Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions.
Speaker 1: Horrible decisions. Welcome, Welcome to horrible decisions. I'm your girl,
Speaker 1: Mandy B and I guess we know. I thought you
Speaker 1: were gonna do a million a case. No, I don't
Speaker 1: want to do my case today. Oh oh great, I'm
Speaker 1: wheezy a K. Thank god, I'm a waiting for this
Speaker 1: moment naked anyway, Mandy got like seventeen aks, but I
Speaker 1: don't know when she's gonna stop, so sometimes I didn't
Speaker 1: even do my aks every intro to be fair, are
Speaker 1: you allowed to get yourself? I didn't give myself them.
Speaker 1: The fans game just said, it's your girl, manny being
Speaker 1: no one has agreed that you are their girls, a
Speaker 1: girl girl, the person sits all right, we got ye.
Speaker 1: So uh let's see. I'm wheezy. I'm sitting next to
Speaker 1: mall a K. That's my crazy. I'm all I'm sitting
Speaker 1: next to I don't like this game. We neither can
Speaker 1: we do it? When you get a new job, that's like,
Speaker 1: that's like look at your neighbor to the left, Like
Speaker 1: I don't want to look at it neighbor. Like the eyebreakers.
Speaker 1: We want to know is who gets their asty Like,
Speaker 1: we're definitely gonna get into no sexual questions on this episode. Bullshit,
Speaker 1: you're none. Okay, let me my first one? Are you?
Speaker 1: Can you start? Wait one moment the excitement? Can you
Speaker 1: start by oh no, you're want to start with the heartbreakers?
Speaker 1: Can you start with introducing the guests out? I don't
Speaker 1: know here? Okay? Can we entry the guests? Yes? Would
Speaker 1: you like me to ben? This is awkward because it's
Speaker 1: like really cool and manager. Anyway, welcome to our show.
Speaker 1: I wanted to start off with some a K s,
Speaker 1: but I'm not allowed to. So you guys are finally bad.
Speaker 1: We know your episode dropped. Tell us your new schedule,
Speaker 1: some new things that may be coming to your um.
Speaker 1: You guys have a podcast. We're not question like like
Speaker 1: like a skitch show, like tell us what your podcast is. Well,
Speaker 1: it's an experience. It's not just a podcast. And you
Speaker 1: guys pod experiment and experience. Yes, you experiment. We have
Speaker 1: experience it, okay, and then record them the world give
Speaker 1: them to the world. Y'all gotta do this ship two
Speaker 1: times a week. We do our audios out every Tuesday
Speaker 1: and Friday videos out Wednesday and Saturday, so you'll see
Speaker 1: our faces a lot. Well, although I didn't want you
Speaker 1: to promot that, I'm gonna ask one podcast and is
Speaker 1: about your dick. My one pod question is, OK, you
Speaker 1: guys seem to be good friends, like you don't fight,
Speaker 1: But have you had a disagreement yet regarding the pod
Speaker 1: or something you wanted from it or something new? Give
Speaker 1: us t disagreement. I don't know about disagree. I mean,
Speaker 1: there's been things we've disagreed and call them or anything.
Speaker 1: Give us one see that. But you know what, I
Speaker 1: loved that y'all just had and said that though, because
Speaker 1: when we disagree somehow it becomes an argument, Like I
Speaker 1: can't disagree like that. We can know you don't argue,
Speaker 1: you too, don't argue. I could never tell that you
Speaker 1: friend goals, but we can get at least the tent.
Speaker 1: But it's nothing but look, it's nothing wrong with that though,
Speaker 1: because y'all y'all seem to get through it and still
Speaker 1: are able to give the people a really dope product
Speaker 1: and really get to the business. And it's still I mean,
Speaker 1: I just met some of our fans. We say it
Speaker 1: all the time. On Patreon. The people are really the
Speaker 1: only reason why this show even is still here, hanging
Speaker 1: by a thread. We meet them a lot. We're not
Speaker 1: hanging back again. Your friendship communication do you think that?
Speaker 1: Do you think it's because of your your work relationship?
Speaker 1: It it fun with you're like real and ship Yeah,
Speaker 1: maybe going to be therapy. And where we got to
Speaker 1: the money and real decisions got made, it got harder
Speaker 1: like we for me, that's what I think it is,
Speaker 1: like y'all have known each other too more outside looking in.
Speaker 1: I think y'all are really like legitimately family and family
Speaker 1: tends to hate each other. After twenty years, we didn't
Speaker 1: speak for five years. So although there was a ten
Speaker 1: year range of us knowing each other, five of those
Speaker 1: years we didn't speak at all. And we started this
Speaker 1: pod literally a month after rekindling after a five year break.
Speaker 1: And I just don't think a lot of things. Oh
Speaker 1: didn't give time. There wasn't fun there. We started this
Speaker 1: spot very to bank account be fine, a thing going
Speaker 1: to be fine. We're actually gonna fight, I'm sure. So
Speaker 1: you become friends? Is this a new marker? Technically? Have
Speaker 1: you really been podding for what like three months. I've
Speaker 1: been fighting for like seven years. When you guys talk
Speaker 1: about your show, do you call it a new show
Speaker 1: or you don't? What's called new roy More? And it's
Speaker 1: a new version of all right? Are you ready? I
Speaker 1: don't know. I'm glad you said my legs out for
Speaker 1: you because they are so All you gotta say is
Speaker 1: yes or no? Okay, that's that's easy. What the cops
Speaker 1: usually say? You said? What the cops usually stay off
Speaker 1: that questions? Have never said that yes, wait which way though?
Speaker 1: Like is his tongue in her? But just your first instinct? Oh,
Speaker 1: I'm both yes, yes, okay, finger in the bat well,
Speaker 1: not mine, not in my? But it was no, I can't.
Speaker 1: I can't say yes and nose of that because I
Speaker 1: would put my finger in her. But yes, but if
Speaker 1: I say yes and then it runs with your more
Speaker 1: beget fingers in this? But like because I know the
Speaker 1: future says I'll put my thumb in her. But but
Speaker 1: is it really? It's never really the thing that I
Speaker 1: feel like I experienced it something like easier to future.
Speaker 1: I've never never looked at it. I would as he's
Speaker 1: making money, you know, it's it's probably feel which which
Speaker 1: finger are y'all putting in the butt. I'm a left
Speaker 1: left thumb, you're a left thumb. You're right with your left. Okay,
Speaker 1: I can do ship my right, so at least I
Speaker 1: have this one free. But you also jeck off your
Speaker 1: dick right with the right sometimes, depending like what the
Speaker 1: mood is, if I'm really into it. Wait you say
Speaker 1: that again. You jerk off with your left. Yeah, you're
Speaker 1: right handed, though I'm left handed. I don't think I
Speaker 1: ever knew you were left handed. Yeah, always the right.
Speaker 1: That's just a century in her mouth, yes, yes, spitting
Speaker 1: your mouth. No, it's happened. If you tongue kiss small,
Speaker 1: that's spitting your mouth. No, come on, man, you know Harlem?
Speaker 1: Do you have to be you don't. I ain't gonna
Speaker 1: hold you. That ain't Harlem because all the niggas from
Speaker 1: Harlem nasty. That's why I know you're lying, you kid.
Speaker 1: You will never find a woman on this planet. You
Speaker 1: can't find woman a woman on this planet that will
Speaker 1: say she spent because you make him sign in the
Speaker 1: a that's no by the bed, like listen before we
Speaker 1: get started, just sign this um. No woman has never
Speaker 1: spent my mom Okay, foot in your mouth. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, and are you circumcised? Last question? Many are
Speaker 1: going on two parents cared about us? You just said
Speaker 1: that matters. We can never like are you allowed to
Speaker 1: have that conversation with your parents? Is that creepy? Like? Thanks?
Speaker 1: Thanks guys for thinking aesthetically of my dick. When I
Speaker 1: was born helped out thing like in Europe, like I
Speaker 1: was born in New York. Ye standard George, though, of
Speaker 1: men are can't go on the outside, not unless you say, yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't think they'll let you leave. They won't let
Speaker 1: the baby leave the hospital here to clean. But at
Speaker 1: the same time, men feel more of a sensation, like
Speaker 1: with their foreskins. So I feel like everybody's always like
Speaker 1: trying to be like, yes, circum but how would they
Speaker 1: know someone been uncircumcised then circumcised themselves. And was like, Yo,
Speaker 1: it's better the other way. It's just saying scientifically proven
Speaker 1: like sensation. I hate when people do this. I don't
Speaker 1: know him. Damn, we're gonna know what's gonna rain. Maybe
Speaker 1: at some point do you say this? She was like, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's way more sensational out than absolutely throughout you said it.
Speaker 1: We are not and being circumcised like a mask for
Speaker 1: your dick. Now that I think about it, yea, yeah,
Speaker 1: it's not being circumcised with like a mask. Yeah, it's
Speaker 1: the CDC of dicks. Wait, how it doesn't seem the opposite,
Speaker 1: not being circus We're not circumcised. I am circumcised, but
Speaker 1: we have a whole room of circumcised dicks. You two.
Speaker 1: Wolf has definitely he has locks. You can't have locks
Speaker 1: and not be circumcised. Actually, I feel like the niggas
Speaker 1: would hair be the ones with the little turtleneck. I
Speaker 1: feel niggas. That's why I really looked at him, because
Speaker 1: I'm like, like, like it has to be like a J.
Speaker 1: Cole kind of hair, you know what I'm saying, not
Speaker 1: like pretty locked. But if your hair. Now you got
Speaker 1: me thinking about which rabbits? Yeah, please don't think about that. Next.
Speaker 1: But where are we going next? Okay, so Many and
Speaker 1: I are going on tour in our theme this year
Speaker 1: is back to school. We're basically teaching people about things.
Speaker 1: I just want to know if you and my teacher
Speaker 1: I would have detention every day. I just want you
Speaker 1: to know that you think so I'm not that was
Speaker 1: real smooth, like I don't know what that's like a
Speaker 1: little too much name all, we don't work like the
Speaker 1: detention line. I feel like it's been that's been used. Okay,
Speaker 1: well I heard of guy. Damn, that's why that's my guy.
Speaker 1: Because the amount of people that think I've slept with
Speaker 1: Rory it's insane because I feel like any time I'm
Speaker 1: talking about it's like me trying. I sound so thir
Speaker 1: you left the world. No that you tried at one point?
Speaker 1: Did you at the live show? I've never said that.
Speaker 1: I've never tried to worry if she did, I missed it. Okay,
Speaker 1: I thought a first drug me when But the entire
Speaker 1: time I'm knowing or he's had a girl, so it
Speaker 1: already started me in threesomes you like couples, you see
Speaker 1: at that point. But I'm sure if was Sam, oh,
Speaker 1: she would have slapped me. You have a tattooed on
Speaker 1: your arm? Oh wow, there's still hoping. Anyway. I don't
Speaker 1: really always feel like I had, you know, small energy.
Speaker 1: But anyway about detention. Do you know the name of this? Um? Yes?
Speaker 1: What is it? Leather? All right? Mari? That is a
Speaker 1: with my complexion. I don't am I allowed to answer
Speaker 1: you know what people invented that it's not technically that
Speaker 1: is kind of looks like Rory good call, Please do
Speaker 1: not answer that question. This is called a flogger, and
Speaker 1: I felt like, yes, it's called a flogger, and the flogging,
Speaker 1: the actual act of it is it's not whipping. For
Speaker 1: anyone who's not watching the YouTube, it's like a bunch
Speaker 1: of strings, so it has less of a sharp sensation
Speaker 1: and it's it's not supposed to hurt as much. But
Speaker 1: when you come to the show on Thursday, I'll let
Speaker 1: you see it. Are you going to use it at
Speaker 1: the show? Why not? What do you have you seen
Speaker 1: what we do with everything? But second on the show, wait,
Speaker 1: you were at our Gotham show, right right? Some people
Speaker 1: started thinking I was what about him? What people think
Speaker 1: we're fucking? Like? I think people think I'm sucking everyone
Speaker 1: but Rory Rory in because I always posted him. You
Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But to me, that's the like
Speaker 1: dead giveaway when you don't think, yeah, you would post
Speaker 1: a person you were sucking. Do you post people you've
Speaker 1: slept with? I don't even post posted tweeting post the show?
Speaker 1: But that's it. Do you agree if you're like taking
Speaker 1: a story of someone, you're definitely not sucking them. Um.
Speaker 1: I think that's kind of where I've been. But I
Speaker 1: don't know, do you close friends them? Oh, I don't
Speaker 1: have close friends. I just made I don't have a
Speaker 1: green bubble around. I've never said I think I think
Speaker 1: I added you. I think you're my close friends. Like
Speaker 1: I can watch people's close friends, but I don't post
Speaker 1: a close friends. I don't really post ship that. I
Speaker 1: don't think like whatever I post everybody gonna see. That'd
Speaker 1: be sick if I did close friends, but just with
Speaker 1: one specific person. Just make sure they see all the
Speaker 1: ship that I want them to see. I kind of
Speaker 1: think I kind of think a girl that I kind
Speaker 1: of think a girl like is doing that to me
Speaker 1: right now. Really, there's no way that the ship she's
Speaker 1: posting her close friends is more than just me, and
Speaker 1: there is. It's like and ship, No, she's not naked,
Speaker 1: and it's like she's posting ship like her new boyfriend
Speaker 1: and things like that, and it's kind of like trying
Speaker 1: to make you jealous. I don't know she, but she
Speaker 1: knows I'm not a jo the jealous type. But I
Speaker 1: think she just wants me to know that she has
Speaker 1: a boyfriend. Now, because you could do the close friends
Speaker 1: for one person and whenever I'm mad at the nig
Speaker 1: I definitely do that. I put like three of my
Speaker 1: home girls and just him. Mightbe like men are trash.
Speaker 1: Someone that starts with the H, ends with it, end
Speaker 1: phone number, starting this and lives on his block but
Speaker 1: not saying no name. That's my close friends. No, I
Speaker 1: think close friends, like, especially for people like us that
Speaker 1: are out there, was like, what's the point I put
Speaker 1: my parents on there? But that's it. You have your
Speaker 1: parenting and close friends. Yeah. Like, if I want to
Speaker 1: show pictures in my family or family moments, I'll do
Speaker 1: that because to me, that's the things that's more sacred.
Speaker 1: Now pictures are my titties not so much. My followers
Speaker 1: must be prude or maybe they just don't trust me
Speaker 1: because all the close friends that I have just there's
Speaker 1: nothing they're cooking. I'm like, dog, you could have just
Speaker 1: posted this to the world if it's not your ass,
Speaker 1: Like why are you like maybe posting memes like my
Speaker 1: close friends be posting memes and I'm like this could
Speaker 1: have gone just for me. Thank God? That all right?
Speaker 1: I got a last one. You have a woman that's
Speaker 1: on your show, now, what's her name? And she and
Speaker 1: just like she is your banter and stuff like that. Yes,
Speaker 1: and she has many roles. Okay, so we have a
Speaker 1: fun Mary kill you guys both have to pick to
Speaker 1: Maris Mandy wheezy m hmm. Fuck Mary killed the Marris
Speaker 1: Wheezy Mandy m M. I don't want to kill any
Speaker 1: of y'all, but we can't kill Demaris because we need her,
Speaker 1: Oh my god. And if one of us fun to
Speaker 1: Marison might get weird. So I think we should marry.
Speaker 1: Definitely marrying Mari. But she has seen some of our
Speaker 1: finances and she could divorce us and seeing how much
Speaker 1: money is count Yes, um, this is a bast scenario
Speaker 1: all the way. This is tough. That's a great question,
Speaker 1: you know, for mom would be for y'all. I don't
Speaker 1: know who the third person would be. But I was
Speaker 1: like me and Rory are so brother and sisters. But
Speaker 1: I was like married because then I could fuck mall
Speaker 1: and then I could divorce and take a white man's
Speaker 1: many and then leave, and you could you could take
Speaker 1: my half of our money and then leave with Maul
Speaker 1: and get his. I thought about that. It's gonna be
Speaker 1: new mom and Wheezy Neweazy after you gotta pay all right,
Speaker 1: I gotta married to Marris just because we need her.
Speaker 1: She's she's on She's on T nines now. So which
Speaker 1: one of us dying? Dog? I don't that. I love
Speaker 1: both of y'all, like do you? Absolutely? And both of
Speaker 1: y'all nasty, So I want to funk both of y'all
Speaker 1: like I would suck both of y'all. Not saying I
Speaker 1: want I would, just got right. Did you make avocado toast?
Speaker 1: That's it. I cook way better than Mandy. You literally
Speaker 1: knows how to cook vegan. Go ahead and take her.
Speaker 1: I'm vegan, I'm caribbing. I'm cooking all the meat. Here's
Speaker 1: the thing. Many may have to go through some litigations
Speaker 1: and some legal troubles in the near future. I don't
Speaker 1: know if I want any cards of that. I might
Speaker 1: have to kill her. Y'all was talking about it on
Speaker 1: y'all new episode today. You know who's better than everybody?
Speaker 1: Lawyers and the way mine is shout out to Martcy Cleary.
Speaker 1: I didn't need it to be done, so I'm not
Speaker 1: worried you guys have yes, yes, Brandy Johnson. See we're
Speaker 1: all smart. Don't tell I'm telling. Yeah, I got a
Speaker 1: black woman lawyer as well. I think male lawyers when
Speaker 1: I was growing up, I thought they would be like
Speaker 1: the smartest because of just whatever was in my head
Speaker 1: with patriarchy. But I don't even they got a lot
Speaker 1: of ego. When they talk to me, like they almost
Speaker 1: they always act like they got everything squared away, which
Speaker 1: doesn't make me feel good. Yeah, I got it. No,
Speaker 1: talk to me about what you've got and explain it
Speaker 1: to me, like I'm not a lawyer. Male lawyers definitely
Speaker 1: don't know how to explain things, and we all should
Speaker 1: assume what that contract. That's why I break things down.
Speaker 1: Yeah for dumb mint. That's why I hate male therapists too.
Speaker 1: I only do female therapists now. Really I'm the opposite
Speaker 1: hate mail therapists. I never I don't have a therapist.
Speaker 1: Could just talk to one of my friends, like, I
Speaker 1: need a woman to break this down to me. That's
Speaker 1: a good point. That's that's really good point I want.
Speaker 1: And I you've never you've never been to therapy. What
Speaker 1: would you want to discuss the most? The most? Um,
Speaker 1: how to let his guard down because you're too fucking cool. Really,
Speaker 1: you are too cool for school. That is there. You
Speaker 1: just too cool but real. But the po the pod
Speaker 1: world doesn't know you, and you're too cool. But why
Speaker 1: do you Why do you feel like I'm too cool? Though?
Speaker 1: Like anything I say on the pody, anything I say
Speaker 1: on the pod, is that not really me? I think
Speaker 1: it's an answer. You don't get as vulnerable as the
Speaker 1: people you've podcasts. Yeah, and so you you are way
Speaker 1: more of a vulnerable and loving and caring guy than
Speaker 1: what you portray on on the microphone. No, I think
Speaker 1: that people have this perception because I'm single that I
Speaker 1: don't like like relationships or our dear relationships. I'm just
Speaker 1: not a dude that just jumps in and out of
Speaker 1: relationships like that's never been me. It's just crazy because
Speaker 1: you're so nice and sweet, like I've seen you hey
Speaker 1: very well with women, So I don't know why you
Speaker 1: don't get into relationships when you you do give off
Speaker 1: relationship vibes. Oh, no, I would be I would make
Speaker 1: a great boyfriend. Really, how do you break? That's something
Speaker 1: I can never do? So so okay, and we talk
Speaker 1: about that all the time too. The way you show up,
Speaker 1: or at least the way I've seen you just be
Speaker 1: you outside of, of course the podcast, you do come
Speaker 1: off as you could be a great boyfriend, So I
Speaker 1: can see why maybe even the women you talk to
Speaker 1: like would catch feelings for you quicker than maybe you do.
Speaker 1: Why do you show up in that space instead of
Speaker 1: the way you show up on the pod with women?
Speaker 1: Why don't show up in that space? But why do
Speaker 1: you show up more loving and caring than nonchalant with
Speaker 1: with the women If you don't really want a relationship
Speaker 1: or you're not looking for a relationship, I'm I'm very
Speaker 1: honest with women that I date. I let them know
Speaker 1: that I'm not looking for like a committed thing at
Speaker 1: the moment. How are you again? Why are you still
Speaker 1: not looking for anything committed at forty It's not that
Speaker 1: I'm not looking that like in the moment. It's like
Speaker 1: I'm not eating like yo. I hope this turns into
Speaker 1: something like if it happens, it happens. Have you fallen
Speaker 1: in love in the time you've been single? No, Honestly,
Speaker 1: I think that is a better answer for being single
Speaker 1: anty because if you said yes, I knew you didn't
Speaker 1: have a girl. I'm vulnerable. I'm vulnerable women that our date.
Speaker 1: But but it's it's um Like a lot of dudes
Speaker 1: out here, they play a lot of games and that's
Speaker 1: what we call fun boys, Like they run around and
Speaker 1: a lot of women and tell them what women wanted
Speaker 1: here too to get what they want. And you know,
Speaker 1: they don't want women seeing other They don't. They don't,
Speaker 1: they don't want women. They don't want women seeing other
Speaker 1: guys words, So they played these games. They played these games.
Speaker 1: Like I'm just saying, I'm not that guy. I'm just
Speaker 1: very harm to anybody. Who would that guy be? What
Speaker 1: do you think we have more? I'm trying to think
Speaker 1: of how to phrase this. What's advice you could give
Speaker 1: women for dating someone like you? And by that I
Speaker 1: mean a lot of women date guys that say and
Speaker 1: I have to they're not looking for anything to get
Speaker 1: past that point. Right, You said you get vulnerable with
Speaker 1: women date. What's a mistake they could be making that
Speaker 1: keeps you from getting there? If you had to put it, um,
Speaker 1: I wouldn't say it some mistake they may. I think
Speaker 1: that one mistake that I think most women make in
Speaker 1: dating me is that thinking that they can change me.
Speaker 1: Maybe I'm not looking for nobody to change what do
Speaker 1: they want? But why not change me? Yes, because I
Speaker 1: don't think I need changes would would to me? It
Speaker 1: implies that I'm doing something wrong or I need. I
Speaker 1: think that I can learn you can teach me something.
Speaker 1: There's there's only certain things that the opposite sex can
Speaker 1: teach you about yourself to change for the betterment, and
Speaker 1: that only happens when you're vulnerable with them. So yeah,
Speaker 1: you may need to be vulnerable and change a bit.
Speaker 1: I've gotten better a personal because I've looked at things
Speaker 1: from women's perspectives, because I've actually been vulnerable with them
Speaker 1: and listen to them, and I changed for the better
Speaker 1: in that capacity. Only there's only way only happened because
Speaker 1: I was willing to change my Like I've hopped on
Speaker 1: this show and was like cook for a nigga. Never,
Speaker 1: I would never do that. And even the way I
Speaker 1: just showed up in my last relationship was leaps and
Speaker 1: bounds beyond how I've showed up in the past. To
Speaker 1: learn about yourself to so much about how you do
Speaker 1: other people, and it's not even just relationship based too,
Speaker 1: because I think it's super weird when people don't have
Speaker 1: uh friends of the opposite sex, because there's only certain
Speaker 1: things that a woman that's just my friend can tell
Speaker 1: me about myself and teach me about myself. Right, So, yeah,
Speaker 1: you gotta let people change a woman. No, I'm not
Speaker 1: letting nobody change I am who I am. But I
Speaker 1: can learn, Okay, I think you're scared of Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: not getting connotation of change to turn into it's not
Speaker 1: it's not a negative, it's not a negative conversation. It's
Speaker 1: just learning. Like there's not a woman that I've dated.
Speaker 1: There's not any women out here that updated that have
Speaker 1: anything negative to say about me like that. You're not
Speaker 1: gonna find a woman that says, oh, he's a fun boy.
Speaker 1: And that could be the honesty though, because so many
Speaker 1: men have lacked honesty. I mean with me, like, I know,
Speaker 1: every story that I'm reading from our home mail is
Speaker 1: like somebody that misled something or you know, one of
Speaker 1: our questions. That's anytime I get on the phone with
Speaker 1: my home girls, they lied about something and it's and
Speaker 1: it's frustrating, you know what I mean. So I think
Speaker 1: that is probably why so many men, many women upset
Speaker 1: at me. It's because they didn't have me the way
Speaker 1: they wanted me. They didn't have they didn't have a full,
Speaker 1: like committed relationship with me. I'm kind of okay with
Speaker 1: women saying bad things about me. There's no there's no real,
Speaker 1: like not some over the lining foul ship. But there's
Speaker 1: plenty of women that can say bad things about me,
Speaker 1: and that was part of the learning experience. Now there's
Speaker 1: a repeat behavior where every single woman is saying the
Speaker 1: same thing. Now that's some fun boy shit because you're
Speaker 1: not learning from the mistakes you made. It's just the past.
Speaker 1: You're so girlfriend guy that it's not even funny. Piece
Speaker 1: of in a good way. Really, the things that you
Speaker 1: were saying about vulnerabile. It all comes from ten years
Speaker 1: of failing, Like ten years of just I'm not saying
Speaker 1: I do it correctly now, I'm just aware of it.
Speaker 1: He's thirty to ten years of failing. What are you
Speaker 1: talking about. I was in relationships in my twenties. You
Speaker 1: shouldn't be in a relationships in your twenties. Let's that's
Speaker 1: what you make them stake. You should be a hard
Speaker 1: I don't let me get you should be a hole
Speaker 1: in your twenties like your twenties should be you dating experience,
Speaker 1: like you shouldn't be committed relationships. That means, I'm sorry,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be at my mid thirties meeting men that
Speaker 1: haven't had a real relationship yet. I don't like hearing
Speaker 1: you don't know who you are on your twenties, are
Speaker 1: with figure out the dumb ship with them holes? When
Speaker 1: you dating your twenties, somebody try to be figuring out
Speaker 1: with somebody When you dating your twenties, you do not
Speaker 1: know yourself. So sometimes the only thing you're have in
Speaker 1: common with somebody is that you love them, and then
Speaker 1: that ship think about everyone to go and do different
Speaker 1: ship you had in your twenties where you thought this
Speaker 1: was the one and look how stupid, But no, that's
Speaker 1: the That's the thing though. I showed up knowing that
Speaker 1: I had a lot to work on with myself as
Speaker 1: far as getting myself through school, as far as finding
Speaker 1: a career, as far as being willing to even cook
Speaker 1: for a motherfucker at one point, like my mom still
Speaker 1: can't believe I know how to cook. So through my
Speaker 1: twenties that's what I was doing. And you know, other
Speaker 1: than that. I was just getting my getting my freak on,
Speaker 1: getting fluid out. I had to get experiences. I didn't
Speaker 1: have the money to travel, so official need to travel.
Speaker 1: Don't do that. I so much time. I don't ever kept.
Speaker 1: I mean it's handed it. Yeah, so that the tell
Speaker 1: you what you can. Don't do that, do that. I
Speaker 1: am platinum. Actually, if you long, you know what, Tom,
Speaker 1: You're already are you serious? And in adulta when I
Speaker 1: used to be in first class, I did used to
Speaker 1: feel judged. I'm like, oh, they know I didn't pay
Speaker 1: for this co Really in first class, you don't had
Speaker 1: a dress nice and he gives rich daddy vibes. Nigga
Speaker 1: Lando And it was up in le Bronx in my twenties.
Speaker 1: I wasn't dressing nights to the airport, bitch. I was
Speaker 1: wearing pajamas. Wait, even though you knew it was gonna
Speaker 1: find me out. Oh yeah, I used to dress the
Speaker 1: last some times. I have to get my nails done
Speaker 1: because I'm like, funk, I'm about to be with a
Speaker 1: nigga my most ridiculous. And that's how I feel like.
Speaker 1: I know when I see girls that are like new
Speaker 1: in the game because bitch, I'd wear heels there for it.
Speaker 1: That's a hard ill was showing and I'd be like,
Speaker 1: he's coming in here even wear yeah yeah. But then
Speaker 1: I feel like Nigga Nigga's judge because like I do,
Speaker 1: but I can't rolling loud every bitch that tried to
Speaker 1: work where heels or even some type of platform and look,
Speaker 1: because it was like she looked to be looking dull
Speaker 1: tapping Scott doesn't care. She see you from there and
Speaker 1: he thinks she looks stupid. No, there's a time in
Speaker 1: a place to wear heels for sure, for sure. And
Speaker 1: I think like when you're going through that first flute
Speaker 1: out phase, I didn't know what to do and I
Speaker 1: wanted to be so perfect for this person, you know
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, so that like I could get you
Speaker 1: because this mouth was going to be perfect. So I
Speaker 1: mean I wanted to I wanted to get it more
Speaker 1: than just like they wanted out for as a guy
Speaker 1: flowing you out more than once? Absolutely, Okay, did you
Speaker 1: ever ask you your birthday more than once? And were
Speaker 1: you offended? Oh my god, because this is happening to
Speaker 1: me and I don't really know. I'm be trying to
Speaker 1: scroll up and like typing keywords to try to figure
Speaker 1: out what the birthday was the last off, because I
Speaker 1: don't want to say for the seventh time for girls,
Speaker 1: I'm not flying up what's your birthday again? I'm I'm
Speaker 1: scrolling through her Instagram trying to find her birthday make up.
Speaker 1: All right, where's the birthday make up? Then I get
Speaker 1: the day and I have to guess the year. I'm like,
Speaker 1: all right, we're fucking how many years photo? Okay? She
Speaker 1: didn't know what happened at the end of Notorious, so
Speaker 1: she must be born after nine seven. She was like,
Speaker 1: damn me, Dodd, I didn't see that coming time. We know.
Speaker 1: As soon as I knew, there was a flyout Marius
Speaker 1: sponsor to that was full name, birthday email. Okay, so
Speaker 1: they never had to ask, you know. I was on
Speaker 1: the phone with a dude who's friend. I was on
Speaker 1: the phone my home boy. He was in Africa for work,
Speaker 1: and I was telling him, how like, you know, I'm
Speaker 1: not on the app, like I want to meet someone.
Speaker 1: He was like, you gotta meet my dude here. He's
Speaker 1: back and forth in Africa to New York. To do
Speaker 1: you get on the phone. He's like, yeah, I could
Speaker 1: fly you out to Africa sometimes, I said, do you
Speaker 1: think I want to spend twenty thirty hours traveling to
Speaker 1: kind of have dinner with you? You can call me
Speaker 1: when you're in New Yorker. Actually, Senecol only took eleven
Speaker 1: hours to get to. They were deep at a very
Speaker 1: humbling moment without experience. Really what more, I'll just love
Speaker 1: being here. That's all. You're back, baby, You got to
Speaker 1: comfortable couch. Yeah, this is CV two I invested and
Speaker 1: it's black, it's comfortable. We didn't get this one. We
Speaker 1: got some. First of all, you guys didn't want everyone set,
Speaker 1: so we had to lift them chairs up. Let them
Speaker 1: know I lifted those Thank you. Edding yi edin is like,
Speaker 1: I am not gonna let here and don't even start.
Speaker 1: We had to add a change set fee because y'all,
Speaker 1: because y'all, do you know that Mary kill Eddin Alex
Speaker 1: the one who's the other one on staff into that Wait,
Speaker 1: tell us who's the humbling moment? Technically we're on blackfeck, sir,
Speaker 1: raised on blaffect. Ye, how dare you? How dare he
Speaker 1: suddenly a program like black effect with my white face?
Speaker 1: Dare you do this, the Black Effect is prospering more
Speaker 1: than a lot of other networks out there, and it's
Speaker 1: doing well, and it's supporting black people and paying them.
Speaker 1: What networks are you talking about? Let's start, Joe about network? Okay, anyway,
Speaker 1: I'm on stitch out. Let's go how you know. And
Speaker 1: I'm just not gonna get my business involved over here.
Speaker 1: So there's that. Hey, listen, man, we can talk about
Speaker 1: whatever you want to talk about. Oh no, I didn't
Speaker 1: humbling a moment a woman she was packing and I
Speaker 1: was I was flying her somewhere, and she was factually,
Speaker 1: I don't really want to do a carry on like
Speaker 1: her partner. I don't want to do a check bag.
Speaker 1: Let me just do the carry on ship. And I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, you know like first classes, they don't
Speaker 1: charge for the carry on for the check back. You
Speaker 1: think this is my first time in first class? I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, thank you. You wre condom stop, I
Speaker 1: did not have. If you fly a girl out first class,
Speaker 1: do you have to wig condom? Yes? If I if
Speaker 1: I put a check on adults and one, she already
Speaker 1: know I'm hitting that thing. Roll Are you serious? Lay
Speaker 1: down on the bed on the flight. No, that is
Speaker 1: toxic and no, let me just tell you it's a
Speaker 1: little jarring about this coming out of Mall's mouth last night.
Speaker 1: Skip to hord Derve for anyone who's never listened to
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions. Horror Derve is our sex tips segment. I
Speaker 1: text Rory separately. I text Mall separately, said, can you
Speaker 1: guys give us a sex step for tomorrow? Just so
Speaker 1: you're not um? You know in shock? We're he says,
Speaker 1: pull out, We're a condom. This is why we're good
Speaker 1: to it. Delta one, I've never anybody, Oh even the
Speaker 1: African I was sucking. They gave me like thirty bands,
Speaker 1: Like he still used a condom. So I'm sorry. Delta
Speaker 1: one is not getting raw. The amount of women that
Speaker 1: have told me the amount of money that's just been
Speaker 1: given to them, And how have you not like safely
Speaker 1: invested this money. How have you not retired someone? That's
Speaker 1: why I was someone mears the amount of times this happens,
Speaker 1: you could hit at least well, well, I wasn't there yet.
Speaker 1: This is what happens when you're just sucking being a
Speaker 1: home in your twenties. Um, when I got that money,
Speaker 1: I was like great, I don't have to work three jobs.
Speaker 1: And I went back to school. I went to college.
Speaker 1: That I gave you money move that was well, that
Speaker 1: was you were really stripping to pay tuition. That was
Speaker 1: not no, no, no. I was a bartending um. But
Speaker 1: when I got that money, I was like, oh my god, great,
Speaker 1: I don't have to do this work because I wanted
Speaker 1: to finish school early. So that thirty thousand allowed me
Speaker 1: the college experience of playing college sports, studying abroad, um,
Speaker 1: paying my run up for like it, it's set me
Speaker 1: good to graduation. Get invite to graduation? Does he get
Speaker 1: a copy of your diploma? He ended up missing missing,
Speaker 1: like his money wasn't the same by the time my
Speaker 1: junior year came around. So he's like everybody keeping Instagram
Speaker 1: and he wore condom and he wore kind of and
Speaker 1: he only want a missionary. I've shared this story on here,
Speaker 1: only missionary get it? How you live? I have an
Speaker 1: X that started playing and then the African Rich African
Speaker 1: Street told me every time, how did you my honest
Speaker 1: will hear these stories? I'm only asking this question because
Speaker 1: most people hear this with or a drug dealer. How
Speaker 1: did you miss the same advice? I've given all the
Speaker 1: girls on horrible decisions as long as I've been listening.
Speaker 1: You have to be friends with other hoss. Our home
Speaker 1: girl posted me of the w c W and he
Speaker 1: saw me on her page and was like, yeah, I
Speaker 1: need her first conversations, like said, I said, you could
Speaker 1: give him my number. First conversation. He wired me a
Speaker 1: thousand dollars and was like this is so you know
Speaker 1: I'm not playing when crushed Wednesday, this fucking Instagram at it?
Speaker 1: Why do but yeah, like so you have to day
Speaker 1: I'm on to get like that's it. Yeah, I think.
Speaker 1: I mean that's the we know that you just got
Speaker 1: to be friends. Like it's called cross market. That's why
Speaker 1: it is. It's crossed when you start seeing girls post
Speaker 1: each other like oh babe, Like that's why all the
Speaker 1: Instagram girls are friends because they're all sharing the same true.
Speaker 1: I'll be honest when I see that they're normally only
Speaker 1: fans girls. I never thought for a moment it was
Speaker 1: just to like put you on the other itsh niggas
Speaker 1: and then they get they get broken off of that.
Speaker 1: That's what I used. I gotta stop hanging out with
Speaker 1: so many gay niggas and go to these medium guns.
Speaker 1: The last time Rory and I hung out, me, him
Speaker 1: and Benny went to a fucking rave at Brooklyn Mirage
Speaker 1: because Bennie, we're sitting no, no, no, gentlemen, I love.
Speaker 1: It's nothing like really good guy. He's just not like
Speaker 1: Benny okay, cool, and he butchers different things. I have
Speaker 1: met each other a few times through me and basically
Speaker 1: Rory saying something about Brooklyn Mirage and Do Say Blues
Speaker 1: and he's like, Yo, I want these tickets to this show,
Speaker 1: Like can you get some tickets? And Rory's like, you know,
Speaker 1: Rory hits us up in the morning, No, he hit
Speaker 1: that group chat on the early Yes. But Rory hits
Speaker 1: back talking about, yeah, we have six v IP tickets
Speaker 1: for the Brooklyn show. I'll just shove it when I amn't,
Speaker 1: and he was like, oh my god, bet you couldn't
Speaker 1: even get these. Well, anyway, we're going out. We go
Speaker 1: to this fucking rape. I couldn't even believe I was
Speaker 1: seeing Rory there, and hilariously enough, no one knew him
Speaker 1: for the ever. Any time we go out. It was
Speaker 1: just like, oh, it's not a soul new like don't know,
Speaker 1: like this is a white party had they were selling
Speaker 1: lollipops in the bathroom for a high end price because
Speaker 1: of the certain drug of choice. Of course, I don't
Speaker 1: know if he is allowed to talk about her rug contract.
Speaker 1: There's drug talk every episode. Absolutely no. Now he knows
Speaker 1: I ain't shut. But I was very But Molly gets
Speaker 1: piste out in two days. That's why all the athletes
Speaker 1: used to take it. Oh well, I was high for
Speaker 1: a while, was definitely high. I had a water bottle
Speaker 1: with a little bit of water in it that he
Speaker 1: kept circling around and take a swig up and then
Speaker 1: look up and say, have you tried these glasses on yet?
Speaker 1: I had these glasses? Hang out, mom, I'm trying to
Speaker 1: do like other ship. I did like fucking a decade
Speaker 1: of pelus. I did the same party for ever, like
Speaker 1: I wanted to try a new ship. Got these glasses
Speaker 1: from Amazon that you can see rainbows, and like, I
Speaker 1: just took the whole time. I'm like, I don't think
Speaker 1: I'm feeling the molly. Well. I was feeling the so much.
Speaker 1: Now I'm not feeling it. Feeling it'll feel start to
Speaker 1: see y'all are gonna both have to start venturing into
Speaker 1: new things for research purposes. That the white one was
Speaker 1: the one. It was Greeway. When we do it'll be
Speaker 1: different thing. So Vanilla Ship this week. That's our new segment.
Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all seen Sex Love Goop Gwyne's Paltrow.
Speaker 1: Gwyneth Paltrow has a show on Netflix. Yeah, that's where
Speaker 1: Data Pinkett was talking about. Well, no, that was Red
Speaker 1: Table Talk. I thought it was one of the Paltrow though. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: But she has a new show, like a sex show
Speaker 1: on Netflix. And on the show she is a therapist.
Speaker 1: Sex Love Goop Coop is the name of her candle
Speaker 1: that apparently smells like her pussy. I'm not mad at it,
Speaker 1: but uh. And one of the episodes, someone went through
Speaker 1: sex body sex I loogical body work. Basically, it's it's uh,
Speaker 1: it's illegal in forty nine states to touch a client's genitals.
Speaker 1: But when it's practiced ethically, I'm sorry, it's just funny
Speaker 1: because these white people are really weird doing it. But um,
Speaker 1: when it's practiced ethically, it can be a healing process.
Speaker 1: So on the series, somebody was having painful penetration. She
Speaker 1: grew up in a conservative home. Jhovah's witness where the
Speaker 1: word sex wasn't even okay and lesbians were gross. So
Speaker 1: she fell in love with a woman and was having
Speaker 1: difficulty with entry into her vagina. And so this is
Speaker 1: the witnesses will enter your house with no problem, and
Speaker 1: while you're pussy takes time. So this woman penetrates the
Speaker 1: client while her girlfriend is watching and basically um trying
Speaker 1: to mound into her volva, stroking the labia, checking in
Speaker 1: with her, making sure that placing her finger was okay,
Speaker 1: trying to subside the pressure. And this is a real thing.
Speaker 1: She's an actual certified therapist for this. And she gave
Speaker 1: her apparently an orgasm on camera with a pubic massage.
Speaker 1: And I just want to say, someone that did a
Speaker 1: TV show about sex sweetie has one. I don't think
Speaker 1: there is a world where black people can get on
Speaker 1: Netflix finger each other and they post it. But let
Speaker 1: Camille decide that she's gonna give you pussy therapy, and
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, yeah, this is this is okay. It's
Speaker 1: all about how you worded. She Once you put therapy
Speaker 1: attached to it, it's it's okay. It was mental health.
Speaker 1: Have a therapist. We should do um like uh like
Speaker 1: skin therapy, a facial Okay, Okay, Oh, he's definitely wanting
Speaker 1: to give you a facial. I didn't say that. I
Speaker 1: mean he said I have great skincare routine. Okay, you're interested,
Speaker 1: got you so your sex to pull out, wear a condom?
Speaker 1: Anything beyond that bullshitall sit I'm uncomfortable you condoms room.
Speaker 1: We're in a condoms room. No, that's not what we
Speaker 1: were coming about that, Okay, Okay. Is there any sex
Speaker 1: tip that you guys have for men for women or
Speaker 1: for women for men um and I only say women
Speaker 1: for men, men for women because you guys have had
Speaker 1: her sexual sex. I'm a big advocate. I want a
Speaker 1: campaign now for men to realize sex toys are not
Speaker 1: your enemy. They are They are your teammates, sir. That's
Speaker 1: your man and them. Okay, that little bullet that vibrate,
Speaker 1: you can't vibrate, bro and another and felscular and loom
Speaker 1: like me and my part The last year and a
Speaker 1: half has been phenomenal with sex with the addition of
Speaker 1: sex toys, and it's one of the things that I
Speaker 1: fear now going to deal with, like having new partners again,
Speaker 1: is like, oh nah, I have like a whole kid Like,
Speaker 1: I have a whole bunch of toys that I'm saying,
Speaker 1: like a piece of luggage. Literally it's on both sides
Speaker 1: of my bed. I have a whole like ben full
Speaker 1: of one, and then I have a whole another like
Speaker 1: pull out drawer with a whole another one. And then
Speaker 1: across my room there's another drawer with like all the
Speaker 1: oils and candles, like my room is set up for
Speaker 1: like sex, toys and sex. Like what happened cleaning lady?
Speaker 1: Not anymore? Because my cat would beating her head, So
Speaker 1: now I gotta clean my own house. I got her
Speaker 1: out of there, like the cat, the cat, and not this,
Speaker 1: not this pussy but buddy, um but no, like that
Speaker 1: is very great. And I hope that all of the
Speaker 1: men listening, um, listen to this white man only on
Speaker 1: this and that's it. Sorry, there's a lot of black
Speaker 1: Let me tell you. That's about critical race theory. No,
Speaker 1: we don't want to hear it. We had enough. But
Speaker 1: you can vibrate, like you can, can you get mama?
Speaker 1: You can vibrate. It's not so we cannot vibrate. No,
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to ask you how
Speaker 1: the vibrate. My dick doesn't vibe what you mean. They're
Speaker 1: like pussy. You can like make your mouth vibrate. No
Speaker 1: you cannot. I'm sorry, mom, I need my mouth. Your
Speaker 1: mouth can pussy. I can do things with my mouth
Speaker 1: to make it feel like a vibration. Not. That's not
Speaker 1: the same as the bully hum You want to come,
Speaker 1: you want racist as long as you're taking while you're
Speaker 1: doing it. I was like sixteen. I read that in
Speaker 1: a Cosmo hummed the star Spangle bandroom while you give
Speaker 1: a blow job, and I was like three seconds in
Speaker 1: and I was like, I can't do this on a
Speaker 1: black dude. That's what I'm saying, Like the star Spangle
Speaker 1: brand is racist. We're not gonna do you got missed
Speaker 1: my as long as you're on one. Need joke, but
Speaker 1: it's cool. Not I haven't repeat jokes. Nobody listen to me,
Speaker 1: so it's fine. We took some questions and for the
Speaker 1: people that wanted to know about y'all, and besides all
Speaker 1: of the messy ship, we do have some juice. One
Speaker 1: of them actually had to do with mall eating pussy,
Speaker 1: So I guess we've covered that. He's a hummer who people.
Speaker 1: A lot of people are asking that because they probably think,
Speaker 1: as Mandy said, you're too fucking cool nigger. They call
Speaker 1: him a hummingbird on saying it. Hold on, that's what
Speaker 1: I don't call you that they call you the humming
Speaker 1: bird on. Um, don't make I was just up there.
Speaker 1: Has your dating or hookup etiquette changed now that you're
Speaker 1: getting money? And now when I say now, I mean now,
Speaker 1: is in like your podcast success or if it has
Speaker 1: there been a pivot in your life for money really
Speaker 1: changed and your dating changed. I don't like this narrative.
Speaker 1: By the way, it doesn't have to be in a
Speaker 1: house before our deal. Yeah yeah, but like we are
Speaker 1: whenever you started, even if it was three or four
Speaker 1: years ago, a five years when you started getting money
Speaker 1: to change homeowner. Not really for me, not really, I
Speaker 1: think that because the perception I never I never lead
Speaker 1: with that. Like a lot of men, they lead with
Speaker 1: the fact that they're making money and you know, cars,
Speaker 1: jewelry and all this other ship. And then there's taking
Speaker 1: it back when all this which only want me for money,
Speaker 1: n that's all you're presenting forward Like I still walk
Speaker 1: around Hall and Queen's Brooklyn like a regular guy. So
Speaker 1: it's not about you know, monetary ship with me, So
Speaker 1: it's not Money didn't change that for me. I think,
Speaker 1: if anything, it changed in the sense of the women
Speaker 1: I date. Know that more women know me and we
Speaker 1: know that you are humming bird. Now that's what you
Speaker 1: led with this week. I mean women that dated me
Speaker 1: know that though. But they signed the DA to sign India.
Speaker 1: But you really make them sign Ndia. I don't know.
Speaker 1: Things haven't changed, per saying that I'll skip some steps
Speaker 1: in some corners because money makes things a little bit
Speaker 1: more convenient. I don't come out the gate and like
Speaker 1: buy you some ship or take you on some fake click. Oh,
Speaker 1: let's go to Brooklyn chop house because that's what people
Speaker 1: that on Instagram pretend to have money go to. Never
Speaker 1: go to Brooklyn chop house. It's that food is terrible.
Speaker 1: Don't do it good. I know good food Brooklyn shop houses. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I could put you on some good restaurants Brooklyn. I
Speaker 1: don't want you to put me on. I want you
Speaker 1: to take me to New York. And you both got
Speaker 1: my I could be like a power couple. In the podcast,
Speaker 1: people saying that he he would totally like not even
Speaker 1: do it, and then you guys would do like a
Speaker 1: spinoff podcast. It's like a I'm just therapy. I could
Speaker 1: produce it, no, thank you you sure, okay, thank you bro.
Speaker 1: Train etiquette, subway etiquette, and then Mandy and I could
Speaker 1: just do reaction videos. Really what about it? They're gonna
Speaker 1: want to sit on YouTube and be like, so what
Speaker 1: did y'all do? After many were just yeah, just there
Speaker 1: trying to the subway question. If you want me to
Speaker 1: talk about trains, I can talk about train train etiquette. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like trains have always been. Do you think he meant
Speaker 1: subway or training? I think training? Oh he did. I
Speaker 1: thought it was I heard subway and train. I said subway,
Speaker 1: but it really did say train etiquette. But the train
Speaker 1: etiquette is that's definitely involved in a different train. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm not into that. I wouldn't know train etiquete because
Speaker 1: I've never been in one, and I'm not it's just
Speaker 1: not my thing. What about my D levels of two?
Speaker 1: Like that's where that's where you would draw the line
Speaker 1: in the train? Have you guys a girl kicking in
Speaker 1: while I'm sucking from the back. That's just I just
Speaker 1: don't because you know, I went to college. So the
Speaker 1: train thing happened often consensually. I would walk in and
Speaker 1: just see a bunch of dudes like, y'all just want
Speaker 1: to sit there ball the ball with which it pantil
Speaker 1: off on your shirt on, which is first of all
Speaker 1: fucking weird, and niggas be funky and like maybe if
Speaker 1: they're running trains and at that age, okay, maybe when
Speaker 1: you're young, but trying to throw you guys the pussy
Speaker 1: at the same time, and you both were like, whoa
Speaker 1: is this happening? And I, yeah, I don't think so,
Speaker 1: I don't know if if it did, I didn't catch it.
Speaker 1: Me neither. We we know you didn't jump on the train,
Speaker 1: but you didn't even notice. There's never been a girl
Speaker 1: there was. They don't catch I'm not good at catching
Speaker 1: cues from women when they're interested in me. Clearly we
Speaker 1: talked about that in the first ten minutes of the show. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I have no idea, so, yeah, I don't, I don't,
Speaker 1: I don't, um No, I don't think a woman has
Speaker 1: wanted to funk with me and Rory. When we used
Speaker 1: to be on the road and do for the level More,
Speaker 1: there was times when like More would pick one that
Speaker 1: I'd be like, damn, I kind of wish you didn't
Speaker 1: pick that one. But we were attracted to the same
Speaker 1: type of women. But as a woman ever wanted to
Speaker 1: have sex with me and Rory, what's the type? Because
Speaker 1: you know everybody already asked if you basically only date
Speaker 1: black women, no date women? M hm, when's the last
Speaker 1: time you dated a white girl? To find d fucked? Okay,
Speaker 1: but I haven't done a lot of sucking in a
Speaker 1: very long time, so okay. And another question, people want
Speaker 1: to know if your dick is as bad as you
Speaker 1: say it is, it's it's probably probably all the time.
Speaker 1: I'm probably over. So you talk about your dig being
Speaker 1: best so much that everything I don't like expectations like
Speaker 1: I want people going in whet the bar here that
Speaker 1: all the time we hate, like when we meet guys,
Speaker 1: especially if they know we do this show, like niggas
Speaker 1: expect us to be hanging from chandeliers and it's just
Speaker 1: like having American is bad. I'm scared. Yeah, but I
Speaker 1: can even imagine the pressure of porn stars, Like some
Speaker 1: porn stars just want to fuck you regular. They don't
Speaker 1: want to be the porn star that you see on films.
Speaker 1: So I like that you kind of undersell yourself. And
Speaker 1: I think my best fucking comes from when we actually
Speaker 1: like each other. I don't think I'm like the really
Speaker 1: good like this at this point in my life. I'm
Speaker 1: not going to bang it out on the first night
Speaker 1: type of guy. Like once. We're like, our souls connect,
Speaker 1: not my dick is crazy and look, yeah, I'll be
Speaker 1: getting on me right. Our souls connect. Get the funk
Speaker 1: out of here. Man, you're connecting souls? Ye, So yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, I am the intro to her belly or
Speaker 1: you don't even catch that ball? You're right, I let
Speaker 1: that one go. Thank you. I should wrap you? Should you?
Speaker 1: That was a bar wrapper name McNasty. No, you can't
Speaker 1: do that one. That's what I thought you were going
Speaker 1: to give him for the a K I wish McNasty.
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm kind of putting myself in just
Speaker 1: one little I'm just going to Ireland at that point, right,
Speaker 1: it's just one market. I'm not saying I'm kind of
Speaker 1: boxing myself in at that point. Will this place you've
Speaker 1: ever had sex? Basic question, but a good one. I've
Speaker 1: talked about it before under the Track and Field, under
Speaker 1: the bleaches while people were like running working out in
Speaker 1: the morning. Really, I feel didn't we just talked to
Speaker 1: somebody about this? Oh yeah, we didn't answer this, I thought.
Speaker 1: I think I said my mother's bed. Yeah we did,
Speaker 1: Alec's not with my mother. It was fun, it was
Speaker 1: less sexual, you guys know, another slut other than it's
Speaker 1: like this is not quite you guys podcast? Are you
Speaker 1: fucking kidding? Actually had a really nice, non slutty conversation.
Speaker 1: I feel like like we really didn't talk about sex
Speaker 1: like that. We'll talking to happen here. Well, I think
Speaker 1: my answers could still be the same. And my mother's bed,
Speaker 1: that's wild disrespectful, I felt. I felt really bad after it. Okay,
Speaker 1: all right, hear me out. We need to hear you out.
Speaker 1: When I was a teenager, my mother worked a lot,
Speaker 1: so I had like that the open house for the
Speaker 1: most part, we know what the open house is had ouse.
Speaker 1: So it was my second time ever having sex. I
Speaker 1: was fourteen. My friend had took my room. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I had the girls though, and the living room was
Speaker 1: occupied and it wasn't a big house, so there's only
Speaker 1: one other spot that's left. And it was somewhere else
Speaker 1: you could have which you have to understand when you're fourteen.
Speaker 1: When you're fourteen and you have the opportunity to have sex,
Speaker 1: you're not gonna those opportunities don't just come all the time.
Speaker 1: You're gonna make sure this is gonna happen. I can't
Speaker 1: even masturbated my mom's house anymore. Like, it's really difficult
Speaker 1: for me to do. I feel like somebody is around it,
Speaker 1: likes like Jesus is watching. I don't know, bro. I
Speaker 1: mean in my mother in my mother's room, it's it's
Speaker 1: John F. Kennedy, Jesus and Derek Jeter like her. So
Speaker 1: like that's who was looking at my mom. In Orlando,
Speaker 1: my mama ended up staying in my hotel room and
Speaker 1: I had work in another room. So I said, Mom,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm gonna go real quick. You could stay
Speaker 1: here different I mean to go get something, you know.
Speaker 1: And then her friend called, because my homegirl told me
Speaker 1: our friend called, and she was like, oh, can I
Speaker 1: speak Let me speak to your daughter. She was like, um,
Speaker 1: she went to the lobby to grab something, so she's
Speaker 1: not in the room right now. But basically she knew
Speaker 1: I was going to get fun. But that's not your mama,
Speaker 1: bad bitch. No, you're right, Oh no, I regret it.
Speaker 1: I don't think it was right. Did your mom re
Speaker 1: ever find out? But she listens to almost everything, like
Speaker 1: she google is my name every day, so this will
Speaker 1: pop up. My mom loves to tell me updates about
Speaker 1: Mandy and it's actually really cute. She's like, you guys
Speaker 1: actually have a date in Atlanta. Mandy just posted because
Speaker 1: I blocked my mom and so she's like, yeah, your
Speaker 1: video came out everything. Did you see the clip of you?
Speaker 1: And then she'll call me and be like, you masturbated
Speaker 1: on airplane. I'm like, what thee? Never had sex? Just
Speaker 1: I do? Got one? One thing going to be on
Speaker 1: the PJ though, So that's whenever I have enough time
Speaker 1: to meet him in a city where we can fly
Speaker 1: it together. Now we broke up. Now, I mean I
Speaker 1: was gonna ask, but I saw the memes for it,
Speaker 1: so don't mean it was Twitter. I saw it. I
Speaker 1: was like, oh, yeah, sad girl, I'm a single. I
Speaker 1: mean we still talk, We're still friends. I know, because
Speaker 1: you was like I feel like this was gonna really
Speaker 1: be like I thought so too. I think really happened.
Speaker 1: I know, you never know us. I think they're gonna
Speaker 1: get back together next week and I don't and I
Speaker 1: don't even know situations. We all everyone not this time,
Speaker 1: not this time, yes, over, it's over. Over, like we're friends,
Speaker 1: like he's he's even grieving right now, and it's just
Speaker 1: like I wish I could be there for you, but
Speaker 1: I'm here as a friend, like it's nothing like okay,
Speaker 1: So what happened? Was it cheating? Was it? You know?
Speaker 1: What's crazy? That's what everyone assumes. There wasn't even sex involved.
Speaker 1: He just did something that I felt I should have
Speaker 1: been made aware of. And when I was made where
Speaker 1: aware of. His response to that was, um, I don't
Speaker 1: have to tell you everything I do, like he beat
Speaker 1: his chest. Instead of being held accountable and apologizing, it
Speaker 1: was more like, well, I don't have to tell you this,
Speaker 1: but we have this type of relationship. We're going to
Speaker 1: the sex club, we my friends. We talked about everything.
Speaker 1: So as soon as now this is your answer when
Speaker 1: mind you it was to me it was a disrespectful act.
Speaker 1: Um was this in the midd of an argument though
Speaker 1: that he said, this was me checking him about not
Speaker 1: telling me, Like what he did, Okay, almost want to know,
Speaker 1: like you got a chance to explain that answer, leave
Speaker 1: the way of not like to me, we do so
Speaker 1: much sexually. Don't embarrass me. Don't embarrass me that There
Speaker 1: should never be a time anybody can tell me something
Speaker 1: about you that I don't know. Embarrassment is up to
Speaker 1: what you feel and and embarrassing and I could get
Speaker 1: embarrassed my nigga, like I'm open ire like um. He
Speaker 1: linked up with a friend of mine, which wouldn't have
Speaker 1: been a problem because they've linked up without me before,
Speaker 1: like to get drinks and stuff. He linked up with
Speaker 1: a friend of mine that has joined us in the
Speaker 1: bedroom with another bit. He brought another bit around my friend.
Speaker 1: I felt like if everything would have played out but
Speaker 1: my friend was linking up with a whole another couple.
Speaker 1: Your home girl told you that. My home girl told
Speaker 1: me because she was like she's been, she's been around us.
Speaker 1: She was just like, I just wanted to tell you
Speaker 1: so that it didn't look like I was trying to
Speaker 1: hide something because nothing happened, and so when Yeah, but
Speaker 1: what if she is just like me? If she didn't
Speaker 1: tell me, I would have felt like maybe she was
Speaker 1: trying to do something behind my back, and she was like,
Speaker 1: I just need you to know it wasn't like that
Speaker 1: at all. And so when I brought it back to him, yeah,
Speaker 1: I just felt like then he overshared that maybe there
Speaker 1: wasn't innocent intentions of even and I was just like, Nigga,
Speaker 1: what homegirl? Because I never met her? And then I
Speaker 1: was like, you fucked her, didn't you. And there was
Speaker 1: just a lot of things that I felt like if
Speaker 1: we're in this space and we talked about it all
Speaker 1: the time, like you know me, and we really talk
Speaker 1: about being non monogamous, we're open, we're free, like I'm
Speaker 1: and I'm like I said, like, we don't fun down
Speaker 1: mad bitches and stuff like that. But when you're in
Speaker 1: that space, trust and communication are the biggest things. Not
Speaker 1: only that consideration. I need you to consider me even
Speaker 1: when I'm not around. And so once I feel as
Speaker 1: though that is broken, I don't even know how I
Speaker 1: trust going to the sex club, but you trust bringing
Speaker 1: my friends into the bedrooms? Um, this was I would
Speaker 1: consider The second he went to the sex club without
Speaker 1: telling me and I found out because when I went
Speaker 1: by myself, it was like, yeah, we were looking for
Speaker 1: you last time, last time when and he hadn't told
Speaker 1: me that he went without me. So again you're around
Speaker 1: without him. Yes he knew I was going like your
Speaker 1: world over communicate, but also you're in my world. You've
Speaker 1: met everybody, like every damn near everyone in the studio
Speaker 1: has met hi damn except for for Wheezy Ironic. But um, oh,
Speaker 1: well you haven't met amazing. No, but I feel like
Speaker 1: you may have seen him, I feel like. But either way,
Speaker 1: that's what it was. And when we sit here on
Speaker 1: this couch for the last five years and we and
Speaker 1: I opened up about what a relationship and tells, especially
Speaker 1: in non monogamy, there still is a way to cheat,
Speaker 1: even when you allow your partner to have sex. So
Speaker 1: even though sex didn't happen, it was something where I'm
Speaker 1: just like, this is now when I go out of town,
Speaker 1: I don't want to have to worry about what you
Speaker 1: that's hard to get over it. It was too much. Well,
Speaker 1: let me ask you this, because I've not been in
Speaker 1: that type of world before. So this is just an
Speaker 1: outside of you with some and that is into that
Speaker 1: type of lifestyle and is wired that way. Don't you
Speaker 1: think there should be some grace in that blurred lines
Speaker 1: of sexual activity because the way the way he is
Speaker 1: wired is sexually different than most people or self included,
Speaker 1: because you guys are in a lifestyle. A lot of
Speaker 1: people are in their lifestyle. But in the scope of things,
Speaker 1: it's a small percentage. You're digging with that one. Was
Speaker 1: this person really your friend that he met up with?
Speaker 1: If you wired that way and you want to go
Speaker 1: fund somebody else like you may just waite sexually, but
Speaker 1: not only that in that type of ship, you got
Speaker 1: to give him. But here's the thing. Here's the thing,
Speaker 1: and especially no, I'm glad that you're asking that because again,
Speaker 1: when you are non monogamous or in this lifestyle. No,
Speaker 1: just because I'm in this lifestyle does not mean I
Speaker 1: should sign up to be disrespectful. She's betrayed, embarrassed. There's
Speaker 1: a lot of ways in which I can feel. And
Speaker 1: so if this has been expressed that I don't like
Speaker 1: feeling this way when this is your action, that should
Speaker 1: be an action that should be copletely removed. And if
Speaker 1: you continue to do it, I'm not going to sign
Speaker 1: up to feel this one friend. You signed up for
Speaker 1: a relationship, which signs up for understanding. Yes, but again
Speaker 1: I over communicate, and because we over communicate, and but
Speaker 1: what but he's either one that has understanding. No, she
Speaker 1: needs to try to understand him and his behavior. But
Speaker 1: she's already expressed this for the second time. Well, going
Speaker 1: to the sex club and not telling you, I mean,
Speaker 1: but here the other thing that we talked about on
Speaker 1: this pod all the time, and this is where all
Speaker 1: my friends were like, oh my god, it's a proud
Speaker 1: of you, because no one thought I would ever break
Speaker 1: up with him. But we discussed boundaries on this show
Speaker 1: a lot. And if I'm telling you that this is
Speaker 1: my boundary and now you've done it again, to me,
Speaker 1: if I sat here and took him back, it was
Speaker 1: me then expecting to feel that same way and him
Speaker 1: doing the same thing. This is my boundary. I told you,
Speaker 1: don't cross it, you crossed it, We're done. And to me,
Speaker 1: once you really set those boundaries in your head, and
Speaker 1: the way I out, and the fact that he just
Speaker 1: didn't think he did anything wrong, because let me beat
Speaker 1: my chest, I'm a man. I don't have to tell
Speaker 1: you everything that wasn't that. I just knew that that
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna work. For me going forward. And I think
Speaker 1: anyone in a relationship now, if you really have your boundaries,
Speaker 1: if you don't stick to it, your partner's gonna continue
Speaker 1: doing that. Ship It just is what it is they do.
Speaker 1: Like if a man cheats on you, and cheating is
Speaker 1: your boundary, and you take that niggaback, be mad at
Speaker 1: yourself when he cheats again. If that's your boundary, stick
Speaker 1: to it. And if a person can't show up the
Speaker 1: way you need them to show up for you, you
Speaker 1: need to find someone who's willing to do that. Is
Speaker 1: that that macho machismo ego man ship part of why
Speaker 1: you liked him? Though? Um, I mean a little bit,
Speaker 1: of course, not not only two different things. And I
Speaker 1: don't want to I've sat here and talked. I somehow
Speaker 1: end up dealing with Muslims all the time. However, the
Speaker 1: Muslims from Harlem be like fucking Malcolm X type Muslims.
Speaker 1: So they only like your religion only like they use
Speaker 1: parts of their religion to make sense when it when
Speaker 1: it fits them. You know what I mean? Religion? Wait, wait, wait, wait, No,
Speaker 1: he didn't bring up a lot of Mommy he brought
Speaker 1: up No, he didn't bring it up. But I know
Speaker 1: that it was the way he talked about the like
Speaker 1: the Muslim man. Yeah, and oh do they go to
Speaker 1: the sex club, So don't let him put up but no,
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying, like, oh, so now your
Speaker 1: religion is all right, we're not gonna do And I
Speaker 1: think so you pull you using the buffet. He's using
Speaker 1: the buffet with his religion. You using the buffet with
Speaker 1: masculinity and being that big fucking man and all that ship,
Speaker 1: the ship you love from it. You can't just pick
Speaker 1: the good ball. Sometimes the bad ship is. Yeah, you're
Speaker 1: gonna get the real fucking macho man's gonna say, fuck you.
Speaker 1: You don't need to know about my ship. And guess what,
Speaker 1: it can't be a buffet both and I'm gonna suck
Speaker 1: them that's gonna listen to. I'm just saying it can't
Speaker 1: just always be a buffet. And probably think Mandy could
Speaker 1: be overreacting because she did all these other things with him,
Speaker 1: But you have to understand. You open your home to
Speaker 1: other of women, You open your relationship and your love
Speaker 1: and share with other people. I've done that too. I've
Speaker 1: had hell of threesomes with obay right, and people would
Speaker 1: say things when I get angry about small things. Uh,
Speaker 1: person I would call Old Bay on the right, Mandy
Speaker 1: named him. You haven't seen that nigga at lub. This
Speaker 1: is the this is the workfront. No talking about No,
Speaker 1: but that's her. My god, we had sex. It's not
Speaker 1: a big deal anyway, Wait the girl. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I'm talking about something from two thousand twelve. Yeah. When
Speaker 1: Old Bay and I have instances where with threesomes and
Speaker 1: maybe there was something I didn't like outside of a threesome,
Speaker 1: people be like, well, I don't understand what the big
Speaker 1: deal is, y'all funk all these girls together, Like why
Speaker 1: do you have to throw that in my face because
Speaker 1: I'm threesome girl? Or like fucking bitches would a nigga
Speaker 1: that I'm allowed to just you know, I'm supposed to
Speaker 1: let these things go. And I think the more you're
Speaker 1: open and trustworthy, it's just like a magnitude of feelings
Speaker 1: that come because you feel like I gave you all
Speaker 1: of that. That was me, bitch. I was like, damn,
Speaker 1: Like I'm I'm honestly scared. I showed up as my
Speaker 1: best self with this person, and I literally told my friends,
Speaker 1: I'm nervous because now I don't know if I should
Speaker 1: get back to being a hole because now my best
Speaker 1: self still ended up with a nigga like being on
Speaker 1: some function. And also I want to come back to
Speaker 1: what you said, just to wait, why did you say?
Speaker 1: But you know what I mean? And so even as
Speaker 1: you like you, you sat here and been single, and
Speaker 1: when you really show up for someone as your best self,
Speaker 1: and you know, you did everything that you were supposed
Speaker 1: to do as a partner, as a lover, as a friend,
Speaker 1: and that person still maybe crosses you in a way
Speaker 1: that you wouldn't have expected, It's just like, damn, so
Speaker 1: so should I just show up? It ain't sing no
Speaker 1: more since everyone's going to show up. That would be
Speaker 1: you making let allowing somebody's actions to you know, cause
Speaker 1: you to act a certain way. And maybe you don't
Speaker 1: want to be that old Mandy anymore. It's not but
Speaker 1: a lot of us bring trauma into dating relationship. This time,
Speaker 1: you're in love and and being violated is something that's
Speaker 1: different to me. I told you that's already getting fluid
Speaker 1: up next week because cheating is heartbreak to it. What
Speaker 1: you just said, I'm not trying to make you feel bad,
Speaker 1: but I'm commending you for breaking up. That to me
Speaker 1: is like a really deep like oh man, like you
Speaker 1: really like sucked me up because sex and cheating isn't
Speaker 1: to me as bad and my sex isn't as bad
Speaker 1: to me either, So I'm just like sex. No men
Speaker 1: can have sex with no feelings. So to me, I understand.
Speaker 1: I understand the sexual appetite from a man. So to me,
Speaker 1: if you just go funk a bit, okay. But to me,
Speaker 1: like being out and about spending time with a bit,
Speaker 1: I got a problem with it. And then also you're
Speaker 1: feeling comfortable enough to bring whoever this bitches around my friends?
Speaker 1: No like this, this woman has some sort of I
Speaker 1: don't I don't need other emotions involved. I don't want
Speaker 1: you to be emotionally tied to anyone when I feel
Speaker 1: like you're my friend, my best friend. I don't sign
Speaker 1: up for Polly. I don't sign him for open. We swing,
Speaker 1: which means we do everything together. And so if another
Speaker 1: bitch is involved, that is again another dynamic of a relationship.
Speaker 1: Now monogamy or not that I did not sign up for.
Speaker 1: So I'm sending this, did you want to go over
Speaker 1: there because I would have I don't know if I
Speaker 1: could have stayed in the house, I would have got
Speaker 1: the time I found out, I found out three days later.
Speaker 1: You knew the other girl might not your friend. But
Speaker 1: the other girl now, uh, he said, I've been told
Speaker 1: y'all was gonna bring it to well, maybe fashioned little
Speaker 1: jump to get back together and be friends, bitch, she
Speaker 1: might need to get her Ask me, I didn't see
Speaker 1: what the girl looked like. No, maybe that might make
Speaker 1: you feel better. That's true, it could. I mean my
Speaker 1: friend didn't think she was older. So my friend was like,
Speaker 1: so you can't be the old lady. I mean I
Speaker 1: could be. I could definitely the old lady Shistry, Florida.
Speaker 1: I don't give old bro. Let me tell you something.
Speaker 1: When people be saying, she like, you don't want to
Speaker 1: have to go to jail today, I've been to jail.
Speaker 1: And it is not that she trying to pop the
Speaker 1: three hospice to get a past. Though she was looking
Speaker 1: in her forties. I'm sure that was make a wish
Speaker 1: foundation she was in hospital, she wanted to have a
Speaker 1: three right before she died to do that. Don't you
Speaker 1: guys about your friend wait, wait, who you talking about
Speaker 1: her threesome with the dude? Calm down there, I'm forty
Speaker 1: what they're talking about. But that's what I'm saying. That
Speaker 1: ain't that old, but it is not old, hospital to know,
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. She wasn't that old, but she
Speaker 1: definitely looked older than me and my home girl. And
Speaker 1: I'm stones in your hand? What are they? What are
Speaker 1: they for? Chords? Am um? What are they for? I
Speaker 1: just like wearing stones like I like charging them. And
Speaker 1: you know, whether it be love or power or ship
Speaker 1: like that. I've been going through some crazy depression, y'all. Okay,
Speaker 1: like real bad, m bro. He was acting a little scared.
Speaker 1: Once we talked to me. I was like, damn, it
Speaker 1: must be bad. He's like, if you ever need to talk,
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't even like to say that sentence,
Speaker 1: you know, but it was. It's always a weird one
Speaker 1: because you never really know what somebody to be like.
Speaker 1: I do know, I wanted you to. I think everybody
Speaker 1: deals with depression at some level. You know. My depression
Speaker 1: really scared me because I thought I was a happy
Speaker 1: person and then when it got taken from me. I
Speaker 1: know who the funk I was. I felt like happy
Speaker 1: was my identity, so when it's gone, I just felt
Speaker 1: complete worthlessness, like it didn't even make me feel like
Speaker 1: I could be a person. And then even like the
Speaker 1: manic ship was very difficult because you don't want to
Speaker 1: have to dump that on someone else. So instead of
Speaker 1: doing that emotionally dumping and calling your friend when you
Speaker 1: need them, I just go through it alone, which was worse.
Speaker 1: I didn't realize I was depressed until I got happy,
Speaker 1: and then I realized I was depressed because I thought
Speaker 1: my whole life, I just thought that was my like
Speaker 1: that's just how you feel. And then I got happy
Speaker 1: and I was like, whoa, you were depressed for like
Speaker 1: twenty years kids, And then I started to put things together.
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, wow, you're like a manic depressive.
Speaker 1: It's not funny. I feel like we should put a
Speaker 1: trigger warning. But like, I've never had real suicidal thoughts,
Speaker 1: but something people don't teach you. I'm not a person
Speaker 1: that's like, oh my god, I'm gonna kill myself tonight.
Speaker 1: But I started thinking things like I don't want to
Speaker 1: wake up for like a few days, and those little
Speaker 1: things I was saying I was like, is this normal?
Speaker 1: I just so suicidal ideations is what they're called, like,
Speaker 1: and it's not really wanting to do it, but having
Speaker 1: the thought of what if. I just like, I just
Speaker 1: actually had this conversation on my periods this podcast, and
Speaker 1: it was actually attached torms no birth control, that the
Speaker 1: birth control she was taking made her want to just
Speaker 1: drive through a four way while she was at the
Speaker 1: red light, and she didn't do it, but she had
Speaker 1: to talk to the doctor because the birth control was
Speaker 1: causing like her to literally like have these suicidal audiations.
Speaker 1: When I was like sixteen and I thought my boyfriend
Speaker 1: break up with me, I was the first time to
Speaker 1: be like, I didn kill myself, But when the thoughts
Speaker 1: got real, I never was like chopping and onion like
Speaker 1: TV and then, But it was more like wanting to
Speaker 1: sleep too long or go away for a little bit,
Speaker 1: those kinds of things. So we're being serious to like
Speaker 1: finally jump out of that, I felt a lot better,
Speaker 1: but also it was weird because I was like, well,
Speaker 1: who the funk are you, bitch? If you ain't happy,
Speaker 1: go lucky. And I had to do a sex podcast
Speaker 1: and didn't feel like talking about sucking dick or fucking
Speaker 1: and can't come because Alexa pro I'll get off it, don't.
Speaker 1: I never I've never had suicidal thoughts, but I definitely
Speaker 1: have thoughts of like I just want to like disappear
Speaker 1: and be away from everything and everybody, like and nobody
Speaker 1: know where I'm at for like a few days, for
Speaker 1: a few days. But like I love life, like I
Speaker 1: don't want to die, like I want to be here
Speaker 1: and experience it, but like like I just want to
Speaker 1: be like in a forest, like in a cabin by myself,
Speaker 1: and I just like maybe have like ESPN or something
Speaker 1: like that's it, you should do it. Yeah, I get it.
Speaker 1: I went away, But I will tell you this though,
Speaker 1: I was spending an insane amount of money on myself
Speaker 1: to make myself feel good, and by that I mean vacations,
Speaker 1: not necessarily things, but like just like and this is
Speaker 1: the manic ship. I was looking at a thing on
Speaker 1: Instagram like, well, I'm gonna go there and I'm gonna
Speaker 1: say the thing you just I'm gonna go the rich
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna have this, this, this and this, and
Speaker 1: then five racks later, I'm like, oh, well, I'm still sad.
Speaker 1: That's weird. Can I ask you, guys, since this is
Speaker 1: a sex podcast we're talking about depression, can I have
Speaker 1: this water word? Of course I haven't. I might need
Speaker 1: some more to tequila for this conversation. What do you
Speaker 1: think the ties are between casual sex and depression because
Speaker 1: depressive people are typically very impulsive. Sometimes they feel empty,
Speaker 1: sometimes they need validation, sometimes they need to feel wanted.
Speaker 1: So I've noticed a lot of it's not even gender
Speaker 1: specific because I think I went through it too when
Speaker 1: I was working through the pain. I think there's a
Speaker 1: real tie in the casual sex and being depressed. There
Speaker 1: just trying to find and contand has always been able
Speaker 1: to do it better than me. But when I do it,
Speaker 1: it's because I'm depressed. So when you were doing this
Speaker 1: earlier on, I felt like if I said that, it
Speaker 1: sounds like I'm saying Mandy's empty. But I would do
Speaker 1: it because I was empty, So I could never connect
Speaker 1: about it because that's why I did it. I did
Speaker 1: it as and I didn't. I didn't feel as though
Speaker 1: I was depressed when I was having the casual sex
Speaker 1: that I was having. Um, oh, girl, straight talking about
Speaker 1: your feeling girl for tequila cheers. Um, what's crazy and
Speaker 1: what I'm realizing now even going through therapy, is my
Speaker 1: my need for control. And so because casual sex was
Speaker 1: always seen systemically as something that women had no control over.
Speaker 1: When we're on this podcast and we're being liberated and
Speaker 1: we're doing these things, I like to know that, yes,
Speaker 1: I like sex, and so I'm gonna go fuck you
Speaker 1: because I want to suck you. I mean, I'm only
Speaker 1: sucking you because I want to suck you. But of course,
Speaker 1: as I got older and as I was able to
Speaker 1: offer more, I wanted to be able to offer more
Speaker 1: than just sex. But to me, it was more that
Speaker 1: I'm doing it because I want to do it, not
Speaker 1: because he wants to do it to me, not because
Speaker 1: I get any validation from him doing it to me,
Speaker 1: but because I want to and because I need it,
Speaker 1: because I'd be I'd be horny bitch a bit. We
Speaker 1: needed some dick. So and that's why I loved living here.
Speaker 1: In like Orlando, it's only one basketball team, which when
Speaker 1: I moved here and there were two. Sex is only
Speaker 1: hour and a half away. I'm just saying hours away,
Speaker 1: but Celtics are five hours away. In the hub. It's Miami.
Speaker 1: It's the Miami Heat, Orlando imagine. I wasna, no, that's Atlanta,
Speaker 1: but no, that's Flower like right over to bridage here,
Speaker 1: so any more teams could be here, bro Pelicans. I
Speaker 1: was getting dude. Sorry, I just wanted to light in
Speaker 1: the mood because God damn so funny story. I broke
Speaker 1: up with a guy when I was like twenty years
Speaker 1: old and and I was crying about him a Mandy
Speaker 1: and man, he was like, you should go for my friend,
Speaker 1: and this was my basketball player moment. I got fluid out,
Speaker 1: and I remember a month later he was coming to
Speaker 1: Orlando to me my mom and Mandy said on the
Speaker 1: phone to me, this is not supposed to happen. You're
Speaker 1: supposed to have sex with them. You don't need to
Speaker 1: do this, wheezy, why are you doing this? And I
Speaker 1: was like, but I love him and I just can't it,
Speaker 1: like really took me a long time. When I moved
Speaker 1: to New York was when I was able to have
Speaker 1: casual sex. Now, I think what's happened a little differently
Speaker 1: is like I genuinely get off at like not casual sex,
Speaker 1: um some kind of emotional attachment, Like I don't want
Speaker 1: to show up at a dude's house to fuck. I
Speaker 1: like building that ship up throughout the night, even if
Speaker 1: we just get drinks or do dinner, and then like
Speaker 1: I need all of that extra ship, And a lot
Speaker 1: of men don't want to do that if they're just
Speaker 1: sucking you. So if that's the case, then I don't
Speaker 1: even bother because I may seem like I need more,
Speaker 1: but really I just need a little more attention for
Speaker 1: the sex more than I need you to marry me.
Speaker 1: So drinks then dinner, he's just taking whatever where whatever. Now.
Speaker 1: I wonder though, with the depression and that you're talking
Speaker 1: about Rory and like fucking generally we don't hear men
Speaker 1: talk about that. But what made you feel good? Was
Speaker 1: it the actual sex? Was it the popular feeling getting
Speaker 1: to know someone? Was the aftermath? I think when you're depressed,
Speaker 1: you still you have the obvious of feeling down on
Speaker 1: yourself and not like somebody that matters. And when you're
Speaker 1: raised in the era I was raised in where I
Speaker 1: was raised, the heritage I was raised back to that
Speaker 1: masculine ship validity comes from fucking women, Like that's where
Speaker 1: that's what you're supposed to do. That's what makes you ill,
Speaker 1: That's what all that thing comes from. So if I'm
Speaker 1: super down on myself, what's what's the way that's gonna
Speaker 1: make me feel good? I mean, I'm validated now, I'll
Speaker 1: be honest with you, But I would say, back when
Speaker 1: I was eighty pounds bigger, bagging certain men did add
Speaker 1: the validity to me that I was still this bad
Speaker 1: bit so masculinity with men. But when I was bigger,
Speaker 1: being able to bag the same fucking guys that the
Speaker 1: Instagram models and the celebrities were bad, and I was like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I'm a bad bitch. So there was validity
Speaker 1: and the type of man I was having sex with
Speaker 1: at one point, um, which now is why I like
Speaker 1: my man was nothing like them. I mean, maybe the
Speaker 1: same height, but that's about it. Um. I think a
Speaker 1: lot of people feel like I think we can still
Speaker 1: feel like that if like a good looking person comes
Speaker 1: up to me in a bar, or like, let's just say,
Speaker 1: the best looking person at a spy, how did we like, Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I'm talking about sucking before a living. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm not saying this about y'all at because I think
Speaker 1: you're both very beautiful women, But a man would suck
Speaker 1: a wall if there was a hole. I don't know
Speaker 1: if you really feel Nias sucking chicken sandwich is out here?
Speaker 1: Pop Eyes came out. Yeah, they went straight in line
Speaker 1: just to fuck it. Didn't challenge that one. I'm just saying.
Speaker 1: Before we get out, there was a homemail, but we
Speaker 1: got nice and deep. That was crazy. Yeah, I wasn't
Speaker 1: expecting that with these This is the longest podcast I've
Speaker 1: ever recorded, not ever. Oh Andrew Saltz was the longest.
Speaker 1: All right, we'll going that hour him. No, we have
Speaker 1: another guess waiting. Actually, no, it's not people, but that
Speaker 1: is one. I cannot imagine how that combo would go
Speaker 1: if y'all ever all sat together. You know what it
Speaker 1: would be. What's so funny about this entire perception of
Speaker 1: podcasting is in the perception, Maul and I are the
Speaker 1: most insignificant, yet Maul and I are the ones that
Speaker 1: care the least about all this podcasts and in the
Speaker 1: story of the listeners and everything of everyone that we
Speaker 1: fake beat with. We were the smallest fish in that group,
Speaker 1: and we care the least about this, oh ship. They're
Speaker 1: the ones that really think there's beef. I think the
Speaker 1: ship is hilarious, and I think you know that's a
Speaker 1: lie that I think that you do this thing, and
Speaker 1: the entire time we've been friends, you do this. You
Speaker 1: downplay yourself a lot, but you know how large your
Speaker 1: brand is worth both of you. A perception not and
Speaker 1: you know the perception is big. Do you remember when
Speaker 1: I was doing uh you guys were about to record
Speaker 1: and I was going on No Jumper and I realized
Speaker 1: they were going to talk about you, and I didn't
Speaker 1: even want to do it unless that was okay. And like,
Speaker 1: the first thing out of your mouth is like, oh, like,
Speaker 1: I know you wouldn't say anything whatever, like, but I
Speaker 1: know he's gonna ask that too. You know why you
Speaker 1: know he's gonna ask that, because that's how big your
Speaker 1: ship is. I do a podcast about sex, you recorded
Speaker 1: a studio I co owned, and you know for a fact,
Speaker 1: anyone even in this world, in space semi connected to you,
Speaker 1: they would ask that question because you know how big
Speaker 1: y'all are. You just say you think it's that small.
Speaker 1: It's true people may like to talk shit about y'all,
Speaker 1: but that still doesn't mean that it's not big in retrospect.
Speaker 1: My only point is that Mom, and I really think
Speaker 1: the ship is hysterical, like everyone everyone is tuffing and
Speaker 1: puffing in their house, and Mama and I are legitimately
Speaker 1: laughing in our text mess like like we're literally laughing
Speaker 1: at this ship. And it's just like when you hit
Speaker 1: podcast beef, I laugh because I know what real beef is,
Speaker 1: so to hear podcasts attached to beef is just funny.
Speaker 1: We haven't had podcasts. No, there's niggas I don't funk with,
Speaker 1: and it's not about I don't give a funk about
Speaker 1: their podcast because they't none of their podcast bigger than mine,
Speaker 1: Like I don't. I don't don't. There's a lot of respect,
Speaker 1: but I don't funk with them, and I don't sunk
Speaker 1: with them for a valid reason. It's not and it's not,
Speaker 1: but it's not beef in that type of ways. And
Speaker 1: that's what I would say. I don't. I don't have
Speaker 1: beef as much as I really just don't funk with
Speaker 1: certain people because of either how they've moved in this
Speaker 1: industry or the things that have gotten back to me. Um,
Speaker 1: which is why I mean, for a long time I
Speaker 1: was telling everybody, we don't have no podcasters on this ship.
Speaker 1: I want to bring no podcasters here. I think there's
Speaker 1: a lot of opportunists in this space, and as it's growing,
Speaker 1: I think that people show up with masks and with
Speaker 1: ulterior motives, and I'm just good on all that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm the shame. Like I don't. I don't have a
Speaker 1: lot of these dudes. I don't even think about. I
Speaker 1: don't Rory puts me onto a lot of what's going on.
Speaker 1: I don't pay attention to a lot of this ship.
Speaker 1: Do be funny, you know what I mean to be funny?
Speaker 1: Said about me? My My, My Bridges's boyfriend be telling
Speaker 1: me how the reddit threads being, I'll be like, well,
Speaker 1: I don't whole. I can't get anyone call me ugly.
Speaker 1: I'll start crying. Yeah, I don't. I don't look into
Speaker 1: all of that. I don't even go on YouTube. And
Speaker 1: that's it. That's what they get. Yeah, that that's for
Speaker 1: me is honestly just you know, having fun with my
Speaker 1: guy man, just doing it that we love, talking much
Speaker 1: it that we love. But I don't have well, I
Speaker 1: speak for both of them. We don't have issues with anybody.
Speaker 1: Everybody knows the history with Charlemagne. When it comes to
Speaker 1: me like, I just he said something on his platform
Speaker 1: that I know, I know what that could have done.
Speaker 1: What he said, and he knows what that could have
Speaker 1: done as a black man. It's like, come on, family.
Speaker 1: Was it was bantered like, you know, I don't I
Speaker 1: never had a problem with you, and Andrew, I don't know, y'all,
Speaker 1: I don't have a problem with you. So it was
Speaker 1: throwing shots back and forth. It was fun. But what
Speaker 1: he said on the Breakfast Club when the other was there,
Speaker 1: you know what that could have done? Yeah, it could
Speaker 1: have crippled us. I just feel like we were in
Speaker 1: this space and I call myself a hypocrite all the time.
Speaker 1: I say, I'll be lying to these motherfucker's but we
Speaker 1: do know at the end of the day what we
Speaker 1: say our words and where it's mean things, where it's
Speaker 1: can hurt people, and words can travel eons and eons away,
Speaker 1: especially with the fact that these podcasts lived damn near forever.
Speaker 1: So you know, I mean, I wish you all the best.
Speaker 1: It's funny. We were talking about the I G Chicks
Speaker 1: and the Only Fans chicks and how they share each
Speaker 1: other's platforms. They pretend to be friends and put people on.
Speaker 1: Van and I would just just at a conversation last
Speaker 1: week and we were having conversations about all the podcast
Speaker 1: tension that's that's going on and ship, and he's telling me,
Speaker 1: and that's what I really don't care everyone everyone, I
Speaker 1: could care less. But I said to Van and I
Speaker 1: was laughing. I was like, how is it that the
Speaker 1: I G Chicks and the Only Fans Chicks know how
Speaker 1: to utilize their platforms better than the podcast Like the
Speaker 1: way we don't rock with each other. I know it's
Speaker 1: moments because people will click when it's fake beef, and
Speaker 1: everyone likes that entertainment ship, but there is ways that
Speaker 1: all of us could really work together and utilize our audiences,
Speaker 1: and the Only Fans Chicks are doing it way better
Speaker 1: than us. The I G Chicks pretend every birthday they
Speaker 1: best friend, but they've never met the chicken they like.
Speaker 1: But happy birthdays to my best ge. There's a bottle
Speaker 1: and they're all they're doing is Sharon fan base. Because
Speaker 1: if you talk about a if you talk about and
Speaker 1: and we can bring podcasting into what even the music
Speaker 1: industry looks like Beef is numbers for one thing to
Speaker 1: a lot of the leading podcasters in this urban space
Speaker 1: are men. Sorry, but the egos of black men. Sorry,
Speaker 1: you're not really one, but you're attached to a lot
Speaker 1: of black men with ego I have as well. It's yes,
Speaker 1: you did too, So just men in general, but specifically
Speaker 1: in this urban space of podcasting, because we're not on
Speaker 1: the level of the Joe Rogan's or the Bill Simmons
Speaker 1: or like they're just huge. I would say that has
Speaker 1: something to do with it. More so, it's just the
Speaker 1: egos of men not feeling like they need to attach
Speaker 1: themselves to the next person to be who they are.
Speaker 1: Understand again, and even in rap, it's beef. Beef is
Speaker 1: what brings numbers, Beef is what brings eyes, and I
Speaker 1: think that that same ideology has been brought into podcasting.
Speaker 1: I think it's different though, because if I could have
Speaker 1: played the game and act like it was all good
Speaker 1: and I funk with dudes, and because a lot of
Speaker 1: rappers do that, they hang out. They don't really like
Speaker 1: each other. These are a lot of these rappers don't
Speaker 1: like each other at all, but they'll do a wrecking
Speaker 1: with each other. They'll do it toll with each Tell
Speaker 1: me what would have been what would have been bigger
Speaker 1: for the genre j and Nas Beefing or Earth Dame
Speaker 1: rap a Lot, Cash Money, Death Row all coming together
Speaker 1: to do a distribution company, right, which would have been
Speaker 1: bigger for the for the for the culture. Okay, a
Speaker 1: lot is I'm gonna go with the first. I don't
Speaker 1: feel about it. Corny. Also also think that here's the
Speaker 1: thing that I've noticed as well, Like, there's a lot
Speaker 1: of ways in which we don't like to get treated
Speaker 1: by the labels or by corporations and things like that,
Speaker 1: and when a lot of people get in the positions
Speaker 1: to do so, they behave in the same exact manner
Speaker 1: as the places that did them wrong. And so I
Speaker 1: think that there's still a struggle with the black community
Speaker 1: specifically not growing up really knowing ownership and not knowing
Speaker 1: how to treat people because they you know, it's not
Speaker 1: like they grew up that way. I mean, my mom
Speaker 1: for for the longest was even my dad said I
Speaker 1: needed a real job when I was bartending, and just
Speaker 1: there's just so much of our upbringing that when we
Speaker 1: do get to these places and pedestals like I also
Speaker 1: just had this conversation with my therapist, but we unfortunately
Speaker 1: subconsciously start doing to the people beneath us that that
Speaker 1: we experience. And that was my beef. When you said
Speaker 1: what he said, it was like, come on, like, you
Speaker 1: know what this is, you know what we're doing, Like
Speaker 1: for you to say that it's just But even in
Speaker 1: that podcast interview that started recirculating with y'all with Charlett
Speaker 1: magn And, he made the joke that like, you know,
Speaker 1: he needed you all, Like, I mean, I watched that.
Speaker 1: I think, don't you think it's more just him poking
Speaker 1: the bear than it is real? Like No, when he
Speaker 1: what he said when when I was up there, he
Speaker 1: was serious about that. It wasn't a joke, like when
Speaker 1: he said when he felt like we should be paid.
Speaker 1: First of all, I would never sit in a win
Speaker 1: and tell anybody what I think. Man, I don't play
Speaker 1: that game. If you tell me right now you got
Speaker 1: two hundred million, i'mna aplaud you, and I'm gonna figure
Speaker 1: out how you did it, and I'm gonna try to
Speaker 1: go get three hundred. That's just the way I was raised.
Speaker 1: Like I've never looked at another man and hated and
Speaker 1: felt some type of way about what he's eating, Like
Speaker 1: that's just not enemy. So when he did that, it
Speaker 1: said a lot to me about him, Like I fun
Speaker 1: into this day, I still respect him. He was he
Speaker 1: accomplished a lot on his platform and in his space, Like,
Speaker 1: I'm not a hater, so I still don't have hate
Speaker 1: for him. Is there any space in which you could
Speaker 1: share a room with him and talk that out? Absolutely,
Speaker 1: I would love to set that up, just because I
Speaker 1: don't have said I've spoken. I would know, let's not
Speaker 1: look at each other right now, only because like even
Speaker 1: what he's been able to do for us, and the
Speaker 1: fact that there is still respect there. I think that
Speaker 1: I'm not a hate a minute. You know, I don't
Speaker 1: know dude to hate man, but heat it's just like
Speaker 1: yo him saying that I'm from the streets, and I
Speaker 1: know when niggas say certain things, I know it's more
Speaker 1: behind that, right, So I don't know what you're doing
Speaker 1: behind closed doors. You could be stopping ship because you
Speaker 1: have that power because at that point I was just
Speaker 1: we we was young pups in this. So behind so
Speaker 1: if you say that publicly on the platform, I'm I'm
Speaker 1: thinking behind closed them, you might be blocking your Do
Speaker 1: you think that there's room for like growth in that. Like,
Speaker 1: I mean, I can't speak for Charlemagne, but I wondered too.
Speaker 1: Like I think anybody that may have think thought at
Speaker 1: one point that your ex partner was bigger, better, it's
Speaker 1: kind of eating their words or of bit. Now I
Speaker 1: watched the clip of even Adam. We were just talking
Speaker 1: about Adam saying like, there's no way they do good. Remember,
Speaker 1: he's like, there's no way. Maybe in the beginning, like
Speaker 1: everybody thought that, right, And first of all, we got
Speaker 1: to kill that narrative. When did more and I ever
Speaker 1: say we were bigger than him? You never said that.
Speaker 1: People like but people want to naturally pit you against
Speaker 1: each other. And imagine if Mandy and I decided that
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions was over and we both made a podcast,
Speaker 1: not with other people, just alone, that would be the
Speaker 1: first thing they do, Oh well, we doesn't talk to
Speaker 1: enough like Mandie. Oh well Mandy doesn't, that's gonna be yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, we never see. The interesting thing is Rory
Speaker 1: and you know, and again we still haven't exposed a
Speaker 1: lot of the business dealings that were the reason why
Speaker 1: we went out separate ways. But we were so humble
Speaker 1: for so long, and it was like you know, like
Speaker 1: just in our business, like we were humbled, Like the
Speaker 1: percentage that we agreed to take was us being humble,
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's like how much
Speaker 1: more humble can it somebody get? And then you still
Speaker 1: turn around and still try to take advantage of somebody.
Speaker 1: It's like, I'm a man at the end of the day,
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like I don't funk this business,
Speaker 1: and I'm a man first, Like so now you're trying
Speaker 1: to take advantage of me as a man, and that's
Speaker 1: where the problem, and you know it was routed. It's
Speaker 1: like you're not gonna take advantage. I'm sorry, that's just
Speaker 1: not gonna happen. Honestly, I think what we all got
Speaker 1: to watch happen was really great. I think people that
Speaker 1: maybe not even thought they'd be rooting for you at
Speaker 1: some point or thought that they loved you this much
Speaker 1: as just suddenly came out. And I mean I was
Speaker 1: super excited when and at first when you were like serious,
Speaker 1: I was like what I mean, who even thought that,
Speaker 1: like you could even attain something like that. And again,
Speaker 1: I think it's really dope that to be the first
Speaker 1: podcast to break out into Spotify and now we watch
Speaker 1: all these podcasts get all this money. Just to know
Speaker 1: that you'd reinvented in another space. I think what could
Speaker 1: really be a cool legacy for y'all is one you
Speaker 1: were the first podcast to do that, and now people
Speaker 1: know about Spotify, right. Who knows how many black podcasters
Speaker 1: will come after on Stitcher series, which is a really
Speaker 1: important thing. But that's why we and Rory did what
Speaker 1: we did. It was important to show people that it's
Speaker 1: okay to step out and and and try something and
Speaker 1: not know if it's gonna succeed or not, you know
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like we didn't know, Like we we
Speaker 1: just knew we wanted to do something and we wanted
Speaker 1: to continue having our voices being heard and having fun
Speaker 1: and just kicking it. But you know, it's important to
Speaker 1: show people like integrity pays off me and solid pays
Speaker 1: off it, does, you know what I mean? Like, and
Speaker 1: that was the important thing for us, Like it's okay
Speaker 1: to go through ship and pivot and then show like, yo,
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna, you know, put my morals and integrity
Speaker 1: you know, on the back burner, like I'm gonna stand
Speaker 1: on that, and it's gonna pay off and it's gonna
Speaker 1: be rewarded, and that's what it is. Speaking of it
Speaker 1: like a new phase, like, um, your live show, how
Speaker 1: do you guys feel about doing it to get are
Speaker 1: you excited? Is it gonna be with it feel like
Speaker 1: the same or differently diferent New York. I need to
Speaker 1: tickets to that, you know, it's definitely it's definitely real
Speaker 1: guilty because that's why I was like when I saw
Speaker 1: sold I was like, that's when I come to the show.
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be real playing all walking in Like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we SWD last Thursday, So this is no I love.
Speaker 1: We're doing the same venues, the l A venue at
Speaker 1: the three Game and that's said on it was on
Speaker 1: Barstool Ship say what you will about them, But I
Speaker 1: said in the interview that's where we could all really
Speaker 1: work together live show space, Like of course, we don't
Speaker 1: want to go in different networks or start our own
Speaker 1: networks or do partnerships whatever, that's cool, we should actually
Speaker 1: tour together. That's where my head is at with so
Speaker 1: much stuff actually weird, like if you only having sex
Speaker 1: and we're going, oh my god, can you on that note? People? Look,
Speaker 1: I got to go. I got a book, we get
Speaker 1: four days. I'm having you right, it's gonna be what
Speaker 1: what city would be the ideal one for us to
Speaker 1: be together all together? No? For no, for you to more? Oh,
Speaker 1: New York, Miami on the beach, Thank you man like
Speaker 1: Jones is amazing. We're doing life shows and taloom. So't
Speaker 1: want to do I don't have no hose, I don't
Speaker 1: have listen. I was just to who wasn't. No, it wasn't.
Speaker 1: You can't if you've been living in the same city
Speaker 1: this long. That's how it always happens. Though somebody that
Speaker 1: you may have ever slept with and then you somehow
Speaker 1: see him another city then like bam, yo, didn't that
Speaker 1: happens for sure? And it's like I got an excuse
Speaker 1: in New York and be like like I shouldn't do
Speaker 1: the How do you feel about the women that post
Speaker 1: pictures in hotel rooms of the city they live in?
Speaker 1: Huh staycation? So do you do staycations? Because I don't.
Speaker 1: Sometimes I do in a front home. Girl comes in town.
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I have. All of my friends are
Speaker 1: black and half of them are allergic to cats. So
Speaker 1: I'm in hotels now with my friends when a lot
Speaker 1: of my friends, what do you pose from? Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: in a hotel. I mean selfie in the mirror, in
Speaker 1: the bathroom, in the road. I mean, no one knows
Speaker 1: where I'm atagh grand I mean, I hold you. I
Speaker 1: used to do that when when the Niggas used to
Speaker 1: be at the Soho the Trump so that bathtub. Hell yeah,
Speaker 1: right up in that, bitch. I did have an apartment, League,
Speaker 1: and I had to stay at sixty for a few days,
Speaker 1: right and ye little League, I'll just go to sixty oh,
Speaker 1: because you know what they told me. They said, we'll
Speaker 1: give you a hundred dollars today. I said, have you
Speaker 1: seen the apartment? I need the same level, So I'll
Speaker 1: let you know where I'll be at, Nigga. When I
Speaker 1: was in there posting, I didn't even really think about it.
Speaker 1: It was just me and the dog people. Was like, damn, bitch,
Speaker 1: it's like that just got home from Lane. You had
Speaker 1: another hotel? Is like it is I'm actually judging you,
Speaker 1: Oh City, for us to all tour together, though, I
Speaker 1: think in Atlanta or Houston will really be fine. I mean, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm surprised Atlanta wasn't on the docket who said it's not.
Speaker 1: I mean just we're just doing It's coming up the
Speaker 1: same way in the Midwest as well. If you haven't yet,
Speaker 1: go to horror dot com where your ticket A L
Speaker 1: A D. I think there's a couple of tickets left.
Speaker 1: There's a couple of tickett The thing ain't ready for
Speaker 1: the vaccination card. That's why were It's Vegas Day of
Speaker 1: Vegas week and that same which is a great Actually,
Speaker 1: are y'all know when we're out there for our towards
Speaker 1: Rolling Okay, but yeah, Day in Vegas, Day in Vegas. Yeah,
Speaker 1: Rolling Loud in l A is the same exactly. That's
Speaker 1: why I asked our tour agents to book it. Then, oh,
Speaker 1: when it's on a Thursday Saturday. It's a three day weekend,
Speaker 1: so you could be Most of are like, yeah, there's
Speaker 1: a lot going on. We should book some other weekends.
Speaker 1: And he was like, nona be Yeah, but I just
Speaker 1: went to Rolling lout of New York, so I don't
Speaker 1: want to go anymore. So I'm actually gonna go to Vegas.
Speaker 1: Are you even tested? Excuse for for everything? The room
Speaker 1: should probably get tested. I was just Rolling Loud all
Speaker 1: weekend for everything. I am the one who just have
Speaker 1: the fake card. What I thought it was like Miami
Speaker 1: was like teenagers, but I thought the New York, New
Speaker 1: York a loud club. So it felt like Griffin. I
Speaker 1: like Griffin on them both today. Why didn't you guys
Speaker 1: go to Rolling Out? Did you you just with in
Speaker 1: the back raining? It was it was when I left,
Speaker 1: even before Cole said, because I was like, I have
Speaker 1: a live show that you know how the rain was
Speaker 1: bad because I've had mad offers for tickets. At the end,
Speaker 1: I had people from c A W me like, here,
Speaker 1: do you want some tickets? I'm like throwing them at me.
Speaker 1: That's fine, No, there's a thunderstorm. Yeah. Well, guys, let
Speaker 1: everyone know where they can listen to your show, where
Speaker 1: they can slide into your d M. Yeah, tell us
Speaker 1: about the listening. Do we only have to listen? Serious elaborate, No,
Speaker 1: it's anywhere you can find podcast with their Apple was
Speaker 1: Spotify and anywhere YouTube will be the next day, and yeah, anywhere, literally, Jimmy,
Speaker 1: wherever podcasts exists. Cool, we got really dope merge come in.
Speaker 1: Y'all's designs and graphics are already super cool. So I
Speaker 1: mean making the ship they send you because that ship
Speaker 1: is lit. Basically got a dog bed the fun. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: that was some some listeners that have been rotting this
Speaker 1: for a long time. Creatives love it. Now there really
Speaker 1: are there really are? Um well, guys, if you are
Speaker 1: all caught up on horrible decisions, make sure that you
Speaker 1: tune into our Patreon And I'm proud of you. I
Speaker 1: want to thank you. I love you. One of my
Speaker 1: favorite pockets. Thank you. Yes? And what year did I
Speaker 1: come on? It's been a while now. I feel like
Speaker 1: you told the cut that ship was insane. Yeah, you've
Speaker 1: been on. You've been on twice, right, I told that
Speaker 1: story you did you know? I was so Diana he
Speaker 1: came out of the bathroom. It was crazy with the
Speaker 1: iPad recording was wild. Was wild. Um, guys, again, we
Speaker 1: are on tour as well, so by the time you
Speaker 1: listen to this episode, you should be able to get
Speaker 1: tickets for the l A show as well as the
Speaker 1: Atlanta show. L A is December three. What I mean,
Speaker 1: don't because now when everybody started hitting our dams, like,
Speaker 1: so when is this going to happen? So when are
Speaker 1: you imagine it's gonna be? Like freaking bitch, because when
Speaker 1: we had we had the Houston at the same time,
Speaker 1: and do you remember how many guys like you and
Speaker 1: my girl brother me here. Then we went to y'all show.
Speaker 1: Oh my, my mom was so excited. She's like everything.
Speaker 1: That's part of changing the landscape of this ship, of course,
Speaker 1: because if if we do, if y'all go on, then
Speaker 1: we go on, and then the four of us go on.
Speaker 1: That's a show that's fun, and that's a show I
Speaker 1: damn shows about it has damn so y'all, y'all, y'all
Speaker 1: got to get Yes, we gotta open up, damn up.
Speaker 1: We'll let you know. Anyways again, that's hor Hive dot com.
Speaker 1: Get your tickets now. Um. I believe all of the
Speaker 1: v I p is sold out for l A, but
Speaker 1: you should still be able to get Don't do that.
Speaker 1: Don't do that. You know they like skinny girls out
Speaker 1: in l A. Anyways, also joined our Patreon. We're gonna
Speaker 1: leave you guys with a five minute bonus clip. Rory mall.
Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much. Thank you joining us always, always, always,
Speaker 1: always love it and you're gonna get a five minute
Speaker 1: bonus clip. This has been another episode of Horror decision fights.
Speaker 1: It's bonus Bitchen Mandy just took like a huge yawn
Speaker 1: and stretch. We just had a live show last night.
Speaker 1: Oh we did, we did, and I ain't gonna hold you.
Speaker 1: I did not want to motherfucking record today. My voice
Speaker 1: it's raspy. I was like, oh, I have a weekend off.
Speaker 1: Never do I ever though, Um, I didn't want to
Speaker 1: shout out to all of the patrons real quick who
Speaker 1: came out and pulled up to the live show at
Speaker 1: Sony Hall last night in New York City. It's so crazy, though,
Speaker 1: if you're a patron and came to a live show
Speaker 1: for the first time, please leave a comment under this episode.
Speaker 1: I was so shocked at how many people said that
Speaker 1: was the first time going to a live show. Me too,
Speaker 1: Like that, I think was the most first time I
Speaker 1: was I've ever heard in one room I've ever seen.
Speaker 1: And also for the first time. I got a lot
Speaker 1: of feedback from friends, like immediately after the show, which
Speaker 1: normally like I need some time before I can hear
Speaker 1: some ship and this was probably the best feedback I
Speaker 1: ever got. And two things I found interesting, Um, and
Speaker 1: this is not me trying to sell v IP tickets.
Speaker 1: By the way, I'm sure maybe it could be a
Speaker 1: venue thing. So Brianda and Alex both told me, and
Speaker 1: Brihanda said, she sat um in the back and it's
Speaker 1: not even that much of a back for the beginning
Speaker 1: of the show, and sat in the front towards the end.
Speaker 1: She's like, wheezy, I had a totally different experience. She's like,
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's because the fans are in
Speaker 1: the front, like crazy fans, or if people get distracted
Speaker 1: in the back. She's like, but I felt like I
Speaker 1: was like really in the show in the front. And
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously the front for Venye show was good,
Speaker 1: but this year, just so you guys know, Mandy and
Speaker 1: I have you've ever been to a show. We go, well,
Speaker 1: I go out in the audience a lot, but we
Speaker 1: pick a lot of people from the audience and we
Speaker 1: generally will go upstairs, downstairs wherever. And this time, being
Speaker 1: that we can't meet all of you, we are choosing
Speaker 1: from our V I P. Section. That is one of
Speaker 1: our um ways to you know, throw an incentive in
Speaker 1: there along with like the obviously the better seating and
Speaker 1: we give you um some merch as well. But yeah,
Speaker 1: Like I did find that interesting and I was like,
Speaker 1: I wonder and I think that's my biggest thing for myself,
Speaker 1: was like how to make sure the back is always included,
Speaker 1: because I'm sure it must be difficult, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean, Like on your a room of hundreds and
Speaker 1: hundreds of people, and I even think about, like, Howard,
Speaker 1: you know we're going next week and it's two floors,
Speaker 1: but I went up there last year or two years
Speaker 1: Howard Theater. I literally said this to Bridget last night.
Speaker 1: Sony Hall is my second favorite venue, Howard Theater. Of
Speaker 1: all the venues that we've done, um is by far
Speaker 1: my favorite venue. Like I love the DC crowd. I
Speaker 1: love that upstairs downstairs vibe. I also like the venues
Speaker 1: that allow our four Hive members to kind of it's
Speaker 1: like a dinner on a like I like when they
Speaker 1: can eat and drink and um do those type of things.
Speaker 1: How Well, speaking of drinking, however, okay, I'm not saying
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna say. Okay, you could say you could
Speaker 1: dec need to make sure it wasn't this person. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so don't don't call out that person, just call out
Speaker 1: the table. Well, then let me not say nothing someone
Speaker 1: that got on stage. Fine, someone that got on stage,
Speaker 1: but it might not be so none know what I'm saying.
Speaker 1: Someone that got on stage was sitting at a table
Speaker 1: that ran out in the bill. And when I tell you,
Speaker 1: also real quick, we know it's been a wait, we
Speaker 1: know that it's been a pandemic. We know our tickets.
Speaker 1: You know, that's why we go above and beyond with
Speaker 1: really trying to give a really good show. But the
Speaker 1: first time ever that Weezy and I have been doing
Speaker 1: live shows, We've been doing live shows since by away,
Speaker 1: I wasn't baras I wasn't bars. So then he comes
Speaker 1: down and he's like, girl, like five tables walked out
Speaker 1: on their bill, and I was just like to be
Speaker 1: fair too. The server was new, so he probably wasn't.
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, maybe everybody else seemed to have
Speaker 1: closed out before him. Yeah, but at the same time,
Speaker 1: I'll wait and be mad that somebody's taking so long
Speaker 1: with my bill before me. So I did feel really
Speaker 1: bad for him in that instance. But here's the thing, y'all,
Speaker 1: I don't know when y'all stopped sneaking liquor into places.
Speaker 1: Did I implore you to do so if you think
Speaker 1: there could be a moment that you will run out
Speaker 1: on your tab. The last time I remember seeing some
Speaker 1: ship like this happened. I was at a fucking steak
Speaker 1: and shake prom night. Nigger, I'm not used to this sheet.
Speaker 1: I am not used to his ghetto sheet. We're all
Speaker 1: ready the black shell mhm