1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:04,840 Speaker 1: Call It what It Is with Jessica Capshaw and Camille Ludington, 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: an iHeartRadio podcast. 3 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:24,040 Speaker 2: Hello, Hello, Hello, call It Crew. Hello, jess are sitting 4 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 2: here on top of the world, on top of the 5 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 2: world in Chicago. 6 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:32,000 Speaker 3: We are here for a con which is a convention 7 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:35,560 Speaker 3: right where we get to meet fans. And we found 8 00:00:35,560 --> 00:00:39,199 Speaker 3: out that there was another podcast happening in Chicago at 9 00:00:39,200 --> 00:00:43,680 Speaker 3: the same time as us, and that was Scrubbing In. 10 00:00:44,200 --> 00:00:47,200 Speaker 3: And I know you guys have heard of this podcast 11 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:50,840 Speaker 3: because they love Gray's Anatomy. I've been on the podcast, 12 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:53,120 Speaker 3: and to be honest, right now, I'm paying my pants 13 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:57,560 Speaker 3: a little bit because they are so professional an experts 14 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:00,320 Speaker 3: and they're sitting right in front of him staring at them, 15 00:01:00,560 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 3: and we are like the feetus babies. 16 00:01:02,160 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 2: I don't really know what we're doing. I know I know. 17 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 4: Babies. 18 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:10,360 Speaker 2: So Tanya and back, can you say hello to the. 19 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 5: We are so honored to be here, truly, like the 20 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:19,920 Speaker 5: honor is ours? 21 00:01:20,319 --> 00:01:21,039 Speaker 6: No, I don't think so. 22 00:01:21,200 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 4: I think it's it's a co honor. 23 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:25,679 Speaker 6: I think it's a co honor. But I do think 24 00:01:25,800 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 6: since our podcast titled name is in reference to this. 25 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 5: Is it's like royalty, like this is actually actual royalty, 26 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:40,120 Speaker 5: and it's actually really nice. We didn't bring we have 27 00:01:40,240 --> 00:01:43,199 Speaker 5: pillows that are like the size of like a bean 28 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:45,280 Speaker 5: with your faces on them. 29 00:01:45,760 --> 00:01:47,160 Speaker 7: We didn't bring them here, so you don't. 30 00:01:47,240 --> 00:01:51,440 Speaker 5: You don't have the pleasure of seeing yours. 31 00:01:51,840 --> 00:01:53,240 Speaker 2: They're a situation. 32 00:01:53,520 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 4: Hala likes the crown. 33 00:01:54,760 --> 00:01:55,320 Speaker 1: So I'm. 34 00:01:57,000 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, wait, can we cheers, because I'm honest, cheer a bottle? 35 00:02:03,840 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 6: Yeah? 36 00:02:08,160 --> 00:02:12,280 Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, I'm excited because usually I'm on your podcast 37 00:02:12,480 --> 00:02:15,360 Speaker 3: and you asked me questions and we get to ask 38 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 3: you guys questions today. 39 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:21,120 Speaker 1: That's right, it's true, right, Okay, but I sort of 40 00:02:21,160 --> 00:02:24,160 Speaker 1: actually forgot the component, which is like besties and besties. 41 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:28,880 Speaker 4: Yeah, yes, maybe that's where we start. O friendship components. 42 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:32,160 Speaker 6: Are saying, like the hair, the similarity, the hair. 43 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:37,200 Speaker 2: Color, the hair color, it's like looking at our youngest. 44 00:02:37,200 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 5: So I feel like, yeah, yeah, forty, Okay, you're forty. 45 00:02:46,400 --> 00:02:51,079 Speaker 4: She said, like, no, I love how people are shocked. 46 00:02:51,120 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 4: I'm like, oh my god, thanks. Oh let's be honest. 47 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:54,519 Speaker 4: If they weren't shocked, you'd be pissed. 48 00:02:57,080 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 6: I really obviously not lie about it, obviously. 49 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:03,560 Speaker 4: Okay, so you guys are best friends? Where did you 50 00:03:03,600 --> 00:03:04,680 Speaker 4: first meet. 51 00:03:05,160 --> 00:03:09,040 Speaker 6: We met at an iHeart festival in Vegas. Yes, she 52 00:03:09,160 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 6: was not super warm to me. 53 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 7: Oh my god. 54 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:14,640 Speaker 5: Okay, first of all, no, she's so dramatic and she 55 00:03:14,880 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 5: knows our story a little bit too. 56 00:03:16,480 --> 00:03:19,880 Speaker 3: Because we did not get along okay, no, okay, okay, 57 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:21,160 Speaker 3: okay so. 58 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:22,520 Speaker 7: Much, and you didn't like her. 59 00:03:22,639 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 4: She didn't really know it. 60 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:26,560 Speaker 2: I know she mean it very obviously, guys. 61 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 5: The problem is she always likes to say this, but 62 00:03:29,760 --> 00:03:32,280 Speaker 5: like I, when I love people like I get really 63 00:03:32,280 --> 00:03:34,720 Speaker 5: excited to see them. And she was with two people 64 00:03:34,760 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 5: that I already had known. I didn't know her, so 65 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 5: I was really excited to see the people that she 66 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 5: was with, and I was like, nice to you. 67 00:03:40,920 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 6: I thought opid'ctly I would say she was tepid. 68 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:50,960 Speaker 5: But then, as fate would have it, we ended up 69 00:03:51,960 --> 00:03:56,040 Speaker 5: she ended up moving into the apartment literally right next 70 00:03:56,040 --> 00:03:58,360 Speaker 5: door to mine, so we shared a wall, and that's 71 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 5: when everything like flipped for us, because we just became 72 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 5: like inseparable at that point, Like we literally shared a 73 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:05,200 Speaker 5: wall for a little. 74 00:04:04,880 --> 00:04:06,680 Speaker 2: Intimate I feel like I sure was. 75 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:11,920 Speaker 6: Yeah, some of us have some spatial boundaries that others 76 00:04:11,960 --> 00:04:15,200 Speaker 6: still and I would be like waking up. You know, 77 00:04:15,240 --> 00:04:17,599 Speaker 6: she is on a morning radio show, so she gets 78 00:04:17,680 --> 00:04:21,600 Speaker 6: up early, comes home while I'm still waking up, basically yeah, 79 00:04:21,680 --> 00:04:23,680 Speaker 6: and she would just turn the knob like ready to 80 00:04:23,680 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 6: come in, and she like knock until I answered it, 81 00:04:25,720 --> 00:04:28,000 Speaker 6: Why is your door locked? And like, well I was sleeping, 82 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,520 Speaker 6: So that's why she acts like this. 83 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:36,360 Speaker 7: Yeah, she loves it. No, I know, I actually. 84 00:04:36,160 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 6: Think y'all are similar. Two of you. 85 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:44,440 Speaker 2: No boundaries in these friendships need Yeah, she would like. 86 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 5: Get me ready for like dates and stuff, like she 87 00:04:46,520 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 5: would like do my hair and like do I make 88 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 5: up for me? 89 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 7: And like it was like a really sweet time. 90 00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:53,080 Speaker 1: Do you imagine if we had that time in our 91 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:57,760 Speaker 1: lives together you would not let me do I actually 92 00:04:57,760 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 1: would because you do that really pretty thing with your eyes, 93 00:04:59,720 --> 00:05:02,240 Speaker 1: and I I don't love ever everybody to do that. 94 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:03,360 Speaker 4: I can do it. 95 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:08,400 Speaker 3: Look on if you guys like when you're when you 96 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:10,600 Speaker 3: guys are like old, do. 97 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:12,279 Speaker 2: You want houses side by side? 98 00:05:12,279 --> 00:05:16,279 Speaker 6: Then like no, there's an instant No, No, I don't. 99 00:05:16,920 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 6: I don't think we need that. No, like a close 100 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:20,000 Speaker 6: drive away is good. 101 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 7: We're too far away from each other right now. 102 00:05:22,400 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 6: I know I moved to you and you moved away. 103 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:25,760 Speaker 7: I know, yeah, I. 104 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:28,560 Speaker 5: Moved in with my fiance, but uh, we're a little 105 00:05:28,560 --> 00:05:31,320 Speaker 5: bit too far. We're about ten minutes ten to eleven 106 00:05:31,320 --> 00:05:31,919 Speaker 5: minute drive. 107 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:33,840 Speaker 2: I prefer to be far. 108 00:05:35,440 --> 00:05:39,279 Speaker 6: It's it's good for me personally, Like it's a perfect distance. 109 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 6: So I'm not yeah, I'm not trying to like She's 110 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,360 Speaker 6: like talking about moving to the valley and I'm like, oh, yeah, 111 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:50,160 Speaker 6: that's how where how close to me close? 112 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 7: She acts like this, but she she loves it. 113 00:05:54,080 --> 00:05:54,680 Speaker 6: She loves it. 114 00:05:54,920 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, I get that. Okay. 115 00:05:56,760 --> 00:06:00,080 Speaker 2: When we walked in, we were blinded by. 116 00:06:00,080 --> 00:06:04,239 Speaker 4: The ring on Tanya's finger almost immediately. 117 00:06:04,360 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 2: Yeah, I know, she's like a magpie. 118 00:06:07,000 --> 00:06:10,839 Speaker 4: She's like a mag I'm like, shiny, shiny, sparkling. 119 00:06:11,600 --> 00:06:12,000 Speaker 6: Engaged. 120 00:06:12,080 --> 00:06:14,039 Speaker 2: You were last time I saw you were not engaged? 121 00:06:14,160 --> 00:06:15,719 Speaker 6: Correct? Wait, so when did you get engaged? 122 00:06:15,960 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 5: So I've actually been engaged for a year, but we 123 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:22,360 Speaker 5: need a story, the engagement story. 124 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:23,159 Speaker 6: Yes, we love it. 125 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:28,360 Speaker 5: Well, we were dating for three years before we got engaged. 126 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:29,320 Speaker 1: Woaw. 127 00:06:29,600 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 7: I know it's a long time for like, yeah, later 128 00:06:31,640 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 7: in your life. 129 00:06:32,279 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 4: But my faderhead, Yeah, well no. 130 00:06:35,040 --> 00:06:36,359 Speaker 5: I mean, like a lot all my friends, a lot 131 00:06:36,400 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 5: of my friends got married in their twenties, like early 132 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:41,560 Speaker 5: twenty of your life. Really love when you're talking, I 133 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:43,359 Speaker 5: feel like a lot of people get married early on 134 00:06:43,400 --> 00:06:45,760 Speaker 5: in their twenties, yes, and I'm like in my later thirties, 135 00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 5: so I mean right later on in life. 136 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 7: But I was like ready for it, Like after the 137 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:51,520 Speaker 7: first year. 138 00:06:51,520 --> 00:06:53,080 Speaker 5: I was like, I'm ready for it, and he was 139 00:06:53,120 --> 00:06:54,960 Speaker 5: divorced with kids, and so he was kind of like 140 00:06:55,000 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 5: on the slower path. Yeah, So we met in the middle, 141 00:06:58,400 --> 00:07:00,240 Speaker 5: and it was really beautiful. He did it on like 142 00:07:00,240 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 5: a Sunday. I was like not expecting at all. He 143 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:05,520 Speaker 5: had all of our closest friends and our family, and 144 00:07:05,560 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 5: like Becca was there and she was filming, so I 145 00:07:08,200 --> 00:07:10,000 Speaker 5: was obviously surprised for me. So I didn't know that 146 00:07:10,040 --> 00:07:12,920 Speaker 5: they were all there, and Becca was basically like filming 147 00:07:13,080 --> 00:07:16,120 Speaker 5: everybody and kind of like their excitement of it like 148 00:07:16,200 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 5: before I came out, and so like getting to see 149 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:21,080 Speaker 5: those videos is so special because I didn't know what 150 00:07:21,240 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 5: was going on, and getting to like see all their 151 00:07:23,000 --> 00:07:25,440 Speaker 5: conversations and they were all like helping him decide like 152 00:07:25,440 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 5: where to set it up, and she was in charge 153 00:07:27,600 --> 00:07:30,640 Speaker 5: of the speaker for the music, and like he just 154 00:07:30,640 --> 00:07:32,640 Speaker 5: gave everybody a job, and it was just like really 155 00:07:32,680 --> 00:07:33,239 Speaker 5: really sweet. 156 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:35,320 Speaker 7: Oh yeah, and he. 157 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 4: Has he has how many kids? 158 00:07:36,800 --> 00:07:39,040 Speaker 7: Two kids? Ten and twelve? Oh boys? 159 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:41,640 Speaker 2: Oh okay great, yeah, oh that's exciting. 160 00:07:41,880 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 3: And did you find it stressful, like keeping that secret? 161 00:07:44,480 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 3: Because I hate secrets. 162 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:48,240 Speaker 6: I love secrets. You do. 163 00:07:48,920 --> 00:07:50,920 Speaker 2: You're a good I'm so bad. 164 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 7: Yeah, she's like a vaulted Did you ever have to 165 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:54,160 Speaker 7: go yeah dinner. 166 00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:57,040 Speaker 6: I think a few days before, like the week before, 167 00:07:57,120 --> 00:07:59,560 Speaker 6: and she was talking about plans or something, and I 168 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 6: was so casual. It was just like just oh. 169 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 3: My god, break a sweat break. Did you really have 170 00:08:05,800 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 3: no idea? Did anyone do the whole? Like, why don't 171 00:08:08,040 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 3: you go get. 172 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:09,680 Speaker 2: Your nails done today? 173 00:08:09,840 --> 00:08:09,960 Speaker 6: No? 174 00:08:10,040 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 7: Because I do always. 175 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:14,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, I've been preparing for like a. 176 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:15,520 Speaker 6: Year, like I was. 177 00:08:17,600 --> 00:08:20,600 Speaker 5: For a year before we got engaged, So I was like. 178 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 6: Ready for it. 179 00:08:22,120 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 7: Yeah, so there was no need to like prepare me. 180 00:08:24,920 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 7: I was like read it. Yeah yeah, yeah right. 181 00:08:28,280 --> 00:08:29,880 Speaker 5: But I was surprised the day of because it was 182 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 5: like after a Jonas brother's concert. 183 00:08:31,320 --> 00:08:33,080 Speaker 7: It was a Sunday. I was hungover, like it was 184 00:08:33,120 --> 00:08:35,000 Speaker 7: so weird but perfect. 185 00:08:35,160 --> 00:08:39,000 Speaker 5: Yeah, Oh my gosh, I couldn't even he packed me 186 00:08:39,080 --> 00:08:41,320 Speaker 5: makeup because basically what it is he handed me. We 187 00:08:41,320 --> 00:08:45,599 Speaker 5: did like a couple's massage, but they said like the 188 00:08:45,679 --> 00:08:47,560 Speaker 5: room was broken or whatever, so they put me in 189 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:50,439 Speaker 5: a room by myself. After my massage, they handed me 190 00:08:50,480 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 5: a note that was written by him saying like the time, 191 00:08:53,320 --> 00:08:55,880 Speaker 5: like it's been a long time coming, your dress and 192 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 5: your makeup is in your locker. I'm waiting for you 193 00:08:57,800 --> 00:09:00,440 Speaker 5: on the terrace. So like then I knew. So I 194 00:09:00,480 --> 00:09:04,680 Speaker 5: just started like bawling and what. Yeah, So I knew 195 00:09:04,720 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 5: at that point, like we were getting engaged. And I 196 00:09:06,360 --> 00:09:08,320 Speaker 5: looked at my massage therapist and I was like I'm 197 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:11,000 Speaker 5: getting engaged, and I like hugged her and like I 198 00:09:11,080 --> 00:09:13,000 Speaker 5: just started bawling. And then I had all my makeup, 199 00:09:13,000 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 5: but I couldn't even put it on because I was 200 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:15,640 Speaker 5: just like crying so hard. 201 00:09:16,880 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 6: This he is moving. But also it's like he asked, like. 202 00:09:21,679 --> 00:09:22,400 Speaker 4: I'm tripping on. 203 00:09:23,080 --> 00:09:25,559 Speaker 1: He kind of asked you without even being there because 204 00:09:25,600 --> 00:09:27,480 Speaker 1: he said what it was gonna be. 205 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:30,280 Speaker 5: Yeah, it literally was like just one sentences like it's 206 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:33,920 Speaker 5: been a long time coming. Uh, your dress and the 207 00:09:33,960 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 5: make and your makeup or in your lockers, I'm waiting 208 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:36,720 Speaker 5: for you. 209 00:09:36,760 --> 00:09:38,120 Speaker 7: In the terrace and I was like. 210 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 6: Oh, this is wow. 211 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 3: I would say yes if I opened a random locker 212 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:46,720 Speaker 3: and that was a note, I'm like sorry, man, Yeah yeah, 213 00:09:47,000 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 3: race is here and I'm all the genrors. 214 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:55,360 Speaker 1: Yeah mine, I know that's deep. 215 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:57,440 Speaker 7: Yeah, it was cute. It was really cute. 216 00:09:57,679 --> 00:09:59,239 Speaker 2: And so many is officiating. 217 00:09:59,240 --> 00:09:59,960 Speaker 6: We heard rumors. 218 00:10:00,880 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 5: Yes, So I work. I work on the morning show 219 00:10:03,320 --> 00:10:08,280 Speaker 5: on Earth Ryan Seacrest, and he he loves like he 220 00:10:08,320 --> 00:10:10,520 Speaker 5: loves my fiance. They like really get along really well. 221 00:10:10,600 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 5: And I feel like it's really symbolic because I lived 222 00:10:13,160 --> 00:10:15,320 Speaker 5: out so much of like my single life on the 223 00:10:15,360 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 5: air and on the morning show, and so the fact 224 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:19,440 Speaker 5: that he's going to like officiate for us is like 225 00:10:19,679 --> 00:10:22,800 Speaker 5: very sentimental and kind of like full circle. 226 00:10:22,880 --> 00:10:23,080 Speaker 6: Yeah. 227 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:25,160 Speaker 1: I don't know that I've ever said this on the 228 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 1: podcast before, but I was an I listened to the 229 00:10:29,720 --> 00:10:32,839 Speaker 1: Morning show every morning on my way to grace. 230 00:10:33,080 --> 00:10:35,240 Speaker 6: You all did. 231 00:10:35,040 --> 00:10:38,440 Speaker 1: Chunk of I mean, I what undid me was because 232 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:40,360 Speaker 1: I was pregnant so many times on the show and 233 00:10:40,559 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 1: there it's an emotional roller coaster. 234 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:43,360 Speaker 4: You go through a lot of different you. 235 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:48,040 Speaker 1: Know, yeah, imagine And it was Ryan's roses that I 236 00:10:48,080 --> 00:10:49,760 Speaker 1: was like I can't listen to one. 237 00:10:49,640 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 6: More horrible person in the world. I just can't do it. 238 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 2: Yeah, it just makes me just lose my. 239 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:57,920 Speaker 6: Faith in humanity. 240 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:00,480 Speaker 1: It was Ryan's roses that put me over the edge, 241 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:05,440 Speaker 1: and but I listened to it all the time, which 242 00:11:05,440 --> 00:11:07,559 Speaker 1: is so crazy to me now because I think, now 243 00:11:07,600 --> 00:11:09,000 Speaker 1: my habits are I get in and I've got my 244 00:11:09,040 --> 00:11:09,640 Speaker 1: Spotify play. 245 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:11,000 Speaker 2: Did I just go straight to that? 246 00:11:11,120 --> 00:11:11,320 Speaker 7: Yeah? 247 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:12,320 Speaker 6: Now, I really did. 248 00:11:12,360 --> 00:11:14,240 Speaker 4: I listened to all the banter. 249 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:15,400 Speaker 6: Yeah. Thing. 250 00:11:15,520 --> 00:11:17,840 Speaker 5: So like when I started with him, I had like 251 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:20,280 Speaker 5: I had just broken up with this guy that I 252 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:22,200 Speaker 5: thought I was going to marry, and so it was 253 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 5: like this whole whirlwind of like my life got turned 254 00:11:24,679 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 5: upside down. I started dating again, like it was. My 255 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:31,360 Speaker 5: whole single life was literally documented on the Morning show. 256 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 5: And so it's like it's going to be like a 257 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 5: full circle moment to have him like a fishing kind 258 00:11:35,400 --> 00:11:36,680 Speaker 5: of like end that chapter for me. 259 00:11:36,760 --> 00:11:38,200 Speaker 4: You know, what do you think Ryan's going to get 260 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:39,079 Speaker 4: you as your wedding present? 261 00:11:40,280 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 7: You know, his presence is our present? 262 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 6: No? 263 00:11:45,240 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 4: Come on, I need well no, but yeah, but okay, 264 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:49,680 Speaker 4: all right, I got the answer. 265 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:50,319 Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't. 266 00:11:50,320 --> 00:11:52,280 Speaker 1: I want to imagine that Ryan's going to get you 267 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:53,439 Speaker 1: like a like a. 268 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:56,920 Speaker 2: House, like a like a white rose voice. 269 00:11:59,360 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 6: Next to you. 270 00:12:00,160 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 7: Yeah, it would be the dream, honestly. Yeah, yeah, no 271 00:12:04,880 --> 00:12:05,160 Speaker 7: I don't. 272 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:07,360 Speaker 5: It's so funny because we're actually talking about that. I 273 00:12:07,400 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 5: was like, I don't want I don't want anybody coming 274 00:12:10,320 --> 00:12:12,200 Speaker 5: to the wedding to like give us a gift, like 275 00:12:12,200 --> 00:12:14,560 Speaker 5: I'm going to toast her from like my best friends 276 00:12:14,559 --> 00:12:16,200 Speaker 5: that are coming to my wedding. 277 00:12:17,800 --> 00:12:18,560 Speaker 6: Special design. 278 00:12:18,679 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, I felt that way. I put like, no, you know, 279 00:12:23,000 --> 00:12:24,880 Speaker 3: I didn't have a registry. I was like, it's. 280 00:12:24,720 --> 00:12:27,480 Speaker 2: Fine, don't worry about it. You guys coming. Okay, I 281 00:12:28,080 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 2: seriously regret that. 282 00:12:29,520 --> 00:12:33,319 Speaker 4: Oh really, yes, you regret not having a registry. 283 00:12:34,679 --> 00:12:39,560 Speaker 3: Okay loves Okay, No, wait, back up. 284 00:12:39,640 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 1: Having a registry, because what would a registry do tell 285 00:12:44,040 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: people what to get you? 286 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:48,439 Speaker 3: Yeah, hey, people got you weird stuff. No, you guys, 287 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:52,200 Speaker 3: let me give you some context. Jessica has a registry 288 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 3: for her birthday, for. 289 00:12:54,000 --> 00:13:00,520 Speaker 6: Her birthday, not every amazing. 290 00:13:00,800 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 1: Superior and well, we know how you feel about it. 291 00:13:04,320 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 1: But let the women speak, because I just heard the 292 00:13:07,160 --> 00:13:11,280 Speaker 1: one a ramp up to this is a it's amazining. 293 00:13:11,559 --> 00:13:12,600 Speaker 4: She thinks it's amazing. 294 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:14,680 Speaker 2: Okay, let's go back to your story. 295 00:13:14,720 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 6: How a registry is. 296 00:13:15,920 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 3: I want to people really quick care about you to 297 00:13:18,559 --> 00:13:19,600 Speaker 3: Jessica's birthday. 298 00:13:19,800 --> 00:13:21,960 Speaker 2: There's a link to a registry. 299 00:13:21,480 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 6: For that's my dream. What I hate having to think 300 00:13:25,400 --> 00:13:27,400 Speaker 6: about what someone's gonna like for a gift. 301 00:13:27,240 --> 00:13:29,520 Speaker 4: And imagine if they were all different price points. 302 00:13:29,559 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 2: Perfect, I mean the fact that switch. 303 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 7: Yeah, actually, like. 304 00:13:37,720 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 5: I would actually, I don't know what I would do 305 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:42,280 Speaker 5: if somebody send me a link to their registry for 306 00:13:42,320 --> 00:13:47,840 Speaker 5: their birthday, I'd be like, no, I'm giving your pull off. 307 00:13:48,120 --> 00:13:48,480 Speaker 6: I know. 308 00:13:48,679 --> 00:13:51,080 Speaker 3: I did not have a registry for my wedding. I 309 00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 3: regretted it because all of my kitchen stuff is crap. 310 00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 3: It's stuff that I had from like my twenties, and 311 00:13:56,679 --> 00:13:59,440 Speaker 3: I could have done like a nice toaster or like 312 00:13:59,480 --> 00:14:02,440 Speaker 3: cooking Star. I still don't have stuff. 313 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:05,920 Speaker 4: Now I change. 314 00:14:06,000 --> 00:14:08,040 Speaker 7: I might change my mind on the birthday. 315 00:14:07,720 --> 00:14:10,400 Speaker 6: Coming up in December, I might start doing this because 316 00:14:10,480 --> 00:14:14,520 Speaker 6: like that, just I felt excited hearing about that. My God, 317 00:14:14,840 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 6: And now even if you didn't say like specifics, if 318 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:20,080 Speaker 6: it was like here's stores that I love, yeah, anything 319 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:22,080 Speaker 6: that you want to get me from that, yes, I 320 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:39,840 Speaker 6: love that. Okay, Becca, Yeah, do we hear wedding balls 321 00:14:39,880 --> 00:14:41,800 Speaker 6: for you? Oh? 322 00:14:41,840 --> 00:14:42,720 Speaker 2: How are you feeling? 323 00:14:43,360 --> 00:14:46,320 Speaker 6: I feel great about my relationship. But we've been together 324 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 6: for six years, I know, but we just officially moved 325 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:53,160 Speaker 6: in together last month, actually a couple months ago, but 326 00:14:53,240 --> 00:14:56,160 Speaker 6: she left and worked for three months in Canada. So yeah, 327 00:14:56,200 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 6: So she's asked me like three times every day if 328 00:15:00,080 --> 00:15:00,920 Speaker 6: I'm going to get married. 329 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:02,600 Speaker 5: She's going to keep it a secret. She's like, I'm 330 00:15:02,600 --> 00:15:04,160 Speaker 5: not going to tell anybody. So now I feel like 331 00:15:04,200 --> 00:15:05,560 Speaker 5: I have to ask her every day. 332 00:15:05,920 --> 00:15:09,560 Speaker 6: But when it happens, I'm just saying, I will propel anybody. 333 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:11,800 Speaker 6: I think it would eventually be both of us proposed, 334 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:13,640 Speaker 6: but I don't know. I would imagine I would. 335 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:16,800 Speaker 3: I would have time that though, you just do you 336 00:15:16,920 --> 00:15:19,680 Speaker 3: have the discussion beforehand of like, hey, this is going 337 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:21,520 Speaker 3: to be the day that we proposed to each other. 338 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 6: No, no, no, so romantic. 339 00:15:25,560 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 2: But she's for that you both proposed. 340 00:15:28,200 --> 00:15:31,760 Speaker 7: I think one doesn't like a couple of months. 341 00:15:31,600 --> 00:15:35,680 Speaker 6: Later on so that we both get to where, you know, 342 00:15:35,800 --> 00:15:40,720 Speaker 6: the room okay, but no, we are really just adjusting 343 00:15:40,720 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 6: the living together. But I know, like I want to 344 00:15:42,640 --> 00:15:44,120 Speaker 6: be with her, prepper, I'm not like a wedding, Like 345 00:15:44,120 --> 00:15:45,760 Speaker 6: I'm not like, oh, I dreamed of my wedding my 346 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:48,840 Speaker 6: whole life. You were on the Bachelor, listen, I know, 347 00:15:48,960 --> 00:15:49,920 Speaker 6: and I'm dating a woman. 348 00:15:49,960 --> 00:15:54,520 Speaker 2: Now there's room, there's room. 349 00:15:55,400 --> 00:15:57,000 Speaker 6: Grew up in the South, and I think there was 350 00:15:57,040 --> 00:15:59,680 Speaker 6: the expectation of, like you get married young kids, and 351 00:16:00,000 --> 00:16:01,520 Speaker 6: I was always like what I just assumed I was 352 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:04,480 Speaker 6: going to do? So The Bachelor felt very much unnatural 353 00:16:04,520 --> 00:16:06,240 Speaker 6: in the stance of how it was done. But I 354 00:16:06,280 --> 00:16:10,240 Speaker 6: was like, Okay, nothing, the apps aren't working. Let's see 355 00:16:10,240 --> 00:16:13,480 Speaker 6: if this works two times and yeah, did it? And 356 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 6: then I met her. I think two years after that. 357 00:16:16,240 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 2: Would you ever go back and watch old episodes? 358 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:21,560 Speaker 6: Oh? No, like watching I was. I want to. We'll 359 00:16:21,600 --> 00:16:24,480 Speaker 6: talk about this later. But watching yourself on a screen 360 00:16:24,560 --> 00:16:26,520 Speaker 6: like that is the most uncomfortable thing to me. 361 00:16:26,800 --> 00:16:28,160 Speaker 2: Well, that's so much worse. 362 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:29,120 Speaker 6: We played character. 363 00:16:29,160 --> 00:16:31,120 Speaker 4: I mean we yeah, we we had other people's words 364 00:16:31,120 --> 00:16:31,960 Speaker 4: so we could. 365 00:16:32,440 --> 00:16:36,560 Speaker 7: Watch was like a little like, well it wasn't me, yeah, right, 366 00:16:36,600 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 7: but right. 367 00:16:38,080 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 1: I actually find it strangely, and I've given what we're 368 00:16:40,040 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 1: doing right now. I find it hard to listen to myself. Yes, 369 00:16:44,080 --> 00:16:45,920 Speaker 1: I really had to hear yourself a voicemailing you like 370 00:16:45,920 --> 00:16:47,960 Speaker 1: who not me? 371 00:16:48,280 --> 00:16:50,000 Speaker 7: How I found Yeah? 372 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 6: No, so yeah that's what I did. 373 00:16:53,600 --> 00:16:56,560 Speaker 1: Wait, so you because because I had to be reminded 374 00:16:56,600 --> 00:16:58,200 Speaker 1: that you were on the Bachelor. So I have a question, 375 00:16:58,480 --> 00:17:00,960 Speaker 1: given that you have real life experience being on a 376 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:04,760 Speaker 1: show like that, do you have do you feel like 377 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 1: you feel differently or or do you what is your 378 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:11,679 Speaker 1: feeling and or impression of shows that catch fire like 379 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 1: Love Island? 380 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:14,760 Speaker 4: Like do you do you watch it? 381 00:17:15,400 --> 00:17:17,160 Speaker 6: Did you watch it? I'm not into Love Island? 382 00:17:17,880 --> 00:17:18,600 Speaker 2: Are there any. 383 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 4: Reality shows that you're into? 384 00:17:19,600 --> 00:17:22,560 Speaker 6: So I so my girlfriend loves The Bachelor like that 385 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:25,320 Speaker 6: I've never watched before I was on it. And then 386 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:27,119 Speaker 6: when I met her, she tried to act like she 387 00:17:27,400 --> 00:17:29,520 Speaker 6: didn't watch my seasons. I found out like a few 388 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:32,320 Speaker 6: months into our relationship she was like a diehard fan. 389 00:17:35,119 --> 00:17:37,199 Speaker 6: She was like, oh yeah, she's like I am. I 390 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:40,240 Speaker 6: think I started watching around Rachel Lindsay's season, which was 391 00:17:40,240 --> 00:17:42,639 Speaker 6: like a few after mine, and I was like, oh okay. 392 00:17:42,720 --> 00:17:44,359 Speaker 6: And then I found like an old you know, like 393 00:17:44,400 --> 00:17:46,760 Speaker 6: when you start dating somebody stalk their whole Instagram. I 394 00:17:46,800 --> 00:17:50,320 Speaker 6: like went like backfar and she did a literal Instagram 395 00:17:50,400 --> 00:17:52,679 Speaker 6: video where she's almost like it was almost like my 396 00:17:52,920 --> 00:17:56,399 Speaker 6: conversation with one of the Bachelor's verbatim no, because that 397 00:17:56,480 --> 00:17:58,159 Speaker 6: was a virgin. I was like, oh, I don't know 398 00:17:58,200 --> 00:18:01,359 Speaker 6: what I want to do, and and it was basically 399 00:18:01,440 --> 00:18:04,119 Speaker 6: like my conversation that she was acting out. And I 400 00:18:04,160 --> 00:18:06,639 Speaker 6: was like, this was the year that I was on 401 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 6: the Bachelor, So you literally were watching. 402 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:10,199 Speaker 1: I realized that I have to catch up here. But 403 00:18:10,280 --> 00:18:12,080 Speaker 1: you went on the Bachelor as a virgin. 404 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:14,600 Speaker 6: Oh yeah, yeah, okay, so I grew up the Christian. 405 00:18:15,080 --> 00:18:16,320 Speaker 7: That was my story for story. 406 00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:18,080 Speaker 6: So I didn't want it to be because I knew 407 00:18:18,119 --> 00:18:19,800 Speaker 6: as soon as they found out about that that was 408 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 6: gonna be my storyline. Yeah. There was another girl in 409 00:18:22,040 --> 00:18:23,800 Speaker 6: there who was a virgin. She was crying because she 410 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:25,160 Speaker 6: had just told him and she was like, I don't 411 00:18:25,160 --> 00:18:27,840 Speaker 6: know how he receiving right? Actually, I ah yeah, and 412 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,080 Speaker 6: I go, oh, I'm a virgin too, and like in 413 00:18:30,119 --> 00:18:32,159 Speaker 6: my mind I said it, and I was like I 414 00:18:32,160 --> 00:18:34,119 Speaker 6: have a microphone and like seven cameras on the right, 415 00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:35,960 Speaker 6: and I'm like damn. I was like I was trying 416 00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:39,639 Speaker 6: to not do that. And immediately a producer was like, Becca, 417 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:46,440 Speaker 6: come here, interview. Yeah, so that became like my storyline, gotcha, Yeah, when. 418 00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:49,360 Speaker 3: You're on the show, do you have to wear a 419 00:18:49,400 --> 00:18:50,840 Speaker 3: mic from the moment you wake up? 420 00:18:51,680 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 6: I was They kind of like would get so annoyed 421 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 6: with me because I would be. I would wait till 422 00:18:56,760 --> 00:18:58,520 Speaker 6: they had to come and find me to be like, Becky, 423 00:18:58,600 --> 00:19:00,520 Speaker 6: you have to put a microphone on because it was 424 00:19:00,560 --> 00:19:01,560 Speaker 6: like on your back all day. 425 00:19:01,560 --> 00:19:02,480 Speaker 7: It was so uncomfortable. 426 00:19:02,480 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 2: They are uncomfortable. 427 00:19:03,520 --> 00:19:05,480 Speaker 4: Old were you when you on the first time twenty six? 428 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:09,000 Speaker 6: But I was. I grew up very conservative, very Christian, 429 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:12,000 Speaker 6: so and in hindsight, I honestly think it may have 430 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:14,439 Speaker 6: been because I was more into women. But in my 431 00:19:14,520 --> 00:19:15,720 Speaker 6: mind it was easier. 432 00:19:15,400 --> 00:19:19,080 Speaker 7: To be like, yeah, right, it's religious. 433 00:19:18,359 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 6: You know. But yeah. I would get in the pool 434 00:19:22,240 --> 00:19:24,400 Speaker 6: because you could take your mic off when you were swimming, 435 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:27,159 Speaker 6: but it was they'd. 436 00:19:26,640 --> 00:19:27,320 Speaker 7: Be like, where's backup? 437 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:36,159 Speaker 6: I would try Yeah, So basically though, and then I 438 00:19:36,520 --> 00:19:37,960 Speaker 6: hated the fact that I had it when I was 439 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:40,760 Speaker 6: going to back I just like I felt it's so invasive, 440 00:19:41,200 --> 00:19:45,000 Speaker 6: super invasive. I feel like reality I know, but she 441 00:19:45,280 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 6: loves speaking of like reality shows. She's obsessed with all 442 00:19:48,040 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 6: violands and so I watched. 443 00:19:50,040 --> 00:19:54,159 Speaker 5: You Obsessed Cannot Get Enough, Like when I tell you like, 444 00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:56,160 Speaker 5: but not the USA only UK. 445 00:19:56,359 --> 00:19:57,680 Speaker 4: Yeah, I've heard that that one. 446 00:19:57,880 --> 00:20:01,680 Speaker 7: So UK. They're like next level, next level there there. 447 00:20:01,760 --> 00:20:04,160 Speaker 5: It's weird because they're all interacting, they're doing the same people, 448 00:20:04,200 --> 00:20:06,360 Speaker 5: but they do so respectfully. Yeah yeah yeah, and they're 449 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:08,119 Speaker 5: still drama, but they deal with it in such like 450 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:10,240 Speaker 5: a respectful, mature manner. 451 00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 4: That's what I've heard. 452 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:13,560 Speaker 7: Yes, So it's like so interesting to watch. 453 00:20:13,640 --> 00:20:15,600 Speaker 1: When I saw one episode of the American version and 454 00:20:15,600 --> 00:20:18,640 Speaker 1: I was like, this last season I swore, And because 455 00:20:18,680 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 1: I heard my my thirteen year old talking with her 456 00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:27,200 Speaker 1: friends because we're a little bit like I'm very wary 457 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:29,760 Speaker 1: of the social media and kids and all that stuff, 458 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:32,880 Speaker 1: so I kind of toe that line. And they don't 459 00:20:32,920 --> 00:20:35,760 Speaker 1: have social media, so they you know, she just got 460 00:20:35,800 --> 00:20:39,080 Speaker 1: Snapchat and she gets like twenty minutes a day, thirteen. 461 00:20:39,240 --> 00:20:39,720 Speaker 4: She's thirteen. 462 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:44,800 Speaker 1: She just got a phone, and so I think she's 463 00:20:44,800 --> 00:20:47,000 Speaker 1: figured out different little workarounds. 464 00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:52,320 Speaker 7: Yeah, I love. 465 00:20:52,200 --> 00:20:56,119 Speaker 1: You, Eve, And so she was talking to some friends 466 00:20:56,160 --> 00:20:58,520 Speaker 1: about it, and it's like whether she would be at 467 00:20:58,520 --> 00:21:00,520 Speaker 1: someone else's house and maybe they won't have it all 468 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:04,600 Speaker 1: or I think you can find everything on YouTube. 469 00:21:04,720 --> 00:21:04,920 Speaker 3: Yeah. 470 00:21:04,920 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 2: YouTube. 471 00:21:06,400 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 1: So anyways, it was put into my consciousness and then 472 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:14,199 Speaker 1: I thought, well, I should see like some piece of 473 00:21:14,200 --> 00:21:16,280 Speaker 1: this before I'm saying how horrible it is or or 474 00:21:17,000 --> 00:21:21,040 Speaker 1: whatever you know. And so I watched one episode like 475 00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:23,200 Speaker 1: I wanted to like burn my eyeballs out. 476 00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:28,440 Speaker 4: This cannot be watched by my thirteen year old child. 477 00:21:28,280 --> 00:21:31,000 Speaker 5: So till your thirteen year old to watch the UK version, 478 00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 5: Thank you. It's much more sophisticated. 479 00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:37,560 Speaker 7: Yeah mannered, Yeah, manner mannered. 480 00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:38,399 Speaker 6: Oh my god. 481 00:21:38,680 --> 00:21:41,520 Speaker 3: I speaking of reality, I've just gotten her started on 482 00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:45,440 Speaker 3: the Mormon Uh yeah. 483 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:48,120 Speaker 5: The Secret Lives. So I just started it. I'm only 484 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:49,080 Speaker 5: one episode in, so. 485 00:21:49,119 --> 00:21:50,080 Speaker 6: Don't yeah I can. 486 00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 2: I'm not going to spoil it. 487 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:54,359 Speaker 6: People love it, people are going crazy over it. Yeah yeah. 488 00:21:54,400 --> 00:21:57,440 Speaker 6: But everyone was obsessed with Love Island USA. 489 00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 5: Island USA was top tier television. When I tell you 490 00:22:02,800 --> 00:22:05,399 Speaker 5: you liked it, Oh, so I swore off USA. I 491 00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,720 Speaker 5: was like, I will never watch Love Island USA ever, 492 00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:11,919 Speaker 5: Like never, And then UK this last season, I was 493 00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:14,040 Speaker 5: watching it and it was really bad, and I was like, 494 00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:16,720 Speaker 5: I need my fix in the summer. So I heard 495 00:22:16,760 --> 00:22:18,560 Speaker 5: everybody was like in the USA, So I went over 496 00:22:18,600 --> 00:22:22,640 Speaker 5: to the USA and it was phenomenal. So this last season, 497 00:22:23,280 --> 00:22:25,800 Speaker 5: hats off. They deserved some awards for this last season 498 00:22:25,840 --> 00:22:32,000 Speaker 5: because it was any dating reality show. I'm like, there, yeah, wow, yeah, 499 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:32,960 Speaker 5: wow yeah. 500 00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:33,720 Speaker 7: Love is Blind. 501 00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:37,080 Speaker 5: Love is Blind UK, Mexico, USA. 502 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:41,160 Speaker 6: Yes, you can get a nuddy anywhere. 503 00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:57,399 Speaker 2: Can we talk about Taylor Swift? 504 00:22:58,000 --> 00:22:58,560 Speaker 6: Oh? Sure? 505 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:00,000 Speaker 7: So Beck as best friend? 506 00:23:00,440 --> 00:23:00,760 Speaker 6: Yes? 507 00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:03,640 Speaker 3: So so we have we you know, before we do podcasts, 508 00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:05,880 Speaker 3: we get notes on things. And I was like, yay 509 00:23:06,000 --> 00:23:08,359 Speaker 3: yy I know these girls. And I was like, wait 510 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:16,000 Speaker 3: a tick. Taylor Swift knew about you and Haley before 511 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:17,600 Speaker 3: anybody else did. 512 00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:22,680 Speaker 6: Not before anybody else but before my parents? How how 513 00:23:22,800 --> 00:23:26,760 Speaker 6: this is actually such a crazy story. So we love it. 514 00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:30,199 Speaker 6: My girlfriend Haley, she's a singer and she was on 515 00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:32,040 Speaker 6: tour with She was opening for a Panic at the 516 00:23:32,040 --> 00:23:34,440 Speaker 6: disco at the time, and she was on the same 517 00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,840 Speaker 6: tour schedule kind of as Taylor, and so Taylor reached 518 00:23:37,840 --> 00:23:39,879 Speaker 6: out and asked if she wanted to perform with her 519 00:23:40,040 --> 00:23:43,800 Speaker 6: during her reputation tour, and so Haley, Haley was like 520 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,680 Speaker 6: really respected Taylor, but wasn't like, didn't know like a 521 00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:48,760 Speaker 6: tonuber of music or anything, you know, just very like 522 00:23:48,800 --> 00:23:50,959 Speaker 6: respected her as an artist, but she knew I was 523 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:55,000 Speaker 6: like obsessed with Taylor. And she's like, oh, they just 524 00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:56,680 Speaker 6: called and we're going to be in Boston at the 525 00:23:56,680 --> 00:23:58,200 Speaker 6: same time. They want me to come out and perform 526 00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 6: Curious with her during the concert, and I was like, 527 00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:04,800 Speaker 6: I'm flying out. Tell me to day. When is this happening. So, 528 00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:08,200 Speaker 6: in for context, we met in April, basically started dating 529 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 6: as soon as we met. She went on tour, and 530 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:14,600 Speaker 6: then this was in July. So however, many months okay three, 531 00:24:15,040 --> 00:24:17,520 Speaker 6: all my friends knew about us. My sisters lived with 532 00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:20,200 Speaker 6: me at the time, my two younger sisters, and so 533 00:24:20,240 --> 00:24:23,440 Speaker 6: I fly out there and she goes on stage performs. 534 00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,040 Speaker 6: I'm in like the friends and family section with Mama 535 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:28,360 Speaker 6: Swift like I'm just like, this is the coolest thing ever. 536 00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:32,120 Speaker 6: And I'm videoing my girlfriend on stage with Taylor Swift. 537 00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,240 Speaker 6: I'm like, this is so epic, you know. So we 538 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:39,119 Speaker 6: go back to Haley's green room, Haley and her mom 539 00:24:39,320 --> 00:24:41,840 Speaker 6: go to Taylor's dressing room with Taylor and her mom 540 00:24:41,920 --> 00:24:44,200 Speaker 6: and they're chatting. I'm in Haley's green room, I'm looking 541 00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:47,080 Speaker 6: at videos. I'm like, this is incredible, and my mom 542 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 6: texted me and she was like she had known about 543 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:52,720 Speaker 6: like Hailey's name, but she was like, do you like 544 00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:54,200 Speaker 6: Haley more than a friend. 545 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:57,400 Speaker 2: At the same time on that night yeaheah. So I'm 546 00:24:57,440 --> 00:24:59,320 Speaker 2: like looking for my foot off that night. 547 00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 6: I don't no, I guess because she knew. I think 548 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:06,160 Speaker 6: I told her like I'm going to Boston Haley's performing whatever. Yeah, 549 00:25:06,200 --> 00:25:09,800 Speaker 6: So my mom texts me that I'm like staring at 550 00:25:09,800 --> 00:25:12,400 Speaker 6: my phone, and Haley's security guard comes over and he's like, hey, 551 00:25:12,840 --> 00:25:15,239 Speaker 6: Taylor wants to say hi, So I'm going to take 552 00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,480 Speaker 6: you to her dressing room. So like i go in 553 00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:21,119 Speaker 6: with the most heavy feeling because I'm like, I'm about 554 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:27,280 Speaker 6: to meet my favorite celebrity ever and I have to 555 00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:29,400 Speaker 6: come out to my mom tonight. Like it was just 556 00:25:29,560 --> 00:25:33,960 Speaker 6: so this like crazy balance. So we talked about I 557 00:25:33,960 --> 00:25:36,240 Speaker 6: think we talked like Bachelor in Paradise or something. It 558 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,720 Speaker 6: was like, she's so you've met her. 559 00:25:38,600 --> 00:25:41,280 Speaker 7: She's so she's the best normal. 560 00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:45,639 Speaker 6: She's so like intentional, like when she's having a conversation, 561 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:48,040 Speaker 6: it's very like you're the person she's talking to. She 562 00:25:48,080 --> 00:25:52,040 Speaker 6: doesn't care what's going on. And then yeah, I had 563 00:25:52,080 --> 00:25:54,200 Speaker 6: to go on Haley's bus and have a very hard 564 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:56,840 Speaker 6: conversation with my mom. 565 00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:57,440 Speaker 7: Crazy. 566 00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:02,080 Speaker 3: That's an insane story, and I'm very jealous. 567 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:06,800 Speaker 4: I feel like there's so many different layers to that. 568 00:26:06,880 --> 00:26:08,400 Speaker 2: There's there had to have been. 569 00:26:09,440 --> 00:26:11,520 Speaker 4: I'm I'm when we talking about I'm a little more 570 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:11,920 Speaker 4: woo woo. 571 00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:14,159 Speaker 1: I'm a little more like the destiny of it, Like 572 00:26:14,320 --> 00:26:16,280 Speaker 1: things happened right when they're meant to happen, all that 573 00:26:16,280 --> 00:26:20,880 Speaker 1: stuff for that to happen, because to have something that's 574 00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:25,359 Speaker 1: so so hard sitting side by side something that was 575 00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 1: so so fantastic, the true I mean, that's incredible, right 576 00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:33,080 Speaker 1: that you got to feel those two things and maybe 577 00:26:33,119 --> 00:26:35,560 Speaker 1: even use some of the energy from I'm with my 578 00:26:35,840 --> 00:26:39,040 Speaker 1: most favorite artists in the world, and I think that 579 00:26:39,119 --> 00:26:41,600 Speaker 1: there's like an emotional contagion that happens between people. So 580 00:26:41,640 --> 00:26:44,720 Speaker 1: like that bolstering and that confidence and that like joy 581 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:49,080 Speaker 1: got to come and be in your story of doing 582 00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:50,440 Speaker 1: something you thought it was gonna be really hard. 583 00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,439 Speaker 7: Yeah that's cool. 584 00:26:52,680 --> 00:26:56,639 Speaker 5: Yeah, it was a lot crazy, crazy tense. 585 00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:57,960 Speaker 4: I love that. 586 00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:58,720 Speaker 6: I love that. 587 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,560 Speaker 3: I have a question about just podcasting, okay, because we 588 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:04,960 Speaker 3: are the podcast. 589 00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:06,200 Speaker 2: Babies compared to you guys. 590 00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:12,040 Speaker 3: You guys are like the varsity, the seniors. What are 591 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:17,000 Speaker 3: some tips for us to be better at tips and 592 00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:18,360 Speaker 3: tricks for us. 593 00:27:18,440 --> 00:27:19,880 Speaker 2: To be better at our jobs? 594 00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:21,920 Speaker 7: You're just such a nerd. 595 00:27:24,680 --> 00:27:27,440 Speaker 2: What are some things that you guys learned along the way. 596 00:27:28,840 --> 00:27:31,080 Speaker 3: I bet you're like, I wish I knew it from 597 00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,199 Speaker 3: day one when I started this podcast. 598 00:27:33,200 --> 00:27:34,480 Speaker 2: I wish I knew this this. 599 00:27:35,160 --> 00:27:38,600 Speaker 5: I feel like we've been doing it for seven years 600 00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:41,440 Speaker 5: and there's gonna be people in your ear that tell 601 00:27:41,480 --> 00:27:43,120 Speaker 5: you to do it this way, or do this way, 602 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:44,679 Speaker 5: or talk to this person or how you know. 603 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:45,920 Speaker 7: I always feel like. 604 00:27:45,960 --> 00:27:50,760 Speaker 5: Our gut is always right on things like if we're 605 00:27:50,800 --> 00:27:53,600 Speaker 5: having fun and we're liking the people that we're having 606 00:27:53,640 --> 00:27:57,399 Speaker 5: on the podcast is great. If we're not having fun 607 00:27:57,640 --> 00:27:59,520 Speaker 5: and it's not someone that we want to talk to, 608 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:04,480 Speaker 5: it's not enjoyable. So I think, like, just listen to 609 00:28:04,480 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 5: your gut and your intuition. I think that's like my 610 00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:07,680 Speaker 5: biggest thing. 611 00:28:08,119 --> 00:28:12,320 Speaker 6: And also I feel like the like my most vulnerable 612 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:15,880 Speaker 6: episodes where I left the like recording being like, oh god, 613 00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:17,880 Speaker 6: do I need them to take that hour or edit, 614 00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,080 Speaker 6: you know, but have decided to leave it in have 615 00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:23,080 Speaker 6: been the most like impactful moments of the podcast, like 616 00:28:23,280 --> 00:28:25,560 Speaker 6: our vulnerable moments where we cry. You know. It's just 617 00:28:25,920 --> 00:28:28,639 Speaker 6: I think that's what people listen to podcasts for, especially 618 00:28:28,680 --> 00:28:31,680 Speaker 6: when it's a relationship in terms of friendship and they 619 00:28:31,720 --> 00:28:34,720 Speaker 6: want to know you. There's this element of vulnerability with 620 00:28:34,840 --> 00:28:38,680 Speaker 6: podcasts that people gravitate towards because they essentially are listening. 621 00:28:38,720 --> 00:28:41,280 Speaker 6: And obviously y'all are y'all are celebrities and people have 622 00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,760 Speaker 6: y'all in this like y'all are their favorite from their 623 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:47,400 Speaker 6: favorite TV show ever, so there's a difference in that, 624 00:28:47,480 --> 00:28:50,760 Speaker 6: but they're listening because they love you, guys, and they 625 00:28:50,760 --> 00:28:52,400 Speaker 6: want to hear about your lives and it doesn't have 626 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:54,800 Speaker 6: to be so polished. My girlfriend has a really hard 627 00:28:54,800 --> 00:28:57,200 Speaker 6: time with social media, for instance, because she's a traditional 628 00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:00,120 Speaker 6: actress and artist. So the social media of it, all 629 00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:02,880 Speaker 6: of it all is intimidating to her because it's very 630 00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:06,320 Speaker 6: casual in the sense that it's, yeah, it's not filtered, 631 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:11,600 Speaker 6: it's not edited, whereas traditional creative people are used to 632 00:29:11,640 --> 00:29:13,720 Speaker 6: that needing like it to be perfect and look a 633 00:29:13,760 --> 00:29:16,680 Speaker 6: certain way. And so I think that's the most The 634 00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 6: thing that I've noticed is when we're the most authentic 635 00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:22,640 Speaker 6: and raw and just like vulnerable with our feelings and 636 00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:23,560 Speaker 6: how what we're doing. 637 00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:25,920 Speaker 5: If we mess something up and we're like, should do 638 00:29:25,920 --> 00:29:27,320 Speaker 5: it over, and then we're like, no, keep it in. 639 00:29:27,400 --> 00:29:29,640 Speaker 5: We'll just keep it all in, just let it, let 640 00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:29,880 Speaker 5: it go. 641 00:29:30,600 --> 00:29:32,680 Speaker 6: But I listened to y'all's podcast, and I feel like 642 00:29:32,760 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 6: y'all do such a y'all's banter. So it's when you 643 00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:39,360 Speaker 6: have natural chemistry with someone's huge, it makes the biggest No, 644 00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:40,440 Speaker 6: that's giving. 645 00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:44,160 Speaker 4: Her a little shoulder on camera shoulder. 646 00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,240 Speaker 2: No, I think we're finding that too, something that Jessica. 647 00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:49,400 Speaker 4: Gave her a wink. 648 00:29:53,080 --> 00:29:53,160 Speaker 6: No. 649 00:29:53,280 --> 00:29:55,360 Speaker 3: I think something that jess and I I've talked about 650 00:29:55,680 --> 00:29:58,280 Speaker 3: before we started the pod was that we are so 651 00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:04,440 Speaker 3: used as actors, used to being polished and making sure 652 00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:08,440 Speaker 3: we don't say the wrong thing quote unquote, and you know, 653 00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:12,320 Speaker 3: giving an answer, buttoning it, moving on. And this was 654 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:17,240 Speaker 3: initially kind of intimidating and exciting all at the same time, 655 00:30:17,320 --> 00:30:19,280 Speaker 3: because we were like, Okay, we're going to have to 656 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:21,400 Speaker 3: get vulnerable and we're not. 657 00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:24,240 Speaker 2: We that's not really are mo O normally. 658 00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,920 Speaker 1: Well, I think that for when you're an actor, you 659 00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,120 Speaker 1: are usually representing a project. 660 00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:32,120 Speaker 4: When you're reviewed or you're in front of camera or 661 00:30:32,160 --> 00:30:33,120 Speaker 4: being heard. 662 00:30:33,280 --> 00:30:36,680 Speaker 1: Yes, and in pot when you're on a podcast, you're 663 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:42,200 Speaker 1: representing yourself and so that transition from I'm representing someone 664 00:30:42,200 --> 00:30:44,280 Speaker 1: else and how they would like for this project to 665 00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:48,400 Speaker 1: be represented, right, and I'm representing myself and I need 666 00:30:48,440 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 1: to trust for me. 667 00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:50,960 Speaker 4: Like the biggest thing has been. 668 00:30:50,800 --> 00:30:57,640 Speaker 1: That that equal parts trust and connection, which is you know, 669 00:30:57,920 --> 00:31:00,640 Speaker 1: because we're all looking for that. Even when you're just 670 00:31:00,680 --> 00:31:02,760 Speaker 1: listening and you're listening in on you know, I mean 671 00:31:02,800 --> 00:31:04,480 Speaker 1: listening to both of you talk, it's like there's this 672 00:31:04,560 --> 00:31:09,400 Speaker 1: incredible dynamic knowing and belonging and trust and all that stuff, 673 00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,520 Speaker 1: and you hear it when you guys are when you're 674 00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:16,760 Speaker 1: just talking. And I think that that you know, people 675 00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:18,840 Speaker 1: want to tune into. And I think that in the 676 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:21,680 Speaker 1: beginning for us, it was it's been so new that 677 00:31:21,760 --> 00:31:23,920 Speaker 1: you sort of like you're still doing the razzle dazzle 678 00:31:23,960 --> 00:31:26,480 Speaker 1: on some level, like what is the thing like what's 679 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:27,920 Speaker 1: going to be entertaining or right? 680 00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:28,360 Speaker 6: Right? 681 00:31:28,720 --> 00:31:30,560 Speaker 1: And I think that it's wild to think that in 682 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:34,080 Speaker 1: this in this medium, you kind of like the less 683 00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:36,760 Speaker 1: entertaining that you try to be the better. 684 00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:39,600 Speaker 7: I think something is I think like you're you. That's 685 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:39,960 Speaker 7: the thing. 686 00:31:40,040 --> 00:31:42,440 Speaker 5: Like the people that listen to your podcast are like 687 00:31:42,560 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 5: listening for you, and they will come with you and 688 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,200 Speaker 5: they will do life with you, and they will that 689 00:31:48,280 --> 00:31:50,240 Speaker 5: they're there for you. And so it's like I think 690 00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:55,000 Speaker 5: that's been like it's such a beautiful relationship because it's 691 00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:57,080 Speaker 5: like you meet these people, like when we did some 692 00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,000 Speaker 5: of our live shows, it's like you meet these people 693 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:01,880 Speaker 5: and they've been invested and they like know so much 694 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:03,680 Speaker 5: of you and your life and your story, and they 695 00:32:03,720 --> 00:32:05,680 Speaker 5: relate to things and at the end of the day, 696 00:32:05,760 --> 00:32:09,840 Speaker 5: like human connection, we all no matter what celebrity non celebrity, 697 00:32:10,040 --> 00:32:12,080 Speaker 5: we all deal with the same stuff. So it's like 698 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:14,560 Speaker 5: you're you find people that are kind of in similar 699 00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:18,760 Speaker 5: life phases, Like I get women that DM me about dating, divorced, 700 00:32:18,880 --> 00:32:21,440 Speaker 5: dads with kids and how do you navigate that? And 701 00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:23,640 Speaker 5: you know, like all these different things that they connect 702 00:32:23,680 --> 00:32:25,360 Speaker 5: with you on And I think that's the thing is 703 00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:28,440 Speaker 5: it's like that's what resonates, that's what sticks. Those are 704 00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:29,800 Speaker 5: the people that are going to stick with you. So 705 00:32:29,840 --> 00:32:31,840 Speaker 5: if you just go with your gut and like always 706 00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:35,400 Speaker 5: stay true to that, that's what's gonna hold strong you know. 707 00:32:35,760 --> 00:32:37,680 Speaker 6: I was also gonna say one of my favorite episode, 708 00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:41,360 Speaker 6: whatever listener's favorite episode is the story about we were 709 00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:43,480 Speaker 6: in a nail salon. I was just gonna go into 710 00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:46,560 Speaker 6: the Voulderville thank you so much, and Tanya got up 711 00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:48,840 Speaker 6: from the nail salon and parted, and it like kept 712 00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:49,840 Speaker 6: going and it's like. 713 00:32:49,960 --> 00:32:55,440 Speaker 7: We were hard story for twenty minutes. 714 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 6: Every time I stepped, it was like it just kept 715 00:32:57,960 --> 00:33:00,400 Speaker 6: farting walking and it kept I was like. 716 00:33:00,480 --> 00:33:01,880 Speaker 5: I was in this phase of life where I was 717 00:33:01,920 --> 00:33:04,880 Speaker 5: too sugar free gum, like it was like my job and. 718 00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:08,600 Speaker 7: I didn't know the impact that it was going to. 719 00:33:08,600 --> 00:33:12,360 Speaker 2: Happen GI and I got that impact. 720 00:33:13,120 --> 00:33:16,160 Speaker 5: I felt the impact of listeners and it was like 721 00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:17,760 Speaker 5: one of our most listened to podcasts. 722 00:33:17,800 --> 00:33:19,920 Speaker 7: And it was like literally about me aarready get nails. 723 00:33:19,960 --> 00:33:24,640 Speaker 6: I'm just learning about vulnerability, a real true life. And 724 00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:27,880 Speaker 6: I wanted to ask a question that has nothing to 725 00:33:27,960 --> 00:33:31,480 Speaker 6: do with that. I want to talk about you if 726 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:36,440 Speaker 6: you have pistol woman, since your Gray's anatomy day, but 727 00:33:38,520 --> 00:33:46,240 Speaker 6: you're gonna do the answer, you know. 728 00:33:46,320 --> 00:33:47,360 Speaker 4: My eyes were locked on hers. 729 00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:48,560 Speaker 2: I was like, what is it going to come out 730 00:33:48,600 --> 00:33:49,600 Speaker 2: of her next? 731 00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:53,480 Speaker 6: And I had no answer. I want to know the answer. 732 00:33:54,880 --> 00:33:57,080 Speaker 7: We're going to transition into scrubbing. 733 00:33:57,160 --> 00:34:03,480 Speaker 6: In part two, The Stoking tapped on a steep and 734 00:34:03,880 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 6: tapped in the street.