WEBVTT - Episode 146: Freestyle on the D (Feat. Saweetie)

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<v Speaker 1>What's up y'all. It's a lift service and I'm intil ye,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm g g McGuire, I'm love YAUP. We already broke

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<v Speaker 1>the mic, right, she got skills now. We were just

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<v Speaker 1>talking um right before we started about guys who actually

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<v Speaker 1>play up their sex game or play it down. Some

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<v Speaker 1>guys would act like they're not as good as you

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<v Speaker 1>know they probably really are. Oh I'm destart right, it's

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<v Speaker 1>just medium. I got a medium, and some guys play

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<v Speaker 1>it up too much and they're like, oh my ship popping.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, once you get this, you'll never want nobody else.

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<v Speaker 1>So if somebody you and you'd be like lies, like

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<v Speaker 1>so how can you judge? Um? And has it ever

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<v Speaker 1>turned you on when somebody's bragged? Um, let me see. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I probably someone just be low key and just surprised me, right,

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<v Speaker 1>like what it's not that small? Um, I think there's something.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that guys can really get you with the

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<v Speaker 1>whole bragging because then you'd be like, oh, I gotta

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<v Speaker 1>see what this is. Because nobody wants nobody to downplay

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<v Speaker 1>their ship. You know what I'm saying, Because if a

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<v Speaker 1>guy is telling you, well, you know, I'm just okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm not hurting, no guts and nothing, that's right,

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<v Speaker 1>rather than just trying to talk about it and then

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<v Speaker 1>don't talk about it all. Yeah, and then you used

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<v Speaker 1>to be like I have it, Luria. I was saying

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<v Speaker 1>that people don't talk about sex before they have sex, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I was thinking about it earlier, and I was wondering,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, you know, how come we never talk about

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<v Speaker 1>sex before we have sex. I feel like it's we

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<v Speaker 1>have sex with the person and then we get closed,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we started talking about sex. So you have

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<v Speaker 1>sex before you get closed, right, yeah, yeah, because it

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<v Speaker 1>is a different kind of closeness, like you could suck, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you could work with somebody and just don't kiss me. Nah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even gotta be like that, Like you could

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<v Speaker 1>like them in anything, but you don't know them as

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<v Speaker 1>well as if you was with them for three or

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<v Speaker 1>four or five years or live with them. Like to me,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't know somebody util you live with them, so

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<v Speaker 1>close to me is like y'all live together. That's a lot.

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<v Speaker 1>That's when you really start talking about things though, because

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like that I dated somebody for five years,

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't live with him, all right, but y'all got

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<v Speaker 1>closer over the years. Correct, And that's when y'all felt

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<v Speaker 1>you felt more fine with being like if say he

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<v Speaker 1>was lazy that day, like I had to do all

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<v Speaker 1>the something crazy. We dated and then the first two

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<v Speaker 1>months that we dated, we sell each other every single day,

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<v Speaker 1>every single day. He worked a block away from me

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<v Speaker 1>and live right near me in Brooklyn. Is that a

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<v Speaker 1>good or bad thing? Like? Do you think that's a

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<v Speaker 1>break in between? Like maybe one day off for you?

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<v Speaker 1>Just say that every single day. I've been like that

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<v Speaker 1>before and he still cheated me too, And you could

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<v Speaker 1>to take breaks and he'll still cheat me. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>the break because they always still cheat. That was there's hope.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you ever been in a monogamous m Yeah, I have,

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<v Speaker 1>see it can happen. It was only for two weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>It was two weeks, but yeah, because I wouldn't found

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<v Speaker 1>out the tea. It was like it was like young

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<v Speaker 1>love though it was like how young It was like

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<v Speaker 1>um like seventeen. See, we was all fake. Funny Funny

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<v Speaker 1>one is that you lush your virginity to huh. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>that's cute. If you can hug, you can hear she

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<v Speaker 1>heard she called gond with that one. She said seventeen. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I told him, and I'm thinking to I'll playing the fist.

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<v Speaker 1>Going back to the question about bragging on your your sex,

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<v Speaker 1>I think bragging at any right is to turn off, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>don't brag to me about nothing, don't name drop, don't

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<v Speaker 1>brag about where you've been, about who you know, about

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<v Speaker 1>what you've done. Especially oh, I used to this, and

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<v Speaker 1>I used to that, but you don't know more. That

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<v Speaker 1>is the worst. Now. I feel like the bragging thing,

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<v Speaker 1>it depends like if they're doing it in a way

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<v Speaker 1>to be like funny or flirty or sect you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, like just to talk to you, that's

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<v Speaker 1>one thing. But if they done seryous like girl, I'll

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<v Speaker 1>bust your hat, want to say, and usually be the

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<v Speaker 1>ones with the smallest thing that talked the most ships

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<v Speaker 1>like I don't know him. My experience and my experience,

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<v Speaker 1>guys with little dicks don't try to suck you too quick.

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<v Speaker 1>Some of them be pretty fucking courageous because they want

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<v Speaker 1>to make sure that you're mad cool first, really like

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<v Speaker 1>them first, before they hit you with that bond you

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<v Speaker 1>like them and not. They just don't want you to

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<v Speaker 1>tell the next bitch like y'all could be I whatever. Whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>They gotta make sure you cool so you don't blow

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<v Speaker 1>their shut up, Like right, so and so got the

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<v Speaker 1>smallest they got like a wall that what's the video?

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<v Speaker 1>You're still young, though, so I'm sure that like you're like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let's talk about your your views on relationships. Okay, are

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<v Speaker 1>you still like hopeful about love and everything and not

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<v Speaker 1>jaded about relationships? I'm open. It's like I mean I did,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not jaded good. I've only been in like two relationships,

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<v Speaker 1>so I don't feel like I experienced a lot and

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<v Speaker 1>I'm high. That's the best way to be. And I'm picky.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just having a picky too. So when you say picky,

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<v Speaker 1>like what's your requirements? Um? So, like when I'm picking,

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<v Speaker 1>I want him to be like, you know, bossed up,

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<v Speaker 1>like same status as me. It's not like more popping.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you gotta be goofy like make me laugh? High

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<v Speaker 1>status goofy guy? Not because you can't be one of them,

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<v Speaker 1>like dude, like you know them sick like speak serious

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<v Speaker 1>and you can't play around. Yeah you know how fun

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<v Speaker 1>And he's got to be able to take you out

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<v Speaker 1>here popping too. That's not easy for guys to deal with. No,

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<v Speaker 1>it's not at all when they add with you and

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<v Speaker 1>people are coming up and asking them to take pictures,

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<v Speaker 1>like hey, hey, I don't know who you are, but

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<v Speaker 1>you take a picture of me and sweetie yeah? Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>Like are you her assistant here? You gotta take a

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<v Speaker 1>picture of us? Do you think that other men should

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<v Speaker 1>if they want to take a picture with you, should

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<v Speaker 1>ask him if it's okay? First? Not no, because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>I'm a I'm a public figure. It'd be different if

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just, you know, like some girl that they admired,

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<v Speaker 1>then that's that's different. But I feel like when you're

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<v Speaker 1>a public figure, that's what comes with the territory. So

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<v Speaker 1>if he's just working with you and he's like and

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<v Speaker 1>a dude comes up and say, yo, can you take

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<v Speaker 1>a picture of us? Not even ask him like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>excuse me, do you mind? I only say no because

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<v Speaker 1>if my dude was popping, if a girl came up

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<v Speaker 1>to me like if he if she's like a fan,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, oh yeah, it's like a picture of y'all,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it ain't nothing to me. So I would expect

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<v Speaker 1>it to be nothing for him. All right, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of famous guys in your d ms. But I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>saying no. But I always say this, like I've been

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<v Speaker 1>living in l A for like six years, so like

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<v Speaker 1>they've been in my d M. So I was like

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<v Speaker 1>not because like l A, everybody knows everybody knows each other.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like they see me around and it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>or even when you was under age, they was in

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<v Speaker 1>your DM, not even under I got to l A

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<v Speaker 1>when I was like twenty one year twenty Uh, anybody good,

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<v Speaker 1>anybody worked as a DM. Thing worked for you. Like

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<v Speaker 1>I responded to like three d ms, three over the

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<v Speaker 1>course of six or seven years, so you know they

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<v Speaker 1>was really good. But have you ever sent one? Um? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>but he didn't respond ship. He must not have seen it. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>It was like it was like I was just like

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<v Speaker 1>I remember I was like newly single and it was

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<v Speaker 1>like something funny, right, Yeah, I was like just being goofy,

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<v Speaker 1>what'd you say? You pick up line with week? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what I say. I don't know what I said,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was like it was it was like hello,

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<v Speaker 1>far fetched though? Did he go right there? Just got

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<v Speaker 1>your DM years later, but I was like you. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, like, one, I'm curious as I know what

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<v Speaker 1>would be because I would think a guy would respond

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<v Speaker 1>to you, And I wasn't even popping. I was just

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, I was like I was a helly he

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<v Speaker 1>might bring that up sometime soon. Now let's just say

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<v Speaker 1>you were in love, right and the guy was tweeting

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<v Speaker 1>you good, he was great? Would you let him use

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<v Speaker 1>your credit if he had bad credit? I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be dealing with the dude who needed But let's

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<v Speaker 1>just say he just made some bad business. He got

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<v Speaker 1>money money, He's about to get a brand new car

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<v Speaker 1>five ship. He was like, y'all put your name and

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<v Speaker 1>six months, hell alright, one year a year, like I'm coign,

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<v Speaker 1>I got the money right here, actually telling me don't fall.

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<v Speaker 1>How do you say no? Though? That's true? Now that's

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<v Speaker 1>something I don't feel comfortable with co signing for yo ship.

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<v Speaker 1>Um sorry, but what if you seen him take care

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<v Speaker 1>of everything? Like you pay every bill? Is he paying

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<v Speaker 1>my credit? Bad? Is he playing his bill? Makes bad list?

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<v Speaker 1>And there's guys that have money that don't have good credit,

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<v Speaker 1>like a building and it's not even they don't have

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<v Speaker 1>good credit. They don't have any credit. Honestly, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I say. Honestly, I say no only because the

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<v Speaker 1>year ain't enough to that's like a commitment, like you

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<v Speaker 1>gotta be like someone who I'm probably about some marry

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<v Speaker 1>or something like, because that's like a bond. And what

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<v Speaker 1>if I get tired of you, I'm not trying to

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<v Speaker 1>like have to be keep like checking in with you

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<v Speaker 1>because loy'all don't have some cable bills. Her name na

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<v Speaker 1>hold on. In my defense, right, I lived in the house. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>there was me and my ex's house and the cable, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>was in my name v n that's it. He didn't

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<v Speaker 1>had millions and trillions of bills. The cable wasn't my name,

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<v Speaker 1>but it was my house as well. That's fine. We're

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<v Speaker 1>still dealing with the repercussion. Take that ship off. I

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<v Speaker 1>fail that ship. It was like, okay, since no more

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<v Speaker 1>WiFi for you. So whatever happened in the middle of

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<v Speaker 1>his situation was kind of like I called, was like, no,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not doing this, but it wasn't my name. But

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<v Speaker 1>I also lived in the house at the time, but

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<v Speaker 1>he kept it on for like a while after you

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<v Speaker 1>like five six months bad. When you buy somebody something

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<v Speaker 1>in y'all breakup and then you'd be like, funk, I

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<v Speaker 1>just bought him. I bought my ex something and he

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<v Speaker 1>gave it to his friend. What you buy him, Louis

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<v Speaker 1>bat hand and Scarpe said. And then I seen his

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<v Speaker 1>friend with it. I was like, I'm gonna talk about

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<v Speaker 1>y'all know this. Y'all know he can't afford nothing to

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<v Speaker 1>the time. I knew before you even didn't you get

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<v Speaker 1>me it was one of our fake breakups or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess he's saying it petty to wear that on

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<v Speaker 1>the gram. Wait, well it wasn't on Instagram. I saw

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<v Speaker 1>him in person with it on, and he had it

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<v Speaker 1>like wrapped around right the scissor. What's the best thing

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<v Speaker 1>you ever bought a guy? What's the best thing? Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Some like real gold hoop airrings. They were like, I

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<v Speaker 1>was like it was right now? Was there was like

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<v Speaker 1>the mini mini gold moves and you know what I

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<v Speaker 1>had bought it with like a student loan. I had got.

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<v Speaker 1>That's real love. He would give me the best presence

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<v Speaker 1>and I never got him in present cause I couldn't

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<v Speaker 1>afford it. When you got that refund check that Holmes, No,

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<v Speaker 1>oh that was that was your long term boyfriend? I

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<v Speaker 1>think not. We was, We think not. We dated for

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<v Speaker 1>for a cool minute, but I wouldn't say that was

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<v Speaker 1>my long sterm So I was in a relationship for

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<v Speaker 1>four years before that, justin give the fucking hoops back.

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<v Speaker 1>It wasn't it wasn't. It was justin before after that,

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<v Speaker 1>after after that, that hurts. You broke up with me?

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<v Speaker 1>Now you didn't, did he? Son? That's the best payback

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<v Speaker 1>right there. But he's sick just because he he got

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<v Speaker 1>to know nothing about him. He did, you know, had

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<v Speaker 1>restaurants named after him. New York, Atlanta. You haven't been to, Justine?

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<v Speaker 1>If they went in New York before they closed, the closed,

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<v Speaker 1>both of them. Damn What kind of food was it?

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<v Speaker 1>So it was good in Atlanta as well? Yeah? Girl almost?

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<v Speaker 1>What was the what was it with the color greens

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<v Speaker 1>and the and the stuff and in the Turkey? I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, but just and just let they fried everything

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<v Speaker 1>drinks to go there on Sundays and when I did

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<v Speaker 1>some real group we've been starking, okay, but you're okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Keith Powers, that was who we're talking about. Now we

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<v Speaker 1>know him from the New Edition movie because um Ronnie, Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>he played Ronnie in that movie. Right, So are y'all

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<v Speaker 1>still like, do you still have feelings for him or

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<v Speaker 1>you're still cool? Well, I'm always love him, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>met him when I was like fourteen fifteen years old,

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<v Speaker 1>so like I've known him for like half my life.

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<v Speaker 1>That's a cute couple. Yeah, that's a cute couple. And

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<v Speaker 1>you'll be like, okay, whatever whatever, but like, congratulations on

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<v Speaker 1>all your success every time something could happen. He's in

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<v Speaker 1>the relationship right now. Oh well, okay, I didn't ask

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<v Speaker 1>that to hit you up. I still say congratulations. No

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<v Speaker 1>damn and the lie detective to you think if you

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<v Speaker 1>hit him up and was like, man, suck her, he

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<v Speaker 1>would be like her, I don't know, thanks, thank cute,

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<v Speaker 1>but I'm not even thank you. I'm not worried about that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're not like I'm just the success is just over

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<v Speaker 1>a woman. So like, if he says that, he says,

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<v Speaker 1>and if he don't, I know he sees it, right,

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<v Speaker 1>But you're still cool? Do you'll still speak to each

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<v Speaker 1>other at least? So why did you guys bring up Um?

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<v Speaker 1>It was it was growing pains. So I was in

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<v Speaker 1>college and he was acting, and we had been together

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<v Speaker 1>for like four years already, and it was just you

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<v Speaker 1>know a lot of just little problems that eventually added up.

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<v Speaker 1>So you think you Ronnie, No, actually not. Actually I

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<v Speaker 1>was really proud of him when he did that, and

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<v Speaker 1>I told him we weren't together at the time, but

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<v Speaker 1>it was really exciting to see him like finally get

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<v Speaker 1>something big and like the recognition he deserves. So what

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<v Speaker 1>kind of um, like, when's the last time you've been

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<v Speaker 1>on a date girl? Dang, like it's been a while.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been a while, like last year? Damn really down? Yeah? Both, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>you know it's it's honestly, being a woman in the industry,

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<v Speaker 1>it's easy to date, Like you're going a date tonight

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<v Speaker 1>if you want to. Yeah, so, but I try to

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<v Speaker 1>be selective because I don't know who I want to date. You.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not just trying to be like getting every saying

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<v Speaker 1>yes to everybody. But I mean, I do you know,

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<v Speaker 1>talk to people. I have a lot of old flings

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<v Speaker 1>pop back up to ye do you go back to

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<v Speaker 1>like the old ones? Are you just like I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>trying to add another people forward? Um? I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>have a lot of oath. I mean, dudes I talked to,

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<v Speaker 1>but I've only been in two relationships, so it's not

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<v Speaker 1>much to pop back. You count justin isn't lationship? Yeah? Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>we went in a relationship. Him and Keith were like,

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<v Speaker 1>my only boy, why did you jin break up? What

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<v Speaker 1>he do? He seemed like he got a lot of

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<v Speaker 1>stuff going on, you know, a lot was just going on,

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<v Speaker 1>and it was trying to focus on myself. Didn't we

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<v Speaker 1>see him in New Orleans? We definitely see him in

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<v Speaker 1>New Orleans. And one of his friends was absolutely insane,

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<v Speaker 1>Larry Larry, hell of funny. I saw him Larry too,

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<v Speaker 1>because there's Larry and he was Larry too. But this

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<v Speaker 1>little this kid was going was fucking crazy. These videos

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<v Speaker 1>that I got to him, and like about the fight,

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<v Speaker 1>the chef in the restaurant, it was the crazy in

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<v Speaker 1>the kitchen hilarious. He was in the kitchen, fake cooking.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what was it. It was hilarious. But like,

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<v Speaker 1>I just know that he was jumping on top of

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<v Speaker 1>tables in the club. So I just know that they're crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>that they're pretty lit. That you know that little crew

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<v Speaker 1>you think you were destined to be in the business

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<v Speaker 1>just because you have family members that are also pretty

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<v Speaker 1>entrenched in this. Um Like Jethoven, I felt like I

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<v Speaker 1>was destined to be in it because I felt to

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<v Speaker 1>them my soul, not because um of the relationships I've had,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I've always felt like that since I was fourteen,

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<v Speaker 1>because sometimes your family can also dictate somewhat like the

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<v Speaker 1>route that you take if you have family members that

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<v Speaker 1>are doing certain things and you have certain like access

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<v Speaker 1>and they understand it more um yes and no, but

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<v Speaker 1>I have I have pride. So I always felt like

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to work on my own and get to

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<v Speaker 1>warning it to be before I worked with one of them,

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<v Speaker 1>Like for example, like I've been no one day since

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<v Speaker 1>I was like five, Like he like I could have

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<v Speaker 1>got beats like a long time ago, but it's just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like it just didn't make any sense to me.

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<v Speaker 1>Was he like, why are you handing me up earlier? Maybe?

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<v Speaker 1>Like so my family name is Deed. They like, do

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<v Speaker 1>you know I got I got you on them beats,

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<v Speaker 1>Like just let me know. But it's just like I didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't feel like I deserved to have this A

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<v Speaker 1>Tobin stamp yet. So but now you know, I'm kind

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<v Speaker 1>of popping. We've worked together, like you know it makes

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<v Speaker 1>sense now. So I always wanted to work up on

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<v Speaker 1>my own and then connect. How did you know that

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<v Speaker 1>this was something that could be a career for you? Like,

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<v Speaker 1>at what point where you like this about to really happen?

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<v Speaker 1>I want to say last the fourth quarter of last year,

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<v Speaker 1>when I was working a lot with my manager. He

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<v Speaker 1>made it more realistic for me because like, I was

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<v Speaker 1>in limbo for a really long time. I was like depressed.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, I don't want to be in corporate America.

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<v Speaker 1>I had like three job offers and I turned them

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<v Speaker 1>all down. Hospital girl. I was trying to get that check.

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<v Speaker 1>You know they pay good and um, it just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>feel right every time I got the job offer, It's

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<v Speaker 1>just like, this is not what you want to do.

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<v Speaker 1>So I risked it and thank god I found you know,

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<v Speaker 1>my management. I'm now signed, So you feel me all

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<v Speaker 1>that prayer work? How did you find your manager? How

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<v Speaker 1>did he find you? So? I was a brand ambassador

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<v Speaker 1>for the fancy Puma slides and I had went to

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<v Speaker 1>an event and UM met up with him there and

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<v Speaker 1>he was like oh, that's meet. And I'm thinking like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>here goes another person saying it's meet because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>being a girl in the industry, everybody can help. Can't

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<v Speaker 1>help me and help, you know. But he was really no,

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<v Speaker 1>but he was. He was he was serious. And I

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<v Speaker 1>looked him up and you know, his resume he had

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<v Speaker 1>worked with like b tu K worked with Beyonce for

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<v Speaker 1>a significant amount of time. So I was like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe this is like finally something that's sprol and it

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<v Speaker 1>was like he was super respectful. His work ethic is crazy,

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<v Speaker 1>My work ethic is crazy. So we just worked really

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<v Speaker 1>well together. And from when y'all had that initial meeting,

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<v Speaker 1>how long did it take for things to start happening?

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<v Speaker 1>Sometimes we get discouraged, like like you said, we have

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<v Speaker 1>meetings all the time and nothing materializes. How long did

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<v Speaker 1>it take till it was like, oh, okay, this is

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<v Speaker 1>so I met him, um last last April. That I

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<v Speaker 1>want to say took a couple of months. That's quick,

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<v Speaker 1>but I know that things I wasn't discouraged though, so

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<v Speaker 1>like things started kicking off before I could even get discouraged.

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<v Speaker 1>So um, you know, I was recording a lot and

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<v Speaker 1>I always say like hard work like doesn't go unnoticed.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was always constantly posting online, interacting with my fans,

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<v Speaker 1>making sure that everything was you know, snowballing, and it

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<v Speaker 1>just popped off, especially with Icy Girl. That's what I

0:20:23.560 --> 0:20:27.239
<v Speaker 1>always say, Consistency is really important because sometimes I get

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<v Speaker 1>starts up like a small following, and then you keep

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<v Speaker 1>on making sure you keep on going, keep on posting.

0:20:32.280 --> 0:20:34.199
<v Speaker 1>The fan based grows and grows and they get used

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<v Speaker 1>to you posting thing, and then you know when it's

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<v Speaker 1>time is time? No, Because every time I would post

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<v Speaker 1>like a rap video, I'd get like five or ten

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<v Speaker 1>thousand followers in a day, and it's just like okay,

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<v Speaker 1>like I'm getting like my people are following me because

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<v Speaker 1>of my talent, not because I'm cute, because I post

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<v Speaker 1>pictures all the time and like there's no you feel me,

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<v Speaker 1>no interaction. But once I post a video of me rapping,

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<v Speaker 1>like it just goes up. But being cute doesn't. Because

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<v Speaker 1>some of these girls look a little crazy. It definitely is,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, in addition to the package. But I was

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<v Speaker 1>getting recognized for your talent, and you know, everybody pretty

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<v Speaker 1>now I felt on the ground. Everybody everybody. Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait,

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<v Speaker 1>this just makes me. I was at this event over

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<v Speaker 1>the weekend and really a fashion show, and there was

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<v Speaker 1>a girl who I have a great time. There was

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<v Speaker 1>a girl who I noticed. There was a girl who

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<v Speaker 1>I noticed at this show, and me and the person

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<v Speaker 1>I was with like paid attention to her. Neither one

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<v Speaker 1>of us mentioned the girl, but we both like I

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<v Speaker 1>saw her. So then the next day I'm on Instagram

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<v Speaker 1>and I see a picture of her, and without even

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<v Speaker 1>showing my friend that was with me, I looked at

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<v Speaker 1>the picture. I'm like, wait, I saw this girl and

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<v Speaker 1>she did not look like this. She looked a whole hot,

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<v Speaker 1>ask mess, and she was like the girl And then

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<v Speaker 1>I showed that the picture and she was like, yo,

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<v Speaker 1>she ain't. Like like Instagram can be very deceiving because

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<v Speaker 1>that girl look nice and clean and in person, jeans

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<v Speaker 1>was ashy and baggy, and her she just looked like

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<v Speaker 1>disheveled and like a greasy mass. But her picture was nice.

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<v Speaker 1>I always feel like girls like that don't got no friends.

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<v Speaker 1>She was herself, so I don't know know, but like

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like when I saw her, she was like

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<v Speaker 1>your circle like and like jans grow on eyebrows. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>not even that. Like, you know, people was noticing you

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<v Speaker 1>don't look like that. Did you imagine saying that to

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<v Speaker 1>one of your friends? She said, you know how like

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<v Speaker 1>your jeans like she tried to go for the boyfriend

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<v Speaker 1>jeans look instead of them being boyfriends. They were just

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<v Speaker 1>too big. So like the butt part was and it

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<v Speaker 1>was like ashy, the no friend jean. They was like

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<v Speaker 1>ash and like they wasn't like fitting her right, and

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<v Speaker 1>she just looked, that's the no boyfriends. You just look

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<v Speaker 1>at boy friends all right. Now here's another question. If

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<v Speaker 1>a guy is struggling at a certain point in his life,

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<v Speaker 1>do you feel like he should avoid going on dates, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just say right now, he don't have it together.

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<v Speaker 1>You don't have you know, his car is not he

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<v Speaker 1>don't have a got he not really kind of like that.

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<v Speaker 1>He can't take you. You know, you're high maintenance. He

0:23:20.520 --> 0:23:22.920
<v Speaker 1>can't take you no place that great, but he really

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<v Speaker 1>does want to take you out and not miss it

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<v Speaker 1>on this opportunity. So do you feel like when a

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<v Speaker 1>man is struggling he should just prioritize, sit back and

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<v Speaker 1>not even bother or is it cool for him to

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<v Speaker 1>try to figure things that he could do without letting

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<v Speaker 1>your creat he's on a really low budget. This reminded

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<v Speaker 1>me of Half Bag when he took the girl on

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<v Speaker 1>the own. I'm not gonna lie. If your car and

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<v Speaker 1>all that should have sucked up and you're struggling, you

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<v Speaker 1>need to focus on that, like you shouldn't be And

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not trying to say you can't get in a relationship. Whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>If it happens, that happens. But I don't feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you should be trying to go out your way to

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<v Speaker 1>go on date and stuff like that. I feel like

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<v Speaker 1>you should be taking that money that you're going and

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<v Speaker 1>put towards the date and put the towards your car.

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<v Speaker 1>But what if you meet sweetie and she's flirting with you,

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<v Speaker 1>and you're flaring with her, and you like, I really

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<v Speaker 1>want to take her out and broke broke dar doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>go off. A long time ago, there was this one

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<v Speaker 1>guy that I liked, and he told me much later

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that at that time he didn't really want

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<v Speaker 1>to go out was because he was sucked up, like

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<v Speaker 1>his money wasn't right, and he looked at you and

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<v Speaker 1>see that he can't afford your type of and he

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<v Speaker 1>black cha champagne, but she drinking a whole lot of

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<v Speaker 1>other drink. So if it got to add out of

0:24:45.640 --> 0:24:47.960
<v Speaker 1>the balance, and you get what I'm saying, like and

0:24:48.200 --> 0:24:50.800
<v Speaker 1>drink is food and he can't buy you nothing that's

0:24:50.840 --> 0:24:54.119
<v Speaker 1>not luxury, So ain't no gifts propping off. But you

0:24:54.200 --> 0:24:56.720
<v Speaker 1>could miss out on like for him, he could miss

0:24:56.760 --> 0:24:59.080
<v Speaker 1>out on a great opportunity because do you really want

0:24:59.080 --> 0:25:00.920
<v Speaker 1>to date a woman that's really only interested in you

0:25:01.040 --> 0:25:03.320
<v Speaker 1>if you have money? Like that, it's not just being

0:25:03.400 --> 0:25:05.600
<v Speaker 1>interested if you have money, but it's if I can

0:25:05.680 --> 0:25:08.240
<v Speaker 1>maintain myself at a certain lifestyle, then I expect whoever

0:25:08.240 --> 0:25:09.840
<v Speaker 1>it's trying to court me to be able to upstand

0:25:09.880 --> 0:25:11.720
<v Speaker 1>that same life. He could be honest and be like, like,

0:25:11.800 --> 0:25:13.760
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna be honest with you. I'm a little fucked

0:25:13.800 --> 0:25:17.000
<v Speaker 1>up right now. Okay, So hold that nigga through to

0:25:17.160 --> 0:25:22.600
<v Speaker 1>it that I would respect it. But that's not somebody

0:25:22.600 --> 0:25:30.560
<v Speaker 1>I want to talk to you respect you because two

0:25:30.640 --> 0:25:33.159
<v Speaker 1>things could happen. One, his ego is gonna get you

0:25:33.280 --> 0:25:35.960
<v Speaker 1>feel me like like bruise. He's gonna start feeling away.

0:25:36.119 --> 0:25:38.400
<v Speaker 1>He might you pay for everything, so he's not gonna

0:25:38.440 --> 0:25:40.560
<v Speaker 1>feel manly, not that you have to pay for everything,

0:25:40.560 --> 0:25:43.000
<v Speaker 1>but we gotta go to the you can go to

0:25:43.160 --> 0:25:48.280
<v Speaker 1>like Applebee's in a movie, Applebee's they got that chicken chicken.

0:25:49.320 --> 0:25:55.680
<v Speaker 1>I rather like I I'm not going to Applebe's. I

0:25:55.720 --> 0:25:58.840
<v Speaker 1>don't go to Applebee's on my home so I'm not

0:25:58.920 --> 0:26:01.440
<v Speaker 1>about to go. And nobody to figure it out. There's

0:26:01.480 --> 0:26:03.879
<v Speaker 1>plenty of restaurants out there that you ain't got to

0:26:03.920 --> 0:26:08.600
<v Speaker 1>go to Applebee's. About Ruby Tuesday, No, nigger, No, what

0:26:08.680 --> 0:26:16.280
<v Speaker 1>about listen, if he pull it off on a Sunday, yes,

0:26:17.560 --> 0:26:20.560
<v Speaker 1>then that's my man right there, like Chick fil A

0:26:20.680 --> 0:26:23.600
<v Speaker 1>on the Sunday, he did something special. But if it's

0:26:23.640 --> 0:26:29.680
<v Speaker 1>on like a Monday, nah, no No. But I mean

0:26:29.800 --> 0:26:32.560
<v Speaker 1>if you're attracted to him, he better cook at least,

0:26:32.720 --> 0:26:37.080
<v Speaker 1>like oh yeah, like what friends? What's a creative date that?

0:26:37.240 --> 0:26:41.240
<v Speaker 1>What's the most creative that you've been on? Oh m

0:26:41.480 --> 0:26:47.280
<v Speaker 1>hmm what it wasn't creative? But for Valentine's Day, like

0:26:47.560 --> 0:26:51.280
<v Speaker 1>I had the all like the roses around the room,

0:26:51.400 --> 0:26:55.000
<v Speaker 1>like hello roses and Hella candles and just Hella gifts

0:26:55.040 --> 0:26:59.159
<v Speaker 1>on the bed that'sn't expensive And Marvin Gaye was playing

0:26:59.600 --> 0:27:09.720
<v Speaker 1>whereform was cute. It was cute's favorite. I just said

0:27:09.840 --> 0:27:13.440
<v Speaker 1>his sex playlist would include a lot of I can't

0:27:13.480 --> 0:27:18.760
<v Speaker 1>believe my ears when you just said that. All right, well, sweetie, okay.

0:27:18.840 --> 0:27:20.880
<v Speaker 1>John Legend talked about his sex playlist and he said,

0:27:20.920 --> 0:27:23.800
<v Speaker 1>Marvin Gaye, what's not your sex playlist? I don't want

0:27:23.800 --> 0:27:26.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to put Pandora on because I don't

0:27:26.720 --> 0:27:34.960
<v Speaker 1>want to got commergency girl should gonna be like join

0:27:35.080 --> 0:27:38.840
<v Speaker 1>thirty minutes free for the next commercial free now. I

0:27:38.920 --> 0:27:41.240
<v Speaker 1>only say that because there was this article and it

0:27:41.400 --> 0:27:43.639
<v Speaker 1>was like, you shouldn't create a playlist because when you

0:27:43.760 --> 0:27:46.280
<v Speaker 1>do that, you know, like what songs coming on? You know,

0:27:46.400 --> 0:27:49.480
<v Speaker 1>how long? How long? I don't know it was. They

0:27:49.520 --> 0:27:52.520
<v Speaker 1>made some really good points when it's just like you know,

0:27:52.680 --> 0:27:54.800
<v Speaker 1>they said you should put on a what do you

0:27:54.880 --> 0:28:00.080
<v Speaker 1>call it? The instrumentals? I just keep running music. Not

0:28:00.240 --> 0:28:10.280
<v Speaker 1>an instrumental. It's not a free stay always playing, like

0:28:11.400 --> 0:28:14.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, like the what is it here? Song? Right?

0:28:14.119 --> 0:28:17.120
<v Speaker 1>What's that one? Don't have no? The quiet story, don't

0:28:17.160 --> 0:28:20.760
<v Speaker 1>have no. It's like a minute you got to get

0:28:20.800 --> 0:28:23.680
<v Speaker 1>you the lyrics? You know, that's something I'm talking about. No,

0:28:30.400 --> 0:28:35.320
<v Speaker 1>what's the but if you're sucking it out for hours

0:28:35.440 --> 0:28:40.280
<v Speaker 1>that I would think somebody coming up the closet like

0:28:41.040 --> 0:28:45.880
<v Speaker 1>important playlist. Now, I do agree that you can't have

0:28:46.240 --> 0:28:49.160
<v Speaker 1>like the same playlist going like but you gotta shuffle.

0:28:49.160 --> 0:28:51.239
<v Speaker 1>You gotta like have like eighty songs. You gotta think

0:28:51.240 --> 0:28:55.080
<v Speaker 1>about the last nigga you fun to that song. The

0:28:55.200 --> 0:28:57.640
<v Speaker 1>last time I heard this, my leg was over here, right,

0:28:58.000 --> 0:29:02.640
<v Speaker 1>that's think alized this song and this Maska. Don't put

0:29:02.720 --> 0:29:05.120
<v Speaker 1>songs like passing on my face it right when this

0:29:05.240 --> 0:29:15.920
<v Speaker 1>part came on. What do you think is a good

0:29:15.920 --> 0:29:18.600
<v Speaker 1>amount of time to have sex? Um, It depends where

0:29:18.600 --> 0:29:27.120
<v Speaker 1>we are, Like were in the hotel, yeah, and that

0:29:27.320 --> 0:29:29.320
<v Speaker 1>we so we are we drunk. If we're in the

0:29:29.320 --> 0:29:32.880
<v Speaker 1>bucket in the middle of daytime, we might sucking drunk.

0:29:33.200 --> 0:29:35.520
<v Speaker 1>I feel drunk because people are come more comfortable the

0:29:35.640 --> 0:29:39.720
<v Speaker 1>inhibitions out the window. Yeah, I felt like I said

0:29:39.760 --> 0:29:41.600
<v Speaker 1>this earlier, and I don't know if this is just me.

0:29:41.920 --> 0:29:43.880
<v Speaker 1>Do you feel like you might do some ship when

0:29:43.880 --> 0:29:50.880
<v Speaker 1>you're drunk. You want you feeling like the likes when

0:29:50.920 --> 0:29:53.120
<v Speaker 1>he brings it up and then you're like, I don't

0:29:53.160 --> 0:29:57.400
<v Speaker 1>know what Then I did good? I was drunk. I

0:29:57.480 --> 0:30:00.040
<v Speaker 1>don't know now, but you gotta like yours with it,

0:30:00.240 --> 0:30:03.240
<v Speaker 1>like yeah, you know I did that just like yeah,

0:30:04.960 --> 0:30:16.520
<v Speaker 1>like what, I don't know, but I'm not gonna front

0:30:16.600 --> 0:30:20.360
<v Speaker 1>Like one time, No, it wasn't it crazy? But the

0:30:20.520 --> 0:30:22.440
<v Speaker 1>dude said to me, like, yo, the ship you was

0:30:22.520 --> 0:30:26.680
<v Speaker 1>saying last night was so crazy, like your ship you

0:30:26.800 --> 0:30:29.040
<v Speaker 1>probably know better than me. Like I was not there.

0:30:29.200 --> 0:30:32.920
<v Speaker 1>He was listening. I was drunk. I wasn't listening. I

0:30:33.040 --> 0:30:35.920
<v Speaker 1>was there listen. I wasn't there either, I was so drunk,

0:30:36.080 --> 0:30:39.240
<v Speaker 1>like not like I remember having like I remember what

0:30:39.360 --> 0:30:42.040
<v Speaker 1>I was doing, just what you're saying. What could you

0:30:42.160 --> 0:30:44.320
<v Speaker 1>have said, nigga? I don't know, but he liked it,

0:30:44.720 --> 0:30:48.040
<v Speaker 1>And now I feel like what I said, you don't

0:30:48.040 --> 0:30:50.400
<v Speaker 1>know that you know, like I don't even think. He

0:30:50.480 --> 0:30:51.959
<v Speaker 1>probably was like this is the best thing I ever

0:30:52.080 --> 0:30:54.400
<v Speaker 1>had in my life. Who knows. You probably called him

0:30:54.400 --> 0:30:56.720
<v Speaker 1>poppy and you don't even speak saying it was speaking

0:30:56.760 --> 0:30:59.760
<v Speaker 1>all cold of Spanish creole up the small fucker, Like

0:31:00.240 --> 0:31:01.760
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I don't know when I tell you,

0:31:01.880 --> 0:31:05.360
<v Speaker 1>I don't have a clue. I felt so bad though, Alright,

0:31:05.400 --> 0:31:07.760
<v Speaker 1>so you said drunk is better or a little tipsy,

0:31:08.280 --> 0:31:10.080
<v Speaker 1>So what's a good amount of time when you're tipsy?

0:31:12.280 --> 0:31:16.760
<v Speaker 1>What's like too long? Let's long for you? I think

0:31:16.800 --> 0:31:20.320
<v Speaker 1>anything above like thirty five minutes is too long. Sorry

0:31:20.480 --> 0:31:24.240
<v Speaker 1>it's a workout. Sorry not sorry, that's so cycle. Anything

0:31:24.280 --> 0:31:26.880
<v Speaker 1>longer than is so psychle classes too long. But it

0:31:27.000 --> 0:31:30.160
<v Speaker 1>also depends on my this everything. It's like, it's like

0:31:30.240 --> 0:31:33.880
<v Speaker 1>four four ar old four play both oral and penetration,

0:31:34.320 --> 0:31:36.280
<v Speaker 1>because that's gonna give me more to thirty five minutes

0:31:36.960 --> 0:31:38.760
<v Speaker 1>if it's if it's creative. First of all, I'm gonna

0:31:38.760 --> 0:31:43.080
<v Speaker 1>comes until dot com. That might be now, that might

0:31:43.120 --> 0:31:47.440
<v Speaker 1>be five to ten minutes, and then I'm gonna fifteen

0:31:47.520 --> 0:31:51.520
<v Speaker 1>depending on how his tongue games. Right, do you hold

0:31:51.600 --> 0:31:54.120
<v Speaker 1>back coming? Because I feel like guys hold back, But

0:31:54.320 --> 0:31:56.680
<v Speaker 1>I feel like sometimes I feel like women would be

0:31:56.720 --> 0:31:59.680
<v Speaker 1>wanting to come, but guys hold back because we could

0:31:59.680 --> 0:32:02.360
<v Speaker 1>come and keep going. Yeah, that's all. That's why I

0:32:02.400 --> 0:32:05.200
<v Speaker 1>don't hold back. I don't know about you. Like, if

0:32:05.240 --> 0:32:07.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm about to come, I'm gonna come because I'm not.

0:32:07.400 --> 0:32:09.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't hold back from an internal orgasm because I

0:32:09.560 --> 0:32:11.560
<v Speaker 1>don't catch those as often, so when I catch that

0:32:11.640 --> 0:32:16.920
<v Speaker 1>coming up, I don't know that Like difference. Um, the

0:32:17.040 --> 0:32:19.920
<v Speaker 1>dick gonna internal. I always come internally as far as

0:32:19.960 --> 0:32:22.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm concerned, so I don't know the different. I feel

0:32:22.560 --> 0:32:26.640
<v Speaker 1>like I gotta learn my body some different stuff because

0:32:26.800 --> 0:32:29.440
<v Speaker 1>clintoral stimulation is from head or from like when you're

0:32:29.440 --> 0:32:33.280
<v Speaker 1>on top and you're just like going in um. But

0:32:33.440 --> 0:32:37.200
<v Speaker 1>when you're playing with your own. Internal penetration is when

0:32:37.240 --> 0:32:40.920
<v Speaker 1>he's hitting that spot inside that makes you orgasm. So

0:32:41.120 --> 0:32:42.920
<v Speaker 1>if I get an internal or if I feel an

0:32:42.920 --> 0:32:45.040
<v Speaker 1>internal orgasm coming, I'm not gonna hold back from them,

0:32:45.040 --> 0:32:47.520
<v Speaker 1>because I don't get those that appen. But if I

0:32:47.600 --> 0:32:50.200
<v Speaker 1>might hold back from an external, like if he eats

0:32:50.240 --> 0:32:51.640
<v Speaker 1>my pussy and I feel like I'm other come, if

0:32:51.680 --> 0:32:53.320
<v Speaker 1>it feels that good, I might make him do it

0:32:53.360 --> 0:32:55.320
<v Speaker 1>a little bit longer, you know, So I'll hold back

0:32:55.360 --> 0:32:57.800
<v Speaker 1>on that. But see, i'd be scared sometimes the nervous

0:32:57.880 --> 0:32:59.960
<v Speaker 1>that like it's not gonna happen if I keep waiting.

0:33:00.360 --> 0:33:02.400
<v Speaker 1>I just made sure it might happen. It might not

0:33:02.520 --> 0:33:05.120
<v Speaker 1>have been a thought on mine too, Yeah, because sometimes

0:33:05.240 --> 0:33:11.160
<v Speaker 1>like you do something a little bit the wrong, But

0:33:12.040 --> 0:33:14.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna when I tell you that's the worst

0:33:14.280 --> 0:33:16.560
<v Speaker 1>fucking thing, especially when you be like keep doing what

0:33:16.640 --> 0:33:19.600
<v Speaker 1>you're doing, and then always switch. That's what I gotta

0:33:19.600 --> 0:33:21.800
<v Speaker 1>say that. Let ever say that, don't ever tell them

0:33:21.840 --> 0:33:24.320
<v Speaker 1>to keep it because you're coming. And I said, they're gonna.

0:33:24.600 --> 0:33:27.360
<v Speaker 1>But internally you could come over and over and over.

0:33:27.440 --> 0:33:30.360
<v Speaker 1>I have no idea you can. Internally you can, but

0:33:30.680 --> 0:33:33.880
<v Speaker 1>from like if I come from like outside my vagina,

0:33:34.320 --> 0:33:36.680
<v Speaker 1>don't touch me. Basically, didn't know what you're talking about.

0:33:36.920 --> 0:33:38.960
<v Speaker 1>We know when we come come. Okay, So when you

0:33:39.120 --> 0:33:44.120
<v Speaker 1>remember your first orgasm? Um, no, do you orgasm like

0:33:44.480 --> 0:33:46.360
<v Speaker 1>usually when you have sex? And no, I'm not. I

0:33:46.440 --> 0:33:48.760
<v Speaker 1>needed to become because you're talking about some different stuff.

0:33:48.800 --> 0:33:52.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't have you ever had an orgasm? Here? Okay?

0:33:52.320 --> 0:33:55.600
<v Speaker 1>Some percentagewiyes? How often does that happen? Actually I do remember?

0:33:55.600 --> 0:34:04.080
<v Speaker 1>But yeah, yeah, she was like it was great. Did

0:34:04.160 --> 0:34:05.920
<v Speaker 1>you know what was happening when you're nervous? Did you

0:34:06.000 --> 0:34:09.160
<v Speaker 1>try to I wasn't nervous because I was high and

0:34:09.600 --> 0:34:12.200
<v Speaker 1>that that'll do it. And like the person like I

0:34:12.400 --> 0:34:15.360
<v Speaker 1>was I was with was very like helpful, you know

0:34:15.480 --> 0:34:19.440
<v Speaker 1>what he was doing? Okay he shout out to him

0:34:19.600 --> 0:34:23.160
<v Speaker 1>because a lot of them was older though a lot

0:34:23.200 --> 0:34:24.800
<v Speaker 1>of them know what they're doing and I felt like

0:34:24.880 --> 0:34:26.840
<v Speaker 1>after that that it was hard for you to let

0:34:26.920 --> 0:34:29.400
<v Speaker 1>him go. You know, it was I don't know, it was.

0:34:29.520 --> 0:34:31.440
<v Speaker 1>It was weird because we were like friends, what we

0:34:31.480 --> 0:34:35.279
<v Speaker 1>were like flirting, fucking and he said, IM gonna make

0:34:35.320 --> 0:34:37.360
<v Speaker 1>you come, and it was just it just kind of

0:34:37.440 --> 0:34:40.680
<v Speaker 1>just happened. But it was was that like the only

0:34:40.800 --> 0:34:43.719
<v Speaker 1>time where it was it was it was it was memorable,

0:34:44.440 --> 0:34:46.520
<v Speaker 1>like one of the most imorable. If he hits you, now,

0:34:46.640 --> 0:34:49.680
<v Speaker 1>would you be down? No? But you ever been like

0:34:49.800 --> 0:34:52.240
<v Speaker 1>dickmatized that the dick was so good? You was like, Okay,

0:34:52.280 --> 0:34:55.520
<v Speaker 1>I really see so like I've seen my homegirls go

0:34:55.640 --> 0:34:58.759
<v Speaker 1>through that and I'm just like, um, you don't get

0:34:58.800 --> 0:35:05.680
<v Speaker 1>it up, lucky you. That might be on the full

0:35:05.760 --> 0:35:10.799
<v Speaker 1>length album about being dickmitat. That might be next Yeah,

0:35:10.960 --> 0:35:13.960
<v Speaker 1>next album, I mean next situation. Whatever you put out,

0:35:15.360 --> 0:35:20.520
<v Speaker 1>Be careful, be careful. That might be the next back. Right.

0:35:21.160 --> 0:35:23.160
<v Speaker 1>Do you ever stay with somebody just because the sex

0:35:23.280 --> 0:35:26.239
<v Speaker 1>was so good in the relationship? Yeah? No, and put

0:35:26.320 --> 0:35:29.640
<v Speaker 1>up with certain ship just because he made me come.

0:35:29.760 --> 0:35:32.960
<v Speaker 1>Every time that I haven't stayed with somebody just because

0:35:33.080 --> 0:35:37.400
<v Speaker 1>of the sex. Putting up is different than staying with somebody.

0:35:37.600 --> 0:35:40.000
<v Speaker 1>I was having sex with somebody just for the sex,

0:35:40.080 --> 0:35:43.120
<v Speaker 1>if that counts. I think that counts. Like it wasn't

0:35:43.120 --> 0:35:44.800
<v Speaker 1>the relationship, but it was like a sex thing and

0:35:44.880 --> 0:35:47.439
<v Speaker 1>I didn't want anything else from him. But it's hard

0:35:47.520 --> 0:35:50.320
<v Speaker 1>for me that just that I don't have like feelings

0:35:50.560 --> 0:35:52.440
<v Speaker 1>for it like that if the dig is good enough

0:35:52.520 --> 0:35:55.360
<v Speaker 1>and the feelings about the one though you're worried because

0:35:55.480 --> 0:35:57.640
<v Speaker 1>I've never really had great sex with somebody I didn't

0:35:57.680 --> 0:36:00.520
<v Speaker 1>care about too much. Let me not care about but

0:36:00.719 --> 0:36:03.040
<v Speaker 1>just like not like it's not a relationship, so I

0:36:03.080 --> 0:36:05.759
<v Speaker 1>don't care about it. I cared about the person, but

0:36:06.239 --> 0:36:07.880
<v Speaker 1>I guess I didn't want to be with that person.

0:36:08.080 --> 0:36:10.640
<v Speaker 1>So we just was having said I always have like

0:36:10.760 --> 0:36:14.439
<v Speaker 1>many relationships, like even if it don't last like super long,

0:36:14.560 --> 0:36:17.800
<v Speaker 1>I'll fun with somebody for like six months like heavy

0:36:18.360 --> 0:36:21.040
<v Speaker 1>you know how, Yeah, I do, no, But I just

0:36:21.640 --> 0:36:24.080
<v Speaker 1>I just wonder, like when do you feel like, all right,

0:36:24.520 --> 0:36:26.560
<v Speaker 1>this is like because I don't feel like every single

0:36:26.640 --> 0:36:29.200
<v Speaker 1>person that I've had sex with I felt like I'm

0:36:29.280 --> 0:36:32.239
<v Speaker 1>super close with them. Now we're gonna have sex. It

0:36:32.360 --> 0:36:35.400
<v Speaker 1>might have been like I'm not gonna lie sunk with you.

0:36:35.560 --> 0:36:38.080
<v Speaker 1>You look good I funk with you, I'm drunk, let's fuck.

0:36:38.480 --> 0:36:41.120
<v Speaker 1>It might have been like that before, and I might

0:36:41.200 --> 0:36:44.360
<v Speaker 1>have had longer relationships with them than people that I

0:36:44.440 --> 0:36:46.160
<v Speaker 1>thought I was so called close with. You know what

0:36:46.239 --> 0:36:48.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm talking about that I don't go to people's houses

0:36:48.400 --> 0:36:50.040
<v Speaker 1>and I don't be letting people in my house like that.

0:36:50.840 --> 0:36:53.320
<v Speaker 1>So maybe that's why because I'm like mad cautious, like

0:36:53.640 --> 0:36:57.080
<v Speaker 1>you know, I don't go to nobody's house. I don't know.

0:36:57.320 --> 0:36:59.920
<v Speaker 1>I'm like paranoid about shit because if you don't know

0:37:00.040 --> 0:37:01.839
<v Speaker 1>somebody like that, you don't know if it's gonna bust

0:37:01.880 --> 0:37:03.880
<v Speaker 1>in the house. You don't know if he messed with somebody.

0:37:04.280 --> 0:37:07.680
<v Speaker 1>The baby mama got the key. I don't want to

0:37:07.719 --> 0:37:10.560
<v Speaker 1>be calling no situation with somebody. I don't really like that.

0:37:10.960 --> 0:37:12.759
<v Speaker 1>And then as far as in my house, I don't

0:37:12.760 --> 0:37:14.759
<v Speaker 1>really let people in my house, like unless I kind

0:37:14.800 --> 0:37:16.800
<v Speaker 1>of know you, and I'm like, unless I'm having a

0:37:16.840 --> 0:37:18.959
<v Speaker 1>cookout and two hundred people are there, Oh my god,

0:37:19.040 --> 0:37:22.759
<v Speaker 1>that didn't happen. Angela is the most like I feel

0:37:22.800 --> 0:37:25.600
<v Speaker 1>like I'd be like, don't come to my house ever, anybody,

0:37:25.800 --> 0:37:31.000
<v Speaker 1>and like I'm having a cookout. Everyone once cookout and

0:37:31.520 --> 0:37:36.120
<v Speaker 1>having come. One time we spend the night at Andrew's

0:37:36.200 --> 0:37:38.719
<v Speaker 1>house after her birthday. It was like twenty but as

0:37:38.719 --> 0:37:41.719
<v Speaker 1>everybody I knew, yeah, it was yeah, yeah, but you're

0:37:41.800 --> 0:37:44.640
<v Speaker 1>like more like with me, I'd be like, you're doing

0:37:44.719 --> 0:37:47.279
<v Speaker 1>my hair or makeup, come to my house. But I

0:37:47.360 --> 0:37:49.120
<v Speaker 1>have a lot of diger. I probably have a lot

0:37:49.200 --> 0:37:52.719
<v Speaker 1>more friends like that. I don't trust people because I

0:37:52.800 --> 0:37:55.600
<v Speaker 1>have friends I don't know since I was in third grade. Still, yeah,

0:37:55.640 --> 0:37:58.600
<v Speaker 1>they can't come to my house. WHOA how do you

0:37:58.640 --> 0:38:01.320
<v Speaker 1>feel about up come to your house? People coming to

0:38:01.400 --> 0:38:04.880
<v Speaker 1>my how So? How long does it take for you

0:38:04.920 --> 0:38:07.360
<v Speaker 1>when you're dating somebody to allow them to come and

0:38:07.440 --> 0:38:10.200
<v Speaker 1>know where you live? Honestly, Like, it just depends on

0:38:10.600 --> 0:38:13.400
<v Speaker 1>like the vibe I get from you. If I feel comfortable,

0:38:13.400 --> 0:38:14.680
<v Speaker 1>you can come in to my crib. But if I

0:38:14.760 --> 0:38:17.680
<v Speaker 1>feel like you just be like on some different ships,

0:38:17.680 --> 0:38:19.040
<v Speaker 1>then I'm not trying to have you up in my

0:38:19.200 --> 0:38:21.759
<v Speaker 1>like my space. And then another thing, I don't like it.

0:38:21.880 --> 0:38:23.839
<v Speaker 1>So sometimes when people come over, they don't know whant

0:38:23.840 --> 0:38:26.680
<v Speaker 1>to leave. That's the fact. That's when you gotta act

0:38:26.719 --> 0:38:29.200
<v Speaker 1>like you have somewhere to go and put on your

0:38:29.239 --> 0:38:31.000
<v Speaker 1>whole outfit. You gotta text of friend and be like

0:38:31.040 --> 0:38:34.080
<v Speaker 1>call me right now, and I'm act like it's my manager,

0:38:34.440 --> 0:38:36.319
<v Speaker 1>my funds will be like I'll be when you get

0:38:36.360 --> 0:38:40.440
<v Speaker 1>back and be like, what you can't leave nobody in

0:38:40.520 --> 0:38:43.600
<v Speaker 1>your house. Listen, I have a dog, so like when

0:38:43.640 --> 0:38:45.919
<v Speaker 1>I go to walk my dog, I'd be like, you're

0:38:46.000 --> 0:38:50.919
<v Speaker 1>coming to motherfucker's we all the dog because you gotta

0:38:50.960 --> 0:38:53.480
<v Speaker 1>be you don't never know people. It's real grind me.

0:38:53.560 --> 0:38:56.640
<v Speaker 1>And even if you think like not everybody, okay, you

0:38:56.719 --> 0:38:59.800
<v Speaker 1>got your second friends, but some people it's really especially

0:39:00.239 --> 0:39:03.879
<v Speaker 1>you have fame whatever whatever. Oh yeah, I'm hearing, Nah,

0:39:04.160 --> 0:39:06.560
<v Speaker 1>don't do all of that. We're walking the dog together.

0:39:06.680 --> 0:39:09.680
<v Speaker 1>We're going to get the delivery together. Like whatever we

0:39:09.800 --> 0:39:12.160
<v Speaker 1>got to do were unit together. Don't be up in

0:39:12.239 --> 0:39:14.759
<v Speaker 1>my crib. Black people. Great me. If he was stating

0:39:14.800 --> 0:39:16.480
<v Speaker 1>a guy and he wanted to take a selfie with

0:39:16.560 --> 0:39:20.000
<v Speaker 1>you on the first day, I wouldn't even want to

0:39:20.080 --> 0:39:22.040
<v Speaker 1>want to date him after that, I mean, because maybe

0:39:22.080 --> 0:39:23.719
<v Speaker 1>he wants to record that, because but if you gonna

0:39:23.760 --> 0:39:27.440
<v Speaker 1>end up together years, that's weird. I mean, how did

0:39:27.520 --> 0:39:29.799
<v Speaker 1>he do it? Like, oh, let's say, come on, let's

0:39:29.800 --> 0:39:34.279
<v Speaker 1>take a picture. I'm having the best time. I wanted

0:39:34.280 --> 0:39:37.800
<v Speaker 1>to document this best time. I'm heving having to chocolate

0:39:38.239 --> 0:39:41.160
<v Speaker 1>cake and Applebee's pure. But you know what's fucked up

0:39:41.160 --> 0:39:43.920
<v Speaker 1>about that? That would be a sweet thing that if

0:39:44.000 --> 0:39:49.680
<v Speaker 1>eventually yeah married, but because this, Yeah, that's like I

0:39:49.760 --> 0:39:54.719
<v Speaker 1>feel like technology has made people corny. Next thing, you

0:39:54.800 --> 0:39:58.280
<v Speaker 1>know you Instagram Live on the Date, a new couple alert,

0:39:58.680 --> 0:40:03.200
<v Speaker 1>horrific couples. He'd be like me and said, go ahead

0:40:03.280 --> 0:40:08.840
<v Speaker 1>saying that verse girl, he swapping faces on the appen

0:40:09.400 --> 0:40:14.920
<v Speaker 1>not filter. What about men who gets surgery? Because we've

0:40:14.920 --> 0:40:20.719
<v Speaker 1>been searing that a lot. He had light Yeah, like

0:40:20.800 --> 0:40:23.759
<v Speaker 1>what this guy had light bo too loving hip hop

0:40:24.200 --> 0:40:28.600
<v Speaker 1>Hollywood one. Yeah, let's just say you were dating the

0:40:28.680 --> 0:40:31.520
<v Speaker 1>guy and you seem like the little light bo um

0:40:32.120 --> 0:40:36.400
<v Speaker 1>a little star. That would turn me off. I'm sorry.

0:40:37.160 --> 0:40:39.279
<v Speaker 1>But if it looks good though, like he had a

0:40:39.400 --> 0:40:47.920
<v Speaker 1>good doctor curs that my doctor doctor for a lot

0:40:47.960 --> 0:40:51.200
<v Speaker 1>of the doctor curbs did. He said it before he

0:40:51.280 --> 0:40:53.439
<v Speaker 1>became famous. I need to get him done. But let's

0:40:53.440 --> 0:40:55.080
<v Speaker 1>just say he looks good like You're like, all right,

0:40:55.280 --> 0:40:57.759
<v Speaker 1>you know you've only seen the after effect. You didn't

0:40:57.800 --> 0:41:01.320
<v Speaker 1>know what he looked like. I mean, if if I

0:41:01.400 --> 0:41:03.640
<v Speaker 1>mean if everything made sense and it wasn't that big.

0:41:03.960 --> 0:41:06.960
<v Speaker 1>I don't know, girl, you're dating this guy and you

0:41:07.040 --> 0:41:09.480
<v Speaker 1>really like him, Yeah, go on a three days he coolest, hell,

0:41:09.520 --> 0:41:11.520
<v Speaker 1>y'all kicking it, yall, bob, and then you finally have

0:41:11.640 --> 0:41:13.760
<v Speaker 1>sex with him and you see like these two little

0:41:13.800 --> 0:41:20.600
<v Speaker 1>scars right here and right here right so why you

0:41:20.680 --> 0:41:23.719
<v Speaker 1>have know what if he's honest and be like, oh,

0:41:23.880 --> 0:41:25.880
<v Speaker 1>like a year ago I was, I had ganged a

0:41:25.920 --> 0:41:27.880
<v Speaker 1>little week, so I had a little life up, but

0:41:28.000 --> 0:41:34.319
<v Speaker 1>his body banging. Now would you be like right hard,

0:41:34.640 --> 0:41:42.520
<v Speaker 1>go down? And I had a Brazilian but lit bro

0:41:42.719 --> 0:41:44.960
<v Speaker 1>just a life up, but his body is banging. He

0:41:45.040 --> 0:41:48.080
<v Speaker 1>got abs he got and what if he used to

0:41:48.120 --> 0:41:51.360
<v Speaker 1>have titties but he got them done to y'all looking

0:41:51.400 --> 0:41:55.560
<v Speaker 1>for a life post scars, that's my thing. He got

0:41:55.719 --> 0:41:59.839
<v Speaker 1>naked and you actually having titty keep Are you gonna

0:42:00.000 --> 0:42:02.040
<v Speaker 1>look at it and be like that looks like light bulb?

0:42:02.880 --> 0:42:05.719
<v Speaker 1>I'm not you had I know what the scar looks like.

0:42:08.239 --> 0:42:17.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm not looking at every line when you get this tattoo.

0:42:18.280 --> 0:42:23.640
<v Speaker 1>Where I come from, you you had seven teens. You

0:42:23.719 --> 0:42:26.759
<v Speaker 1>said you got stabbed, and I think I think that

0:42:27.239 --> 0:42:29.959
<v Speaker 1>it would be a little bit odd. I never needed

0:42:30.040 --> 0:42:34.160
<v Speaker 1>somebody who's had life O the man. I don't know

0:42:34.360 --> 0:42:37.200
<v Speaker 1>because I had I've had plastic surgery, I had LA

0:42:37.600 --> 0:42:39.640
<v Speaker 1>did a guy with LIFO, not that I know of,

0:42:40.000 --> 0:42:43.520
<v Speaker 1>but ship like bo, That's what I'm saying, Like I

0:42:43.520 --> 0:42:46.680
<v Speaker 1>would be like hypocritical, right like that you had all

0:42:46.760 --> 0:42:48.520
<v Speaker 1>this worth on your own body, but I can't hand

0:42:48.560 --> 0:42:50.600
<v Speaker 1>any none on mine. I don't know, like you're saying,

0:42:50.640 --> 0:42:54.040
<v Speaker 1>it's okay taste about case scenario. I guess I don't

0:42:54.080 --> 0:42:56.200
<v Speaker 1>know about the moves though, Like if you had man

0:42:56.280 --> 0:42:58.719
<v Speaker 1>moves and you've got him taken off, then I don't

0:42:58.719 --> 0:43:00.399
<v Speaker 1>know about that. But if you had a little little

0:43:00.440 --> 0:43:03.560
<v Speaker 1>sucking cup, you know, a little suck it out, you know,

0:43:04.080 --> 0:43:07.000
<v Speaker 1>as long as your roll and you look good, now

0:43:07.600 --> 0:43:11.279
<v Speaker 1>many easy, keep it all the way, but no more

0:43:11.360 --> 0:43:14.879
<v Speaker 1>than life, like I can't no more like no more

0:43:14.880 --> 0:43:16.840
<v Speaker 1>than that, Like if you got your nose done, or

0:43:17.160 --> 0:43:20.960
<v Speaker 1>you got a facelif for like something crazy and if

0:43:20.960 --> 0:43:26.000
<v Speaker 1>you got like muscle implants like no, they I'll be

0:43:26.040 --> 0:43:28.360
<v Speaker 1>watching Botch Girl. They'd be making themselves look like Kendalls,

0:43:28.719 --> 0:43:36.719
<v Speaker 1>like they'd be putting like yeah yeah. But I just

0:43:36.800 --> 0:43:38.760
<v Speaker 1>felt like man, if you're doing all that to yourself,

0:43:38.840 --> 0:43:41.279
<v Speaker 1>then you know you got muscle, calves and ship that's

0:43:41.280 --> 0:43:43.160
<v Speaker 1>not real, Like no, but if you got a little

0:43:43.320 --> 0:43:46.000
<v Speaker 1>like that, you can't stop that one. You can't say

0:43:46.040 --> 0:43:47.839
<v Speaker 1>what they can do, you know what I mean. That's

0:43:47.880 --> 0:43:50.520
<v Speaker 1>how I felt like, man got it easy. If there

0:43:50.640 --> 0:43:55.880
<v Speaker 1>was a female rapper that looked like Biggie Smalls, nobody

0:43:55.920 --> 0:43:58.919
<v Speaker 1>would have been buying her album, and that's just a fact.

0:43:59.160 --> 0:44:01.600
<v Speaker 1>So I feel like men could walk around with a

0:44:01.680 --> 0:44:04.280
<v Speaker 1>big stomach, they could look a little not that cute

0:44:04.640 --> 0:44:07.480
<v Speaker 1>and everything is fine. So for them to get light

0:44:07.520 --> 0:44:10.200
<v Speaker 1>po and all that, I felt like it's crazy women though,

0:44:10.280 --> 0:44:13.280
<v Speaker 1>on the other hand, let a woman gain ten pounds,

0:44:13.560 --> 0:44:17.640
<v Speaker 1>that bitch is fat. Uh. I feel like with women

0:44:17.719 --> 0:44:20.640
<v Speaker 1>it's a little bit more pressure. So I feel like

0:44:20.760 --> 0:44:22.960
<v Speaker 1>if there have been women who have been very successful

0:44:23.080 --> 0:44:26.600
<v Speaker 1>that haven't fit the ideal body as well, as I

0:44:26.640 --> 0:44:30.120
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't agree that what happened, I don't want to tell you.

0:44:30.960 --> 0:44:35.279
<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, yeah, but they're not on the level of

0:44:35.400 --> 0:44:39.600
<v Speaker 1>like Beyonce. You give what I'm trying to the biggest

0:44:39.640 --> 0:44:41.800
<v Speaker 1>one of the biggest artist period, jay Z is not

0:44:41.920 --> 0:44:44.040
<v Speaker 1>the best looking. I love Jay to death, but he

0:44:44.160 --> 0:44:47.640
<v Speaker 1>not the best normally, it's like the better looking women

0:44:48.000 --> 0:44:50.719
<v Speaker 1>that they put on the pedestal to me, this is

0:44:50.840 --> 0:44:54.720
<v Speaker 1>this is my opinion. I feel like women are judged

0:44:54.960 --> 0:44:57.960
<v Speaker 1>way more based on looks than men are. So I

0:44:58.040 --> 0:45:00.280
<v Speaker 1>felt like when the man is getting as the because

0:45:00.320 --> 0:45:02.400
<v Speaker 1>that's something I feel like. In the music business is

0:45:02.400 --> 0:45:04.319
<v Speaker 1>a lot more men that have been successful, so there's

0:45:04.360 --> 0:45:07.680
<v Speaker 1>a bigger range too. But but most of them ain't

0:45:07.719 --> 0:45:09.719
<v Speaker 1>the best look at so and I don't want to

0:45:10.120 --> 0:45:11.879
<v Speaker 1>see I would name some people, but I don't want

0:45:11.880 --> 0:45:14.360
<v Speaker 1>to just know women, so I'm not trying to anyway

0:45:15.200 --> 0:45:18.319
<v Speaker 1>anybody named either. I was just saying, like, body people

0:45:18.360 --> 0:45:21.840
<v Speaker 1>don't have body image of a Beyonce or Rihanna, and

0:45:21.880 --> 0:45:24.680
<v Speaker 1>they still were successful. That's all I'm saying. I mean,

0:45:25.960 --> 0:45:29.480
<v Speaker 1>not as successful. I've ever seen that guy who was asking, Yeah,

0:45:29.480 --> 0:45:33.120
<v Speaker 1>that's what I'm saying. No, But there was this dude

0:45:33.160 --> 0:45:35.160
<v Speaker 1>I went to school within. His booty was so big,

0:45:35.640 --> 0:45:38.680
<v Speaker 1>he had his booty was so big, he had hips. Yeah,

0:45:38.960 --> 0:45:42.680
<v Speaker 1>what's he got? I don't think so. But if not,

0:45:43.320 --> 0:45:47.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, I think I work out on he'd be mad,

0:45:47.680 --> 0:45:52.680
<v Speaker 1>like why can't I have it? That's from like that

0:45:52.920 --> 0:45:57.200
<v Speaker 1>maybe wasting stuff on man eyelashes, eyebrows, but when when

0:45:57.239 --> 0:46:00.239
<v Speaker 1>when the right I would like, like, are you so

0:46:00.400 --> 0:46:02.239
<v Speaker 1>bad though? Why he got that? And I can't have

0:46:02.360 --> 0:46:06.080
<v Speaker 1>them lashes? God has paid for that. But if your

0:46:06.120 --> 0:46:10.520
<v Speaker 1>man had lash extensions, do you know what y'all saying?

0:46:10.560 --> 0:46:12.839
<v Speaker 1>It's okay for life bow and all this other ship

0:46:13.120 --> 0:46:15.839
<v Speaker 1>I just said. But I can't be hypocritically. I mean,

0:46:15.920 --> 0:46:17.920
<v Speaker 1>it's actually like you need to get some like bo

0:46:18.280 --> 0:46:21.080
<v Speaker 1>hard to lose, it's hard to lizaweit, so it's hard

0:46:21.160 --> 0:46:23.000
<v Speaker 1>to be a woman. If I was Kim, I couldn't

0:46:23.000 --> 0:46:25.320
<v Speaker 1>be mad at Kanye for getting LiPo. She full plastic.

0:46:25.560 --> 0:46:28.200
<v Speaker 1>She can't say nothing about nobody getting No. That's I'm

0:46:28.239 --> 0:46:32.040
<v Speaker 1>that's my comparison. I'm plastic. So if a nigga want

0:46:32.080 --> 0:46:34.800
<v Speaker 1>to go get something lippo, I can't be like, you know,

0:46:34.920 --> 0:46:36.719
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I'm not full plastic, but I've had some

0:46:36.800 --> 0:46:38.759
<v Speaker 1>work done, so I can't be like, oh, well you

0:46:38.920 --> 0:46:43.920
<v Speaker 1>can't if I had a dick extensions that I mean,

0:46:44.000 --> 0:46:48.120
<v Speaker 1>that's really benefit. Yeah, some extent too long, but I

0:46:48.160 --> 0:46:50.600
<v Speaker 1>think you can add like of the penis is inside

0:46:50.640 --> 0:46:52.560
<v Speaker 1>of the body, so they can like pull like of

0:46:52.600 --> 0:46:56.359
<v Speaker 1>that out and then yeah no that wasn't no boch.

0:46:56.440 --> 0:46:58.520
<v Speaker 1>But it's the real thing you do that was unbitched.

0:47:01.400 --> 0:47:05.479
<v Speaker 1>That just made my inside. Yeah, the penis never comes

0:47:05.520 --> 0:47:07.879
<v Speaker 1>out of. I wonder how that recovery process. You gotta

0:47:07.920 --> 0:47:10.000
<v Speaker 1>keep it to yourself regardless, Like I don't want to

0:47:10.000 --> 0:47:12.479
<v Speaker 1>hear about all you little bit guys out there. Don't

0:47:12.520 --> 0:47:17.000
<v Speaker 1>be so discouraged because most of it is we Safari

0:47:19.880 --> 0:47:26.879
<v Speaker 1>picture extension. Do you think, sweetie, that you could date

0:47:26.920 --> 0:47:30.560
<v Speaker 1>a guy who had a son or a daughter around

0:47:30.600 --> 0:47:35.239
<v Speaker 1>your age? That's crazy, y'all could be friends. What I

0:47:35.440 --> 0:47:39.560
<v Speaker 1>was like, let's just say they had a center. Okay,

0:47:39.600 --> 0:47:44.640
<v Speaker 1>maybe like maybe just nineteen years old? Is that? Um

0:47:45.360 --> 0:47:52.080
<v Speaker 1>thirty five? Nineteen? Yeah, I'm just not gonna work. Yeah,

0:47:52.160 --> 0:47:54.680
<v Speaker 1>never work. I can't do that. Friend, I see that

0:47:56.360 --> 0:47:59.279
<v Speaker 1>that's me and my daughter. Oh well that does work.

0:48:00.160 --> 0:48:02.480
<v Speaker 1>You think you could? I don't know. That's never happened

0:48:02.480 --> 0:48:05.600
<v Speaker 1>to me. Yeah, I've never really talked to anybody over

0:48:05.719 --> 0:48:12.880
<v Speaker 1>like she's a baby. Now that's good. I think you now,

0:48:12.960 --> 0:48:15.479
<v Speaker 1>I think you should. I think staying the age range

0:48:15.600 --> 0:48:18.560
<v Speaker 1>is the best thing, as you could grow with the person. Now,

0:48:18.840 --> 0:48:23.799
<v Speaker 1>I'd rather day older, you stay away from Mark Kelly?

0:48:24.239 --> 0:48:29.120
<v Speaker 1>What I was thinking, do you I think like thirties

0:48:29.200 --> 0:48:32.320
<v Speaker 1>my limit? Yeah, that's a good limit. No, like thirty,

0:48:32.480 --> 0:48:35.319
<v Speaker 1>like thirty two, maybe thirty five. You know if they

0:48:35.360 --> 0:48:39.839
<v Speaker 1>could almost you know around that because like a thirty

0:48:39.880 --> 0:48:41.959
<v Speaker 1>five year old could have a nineteen year old would

0:48:42.000 --> 0:48:46.480
<v Speaker 1>that be weird? No, kids don't bother me. But that's

0:48:46.480 --> 0:48:48.920
<v Speaker 1>not a kid, that's a girl. That's me or if

0:48:48.960 --> 0:48:51.520
<v Speaker 1>you probably like she's just it's if it's a daughter.

0:48:51.960 --> 0:48:55.920
<v Speaker 1>Like the high school together. M wait now because like

0:48:56.080 --> 0:49:00.880
<v Speaker 1>nineteen four now, but with the high goo together for

0:49:01.040 --> 0:49:03.200
<v Speaker 1>what years apart? Y'all could have went to high school

0:49:03.200 --> 0:49:07.080
<v Speaker 1>to go high school his five years who's saying exact

0:49:07.200 --> 0:49:09.319
<v Speaker 1>dates to the day. He could have went to high

0:49:09.320 --> 0:49:12.960
<v Speaker 1>school together when he was coming exactly and you could

0:49:13.000 --> 0:49:15.400
<v Speaker 1>have been a freshman. He could have been a soft senior,

0:49:15.920 --> 0:49:19.040
<v Speaker 1>you know, different. And if that's not the case, and

0:49:19.120 --> 0:49:23.279
<v Speaker 1>that I might considerate. Have you ever dated somebody that's

0:49:23.320 --> 0:49:26.680
<v Speaker 1>like totally outside of your type? Because I was looking

0:49:26.719 --> 0:49:30.160
<v Speaker 1>at with Serena. Serena had posted something about, you know,

0:49:30.280 --> 0:49:33.160
<v Speaker 1>her husband and he's a white guy. She never thought

0:49:33.200 --> 0:49:37.680
<v Speaker 1>she would even data white guy, right, and he's a businessman,

0:49:37.880 --> 0:49:40.719
<v Speaker 1>she's an athlete, and their opposites and she was talking

0:49:40.719 --> 0:49:44.040
<v Speaker 1>about how opposite attract. So what about you. You think

0:49:44.080 --> 0:49:46.600
<v Speaker 1>you could date somebody that's like kind of opposite from you.

0:49:47.680 --> 0:49:49.480
<v Speaker 1>It depends on what kind of opposite. What kind of

0:49:49.520 --> 0:49:53.080
<v Speaker 1>guys do you like? I like, I like, I told you,

0:49:53.719 --> 0:49:56.920
<v Speaker 1>I like, you know, bosst dude, firm, But that could

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<v Speaker 1>mean anything. I mean specifically like looks why eyes, dude

0:50:01.760 --> 0:50:05.120
<v Speaker 1>looks madder. I feel like they do what they don't

0:50:05.920 --> 0:50:10.200
<v Speaker 1>because I mean, like Justin wasn't my type, but I

0:50:10.280 --> 0:50:13.800
<v Speaker 1>still dated him. He's an attractive guy. No he's No,

0:50:13.960 --> 0:50:16.400
<v Speaker 1>he's attractive, but I never thought I would. So what

0:50:16.560 --> 0:50:19.080
<v Speaker 1>looks like? What is your type? Then? In that case, um,

0:50:19.360 --> 0:50:22.920
<v Speaker 1>I like, you know dark skinned boys, tall, dark skinned boys,

0:50:23.440 --> 0:50:26.480
<v Speaker 1>like that's that's what catches my eye. And neither one

0:50:26.520 --> 0:50:28.880
<v Speaker 1>of your has boyfriends looked like that. Now Keith is

0:50:29.040 --> 0:50:38.680
<v Speaker 1>he's tall and he's like moca moca. Yeah, I don't

0:50:38.719 --> 0:50:47.560
<v Speaker 1>know about that darkness. How would you be if a

0:50:47.640 --> 0:50:50.680
<v Speaker 1>white guy? What do you think? That was weird? Not

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<v Speaker 1>only because my family isself mixed up like Mexican, white, Asian, Like,

0:50:56.120 --> 0:50:58.560
<v Speaker 1>it's just all the grandkids is mixed up, so it

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<v Speaker 1>ain't nothing. No, he just gonna blending with the rest

0:51:01.080 --> 0:51:05.200
<v Speaker 1>of everybody else. We all everything. Does he have to

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<v Speaker 1>season the chicken? I'm just bet No. You don't let

0:51:10.239 --> 0:51:14.000
<v Speaker 1>white people season chicken. Does he have toea? I thought

0:51:14.040 --> 0:51:16.040
<v Speaker 1>you're saying, did he have to? Like? Is that a

0:51:16.080 --> 0:51:19.920
<v Speaker 1>deal break if he can't see what you season your

0:51:20.000 --> 0:51:26.520
<v Speaker 1>chicken with? Look seen that video video when he was

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<v Speaker 1>washing the chicken with the soap. Oh my god, accent?

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<v Speaker 1>All that damns fired? Though, that's a good what in

0:51:35.760 --> 0:51:40.759
<v Speaker 1>the accent? So let's talk about female friends? Okay, do

0:51:40.840 --> 0:51:43.160
<v Speaker 1>you have a lot of female friends? I'm not brilliant.

0:51:43.520 --> 0:51:47.040
<v Speaker 1>Why is that? I'm just very like private and I

0:51:47.080 --> 0:51:49.200
<v Speaker 1>don't I don't make friends like that something. I like

0:51:49.320 --> 0:51:56.440
<v Speaker 1>that that too, but like I have a lot of

0:51:56.520 --> 0:51:58.680
<v Speaker 1>like cousins too. So you have a family, So your

0:51:58.719 --> 0:52:03.040
<v Speaker 1>family's family, tell a bit. Have you had bad experiences?

0:52:03.160 --> 0:52:06.080
<v Speaker 1>But like other women and stuff? Yeah? What is it?

0:52:06.160 --> 0:52:09.160
<v Speaker 1>Mainly over like none like hella big. But one of

0:52:09.239 --> 0:52:11.640
<v Speaker 1>my best friends became my best friend because my best

0:52:11.680 --> 0:52:15.040
<v Speaker 1>friends were trying to jump me. What yeah over what?

0:52:15.640 --> 0:52:18.000
<v Speaker 1>They were just jealous. It was young though, it was

0:52:18.080 --> 0:52:20.719
<v Speaker 1>like high school, like they had just like felt to wait,

0:52:20.800 --> 0:52:22.520
<v Speaker 1>like you know, I was kind of like getting popular

0:52:23.040 --> 0:52:25.160
<v Speaker 1>and they didn't like that, and they like it was

0:52:25.320 --> 0:52:27.880
<v Speaker 1>it was weird, like it was a switch. And then

0:52:27.880 --> 0:52:30.279
<v Speaker 1>they started leaving me like voicemails and I knew it

0:52:30.400 --> 0:52:32.560
<v Speaker 1>was their voice. And then it was just a whole

0:52:32.600 --> 0:52:34.959
<v Speaker 1>bit does that. It was just a whole like weird

0:52:35.320 --> 0:52:38.040
<v Speaker 1>high school girls. And then like one of our mutual friends,

0:52:38.160 --> 0:52:40.080
<v Speaker 1>like I was just vincive to her. She was like, well,

0:52:40.200 --> 0:52:42.080
<v Speaker 1>if they jump you, I'm hopping in. And then ever

0:52:42.200 --> 0:52:46.680
<v Speaker 1>since then we've been like, that's my best friend. Do

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<v Speaker 1>any other people that you used to be like not

0:52:49.040 --> 0:52:51.279
<v Speaker 1>cool with or cool it kind of did they hit

0:52:51.360 --> 0:52:53.520
<v Speaker 1>you up now? Seeing everything that's happening, Hey, yeah, I

0:52:53.560 --> 0:52:58.360
<v Speaker 1>need to change my numbers all the time. It's my

0:52:58.520 --> 0:53:01.440
<v Speaker 1>same numbers since forever. Oh yeah, you gotta you need

0:53:01.480 --> 0:53:03.719
<v Speaker 1>to switch that up because everybody need listening. I'm like,

0:53:03.760 --> 0:53:08.399
<v Speaker 1>oh numbers saying huh, I mean not that it's gonna

0:53:08.520 --> 0:53:11.440
<v Speaker 1>matter if you don't respond today when your phone go

0:53:11.480 --> 0:53:13.520
<v Speaker 1>off all the times you're busy, that should is even

0:53:13.520 --> 0:53:16.000
<v Speaker 1>taking in and draine your meadery, especially when you answer

0:53:16.080 --> 0:53:17.759
<v Speaker 1>the phone and it's just like, I'm nice, so if

0:53:17.800 --> 0:53:19.440
<v Speaker 1>you call me, I pick up. I'm thinking it's like

0:53:19.680 --> 0:53:21.200
<v Speaker 1>I don't know someone who I need to talk to

0:53:21.680 --> 0:53:23.080
<v Speaker 1>and they want to stay on the phone with you

0:53:23.120 --> 0:53:24.959
<v Speaker 1>for a long time. I don't want to be rude,

0:53:25.000 --> 0:53:26.880
<v Speaker 1>so I'll have that conversation with them. But it's just

0:53:27.040 --> 0:53:29.719
<v Speaker 1>like for what I like, why I answer this ship?

0:53:30.080 --> 0:53:32.120
<v Speaker 1>That would be me every time I answered somebody that

0:53:32.280 --> 0:53:34.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't want, I don't answer no call numbers, I

0:53:34.400 --> 0:53:36.920
<v Speaker 1>don't know. You gotta text me somebody I don't remember

0:53:36.920 --> 0:53:40.680
<v Speaker 1>how to check me some kind of I'll end up

0:53:40.840 --> 0:53:43.680
<v Speaker 1>be about to cry, like who gave my number to you?

0:53:44.320 --> 0:53:46.760
<v Speaker 1>But I'll be trying to be nice but I should

0:53:46.920 --> 0:53:49.839
<v Speaker 1>is annoying. You gotta give rid of that number. Well,

0:53:49.960 --> 0:53:54.200
<v Speaker 1>so we didn't hear that. EPHI maintances out now maintenance.

0:53:54.440 --> 0:53:57.360
<v Speaker 1>So what's next for you? Um, We're doing spots dates

0:53:57.719 --> 0:54:00.160
<v Speaker 1>and I'm working on my album. I'm not sure you're

0:54:00.160 --> 0:54:02.839
<v Speaker 1>familiar with Starr Yate, but like they've done a lot

0:54:02.880 --> 0:54:05.879
<v Speaker 1>of you know, historical hits. Um. I'm doing my first

0:54:05.880 --> 0:54:07.600
<v Speaker 1>single with them, which will be coming out in June

0:54:07.680 --> 0:54:11.479
<v Speaker 1>called Day and Night, and UM working with a Tobin still.

0:54:11.840 --> 0:54:14.120
<v Speaker 1>So I'm I'm an open sponge, like I don't want

0:54:14.160 --> 0:54:16.319
<v Speaker 1>to box myself and when I create because I never

0:54:16.400 --> 0:54:17.880
<v Speaker 1>know where the music gonna take me. So I'm just

0:54:17.960 --> 0:54:20.080
<v Speaker 1>working a lot. But the female artists reached out to

0:54:20.120 --> 0:54:23.960
<v Speaker 1>you yet, Um, yeah, so I recently collaborate Kalani Oh.

0:54:24.040 --> 0:54:26.520
<v Speaker 1>I saw that with the Yeah she hopped on the

0:54:26.719 --> 0:54:29.120
<v Speaker 1>Icy Girl Bay mix and that was my first like

0:54:29.239 --> 0:54:31.839
<v Speaker 1>female collaboration. Did you know each other before the deal?

0:54:32.200 --> 0:54:34.879
<v Speaker 1>We had mutual friends, so like we knew of each other,

0:54:35.239 --> 0:54:36.880
<v Speaker 1>but the fact that she wanted to hop on my

0:54:36.960 --> 0:54:40.080
<v Speaker 1>song was just like everything to me, Like I loved it,

0:54:40.200 --> 0:54:42.279
<v Speaker 1>and she's from the Bay, you know, she's hellopopping. I'm

0:54:42.360 --> 0:54:44.720
<v Speaker 1>like my manager was like, she's gonna hop on the remix.

0:54:44.800 --> 0:54:48.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, okay, like when it happens, it happens, let's

0:54:48.160 --> 0:54:50.279
<v Speaker 1>see and then no, But she flipped it around so

0:54:50.440 --> 0:54:54.600
<v Speaker 1>quickly I almost dropped my phone. I was like, yeah.

0:54:54.640 --> 0:54:57.560
<v Speaker 1>I was like, all right, so that's the first woman

0:54:57.640 --> 0:54:59.719
<v Speaker 1>that's reached out to you. So fine, if you could

0:54:59.800 --> 0:55:03.600
<v Speaker 1>go on your dream tour, who would it be with Marihanna? Okay,

0:55:03.600 --> 0:55:08.560
<v Speaker 1>I'm not mad at that. I would love you gotta

0:55:08.600 --> 0:55:10.600
<v Speaker 1>speak it into existing. I would love to open up

0:55:10.640 --> 0:55:14.680
<v Speaker 1>for her because her fans are wild, like and like,

0:55:14.840 --> 0:55:18.319
<v Speaker 1>I've watched videos of her performances and she's just having

0:55:18.360 --> 0:55:21.320
<v Speaker 1>a good time, and that's like, that's what that's about,

0:55:21.560 --> 0:55:23.680
<v Speaker 1>all right. What we're looking forward to hearing more from you,

0:55:23.960 --> 0:55:30.520
<v Speaker 1>y'all wild up in here. Yeah yeah, yeah, And I

0:55:30.640 --> 0:55:32.640
<v Speaker 1>have fun with y'all. Funny. I like kicking in with y'all.

0:55:32.800 --> 0:55:34.359
<v Speaker 1>All right, Well, we can't wait to have you back.

0:55:34.480 --> 0:55:36.440
<v Speaker 1>When you got the next single, when you got the album,

0:55:36.560 --> 0:55:39.160
<v Speaker 1>you got everything happening, and we appreciate you coming up

0:55:39.160 --> 0:55:41.400
<v Speaker 1>here and taking time early on to sit with us.

0:55:41.680 --> 0:55:44.040
<v Speaker 1>Thank you for having me. And also after she has

0:55:44.160 --> 0:55:51.759
<v Speaker 1>internal and external or when you figured out out my number,

0:55:51.840 --> 0:55:55.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm hit the group check. Yeah, that's from the internal.

0:55:56.239 --> 0:55:58.200
<v Speaker 1>Hit us the new number. We want the new number.

0:55:58.280 --> 0:56:00.440
<v Speaker 1>And you let us know the guy with the fucking

0:56:00.840 --> 0:56:02.680
<v Speaker 1>light bulb in the Brazilian butt lift give me an

0:56:02.680 --> 0:56:08.960
<v Speaker 1>eternal I guess the light bulb card. Alright, well, thank

0:56:09.000 --> 0:56:11.879
<v Speaker 1>you so much. We appreciate you, sweet eat here. That's

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<v Speaker 1>servously