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Speaker 1: Guess what decision we're about to make a horrible decisions.

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Speaker 1: Horrible decisions. Welcome, Welcome to horrible decisions. I'm your girl,

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Speaker 1: Mandy B and I guess we know. I thought you

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Speaker 1: were gonna do a million a case. No, I don't

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Speaker 1: want to do my case today. Oh oh great, I'm

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Speaker 1: wheezy a K. Thank god, I'm a waiting for this

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Speaker 1: moment naked anyway, Mandy got like seventeen aks, but I

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Speaker 1: don't know when she's gonna stop, so sometimes I didn't

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Speaker 1: even do my aks every intro to be fair, are

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Speaker 1: you allowed to get yourself? I didn't give myself them.

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Speaker 1: The fans game just said, it's your girl, manny being

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Speaker 1: no one has agreed that you are their girls, a

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Speaker 1: girl girl, the person sits all right, we got ye.

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Speaker 1: So uh let's see. I'm wheezy. I'm sitting next to

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Speaker 1: mall a K. That's my crazy. I'm all I'm sitting

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Speaker 1: next to I don't like this game. We neither can

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Speaker 1: we do it? When you get a new job, that's like,

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Speaker 1: that's like look at your neighbor to the left, Like

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Speaker 1: I don't want to look at it neighbor. Like the eyebreakers.

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Speaker 1: We want to know is who gets their asty Like,

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Speaker 1: we're definitely gonna get into no sexual questions on this episode. Bullshit,

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Speaker 1: you're none. Okay, let me my first one? Are you?

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Speaker 1: Can you start? Wait one moment the excitement? Can you

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Speaker 1: start by oh no, you're want to start with the heartbreakers?

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Speaker 1: Can you start with introducing the guests out? I don't

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Speaker 1: know here? Okay? Can we entry the guests? Yes? Would

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Speaker 1: you like me to ben? This is awkward because it's

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Speaker 1: like really cool and manager. Anyway, welcome to our show.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to start off with some a K s,

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Speaker 1: but I'm not allowed to. So you guys are finally bad.

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Speaker 1: We know your episode dropped. Tell us your new schedule,

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Speaker 1: some new things that may be coming to your um.

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Speaker 1: You guys have a podcast. We're not question like like

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Speaker 1: like a skitch show, like tell us what your podcast is. Well,

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Speaker 1: it's an experience. It's not just a podcast. And you

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Speaker 1: guys pod experiment and experience. Yes, you experiment. We have

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Speaker 1: experience it, okay, and then record them the world give

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Speaker 1: them to the world. Y'all gotta do this ship two

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Speaker 1: times a week. We do our audios out every Tuesday

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Speaker 1: and Friday videos out Wednesday and Saturday, so you'll see

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Speaker 1: our faces a lot. Well, although I didn't want you

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Speaker 1: to promot that, I'm gonna ask one podcast and is

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Speaker 1: about your dick. My one pod question is, OK, you

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Speaker 1: guys seem to be good friends, like you don't fight,

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Speaker 1: But have you had a disagreement yet regarding the pod

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Speaker 1: or something you wanted from it or something new? Give

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Speaker 1: us t disagreement. I don't know about disagree. I mean,

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Speaker 1: there's been things we've disagreed and call them or anything.

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Speaker 1: Give us one see that. But you know what, I

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Speaker 1: loved that y'all just had and said that though, because

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Speaker 1: when we disagree somehow it becomes an argument, Like I

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Speaker 1: can't disagree like that. We can know you don't argue,

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Speaker 1: you too, don't argue. I could never tell that you

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Speaker 1: friend goals, but we can get at least the tent.

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Speaker 1: But it's nothing but look, it's nothing wrong with that though,

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Speaker 1: because y'all y'all seem to get through it and still

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Speaker 1: are able to give the people a really dope product

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Speaker 1: and really get to the business. And it's still I mean,

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Speaker 1: I just met some of our fans. We say it

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Speaker 1: all the time. On Patreon. The people are really the

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Speaker 1: only reason why this show even is still here, hanging

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Speaker 1: by a thread. We meet them a lot. We're not

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Speaker 1: hanging back again. Your friendship communication do you think that?

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Speaker 1: Do you think it's because of your your work relationship?

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Speaker 1: It it fun with you're like real and ship Yeah,

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Speaker 1: maybe going to be therapy. And where we got to

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Speaker 1: the money and real decisions got made, it got harder

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Speaker 1: like we for me, that's what I think it is,

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Speaker 1: like y'all have known each other too more outside looking in.

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Speaker 1: I think y'all are really like legitimately family and family

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Speaker 1: tends to hate each other. After twenty years, we didn't

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Speaker 1: speak for five years. So although there was a ten

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Speaker 1: And I just don't think a lot of things. Oh

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Speaker 1: to be fine. We're actually gonna fight, I'm sure. So

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Speaker 1: you become friends? Is this a new marker? Technically? Have

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Speaker 1: you really been podding for what like three months. I've

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Speaker 1: been fighting for like seven years. When you guys talk

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Speaker 1: you because they are so All you gotta say is

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Speaker 1: usually say? You said? What the cops usually stay off

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Speaker 1: that questions? Have never said that yes, wait which way though?

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Speaker 1: Like is his tongue in her? But just your first instinct? Oh,

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Speaker 1: I'm both yes, yes, okay, finger in the bat well,

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Speaker 1: not mine, not in my? But it was no, I can't.

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Speaker 1: beget fingers in this? But like because I know the

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Speaker 1: I've never never looked at it. I would as he's

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Speaker 1: making money, you know, it's it's probably feel which which

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Speaker 1: left thumb, you're a left thumb. You're right with your left. Okay,

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Speaker 1: have this one free. But you also jeck off your

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Speaker 1: dick right with the right sometimes, depending like what the

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Speaker 1: that again. You jerk off with your left. Yeah, you're

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Speaker 1: That's just a century in her mouth, yes, yes, spitting

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Speaker 1: your mouth. No, it's happened. If you tongue kiss small,

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Speaker 1: that's spitting your mouth. No, come on, man, you know Harlem?

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Speaker 1: Harlem nasty. That's why I know you're lying, you kid.

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Speaker 1: say she spent because you make him sign in the

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Speaker 1: spent my mom Okay, foot in your mouth. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, and are you circumcised? Last question? Many are

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Speaker 1: going on two parents cared about us? You just said

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Speaker 1: men are can't go on the outside, not unless you say, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I don't think they'll let you leave. They won't let

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Speaker 1: the same time, men feel more of a sensation, like

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Speaker 1: know someone been uncircumcised then circumcised themselves. And was like, Yo,

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Speaker 1: it's better the other way. It's just saying scientifically proven

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Speaker 1: know him. Damn, we're gonna know what's gonna rain. Maybe

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Speaker 1: at some point do you say this? She was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's way more sensational out than absolutely throughout you said it.

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Speaker 1: We are not and being circumcised like a mask for

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Speaker 1: it's not being circumcised with like a mask. Yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: not being circus We're not circumcised. I am circumcised, but

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Speaker 1: Wolf has definitely he has locks. You can't have locks

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Speaker 1: and not be circumcised. Actually, I feel like the niggas

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Speaker 1: me thinking about which rabbits? Yeah, please don't think about that. Next.

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Speaker 1: But where are we going next? Okay, so Many and

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Speaker 1: is back to school. We're basically teaching people about things.

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Speaker 1: I just want to know if you and my teacher

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Speaker 1: I would have detention every day. I just want you

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Speaker 1: detention line. I feel like it's been that's been used. Okay,

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Speaker 1: well I heard of guy. Damn, that's why that's my guy.

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Speaker 1: Because the amount of people that think I've slept with

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Speaker 1: Rory it's insane because I feel like any time I'm

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Speaker 1: you left the world. No that you tried at one point?

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Speaker 1: Did you at the live show? I've never said that.

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Speaker 1: I've never tried to worry if she did, I missed it. Okay,

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Speaker 1: at that point. But I'm sure if was Sam, oh,

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Speaker 1: But anyway about detention. Do you know the name of this? Um? Yes?

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Speaker 1: What is it? Leather? All right? Mari? That is a

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Speaker 1: you know what people invented that it's not technically that

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Speaker 1: is kind of looks like Rory good call, Please do

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Speaker 1: not answer that question. This is called a flogger, and

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Speaker 1: I felt like, yes, it's called a flogger, and the flogging,

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Speaker 1: the actual act of it is it's not whipping. For

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Speaker 1: anyone who's not watching the YouTube, it's like a bunch

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Speaker 1: and it's it's not supposed to hurt as much. But

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Speaker 1: when you come to the show on Thursday, I'll let

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Speaker 1: you see it. Are you going to use it at

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Speaker 1: the show? Why not? What do you have you seen

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Speaker 1: what we do with everything? But second on the show, wait,

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Speaker 1: you were at our Gotham show, right right? Some people

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Speaker 1: started thinking I was what about him? What people think

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Speaker 1: we're fucking? Like? I think people think I'm sucking everyone

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Speaker 1: but Rory Rory in because I always posted him. You

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. But to me, that's the like

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Speaker 1: dead giveaway when you don't think, yeah, you would post

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Speaker 1: a person you were sucking. Do you post people you've

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Speaker 1: slept with? I don't even post posted tweeting post the show?

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Speaker 1: But that's it. Do you agree if you're like taking

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Speaker 1: a story of someone, you're definitely not sucking them. Um.

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Speaker 1: I think that's kind of where I've been. But I

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Speaker 1: don't know, do you close friends them? Oh, I don't

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Speaker 1: have close friends. I just made I don't have a

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Speaker 1: a repeat behavior where every single woman is saying the

422
00:22:46,920 --> 00:22:50,400
Speaker 1: same thing. Now that's some fun boy shit because you're

423
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,440
Speaker 1: not learning from the mistakes you made. It's just the past.

424
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:55,360
Speaker 1: You're so girlfriend guy that it's not even funny. Piece

425
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:58,960
Speaker 1: of in a good way. Really, the things that you

426
00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 1: were saying about vulnerabile. It all comes from ten years

427
00:23:02,600 --> 00:23:05,160
Speaker 1: of failing, Like ten years of just I'm not saying

428
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 1: I do it correctly now, I'm just aware of it.

429
00:23:07,359 --> 00:23:09,159
Speaker 1: He's thirty to ten years of failing. What are you

430
00:23:09,200 --> 00:23:12,159
Speaker 1: talking about. I was in relationships in my twenties. You

431
00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:15,760
Speaker 1: shouldn't be in a relationships in your twenties. Let's that's

432
00:23:15,760 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 1: what you make them stake. You should be a hard

433
00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,120
Speaker 1: I don't let me get you should be a hole

434
00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:25,919
Speaker 1: in your twenties like your twenties should be you dating experience,

435
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 1: like you shouldn't be committed relationships. That means, I'm sorry,

436
00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,119
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be at my mid thirties meeting men that

437
00:23:34,240 --> 00:23:36,520
Speaker 1: haven't had a real relationship yet. I don't like hearing

438
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:38,680
Speaker 1: you don't know who you are on your twenties, are

439
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:43,520
Speaker 1: with figure out the dumb ship with them holes? When

440
00:23:43,520 --> 00:23:45,680
Speaker 1: you dating your twenties, somebody try to be figuring out

441
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:47,919
Speaker 1: with somebody When you dating your twenties, you do not

442
00:23:47,960 --> 00:23:49,879
Speaker 1: know yourself. So sometimes the only thing you're have in

443
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:52,440
Speaker 1: common with somebody is that you love them, and then

444
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,720
Speaker 1: that ship think about everyone to go and do different

445
00:23:54,720 --> 00:23:56,439
Speaker 1: ship you had in your twenties where you thought this

446
00:23:56,480 --> 00:23:58,960
Speaker 1: was the one and look how stupid, But no, that's

447
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:02,000
Speaker 1: the That's the thing though. I showed up knowing that

448
00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:04,640
Speaker 1: I had a lot to work on with myself as

449
00:24:04,680 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 1: far as getting myself through school, as far as finding

450
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,200
Speaker 1: a career, as far as being willing to even cook

451
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 1: for a motherfucker at one point, like my mom still

452
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 1: can't believe I know how to cook. So through my

453
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,680
Speaker 1: twenties that's what I was doing. And you know, other

454
00:24:16,680 --> 00:24:18,520
Speaker 1: than that. I was just getting my getting my freak on,

455
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 1: getting fluid out. I had to get experiences. I didn't

456
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:23,879
Speaker 1: have the money to travel, so official need to travel.

457
00:24:25,400 --> 00:24:28,920
Speaker 1: Don't do that. I so much time. I don't ever kept.

458
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:35,360
Speaker 1: I mean it's handed it. Yeah, so that the tell

459
00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 1: you what you can. Don't do that, do that. I

460
00:24:37,600 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 1: am platinum. Actually, if you long, you know what, Tom,

461
00:24:43,320 --> 00:24:49,199
Speaker 1: You're already are you serious? And in adulta when I

462
00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 1: used to be in first class, I did used to

463
00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 1: feel judged. I'm like, oh, they know I didn't pay

464
00:24:52,520 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 1: for this co Really in first class, you don't had

465
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:04,159
Speaker 1: a dress nice and he gives rich daddy vibes. Nigga

466
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:06,240
Speaker 1: Lando And it was up in le Bronx in my twenties.

467
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 1: I wasn't dressing nights to the airport, bitch. I was

468
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:11,520
Speaker 1: wearing pajamas. Wait, even though you knew it was gonna

469
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:14,240
Speaker 1: find me out. Oh yeah, I used to dress the

470
00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:15,840
Speaker 1: last some times. I have to get my nails done

471
00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:17,119
Speaker 1: because I'm like, funk, I'm about to be with a

472
00:25:17,160 --> 00:25:20,800
Speaker 1: nigga my most ridiculous. And that's how I feel like.

473
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:22,480
Speaker 1: I know when I see girls that are like new

474
00:25:22,480 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 1: in the game because bitch, I'd wear heels there for it.

475
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 1: That's a hard ill was showing and I'd be like,

476
00:25:25,880 --> 00:25:33,679
Speaker 1: he's coming in here even wear yeah yeah. But then

477
00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:36,159
Speaker 1: I feel like Nigga Nigga's judge because like I do,

478
00:25:36,359 --> 00:25:39,679
Speaker 1: but I can't rolling loud every bitch that tried to

479
00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 1: work where heels or even some type of platform and look,

480
00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:45,480
Speaker 1: because it was like she looked to be looking dull

481
00:25:45,960 --> 00:25:50,360
Speaker 1: tapping Scott doesn't care. She see you from there and

482
00:25:50,359 --> 00:25:54,040
Speaker 1: he thinks she looks stupid. No, there's a time in

483
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:56,000
Speaker 1: a place to wear heels for sure, for sure. And

484
00:25:56,040 --> 00:25:58,240
Speaker 1: I think like when you're going through that first flute

485
00:25:58,280 --> 00:26:00,919
Speaker 1: out phase, I didn't know what to do and I

486
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,760
Speaker 1: wanted to be so perfect for this person, you know

487
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:05,119
Speaker 1: what I'm saying, so that like I could get you

488
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:07,560
Speaker 1: because this mouth was going to be perfect. So I

489
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:09,560
Speaker 1: mean I wanted to I wanted to get it more

490
00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:14,160
Speaker 1: than just like they wanted out for as a guy

491
00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 1: flowing you out more than once? Absolutely, Okay, did you

492
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:20,440
Speaker 1: ever ask you your birthday more than once? And were

493
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:25,040
Speaker 1: you offended? Oh my god, because this is happening to

494
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:26,920
Speaker 1: me and I don't really know. I'm be trying to

495
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:29,200
Speaker 1: scroll up and like typing keywords to try to figure

496
00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:30,960
Speaker 1: out what the birthday was the last off, because I

497
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,400
Speaker 1: don't want to say for the seventh time for girls,

498
00:26:33,440 --> 00:26:36,840
Speaker 1: I'm not flying up what's your birthday again? I'm I'm

499
00:26:36,840 --> 00:26:39,159
Speaker 1: scrolling through her Instagram trying to find her birthday make up.

500
00:26:39,160 --> 00:26:43,000
Speaker 1: All right, where's the birthday make up? Then I get

501
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:44,359
Speaker 1: the day and I have to guess the year. I'm like,

502
00:26:44,400 --> 00:26:47,159
Speaker 1: all right, we're fucking how many years photo? Okay? She

503
00:26:47,160 --> 00:26:49,080
Speaker 1: didn't know what happened at the end of Notorious, so

504
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:53,159
Speaker 1: she must be born after nine seven. She was like,

505
00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:57,720
Speaker 1: damn me, Dodd, I didn't see that coming time. We know.

506
00:26:57,920 --> 00:26:59,959
Speaker 1: As soon as I knew, there was a flyout Marius

507
00:27:00,000 --> 00:27:03,760
Speaker 1: sponsor to that was full name, birthday email. Okay, so

508
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:06,679
Speaker 1: they never had to ask, you know. I was on

509
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 1: the phone with a dude who's friend. I was on

510
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:10,840
Speaker 1: the phone my home boy. He was in Africa for work,

511
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:12,880
Speaker 1: and I was telling him, how like, you know, I'm

512
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:14,360
Speaker 1: not on the app, like I want to meet someone.

513
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 1: He was like, you gotta meet my dude here. He's

514
00:27:16,080 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 1: back and forth in Africa to New York. To do

515
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:19,120
Speaker 1: you get on the phone. He's like, yeah, I could

516
00:27:19,080 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 1: fly you out to Africa sometimes, I said, do you

517
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 1: think I want to spend twenty thirty hours traveling to

518
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 1: kind of have dinner with you? You can call me

519
00:27:24,560 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 1: when you're in New Yorker. Actually, Senecol only took eleven

520
00:27:26,840 --> 00:27:29,520
Speaker 1: hours to get to. They were deep at a very

521
00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:35,440
Speaker 1: humbling moment without experience. Really what more, I'll just love

522
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 1: being here. That's all. You're back, baby, You got to

523
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 1: comfortable couch. Yeah, this is CV two I invested and

524
00:27:46,359 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: it's black, it's comfortable. We didn't get this one. We

525
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 1: got some. First of all, you guys didn't want everyone set,

526
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:55,160
Speaker 1: so we had to lift them chairs up. Let them

527
00:27:55,160 --> 00:28:01,359
Speaker 1: know I lifted those Thank you. Edding yi edin is like,

528
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:03,240
Speaker 1: I am not gonna let here and don't even start.

529
00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:06,160
Speaker 1: We had to add a change set fee because y'all,

530
00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:09,080
Speaker 1: because y'all, do you know that Mary kill Eddin Alex

531
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:13,840
Speaker 1: the one who's the other one on staff into that Wait,

532
00:28:13,920 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 1: tell us who's the humbling moment? Technically we're on blackfeck, sir,

533
00:28:20,359 --> 00:28:25,480
Speaker 1: raised on blaffect. Ye, how dare you? How dare he

534
00:28:26,000 --> 00:28:28,320
Speaker 1: suddenly a program like black effect with my white face?

535
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:32,440
Speaker 1: Dare you do this, the Black Effect is prospering more

536
00:28:32,440 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 1: than a lot of other networks out there, and it's

537
00:28:34,560 --> 00:28:36,920
Speaker 1: doing well, and it's supporting black people and paying them.

538
00:28:37,040 --> 00:28:42,240
Speaker 1: What networks are you talking about? Let's start, Joe about network? Okay, anyway,

539
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:45,360
Speaker 1: I'm on stitch out. Let's go how you know. And

540
00:28:45,400 --> 00:28:48,640
Speaker 1: I'm just not gonna get my business involved over here.

541
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:50,960
Speaker 1: So there's that. Hey, listen, man, we can talk about

542
00:28:50,960 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 1: whatever you want to talk about. Oh no, I didn't

543
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,560
Speaker 1: humbling a moment a woman she was packing and I

544
00:28:57,600 --> 00:28:59,960
Speaker 1: was I was flying her somewhere, and she was factually,

545
00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:01,440
Speaker 1: I don't really want to do a carry on like

546
00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 1: her partner. I don't want to do a check bag.

547
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,760
Speaker 1: Let me just do the carry on ship. And I

548
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:06,880
Speaker 1: was like, oh, you know like first classes, they don't

549
00:29:07,360 --> 00:29:10,760
Speaker 1: charge for the carry on for the check back. You

550
00:29:10,760 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 1: think this is my first time in first class? I

551
00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:24,240
Speaker 1: was like, oh, thank you. You wre condom stop, I

552
00:29:24,320 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 1: did not have. If you fly a girl out first class,

553
00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:34,880
Speaker 1: do you have to wig condom? Yes? If I if

554
00:29:34,920 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 1: I put a check on adults and one, she already

555
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:40,800
Speaker 1: know I'm hitting that thing. Roll Are you serious? Lay

556
00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 1: down on the bed on the flight. No, that is

557
00:29:43,000 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 1: toxic and no, let me just tell you it's a

558
00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:47,560
Speaker 1: little jarring about this coming out of Mall's mouth last night.

559
00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:49,680
Speaker 1: Skip to hord Derve for anyone who's never listened to

560
00:29:49,680 --> 00:29:52,640
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions. Horror Derve is our sex tips segment. I

561
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 1: text Rory separately. I text Mall separately, said, can you

562
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 1: guys give us a sex step for tomorrow? Just so

563
00:29:57,120 --> 00:30:00,440
Speaker 1: you're not um? You know in shock? We're he says,

564
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: pull out, We're a condom. This is why we're good

565
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:14,280
Speaker 1: to it. Delta one, I've never anybody, Oh even the

566
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:16,760
Speaker 1: African I was sucking. They gave me like thirty bands,

567
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:19,240
Speaker 1: Like he still used a condom. So I'm sorry. Delta

568
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,480
Speaker 1: one is not getting raw. The amount of women that

569
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:23,920
Speaker 1: have told me the amount of money that's just been

570
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:27,760
Speaker 1: given to them, And how have you not like safely

571
00:30:27,760 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 1: invested this money. How have you not retired someone? That's

572
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:35,960
Speaker 1: why I was someone mears the amount of times this happens,

573
00:30:36,480 --> 00:30:40,880
Speaker 1: you could hit at least well, well, I wasn't there yet.

574
00:30:40,880 --> 00:30:42,600
Speaker 1: This is what happens when you're just sucking being a

575
00:30:42,640 --> 00:30:45,200
Speaker 1: home in your twenties. Um, when I got that money,

576
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:47,800
Speaker 1: I was like great, I don't have to work three jobs.

577
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:49,520
Speaker 1: And I went back to school. I went to college.

578
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 1: That I gave you money move that was well, that

579
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:54,480
Speaker 1: was you were really stripping to pay tuition. That was

580
00:30:54,480 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 1: not no, no, no. I was a bartending um. But

581
00:30:58,200 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 1: when I got that money, I was like, oh my god, great,

582
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:01,800
Speaker 1: I don't have to do this work because I wanted

583
00:31:01,840 --> 00:31:04,160
Speaker 1: to finish school early. So that thirty thousand allowed me

584
00:31:04,240 --> 00:31:07,800
Speaker 1: the college experience of playing college sports, studying abroad, um,

585
00:31:08,280 --> 00:31:10,680
Speaker 1: paying my run up for like it, it's set me

586
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:15,440
Speaker 1: good to graduation. Get invite to graduation? Does he get

587
00:31:15,440 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 1: a copy of your diploma? He ended up missing missing,

588
00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:22,160
Speaker 1: like his money wasn't the same by the time my

589
00:31:22,240 --> 00:31:29,040
Speaker 1: junior year came around. So he's like everybody keeping Instagram

590
00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 1: and he wore condom and he wore kind of and

591
00:31:32,480 --> 00:31:34,640
Speaker 1: he only want a missionary. I've shared this story on here,

592
00:31:35,440 --> 00:31:39,200
Speaker 1: only missionary get it? How you live? I have an

593
00:31:39,320 --> 00:31:43,080
Speaker 1: X that started playing and then the African Rich African

594
00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:49,000
Speaker 1: Street told me every time, how did you my honest

595
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:51,960
Speaker 1: will hear these stories? I'm only asking this question because

596
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:55,320
Speaker 1: most people hear this with or a drug dealer. How

597
00:31:55,320 --> 00:31:58,200
Speaker 1: did you miss the same advice? I've given all the

598
00:31:58,240 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 1: girls on horrible decisions as long as I've been listening.

599
00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 1: You have to be friends with other hoss. Our home

600
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 1: girl posted me of the w c W and he

601
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 1: saw me on her page and was like, yeah, I

602
00:32:07,480 --> 00:32:11,160
Speaker 1: need her first conversations, like said, I said, you could

603
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:14,000
Speaker 1: give him my number. First conversation. He wired me a

604
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:15,920
Speaker 1: thousand dollars and was like this is so you know

605
00:32:15,960 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 1: I'm not playing when crushed Wednesday, this fucking Instagram at it?

606
00:32:22,240 --> 00:32:25,719
Speaker 1: Why do but yeah, like so you have to day

607
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:27,920
Speaker 1: I'm on to get like that's it. Yeah, I think.

608
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:29,880
Speaker 1: I mean that's the we know that you just got

609
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:33,320
Speaker 1: to be friends. Like it's called cross market. That's why

610
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:35,680
Speaker 1: it is. It's crossed when you start seeing girls post

611
00:32:35,720 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 1: each other like oh babe, Like that's why all the

612
00:32:37,920 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 1: Instagram girls are friends because they're all sharing the same true.

613
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:42,920
Speaker 1: I'll be honest when I see that they're normally only

614
00:32:43,040 --> 00:32:45,440
Speaker 1: fans girls. I never thought for a moment it was

615
00:32:45,560 --> 00:32:47,320
Speaker 1: just to like put you on the other itsh niggas

616
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 1: and then they get they get broken off of that.

617
00:32:50,600 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 1: That's what I used. I gotta stop hanging out with

618
00:32:52,080 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 1: so many gay niggas and go to these medium guns.

619
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:03,880
Speaker 1: The last time Rory and I hung out, me, him

620
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:07,320
Speaker 1: and Benny went to a fucking rave at Brooklyn Mirage

621
00:33:07,360 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 1: because Bennie, we're sitting no, no, no, gentlemen, I love.

622
00:33:14,400 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 1: It's nothing like really good guy. He's just not like

623
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 1: Benny okay, cool, and he butchers different things. I have

624
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 1: met each other a few times through me and basically

625
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,040
Speaker 1: Rory saying something about Brooklyn Mirage and Do Say Blues

626
00:33:29,120 --> 00:33:31,240
Speaker 1: and he's like, Yo, I want these tickets to this show,

627
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 1: Like can you get some tickets? And Rory's like, you know,

628
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:36,360
Speaker 1: Rory hits us up in the morning, No, he hit

629
00:33:36,440 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 1: that group chat on the early Yes. But Rory hits

630
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:41,800
Speaker 1: back talking about, yeah, we have six v IP tickets

631
00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:43,600
Speaker 1: for the Brooklyn show. I'll just shove it when I amn't,

632
00:33:43,600 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 1: and he was like, oh my god, bet you couldn't

633
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:47,000
Speaker 1: even get these. Well, anyway, we're going out. We go

634
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,400
Speaker 1: to this fucking rape. I couldn't even believe I was

635
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:52,479
Speaker 1: seeing Rory there, and hilariously enough, no one knew him

636
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,680
Speaker 1: for the ever. Any time we go out. It was

637
00:33:55,760 --> 00:33:59,640
Speaker 1: just like, oh, it's not a soul new like don't know,

638
00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:03,680
Speaker 1: like this is a white party had they were selling

639
00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:06,680
Speaker 1: lollipops in the bathroom for a high end price because

640
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:09,440
Speaker 1: of the certain drug of choice. Of course, I don't

641
00:34:09,440 --> 00:34:13,440
Speaker 1: know if he is allowed to talk about her rug contract.

642
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 1: There's drug talk every episode. Absolutely no. Now he knows

643
00:34:17,640 --> 00:34:21,719
Speaker 1: I ain't shut. But I was very But Molly gets

644
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:23,440
Speaker 1: piste out in two days. That's why all the athletes

645
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:25,360
Speaker 1: used to take it. Oh well, I was high for

646
00:34:25,400 --> 00:34:30,760
Speaker 1: a while, was definitely high. I had a water bottle

647
00:34:30,920 --> 00:34:32,400
Speaker 1: with a little bit of water in it that he

648
00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:34,839
Speaker 1: kept circling around and take a swig up and then

649
00:34:35,040 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 1: look up and say, have you tried these glasses on yet?

650
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 1: I had these glasses? Hang out, mom, I'm trying to

651
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 1: do like other ship. I did like fucking a decade

652
00:34:47,600 --> 00:34:50,719
Speaker 1: of pelus. I did the same party for ever, like

653
00:34:50,800 --> 00:34:52,960
Speaker 1: I wanted to try a new ship. Got these glasses

654
00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:55,800
Speaker 1: from Amazon that you can see rainbows, and like, I

655
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,279
Speaker 1: just took the whole time. I'm like, I don't think

656
00:34:58,320 --> 00:35:02,040
Speaker 1: I'm feeling the molly. Well. I was feeling the so much.

657
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,400
Speaker 1: Now I'm not feeling it. Feeling it'll feel start to

658
00:35:04,440 --> 00:35:06,440
Speaker 1: see y'all are gonna both have to start venturing into

659
00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 1: new things for research purposes. That the white one was

660
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 1: the one. It was Greeway. When we do it'll be

661
00:35:14,480 --> 00:35:18,520
Speaker 1: different thing. So Vanilla Ship this week. That's our new segment.

662
00:35:18,840 --> 00:35:21,800
Speaker 1: I don't know if y'all seen Sex Love Goop Gwyne's Paltrow.

663
00:35:22,000 --> 00:35:24,799
Speaker 1: Gwyneth Paltrow has a show on Netflix. Yeah, that's where

664
00:35:24,960 --> 00:35:27,799
Speaker 1: Data Pinkett was talking about. Well, no, that was Red

665
00:35:27,840 --> 00:35:30,879
Speaker 1: Table Talk. I thought it was one of the Paltrow though. Yeah. Yeah,

666
00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:32,560
Speaker 1: But she has a new show, like a sex show

667
00:35:32,600 --> 00:35:36,320
Speaker 1: on Netflix. And on the show she is a therapist.

668
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:41,960
Speaker 1: Sex Love Goop Coop is the name of her candle

669
00:35:42,040 --> 00:35:44,239
Speaker 1: that apparently smells like her pussy. I'm not mad at it,

670
00:35:44,400 --> 00:35:48,160
Speaker 1: but uh. And one of the episodes, someone went through

671
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:53,759
Speaker 1: sex body sex I loogical body work. Basically, it's it's uh,

672
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:57,160
Speaker 1: it's illegal in forty nine states to touch a client's genitals.

673
00:35:57,640 --> 00:36:01,200
Speaker 1: But when it's practiced ethically, I'm sorry, it's just funny

674
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:03,879
Speaker 1: because these white people are really weird doing it. But um,

675
00:36:04,239 --> 00:36:06,880
Speaker 1: when it's practiced ethically, it can be a healing process.

676
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:11,160
Speaker 1: So on the series, somebody was having painful penetration. She

677
00:36:11,239 --> 00:36:13,480
Speaker 1: grew up in a conservative home. Jhovah's witness where the

678
00:36:13,480 --> 00:36:16,960
Speaker 1: word sex wasn't even okay and lesbians were gross. So

679
00:36:17,680 --> 00:36:19,279
Speaker 1: she fell in love with a woman and was having

680
00:36:19,360 --> 00:36:22,279
Speaker 1: difficulty with entry into her vagina. And so this is

681
00:36:22,320 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 1: the witnesses will enter your house with no problem, and

682
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:31,560
Speaker 1: while you're pussy takes time. So this woman penetrates the

683
00:36:31,760 --> 00:36:36,560
Speaker 1: client while her girlfriend is watching and basically um trying

684
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:40,560
Speaker 1: to mound into her volva, stroking the labia, checking in

685
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:43,600
Speaker 1: with her, making sure that placing her finger was okay,

686
00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 1: trying to subside the pressure. And this is a real thing.

687
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 1: She's an actual certified therapist for this. And she gave

688
00:36:50,680 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: her apparently an orgasm on camera with a pubic massage.

689
00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:58,920
Speaker 1: And I just want to say, someone that did a

690
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:01,440
Speaker 1: TV show about sex sweetie has one. I don't think

691
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,320
Speaker 1: there is a world where black people can get on

692
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:06,600
Speaker 1: Netflix finger each other and they post it. But let

693
00:37:06,760 --> 00:37:10,000
Speaker 1: Camille decide that she's gonna give you pussy therapy, and

694
00:37:10,040 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 1: they're like, oh, yeah, this is this is okay. It's

695
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 1: all about how you worded. She Once you put therapy

696
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 1: attached to it, it's it's okay. It was mental health.

697
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:24,480
Speaker 1: Have a therapist. We should do um like uh like

698
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:32,279
Speaker 1: skin therapy, a facial Okay, Okay, Oh, he's definitely wanting

699
00:37:32,280 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 1: to give you a facial. I didn't say that. I

700
00:37:34,840 --> 00:37:38,680
Speaker 1: mean he said I have great skincare routine. Okay, you're interested,

701
00:37:39,719 --> 00:37:43,480
Speaker 1: got you so your sex to pull out, wear a condom?

702
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 1: Anything beyond that bullshitall sit I'm uncomfortable you condoms room.

703
00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:51,680
Speaker 1: We're in a condoms room. No, that's not what we

704
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 1: were coming about that, Okay, Okay. Is there any sex

705
00:37:57,480 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 1: tip that you guys have for men for women or

706
00:38:00,960 --> 00:38:03,640
Speaker 1: for women for men um and I only say women

707
00:38:03,680 --> 00:38:05,120
Speaker 1: for men, men for women because you guys have had

708
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:08,800
Speaker 1: her sexual sex. I'm a big advocate. I want a

709
00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 1: campaign now for men to realize sex toys are not

710
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 1: your enemy. They are They are your teammates, sir. That's

711
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 1: your man and them. Okay, that little bullet that vibrate,

712
00:38:20,600 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 1: you can't vibrate, bro and another and felscular and loom

713
00:38:26,960 --> 00:38:28,440
Speaker 1: like me and my part The last year and a

714
00:38:28,440 --> 00:38:31,080
Speaker 1: half has been phenomenal with sex with the addition of

715
00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 1: sex toys, and it's one of the things that I

716
00:38:33,400 --> 00:38:36,640
Speaker 1: fear now going to deal with, like having new partners again,

717
00:38:37,160 --> 00:38:39,480
Speaker 1: is like, oh nah, I have like a whole kid Like,

718
00:38:39,600 --> 00:38:41,320
Speaker 1: I have a whole bunch of toys that I'm saying,

719
00:38:41,360 --> 00:38:44,319
Speaker 1: like a piece of luggage. Literally it's on both sides

720
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:46,520
Speaker 1: of my bed. I have a whole like ben full

721
00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,440
Speaker 1: of one, and then I have a whole another like

722
00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:50,600
Speaker 1: pull out drawer with a whole another one. And then

723
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:52,640
Speaker 1: across my room there's another drawer with like all the

724
00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 1: oils and candles, like my room is set up for

725
00:38:55,080 --> 00:39:00,480
Speaker 1: like sex, toys and sex. Like what happened cleaning lady?

726
00:39:00,640 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 1: Not anymore? Because my cat would beating her head, So

727
00:39:03,280 --> 00:39:05,600
Speaker 1: now I gotta clean my own house. I got her

728
00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:07,960
Speaker 1: out of there, like the cat, the cat, and not this,

729
00:39:08,239 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 1: not this pussy but buddy, um but no, like that

730
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 1: is very great. And I hope that all of the

731
00:39:14,920 --> 00:39:18,960
Speaker 1: men listening, um, listen to this white man only on

732
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,359
Speaker 1: this and that's it. Sorry, there's a lot of black

733
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:25,320
Speaker 1: Let me tell you. That's about critical race theory. No,

734
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:28,400
Speaker 1: we don't want to hear it. We had enough. But

735
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 1: you can vibrate, like you can, can you get mama?

736
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:41,680
Speaker 1: You can vibrate. It's not so we cannot vibrate. No,

737
00:39:41,800 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 1: I don't know if I want to ask you how

738
00:39:43,280 --> 00:39:46,439
Speaker 1: the vibrate. My dick doesn't vibe what you mean. They're

739
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:51,680
Speaker 1: like pussy. You can like make your mouth vibrate. No

740
00:39:51,880 --> 00:39:56,719
Speaker 1: you cannot. I'm sorry, mom, I need my mouth. Your

741
00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:59,120
Speaker 1: mouth can pussy. I can do things with my mouth

742
00:39:59,200 --> 00:40:01,759
Speaker 1: to make it feel like a vibration. Not. That's not

743
00:40:01,880 --> 00:40:08,439
Speaker 1: the same as the bully hum You want to come,

744
00:40:08,680 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: you want racist as long as you're taking while you're

745
00:40:12,520 --> 00:40:15,320
Speaker 1: doing it. I was like sixteen. I read that in

746
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,799
Speaker 1: a Cosmo hummed the star Spangle bandroom while you give

747
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:19,920
Speaker 1: a blow job, and I was like three seconds in

748
00:40:19,960 --> 00:40:21,120
Speaker 1: and I was like, I can't do this on a

749
00:40:21,200 --> 00:40:26,560
Speaker 1: black dude. That's what I'm saying, Like the star Spangle

750
00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:28,759
Speaker 1: brand is racist. We're not gonna do you got missed

751
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:30,040
Speaker 1: my as long as you're on one. Need joke, but

752
00:40:30,080 --> 00:40:37,840
Speaker 1: it's cool. Not I haven't repeat jokes. Nobody listen to me,

753
00:40:37,920 --> 00:40:41,759
Speaker 1: so it's fine. We took some questions and for the

754
00:40:41,880 --> 00:40:44,680
Speaker 1: people that wanted to know about y'all, and besides all

755
00:40:44,719 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 1: of the messy ship, we do have some juice. One

756
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:49,160
Speaker 1: of them actually had to do with mall eating pussy,

757
00:40:49,200 --> 00:40:52,200
Speaker 1: So I guess we've covered that. He's a hummer who people.

758
00:40:52,200 --> 00:40:54,440
Speaker 1: A lot of people are asking that because they probably think,

759
00:40:54,480 --> 00:40:57,440
Speaker 1: as Mandy said, you're too fucking cool nigger. They call

760
00:40:57,520 --> 00:41:00,719
Speaker 1: him a hummingbird on saying it. Hold on, that's what

761
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:03,040
Speaker 1: I don't call you that they call you the humming

762
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:07,680
Speaker 1: bird on. Um, don't make I was just up there.

763
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:11,759
Speaker 1: Has your dating or hookup etiquette changed now that you're

764
00:41:11,760 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 1: getting money? And now when I say now, I mean now,

765
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:16,360
Speaker 1: is in like your podcast success or if it has

766
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 1: there been a pivot in your life for money really

767
00:41:18,080 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 1: changed and your dating changed. I don't like this narrative.

768
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:22,520
Speaker 1: By the way, it doesn't have to be in a

769
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 1: house before our deal. Yeah yeah, but like we are

770
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:26,719
Speaker 1: whenever you started, even if it was three or four

771
00:41:26,800 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 1: years ago, a five years when you started getting money

772
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:33,840
Speaker 1: to change homeowner. Not really for me, not really, I

773
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 1: think that because the perception I never I never lead

774
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,239
Speaker 1: with that. Like a lot of men, they lead with

775
00:41:39,760 --> 00:41:42,280
Speaker 1: the fact that they're making money and you know, cars,

776
00:41:42,440 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: jewelry and all this other ship. And then there's taking

777
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:47,040
Speaker 1: it back when all this which only want me for money,

778
00:41:47,080 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: n that's all you're presenting forward Like I still walk

779
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:53,320
Speaker 1: around Hall and Queen's Brooklyn like a regular guy. So

780
00:41:53,600 --> 00:41:56,120
Speaker 1: it's not about you know, monetary ship with me, So

781
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:59,120
Speaker 1: it's not Money didn't change that for me. I think,

782
00:41:59,239 --> 00:42:02,399
Speaker 1: if anything, it changed in the sense of the women

783
00:42:02,440 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: I date. Know that more women know me and we

784
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:07,400
Speaker 1: know that you are humming bird. Now that's what you

785
00:42:07,520 --> 00:42:10,200
Speaker 1: led with this week. I mean women that dated me

786
00:42:10,239 --> 00:42:15,359
Speaker 1: know that though. But they signed the DA to sign India.

787
00:42:16,040 --> 00:42:20,320
Speaker 1: But you really make them sign Ndia. I don't know.

788
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:24,640
Speaker 1: Things haven't changed, per saying that I'll skip some steps

789
00:42:24,680 --> 00:42:26,640
Speaker 1: in some corners because money makes things a little bit

790
00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:29,320
Speaker 1: more convenient. I don't come out the gate and like

791
00:42:29,400 --> 00:42:33,040
Speaker 1: buy you some ship or take you on some fake click. Oh,

792
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:35,200
Speaker 1: let's go to Brooklyn chop house because that's what people

793
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:38,080
Speaker 1: that on Instagram pretend to have money go to. Never

794
00:42:38,200 --> 00:42:41,759
Speaker 1: go to Brooklyn chop house. It's that food is terrible.

795
00:42:42,120 --> 00:42:50,000
Speaker 1: Don't do it good. I know good food Brooklyn shop houses. Yeah,

796
00:42:50,000 --> 00:42:51,719
Speaker 1: I could put you on some good restaurants Brooklyn. I

797
00:42:51,760 --> 00:42:53,160
Speaker 1: don't want you to put me on. I want you

798
00:42:53,200 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 1: to take me to New York. And you both got

799
00:42:56,719 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 1: my I could be like a power couple. In the podcast,

800
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:05,439
Speaker 1: people saying that he he would totally like not even

801
00:43:05,480 --> 00:43:07,000
Speaker 1: do it, and then you guys would do like a

802
00:43:07,040 --> 00:43:14,040
Speaker 1: spinoff podcast. It's like a I'm just therapy. I could

803
00:43:14,080 --> 00:43:17,000
Speaker 1: produce it, no, thank you you sure, okay, thank you bro.

804
00:43:17,800 --> 00:43:20,560
Speaker 1: Train etiquette, subway etiquette, and then Mandy and I could

805
00:43:20,560 --> 00:43:26,239
Speaker 1: just do reaction videos. Really what about it? They're gonna

806
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:28,480
Speaker 1: want to sit on YouTube and be like, so what

807
00:43:28,600 --> 00:43:32,200
Speaker 1: did y'all do? After many were just yeah, just there

808
00:43:33,640 --> 00:43:35,680
Speaker 1: trying to the subway question. If you want me to

809
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:38,560
Speaker 1: talk about trains, I can talk about train train etiquette. Yeah,

810
00:43:38,800 --> 00:43:43,040
Speaker 1: like trains have always been. Do you think he meant

811
00:43:43,080 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 1: subway or training? I think training? Oh he did. I

812
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:50,000
Speaker 1: thought it was I heard subway and train. I said subway,

813
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:52,879
Speaker 1: but it really did say train etiquette. But the train

814
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:56,000
Speaker 1: etiquette is that's definitely involved in a different train. Okay,

815
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 1: I'm not into that. I wouldn't know train etiquete because

816
00:43:58,680 --> 00:44:01,800
Speaker 1: I've never been in one, and I'm not it's just

817
00:44:01,880 --> 00:44:04,920
Speaker 1: not my thing. What about my D levels of two?

818
00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 1: Like that's where that's where you would draw the line

819
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:12,680
Speaker 1: in the train? Have you guys a girl kicking in

820
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:16,520
Speaker 1: while I'm sucking from the back. That's just I just

821
00:44:16,640 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 1: don't because you know, I went to college. So the

822
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:24,360
Speaker 1: train thing happened often consensually. I would walk in and

823
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,520
Speaker 1: just see a bunch of dudes like, y'all just want

824
00:44:26,560 --> 00:44:29,160
Speaker 1: to sit there ball the ball with which it pantil

825
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:31,000
Speaker 1: off on your shirt on, which is first of all

826
00:44:31,080 --> 00:44:37,400
Speaker 1: fucking weird, and niggas be funky and like maybe if

827
00:44:37,440 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 1: they're running trains and at that age, okay, maybe when

828
00:44:40,560 --> 00:44:43,600
Speaker 1: you're young, but trying to throw you guys the pussy

829
00:44:43,640 --> 00:44:45,000
Speaker 1: at the same time, and you both were like, whoa

830
00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:47,600
Speaker 1: is this happening? And I, yeah, I don't think so,

831
00:44:47,719 --> 00:44:50,200
Speaker 1: I don't know if if it did, I didn't catch it.

832
00:44:50,560 --> 00:44:53,439
Speaker 1: Me neither. We we know you didn't jump on the train,

833
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:55,239
Speaker 1: but you didn't even notice. There's never been a girl

834
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:57,000
Speaker 1: there was. They don't catch I'm not good at catching

835
00:44:57,040 --> 00:45:00,040
Speaker 1: cues from women when they're interested in me. Clearly we

836
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:01,960
Speaker 1: talked about that in the first ten minutes of the show. Yeah,

837
00:45:02,040 --> 00:45:04,120
Speaker 1: I have no idea, so, yeah, I don't, I don't,

838
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:06,759
Speaker 1: I don't, um No, I don't think a woman has

839
00:45:06,800 --> 00:45:09,719
Speaker 1: wanted to funk with me and Rory. When we used

840
00:45:09,719 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 1: to be on the road and do for the level More,

841
00:45:11,600 --> 00:45:14,759
Speaker 1: there was times when like More would pick one that

842
00:45:14,760 --> 00:45:16,759
Speaker 1: I'd be like, damn, I kind of wish you didn't

843
00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:21,200
Speaker 1: pick that one. But we were attracted to the same

844
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:24,840
Speaker 1: type of women. But as a woman ever wanted to

845
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:28,400
Speaker 1: have sex with me and Rory, what's the type? Because

846
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:31,480
Speaker 1: you know everybody already asked if you basically only date

847
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:36,000
Speaker 1: black women, no date women? M hm, when's the last

848
00:45:36,000 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 1: time you dated a white girl? To find d fucked? Okay,

849
00:45:41,760 --> 00:45:43,040
Speaker 1: but I haven't done a lot of sucking in a

850
00:45:43,120 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 1: very long time, so okay. And another question, people want

851
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:47,920
Speaker 1: to know if your dick is as bad as you

852
00:45:47,960 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 1: say it is, it's it's probably probably all the time.

853
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:55,680
Speaker 1: I'm probably over. So you talk about your dig being

854
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:59,200
Speaker 1: best so much that everything I don't like expectations like

855
00:45:59,560 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 1: I want people going in whet the bar here that

856
00:46:02,840 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 1: all the time we hate, like when we meet guys,

857
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,480
Speaker 1: especially if they know we do this show, like niggas

858
00:46:08,520 --> 00:46:11,040
Speaker 1: expect us to be hanging from chandeliers and it's just

859
00:46:11,160 --> 00:46:14,279
Speaker 1: like having American is bad. I'm scared. Yeah, but I

860
00:46:14,320 --> 00:46:16,360
Speaker 1: can even imagine the pressure of porn stars, Like some

861
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:18,399
Speaker 1: porn stars just want to fuck you regular. They don't

862
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 1: want to be the porn star that you see on films.

863
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:23,400
Speaker 1: So I like that you kind of undersell yourself. And

864
00:46:23,760 --> 00:46:26,040
Speaker 1: I think my best fucking comes from when we actually

865
00:46:26,080 --> 00:46:28,080
Speaker 1: like each other. I don't think I'm like the really

866
00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:31,480
Speaker 1: good like this at this point in my life. I'm

867
00:46:31,520 --> 00:46:33,040
Speaker 1: not going to bang it out on the first night

868
00:46:33,239 --> 00:46:36,320
Speaker 1: type of guy. Like once. We're like, our souls connect,

869
00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:42,279
Speaker 1: not my dick is crazy and look, yeah, I'll be

870
00:46:42,360 --> 00:46:49,040
Speaker 1: getting on me right. Our souls connect. Get the funk

871
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:58,680
Speaker 1: out of here. Man, you're connecting souls? Ye, So yeah,

872
00:46:58,920 --> 00:47:01,000
Speaker 1: all right, I am the intro to her belly or

873
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 1: you don't even catch that ball? You're right, I let

874
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:07,040
Speaker 1: that one go. Thank you. I should wrap you? Should you?

875
00:47:08,160 --> 00:47:13,879
Speaker 1: That was a bar wrapper name McNasty. No, you can't

876
00:47:13,920 --> 00:47:15,080
Speaker 1: do that one. That's what I thought you were going

877
00:47:15,120 --> 00:47:17,520
Speaker 1: to give him for the a K I wish McNasty.

878
00:47:17,760 --> 00:47:19,239
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm kind of putting myself in just

879
00:47:19,360 --> 00:47:22,600
Speaker 1: one little I'm just going to Ireland at that point, right,

880
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:24,920
Speaker 1: it's just one market. I'm not saying I'm kind of

881
00:47:25,719 --> 00:47:32,600
Speaker 1: boxing myself in at that point. Will this place you've

882
00:47:32,600 --> 00:47:36,200
Speaker 1: ever had sex? Basic question, but a good one. I've

883
00:47:36,239 --> 00:47:39,359
Speaker 1: talked about it before under the Track and Field, under

884
00:47:39,360 --> 00:47:41,200
Speaker 1: the bleaches while people were like running working out in

885
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:44,640
Speaker 1: the morning. Really, I feel didn't we just talked to

886
00:47:44,719 --> 00:47:47,440
Speaker 1: somebody about this? Oh yeah, we didn't answer this, I thought.

887
00:47:47,640 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 1: I think I said my mother's bed. Yeah we did,

888
00:47:49,200 --> 00:47:53,520
Speaker 1: Alec's not with my mother. It was fun, it was

889
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:55,879
Speaker 1: less sexual, you guys know, another slut other than it's

890
00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:59,320
Speaker 1: like this is not quite you guys podcast? Are you

891
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:01,960
Speaker 1: fucking kidding? Actually had a really nice, non slutty conversation.

892
00:48:02,000 --> 00:48:03,839
Speaker 1: I feel like like we really didn't talk about sex

893
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:07,520
Speaker 1: like that. We'll talking to happen here. Well, I think

894
00:48:07,560 --> 00:48:10,120
Speaker 1: my answers could still be the same. And my mother's bed,

895
00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:16,839
Speaker 1: that's wild disrespectful, I felt. I felt really bad after it. Okay,

896
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 1: all right, hear me out. We need to hear you out.

897
00:48:20,440 --> 00:48:23,000
Speaker 1: When I was a teenager, my mother worked a lot,

898
00:48:23,120 --> 00:48:25,080
Speaker 1: so I had like that the open house for the

899
00:48:25,160 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 1: most part, we know what the open house is had ouse.

900
00:48:27,960 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 1: So it was my second time ever having sex. I

901
00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 1: was fourteen. My friend had took my room. Oh yeah,

902
00:48:37,600 --> 00:48:39,840
Speaker 1: I had the girls though, and the living room was

903
00:48:39,880 --> 00:48:43,239
Speaker 1: occupied and it wasn't a big house, so there's only

904
00:48:43,320 --> 00:48:49,560
Speaker 1: one other spot that's left. And it was somewhere else

905
00:48:49,719 --> 00:48:52,960
Speaker 1: you could have which you have to understand when you're fourteen.

906
00:48:53,719 --> 00:48:56,120
Speaker 1: When you're fourteen and you have the opportunity to have sex,

907
00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: you're not gonna those opportunities don't just come all the time.

908
00:48:59,800 --> 00:49:02,080
Speaker 1: You're gonna make sure this is gonna happen. I can't

909
00:49:02,080 --> 00:49:05,760
Speaker 1: even masturbated my mom's house anymore. Like, it's really difficult

910
00:49:05,760 --> 00:49:08,360
Speaker 1: for me to do. I feel like somebody is around it,

911
00:49:08,480 --> 00:49:11,440
Speaker 1: likes like Jesus is watching. I don't know, bro. I

912
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:14,560
Speaker 1: mean in my mother in my mother's room, it's it's

913
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 1: John F. Kennedy, Jesus and Derek Jeter like her. So

914
00:49:18,800 --> 00:49:24,840
Speaker 1: like that's who was looking at my mom. In Orlando,

915
00:49:25,000 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 1: my mama ended up staying in my hotel room and

916
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 1: I had work in another room. So I said, Mom,

917
00:49:30,120 --> 00:49:32,799
Speaker 1: I'm I'm I'm gonna go real quick. You could stay

918
00:49:32,840 --> 00:49:35,239
Speaker 1: here different I mean to go get something, you know.

919
00:49:35,360 --> 00:49:37,920
Speaker 1: And then her friend called, because my homegirl told me

920
00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:39,719
Speaker 1: our friend called, and she was like, oh, can I

921
00:49:39,800 --> 00:49:42,719
Speaker 1: speak Let me speak to your daughter. She was like, um,

922
00:49:43,200 --> 00:49:45,520
Speaker 1: she went to the lobby to grab something, so she's

923
00:49:45,560 --> 00:49:47,200
Speaker 1: not in the room right now. But basically she knew

924
00:49:47,200 --> 00:49:49,919
Speaker 1: I was going to get fun. But that's not your mama,

925
00:49:50,000 --> 00:49:52,880
Speaker 1: bad bitch. No, you're right, Oh no, I regret it.

926
00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:54,759
Speaker 1: I don't think it was right. Did your mom re

927
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:58,840
Speaker 1: ever find out? But she listens to almost everything, like

928
00:49:59,440 --> 00:50:01,399
Speaker 1: she google is my name every day, so this will

929
00:50:01,400 --> 00:50:06,200
Speaker 1: pop up. My mom loves to tell me updates about

930
00:50:06,239 --> 00:50:08,879
Speaker 1: Mandy and it's actually really cute. She's like, you guys

931
00:50:08,960 --> 00:50:11,560
Speaker 1: actually have a date in Atlanta. Mandy just posted because

932
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:14,359
Speaker 1: I blocked my mom and so she's like, yeah, your

933
00:50:14,440 --> 00:50:17,040
Speaker 1: video came out everything. Did you see the clip of you?

934
00:50:17,320 --> 00:50:19,280
Speaker 1: And then she'll call me and be like, you masturbated

935
00:50:19,320 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 1: on airplane. I'm like, what thee? Never had sex? Just

936
00:50:24,960 --> 00:50:26,400
Speaker 1: I do? Got one? One thing going to be on

937
00:50:26,440 --> 00:50:29,720
Speaker 1: the PJ though, So that's whenever I have enough time

938
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:31,759
Speaker 1: to meet him in a city where we can fly

939
00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:36,239
Speaker 1: it together. Now we broke up. Now, I mean I

940
00:50:36,320 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 1: was gonna ask, but I saw the memes for it,

941
00:50:38,760 --> 00:50:42,960
Speaker 1: so don't mean it was Twitter. I saw it. I

942
00:50:43,040 --> 00:50:45,600
Speaker 1: was like, oh, yeah, sad girl, I'm a single. I

943
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:49,040
Speaker 1: mean we still talk, We're still friends. I know, because

944
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 1: you was like I feel like this was gonna really

945
00:50:50,600 --> 00:50:53,360
Speaker 1: be like I thought so too. I think really happened.

946
00:50:53,360 --> 00:50:56,719
Speaker 1: I know, you never know us. I think they're gonna

947
00:50:56,719 --> 00:50:58,440
Speaker 1: get back together next week and I don't and I

948
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 1: don't even know situations. We all everyone not this time,

949
00:51:03,560 --> 00:51:08,600
Speaker 1: not this time, yes, over, it's over. Over, like we're friends,

950
00:51:08,680 --> 00:51:10,600
Speaker 1: like he's he's even grieving right now, and it's just

951
00:51:10,760 --> 00:51:12,480
Speaker 1: like I wish I could be there for you, but

952
00:51:12,560 --> 00:51:15,640
Speaker 1: I'm here as a friend, like it's nothing like okay,

953
00:51:15,680 --> 00:51:17,719
Speaker 1: So what happened? Was it cheating? Was it? You know?

954
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:21,200
Speaker 1: What's crazy? That's what everyone assumes. There wasn't even sex involved.

955
00:51:21,560 --> 00:51:24,520
Speaker 1: He just did something that I felt I should have

956
00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 1: been made aware of. And when I was made where

957
00:51:27,560 --> 00:51:31,200
Speaker 1: aware of. His response to that was, um, I don't

958
00:51:31,239 --> 00:51:32,919
Speaker 1: have to tell you everything I do, like he beat

959
00:51:32,960 --> 00:51:36,239
Speaker 1: his chest. Instead of being held accountable and apologizing, it

960
00:51:36,400 --> 00:51:37,920
Speaker 1: was more like, well, I don't have to tell you this,

961
00:51:38,120 --> 00:51:40,920
Speaker 1: but we have this type of relationship. We're going to

962
00:51:41,040 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 1: the sex club, we my friends. We talked about everything.

963
00:51:44,200 --> 00:51:46,160
Speaker 1: So as soon as now this is your answer when

964
00:51:46,200 --> 00:51:48,560
Speaker 1: mind you it was to me it was a disrespectful act.

965
00:51:49,160 --> 00:51:51,520
Speaker 1: Um was this in the midd of an argument though

966
00:51:51,560 --> 00:51:54,040
Speaker 1: that he said, this was me checking him about not

967
00:51:54,160 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 1: telling me, Like what he did, Okay, almost want to know,

968
00:52:00,960 --> 00:52:04,279
Speaker 1: like you got a chance to explain that answer, leave

969
00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:06,719
Speaker 1: the way of not like to me, we do so

970
00:52:06,920 --> 00:52:10,040
Speaker 1: much sexually. Don't embarrass me. Don't embarrass me that There

971
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:12,160
Speaker 1: should never be a time anybody can tell me something

972
00:52:12,160 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 1: about you that I don't know. Embarrassment is up to

973
00:52:15,120 --> 00:52:17,560
Speaker 1: what you feel and and embarrassing and I could get

974
00:52:17,640 --> 00:52:24,440
Speaker 1: embarrassed my nigga, like I'm open ire like um. He

975
00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:26,920
Speaker 1: linked up with a friend of mine, which wouldn't have

976
00:52:26,960 --> 00:52:29,399
Speaker 1: been a problem because they've linked up without me before,

977
00:52:29,520 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 1: like to get drinks and stuff. He linked up with

978
00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:33,560
Speaker 1: a friend of mine that has joined us in the

979
00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:38,640
Speaker 1: bedroom with another bit. He brought another bit around my friend.

980
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:43,680
Speaker 1: I felt like if everything would have played out but

981
00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:45,480
Speaker 1: my friend was linking up with a whole another couple.

982
00:52:45,800 --> 00:52:48,000
Speaker 1: Your home girl told you that. My home girl told

983
00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:51,080
Speaker 1: me because she was like she's been, she's been around us.

984
00:52:51,120 --> 00:52:53,000
Speaker 1: She was just like, I just wanted to tell you

985
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:54,759
Speaker 1: so that it didn't look like I was trying to

986
00:52:54,840 --> 00:52:59,440
Speaker 1: hide something because nothing happened, and so when Yeah, but

987
00:52:59,520 --> 00:53:01,239
Speaker 1: what if she is just like me? If she didn't

988
00:53:01,239 --> 00:53:02,640
Speaker 1: tell me, I would have felt like maybe she was

989
00:53:02,680 --> 00:53:04,239
Speaker 1: trying to do something behind my back, and she was like,

990
00:53:04,520 --> 00:53:05,759
Speaker 1: I just need you to know it wasn't like that

991
00:53:05,840 --> 00:53:07,960
Speaker 1: at all. And so when I brought it back to him, yeah,

992
00:53:08,040 --> 00:53:10,680
Speaker 1: I just felt like then he overshared that maybe there

993
00:53:10,800 --> 00:53:14,440
Speaker 1: wasn't innocent intentions of even and I was just like, Nigga,

994
00:53:14,480 --> 00:53:16,719
Speaker 1: what homegirl? Because I never met her? And then I

995
00:53:16,800 --> 00:53:18,400
Speaker 1: was like, you fucked her, didn't you. And there was

996
00:53:18,440 --> 00:53:20,399
Speaker 1: just a lot of things that I felt like if

997
00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:22,160
Speaker 1: we're in this space and we talked about it all

998
00:53:22,160 --> 00:53:24,640
Speaker 1: the time, like you know me, and we really talk

999
00:53:24,680 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 1: about being non monogamous, we're open, we're free, like I'm

1000
00:53:27,719 --> 00:53:30,239
Speaker 1: and I'm like I said, like, we don't fun down

1001
00:53:30,320 --> 00:53:32,719
Speaker 1: mad bitches and stuff like that. But when you're in

1002
00:53:32,880 --> 00:53:36,560
Speaker 1: that space, trust and communication are the biggest things. Not

1003
00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:39,399
Speaker 1: only that consideration. I need you to consider me even

1004
00:53:39,440 --> 00:53:41,640
Speaker 1: when I'm not around. And so once I feel as

1005
00:53:41,680 --> 00:53:45,320
Speaker 1: though that is broken, I don't even know how I

1006
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 1: trust going to the sex club, but you trust bringing

1007
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:53,799
Speaker 1: my friends into the bedrooms? Um, this was I would

1008
00:53:53,800 --> 00:53:55,920
Speaker 1: consider The second he went to the sex club without

1009
00:53:55,960 --> 00:53:58,120
Speaker 1: telling me and I found out because when I went

1010
00:53:58,280 --> 00:54:00,279
Speaker 1: by myself, it was like, yeah, we were looking for

1011
00:54:00,320 --> 00:54:03,120
Speaker 1: you last time, last time when and he hadn't told

1012
00:54:03,120 --> 00:54:05,279
Speaker 1: me that he went without me. So again you're around

1013
00:54:07,120 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: without him. Yes he knew I was going like your

1014
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 1: world over communicate, but also you're in my world. You've

1015
00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:16,360
Speaker 1: met everybody, like every damn near everyone in the studio

1016
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:21,480
Speaker 1: has met hi damn except for for Wheezy Ironic. But um, oh,

1017
00:54:21,600 --> 00:54:26,400
Speaker 1: well you haven't met amazing. No, but I feel like

1018
00:54:26,480 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 1: you may have seen him, I feel like. But either way,

1019
00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:32,480
Speaker 1: that's what it was. And when we sit here on

1020
00:54:32,640 --> 00:54:35,080
Speaker 1: this couch for the last five years and we and

1021
00:54:35,120 --> 00:54:38,440
Speaker 1: I opened up about what a relationship and tells, especially

1022
00:54:38,480 --> 00:54:41,280
Speaker 1: in non monogamy, there still is a way to cheat,

1023
00:54:41,480 --> 00:54:44,800
Speaker 1: even when you allow your partner to have sex. So

1024
00:54:44,920 --> 00:54:47,680
Speaker 1: even though sex didn't happen, it was something where I'm

1025
00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 1: just like, this is now when I go out of town,

1026
00:54:49,719 --> 00:54:50,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to have to worry about what you

1027
00:54:51,040 --> 00:54:53,400
Speaker 1: that's hard to get over it. It was too much. Well,

1028
00:54:53,600 --> 00:54:55,719
Speaker 1: let me ask you this, because I've not been in

1029
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:57,600
Speaker 1: that type of world before. So this is just an

1030
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:02,440
Speaker 1: outside of you with some and that is into that

1031
00:55:02,920 --> 00:55:07,040
Speaker 1: type of lifestyle and is wired that way. Don't you

1032
00:55:07,160 --> 00:55:10,040
Speaker 1: think there should be some grace in that blurred lines

1033
00:55:10,320 --> 00:55:14,480
Speaker 1: of sexual activity because the way the way he is

1034
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:18,480
Speaker 1: wired is sexually different than most people or self included,

1035
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:19,800
Speaker 1: because you guys are in a lifestyle. A lot of

1036
00:55:19,800 --> 00:55:22,839
Speaker 1: people are in their lifestyle. But in the scope of things,

1037
00:55:22,920 --> 00:55:24,840
Speaker 1: it's a small percentage. You're digging with that one. Was

1038
00:55:24,920 --> 00:55:26,480
Speaker 1: this person really your friend that he met up with?

1039
00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:28,719
Speaker 1: If you wired that way and you want to go

1040
00:55:28,800 --> 00:55:31,880
Speaker 1: fund somebody else like you may just waite sexually, but

1041
00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:35,000
Speaker 1: not only that in that type of ship, you got

1042
00:55:35,080 --> 00:55:37,960
Speaker 1: to give him. But here's the thing. Here's the thing,

1043
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 1: and especially no, I'm glad that you're asking that because again,

1044
00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:45,320
Speaker 1: when you are non monogamous or in this lifestyle. No,

1045
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:47,759
Speaker 1: just because I'm in this lifestyle does not mean I

1046
00:55:47,800 --> 00:55:52,080
Speaker 1: should sign up to be disrespectful. She's betrayed, embarrassed. There's

1047
00:55:52,080 --> 00:55:53,719
Speaker 1: a lot of ways in which I can feel. And

1048
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:56,360
Speaker 1: so if this has been expressed that I don't like

1049
00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:58,879
Speaker 1: feeling this way when this is your action, that should

1050
00:55:58,920 --> 00:56:00,920
Speaker 1: be an action that should be copletely removed. And if

1051
00:56:00,920 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 1: you continue to do it, I'm not going to sign

1052
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:06,000
Speaker 1: up to feel this one friend. You signed up for

1053
00:56:06,040 --> 00:56:09,760
Speaker 1: a relationship, which signs up for understanding. Yes, but again

1054
00:56:09,920 --> 00:56:14,200
Speaker 1: I over communicate, and because we over communicate, and but

1055
00:56:14,360 --> 00:56:17,440
Speaker 1: what but he's either one that has understanding. No, she

1056
00:56:17,600 --> 00:56:20,000
Speaker 1: needs to try to understand him and his behavior. But

1057
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:23,799
Speaker 1: she's already expressed this for the second time. Well, going

1058
00:56:23,840 --> 00:56:25,520
Speaker 1: to the sex club and not telling you, I mean,

1059
00:56:30,600 --> 00:56:33,120
Speaker 1: but here the other thing that we talked about on

1060
00:56:33,239 --> 00:56:35,239
Speaker 1: this pod all the time, and this is where all

1061
00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:36,640
Speaker 1: my friends were like, oh my god, it's a proud

1062
00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:38,040
Speaker 1: of you, because no one thought I would ever break

1063
00:56:38,120 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 1: up with him. But we discussed boundaries on this show

1064
00:56:41,640 --> 00:56:43,600
Speaker 1: a lot. And if I'm telling you that this is

1065
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:46,360
Speaker 1: my boundary and now you've done it again, to me,

1066
00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:49,120
Speaker 1: if I sat here and took him back, it was

1067
00:56:49,280 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 1: me then expecting to feel that same way and him

1068
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 1: doing the same thing. This is my boundary. I told you,

1069
00:56:54,239 --> 00:56:56,840
Speaker 1: don't cross it, you crossed it, We're done. And to me,

1070
00:56:57,040 --> 00:56:59,320
Speaker 1: once you really set those boundaries in your head, and

1071
00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:01,840
Speaker 1: the way I out, and the fact that he just

1072
00:57:01,920 --> 00:57:04,799
Speaker 1: didn't think he did anything wrong, because let me beat

1073
00:57:04,840 --> 00:57:06,279
Speaker 1: my chest, I'm a man. I don't have to tell

1074
00:57:06,280 --> 00:57:09,000
Speaker 1: you everything that wasn't that. I just knew that that

1075
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:11,359
Speaker 1: wasn't gonna work. For me going forward. And I think

1076
00:57:11,440 --> 00:57:14,719
Speaker 1: anyone in a relationship now, if you really have your boundaries,

1077
00:57:14,880 --> 00:57:17,200
Speaker 1: if you don't stick to it, your partner's gonna continue

1078
00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:19,280
Speaker 1: doing that. Ship It just is what it is they do.

1079
00:57:19,480 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 1: Like if a man cheats on you, and cheating is

1080
00:57:21,440 --> 00:57:24,080
Speaker 1: your boundary, and you take that niggaback, be mad at

1081
00:57:24,120 --> 00:57:26,520
Speaker 1: yourself when he cheats again. If that's your boundary, stick

1082
00:57:26,560 --> 00:57:28,280
Speaker 1: to it. And if a person can't show up the

1083
00:57:28,360 --> 00:57:30,040
Speaker 1: way you need them to show up for you, you

1084
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:32,120
Speaker 1: need to find someone who's willing to do that. Is

1085
00:57:32,160 --> 00:57:36,720
Speaker 1: that that macho machismo ego man ship part of why

1086
00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:40,120
Speaker 1: you liked him? Though? Um, I mean a little bit,

1087
00:57:40,160 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 1: of course, not not only two different things. And I

1088
00:57:46,640 --> 00:57:49,120
Speaker 1: don't want to I've sat here and talked. I somehow

1089
00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:52,400
Speaker 1: end up dealing with Muslims all the time. However, the

1090
00:57:52,520 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 1: Muslims from Harlem be like fucking Malcolm X type Muslims.

1091
00:57:56,200 --> 00:58:00,280
Speaker 1: So they only like your religion only like they use

1092
00:58:00,440 --> 00:58:03,440
Speaker 1: parts of their religion to make sense when it when

1093
00:58:03,520 --> 00:58:08,680
Speaker 1: it fits them. You know what I mean? Religion? Wait, wait, wait, wait, No,

1094
00:58:08,880 --> 00:58:11,160
Speaker 1: he didn't bring up a lot of Mommy he brought

1095
00:58:11,280 --> 00:58:13,720
Speaker 1: up No, he didn't bring it up. But I know

1096
00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:16,720
Speaker 1: that it was the way he talked about the like

1097
00:58:17,240 --> 00:58:20,920
Speaker 1: the Muslim man. Yeah, and oh do they go to

1098
00:58:20,960 --> 00:58:22,640
Speaker 1: the sex club, So don't let him put up but no,

1099
00:58:22,720 --> 00:58:24,800
Speaker 1: But that's what I'm saying, like, oh, so now your

1100
00:58:24,840 --> 00:58:26,800
Speaker 1: religion is all right, we're not gonna do And I

1101
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:30,360
Speaker 1: think so you pull you using the buffet. He's using

1102
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:33,200
Speaker 1: the buffet with his religion. You using the buffet with

1103
00:58:33,280 --> 00:58:35,840
Speaker 1: masculinity and being that big fucking man and all that ship,

1104
00:58:35,880 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 1: the ship you love from it. You can't just pick

1105
00:58:37,320 --> 00:58:40,920
Speaker 1: the good ball. Sometimes the bad ship is. Yeah, you're

1106
00:58:40,920 --> 00:58:43,400
Speaker 1: gonna get the real fucking macho man's gonna say, fuck you.

1107
00:58:43,480 --> 00:58:45,000
Speaker 1: You don't need to know about my ship. And guess what,

1108
00:58:45,320 --> 00:58:47,280
Speaker 1: it can't be a buffet both and I'm gonna suck

1109
00:58:47,320 --> 00:58:49,959
Speaker 1: them that's gonna listen to. I'm just saying it can't

1110
00:58:49,960 --> 00:58:54,480
Speaker 1: just always be a buffet. And probably think Mandy could

1111
00:58:54,520 --> 00:58:57,040
Speaker 1: be overreacting because she did all these other things with him,

1112
00:58:57,200 --> 00:58:59,720
Speaker 1: But you have to understand. You open your home to

1113
00:58:59,800 --> 00:59:02,280
Speaker 1: other of women, You open your relationship and your love

1114
00:59:02,360 --> 00:59:03,960
Speaker 1: and share with other people. I've done that too. I've

1115
00:59:03,960 --> 00:59:06,680
Speaker 1: had hell of threesomes with obay right, and people would

1116
00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:09,360
Speaker 1: say things when I get angry about small things. Uh,

1117
00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:12,320
Speaker 1: person I would call Old Bay on the right, Mandy

1118
00:59:12,400 --> 00:59:17,280
Speaker 1: named him. You haven't seen that nigga at lub. This

1119
00:59:17,440 --> 00:59:22,920
Speaker 1: is the this is the workfront. No talking about No,

1120
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:29,560
Speaker 1: but that's her. My god, we had sex. It's not

1121
00:59:29,640 --> 00:59:32,520
Speaker 1: a big deal anyway, Wait the girl. Oh my god,

1122
00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:41,080
Speaker 1: I'm talking about something from two thousand twelve. Yeah. When

1123
00:59:41,200 --> 00:59:43,800
Speaker 1: Old Bay and I have instances where with threesomes and

1124
00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 1: maybe there was something I didn't like outside of a threesome,

1125
00:59:46,080 --> 00:59:47,520
Speaker 1: people be like, well, I don't understand what the big

1126
00:59:47,520 --> 00:59:50,080
Speaker 1: deal is, y'all funk all these girls together, Like why

1127
00:59:50,160 --> 00:59:51,840
Speaker 1: do you have to throw that in my face because

1128
00:59:51,880 --> 00:59:54,200
Speaker 1: I'm threesome girl? Or like fucking bitches would a nigga

1129
00:59:54,680 --> 00:59:57,640
Speaker 1: that I'm allowed to just you know, I'm supposed to

1130
00:59:57,760 --> 01:00:00,360
Speaker 1: let these things go. And I think the more you're

1131
01:00:00,520 --> 01:00:04,000
Speaker 1: open and trustworthy, it's just like a magnitude of feelings

1132
01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:06,320
Speaker 1: that come because you feel like I gave you all

1133
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:08,800
Speaker 1: of that. That was me, bitch. I was like, damn,

1134
01:00:08,960 --> 01:00:11,880
Speaker 1: Like I'm I'm honestly scared. I showed up as my

1135
01:00:12,080 --> 01:00:15,320
Speaker 1: best self with this person, and I literally told my friends,

1136
01:00:15,640 --> 01:00:17,560
Speaker 1: I'm nervous because now I don't know if I should

1137
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:19,760
Speaker 1: get back to being a hole because now my best

1138
01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:23,160
Speaker 1: self still ended up with a nigga like being on

1139
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:24,720
Speaker 1: some function. And also I want to come back to

1140
01:00:24,800 --> 01:00:32,520
Speaker 1: what you said, just to wait, why did you say?

1141
01:00:34,400 --> 01:00:36,120
Speaker 1: But you know what I mean? And so even as

1142
01:00:36,160 --> 01:00:38,360
Speaker 1: you like you, you sat here and been single, and

1143
01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:41,000
Speaker 1: when you really show up for someone as your best self,

1144
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:42,760
Speaker 1: and you know, you did everything that you were supposed

1145
01:00:42,760 --> 01:00:45,120
Speaker 1: to do as a partner, as a lover, as a friend,

1146
01:00:45,520 --> 01:00:48,280
Speaker 1: and that person still maybe crosses you in a way

1147
01:00:48,320 --> 01:00:50,600
Speaker 1: that you wouldn't have expected, It's just like, damn, so

1148
01:00:50,960 --> 01:00:52,800
Speaker 1: so should I just show up? It ain't sing no

1149
01:00:52,840 --> 01:00:55,520
Speaker 1: more since everyone's going to show up. That would be

1150
01:00:55,640 --> 01:01:00,520
Speaker 1: you making let allowing somebody's actions to you know, cause

1151
01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:02,160
Speaker 1: you to act a certain way. And maybe you don't

1152
01:01:02,200 --> 01:01:04,920
Speaker 1: want to be that old Mandy anymore. It's not but

1153
01:01:04,960 --> 01:01:08,200
Speaker 1: a lot of us bring trauma into dating relationship. This time,

1154
01:01:08,280 --> 01:01:12,040
Speaker 1: you're in love and and being violated is something that's

1155
01:01:12,040 --> 01:01:14,000
Speaker 1: different to me. I told you that's already getting fluid

1156
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:16,800
Speaker 1: up next week because cheating is heartbreak to it. What

1157
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:19,160
Speaker 1: you just said, I'm not trying to make you feel bad,

1158
01:01:19,200 --> 01:01:21,640
Speaker 1: but I'm commending you for breaking up. That to me

1159
01:01:21,840 --> 01:01:25,080
Speaker 1: is like a really deep like oh man, like you

1160
01:01:25,280 --> 01:01:28,120
Speaker 1: really like sucked me up because sex and cheating isn't

1161
01:01:28,200 --> 01:01:30,040
Speaker 1: to me as bad and my sex isn't as bad

1162
01:01:30,080 --> 01:01:36,520
Speaker 1: to me either, So I'm just like sex. No men

1163
01:01:36,640 --> 01:01:39,680
Speaker 1: can have sex with no feelings. So to me, I understand.

1164
01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:42,600
Speaker 1: I understand the sexual appetite from a man. So to me,

1165
01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:46,120
Speaker 1: if you just go funk a bit, okay. But to me,

1166
01:01:46,520 --> 01:01:49,320
Speaker 1: like being out and about spending time with a bit,

1167
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:51,080
Speaker 1: I got a problem with it. And then also you're

1168
01:01:51,080 --> 01:01:54,800
Speaker 1: feeling comfortable enough to bring whoever this bitches around my friends?

1169
01:01:55,080 --> 01:01:57,760
Speaker 1: No like this, this woman has some sort of I

1170
01:01:57,800 --> 01:01:59,880
Speaker 1: don't I don't need other emotions involved. I don't want

1171
01:01:59,880 --> 01:02:02,000
Speaker 1: you to be emotionally tied to anyone when I feel

1172
01:02:02,000 --> 01:02:03,640
Speaker 1: like you're my friend, my best friend. I don't sign

1173
01:02:03,760 --> 01:02:06,400
Speaker 1: up for Polly. I don't sign him for open. We swing,

1174
01:02:06,760 --> 01:02:09,560
Speaker 1: which means we do everything together. And so if another

1175
01:02:09,560 --> 01:02:12,840
Speaker 1: bitch is involved, that is again another dynamic of a relationship.

1176
01:02:12,920 --> 01:02:15,000
Speaker 1: Now monogamy or not that I did not sign up for.

1177
01:02:16,160 --> 01:02:18,840
Speaker 1: So I'm sending this, did you want to go over

1178
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:20,520
Speaker 1: there because I would have I don't know if I

1179
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:22,280
Speaker 1: could have stayed in the house, I would have got

1180
01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 1: the time I found out, I found out three days later.

1181
01:02:24,920 --> 01:02:27,160
Speaker 1: You knew the other girl might not your friend. But

1182
01:02:27,200 --> 01:02:30,160
Speaker 1: the other girl now, uh, he said, I've been told

1183
01:02:30,240 --> 01:02:33,000
Speaker 1: y'all was gonna bring it to well, maybe fashioned little

1184
01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 1: jump to get back together and be friends, bitch, she

1185
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:38,080
Speaker 1: might need to get her Ask me, I didn't see

1186
01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:40,240
Speaker 1: what the girl looked like. No, maybe that might make

1187
01:02:40,280 --> 01:02:42,240
Speaker 1: you feel better. That's true, it could. I mean my

1188
01:02:42,360 --> 01:02:46,720
Speaker 1: friend didn't think she was older. So my friend was like,

1189
01:02:47,440 --> 01:02:49,200
Speaker 1: so you can't be the old lady. I mean I

1190
01:02:49,280 --> 01:02:59,600
Speaker 1: could be. I could definitely the old lady Shistry, Florida.

1191
01:03:00,000 --> 01:03:03,400
Speaker 1: I don't give old bro. Let me tell you something.

1192
01:03:03,440 --> 01:03:06,400
Speaker 1: When people be saying, she like, you don't want to

1193
01:03:06,440 --> 01:03:08,080
Speaker 1: have to go to jail today, I've been to jail.

1194
01:03:08,080 --> 01:03:09,960
Speaker 1: And it is not that she trying to pop the

1195
01:03:10,080 --> 01:03:14,800
Speaker 1: three hospice to get a past. Though she was looking

1196
01:03:14,840 --> 01:03:16,760
Speaker 1: in her forties. I'm sure that was make a wish

1197
01:03:16,800 --> 01:03:18,400
Speaker 1: foundation she was in hospital, she wanted to have a

1198
01:03:18,400 --> 01:03:20,040
Speaker 1: three right before she died to do that. Don't you

1199
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:24,880
Speaker 1: guys about your friend wait, wait, who you talking about

1200
01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:28,439
Speaker 1: her threesome with the dude? Calm down there, I'm forty

1201
01:03:28,480 --> 01:03:30,200
Speaker 1: what they're talking about. But that's what I'm saying. That

1202
01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:35,120
Speaker 1: ain't that old, but it is not old, hospital to know,

1203
01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:37,200
Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. She wasn't that old, but she

1204
01:03:37,360 --> 01:03:41,080
Speaker 1: definitely looked older than me and my home girl. And

1205
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:43,240
Speaker 1: I'm stones in your hand? What are they? What are

1206
01:03:43,280 --> 01:03:47,360
Speaker 1: they for? Chords? Am um? What are they for? I

1207
01:03:47,480 --> 01:03:49,720
Speaker 1: just like wearing stones like I like charging them. And

1208
01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:52,560
Speaker 1: you know, whether it be love or power or ship

1209
01:03:52,680 --> 01:03:55,440
Speaker 1: like that. I've been going through some crazy depression, y'all. Okay,

1210
01:03:55,600 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 1: like real bad, m bro. He was acting a little scared.

1211
01:03:59,200 --> 01:04:00,520
Speaker 1: Once we talked to me. I was like, damn, it

1212
01:04:00,600 --> 01:04:02,959
Speaker 1: must be bad. He's like, if you ever need to talk,

1213
01:04:03,000 --> 01:04:04,880
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't even like to say that sentence,

1214
01:04:04,920 --> 01:04:06,280
Speaker 1: you know, but it was. It's always a weird one

1215
01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:08,080
Speaker 1: because you never really know what somebody to be like.

1216
01:04:08,240 --> 01:04:12,000
Speaker 1: I do know, I wanted you to. I think everybody

1217
01:04:12,400 --> 01:04:15,760
Speaker 1: deals with depression at some level. You know. My depression

1218
01:04:15,880 --> 01:04:18,480
Speaker 1: really scared me because I thought I was a happy

1219
01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:20,680
Speaker 1: person and then when it got taken from me. I

1220
01:04:20,840 --> 01:04:22,360
Speaker 1: know who the funk I was. I felt like happy

1221
01:04:22,480 --> 01:04:25,439
Speaker 1: was my identity, so when it's gone, I just felt

1222
01:04:25,480 --> 01:04:28,520
Speaker 1: complete worthlessness, like it didn't even make me feel like

1223
01:04:29,280 --> 01:04:31,800
Speaker 1: I could be a person. And then even like the

1224
01:04:31,960 --> 01:04:35,080
Speaker 1: manic ship was very difficult because you don't want to

1225
01:04:35,120 --> 01:04:37,360
Speaker 1: have to dump that on someone else. So instead of

1226
01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:39,680
Speaker 1: doing that emotionally dumping and calling your friend when you

1227
01:04:39,760 --> 01:04:41,960
Speaker 1: need them, I just go through it alone, which was worse.

1228
01:04:42,040 --> 01:04:43,919
Speaker 1: I didn't realize I was depressed until I got happy,

1229
01:04:44,360 --> 01:04:46,680
Speaker 1: and then I realized I was depressed because I thought

1230
01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:48,200
Speaker 1: my whole life, I just thought that was my like

1231
01:04:48,320 --> 01:04:50,120
Speaker 1: that's just how you feel. And then I got happy

1232
01:04:50,160 --> 01:04:52,720
Speaker 1: and I was like, whoa, you were depressed for like

1233
01:04:52,840 --> 01:04:56,480
Speaker 1: twenty years kids, And then I started to put things together.

1234
01:04:56,520 --> 01:04:59,240
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, wow, you're like a manic depressive.

1235
01:04:59,400 --> 01:05:00,800
Speaker 1: It's not funny. I feel like we should put a

1236
01:05:00,800 --> 01:05:03,919
Speaker 1: trigger warning. But like, I've never had real suicidal thoughts,

1237
01:05:03,960 --> 01:05:06,560
Speaker 1: but something people don't teach you. I'm not a person

1238
01:05:06,640 --> 01:05:08,680
Speaker 1: that's like, oh my god, I'm gonna kill myself tonight.

1239
01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:11,000
Speaker 1: But I started thinking things like I don't want to

1240
01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:13,520
Speaker 1: wake up for like a few days, and those little

1241
01:05:13,560 --> 01:05:15,520
Speaker 1: things I was saying I was like, is this normal?

1242
01:05:15,640 --> 01:05:19,440
Speaker 1: I just so suicidal ideations is what they're called, like,

1243
01:05:19,720 --> 01:05:22,720
Speaker 1: and it's not really wanting to do it, but having

1244
01:05:22,800 --> 01:05:25,440
Speaker 1: the thought of what if. I just like, I just

1245
01:05:25,520 --> 01:05:28,800
Speaker 1: actually had this conversation on my periods this podcast, and

1246
01:05:28,880 --> 01:05:33,800
Speaker 1: it was actually attached torms no birth control, that the

1247
01:05:33,880 --> 01:05:36,160
Speaker 1: birth control she was taking made her want to just

1248
01:05:36,520 --> 01:05:38,760
Speaker 1: drive through a four way while she was at the

1249
01:05:38,800 --> 01:05:41,080
Speaker 1: red light, and she didn't do it, but she had

1250
01:05:41,120 --> 01:05:43,800
Speaker 1: to talk to the doctor because the birth control was

1251
01:05:43,880 --> 01:05:47,400
Speaker 1: causing like her to literally like have these suicidal audiations.

1252
01:05:47,440 --> 01:05:49,480
Speaker 1: When I was like sixteen and I thought my boyfriend

1253
01:05:49,480 --> 01:05:50,600
Speaker 1: break up with me, I was the first time to

1254
01:05:50,600 --> 01:05:52,760
Speaker 1: be like, I didn kill myself, But when the thoughts

1255
01:05:52,800 --> 01:05:55,800
Speaker 1: got real, I never was like chopping and onion like

1256
01:05:55,880 --> 01:05:58,960
Speaker 1: TV and then, But it was more like wanting to

1257
01:05:59,080 --> 01:06:01,760
Speaker 1: sleep too long or go away for a little bit,

1258
01:06:02,360 --> 01:06:05,000
Speaker 1: those kinds of things. So we're being serious to like

1259
01:06:05,320 --> 01:06:08,240
Speaker 1: finally jump out of that, I felt a lot better,

1260
01:06:08,720 --> 01:06:10,680
Speaker 1: but also it was weird because I was like, well,

1261
01:06:10,680 --> 01:06:12,360
Speaker 1: who the funk are you, bitch? If you ain't happy,

1262
01:06:12,360 --> 01:06:14,840
Speaker 1: go lucky. And I had to do a sex podcast

1263
01:06:15,120 --> 01:06:17,640
Speaker 1: and didn't feel like talking about sucking dick or fucking

1264
01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:20,439
Speaker 1: and can't come because Alexa pro I'll get off it, don't.

1265
01:06:21,200 --> 01:06:24,840
Speaker 1: I never I've never had suicidal thoughts, but I definitely

1266
01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:27,800
Speaker 1: have thoughts of like I just want to like disappear

1267
01:06:27,880 --> 01:06:30,280
Speaker 1: and be away from everything and everybody, like and nobody

1268
01:06:30,400 --> 01:06:32,440
Speaker 1: know where I'm at for like a few days, for

1269
01:06:32,520 --> 01:06:34,440
Speaker 1: a few days. But like I love life, like I

1270
01:06:34,680 --> 01:06:37,080
Speaker 1: don't want to die, like I want to be here

1271
01:06:37,120 --> 01:06:39,680
Speaker 1: and experience it, but like like I just want to

1272
01:06:39,720 --> 01:06:42,800
Speaker 1: be like in a forest, like in a cabin by myself,

1273
01:06:42,880 --> 01:06:46,080
Speaker 1: and I just like maybe have like ESPN or something

1274
01:06:46,240 --> 01:06:48,960
Speaker 1: like that's it, you should do it. Yeah, I get it.

1275
01:06:49,040 --> 01:06:50,720
Speaker 1: I went away, But I will tell you this though,

1276
01:06:51,680 --> 01:06:54,360
Speaker 1: I was spending an insane amount of money on myself

1277
01:06:54,480 --> 01:06:56,760
Speaker 1: to make myself feel good, and by that I mean vacations,

1278
01:06:56,800 --> 01:07:00,680
Speaker 1: not necessarily things, but like just like and this is

1279
01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:03,400
Speaker 1: the manic ship. I was looking at a thing on

1280
01:07:03,480 --> 01:07:06,040
Speaker 1: Instagram like, well, I'm gonna go there and I'm gonna

1281
01:07:06,040 --> 01:07:07,160
Speaker 1: say the thing you just I'm gonna go the rich

1282
01:07:07,200 --> 01:07:08,480
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna have this, this, this and this, and

1283
01:07:08,520 --> 01:07:11,200
Speaker 1: then five racks later, I'm like, oh, well, I'm still sad.

1284
01:07:12,120 --> 01:07:14,040
Speaker 1: That's weird. Can I ask you, guys, since this is

1285
01:07:14,400 --> 01:07:17,880
Speaker 1: a sex podcast we're talking about depression, can I have

1286
01:07:17,960 --> 01:07:20,440
Speaker 1: this water word? Of course I haven't. I might need

1287
01:07:20,440 --> 01:07:23,440
Speaker 1: some more to tequila for this conversation. What do you

1288
01:07:23,520 --> 01:07:30,560
Speaker 1: think the ties are between casual sex and depression because

1289
01:07:30,640 --> 01:07:34,600
Speaker 1: depressive people are typically very impulsive. Sometimes they feel empty,

1290
01:07:34,760 --> 01:07:38,000
Speaker 1: sometimes they need validation, sometimes they need to feel wanted.

1291
01:07:38,840 --> 01:07:41,040
Speaker 1: So I've noticed a lot of it's not even gender

1292
01:07:41,120 --> 01:07:43,480
Speaker 1: specific because I think I went through it too when

1293
01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:45,720
Speaker 1: I was working through the pain. I think there's a

1294
01:07:45,800 --> 01:07:48,200
Speaker 1: real tie in the casual sex and being depressed. There

1295
01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:51,960
Speaker 1: just trying to find and contand has always been able

1296
01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:53,560
Speaker 1: to do it better than me. But when I do it,

1297
01:07:53,640 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 1: it's because I'm depressed. So when you were doing this

1298
01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:59,080
Speaker 1: earlier on, I felt like if I said that, it

1299
01:07:59,280 --> 01:08:02,680
Speaker 1: sounds like I'm saying Mandy's empty. But I would do

1300
01:08:02,760 --> 01:08:04,680
Speaker 1: it because I was empty, So I could never connect

1301
01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:07,600
Speaker 1: about it because that's why I did it. I did

1302
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:10,840
Speaker 1: it as and I didn't. I didn't feel as though

1303
01:08:10,880 --> 01:08:12,919
Speaker 1: I was depressed when I was having the casual sex

1304
01:08:12,960 --> 01:08:17,679
Speaker 1: that I was having. Um, oh, girl, straight talking about

1305
01:08:17,680 --> 01:08:23,600
Speaker 1: your feeling girl for tequila cheers. Um, what's crazy and

1306
01:08:23,880 --> 01:08:26,840
Speaker 1: what I'm realizing now even going through therapy, is my

1307
01:08:27,840 --> 01:08:31,840
Speaker 1: my need for control. And so because casual sex was

1308
01:08:31,920 --> 01:08:36,800
Speaker 1: always seen systemically as something that women had no control over.

1309
01:08:37,360 --> 01:08:39,760
Speaker 1: When we're on this podcast and we're being liberated and

1310
01:08:39,840 --> 01:08:42,120
Speaker 1: we're doing these things, I like to know that, yes,

1311
01:08:42,200 --> 01:08:43,800
Speaker 1: I like sex, and so I'm gonna go fuck you

1312
01:08:43,800 --> 01:08:45,320
Speaker 1: because I want to suck you. I mean, I'm only

1313
01:08:45,360 --> 01:08:47,800
Speaker 1: sucking you because I want to suck you. But of course,

1314
01:08:47,840 --> 01:08:49,320
Speaker 1: as I got older and as I was able to

1315
01:08:49,400 --> 01:08:51,000
Speaker 1: offer more, I wanted to be able to offer more

1316
01:08:51,040 --> 01:08:53,040
Speaker 1: than just sex. But to me, it was more that

1317
01:08:53,479 --> 01:08:55,200
Speaker 1: I'm doing it because I want to do it, not

1318
01:08:55,360 --> 01:08:57,200
Speaker 1: because he wants to do it to me, not because

1319
01:08:57,200 --> 01:08:59,240
Speaker 1: I get any validation from him doing it to me,

1320
01:08:59,479 --> 01:09:01,400
Speaker 1: but because I want to and because I need it,

1321
01:09:01,520 --> 01:09:03,560
Speaker 1: because I'd be I'd be horny bitch a bit. We

1322
01:09:03,600 --> 01:09:06,760
Speaker 1: needed some dick. So and that's why I loved living here.

1323
01:09:06,800 --> 01:09:08,960
Speaker 1: In like Orlando, it's only one basketball team, which when

1324
01:09:08,960 --> 01:09:14,599
Speaker 1: I moved here and there were two. Sex is only

1325
01:09:14,640 --> 01:09:19,639
Speaker 1: hour and a half away. I'm just saying hours away,

1326
01:09:20,080 --> 01:09:23,679
Speaker 1: but Celtics are five hours away. In the hub. It's Miami.

1327
01:09:23,960 --> 01:09:27,719
Speaker 1: It's the Miami Heat, Orlando imagine. I wasna, no, that's Atlanta,

1328
01:09:27,840 --> 01:09:30,519
Speaker 1: but no, that's Flower like right over to bridage here,

1329
01:09:30,920 --> 01:09:34,519
Speaker 1: so any more teams could be here, bro Pelicans. I

1330
01:09:34,680 --> 01:09:39,000
Speaker 1: was getting dude. Sorry, I just wanted to light in

1331
01:09:39,040 --> 01:09:42,679
Speaker 1: the mood because God damn so funny story. I broke

1332
01:09:42,800 --> 01:09:44,679
Speaker 1: up with a guy when I was like twenty years

1333
01:09:44,720 --> 01:09:49,280
Speaker 1: old and and I was crying about him a Mandy

1334
01:09:49,320 --> 01:09:51,280
Speaker 1: and man, he was like, you should go for my friend,

1335
01:09:51,360 --> 01:09:54,559
Speaker 1: and this was my basketball player moment. I got fluid out,

1336
01:09:55,160 --> 01:09:57,320
Speaker 1: and I remember a month later he was coming to

1337
01:09:57,400 --> 01:09:59,160
Speaker 1: Orlando to me my mom and Mandy said on the

1338
01:09:59,200 --> 01:10:01,519
Speaker 1: phone to me, this is not supposed to happen. You're

1339
01:10:01,560 --> 01:10:03,360
Speaker 1: supposed to have sex with them. You don't need to

1340
01:10:03,439 --> 01:10:07,280
Speaker 1: do this, wheezy, why are you doing this? And I

1341
01:10:07,439 --> 01:10:11,120
Speaker 1: was like, but I love him and I just can't it,

1342
01:10:11,360 --> 01:10:13,599
Speaker 1: like really took me a long time. When I moved

1343
01:10:13,640 --> 01:10:14,800
Speaker 1: to New York was when I was able to have

1344
01:10:14,880 --> 01:10:18,839
Speaker 1: casual sex. Now, I think what's happened a little differently

1345
01:10:18,960 --> 01:10:25,599
Speaker 1: is like I genuinely get off at like not casual sex,

1346
01:10:25,720 --> 01:10:28,760
Speaker 1: um some kind of emotional attachment, Like I don't want

1347
01:10:28,800 --> 01:10:30,560
Speaker 1: to show up at a dude's house to fuck. I

1348
01:10:30,680 --> 01:10:32,559
Speaker 1: like building that ship up throughout the night, even if

1349
01:10:32,560 --> 01:10:34,720
Speaker 1: we just get drinks or do dinner, and then like

1350
01:10:35,120 --> 01:10:36,920
Speaker 1: I need all of that extra ship, And a lot

1351
01:10:36,960 --> 01:10:38,320
Speaker 1: of men don't want to do that if they're just

1352
01:10:38,360 --> 01:10:40,160
Speaker 1: sucking you. So if that's the case, then I don't

1353
01:10:40,160 --> 01:10:42,880
Speaker 1: even bother because I may seem like I need more,

1354
01:10:43,280 --> 01:10:45,280
Speaker 1: but really I just need a little more attention for

1355
01:10:45,360 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 1: the sex more than I need you to marry me.

1356
01:10:47,600 --> 01:10:53,800
Speaker 1: So drinks then dinner, he's just taking whatever where whatever. Now.

1357
01:10:54,840 --> 01:10:57,479
Speaker 1: I wonder though, with the depression and that you're talking

1358
01:10:57,479 --> 01:11:00,920
Speaker 1: about Rory and like fucking generally we don't hear men

1359
01:11:01,000 --> 01:11:03,240
Speaker 1: talk about that. But what made you feel good? Was

1360
01:11:03,320 --> 01:11:06,160
Speaker 1: it the actual sex? Was it the popular feeling getting

1361
01:11:06,200 --> 01:11:09,880
Speaker 1: to know someone? Was the aftermath? I think when you're depressed,

1362
01:11:10,439 --> 01:11:14,600
Speaker 1: you still you have the obvious of feeling down on

1363
01:11:14,640 --> 01:11:18,000
Speaker 1: yourself and not like somebody that matters. And when you're

1364
01:11:18,080 --> 01:11:21,439
Speaker 1: raised in the era I was raised in where I

1365
01:11:21,520 --> 01:11:24,920
Speaker 1: was raised, the heritage I was raised back to that

1366
01:11:25,000 --> 01:11:29,280
Speaker 1: masculine ship validity comes from fucking women, Like that's where

1367
01:11:29,360 --> 01:11:31,000
Speaker 1: that's what you're supposed to do. That's what makes you ill,

1368
01:11:31,120 --> 01:11:33,960
Speaker 1: That's what all that thing comes from. So if I'm

1369
01:11:34,000 --> 01:11:37,040
Speaker 1: super down on myself, what's what's the way that's gonna

1370
01:11:37,040 --> 01:11:39,800
Speaker 1: make me feel good? I mean, I'm validated now, I'll

1371
01:11:39,800 --> 01:11:44,040
Speaker 1: be honest with you, But I would say, back when

1372
01:11:44,120 --> 01:11:48,400
Speaker 1: I was eighty pounds bigger, bagging certain men did add

1373
01:11:48,400 --> 01:11:51,080
Speaker 1: the validity to me that I was still this bad

1374
01:11:51,120 --> 01:11:54,040
Speaker 1: bit so masculinity with men. But when I was bigger,

1375
01:11:54,479 --> 01:11:58,240
Speaker 1: being able to bag the same fucking guys that the

1376
01:11:58,280 --> 01:12:00,439
Speaker 1: Instagram models and the celebrities were bad, and I was like,

1377
01:12:00,479 --> 01:12:02,400
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I'm a bad bitch. So there was validity

1378
01:12:02,479 --> 01:12:05,320
Speaker 1: and the type of man I was having sex with

1379
01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:07,960
Speaker 1: at one point, um, which now is why I like

1380
01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:10,280
Speaker 1: my man was nothing like them. I mean, maybe the

1381
01:12:10,320 --> 01:12:12,880
Speaker 1: same height, but that's about it. Um. I think a

1382
01:12:12,960 --> 01:12:14,639
Speaker 1: lot of people feel like I think we can still

1383
01:12:14,720 --> 01:12:16,920
Speaker 1: feel like that if like a good looking person comes

1384
01:12:17,000 --> 01:12:19,120
Speaker 1: up to me in a bar, or like, let's just say,

1385
01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:24,200
Speaker 1: the best looking person at a spy, how did we like, Yeah,

1386
01:12:24,200 --> 01:12:26,200
Speaker 1: and I'm talking about sucking before a living. I mean,

1387
01:12:26,640 --> 01:12:28,360
Speaker 1: I'm not saying this about y'all at because I think

1388
01:12:28,360 --> 01:12:30,599
Speaker 1: you're both very beautiful women, But a man would suck

1389
01:12:30,640 --> 01:12:32,680
Speaker 1: a wall if there was a hole. I don't know

1390
01:12:32,720 --> 01:12:36,559
Speaker 1: if you really feel Nias sucking chicken sandwich is out here?

1391
01:12:37,160 --> 01:12:39,360
Speaker 1: Pop Eyes came out. Yeah, they went straight in line

1392
01:12:39,400 --> 01:12:46,719
Speaker 1: just to fuck it. Didn't challenge that one. I'm just saying.

1393
01:12:47,240 --> 01:12:49,120
Speaker 1: Before we get out, there was a homemail, but we

1394
01:12:49,240 --> 01:12:51,639
Speaker 1: got nice and deep. That was crazy. Yeah, I wasn't

1395
01:12:51,680 --> 01:12:54,439
Speaker 1: expecting that with these This is the longest podcast I've

1396
01:12:54,439 --> 01:12:58,160
Speaker 1: ever recorded, not ever. Oh Andrew Saltz was the longest.

1397
01:12:59,320 --> 01:13:04,720
Speaker 1: All right, we'll going that hour him. No, we have

1398
01:13:04,800 --> 01:13:15,320
Speaker 1: another guess waiting. Actually, no, it's not people, but that

1399
01:13:15,520 --> 01:13:19,720
Speaker 1: is one. I cannot imagine how that combo would go

1400
01:13:20,040 --> 01:13:22,439
Speaker 1: if y'all ever all sat together. You know what it

1401
01:13:22,479 --> 01:13:25,240
Speaker 1: would be. What's so funny about this entire perception of

1402
01:13:25,360 --> 01:13:29,439
Speaker 1: podcasting is in the perception, Maul and I are the

1403
01:13:29,479 --> 01:13:32,519
Speaker 1: most insignificant, yet Maul and I are the ones that

1404
01:13:32,640 --> 01:13:35,439
Speaker 1: care the least about all this podcasts and in the

1405
01:13:35,560 --> 01:13:38,240
Speaker 1: story of the listeners and everything of everyone that we

1406
01:13:38,320 --> 01:13:41,840
Speaker 1: fake beat with. We were the smallest fish in that group,

1407
01:13:42,280 --> 01:13:44,400
Speaker 1: and we care the least about this, oh ship. They're

1408
01:13:44,439 --> 01:13:46,800
Speaker 1: the ones that really think there's beef. I think the

1409
01:13:46,840 --> 01:13:49,560
Speaker 1: ship is hilarious, and I think you know that's a

1410
01:13:49,640 --> 01:13:53,760
Speaker 1: lie that I think that you do this thing, and

1411
01:13:53,840 --> 01:13:55,880
Speaker 1: the entire time we've been friends, you do this. You

1412
01:13:56,040 --> 01:13:59,040
Speaker 1: downplay yourself a lot, but you know how large your

1413
01:13:59,080 --> 01:14:01,479
Speaker 1: brand is worth both of you. A perception not and

1414
01:14:01,680 --> 01:14:04,840
Speaker 1: you know the perception is big. Do you remember when

1415
01:14:05,240 --> 01:14:07,960
Speaker 1: I was doing uh you guys were about to record

1416
01:14:07,960 --> 01:14:09,559
Speaker 1: and I was going on No Jumper and I realized

1417
01:14:09,560 --> 01:14:11,080
Speaker 1: they were going to talk about you, and I didn't

1418
01:14:11,120 --> 01:14:14,160
Speaker 1: even want to do it unless that was okay. And like,

1419
01:14:15,120 --> 01:14:17,560
Speaker 1: the first thing out of your mouth is like, oh, like,

1420
01:14:17,680 --> 01:14:19,519
Speaker 1: I know you wouldn't say anything whatever, like, but I

1421
01:14:19,600 --> 01:14:21,479
Speaker 1: know he's gonna ask that too. You know why you

1422
01:14:21,520 --> 01:14:23,479
Speaker 1: know he's gonna ask that, because that's how big your

1423
01:14:23,479 --> 01:14:27,639
Speaker 1: ship is. I do a podcast about sex, you recorded

1424
01:14:27,680 --> 01:14:29,920
Speaker 1: a studio I co owned, and you know for a fact,

1425
01:14:30,040 --> 01:14:33,479
Speaker 1: anyone even in this world, in space semi connected to you,

1426
01:14:33,520 --> 01:14:35,960
Speaker 1: they would ask that question because you know how big

1427
01:14:36,520 --> 01:14:39,639
Speaker 1: y'all are. You just say you think it's that small.

1428
01:14:39,680 --> 01:14:42,760
Speaker 1: It's true people may like to talk shit about y'all,

1429
01:14:42,840 --> 01:14:46,080
Speaker 1: but that still doesn't mean that it's not big in retrospect.

1430
01:14:46,160 --> 01:14:47,960
Speaker 1: My only point is that Mom, and I really think

1431
01:14:48,000 --> 01:14:51,240
Speaker 1: the ship is hysterical, like everyone everyone is tuffing and

1432
01:14:51,320 --> 01:14:53,160
Speaker 1: puffing in their house, and Mama and I are legitimately

1433
01:14:53,240 --> 01:14:56,559
Speaker 1: laughing in our text mess like like we're literally laughing

1434
01:14:56,600 --> 01:14:59,720
Speaker 1: at this ship. And it's just like when you hit

1435
01:15:00,000 --> 01:15:02,840
Speaker 1: podcast beef, I laugh because I know what real beef is,

1436
01:15:03,200 --> 01:15:05,639
Speaker 1: so to hear podcasts attached to beef is just funny.

1437
01:15:05,680 --> 01:15:08,439
Speaker 1: We haven't had podcasts. No, there's niggas I don't funk with,

1438
01:15:09,120 --> 01:15:11,280
Speaker 1: and it's not about I don't give a funk about

1439
01:15:11,280 --> 01:15:13,280
Speaker 1: their podcast because they't none of their podcast bigger than mine,

1440
01:15:13,320 --> 01:15:16,360
Speaker 1: Like I don't. I don't don't. There's a lot of respect,

1441
01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:19,320
Speaker 1: but I don't funk with them, and I don't sunk

1442
01:15:19,320 --> 01:15:21,640
Speaker 1: with them for a valid reason. It's not and it's not,

1443
01:15:21,720 --> 01:15:25,240
Speaker 1: but it's not beef in that type of ways. And

1444
01:15:25,320 --> 01:15:26,960
Speaker 1: that's what I would say. I don't. I don't have

1445
01:15:27,080 --> 01:15:29,040
Speaker 1: beef as much as I really just don't funk with

1446
01:15:29,160 --> 01:15:31,640
Speaker 1: certain people because of either how they've moved in this

1447
01:15:31,760 --> 01:15:34,120
Speaker 1: industry or the things that have gotten back to me. Um,

1448
01:15:34,600 --> 01:15:36,320
Speaker 1: which is why I mean, for a long time I

1449
01:15:36,479 --> 01:15:38,760
Speaker 1: was telling everybody, we don't have no podcasters on this ship.

1450
01:15:39,000 --> 01:15:40,840
Speaker 1: I want to bring no podcasters here. I think there's

1451
01:15:41,120 --> 01:15:44,519
Speaker 1: a lot of opportunists in this space, and as it's growing,

1452
01:15:44,720 --> 01:15:47,320
Speaker 1: I think that people show up with masks and with

1453
01:15:47,520 --> 01:15:50,240
Speaker 1: ulterior motives, and I'm just good on all that. Yeah,

1454
01:15:50,280 --> 01:15:52,439
Speaker 1: I'm the shame. Like I don't. I don't have a

1455
01:15:52,560 --> 01:15:54,240
Speaker 1: lot of these dudes. I don't even think about. I

1456
01:15:54,280 --> 01:15:56,600
Speaker 1: don't Rory puts me onto a lot of what's going on.

1457
01:15:56,960 --> 01:15:58,360
Speaker 1: I don't pay attention to a lot of this ship.

1458
01:15:58,520 --> 01:16:00,599
Speaker 1: Do be funny, you know what I mean to be funny?

1459
01:16:02,479 --> 01:16:07,479
Speaker 1: Said about me? My My, My Bridges's boyfriend be telling

1460
01:16:07,520 --> 01:16:09,880
Speaker 1: me how the reddit threads being, I'll be like, well,

1461
01:16:09,960 --> 01:16:14,000
Speaker 1: I don't whole. I can't get anyone call me ugly.

1462
01:16:14,040 --> 01:16:16,120
Speaker 1: I'll start crying. Yeah, I don't. I don't look into

1463
01:16:16,160 --> 01:16:17,560
Speaker 1: all of that. I don't even go on YouTube. And

1464
01:16:20,760 --> 01:16:22,479
Speaker 1: that's it. That's what they get. Yeah, that that's for

1465
01:16:22,600 --> 01:16:25,160
Speaker 1: me is honestly just you know, having fun with my

1466
01:16:25,280 --> 01:16:27,400
Speaker 1: guy man, just doing it that we love, talking much

1467
01:16:27,439 --> 01:16:29,960
Speaker 1: it that we love. But I don't have well, I

1468
01:16:30,040 --> 01:16:32,160
Speaker 1: speak for both of them. We don't have issues with anybody.

1469
01:16:32,240 --> 01:16:35,840
Speaker 1: Everybody knows the history with Charlemagne. When it comes to

1470
01:16:35,920 --> 01:16:38,800
Speaker 1: me like, I just he said something on his platform

1471
01:16:38,960 --> 01:16:42,040
Speaker 1: that I know, I know what that could have done.

1472
01:16:42,560 --> 01:16:44,680
Speaker 1: What he said, and he knows what that could have

1473
01:16:44,800 --> 01:16:47,080
Speaker 1: done as a black man. It's like, come on, family.

1474
01:16:47,200 --> 01:16:49,040
Speaker 1: Was it was bantered like, you know, I don't I

1475
01:16:49,160 --> 01:16:51,280
Speaker 1: never had a problem with you, and Andrew, I don't know, y'all,

1476
01:16:51,400 --> 01:16:52,800
Speaker 1: I don't have a problem with you. So it was

1477
01:16:53,200 --> 01:16:54,920
Speaker 1: throwing shots back and forth. It was fun. But what

1478
01:16:55,040 --> 01:16:59,280
Speaker 1: he said on the Breakfast Club when the other was there,

1479
01:17:00,200 --> 01:17:02,920
Speaker 1: you know what that could have done? Yeah, it could

1480
01:17:02,960 --> 01:17:06,400
Speaker 1: have crippled us. I just feel like we were in

1481
01:17:06,479 --> 01:17:09,400
Speaker 1: this space and I call myself a hypocrite all the time.

1482
01:17:09,479 --> 01:17:11,400
Speaker 1: I say, I'll be lying to these motherfucker's but we

1483
01:17:11,479 --> 01:17:12,560
Speaker 1: do know at the end of the day what we

1484
01:17:12,680 --> 01:17:15,200
Speaker 1: say our words and where it's mean things, where it's

1485
01:17:15,200 --> 01:17:18,599
Speaker 1: can hurt people, and words can travel eons and eons away,

1486
01:17:18,720 --> 01:17:21,360
Speaker 1: especially with the fact that these podcasts lived damn near forever.

1487
01:17:21,880 --> 01:17:25,439
Speaker 1: So you know, I mean, I wish you all the best.

1488
01:17:28,479 --> 01:17:30,439
Speaker 1: It's funny. We were talking about the I G Chicks

1489
01:17:30,520 --> 01:17:32,880
Speaker 1: and the Only Fans chicks and how they share each

1490
01:17:32,880 --> 01:17:35,400
Speaker 1: other's platforms. They pretend to be friends and put people on.

1491
01:17:36,280 --> 01:17:38,599
Speaker 1: Van and I would just just at a conversation last

1492
01:17:38,640 --> 01:17:41,479
Speaker 1: week and we were having conversations about all the podcast

1493
01:17:41,560 --> 01:17:44,920
Speaker 1: tension that's that's going on and ship, and he's telling me,

1494
01:17:46,360 --> 01:17:49,680
Speaker 1: and that's what I really don't care everyone everyone, I

1495
01:17:49,800 --> 01:17:52,640
Speaker 1: could care less. But I said to Van and I

1496
01:17:52,760 --> 01:17:55,320
Speaker 1: was laughing. I was like, how is it that the

1497
01:17:55,439 --> 01:17:58,360
Speaker 1: I G Chicks and the Only Fans Chicks know how

1498
01:17:58,400 --> 01:18:03,479
Speaker 1: to utilize their platforms better than the podcast Like the

1499
01:18:03,560 --> 01:18:05,599
Speaker 1: way we don't rock with each other. I know it's

1500
01:18:05,640 --> 01:18:07,479
Speaker 1: moments because people will click when it's fake beef, and

1501
01:18:07,520 --> 01:18:10,280
Speaker 1: everyone likes that entertainment ship, but there is ways that

1502
01:18:10,360 --> 01:18:13,120
Speaker 1: all of us could really work together and utilize our audiences,

1503
01:18:13,600 --> 01:18:16,639
Speaker 1: and the Only Fans Chicks are doing it way better

1504
01:18:16,680 --> 01:18:20,160
Speaker 1: than us. The I G Chicks pretend every birthday they

1505
01:18:20,240 --> 01:18:22,240
Speaker 1: best friend, but they've never met the chicken they like.

1506
01:18:22,439 --> 01:18:24,840
Speaker 1: But happy birthdays to my best ge. There's a bottle

1507
01:18:24,920 --> 01:18:26,719
Speaker 1: and they're all they're doing is Sharon fan base. Because

1508
01:18:26,720 --> 01:18:29,320
Speaker 1: if you talk about a if you talk about and

1509
01:18:29,439 --> 01:18:32,519
Speaker 1: and we can bring podcasting into what even the music

1510
01:18:32,600 --> 01:18:36,200
Speaker 1: industry looks like Beef is numbers for one thing to

1511
01:18:36,880 --> 01:18:39,719
Speaker 1: a lot of the leading podcasters in this urban space

1512
01:18:39,920 --> 01:18:43,479
Speaker 1: are men. Sorry, but the egos of black men. Sorry,

1513
01:18:43,560 --> 01:18:46,320
Speaker 1: you're not really one, but you're attached to a lot

1514
01:18:46,360 --> 01:18:49,519
Speaker 1: of black men with ego I have as well. It's yes,

1515
01:18:49,600 --> 01:18:52,040
Speaker 1: you did too, So just men in general, but specifically

1516
01:18:52,080 --> 01:18:54,360
Speaker 1: in this urban space of podcasting, because we're not on

1517
01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:56,439
Speaker 1: the level of the Joe Rogan's or the Bill Simmons

1518
01:18:56,600 --> 01:19:00,559
Speaker 1: or like they're just huge. I would say that has

1519
01:19:00,640 --> 01:19:02,640
Speaker 1: something to do with it. More so, it's just the

1520
01:19:02,760 --> 01:19:06,120
Speaker 1: egos of men not feeling like they need to attach

1521
01:19:06,200 --> 01:19:08,640
Speaker 1: themselves to the next person to be who they are.

1522
01:19:08,840 --> 01:19:13,000
Speaker 1: Understand again, and even in rap, it's beef. Beef is

1523
01:19:13,040 --> 01:19:14,920
Speaker 1: what brings numbers, Beef is what brings eyes, and I

1524
01:19:14,960 --> 01:19:18,480
Speaker 1: think that that same ideology has been brought into podcasting.

1525
01:19:18,800 --> 01:19:21,519
Speaker 1: I think it's different though, because if I could have

1526
01:19:21,560 --> 01:19:23,160
Speaker 1: played the game and act like it was all good

1527
01:19:23,160 --> 01:19:25,200
Speaker 1: and I funk with dudes, and because a lot of

1528
01:19:25,280 --> 01:19:27,200
Speaker 1: rappers do that, they hang out. They don't really like

1529
01:19:27,320 --> 01:19:29,639
Speaker 1: each other. These are a lot of these rappers don't

1530
01:19:29,680 --> 01:19:31,280
Speaker 1: like each other at all, but they'll do a wrecking

1531
01:19:31,360 --> 01:19:34,640
Speaker 1: with each other. They'll do it toll with each Tell

1532
01:19:34,680 --> 01:19:36,599
Speaker 1: me what would have been what would have been bigger

1533
01:19:36,680 --> 01:19:41,840
Speaker 1: for the genre j and Nas Beefing or Earth Dame

1534
01:19:42,800 --> 01:19:46,439
Speaker 1: rap a Lot, Cash Money, Death Row all coming together

1535
01:19:46,520 --> 01:19:48,760
Speaker 1: to do a distribution company, right, which would have been

1536
01:19:48,800 --> 01:19:52,080
Speaker 1: bigger for the for the for the culture. Okay, a

1537
01:19:52,120 --> 01:19:55,720
Speaker 1: lot is I'm gonna go with the first. I don't

1538
01:19:55,720 --> 01:20:01,640
Speaker 1: feel about it. Corny. Also also think that here's the

1539
01:20:01,680 --> 01:20:03,880
Speaker 1: thing that I've noticed as well, Like, there's a lot

1540
01:20:03,920 --> 01:20:05,679
Speaker 1: of ways in which we don't like to get treated

1541
01:20:05,720 --> 01:20:08,720
Speaker 1: by the labels or by corporations and things like that,

1542
01:20:08,840 --> 01:20:10,679
Speaker 1: and when a lot of people get in the positions

1543
01:20:10,720 --> 01:20:13,000
Speaker 1: to do so, they behave in the same exact manner

1544
01:20:13,000 --> 01:20:15,519
Speaker 1: as the places that did them wrong. And so I

1545
01:20:15,600 --> 01:20:18,320
Speaker 1: think that there's still a struggle with the black community

1546
01:20:18,400 --> 01:20:22,519
Speaker 1: specifically not growing up really knowing ownership and not knowing

1547
01:20:22,600 --> 01:20:24,920
Speaker 1: how to treat people because they you know, it's not

1548
01:20:25,000 --> 01:20:26,639
Speaker 1: like they grew up that way. I mean, my mom

1549
01:20:26,720 --> 01:20:30,160
Speaker 1: for for the longest was even my dad said I

1550
01:20:30,240 --> 01:20:32,080
Speaker 1: needed a real job when I was bartending, and just

1551
01:20:32,360 --> 01:20:35,360
Speaker 1: there's just so much of our upbringing that when we

1552
01:20:35,439 --> 01:20:38,719
Speaker 1: do get to these places and pedestals like I also

1553
01:20:38,760 --> 01:20:41,880
Speaker 1: just had this conversation with my therapist, but we unfortunately

1554
01:20:42,120 --> 01:20:46,479
Speaker 1: subconsciously start doing to the people beneath us that that

1555
01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:51,880
Speaker 1: we experience. And that was my beef. When you said

1556
01:20:51,920 --> 01:20:55,080
Speaker 1: what he said, it was like, come on, like, you

1557
01:20:55,200 --> 01:20:56,720
Speaker 1: know what this is, you know what we're doing, Like

1558
01:20:56,920 --> 01:20:58,720
Speaker 1: for you to say that it's just But even in

1559
01:20:58,840 --> 01:21:02,519
Speaker 1: that podcast interview that started recirculating with y'all with Charlett

1560
01:21:02,560 --> 01:21:05,320
Speaker 1: magn And, he made the joke that like, you know,

1561
01:21:05,479 --> 01:21:08,240
Speaker 1: he needed you all, Like, I mean, I watched that.

1562
01:21:08,320 --> 01:21:10,599
Speaker 1: I think, don't you think it's more just him poking

1563
01:21:10,640 --> 01:21:14,040
Speaker 1: the bear than it is real? Like No, when he

1564
01:21:14,120 --> 01:21:18,120
Speaker 1: what he said when when I was up there, he

1565
01:21:18,280 --> 01:21:21,360
Speaker 1: was serious about that. It wasn't a joke, like when

1566
01:21:21,400 --> 01:21:23,160
Speaker 1: he said when he felt like we should be paid.

1567
01:21:23,680 --> 01:21:25,720
Speaker 1: First of all, I would never sit in a win

1568
01:21:25,720 --> 01:21:29,439
Speaker 1: and tell anybody what I think. Man, I don't play

1569
01:21:29,479 --> 01:21:31,000
Speaker 1: that game. If you tell me right now you got

1570
01:21:31,040 --> 01:21:33,479
Speaker 1: two hundred million, i'mna aplaud you, and I'm gonna figure

1571
01:21:33,520 --> 01:21:35,120
Speaker 1: out how you did it, and I'm gonna try to

1572
01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:37,599
Speaker 1: go get three hundred. That's just the way I was raised.

1573
01:21:37,840 --> 01:21:40,200
Speaker 1: Like I've never looked at another man and hated and

1574
01:21:40,240 --> 01:21:41,920
Speaker 1: felt some type of way about what he's eating, Like

1575
01:21:42,040 --> 01:21:45,160
Speaker 1: that's just not enemy. So when he did that, it

1576
01:21:45,240 --> 01:21:47,360
Speaker 1: said a lot to me about him, Like I fun

1577
01:21:47,800 --> 01:21:49,720
Speaker 1: into this day, I still respect him. He was he

1578
01:21:49,920 --> 01:21:53,120
Speaker 1: accomplished a lot on his platform and in his space, Like,

1579
01:21:53,640 --> 01:21:55,920
Speaker 1: I'm not a hater, so I still don't have hate

1580
01:21:55,960 --> 01:21:58,760
Speaker 1: for him. Is there any space in which you could

1581
01:21:58,840 --> 01:22:02,600
Speaker 1: share a room with him and talk that out? Absolutely,

1582
01:22:03,160 --> 01:22:05,080
Speaker 1: I would love to set that up, just because I

1583
01:22:05,160 --> 01:22:08,400
Speaker 1: don't have said I've spoken. I would know, let's not

1584
01:22:08,479 --> 01:22:11,719
Speaker 1: look at each other right now, only because like even

1585
01:22:11,800 --> 01:22:13,400
Speaker 1: what he's been able to do for us, and the

1586
01:22:13,479 --> 01:22:15,560
Speaker 1: fact that there is still respect there. I think that

1587
01:22:15,760 --> 01:22:17,720
Speaker 1: I'm not a hate a minute. You know, I don't

1588
01:22:18,439 --> 01:22:21,160
Speaker 1: know dude to hate man, but heat it's just like

1589
01:22:21,400 --> 01:22:25,240
Speaker 1: yo him saying that I'm from the streets, and I

1590
01:22:25,360 --> 01:22:27,599
Speaker 1: know when niggas say certain things, I know it's more

1591
01:22:27,680 --> 01:22:30,320
Speaker 1: behind that, right, So I don't know what you're doing

1592
01:22:30,360 --> 01:22:32,720
Speaker 1: behind closed doors. You could be stopping ship because you

1593
01:22:32,840 --> 01:22:35,760
Speaker 1: have that power because at that point I was just

1594
01:22:35,880 --> 01:22:38,880
Speaker 1: we we was young pups in this. So behind so

1595
01:22:38,960 --> 01:22:41,800
Speaker 1: if you say that publicly on the platform, I'm I'm

1596
01:22:41,840 --> 01:22:44,439
Speaker 1: thinking behind closed them, you might be blocking your Do

1597
01:22:44,520 --> 01:22:47,720
Speaker 1: you think that there's room for like growth in that. Like,

1598
01:22:47,880 --> 01:22:50,320
Speaker 1: I mean, I can't speak for Charlemagne, but I wondered too.

1599
01:22:50,479 --> 01:22:54,160
Speaker 1: Like I think anybody that may have think thought at

1600
01:22:54,240 --> 01:22:59,000
Speaker 1: one point that your ex partner was bigger, better, it's

1601
01:22:59,040 --> 01:23:00,600
Speaker 1: kind of eating their words or of bit. Now I

1602
01:23:00,680 --> 01:23:02,439
Speaker 1: watched the clip of even Adam. We were just talking

1603
01:23:02,439 --> 01:23:05,599
Speaker 1: about Adam saying like, there's no way they do good. Remember,

1604
01:23:06,160 --> 01:23:07,960
Speaker 1: he's like, there's no way. Maybe in the beginning, like

1605
01:23:08,280 --> 01:23:10,760
Speaker 1: everybody thought that, right, And first of all, we got

1606
01:23:10,840 --> 01:23:12,960
Speaker 1: to kill that narrative. When did more and I ever

1607
01:23:13,040 --> 01:23:16,960
Speaker 1: say we were bigger than him? You never said that.

1608
01:23:17,040 --> 01:23:19,679
Speaker 1: People like but people want to naturally pit you against

1609
01:23:19,680 --> 01:23:22,320
Speaker 1: each other. And imagine if Mandy and I decided that

1610
01:23:22,360 --> 01:23:24,799
Speaker 1: Horrible Decisions was over and we both made a podcast,

1611
01:23:24,920 --> 01:23:27,240
Speaker 1: not with other people, just alone, that would be the

1612
01:23:27,280 --> 01:23:30,240
Speaker 1: first thing they do, Oh well, we doesn't talk to

1613
01:23:30,439 --> 01:23:34,679
Speaker 1: enough like Mandie. Oh well Mandy doesn't, that's gonna be yeah,

1614
01:23:34,880 --> 01:23:38,040
Speaker 1: you know, we never see. The interesting thing is Rory

1615
01:23:38,160 --> 01:23:41,000
Speaker 1: and you know, and again we still haven't exposed a

1616
01:23:41,120 --> 01:23:43,920
Speaker 1: lot of the business dealings that were the reason why

1617
01:23:44,040 --> 01:23:47,599
Speaker 1: we went out separate ways. But we were so humble

1618
01:23:47,680 --> 01:23:50,280
Speaker 1: for so long, and it was like you know, like

1619
01:23:51,760 --> 01:23:54,080
Speaker 1: just in our business, like we were humbled, Like the

1620
01:23:54,160 --> 01:23:56,799
Speaker 1: percentage that we agreed to take was us being humble,

1621
01:23:57,040 --> 01:23:58,519
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. So it's like how much

1622
01:23:58,560 --> 01:24:01,559
Speaker 1: more humble can it somebody get? And then you still

1623
01:24:01,640 --> 01:24:03,799
Speaker 1: turn around and still try to take advantage of somebody.

1624
01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:05,639
Speaker 1: It's like, I'm a man at the end of the day,

1625
01:24:06,160 --> 01:24:07,880
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like I don't funk this business,

1626
01:24:07,960 --> 01:24:10,200
Speaker 1: and I'm a man first, Like so now you're trying

1627
01:24:10,240 --> 01:24:12,400
Speaker 1: to take advantage of me as a man, and that's

1628
01:24:12,439 --> 01:24:15,040
Speaker 1: where the problem, and you know it was routed. It's

1629
01:24:15,040 --> 01:24:16,880
Speaker 1: like you're not gonna take advantage. I'm sorry, that's just

1630
01:24:16,920 --> 01:24:19,000
Speaker 1: not gonna happen. Honestly, I think what we all got

1631
01:24:19,080 --> 01:24:21,880
Speaker 1: to watch happen was really great. I think people that

1632
01:24:21,960 --> 01:24:24,120
Speaker 1: maybe not even thought they'd be rooting for you at

1633
01:24:24,160 --> 01:24:25,880
Speaker 1: some point or thought that they loved you this much

1634
01:24:25,920 --> 01:24:28,760
Speaker 1: as just suddenly came out. And I mean I was

1635
01:24:28,800 --> 01:24:33,240
Speaker 1: super excited when and at first when you were like serious,

1636
01:24:33,280 --> 01:24:35,920
Speaker 1: I was like what I mean, who even thought that,

1637
01:24:36,040 --> 01:24:38,240
Speaker 1: like you could even attain something like that. And again,

1638
01:24:38,320 --> 01:24:40,679
Speaker 1: I think it's really dope that to be the first

1639
01:24:40,960 --> 01:24:43,320
Speaker 1: podcast to break out into Spotify and now we watch

1640
01:24:43,439 --> 01:24:45,760
Speaker 1: all these podcasts get all this money. Just to know

1641
01:24:45,880 --> 01:24:48,960
Speaker 1: that you'd reinvented in another space. I think what could

1642
01:24:49,000 --> 01:24:52,600
Speaker 1: really be a cool legacy for y'all is one you

1643
01:24:52,640 --> 01:24:54,639
Speaker 1: were the first podcast to do that, and now people

1644
01:24:54,680 --> 01:24:57,840
Speaker 1: know about Spotify, right. Who knows how many black podcasters

1645
01:24:57,920 --> 01:25:00,880
Speaker 1: will come after on Stitcher series, which is a really

1646
01:25:00,960 --> 01:25:03,200
Speaker 1: important thing. But that's why we and Rory did what

1647
01:25:03,320 --> 01:25:05,760
Speaker 1: we did. It was important to show people that it's

1648
01:25:05,800 --> 01:25:09,360
Speaker 1: okay to step out and and and try something and

1649
01:25:09,479 --> 01:25:12,040
Speaker 1: not know if it's gonna succeed or not, you know

1650
01:25:12,080 --> 01:25:13,880
Speaker 1: what I mean, Like we didn't know, Like we we

1651
01:25:13,960 --> 01:25:15,679
Speaker 1: just knew we wanted to do something and we wanted

1652
01:25:15,720 --> 01:25:19,880
Speaker 1: to continue having our voices being heard and having fun

1653
01:25:20,000 --> 01:25:22,160
Speaker 1: and just kicking it. But you know, it's important to

1654
01:25:22,200 --> 01:25:25,320
Speaker 1: show people like integrity pays off me and solid pays

1655
01:25:25,360 --> 01:25:26,880
Speaker 1: off it, does, you know what I mean? Like, and

1656
01:25:26,960 --> 01:25:29,400
Speaker 1: that was the important thing for us, Like it's okay

1657
01:25:29,560 --> 01:25:32,720
Speaker 1: to go through ship and pivot and then show like, yo,

1658
01:25:32,800 --> 01:25:35,360
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna, you know, put my morals and integrity

1659
01:25:35,880 --> 01:25:37,599
Speaker 1: you know, on the back burner, like I'm gonna stand

1660
01:25:37,640 --> 01:25:39,280
Speaker 1: on that, and it's gonna pay off and it's gonna

1661
01:25:39,280 --> 01:25:41,479
Speaker 1: be rewarded, and that's what it is. Speaking of it

1662
01:25:41,600 --> 01:25:44,920
Speaker 1: like a new phase, like, um, your live show, how

1663
01:25:44,960 --> 01:25:46,479
Speaker 1: do you guys feel about doing it to get are

1664
01:25:46,479 --> 01:25:48,720
Speaker 1: you excited? Is it gonna be with it feel like

1665
01:25:48,800 --> 01:25:52,920
Speaker 1: the same or differently diferent New York. I need to

1666
01:25:52,960 --> 01:25:57,040
Speaker 1: tickets to that, you know, it's definitely it's definitely real

1667
01:25:57,080 --> 01:25:58,720
Speaker 1: guilty because that's why I was like when I saw

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01:25:58,880 --> 01:26:00,720
Speaker 1: sold I was like, that's when I come to the show.

1669
01:26:02,520 --> 01:26:04,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna be real playing all walking in Like, yeah,

1670
01:26:04,240 --> 01:26:07,000
Speaker 1: we SWD last Thursday, So this is no I love.

1671
01:26:07,120 --> 01:26:09,360
Speaker 1: We're doing the same venues, the l A venue at

1672
01:26:09,400 --> 01:26:11,960
Speaker 1: the three Game and that's said on it was on

1673
01:26:12,120 --> 01:26:14,320
Speaker 1: Barstool Ship say what you will about them, But I

1674
01:26:14,400 --> 01:26:16,280
Speaker 1: said in the interview that's where we could all really

1675
01:26:16,360 --> 01:26:19,280
Speaker 1: work together live show space, Like of course, we don't

1676
01:26:19,280 --> 01:26:21,320
Speaker 1: want to go in different networks or start our own

1677
01:26:21,360 --> 01:26:24,120
Speaker 1: networks or do partnerships whatever, that's cool, we should actually

1678
01:26:24,160 --> 01:26:26,560
Speaker 1: tour together. That's where my head is at with so

1679
01:26:26,680 --> 01:26:29,360
Speaker 1: much stuff actually weird, like if you only having sex

1680
01:26:29,439 --> 01:26:35,360
Speaker 1: and we're going, oh my god, can you on that note? People? Look,

1681
01:26:36,920 --> 01:26:39,519
Speaker 1: I got to go. I got a book, we get

1682
01:26:39,600 --> 01:26:42,080
Speaker 1: four days. I'm having you right, it's gonna be what

1683
01:26:42,600 --> 01:26:45,320
Speaker 1: what city would be the ideal one for us to

1684
01:26:45,360 --> 01:26:48,360
Speaker 1: be together all together? No? For no, for you to more? Oh,

1685
01:26:48,600 --> 01:26:53,640
Speaker 1: New York, Miami on the beach, Thank you man like

1686
01:26:59,080 --> 01:27:03,599
Speaker 1: Jones is amazing. We're doing life shows and taloom. So't

1687
01:27:03,640 --> 01:27:07,960
Speaker 1: want to do I don't have no hose, I don't

1688
01:27:07,960 --> 01:27:10,559
Speaker 1: have listen. I was just to who wasn't. No, it wasn't.

1689
01:27:10,640 --> 01:27:13,160
Speaker 1: You can't if you've been living in the same city

1690
01:27:13,240 --> 01:27:15,760
Speaker 1: this long. That's how it always happens. Though somebody that

1691
01:27:15,880 --> 01:27:18,439
Speaker 1: you may have ever slept with and then you somehow

1692
01:27:18,479 --> 01:27:21,320
Speaker 1: see him another city then like bam, yo, didn't that

1693
01:27:21,439 --> 01:27:24,240
Speaker 1: happens for sure? And it's like I got an excuse

1694
01:27:24,320 --> 01:27:25,880
Speaker 1: in New York and be like like I shouldn't do

1695
01:27:25,920 --> 01:27:28,960
Speaker 1: the How do you feel about the women that post

1696
01:27:29,000 --> 01:27:31,240
Speaker 1: pictures in hotel rooms of the city they live in?

1697
01:27:33,280 --> 01:27:38,280
Speaker 1: Huh staycation? So do you do staycations? Because I don't.

1698
01:27:38,560 --> 01:27:40,360
Speaker 1: Sometimes I do in a front home. Girl comes in town.

1699
01:27:40,360 --> 01:27:42,880
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I have. All of my friends are

1700
01:27:42,880 --> 01:27:45,160
Speaker 1: black and half of them are allergic to cats. So

1701
01:27:45,840 --> 01:27:47,720
Speaker 1: I'm in hotels now with my friends when a lot

1702
01:27:47,720 --> 01:27:50,080
Speaker 1: of my friends, what do you pose from? Yeah, I'm

1703
01:27:50,160 --> 01:27:53,560
Speaker 1: in a hotel. I mean selfie in the mirror, in

1704
01:27:53,600 --> 01:27:56,040
Speaker 1: the bathroom, in the road. I mean, no one knows

1705
01:27:56,080 --> 01:28:00,439
Speaker 1: where I'm atagh grand I mean, I hold you. I

1706
01:28:00,560 --> 01:28:02,080
Speaker 1: used to do that when when the Niggas used to

1707
01:28:02,120 --> 01:28:07,360
Speaker 1: be at the Soho the Trump so that bathtub. Hell yeah,

1708
01:28:07,880 --> 01:28:13,559
Speaker 1: right up in that, bitch. I did have an apartment, League,

1709
01:28:13,920 --> 01:28:15,800
Speaker 1: and I had to stay at sixty for a few days,

1710
01:28:15,920 --> 01:28:20,640
Speaker 1: right and ye little League, I'll just go to sixty oh,

1711
01:28:20,920 --> 01:28:22,400
Speaker 1: because you know what they told me. They said, we'll

1712
01:28:22,439 --> 01:28:24,360
Speaker 1: give you a hundred dollars today. I said, have you

1713
01:28:24,400 --> 01:28:26,920
Speaker 1: seen the apartment? I need the same level, So I'll

1714
01:28:26,960 --> 01:28:28,479
Speaker 1: let you know where I'll be at, Nigga. When I

1715
01:28:28,560 --> 01:28:30,800
Speaker 1: was in there posting, I didn't even really think about it.

1716
01:28:31,000 --> 01:28:34,000
Speaker 1: It was just me and the dog people. Was like, damn, bitch,

1717
01:28:34,280 --> 01:28:36,840
Speaker 1: it's like that just got home from Lane. You had

1718
01:28:36,840 --> 01:28:41,519
Speaker 1: another hotel? Is like it is I'm actually judging you,

1719
01:28:41,640 --> 01:28:44,040
Speaker 1: Oh City, for us to all tour together, though, I

1720
01:28:44,120 --> 01:28:48,920
Speaker 1: think in Atlanta or Houston will really be fine. I mean, hey,

1721
01:28:48,960 --> 01:28:51,640
Speaker 1: I'm surprised Atlanta wasn't on the docket who said it's not.

1722
01:28:52,280 --> 01:28:55,880
Speaker 1: I mean just we're just doing It's coming up the

1723
01:28:55,920 --> 01:28:59,439
Speaker 1: same way in the Midwest as well. If you haven't yet,

1724
01:28:59,439 --> 01:29:03,200
Speaker 1: go to horror dot com where your ticket A L

1725
01:29:03,240 --> 01:29:05,120
Speaker 1: A D. I think there's a couple of tickets left.

1726
01:29:05,160 --> 01:29:07,400
Speaker 1: There's a couple of tickett The thing ain't ready for

1727
01:29:07,439 --> 01:29:11,240
Speaker 1: the vaccination card. That's why were It's Vegas Day of

1728
01:29:11,360 --> 01:29:14,240
Speaker 1: Vegas week and that same which is a great Actually,

1729
01:29:15,479 --> 01:29:18,000
Speaker 1: are y'all know when we're out there for our towards

1730
01:29:18,080 --> 01:29:21,280
Speaker 1: Rolling Okay, but yeah, Day in Vegas, Day in Vegas. Yeah,

1731
01:29:21,960 --> 01:29:24,280
Speaker 1: Rolling Loud in l A is the same exactly. That's

1732
01:29:24,320 --> 01:29:27,080
Speaker 1: why I asked our tour agents to book it. Then, oh,

1733
01:29:27,120 --> 01:29:29,840
Speaker 1: when it's on a Thursday Saturday. It's a three day weekend,

1734
01:29:30,240 --> 01:29:33,120
Speaker 1: so you could be Most of are like, yeah, there's

1735
01:29:33,120 --> 01:29:34,599
Speaker 1: a lot going on. We should book some other weekends.

1736
01:29:34,600 --> 01:29:37,160
Speaker 1: And he was like, nona be Yeah, but I just

1737
01:29:37,240 --> 01:29:38,599
Speaker 1: went to Rolling lout of New York, so I don't

1738
01:29:38,600 --> 01:29:40,160
Speaker 1: want to go anymore. So I'm actually gonna go to Vegas.

1739
01:29:40,200 --> 01:29:44,599
Speaker 1: Are you even tested? Excuse for for everything? The room

1740
01:29:44,640 --> 01:29:46,720
Speaker 1: should probably get tested. I was just Rolling Loud all

1741
01:29:46,760 --> 01:29:53,800
Speaker 1: weekend for everything. I am the one who just have

1742
01:29:53,880 --> 01:29:56,960
Speaker 1: the fake card. What I thought it was like Miami

1743
01:29:57,080 --> 01:29:58,760
Speaker 1: was like teenagers, but I thought the New York, New

1744
01:29:58,800 --> 01:30:01,760
Speaker 1: York a loud club. So it felt like Griffin. I

1745
01:30:04,000 --> 01:30:06,960
Speaker 1: like Griffin on them both today. Why didn't you guys

1746
01:30:07,000 --> 01:30:08,439
Speaker 1: go to Rolling Out? Did you you just with in

1747
01:30:08,479 --> 01:30:11,479
Speaker 1: the back raining? It was it was when I left,

1748
01:30:11,520 --> 01:30:13,280
Speaker 1: even before Cole said, because I was like, I have

1749
01:30:13,360 --> 01:30:15,080
Speaker 1: a live show that you know how the rain was

1750
01:30:15,160 --> 01:30:18,320
Speaker 1: bad because I've had mad offers for tickets. At the end,

1751
01:30:18,400 --> 01:30:20,360
Speaker 1: I had people from c A W me like, here,

1752
01:30:20,400 --> 01:30:22,400
Speaker 1: do you want some tickets? I'm like throwing them at me.

1753
01:30:22,479 --> 01:30:25,920
Speaker 1: That's fine, No, there's a thunderstorm. Yeah. Well, guys, let

1754
01:30:26,080 --> 01:30:28,960
Speaker 1: everyone know where they can listen to your show, where

1755
01:30:29,000 --> 01:30:31,559
Speaker 1: they can slide into your d M. Yeah, tell us

1756
01:30:31,600 --> 01:30:34,040
Speaker 1: about the listening. Do we only have to listen? Serious elaborate, No,

1757
01:30:34,280 --> 01:30:37,560
Speaker 1: it's anywhere you can find podcast with their Apple was

1758
01:30:37,600 --> 01:30:43,759
Speaker 1: Spotify and anywhere YouTube will be the next day, and yeah, anywhere, literally, Jimmy,

1759
01:30:43,840 --> 01:30:47,519
Speaker 1: wherever podcasts exists. Cool, we got really dope merge come in.

1760
01:30:47,680 --> 01:30:49,920
Speaker 1: Y'all's designs and graphics are already super cool. So I

1761
01:30:50,000 --> 01:30:52,040
Speaker 1: mean making the ship they send you because that ship

1762
01:30:52,120 --> 01:30:54,880
Speaker 1: is lit. Basically got a dog bed the fun. Oh yeah,

1763
01:30:54,960 --> 01:30:57,560
Speaker 1: that was some some listeners that have been rotting this

1764
01:30:57,600 --> 01:31:00,840
Speaker 1: for a long time. Creatives love it. Now there really

1765
01:31:00,880 --> 01:31:07,280
Speaker 1: are there really are? Um well, guys, if you are

1766
01:31:07,360 --> 01:31:09,720
Speaker 1: all caught up on horrible decisions, make sure that you

1767
01:31:09,840 --> 01:31:11,640
Speaker 1: tune into our Patreon And I'm proud of you. I

1768
01:31:11,720 --> 01:31:15,040
Speaker 1: want to thank you. I love you. One of my

1769
01:31:15,080 --> 01:31:18,960
Speaker 1: favorite pockets. Thank you. Yes? And what year did I

1770
01:31:19,040 --> 01:31:20,720
Speaker 1: come on? It's been a while now. I feel like

1771
01:31:20,880 --> 01:31:23,760
Speaker 1: you told the cut that ship was insane. Yeah, you've

1772
01:31:23,800 --> 01:31:25,880
Speaker 1: been on. You've been on twice, right, I told that

1773
01:31:26,000 --> 01:31:33,439
Speaker 1: story you did you know? I was so Diana he

1774
01:31:33,520 --> 01:31:35,600
Speaker 1: came out of the bathroom. It was crazy with the

1775
01:31:35,680 --> 01:31:39,600
Speaker 1: iPad recording was wild. Was wild. Um, guys, again, we

1776
01:31:39,720 --> 01:31:42,240
Speaker 1: are on tour as well, so by the time you

1777
01:31:42,320 --> 01:31:44,599
Speaker 1: listen to this episode, you should be able to get

1778
01:31:44,680 --> 01:31:47,280
Speaker 1: tickets for the l A show as well as the

1779
01:31:47,360 --> 01:31:51,800
Speaker 1: Atlanta show. L A is December three. What I mean,

1780
01:31:52,840 --> 01:31:55,600
Speaker 1: don't because now when everybody started hitting our dams, like,

1781
01:31:55,640 --> 01:31:56,840
Speaker 1: so when is this going to happen? So when are

1782
01:31:56,840 --> 01:31:59,479
Speaker 1: you imagine it's gonna be? Like freaking bitch, because when

1783
01:31:59,520 --> 01:32:02,439
Speaker 1: we had we had the Houston at the same time,

1784
01:32:03,040 --> 01:32:04,439
Speaker 1: and do you remember how many guys like you and

1785
01:32:04,520 --> 01:32:06,719
Speaker 1: my girl brother me here. Then we went to y'all show.

1786
01:32:06,960 --> 01:32:09,360
Speaker 1: Oh my, my mom was so excited. She's like everything.

1787
01:32:11,320 --> 01:32:13,760
Speaker 1: That's part of changing the landscape of this ship, of course,

1788
01:32:13,760 --> 01:32:16,040
Speaker 1: because if if we do, if y'all go on, then

1789
01:32:16,120 --> 01:32:18,120
Speaker 1: we go on, and then the four of us go on.

1790
01:32:18,680 --> 01:32:21,320
Speaker 1: That's a show that's fun, and that's a show I

1791
01:32:21,400 --> 01:32:24,519
Speaker 1: damn shows about it has damn so y'all, y'all, y'all

1792
01:32:24,560 --> 01:32:29,880
Speaker 1: got to get Yes, we gotta open up, damn up.

1793
01:32:32,280 --> 01:32:35,920
Speaker 1: We'll let you know. Anyways again, that's hor Hive dot com.

1794
01:32:36,160 --> 01:32:38,640
Speaker 1: Get your tickets now. Um. I believe all of the

1795
01:32:38,760 --> 01:32:40,320
Speaker 1: v I p is sold out for l A, but

1796
01:32:40,360 --> 01:32:43,560
Speaker 1: you should still be able to get Don't do that.

1797
01:32:43,720 --> 01:32:46,000
Speaker 1: Don't do that. You know they like skinny girls out

1798
01:32:46,000 --> 01:32:48,960
Speaker 1: in l A. Anyways, also joined our Patreon. We're gonna

1799
01:32:49,000 --> 01:32:50,920
Speaker 1: leave you guys with a five minute bonus clip. Rory mall.

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01:32:50,960 --> 01:32:54,920
Speaker 1: Thank you guys so much. Thank you joining us always, always, always,

1801
01:32:54,920 --> 01:32:57,240
Speaker 1: always love it and you're gonna get a five minute

1802
01:32:57,240 --> 01:33:00,599
Speaker 1: bonus clip. This has been another episode of Horror decision fights.

1803
01:33:02,280 --> 01:33:06,519
Speaker 1: It's bonus Bitchen Mandy just took like a huge yawn

1804
01:33:06,640 --> 01:33:09,280
Speaker 1: and stretch. We just had a live show last night.

1805
01:33:09,439 --> 01:33:13,439
Speaker 1: Oh we did, we did, and I ain't gonna hold you.

1806
01:33:13,520 --> 01:33:16,759
Speaker 1: I did not want to motherfucking record today. My voice

1807
01:33:17,360 --> 01:33:20,599
Speaker 1: it's raspy. I was like, oh, I have a weekend off.

1808
01:33:20,800 --> 01:33:23,880
Speaker 1: Never do I ever though, Um, I didn't want to

1809
01:33:24,000 --> 01:33:27,720
Speaker 1: shout out to all of the patrons real quick who

1810
01:33:27,920 --> 01:33:31,280
Speaker 1: came out and pulled up to the live show at

1811
01:33:31,320 --> 01:33:35,479
Speaker 1: Sony Hall last night in New York City. It's so crazy, though,

1812
01:33:36,680 --> 01:33:39,599
Speaker 1: if you're a patron and came to a live show

1813
01:33:39,680 --> 01:33:43,480
Speaker 1: for the first time, please leave a comment under this episode.

1814
01:33:43,960 --> 01:33:47,280
Speaker 1: I was so shocked at how many people said that

1815
01:33:47,479 --> 01:33:50,200
Speaker 1: was the first time going to a live show. Me too,

1816
01:33:50,360 --> 01:33:52,880
Speaker 1: Like that, I think was the most first time I

1817
01:33:52,960 --> 01:33:55,240
Speaker 1: was I've ever heard in one room I've ever seen.

1818
01:33:55,400 --> 01:33:58,040
Speaker 1: And also for the first time. I got a lot

1819
01:33:58,120 --> 01:34:01,639
Speaker 1: of feedback from friends, like immediately after the show, which

1820
01:34:01,720 --> 01:34:03,800
Speaker 1: normally like I need some time before I can hear

1821
01:34:03,880 --> 01:34:07,560
Speaker 1: some ship and this was probably the best feedback I

1822
01:34:07,640 --> 01:34:12,280
Speaker 1: ever got. And two things I found interesting, Um, and

1823
01:34:12,360 --> 01:34:14,080
Speaker 1: this is not me trying to sell v IP tickets.

1824
01:34:14,120 --> 01:34:15,320
Speaker 1: By the way, I'm sure maybe it could be a

1825
01:34:15,400 --> 01:34:20,240
Speaker 1: venue thing. So Brianda and Alex both told me, and

1826
01:34:20,400 --> 01:34:23,280
Speaker 1: Brihanda said, she sat um in the back and it's

1827
01:34:23,320 --> 01:34:25,800
Speaker 1: not even that much of a back for the beginning

1828
01:34:25,800 --> 01:34:27,880
Speaker 1: of the show, and sat in the front towards the end.

1829
01:34:28,439 --> 01:34:31,000
Speaker 1: She's like, wheezy, I had a totally different experience. She's like,

1830
01:34:31,120 --> 01:34:33,280
Speaker 1: I don't know if it's because the fans are in

1831
01:34:33,320 --> 01:34:37,559
Speaker 1: the front, like crazy fans, or if people get distracted

1832
01:34:37,640 --> 01:34:40,160
Speaker 1: in the back. She's like, but I felt like I

1833
01:34:40,280 --> 01:34:42,640
Speaker 1: was like really in the show in the front. And

1834
01:34:42,720 --> 01:34:45,200
Speaker 1: I mean, obviously the front for Venye show was good,

1835
01:34:45,320 --> 01:34:48,720
Speaker 1: but this year, just so you guys know, Mandy and

1836
01:34:48,760 --> 01:34:50,920
Speaker 1: I have you've ever been to a show. We go, well,

1837
01:34:50,960 --> 01:34:52,280
Speaker 1: I go out in the audience a lot, but we

1838
01:34:52,560 --> 01:34:54,519
Speaker 1: pick a lot of people from the audience and we

1839
01:34:54,640 --> 01:34:58,720
Speaker 1: generally will go upstairs, downstairs wherever. And this time, being

1840
01:34:58,800 --> 01:35:01,280
Speaker 1: that we can't meet all of you, we are choosing

1841
01:35:01,400 --> 01:35:03,439
Speaker 1: from our V I P. Section. That is one of

1842
01:35:03,479 --> 01:35:07,280
Speaker 1: our um ways to you know, throw an incentive in

1843
01:35:07,320 --> 01:35:10,240
Speaker 1: there along with like the obviously the better seating and

1844
01:35:10,600 --> 01:35:13,920
Speaker 1: we give you um some merch as well. But yeah,

1845
01:35:14,040 --> 01:35:15,880
Speaker 1: Like I did find that interesting and I was like,

1846
01:35:15,920 --> 01:35:18,280
Speaker 1: I wonder and I think that's my biggest thing for myself,

1847
01:35:18,479 --> 01:35:20,839
Speaker 1: was like how to make sure the back is always included,

1848
01:35:21,320 --> 01:35:24,519
Speaker 1: because I'm sure it must be difficult, you know what

1849
01:35:24,600 --> 01:35:26,519
Speaker 1: I mean, Like on your a room of hundreds and

1850
01:35:26,600 --> 01:35:28,839
Speaker 1: hundreds of people, and I even think about, like, Howard,

1851
01:35:29,400 --> 01:35:31,400
Speaker 1: you know we're going next week and it's two floors,

1852
01:35:31,760 --> 01:35:34,080
Speaker 1: but I went up there last year or two years

1853
01:35:34,800 --> 01:35:38,760
Speaker 1: Howard Theater. I literally said this to Bridget last night.

1854
01:35:39,280 --> 01:35:44,280
Speaker 1: Sony Hall is my second favorite venue, Howard Theater. Of

1855
01:35:44,400 --> 01:35:47,640
Speaker 1: all the venues that we've done, um is by far

1856
01:35:47,800 --> 01:35:50,800
Speaker 1: my favorite venue. Like I love the DC crowd. I

1857
01:35:50,960 --> 01:35:53,920
Speaker 1: love that upstairs downstairs vibe. I also like the venues

1858
01:35:54,439 --> 01:35:58,960
Speaker 1: that allow our four Hive members to kind of it's

1859
01:35:59,000 --> 01:36:01,519
Speaker 1: like a dinner on a like I like when they

1860
01:36:01,560 --> 01:36:04,920
Speaker 1: can eat and drink and um do those type of things.

1861
01:36:05,560 --> 01:36:13,120
Speaker 1: How Well, speaking of drinking, however, okay, I'm not saying

1862
01:36:13,200 --> 01:36:15,200
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna say. Okay, you could say you could

1863
01:36:15,200 --> 01:36:19,000
Speaker 1: dec need to make sure it wasn't this person. Yeah,

1864
01:36:19,040 --> 01:36:21,720
Speaker 1: so don't don't call out that person, just call out

1865
01:36:21,760 --> 01:36:26,000
Speaker 1: the table. Well, then let me not say nothing someone

1866
01:36:26,040 --> 01:36:28,360
Speaker 1: that got on stage. Fine, someone that got on stage,

1867
01:36:29,640 --> 01:36:31,599
Speaker 1: but it might not be so none know what I'm saying.

1868
01:36:31,760 --> 01:36:34,240
Speaker 1: Someone that got on stage was sitting at a table

1869
01:36:34,439 --> 01:36:37,840
Speaker 1: that ran out in the bill. And when I tell you,

1870
01:36:38,080 --> 01:36:42,280
Speaker 1: also real quick, we know it's been a wait, we

1871
01:36:42,439 --> 01:36:45,320
Speaker 1: know that it's been a pandemic. We know our tickets.

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Speaker 1: You know, that's why we go above and beyond with

1873
01:36:47,880 --> 01:36:52,360
Speaker 1: really trying to give a really good show. But the

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01:36:52,560 --> 01:36:56,800
Speaker 1: first time ever that Weezy and I have been doing

1875
01:36:57,200 --> 01:37:00,240
Speaker 1: live shows, We've been doing live shows since by away,

1876
01:37:00,360 --> 01:37:05,639
Speaker 1: I wasn't baras I wasn't bars. So then he comes

1877
01:37:05,720 --> 01:37:10,120
Speaker 1: down and he's like, girl, like five tables walked out

1878
01:37:10,160 --> 01:37:13,880
Speaker 1: on their bill, and I was just like to be

1879
01:37:14,040 --> 01:37:17,679
Speaker 1: fair too. The server was new, so he probably wasn't.

1880
01:37:17,720 --> 01:37:20,880
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, maybe everybody else seemed to have

1881
01:37:20,920 --> 01:37:24,880
Speaker 1: closed out before him. Yeah, but at the same time,

1882
01:37:26,479 --> 01:37:29,559
Speaker 1: I'll wait and be mad that somebody's taking so long

1883
01:37:29,600 --> 01:37:36,240
Speaker 1: with my bill before me. So I did feel really

1884
01:37:36,280 --> 01:37:39,639
Speaker 1: bad for him in that instance. But here's the thing, y'all,

1885
01:37:41,439 --> 01:37:43,960
Speaker 1: I don't know when y'all stopped sneaking liquor into places.

1886
01:37:44,720 --> 01:37:47,680
Speaker 1: Did I implore you to do so if you think

1887
01:37:47,680 --> 01:37:49,439
Speaker 1: there could be a moment that you will run out

1888
01:37:49,479 --> 01:37:52,600
Speaker 1: on your tab. The last time I remember seeing some

1889
01:37:52,680 --> 01:37:54,439
Speaker 1: ship like this happened. I was at a fucking steak

1890
01:37:54,479 --> 01:37:57,439
Speaker 1: and shake prom night. Nigger, I'm not used to this sheet.

1891
01:37:57,920 --> 01:38:00,320
Speaker 1: I am not used to his ghetto sheet. We're all

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Speaker 1: ready the black shell mhm