1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:03,159 Speaker 1: Welcome to Can't Flee Reckless, the production of iHeart Radio 2 00:00:03,279 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: and the Black Effects, And just like that, we're back 3 00:00:16,079 --> 00:00:18,920 Speaker 1: with yet another Can'tfully Reckless episode with your girl Jess Larious. 4 00:00:18,960 --> 00:00:20,959 Speaker 2: So this episode is gonna be different. I'm here with 5 00:00:21,200 --> 00:00:21,960 Speaker 2: my best friend. 6 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:25,279 Speaker 1: Okay, definitely was about to let y'all fucking know, but 7 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:30,280 Speaker 1: since y'all know strangers to this man, so y'all already know. Okay, 8 00:00:30,840 --> 00:00:34,360 Speaker 1: we're not gonna do fixing the mask and all that 9 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 1: because she don't know what she'd be talking about. And 10 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:37,800 Speaker 1: I don't want y'all to stop sending me y'all stories 11 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:39,800 Speaker 1: because I got a clown up here trying to help 12 00:00:39,840 --> 00:00:40,680 Speaker 1: me give y'all. 13 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 3: The best advice around here. You're telling them things that 14 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:46,640 Speaker 3: they shouldn't do, that they. 15 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:49,000 Speaker 2: Should baby, please all right? 16 00:00:49,240 --> 00:00:52,960 Speaker 3: Sound, So we're gonna discuss previous topics that we had 17 00:00:53,040 --> 00:00:58,120 Speaker 3: up at the Breakfast Club because I want my listener's opinions, 18 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 3: I want my best friends, you know whatever. 19 00:01:01,080 --> 00:01:04,040 Speaker 2: So in a more recent episode of Breakfast Club, I 20 00:01:04,120 --> 00:01:05,000 Speaker 2: was intrigued. 21 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:06,560 Speaker 1: By this rabbit hole I went down and then if 22 00:01:06,600 --> 00:01:08,440 Speaker 1: y'all know me, y'all know I love Saucy Saint Tanna, 23 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,040 Speaker 1: I love him, And I was looking at one of 24 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:13,199 Speaker 1: his lives that he had did with Creshia a couple 25 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:15,200 Speaker 1: months ago. Well you know, must beg and he was 26 00:01:15,240 --> 00:01:20,800 Speaker 1: saying that at a certain age he is going to 27 00:01:20,880 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 1: want kids, you know, and go get a wife. Now, 28 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:26,880 Speaker 1: I don't know, we know the personality that Saucy saying, 29 00:01:26,920 --> 00:01:31,080 Speaker 1: Santa Hos, He's he's playful. He you know, he always 30 00:01:31,160 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 1: looking to laugh and make somebody laugh, you know. So 31 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:35,960 Speaker 1: I don't know if he was joking about this, but 32 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:38,560 Speaker 1: we also know that he don't be lying. You know, 33 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:41,240 Speaker 1: we know he played, but he don't lie. And you know, 34 00:01:41,280 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 1: he don't say things that he gonna want have to 35 00:01:43,560 --> 00:01:47,280 Speaker 1: regret later, you know. So I honestly felt like it's 36 00:01:47,280 --> 00:01:49,480 Speaker 1: the truth. If it was a joke, it's the truth 37 00:01:49,480 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 1: in every joke. And I feel like, you know, maybe 38 00:01:52,400 --> 00:01:54,960 Speaker 1: still just want kids. And you know, I'm not gonna 39 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: say the white part, but I think maybe he does 40 00:01:57,440 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 1: still want kids somewhere down the line, wants to be 41 00:02:00,560 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: able to have his children with a woman. You know 42 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: what I'm saying, like, not not be with her, like, 43 00:02:06,960 --> 00:02:11,160 Speaker 1: but definitely yeah, you know what I'm saying, Like I 44 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 1: I feel like and it's to his own prerogative. 45 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:15,480 Speaker 2: If that's what he wants to do, that's what he 46 00:02:15,520 --> 00:02:15,880 Speaker 2: wants to do. 47 00:02:15,919 --> 00:02:18,120 Speaker 1: But he said that on Live and I want my 48 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:21,920 Speaker 1: best friend who's also gay. So she says, to let 49 00:02:21,919 --> 00:02:24,040 Speaker 1: me know what she thinks about. 50 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:25,600 Speaker 3: That, Like, what you mean when I think about it? 51 00:02:25,600 --> 00:02:27,320 Speaker 3: Take about what do you think about it? What I 52 00:02:27,400 --> 00:02:29,359 Speaker 3: just said this is maybe I want to listen to 53 00:02:29,440 --> 00:02:33,840 Speaker 3: with you, right, So now moving on so next topic. 54 00:02:34,680 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 2: Uh so, also, yeah, what the fuck do you think 55 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:41,080 Speaker 2: about it? Because we can keep on board? 56 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 3: So awesome. You know, I'm saying, like, all right, what 57 00:02:45,160 --> 00:02:48,240 Speaker 3: you mean? But I think, like, that's his that's his ship. 58 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:50,200 Speaker 3: If that's what you want to do, you're gonna do it, right. 59 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:53,320 Speaker 3: M You're a man. You do what you want to do. 60 00:02:53,880 --> 00:03:00,520 Speaker 3: You grown, I'm talking about you. Damn what else? Right? 61 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:02,600 Speaker 3: You know, if you want to put a baby up 62 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:03,960 Speaker 3: in somebody, you're gonna do it right. 63 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:04,519 Speaker 2: Right. 64 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:07,120 Speaker 1: I'm not saying I disagree with it, but it was 65 00:03:07,160 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 1: a topic that we had on Breakfast Club and some 66 00:03:09,880 --> 00:03:12,560 Speaker 1: people had called up and they were saying, like, well, 67 00:03:13,200 --> 00:03:15,480 Speaker 1: they think that he was making like a mockery of 68 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 1: gay people, that he was saying like they're what he 69 00:03:18,800 --> 00:03:21,640 Speaker 1: was saying and how he feels was proving the wrong 70 00:03:21,760 --> 00:03:24,400 Speaker 1: side right, And I'm just feeling like, nah, they were 71 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:27,000 Speaker 1: looking at it a different way. I'm not even gonna 72 00:03:27,000 --> 00:03:28,480 Speaker 1: say they were looking at it the wrong way. I 73 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:33,040 Speaker 1: just don't think Saucy Santana has in his mind. Yeah, no, 74 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:34,960 Speaker 1: he don't have it in his mind to give a 75 00:03:34,960 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 1: fuck about what somebody think about. 76 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:37,600 Speaker 2: How he feel. 77 00:03:37,920 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 3: But that's the thing. Everybody feel differently about different things. 78 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 3: So I hate people try to know you don't have 79 00:03:44,600 --> 00:03:47,240 Speaker 3: to think the same way someone else. If he want 80 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:50,080 Speaker 3: to go and change his mind, but I know, well, 81 00:03:51,360 --> 00:03:52,160 Speaker 3: it's his decision. 82 00:03:52,360 --> 00:03:55,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's decision, because I'll piggy back off of what 83 00:03:55,680 --> 00:03:57,200 Speaker 1: you said, Like, if you want to change your mind 84 00:03:57,240 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: and listen, that don't have nothing to do with you 85 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: being gay. You could be street gay, bisexual, trans, whatever. 86 00:04:02,920 --> 00:04:06,840 Speaker 1: People changed their minds about the way they live, the 87 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:08,800 Speaker 1: way they move, the way you know, anything. And then 88 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:11,840 Speaker 1: sometimes you don't even change, You just evolve and you grow. 89 00:04:12,280 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 1: And you know, sometimes we had a caller to call 90 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:18,520 Speaker 1: up and they said when he grows up, and you know, 91 00:04:19,440 --> 00:04:22,280 Speaker 1: they agreed with him, and because they were like because 92 00:04:22,279 --> 00:04:23,240 Speaker 1: the guy said the same thing. 93 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:25,600 Speaker 2: He was like, well, I think about that a lot 94 00:04:25,640 --> 00:04:26,040 Speaker 2: as well. 95 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 1: Now I'm not gonna say I'm not going to be 96 00:04:28,080 --> 00:04:33,600 Speaker 1: gay anymore, but I don't want a wife and kids 97 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 1: and I do want you know, and the only way 98 00:04:36,560 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: that I would be able to be with a woman 99 00:04:39,160 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: is if she knows everything about me. I'm not going 100 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:44,120 Speaker 1: to hide anything from my past, you know what's going on, 101 00:04:44,600 --> 00:04:45,520 Speaker 1: full transparent. 102 00:04:45,560 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 2: I'm letting you know everything. 103 00:04:47,040 --> 00:04:49,359 Speaker 1: If you're okay and you're willing to accept that, that 104 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 1: is going to be somebody that I could be with. 105 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:53,240 Speaker 1: You know what I mean, and I agree with that 106 00:04:53,279 --> 00:04:56,320 Speaker 1: person is because people can change their minds. 107 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:58,240 Speaker 2: Not change your mind about being gay, but. 108 00:04:58,160 --> 00:05:01,440 Speaker 1: You just grow out of certain things about how you 109 00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:04,039 Speaker 1: want to live your life, which has nothing to do 110 00:05:04,160 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 1: with your sexual preference. 111 00:05:06,160 --> 00:05:07,200 Speaker 2: It's your choice. 112 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:11,200 Speaker 1: So so yeah, and I do want to before we 113 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 1: get off of this topic, I do want to hand 114 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:13,440 Speaker 1: off on this. 115 00:05:14,320 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 2: Stop can about what other people think about you. 116 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:18,440 Speaker 1: You know understand what I'm saying, Like, don't ever give 117 00:05:18,480 --> 00:05:22,000 Speaker 1: somebody else power over you. If you wake up and 118 00:05:22,080 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 1: you want to be gay, if you are born gay, 119 00:05:24,080 --> 00:05:27,680 Speaker 1: where if you are just whatever that's who you are. 120 00:05:28,200 --> 00:05:31,240 Speaker 1: Don't even give though. Yeah, don't even give nobody else 121 00:05:31,279 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: the power. You know what I'm saying, don't don't do that. 122 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:38,040 Speaker 1: Like I remember just recently watching Candice Owens. She was 123 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:40,880 Speaker 1: she was speaking out of college or something like that, 124 00:05:41,240 --> 00:05:44,360 Speaker 1: and you know, a couple of trans students had asked 125 00:05:44,400 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 1: her a question that this one in particular question. It 126 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:52,440 Speaker 1: was mind bottling because she was like, how do you 127 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:56,919 Speaker 1: feel about us feeling victimized by your presence here today? 128 00:05:57,480 --> 00:05:59,520 Speaker 2: Why the hell would you give her that much power? 129 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:03,000 Speaker 1: She could have answered anyway she could, if she would 130 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:06,000 Speaker 1: have said, I don't give a fuck how you feel 131 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: or I feel that y'all ship Nah, you're already giving 132 00:06:11,040 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 1: somebody grounds to ship on you when you ask somebody 133 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:14,640 Speaker 1: how they feel. 134 00:06:15,000 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 2: Nah, don't give nobody. No, you are who the fuck 135 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:19,600 Speaker 2: you are. If you're not fucking confused, you know who 136 00:06:19,600 --> 00:06:21,040 Speaker 2: you are. That's who the fuck you are. You speak 137 00:06:21,080 --> 00:06:21,560 Speaker 2: on how you feel. 138 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:23,680 Speaker 3: You keep it the fuck moving, or you ain't got 139 00:06:23,680 --> 00:06:26,039 Speaker 3: to explain yourself to no fucking body. No. My thing 140 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:28,720 Speaker 3: was when people was asking her what does she think 141 00:06:28,760 --> 00:06:32,599 Speaker 3: about them? I mean yeah, it was like, like, yeah, 142 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 3: why do you care and remember that one, Yeah, why 143 00:06:34,960 --> 00:06:35,640 Speaker 3: do you care? Like? 144 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:38,800 Speaker 1: And then the one the one lady, I mean the 145 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:42,920 Speaker 1: students girl. She was like, she was like, I am 146 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: not confused, So what do you think about that? And 147 00:06:47,880 --> 00:06:51,920 Speaker 1: she said, well, least you know you're not confused, so 148 00:06:52,040 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: that's not really a question. That's a statement. Honey, congratulations, 149 00:06:55,080 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 1: you're not confused? 150 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 2: Like that is it? 151 00:06:58,000 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 3: That is it? 152 00:06:59,520 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 2: Yeah? 153 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,520 Speaker 1: Like they almost didn't have anything to say, so they 154 00:07:02,600 --> 00:07:03,599 Speaker 1: just wanted to say something. 155 00:07:03,640 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 3: First of all, I'm not confused. I never said you 156 00:07:07,560 --> 00:07:11,679 Speaker 3: was like, was like, so, yeah, I just stop giving 157 00:07:11,720 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 3: people power over you. 158 00:07:13,480 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 2: You know what I mean? That's all. 159 00:07:15,080 --> 00:07:17,440 Speaker 1: If you love me, you'll listen to this commercial and 160 00:07:17,480 --> 00:07:18,680 Speaker 1: then we'll be right back. 161 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:21,240 Speaker 2: Next topic. 162 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:24,240 Speaker 1: So on the Breakfast Club a couple of weeks ago, 163 00:07:24,320 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 1: we were discussing people spending the block. Nellie and Ashauncey 164 00:07:28,040 --> 00:07:30,960 Speaker 1: just did that all right now. They was asking me 165 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:33,000 Speaker 1: DJ Andvy and Charlotte made was asking me, have I 166 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:35,120 Speaker 1: ever spent the block and got it right? Or did 167 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:36,680 Speaker 1: I ever spend the block and got it wrong? Or 168 00:07:36,840 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: just my experience with spending the block? And I'm gonna 169 00:07:39,640 --> 00:07:43,960 Speaker 1: tell y'all like I told them, I spent the block twice. 170 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 1: I attempted to spend spend the block with somebody else, 171 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:49,880 Speaker 1: but I spent. I actually did spend the block with 172 00:07:49,960 --> 00:07:52,720 Speaker 1: my son's dad, back when my son was. 173 00:07:52,720 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 2: Very very young. 174 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:56,640 Speaker 1: And Rome couldn't wait forty eight hours a cheat on 175 00:07:56,680 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 1: me again, I said, damn so. And this the crazy 176 00:07:59,600 --> 00:08:02,320 Speaker 1: thing is, I actually didn't want to cheat. 177 00:08:02,440 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 2: I had a boyfriend. 178 00:08:04,360 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 1: I had a good man. I surely did. I had 179 00:08:06,400 --> 00:08:08,480 Speaker 1: a good ass boyfriend. He was very involved with me, 180 00:08:08,680 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: my son, my family was good. I know, he was amazing, right, 181 00:08:12,400 --> 00:08:15,600 Speaker 1: and then me being young, I'm not gonna say dumb 182 00:08:15,640 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: because you know, you're just young. 183 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 3: Grow up. 184 00:08:18,760 --> 00:08:21,200 Speaker 2: I was young, and you just grow up, you know. 185 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:25,800 Speaker 1: And and you're still dumb because you claim you gave 186 00:08:25,840 --> 00:08:27,960 Speaker 1: it on the girls want you so yeah you must. 187 00:08:27,960 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 1: We just go back to bean straight. Yeah, you're still 188 00:08:29,760 --> 00:08:32,560 Speaker 1: dumb things. You're gonna get some pussy. Oh my god, 189 00:08:32,920 --> 00:08:35,400 Speaker 1: sorry guys, yeah, so. 190 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 2: Right, sorry, I don't want to like yeah. 191 00:08:41,840 --> 00:08:53,679 Speaker 3: Saying fuck because anyway, all right, who says she talked 192 00:08:53,679 --> 00:08:56,559 Speaker 3: about us every fucking day? I know I love you? 193 00:08:56,840 --> 00:08:57,240 Speaker 2: All right? 194 00:08:58,160 --> 00:09:01,240 Speaker 1: Spent the black Yeah, he couldn't wait forty hours to 195 00:09:01,320 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 1: cheat on me. 196 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:03,120 Speaker 2: Honey. And the crazy thing. 197 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:04,640 Speaker 1: Is I was with a guy a very Oh no, 198 00:09:04,679 --> 00:09:05,920 Speaker 1: we already we already passed that. 199 00:09:06,040 --> 00:09:07,000 Speaker 2: I was with a good guy. 200 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:08,959 Speaker 1: So I went to the guy. I didn't want to 201 00:09:09,000 --> 00:09:10,760 Speaker 1: cheat on him. I went to him and I said, listen, 202 00:09:11,640 --> 00:09:13,360 Speaker 1: we are fairly new, and. 203 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 3: Before we go any further with this, and you know, 204 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:18,839 Speaker 3: fall for each other even more, I just want to 205 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 3: let you know I want to try it again with 206 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:20,800 Speaker 3: my family. 207 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:25,280 Speaker 1: My son is young, you know, I guess I'm not 208 00:09:25,400 --> 00:09:28,280 Speaker 1: over roam. My son's dead, and I just want to 209 00:09:28,320 --> 00:09:30,880 Speaker 1: try it. He was pissed, but he was an older gentleman. 210 00:09:30,920 --> 00:09:34,480 Speaker 1: He was very understanding. He was upset, though heartbroken, if 211 00:09:34,520 --> 00:09:37,440 Speaker 1: I must say, and didn't he couldn't say anything. He 212 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:39,760 Speaker 1: was like, damn, she being up front with me, all right, cool, 213 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:42,160 Speaker 1: whatever you feel me. He did like doing a little 214 00:09:42,160 --> 00:09:44,240 Speaker 1: begging and pleating, and I was weak, honey, because this 215 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:46,080 Speaker 1: man was fine as fuck, finer than my baby. 216 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:47,240 Speaker 2: Crap. 217 00:09:48,960 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I'm sorry, No, my my baby father cute 218 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:53,400 Speaker 1: the South, yeah, both cute the South. 219 00:09:53,440 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 2: But Audrey was. 220 00:09:54,360 --> 00:09:59,680 Speaker 3: Given oh damn name drop, so I get, I get, 221 00:09:59,760 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 3: I leave him. 222 00:10:00,400 --> 00:10:03,000 Speaker 2: He said, all right, what he I leave him I 223 00:10:03,040 --> 00:10:03,880 Speaker 2: go back laroon. 224 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:06,000 Speaker 1: We go down to the aquarium and take our son 225 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:08,840 Speaker 1: out the next day, and then that night he even 226 00:10:08,920 --> 00:10:11,240 Speaker 1: snuck out to go fuck somebody else. I'm like, damn, 227 00:10:11,240 --> 00:10:15,080 Speaker 1: you couldn't wait two days? God damn you one day, 228 00:10:15,280 --> 00:10:18,840 Speaker 1: not even twenty four hours? This nigga would I listen. 229 00:10:18,960 --> 00:10:22,720 Speaker 1: I broke up with the nigga at nine am. We 230 00:10:22,760 --> 00:10:25,360 Speaker 1: was at the aquarium with our son at twelve noon. 231 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:28,880 Speaker 1: By twelve midnight, that motherfucker was sneaking out the goat 232 00:10:28,960 --> 00:10:33,119 Speaker 1: cheat and I was like, what in the fuck. 233 00:10:33,800 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 2: Are you serious? And guess who we were cheating on 234 00:10:36,480 --> 00:10:36,640 Speaker 2: me with? 235 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 3: Man, that's my father. 236 00:10:44,760 --> 00:10:46,480 Speaker 1: No, he was cheating on me with one of his 237 00:10:46,600 --> 00:10:50,200 Speaker 1: other baby mother's darning ain't well, it was only I 238 00:10:50,280 --> 00:10:52,199 Speaker 1: was the only one at that time, only baby mother 239 00:10:52,200 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 1: at that's time. But the next girl with uh his 240 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:57,520 Speaker 1: next baby's mama. 241 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:01,120 Speaker 2: Yup, yup, yup yup. That was so crazy. 242 00:11:01,520 --> 00:11:03,720 Speaker 3: But you know he's bringing the baby over teat that 243 00:11:04,240 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I remember that ship. 244 00:11:05,840 --> 00:11:10,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, girl, so fucking crazy. So Dad, I said, 245 00:11:10,520 --> 00:11:12,240 Speaker 1: all right, we fucking I'm gonna go get back to 246 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:13,719 Speaker 1: my nigga. You know what I'm saying, I'm gonna go 247 00:11:13,800 --> 00:11:15,319 Speaker 1: try and get my nigga back because I just broke 248 00:11:15,400 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: up with him yesterday morning, so he should still be 249 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:19,560 Speaker 1: feeling said and I and I should go back and 250 00:11:19,600 --> 00:11:22,640 Speaker 1: be like, I'm gonna go back and try This's like, hey, psych, 251 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:24,320 Speaker 1: you know that was a joke. 252 00:11:24,360 --> 00:11:27,560 Speaker 3: It was a complete prank. I'm a comedian, yeah ha Hi, 253 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:29,079 Speaker 3: So yeah, what you think? 254 00:11:29,160 --> 00:11:31,719 Speaker 2: What's up? I'm here that nigga said, bitch, you don't 255 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 2: get the fuck out my face. Bitch, you just no, 256 00:11:33,400 --> 00:11:34,080 Speaker 2: I don't play with me. 257 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:36,280 Speaker 1: No, that's why if you think the grass green on 258 00:11:36,320 --> 00:11:38,599 Speaker 1: the other motherfucker's side, and you already knew you was 259 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 1: getting cheated on anyway, that's how you found me. 260 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:42,559 Speaker 2: And then you're gonna leave me for. 261 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:44,120 Speaker 1: This motherfucker the shit on you were again it and 262 00:11:44,200 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: try to come back baby girl bye. 263 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:50,559 Speaker 2: And I fucked that, man. I fucked to see it 264 00:11:50,559 --> 00:11:56,160 Speaker 2: though I was upset, and I still struggle with forgiving myself. 265 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:02,360 Speaker 3: I was trying to be a family fun and then 266 00:12:02,559 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 3: and this motherfucker Rome just wanted to have his cake 267 00:12:04,840 --> 00:12:05,600 Speaker 3: and eat it too. 268 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 2: You know what I mean. But that's neither here. 269 00:12:07,960 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 3: Then now, this the story is water under the motherfucking 270 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:14,720 Speaker 3: bridge is done because me and Rome are excellent, great 271 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 3: friends now cole parenting is. 272 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:21,400 Speaker 2: All we do and we're more like family. So it 273 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:22,160 Speaker 2: is what it is. 274 00:12:22,200 --> 00:12:26,679 Speaker 3: But have y'all ever spent the goddamn block and it 275 00:12:26,720 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 3: didn't work? 276 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:30,480 Speaker 2: Or it did work? How? How are y'all experiences with 277 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 2: spending the damn block? How is joys? Have you ever 278 00:12:32,480 --> 00:12:33,280 Speaker 2: spent a black lesson? 279 00:12:33,600 --> 00:12:40,200 Speaker 3: Oh, spending the block? Nah? Usually when I'm done, I'm done, 280 00:12:40,320 --> 00:12:43,199 Speaker 3: but I will give a bit of chances. That's yeah, 281 00:12:43,280 --> 00:12:47,480 Speaker 3: I got stopped at No you did, Yeah you really did, 282 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:49,560 Speaker 3: That's what I said. But nah, yeah, I'll be giving 283 00:12:49,600 --> 00:12:52,199 Speaker 3: too many chances for sure. But I don't never spend 284 00:12:52,200 --> 00:12:54,160 Speaker 3: the block once I'm done. It'd be a rap baby. 285 00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:57,040 Speaker 1: So like no, never going back to a relationship. You 286 00:12:57,120 --> 00:12:59,520 Speaker 1: might talk to them. Still, y'all hang out and. 287 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:06,560 Speaker 3: Chill, break up too much time between and yeah, yeah, 288 00:13:06,679 --> 00:13:07,200 Speaker 3: I got you. 289 00:13:07,480 --> 00:13:10,320 Speaker 2: I did that twice and that was a hold up, 290 00:13:10,320 --> 00:13:10,680 Speaker 2: hold up. 291 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:12,679 Speaker 1: I know this ship getting good, But listen to just 292 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:14,160 Speaker 1: a couple of seconds of a commercial. 293 00:13:14,200 --> 00:13:18,680 Speaker 2: If you love me, you'll listen. So a recent topic 294 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:19,839 Speaker 2: that we had on. 295 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:22,240 Speaker 1: The Breakfast Club as well, So yeah, We're just gonna 296 00:13:22,280 --> 00:13:25,679 Speaker 1: name this episode of Breakfast Club Topics all right was 297 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:27,600 Speaker 1: another one given by me. 298 00:13:28,160 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 2: If your babyfather and your boyfriend is fighting, who are 299 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:33,160 Speaker 2: you helping? And do you feel bad? Now? 300 00:13:33,280 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 1: I said, you know, given that my baby father is. 301 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:41,280 Speaker 2: Not really a fighter. 302 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:45,880 Speaker 1: As such, like like he he runs his mouth, you. 303 00:13:45,800 --> 00:13:47,160 Speaker 2: Know how to run that mother fucking mouth? But who 304 00:13:47,200 --> 00:13:48,120 Speaker 2: the fuck don't you know? 305 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:53,000 Speaker 1: And but but he ain't ray fucking like scrappy scrap 306 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:54,440 Speaker 1: scrap scrap it down with you. 307 00:13:54,440 --> 00:13:58,560 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying? Who would I would help him? 308 00:13:58,640 --> 00:14:00,480 Speaker 1: I would help him, and then just have to deal 309 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:04,080 Speaker 1: with my boyfriend's mouth, because I mean, how. 310 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:10,200 Speaker 3: Would you help him though, like you're gonna pull him off? Okay, 311 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:13,880 Speaker 3: it is three now, yeah, it's problem. 312 00:14:13,920 --> 00:14:15,559 Speaker 2: And then it's like Rome, now you gotta help me 313 00:14:15,600 --> 00:14:16,040 Speaker 2: beat them up. 314 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 3: But that's now you're both out there now we only 315 00:14:19,120 --> 00:14:21,640 Speaker 3: are struggling now, me and Rong getting sucked up damn 316 00:14:22,600 --> 00:14:24,520 Speaker 3: by my boyfriend. Jesus. 317 00:14:24,880 --> 00:14:27,360 Speaker 2: But no, no, I said that I will help Wrong. 318 00:14:27,360 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 2: But the only reason why I would help. 319 00:14:29,120 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 1: Rome not because we got a kid together, Not because 320 00:14:31,680 --> 00:14:34,680 Speaker 1: oh I have this undying love for my baby father. No, 321 00:14:34,880 --> 00:14:37,160 Speaker 1: it's not any of that, not because I gotta deal 322 00:14:37,160 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 1: with this nigga for the rest of my life, because 323 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:39,200 Speaker 1: I don't his son. 324 00:14:39,280 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 2: Do you know what I mean? It's the fact that 325 00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:43,040 Speaker 2: he can't fight. 326 00:14:43,680 --> 00:14:47,200 Speaker 3: Look, stop talking about mouth and this is my my friend. 327 00:14:47,240 --> 00:14:49,720 Speaker 2: This is my brother. I will never said this is 328 00:14:49,760 --> 00:14:53,600 Speaker 2: my brother. Stand by and watch Rome get beat up. 329 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:55,800 Speaker 2: I just I can never do it. I can't do it. 330 00:14:56,320 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 1: I can't even if it requires me pulling them off 331 00:14:59,280 --> 00:15:02,400 Speaker 1: or somebody pull us my off of him, or just no, babe, 332 00:15:02,400 --> 00:15:05,680 Speaker 1: what you're doing style something we cannot. 333 00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:06,640 Speaker 2: We cannot. 334 00:15:06,840 --> 00:15:09,600 Speaker 1: What about if your baby father and your boyfriend got 335 00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:10,840 Speaker 1: into a Who you helping. 336 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:13,160 Speaker 3: My girlfriend and my baby mother? I don't know? 337 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:14,000 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 338 00:15:14,200 --> 00:15:17,400 Speaker 1: Sorry, I'm gonna ask you both both. 339 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:19,920 Speaker 3: I know you're not. Let me ask you both. Good 340 00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:25,280 Speaker 3: damn boy. I'm only man in here anyway, Hello everybody. 341 00:15:25,480 --> 00:15:27,040 Speaker 3: If it was my baby mother or my. 342 00:15:27,040 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 2: Phone, exactly, that was the fuck you get playing. 343 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:34,480 Speaker 3: Was my baby lover or my fall let me hello, guys. 344 00:15:35,600 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 3: No for real though, if it's my baby mother or 345 00:15:38,000 --> 00:15:40,120 Speaker 3: my girlfriend. 346 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 2: Who would you help. 347 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:44,480 Speaker 3: My girlfriend? Man? 348 00:15:44,840 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 2: Right? 349 00:15:45,880 --> 00:15:49,840 Speaker 3: You know I can't because hold why did they even fay? 350 00:15:50,000 --> 00:15:52,720 Speaker 3: That's the thing that's having that type of ship. Yeah, 351 00:15:52,760 --> 00:15:56,160 Speaker 3: and it depends it just in the situation too. Yeah, 352 00:15:56,280 --> 00:16:00,000 Speaker 3: like Charlamagne, if this person, no, look, I'm a leader, 353 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 3: so yeah, I'm all for right and wrong. 354 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:04,600 Speaker 2: Like if you're wrong, my fuck. 355 00:16:04,640 --> 00:16:07,320 Speaker 3: All right, I'm gonna rock with you. You're wrong, I'm 356 00:16:07,320 --> 00:16:09,720 Speaker 3: a rock with you. It depends on the situation, really 357 00:16:09,760 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 3: do depend And Charlemagne was funny. His motherfucking is gonna 358 00:16:13,520 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 3: say I wasn't finished. Oh sorry, Yeah, it's not depend 359 00:16:17,480 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 3: but you was finished something about something. Yeah, it depends, Yeah, 360 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:23,320 Speaker 3: it depends on why. But yeah, the situation. 361 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:26,760 Speaker 1: It's a lot of variables that could play that could 362 00:16:26,840 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 1: you know, play it down? 363 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 2: You know now what Charlemagne said was funny. Charlemagne said 364 00:16:31,160 --> 00:16:31,840 Speaker 2: because I asked him. 365 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:35,040 Speaker 1: I said, now, if you're your girlfriend and your baby 366 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:37,960 Speaker 1: mother is fighting, who are you siding with? 367 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:40,800 Speaker 2: He said, who my kid would want me to side with? 368 00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:43,520 Speaker 3: No, motherfucking who the kid wants you to side because 369 00:16:43,560 --> 00:16:51,480 Speaker 3: the kid gonna want you to side with, right, Kidney. 370 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:55,560 Speaker 2: Gotta be my fucking kid. 371 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 3: Wife, girlfriend, I know you're right. 372 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, why the fuck do you have a white and 373 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:05,200 Speaker 2: a girl and they should be beat? Your answer nigga. 374 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:08,879 Speaker 1: Yeah, but ultimately, it literally should be the person that 375 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:10,560 Speaker 1: you're with. It should be the person that you got 376 00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:12,200 Speaker 1: to get home and lay down with. To be honest, 377 00:17:12,200 --> 00:17:13,560 Speaker 1: I think that's the best answer. 378 00:17:14,440 --> 00:17:17,200 Speaker 3: Like I got but ship, you guys, spend the rest 379 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:18,359 Speaker 3: of your life with your baby father. 380 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:20,440 Speaker 1: You don't have to spend the rest of your your kids. 381 00:17:20,560 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 1: You gotta spend the rest of your life. I don't 382 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:25,480 Speaker 1: gotta communicate and ship the child is old enough. 383 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:29,960 Speaker 3: You don't ever, I don't think so. Really, does your 384 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:32,199 Speaker 3: parents communicate? Yes, they do every day, That's what's up. 385 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:35,600 Speaker 2: But do they have to? Right? 386 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:47,119 Speaker 3: But because you'll mother, they talk about us still, right, right? Right? 387 00:17:48,119 --> 00:17:51,640 Speaker 2: Ask right? Because I do know still spoil parents. 388 00:17:51,720 --> 00:17:54,960 Speaker 1: Yes, I do know parents that don't talk at all. 389 00:17:55,880 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 1: That is crazy that it's parents that don't talk. 390 00:17:58,440 --> 00:18:02,280 Speaker 3: At all and that damn or just don't talk, just 391 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:03,160 Speaker 3: don't talk at all. 392 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:07,119 Speaker 2: And you know what, it's crazy what you just said. 393 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:08,879 Speaker 2: That's normal. 394 00:18:09,280 --> 00:18:11,600 Speaker 1: The fact that you have to talk to your other 395 00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 1: culport for the rest of your life. And we've been 396 00:18:14,800 --> 00:18:17,640 Speaker 1: so desynthitized to certain ship that we think certain ship 397 00:18:17,800 --> 00:18:18,680 Speaker 1: is unusual. 398 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:22,320 Speaker 2: It's like, yeah, why wouldn't you speak to. 399 00:18:22,400 --> 00:18:25,240 Speaker 1: The child, I mean the child's other parent ever again, 400 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:27,959 Speaker 1: even whether whether you're together, whether they're. 401 00:18:27,440 --> 00:18:29,520 Speaker 2: Grown or not. Yeah, why wouldn't you? 402 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 1: But I'm just so used to you know, where we 403 00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:35,400 Speaker 1: grow up, you don't talk to you. You know, it 404 00:18:35,160 --> 00:18:38,800 Speaker 1: is more likely that two parents don't fuck with each other. 405 00:18:38,840 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 3: They don't take your next partner, don't want you to. 406 00:18:42,359 --> 00:18:46,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, feelings, you're like, yo, that's my kid's dad and 407 00:18:47,440 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 1: he's not going anywhere. 408 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:50,800 Speaker 3: You're gonna be here for a long time, so let's 409 00:18:50,840 --> 00:18:51,919 Speaker 3: let's try to get used to it. 410 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:57,360 Speaker 1: And he's I'm telling you a Rome is family, yeah, man, 411 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:02,920 Speaker 1: And and think, god, my boyfriend doesn't have an issue now. 412 00:19:03,400 --> 00:19:05,360 Speaker 1: But at first it was it was like I said, 413 00:19:05,400 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 1: we've been so this is sensitized ship. Yeah, and there's 414 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:13,920 Speaker 1: been stigma put on baby mama baby father relationships. Oh, 415 00:19:14,200 --> 00:19:16,159 Speaker 1: ain't gonna never stop fucking with his baby mother, Henna 416 00:19:16,160 --> 00:19:18,160 Speaker 1: never stop sucking his baby father whatever. 417 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 2: And then also actually added, you. 418 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:24,000 Speaker 3: Know, you put some truth to that because you broke 419 00:19:24,119 --> 00:19:28,520 Speaker 3: up with a nigga to be with so yeah, but I. 420 00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:30,480 Speaker 2: Never cheated on a nigga with my baby father. 421 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:32,359 Speaker 3: Okay, but you went back to your baby flu before 422 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:34,440 Speaker 3: I did, and I let that nigga know this is 423 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:35,800 Speaker 3: years ago. 424 00:19:35,960 --> 00:19:36,520 Speaker 2: Yeah it was you. 425 00:19:37,920 --> 00:19:40,359 Speaker 1: But you're right that that stigma does play a big 426 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:44,640 Speaker 1: part and why people feel like not because like I said, Christ, 427 00:19:46,440 --> 00:19:47,160 Speaker 1: but yeah. 428 00:19:47,400 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 3: If I feel comfortable, right, that's all matter. So like 429 00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:52,159 Speaker 3: you said, when it was new, when it was new, 430 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:52,520 Speaker 3: it was like. 431 00:19:54,440 --> 00:19:57,240 Speaker 1: Crazy, Yeah it is because Ron would called me one 432 00:19:57,240 --> 00:19:59,040 Speaker 1: o'clock in the morning in fence to me about but 433 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:00,919 Speaker 1: he don't know that he's calling. Need to vent to 434 00:20:00,960 --> 00:20:03,920 Speaker 1: another bit. I answer the phone, but it's like kids 435 00:20:03,960 --> 00:20:06,480 Speaker 1: are Yeah, you're really gonna answer the fucking phone for 436 00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:08,600 Speaker 1: this nigga, Like the fuck is one o'clock in the morning. 437 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:12,119 Speaker 1: We just got finished sucking the phone. Like, So it 438 00:20:12,240 --> 00:20:13,320 Speaker 1: was certain things. 439 00:20:14,400 --> 00:20:16,680 Speaker 3: Like niggas don't care about that part, like come on. 440 00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 2: You mean because you don't be sucking. Yeah. 441 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:23,480 Speaker 3: So I love a truth taler. I love a gay 442 00:20:23,560 --> 00:20:31,120 Speaker 3: truth saler. Hey, it was just like that, We're gonna 443 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:32,440 Speaker 3: go and get the fuck up out of here. You'll 444 00:20:32,480 --> 00:20:35,560 Speaker 3: have a very important meeting that I need to get to. 445 00:20:35,840 --> 00:20:37,400 Speaker 3: But say by to my best friend y'all. 446 00:20:37,480 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 2: No, no, no, y'all. 447 00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:42,960 Speaker 1: You say by to my listeners. Hello, Okay. So basically, 448 00:20:42,960 --> 00:20:44,720 Speaker 1: since she's disrespecting you guys. 449 00:20:44,480 --> 00:20:45,639 Speaker 2: I'll never have my eyes. 450 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:48,879 Speaker 3: So again I say bye the right way by the 451 00:20:48,960 --> 00:20:50,520 Speaker 3: right way. 452 00:20:51,200 --> 00:20:53,280 Speaker 2: You said you buy because that's the right way. 453 00:20:53,480 --> 00:20:55,440 Speaker 3: Baby, I ain't never said nothing like that. You buy 454 00:20:55,480 --> 00:20:57,680 Speaker 3: because you feel like it's the right way, and you 455 00:20:57,720 --> 00:20:59,480 Speaker 3: love us and you talk about this every day the 456 00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:00,720 Speaker 3: l g B. 457 00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, because you want to be so bad. Oh baby, 458 00:21:03,160 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 2: if I wanted to be gay, would be gay. 459 00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:07,720 Speaker 1: It's defininge wrong me Like, yeah, like I know how 460 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:09,400 Speaker 1: to make a decision consciously, Like. 461 00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:12,600 Speaker 2: Come on and join the baby. I've been there, done that. 462 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:14,119 Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you. 463 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:17,520 Speaker 2: So I've been there, done it. I was only gave 464 00:21:17,560 --> 00:21:19,040 Speaker 2: for two years and got more bitches than you ever 465 00:21:19,080 --> 00:21:20,080 Speaker 2: got in your whole life. 466 00:21:20,200 --> 00:21:22,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, and you proud of that. You proud of you 467 00:21:23,800 --> 00:21:29,480 Speaker 3: stop no, stop and you go ahead what you say, Hey, 468 00:21:29,680 --> 00:21:38,359 Speaker 3: I'm proud of the way that was what exactly? Yeah. 469 00:21:38,760 --> 00:21:40,880 Speaker 1: So in my deepest pay voice, y'all, we will see 470 00:21:40,920 --> 00:22:55,760 Speaker 1: y'all next week. Can't Fully Reckless is a production of 471 00:22:55,840 --> 00:22:59,160 Speaker 1: iHeart Radio and The Black Effect. For more podcasts from 472 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:03,600 Speaker 1: iHeart Radio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever 473 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 1: you listen to your favorite shows,