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Speaker 1: welcome back to Horrible Decisions. Unfortunately, Mandy had another obligation today,

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Speaker 1: so I have special guests and Alex English is going

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Speaker 1: to be Mandy today. Do you know anything?

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Speaker 2: Mandy says, we need one Mandy ism.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I don't know. I wish I'm a bad friend.

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Speaker 3: First of all, we go no, he said, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't listen to the podcast but our Black Girl, So

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Speaker 1: it's not y'all.

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Speaker 3: It's not y'all. I don't really listen to anybody's podcast.

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Speaker 3: I know, look like, do you.

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Speaker 1: Know how I described you today to someone? I said, Oh,

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Speaker 1: we have today. He said, why do I know that name?

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Speaker 1: I was like, he's a Twitter nigga.

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Speaker 3: That's how I started.

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Speaker 1: Now, our special guest today is Punky Johnson Special all right,

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Speaker 1: you might know her and Alex Bunk bleeply bleep the acronym.

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Speaker 3: You're not saying that.

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Speaker 2: People? We don't know who to say it because of

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Speaker 2: the strike, can we? Yes?

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Speaker 1: All right?

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Speaker 2: Look at.

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Speaker 3: My health is Shir's on spring I'm behind the scenes.

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Speaker 2: I see you don't listen to watch you don't know

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Speaker 2: you from love Life?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Uh huh, I was you know what. Niggas don't watch

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Speaker 3: Forgot, Yes, they they just watch it on YouTube.

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Speaker 2: Alex and I literally.

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Speaker 1: Saw each other last week when I threw up all

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Speaker 3: I thought you were just fucked up. I didn't know

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Speaker 1: a new podcast out, yeah with your co hosts who

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Speaker 1: loved this show but ain't here. It's fine, tell.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, man, y'all gotta listen to Love thank podcast download subscribe.

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Speaker 4: I'm just sitting up there being stupid with my bestie

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Speaker 4: giving unsolicited, unprofessional love advice.

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Speaker 2: That's all.

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Speaker 1: Are people writing in?

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Speaker 2: Some people write in, some people call in. I mean,

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Speaker 4: If I ask a question for somebody to come be

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Speaker 1: That's the pint that needs to be started, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: We're in the tang wig.

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Speaker 4: Well, it's so crazy because people rather write a letter

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Speaker 4: then jump on to me too. They don't like want

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Speaker 4: Like we need letters for podcasts. But I'm also be

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Speaker 4: thinking like who the fuck would type this ship up

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Speaker 1: Bro, We've had people fuck their sisters, their stepsisters, brother

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Speaker 1: Like it's so it's like Maury the last seven years

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Speaker 3: Gen we are Ricky Lake, Sly Jesse.

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Speaker 1: show host, who would you be?

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Speaker 2: I love Ricky Lake. She was she was one of

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Speaker 2: my face. Are you saying that because Ricky looked a

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Speaker 4: I was just talking about rickyla your face. It was

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Speaker 3: Right, it's mantel for me, Williams. Ricky just had the

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Speaker 1: I mean she is now, but back in the day.

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Speaker 4: Maybe when they broke up our cities all the black

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Speaker 2: That's not like it would be a good power cup.

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Speaker 1: That is what happened. She wouldn't have been all these

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Speaker 1: thinkings to jail a black man, all right. I have

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Speaker 1: We always asked. Okay, eat asked toes both you have

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Speaker 4: So I ask the oops, I was first really know

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Speaker 4: I don't like why you little look like well her

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Speaker 1: I'll do it.

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Speaker 4: I'll do it if I like, really really, if we

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Speaker 4: And as it takes me some time to get right there,

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Speaker 2: To playing you on the stomach. What the is some wax?

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Speaker 2: And if I need to? I mean, how you get

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Speaker 3: Is it crazy that I eat as what? I don't

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Speaker 3: No, same, because I don't even like my own feet.

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Speaker 2: So this is a question. I have to ask this question.

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Speaker 1: You'll you'll the man say.

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Speaker 2: You boy, but girl, But if I have I prefer girl.

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Speaker 1: Better man but I have never been there.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to go there.

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Speaker 2: Face today.

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Speaker 3: The curtain doesn't mash, the drape, the.

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Speaker 1: Wait gain niggas got to have a way cleaner and

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Speaker 3: When you're about god her. It's really well, not all

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Speaker 3: because I used to just like bottom, what is age

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Speaker 2: You mean flip flop like top of bottle versustive.

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Speaker 4: You know what age players of age has done that

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Speaker 3: I've been flip flopping myself. What is really and then lesbian?

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Speaker 4: Well, first of all, I'm not taking I'm not taking

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Speaker 4: those strap. Let's just say that, right, Really, that's what

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Speaker 4: I thought you meant. No, I ain't taking those strap,

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Speaker 4: but I'll take a finger from time to time. Right now,

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Speaker 4: you be getting finger blasted, not not plasted, just from

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Speaker 4: top from top, like still fingering.

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Speaker 2: In twenty twenty three, I would sing fucking lesbian. Yes,

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Speaker 2: I think.

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Speaker 4: I've probably been fingered maybe four times in the last

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Speaker 4: two weeks.

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Speaker 3: The fact that you can count in the.

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Speaker 1: I mean, well, I guess you only really need tatorious

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Speaker 4: I just just get up on here, right on this thing,

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Speaker 4: and I'm tight. Well see, I'm also from a place

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Speaker 2: So what you mean?

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Speaker 4: It's like, so I'm from New Orleans, and when I

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Speaker 1: Is it is it funked up that it's confusing all

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Speaker 3: Please let me be the first person you tell after

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Speaker 4: But if I pregnant, it'll be all for the love

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Speaker 3: Yea interesting we're talking about pregnancy when my shoe looks

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Speaker 1: Bluey Actually was one of my questions for you later,

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Speaker 2: It's been a question that everybody wants to know from

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Speaker 3: The fingering question I just asked.

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Speaker 4: The it's the comments like you, Oh, you haven't met

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Speaker 4: I asked questions like have you ever got dick? And

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Okay, wait, platinum, right, can you tell us I

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Speaker 1: It wasn't good enough.

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Speaker 4: First of all, I didn't want to do it. All right,

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Speaker 4: And it wasn't the fact that she didn't like me

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Speaker 4: She's like, I just can't have my child out there

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Speaker 2: So I was like, all right, I'm gonna try. I'm

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Speaker 4: But I did so when I did have sex, I

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Speaker 4: I didn't do it because I wanted it.

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Speaker 1: I had to.

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Speaker 2: I thought this story was gonna get that. My father's

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Speaker 2: part isn't sad. But I thought this I didn't want it.

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Speaker 1: But this is interesting because very rarely when we talk

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Speaker 1: I tried it for my family.

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Speaker 3: I did it for my death. Yes, I do for

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Speaker 4: Oh, I understand but I was like, I'll eat it,

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Speaker 4: I'll try it, and I know I wasn't like, all.

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Speaker 1: Right, you know what I want to know now while

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Speaker 1: on coming off stories in the row, I would love

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Speaker 1: that your first experience with the opposite.

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Speaker 3: Six Well, mine was actually very traumatic. Uh. I was

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Speaker 3: heard all the gay jokes, you know, as a teenager.

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Speaker 2: Book.

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Speaker 3: There was a girl in the projects and her name

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Speaker 3: was shay Sheha, and I remember specifically being in my

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Speaker 3: Alex and Sha shehe. They getting ready to get busy.

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Speaker 3: there and y'all you go, you go. Fuck. So I

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Speaker 2: Oh.

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Speaker 3: Now, what I didn't know was that it was a

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Speaker 3: I know nothing. I don't know how to I don't

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Speaker 3: She's taking full control of everything that's going down. And

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Speaker 2: Oh that is traumatic.

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Speaker 3: So that's my villain. That's my gay villain origin story.

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Speaker 1: That's your first sexual experience.

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Speaker 3: That was my first time ever. Did you nail her

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Speaker 3: with anyone?

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Speaker 1: You know, no finishing round?

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Speaker 3: I don't even remember. I don't even really remember being

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Speaker 2: But did you know that you were get at the time.

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Speaker 3: I think you know, like at sixteen, you kind of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean eight years old, my mom told me

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Speaker 3: And he had to be like a year younger than me,

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Speaker 1: That's a good one.

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Speaker 3: I don't know whatever it became. I don't know whatever happened.

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Speaker 3: Get a video game, started playing, Get on your switch,

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Speaker 3: and like you know, he was half black, half Jewish.

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Speaker 3: What he was drinking, he was drinking. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what happened to you. I don't know

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Speaker 3: if you're out.

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Speaker 1: There, if he probably rs Yeah, what was George bucket

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Speaker 1: By coming out story? Was your first girl experience opposite

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Speaker 1: sex experience? Oh god, what you were talking about?

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Speaker 4: Man, it's very different because for women it's it's not

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Speaker 4: I don't think.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I've talked to so many women.

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Speaker 4: I don't think there's a great first experience because first

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Speaker 4: And second of all, we probably dealing with somebody who's

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Speaker 2: Had an experiences that you wanted to Like he said,

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Speaker 4: I mean, did you have any experiences of men where

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Speaker 2: No day ever, you never want having a dick in

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Speaker 1: So the experiences you had were truly just trying to

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Speaker 4: Then Oh yeah, I had to mentally say, okay, I'm

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Speaker 2: Yes, I was gay for.

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Speaker 1: Let me see, I was gay for like the middle

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Speaker 2: I can't sleep with other women.

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Speaker 1: It's almost so I'm so still hung up on her

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00:18:51,280 --> 00:18:53,800
Speaker 1: that my women experiences are very tied to her still.

445
00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:56,320
Speaker 4: But that is crazy. I just said, because I got

446
00:18:56,320 --> 00:18:59,840
Speaker 4: another friend, same thing. She she went gay for the

447
00:19:00,040 --> 00:19:03,760
Speaker 4: first time I ever met some woman, and she's like, hell,

448
00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:06,880
Speaker 4: I can't get over this bitch. I'm like, what the fuck?

449
00:19:06,960 --> 00:19:08,639
Speaker 4: She was like, y'all bitches, y'all got some type of

450
00:19:08,760 --> 00:19:10,919
Speaker 4: just jiu jitsu ship that y'all be working with.

451
00:19:11,000 --> 00:19:14,080
Speaker 2: It fucked me up. We do have the ability to

452
00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:14,399
Speaker 2: do that.

453
00:19:14,640 --> 00:19:18,160
Speaker 3: Still, I'd be interested in dating woman if she were okay,

454
00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:22,800
Speaker 3: feminine woman. Uh, feminine woman, fine, but there are some

455
00:19:22,880 --> 00:19:26,440
Speaker 3: really fine studs out there. Sometimes I'd be like, and.

456
00:19:26,440 --> 00:19:27,720
Speaker 2: You know what makes it.

457
00:19:27,640 --> 00:19:32,199
Speaker 1: It's like my friends.

458
00:19:32,040 --> 00:19:36,919
Speaker 3: Brittany Grinder. I would climb that tree. I really would.

459
00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:39,160
Speaker 2: Climb that tree because where I come from.

460
00:19:39,160 --> 00:19:39,760
Speaker 3: Gay, that's.

461
00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:47,399
Speaker 4: Never like but I never like approached you. No, we

462
00:19:47,440 --> 00:19:49,000
Speaker 4: can't do that. That's gay.

463
00:19:49,200 --> 00:19:52,480
Speaker 3: There are there are no bylaws. There are no laws

464
00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:54,760
Speaker 3: now that I'm now that.

465
00:19:55,000 --> 00:19:57,520
Speaker 4: Now that I'm growing up and I'm coming out of

466
00:19:58,600 --> 00:20:03,080
Speaker 4: you know, just following the cultural rules or whatever. The

467
00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:05,240
Speaker 4: I still wouldn't mess with a stud but I'm also

468
00:20:05,280 --> 00:20:07,040
Speaker 4: not gonna shut it down either. I'm not gonna sit

469
00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:08,359
Speaker 4: up there and just you know what I'm saying. Have

470
00:20:08,400 --> 00:20:10,520
Speaker 4: you ever had some sort of interaction with the stuff,

471
00:20:10,560 --> 00:20:13,399
Speaker 4: like the crazy thing? It was a white woman, and

472
00:20:13,600 --> 00:20:14,960
Speaker 4: I remember it was like ten years ago.

473
00:20:15,200 --> 00:20:16,080
Speaker 3: I was a coaitress.

474
00:20:17,840 --> 00:20:23,159
Speaker 4: We didn't do anything, but she I was. She She

475
00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:24,840
Speaker 4: used to come see me at work. I was a waitress.

476
00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:27,720
Speaker 4: She's come to see me working. She's toss all the

477
00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:32,200
Speaker 4: time at the comedy store, and man, she just come

478
00:20:32,400 --> 00:20:34,320
Speaker 4: and man, she would just compliment me, not mind you.

479
00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:36,359
Speaker 4: When I started working at the comedy store, they wanted

480
00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:38,679
Speaker 4: cocktail waitresses, so I had to go pretend like I

481
00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:39,880
Speaker 4: was a cocktail.

482
00:20:39,400 --> 00:20:40,840
Speaker 2: Waitress, so I couldn't be a stuff.

483
00:20:42,880 --> 00:20:43,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

484
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:49,920
Speaker 4: Like for the first like four months, like right after

485
00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:51,320
Speaker 4: the ninety day probation.

486
00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,480
Speaker 1: I was cute, Like I went to work like that,

487
00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:55,920
Speaker 1: the rings on my jewelry.

488
00:20:56,080 --> 00:20:57,840
Speaker 2: Oh my god, have you here one of.

489
00:20:57,840 --> 00:21:04,320
Speaker 3: Them cacters your dresses? And she be so mad. I'm like,

490
00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:05,560
Speaker 3: I'm so tired of being in these wigs.

491
00:21:05,560 --> 00:21:07,560
Speaker 1: Address I have to go watch it.

492
00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:08,600
Speaker 2: I have to go watch it.

493
00:21:08,760 --> 00:21:09,320
Speaker 3: Yeah.

494
00:21:09,560 --> 00:21:13,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we knew and now I'm interested too, because

495
00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:15,480
Speaker 1: that's a really good point to bring up. It's like, Okay,

496
00:21:15,720 --> 00:21:17,600
Speaker 1: if two studs are into each other, what the fuck?

497
00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:20,200
Speaker 1: I like, I would look confused, like what will I

498
00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:20,840
Speaker 1: meet somebody?

499
00:21:20,880 --> 00:21:23,080
Speaker 2: Just because the niggas could do that ship all day.

500
00:21:23,119 --> 00:21:24,639
Speaker 2: They all their own boys.

501
00:21:24,960 --> 00:21:27,040
Speaker 4: But the thing also, it's like, but also what I

502
00:21:27,119 --> 00:21:29,520
Speaker 4: learned as I got older and move to California, there's

503
00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,760
Speaker 4: different gay rules for different regions.

504
00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:32,399
Speaker 3: That's true.

505
00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:34,600
Speaker 4: So it's like the South, we have these little rules,

506
00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:36,600
Speaker 4: but when I moved to California, so they didn't do that.

507
00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:38,840
Speaker 4: It was lifts, the lessions, with lifts the lessons. It

508
00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:40,760
Speaker 4: was that's what with dykes.

509
00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:42,440
Speaker 2: They didn't they didn't care.

510
00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:44,800
Speaker 1: You know what, isn't it funny how the South still

511
00:21:44,920 --> 00:21:47,960
Speaker 1: is just very like even they can't like the big breed.

512
00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:50,040
Speaker 1: They nobody else, you know what I'm saying.

513
00:21:50,040 --> 00:21:52,800
Speaker 3: It's like, it's kind of like that from like I guess,

514
00:21:52,920 --> 00:21:54,760
Speaker 3: I mean, mid West and Southern culture kind of go

515
00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 3: hand in hand. But I know for a fact that

516
00:21:56,640 --> 00:21:58,280
Speaker 3: I was just talking to somebody about this. I know

517
00:21:58,320 --> 00:22:00,440
Speaker 3: for a fact that when I don't know why I

518
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,840
Speaker 3: chose to become this candid with my family, but I

519
00:22:02,880 --> 00:22:04,320
Speaker 3: know that when I told my family that I was

520
00:22:04,359 --> 00:22:07,040
Speaker 3: out here topping the boys, they were much more relieved,

521
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:11,280
Speaker 3: they were far more happy.

522
00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:14,120
Speaker 1: But their fathers are happy. Then like, at least you're

523
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 1: doing the fucking exact God.

524
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:17,680
Speaker 3: You know what, if that's what brings me and my

525
00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:18,800
Speaker 3: father closer than I'm.

526
00:22:21,200 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 2: All right, my people just happy. I'm not getting smashed.

527
00:22:27,200 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm not getting arpenellawship for the week. If you

528
00:22:34,400 --> 00:22:36,359
Speaker 1: never listened to horrible decisions, it's our sex and the

529
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:38,520
Speaker 1: news segment. I feel like y'all might have seen this

530
00:22:38,520 --> 00:22:41,200
Speaker 1: pop up on Instagram where it said most dating app

531
00:22:41,280 --> 00:22:44,639
Speaker 1: users actually specifically Tender, are in relationships are married.

532
00:22:44,720 --> 00:22:45,760
Speaker 2: You saw that I did.

533
00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:49,560
Speaker 4: I actually have two sets of friends that met on

534
00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:53,160
Speaker 4: Tender that are married and happy as ever really tender

535
00:22:53,520 --> 00:22:57,679
Speaker 4: tender to hinge or bumble. Actually I just married a

536
00:22:57,680 --> 00:23:00,960
Speaker 4: couple in Saint Martin. You that met on Tender?

537
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:01,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm as.

538
00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:03,959
Speaker 1: What made you do that?

539
00:23:04,680 --> 00:23:06,240
Speaker 2: A friend of mine wanted to get married five years

540
00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:07,560
Speaker 2: ago and she was like, bit, you're gonna marry us?

541
00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:09,720
Speaker 1: I said, okay, and now you just do it for everybody?

542
00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:12,919
Speaker 3: Is how every that's if that's how everybody got ordained

543
00:23:12,920 --> 00:23:15,080
Speaker 3: a friend was just like bait, you gonna marry us?

544
00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 3: I loved to be everybody's story.

545
00:23:20,040 --> 00:23:23,560
Speaker 1: And they did a survey on thirteen hundred users, and

546
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,240
Speaker 1: over half we're in a fucking relationship.

547
00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,560
Speaker 2: And the surprising part is that the big, big percentage.

548
00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:32,440
Speaker 1: Is not going to generally find a date when they're

549
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:35,280
Speaker 1: on there, but these married motherfuckers is. And so I

550
00:23:35,280 --> 00:23:37,560
Speaker 1: think what makes it so difficult is like, you know,

551
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:39,720
Speaker 1: I'm on the apps right and I'm not even thinking

552
00:23:39,720 --> 00:23:41,919
Speaker 1: about that ship when I'm swiping. I'm just assuming you single.

553
00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:44,160
Speaker 1: So fuck the fact that it's already hard to find

554
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:46,840
Speaker 1: somebody cute. Shit. Before the cameras came on, I was

555
00:23:46,840 --> 00:23:48,480
Speaker 1: telling Punky, how this nigga want me to take a

556
00:23:48,520 --> 00:23:52,360
Speaker 1: forty five minute drive to Harlem. No, I live downtown.

557
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:53,960
Speaker 1: You have a car, you need to come to me.

558
00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:56,080
Speaker 2: What the fuck am I going to schedule me a ride?

559
00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:59,119
Speaker 4: It's I love Even then, that way, I might have

560
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:02,119
Speaker 4: misunderstood what you said. You said most of the people

561
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:04,200
Speaker 4: meet and get married people.

562
00:24:05,400 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 3: There's a high percentage of people on tender who are

563
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:10,479
Speaker 3: already in committed relationships but are still on tender.

564
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,959
Speaker 2: I just understood that completely yeah, but sorry about that.

565
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:17,480
Speaker 3: No, But now now it I think that article and

566
00:24:17,560 --> 00:24:20,840
Speaker 3: that study actually makes Tender make a whole lot of

567
00:24:20,880 --> 00:24:22,920
Speaker 3: more sense, especially not even just Tender, all of these

568
00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:25,679
Speaker 3: swiping apps because no one really talks to each other

569
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:26,240
Speaker 3: on here anymore.

570
00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:28,640
Speaker 2: I don't like you just you just match.

571
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:30,520
Speaker 3: You know, it's and I noticed it because it just

572
00:24:30,520 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 3: starts to feel like you're collecting sheep at some point,

573
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,280
Speaker 3: like you just kind of like getting all these numbers

574
00:24:35,280 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 3: and these names and these people, but you never really

575
00:24:36,960 --> 00:24:39,359
Speaker 3: interact with them. It's so many conversations on my like

576
00:24:39,760 --> 00:24:42,879
Speaker 3: Tender am my riot like just pile up because the

577
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 3: inbox is just like full of like hey, and then

578
00:24:45,080 --> 00:24:47,719
Speaker 3: you don't hear from people anymore. And I mean I

579
00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:49,880
Speaker 3: know it from my own. I mean I know sometimes

580
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:52,520
Speaker 3: people dudes will be hitting me up and I'll just

581
00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:54,240
Speaker 3: be like, oh, yeah, we matched, but I don't know,

582
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 3: I took a second look at your face and maybe not.

583
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:59,800
Speaker 1: Also do little things that start sucking me up on

584
00:24:59,840 --> 00:25:02,560
Speaker 1: these apps. They either started saying something super corny or

585
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:05,560
Speaker 1: Nigga start sending the emoi mooji's, Like I literally when

586
00:25:05,880 --> 00:25:07,399
Speaker 1: men write me with a lot of emojis. I have

587
00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:10,200
Speaker 1: to think, did I click women as well? Oh wow,

588
00:25:10,240 --> 00:25:14,359
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I need for real like then sending me

589
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:16,119
Speaker 1: the princess thing hearts and it.

590
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,680
Speaker 2: You don't fucking.

591
00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:20,720
Speaker 3: Grand Rising you get that.

592
00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:23,119
Speaker 1: I get God Morning a lot. Oh God Morning.

593
00:25:23,680 --> 00:25:26,320
Speaker 4: You need to bro you got mourning me. I'll never

594
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:30,399
Speaker 4: talk to you being out here saying God Morning.

595
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 1: Damn.

596
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:32,880
Speaker 3: The man the gayest thing I've ever.

597
00:25:32,680 --> 00:25:38,240
Speaker 1: Heard somewhere, says Empresson, saying he's one of my friends

598
00:25:38,240 --> 00:25:40,880
Speaker 1: in the sixties. No, but one of my friend he's

599
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,440
Speaker 1: also thirty eight. One of my friends met him and say, girl,

600
00:25:43,440 --> 00:25:48,560
Speaker 1: you got your little earth tone nigga. I did meet

601
00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:52,440
Speaker 1: him at a play market. Okay, so, but that's very

602
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:56,439
Speaker 1: I later, Yeah, especially the black play market. It's like

603
00:25:56,480 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 1: everyday people, but with clothes. But I need to go.

604
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:06,480
Speaker 4: I never did dat. No, I've always okay, let.

605
00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 1: Me, let me.

606
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:09,440
Speaker 2: I've been on this thing called down. You don't know

607
00:26:09,480 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 2: about you remember down.

608
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 3: Girl, you are your age, even though you already said age.

609
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 3: That is back back in the day before as there

610
00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 3: were there were Okay, so there was there was a

611
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 3: down link, there was insist.

612
00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 4: Down.

613
00:26:26,480 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 3: It was stuff Adam for Adam. I know that one

614
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,960
Speaker 3: Adam for Adam was Oh, that's like, I don't remember

615
00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:34,600
Speaker 3: Adam for what it was gay you were, you wouldn't

616
00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:34,960
Speaker 3: have been on it.

617
00:26:35,320 --> 00:26:37,160
Speaker 2: Did you have to type in the website down link?

618
00:26:37,359 --> 00:26:38,120
Speaker 1: Yeah, it wasn't.

619
00:26:38,440 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 3: It was like you have to go on. That's like

620
00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:44,120
Speaker 3: when I was in BGC live, not the Bad Girl

621
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:47,080
Speaker 3: It was not before Bad Girls Club. It was Black

622
00:26:47,200 --> 00:26:51,320
Speaker 3: Gay Chat Live dot com. And that was the first

623
00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:54,120
Speaker 3: time I ever like was online chatting with dudes, like

624
00:26:55,040 --> 00:26:56,560
Speaker 3: in Chicago out of town?

625
00:26:56,840 --> 00:26:58,520
Speaker 2: Did you have like dick pics the center? This was

626
00:26:58,560 --> 00:26:59,760
Speaker 2: before you had to.

627
00:26:59,800 --> 00:27:03,159
Speaker 3: Like you we you had to unlocks. There's always been

628
00:27:03,160 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 3: a culture of like hitting picture, so you have to

629
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:07,879
Speaker 3: unlocked for the for the other.

630
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 1: Personal interesting do you have to pay for the online?

631
00:27:10,320 --> 00:27:15,439
Speaker 3: I don't recall ever paying for BGC lit I it

632
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:20,040
Speaker 3: was it was mean, where are you meeting people? First

633
00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:23,000
Speaker 3: of all, was historically had a long hard time.

634
00:27:23,119 --> 00:27:25,920
Speaker 4: I'm a tourist. I love long relationships. So when I'm

635
00:27:25,960 --> 00:27:26,840
Speaker 4: in one, I'm in one.

636
00:27:27,040 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 1: I'm a pisces. You know, that's the most compatible sign

637
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:33,600
Speaker 1: I heard about Pisces. Blah blah blah blah and tourists.

638
00:27:33,040 --> 00:27:39,160
Speaker 1: Pisces are so damn so what. I feel like I'm

639
00:27:39,160 --> 00:27:42,320
Speaker 1: watching a game of tennis right now. When's your record

640
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:45,879
Speaker 1: you made April toors? Okay, when's your what are you

641
00:27:46,040 --> 00:27:46,840
Speaker 1: December sixteen?

642
00:27:47,440 --> 00:27:52,120
Speaker 3: Sectaris? I never know what I never know what that

643
00:27:52,200 --> 00:27:55,120
Speaker 3: means is. I'm not really like into astrology. I let

644
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,120
Speaker 3: everybody tell me what it is. And every time someone

645
00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 3: tells me something about it, I'm like, well, that sounds great.

646
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:00,640
Speaker 1: I picked the good ship. I'd be like, oh my god,

647
00:28:00,640 --> 00:28:02,920
Speaker 1: I'm so creative. But that emotional shit is really as fun.

648
00:28:03,119 --> 00:28:03,840
Speaker 1: It's just crazy.

649
00:28:03,880 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 4: I mean, I get emotional too sometimes I usually sweep

650
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:07,240
Speaker 4: it under the rug and then blow up when I

651
00:28:07,240 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 4: get drunk.

652
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:08,719
Speaker 2: But I'm working on that.

653
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:13,720
Speaker 4: But uh, I've been in a relationship most of my life,

654
00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:14,800
Speaker 4: but I've only popped.

655
00:28:14,840 --> 00:28:16,719
Speaker 1: I was a hole for like two or three years.

656
00:28:16,800 --> 00:28:19,440
Speaker 1: That's not all, but thirty eight two or three years

657
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:20,240
Speaker 1: of hold and that's.

658
00:28:20,119 --> 00:28:21,960
Speaker 4: All you can hold out a little bit while I

659
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 4: was in my relationship, I mean not when I was married.

660
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:26,639
Speaker 2: I stopped when I was married.

661
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:27,480
Speaker 1: How long were you married?

662
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:30,000
Speaker 2: We was married for seven years? Shit?

663
00:28:31,280 --> 00:28:33,720
Speaker 3: Gay gay marriage, that's that's twenty.

664
00:28:33,640 --> 00:28:36,480
Speaker 1: I say that's one hundred.

665
00:28:36,600 --> 00:28:39,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, you know, but actually that's why because lesbians,

666
00:28:39,840 --> 00:28:41,600
Speaker 3: you know, that's you know how, that's your culture.

667
00:28:41,880 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 1: See, I was with for.

668
00:28:42,560 --> 00:28:45,480
Speaker 2: Twenty years though on my cod you know what I'm saying.

669
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:48,120
Speaker 2: So how do you get off of the twenty year train?

670
00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 2: You said?

671
00:28:49,680 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 4: Bye, bitch, I'm done stocks shit, Fuck these dogs. I'm out,

672
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:59,480
Speaker 4: Fuck these dog The crazy thing is gay people weird

673
00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,040
Speaker 4: as fuck. Why I'm on dog support every week every year,

674
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 4: I mean every month, I give her two hundred dollars

675
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:04,560
Speaker 4: for a food.

676
00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 3: You are the seconds being in my life to go

677
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:07,240
Speaker 3: through a divorce.

678
00:29:07,280 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 2: Are you fucking kidding me? You have my kids? Hey, yeah,

679
00:29:10,320 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 2: I ain't playing no games.

680
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:11,840
Speaker 1: You'll be seeing them.

681
00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm gonna see my kids. I'd be like, hey,

682
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:15,840
Speaker 4: I'm coming out on the sixteenth. You think I can

683
00:29:15,880 --> 00:29:18,400
Speaker 4: get them from the seventeenth through the nineteenth. She'd be like,

684
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 4: I'm gonna see just calming when you get here.

685
00:29:20,120 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 2: It'd be some real Oh.

686
00:29:21,200 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 1: I used to do that with my age. Literally the

687
00:29:23,880 --> 00:29:26,800
Speaker 1: studio manager for this fucking location had did a drop

688
00:29:26,840 --> 00:29:29,280
Speaker 1: off from me one time, like fuck that. But you know,

689
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 1: I feel like with lesbians it's so much friendship that

690
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 1: you build in another woman, that there's almost like a

691
00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:39,120
Speaker 1: sisterhood that you can't have in a different relationship where

692
00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:40,520
Speaker 1: you see each other in a different way that I

693
00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:44,080
Speaker 1: don't have with other male breakups, And so true, I

694
00:29:44,120 --> 00:29:46,400
Speaker 1: could feel that. Yeah, it's like I wish I could

695
00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:49,480
Speaker 1: explain it, but like with niggas, it's just like sometimes

696
00:29:49,480 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 1: they treat you very poorly. And with women, although we

697
00:29:52,120 --> 00:29:54,240
Speaker 1: say terrible things to each other, we know the we're

698
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:56,840
Speaker 1: emotional about it. Yeah, you know, so like I feel

699
00:29:56,840 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 1: like my women break ups are a lot better, but like niggas, who.

700
00:30:00,680 --> 00:30:03,600
Speaker 3: It's hard to talk about dogs and tender and emotions.

701
00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 3: Really just brought me back to a tender conversation I

702
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:08,600
Speaker 3: had a few years ago with a dude and we

703
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:12,160
Speaker 3: were having a really nice conversation. He was gorgeous. I

704
00:30:12,200 --> 00:30:14,960
Speaker 3: was really looking forward to making it happen, and then

705
00:30:14,960 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 3: he shared with me that his dog was going blind

706
00:30:21,080 --> 00:30:25,000
Speaker 3: and maybe now tell me if I'm heartless. But all

707
00:30:25,040 --> 00:30:29,080
Speaker 3: I said was that's exactly what I asked, and he

708
00:30:29,440 --> 00:30:30,200
Speaker 3: unmatched me.

709
00:30:32,400 --> 00:30:33,160
Speaker 1: Is that me?

710
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,280
Speaker 3: Is am I a wild or was it? I've been

711
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:37,720
Speaker 3: holding onto this story for years just because you.

712
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 1: Told Why would you ask him that.

713
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:43,520
Speaker 4: But because I come from a see all of this

714
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,440
Speaker 4: talk about passing dogs, y'all talking about visiting.

715
00:30:46,160 --> 00:30:48,160
Speaker 1: Dogs are very California, right.

716
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 3: I ain't no dog that important enough to me to

717
00:30:50,400 --> 00:30:53,080
Speaker 3: go back to somebody from a previous relationship. I would

718
00:30:53,080 --> 00:30:55,120
Speaker 3: just go get a new dog. Dogs to me are

719
00:30:55,160 --> 00:30:59,720
Speaker 3: so disposable, like when, Yes, I grew up with dogs

720
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 3: in my was with me and my mom used to

721
00:31:01,040 --> 00:31:02,880
Speaker 3: move around a lot, and sometimes we would move into

722
00:31:02,920 --> 00:31:05,400
Speaker 3: these apartment buildings where you weren't allowed to have pets.

723
00:31:05,400 --> 00:31:11,479
Speaker 1: So right now, sit up here like my awful and Okay,

724
00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:13,520
Speaker 1: I don't know. I can't.

725
00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:15,160
Speaker 3: I can't wait to see the comments section on this.

726
00:31:15,240 --> 00:31:17,720
Speaker 1: But when I work at the office, I remember one

727
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 1: of the girls called out because her dog died, and

728
00:31:19,640 --> 00:31:21,920
Speaker 1: literally the way my boss looked I was like, he

729
00:31:22,000 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 1: was like, I don't give a ship dog.

730
00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:29,600
Speaker 3: I love dogs, but I mean not enough to unmatch

731
00:31:29,640 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 3: somebody for asking if I'm put the door it's blind?

732
00:31:31,800 --> 00:31:34,440
Speaker 3: What use do you have? What use do you have

733
00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 3: for a dog?

734
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:39,600
Speaker 4: That's first of all, my dog he's eighteen and he's blind,

735
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 4: and he dogs have better senses than humans.

736
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:43,720
Speaker 2: Number one, what I gotta do with me.

737
00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 1: The person got his mother.

738
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:48,080
Speaker 4: When he walking through the house, he got it all right,

739
00:31:48,760 --> 00:31:50,720
Speaker 4: move right. When he walking through the house, he just

740
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 4: he'd be like a tap tapa tap up that's the door.

741
00:31:53,440 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 4: A tapa tapa tap that's the floor.

742
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 1: He's smart.

743
00:31:56,760 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 2: I'm not putting him down.

744
00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 1: He got a good horse.

745
00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:00,000
Speaker 3: Good do I have for a dog? I come home

746
00:32:00,040 --> 00:32:01,760
Speaker 3: from a lawn day. He can't even find you when

747
00:32:01,800 --> 00:32:02,160
Speaker 3: he running.

748
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:08,360
Speaker 1: Now you see why he's behind the scenes.

749
00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:13,520
Speaker 2: People get his ass. Okay, the hoar dirm Now I'm glad.

750
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 1: I shared that the hore dirve is our segment where

751
00:32:18,520 --> 00:32:19,680
Speaker 1: someone's shares a sex tip.

752
00:32:19,800 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 2: So I would like both of you to share an

753
00:32:21,520 --> 00:32:22,200
Speaker 2: oral sex tip.

754
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 3: Oh you go first, because I have something oral sex tip.

755
00:32:28,080 --> 00:32:31,440
Speaker 4: I can't speak on men. I can't speak on second okay, sure,

756
00:32:31,880 --> 00:32:33,160
Speaker 4: but what I can speak on.

757
00:32:34,720 --> 00:32:35,040
Speaker 1: Okay.

758
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 4: So I've had head from a lot of different women,

759
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:38,960
Speaker 4: a lot of different women.

760
00:32:38,960 --> 00:32:41,760
Speaker 2: They only use the tongue. You got to use your

761
00:32:41,760 --> 00:32:42,520
Speaker 2: whole face.

762
00:32:43,520 --> 00:32:48,840
Speaker 1: That's all great nose fall head chin, and don't they

763
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:50,560
Speaker 1: head in there.

764
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 2: You heard what r Kelly say. Put the whole damn

765
00:32:53,240 --> 00:32:55,560
Speaker 2: it whole thing. Now we thought we was gonna have

766
00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:56,840
Speaker 2: to bleed the sacond.

767
00:32:59,520 --> 00:33:01,400
Speaker 3: I don't know you what lyric you were getting ready

768
00:33:01,400 --> 00:33:01,880
Speaker 3: to cross.

769
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 2: So you gotta go the whole damn thing.

770
00:33:05,240 --> 00:33:09,040
Speaker 4: And uh, and don't just be sitting up the suck

771
00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:12,320
Speaker 4: them lips, getting them creases thighs or like getting the

772
00:33:12,320 --> 00:33:14,200
Speaker 4: creases of the lips and the thigh like what.

773
00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:15,880
Speaker 1: Someone starts with the thigh. I do that with men

774
00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:18,360
Speaker 1: and women, though I start with the thigh die with men.

775
00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,680
Speaker 1: I'm too, but it's super sensitive in there, Like for

776
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:24,920
Speaker 1: the men, I can't imagine men liking you looking the thigh.

777
00:33:25,000 --> 00:33:25,800
Speaker 2: I don't like the thigh.

778
00:33:25,880 --> 00:33:27,880
Speaker 3: I don't. I don't like my I don't like that.

779
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:29,520
Speaker 3: That area is very sensitive to me and I for

780
00:33:30,120 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 3: it's supposed to arouse you. But I'm a little jittery when.

781
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 1: It comes to that because you're scared booty hole.

782
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 3: No, it's just I don't know, just something about that

783
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:39,600
Speaker 3: area is very sensitive for me. So like whenever a

784
00:33:39,680 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 3: dude has tried to like do that, I'm always kind

785
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:45,000
Speaker 3: of like jumpy. I go through a little anxiety when

786
00:33:45,040 --> 00:33:49,920
Speaker 3: i'm I guess I'll every second his day, please go

787
00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:52,520
Speaker 3: down there. But like, but like the thigh area, I

788
00:33:52,560 --> 00:33:52,800
Speaker 3: don't need.

789
00:33:52,840 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 2: I don't need I need another man to confront No

790
00:33:56,120 --> 00:33:56,880
Speaker 2: no thigh.

791
00:33:58,840 --> 00:34:00,960
Speaker 3: Like la, I like when I'm getting on.

792
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 1: My knees, like I kissed the thighs before I started put.

793
00:34:03,600 --> 00:34:05,040
Speaker 1: I don't know why I feel like this gig.

794
00:34:09,280 --> 00:34:12,640
Speaker 3: I don't need. Just just go, just go, just go,

795
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 3: just go.

796
00:34:13,160 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 1: I just like it because dudes getting harder and harder.

797
00:34:15,000 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: They'd be like, oh my god, put it in your

798
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:17,320
Speaker 1: mouth and you like doing everything.

799
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 4: But that's my favorite. Did you have you watch y'all?

800
00:34:19,480 --> 00:34:21,200
Speaker 4: Do y'all remember them saying chronicles?

801
00:34:21,200 --> 00:34:21,399
Speaker 2: Hell?

802
00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:24,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, I remember every girl who watched Man They

803
00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:24,719
Speaker 3: had a.

804
00:34:24,800 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 4: Saying chronicle where old boy was getting hit and it

805
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:30,839
Speaker 4: was just so good. His legs just went up and

806
00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:34,399
Speaker 4: he was just sitting them like I'm trying to figure

807
00:34:34,440 --> 00:34:35,759
Speaker 4: out that zame make that up?

808
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 1: Or is that a thing? Legs? They got me really

809
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,279
Speaker 1: upset because Mandy and I she wanted to come on

810
00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 1: a podcast. We flew to Atlanta, she canceled on the

811
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 1: day up. Then we just happened to be there again.

812
00:34:46,200 --> 00:34:48,040
Speaker 1: She wanted to come on and cancel on a gag

813
00:34:48,680 --> 00:34:50,279
Speaker 1: And you know how good your work got to be

814
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:51,680
Speaker 1: for me to actually.

815
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:55,720
Speaker 3: Forgive it was she raised an entire generation of women

816
00:34:56,040 --> 00:35:00,080
Speaker 3: of I would let you say it.

817
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:01,920
Speaker 1: Okay, Well, actually I can't just be a oral sex

818
00:35:01,960 --> 00:35:04,120
Speaker 1: tip because we do need I feel like we need

819
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:07,000
Speaker 1: a scissoring tip or a finger and tip. So when

820
00:35:07,040 --> 00:35:09,600
Speaker 1: you made a comment about women getting finger blasted, a

821
00:35:09,680 --> 00:35:11,279
Speaker 1: dude said to me, like, I don't understand how you

822
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 1: and your ex had sex and so many places like

823
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:16,320
Speaker 1: dressing room, bathroom, this that plank. I'm like, because we

824
00:35:16,480 --> 00:35:20,000
Speaker 1: fuck with our hands, bro like, but my favorite way

825
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:22,879
Speaker 1: to have les being sex and scissoring though, so I'm

826
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:26,400
Speaker 1: not too big on scissoring, but I will fuck like

827
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 1: men fuck without the penis you like fucking strap like,

828
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:31,760
Speaker 1: but no without without the strap.

829
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:34,719
Speaker 2: I just glad and slide. You just you just so

830
00:35:34,800 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 2: you just it's not rammed. It's a glad. It's a

831
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:39,640
Speaker 2: glad and slide.

832
00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,080
Speaker 1: But it's hold on, wait, give me more detail, because

833
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:43,839
Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever been glad and you've.

834
00:35:43,719 --> 00:35:45,800
Speaker 4: Got a glad and slide. Like, So every woman that

835
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:48,080
Speaker 4: I get with, they be like, the are you doing so.

836
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 1: Instead of so?

837
00:35:48,719 --> 00:35:50,879
Speaker 3: Instead of am I doing this right? Instead of is

838
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:54,359
Speaker 3: what you're speaking of is more like a.

839
00:35:54,880 --> 00:35:59,799
Speaker 4: More like a if you buck, I will I would

840
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:02,120
Speaker 4: with her leggs pull up to me and then I

841
00:36:02,280 --> 00:36:02,879
Speaker 4: just get the work.

842
00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:05,520
Speaker 3: Does that do anything?

843
00:36:05,840 --> 00:36:07,960
Speaker 2: Hell yeah, because it's like simulations.

844
00:36:08,040 --> 00:36:10,120
Speaker 3: Oh well, you know what so is it is? It

845
00:36:10,280 --> 00:36:13,280
Speaker 3: would you liking it to like putting like sitting underneath

846
00:36:13,320 --> 00:36:14,920
Speaker 3: the fawsy in the tub?

847
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 2: What I heard.

848
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:20,600
Speaker 3: I hear a lot of females. I hear a lot

849
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:22,480
Speaker 3: of female commedians talking about they go in the tub

850
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 3: and they run the water on the face in the

851
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:27,840
Speaker 3: tub and they put their well gigna underneath me and it.

852
00:36:27,880 --> 00:36:31,880
Speaker 4: Just I mean, it depends on I did that when

853
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:35,200
Speaker 4: I was good. It depends on where I'm at mentally. Okay,

854
00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:36,319
Speaker 4: I'm learning so much.

855
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:41,399
Speaker 3: They're about to get on grind. I'm gonna I'm gonna

856
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:42,360
Speaker 3: go outside and be straight.

857
00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,399
Speaker 1: That that's interesting to me because I used to say,

858
00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:49,439
Speaker 1: and my homegirls that are straight thought it was so weird.

859
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:50,880
Speaker 1: I'd be like, oh my god, I put my pussy

860
00:36:50,920 --> 00:36:52,640
Speaker 1: everywhere on the titties and be on the stomach.

861
00:36:52,880 --> 00:36:54,280
Speaker 2: It's just like very messy.

862
00:36:54,520 --> 00:36:57,000
Speaker 1: And I think something that I don't get from male

863
00:36:57,120 --> 00:37:01,160
Speaker 1: sex is like even though I've realized over time, like

864
00:37:01,239 --> 00:37:04,360
Speaker 1: I do enjoy penetration. I think my orgasms were stronger

865
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 1: with sex with women because there's so much platorial simulation

866
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 1: and you getting the whole pussy right. It's like when

867
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 1: she was talking about face. So the problem with men

868
00:37:15,800 --> 00:37:19,280
Speaker 1: that they're not understanding about the vulva, the vagina, everything

869
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:20,840
Speaker 1: is that there's so many nerves.

870
00:37:21,280 --> 00:37:23,480
Speaker 2: I understand. Everybody told y'all about the clip.

871
00:37:23,760 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 1: That is not the only place. You know what I'm saying.

872
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:28,200
Speaker 1: It's like they feel like they're following this rule book

873
00:37:28,239 --> 00:37:31,000
Speaker 1: on the clip, and really it's like, bro, I have

874
00:37:31,080 --> 00:37:31,840
Speaker 1: more pussy.

875
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 3: It's like, you see, That's why. That's probably part of

876
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 3: the reason why I'm gave, because y'all got too much

877
00:37:37,080 --> 00:37:37,440
Speaker 3: going on.

878
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 1: There's a lot.

879
00:37:38,040 --> 00:37:39,759
Speaker 3: This is too much geometry, and I'm bad and mad.

880
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 3: There's a whole lot of angles.

881
00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:43,239
Speaker 1: Is right.

882
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:48,479
Speaker 4: There might be easy in terms of the movements, but well,

883
00:37:48,719 --> 00:37:52,680
Speaker 4: I feel like I would be like, are you gonna come.

884
00:37:52,719 --> 00:37:55,799
Speaker 3: Well every but figures with women you never know. This

885
00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 3: is where my advice comes in. I think for the

886
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:03,400
Speaker 3: for the oral please sucking you can't just be you

887
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:05,560
Speaker 3: can't just be sucking on it like sucking on it

888
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:09,160
Speaker 3: will not sucking on it just like doing that like

889
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:11,920
Speaker 3: like no, suckingd on it will not get the job done.

890
00:38:12,120 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 3: You have to also sort of figure out a way

891
00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 3: either with your mouth or with your hands to masturbate

892
00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:23,640
Speaker 3: because like I feel like people often think, Alma, just

893
00:38:23,680 --> 00:38:26,480
Speaker 3: suck in it and you get tired, and most most

894
00:38:26,560 --> 00:38:28,719
Speaker 3: times dudes are gonna tell you exactly what to do.

895
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:32,880
Speaker 3: But you absolutely have to be in some way massaging

896
00:38:32,920 --> 00:38:34,239
Speaker 3: it the way he would be if he were doing

897
00:38:34,239 --> 00:38:34,520
Speaker 3: it him.

898
00:38:34,600 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 1: And the real thing is too because our mouth can't

899
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:39,040
Speaker 1: be enough of pressure, and I think that.

900
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:44,640
Speaker 4: Is not like you're doing a lot of hand the

901
00:38:44,760 --> 00:38:45,920
Speaker 4: vagina squeezes.

902
00:38:46,680 --> 00:38:51,360
Speaker 1: Well yeah, I'll be thinking about that sometimes, but you can't.

903
00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:53,160
Speaker 3: Be like but why but why But having your hand

904
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:54,839
Speaker 3: on it, you still can't be squeezing it to death.

905
00:38:54,880 --> 00:38:59,640
Speaker 3: You have there has to be like male ejaculation comes

906
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:02,719
Speaker 3: from the tip the shaft, you're not really doing. The

907
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:04,960
Speaker 3: shaft is only like part of it. Most of the

908
00:39:05,000 --> 00:39:07,360
Speaker 3: work has to be on the tip for me at least,

909
00:39:07,640 --> 00:39:10,319
Speaker 3: like you have to like that's this, it's the most

910
00:39:10,400 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 3: sensitive part of the opinions. So in order for you

911
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:16,160
Speaker 3: to actually get the result that you need in a

912
00:39:16,239 --> 00:39:18,800
Speaker 3: fast enough time. You need to go at the right pace.

913
00:39:19,080 --> 00:39:21,640
Speaker 3: And I don't care what nobody saying. If a dude

914
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:25,759
Speaker 3: starts saying, keep doing it just like that, Keep doing

915
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 3: it just like that.

916
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:28,720
Speaker 2: Anybody say, anybody.

917
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:31,040
Speaker 4: Say that, don't okay see see okay speak we speak

918
00:39:31,040 --> 00:39:34,200
Speaker 4: for everybody. I'll be saying, why do you stay right there?

919
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 1: I feel like I'm sucking it up when I say,

920
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:40,680
Speaker 1: because then niggas just start doing other ship. What the

921
00:39:40,719 --> 00:39:41,840
Speaker 1: fuck did I just say?

922
00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:43,880
Speaker 2: I know, it's almost like opposite.

923
00:39:44,040 --> 00:39:45,000
Speaker 3: Well, let's she's reiterating.

924
00:39:45,080 --> 00:39:45,960
Speaker 2: They get too excited.

925
00:39:46,480 --> 00:39:49,440
Speaker 3: Please when someone says it's just like that, keep it

926
00:39:49,560 --> 00:39:49,960
Speaker 3: just like so.

927
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:52,280
Speaker 1: I almost got a carpal tunnel from that ship because

928
00:39:52,280 --> 00:39:55,360
Speaker 1: I see what you gotta do. It's like I've noticed

929
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:57,960
Speaker 1: the greatest reaction from of course at the tip, but

930
00:39:58,120 --> 00:40:00,680
Speaker 1: like we always see the basket, we in motion. I

931
00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:04,120
Speaker 1: realized like being on the tip and going back down

932
00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:08,440
Speaker 1: because sometimes it's too sentitive, especially if they're uncircumcised. If

933
00:40:08,440 --> 00:40:10,480
Speaker 1: they tell me do the same thing, bru, I feel

934
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:12,440
Speaker 1: like I'm in the workout because you know, little movements

935
00:40:12,480 --> 00:40:18,320
Speaker 1: is worse than big ones. Like this shit is tough,

936
00:40:18,360 --> 00:40:20,799
Speaker 1: but I also am so like ego driven that I

937
00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:22,919
Speaker 1: can't not be the best dick sucker you ever had.

938
00:40:23,080 --> 00:40:24,919
Speaker 1: That's why it's hard for me to be gay, because

939
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:26,640
Speaker 1: it's like one bitch that I eat the best pussy,

940
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:28,520
Speaker 1: and I can tell another one was like do this,

941
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:32,160
Speaker 1: do that, do this? While I appreciate that. Actually I

942
00:40:32,200 --> 00:40:35,120
Speaker 1: interviewed her on here Aisha. She was also a guest star.

943
00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:36,839
Speaker 2: We talked about the day at.

944
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:40,400
Speaker 1: A pussy, But I remember she gave me the most instruction,

945
00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 1: and I was like, am I bad? Or is she

946
00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 1: just very good at knowing how to make herself come?

947
00:40:44,840 --> 00:40:47,960
Speaker 1: I think instruction. I feel like, was it the first

948
00:40:48,000 --> 00:40:49,440
Speaker 1: time you did it? Or like maybe the third or

949
00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:52,040
Speaker 1: the floor of the person. I don't like too much

950
00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 1: instruction the first time, Just going and do whatever it

951
00:40:54,120 --> 00:40:56,239
Speaker 1: is you down there doing and then we'll talk about it,

952
00:40:56,400 --> 00:40:58,879
Speaker 1: because if we're not about to ruin the moment, put

953
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,840
Speaker 1: that dud, let's go to lunch and talk about it

954
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:04,399
Speaker 1: or something like that. Take what you did wrong?

955
00:41:06,400 --> 00:41:11,880
Speaker 3: I have a question we're about to view. So let's

956
00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:15,000
Speaker 3: say someone's giving you head, a woman's giving your head,

957
00:41:15,040 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 3: or someone's giving your head. Do y'all come do women

958
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:21,040
Speaker 3: tend to come from getting ate out. Does that happen

959
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:22,759
Speaker 3: a lot or what is?

960
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 1: What is? What?

961
00:41:23,680 --> 00:41:26,160
Speaker 2: The crazy thing is? I'm an old woman. I'm old now,

962
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:28,920
Speaker 2: So when did you get old? I'm thirty eight. When

963
00:41:29,000 --> 00:41:29,560
Speaker 2: was your old age?

964
00:41:29,640 --> 00:41:32,279
Speaker 3: Are you thinking about I am thinking about her.

965
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:34,640
Speaker 4: I'm gonna just say, I'm just telling if my little

966
00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:37,000
Speaker 4: coochie had been around. So it takes a lot for

967
00:41:37,080 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 4: me to take this one. Really, but unless you learn

968
00:41:40,160 --> 00:41:42,280
Speaker 4: it to the team now. The woman I'm with right now, she'd.

969
00:41:42,120 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 2: Have learned this motherfucker.

970
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:43,759
Speaker 3: She figured it out.

971
00:41:44,480 --> 00:41:45,600
Speaker 2: Figured two and a half years.

972
00:41:46,160 --> 00:41:47,359
Speaker 1: How long did it take her to line?

973
00:41:48,160 --> 00:41:48,920
Speaker 2: Like two years?

974
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 4: But yeah, because and also I had to learn too,

975
00:41:51,680 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 4: because the woman I dealt with before her didn't like

976
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,320
Speaker 4: aggressive I mean loved aggressive pussy.

977
00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:59,359
Speaker 2: She'd be like, stay on it, just get it right now.

978
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:00,600
Speaker 2: She don't like that.

979
00:42:00,760 --> 00:42:06,360
Speaker 4: She wants you to start off slow, tonguekassing it. You

980
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:08,279
Speaker 4: gotta work up to that. It's like almost going to

981
00:42:08,320 --> 00:42:10,120
Speaker 4: pound tongue. But it's like you got to work up

982
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:12,560
Speaker 4: to it. And she also, the woman wearing I she

983
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 4: also don't like the tip of my tongue. She likes

984
00:42:15,080 --> 00:42:18,640
Speaker 4: the back of it. So I know it's trust me.

985
00:42:18,760 --> 00:42:20,640
Speaker 4: It's hard to brush the back of your tongue when

986
00:42:20,680 --> 00:42:28,840
Speaker 4: you brush your confusingly like the underneath underneath my tongue.

987
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:32,360
Speaker 4: I didn't even sorry about the miscommunication.

988
00:42:32,960 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 1: That's not.

989
00:42:37,120 --> 00:42:37,640
Speaker 3: What you're doing it.

990
00:42:39,920 --> 00:42:43,759
Speaker 2: Maybe the tongue flicks too much. Have you a very

991
00:42:43,760 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 2: aggressive tongue?

992
00:42:44,719 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 1: Yes, but only with men that love like I feel

993
00:42:49,000 --> 00:42:50,759
Speaker 1: like some people you probably know what I'm talking about.

994
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:54,600
Speaker 1: When someone's in you and you feel like they're going

995
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 1: through motion or something they learned where they're like it's

996
00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:58,560
Speaker 1: almost robotic.

997
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:02,840
Speaker 2: Yeah.

998
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:03,839
Speaker 3: Have you ever let a man eat?

999
00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:06,160
Speaker 1: Yeah? Oh yeah, if anything?

1000
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, waters.

1001
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 4: They have been times where I'm like single and I'm

1002
00:43:14,520 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 4: wilding out. I have had some crazy, wilding out times

1003
00:43:17,600 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 4: where I'll just like hole out crazy for two months.

1004
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:21,560
Speaker 4: And if I'm just at a bar and I'm drunk,

1005
00:43:21,560 --> 00:43:22,720
Speaker 4: and You're like, I'm.

1006
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:26,480
Speaker 3: Like, hell, yeah, I don't know you, but but what

1007
00:43:26,640 --> 00:43:29,719
Speaker 3: kind of guys come for you?

1008
00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:31,080
Speaker 1: What crazy thing? Is? It?

1009
00:43:31,239 --> 00:43:32,240
Speaker 2: Only be omens?

1010
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:33,320
Speaker 1: Only omen?

1011
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:35,280
Speaker 2: And also a man not gonna ruin my reputation.

1012
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:42,839
Speaker 4: They ain't gonna say nothing this one dude, This had

1013
00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 4: this had to be like maybe two years before I

1014
00:43:44,760 --> 00:43:48,200
Speaker 4: got married when I was just in these streets and

1015
00:43:48,239 --> 00:43:48,880
Speaker 4: he loved me.

1016
00:43:48,920 --> 00:43:50,319
Speaker 2: He came to my job all the time. He's like,

1017
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:50,960
Speaker 2: you know, I love you.

1018
00:43:51,120 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 3: I love you so much.

1019
00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:54,440
Speaker 2: And then finally I was like, all right, fine, I

1020
00:43:54,480 --> 00:43:55,800
Speaker 2: had like shots of ever.

1021
00:43:55,680 --> 00:43:59,120
Speaker 1: Clear, Oh you wanted to be dead. I was crazy.

1022
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 3: I was crazy every Clear make you switched.

1023
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 4: And he just looked at me. He's like, and I

1024
00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:07,000
Speaker 4: was like, all right, come on, let'school in the truck.

1025
00:44:07,440 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 4: And so we went in the truck. We were in

1026
00:44:10,120 --> 00:44:12,319
Speaker 4: the truck, but he sucked it up because he was

1027
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:14,959
Speaker 4: growling and doing all kinds of and I kept thinking,

1028
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:19,640
Speaker 4: too much for you.

1029
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:23,080
Speaker 1: Okay, so why don't we put a seven.

1030
00:44:26,800 --> 00:44:27,520
Speaker 2: There outside the door?

1031
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:32,440
Speaker 3: Okay? I just had one quick follow up question. I

1032
00:44:32,440 --> 00:44:34,160
Speaker 3: had one quick following follow up. Then I'm gonna do

1033
00:44:34,239 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 3: home for the for the coming thing that I asked

1034
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:41,480
Speaker 3: you because I asked that because if a woman is

1035
00:44:41,560 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 3: coming from head, does it hurt or is there some

1036
00:44:46,120 --> 00:44:49,200
Speaker 3: sensation if a person keeps going wild, like that's the

1037
00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:51,560
Speaker 3: same way like if you're doing clip gets too sensitive? Yeah,

1038
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:53,840
Speaker 3: and you want to push them, but do you stop

1039
00:44:54,080 --> 00:44:55,560
Speaker 3: or do you want them? Do you really want them

1040
00:44:55,600 --> 00:44:55,920
Speaker 3: to stop?

1041
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 1: Yes, I want them to put their mouth somewhere else,

1042
00:44:58,239 --> 00:44:59,960
Speaker 1: but the clip being pushing the head.

1043
00:45:00,120 --> 00:45:03,440
Speaker 4: It can't get some sensitive. But I have had some

1044
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:06,520
Speaker 4: moments where I've made sounds that I never knew I

1045
00:45:06,520 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 4: could make because it just feels it was good. Maybe

1046
00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:15,879
Speaker 4: like my my new my my girl cat my ass.

1047
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 4: The other day, like she must have missed me. I

1048
00:45:17,800 --> 00:45:20,440
Speaker 4: don't know what was going on. She crazious to me

1049
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:24,880
Speaker 4: and I was like, I was like, what are you

1050
00:45:25,000 --> 00:45:27,680
Speaker 4: doing down now? I was like stop, stop, stop, it

1051
00:45:27,719 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 4: was just too much. Then she sucked me up and

1052
00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:31,799
Speaker 4: put I was like, I don't do vibrators. Vibrators people

1053
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:33,360
Speaker 4: have been trying to vibrate its on me. I was

1054
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:34,920
Speaker 4: like it ain't gonna work. So I laid back in

1055
00:45:34,920 --> 00:45:37,359
Speaker 4: the bed. I was like, go ahead, try it, man.

1056
00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:42,680
Speaker 4: She put that rolls down there. Really, you know, it

1057
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:43,000
Speaker 4: made me.

1058
00:45:43,200 --> 00:45:43,680
Speaker 1: I came.

1059
00:45:44,000 --> 00:45:47,720
Speaker 2: It's it was, I was.

1060
00:45:48,680 --> 00:45:50,279
Speaker 4: It was the first time I got and I had

1061
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 4: a dizzy damning.

1062
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 2: I was like, okay, wait, I mean, am I crazy?

1063
00:45:57,520 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 3: Am I? Am? I terrible? Because like sometimes a dude

1064
00:45:59,520 --> 00:46:01,040
Speaker 3: will be like up and I'm like, well, no, you

1065
00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:04,239
Speaker 3: don't know, you don't mean it. I'm gonna keep going.

1066
00:46:04,200 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 2: Because the nigga that I with his name is B

1067
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:08,560
Speaker 2: d D.

1068
00:46:08,719 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 1: On the show and after I like, I just feel

1069
00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:13,960
Speaker 1: like I'm the best basic that ever suck this dick.

1070
00:46:14,000 --> 00:46:16,480
Speaker 1: And I know and when he I watched this video

1071
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:19,279
Speaker 1: of me sucking his decktails today because my whole ass

1072
00:46:19,360 --> 00:46:20,919
Speaker 1: me one to know, you know, I want to watch

1073
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:24,000
Speaker 1: my work. And whenever he comes this is like two

1074
00:46:24,160 --> 00:46:26,239
Speaker 1: or three times I've seen it. He pulls his dick

1075
00:46:26,280 --> 00:46:31,920
Speaker 1: back from me. I take thee from my hand on

1076
00:46:31,920 --> 00:46:35,000
Speaker 1: my foret and be like, but like, yeah, he'll hold

1077
00:46:35,040 --> 00:46:37,160
Speaker 1: the tip of his dick so I can't get to it.

1078
00:46:37,200 --> 00:46:41,400
Speaker 3: I recently had a guy like straight up being like, dude,

1079
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:44,280
Speaker 3: stop dog. I swear to God, whoop your ass dog stop.

1080
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:47,640
Speaker 3: But then but then he wasn't pushing me off, so

1081
00:46:47,719 --> 00:46:50,160
Speaker 3: I was like, oh what. I was like, I'm like, Oprah,

1082
00:46:50,160 --> 00:46:50,879
Speaker 3: what what is the.

1083
00:46:50,840 --> 00:46:56,560
Speaker 1: T that's like foreign fantasy? Like they played basketball probably

1084
00:46:56,600 --> 00:47:01,200
Speaker 1: with Punky Alex. Okay, wait, mait, let me do this

1085
00:47:01,200 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 1: whole real quick.

1086
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:03,040
Speaker 2: Ladies.

1087
00:47:03,040 --> 00:47:04,239
Speaker 1: First of all, let me say I was at your

1088
00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:06,319
Speaker 1: Cincinnati Live show and I had a ball, love y'all

1089
00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:08,000
Speaker 1: so much glad I wasn't able to see you on

1090
00:47:08,040 --> 00:47:10,600
Speaker 1: the Climax tour. Now that I just left a four

1091
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:14,279
Speaker 1: year relationship about two months ago because the day after

1092
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 1: his birth bit you had to put some beers in here.

1093
00:47:16,600 --> 00:47:18,520
Speaker 1: About two months ago, the day after his birthday, I

1094
00:47:18,560 --> 00:47:20,600
Speaker 1: woke up around three am. He was not home, so

1095
00:47:20,640 --> 00:47:23,080
Speaker 1: I looked at his location, did some investigating, found out

1096
00:47:23,120 --> 00:47:25,120
Speaker 1: he was with another woman. I moved out with our

1097
00:47:25,120 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 1: two year old child and after about a month the move.

1098
00:47:28,600 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 1: After the move out, a man from Florida slit in

1099
00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:33,160
Speaker 1: my DMS. We got on FaceTime, texted for a minute,

1100
00:47:33,200 --> 00:47:34,480
Speaker 1: and he told me that he wanted to come and

1101
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:37,040
Speaker 1: fly me out. He wanted me to come and fly

1102
00:47:37,080 --> 00:47:39,600
Speaker 1: out so boom flight his books, hotels books. I have

1103
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:41,200
Speaker 1: to tell my baby daddy that he needs to keep

1104
00:47:41,200 --> 00:47:43,040
Speaker 1: our son. The time of the trip, I said it

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Speaker 1: was a girl's trip. Fast forward, my baby Daddy's at

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00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 1: my house to see my son, and while I was clueless,

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00:47:47,960 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 1: I went without my Apple Watch. Oh so now he

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00:47:52,560 --> 00:47:54,439
Speaker 1: found all the messages of Florida Bay and the trip.

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Speaker 1: So now he's making me feel guilty, saying I'm bogus

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Speaker 1: that if I go on this trip, he's no longer

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00:47:58,560 --> 00:48:00,600
Speaker 1: going to be nice. How he's saying that I'm doing

1112
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:02,880
Speaker 1: this too soon and a whole bunch of bullshit. I

1113
00:48:02,920 --> 00:48:05,040
Speaker 1: know you both left long relationships. Do you think there's

1114
00:48:05,239 --> 00:48:07,840
Speaker 1: such thing as too soon? Am I being fast? Or

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00:48:07,880 --> 00:48:09,759
Speaker 1: is he a pus sass? So now you was in

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00:48:09,800 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 1: the longest one, so tell us that. Well, if you

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00:48:12,960 --> 00:48:16,200
Speaker 1: were about to watch dogs and you saw her, have

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Speaker 1: a watch.

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Speaker 4: First of all, let's be clear, if we broke up,

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00:48:20,360 --> 00:48:23,440
Speaker 4: we broke from the second we break up. I'm none

1121
00:48:23,480 --> 00:48:27,360
Speaker 4: of your business no more, agreed at that second. And

1122
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:30,560
Speaker 4: also you condition but you can't take it. So so

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Speaker 4: why let's think about why I moved out this house

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00:48:32,520 --> 00:48:33,240
Speaker 4: in the first place.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Oh, we might really need to listen to your podcast, girl.

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00:48:37,200 --> 00:48:38,759
Speaker 1: I was just gonna say that is a huge thing

1127
00:48:38,760 --> 00:48:41,359
Speaker 1: about control. And don't let that nigga be like you're

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Speaker 1: a mother. No, hell no, Like you need to have

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00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:46,879
Speaker 1: some fun time, You need to meet someone else, get

1130
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:49,040
Speaker 1: flute out and have your own favor. Bunky had two

1131
00:48:49,080 --> 00:48:50,800
Speaker 1: or three years, you need twenty.

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00:48:50,760 --> 00:48:53,000
Speaker 4: Yeah, they already got a nigga all trouble on the

1133
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:54,560
Speaker 4: internet right now talking about you and mother.

1134
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Speaker 2: So that gets you nowhere. That was my fun.

1135
00:48:56,840 --> 00:49:01,200
Speaker 3: But yeah, also, I'm gonna stop being nice. You literally

1136
00:49:01,200 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 3: did the meanest thing in the relationship, like you cheated,

1137
00:49:04,200 --> 00:49:06,960
Speaker 3: and now now you're gonna start like I mean, I

1138
00:49:07,000 --> 00:49:11,239
Speaker 3: just yeah, I kind of feel like he It's like

1139
00:49:11,520 --> 00:49:14,719
Speaker 3: this thing with with like men who really want they

1140
00:49:14,760 --> 00:49:17,040
Speaker 3: feel like because even if they're not in your life

1141
00:49:17,760 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 3: because you have this kid, they still feel like there's

1142
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:23,040
Speaker 3: some some level of control. And some say so that

1143
00:49:23,120 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 3: they have and it's to me that just sounds like, well,

1144
00:49:28,160 --> 00:49:30,360
Speaker 3: he ain't getting up pussy right now, right, you know

1145
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 3: what I mean?

1146
00:49:30,920 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 1: Honestly, man, I've heard so many baby daddies use that excuse.

1147
00:49:33,560 --> 00:49:35,359
Speaker 1: If I can't watch your kid while you're with another nigga,

1148
00:49:35,400 --> 00:49:36,880
Speaker 1: I can't do this so that I guys, So you

1149
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:38,320
Speaker 1: want to paying babysitter and you ain't gonna be with

1150
00:49:38,320 --> 00:49:38,920
Speaker 1: your baby.

1151
00:49:38,960 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 4: You want gonna take the baby to meet the nigga?

1152
00:49:40,920 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 4: To you, is he coming me showing you my son

1153
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:44,760
Speaker 4: need a new pappy?

1154
00:49:45,400 --> 00:49:45,919
Speaker 2: Pound Town?

1155
00:49:46,160 --> 00:49:50,959
Speaker 3: This, this whole story heterosexuality just seems very stressful. Every

1156
00:49:50,960 --> 00:49:52,640
Speaker 3: time I think about, oh, I should I.

1157
00:49:52,600 --> 00:49:54,839
Speaker 4: Should maybe do women to give y'all, it's just bitch,

1158
00:49:54,880 --> 00:49:57,799
Speaker 4: just and I make this ship look fun at all.

1159
00:49:58,480 --> 00:49:59,920
Speaker 3: There's always some fighting and dry.

1160
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:03,040
Speaker 1: Y'all tell the listeners how to support you in this

1161
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:04,280
Speaker 1: time of a strike.

1162
00:50:04,600 --> 00:50:07,279
Speaker 2: What's the easiest way to whether it be Come to.

1163
00:50:07,320 --> 00:50:12,319
Speaker 4: The comedy clubs, come to the show. Understand, we don't

1164
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:14,600
Speaker 4: sell out, we don't make no money. Help us make

1165
00:50:14,640 --> 00:50:16,600
Speaker 4: this money, can help us pay these bills. We ain't

1166
00:50:16,640 --> 00:50:17,640
Speaker 4: had a check since April.

1167
00:50:17,719 --> 00:50:18,399
Speaker 3: Were on the road.

1168
00:50:19,120 --> 00:50:20,560
Speaker 2: Now the show has to be so hold out for

1169
00:50:20,600 --> 00:50:21,319
Speaker 2: y'all to make some red.

1170
00:50:26,120 --> 00:50:26,640
Speaker 1: Do we know that.

1171
00:50:26,760 --> 00:50:28,480
Speaker 2: Come see us on the Climax tour.

1172
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:31,560
Speaker 3: But right now, like the show, like smil like we

1173
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 3: got the most like stand ups that's ever probably that's

1174
00:50:35,719 --> 00:50:38,759
Speaker 3: ever been working on screen and behind the scenes. Like

1175
00:50:38,960 --> 00:50:41,160
Speaker 3: literally almost all of us are on tour right now.

1176
00:50:41,440 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 3: Writers stand up. Everybody's on the road. She just got

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00:50:44,000 --> 00:50:46,359
Speaker 3: back from Florida, I just got back from DC. I'm

1178
00:50:46,400 --> 00:50:48,000
Speaker 3: leaving back out at the end of the at the

1179
00:50:48,120 --> 00:50:49,960
Speaker 3: end of the week. And she probably she's leaving.

1180
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Speaker 1: I didn't even realize Quest Love was doing all these

1181
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:54,439
Speaker 1: tours because then the game doing a show right now,

1182
00:50:54,480 --> 00:50:55,359
Speaker 1: like you know.

1183
00:50:55,719 --> 00:50:57,440
Speaker 3: So so we out here in these streets. That's how

1184
00:50:58,160 --> 00:51:01,000
Speaker 3: to support us. But also like you know, so many people.

1185
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:02,759
Speaker 3: A lot of people also are just like a lot

1186
00:51:02,800 --> 00:51:04,600
Speaker 3: of them aren't a lot of actors and writers aren't

1187
00:51:04,600 --> 00:51:07,120
Speaker 3: stand up comedians like we are. So like they, you know,

1188
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:13,120
Speaker 3: repost them. Damn the memes and uh puples and France

1189
00:51:13,200 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 3: dressers screaming at people every day on the news. Go

1190
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:17,759
Speaker 3: ahead and repost that and make this and send the

1191
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Speaker 3: word out.

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Speaker 1: No, that's helpful, I really want. I think people genuinely

1193
00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:22,920
Speaker 1: want to know how to help y'all, how to support you,

1194
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:25,399
Speaker 1: especially when they're fans of your work too. So check

1195
00:51:25,480 --> 00:51:29,400
Speaker 1: them out and also Patreon dot com, Backslash Horrible Decisions,

1196
00:51:29,480 --> 00:51:32,719
Speaker 1: check out our bonus episodes, our town halls every one

1197
00:51:32,719 --> 00:51:35,160
Speaker 1: month we do that and yeah, we got to come

1198
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:36,040
Speaker 1: to an episode with you and.

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Speaker 2: Dicey oh one, d Per Please, where the fuck is

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00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:38,760
Speaker 2: your podcast?

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Speaker 1: Nigga?

1202
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:41,279
Speaker 3: I don't have one. I feel like I'm a better

1203
00:51:41,320 --> 00:51:44,359
Speaker 3: guest podcast guest than I would be hosts. I don't

1204
00:51:44,360 --> 00:51:46,799
Speaker 3: think people really need to see and hear from me

1205
00:51:46,960 --> 00:51:48,359
Speaker 3: every single week. I don't know.

1206
00:51:48,440 --> 00:51:50,279
Speaker 2: Maybe it's too much when you work together.

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00:51:50,400 --> 00:51:52,520
Speaker 3: No, no, yeah, people ask me that all the time,

1208
00:51:52,560 --> 00:51:54,000
Speaker 3: that you need to have podcasts. You'd be having so

1209
00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:55,799
Speaker 3: many stories. I'm like, yeah, but y'all would get sick

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00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:55,960
Speaker 3: in me.

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00:51:56,200 --> 00:51:58,560
Speaker 2: You give Twitter legendary like vibes.

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00:51:58,360 --> 00:52:00,520
Speaker 3: You though, but you know, I just like to pop

1213
00:52:00,600 --> 00:52:03,480
Speaker 3: up on my friends successful show, you know, and and

1214
00:52:03,600 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 3: be like hey, y'all, and then I do you know?

1215
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:06,560
Speaker 3: I feel like I'm a really great guest.

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Speaker 2: You're fantastic, and you made this show very gay today.

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00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:12,840
Speaker 1: You know, this show was very gay for y'all for

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00:52:12,960 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 1: me twenty nineteen.

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00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:16,160
Speaker 3: They was tired of me talking with Lady Weezy. Pride

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00:52:16,200 --> 00:52:18,040
Speaker 3: was last month. Okay, we're done.

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Speaker 1: I have not been gay like two years.

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Speaker 3: Okay, cool.

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Speaker 2: Anyway, do wear birds. Thank y'all for listening.

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Speaker 1: If you want to check these two out, please check

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Speaker 1: the description of the bio to follow them and follow

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Speaker 1: all their work. Do you Asso