicks with

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Speaker 1: in to you from the Glasshouse Studios and mash Ups

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Speaker 1: in a Sea. Now here's your host, Chuck Wicks. The

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Speaker 1: crowd goes wild that right to putting the music down.

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Speaker 1: Didn't do that the first time? Did we have? First episode?

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Speaker 1: Sandy Sha wasn't here say hello, hey, um, I forgot

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Speaker 1: to turn down this right here. Oh. The whole time

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Speaker 1: learn right, we live and learn this is a special show. Guys.

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Speaker 1: Not only is it episode two, but this will probably

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Speaker 1: most beautiful, wonderful, amazing, pregnant, great kisser guest on this show.

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Speaker 1: Close your ears, Avery and Avery, it's your mom, It's

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Speaker 1: my wife, Cassie Wicks. You know you love country music.

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Speaker 1: I grew up on country music. I love it. Yeah

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Speaker 1: the time. Really come up more than Jason or we

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Speaker 1: And you're in pharmaceutical sales. I'm saying, it's like, I

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Speaker 1: I got you know, let go of my morning show.

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentle that's right. I may. May I'll go

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Speaker 1: Wherever you get your podcast, you have to search, talk

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Speaker 1: to Chuck. Okay, you have to subscribe like it. Do

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Speaker 1: stuff in the frozen stuff. And they come back about

420
00:22:56,280 --> 00:23:00,200
Speaker 1: twenty thirty minutes later and they go, hey, so none

421
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:04,800
Speaker 1: of the um frozen samples survived. Oh my god. So

422
00:23:04,880 --> 00:23:07,040
Speaker 1: now we're just like, oh my gosh, well, now what

423
00:23:07,080 --> 00:23:10,119
Speaker 1: do we do? What do we do? And because you're's

424
00:23:10,400 --> 00:23:12,280
Speaker 1: in my mind at this point, we both looked at

425
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:15,000
Speaker 1: each other. We're like, what do we do this? Yeah,

426
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:18,280
Speaker 1: they're saying we can. What we will do is go

427
00:23:18,320 --> 00:23:22,000
Speaker 1: ahead and freeze your eggs and then try to get

428
00:23:22,080 --> 00:23:25,760
Speaker 1: sad fertilized viable. Yeah, so we'll just like kind of pause.

429
00:23:26,280 --> 00:23:28,600
Speaker 1: But then they said, well, we have one more thing

430
00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 1: that we want to try. And it was something to do.

431
00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:34,240
Speaker 1: It was like almost they said they they told us

432
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:38,280
Speaker 1: so we would understand it. They put basically a caffeine

433
00:23:38,359 --> 00:23:43,399
Speaker 1: drip a caffeine like droplet something that helps energize the

434
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:48,280
Speaker 1: spind them up that they're alive and that they're supposed

435
00:23:48,280 --> 00:23:50,960
Speaker 1: to be swimming. And the frozen sample or within your

436
00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:57,160
Speaker 1: boss sample okay, okay, and the vial they conject this medicine.

437
00:23:57,359 --> 00:24:01,680
Speaker 1: So they do this right, and they go, we found two.

438
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:05,800
Speaker 1: Stop like one. Two, that's it, that's it. Not to

439
00:24:05,880 --> 00:24:08,680
Speaker 1: keep again, supposed to have like twenty million, correct, they

440
00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,840
Speaker 1: found two. So what they did or go, we're gonna

441
00:24:11,840 --> 00:24:15,000
Speaker 1: freeze the eight eggs and we're gonna take the two

442
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 1: eggs and the two sperm and we're gonna do it

443
00:24:18,240 --> 00:24:20,320
Speaker 1: is we're gonna see if they fertilize overnight. So we

444
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 1: waited overnight, and we're like, please, please please. They already

445
00:24:23,480 --> 00:24:26,400
Speaker 1: told us it's already like a hey, whatever amount you have,

446
00:24:26,680 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 1: cut that in half? Right, yeah, that was, and then

447
00:24:30,080 --> 00:24:33,200
Speaker 1: what if it continues to just cut down? And when

448
00:24:33,280 --> 00:24:35,159
Speaker 1: once you cut it a half, then they got to

449
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 1: see if it turns into an embryo, cut that number

450
00:24:37,560 --> 00:24:39,320
Speaker 1: in half. So we're six stress right now. We're thinking

451
00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,240
Speaker 1: to ourselves, well, we only got two, so we're already

452
00:24:41,240 --> 00:24:43,480
Speaker 1: down to one, and then that one if that get cut.

453
00:24:43,760 --> 00:24:49,640
Speaker 1: Then we have nothing. So we then next day they go,

454
00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:55,960
Speaker 1: good news, one fertilized. We got one for one fertilized,

455
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:58,199
Speaker 1: and we're like, oh great. So now we had to

456
00:24:58,200 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 1: wait six or seven days right to see if it

457
00:25:01,080 --> 00:25:04,239
Speaker 1: turned into an embryo. So now it's another and this

458
00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:09,040
Speaker 1: is still not inside your belly, is still all in

459
00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:10,720
Speaker 1: a dish. You have to talk to me like, I'm

460
00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:12,840
Speaker 1: an idiot because I don't know any of them. I

461
00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:14,840
Speaker 1: didn't know any of these either. I mean, I know

462
00:25:15,600 --> 00:25:19,320
Speaker 1: maybe the basic gist at most. So it was it

463
00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,200
Speaker 1: was basically so we had to wait five or six days.

464
00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:24,760
Speaker 1: It was I mean, that's the longest five days of

465
00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,880
Speaker 1: your entire life. It's all you think about each other.

466
00:25:27,920 --> 00:25:31,760
Speaker 1: We were like, hey, listen, you know it's in God's hands.

467
00:25:31,840 --> 00:25:34,840
Speaker 1: It's not in our hands. If God wants this, it

468
00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 1: will happen. At that point, I feel like that's kind

469
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,600
Speaker 1: of all you can do, right, right, literally all you

470
00:25:40,600 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 1: can do. You guys have done absolutely everything, last, everything

471
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 1: off the list. So we get we get the news

472
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,280
Speaker 1: and five or six say they go, guess what you

473
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 1: have an embryo. Well, now we're like, what's the sex

474
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:58,640
Speaker 1: going to be? Because we secretly, honestly wanted a boy. Yeah,

475
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:02,720
Speaker 1: because we already have three girls. Right, We're like, I'm like, god, yeah,

476
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:05,600
Speaker 1: if you're listening with Chuck needs a little evening out.

477
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:09,960
Speaker 1: I need a mail. At that point, you really did

478
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:13,040
Speaker 1: not care. Like at that point one we were like

479
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 1: it does not matter. I mean it truly did not

480
00:26:16,480 --> 00:26:19,480
Speaker 1: because it was just so much. We just wanted a

481
00:26:19,520 --> 00:26:22,919
Speaker 1: healthy baby and that's all. That's all we wanted. And

482
00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:26,320
Speaker 1: I'll never forget. They're like, the embryo is a good grade.

483
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:28,280
Speaker 1: This is when I do grade them. And they wanted

484
00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:30,240
Speaker 1: to be a good grading system, like just like you

485
00:26:30,280 --> 00:26:35,320
Speaker 1: would get abcds in college or whatever it is. Um,

486
00:26:35,520 --> 00:26:37,359
Speaker 1: it was a good grade. So we're like, oh, great,

487
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:39,879
Speaker 1: that just means it's a healthy embryo and and you

488
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:42,280
Speaker 1: know it has a great chance of survival and all

489
00:26:42,320 --> 00:26:47,040
Speaker 1: that good stuff. So I'll never forget. Um. When we

490
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 1: found out the sex of it, they give it to

491
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: you in an envelope. Well, we asked them to do that. Yeah,

492
00:26:52,359 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 1: she wanted to tell me on the phone, but I

493
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:56,960
Speaker 1: was like two hours away from homeworking, and she's like,

494
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 1: do you want to know? She was so excited because

495
00:26:58,880 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 1: she knew everything we had been through, and I was like,

496
00:27:01,760 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, no, I cannot get this over the

497
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:07,359
Speaker 1: phone without my husband, and so I said, will you

498
00:27:07,359 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 1: please just put it in an envelope and UM, I'm

499
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:12,480
Speaker 1: gonna have him pick it up on his way home

500
00:27:12,480 --> 00:27:15,320
Speaker 1: from Mark and then we'll open it together. And did

501
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 1: you didn't you post a video on your Instagram? Yeah?

502
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 1: So she posted at Cassie Rosa, right, Yeahsie w Cassie Rosa.

503
00:27:23,960 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 1: Interesting oho Later he got a new last name, Rosa's

504
00:27:31,080 --> 00:27:34,080
Speaker 1: her middle name. So at Cassie Rosa and it's up there,

505
00:27:34,119 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 1: I'm wearing. We're just sitting together on a couch. Anyway,

506
00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,479
Speaker 1: we'll probably what to repost it, Okay, not to repost it.

507
00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:41,440
Speaker 1: But we found out I was a boy, and we

508
00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 1: like flipped, we like get the ceiling, and it was

509
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,880
Speaker 1: just a feeling I never I mean, I have all girls,

510
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:50,640
Speaker 1: so to think of me having a boy was just insane.

511
00:27:50,680 --> 00:27:53,440
Speaker 1: It's still as it is. This a different photo or

512
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 1: I'm sorry photo video of when you put something in

513
00:27:57,160 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 1: like a paper bag, you put something a bag in. Okay,

514
00:28:02,840 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 1: so my wine before that, Okay, no, I'm getting my

515
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,960
Speaker 1: story is confused. We found out the sex before it

516
00:28:10,119 --> 00:28:14,280
Speaker 1: actually took what was put inside of me? Okay, okay, okay,

517
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:16,479
Speaker 1: So we knew the sex before and then they do

518
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:22,400
Speaker 1: a transfer. All right, I dumped the gun. Apologies. When

519
00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:24,920
Speaker 1: they do the embryo transfer, so they you know, put

520
00:28:24,920 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 1: it inside my body, it still has to take. So right,

521
00:28:28,480 --> 00:28:30,760
Speaker 1: we knew as a boy and everything, but then you

522
00:28:30,840 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 1: still have to have it take within my body. My gosh.

523
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:38,120
Speaker 1: And so how much anxiety medication have you guys been on? Seriously?

524
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 1: We need some If you have something, that's all I got.

525
00:28:41,440 --> 00:28:46,560
Speaker 1: So I not for Cassie, It's true. So she wants

526
00:28:46,560 --> 00:28:49,440
Speaker 1: a drink, so I don't blame her. I just want

527
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 1: like a glass of wine. Yeah, you know, listen on

528
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:56,160
Speaker 1: December what or thirteen, fourth, fifth, whatever, I'll be there.

529
00:28:56,680 --> 00:29:01,280
Speaker 1: You like red or white? Baby, hook me up, she says,

530
00:28:59,800 --> 00:29:03,239
Speaker 1: yea at the hospital. I know where you live. So

531
00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 1: the embryo, the embryo has attached to the wall, right, yeah,

532
00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:11,160
Speaker 1: and that's when you get my uterus. You're us Are

533
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: you doing geographical location? Tag that on Instagram? Hey? What's

534
00:29:14,720 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 1: your name? If I do that transfer? I was pretending

535
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 1: I was the embryo I attached to your wall, Okay,

536
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:29,600
Speaker 1: no moving on. So transferred, and then you have to

537
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 1: wait five days to see if you're actually pregnant. So

538
00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:35,920
Speaker 1: that's another waiting game. And then so the video you're

539
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 1: talking about, Sammy is um I secretly took a pregnancy

540
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:43,960
Speaker 1: test without Chuck knowing, because my brother and sister in

541
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: law were like, every day, take a test, just go

542
00:29:47,680 --> 00:29:51,800
Speaker 1: do it whatever, and so um I got the test,

543
00:29:52,040 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 1: took it, and if it was negative, I was just

544
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:56,360
Speaker 1: not going to say I even took it, you know,

545
00:29:56,360 --> 00:29:58,800
Speaker 1: because honestly I took it earlier than I was supposed to.

546
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,640
Speaker 1: And then it's positive something. I was like, oh crap,

547
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:03,960
Speaker 1: what I do? I was alady, she put it in

548
00:30:03,960 --> 00:30:09,040
Speaker 1: an Amazon I know, I saw from Amazon. This is great.

549
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 1: I've it. It's so good and it was a positive

550
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:17,000
Speaker 1: pregnancy cast and it was awesome. But Chuck's reaction, I mean,

551
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,840
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. I think I watched that video six

552
00:30:20,920 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 1: times in a row. The confusion is very genuine. But

553
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:28,600
Speaker 1: the reaction of him being like no way, and and

554
00:30:28,800 --> 00:30:30,760
Speaker 1: you just like fumbling over your words like I got

555
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:32,680
Speaker 1: you this thing, and he's like what did you get me?

556
00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 1: Like this terrible liar. It's fairly evident in this video

557
00:30:36,280 --> 00:30:38,400
Speaker 1: that you're a terrible liar. But it was so cute,

558
00:30:38,560 --> 00:30:40,400
Speaker 1: and he's just like, no way, and then he just stands.

559
00:30:40,440 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 1: He's like okay, and then I'm just like okay, I

560
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:44,880
Speaker 1: have a little bit my eyes are sweating, but like

561
00:30:44,920 --> 00:30:48,000
Speaker 1: we're good. We all circled back. I feel like everything

562
00:30:48,040 --> 00:30:52,080
Speaker 1: that Cassie and I have been through thus far has

563
00:30:52,160 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 1: been so in the best way possible, emotional, like our wedding,

564
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:00,720
Speaker 1: super emotional. The love. It's just it was just so

565
00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 1: intense having this beautiful baby. December fourth, we're going to

566
00:31:06,480 --> 00:31:10,040
Speaker 1: be induced. I mean, everything has been so intentagement, Our

567
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:13,880
Speaker 1: engagement was everything was super cool. It was just everything's

568
00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 1: been so awesome. So that's why we just wanted this

569
00:31:18,440 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 1: to happen so bad too. And the fact that we're

570
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 1: thirty five four thirty four weeks, thirty four weeks, thirty

571
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: five weeks this Friday, I mean, it's it's right around

572
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,000
Speaker 1: the corner real, and I think that day is going

573
00:31:33,040 --> 00:31:35,720
Speaker 1: to be like that's going to top all the emotions

574
00:31:35,920 --> 00:31:38,520
Speaker 1: of everything we've been through. He has no idea like

575
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 1: I do because I have avery, and but to go

576
00:31:41,760 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 1: through it together. It's gonna be really cool. So I

577
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:47,680
Speaker 1: love See, I'm a dog guy. I love my dogs, okay,

578
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:53,479
Speaker 1: like I will and Gunner don't forget about dinner and

579
00:31:53,680 --> 00:31:56,640
Speaker 1: and you know, I will cradle my dogs like their

580
00:31:56,640 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 1: babies and kiss them. And I mean, if they don't sleep,

581
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:01,960
Speaker 1: put us in the bed anymore. They did for like

582
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:06,640
Speaker 1: what two nights, and then that changed, yeah, real quick.

583
00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:08,560
Speaker 1: And actually it was good because they made the dead

584
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:11,360
Speaker 1: the dead. They made the bed dirty, and you know,

585
00:32:11,400 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 1: I get it. I'm with you now on that page.

586
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:19,120
Speaker 1: That's that's great. Yeah, about time. He's not a huge dogs.

587
00:32:19,440 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 1: I'm fully aware because right, you got attack when you

588
00:32:23,400 --> 00:32:26,560
Speaker 1: were younger? Is that I got attacked when I was younger.

589
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:28,920
Speaker 1: But I think it's more about my dad. My dad

590
00:32:28,960 --> 00:32:31,320
Speaker 1: never let us have dogs, and he's still like a

591
00:32:32,000 --> 00:32:34,800
Speaker 1: stay off me kind of like listen, I am. I

592
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:37,920
Speaker 1: was also not a big dog person until probably like

593
00:32:38,440 --> 00:32:41,040
Speaker 1: four years ago, so I can relate to that. And

594
00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:43,200
Speaker 1: people look at you like you have nine heads, like

595
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:44,960
Speaker 1: how do you not like dogs? And I'm a great

596
00:32:45,000 --> 00:32:47,680
Speaker 1: well I'm not a terrible humans, let's start there. But

597
00:32:47,800 --> 00:32:51,239
Speaker 1: I mean it depends on how you grew up. I

598
00:32:51,280 --> 00:32:53,959
Speaker 1: had a dog, not to get morbid, but we had

599
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:56,240
Speaker 1: to put her to sleep. I was like thirteen and

600
00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:57,760
Speaker 1: it was the only dog I ever had, and it

601
00:32:57,840 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 1: was traumatizing and so you just kind of like react

602
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:05,040
Speaker 1: from that age differently. But did you love that dog? Oh?

603
00:33:05,040 --> 00:33:07,080
Speaker 1: I love that dog. That was like that was my

604
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 1: I like dogs and I like if something happens, like

605
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:12,880
Speaker 1: I did have a dog, a lab growing up, Peaches,

606
00:33:13,360 --> 00:33:16,160
Speaker 1: and I was I was shocked how upset I was.

607
00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:18,480
Speaker 1: I was in college when they had to put her down,

608
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:21,440
Speaker 1: and I mean I lost it for like the whole day.

609
00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:24,600
Speaker 1: I was like that's how I was but a child

610
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,080
Speaker 1: that it makes me feel better. I didn't know the story. Yeah,

611
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 1: so I do, like I care about the dogs. I

612
00:33:30,880 --> 00:33:32,720
Speaker 1: just don't want their hair on me. I don't want

613
00:33:32,720 --> 00:33:35,720
Speaker 1: them barking. Cassie is a woman after my heart. I

614
00:33:35,760 --> 00:33:38,680
Speaker 1: am the exact same. That is the thing. Love it.

615
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 1: That is why you You don't like the messiness of dogs,

616
00:33:41,840 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 1: that's more of it. And the barking. You love dogs,

617
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:46,440
Speaker 1: you just don't like what they come. Yeah. I think

618
00:33:46,440 --> 00:33:48,920
Speaker 1: they're cute, yes all that. I just don't know when

619
00:33:48,960 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 1: to drooling. Luckily, our dogs don't really drool at all

620
00:33:54,680 --> 00:34:00,240
Speaker 1: because that would probably send me a but but they

621
00:34:00,280 --> 00:34:03,640
Speaker 1: bark a lot, especially the little ones, right, and she's

622
00:34:03,640 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 1: been on me. She's like, we got to figure this out.

623
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:10,040
Speaker 1: Did you buy collars? I'm going to do so, how

624
00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:13,520
Speaker 1: does that work? It's so hard, Like I start having

625
00:34:13,560 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 1: panic moments and then maybe it's the pregnancy and the hormones.

626
00:34:16,000 --> 00:34:18,200
Speaker 1: But I'm like, how is this going to work? When yes,

627
00:34:18,520 --> 00:34:20,839
Speaker 1: if the baby's trying to sleep, that's what she's worried about.

628
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 1: Kessie's about to drop kick this dog. Chuck is not left,

629
00:34:26,760 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 1: and he just looks at me. I'm do something. He's like,

630
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:31,520
Speaker 1: I don't know what you want me to do. I

631
00:34:31,560 --> 00:34:33,880
Speaker 1: feel like your dogs are like, I mean, I don't know.

632
00:34:33,960 --> 00:34:35,640
Speaker 1: Is there an age limit on like a bark callar?

633
00:34:35,719 --> 00:34:37,279
Speaker 1: I don't know how that works? I did? I did.

634
00:34:37,360 --> 00:34:41,319
Speaker 1: Warner does not shock the dogs. It like sends a

635
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:44,319
Speaker 1: sound way like I don't know, really I do think

636
00:34:44,360 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 1: that if oh, I mean like I'm such a professional

637
00:34:47,080 --> 00:34:50,040
Speaker 1: dog trainer. However, I have heard from my friends that

638
00:34:50,080 --> 00:34:53,920
Speaker 1: have dogs that say, eventually, when they are shocked once

639
00:34:54,000 --> 00:34:56,040
Speaker 1: or twice, you just don't even have to shock them anymore.

640
00:34:56,080 --> 00:34:58,120
Speaker 1: You just hold up the remote and then the dogs

641
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 1: get scared and they don't make any noise because don't

642
00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:02,640
Speaker 1: do that to me. So I'm not saying that's one

643
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:06,160
Speaker 1: hundred percent factual. I'm just staying based off personal experience.

644
00:35:06,560 --> 00:35:08,600
Speaker 1: If you do it once, they kind of learn a lesson,

645
00:35:08,680 --> 00:35:09,920
Speaker 1: kind of like you don't put your hand on a

646
00:35:09,960 --> 00:35:11,440
Speaker 1: hot stove after you did the first time. We have

647
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:15,880
Speaker 1: about five weeks to figure it out. That's figured out time. Well,

648
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 1: that's why we're building a barn for the dogs? Are

649
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:21,480
Speaker 1: for you? Pretty much? No, well, maybe we're gonna have

650
00:35:21,680 --> 00:35:23,200
Speaker 1: maybe it'll be you and your dogs. We don't know

651
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 1: that would that would fix everything? I think, uh, maybe no,

652
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:28,320
Speaker 1: we have a little dog area in in the barn.

653
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 1: Are you building a barn in your backyard? In the

654
00:35:30,680 --> 00:35:32,840
Speaker 1: backyard where the dogs like to run away from you?

655
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,959
Speaker 1: I know from personal experience when you watch the dogs

656
00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 1: and dogs right now, oh my god, I chase them barefoot.

657
00:35:39,880 --> 00:35:43,440
Speaker 1: I don't know this story. Where did they run? Listen?

658
00:35:43,520 --> 00:35:46,440
Speaker 1: I was trying to be a cool dog sitter, and

659
00:35:46,680 --> 00:35:49,880
Speaker 1: I knew you said four hundred and fifty thousand times

660
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:51,960
Speaker 1: you need to wash them. They will run and I'm like, Okay,

661
00:35:51,960 --> 00:35:54,759
Speaker 1: I get it. Gunner comes out to the pool, He's

662
00:35:54,760 --> 00:35:56,799
Speaker 1: like sniffing around the side. I'm sitting with my feet

663
00:35:56,800 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: in the pool. I just worked out, died in the garage.

664
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:02,879
Speaker 1: Work out by the way, I show myself. Okay, m feet.

665
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:04,839
Speaker 1: You're in the pool and I'm watching Gunna go by

666
00:36:04,880 --> 00:36:07,279
Speaker 1: the trampoline and I'm like, he's good, okay, and I

667
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 1: just kind of yell. I'm like, Gunna get back over here. Whatever. Well,

668
00:36:09,680 --> 00:36:13,800
Speaker 1: the other two, Cooper and Duke, And for anybody listening,

669
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:17,000
Speaker 1: Duke can't hear anything anything. So if Duke is gone,

670
00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:19,360
Speaker 1: Duke is gone, like he cannot hear you calling, he

671
00:36:19,400 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 1: cannot hear you holler in his name. Nothing. Well, Cooper's

672
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:26,600
Speaker 1: little mischievous ash ash what ass goes through that little

673
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 1: like the gate? Yes, you know exactly when I finished

674
00:36:31,000 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: my sentence, you know exactly what I'm talking about. He

675
00:36:33,040 --> 00:36:34,839
Speaker 1: starts going up towards and I'm like, I'm gonna let

676
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:37,640
Speaker 1: them roam. They're a huge backyard. No, I was gonna say,

677
00:36:37,719 --> 00:36:40,880
Speaker 1: like they were sniffing, not running. They were just like sniffing,

678
00:36:41,640 --> 00:36:45,280
Speaker 1: shuffling a little bit, sniffing. And I see Cooper eyeing

679
00:36:45,360 --> 00:36:48,080
Speaker 1: that little gate and I'm like, you better not. Well

680
00:36:48,080 --> 00:36:50,879
Speaker 1: he did, and then Duke is like, well, I gotta

681
00:36:50,880 --> 00:36:53,000
Speaker 1: comb And so I got out of the pool and

682
00:36:53,080 --> 00:36:54,960
Speaker 1: I am sprinting up, which by the way, I was

683
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 1: wearing no shoes because I was in the pool and

684
00:36:56,520 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 1: there's gravel there. Yes, yes, yeah, yeah, it feels Gunner tried,

685
00:37:02,680 --> 00:37:04,600
Speaker 1: but I just like snapped at him. He went back

686
00:37:04,600 --> 00:37:06,359
Speaker 1: to the porch. He was a good little boy. I

687
00:37:06,400 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 1: got the rest of them, the rest of them, the

688
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:10,759
Speaker 1: two of them back. Take it all the way to

689
00:37:10,800 --> 00:37:12,640
Speaker 1: the pond. No, no, no, they made it through that

690
00:37:12,640 --> 00:37:16,040
Speaker 1: little like passageway. Yeah. And that's when Brian, the web

691
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,479
Speaker 1: guy we talked about him so nicely earlier in the show,

692
00:37:19,239 --> 00:37:21,080
Speaker 1: caught up with me. He was there and he was

693
00:37:21,120 --> 00:37:22,680
Speaker 1: just like, what's going on. I'm like, yeah, well, I

694
00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:25,080
Speaker 1: was chasing dogs. Where were you? Because we're supposed to

695
00:37:25,080 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 1: divide and conquer, you're supposed to be attacked. Yeah, I know,

696
00:37:27,640 --> 00:37:29,920
Speaker 1: And he was inside fidoodling. I don't know what he

697
00:37:29,960 --> 00:37:33,879
Speaker 1: was doing, but I got the dogs back. But anyways, sidetrack, Sorry,

698
00:37:33,920 --> 00:37:36,440
Speaker 1: were you supposed to get paid for that gig? No?

699
00:37:36,480 --> 00:37:38,960
Speaker 1: I don't think so, because we a hundred percent used

700
00:37:39,040 --> 00:37:41,480
Speaker 1: your home. I went in the pool, I sat outside

701
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:44,760
Speaker 1: the city. I used all of your workout equipment and

702
00:37:45,600 --> 00:37:47,960
Speaker 1: wait a good time. Yeah, if you ever want abby,

703
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 1: if you ever want to watch our dogs, Hey, you

704
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:52,359
Speaker 1: just have access of the house. That sounds like I'm

705
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:55,400
Speaker 1: going to get it. Is. It's very, very, very relaxing

706
00:37:55,440 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 1: because I specifically live, like you can see my apartment

707
00:37:57,960 --> 00:38:01,720
Speaker 1: from these studios. I live on forty I'm not even joking,

708
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:03,879
Speaker 1: Like I live on the highway, so I can hear

709
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:07,320
Speaker 1: absolutely everything. You go to Chuck's house, you can't hear anything,

710
00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: and you can see the stars you can't and you can't.

711
00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:12,359
Speaker 1: I love it. I loved it. We love it out there.

712
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,680
Speaker 1: We live outside of Nashville and we have like, uh,

713
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,960
Speaker 1: twenty two acres and it's just kind of you know,

714
00:38:19,280 --> 00:38:21,839
Speaker 1: it's it's kind of crazy how it's it is because

715
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:23,960
Speaker 1: you go down our driveway and it's just this long

716
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:26,480
Speaker 1: driveway and you don't and then it just opens up

717
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:28,759
Speaker 1: and cornermile there and back. If you're jogging, that's right,

718
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 1: Wis work out, that's right, Wikes workout, and then it

719
00:38:31,600 --> 00:38:34,399
Speaker 1: just opens up into this that's our My first date

720
00:38:34,440 --> 00:38:37,800
Speaker 1: with Cassie was. She goes, do you want to I

721
00:38:38,440 --> 00:38:39,799
Speaker 1: offered to pick you up? Or did you say did

722
00:38:39,800 --> 00:38:42,279
Speaker 1: you want to? Do? Now? Think I'm sure I would.

723
00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:44,839
Speaker 1: I would would have met you. Oh, she lives so

724
00:38:44,880 --> 00:38:47,920
Speaker 1: far away because I live downtown. She goes, oh, I

725
00:38:47,960 --> 00:38:52,000
Speaker 1: live in Columbia. I'm like, what Columbia is like forty

726
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:54,440
Speaker 1: five minutes? Where is CLO? No? I knew it was far,

727
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:58,080
Speaker 1: So I go, I'm not gonna make her drive all

728
00:38:58,120 --> 00:38:59,960
Speaker 1: the way into town. I said, listen, I'll come pick

729
00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 1: you up. So you drove all the way from I

730
00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:11,400
Speaker 1: drove all the way from downtown. Last generally, Charles, all right,

731
00:39:11,440 --> 00:39:17,160
Speaker 1: do we have a clap trag? We o? No? Which

732
00:39:17,160 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 1: one is? No? This is the beginning of the show. Hey,

733
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:25,800
Speaker 1: I got you, I got you? Get a clap track?

734
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, especially when you gentlemen stuff like yeah. So anyway,

735
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:32,359
Speaker 1: I go, I pick her up, and I'm going I'm

736
00:39:32,600 --> 00:39:34,520
Speaker 1: going down this long driveway and I don't know what

737
00:39:34,560 --> 00:39:37,799
Speaker 1: it's about to be. So I'm like, man, where does

738
00:39:37,800 --> 00:39:40,840
Speaker 1: this girl live? What is she setting me up? I

739
00:39:40,880 --> 00:39:44,160
Speaker 1: thought it was a joke. And this, oh man, the

740
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:47,680
Speaker 1: field opens up and I see this beautiful country style

741
00:39:47,880 --> 00:39:50,719
Speaker 1: white house with everything I've ever dreamed of. I look,

742
00:39:50,960 --> 00:39:55,359
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm gonna marry this that's weird. I felt

743
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:58,919
Speaker 1: the same way when I pulled I'm gonna marry this girl.

744
00:39:59,280 --> 00:40:02,600
Speaker 1: I'm gonna marry this family. You can ask my cousin.

745
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:04,279
Speaker 1: I came home from the first time I ever came

746
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:06,080
Speaker 1: to your house. I came home and I told Kelsey,

747
00:40:06,120 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 1: she's my roommate, my cousin, and I'm like, chucking, Cassie

748
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:10,399
Speaker 1: live in my dream home and it's in the middle

749
00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:13,080
Speaker 1: of nowhere. Nobody can hear you. And she was like, okay,

750
00:40:13,800 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 1: I don't know what I'm supposed to do with this information,

751
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,800
Speaker 1: but thank you. I was like, so you went alone.

752
00:40:17,960 --> 00:40:20,640
Speaker 1: I went and picked you up, and I know it

753
00:40:20,719 --> 00:40:23,440
Speaker 1: was so far out. She got in the car. I said, man,

754
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:24,880
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, we got to go back into town. I

755
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 1: didn't bring any snacks. I mean, it was that far out.

756
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:32,319
Speaker 1: And that's when we that's first date and what did

757
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:34,719
Speaker 1: you When we first A lot of people asked like,

758
00:40:34,719 --> 00:40:37,719
Speaker 1: how how we met? I thought it was whiskey row

759
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:42,359
Speaker 1: am I way off. I thought you're saying you're one

760
00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 1: hundred percent off. I'm like, okay, so for for a

761
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,400
Speaker 1: long time. I would see her just out and about

762
00:40:47,440 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 1: and nothing would come of it, and you know, I

763
00:40:50,440 --> 00:40:52,680
Speaker 1: would talk. I was like, I would always say, who there,

764
00:40:52,719 --> 00:40:55,880
Speaker 1: she is, there, she is the because Cassie, you have

765
00:40:56,200 --> 00:41:00,000
Speaker 1: like hair that's very recognizable. A lot of people they're like,

766
00:41:00,120 --> 00:41:01,480
Speaker 1: is that your hair? Is that your hair? And it is?

767
00:41:02,600 --> 00:41:05,600
Speaker 1: Thank god, because that would be a long time. She

768
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:07,360
Speaker 1: got to make the extensions out and then you know,

769
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 1: set him on the counter, let him dry anyway, So

770
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:13,000
Speaker 1: you know, I would always recognize her when she walked

771
00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:16,160
Speaker 1: into the room from her hair. And it was at

772
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:22,279
Speaker 1: the ACMs three years ago. Three years ago, so three

773
00:41:22,320 --> 00:41:28,359
Speaker 1: ACMs ago I met her and had my first conversation

774
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:32,400
Speaker 1: and with her, and the conversation was this long, how

775
00:41:32,400 --> 00:41:36,000
Speaker 1: are you doing that? Was it is that because you

776
00:41:36,000 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 1: couldn't think of anything else to say? Or is that

777
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 1: just what time allowed? Well? She so she she was

778
00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:43,319
Speaker 1: married before and that's why we had never spoken before

779
00:41:43,360 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 1: because she was always married. And I didn't know at

780
00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:48,800
Speaker 1: this time when I met her that she was single.

781
00:41:49,160 --> 00:41:51,120
Speaker 1: So I just assumed in my mind, I'm like, well,

782
00:41:51,640 --> 00:41:55,839
Speaker 1: she's married. I'm not going to pursue anything because she's married. Well,

783
00:41:56,280 --> 00:41:59,520
Speaker 1: I found out. He was talking to Jason and Brittie

784
00:41:59,640 --> 00:42:02,239
Speaker 1: was sitting next to him, and so I kind of

785
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:07,720
Speaker 1: like just shuffled over. And you said that you noticed

786
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,800
Speaker 1: britt going like doing her head. Oh that's right. Should

787
00:42:10,800 --> 00:42:13,759
Speaker 1: we like to talk to you? Yes, Brittany Aldeen was

788
00:42:13,840 --> 00:42:15,960
Speaker 1: not like smooth about it at all. She's just like

789
00:42:17,120 --> 00:42:18,919
Speaker 1: she's trying to be a matchmaker, but with a child.

790
00:42:19,040 --> 00:42:24,279
Speaker 1: Whoa yeah, chuck Cassie right here basically, and you know,

791
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:25,840
Speaker 1: we did say a little but that was it and

792
00:42:25,880 --> 00:42:27,879
Speaker 1: I just ignored it. I and then we didn't see

793
00:42:27,880 --> 00:42:29,959
Speaker 1: each other the rest of the time, and they asked,

794
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:32,200
Speaker 1: but something told me from that night I felt something.

795
00:42:32,480 --> 00:42:35,839
Speaker 1: I was like, something's different about this night. So I said,

796
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:39,440
Speaker 1: now that I know that herd Brittany alde are friends,

797
00:42:40,239 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 1: because I didn't. I didn't know. I didn't even know

798
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:48,240
Speaker 1: Jason Aldeen had a sister. And I've known Jason for

799
00:42:48,239 --> 00:42:50,920
Speaker 1: fourteen years. I mean we knew each I knew him

800
00:42:50,920 --> 00:42:53,440
Speaker 1: when his first single came out. So well, I hear. No,

801
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:57,120
Speaker 1: we never talked. We never talked about when we saw

802
00:42:57,160 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 1: each other. We didn't we didn't talk about our siblings.

803
00:43:01,960 --> 00:43:04,280
Speaker 1: We just talked about whatever. It just wasn't our simblings.

804
00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:07,239
Speaker 1: So I always thought you were Brittany's sister. So I

805
00:43:07,280 --> 00:43:09,799
Speaker 1: went to Brittany aw Dean's Instagram page and I'm looking,

806
00:43:09,840 --> 00:43:12,799
Speaker 1: I'm looking at find her. I go there, she is, oh, yeah,

807
00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,080
Speaker 1: the instag and then I click on the old thing,

808
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:18,759
Speaker 1: the tags, and I go, huh, Yassi, Rosa, did you

809
00:43:18,760 --> 00:43:22,840
Speaker 1: slide into those dms? I did not, actually, Charles you, gentlemen,

810
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 1: I did not slide into the DM picture up. What

811
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:28,320
Speaker 1: I did was I found a photo that I felt

812
00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: was engaging, and then I engaged. Tell me more. I

813
00:43:33,160 --> 00:43:38,120
Speaker 1: commented so everyone could see it, and I said, she

814
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:40,480
Speaker 1: was at top golf and you did this swing in

815
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:45,480
Speaker 1: high heels okay, And I said, well that's pretty impressive.

816
00:43:46,760 --> 00:43:50,440
Speaker 1: That's a pretty good swing for high heels on it.

817
00:43:50,480 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 1: And I set the bait. I set the trap. I said,

818
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:57,479
Speaker 1: if she responds, I'm in hell. Yeah. She responded, yeah

819
00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:59,839
Speaker 1: she did. So would you say no, no, you gid

820
00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: you cut the stock. I have no idea a joke.

821
00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:05,680
Speaker 1: And I'm sure I like called a few girlfriends like,

822
00:44:05,719 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 1: oh my god, he just texts or like messaged on

823
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:14,000
Speaker 1: my thing. What do I says? I don't know how

824
00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 1: to home it back. Well, I was so out of

825
00:44:15,840 --> 00:44:19,239
Speaker 1: the game. I had been married for ten years. I

826
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:22,239
Speaker 1: had not dated anyone, like I knew not I'm like,

827
00:44:22,239 --> 00:44:24,680
Speaker 1: I don't even know how this works anymore. It was

828
00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:28,120
Speaker 1: like so awkward and so just even like him commenting,

829
00:44:28,200 --> 00:44:31,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't know what to do. I don't

830
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:34,480
Speaker 1: know that's who is this guy that's actually really cute?

831
00:44:34,640 --> 00:44:36,000
Speaker 1: So and this is what I want to get. I

832
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 1: want to know when you first saw me, what did

833
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 1: you did you think? Like, oh, what did you think? Um? Well,

834
00:44:44,960 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 1: like you said, we always had seen each other at events,

835
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 1: so like I was very aware of who you were.

836
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:55,600
Speaker 1: And obviously you're attractive, so like married or not, you

837
00:44:55,719 --> 00:44:59,080
Speaker 1: notice people who are attractive and so but obviously nothing

838
00:44:59,640 --> 00:45:02,200
Speaker 1: never even like mate, I actually disagree with that. I

839
00:45:02,239 --> 00:45:06,080
Speaker 1: haven't seen an attractive girl since time. Okay, and there

840
00:45:06,120 --> 00:45:11,719
Speaker 1: it goes. Thank you so much. After you commented what

841
00:45:11,760 --> 00:45:13,279
Speaker 1: do you mean like when I saw you like a

842
00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:16,640
Speaker 1: whiskey brow or mean, do your page? I was like,

843
00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:19,239
Speaker 1: I don't know about this guy, Like I just didn't know.

844
00:45:19,400 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 1: That's what I wanted to though. So you had a

845
00:45:21,200 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 1: question because he's an artist, you know, and so I was,

846
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:28,160
Speaker 1: I know, I just was like, I don't, I don't know.

847
00:45:28,200 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 1: I wasn't like sure, I really wanted to get there.

848
00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:37,719
Speaker 1: But look how that worked out for you. And there

849
00:45:37,760 --> 00:45:45,799
Speaker 1: we are. Here we are. That's knocked up. Yes, and

850
00:45:45,840 --> 00:45:49,839
Speaker 1: it took three nurses to get there. How romantic. Oh

851
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:52,480
Speaker 1: you know, you know what was funny not funny, but

852
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:56,160
Speaker 1: it was so crazy and surreal was when um we did,

853
00:45:56,719 --> 00:46:02,120
Speaker 1: you know, put the amber and the Cassie and to

854
00:46:02,239 --> 00:46:05,319
Speaker 1: hopefully get pregnant. I felt like I was in a

855
00:46:05,320 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 1: delivery room. I've never been a delivery room in my life.

856
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:10,920
Speaker 1: But what they do is they that is not what

857
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:19,040
Speaker 1: deliver like all these yes, like I said, I've never

858
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:21,200
Speaker 1: been in I'm assuming that's what a delivery room looks like.

859
00:46:21,200 --> 00:46:23,359
Speaker 1: It doesn't look like that. Check me on December fifth.

860
00:46:23,400 --> 00:46:26,000
Speaker 1: All right, well here I'm in a very emotional I'm

861
00:46:26,120 --> 00:46:28,399
Speaker 1: super emotional guy. You can say that, right, yeah, well

862
00:46:28,440 --> 00:46:30,120
Speaker 1: everybody knows. I was going to say. I can say

863
00:46:30,120 --> 00:46:33,560
Speaker 1: that I'm not married too, but like, yeah, emotional. I

864
00:46:33,600 --> 00:46:36,200
Speaker 1: like that emotional. So I'm not hating on it. No,

865
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:38,040
Speaker 1: I like it. I'm just saying I recognize it. I'm

866
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:40,080
Speaker 1: sitting in the room. I first get in trouble because

867
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:44,440
Speaker 1: I'm filming, and the doctor goes no cameras. It clearly

868
00:46:44,480 --> 00:46:47,520
Speaker 1: says that every door. I'm like, but it's my it's

869
00:46:47,600 --> 00:46:50,720
Speaker 1: my kid. Why can't I take it? Anyway, So Cassie,

870
00:46:50,760 --> 00:46:54,160
Speaker 1: they roll her in and then they open up this

871
00:46:54,239 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 1: door and they roll in like an incubator looking thing. Yeah,

872
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:02,359
Speaker 1: and I knew that my little guy, I'm a little

873
00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:07,960
Speaker 1: embryo was in that incubator. Start crying. I mean I

874
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: start crying. I thought I was like in the movie

875
00:47:10,040 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 1: Et or something. They're rolling in this little incubator and

876
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:17,200
Speaker 1: there's this little teeny embryo that it's gonna blossom into

877
00:47:17,239 --> 00:47:22,880
Speaker 1: this beautiful baby boy, Tucker Elliott Wicks come in December fourth.

878
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 1: That's a beautiful moment. December fifth. If we have to

879
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:29,600
Speaker 1: wait that long, he might come earlier December fifth, December

880
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:31,680
Speaker 1: fourth when when we get induced. But December fifth, that

881
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:35,000
Speaker 1: day I'll probably be crying for a week straight every time,

882
00:47:35,040 --> 00:47:39,480
Speaker 1: you see, every time I feel tears, I'm gonna get

883
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:42,880
Speaker 1: a tattoo. By the way, No, no, I seriously, yeah,

884
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:46,080
Speaker 1: you chosen. No. I was talking to Brett Young. We

885
00:47:46,160 --> 00:47:48,640
Speaker 1: love Brett Young. H and he said what kind of

886
00:47:48,680 --> 00:47:51,680
Speaker 1: tattoo he might get, and he started talking about like

887
00:47:51,840 --> 00:47:57,640
Speaker 1: a heartbeat, a wave file, the heartbeat. Yeah, and because

888
00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 1: Tucker is like the one we had one embryo, literally

889
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:08,160
Speaker 1: the one I think maybe like a heartbeat, you're gonna copy, Brett.

890
00:48:08,239 --> 00:48:10,440
Speaker 1: I told him, actually, I said, if you get He's like, oh,

891
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 1: I'm thinking about getting his tattoo. I might get it.

892
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:13,160
Speaker 1: I was like, if you get it, we send me

893
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 1: a picture. I'm gonna copy. I'm just gonna like, you know,

894
00:48:15,080 --> 00:48:16,600
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't have any tattoos. I was like,

895
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:18,279
Speaker 1: if I get a tattoo, it will be around my

896
00:48:18,320 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 1: son and it will be like you gotta be you

897
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:25,760
Speaker 1: need to be creative and come up with your own idea. Okay,

898
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:28,279
Speaker 1: I'll record one of this, I'll record his first part

899
00:48:32,120 --> 00:48:34,319
Speaker 1: from that. I'd be like, what's that. That's Tucker's first

900
00:48:34,360 --> 00:48:37,520
Speaker 1: part right there, guys, Well that's creative. I mean, I

901
00:48:37,560 --> 00:48:39,960
Speaker 1: don't hate it, and I feel like your energy. I

902
00:48:40,000 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 1: don't know if you guys follow Russell Dickerson on Instagram.

903
00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:45,759
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, but he is also a new father, and

904
00:48:45,880 --> 00:48:49,080
Speaker 1: the amount of hype that that man brings to fatherhood.

905
00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:51,719
Speaker 1: I feel like Chuck Wicks might give him a run

906
00:48:51,760 --> 00:48:54,280
Speaker 1: for his money. Bertie and I actually brought up Russell

907
00:48:54,760 --> 00:48:58,080
Speaker 1: before we talked about them too, what a hype like.

908
00:48:58,120 --> 00:49:00,000
Speaker 1: I would love to see them together with their little

909
00:49:00,239 --> 00:49:04,239
Speaker 1: He's gonna be like, yes, like body strapped children, just

910
00:49:04,280 --> 00:49:07,440
Speaker 1: like going on a walk and loving every moment, so

911
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:11,600
Speaker 1: like literal children. Hype. Man. I feel like that is

912
00:49:11,600 --> 00:49:13,680
Speaker 1: the closest thing that I can imagine you being a

913
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:16,319
Speaker 1: father would be what Russell's doing right now in real time. Oh,

914
00:49:16,320 --> 00:49:19,960
Speaker 1: we're doing everything together, Tucker and I Yeah, oh every

915
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:22,359
Speaker 1: every not every time, but like a lot of times

916
00:49:22,360 --> 00:49:24,319
Speaker 1: when Russell will have an Instagram story, he'll just be like,

917
00:49:24,320 --> 00:49:26,200
Speaker 1: this is my best friend. It's me and rum Dog,

918
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:28,960
Speaker 1: and he's just like super like it's my rum dog

919
00:49:29,040 --> 00:49:31,480
Speaker 1: checks fit and I'm just like wow, I like kind

920
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:33,239
Speaker 1: of want to be your kid's friend too. And I

921
00:49:33,280 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 1: feel like that is a one hundred percent going to

922
00:49:35,120 --> 00:49:38,400
Speaker 1: be Chuck Wicks. Yeah, as pal Tucker, I have no

923
00:49:38,480 --> 00:49:41,279
Speaker 1: idea what to expect, but I just know I want

924
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 1: to expect it and I can't wait to do it.

925
00:49:44,040 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 1: It's gonna be awesome be in that moment, all right.

926
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:59,640
Speaker 1: I want to switch gears to music. So Cassie, this

927
00:49:59,760 --> 00:50:03,480
Speaker 1: is I didn't know she felt this way until after

928
00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 1: the first time you heard me sing, because she has

929
00:50:06,560 --> 00:50:11,239
Speaker 1: her brother, Jaysundine, is one of the biggest stars in

930
00:50:11,320 --> 00:50:15,200
Speaker 1: country music, and she's seen him since you were twelve

931
00:50:15,239 --> 00:50:18,799
Speaker 1: sale's t shirts. I mean, you've seen him blossom into

932
00:50:18,840 --> 00:50:22,279
Speaker 1: the biggest star ever. And he's awesome and he deserves it,

933
00:50:22,320 --> 00:50:24,239
Speaker 1: and he's a great singer, and he's great songs and

934
00:50:24,239 --> 00:50:27,400
Speaker 1: all these things. When we met, you had really you

935
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:32,000
Speaker 1: didn't really know too much about me musically, right, So

936
00:50:32,680 --> 00:50:35,279
Speaker 1: it was the I did a show something he did,

937
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:39,120
Speaker 1: like a fan club show. Was it a fanclub party? Yeah?

938
00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:43,040
Speaker 1: SMA first, Yeah, And I took avery and I was

939
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:46,719
Speaker 1: real nervous. She was really nervous because she was I'll

940
00:50:46,760 --> 00:50:50,040
Speaker 1: let you say it, well, I was nervous because if

941
00:50:50,040 --> 00:50:52,960
Speaker 1: he sucked, then like what was I going to do? Absolutely,

942
00:50:53,960 --> 00:50:57,799
Speaker 1: and I mean, my brother's my brother. But I mean

943
00:50:58,120 --> 00:51:00,880
Speaker 1: I love Jason and I love his music, and I

944
00:51:00,960 --> 00:51:03,359
Speaker 1: have like so much respect for him because I mean,

945
00:51:03,360 --> 00:51:06,480
Speaker 1: he's one of my favorite artists. So then for me

946
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:08,879
Speaker 1: to even think about dating an artist and then if

947
00:51:08,920 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 1: he's not really good like, how can we even do that?

948
00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:17,360
Speaker 1: I mean, did you not do any homework? I no, No,

949
00:51:17,640 --> 00:51:19,799
Speaker 1: I guess I didn't. Okay, But I also give her

950
00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:22,400
Speaker 1: props and the fact that aren't you kind of happy

951
00:51:22,440 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 1: she didn't do homework, like she didn't know all of

952
00:51:26,239 --> 00:51:28,359
Speaker 1: the things you care, like she just loved you for you,

953
00:51:28,640 --> 00:51:31,440
Speaker 1: Like she didn't love you because you were great. She

954
00:51:31,440 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 1: didn't know that yet. Thank god I didn't have an

955
00:51:33,000 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 1: off night. We may not talk to Chuck would be

956
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:39,560
Speaker 1: real different episode two. I'd be like, wow, I'm still

957
00:51:39,600 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 1: looking from my wife. Luckily, you were amazing. And I

958
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:47,920
Speaker 1: actually I brought Avery to that show and it was

959
00:51:47,960 --> 00:51:50,800
Speaker 1: cool and I was like, Okay, you can actually sing

960
00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:53,239
Speaker 1: like so And we have a lot of fun at

961
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:56,560
Speaker 1: the house to him singing and playing the guitar, and

962
00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:59,879
Speaker 1: Avery loves it. So it's good times. It worked out

963
00:52:00,200 --> 00:52:03,160
Speaker 1: and it's not awkward at our house. And maybe karaoke,

964
00:52:03,440 --> 00:52:06,640
Speaker 1: but Chuck does try to take over karaoke at Jason's.

965
00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:11,000
Speaker 1: I've seen videos and I don't. I'm so I'm not

966
00:52:11,360 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 1: I'm not like like sloppy drunk, but I'm just such

967
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:16,359
Speaker 1: I'm having such a good thing. Yeah, but he gets yeah,

968
00:52:16,400 --> 00:52:18,600
Speaker 1: he starts having so much fun. He literally doesn't let

969
00:52:18,640 --> 00:52:21,200
Speaker 1: anybody else have a cheer when I listen when I

970
00:52:21,239 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 1: say I don't Kane Brown, they one night, they like

971
00:52:25,000 --> 00:52:27,520
Speaker 1: the videos I've seen, but then they shove themselves and

972
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:29,600
Speaker 1: other people's songs like no, this is not your moment,

973
00:52:29,680 --> 00:52:31,919
Speaker 1: and this is not it. It is not your turn

974
00:52:32,040 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 1: when it listen when it's time to take over its well,

975
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:38,279
Speaker 1: it's funny when she says he wouldn't let anybody else sing.

976
00:52:38,280 --> 00:52:42,000
Speaker 1: We're talking about like Lauren Alene, Jason Outded all like

977
00:52:42,040 --> 00:52:44,799
Speaker 1: these the best singers in country music. We're like Kane

978
00:52:44,800 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 1: Brown and Artist hog in the whole money. Yeah it's

979
00:52:46,960 --> 00:52:49,480
Speaker 1: our turn. Okay, Oh listen we rock some boys to

980
00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:54,359
Speaker 1: men Brian McKnight, Yeah, oh yeah, I hope your dance moves.

981
00:52:54,360 --> 00:52:57,239
Speaker 1: The crappy thing about our family that is awkward is

982
00:52:57,239 --> 00:52:59,399
Speaker 1: that I am the only person in our family who

983
00:52:59,440 --> 00:53:02,200
Speaker 1: does not sing like Brittany can actually really say well too,

984
00:53:02,400 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 1: she's great karaokee. I'm like a pregnant lady at the

985
00:53:08,000 --> 00:53:11,600
Speaker 1: bar well when Jason's new house is just like, it's

986
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:15,239
Speaker 1: so funny. He's got everything you could possibly want. A

987
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:19,839
Speaker 1: bowling alley a poll that looks straight out of Cabo Um.

988
00:53:19,880 --> 00:53:22,000
Speaker 1: All the room in the world, all the all the

989
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:26,799
Speaker 1: bells and whistles, right, but when for some reason he

990
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:30,799
Speaker 1: does not have a great karaoke system. It literally is

991
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:33,240
Speaker 1: from like Walmart. Brittany brings it out of the closet,

992
00:53:33,360 --> 00:53:41,719
Speaker 1: like comes from It's literally like one speaker. But they

993
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:45,600
Speaker 1: have the best time on it, everybody. It's an amazing time. Yeah,

994
00:53:45,640 --> 00:53:48,279
Speaker 1: and we always have our go tos and it never

995
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:52,080
Speaker 1: changes like every karaoke night, it's the same songs. Sometimes

996
00:53:52,080 --> 00:53:54,160
Speaker 1: you just got to go back to the basics, same songs,

997
00:53:54,200 --> 00:53:56,520
Speaker 1: different week. And you have we haven't gotten you on

998
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:59,399
Speaker 1: the mic really because I just said, do you think

999
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:01,839
Speaker 1: I'm ever going to get onto my with all those

1000
00:54:01,840 --> 00:54:05,560
Speaker 1: people as a mother of us soon to be boy. Great,

1001
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 1: I think you need to learn to Does that make

1002
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:11,320
Speaker 1: sense Nope? But what I'm following the stories to a

1003
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:13,840
Speaker 1: mother of a boy. You need to you need to

1004
00:54:13,880 --> 00:54:15,600
Speaker 1: step outside the box every once in a while because

1005
00:54:15,600 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 1: your a little boy is going to challenge you to

1006
00:54:17,680 --> 00:54:20,960
Speaker 1: do so, to sing no, just to do things outside

1007
00:54:20,960 --> 00:54:22,800
Speaker 1: of your comment. Yeah, but I don't think she'll be

1008
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:26,319
Speaker 1: surrounded by like professional singers at the moment that she's

1009
00:54:26,360 --> 00:54:29,839
Speaker 1: also trying to sing the word okay. You know who

1010
00:54:29,920 --> 00:54:31,600
Speaker 1: is one of the best singers I've ever heard is

1011
00:54:31,680 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 1: Lauren Lena A Lawless. I feel like it's effortless, it's ridiculous.

1012
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:39,439
Speaker 1: I would agree one hundred percent. And then the male

1013
00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:42,719
Speaker 1: version of her is Shae Mooney. I was literally just

1014
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:46,640
Speaker 1: going to say that ridiculous so good. Gives me chili.

1015
00:54:47,800 --> 00:54:52,440
Speaker 1: We're at Jason's watching the George George Obama game and

1016
00:54:52,480 --> 00:54:56,000
Speaker 1: we're doing shots of course of tequila, and Jason goes

1017
00:54:56,200 --> 00:54:58,840
Speaker 1: and says, you know, it's me Jason and Shay's in

1018
00:54:58,880 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 1: the mix of taking the show. And Jason goes, uh,

1019
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:04,720
Speaker 1: do a vocal run for us, and we'll do a shot.

1020
00:55:04,760 --> 00:55:08,799
Speaker 1: And that was the way the cheers was say, like,

1021
00:55:11,960 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 1: Jason goes, that'll do. He's ridiculous, shade. His voice is insane,

1022
00:55:19,840 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 1: so good. And we were weren't you out that we

1023
00:55:22,200 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 1: were all at the dinner and he's saying, Whitney Houston. Remember,

1024
00:55:24,640 --> 00:55:26,920
Speaker 1: oh yeah, they had closed down this restaurant that we

1025
00:55:27,000 --> 00:55:30,360
Speaker 1: all love and now, yeah, we just all happened to

1026
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 1: be there the same night. It wasn't planned and so

1027
00:55:32,600 --> 00:55:35,400
Speaker 1: we're like just having the best time and he just

1028
00:55:35,440 --> 00:55:41,520
Speaker 1: starts blaring like Whitney Houston. But it sounded so amazing.

1029
00:55:41,560 --> 00:55:44,440
Speaker 1: You're like, people are missing this moment, Like people need

1030
00:55:44,480 --> 00:55:48,399
Speaker 1: to see this. He is. He's the funniest human when

1031
00:55:48,440 --> 00:55:54,680
Speaker 1: I'm around Shaye Mooney. I they were idiots together. They together,

1032
00:55:55,120 --> 00:55:58,200
Speaker 1: I laugh. He's probably I laugh more than us. Should

1033
00:55:58,200 --> 00:56:04,799
Speaker 1: I rat you guys out? Oh yes, about your toast? Oh?

1034
00:56:09,000 --> 00:56:11,800
Speaker 1: So the toast, it was like everybody's having a great

1035
00:56:11,840 --> 00:56:17,080
Speaker 1: time drinking, having the best time, and these two Shay

1036
00:56:17,200 --> 00:56:21,279
Speaker 1: and Chuck, my brother's gonna kill you. So they I

1037
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:24,759
Speaker 1: don't know. Well, I don't see Jake what we are.

1038
00:56:25,920 --> 00:56:28,439
Speaker 1: We're fifty four minutes into this podcast. I don't see

1039
00:56:28,520 --> 00:56:32,799
Speaker 1: him listening this long. But they fixed the shots for everybody.

1040
00:56:33,320 --> 00:56:36,719
Speaker 1: Well there's where water. So I did not know this,

1041
00:56:36,760 --> 00:56:39,399
Speaker 1: but I was watching them the whole time that they

1042
00:56:39,560 --> 00:56:43,399
Speaker 1: cheers and those two make the worst face like they

1043
00:56:43,520 --> 00:56:47,839
Speaker 1: just took the worst shot of their life over actors

1044
00:56:48,360 --> 00:56:58,799
Speaker 1: watch watches ready cheers Oh yeah, real right, And they

1045
00:56:58,840 --> 00:57:01,279
Speaker 1: were so proud of themselves. We were because we did

1046
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:05,080
Speaker 1: like three everyone else's tank. We got we got Sara

1047
00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 1: blackout and you guys are like, yeah, we got so

1048
00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:10,880
Speaker 1: many text messages. Next day, they're like, man, that last

1049
00:57:10,880 --> 00:57:15,080
Speaker 1: shot did me in Man, We're like, yeah, that's too.

1050
00:57:15,840 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 1: The good news is is that Sha Mooney did not

1051
00:57:18,000 --> 00:57:20,400
Speaker 1: have to leave his car at your baby shower and

1052
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 1: I did that. You were wondering who one car one car,

1053
00:57:25,680 --> 00:57:28,520
Speaker 1: and it was Sammy's. There's they listen, bring me out.

1054
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:32,640
Speaker 1: Dean is one of the best hosts, hosts amazing you'll

1055
00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:35,120
Speaker 1: ever mean. I double checked with everyone who lived on

1056
00:57:35,160 --> 00:57:37,400
Speaker 1: the premise and probably people who didn't live on the premise.

1057
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:39,840
Speaker 1: I'm like, listen, I can stop drinking right now, or

1058
00:57:39,840 --> 00:57:41,439
Speaker 1: I can just like have this drink that we're about

1059
00:57:41,440 --> 00:57:43,200
Speaker 1: to have and go bowling in the corner right But

1060
00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:44,600
Speaker 1: I just need to know if I could leave my

1061
00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:48,200
Speaker 1: car here on this forty seven and a half acre driveway.

1062
00:57:48,600 --> 00:57:50,720
Speaker 1: And Bertie was like, go hey girl, and I was

1063
00:57:50,760 --> 00:57:53,360
Speaker 1: like okay, Karen, and I double check with Cassie. I

1064
00:57:53,440 --> 00:57:55,400
Speaker 1: double check with Jason and he was just like, honestly,

1065
00:57:55,440 --> 00:57:57,320
Speaker 1: please don't ask me these questions. Yes, I don't care,

1066
00:57:57,400 --> 00:57:59,840
Speaker 1: like leave your car whatever. It was amazing and we did.

1067
00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 1: The baby shower was amazing. We had a valet service.

1068
00:58:04,480 --> 00:58:11,440
Speaker 1: I call them they butlers, but the caterers. For the

1069
00:58:11,520 --> 00:58:14,480
Speaker 1: love of God, Chuck, they're caterers, caterers. But you know,

1070
00:58:14,560 --> 00:58:17,920
Speaker 1: it looked to me it was like it was like butlers, right,

1071
00:58:18,400 --> 00:58:21,520
Speaker 1: that's that's all the rich people do. You want to

1072
00:58:21,560 --> 00:58:24,240
Speaker 1: know a story about one of your fake butler slash caterers.

1073
00:58:24,320 --> 00:58:26,560
Speaker 1: I know, we're like fifty six minutes into this. However,

1074
00:58:27,040 --> 00:58:29,200
Speaker 1: this kid, his name was Mike, and he was a

1075
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:31,440
Speaker 1: caterer at your baby shower. This is true story. This

1076
00:58:31,520 --> 00:58:34,600
Speaker 1: is true story. This happened however many weeks ago, and

1077
00:58:34,680 --> 00:58:36,840
Speaker 1: I'm standing there, uh, and he comes up to me

1078
00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:39,400
Speaker 1: with this I assumed some sort of like chicken with

1079
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:43,760
Speaker 1: like a yellow orange sauce. Looked delicious. He comes up

1080
00:58:43,760 --> 00:58:45,919
Speaker 1: to me, He's like, man, would you like some? And

1081
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:47,440
Speaker 1: I said, you know what, Mike, I'm going to be

1082
00:58:47,440 --> 00:58:49,520
Speaker 1: real with you. You do this be stile I'm standing

1083
00:58:49,560 --> 00:58:52,400
Speaker 1: on right now. It costs more than my rent. So

1084
00:58:52,440 --> 00:58:55,040
Speaker 1: if I eat this chicken with this sauce and I spill,

1085
00:58:55,200 --> 00:58:57,840
Speaker 1: I cannot replace this. As soon as we are allowed

1086
00:58:57,880 --> 00:59:00,680
Speaker 1: to sit down on furniture, because everybody was standing, we

1087
00:59:00,720 --> 00:59:02,080
Speaker 1: were like right by the front door, and I was like,

1088
00:59:02,160 --> 00:59:04,920
Speaker 1: I don't do these parties. I don't know what's happening.

1089
00:59:05,240 --> 00:59:06,760
Speaker 1: I was like, as soon as we sit down, you

1090
00:59:06,800 --> 00:59:09,120
Speaker 1: find me, I will eat that chicken. We went outside.

1091
00:59:09,120 --> 00:59:12,760
Speaker 1: I was with Cassie's seven hundred and fifty four aunts.

1092
00:59:12,760 --> 00:59:16,760
Speaker 1: We were all outside by the pool. Me me te tea.

1093
00:59:17,320 --> 00:59:19,080
Speaker 1: I don't even know the rest because they all call

1094
00:59:19,160 --> 00:59:22,520
Speaker 1: each other different names, which a whole other podcast. Ye Um.

1095
00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:25,200
Speaker 1: Mike found me. He goes, mam, would you like this chicken?

1096
00:59:25,200 --> 00:59:27,480
Speaker 1: And I said, Sherwood, Mike, thank you so much for

1097
00:59:27,560 --> 00:59:29,920
Speaker 1: finding me. He listened to directions very well, and it

1098
00:59:30,000 --> 00:59:32,800
Speaker 1: was worth it. I am a clumsy girl. I'm not

1099
00:59:32,800 --> 00:59:36,920
Speaker 1: trying to spill my sauce on the tile. That's a cute.

1100
00:59:37,000 --> 00:59:41,120
Speaker 1: I don't really remember. I was really focused on the chicken. Really,

1101
00:59:41,360 --> 00:59:47,840
Speaker 1: I'm not joking. I did not I ate the chicken though. Okay, okay, Cassie,

1102
00:59:48,480 --> 00:59:54,080
Speaker 1: she's man Allison people. I'm pretty sure not that Mike

1103
00:59:54,120 --> 00:59:57,400
Speaker 1: the chicken guy. So Mike, it's always something was Sammy.

1104
00:59:57,440 --> 00:59:59,120
Speaker 1: I always wonder who she's going to hook up with.

1105
00:59:59,400 --> 01:00:02,200
Speaker 1: I know, I don't understand. I'm not like that mysterious.

1106
01:00:02,240 --> 01:00:04,600
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm pretty normal afterlually, you're pretty open

1107
01:00:04,640 --> 01:00:06,960
Speaker 1: and out there. Yeah, I mean yeah, I mean I

1108
01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:10,560
Speaker 1: wouldn't say that. I'm a cookie cutter type of gal. Yeah.

1109
01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:15,240
Speaker 1: I got opinions, and I'll let you know them. How

1110
01:00:15,240 --> 01:00:17,640
Speaker 1: are you doing, baby? You doing okay? Great? Are you tired?

1111
01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:22,040
Speaker 1: You know you're getting tired always She's literally creating a

1112
01:00:22,120 --> 01:00:24,520
Speaker 1: human She's I'm always tired. I feel bad because listen,

1113
01:00:24,560 --> 01:00:28,600
Speaker 1: we do these so much, really insane. I love it.

1114
01:00:28,840 --> 01:00:30,919
Speaker 1: She'll be laying in bed that stresses me out. She'll

1115
01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:32,479
Speaker 1: be laying in bed and I'll put and I'll press

1116
01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:35,840
Speaker 1: my back up against her belly, and she'll be sleeping.

1117
01:00:35,920 --> 01:00:39,200
Speaker 1: She won't even know. And and little Tucker's in there

1118
01:00:39,200 --> 01:00:43,160
Speaker 1: doing some kind of like gymnastics routine, and I feel everything,

1119
01:00:43,200 --> 01:00:45,000
Speaker 1: and I just sit there. I lay there. It could

1120
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:46,920
Speaker 1: be three o'clock in the morning, and I'll just be smiling.

1121
01:00:47,200 --> 01:00:49,280
Speaker 1: I'll be like that because it makes me feel so

1122
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:51,560
Speaker 1: good that he's in there, and he's moving around and

1123
01:00:52,320 --> 01:00:55,680
Speaker 1: getting his morning stretches in very early morning stretching. He's

1124
01:00:55,720 --> 01:01:01,200
Speaker 1: an early riser watching Cassie pregnant. And as we get

1125
01:01:01,320 --> 01:01:04,919
Speaker 1: you know later and later in this pregnancy. She has

1126
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:10,360
Speaker 1: developed a pattern. Mhmm. She laughs a little too hard.

1127
01:01:12,840 --> 01:01:17,280
Speaker 1: She will full on her pants, absolutely, her and every

1128
01:01:17,280 --> 01:01:21,000
Speaker 1: other prayer and the everything that I'm sitting on. I mean,

1129
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:24,440
Speaker 1: she's starting. It's kind of irritating because she always she

1130
01:01:24,480 --> 01:01:27,840
Speaker 1: always gets on the dogs. You're peeing in the house now,

1131
01:01:27,960 --> 01:01:31,640
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, honey, stop peeing on the furniture. I

1132
01:01:31,720 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 1: would be yeah, but come on, what You're gonna give

1133
01:01:36,120 --> 01:01:38,000
Speaker 1: her a hard time about that? Actually, when she pees

1134
01:01:38,000 --> 01:01:40,640
Speaker 1: her pants, I think it's adorable. Well most of the

1135
01:01:40,640 --> 01:01:43,600
Speaker 1: time I'm laughing at him, and so I'm like, please stop. Yeah,

1136
01:01:43,640 --> 01:01:47,240
Speaker 1: so you induced this, and so it's your fault. Well,

1137
01:01:47,280 --> 01:01:49,200
Speaker 1: I mean all of the things your fault. It's your fault.

1138
01:01:49,200 --> 01:01:51,480
Speaker 1: She's pregnant, it's your fault. You're making her laugh, basis

1139
01:01:51,480 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 1: your fault. She's one, two and three. I feel like

1140
01:01:54,880 --> 01:01:59,440
Speaker 1: you've laughed more during your pregnancy. Yeah, I don't know,

1141
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:02,160
Speaker 1: am I. It's gotten funnier. No, I don't know. Let's

1142
01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:07,720
Speaker 1: not get carried away, cho gotten funnier or no, where's

1143
01:02:07,720 --> 01:02:13,320
Speaker 1: the cricket noise? Guys, keep it down. It's that's my

1144
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:17,720
Speaker 1: laugh track. This is a cricket noise. Nope, that's that. Yeah,

1145
01:02:17,760 --> 01:02:20,920
Speaker 1: that was what you needed. Oh it sounds like your backyard,

1146
01:02:20,960 --> 01:02:23,800
Speaker 1: honestly it does. It sounds like me chasing your dogs.

1147
01:02:24,000 --> 01:02:26,600
Speaker 1: What a time? How long is I go? I don't know?

1148
01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:31,200
Speaker 1: The stock over He's like, please turn that off. UM.

1149
01:02:31,240 --> 01:02:34,040
Speaker 1: So here's the deal. I just signed my third record deal.

1150
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:38,640
Speaker 1: And I have a beautiful wife to have by my

1151
01:02:38,680 --> 01:02:41,240
Speaker 1: side to support me in my journey, and she knows

1152
01:02:41,240 --> 01:02:43,760
Speaker 1: me very well. And I want to talk about this

1153
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:48,040
Speaker 1: because I don't know how to feel about this. I

1154
01:02:48,080 --> 01:02:51,600
Speaker 1: was just on. I sing around the house all the time,

1155
01:02:52,080 --> 01:02:55,080
Speaker 1: and I will sing my heart and I've I've I've

1156
01:02:55,080 --> 01:02:57,680
Speaker 1: done arena shows. I've sang in big arena, the tour

1157
01:02:57,760 --> 01:03:01,200
Speaker 1: Brad Paisley for almost two years, I've said sang. You know,

1158
01:03:01,320 --> 01:03:03,400
Speaker 1: one of the most nerve racking songs to every sing

1159
01:03:03,480 --> 01:03:06,280
Speaker 1: is the national anthem. I sang the national anthem at

1160
01:03:06,360 --> 01:03:09,680
Speaker 1: NASCAR events where it's just you and your voice. I've

1161
01:03:09,720 --> 01:03:13,800
Speaker 1: sang the national anthem uh cmafest inside Tennessee, Titan State

1162
01:03:13,840 --> 01:03:17,840
Speaker 1: and Nisan Stadium sixty thousand people. All these I've done

1163
01:03:17,840 --> 01:03:20,240
Speaker 1: speaking events in front of twelve thousand people. And you

1164
01:03:20,600 --> 01:03:22,680
Speaker 1: see me do all these things, and you see me

1165
01:03:22,680 --> 01:03:24,440
Speaker 1: get the record deal, and you see me in the studio,

1166
01:03:24,480 --> 01:03:27,120
Speaker 1: and you see me do all the and I do

1167
01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:29,560
Speaker 1: it with and I'm glad to do it, and I'm

1168
01:03:29,560 --> 01:03:32,080
Speaker 1: excited to do it, and I I think I do

1169
01:03:32,120 --> 01:03:35,360
Speaker 1: it pretty well. You do. Um. While I was on

1170
01:03:35,400 --> 01:03:39,200
Speaker 1: the Bobby Bones Show last Friday to talk about this podcast,

1171
01:03:39,680 --> 01:03:42,600
Speaker 1: and for some reason, why are you laughing at it?

1172
01:03:43,040 --> 01:03:46,560
Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm getting? You mentioned it. I

1173
01:03:46,600 --> 01:03:49,880
Speaker 1: don't know what it was. I got there and I

1174
01:03:49,960 --> 01:03:54,240
Speaker 1: was I started to get this, uh, nervous feeling, and

1175
01:03:54,280 --> 01:03:58,160
Speaker 1: I was like, why am I getting nervous? Yeah, I'm

1176
01:03:58,160 --> 01:04:01,600
Speaker 1: getting nervous. You do a morning show for six years.

1177
01:04:01,680 --> 01:04:03,800
Speaker 1: I shouldn't be nervous about jumping on a morning show

1178
01:04:03,800 --> 01:04:06,520
Speaker 1: to talk about stuff. And I get there and I

1179
01:04:06,560 --> 01:04:11,600
Speaker 1: sit down and I'm talking and everything's fine. And then

1180
01:04:12,760 --> 01:04:14,880
Speaker 1: he goes, hey, you know a lot of people know you.

1181
01:04:14,920 --> 01:04:16,240
Speaker 1: Bobby goes, and you know a lot of people know

1182
01:04:16,280 --> 01:04:18,800
Speaker 1: you about you know, from stealing Cinderella. He goes, play

1183
01:04:18,840 --> 01:04:21,360
Speaker 1: us a little bit of stealing Cinderella. So I start

1184
01:04:21,400 --> 01:04:24,760
Speaker 1: playing it and I'm I all of a sudden getting

1185
01:04:24,760 --> 01:04:28,320
Speaker 1: like super nervous and I'm like, what is happening to

1186
01:04:28,440 --> 01:04:31,480
Speaker 1: my body? And I'm like I could. I was like,

1187
01:04:31,560 --> 01:04:34,720
Speaker 1: I'm barely getting through the song. I'm not singing like

1188
01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:37,440
Speaker 1: I had headphones on. I couldn't really hear too well

1189
01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:39,959
Speaker 1: because when I first went into the studio, I didn't

1190
01:04:39,960 --> 01:04:41,840
Speaker 1: have headphones on, and I'm just singing and making sure

1191
01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:43,760
Speaker 1: everything works and all that stuff because they had plugins.

1192
01:04:44,120 --> 01:04:45,920
Speaker 1: And I get and I get through stealing Cinderella, and

1193
01:04:45,960 --> 01:04:48,800
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh my god, that was probably horrible, like

1194
01:04:48,840 --> 01:04:50,600
Speaker 1: I because you know, when you get nervous, you can

1195
01:04:50,600 --> 01:04:53,480
Speaker 1: hear your voice shaky and like shaking a little bit. Yeah,

1196
01:04:53,480 --> 01:04:57,000
Speaker 1: but you're also your own worst critic, definitely. Yeah. Well,

1197
01:04:57,040 --> 01:04:59,280
Speaker 1: and then I was like then it started mess with

1198
01:04:59,320 --> 01:05:00,520
Speaker 1: me and I knew I I was going to sing

1199
01:05:00,560 --> 01:05:04,520
Speaker 1: another song that's we're releasing in December. And this song

1200
01:05:04,600 --> 01:05:10,440
Speaker 1: that we're releasing in December is I think will be

1201
01:05:10,800 --> 01:05:15,560
Speaker 1: the biggest song of my career. It's it's that good,

1202
01:05:15,680 --> 01:05:18,800
Speaker 1: Like I just feel like it's it will be a

1203
01:05:18,880 --> 01:05:20,560
Speaker 1: just a giant. I mean, I've been in the music

1204
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:22,360
Speaker 1: business long enough. I've been on both sides, been a

1205
01:05:22,480 --> 01:05:24,560
Speaker 1: radio world, have been in singing world, have been all

1206
01:05:24,560 --> 01:05:26,800
Speaker 1: that stuff. I was just like, man, if this song

1207
01:05:26,880 --> 01:05:29,880
Speaker 1: gets the shot it deserves, it will be a big song. Well,

1208
01:05:29,880 --> 01:05:31,480
Speaker 1: when we started playing that song, I brought the guy

1209
01:05:31,520 --> 01:05:33,680
Speaker 1: that I wrote it with, another great artist, seth Ennis,

1210
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:36,640
Speaker 1: was there. He's playing piano. I'm like, oh my god,

1211
01:05:36,680 --> 01:05:39,840
Speaker 1: I can't hear the piano. Oh and and because I

1212
01:05:39,880 --> 01:05:41,920
Speaker 1: had the headphones on it, I didn't check the levels,

1213
01:05:41,920 --> 01:05:43,200
Speaker 1: like you know, I was like, hey, can you try.

1214
01:05:43,240 --> 01:05:45,880
Speaker 1: I didn't do any of that while we already started

1215
01:05:45,920 --> 01:05:49,120
Speaker 1: at this point. So I'm like, here we go. I

1216
01:05:49,160 --> 01:05:51,760
Speaker 1: sing this song all the time in the house, like

1217
01:05:51,960 --> 01:05:56,240
Speaker 1: full out, like you know, all the time, and I'm

1218
01:05:56,280 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 1: like crushing it. I feel like all the time. And

1219
01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:01,120
Speaker 1: then here I am, and I just got you know,

1220
01:06:01,280 --> 01:06:05,840
Speaker 1: I just got really timid, like what did I dude?

1221
01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 1: Did you really do that? Or did you think that

1222
01:06:08,280 --> 01:06:10,080
Speaker 1: in your head? I think I was singing away. I mean,

1223
01:06:10,160 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 1: use on it? What did I ever? Dude? Be's on

1224
01:06:12,960 --> 01:06:15,880
Speaker 1: on on, don't you I'm usually like that right now,

1225
01:06:15,920 --> 01:06:17,960
Speaker 1: but I felt like I was what I ever do?

1226
01:06:18,480 --> 01:06:20,520
Speaker 1: I mean when you can't hear it? Though yeah, it's

1227
01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:22,560
Speaker 1: always easy to do that, I was like just quieter,

1228
01:06:22,600 --> 01:06:25,680
Speaker 1: and I felt timid and I and I got through

1229
01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:28,080
Speaker 1: it and and it ended up being funny because you know,

1230
01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:31,640
Speaker 1: then Bobby chimed in and started singing, and we got

1231
01:06:31,640 --> 01:06:35,000
Speaker 1: through it. But I came home and he was so upset.

1232
01:06:35,120 --> 01:06:36,919
Speaker 1: I was so mad. Well, he was just like mad,

1233
01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:39,160
Speaker 1: like he was in a bad mood about it. I'm like,

1234
01:06:39,320 --> 01:06:41,800
Speaker 1: I'm sure it was not what you have in your head.

1235
01:06:42,040 --> 01:06:44,680
Speaker 1: I was so mad. It's always worse in your head

1236
01:06:44,680 --> 01:06:47,200
Speaker 1: than what it is in reality. Yeah. Always, you're gonna

1237
01:06:47,200 --> 01:06:50,960
Speaker 1: be your harshest critic, and you're gonna be overthinking literally

1238
01:06:51,000 --> 01:06:53,840
Speaker 1: every move, like things that other people aren't even gonna notice.

1239
01:06:54,120 --> 01:06:55,920
Speaker 1: You're gonna like, harp on bute, this is what I

1240
01:06:55,960 --> 01:06:57,439
Speaker 1: want to get in. Are you guys saying this because

1241
01:06:57,440 --> 01:06:59,760
Speaker 1: you're my friends and my family and people that love me?

1242
01:06:59,800 --> 01:07:02,240
Speaker 1: Are you just saying this to be nice? Or you

1243
01:07:02,280 --> 01:07:04,360
Speaker 1: know you got abby over here that was there and

1244
01:07:04,440 --> 01:07:07,480
Speaker 1: the studio there, And did you think that I've sounded

1245
01:07:07,480 --> 01:07:11,480
Speaker 1: weird or like timid or shy? No, I mean it

1246
01:07:11,560 --> 01:07:13,960
Speaker 1: may have been a little just I think because you

1247
01:07:14,040 --> 01:07:16,960
Speaker 1: probably couldn't hear timid like or maybe a little Yeah,

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01:07:17,040 --> 01:07:20,360
Speaker 1: it wasn't really like you as much, but it wasn't

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01:07:20,400 --> 01:07:23,840
Speaker 1: a voiterous personality, but that doesn't mean that it's not bad. Yeah,

1250
01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:25,680
Speaker 1: so you felt like I was just like just it

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01:07:25,800 --> 01:07:28,040
Speaker 1: still sounded good. Yeah, it still sounds good. But I

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01:07:28,040 --> 01:07:30,320
Speaker 1: was just a little more timid because you're not shy

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01:07:30,360 --> 01:07:33,280
Speaker 1: at all ever since I met you. Really you're word

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01:07:33,440 --> 01:07:37,400
Speaker 1: timid with like subpar performance, and I feel like we

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01:07:37,440 --> 01:07:40,840
Speaker 1: need to like disassociate those. Okay, just because you were

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01:07:40,840 --> 01:07:43,840
Speaker 1: timid doesn't mean that it was bad. Like she was saying, like, Okay,

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01:07:43,840 --> 01:07:48,360
Speaker 1: you might not have been. I was gonna say obnoxious jock,

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01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:50,480
Speaker 1: but I feel like that's also not nice. But I

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01:07:50,480 --> 01:07:52,400
Speaker 1: feel like you're being too hard on yourself. No, I

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01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:54,200
Speaker 1: thought it was great. I really did. I was there.

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01:07:54,200 --> 01:07:56,640
Speaker 1: I thought it was great. This was a test or Abbey.

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01:07:56,680 --> 01:07:59,400
Speaker 1: I'm I feel like she was, I think trying to

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01:07:59,480 --> 01:08:04,120
Speaker 1: be honest, being honest, and even if you're less I

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01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:05,880
Speaker 1: don't know what you're trying to even say like low,

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01:08:06,040 --> 01:08:08,520
Speaker 1: that doesn't mean that your voice quality was worse. I

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01:08:08,520 --> 01:08:11,080
Speaker 1: guess that's true. Yeah, you're being like way too harsh

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01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:12,600
Speaker 1: on yourself right now. So it was just a little

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01:08:12,720 --> 01:08:16,360
Speaker 1: quieter than because when I was speaking, I was just like, yeah,

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01:08:16,400 --> 01:08:18,320
Speaker 1: you were good. I'm gonna say I mean that studio

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01:08:18,439 --> 01:08:20,320
Speaker 1: is a little intimidating. I'm not gonna lie. All the

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01:08:20,439 --> 01:08:25,000
Speaker 1: lights and everything, it just is. That's true. But this

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01:08:25,120 --> 01:08:30,160
Speaker 1: is there's a trade apparently in the parking lot um,

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01:08:30,200 --> 01:08:34,400
Speaker 1: but this is your home turf. It's different, that's right. That. Yeah,

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01:08:34,560 --> 01:08:37,400
Speaker 1: and I think you wanted you know, you're working with

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01:08:37,479 --> 01:08:40,360
Speaker 1: Bobby now, and I think you wanted like him to

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01:08:40,400 --> 01:08:43,280
Speaker 1: really like it as well. And I hope you put

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01:08:43,360 --> 01:08:45,519
Speaker 1: too much pressure on yourself. Is there kind of in it?

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01:08:45,640 --> 01:08:47,040
Speaker 1: Do you think you got in your head? I think

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01:08:47,920 --> 01:08:50,080
Speaker 1: you can do that. Yeah, yeah, I need to talk.

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01:08:50,200 --> 01:08:53,120
Speaker 1: I'm gonna leave a Boby a message. I'm gonna be like, hey, dude, sorry,

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01:08:53,120 --> 01:08:55,720
Speaker 1: I got in my head and I was timid. I

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01:08:55,760 --> 01:08:58,760
Speaker 1: should do that. Why not? I should ask him? I

1283
01:08:58,760 --> 01:09:01,080
Speaker 1: should ask you, said, hey, do you think that I

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01:09:01,120 --> 01:09:03,280
Speaker 1: will be honest and report back? Well, we're going to

1285
01:09:03,320 --> 01:09:04,880
Speaker 1: say if you need an honest opinion, I feel like

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01:09:04,880 --> 01:09:07,040
Speaker 1: Bobby will give it to you. Yeah, well Amy did.

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01:09:07,120 --> 01:09:10,800
Speaker 1: Actually she would kept singing the song. Yeah, she didn't

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01:09:10,800 --> 01:09:13,280
Speaker 1: like to a lot. I also go into it. We

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01:09:13,320 --> 01:09:17,760
Speaker 1: need to remind ourselves that timid Chuck is on the

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01:09:17,880 --> 01:09:22,439
Speaker 1: same level as average humans, normal people. I mean, yeah,

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01:09:22,479 --> 01:09:24,479
Speaker 1: you might have been timid, but like you're still movin

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01:09:24,600 --> 01:09:27,680
Speaker 1: at a really great pace, right, I think you're overthinking it.

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01:09:27,760 --> 01:09:30,639
Speaker 1: Do you remember when I did so I speak at

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01:09:30,720 --> 01:09:33,160
Speaker 1: different things if I'm asked too. And there was this

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01:09:33,200 --> 01:09:37,960
Speaker 1: one event for Rodan and Fields yea, and I it

1296
01:09:38,040 --> 01:09:40,599
Speaker 1: was just me, okay, that was when I first met you,

1297
01:09:41,040 --> 01:09:43,200
Speaker 1: or like at the beginning of me knowing who you. Yes,

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01:09:43,320 --> 01:09:47,519
Speaker 1: I had to do a ten minute monologue, okay, of

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01:09:47,600 --> 01:09:49,760
Speaker 1: my life, how I got started, what I you know,

1300
01:09:49,920 --> 01:09:52,400
Speaker 1: all this stuff. And it was basically to talk to

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01:09:52,439 --> 01:09:55,120
Speaker 1: all these people for Rodan and Fields to inspire them

1302
01:09:55,520 --> 01:09:58,200
Speaker 1: to keep going, go after it, because I follow your dreams,

1303
01:09:58,240 --> 01:10:00,800
Speaker 1: follow your dreams, because the journey of my mu you know,

1304
01:10:00,920 --> 01:10:03,800
Speaker 1: and overcome breaking my neck, all these all these things, right,

1305
01:10:04,760 --> 01:10:08,400
Speaker 1: I was so I was nervous of that, but I

1306
01:10:08,439 --> 01:10:11,840
Speaker 1: did the whole um I had time to like get

1307
01:10:11,840 --> 01:10:14,920
Speaker 1: ready more for like a performance yourself. I did the

1308
01:10:14,960 --> 01:10:16,679
Speaker 1: whole like breathe through the nose, out through the mouth,

1309
01:10:19,520 --> 01:10:21,280
Speaker 1: and I kept doing it and I kept doing it,

1310
01:10:21,280 --> 01:10:24,240
Speaker 1: and I didn't realize that to me had to be

1311
01:10:24,280 --> 01:10:26,680
Speaker 1: so nerve racking. I don't know how he did, Like

1312
01:10:26,760 --> 01:10:29,040
Speaker 1: I would never be able to do that, especially because

1313
01:10:29,040 --> 01:10:33,320
Speaker 1: I feel like Rodan in Fields is the most Chuck

1314
01:10:33,400 --> 01:10:36,679
Speaker 1: Wicks market there could ever know. It was twelve thousand

1315
01:10:36,720 --> 01:10:42,040
Speaker 1: women and everything about you. They knew every song you've

1316
01:10:42,080 --> 01:10:45,840
Speaker 1: ever sang. They knew probably way too much at twelve

1317
01:10:45,840 --> 01:10:51,160
Speaker 1: thousand Instagram follows after that, Debbie from Des Moines, Hey, Chuck,

1318
01:10:52,840 --> 01:10:57,760
Speaker 1: Actually they did. They're like, thanks deb But to keep

1319
01:10:57,760 --> 01:11:00,240
Speaker 1: it real, all those dms like that, I was. I

1320
01:11:00,439 --> 01:11:05,559
Speaker 1: was sharing with Cassie. I was. He guys probably applauded

1321
01:11:05,600 --> 01:11:07,600
Speaker 1: them together. I mean, all right, listen, my wife is

1322
01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:12,720
Speaker 1: very pregnant and she's tired, and little Avery, who's nine

1323
01:11:12,760 --> 01:11:14,599
Speaker 1: years old, is sleeping in the other room right now.

1324
01:11:14,760 --> 01:11:20,080
Speaker 1: She done Ben like a model. By the way, um,

1325
01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:22,479
Speaker 1: are the in law still here listening to this? I

1326
01:11:22,479 --> 01:11:25,320
Speaker 1: think they're in there. They are in here? Oh okay,

1327
01:11:25,520 --> 01:11:28,599
Speaker 1: since are they watching? Since Barry and Vivian Now Barry

1328
01:11:28,600 --> 01:11:32,280
Speaker 1: Williams also was you know, Jason Aldi and Dad and

1329
01:11:32,560 --> 01:11:36,800
Speaker 1: he was on tour with him. He is like that.

1330
01:11:37,000 --> 01:11:40,679
Speaker 1: I mean he was also on tour with him in beginning. Well,

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01:11:40,720 --> 01:11:43,280
Speaker 1: I wouldn't call it tour. I would call it more

1332
01:11:43,320 --> 01:11:46,519
Speaker 1: like clubs. He was clubbing it. He was clubbing it

1333
01:11:46,560 --> 01:11:48,519
Speaker 1: when he was sneaking Cassie in the back door. Hey,

1334
01:11:48,560 --> 01:11:50,959
Speaker 1: so all these T shirts, girl, I can only imagine.

1335
01:11:51,120 --> 01:11:53,559
Speaker 1: You know, Avery's only nine. Listen, look how it worked out.

1336
01:11:53,600 --> 01:11:56,400
Speaker 1: I was nine when he started, probably nine or two,

1337
01:11:56,680 --> 01:12:01,080
Speaker 1: because Jason would do um like competition. It's like talent

1338
01:12:01,120 --> 01:12:04,200
Speaker 1: competitions at bars. Though. But right, so I was at

1339
01:12:04,200 --> 01:12:06,360
Speaker 1: those Wait, so then, how much older is Jason? Then?

1340
01:12:06,479 --> 01:12:09,200
Speaker 1: To you, he's seven years older? Oh, seven years. I

1341
01:12:09,240 --> 01:12:10,760
Speaker 1: didn't realize it was that big of an age gap.

1342
01:12:11,200 --> 01:12:14,719
Speaker 1: I thought you were and we're five years apart. Six

1343
01:12:15,560 --> 01:12:19,160
Speaker 1: you create a five year five years yeah, perfect, perfect

1344
01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:24,120
Speaker 1: age difference, same same what just looking for a man

1345
01:12:24,200 --> 01:12:30,719
Speaker 1: five years old? There's something I wanted to talk about

1346
01:12:30,760 --> 01:12:35,799
Speaker 1: this because your dad, I love your dad. And see

1347
01:12:35,840 --> 01:12:39,519
Speaker 1: Barry Williams will come over and Vivian, they'll come over,

1348
01:12:39,640 --> 01:12:43,400
Speaker 1: and they'll come over unannounced. Okay, we have a as

1349
01:12:43,439 --> 01:12:45,840
Speaker 1: in laws do, and we love it, we love it.

1350
01:12:46,360 --> 01:12:48,719
Speaker 1: But they come over un announced and I always say, well,

1351
01:12:48,479 --> 01:12:51,759
Speaker 1: I just put the pants on. I always mess with them,

1352
01:12:51,800 --> 01:12:53,920
Speaker 1: but he always comes over and they'll do yard work

1353
01:12:53,960 --> 01:12:56,320
Speaker 1: and they'll help us around the house, and I mean

1354
01:12:56,520 --> 01:13:01,559
Speaker 1: they're they're the best. And when it comes to lawnmowing, okay,

1355
01:13:01,640 --> 01:13:04,080
Speaker 1: you know where I'm going. When it comes to lawn mowing,

1356
01:13:04,880 --> 01:13:09,320
Speaker 1: Barry Williams will always say, hey, man, be careful in

1357
01:13:09,360 --> 01:13:10,960
Speaker 1: that front area of the yard. There's a lot of

1358
01:13:11,040 --> 01:13:12,880
Speaker 1: rocks here. You don't want to be messing up that mower.

1359
01:13:13,200 --> 01:13:15,240
Speaker 1: You don't want to be messing up that mower. And

1360
01:13:15,320 --> 01:13:18,640
Speaker 1: he'll say this over and over again every time we

1361
01:13:18,760 --> 01:13:20,519
Speaker 1: mow the grass in the summer, and it's once a week.

1362
01:13:20,560 --> 01:13:22,559
Speaker 1: We got a big, big yard, a lot of grass

1363
01:13:22,600 --> 01:13:25,720
Speaker 1: to mower, enormous and I mean he I think he

1364
01:13:26,120 --> 01:13:29,080
Speaker 1: loves to do it. He doesn't. He loves no, he

1365
01:13:29,120 --> 01:13:32,360
Speaker 1: does feel I feel like Barrys the type of guy

1366
01:13:32,560 --> 01:13:36,840
Speaker 1: that mowing the lawn genuinely gives him joy. Well, he

1367
01:13:37,240 --> 01:13:39,920
Speaker 1: loves to do it. So we got five minutes and

1368
01:13:39,960 --> 01:13:43,040
Speaker 1: the cameras shut off. But okay, okay, he loves to

1369
01:13:43,080 --> 01:13:46,000
Speaker 1: do it. And we always when he leaves while, I

1370
01:13:46,000 --> 01:13:47,680
Speaker 1: will go, hey, your dad told me to watch out

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01:13:47,720 --> 01:13:49,920
Speaker 1: for them rocks again, and we always just kuy have

1372
01:13:50,000 --> 01:13:53,000
Speaker 1: these inside jokes. Well, the one of the best phone

1373
01:13:53,040 --> 01:13:57,880
Speaker 1: calls happened today. Barry Williams calls me, and this is

1374
01:13:57,880 --> 01:14:00,640
Speaker 1: the guy that always warns me about the mower. Mmmm.

1375
01:14:00,800 --> 01:14:02,519
Speaker 1: He goes, Hey, man, when you come back to the house.

1376
01:14:03,439 --> 01:14:06,639
Speaker 1: I go, Man, I'm I'm pretty busy all day. I'm

1377
01:14:06,680 --> 01:14:10,599
Speaker 1: not gonna be back to about three thirty four. All right, well,

1378
01:14:10,600 --> 01:14:14,439
Speaker 1: I got the mower stuck in the front yard. It's like, yes,

1379
01:14:16,160 --> 01:14:19,240
Speaker 1: talk to yourself, Barry. Do you not watch out for

1380
01:14:19,320 --> 01:14:22,880
Speaker 1: the rocks now? Every time we move the lawn. I

1381
01:14:22,920 --> 01:14:25,920
Speaker 1: can't wait. I'm gonna say, hey, Barry, Barry whose rocks,

1382
01:14:25,960 --> 01:14:27,759
Speaker 1: watch them rocks up in the front and make sure

1383
01:14:27,760 --> 01:14:30,080
Speaker 1: on the in the front party don't get it stuck. Okay,

1384
01:14:30,600 --> 01:14:32,120
Speaker 1: all right, we got we got a couple of minutes.

1385
01:14:32,160 --> 01:14:33,960
Speaker 1: We're gonna end it because I am going to be

1386
01:14:33,960 --> 01:14:37,920
Speaker 1: a father to your child, Gassie. Right, we're gonna end on.

1387
01:14:38,520 --> 01:14:40,920
Speaker 1: Did you want to talk about anything? You're good. God,

1388
01:14:41,040 --> 01:14:42,960
Speaker 1: she's so tired. She's just like I've been trying to

1389
01:14:42,960 --> 01:14:44,880
Speaker 1: go to sleep for at least thirty minutes. All right,

1390
01:14:44,920 --> 01:14:46,720
Speaker 1: we're gonna end with dad joke, y'all gotta laugh for

1391
01:14:46,800 --> 01:14:48,200
Speaker 1: it doesn't end. And you got to hurry up because

1392
01:14:48,200 --> 01:14:50,400
Speaker 1: we're gonna run out a camera foot at year. All right.

1393
01:14:50,560 --> 01:14:55,240
Speaker 1: Why did the sharks get married? I don't know, they

1394
01:14:55,280 --> 01:15:00,240
Speaker 1: wanted to make it. Oh fish all I'm I'm not

1395
01:15:00,280 --> 01:15:02,160
Speaker 1: good at this because I left at every pun. I

1396
01:15:02,200 --> 01:15:06,519
Speaker 1: think I got two out of three. We need three

1397
01:15:06,520 --> 01:15:10,000
Speaker 1: out of three. All right? Um, why did the woman

1398
01:15:10,040 --> 01:15:16,439
Speaker 1: fall into a well in broad daylight? She didn't see that? Well? Yeah,

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01:15:19,760 --> 01:15:22,439
Speaker 1: that was good, that was fantastic. I don't approve read

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Speaker 1: this stuffs and that was Adrian Cole's books, World of

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01:15:27,160 --> 01:15:30,439
Speaker 1: Greatest Dad jokes. Um, I don't know why I'm plugging

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01:15:30,479 --> 01:15:31,880
Speaker 1: this book. I just love the guy. I love the book.

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01:15:32,880 --> 01:15:36,000
Speaker 1: Search talk to Chuck on wherever you get your podcast,

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Speaker 1: Write a review, yes, write a review. It all matters,

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Speaker 1: really does best guest we'll ever have guys O Cassie Wicks.

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Speaker 1: She was so mad. I mean we are beautiful and

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Speaker 1: best hair as well. I'll say this to one guest,

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01:15:56,040 --> 01:15:59,160
Speaker 1: one guest only, I love you. I love you too,

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Speaker 1: and we all throw up love country and talk to

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