Speaker 1: This strong vision and desire you have is because that
Speaker 1: reality already exists and it's sending you a signal saying,
Speaker 1: complain me. The life you're living now is just a
Speaker 1: fraction of the life that the Creator, this universal energy,
Speaker 1: this universal power wants to reveal to you.
Speaker 2: David Gaham is a thought leader and a spiritual educator
Speaker 2: known for teaching in a mastery. His work explores how
Speaker 2: to build conscious relationships with yourself and others through manifestation,
Speaker 2: self work, and alignment.
Speaker 1: If I'm wanting the miracle of wealth or the miracle
Speaker 1: of love, I'm not going to pray for my soulmate. Instead,
Speaker 1: I'm going to pray who do I need to become
Speaker 1: or what do I need to transform to become a
Speaker 1: vessel for my soulmet Because my soulmate wants to come
Speaker 1: in millions of dollars, wants to come in. If you
Speaker 1: desire it, it means it wants to come in. There's
Speaker 1: no deficiency in the energy. And at the same time
Speaker 1: tell the Creator I'm going to go all the way,
Speaker 1: but if it's not and for me, if it's not right,
Speaker 1: if I need to go a different path, I'm also
Speaker 1: completely open and I want you to show me. What
Speaker 1: you don't want is your traumas in your soul, corrections
Speaker 1: and your fears to be made the decision.
Speaker 2: Welcome to you, A Really Good Cry podcast. A Really
Speaker 2: Good Cry is here to help you understand your body,
Speaker 2: feel confident in your skin, manage your emotions, and take
Speaker 2: back control of your health. Because growth doesn't always start
Speaker 2: with answers. Sometimes it starts with a really good cry. David,
Speaker 2: thanks so much for being here.
Speaker 1: Thank you for having me.
Speaker 2: I'm so excited to have you on the podcast because
Speaker 2: we had such a great conversation one on one for
Speaker 2: like an hour and a bit. We ended up meeting
Speaker 2: and I felt like our conversation was so useful for
Speaker 2: me in my life, but then also felt like the
Speaker 2: world needed to hear it. So I wanted to have
Speaker 2: you on to have this discussion that.
Speaker 1: It is such a pleasure of being here. I had
Speaker 1: so much time with you at lunch.
Speaker 2: Tip me too. I would love to start off with
Speaker 2: just asking you how you got into the work that
Speaker 2: you do, because I know your past was not always
Speaker 2: aligned with what you do now.
Speaker 1: For people who may not be familiar with my work,
Speaker 1: two parts of my life one is a co founder
Speaker 1: of Mary With Organics, which is some of the brands
Speaker 1: which I'm sure you're familiar with. I started that with
Speaker 1: Mary With about thirteen years ago, but prior to that,
Speaker 1: I was fifteen years old. I embarked on a spiritual
Speaker 1: path based in Cabalistic wisdom, universal spirituality that really defines
Speaker 1: the purpose of the soul in this world, how to
Speaker 1: create miracles in your life, in every part of your life.
Speaker 1: And that changed my life. And after I graduated from
Speaker 1: UCLA I was around nineteen two years old, I took
Speaker 1: a vow of poverty and went for fifteen years later
Speaker 1: just to teach this wisdom all around the world. So
Speaker 1: given a few thousand live seminars, I've been doing private
Speaker 1: coaching and I did it all for charity and it
Speaker 1: has been the most powerful thing in my life and
Speaker 1: a way that I could bring this light to the world.
Speaker 1: So it's been an incredible journey for me.
Speaker 2: Okay, wall I need to go back and lit. Okay,
Speaker 2: tell me about this vow of poverty, how you decided
Speaker 2: to do it, and what that looks like and yeah,
Speaker 2: what does it look like on a day day basis?
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's a great question. I say you're actually the
Speaker 1: first person actually asked me details about So once I graduated,
Speaker 1: I had options and my family I'm Persian, so they
Speaker 1: thought I was going to be some successful businessman, doctor, lawyer.
Speaker 1: There was only three options. So I said to them,
Speaker 1: I said, you know, nothing fulfills me more than being
Speaker 1: able to help people connect more deeply to their soul
Speaker 1: and be able to rise above the chaos and the
Speaker 1: challenges are having in their life. Because at that time
Speaker 1: I started teaching, just getting seminars here and there, and
Speaker 1: I was helping people, and I saw that within one hour,
Speaker 1: people saw breakthroughs and miracles that they didn't in different
Speaker 1: coaching and therapy modalities because this was taking everything to
Speaker 1: its spiritual group. So I joined a nonprofit organization and
Speaker 1: the idea was that all my basic needs were taking
Speaker 1: care of my travel, my expenses, my food, and I
Speaker 1: got to focus one hundred percent on just helping people,
Speaker 1: so I didn't have to think about anything. I didn't
Speaker 1: have a bank account, I'd have a credit card. You
Speaker 1: got paid a little bit of money just for incidentals
Speaker 1: here and there. But I got to travel the world.
Speaker 1: On average, I was probably in two hundred different cities
Speaker 1: every year. Yeah, and they would put on these huge
Speaker 1: seminars for me, so anywhere from three hundred to seven
Speaker 1: hundred people I would show up. I would speak about
Speaker 1: this wisdom, all religions, all walks of life, and it
Speaker 1: was really life changing for people.
Speaker 2: How long did you do that for?
Speaker 1: I'm doing it till today. So the only difference is
Speaker 1: a few years ago, I've realized that to reach the world,
Speaker 1: because so many people wanted this, I had to go
Speaker 1: out on my own and I recreated the platform in
Speaker 1: such a powerful way that now I think we read
Speaker 1: something like thirty to forty million people a month.
Speaker 2: Wow.
Speaker 1: And it's only been a few years, so it's just
Speaker 1: growing exponentially.
Speaker 2: And through that time, What were some of the things
Speaker 2: that you noticed about yourself? But then also what was
Speaker 2: some of the key things you noticed about humans?
Speaker 1: Hmmm, what a great question. One of the things I
Speaker 1: noticed is that everyone is looking for a system that
Speaker 1: they can follow and they can rely on in order
Speaker 1: to create the life that they desire. One of the
Speaker 1: first things that this wisdom teaches is that if you
Speaker 1: desire it, it exists causing you to desire. So if
Speaker 1: somebody is desiring love, soulmate relationship. Somebody is desiring to
Speaker 1: see a vision of themselves being a millionaire, a billionaire
Speaker 1: affecting millions of people. This strong vision and desire you
Speaker 1: have is because that reality already exists, not manifested yet,
Speaker 1: but it exists, and it's sending you a signal saying,
Speaker 1: come find me, can reveal me. And that's the first
Speaker 1: thing I tell people, because sometimes we shut down that
Speaker 1: voice or we disregard that vision, and the creator the
Speaker 1: universe wants to give you even more than you desire
Speaker 1: to receive today. So I always want people to expand
Speaker 1: their desire and realize the life you're living now is
Speaker 1: just a fraction of the life that they create. This
Speaker 1: universal energy, this universal power wants to reveal to you.
Speaker 2: And then, but then are there rules of desire, like,
Speaker 2: for example, if someone desires something that someone else has,
Speaker 2: or if someone desires someone that someone else has, like
Speaker 2: all those desires are their rules in how you should
Speaker 2: know whether a desire is right or wrong.
Speaker 1: There's a good question, all right. So in order to
Speaker 1: answer that question, I have to take one step back
Speaker 1: and say, well, why did the soul come to this world?
Speaker 1: The premise of this wisdom is that there's a force
Speaker 1: in this world. Some people call it the Creator, some
Speaker 1: people call it God. Different religions call it different things.
Speaker 1: But it is a universal energy that is only good,
Speaker 1: and it is only here to reveal fulfillment. That energy
Speaker 1: has created a vessel a desire to receive, which is
Speaker 1: all the souls of humanity to receive it. The creation
Speaker 1: of our world was our choice to come physically into
Speaker 1: this world in order to experience darkness and earn this light.
Speaker 1: Because if this was all this goodness was given to us,
Speaker 1: if the Creator just gave everyone everything, meaning I was born,
Speaker 1: I was born with my soulmate, I was born with clarity,
Speaker 1: I was born with abundance, and everything was perfect. You
Speaker 1: can't truly enjoy something when it's given to you for free.
Speaker 1: We see this with children who are born to wealthy
Speaker 1: famis that's true, right, they've given everything. They're the ones
Speaker 1: with the highest rates of depression, suicide, substance abuse, because
Speaker 1: you only feel the energy of something that you have
Speaker 1: participated in its copreation. So our soul knew that, and
Speaker 1: so our soul asked to come to a world where
Speaker 1: we don't know who our true love is we were
Speaker 1: confused by everything. We were tempted to eat the wrong
Speaker 1: food that truly aren't good for us, but we're feel
Speaker 1: addicted to them for some reason. We have doubts, we
Speaker 1: have fears, we have anxiety, and we're wondering, well, why
Speaker 1: is all this darkness coming to us? So, what I
Speaker 1: would say to anyone who's experiencing any of those things,
Speaker 1: your soul asked for the darkness. And the harder your
Speaker 1: life is, the more fear you have, the more anxiety
Speaker 1: you have, the more betrayal you're experiencing in your life.
Speaker 1: It's an indication of actually how great your soul is,
Speaker 1: because that darkness becomes the true vessel to reveal the
Speaker 1: light that your soul wants to reveal. Your spiritual work
Speaker 1: in this world has overcome all those fears, overcome all
Speaker 1: those doubts, overcome all that worry, and Kabbalah and this
Speaker 1: wisdom is teaching a person the system of how to
Speaker 1: do that. Now, if that's my soul's purpose, My soul
Speaker 1: came to this world with a fear of abandonment. My
Speaker 1: soul also knows by transforming that fear of abandonment, that's
Speaker 1: how I'm going to unlock prosperity, wisdom, healing, love, so
Speaker 1: and so forth. So my soul will choose parents that
Speaker 1: are perfect to awaken that fear of man. Beyond the parents,
Speaker 1: my soul will choose relationships. That boyfriend you had in
Speaker 1: high school, that girlfriend that came to college, that person
Speaker 1: you married that you were so infatuated with you thought
Speaker 1: this is the person going to be with the rest
Speaker 1: of your life, but then five years later there's a divorce.
Speaker 1: All of those people were actually predesigned by your soul
Speaker 1: knowing that they were the perfect force to awaken your fears,
Speaker 1: your insecurities, your neediness, your lack, your low self worth.
Speaker 1: Because only by revealing it can you see it. That's
Speaker 1: the game. And so when people understand that, they be like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, my soul is on a mission to
Speaker 1: reach the highest vibration of myself. And the only way
Speaker 1: I'm going to know how to reach that vibration is
Speaker 1: if I can detox and see the negativity that says
Speaker 1: within me. So then we start to attract all these
Speaker 1: people that come to our lives that awaken these things.
Speaker 1: And so if a person desires let's say someone else's
Speaker 1: husband or wife, right I would ask them a question,
Speaker 1: I say, what is it you really desire? Because what
Speaker 1: do we know? The minute you get this person, the
Speaker 1: mystery is gone, the mystique is gone. You're gonna fight
Speaker 1: with it. If you married this person instead of the
Speaker 1: person you're married to now, you're gonna have the same fights,
Speaker 1: the same issues. Eventually, after the honeymoon period is over,
Speaker 1: you have the same problems with this man that you
Speaker 1: do with your current husband or whoever you're with. It's
Speaker 1: not this man that you want. There are things that
Speaker 1: this represents, which is maybe some level of freedom, some
Speaker 1: level of excitement, some maybe financial freedom. Who knows what
Speaker 1: it is. What you are seeing here is the Creator
Speaker 1: is showing you what is in your destiny. This energy
Speaker 1: of financial freedom, love, romance, whatever it is that you
Speaker 1: see in this potential forbidden partnership is an energy the
Speaker 1: Creator wants to give you. Now, your free will is
Speaker 1: how are you going to reveal this energy? If you
Speaker 1: go and take it, meaning you start flirting with this
Speaker 1: unavailable man, you start finding devious ways to connect with him.
Speaker 1: If that's you now taking it, you are stealing this
Speaker 1: energy without having earned it. What the sage you say
Speaker 1: is know that you are destined to have all that
Speaker 1: you think you will get from this man. But now
Speaker 1: go inwards and work on yourself. What are all the
Speaker 1: fears you have? What is the insecurity and the neediness
Speaker 1: you have? What are the issues you're having with your
Speaker 1: current partner that you're not dealing with. Instead you're just
Speaker 1: calling him a narcissist or you're saying he's checked out.
Speaker 1: Because I've seen on this path so many let's say women,
Speaker 1: because I know majority of your audiences women, so is mine.
Speaker 1: Women are more spiritual naturally, so they gravitate towards this wisdom.
Speaker 1: Women comes to one of my seminaris and she's complaining
Speaker 1: about her husband and all these things. I say, look,
Speaker 1: take a few months, just elevate yourself to become like
Speaker 1: the Creator. Here are this three things that you can
Speaker 1: do to become like the Creator. And that's all I
Speaker 1: want you to focus on. Don't try to change him,
Speaker 1: don't try to escape to another man, don't look for
Speaker 1: any instant gratification. Just focus on yourself. Three months later,
Speaker 1: I see the husband's coming to the same seminar with her,
Speaker 1: and I said, what are you doing here? She's like,
Speaker 1: I don't know. What happened to my wife? But she
Speaker 1: is more attractive, more magnetic, more inspiring that I've ever
Speaker 1: seen ten years of marriage. This is a true story
Speaker 1: I just heard recently, and she's like, whatever she's doing,
Speaker 1: I want to be a part of it. Wherever she is,
Speaker 1: I want more of that. So everyone's always trying to
Speaker 1: change everyone else to fit and suit their current vessel.
Speaker 1: This wizard is teaching you let go of trying to
Speaker 1: deal with any of that, but just make your vessel
Speaker 1: more magnetic, more powerful, more spiritual on every level, which
Speaker 1: is why your soul came to this world, and everything
Speaker 1: that is meant fee will come to you in ways
Speaker 1: you couldn't even possibly imagine, including your husband will elevate
Speaker 1: to his.
Speaker 2: Highest So okay, let's say we start with desire. Right,
Speaker 2: we were talking about desire. What would you say the
Speaker 2: formula is to go from desire to completion and getting
Speaker 2: what you want? So is it like desire plus action?
Speaker 2: Is it like what are the stages or even yeah,
Speaker 2: I guess the formula to actually getting to that endpoint.
Speaker 1: You're a great interviewer because I also know that we're
Speaker 1: going on a tangible question. This is excellent. I love
Speaker 1: how you're doing it on the fly. So if the
Speaker 1: first stage is desire, the second question you have to
Speaker 1: ask yourself is Okay, well what do I want? So
Speaker 1: give me an example maybe of someone or something that
Speaker 1: comes to your mind, someone who wants something.
Speaker 2: Okay. And my friend was talking about how much I
Speaker 2: was having conversation with him, and he was saying that
Speaker 2: he absolutely loves seeing his friends succeed and he loves
Speaker 2: it for them. He prays for them. But he's really
Speaker 2: struggling because he's not seeing the success that he wants
Speaker 2: in his career. And so his desire is financial freedom.
Speaker 2: His desire is I want my work to be recognized
Speaker 2: and appreciated.
Speaker 1: Financial freedom and recognition.
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, value and recognition of the work that he does.
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, So I'm going to workshop him in a moment.
Speaker 2: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Can we give him a name and a real name,
Speaker 1: fake name yet?
Speaker 2: Give him the name of.
Speaker 1: Tom? How old is toime?
Speaker 2: Tom is in his late thirties.
Speaker 1: Late thirties. What does Tom do?
Speaker 2: Tom is a creative? I will say, I don't want
Speaker 2: to give to much of it.
Speaker 1: Okaytive creative? Yeah, let's say Tom laid thirty is creative.
Speaker 1: Desires a higher level of financial freedom. Let's give a
Speaker 1: number of how much money Tom is making. So let's
Speaker 1: say Tom is making what.
Speaker 2: Maybe like one hundred and fifty to two hundred.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, because we're making this more real now, especially
Speaker 1: for people listening totally, I want them to anchor into
Speaker 1: a story like this and see how they can relate
Speaker 1: to it. So they're making let's say one fifty two hundred.
Speaker 1: What is financial freedom.
Speaker 2: To Tom to be able to have enough money to
Speaker 2: pay for things that their family wants or will be
Speaker 2: needing in the future, to live a life not worrying
Speaker 2: about paying for rent, live life, not worrying about the basics.
Speaker 2: But I think also luxuries. Let's be honest, because that
Speaker 2: what you're making that is more of a that's a
Speaker 2: higher bracket.
Speaker 1: So if I asked Tom, do you have a number
Speaker 1: in mind that you would like to make a reader,
Speaker 1: would Tom be clear about that?
Speaker 2: Probably like five hundred k plus okay, So he.
Speaker 1: Would have to be clear about And when I do
Speaker 1: coaching sessions or business coaching or whatever, I'm always asking
Speaker 1: them what do you want? And they say a lot
Speaker 1: of different things, but they're not often clear about what
Speaker 1: they truly desire. And if you're not clear, and every moment,
Speaker 1: your thoughts, your words, your actions, your desires are manifesting
Speaker 1: new realities. That means every moment, your lack of clarity
Speaker 1: about what you want is also manifesting a world that
Speaker 1: is not clear. If you're not clear, the creator is
Speaker 1: not clear. If you're not clear, the world, the universe
Speaker 1: is not clear how to engage with you. And so
Speaker 1: that's why the people who are absolutely clear about what
Speaker 1: they want, even if that's going to change later or
Speaker 1: that's just a part of what they're meant to have,
Speaker 1: they move quickly because clarity allows for movement. So one
Speaker 1: of the first things I ask Tom is, let's get
Speaker 1: clear about your goals, even down to the number. If
Speaker 1: you want to make a million dollars a year, let's
Speaker 1: put it at that. Now, let's understand what is a
Speaker 1: million dollars. A million dollars is energy. So let's say,
Speaker 1: for example, there's a light bular and it's a hundred
Speaker 1: watt bulb. One hundred watt bulb can hold how many
Speaker 1: watts of energy one hundred watts If one hundred bub
Speaker 1: wanted to hold a thousand watts, meaning if I put
Speaker 1: a thousand watts into one hundred bulb, what's gonna happen
Speaker 1: to the bulb? It's gonna blom. So there is no
Speaker 1: vessel to hold a thousand watts. So when a person's
Speaker 1: making one hundred thousand and they say I want to
Speaker 1: make a million, but they're really saying, is I want
Speaker 1: a thousand watts of energy to come into my one
Speaker 1: hundred wat pulp. If they want to make a million,
Speaker 1: it means the million wants to be revealed. It means
Speaker 1: that there's a million dollars that belongs to them, it's
Speaker 1: in their name. Maybe someone else is holding onto it
Speaker 1: and it can't wait to get into Tom's life. But
Speaker 1: Tom has to now expand his vessel to hold this million,
Speaker 1: and until he does so, the money can't come in.
Speaker 1: And if the money hasn't come in yet, it means
Speaker 1: he hasn't expanded his vessel. It's not that the banks
Speaker 1: won't give it to him. No one wants to invest
Speaker 1: in him. He can create the prettiest decks in the
Speaker 1: world and people will say, I don't know, and they're
Speaker 1: not going to give him the money he's going to
Speaker 1: go for the promotion. They're going to give it to him.
Speaker 1: This job, he's not going to give it to him.
Speaker 1: He keeps knocking on every door and nobody answers it. Meanwhile,
Speaker 1: his other friend here tries a little bit, makes a
Speaker 1: million dollars. So what is tom doing or not doing
Speaker 1: to expand his vest? And that's the first question Tommy's asked.
Speaker 1: So Tommy's stuff now remove all blame in the outside
Speaker 1: world of why he's not making money. So if he
Speaker 1: thinks it's the economy or the political system, or some
Speaker 1: kind of privilege he didn't have, or there's something on
Speaker 1: the outside that's blocking him, that consciousness is already limiting
Speaker 1: and shrinking his best. Yeah, so he can't get to
Speaker 1: a thousand watts if he number one is blaming somebody else.
Speaker 1: So that's the first thing I'll help to him with that,
Speaker 1: Say Tom, who you might even be blaming your father
Speaker 1: or blaming your mother subconsciously for being in this position
Speaker 1: of why you can't make that. So the second thing,
Speaker 1: which is probably the most powerful thing I would ask Tom,
Speaker 1: is what is your belief system about receiving. Whatever you
Speaker 1: believe about receiving becomes the vessel by which you can receive.
Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh, his belief system. This is so interesting.
Speaker 2: But you're interjecting, is I don't need too much. I
Speaker 2: don't want to be someone who wants too much, but
Speaker 2: I don't feel content. So that's what he says.
Speaker 1: He wants to be someone who doesn't need or want
Speaker 1: too much. Why what's so bad about wanting or needing
Speaker 1: too much?
Speaker 2: He thinks that it's just like like a too big
Speaker 2: a life, Like why do I need? Why do I
Speaker 2: need a too bigger life? Oh?
Speaker 1: Okay, so this is good because I listen to people's
Speaker 1: words and seminars and then certain words indicate their sole correction.
Speaker 1: This words because I think you're channeling Tom. Now you
Speaker 1: said too big. Let's focus on too big? What is
Speaker 1: too big? And why does that have a negative connotation? Why?
Speaker 1: Why can't Tom, why can't you be the wealthiest man
Speaker 1: in the world? Like, why does that bother you?
Speaker 2: I think, as partner thinks that when you have a
Speaker 2: too bigger life like wealth and or fame or whatever,
Speaker 2: it's a it makes you into a different person. That's
Speaker 2: not a good person.
Speaker 1: Beautiful. Okay, So now we just got to the crux
Speaker 1: of why Tom is consciously asking the world for a
Speaker 1: million dollars and then subconsciously sabotaging it at the same time.
Speaker 1: Right when I was in my early twenties, when I
Speaker 1: first started teaching, I didn't even know the celebrity world,
Speaker 1: this other culture, but I was in la I always
Speaker 1: taught privately at different homes of celebrities and very wealthy people,
Speaker 1: because these were the ones who probably needed the wisdom
Speaker 1: the most because they had so much chaos. There's one
Speaker 1: thing I noticed in all of their lives that the
Speaker 1: wealthier they were, the more famous they were. They had
Speaker 1: families that were dysfunctional. They had children were really checked
Speaker 1: out and not part of the family unit. Over time,
Speaker 1: I subconsciously developed a belief system that the wealthier and
Speaker 1: more famous you are, the worst off it will be
Speaker 1: for your kid and your family. No, I didn't realize that.
Speaker 1: So for fifteen years I lived in poverty, thinking you
Speaker 1: cannot be spiritual and happy and wealthy. And my mom
Speaker 1: used to always tell me as a child, you always
Speaker 1: said you wanted to be a billionaire, this was going
Speaker 1: to be in your destiny, and you took the exact
Speaker 1: opposite realm and went took about poverty. And then I
Speaker 1: realized that why can't you be spiritual? In fact, the
Speaker 1: stages were very wealthy. When you think of the greatest
Speaker 1: sages and profits, they either had the wealth or they
Speaker 1: had access to whatever they wanted whenever they wanted. So
Speaker 1: they were all billionaires and trillionaires in their time. Technically interesting, Yeah,
Speaker 1: you think of like Abraham, you think of King David,
Speaker 1: you think of all these biblical figures. They had wealth
Speaker 1: beyond what we can imagine. So when I switched it,
Speaker 1: in my mind, I said, wait a minute, that is
Speaker 1: a limited belief. So I was always subconsciously pushing wealth away,
Speaker 1: ideas to build wealth, ideas for companies. Never wanted to
Speaker 1: even have a bank account because I had a limited
Speaker 1: belief that having money means you're going to lose your family, right,
Speaker 1: You're going to mess up your kids, and you can't
Speaker 1: be spirit Obviously, I'm sure you can relate to this.
Speaker 1: As soon as I changed it, and I just told myself,
Speaker 1: every day, the wealthier I am, the more affinity a
Speaker 1: form I have with the Creator. The wealthier I am,
Speaker 1: the happier my kids will be the wealthier I'm sorry, said,
Speaker 1: I change my belief system. That's when the gates opened
Speaker 1: and we had the idea to creat mare with organics,
Speaker 1: and then we had no idea how to even build
Speaker 1: a business. But the business became what it is today.
Speaker 1: So as soon as I shifted this bliases in my mind,
Speaker 1: all this energy that was locked up, always destined to
Speaker 1: come into my life finally could come in. I had
Speaker 1: to shift that in my consciousness for the thousand watts
Speaker 1: of energy called success, prosperity, abundant wealth, whatever to come in.
Speaker 1: So if Tom thinks that having too much money is
Speaker 1: going to interfere with maybe his partnership. Maybe he saw
Speaker 1: his parents become wealthy and they got a divorce from it.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Maybe he looks at TV and he sees,
Speaker 1: look at these wealthy people. They're evil. They're doing evil
Speaker 1: in the world or the one percent, or whatever the
Speaker 1: judgments are. So now this is blocking his own vessel
Speaker 1: from I did a coaching session with someone, So, Papa,
Speaker 1: this guy did a coaching session with me. He sat down.
Speaker 1: He has a supplement brand that makes about two million
Speaker 1: dollars a year, and he said, and he's very smart,
Speaker 1: he's very talented. He has the most beautiful love life
Speaker 1: in relationship. He is married to his partner, and he said,
Speaker 1: my whole life is perfect, but this business has been
Speaker 1: stuck at two million dollars for five years. I cannot
Speaker 1: grow the revenue. No matter what I do. There's always
Speaker 1: some sabotage that happens. I said to him, tell me
Speaker 1: the first word that comes to her mind when I
Speaker 1: say each of these things. So I said love is.
Speaker 1: He said beautiful. I said soulmate relationship is something that
Speaker 1: expands you. So okay, I said, I said men are
Speaker 1: because he married to a man. He's like, men are
Speaker 1: beautiful extension of how I can share because he had
Speaker 1: always a beautiful things, right, I said, wealth is, He's
Speaker 1: like a beautiful way to share with them all. I'm
Speaker 1: like okay. And I said power is and he said evil. So,
Speaker 1: out of all the things, the first negative connotation came
Speaker 1: from the word power. He's a fifty one year old
Speaker 1: gay man, and I asked him, I said, why did
Speaker 1: you think power is evil? So then he said, well,
Speaker 1: I was abused by my parents and that was the
Speaker 1: first example in my life of someone who had power
Speaker 1: and they abused their power. So now I've developed a
Speaker 1: bolief system that anybody who was in a position of
Speaker 1: power that's going to come with evil. He also told
Speaker 1: me that he's learned that abuser people who are abused
Speaker 1: often become the ones who end up abusing also, so
Speaker 1: he subconsciously always told the universe, I hope I don't
Speaker 1: get into a position of power right because I don't
Speaker 1: want to become an abuser as well. Yeah, so I
Speaker 1: said to him, I said, did you hear what you
Speaker 1: just said? Do you believe that having more wealth means
Speaker 1: you're gonna have more power? Is like yeah, I said, Okay,
Speaker 1: So every day you wake up in the morning, you
Speaker 1: tell the universe, hey, I want to make a lot
Speaker 1: of money, and then you also tell the universe and
Speaker 1: make sure you send me no money because anything above
Speaker 1: two million is going to give me power. So it's
Speaker 1: interesting his vessel still makes good money, but not enough
Speaker 1: to make him feel powerful, which is what he is
Speaker 1: subconsciously manifesting his whole life. So as soon as he
Speaker 1: can just and is such an easy transformation, this is
Speaker 1: what this wisdom teaches. As soon as he can associate
Speaker 1: power with goodness just in his mind will open up
Speaker 1: those gates so he won't keep getting lawsuits or product
Speaker 1: issues or supply chain issues or keep coming up. I
Speaker 1: have thousands of these stories.
Speaker 2: No, it's so fascinating because as soon as you said that,
Speaker 2: I was like, Yeah, his belief is I want it,
Speaker 2: but I don't want too much. And the idea of
Speaker 2: and this is my next question to you, is you
Speaker 2: were talking about he wasn't feeling fulfilled even though he had,
Speaker 2: you know, this two million dollar business. My friend is saying,
Speaker 2: I'm just not My partner keeps telling me, why are
Speaker 2: you're not content with this life? Like, why you're not
Speaker 2: content with what we have? We have love, we have
Speaker 2: you know, we have our partnership. Why is that not enough?
Speaker 2: Like why you're not content? So for someone who is
Speaker 2: feeling that way, or is someone asking them that question,
Speaker 2: how do you know when enough is enough? And how
Speaker 2: do you know when yeah, like I should be content
Speaker 2: with this? And what does contentment feel like for someone?
Speaker 1: It's a great question. Most of my life I always
Speaker 1: pursued what the next thing is, So, whether in the
Speaker 1: spiritual realm, if it's helping another human, if it's another seminar,
Speaker 1: if it's expanding wisdom in this way, or in the
Speaker 1: business world, new revenue goals, new retail distribution, I'm literally
Speaker 1: talking to you because I know you go through the
Speaker 1: exact sit right. You literally are in both worlds. You're
Speaker 1: helping inspire people through consciousness, wisdom, spirituality, nutrition like that
Speaker 1: whole world. And you guys are incredible business people like
Speaker 1: your products. Like you're in both worlds. There's always a
Speaker 1: sense of how can I achieve more and achieve more
Speaker 1: to achieve more? And something I learned is I started
Speaker 1: to experience my dopamine, my fulfillment through the satisfaction of achievement.
Speaker 1: By achieving, I felt satisfied, and that became how I
Speaker 1: enjoyed my life. It wasn't until by a few years ago,
Speaker 1: because I'm forty two now that I realized, wait a minute,
Speaker 1: this is never ending. Because once once my company reached
Speaker 1: a certain point, and once I could buy anything I
Speaker 1: wanted to buy, and once I had all the things,
Speaker 1: I'm like, wait a minute, this is going to kill me.
Speaker 1: Meaning the constant pursuit of the next thing to achieve.
Speaker 1: It's right, and see the wealthiest people in the world,
Speaker 1: they're like, well we've achieved everything. Well, now let's go
Speaker 1: conquer outer space. Now let's go conquer the next thing.
Speaker 1: A lie, So there's always this thing you need to conquer.
Speaker 1: And I realize that even though I'm creating moments of satisfaction,
Speaker 1: I'm not creating moments of enjoyment. I'm not going deep
Speaker 1: in the things that I already have. It's like, I
Speaker 1: get it, I put it aside, I move out the
Speaker 1: next And part of connecting to miracles is the ability
Speaker 1: to do both. We have to always pursue what the
Speaker 1: next level of our soul is, asking us to do
Speaker 1: nothing wrong with that. Think bigger, think, more innovative, think
Speaker 1: like whatever. Never stop in your pursuit of the things
Speaker 1: you desire. But if you do that and you cannot
Speaker 1: at the same time go deep in what you have,
Speaker 1: this relationship that's in front of you. Do you really
Speaker 1: know this person? Are you really enjoying every moment with them,
Speaker 1: every word that comes out of their mouth, intimately every
Speaker 1: part of their body? Are you? Are you just scratching
Speaker 1: the surface and moving on scratching this movement. So everyone's
Speaker 1: always kind of like check in the box, putting points
Speaker 1: on the scoreboard, and then like getting more points instead
Speaker 1: of I've learned when I'm sitting and having a meal,
Speaker 1: I want to savor every bite even though I could
Speaker 1: probably have any meal I want in the world by
Speaker 1: any chef, like you, will enjoy this basic meal that
Speaker 1: is maybe not cooked to perfection and it's kind of
Speaker 1: cold and maybe it's the day old or whatever it is.
Speaker 1: If you go deep, the lights of the Creator exist
Speaker 1: in this, in this banana, and the same way the
Speaker 1: light of the Creator exists in you building a company
Speaker 1: that brings you millions of dollars a year, or you
Speaker 1: manifesting a soulmate. Right, And so one of the things
Speaker 1: I've learned, and this is what the ancient sages have
Speaker 1: been teaching us, which is expand your desire, pursue more,
Speaker 1: pursue innovation, pursue all of it, and at the same time,
Speaker 1: make sure you go very deep. You got quality and quantity,
Speaker 1: and you must have both to manifest miracles. Some people
Speaker 1: are really focused on just enjoying and savoring in the moment,
Speaker 1: but they're so afraid to break out into what their
Speaker 1: soul is meant to do. Other people they're always next, next, next, next, next, next,
Speaker 1: but they can't just sit down and have dinner with
Speaker 1: their spouse and enjoy and savor of that moment. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so I've learned I don't have a laptop anymore, which
Speaker 1: has been phenomenal. Even this phone phone is off twenty
Speaker 1: five hours a week for a full day, and then
Speaker 1: every day when I come home, it's off at like
Speaker 1: six seven pm. Because every time I'm on my phone,
Speaker 1: my phone represents what's next, right or do I talk
Speaker 1: to email, text, plan, vision, social media? It's not stuff
Speaker 1: the phone is off. Then I'm like, well, I got
Speaker 1: to go deep, right, I gotta go deep with what
Speaker 1: I have. Yeh. I sometimes do a meditation who would
Speaker 1: I be if I went to prison, because there's no
Speaker 1: problem with visualizing. You know, negative scenarios. You don't manifest
Speaker 1: them if you proactively vision them. So I'm just saying, yeah,
Speaker 1: this is really is a very interesting topic we can
Speaker 1: talk about deck. So I said, if I was in
Speaker 1: prison today, what would I do? I would probably have
Speaker 1: a closer connection to the Creator than ever before. I
Speaker 1: would have a closer connection to myself. I would have
Speaker 1: to savor and enjoy the littlest things, the ability to sleep,
Speaker 1: the ability to have a meal that I enjoy, the
Speaker 1: ability maybe maybe if my kids would come and visit
Speaker 1: me during visitation, that one hour with them I'd like
Speaker 1: save every moment. If there was a book I enjoyed reading,
Speaker 1: I'd be great. Now I come to my house, I
Speaker 1: have a thousand books. I look at all of them.
Speaker 1: I'm like, what my kids here. I'm like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: there's so many kids or so many things. Like we're
Speaker 1: just kind of like not dealing with it. So I
Speaker 1: always do the prison meditation. I said, if I was
Speaker 1: in prison or I just got out of prison and
Speaker 1: be like, wow, I get to come here and enjoy
Speaker 1: having a podcast with you and discussing wisdom. If I
Speaker 1: just give me to prison, this most amazing thing in
Speaker 1: the world, right, instead of you know, I kind of
Speaker 1: being like, oh maybe this is my work or I
Speaker 1: gotta do this. This I actually enjoy. But there are
Speaker 1: other things that you become so routine. Yeah, And I
Speaker 1: imagine your husband, like you just got out prison and
Speaker 1: you get this, your husband like, wow, this is incredible.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: I had this woman the other day. She's like, I'm
Speaker 1: gonna go home. Can you give me some wisdom before
Speaker 1: I say my husband? I said, imagine you just came
Speaker 1: out of prison and you're gonna see you husband for
Speaker 1: the first a year, Like, how would you look into
Speaker 1: his eyes, how would you touch his back? How would
Speaker 1: you hold his hand? Like? How would you hug him?
Speaker 2: Like?
Speaker 1: What would you say to him, like when you say
Speaker 1: the most amazing man in the world. Because I know
Speaker 1: what's going to happen. You're gonna come home, You're gonna
Speaker 1: throw your keys on the floor, You're gonna be like, hey,
Speaker 1: maybe you're gonna be on your phone when you say something. Right,
Speaker 1: you'd be like, I'm tired and we go take a bath.
Speaker 1: But like, so if you can always go through the
Speaker 1: prison example, like you're gonna always go deep and connect
Speaker 1: to the light of everything.
Speaker 2: I love that. Thank you for sharing that you touched
Speaker 2: on miracles. You've said miracles a few times now. I
Speaker 2: feel like miracles has quite like a woo woo vibe
Speaker 2: to it, or like the way that peop we perceive
Speaker 2: it can be quite isoteric and like not relatable. What
Speaker 2: would you like, can you describe miracles and what they are?
Speaker 1: How have you seen people view miracles? Like what is
Speaker 1: the conventional.
Speaker 2: Way things happened that are unexplainable? More like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: this person started walking and they can't walk. I'm saying
Speaker 2: the conventional way of seeing it, or oh they didn't
Speaker 2: speak and now they're speaking, and you know, the kind
Speaker 2: of stuff that you see inside that was maybe impossible.
Speaker 1: Or unexpected exactly. I remember someone came to my teacher
Speaker 1: once and said, you know, I had the most incredible
Speaker 1: miracle today. He said, what second. I was driving on
Speaker 1: the four or five in the freeway and it's going
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, the weather was kind of crazy,
Speaker 1: and some guy came curved in front of me and
Speaker 1: I turned my wheel. The car flipped like I got
Speaker 1: in this huge accent like this is the same day
Speaker 1: the car was totaled. I got out and have a
Speaker 1: scratch on. So my teacher smiles and says, you know,
Speaker 1: I had a greater miracle today, And he said, I
Speaker 1: wasn't in a car accident. So it's such a powerful
Speaker 1: story because there are actually some people in this world
Speaker 1: that they they are addicted to experiencing the first kind
Speaker 1: of miracle, which is they subconsciously request chaos, drama, difficult
Speaker 1: situations to come into their life so that they can
Speaker 1: pull themselves out of it and then feel the adrenaline
Speaker 1: rush of Look at the miracle I had. I was
Speaker 1: in this horrible chatoch situation and look what I came
Speaker 1: out without a scratch. And then there's another type of
Speaker 1: person which is always under the radar because they're doing
Speaker 1: enough spiritual work to avoid the car accident in the
Speaker 1: first place. And each person needs to ask themselves who
Speaker 1: they are. Because if you subconsciously want chaos, pain and
Speaker 1: suffering and drama to come up so that you experience
Speaker 1: a miracle, that's like wow, out of nowhere, that's the
Speaker 1: reality you're going to manifest. If you believe, for example,
Speaker 1: that a person must suffer to be successful. Some people
Speaker 1: have this belief system passed down from family members from
Speaker 1: some kind of trauma. Maybe you've learned it in school. Hey,
Speaker 1: you got to suffer before you make a lot of money.
Speaker 1: Then the creator will arrange your reality where you suffer
Speaker 1: for five years, you go up and down, you lose everything,
Speaker 1: and then you take off. But if your belief system
Speaker 1: is you know what, I don't need to suffer in
Speaker 1: one moment, I can have everything without suffering, this becomes
Speaker 1: your vessel and so this becomes your new reality. So
Speaker 1: the way I like to define miracles is there is
Speaker 1: a certain amount of fulfillment that is in a state
Speaker 1: of potential that is destined to be in your life.
Speaker 1: You can reveal that in one moment, in one day,
Speaker 1: in one year, or it could take you a lifetime.
Speaker 1: I could take you many lifetimes. How long it takes
Speaker 1: is your free will. But everything that you want or
Speaker 1: ever will want, it's yours. No one can take it
Speaker 1: from you. Some other people might be holding onto it.
Speaker 1: Someone else might be married to your soulmate right now
Speaker 1: because you're not ready. Some people might be holding onto
Speaker 1: your money right now because your vessel's just not ready
Speaker 1: to re see it. If you got it today, you
Speaker 1: wouldn't know what to do with it. The true miracle
Speaker 1: is when you look inside yourself and you transform yourself
Speaker 1: in a way that instantly allows the universe to finally
Speaker 1: give to you what is yours. The greatest gifts in
Speaker 1: our lives never came because we were needy of it
Speaker 1: or we were like chasing it down. It's always that
Speaker 1: thing where you want it, you struggle to get it,
Speaker 1: and you know what, I'm gonna let go. Like this
Speaker 1: woman who constantly wanted to be with her soulmates like
Speaker 1: I'm fighting, went on date after date and talk to everybody,
Speaker 1: introduced me to everyone obsessing over a so mad I'm
Speaker 1: getting older, or I got to have kids, obsession and obsession.
Speaker 1: And then she said, you know what, She was exhausted
Speaker 1: after all these dates in La. She said, I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna work on myself. She stopped thinking about men. She
Speaker 1: just worked on herself. She took care of her body,
Speaker 1: she slept well, she focused on her career. Like a
Speaker 1: week later, it's this guy came from the back door.
Speaker 1: Miracles always come from the place that you're no longer needy,
Speaker 1: and a miracle really is just your future fulfillment, that
Speaker 1: is yours being revealed in this moment. It can take
Speaker 1: a long time, it can happen now, It can happen
Speaker 1: through suffering and pain, if you believe it needs to
Speaker 1: or can happen easily. It all depends on your belief system.
Speaker 1: As immigrants or we come from immigrant parents. Often when
Speaker 1: I saw this in my own family, they do believe
Speaker 1: that things should not or cannot come easily.
Speaker 2: Right, yeah, same, right?
Speaker 1: Does it happened?
Speaker 2: I mean yeah, my parents were immigrants going to the
Speaker 2: UK with literally nothing because they came from Africa and
Speaker 2: got sent away with literally nothing that they earned or
Speaker 2: nothing that they had and they had as refugees in Glasgow,
Speaker 2: and that would have been someone would have been in twenties,
Speaker 2: late seventies exactly my parents.
Speaker 1: I believe it also in late seventies come to the
Speaker 1: US with nothing, and what do you feel at the
Speaker 1: belief systems that maybe family members had or maybe that
Speaker 1: you ended up seeing and became part of you, that
Speaker 1: you would consider to be limited at this point.
Speaker 2: I think with money, because they had to work harder
Speaker 2: than a lot of people have to work to get
Speaker 2: into a position to even earn money. It was everything
Speaker 2: has to be saved and nothing is to be enjoyed
Speaker 2: for us, okay, like everything has to be saved, and
Speaker 2: it's obviously such a sweet mentality because it's like we
Speaker 2: won't spend on us, but we'll spend on our children.
Speaker 2: We will not spend it on things that are luxurious,
Speaker 2: Like would my parents ever think of getting a massage
Speaker 2: for themselves? Absolutely, But would they get me one for
Speaker 2: my birth day? Of course they would. So it's everything
Speaker 2: is saved for your future and to sick you're a
Speaker 2: future for my children, But not to spend on luxuries
Speaker 2: on myself.
Speaker 1: Unbelievable example, because the truth is the happiest children in
Speaker 1: this world, the most the promost prosperous children. And one
Speaker 1: of my spiritual mentors told me, because he was traveling
Speaker 1: all the time, he didn't see his kids as much,
Speaker 1: but he had incredible kids, like the kids loved them,
Speaker 1: they were great, Like they're such a good relationship, and
Speaker 1: they were growing to be such amazing children in their teens.
Speaker 1: And I said, what's your secret? He said, even though
Speaker 1: I travel so much, I don't get to be with them.
Speaker 1: Children just want to see their parents happy. Yeah, truly happy. Right,
Speaker 1: He's like, I invest in myself. I make sure I
Speaker 1: take care of myself. I make sure I do what
Speaker 1: I love, and I'm happy. And then when I'm with
Speaker 1: my children, that energy transfers to them and they are
Speaker 1: so happy seeing me happy. And sometimes when people think
Speaker 1: I should suffer so that my children succeed, what parents
Speaker 1: don't realize is that they are transferring their limit did vessel.
Speaker 1: They're one hundred bulb, not they're a thousand wop bulb
Speaker 1: to their children. Because I always ask parents, I'm like,
Speaker 1: do you want your children to have the same belief
Speaker 1: system as you do? They said, no, of course not.
Speaker 1: I said, so you need to break that generational trauma
Speaker 1: right now, and I'm doing that with my parents. My
Speaker 1: dad's around eighty and my mom and dad are eighty,
Speaker 1: and I take them around the world with me every seminar.
Speaker 1: And I remember my dad like these pair of glasses,
Speaker 1: and my mom's like, I'm going to get it for him,
Speaker 1: but he's gonna get really upset with me.
Speaker 2: Yeah, because it was.
Speaker 1: Like a thousand dollars or something like that. And my
Speaker 1: parents have enough money that they're not going to like,
Speaker 1: they're never going to be able to spend it in
Speaker 1: the rest of their life. And I said, Mom, you're
Speaker 1: going to buy him these glasses. He said, but he's
Speaker 1: gonna scream at me. And when I said, you're going
Speaker 1: to surprise him. So then a couple of days later,
Speaker 1: we're on We're sitting on the plane going back home,
Speaker 1: and then I heard my dad like yelling in the plane,
Speaker 1: and I'm like, Dad, what are you yelling about? It's like,
Speaker 1: can you believe it? Your mom just bought me these
Speaker 1: expensive glasses. A horrible thing to do. I said, Dad,
Speaker 1: you're no longer any ron, you're no longer leaving war.
Speaker 1: I said, your spiritual work, Dad, you need to enjoy
Speaker 1: those glasses. Right, And so the reason why you have
Speaker 1: insomia and the reason why you can't sleep, reason why
Speaker 1: you've anxiety is because you haven't allowed yourself to enjoy.
Speaker 1: That's your spiritual work. Some people's spiritual work is just
Speaker 1: a receiver. Yeah, just let it in enjoy. And so
Speaker 1: he then he smiled at me because he's you know,
Speaker 1: he follows my content. So he's like, he's like, Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna enjoy these glasses, and that for him is
Speaker 1: his spiritual link.
Speaker 2: It's so true. I think that my parents too. I'm like,
Speaker 2: just let me spoil you. It's okay, like we're good.
Speaker 2: Just let me give back to you in this way
Speaker 2: because you have done this for so long for me.
Speaker 2: But it's okay, like let me get you this. It's
Speaker 2: like such small things, but for them it's such a
Speaker 2: big deal because it's like, no, you shouldn't be spending
Speaker 2: your heart and money on me. I'm like, but then
Speaker 2: you didn't spend yours on you either, right, right, totally,
Speaker 2: so who spends it on you?
Speaker 1: It's all these limited beliefs challenge and here's the thing.
Speaker 1: You don't challenge those limited beliefs, the universe will challenge
Speaker 1: them for you. So I told my dad, I said,
Speaker 1: the Creator is giving you money now to use to
Speaker 1: elevate your soul. And in your case, it's to be
Speaker 1: present and enjoy things and be okay to spend and
Speaker 1: spend on yourself. He'll spend on me and the grandkids,
Speaker 1: but it won't spend on.
Speaker 2: A sea, right.
Speaker 1: And I say, if you don't use your money on yourself,
Speaker 1: the Creator will take it away. So then he starts
Speaker 1: having challenges in his business and he sees that the
Speaker 1: Creator is taking it away. And I would talk to
Speaker 1: parents because I imagine you have a lot of parents who
Speaker 1: follow you. Parents, we all have this thing where we
Speaker 1: put our children. Four kids. If you put your children's time, health,
Speaker 1: happiness before your own, and you need to know that
Speaker 1: your children will grow happier, healthier, more confident. If you
Speaker 1: put your life first, you take care of yourself and
Speaker 1: then you then you can take care of your children.
Speaker 2: Your life jacket on first.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you always put your life jacket you what is
Speaker 1: the optygen mask on for us? And and I saw
Speaker 1: this because I did a case study. We interviewed fifty
Speaker 1: parents to see what vitamins they had in their cabinet.
Speaker 1: It was a whole, like we did a whole. It's
Speaker 1: a great So one by one each of the women
Speaker 1: went to their cabinet and they opened it up, and
Speaker 1: I asked them, like, I see fifteen vitamins here, and
Speaker 1: I see probably three from our brand. Yeah, And I said,
Speaker 1: I said, why do you buy marriy roots for your children? Yeah?
Speaker 1: But then it's she said, look, Mary, it's just a
Speaker 1: little premium price. So we buy the best stuff for
Speaker 1: our children, but for ourselves we go to Costco. We
Speaker 1: get the cheapest band out. I'm gonna look at what
Speaker 1: it is. I said, why would you not take care
Speaker 1: of yourself as much as you take care of your children?
Speaker 1: And I think this is a huge, a huge revolution
Speaker 1: in spirituality that's needed now. Is there's nothing wrong. In fact,
Speaker 1: it may be your soul's correction to invest in yourself,
Speaker 1: in your happiness intellectually, spiritually, emotionally, and physically. And then
Speaker 1: you teach your children by example, because you'll pass that
Speaker 1: energy into them and then they'll invest in themselves. If not,
Speaker 1: your children will always look in the outside as ways
Speaker 1: to validate who they are. If you don't set an
Speaker 1: example that they should take care of themselves first.
Speaker 2: It's so true you spoke about self awareness. How does
Speaker 2: someone get to the like what are some practices people
Speaker 2: can do to become self aware? And what does self
Speaker 2: awareness look like for a person day to day? How
Speaker 2: do you know you are in self awareness? Well?
Speaker 1: What is a traditional definition would you say of self awareness?
Speaker 1: To be aware of? What?
Speaker 2: I guess my definition now as time has evolved, is
Speaker 2: one it's linked to presence of like how present am
Speaker 2: I in this moment?
Speaker 1: Like?
Speaker 2: How selfware? How much am I in this body, in
Speaker 2: my mind in this moment? That to me is day
Speaker 2: to day self awareness? And then the bigger self awareness
Speaker 2: is am I constantly making choices and decisions in my
Speaker 2: life that align with my ultimate contentment and fulfillment? I
Speaker 2: guess so.
Speaker 1: Self awareness sounds like an umbrella term from many things.
Speaker 1: And the first thing you said is if self awareness
Speaker 1: equals presence, let's focus on that for a moment. The
Speaker 1: sages say that time doesn't exist. Science backs it that
Speaker 1: the past in the future don't exist, and only this
Speaker 1: moment exists. That means that if you want to be successful,
Speaker 1: if you want to know the fastest way to find
Speaker 1: your soulmate. But the fastest way. Let's say you're dealing
Speaker 1: with the health condition and you need to find the
Speaker 1: right doctor or the right food, the right medicine, and
Speaker 1: you're googling it and you're looking at ai and trying
Speaker 1: to find a solution. The truth is the fastest way
Speaker 1: to your healing. The fastest way to find that herb
Speaker 1: or that medicine or that doctor or whatever you need
Speaker 1: to do to heal yourself is going to come from
Speaker 1: investing all your energy into being fully present with everything
Speaker 1: in your life. Is that when your thoughts go to
Speaker 1: the future of the what ifs, then you start to
Speaker 1: worry about it, or your thoughts go into the past
Speaker 1: and you start to beat yourself up about something you did,
Speaker 1: person you were, something you said to someone. I know
Speaker 1: a woman who's been holding onto just comes to my mind,
Speaker 1: so I'm going to shure it. She lost her child,
Speaker 1: she had an abortion, and it was time that she
Speaker 1: had to do it, and she wasn't feeling well and
Speaker 1: it was a whole thing. But she's been holding on
Speaker 1: to that guilt. Yeah, that change, and she beats herself
Speaker 1: up without realizing that every time she goes into the past,
Speaker 1: and she draws upon that and makes herself feel worse.
Speaker 1: All she's doing now in this present moment is manifesting
Speaker 1: a new negative reality because all that matters is this moment.
Speaker 1: She thinks that by beating herself up over the past,
Speaker 1: she's honoring her child that she lost. And I remember that,
Speaker 1: Mereth and I when we first got married, we for
Speaker 1: the first four years we couldn't have children. Should four miscarriages,
Speaker 1: should single misters, singles, single miscarriage, and then twins. And
Speaker 1: one of the things that we always talked about, because
Speaker 1: there's a very spiritual woman, is no matter what happens,
Speaker 1: it's coming from the Creator and it's good and we
Speaker 1: need to learn our lessons. And by doing that and
Speaker 1: being fully present and happy and committed to this level
Speaker 1: of self awareness is presence in the moment and we're
Speaker 1: completely certain that everything is for the good. That is
Speaker 1: actually how we bring the most light in miracles to
Speaker 1: ourselves and to the souls of our children. And then
Speaker 1: right after having four miscarriages, we had a single child,
Speaker 1: a single child, and then twins. It's like those souls
Speaker 1: all came back exactly in that way. But one thing
Speaker 1: I do know is that often when and it's not easy,
Speaker 1: it's not easy, but when you're holding on to the
Speaker 1: past and you're blaming yourself, or you blame someone, or
Speaker 1: you blame the stress that you had in your life,
Speaker 1: often women blame themselves. By blaming yourself, you're actually blocking
Speaker 1: the new soul from coming down. And so the soul's
Speaker 1: trying to come down. The souls like me, the soul,
Speaker 1: the miracle that is your child, wants to come down.
Speaker 1: But it can only come down to something that is
Speaker 1: of similarity of form because like attracts like. We know
Speaker 1: that when people are positive, positive things come to them.
Speaker 1: When people are in a state of lack, then chaos
Speaker 1: comes to them. So if you're in a state of
Speaker 1: guilt in this moment, or shame or fear, that baby's like,
Speaker 1: I can't come down because I am the opposite of
Speaker 1: this energy. Right the moment you love yourself, forgive yourself
Speaker 1: and you become fully present with how perfect life is.
Speaker 1: Even if you can't see that perfection, then that then
Speaker 1: you're gonna get pregnant and you're gonna be able to
Speaker 1: hold that baby. So sometimes when people come to me
Speaker 1: and they say, you know, I've been trying to have child,
Speaker 1: but I can't have a child. Look for where they
Speaker 1: are not present in this moment because their energy is
Speaker 1: like their womb is fragmented. The woman is in the future,
Speaker 1: or the woman is in the past. There's a part
Speaker 1: of the womb that's still stuck in the past because
Speaker 1: of something that happened. It could be sexual trauma, it
Speaker 1: could be an abortion, it could be a miscarriage. One nos,
Speaker 1: and we got to pull that energy back and then
Speaker 1: come to the present moment. Now your womb is fully present,
Speaker 1: created in this moment, and then the healing will occur
Speaker 1: in the body. Will know what to do. The right doctor,
Speaker 1: the right medicine who knows what comes this is the
Speaker 1: light of the creole, will reveal it for you, and
Speaker 1: now you can bring us all into this one.
Speaker 2: You never realize what you're blocking in your life, Like
Speaker 2: you want something so badly and you think that that
Speaker 2: is what it takes to that is what's required to
Speaker 2: bring that into your life. You think all I need
Speaker 2: to do is have the want and the desire right,
Speaker 2: But you don't realize all the things that are blocking
Speaker 2: you from You may have the deepest desire and the
Speaker 2: deepest one. But then all those other things, whether it's
Speaker 2: the environment that you're putting yourself in to, whether it's
Speaker 2: the thoughts that you're having, whether it's in limiting beliefs,
Speaker 2: Like there's so much more to getting something than just
Speaker 2: wanting it.
Speaker 1: Yes, yes, And this is what this wisdom, wisdom Maccabala says,
Speaker 1: is like there are these universal laws, there's many of them,
Speaker 1: where you can follow as many of them as possible.
Speaker 1: Then you create the vessel, the right circumstance or scenario
Speaker 1: to be able to draw down the thing that is
Speaker 1: destined for you. But it may come in a year
Speaker 1: or ten years or whatever, but you could draw it
Speaker 1: down now and accelerate that process in this one example,
Speaker 1: the universal law of being present and letting go of
Speaker 1: the attachments you have to the future in the past.
Speaker 2: And you said, you said that there's always like a
Speaker 2: quota of what you're owed and it will always come
Speaker 2: to you, But like, does it still come to someone?
Speaker 2: I'm assuming that you still have to do the work
Speaker 2: and do this work to receive it. And so is
Speaker 2: there a possibility that it won't come to you if
Speaker 2: you don't create the life ready to receive it.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so that it's a great question. So, yes, there
Speaker 1: are things that I am destined to receive in this life?
Speaker 1: How do I know what they are? If you want
Speaker 1: to know what you're destined to receive, just ask yourself,
Speaker 1: what do you crave? What do you want? What do
Speaker 1: you have visions of? What's always gnawing at you? Like
Speaker 1: some people say, you know what, I have this vision
Speaker 1: I'm going to be on a stage one day, infecting
Speaker 1: millions of people, even though I'm nowhere near it. Truth is,
Speaker 1: that's part of your destiny, right, even though you don't
Speaker 1: even know how you're going to get there, don't worry.
Speaker 1: I had no idea how I was going to have
Speaker 1: what I have to everything I have today. I had
Speaker 1: no clue, no plan that I'll have, right, But there's
Speaker 1: a part of me that saw a vision of it.
Speaker 1: So now I've learned when I have a vision, it's
Speaker 1: part of my destiny. I don't question it anymore. I
Speaker 1: don't even question how I'm going to get there. The
Speaker 1: universe will take me there. Now. My job right now
Speaker 1: is to ask myself how do I create the vessel?
Speaker 2: Today?
Speaker 1: Part of creating that vessel is asking myself, how can
Speaker 1: I become like the creator today. Well what is the creator?
Speaker 1: Creator is many things, but the biggest thing is certainty.
Speaker 1: The Creator is a force of certainty, not a force
Speaker 1: of doubt. That means that no matter what happens in
Speaker 1: my life, I have complete certainty that it's good. My
Speaker 1: phone falls on the floor like this and it cracks,
Speaker 1: and I hear that crack, I say, I pause. I
Speaker 1: have certainty that even that crack was good. If I'm
Speaker 1: sitting in traffic and it's annoying me, I said, you
Speaker 1: know that was good. I'm working on the deal. Then
Speaker 1: I lost the deal. Even that's good. I remember one
Speaker 1: time I got a something in the mail manila envelope.
Speaker 1: I opened it up, I said it was some You know,
Speaker 1: you get business, you get sued all the time or anything,
Speaker 1: So I THAT'SI. Oh my, Oh, we're getting sued. I said,
Speaker 1: this is amazing. I told my team, guys, we are
Speaker 1: getting sued. This is unbelievably exciting. We got we gotta
Speaker 1: were gona celebrate today. We're gonna go out to dinner.
Speaker 1: We're going to celebrate the lawsuit. Now everyone's like, are
Speaker 1: you crazy? I said to myself, the way you build
Speaker 1: the vessel for miracles to receive all the things that
Speaker 1: are destined for you. Is every time you're given darkness,
Speaker 1: it's the transformer to light you. And the first step
Speaker 1: of transforming anything to light is having certainty that it
Speaker 1: is life. Even though it looks dark. The darker the
Speaker 1: period you're in, the more of the unknown you're in.
Speaker 1: You can't see the future. You have no idea where
Speaker 1: your love is going to come from, prosperity is going
Speaker 1: to from. You know how you're going to pay your bills,
Speaker 1: how how you're going to save your marriage, your child.
Speaker 1: No matter the darkness, the more dark it is, the
Speaker 1: better it is. The more confused you are, the better
Speaker 1: that is, the higher the miracles that are being created
Speaker 1: for you right now in the upper worlds. And so yes,
Speaker 1: when I get a lawsuit, I say, oh, what a pleasure,
Speaker 1: What a pleasure that we're getting sued, and we get
Speaker 1: excited about the darkness. Now I transform it. There was
Speaker 1: a day I got a phone call from my cfo's
Speaker 1: had bad news. I said, wells was the bad news?
Speaker 1: He said, somebody, we just lost a million dollars to
Speaker 1: wire fraud, some kind of fraud. You know, these scammers
Speaker 1: they figured out a way to change the bank account
Speaker 1: and wired something to some Eastern European country. I said, first,
Speaker 1: I got really angry, I got really upset. I'm like,
Speaker 1: whose fault is? This is who we're going to fire
Speaker 1: and call the FBI collors. And then I wait one second.
Speaker 1: My soul came to this world for this moment. It's
Speaker 1: not about the money. It's not about the company, it's
Speaker 1: not about payroll, it's not about anything. My soul came
Speaker 1: to this world in order to transform darkness to light,
Speaker 1: transform anger to compassion, transform all forms of doubt and
Speaker 1: fear into certainty. So my soul asked for this opportunity.
Speaker 1: Whoever these thieves were. My soul asked these thieves to
Speaker 1: come take the money. They can take the paper, they
Speaker 1: can't take the energy unless I give them the energy.
Speaker 1: So I said, give me ten minutes a CLI read back.
Speaker 1: I sat down, and I was in my gym, and
Speaker 1: I closed my eyes, and I said, this is the
Speaker 1: greatest thing that could have happened today. I have complete
Speaker 1: certainty that this is for the good. I have complete
Speaker 1: certainties exactly what needs to happen. This is teaching me
Speaker 1: to overcome anger and control it to surrender because I'm
Speaker 1: seeing it come up. I'm not going to fire everybody
Speaker 1: and blame everybody. I'm going to now get excited about
Speaker 1: this loss of one million dollars. And for ten minutes,
Speaker 1: that's all I did until my mind, body, and soul
Speaker 1: felt it. I called them back when I felt I
Speaker 1: wasn't upset anymore. I said, okay, great, called it FI,
Speaker 1: let's figure it out. No problem. Then everyone hears the
Speaker 1: story like, okay, so what happened after that? A week later,
Speaker 1: I called them back, thinking I did the spiritual work,
Speaker 1: I accessed the realm of miracles. I overcame myself, my
Speaker 1: own negativity. I'm sure we're gonna find the money. It
Speaker 1: says we weren't able to get the money back. It's lost.
Speaker 1: That was the second test, because usually after that point
Speaker 1: you go, oh, this doesn't work spirituality cause and effect
Speaker 1: mumbo jumbo. I said, oh, now it's the second test.
Speaker 1: Now I have double down on certainty. I'm even more
Speaker 1: excited than I really lost it because I have certainty
Speaker 1: that the energy's never gone. And for anybody who's going
Speaker 1: through loss, like you didn't lose anything, you have to
Speaker 1: believe nothing was lost, you lost the relationship, you lost
Speaker 1: the physical body. You didn't lose the energy. Somebody physically died.
Speaker 1: It's very painful, but you actually can connect to their
Speaker 1: soul and the energy in a more powerful way. Maybe
Speaker 1: not through the physical body, but there's other ways. Just
Speaker 1: must maintain certainty. All I know is in the next
Speaker 1: six weeks something happened to the company that revenue and
Speaker 1: sales took off, like exploded in a way that never
Speaker 1: never had before. Now I believe that that test that
Speaker 1: was passed by the founders, which is Mary, Ruth and I,
Speaker 1: because whoever the founders are control the energy of the
Speaker 1: whole company. By passing that test, we opened up the
Speaker 1: gates and vessel we expanded to a thousand bulb to
Speaker 1: be able to bring much more than whatever we lost.
Speaker 1: And so in life you need to realize that every
Speaker 1: time you lose something, every time something's taken away from you,
Speaker 1: it's an illusion. You're being tested to uproot any negativity, fear, anxiety,
Speaker 1: whatever you're holding onto, to become like the Creator, a
Speaker 1: force of certainty, a force of true, truly being complete.
Speaker 1: If you can pass that test intervest On, miracles will come.
Speaker 2: Obviously, the teachers that you have and the wisdom that
Speaker 2: you've learned from. Obviously, in the world, there's like so
Speaker 2: much collective suffering happening, and I'm just curious because usually
Speaker 2: during those times are times where people find it the
Speaker 2: hardest to believe in this message or like to believe
Speaker 2: the idea of feeling like suffering is something good's going
Speaker 2: to come from it. Yeah, is there anything that would
Speaker 2: help people to work through how they're feeling about all
Speaker 2: the suffering happening in the world and any wisdom that
Speaker 2: you gosh, that was shared with you to help, Yeah,
Speaker 2: help through that pain that people are feeling.
Speaker 1: It's a great question the time that we're in now,
Speaker 1: for all the wars and all the suffering that everyone's
Speaker 1: going to collectively, it's an indication of when there's a
Speaker 1: great darkness in the world, it's because there's great light
Speaker 1: that's being revealed. So darkness isn't the absence of light,
Speaker 1: it's the excess of light. So this energy of creation
Speaker 1: is actually trying to come to the world, but because
Speaker 1: the world isn't ready for it, the world is still
Speaker 1: holding on to limited beliefs in our own personal negativity.
Speaker 1: The light starts to burn the light. You know, when
Speaker 1: there's so much light in the room, you close your eyes,
Speaker 1: so you actually experience more darkness. When there's a lot
Speaker 1: of light, when it's so bright, it's darker. What's happening
Speaker 1: to the world now is we're all being pushed to
Speaker 1: transform ourselves, to let go of our negativity, our grudges,
Speaker 1: our lack of unity, and the acceleration of pain and
Speaker 1: suffering is forcing us and pushing us to change something.
Speaker 1: My message to all the people in the world is
Speaker 1: to realize number one. If you're in it, meaning if
Speaker 1: you're in that country right now, it's experiencing to day
Speaker 1: to day. You don't even know if you're going to
Speaker 1: live another day. What you must do now is know
Speaker 1: that you are being tested and challenged to rise to
Speaker 1: your highest consciousness. You're just you, Even in your country
Speaker 1: of ninety million people, one hundred million people, two hundred
Speaker 1: million people, just you, Your light can be strong enough to
Speaker 1: overcome the darkness with the world. Your light could actually
Speaker 1: change your regime, It could change politics, it could change
Speaker 1: the decision for war and no war. Just one person's life.
Speaker 1: So why do you activate one person's light? I tell
Speaker 1: that person in the midst of the greatest pain and
Speaker 1: suffering in darkness, in the midst of your greatest fear. First,
Speaker 1: just have certainty beyond logic, even though you cannot see
Speaker 1: how it's going to be, know that you're okay. Visualize
Speaker 1: yourself completely whole, completely connected, and completely protected. And at
Speaker 1: the same time, you're also willing to let go of everything.
Speaker 1: You see, when we're so busy holding onto our life,
Speaker 1: holding onto our wealth, holding onto everything, the universe starts
Speaker 1: to take it away. When a person is constantly in
Speaker 1: a state of surrender, meaning I'm willing even to let
Speaker 1: go of my life, I'm willing to let go of
Speaker 1: my wealth, and wanting to let go over my respect,
Speaker 1: my honor, and then everything comes to them. When you
Speaker 1: are in a situation that you're so afraid, ask yourself,
Speaker 1: what are you afraid of? And then let it all go?
Speaker 1: Be like I am willing let it all go. This
Speaker 1: is how you immortalize it. A cancer cell is a
Speaker 1: cell that, because you know, the body sells die in
Speaker 1: the region. A cancer cell is a cell that says,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to rejoin name, I'm gonna do my
Speaker 1: own thing. M The other cells are like no we're
Speaker 1: going to die and be reborn cancer cells is no,
Speaker 1: I'm going to hold on, right, you become a swamp
Speaker 1: instead of a river. A river is constantly flowing. A
Speaker 1: swamp hold on collects so it grows, mold, grows bacteria,
Speaker 1: and this is often what happens. If you're in the
Speaker 1: thick of the war. You have now the potential to
Speaker 1: reveal the greatest light because you're in the most difficult situation.
Speaker 1: Hold on to the highest level of certainty and at
Speaker 1: the same time be willing to let go everything. People
Speaker 1: who do that see miracles for all the people around
Speaker 1: the world who are not in it. You need to
Speaker 1: know the greatest way you can help, not just writing
Speaker 1: a check or getting on social media and yelling at everybody. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you have to create unity in your own life. And
Speaker 1: you should look at areas in your life where there's disunity.
Speaker 1: You might have with your son you're at odds, your
Speaker 1: disunity with your spouse over something right now, you're you're
Speaker 1: you're punishing them over something. You have disunity in different
Speaker 1: parts of your life, maybe with someone who's different political
Speaker 1: opinion or religious or whatever. Because of your disunity, you're
Speaker 1: creating fragmentation in other places, especially if it's a country
Speaker 1: that is your origin, your nationality. Right, So you said
Speaker 1: your parents were born in.
Speaker 2: But my grandparents are from India.
Speaker 1: Okay. So for you, the light that you reveal, the
Speaker 1: spiritual work you do all the people you're helping today
Speaker 1: is going to bring light back to those home countries.
Speaker 1: If she's really she's like what, I'm Persian, So you
Speaker 1: know what's happening in your wrong There's a part of
Speaker 1: me that knows that my spiritual work here is what's
Speaker 1: going to go back and bring light and protection there.
Speaker 1: So that is something that is a dual message message
Speaker 1: for people in it. Have certainty and surrender at the
Speaker 1: same time you will be okay, and outside of it,
Speaker 1: make sure you're creating more unity, not less. That's when
Speaker 1: my platform rises above all religion and politics. People ask
Speaker 1: me about politics and religion. I don't even know what
Speaker 1: they're saying. All I know is if we reveal the
Speaker 1: light of the creator all souls, then the darkness goes away.
Speaker 1: That's all I know. Every religion follows me. We're all one,
Speaker 1: all one soul.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel like unity is like the biggest message
Speaker 2: trying to make sure that we're bringing people together rather
Speaker 2: than tearing them apart. I wanted to go back to
Speaker 2: manifestation and little bit because I used to be the
Speaker 2: type of person who said, well, not used to I am.
Speaker 2: I would be like, I don't even want to say
Speaker 2: it because I don't want to manifest it into reality
Speaker 2: in terms of like the negative stuff, I don't even
Speaker 2: don't even say it. Don't even let it have your mouth,
Speaker 2: because you're gonna end up manifesting something that you don't
Speaker 2: want in your life. So could you, because I think
Speaker 2: manifesting and I manifested this, it's just us so loosely
Speaker 2: these days, and I would love to You've obviously worked
Speaker 2: with manifestation for such a long time. Could you break
Speaker 2: down what manifest station actually is and then also tell
Speaker 2: me why you can't negatively manifest.
Speaker 1: Okay, so that's a great question. First about manifestation, I
Speaker 1: would tell everyone to know the probably the most powerful
Speaker 1: tool for manifestation is technology. It's a spiritual technology, which
Speaker 1: is prayer. I think religion has made given prayer kind
Speaker 1: of a bad reputation often because people think that prayer
Speaker 1: is I'm uncomfortable right now. I think that the creator
Speaker 1: God has made a mistake, you know, making me single
Speaker 1: or not giving me this money or this breakthrough. So
Speaker 1: I'm going to now bribe God to change the whole
Speaker 1: system to accommodate some of my discomfort. So this is
Speaker 1: prayer tradition, right, I'm an uncomfortable situation. God, now you
Speaker 1: have an issue. Fix it now for me, Fix it
Speaker 1: for all these people without realizing. Look, if you're going
Speaker 1: through some discomfort, it's because not because God is punishing you. Know,
Speaker 1: if I want, if I put my finger in the
Speaker 1: socket and might get electrocuted, I can't say the electricity
Speaker 1: is punishing me. I just didn't know how to connect
Speaker 1: to this energy. Because in the same way, if I
Speaker 1: know how to plug into electricity lights up a whole home,
Speaker 1: it's so beautiful. The energy is neutral. The energy is
Speaker 1: just there to help me. Putting my finger in the
Speaker 1: socket is me not knowing how to connect. So prayer
Speaker 1: is not a technology to change God because you're uncomfortable.
Speaker 1: Prayer is a vibration and a frequency in any language,
Speaker 1: in your own words, to transform yourself to become a
Speaker 1: vessel that will hold the energy that you're looking for. So,
Speaker 1: for example, if I'm wanting the miracle of wealth or
Speaker 1: the miracle of love. I'm not going to pray for
Speaker 1: my soulmate. Instead, I'm going to pray to the creator
Speaker 1: and say who do I need to become or what
Speaker 1: do I need to transform to become a vessel for
Speaker 1: my soulmate. Because my soulmate wants to come in millions
Speaker 1: of dollars, wants to come in. If you desire it, it
Speaker 1: means it wants to come in. There's there's no deficiency
Speaker 1: in the energy. It cannot come in because the spiritual
Speaker 1: vessel hasn't been built. So when you pray, you are
Speaker 1: basically putting out a signal out into the universe, and
Speaker 1: the universe is you, so that signal is transforming you. So,
Speaker 1: for example, if I relate it to business, every year,
Speaker 1: my job is to think about innovation and think about
Speaker 1: what's like the next big product that I think the
Speaker 1: world needs. And our number one product today, which is
Speaker 1: a hair growth product, is was born two years ago.
Speaker 1: Because I went on a walk and I just started
Speaker 1: to pray. I didn't do focus groups, I didn't go
Speaker 1: to my R and D team, I didn't do any
Speaker 1: of that research. I just went on a walk. And
Speaker 1: I prayed out loud in my own voice in English,
Speaker 1: and I said, create a creator. What is the next
Speaker 1: product we should create? Creator? What do I need to
Speaker 1: transform inside myself in order to reveal this product? Creator?
Speaker 1: What am I own? The citations that by overcoming them,
Speaker 1: I can draw down greater innovation and greater ideas Because
Speaker 1: the idea for a great product exists waiting to be revealed.
Speaker 1: So what do I got to change them? Side myself?
Speaker 1: That was my prayer, and then the series of things
Speaker 1: happened which gave me an idea for a hair growth
Speaker 1: product in a liquid format that just didn't exist. Six
Speaker 1: months later, it was born. Eighteen months later, it's it's
Speaker 1: the number one selling supplement in the United States. All
Speaker 1: of that came just from a walk talking out loud.
Speaker 1: So the first thing I would tell everybody about manifesting
Speaker 1: miracles is and it's crazy Athists do this, Jews, Christian, Muslim, Hindu,
Speaker 1: everyone in the world, because actually my biggest audience is
Speaker 1: Hindu and Muslim because they resonate with the spirituality so much.
Speaker 1: They go for a walk and they just talk out
Speaker 1: loud in whatever language they want, quiet or loud. They
Speaker 1: just have a conversation with the Creator. If it's relationships
Speaker 1: that you're having issue with, say, Creator, help me, help me.
Speaker 1: Who do I need to become? What do I need
Speaker 1: to do? Show me? Guide me. I'm totally open. I'm
Speaker 1: willing to surrender to manifest the vessel to hold that energy.
Speaker 1: Don't just beg for the energy. Don't just beg for
Speaker 1: a thousand watts when you're one hundred ball, beg to
Speaker 1: understand how to become a thousand.
Speaker 2: Become that person.
Speaker 1: That's the most powerful thing. The prayer is. Prayer is
Speaker 1: the first step. We were asking me a question in seminar,
Speaker 1: and when I go before you asked me, did you
Speaker 1: ask the Creator? You ask the universe first, because I'm
Speaker 1: not going to know what the answer is. But if
Speaker 1: you ask the universe, if you ask the Creator, your
Speaker 1: God or whatever, then that message could come through me
Speaker 1: or somebody else. Now it's been granted to come down.
Speaker 1: That's the first thing I would.
Speaker 2: It's so interesting because I feel like for a long
Speaker 2: time I always used to think that you would pray
Speaker 2: four things, and for that was when I was much younger,
Speaker 2: because you'd see that as part of pro It's like,
Speaker 2: I really want this make sure that this person's okay,
Speaker 2: make sure that this happens in my life. And then
Speaker 2: for a good few years, all I've been praying for
Speaker 2: is like the eyes to see the blessings in my life,
Speaker 2: or the hands to receive all the heart that's open
Speaker 2: enough to be able to actually have it in my life,
Speaker 2: and all the tools and things that I need in
Speaker 2: my life to receive whatever is meant for me. And
Speaker 2: I find that one that also detaches you from the
Speaker 2: result of all these things that you want, because you're
Speaker 2: also just not capable of knowing what is for you
Speaker 2: all the time, because it's so much more than just you,
Speaker 2: Like everything is so much bigger than just you. It's
Speaker 2: like everyone around you, it's God. It's like there's so
Speaker 2: much that there is that's beyond what you think you
Speaker 2: deserve or what you think should be in your life.
Speaker 2: And so sometimes you can end up asking for so
Speaker 2: many things. And that's why I ask about manifestation, where
Speaker 2: you can end up asking for lots and lots of things.
Speaker 2: But what if you're asking for the wrong things?
Speaker 1: Correct?
Speaker 2: And like what if you actually have no idea whether
Speaker 2: that's actually what you need in your life?
Speaker 1: Correct?
Speaker 2: And so like how careful you have to be when
Speaker 2: you're praying or when you're desiring or when you're manifesting
Speaker 2: in your life. It's such a I especially if you
Speaker 2: deeply believe in It's like it's such a tricky thing
Speaker 2: because you have to be like, okay, wait, actually sometimes
Speaker 2: I'll say something, Actually, God, I was actually joking. I
Speaker 2: don't actually want that, like, just bring up. I don't
Speaker 2: actually want it.
Speaker 1: I was just I was just saying, you just said
Speaker 1: something very powerful. You know. Sometimes people are like, well,
Speaker 1: how do I know what to pray for? What if
Speaker 1: that's not what the Creator wants from me and whatnot?
Speaker 1: And so you're allowed to pray in two ways. Number
Speaker 1: one is if you feel strongly that you want to
Speaker 1: manifest something or you have a goal in front of you,
Speaker 1: you can pray to manifest that goal, and simultaneously you
Speaker 1: give a backup prayer that says, in Creator, I am
Speaker 1: open to go into a completely different.
Speaker 2: Path, right exactly.
Speaker 1: So, Like, let's say, in a relationship and you're not
Speaker 1: sure if it's the right one. I hear this all
Speaker 1: the time. I'm dating this guy, I'm not sure he's
Speaker 1: the right one, But what do I do I don't
Speaker 1: want to go all in. If he's not my soul
Speaker 1: might this and that. I said, look, this is the
Speaker 1: person the Creator is put in front of you. You
Speaker 1: go all the way, and at the same time tell
Speaker 1: the Creator I'm going to go all the way. But
Speaker 1: if it's not meant to me, not meant for me,
Speaker 1: if it's not right, if I need to go a
Speaker 1: different path, I'm also completely open, and I want you
Speaker 1: to show me. What you don't want is your trauma
Speaker 1: and your soul corrections and your fears to be making
Speaker 1: the decision. Because sometimes people stay in relationship not because
Speaker 1: it's exactly what the creator wants for them, not because
Speaker 1: it's what their soul wants, but because of fears. They're
Speaker 1: afraid to be alone. They're afraid they're not going to
Speaker 1: find someone better, They're afraid of what everyone's going to
Speaker 1: think about them, their community, their religion or whatever, and
Speaker 1: so they stay not because it's it's the best interests
Speaker 1: of their soul and what the universe is trying to
Speaker 1: give them, but because they're allowing their fears to run
Speaker 1: the show. So we need to desire everything and at
Speaker 1: the same time need nothing, be willing to let go
Speaker 1: and be open simultaneously, and I want to now you're
Speaker 1: second party. A question was how do you make sure
Speaker 1: you don't manifest something negative? This is a really powerful
Speaker 1: concept when you proactively sit down and you choose to
Speaker 1: visualize something that is let's say, going to prison sounds
Speaker 1: so morbid. Sage you say it is positive for a
Speaker 1: person to visualize their funeral. Why because when you visualize
Speaker 1: your funeral the day of your death, it humbles you. Right,
Speaker 1: you realize all the things you're chasing in the validation
Speaker 1: all that doesn't really mean anything. So that's a positive thing.
Speaker 1: So the sage just say, when you are proactively choosing
Speaker 1: to go into deepest fears to experience the worst kiss
Speaker 1: scenario to uh. A woman yesterday just got divorced and
Speaker 1: I workshopped her. It was in a group in front
Speaker 1: of a couple hundred people. I brought her up and
Speaker 1: I said, what's your biggest fear right now? So I
Speaker 1: you know my ex husband is going to move on
Speaker 1: and beat someone better, and she's more beautiful than me.
Speaker 1: I said, you know what, let's do this together. Imagined
Speaker 1: he meant, he finds the most beautiful woman younger than you,
Speaker 1: more charismatic than you. All your friends like her more,
Speaker 1: your six year old son likes her. They get married,
Speaker 1: he gives her the wedding of the than you never
Speaker 1: had he And I said, what is it you really
Speaker 1: wish your ex husband did for you that he never did?
Speaker 1: He was never present, he was never listening. So now
Speaker 1: imagine you heard that he's the most present guy with her. Like,
Speaker 1: I just kept going to the worst case scenario and
Speaker 1: you see this huge wedding, and I said, imagine that
Speaker 1: I officiate the wedding, and you know I because you
Speaker 1: know she's just started figure. So I said, let's now
Speaker 1: experience the most painful situation. Now. I want you to
Speaker 1: feel that you're okay with it, that you are not
Speaker 1: afraid of this, that you still are a hole inside,
Speaker 1: and you have everything, you have complete certainty. Let's go
Speaker 1: through this together. And in ten minutes, what we did
Speaker 1: is we got her to a place where she's now invincible.
Speaker 1: She now has let go of all external validation and fear.
Speaker 1: So in ten minutes she did what probably the universe
Speaker 1: would have slapped her with for five years. Yeah, when
Speaker 1: you choose to look at negativity and go into the
Speaker 1: worst case scenario. Proactively, you're protected when you're driving your
Speaker 1: car and you have intrusive negative thoughts about dying and
Speaker 1: other things. That is when you can manifest something negative
Speaker 1: if you entertain So when it comes from the outside
Speaker 1: and it's controlling you, you need to overcome it and
Speaker 1: push it away when you're choosing and to look at
Speaker 1: something and feel something and experience something because you want
Speaker 1: to overcome it and make the darkness and the light
Speaker 1: then you're projected.
Speaker 2: That's such a great way of looking at it. You
Speaker 2: touched on relationships, and I wanted to touch on that
Speaker 2: a little bit because you spoke about this lady the
Speaker 2: man coming back the husband and saying, whatever she's got,
Speaker 2: I want it. And you talk about magnetic energy a lot.
Speaker 2: How can a woman create magnetic energy? Like? What does
Speaker 2: that look like? How does that work good?
Speaker 1: I just gave this love course it's the Spiritual Laws
Speaker 1: of Love, and we talked about four different buckets of
Speaker 1: how a woman can become magnetic. And there's the emotional thing.
Speaker 1: There's an emotional bucket, the intellectual bucket, the physical, and
Speaker 1: the spiritual and the main principles are to realize that
Speaker 1: when you invest in yourself physically, not for the sake
Speaker 1: of neediness or fear or low self worth, but because
Speaker 1: the Creator is beautiful, so you should beautiful. The Creator
Speaker 1: is perfect, so it's okay to invest in your whole self,
Speaker 1: to become whole, whatever is authentic to you. I always
Speaker 1: tell men and women don't especially if you're on the
Speaker 1: spiritual about don't discount the value of investing in yourself physically,
Speaker 1: in your clothing and your health as you teach in
Speaker 1: your beauty. This is not something vain, and in fact,
Speaker 1: the stages were some of the most beautiful souls, most
Speaker 1: handsome and most beautiful women in the world, lived thousands
Speaker 1: of years ago, from the Bible, in the Koran, and
Speaker 1: all the different spiritual teachings. So don't have a limited
Speaker 1: belief system by investing in yourself, but do it from
Speaker 1: a place of wholeness, not that because you think you
Speaker 1: need this to be beautiful.
Speaker 2: Yeah, I feel that there's like the vanity is obsession,
Speaker 2: but investing is care. I love that right, Like there's
Speaker 2: just that fine line between the two before it becomes vanity.
Speaker 2: You've spoken about EVILAI before and even if you're just
Speaker 2: like there are some people like I'm so happy in
Speaker 2: my life, I just like get so scared that something's
Speaker 2: gonna happen or like something's gonna go away. Now, do
Speaker 2: you think the more eyes on I mean, obviously you
Speaker 2: do things publicly. If do you think the more eyes
Speaker 2: that someone has on them, do you think there's a
Speaker 2: possibility of evil eye? And like, is that something Real's
Speaker 2: a good question.
Speaker 1: So evil eye is real, but there are also ways
Speaker 1: to vibrationally protect yourself. You're never affected by it. So
Speaker 1: I'll talk about how it's real. First number one, evil
Speaker 1: I is basically by definition, not someone who wants to
Speaker 1: harm you. But anytime lack is awakened in a person
Speaker 1: because of something you're doing, saying, or presenting that lacks
Speaker 1: just energy, that lack starts to pull energy away from
Speaker 1: you and siphon your energy. It could even be somebody
Speaker 1: who loves you. So for example, let's say a woman
Speaker 1: just got say a girl, she's twenty six, she just
Speaker 1: got married, and she's having her first child in the
Speaker 1: first year. Yes, but she has a sister who's thirty five, yeah,
Speaker 1: who's not married, and her older sister loves her younger sister,
Speaker 1: and it's so happy that she's married, has a kid.
Speaker 1: But every time the older sister sees her younger sister,
Speaker 1: she's reminded of the fact that she doesn't have a child.
Speaker 1: She's singing, she's alone, but she loves her sister. She
Speaker 1: doesn't want any harm to come to her. But that
Speaker 1: lack that's awakened in her older sister is pulls some
Speaker 1: energy away, and that is why there are some traditions.
Speaker 1: Maybe you can tell me if this is true in
Speaker 1: your beliefs that in the first three months of her pregnancy,
Speaker 1: we don't reveal it, don't tell anyone, We don't tell anyone, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: can't be the whole nine months, But capabalistically, the first
Speaker 1: three months is actually the time when the soul's coming down.
Speaker 1: So the first part of the soul comes in the
Speaker 1: ninety day mark, so it's the most Yeah, and in
Speaker 1: the most fragile periods of time. We want to protect it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the same way a baby is an embryonic float. It's
Speaker 1: very protected during the beginning stages. We don't want external
Speaker 1: energies to come in. And so a woman in our
Speaker 1: tradition energetically well not tell anyone in the world, including
Speaker 1: their parents. Often that they're pregnant for the first three months,
Speaker 1: allow the first part of the soul to come in.
Speaker 1: There's more stability. You can't hide everything from people in
Speaker 1: the world. But the truth is, even with Mary Ruth
Speaker 1: Organix first seventy eight years, we never told the public
Speaker 1: anything about our company, and no one knew how big
Speaker 1: we were. No one knew anything, and it avoided all
Speaker 1: the unnecessary legal issues and hatred that often people throw
Speaker 1: at to take advantage of you. I've learned prospering in
Speaker 1: silence for as long as possible. It's just going to
Speaker 1: make it easier to prosper. You're not awakening everyone's lack,
Speaker 1: you're not waking everyone's scrutiny and everyone's judgment. And then
Speaker 1: they try to sabotage. Now, how can you protect yourself
Speaker 1: in your alf Number One, If you're flaunting it because
Speaker 1: you're wanting other people's validation, you are now entering into
Speaker 1: a transaction. You're basically saying, Hey, I'm opening my door
Speaker 1: because I need your energy of validation to come to me.
Speaker 1: In that same way, now that you've opened your door,
Speaker 1: you're basically allowing them to take energy away from you
Speaker 1: to their evil eye. If you do not. The way
Speaker 1: to protect yourself from evil eye is never needing anyone's
Speaker 1: approval of validation. That means that your gateways here aura
Speaker 1: is closed. So people can give you evil that all
Speaker 1: you want, But if you don't need them to like you,
Speaker 1: if you're not looking for them to respect you. Kind
Speaker 1: of like that. You know that guy who has a
Speaker 1: loud car and he revs his engine like no woman
Speaker 1: ever in the world finds that attractive, but for something
Speaker 1: it's so it's so noisy and annoying. But the fact
Speaker 1: that he thinks he's trying to get you to look
Speaker 1: at hey, look at me. I have a fast car,
Speaker 1: I have a noisy I have a strong crime, must
Speaker 1: be really cool or rich or whatever. He actually is
Speaker 1: opening up his aura for people to take energy from him.
Speaker 1: So there's problems. So like if I drove a really
Speaker 1: nice car and I parked it somewhere because I want
Speaker 1: everybody to see it, I want to bring in a
Speaker 1: realize like I'm right wealthy, I'm right powerful. I'm opening
Speaker 1: the protective layer of the car and my soul. Now,
Speaker 1: there's nothing wrong with having a nice car. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: had a nice car once. I don't have it anymore.
Speaker 1: I used to drive it because I enjoyed the car,
Speaker 1: but I always tried to make sure that no one else.
Speaker 1: I wasn't throwing I wasn't using it for people to
Speaker 1: look at me, because often wealthier somebody is the less
Speaker 1: they want everybody to know about it. Right, I need
Speaker 1: to notice that, right? Yeah, the wealthiest people drive like
Speaker 1: cars that are like not noticeable. They dress off them
Speaker 1: like they're homeless. They don't want to be overexposed because
Speaker 1: they understand what happens when people see their energy they
Speaker 1: come to take. And so number one way to protect
Speaker 1: yourself from UVLIE and be immune to it is do
Speaker 1: not need other people to respect you like you or
Speaker 1: you need their validation for your own self worth. Hmm.
Speaker 2: That's actually a really good way of doing. I always
Speaker 2: think about that with the lack question and of when
Speaker 2: you're putting things out there, how is it making other
Speaker 2: people feel? And I always like have debated that in mind.
Speaker 2: If I'm like, is this going to make someone feel
Speaker 2: really horrible about themselves?
Speaker 1: You think about that?
Speaker 2: Yeah, I do, well, we yeah, And That's why I'm like,
Speaker 2: whether it's like relationship stuff or whether it's anything, I'm
Speaker 2: always there's always a I'm always got two minds about it.
Speaker 2: I'm like, this could be inspiring, but then also is
Speaker 2: it going to just make someone feel so crap about themselves?
Speaker 1: I love that and it's.
Speaker 2: So and so I always kind of have that batter
Speaker 2: of like, oh, I love you know, us to love sharing.
Speaker 2: My grandma a lot before she passed, and I'd be like, Oh,
Speaker 2: she's just so amazing, and then at the same time,
Speaker 2: I was like, God, am I just opening her up
Speaker 2: to evil light unnecessarily? Because she is just so vibrant,
Speaker 2: so energetic. So many people maybe don't have that relationship
Speaker 2: with their grandma. So I always used to go battle
Speaker 2: between the two. And I struggled with that a lot
Speaker 2: when she got ill and I was like, oh, God,
Speaker 2: did I You know, there's so many thoughts like I'm like, God,
Speaker 2: did I do this? Because I was just like sharing
Speaker 2: her with the world and I didn't like protect her
Speaker 2: energy enough. But I think about that a lot with
Speaker 2: so many things in my life where I'm like is
Speaker 2: there a need? Like also ask yourself, is there a
Speaker 2: need to share this? Like what is the benefit of sharing?
Speaker 1: So you're always trying to find the balance sharing your
Speaker 1: personal life. Yeah, because obviously it's a way to give
Speaker 1: and inspire your community, but not to overshare to the
Speaker 1: point where it makes them feel maybe ashamed or bad
Speaker 1: or guilty or lacking.
Speaker 2: Like everything in the world is kind of like like
Speaker 2: there's always going to be someone that's triggered by something, correct,
Speaker 2: whether it's online or whether it's in person, whether you
Speaker 2: meet people on the street and they see your big,
Speaker 2: beautiful family and they're craving that in their life, and
Speaker 2: so it's almost like you can't avoid it, but you
Speaker 2: can be mindful about the intention behind it.
Speaker 1: Is what you're saying that you said it that is
Speaker 1: the right answer. Meaning if I, in my heart of hearts,
Speaker 1: put a message out, it can be anything, And I
Speaker 1: truly don't want people to be ashamed, to feel less
Speaker 1: than to feel guilt or you know, sometimes people put
Speaker 1: content out just a shame of other people make people
Speaker 1: feel bad because that goes viral. If your true intention
Speaker 1: is you want your unity to be uplifted, then it
Speaker 1: doesn't matter if you post a bikini photo or a
Speaker 1: family photo, or they will feel your intention behind it.
Speaker 1: That's probably the most powerful way to approach posting for
Speaker 1: all creators. Like it was my dream one to talk
Speaker 1: to just creators and come up with a because I
Speaker 1: met a woman once and she was the biggest. She
Speaker 1: had the biggest story views ever on Snapchat, and I
Speaker 1: was like, one hundred million a days would be crazy,
Speaker 1: And I'm like, how do you get so much engagement?
Speaker 1: Because she wasn't really doing anything that was like to
Speaker 1: me well known about. She said, David, I spend twenty
Speaker 1: to thirty minutes meditating before every post. So even if
Speaker 1: I just post a picture of just me, like at
Speaker 1: the farmer's market, I put energy and intention and I
Speaker 1: visualize my audience and so and she's like, it's all energy.
Speaker 1: People feel the energy. That was really powerful.
Speaker 2: Well, honestly, this is like one of the longest podcasts
Speaker 2: that I've done, and I had so many other I've
Speaker 2: got so many cars, but I feel like we should
Speaker 2: definitely still that because there's so much in this that
Speaker 2: people looking to gain from it already. Thank you so much.
Speaker 2: It was such a beautiful conversation and I feel like
Speaker 2: I personally learned so much from it, So thanks, thanks
Speaker 2: so much for having mem