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Speaker 1: Hey, there're folks, welcome to I Do Part to, a

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Speaker 1: one of a kind experiment in love and podcasting, and

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Speaker 1: we are not here to help just any old body

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Speaker 1: fine love. Oh no, bro, We are here specifically for

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Speaker 1: certain folks, Yes, for folks.

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Speaker 2: Who didn't get love right the first time, or maybe

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Speaker 2: even the second or third time, just like us. We

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Speaker 2: are two of your hosts for I Do Part two.

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Speaker 1: I'm aye Robots, I'm TJ. Holmes, along with our fellow

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Speaker 1: co hosts Jenna Kramer and Jenny Garth, as well as

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Speaker 1: our celebrity mentors, we are going to give guidance based

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Speaker 1: on all of our varying degrees of relationship experience.

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Speaker 2: Experience you say, well, for us, that means two divorces each.

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Speaker 2: So we are not here to sit on our pedestal

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Speaker 2: and point fingers. Now, we encourage all of our listeners

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Speaker 2: to call in right in with their stories we know

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Speaker 2: we're not alone, and their hopes for getting love right

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Speaker 2: the next time.

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Speaker 1: And one of those folks we heard from is someone

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Speaker 1: that maybe some of our listeners are even familiar with.

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Speaker 1: But take a listen now to one other people who

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Speaker 1: called in and say they need help looking for love.

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Speaker 3: Hey, missus, Elizabeth Brown, And I was just listening to

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Speaker 3: the podcast and my friend had told me that I

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Speaker 3: should call in. So here I am. I'm forty four

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Speaker 3: and three and a half years of worse. Her parents

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Speaker 3: Nashville So anyway, anyway you can help, any advice would

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Speaker 3: be well appreciated.

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Speaker 2: Thanks, so sweet, so sweet, Elizabeth Brown. If that doesn't

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Speaker 2: sound familiar, maybe remember her as Elizabeth kit Elizabeth Kit Brown.

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Speaker 2: But Elizabeth is joining us now on the podcast, And honestly,

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Speaker 2: we actually asked our producers, Elizabeth, whether or not you

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Speaker 2: actually just called in or if there was some sort

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Speaker 2: of a reach out to you, and know you genuinely

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Speaker 2: called the podcast asking for help. And folks might know

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Speaker 2: who you are because you were a contestant on The Bachelor,

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Speaker 2: Yes a long.

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Speaker 4: Time ago, yes, yes.

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Speaker 2: And then season fourteen and then also so I know,

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Speaker 2: Bachelor in Paradise, but you were on a show that

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Speaker 2: predated that as well, correct, yeah, Pad, Bachelor season.

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Speaker 1: Okay, remind us what Bachelor PAD was about.

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Speaker 4: So it was more of a game show where you

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Speaker 4: had a chance to win two hundred and fifty thousand dollars.

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Speaker 1: So you were looking for money, not love on that one.

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Speaker 2: Yes, maybe a little bit of both win win win win. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but you did end up getting married to someone who

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Speaker 2: So you ended up not on the actual shows, you

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Speaker 2: were on Finding Love, but in a way, because of

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Speaker 2: the show, you found love. So tell us a little

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Speaker 2: bit about what happened. We know you're divorced now, but

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Speaker 2: tell us about the romance and then what happened.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so, coming off the shows, Ty was in La

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Speaker 4: of the other bachelor people watching football, and I took

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Speaker 4: Tim right away because he's tall and he's a country

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Speaker 4: But then we both got into your relationships and it

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Speaker 4: was at the end of my to your relationship, and

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Speaker 4: I changed my status on Facebook, and twelve minutes later

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Speaker 4: he slid into my DMS and said, I think we.

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Speaker 1: Need to talk. Tell minutes, Elizabeth, twelve minutes after you

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So it's pretty cool. And he was living in

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Speaker 4: pretty quick dating relationship until we got married. So it

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Speaker 4: was all really fast. But how fast I moved here?

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Speaker 4: And when we started talking in February, I moved here

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've never lived with the guy really before that.

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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, okay, help us here. And again, everybody

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Speaker 1: has their own journey, their own experience, but to meet

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, it wasn't the first time I'd moved

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Speaker 4: I was thirty three and he was thirty four, and

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Speaker 2: So I get that.

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Speaker 3: There was a lot of thoughts.

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Speaker 2: No judgment here. I had a I was engaged in

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Speaker 2: four months and married to ten months. It also ended

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Speaker 2: we both know it's so hard, especially when children are involved,

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Speaker 2: to make the decision to divorce. What happened if you,

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Speaker 2: if you don't mind us asking what happened in your

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean we I think looking back, I needed

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Speaker 4: You know, I finally found, you know, really who I

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Speaker 4: Because I would always you know, get into a relationship

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Speaker 4: And yeah, I think now I'm kind of ready to

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Speaker 1: You know, Elizabeth kind I asked the work you said

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Speaker 1: it feels like years. The work you've done on yourself

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Speaker 1: become now, is this Elizabeth better prepared to be in

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Speaker 4: Now I have thought about it, you know, right when

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Speaker 4: I just think that, you know, he probably wouldn't have

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Speaker 4: I just I don't know that it would work. And

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Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, and you know what, that's awesome because

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Speaker 1: It just ca.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Well, I mean, look, we've been down this road.

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Speaker 2: I've been down that road. I've been on both sides

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Speaker 2: their their children too, and their family. It all matters,

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Speaker 2: what has that experience been like post divorce.

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Speaker 4: It's been wild because I've you know, I never really

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Speaker 1: You know, Eliz, what is you say younger guys? What

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Speaker 4: Like ten years younger? Like early thirties?

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Speaker 1: All right, You're not going out with twenty four year olds.

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Speaker 4: No, But they would hit on me and I'm like, sir,

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Speaker 4: you are way too young for me.

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Speaker 1: Why you think that is? Why is it that younger

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Speaker 4: I don't know. It was kind of a joke there

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Speaker 2: Some woman might say that's not a bad problem to

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Speaker 2: a compliment. I would absolutely think that was a compliment.

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Speaker 2: I mean, look, I snagged a younger guy. TJ's four

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Speaker 2: You can actually end your career.

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Speaker 2: Do you have? You know, you said you don't want

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've put a lot of thought into that too,

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Speaker 4: You know, my ex you know, Tyme's got a good

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Speaker 2: But it's really to you just said. That's cool to hear,

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Speaker 4: Now, that's so true because I ran a half marathon

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Speaker 2: Gratulations, thank you, and.

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Speaker 4: I didn't have anyone to watch my daughter, and his

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Speaker 1: What are your and again, that's wonderful to hear, given

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Speaker 4: Know, really, I just am looking for someone that's, you know,

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Speaker 2: It's so funny what you just said. Because DJ laughs

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Speaker 1: But you're the fun I tell you this all the time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're hilarious, you really really are.

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Speaker 1: It works. Maybe we also had someone else, I think

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Speaker 1: I'm serious. It just it's difficult to set it up

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Speaker 2: in looking at what's worked and what hasn't. If you

438
00:22:35,280 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 2: value the same things, you operate similarly. And you like

439
00:22:39,840 --> 00:22:43,080
Speaker 2: some of the same things. That is how friendships are built.

440
00:22:43,119 --> 00:22:45,679
Speaker 2: So if those components are there, there will be a

441
00:22:45,720 --> 00:22:49,040
Speaker 2: friendship in addition to the romance. But I think you

442
00:22:49,119 --> 00:22:51,239
Speaker 2: just have to look for it. If you announce it,

443
00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,679
Speaker 2: I think you're gonna turn people off for sure. And

444
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:58,760
Speaker 2: that's happened because it kind of feels like a rejection

445
00:22:59,480 --> 00:23:02,040
Speaker 2: or like you're on a trial basis, and that doesn't

446
00:23:02,080 --> 00:23:04,760
Speaker 2: feel good, Like, oh, now you know, now I'm.

447
00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:06,520
Speaker 1: The trial base is a good way to put it.

448
00:23:06,320 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 2: And I think it would it would definitely make me

449
00:23:08,560 --> 00:23:11,199
Speaker 2: feel like I wasn't good enough or you know, I

450
00:23:11,240 --> 00:23:14,240
Speaker 2: think that might be you know, and not that women

451
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:16,320
Speaker 2: don't have egos too, but I think the masculine ego

452
00:23:16,400 --> 00:23:19,800
Speaker 2: tends to be even slightly more fragile sometimes in those moments.

453
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:21,400
Speaker 1: And I asked, Elizabeth, is there anyone you can think

454
00:23:21,440 --> 00:23:23,440
Speaker 1: of in your life right now? You might not even

455
00:23:23,440 --> 00:23:25,720
Speaker 1: be thinking about them as a romantic partner, but do

456
00:23:25,800 --> 00:23:27,920
Speaker 1: you have some friend that's been around a long time?

457
00:23:27,960 --> 00:23:30,320
Speaker 1: And you'll kind of do you have anybody? And in mind,

458
00:23:30,359 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 1: you don't have to say who it is, but you

459
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:34,560
Speaker 1: have anything like that, somebody who's been kind of just

460
00:23:34,680 --> 00:23:36,800
Speaker 1: hanging around for the past I don't know, eight years.

461
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Speaker 4: I wish I could say. Yet, when I moved here

462
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 4: and moved right in with my ex, I kind of

463
00:23:44,600 --> 00:23:47,560
Speaker 4: we we got friends together, so I kind of moved

464
00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,360
Speaker 4: into his world. And so after the divorce, I've had

465
00:23:50,400 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 4: to find a whole new group of friends and they're

466
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:57,120
Speaker 4: all mare you know, like my mom, they're all married.

467
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Speaker 1: So not yet, no help, But that's what I would

468
00:24:02,320 --> 00:24:05,280
Speaker 1: think about that situation. But yeah, to a point, you

469
00:24:05,280 --> 00:24:06,840
Speaker 1: don't have to announce it. You'll just feel it and

470
00:24:06,880 --> 00:24:09,359
Speaker 1: it'll it'll flow, and if y'all want to get together

471
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:11,600
Speaker 1: again next time, it might be for a baseball game,

472
00:24:11,720 --> 00:24:14,480
Speaker 1: or it might be for something more laid back and

473
00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:18,480
Speaker 1: not necessarily have the pressure and the romantic feel of

474
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:20,160
Speaker 1: an actual date, and it'll just happen.

475
00:24:20,280 --> 00:24:20,480
Speaker 5: Yeah.

476
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Speaker 2: It's funny because I think so many women go into

477
00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 2: these dates, especially someone who may be divorced looking for

478
00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:29,320
Speaker 2: a new partner, who's had the time to work on themselves,

479
00:24:29,359 --> 00:24:31,000
Speaker 2: and kind of almost feel like in a rush, like

480
00:24:32,040 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 2: I don't want to date you unless you're serious. It's

481
00:24:34,119 --> 00:24:37,399
Speaker 2: so so funny. You're saying the exact opposite, but both

482
00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:39,639
Speaker 2: of those things I think send people running.

483
00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:53,480
Speaker 4: Do you have any thoughts on where I would go

484
00:24:53,600 --> 00:24:56,399
Speaker 4: to like meet single guys instead of going on the

485
00:24:56,440 --> 00:24:57,879
Speaker 4: apps to set that up?

486
00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:00,880
Speaker 2: You know, luckily I've never had to do the app thing,

487
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:03,560
Speaker 2: but I've only heard I mean, there are obviously success stories,

488
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 2: but it feels like it's so hard to determine what

489
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:10,199
Speaker 2: people's motivations are on those apps. So I would So

490
00:25:10,320 --> 00:25:12,880
Speaker 2: you mentioned you just ran a half marathon. I don't

491
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:14,879
Speaker 2: know if Nashville, but I'm assuming they have run clubs.

492
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,239
Speaker 2: But I feel like, if you love running, or you

493
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:20,359
Speaker 2: love hiking, or you love biking, whatever it is, join

494
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,879
Speaker 2: the club in your area. Like we see this all

495
00:25:22,920 --> 00:25:24,800
Speaker 2: the time in New York. We have run clubs everywhere

496
00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:26,520
Speaker 2: and it's so cool. But this is like the new

497
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:30,080
Speaker 2: non dating app, but a like person to person in

498
00:25:30,160 --> 00:25:33,679
Speaker 2: face meeting with folks who share the same passion, and

499
00:25:33,680 --> 00:25:35,760
Speaker 2: you could start running together and it just can develop.

500
00:25:36,080 --> 00:25:38,520
Speaker 2: There's no pressure then, because you weren't swiping left or right.

501
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:41,080
Speaker 2: You're actually just doing something you love and they are too.

502
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:44,120
Speaker 2: So that would be a suggestion of mine to join

503
00:25:44,119 --> 00:25:45,680
Speaker 2: a run club. I know you've got a young daughter,

504
00:25:45,720 --> 00:25:47,320
Speaker 2: but if you can fit it in once or twice

505
00:25:47,359 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 2: a week, you might meet some really cool, awesome people

506
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:51,240
Speaker 2: who share your interests.

507
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:55,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, and usually the runners are in pretty good shape.

508
00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:59,080
Speaker 1: That's just an added bonus. But your frame graun, I

509
00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:01,120
Speaker 1: know you talk about the other I mean they're all

510
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:04,359
Speaker 1: coupled up. But in that group, anytime there's a chance

511
00:26:04,400 --> 00:26:09,040
Speaker 1: to get to little folks, you me, we invite it

512
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 1: to so many little I don't know, a movie premieres

513
00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:15,520
Speaker 1: or a little book signings, or anytime you can get

514
00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,800
Speaker 1: into a situation where there's not pressure, whereas just a

515
00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:21,520
Speaker 1: group of folks hanging out. And if it's a say yes,

516
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:23,640
Speaker 1: if a friend wants to drag you to a church

517
00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:25,920
Speaker 1: pot luck, say yes, if a friend wants to drag

518
00:26:25,960 --> 00:26:28,040
Speaker 1: it to whatever it may be. You just I think

519
00:26:28,080 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 1: you always have to get into a situation where there's

520
00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:33,199
Speaker 1: no pressure. When you've met these folks, there's no pressure

521
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:34,879
Speaker 1: to sit down for a meal, no pressure to make

522
00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:37,159
Speaker 1: a connection, and it just happens naturally to get go

523
00:26:37,240 --> 00:26:40,200
Speaker 1: to a wedding, go to any social any of these

524
00:26:40,240 --> 00:26:42,960
Speaker 1: social gatherings where they're just people just wanted to have

525
00:26:43,000 --> 00:26:44,920
Speaker 1: a good time. And I think that's a way to

526
00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:46,159
Speaker 1: go say yes to everything.

527
00:26:46,160 --> 00:26:46,640
Speaker 2: I love that.

528
00:26:47,119 --> 00:26:49,680
Speaker 4: I love that. Now you guys are both parents, so

529
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:52,639
Speaker 4: what are your thoughts on the whole introducing someone to

530
00:26:52,720 --> 00:26:53,760
Speaker 4: your kid thing?

531
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Speaker 3: Like?

532
00:26:54,080 --> 00:26:56,400
Speaker 4: What what are your thoughts on those on that?

533
00:26:56,720 --> 00:26:59,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean I think it's obviously we all want

534
00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:04,760
Speaker 2: to pret our kids at all costs and I would

535
00:27:04,760 --> 00:27:07,960
Speaker 2: not and did not introduce my then young daughters until

536
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:11,240
Speaker 2: it was somebody who I knew was going to be

537
00:27:11,400 --> 00:27:14,159
Speaker 2: in their lives for a long time. You can't ever

538
00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:17,560
Speaker 2: predict the future, obviously, and it's a case by case basis.

539
00:27:17,760 --> 00:27:19,960
Speaker 2: I wouldn't for me. I don't know that I would

540
00:27:19,960 --> 00:27:23,760
Speaker 2: give it a timeline. It'd be more if we are

541
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 2: in an exclusive relationship and we've decided to take that

542
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:29,680
Speaker 2: next step not to see other people, then it's hard

543
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,600
Speaker 2: to constantly and some people choose to do that and

544
00:27:31,640 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 2: I respect that too, But you know, I think once

545
00:27:35,240 --> 00:27:37,399
Speaker 2: you've made that commitment, that for me would be when

546
00:27:37,480 --> 00:27:40,480
Speaker 2: I'd be willing to start to introduce that person into

547
00:27:40,840 --> 00:27:41,880
Speaker 2: my children's life.

548
00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 1: I agree, and we or we just went through this again.

549
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 1: My daughter is eleven, but we let her guide how

550
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,520
Speaker 1: she wanted to be introduced. We that was never a

551
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,960
Speaker 1: time I had to put pressure on her and say

552
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,440
Speaker 1: this is what's happening. It was more let her guide

553
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,680
Speaker 1: when she got curious, or when I continue to talk

554
00:27:57,720 --> 00:27:59,040
Speaker 1: to her about it and say, hey, are you okay

555
00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:00,919
Speaker 1: if Robot comes to this or comes over to that,

556
00:28:00,960 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 1: And it's just become natural to the point now sometimes

557
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:06,240
Speaker 1: my daughter doesn't even want to come over and hang

558
00:28:06,280 --> 00:28:08,240
Speaker 1: out or go do something unless, oh, is robot going

559
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 1: to be with us? Right? She asked for so we

560
00:28:11,000 --> 00:28:14,120
Speaker 1: got to this great place. But she one hundred percent

561
00:28:14,520 --> 00:28:17,880
Speaker 1: led the way on what she was comfortable with. And

562
00:28:18,000 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 1: win six years seven years old, like your daughter is.

563
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:22,919
Speaker 1: Maybe she is getting to the point she can make

564
00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,560
Speaker 1: that call and she'll get curious. But it really helped

565
00:28:25,680 --> 00:28:27,720
Speaker 1: to kind of the child is old enough to let

566
00:28:27,760 --> 00:28:28,280
Speaker 1: them guide.

567
00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:32,640
Speaker 4: Yeah, I love that. That's really good. Letting them gue.

568
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:36,240
Speaker 4: What happens if they meet the person and they don't

569
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 4: really like them, like what do you do? Do you

570
00:28:39,080 --> 00:28:41,320
Speaker 4: stay in the relationship or what?

571
00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:46,360
Speaker 2: And well, you know what, So, especially if they're older

572
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:48,560
Speaker 2: kids like you could be in this position, right, so

573
00:28:48,600 --> 00:28:51,040
Speaker 2: you could be introduced to this guy's children who were

574
00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 2: older and they may not like you. You know, it's and

575
00:28:54,360 --> 00:28:57,880
Speaker 2: I think I would just say, whoever the person is

576
00:28:57,920 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 2: who's not being liked by the children, that's kind of

577
00:29:00,920 --> 00:29:03,320
Speaker 2: a red flag because those children are never going away,

578
00:29:03,880 --> 00:29:05,720
Speaker 2: and you might want to spend some time trying to

579
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:10,440
Speaker 2: convince them, but sometimes it just doesn't matter, and you

580
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:13,800
Speaker 2: are setting yourself up, or that your potential partner is

581
00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:17,600
Speaker 2: setting themselves up for a lot of friction that is

582
00:29:17,680 --> 00:29:21,480
Speaker 2: almost impossible to undo. That's why, yes, take your time.

583
00:29:21,520 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 2: But if there is a bad experience and a bad

584
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:28,720
Speaker 2: feeling and bad juju, that might be really hard to overcome,

585
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:30,600
Speaker 2: and I think it might be I mean, the person

586
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 2: who is not liked might be the person who has

587
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:35,239
Speaker 2: to say this isn't a comfortable situation for me to

588
00:29:35,240 --> 00:29:38,560
Speaker 2: be in, and nobody wins. So that's a really tough

589
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:41,080
Speaker 2: one because I'm sure there are people who can and

590
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,640
Speaker 2: children who can be convinced and persuaded, But sometimes you

591
00:29:44,720 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 2: have to ask yourself, can I be in a relationship

592
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:51,840
Speaker 2: with somebody when I know every time their children are around,

593
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:55,840
Speaker 2: I feel uncomfortable or they feel that I have found

594
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 2: that to be a very difficult situation.

595
00:29:58,280 --> 00:30:00,200
Speaker 1: Then you have to ask some questions about why the

596
00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:03,240
Speaker 1: kids might not like the other or the boyfriend or

597
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:05,959
Speaker 1: the girlfriend, and the owners has to be on the

598
00:30:06,000 --> 00:30:08,240
Speaker 1: parents of that children to a great degree, like what

599
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 1: have they been saying? Why have they not guided this

600
00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:14,800
Speaker 1: process a little better? Because no kids should just they

601
00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:17,360
Speaker 1: might not like somebody because okay, my mom is being

602
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:20,280
Speaker 1: replaced my other parents. They might feel that way, but

603
00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:22,560
Speaker 1: they shouldn't. And I know it's delicate, it's very difficult,

604
00:30:22,640 --> 00:30:26,520
Speaker 1: but to just hate somebody outright, you have to have

605
00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:29,560
Speaker 1: help from your partner to guide that situation. But to

606
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:32,800
Speaker 1: Robot's point, it is so the relationships are hard already.

607
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:36,240
Speaker 1: Blending families is hard already. On top of that, we

608
00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:40,280
Speaker 1: have to navigate your children not liking me. That is

609
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 1: difficult to almost impossible to do. So that's a really

610
00:30:43,440 --> 00:30:44,040
Speaker 1: really big deal.

611
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,680
Speaker 2: Yes, no, it is that that is something to like

612
00:30:47,720 --> 00:30:50,120
Speaker 2: when you have children or when the other person that

613
00:30:50,560 --> 00:30:57,240
Speaker 2: has to be considered. Yes, yes, yes, very much. So.

614
00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 4: Well, being out on this farm and you know, working

615
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 4: from home, I don't have a lot of opportunities to

616
00:31:03,400 --> 00:31:05,880
Speaker 4: get out there and you know, meet people. Not to

617
00:31:05,920 --> 00:31:08,680
Speaker 4: mention the time, right, so I've got my daughter fifty

618
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:13,280
Speaker 4: percent of the time, So the other fifty percent. You know,

619
00:31:13,600 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 4: I try to use that to go out. Then sometimes

620
00:31:16,760 --> 00:31:19,640
Speaker 4: I just need some me time to in alone time.

621
00:31:20,080 --> 00:31:22,400
Speaker 4: So my time is pretty limited.

622
00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,480
Speaker 1: But I say, how far out is this farm? I mean,

623
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,120
Speaker 1: do you have to drive into civilization? Why can't you

624
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:28,640
Speaker 1: go out?

625
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 4: Yeah? I mean I have to drive in, So it's

626
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:33,360
Speaker 4: like thirty five minutes.

627
00:31:33,800 --> 00:31:35,360
Speaker 1: That's effort. Yeah, that's effort.

628
00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:36,040
Speaker 2: Effort.

629
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:37,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's tough.

630
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:42,120
Speaker 2: Well, you know, I don't know what you're doing in

631
00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 2: early December.

632
00:31:43,120 --> 00:31:45,640
Speaker 1: I know what she's doing because we're going to drag

633
00:31:45,720 --> 00:31:48,280
Speaker 1: her ass out to La. This is what's going to happen. Now,

634
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,760
Speaker 1: this is what's gonna happen. We're gonna we're gonna all

635
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 1: take a road trip, all right. So we're gonna get

636
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,719
Speaker 1: you off that farm and you are going to be

637
00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:59,160
Speaker 1: our guest for the jingle Ball December six out in

638
00:31:59,360 --> 00:32:02,680
Speaker 1: Los Angela's Califonia. You're not just gonna get to go

639
00:32:02,720 --> 00:32:05,160
Speaker 1: out and have a good time and party and walk

640
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:07,440
Speaker 1: the red carpet and do that whole thing. You're actually

641
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 1: going to come out and we're gonna put you to

642
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:11,920
Speaker 1: the test. I don't know how you're gonna feel about this,

643
00:32:11,960 --> 00:32:15,440
Speaker 1: but our celebrity mentors are gonna come out and they're

644
00:32:15,440 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 1: gonna observe you. You're almost gonna take a flirting test.

645
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:21,520
Speaker 1: They're gonna watch and see how you operate as you're

646
00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 1: trying to meet people, and then they are going to

647
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 1: give you kind of a grade on how you.

648
00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:29,960
Speaker 2: Do, and they're gonna help boost your confidence getting back

649
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:33,040
Speaker 2: out into the dating world, putting yourself out there, showing

650
00:32:33,120 --> 00:32:36,920
Speaker 2: up at this big event and just helping guide you.

651
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:40,760
Speaker 2: It's it's scary to start over and to say this

652
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:43,680
Speaker 2: is what I want. I'm putting myself out there. I mean,

653
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:47,960
Speaker 2: you called us, which I'm really amazed by by the way.

654
00:32:48,120 --> 00:32:49,959
Speaker 2: What were you, what do you why did you call

655
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Speaker 2: and what were you hoping to get out of it?

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Speaker 4: Gosh. Well, I've been a long time listener of you

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Speaker 4: guys when you first launched your podcast, and I've been

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Speaker 4: a long time listener of Jana Kramer's podcast, so I

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Speaker 4: know podcasts. And so when this came about, and my

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Speaker 4: friend Rebecca called me and told me, have you heard this?

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Speaker 4: I do part too, And I said no, she said,

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Speaker 4: well listen to it. I just called in and left

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Speaker 4: my information. You need to do the same thing. So,

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Speaker 4: I mean, she's been my in it to win a

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Speaker 4: girl this whole art. We went through our divorces together.

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Speaker 4: We've been listening to y'all's podcast together and just kind

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Speaker 4: of going through it. So yeah, this this is kind

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Speaker 4: of funny that she told me to call in and

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Speaker 4: and now here we are, so okay, let.

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Speaker 1: Me let me ask you this way. We're gonna you're

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Speaker 1: gonna be out in La of course a jingle ball.

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Speaker 1: They're gonna gonna observe you, maybe give you some advice.

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Speaker 1: How was the best way to put this? Do you

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Speaker 1: think you have game? Elizabeth? If there was a guy

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Speaker 1: that you're interested in, do you know how to make

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Speaker 1: it clear too? Said gentlemen that you're interested. Are you

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Speaker 1: a good flirter?

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Speaker 4: You know some people say I am, But then I

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Speaker 4: don't think that I am. I can talk to people,

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Speaker 4: but I don't. I don't know that I have any game.

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Speaker 2: But you know what I think that is game like

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Speaker 2: knowing who you are, knowing what you are good at,

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Speaker 2: and knowing that, hey, I'm not going to be able

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Speaker 2: to like sweet talk my way into something. I'm just

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Speaker 2: going to be myself. You get to a certain age

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Speaker 2: right where you're like, Hey, this is who I am.

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Speaker 2: This is what you get. I might not be smooth,

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Speaker 2: I might not have swagger, but you know I bring

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Speaker 2: other things to the table, like humor and athleticism and

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Speaker 2: all those other things. So we're really excited about this

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Speaker 2: amazing event jingle Ball. You ready? You excited?

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Speaker 4: I'm excited.

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Are you going to come out? Are you going to

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Speaker 1: bring the little one with you? Or are you gonna this

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Speaker 1: is gonna be a mom trip?

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Speaker 2: No, this is just me smart.

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Speaker 1: Well, we will see you out there for the jingle Ball.

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Speaker 1: And Elizabeth, this is really cool getting a chance to

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Speaker 1: get to know you a little bit. This is really

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Speaker 1: really fun.

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Speaker 4: I'm excited. Thank you guys.

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Speaker 2: So all right, more to come. We can't wait to

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Speaker 2: hear all the updates. Elizabeth, And it was great getting

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Speaker 2: to know you. Thanks for calling in and thanks for

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Speaker 2: being on the podcast.

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Speaker 4: Yes, thanks for having me. It's nice meeting you too.

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Speaker 1: Good to media, and we will see you in LA

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Speaker 1: And folks, we want you to know that if you

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Speaker 1: want to put yourself out there, do not give up

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Speaker 1: on the idea of finding love again.

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Speaker 2: That's right, that's why we're here, and here's what we

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Speaker 2: want you to know you can call us, just like

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Speaker 2: Elizabeth did at one eight four four four I do Pod.

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Speaker 2: Let me give you the numbers if that's tough, because

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Speaker 2: I hate when I have to find the letters and

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Speaker 2: then figure out the corresponding numbers. Here is Here are

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Speaker 2: the numbers you need eight four four four four three

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Speaker 2: six seven six three. You can also email us at

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Speaker 2: idopod at iHeartRadio dot com how.

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Speaker 1: They gonna find love? They can't even find our us

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Speaker 1: on social media.

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Speaker 2: Have to wait. You forgot how to read copy.

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Speaker 1: It's quite all right, but all this information will be

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Speaker 1: in our show notes so you can rate and review

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Speaker 1: the podcast. We certainly got to appreciate that I Do

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Speaker 1: Part two an iHeartRadio podcast. We're falling in Love is

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Speaker 1: the objective. We appreciate you spending some time with us

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Speaker 1: wherever you are. If it's your first or second, your third,

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Speaker 1: maybe even your fourth, we hope you got love right

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Speaker 1: this time