1 00:00:02,200 --> 00:00:07,480 Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Chelsea, 2 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 1: Good morning, welcome to the program. How are you okay? 3 00:00:10,480 --> 00:00:13,520 Speaker 2: Good morning. Hi, I'm a huge fan of the show. 4 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:16,560 Speaker 1: Oh my god, Chelsea is ready to go. Well, thank you. 5 00:00:16,640 --> 00:00:18,680 Speaker 1: I'm a big fan of you, Chelsea. So what's going on? 6 00:00:18,760 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 2: Oh my god? 7 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:21,560 Speaker 1: Which is dude, Charlie? We gotta know everything? How did 8 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:23,880 Speaker 1: you meet? When I say it like that, Charlie, I 9 00:00:23,880 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: don't know what's going on with this guy? How did 10 00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:26,920 Speaker 1: you meet? Tell us about any dates you've been on, 11 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 1: and then where things are now? Okay? 12 00:00:28,760 --> 00:00:32,199 Speaker 2: Well, I met Charlie on hinge and we matched and 13 00:00:32,280 --> 00:00:35,000 Speaker 2: flirted for a little bit before going, you know, on 14 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 2: our first date, and we went out for some drinks. 15 00:00:37,800 --> 00:00:40,280 Speaker 2: I personally thought we had a lot of fun. He's 16 00:00:40,560 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 2: really cute, we had a lot in common, and honestly, 17 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:46,760 Speaker 2: he kissed me. So I'm pretty sure that means we're 18 00:00:46,760 --> 00:00:48,559 Speaker 2: going to go out again. Like that's usually a really 19 00:00:48,600 --> 00:00:49,160 Speaker 2: good sign. 20 00:00:50,720 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 1: I'll give you that. I mean a kiss at the 21 00:00:52,400 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: end of the day. You don't normally kiss someone that 22 00:00:54,600 --> 00:00:57,040 Speaker 1: you're like, not in you know, that you think's disgusting 23 00:00:57,120 --> 00:01:00,600 Speaker 1: or something. Usually, so I thought that was a good sign. 24 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 2: But like now he's ghosting me. So I'm a little confused. 25 00:01:04,360 --> 00:01:06,679 Speaker 2: I'm really bummed, and I just I don't know. I 26 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:08,720 Speaker 2: don't know what to do. So in my head, I'm like, 27 00:01:08,760 --> 00:01:10,720 Speaker 2: you know what, my favorite morning show, they're gonna be 28 00:01:10,760 --> 00:01:11,280 Speaker 2: able to help me. 29 00:01:11,319 --> 00:01:11,800 Speaker 3: I know it. 30 00:01:12,120 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 1: Well, I mean, we're gonna help somebody here. I don't 31 00:01:15,160 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 1: sometimes it's sometimes it's you, and sometimes it's someone else 32 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:20,240 Speaker 1: but the other person, but I don't know. Let's call 33 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 1: this guy, Charlie. I can't wait. I'm gonna ask a 34 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:24,320 Speaker 1: bunch of questions. You'll be on the phone at the 35 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:25,959 Speaker 1: same time. At some point you're welcome to jump in 36 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:27,720 Speaker 1: on the call. And the hope is always is that 37 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 1: we can straighten this out and set you guys up 38 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 1: on another date that we pay for. 39 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:33,520 Speaker 2: Okay, that sounds great, Thank you so much. 40 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:35,480 Speaker 1: Let's see what happens next. Part two of Waiting by 41 00:01:35,520 --> 00:01:39,360 Speaker 1: the Phone after this song on The Fred Show. Good morning, 42 00:01:39,440 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Part two of Waiting by the Phone. Hey, Chelsea, Yeah, 43 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:45,760 Speaker 1: all right, I wass call this guy Charlie, who you 44 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:47,720 Speaker 1: met on the dating app Hinge. You went on a 45 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:49,880 Speaker 1: date and you thought the date went great. You guys kissed. 46 00:01:49,880 --> 00:01:51,400 Speaker 1: At the end of the day, he kissed you, and 47 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:53,480 Speaker 1: you thought that was a good sign, and so you 48 00:01:53,600 --> 00:01:56,680 Speaker 1: laughed this date, thinking I'm gonna hear from this guy again. 49 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:59,680 Speaker 1: We're gonna reconnect or connect again and go on another date, 50 00:01:59,680 --> 00:02:02,760 Speaker 1: and this is all good. I hope, So, I hope 51 00:02:02,800 --> 00:02:05,200 Speaker 1: it is. I just don't know what happened right right, Well, 52 00:02:05,200 --> 00:02:06,720 Speaker 1: you thought it was gonna be all good. But let's see. 53 00:02:06,760 --> 00:02:09,360 Speaker 1: Let's call this guy now and and good luck. 54 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:18,959 Speaker 2: Thank you so much. O. 55 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:24,880 Speaker 1: Hi is this Charlie? Yeah, Hi Charlie. My name is Fred. 56 00:02:24,880 --> 00:02:27,000 Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred's Show, the Morning radio Show, 57 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:27,520 Speaker 1: the Whole Cruise. 58 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:27,720 Speaker 2: Here. 59 00:02:27,760 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 1: I have to tell you that we are on the 60 00:02:28,919 --> 00:02:31,320 Speaker 1: radio right now and I would need your permission to 61 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: continue with the call. Can which that for just a second, 62 00:02:33,200 --> 00:02:37,079 Speaker 1: would you mind? Yeah? Man's fine, what's up? Well? Thank you, 63 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:38,799 Speaker 1: thank you. Man. We're calling on behalf of a woman 64 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: who says that she met you on on Hinge, the 65 00:02:42,280 --> 00:02:47,040 Speaker 1: dating app. Her name is Chelsea. Do you remember Chelsea? Wow? Yeah, 66 00:02:47,080 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 1: I'm not going to be talking about that though. Okay, well, 67 00:02:51,520 --> 00:02:52,880 Speaker 1: I know you just said you're not gonna talk about it, 68 00:02:52,919 --> 00:02:57,360 Speaker 1: But why why can't we talk about it? 69 00:02:56,919 --> 00:02:59,959 Speaker 3: I know it's you know, we're on the radio and stuff. 70 00:03:00,360 --> 00:03:05,919 Speaker 3: I just don't feel comfortable talking about that situation. It's 71 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:07,480 Speaker 3: just it's not appropriate, to be honest. 72 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:09,799 Speaker 1: Well, I don't want you to feel uncomfortable, and you're 73 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:12,000 Speaker 1: welcome to hang up at any time, but I will 74 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:14,959 Speaker 1: give you context. She reached out to us and said 75 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:16,400 Speaker 1: that she had met you on the dating app and 76 00:03:16,400 --> 00:03:18,040 Speaker 1: that she felt like that the date that you went 77 00:03:18,080 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 1: on went really well and she's disappointed that she hasn't 78 00:03:20,320 --> 00:03:22,880 Speaker 1: heard from you since the date. So it would be 79 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: helpful if you could tell us why, and then we'll 80 00:03:25,760 --> 00:03:28,520 Speaker 1: tell her and then you know, I guess everyone can 81 00:03:28,560 --> 00:03:28,840 Speaker 1: move on. 82 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:33,600 Speaker 3: Okay. So I know we're on the radio, so I'll 83 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 3: try to keep something PG that that is. 84 00:03:37,360 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: Very much not PGH. Okay. 85 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 3: So I'm not sure how to or I'm not sure 86 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 3: how much you know. But you know, we were on 87 00:03:47,680 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 3: the date and she was fine, you know, Chelsea was great. 88 00:03:50,040 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 3: But after the date, we went to her place and 89 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 3: you know, we did some pretty heavy making out and 90 00:03:56,800 --> 00:03:59,520 Speaker 3: then all of a sudden, she turned into a different 91 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:05,720 Speaker 3: person out of nowhere. He asked me to hit her 92 00:04:06,520 --> 00:04:10,920 Speaker 3: in the face, and I didn't know how to handle that, 93 00:04:11,640 --> 00:04:14,640 Speaker 3: like he wanted me to punch her or slap her 94 00:04:14,760 --> 00:04:17,560 Speaker 3: or do something to her physical appearance on her face. 95 00:04:19,600 --> 00:04:24,320 Speaker 1: She said she did. She did, Yeah, she did. She 96 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:27,159 Speaker 1: didn't get around and telling us about the whatever, the 97 00:04:27,520 --> 00:04:32,200 Speaker 1: physical assault that she's asking for the assault, right, So okay, 98 00:04:32,400 --> 00:04:35,159 Speaker 1: so hmm, yeah, because it is a little early, so 99 00:04:35,880 --> 00:04:38,760 Speaker 1: some people like it a little more aggressively than others, 100 00:04:39,839 --> 00:04:43,560 Speaker 1: and that can be awkward, especially because it's hard to 101 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:45,279 Speaker 1: know when you first meet someone kind of where the 102 00:04:45,279 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 1: limit is and and maybe you're not into that at all. 103 00:04:47,600 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 1: You know, it doesn't sound like that was something that 104 00:04:49,160 --> 00:04:51,320 Speaker 1: you'd want to do anyway, right, No, And I. 105 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:52,560 Speaker 3: Said no, this, let's be clear. 106 00:04:52,760 --> 00:04:54,560 Speaker 1: I said, no, I'm not doing that. 107 00:04:54,600 --> 00:04:57,799 Speaker 3: I don't feel comfortable. I wasn't raised like that, and anyway, 108 00:04:57,800 --> 00:04:59,720 Speaker 3: what kind of person wants that, you know. I was 109 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 3: just completely turned off by the entire idea of that. 110 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:06,279 Speaker 3: And I don't know what was she trying to trap 111 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:09,000 Speaker 3: me or something or try to get me arrested. I 112 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:11,599 Speaker 3: just didn't know what her angle was, So I just. 113 00:05:11,560 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 1: It was I forgot to mention that Chelsea aka Mike 114 00:05:15,240 --> 00:05:17,160 Speaker 1: Tyson is here or I guess you were going to 115 00:05:17,200 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 1: be Mike Tyson. 116 00:05:18,400 --> 00:05:20,760 Speaker 2: You basically I can't believe you just gave out all 117 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:23,120 Speaker 2: of my business on the internet, like on the radio, 118 00:05:23,279 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 2: like I just. 119 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: Like, hold Mike Tyson. You asked us to make this call, 120 00:05:31,240 --> 00:05:34,000 Speaker 1: and you wanted to know what was going on Chelsea, 121 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:36,320 Speaker 1: and he told us you had to. 122 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:38,720 Speaker 2: Know why he wasn't calling me back. But I didn't 123 00:05:38,720 --> 00:05:41,159 Speaker 2: accept him to put all my business out on the radio. 124 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 1: That's crazy. But you wanted to know why he's not calling. 125 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:46,600 Speaker 1: That's why he's not calling. You were present for this, 126 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:48,200 Speaker 1: you asked for it. I mean you had to know 127 00:05:48,279 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 1: it was a possibility that was going to come up. 128 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:52,279 Speaker 2: No, I didn't think it was that big of a deal. 129 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:53,920 Speaker 2: Like that doesn't make any sense. 130 00:05:54,279 --> 00:05:56,479 Speaker 1: So is this what is this the way he's telling 131 00:05:56,480 --> 00:05:59,040 Speaker 1: the story? Is this? Is it accurate? Like you wanted? 132 00:05:59,520 --> 00:06:00,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, little roughness. 133 00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 2: Everyone likes different stuff, like it's normal like to call 134 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:06,240 Speaker 2: me out like I'm crazy for that. It doesn't make 135 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:09,520 Speaker 2: any sense. Like everyone has things they like. I didn't say, 136 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:12,360 Speaker 2: oh he did this or wanted it. I didn't, you know, 137 00:06:12,400 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 2: go after what he likes. So yeah, he could just 138 00:06:15,240 --> 00:06:18,080 Speaker 2: keep his mouth shut and it's not like a big deal. 139 00:06:18,120 --> 00:06:20,080 Speaker 2: He could have talked to me about it instead of 140 00:06:20,480 --> 00:06:21,920 Speaker 2: blasting it all over the radio. 141 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:24,600 Speaker 1: Now, I would agree you could talk to you about it. 142 00:06:24,640 --> 00:06:27,080 Speaker 1: But you you cannot be mad that this guy just 143 00:06:27,160 --> 00:06:29,240 Speaker 1: told that story because you asked us to call him 144 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:31,640 Speaker 1: and get the story, so like, you can't be upset 145 00:06:31,680 --> 00:06:32,240 Speaker 1: about that. 146 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:34,200 Speaker 2: But how would I have known that that was the 147 00:06:34,240 --> 00:06:36,400 Speaker 2: problem if he didn't tell me, like you could have 148 00:06:36,440 --> 00:06:39,160 Speaker 2: told me, not the radio. You would have said, oh, 149 00:06:39,200 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 2: I'll tell her. I don't need to tell the radio. 150 00:06:41,279 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 1: It's not Well, he kind of did try that and 151 00:06:42,839 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 1: then I pried it out of it. But you know, 152 00:06:44,880 --> 00:06:46,440 Speaker 1: I think if you're going around asking people to punch 153 00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 1: you in the face, like I think, that's probably something 154 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:49,920 Speaker 1: that's going to make some people uncomfortable. 155 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:52,360 Speaker 2: Listen, that's taken way out of line. That is not 156 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:53,039 Speaker 2: what I said. 157 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:53,919 Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know. 158 00:06:53,960 --> 00:06:54,840 Speaker 2: That is not what I said. 159 00:06:54,880 --> 00:06:56,480 Speaker 1: As much as I would like to know what you said, 160 00:06:56,520 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 1: I don't know that this is the time of the place. 161 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 1: So let's just say that you like a little bit 162 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:02,919 Speaker 1: differently than he likes it. You have different preferences in 163 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 1: that regard. It's a little bit. Okay, well, but I 164 00:07:09,440 --> 00:07:15,480 Speaker 1: would ask this is not his fault to get the 165 00:07:15,520 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: information for you, and I did. Okay, So I've. 166 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:22,200 Speaker 2: Never heard of a man complaining about the way a 167 00:07:22,240 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 2: woman makes out with him ever in my life. Like, 168 00:07:24,800 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 2: I've never heard that, And this is like a little ridiculous. 169 00:07:28,640 --> 00:07:30,560 Speaker 1: I don't know. You know, you can get a little sloppy, 170 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:32,440 Speaker 1: you can get a little spitty, you can get a 171 00:07:32,440 --> 00:07:34,760 Speaker 1: little toothy. Yeah, there are lots of ways I could 172 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:42,440 Speaker 1: complain about the way that people can listen, she's all upset, 173 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:44,280 Speaker 1: but like I didn't want to know this, Like I 174 00:07:44,360 --> 00:07:46,440 Speaker 1: was perfectly fine not knowing that she likes to be punched. 175 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:51,600 Speaker 1: I was my own business, tricking my coffee until you called. 176 00:07:52,200 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 2: I did not ask to be punched. Okay, that's like 177 00:07:54,760 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 2: really dramatic. 178 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:58,920 Speaker 1: Okay, you know, Tarlie, you've been awfully quiet. Here is it? 179 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 1: Are you fearful? Are you scared them? Fearful? Percent? I'm fearful. 180 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 1: I don't know what this woman really wants. 181 00:08:04,720 --> 00:08:06,760 Speaker 3: And there's no way I'm going to hit a woman. 182 00:08:07,280 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 3: But what's what's the end game? Like, you know, I 183 00:08:10,200 --> 00:08:11,760 Speaker 3: hit a woman in the faith and then all of 184 00:08:11,760 --> 00:08:14,320 Speaker 3: a sudden, who knows she's got cameras in her house and. 185 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 1: Now going to jail? 186 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:19,160 Speaker 2: My god, not Wow, you clearly have like very little 187 00:08:19,200 --> 00:08:22,040 Speaker 2: experience with women, wow. 188 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:25,520 Speaker 1: Or women that have a particular kind of preference. I 189 00:08:26,160 --> 00:08:29,600 Speaker 1: can see how this would make some men uncomfortable because 190 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:32,960 Speaker 1: I don't know. I feel like beginning, yeah, like it's 191 00:08:32,960 --> 00:08:38,880 Speaker 1: something I don't know. You, yeah, go to jail. 192 00:08:39,920 --> 00:08:40,880 Speaker 2: I need to come on. 193 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:43,319 Speaker 1: He's like third or fourth date. Now come on, now, 194 00:08:43,480 --> 00:08:46,120 Speaker 1: you know these things are different now I think I 195 00:08:46,120 --> 00:08:48,600 Speaker 1: don't know what. I think. This is a first date activity. 196 00:08:48,840 --> 00:08:50,720 Speaker 1: I feel like you got to get to know somebody 197 00:08:50,960 --> 00:08:53,360 Speaker 1: and understand, Like what's your favorite color? I want to 198 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:57,560 Speaker 1: know that first. Yeah, yeah, yeah, what's Charlie's favorite color? Chelsea? 199 00:08:57,679 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 1: Do you know? Because no, she's too busy. I don't 200 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:13,920 Speaker 1: care anymore. I don't care, all right. I look, I'm 201 00:09:13,960 --> 00:09:17,640 Speaker 1: not sure Charlie. I understand that this made you uncomfortable. Chelsea. 202 00:09:17,679 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 1: I'm sorry that you feel exposed, But you asked us 203 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:22,439 Speaker 1: to find out why he was uncomfortable. He told us, 204 00:09:22,760 --> 00:09:25,920 Speaker 1: and now we know. I'll ask the question. It's rhetorical, 205 00:09:26,000 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 1: but Charlie, would you like to go out with Chelsea again? 206 00:09:28,920 --> 00:09:31,640 Speaker 1: We'll pay for the boxing lessons. That's a hard no 207 00:09:31,800 --> 00:09:35,840 Speaker 1: for me. No, thanks, Okay for me too, Oh so 208 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:37,160 Speaker 1: she okay, so it's a no for her. 209 00:09:37,360 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 2: I wouldn't hit you in the. 210 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:47,199 Speaker 1: So weird. This is so weird. Just you know what 211 00:09:47,320 --> 00:09:49,640 Speaker 1: I got up this morning. I didn't I didn't foresee 212 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:53,000 Speaker 1: this happened. This, this one all happening. But anyway, Chelsea, 213 00:09:53,040 --> 00:09:54,760 Speaker 1: good luck to you. Charlie, good luck to you as well. 214 00:09:54,800 --> 00:09:55,440 Speaker 1: Thanks for answering.