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Speaker 1: They talk better than they site.

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Speaker 2: Radio on The Fred Show live writing in our diaries,

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Speaker 2: except we say them aloud.

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Speaker 1: We call them blogs. Paulina take it.

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Speaker 3: Away, Oh Jess, thank you so much, dear blog. So

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Speaker 3: you know, my gigi girl, that's my daughter looks nothing

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Speaker 3: like me, of course, because why what she looks like

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Speaker 3: her dad?

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Speaker 4: No, like it's exciting to that.

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Speaker 1: I don't.

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Speaker 2: I don't think that. I think she looks just like you.

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Speaker 2: You thinks so she's absolutely your kid.

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Speaker 3: I think it depends on the day because I see

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Speaker 3: a lot of hobby and I get that's a lot

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Speaker 3: to me.

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Speaker 4: People were like, oh, she looks like her.

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Speaker 2: Dad, but she might transition into one or the other,

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Speaker 2: because like may if my niece looked like Colin like

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Speaker 2: she was baby Colin, she was.

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Speaker 1: But she's starting to look like us again.

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Speaker 4: Us. Yeah, collectively, I love it.

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Speaker 2: No, people say my nieces, I look like my nieces.

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Speaker 2: They look like me and my sister. I mean, well,

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Speaker 2: we're pretty pronound. We have pre pronounced facial features and

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Speaker 2: way go ahead.

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Speaker 4: Oh, poly could pass for your daughter, for your kid,

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Speaker 4: for sure.

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Speaker 3: She'd be honest, she looks like you guys. I mean

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Speaker 3: she's gorgeous. But yeah, so Gigi is you know, she's

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Speaker 3: ten months old. She's moving real fast in life, like

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Speaker 3: we're kind of walking on our own already. She walked

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Speaker 3: from my bed like she was, you know, standing on

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Speaker 3: the edge of the bed. She walked into my bathroom.

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Speaker 4: So that was fun.

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Speaker 3: So now the gates gotta go up, we gotta lock

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Speaker 3: up certain things. Yeah, we're in a whole different era.

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Speaker 3: But her not thing now is we went from Da

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Speaker 3: da and this little girl saying daddy.

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Speaker 4: Oh, but it's always daddy.

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Speaker 2: So we didn't go since he's British now, so we

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Speaker 2: didn't go dad ad to mama. We went dad out

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Speaker 2: of daddy.

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Speaker 3: Yes we do mama, but mama's not really in like

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Speaker 3: vocabulary as much, and it's a lot of daddy like it.

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Speaker 3: It's funny because like they'll talk to each other. He'll

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Speaker 3: be like Gig and she's like Daddy, and it's like

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Speaker 3: back and forth. And I'm praying and I'm fighting for

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Speaker 3: my life that I need some kind of, you know, reassurance.

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Speaker 3: I need some kind of mama, but I'm not really

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Speaker 3: getting it, and I'm a little sad, you guys, I'm

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Speaker 3: a little but hurt about it, to be honest, because

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Speaker 3: I'm like the one person that's got my back forever

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Speaker 3: as I think she does.

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Speaker 4: I mean, that's my girl, well until.

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Speaker 1: She turns twelve.

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Speaker 4: But yeah, yeah, oh no, Oh, she didn't hate me

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Speaker 4: when she's sick.

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Speaker 1: S you.

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Speaker 3: I'm not going to sleep over her boyfriend's house. I'm

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Speaker 3: gonna be the B word. Oh yeah, I can't date

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Speaker 3: the drug dealer Gean. Yeah, sleeping at the boyfriend's gonna

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Speaker 3: try it.

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Speaker 4: Jean, Oh, yes, yes we do.

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Speaker 1: Oh.

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Speaker 3: I was just scared at my mom. I was like,

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Speaker 3: my mom is never gonna let me. Yeah, I sneak up,

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Speaker 3: but that's me. Yeah, there's no way. Is that a

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Speaker 3: thing at sixteen years old? You're supposed to let your

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Speaker 3: kids sleep with my daughter? Absolutely? No, no, no, but

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Speaker 3: we'll try.

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Speaker 4: We'll try.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they're gonna ask, though, they're gonna ask what I know.

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Speaker 4: I'm ready.

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Speaker 1: There is no way.

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Speaker 2: I don't even want to know about sleeping at boyfriend's house.

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Speaker 2: Even when they're old enough to sleep at boyfriend's house.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to know about it.

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Speaker 4: I like to my mom, Oh my god, I had

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Speaker 4: a boyfriend. I'm going to do nothing.

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Speaker 3: I sleep by myself, like I'm too shy to tell

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Speaker 3: my mom a lot of I'm at this big.

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Speaker 4: Age, but I don't.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So you're upset though, because daddy seems to be

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Speaker 2: way more pronounced than yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: But you know what though, I love it because you know,

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Speaker 4: as a girl.

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Speaker 3: Of daddy issues, I do love seeing it. Because I

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Speaker 3: even told Hobby, I'm like, I love seeing your guys

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Speaker 3: his bond. And right now he's on a very very

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Speaker 3: long vacation. They call it a furlough at the firehouse.

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Speaker 3: This man's been a vacation for two months, so it's

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Speaker 3: a lot of time, but they've spent it together and

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Speaker 3: that makes me happy. So I think this dadday, you know,

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Speaker 3: all this like extra love and stuff I think is

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Speaker 3: coming from their time spent, which I really appreciate because

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Speaker 3: I want that for her.

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Speaker 4: I want her to be a daddy's girl, you know,

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Speaker 4: more than you know.

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Speaker 1: She sits there, He sits there with her all day

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Speaker 1: while ye and.

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Speaker 4: They practice yeah yes.

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Speaker 1: Okay, daddy, daddy, daddy. Ya he insane, Mommy, I an't

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Speaker 1: saying anything.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm a little left out right now, feel like

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Speaker 3: I'm just really, I'm just you know every every social

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Speaker 3: circle I'm in. I'm just tossed out right now, so

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to find my place.

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Speaker 2: And I know that you get married into another Hispanic family,

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Speaker 2: and I know that you're learning to speak Spanish better,

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Speaker 2: not as well as Jason Brown, of course, who's been

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Speaker 2: on the du Aleipa now for fifteen hundred days or something. Yes,

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Speaker 2: but wait until because she will. And this is nothing

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Speaker 2: against you, This is us as adults versus children. Wait

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Speaker 2: until she's just immersed in the language and then speaks

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Speaker 2: fluent Spanish before you do. And then she and the

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Speaker 2: in law is in hobby, you're having conversations and you're

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Speaker 2: sitting there and even though you're trying, you're sitting there going.

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Speaker 3: I no say, I want her to talk the most

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Speaker 3: crap about me in Spanish, like as long as it's

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Speaker 3: in Spanish, you're allowed to, because I just want her

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Speaker 3: to learn so bad. Her Polish is getting good too.

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Speaker 3: It's really good, you guys.

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Speaker 2: I know.

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Speaker 4: I tell her like little words and stuff. She understands it.

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Speaker 3: My mom does a really good job because I don't

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Speaker 3: do a good job, to be honest, Like we're a

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Speaker 3: very English speaking household, which makes me mad because I

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Speaker 3: was like, well, we'll not be English speaking anything about English,

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Speaker 3: so learn when she's older. But it's it's hard, but yeah,

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Speaker 3: like I want her to just talk all the crap

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Speaker 3: about me.

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Speaker 2: My parents did a good job, but we were just

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Speaker 2: still white.

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Speaker 1: In every way.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's painful.

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Speaker 2: My parents, my mom did a fantastic job, but like

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Speaker 2: I wish, I wish there was like something other than

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Speaker 2: just white, because I would love to be like if

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Speaker 2: we had had Oh my god, like we're German. I

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Speaker 2: wish somebody spoke German, you know, but we're so many

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Speaker 2: generations removed, several generations removed from that. I wish somebody

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Speaker 2: spoke German. And then, as much as I probably would

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Speaker 2: have hated it, like just forced me to learn it

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Speaker 2: as a kid, because that's when you can learn this stuff. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: when it's just and I don't know how people do

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Speaker 2: it if you just speak both languages. I don't know

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Speaker 2: how kids compartmentalize on that. But me trying to learn

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Speaker 2: any of that stuff now would be so much harder.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, at thirty two years old, it really is is different,

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Speaker 3: and I want her to like really learn the languages.

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Speaker 3: We talked about this you know, and even like with

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Speaker 3: a TV I do, let's have screen time, and like

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Speaker 3: miss Rachel's our girl, but we're about to go see

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Speaker 3: Miss Nana I think her name is, who's doing the

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Speaker 3: same thing in Spanish.

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Speaker 2: So like I just want her to like the corner

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Speaker 2: the market miss Nana, right, you know, you see what

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Speaker 2: mister Rachel's doing, and it's.

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Speaker 1: Like, okay, let's do.

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Speaker 3: This in the yes, just do it in Espanol. And

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Speaker 3: I want my daughter to learn and she will learn.

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Speaker 3: Like I'm gonna be like I'm not no like pressuring

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Speaker 3: kind of mom, like you know, like yeah, to dance

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Speaker 3: or soccer, Like no, we're a little language.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, once you speak Spanish, you can ask me. You

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Speaker 2: can ask me not dance lessons in Spanish. More Fred

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Speaker 2: show next right here,