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Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Fully Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio

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Speaker 1: and the Black effects.

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Speaker 2: Man. Just like that, we back on the air.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to yet another carefully reckless episode with Sugarl

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Speaker 1: just hilarious.

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Speaker 2: Listen, y'all, it's been a lot going on.

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Speaker 1: For those who don't know, I actually had the pleasure

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Speaker 1: of hosting Jocelyn's Cabot season four reunion.

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Speaker 2: Y'all, y'all gotta get into it.

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Speaker 1: Make sure if y'all don't got zoos, make sure y'all download.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sure, I have to pay a prescription. It's like

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Speaker 2: a subscription.

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Speaker 1: Make sure y'all paid a subscription. Gonna watch y'all, good

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Speaker 1: old Sis host that reunion. It's something I've never ever

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Speaker 1: done before. Now that this is the show where they

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Speaker 1: be fighting, but it ain't like batties where you gotta

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Speaker 1: fight to be on it. It's actually some good, enlightening

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Speaker 1: shit like I'm proud of Joscelyn. I can't wait for

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Speaker 1: y'all to see because it's one thing that you would

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Speaker 1: expect about Jocelyn is to always see her beat the

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Speaker 1: shit off of mine, and she actually shocked the fuck

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Speaker 1: out of me. So I need y'all to go ahead

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Speaker 1: and watch souone into that. That will be coming very soon, y'all,

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Speaker 1: but we're gonna jump right into fixing the mess now.

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Speaker 1: This is the lady from a few episodes back that

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Speaker 1: she called herself checking me, you know, because I didn't

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Speaker 1: know the laws and I guess the rights of bisexual

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Speaker 1: women per se, so she called herself checking me. I

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Speaker 1: did tell her that I knew everything that she was

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Speaker 1: telling me, and that that still didn't change what I

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Speaker 1: thought or what I said to the woman that I

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Speaker 1: was giving the advice to. And this is what she

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Speaker 1: has said back, because this was the woman that told

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Speaker 1: me that she didn't even finish the whole episode because

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Speaker 1: I basically I she didn't say I disgusted her, but

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Speaker 1: she got upset so she couldn't even finish it. So

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Speaker 1: how the fuck are you gonna come at me? You

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Speaker 1: didn't even finish the fucking episode. But this is what

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Speaker 1: she said.

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Speaker 2: I haven't listened to it. This is my first time.

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Speaker 1: I'm listening to it, just like it'll be y'all first time.

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Speaker 1: So here we go, Jess. I hope your day has

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Speaker 1: gone well.

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Speaker 3: Yes, ma'am, I'm just hitting you up today just for

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Speaker 3: two reasons. Firstly, to thank you for listening to my

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Speaker 3: last messages to you and responding to them, responding to

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Speaker 3: me directly and using it and the fix my mess

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Speaker 3: for last week. It was very enlightening to be able

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Speaker 3: to hear that. I didn't even know you would use it.

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Speaker 3: So I just wanted to thank you once again just

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Speaker 3: for taking the time well yeah, your day, to even respond,

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Speaker 3: you know, and get back with me on that about

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Speaker 3: how I was feeling about that particular topic. So I

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Speaker 3: thank you so much for that first off. And then

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Speaker 3: also you told me not to contact you again. But

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Speaker 3: I'm just honestly quite glad that you didn't lock me,

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Speaker 3: which I expected, just so that I could have this

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Speaker 3: opportunity to reach back out to you, and thank you

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Speaker 3: once again for listening.

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Speaker 4: I also want to.

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna block you, girl. No, I ain't say

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Speaker 1: I was gonna block you. I did tell you I

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Speaker 1: don't reach back out to me, now, y'all. I did

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Speaker 1: say that, now that there is audio of me saying that.

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Speaker 1: But I was just so upset because I'm like, damn,

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Speaker 1: how you gonna come at me hear?

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Speaker 2: And you finished listening to what I said, I don't

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Speaker 2: give biased advice.

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Speaker 1: If I and if I feel like I don't know

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Speaker 1: do is stick my foot of my mouth.

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Speaker 2: Because I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know the ins and outs of everything that

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Speaker 1: I'm asked, You know what I mean. But I only

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Speaker 1: give advice on my own experience and my own wisdom,

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Speaker 2: So if it's anything I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I will gladly tell you I can't help you, or

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Speaker 1: to put your business out there if I can't advise you.

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Speaker 2: So, yeah, this is also what she said.

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Speaker 3: I also want to issue a formal apology to you

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Speaker 3: for offending you.

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Speaker 2: And I can't.

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Speaker 3: Clearly tell by your response to me directly and when

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Speaker 4: To someone else.

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Speaker 3: And I also want to thank you for mirroring back

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Speaker 3: to me how important word choice is when you're trying

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Speaker 3: recognize let me using the term check you in the

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Speaker 3: beginning of the conversation. Yeah, definitely put everything in a

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Speaker 3: more negative light and put you on the defense, rightfully,

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Speaker 3: So just a little bit, just a little bit, I

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Speaker 3: feel like I definitely could have used the better term,

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Speaker 3: because when I use the word check, I didn't mean

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Speaker 3: that as in correction. I definitely did mean it as

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Speaker 1: Yes, ma'am, see this is what grown women can do.

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Speaker 1: I love this, Thank you girl, what I've seen done. Okay,

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Speaker 1: one of her voice notes are not playing, but actually

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Speaker 1: listen to all of it.

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Speaker 3: It was about thirty four minutes, I believe, and stop

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Speaker 3: when there was just not minutes left. So when I

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Speaker 3: the rest of it, I went ahead and went back

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Speaker 3: to it, and you know, it picked right.

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Speaker 4: Back up where it was, and I realized, you know,

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Speaker 4: it was just nine minutes left.

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Speaker 3: So the last part of what I heard was just you,

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Speaker 3: you know, giving her more advice.

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Speaker 4: Then you did the you know in your pam voice piece.

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Speaker 3: The next set of advertisements came on, and then that

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Speaker 3: was the end of it. So I actually did get

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Speaker 4: So my apologies for misquoting that as well.

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Speaker 3: I actually had listened to the majority of it before

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Speaker 3: I would had applied excuse me, replied, So I can

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Speaker 3: hopeordily understand how you thinking I only meant because of

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Speaker 3: my misspeaking, You thinking that I had only listened to

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Speaker 2: Right there, right there you go with the jail right there,

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Speaker 2: and then.

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Speaker 4: To answer your question.

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Speaker 3: So you asked when what I mentioned being triggered, Let

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Speaker 3: me also explain what I meant by that. I did

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Speaker 3: not mean about that specific situation.

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Speaker 4: I meant in more general terms.

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Speaker 3: It just seems like in society today, in past and present,

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Speaker 3: and I know you see it. You see every day

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Speaker 3: in social media, the different posts they come about, different

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Speaker 3: podcast conversations between opposite sexes. It just seems like women

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Speaker 3: can never do right. You know what I'm saying, And

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Speaker 3: that's what I was triggered by not by this particular situation,

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Speaker 3: just those double standards and how us women have to

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Speaker 1: You know, I wonder why all her voice notes are

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Speaker 1: not playing our sisters frustrating me because she heard.

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Speaker 2: Some good things to say.

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Speaker 4: So that's basically it.

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Speaker 3: I mean, there were some other things that you mentioned,

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Speaker 3: but you did mention that you did not want to

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Speaker 3: let those things go by the wayside. We can agree

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Speaker 3: to disagree on this particular topic, but please know that

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Speaker 3: it's not going to stop me from listening to your

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Speaker 3: fix my message. I still love them, I still love

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Speaker 3: you and thank you for everything that you do. And

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Speaker 3: please know I was not at all offended by anything

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Speaker 3: that you said or anything thank you, she said in

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Speaker 3: response to me, at all, not at all, thank you.

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Speaker 4: I like to debate.

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Speaker 3: I've been on the debate team in schools and things

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Speaker 3: like that, so that conversation, even though we weren't talking

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Speaker 3: that what was going on, and that feeds me, so.

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Speaker 4: I wholeheartedly appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: Never took offense to anything, and I still love you,

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Speaker 3: just the same, just the same. Last I want to

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Speaker 4: The last thing I want to say is you may

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Speaker 4: not be aware, but.

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Speaker 3: I'm sure you can see my picture when I write you,

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Speaker 3: I do look very youthful, so I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Yes you do.

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Speaker 4: Responding to me as baby girl is meant in.

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Speaker 2: A oh no no.

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Speaker 3: But I'm actually a few years older than you, so

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Speaker 3: I just wanted to point that out.

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Speaker 4: That's it.

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Speaker 3: But once again, Jess, you are awesome. Keep doing what

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Speaker 3: you do, my sister. You are a voice for the people.

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Speaker 3: I love your platform. I will continue to listen, and

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Speaker 3: I hope you have a beautiful, blessed day.

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Speaker 2: Love. But bye, Hey mss ma'am.

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, no, no, I literally call if

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Speaker 5: you listen all the time like you say you do,

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Speaker 5: I say baby, I call a lot of my women

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Speaker 5: baby girl, just because I don't know the ages that

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Speaker 5: you women are. Yes, you do look a lot youthful.

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Speaker 5: You look you look very very youthful, and you're a

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Speaker 5: photo very nice and curvy too. But yeah, you know,

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Speaker 5: you know, little petite, slim little thing, But yeah, you

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Speaker 5: I call you baby girl.

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Speaker 2: Not to be smart. I ain't one of those that

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Speaker 2: be a baby girl, a sweetie. Uh yea. No, not

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Speaker 2: to be smart. No, I'm not. I literally wasn't. I

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Speaker 1: Thank you, and I appreciate you being vulnerable enough to

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Speaker 1: actually reach back out after me saying don't be you know,

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Speaker 1: don't reach back out to me and all of that.

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Speaker 1: I was just very upset because I was like, no,

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Speaker 1: she did not call herself checking me. Yes, it does

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Speaker 1: put a negative connosation on things when you say things,

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Speaker 1: so I'm checking you.

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: Just these days, wordplace, so it can mean so many

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Speaker 1: different things. If you're not directly talking to a person

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Speaker 1: one on one, anything can get misconstrued or misin turn,

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Speaker 1: bitter or anything.

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Speaker 2: When you're sending voice notes or when you're sending.

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Speaker 1: Text messages, like if you're not in the same like

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Speaker 1: she can kind of get lost in translation. You know,

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Speaker 1: people can assume things. I'm so happy that you were

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Speaker 1: not offended by anything I said. I'm so happy that

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Speaker 1: you did hit me back. Guys, I did send her

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Speaker 1: a message that I did not preview you guys too,

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Speaker 1: because I felt like that was for me and her

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Speaker 1: and not for you guys. Basically, just you know, telling

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Speaker 1: I told her I can't support her nor attend the wedding.

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Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying, and what you believe in.

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Speaker 1: To be honest, I would object.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna be one of them to object. I Am

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Speaker 1: She may not say it like that shit. It ain't

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Speaker 2: I don't think that she's ready. I do not think

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Speaker 1: Sorry if she choose to be like, I don't know

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Speaker 1: So niggas, no niggas, could just try to stop the shit,

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Speaker 2: Period.

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Speaker 1: Now, I know a lot of my listeners are gonna

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Speaker 2: And da da da da da da da, and said, listen,

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Speaker 1: Absolutely understand as a best friend the position that you're

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Speaker 1: Like that I just gave you what I would do,

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Speaker 2: I know the wedding is.

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Speaker 1: Already probably paid for. She wants to have a cake

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Speaker 1: You don't like certain shit, you don't stand for certain shit.

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Speaker 1: to lose a friend for a little while, I say, shit,

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Speaker 1: But definitely tell her how the fuck you feel. You

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Speaker 5: How the fuck would that be a red flag? To

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Speaker 2: Best friend fell out.

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Speaker 5: Has your best friend ever come close to her husband

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Speaker 1: Like does she have an go on a side or

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Speaker 1: You know, you brought this shit up to her obviously,

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Speaker 5: You need to know. You want to know what you

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Speaker 2: Think you should do. Baby.

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Speaker 1: Just be honest and just get back Timmy. Tell me

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Speaker 1: they say, oh, if anybody objects, I can say object

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Speaker 1: because I know that she cheating on this man and

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Speaker 1: I don't want him to find out later.

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Speaker 2: So better now or whatever?

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Speaker 1: Does anybody else want to get married? So these people

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Speaker 1: money don't go to waste on these decorations. And then

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Speaker 1: we'll see how that go. But just let me know,

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Speaker 1: baby girl. And just like that, we have done this episode.

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Speaker 1: We've come to the end of yet another carefully reckless

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Speaker 1: with your girl.

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Speaker 2: Just hilarious. And what I be doing, I'll be fixing

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Speaker 2: mess Like how I be doing.

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Speaker 1: So if you got messed that you want me to fix,

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Speaker 1: whether you want me to fix it on Carefully Reckless,

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Speaker 1: on a Black Effect, shout out to I Heart or

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Speaker 1: on Breakfast Club, make sure you hit me up in

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Speaker 1: the Carefully Reckless podcast DM sending me a story now.

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Speaker 1: You can send it via voice note, or you can

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Speaker 1: type a long gas paragraph, but make sure you do

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Speaker 1: punctuations correct, because if it's a long run on sentence,

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna read it. I'm getting tired of trying

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Speaker 1: to fix you all broken english and shit broken literature.

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Speaker 1: I don't want my nigga to know my voice. Well,

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Speaker 1: bitch you need to go take a punctuation class. You

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Speaker 1: need to go take an English class over and figure

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Speaker 1: out how to fucking write. If I got to read it,

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Speaker 1: your mess ain't gonna never get fixed. All right, it

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Speaker 1: is what it is, and in my deepest pan voice.

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Speaker 6: See you next week.

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Speaker 5: Can't.

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Speaker 1: Fully Reckless is a production of iHeartRadio and The Black Effect.

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Speaker 1: For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts,

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