Speaker 1: Second day. It's kind of sweet to think about. But
Speaker 1: your mom is with you through some of the biggest
Speaker 1: moments of your life. Ye like when you took your
Speaker 1: very first steps, or when you scored your first goal
Speaker 1: in soccer. In my case, when I scored with Paula
Speaker 1: Ratchatowski in tenth grade. He had a boy, got a
Speaker 1: second base and mom was right there holding my hand.
Speaker 1: Now this is how you und I know you're wondering
Speaker 1: which hand and don't be gross. Okay, it was the
Speaker 1: other hand. I don't know that it makes it worse
Speaker 1: than my head. It's a memory that I'll never forget
Speaker 1: and either now you shouldn't. I'm glad they should be
Speaker 1: able to share it with all of you. But one
Speaker 1: of our listeners, Lucas, says he may have met the
Speaker 1: one and his mom was there to see it. Lucas
Speaker 1: gets a third. I don't know about that right now.
Speaker 1: I'm glad to hear somebody else's close with their mom.
Speaker 1: But tell us my dad actually get you, guys, get
Speaker 1: on to who this one is. I want to know
Speaker 1: why this sounds important. Tell us about the woman that
Speaker 1: you met. What's her name? Tracy knockout knockout Okay, where
Speaker 1: where did you meet Tracy? We met at a winery.
Speaker 1: It was my mom's birthday and she loves wine and
Speaker 1: she loves when I take her out for her birthday.
Speaker 1: Yeah that's cute. That's a good Yeah. So that's what
Speaker 1: you mean by your mom was there for Yeah? Yeah,
Speaker 1: she was totally there for it. And Tracy's like your age,
Speaker 1: not your mom's like friend that came along for the
Speaker 1: birthday celebration. Right. She was the hostess. She was so friendly.
Speaker 1: I took it maybe was this thirting. Maybe was this
Speaker 1: sort of like feeling it out, you know. And halfway
Speaker 1: through the meal she comes over and she asked how
Speaker 1: everything was going, and I said, if you're wondering, we're
Speaker 1: not dating. This is my mom. Okay, that's pretty funny, Joe.
Speaker 1: I don't think it landed because it was like her
Speaker 1: face turned red. It was awkward. My mom looked at
Speaker 1: me and almost spit out her wine. Oh no, even
Speaker 1: mom didn't think you were funny. That's never a good sign.
Speaker 1: She just kissed her passionately and been like, don't worry,
Speaker 1: that's my mom, right. I mean, in your defense, man,
Speaker 1: it's hard to come off looking suave and smooth while
Speaker 1: your mom is sitting and right next to you. No
Speaker 1: one is smooth in front of her mommy. It is
Speaker 1: also hard to know, like when staff likes you or
Speaker 1: if they're just trying to get a good tip. You
Speaker 1: know the thing. I'm like, I think you're right, and
Speaker 1: I mean she laughed afterwards, but and then I think
Speaker 1: I just realized she was just being a professional hostess,
Speaker 1: but like I was totally trying to impress her. I
Speaker 1: was talking about wines with her, and that's where the
Speaker 1: sort of I found that old. I think that was
Speaker 1: a connection. Bro. Wow, this is ever you're trying, even
Speaker 1: if you're not funny, You're you're trying to make her pa.
Speaker 1: You're giving out positive vibes. I think that's the most
Speaker 1: important to people. Was it's a good look like that
Speaker 1: you're taking your mom out for her birthday. You know.
Speaker 1: So how were you you able to like establish a
Speaker 1: connection with Tracy? Okay, so later on in the dinner,
Speaker 1: we're winding up and I go over to Tracy and
Speaker 1: I asked her could you put the candles on the
Speaker 1: birthday cake that I brought? And she said, you are
Speaker 1: so sweet, And that's when I knew that was my opening. Yea,
Speaker 1: and yeah, so I said, love to hang out. She agreed,
Speaker 1: she gave me her number, um, and then her boss
Speaker 1: all of a sudden needed her to go away, and
Speaker 1: I said, goodbye, and we will communicate later. Ye will communicate,
Speaker 1: We will establish correspondence. My people will call your people.
Speaker 1: I will send a messenger. Done my science background. So
Speaker 1: no worries. Man, We're so so you were able to
Speaker 1: get her number. So yeah, we texted for like a
Speaker 1: couple of days, and we set a date for actual
Speaker 1: meet up, and like at the last minute the day
Speaker 1: before she said, oh, um, you know, I'm sorry, I
Speaker 1: have to cancel. And then a couple of days later nothing.
Speaker 1: And I have no idea why I'm getting ghosted, but
Speaker 1: I am and I'd love for you guys to maybe
Speaker 1: help and figure and I were just talking about this
Speaker 1: because he was talking about how he always gets canceled
Speaker 1: on I think, like the last three days, and it
Speaker 1: just seems like it's part of like dating, right, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I think it is part of the culture. Maybe like
Speaker 1: taking sucks. I mean for me, I'm sure it is
Speaker 1: my fault, but for you, Yeah, it's just dating in general. Bro,
Speaker 1: Is there anything that you could think of from the
Speaker 1: date that you would think might be a red flag
Speaker 1: to her. I don't think so, because she wouldn't have
Speaker 1: given her number, and I couldn't imagine there's anything I
Speaker 1: did or said or came across as being or anything
Speaker 1: like that. I mean, like I said, she's a knockout beautiful.
Speaker 1: So maybe she has a bunch of guys in her
Speaker 1: dating que and you know, why would she why would
Speaker 1: she spend time with me? I don't know. He definitely
Speaker 1: does have a bunch of dudes. Bro is how the
Speaker 1: internet works, because that doesn't mean that you don't deserve
Speaker 1: a shot. You could be the best of the bunch
Speaker 1: of dude. So we'll play a song, will come back,
Speaker 1: and we're going to establish correspondence. We will communicate with
Speaker 1: her and figure out why she's not calling you back,
Speaker 1: why she canceled on you at the last second. It's
Speaker 1: not cool. We'll do it right after this when we
Speaker 1: do your second date outdate hold on the date. You're
Speaker 1: in the middle of a second date update update, we're
Speaker 1: gonna find out how the couple is doing right after
Speaker 1: you Here Part two. They say one of the keys
Speaker 1: to impressing a woman is to do something excellent in
Speaker 1: her presence. And I feel like just listening to Lucas's
Speaker 1: story today, you know, he may not sound like the
Speaker 1: most swath of guy in the world, but the fact
Speaker 1: that he walked up to the hostess that day and said, he,
Speaker 1: baby girl, I brought some special candles for my mama's birthday.
Speaker 1: Oh can you grab these from me and put them
Speaker 1: on top of her moist birthday cake? He had her
Speaker 1: at moist. I don't know, I mean if it was
Speaker 1: maybe somebody else's cake. Don't listen to her, Lucas. That
Speaker 1: was a pro move. No, you don't use the same
Speaker 1: Yeah you do. You're no amateur, Lucas. You are a
Speaker 1: suave man. I am, Yes, I am. Yeah, that's right.
Speaker 1: That's the confidence I'm talking about. Anyway, him and Tracy
Speaker 1: never really ended up having a date date right, but
Speaker 1: he did get her phone number and they did set
Speaker 1: up a time when they're supposed to meet. She canceled though,
Speaker 1: right before it was supposed to happen. So we're gonna
Speaker 1: try and help him figure out why you're Lucas. You're
Speaker 1: gonna turn the charm up to eleven for us, charm
Speaker 1: up to eleven, but I can't say that. I'm not nervous. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean you're super likable. You seem awesome. I think
Speaker 1: we can do this. Thank you. Are you ready? Man?
Speaker 1: We're gonna called Tracy here. I'm ready, I'm ready. All right,
Speaker 1: Here we go. Hello. Hey? Is this Tracy? Yea, Hey Tracy.
Speaker 1: My name's Jeff from the radio show Brooke and Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning. How are you doing. I'm okay. You're
Speaker 1: from a radio show, a morning radio show. Hey, Tracy. Hi, Hey,
Speaker 1: And we do a segment on our show called a
Speaker 1: second Date Update. That's where we help our listeners reconnect
Speaker 1: with people after they've gone out on a date. Now,
Speaker 1: you didn't go out with this guy on an official
Speaker 1: date yet, but you were supposed to. His name's Lucas.
Speaker 1: Oh hereat Yeah, he was really excited about you. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, this is really embarrassing. Yes, don't embarrassing
Speaker 1: for you. I don't think I should talk about are
Speaker 1: you taught? Are you in a relationship? And he didn't
Speaker 1: know or no, no, no, I just oh god, I
Speaker 1: don't know what to say. I just like, I don't
Speaker 1: want to embarrass him. Yeah, he told us about the
Speaker 1: terrible jokes he made. Yeah, he said you laughed though
Speaker 1: I did, okay. And not only that, he said that
Speaker 1: you gave him your phone number and you guys actually
Speaker 1: set up a time to meet, but you canceled it
Speaker 1: the last second. Well, it's just it's been a lot
Speaker 1: since we met that day. It's been a lot. Well,
Speaker 1: it's been a lot. Like he seems like a really
Speaker 1: sweet since you're a nice guy. I'm sure he is.
Speaker 1: It's just why are you convinced yourself? Did he come
Speaker 1: off like too much of a player? Because I kind
Speaker 1: of I kind of got that vibe. It's funny you
Speaker 1: mentioned his mom um. So in the days afterwards, like
Speaker 1: I started to get some text messages from her? What
Speaker 1: from Lucas's mom? Yes? How huh? I really don't. I
Speaker 1: don't know how she could have gotten my number? Maybe
Speaker 1: they lived together. Why would he give it to her?
Speaker 1: Texting you about? Yeah? What was she saying to you?
Speaker 1: She like texted me if she could call me, and
Speaker 1: I feel awkward, So I answered up answering, and he
Speaker 1: ended up talking what about? She said, Look, if I'm
Speaker 1: going to be frank, your boobs are too big? Did
Speaker 1: not see that? Comment. Wait, his mom paused, body shame
Speaker 1: you what the hell? My gosh, yes, and hers was
Speaker 1: like she has to be kidding, and she's like, well,
Speaker 1: I'm serious, and and she said, well, Lucas doesn't have
Speaker 1: much experience with that, and he's used to dating much
Speaker 1: smaller chested women like herself, like he can't handle her.
Speaker 1: She did not say that, Yes, she did know. She's
Speaker 1: just like, your boobs are gonna overwhelming. You should have
Speaker 1: seen him when he was a baby. He didn't know, Like,
Speaker 1: we had a real hard time latching, like sneaking out
Speaker 1: of the room and calling his mom like mom, I'm
Speaker 1: really overwhelmed. Right now? What do I do here? I
Speaker 1: don't think there's any way that Lucas could have possibly
Speaker 1: known that this was going to happen. Yeah, I hope.
Speaker 1: I mean that's the one benefit. Yeah, but well maybe
Speaker 1: he did know, because we should probably ask him. And
Speaker 1: that's why need to tell you, Tracy, Lucas is on
Speaker 1: the other line right now. Oh my god, oh my god.
Speaker 1: He needed to hear this. He really needed to hear this.
Speaker 1: Lucas there, Yeah, I heard everything, and my mother's in
Speaker 1: the room and I'm a I'm about oh wait, why
Speaker 1: is she in the room. What? It doesn't matter why
Speaker 1: she she's in me at the room, and I want
Speaker 1: to go talk to her right now. There's so everything,
Speaker 1: so hort hold on, Lucas, did you know that your
Speaker 1: mom was texting Tracy? No? I had no idea. Sorry,
Speaker 1: I mean the surprise for you, Lucas or is this
Speaker 1: a discussion you've had with your mom before? Question? Complete
Speaker 1: surprise and it probably comes from that magazine she found
Speaker 1: when I was seventeen. No, you did not need to
Speaker 1: say that. Really, that does not help here. Whatever, guy,
Speaker 1: what a magazine even was? That's hilarious. I mean, Lucas,
Speaker 1: I really think you need to talk to Tracy here
Speaker 1: because she sounds pretty freaked out. Yeah, and apologize. I
Speaker 1: am going to apologize. Mom. Can you focus on Tracy
Speaker 1: for a second, rip yourself away from your mom for
Speaker 1: two minutes. Sorry, everybody, I'm nervous. Um, Tracy, I want
Speaker 1: you to listen to me. You made me laugh and
Speaker 1: you're the most beautiful woman I've ever met in my life.
Speaker 1: And when I walked in and I saw you gazed
Speaker 1: at me and even I think he's trying. Guys, he
Speaker 1: is your sweet Lucas you know, I feel like you're
Speaker 1: trying to. Maybe it's just a different experience, maybe we're
Speaker 1: in different areas of our lives, and I'm like, you know,
Speaker 1: you're you're really close with your mom and more ways
Speaker 1: than one. I don't think that's funny, but sure, I mean, Tracy,
Speaker 1: you can hear he feels terrible. He had nothing to
Speaker 1: do with it, and we don't even know if that's true.
Speaker 1: That's just what his mom said, Lucas, what do you
Speaker 1: think could you handle a bigger par you got this,
Speaker 1: b Yeah, your mom doesn't believe in you, but I
Speaker 1: you can handle that. Tell her, Lucas, Tell Tracy that
Speaker 1: you could handle her. Tracy, Yeah, can tell you this
Speaker 1: with a certainty that your boobs will never overwhelm me.
Speaker 1: I'll look a right in the eye, man. I could
Speaker 1: just see that in the wedding vows. That was really beautiful.
Speaker 1: It was, And I think this is a good time
Speaker 1: to ask Tracy. We would love to send you in
Speaker 1: Lucas out on another date. Mom will not be there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: a real one on one date and we will pay
Speaker 1: for it. Yeah, just don't bring a lot of cleavage.
Speaker 1: What do you say, Tracy? I mean, I thought talking
Speaker 1: to his mom was the weirdest thing. It's really been strange.
Speaker 1: I have no I don't know. I don't know. Maybe
Speaker 1: we can keep texting for a little bit, see where
Speaker 1: it goes. That's something that's the door is still tracked open. Yeah, yeah, Lucas, Tracy,
Speaker 1: I would love to receive a text from you, and
Speaker 1: then I will send a text back and then well
Speaker 1: we can start all over. And oh and um, if
Speaker 1: you want to send me a picture, that's totally fine.
Speaker 1: All right, that's not I don't know. Maybe a good
Speaker 1: idea him a little terrible timing. Maybe we can share
Speaker 1: a bottle of Pinot noir. Yeah, that's the charmer Broke
Speaker 1: and Jeffrey in the morning. All right, we've all been
Speaker 1: waiting for this. Tracy and Lucas are back once again
Speaker 1: to give all of us an update. Is his mom
Speaker 1: on the phone too, Lucas, is your mom there? Well,
Speaker 1: she's in the bathroom right now. Let's hope that she
Speaker 1: stays there for this because we don't have a lot
Speaker 1: of time. But obviously we have a lot of questions
Speaker 1: we want to ask you too, But let's start with
Speaker 1: the simple one. Are you too currently together? Are you
Speaker 1: not together, Like, what's the relationship status? Yeah, well we
Speaker 1: are back together. Wait, back together? What does that mean?
Speaker 1: That's good news? I have to be real. I was.
Speaker 1: I was kind of hesitant to go out with Lucas again.
Speaker 1: And there was about a month before we even arranged
Speaker 1: you anything. I mean, there's just some some exchanges, we
Speaker 1: had some texts, and there are some nice things that
Speaker 1: he said. So I decided to go out with Lucas again. Lucas,
Speaker 1: how are you doing? It was a rave review right there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm doing really great. And I just want to you know,
Speaker 1: I have some news for everybody and the listeners and
Speaker 1: oh and everything, and um, last week I actually asked
Speaker 1: her to be my girlfriend, like exclusively? Has she answered? Yes? Yes,
Speaker 1: yes I did. Okay, Okay, you guys are official. How
Speaker 1: did your mom feel about that? Oh? She loved it.
Speaker 1: She even paid for my back lack your back lack. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm not sure if we wanted to know about that,
Speaker 1: but the question that we did want to know the
Speaker 1: answer too, Tracy, was Lucas's mom, right? Was he not
Speaker 1: up for the challenge of handling a woman of your caliber?
Speaker 1: You know, I'm happy to say that his mom was
Speaker 1: wrong the big guns. Yeah, I was totally nervous. I mean,
Speaker 1: here's what I did. I looked up tutorials on YouTube
Speaker 1: about like techniques and like, oh my god, I don't
Speaker 1: need to know that. Oh okay, I didn't know you
Speaker 1: were nervous for but now I do. Okay, the tutorials
Speaker 1: paid off though, Oh my gosh. Yeah, I mean, actually,
Speaker 1: I'm going to start making a blog to have like
Speaker 1: other nervous guys. Okay, please don't do that, okay with diagrams.
Speaker 1: Well good, keep us updated and let you know when
Speaker 1: your blog goes live so that Jose and I can
Speaker 1: check it out. I know we could use some pointers. Still,
Speaker 1: congratulations on your back, my friend. Yeah, that was a jog.
Speaker 1: I was just kidding joke. I didn't get an I
Speaker 1: got a serious as well. Broke and Jeffrey in the morning,