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Speaker 1: Welcome back, so good Mom's bad all right, welcome back

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Speaker 1: to good Mom's Bad Choices. I'm Erica and I'm Nila.

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Speaker 2: And it took me five times to be.

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Speaker 3: Able to say that correctly.

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Speaker 4: Are you drunk right now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I am? Actually yeah.

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Speaker 1: This is my scary Mommy episode. If you listen to

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Speaker 1: our Scary Mommy episode, Jamila Rolden wasted to chat with

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Speaker 1: very two nice, very Caucasian women and at like noon

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Speaker 1: she was fucked up.

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Speaker 3: So I'm fresh off a hangover and some dick.

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Speaker 4: And here we are, Jessica, did you party all night longer?

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Speaker 2: Are you drunk right now?

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Speaker 3: I'm not. I was just typing fast on them.

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Speaker 5: Like new News when I text you at three and

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Speaker 5: it was off my computer. I was like tabbed over

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Speaker 5: to the messages, like.

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Speaker 6: By the way, by the way, so we're joined by.

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Speaker 3: Our friend, our neighbor.

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Speaker 6: It is eleven o'clof morning, Jessica. Jessica Rose almost said

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Speaker 6: your government.

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Speaker 4: I forgot.

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Speaker 5: Well, the thing is, I don't mind that people know

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Speaker 5: that my name is Jessica Schrody. Like that's how like

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Speaker 5: my Facebook and everything else, like my bios, my website

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Speaker 5: is set up. I just thought that this is Jessica

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Speaker 5: Schrody sounded Instagram and this is sound Caucasian. I sound Caucasian,

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Speaker 5: Jessica Schrodi. Oh, I was like, dang, like I don't

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Speaker 5: have my Caucasian voice on.

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Speaker 4: Actually this is my Caucasian.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, what is your caucasion for? So I have Hi?

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Speaker 5: This is Usca calling from Oh God, yeah, because I

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Speaker 5: worked in Hell.

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Speaker 4: Hi, how are you? I would change it?

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Speaker 3: Apparently our voices are Caucasian. What is that black girl friend?

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Speaker 4: Black girlfriend? People comment on our reviews like.

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Speaker 6: They're they're saying nigga and baby daddy is really like, dang,

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Speaker 6: that's annoying. Obviously I have no friends from the valley,

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Speaker 6: but I do have still have a Caucasian voice.

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Speaker 5: Yeah it's not I mean, I guess maybe us being

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Speaker 5: in the valley maybe, but I mean I guess I

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Speaker 5: probably do too.

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Speaker 6: Which do you have a con voice like when you

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Speaker 6: call them our fancy?

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Speaker 3: Yes, I do? Hi, Hello, Hi, my hello. Wait. If

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Speaker 3: only you guys could see the hand gesture, because what's

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Speaker 3: happening right now? This is like I'm an interviewer hello hello.

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Speaker 1: On Triangle and they put their thumb like right below

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Speaker 1: their and their fingers together, and then they walk towards

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Speaker 1: the camera.

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Speaker 3: The oh yeah, my name is Eric. Today we're going

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Speaker 3: to talk about mind control like that's your your shoulder.

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Speaker 3: Foster is everything too, though.

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Speaker 5: I think my whitest voice is like getting an overdraft

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Speaker 5: for you.

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Speaker 3: This is ridiculous.

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Speaker 4: Do you know how long I've banked with Chase?

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Speaker 3: Do you know how long? Thirty six dollars?

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Speaker 4: That's ridiculous.

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Speaker 3: No, well, you can't do anything about it, Sarah makes

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Speaker 3: me who can?

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Speaker 4: If you cannot help me, I'm going to need to

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Speaker 4: speak to who can?

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Speaker 3: As as the cart is clear, I am closing this account.

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Speaker 3: I feel like they get three bucks five dollars just

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Speaker 3: gonna be oh my god, oh my god. Wow.

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Speaker 4: I'll hold, yeah, no problem.

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Speaker 3: Can I speak your manager? No, no, I know that

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Speaker 3: you have you have a manager.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so you are.

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Speaker 3: You're not the one charge. No one above you is

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Speaker 3: present right now?

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Speaker 4: Oh no, I'll hold, don't worry.

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Speaker 3: Well that doesn't work. Well you know what, I didn't

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Speaker 3: buy those things? Fraud? I want to.

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Speaker 4: It's yeah, transfer me to fraud.

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Speaker 1: God, speaking of f I was literally gonna say that

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Speaker 1: I'm so happy that it just stumbled upon.

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Speaker 3: Its honestly the perfect transition. Wow.

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Speaker 4: Speaking of fraud today, ladies, we.

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Speaker 3: Have been joined here today. We are gathered here.

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Speaker 4: Today by researcher.

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Speaker 6: I would like you to meet not Jessica Rows, but

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Speaker 6: researcher Jessica shred.

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Speaker 3: It highly rang highly private investigator.

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Speaker 6: We have today and we're discussing fake ass bitches.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, honestly, you know, I feel like I'm pretty good

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Speaker 1: at spotting a fake bitch. You know, like I don't

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Speaker 1: necessarily need statistics and add algorithms.

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Speaker 4: What are the signs? What are the signs would you

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Speaker 4: say of a fraud ass bitch?

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Speaker 6: Well, if you if you needed to tell the people,

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Speaker 6: please tell the people.

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Speaker 3: If you need to.

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Speaker 6: Spot a fake ass bitch in a crowd or maybe

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Speaker 6: in a small space, even in a friend circle, how

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Speaker 6: would you go about it.

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Speaker 1: There's a few signs. There's there's the laugh. There's the

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Speaker 1: fake ass bitch laugh. That's the first thing that came

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Speaker 1: to mind.

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Speaker 4: Can you give us an example.

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Speaker 3: It's just like I want to hear it loud and ABC,

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Speaker 3: but I've seen you back that mic up.

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Speaker 2: Loud bitches. That laugh of Hika is not.

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Speaker 4: Funny, excessively not funny.

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Speaker 2: Lif Another sign.

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Speaker 3: Actually I'm not even gonna do that. People don't be mad.

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Speaker 2: I'm not even gonna do that. Specific I kind of

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Speaker 2: need to know. No, I'm not going to go there.

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Speaker 1: But her the person that we're speaking of, but there's

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Speaker 1: many of them actually, because specifically this person that I

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Speaker 1: speak of, I knew she was a fake bitch from

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Speaker 1: the beginning, just because look, we live in a world

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Speaker 1: of Instagram. I think now, thankfully we're kind of going

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Speaker 1: towards a place where people want more organic content. When

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Speaker 1: she is too motherfucking pretty and planned out, bitch, I

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Speaker 1: know you didn't have a pillow fight and you're fucking

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Speaker 1: on your couch with your kid and someone documented it

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Speaker 1: with this perfect ass photo.

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Speaker 3: And when do feathers really come out at the pill fight?

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Speaker 3: Never I've never been to pilifight and seeing this feather

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Speaker 3: it never happened. And what does this have to do

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Speaker 3: with an advertisement for a new movie?

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Speaker 6: Oh my god, It's like people are doing it to

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Speaker 6: agitate the people.

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Speaker 1: I just think, like, I don't know, we just live

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Speaker 1: in this world now where like because we were You know, Jessica,

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Speaker 1: you work in an industry where like your your income is.

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Speaker 2: Based on your engagement.

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Speaker 1: We live in a world like that's like how people

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Speaker 6: So when there's frauds in your business, if you know what,

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Speaker 6: it poisons the swamp for everybody. It poisons the lake

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Speaker 6: for everybody because it makes it makes people who are

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Speaker 6: actually working hard have to compete with fake ass bitches.

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Speaker 6: And that's just not it's and my problem in particular

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Speaker 6: with people like this is that they're selling people a dream.

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Speaker 6: This specific person is literally selling like packages or whatever

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Speaker 6: the fuck she's doing over there.

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Speaker 3: So that you know, I'm sure and who knows how

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Speaker 3: many people who who?

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Speaker 6: There's people everywhere who aspire to be like these bloggers,

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Speaker 6: who the fuck doesn't want to take pictures all day?

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Speaker 6: And I mean some people, not a lot of people. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: Actually it's not you know, like take pictures all day

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Speaker 6: and not go to work. I mean people see this

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Speaker 6: lifestyle and want to say, hey, I could do that,

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Speaker 6: and then you pay someone who you think is actually

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Speaker 6: doing it, and to find out that it's actually.

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Speaker 3: Not that at all. Is exactly it's fraud.

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Speaker 4: It's deceiving and it's fake.

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Speaker 6: And it'd be different if you're doing it without selling

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Speaker 6: the dream, but you're literally selling the dream.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I also I just like feel like this space of

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Speaker 1: motherhood is like I don't know, like I take it

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Speaker 1: very seriously, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, like it's a big responsibility.

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Speaker 1: We're engaging with people on a daily about like really

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Speaker 1: personal shit in their life, and they connect to us

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Speaker 1: because we share personal shit and we're all in this

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Speaker 1: at least, I think that's I feel fortunate that that's

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Speaker 1: the space that we've created. Clearly, not every mommy blogger

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Speaker 1: is in it for that reason. Yeah, but when you

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Speaker 1: are emulating like you are, Like I don't know, I

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Speaker 1: wonder like do people reach out to her? Does she

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Speaker 1: actually engage with her people? Like is there like some

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Speaker 5: Like I think everyone has to do it in a

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Speaker 5: certain type of like sense, But is it.

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Speaker 3: Her genuine drive? Is it like the reason she doesn't? No,

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Speaker 3: Like I think that.

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Speaker 5: Like even like comments and stuff like looking at the

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Speaker 5: different comments that like, oh, you're responding to the comments,

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Speaker 5: but like these comments are also paid for too, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: so it's like it's more about looking like you have

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Speaker 5: that's not the case at all.

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Speaker 3: Internet is not real, y'all. And That's what.

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Speaker 5: That's what boils down to is I just feel like

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Speaker 5: I've spent so much time as a content creator, as

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Speaker 5: someone who's like making money online now by creating content

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Speaker 5: like that's representative of like my struggle as a mother

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Speaker 5: for other people to relate to. I don't necessarily think

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Speaker 5: that everything has to be struggle or everything that we're sharing,

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Speaker 5: because there is an art to people that do want

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Speaker 5: to just carry carry and like have like these perfect

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Speaker 5: fees and all this stuff. It makes sense, but you're

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Speaker 5: taking another like people are out here.

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Speaker 3: Buying likes and followers, y'all.

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Speaker 4: Period.

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Speaker 3: That's what we're trying to say about that.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, Okay, So for those of you I don't

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Speaker 1: know specifically, I'm like, did we even explain this roll?

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Speaker 1: There's this bitch on.

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Speaker 3: Everyone's like, what are they talking about? Let's go back.

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Speaker 6: What we're talking about is these a lot of mommy bloggers, Yes,

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Speaker 6: a lot here have these beautifully curated pages.

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Speaker 4: This person doesn't even have a blog.

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Speaker 3: A lot of times that relates these beautiful pictures relate.

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Speaker 4: To a blog, which is like it's advertising honestly.

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Speaker 1: Well, then you get to kind of engage more and

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Speaker 1: understand what the picture is.

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Speaker 3: Right, right, at least, what does this mean?

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Speaker 6: Usually, yeah, there's like that, that's like a journalistic approach

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Speaker 6: to that. But there's even people who are just taking

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Speaker 6: social media pretty pictures and videos with music behind it

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Speaker 6: that didn't really happen.

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Speaker 4: It's just to look nice.

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Speaker 6: And there are other women who aspire to be like that,

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Speaker 6: I mean ship That's why we were talking about Instagram

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Speaker 6: taking away the likes, and it causes anxiety for us

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Speaker 6: in the same industry who are trying to figure out,

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Speaker 6: how can we, you know, deliver more real content and

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Speaker 6: have more real engagement so that we can do this permanently.

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Speaker 6: And then there's people who are pretending to have this again,

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Speaker 6: this engagement and this following and it's just not real

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Speaker 6: and that that's that's like, it's that.

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Speaker 1: And then also you are not like you're and then

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Speaker 1: all you can't do that and also be a whack person.

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Speaker 3: Also on top of it, Yeah, you gotta choose, like

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Speaker 3: you can't do wack shit.

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Speaker 1: And people okay, like work the internet, make your money,

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Speaker 3: She's pronounced the fashion water And I'm.

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Speaker 6: You're being clever, You're you are approaching motherhood in a real,

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Speaker 6: honest way and a like a sarcastic way, because you

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Speaker 4: It's just like, what the fuck do you really have

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Speaker 6: Like it's not fake, but I want to see more,

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Speaker 2: Like, Okay, be that, be target, be all that, but.

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00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:07,760
Speaker 5: Let that audience gravitate to you naturally, because there are people,

448
00:22:07,840 --> 00:22:11,080
Speaker 5: there are accounts enuff that I follow, but that are like, but.

449
00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,120
Speaker 3: She's literally visual inspiration, is.

450
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:15,480
Speaker 1: Literally in it for the dollar, the coin. It's not

451
00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:16,919
Speaker 1: about any other reason.

452
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:17,960
Speaker 2: So she doesn't give a fuck.

453
00:22:18,000 --> 00:22:19,680
Speaker 5: And I just feel like, you not really getting the

454
00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:21,720
Speaker 5: dollars in the coins, because if you're not the dollars

455
00:22:21,720 --> 00:22:23,480
Speaker 5: and the coins, you wouldn't be doing so much.

456
00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:26,240
Speaker 6: Well, you're doing a lot too much. And I just

457
00:22:26,240 --> 00:22:29,760
Speaker 6: wanted to tell a little story story time. I don't

458
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:30,919
Speaker 6: know if I told it before, but I'm gona tell

459
00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:33,359
Speaker 6: it again. I think this is also where our beef

460
00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:39,680
Speaker 6: stems from. Eric, and I'm not speaking for Jessica. Once

461
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:43,119
Speaker 6: upon a time, very early on in our in our

462
00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:46,480
Speaker 6: podcasting situation on the internets, trying to figure this shit

463
00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 6: out or whatever, you know whatever, I think stories had

464
00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:54,520
Speaker 6: just hit the market. It was rather new, and I'm

465
00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:58,680
Speaker 6: not that good at technologies, and I was I'm not.

466
00:23:00,200 --> 00:23:01,000
Speaker 4: Just after this.

467
00:23:01,040 --> 00:23:02,640
Speaker 1: I was from you also did this a few other

468
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:04,440
Speaker 1: times after this, and I was like, bitch, you're still

469
00:23:04,480 --> 00:23:04,960
Speaker 1: doing this shit.

470
00:23:05,520 --> 00:23:08,520
Speaker 6: I was trying to send the story with my comments

471
00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:11,320
Speaker 6: to Erica, and instead I sent them back to the bitch.

472
00:23:11,840 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 3: I replied, dumb ass bitch.

473
00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:18,359
Speaker 4: But I was not talking shit first.

474
00:23:18,359 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 3: All you know how I talk. She literally calls everyone bitch.

475
00:23:21,080 --> 00:23:26,040
Speaker 6: All my friends are bitches to a Luna a bit

476
00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:33,240
Speaker 6: you know, it's not I don't take the bitch, amen.

477
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:35,800
Speaker 3: She just gonna be a lot of things.

478
00:23:36,560 --> 00:23:40,960
Speaker 6: So the girl, and now that we've discovered through deep research,

479
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,439
Speaker 6: in the beginning, she was just I think she had

480
00:23:43,440 --> 00:23:45,720
Speaker 6: a post about like she was just adding some brands

481
00:23:46,080 --> 00:23:48,800
Speaker 6: and saying, hey, basically work with me.

482
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:51,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, She's like, hey, Denny Brands want to partner with.

483
00:23:51,359 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 3: Me or something like that. But she was adding specific ones.

484
00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,480
Speaker 6: So I sent it to Erica and I said, hey,

485
00:23:57,200 --> 00:23:58,600
Speaker 6: let's just ask brands.

486
00:23:58,760 --> 00:23:59,800
Speaker 4: This bitch is doing it.

487
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:03,320
Speaker 6: I said, hey, I said, look, I said, let's just

488
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,680
Speaker 6: start asking. This bitch is doing it. And I sent

489
00:24:05,720 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 6: it and immediately the bid to her she's hot, and

490
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:12,440
Speaker 6: I was like, oh shit.

491
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:15,280
Speaker 3: Then I was like, whatever, it's not the bigger deal.

492
00:24:15,440 --> 00:24:17,520
Speaker 4: Whatever, I don't care, I don't know you shut up.

493
00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:19,440
Speaker 1: You guys did, but you guys talked after that too,

494
00:24:19,640 --> 00:24:21,480
Speaker 1: And but why why did we talk?

495
00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:22,000
Speaker 7: No?

496
00:24:22,040 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 2: But you no, but you talked after you sent it.

497
00:24:24,000 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 1: She responded, right, and you were like, oh girl, I

498
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,760
Speaker 1: was just saying, like I think you even explained yourself.

499
00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:30,400
Speaker 3: Like I was just saying, like me and my partner

500
00:24:30,400 --> 00:24:31,159
Speaker 3: were saying, we just have to.

501
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 6: Ask for things I appreciate, like yeah, whatever, like it's

502
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 6: the truth. What's the truth. But what she did not

503
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,400
Speaker 6: know was that I had been following her on Facebook

504
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,440
Speaker 6: because she probably bought me as a follower.

505
00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:43,880
Speaker 3: Don't know her at all.

506
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:48,200
Speaker 6: Unbeknownst to me, I was purchased and I was like, oh,

507
00:24:48,200 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 6: she's cool whatever, and I noticed so funny. Oh this

508
00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 6: is very specific. So I can't say that to you

509
00:24:52,480 --> 00:24:53,760
Speaker 6: guys later.

510
00:24:54,320 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 3: Okay.

511
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 8: So I later, Saithing told me go look at her Facebook.

512
00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 4: And I did, and hmm, what did I see here?

513
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 6: The bitch had screenshot in the message left our handle

514
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 6: and posted it and said, ha, look what somebody sent

515
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:14,560
Speaker 6: me by mistake. I can teach you, but I have

516
00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:20,080
Speaker 6: to charge hmmm. So I told you she was hot,

517
00:25:20,119 --> 00:25:24,200
Speaker 6: piss pissed, mainly at me for being dumb, like page

518
00:25:24,280 --> 00:25:26,680
Speaker 6: just about you can't send it, nope, no, no more,

519
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:27,639
Speaker 6: just call me.

520
00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:28,480
Speaker 3: It's just texting.

521
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:32,399
Speaker 5: So but the crazy thing is now, looking at this

522
00:25:32,560 --> 00:25:35,439
Speaker 5: in retrospect, now is you probably a part of you

523
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:37,919
Speaker 5: guys was like that could have like fucked up our

524
00:25:37,960 --> 00:25:40,639
Speaker 5: ship for sure, But now looking at it, it's not

525
00:25:40,680 --> 00:25:41,160
Speaker 5: even real.

526
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:42,399
Speaker 3: So what did it?

527
00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,440
Speaker 5: It would be the same thing because I was like, wow,

528
00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:45,960
Speaker 5: she she just shared this.

529
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 6: With her following sixty thousand whatever, right, and then underneath

530
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:55,200
Speaker 6: it were people.

531
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 3: Like ha hahaha, like creaking commenting.

532
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:05,840
Speaker 1: Probably those her go sloop. They had everything this commenting

533
00:26:06,000 --> 00:26:11,080
Speaker 1: like oh, well, yeah, this is great content, and we're like,

534
00:26:11,119 --> 00:26:12,520
Speaker 1: you know, we didn't mean anything by that.

535
00:26:12,720 --> 00:26:13,240
Speaker 4: We thought that.

536
00:26:13,560 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 1: I was like, we need to write her a fucking

537
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 1: message and we need to post it in the comments.

538
00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:19,679
Speaker 2: And so I told you, I was like, we're writing her,

539
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:20,560
Speaker 2: we're saying.

540
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,960
Speaker 6: Like we said in the comments that that was It

541
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,879
Speaker 6: was like that there was no malice intended. That this

542
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:27,679
Speaker 6: was kind of like whack that you would leave her

543
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:31,080
Speaker 6: name in here, Like this doesn't seem very like girl

544
00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 6: girl empowered.

545
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:32,760
Speaker 2: Like you are.

546
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 1: She's all about female empowerment, but you were here like

547
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:39,639
Speaker 1: blasting some some moms. Some moms were just actually just

548
00:26:39,640 --> 00:26:42,439
Speaker 1: saying like damn, she's going for what she wants.

549
00:26:42,480 --> 00:26:43,040
Speaker 2: We should too.

550
00:26:43,560 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 5: Yeah.

551
00:26:44,560 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 4: Oh, and she's very like.

552
00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:51,920
Speaker 3: This is done.

553
00:26:52,920 --> 00:26:54,879
Speaker 1: So then she said she agreed. She wrote us back

554
00:26:54,920 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 1: and was like I'm sorry, like you know, this is

555
00:26:57,840 --> 00:27:00,600
Speaker 1: not that was not my intention, and then so she

556
00:27:00,640 --> 00:27:01,080
Speaker 1: deleted it.

557
00:27:01,119 --> 00:27:03,199
Speaker 6: She deleted it, and I think we even adapted her

558
00:27:03,200 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 6: about coming on the podcast because it was super early,

559
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:07,440
Speaker 6: and then she was like agreed, and then they get

560
00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:08,760
Speaker 6: back to us, and then we at that point like

561
00:27:08,760 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 6: fuck this bitch, which also I thought was very funny.

562
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:14,120
Speaker 4: Maybe a month after.

563
00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:17,040
Speaker 6: That, I went revisited the page because I'm nosy bitch,

564
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:20,560
Speaker 6: and I noticed something very hilarious I've noticed in her

565
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:24,360
Speaker 6: bio which has now been removed, and noticed again she

566
00:27:24,440 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 6: had she had.

567
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:30,680
Speaker 8: Certainly decided to insert uncensored oh yeah, because because being

568
00:27:30,680 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 8: this wild mom.

569
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:33,440
Speaker 4: Ye wild.

570
00:27:33,520 --> 00:27:35,480
Speaker 1: And then like there was a post about like sex. Yeah,

571
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:38,040
Speaker 1: she never had she ever posted any I was.

572
00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:40,200
Speaker 5: Like, Oh, you've been visiting good Mom's huh you want

573
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:42,400
Speaker 5: you want to come to the other side, not you bitch.

574
00:27:42,440 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 6: You don't sit at our table exactly. And the crazy

575
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:48,119
Speaker 6: thing is we were actually related to that podcast.

576
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:49,439
Speaker 8: I might have talked a little bit of shit, but

577
00:27:49,440 --> 00:27:50,720
Speaker 8: I think we were more curious to see kind of

578
00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:51,240
Speaker 8: person she was.

579
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 6: But at that point it was clear she was a

580
00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 6: fake ass bitch. And then we've seen other some of

581
00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,199
Speaker 6: our other friends kind of like, if you know, it's

582
00:27:59,200 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 6: a mommy blocking, it's a bomby blogging community community it is,

583
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:04,720
Speaker 6: and you know, as you are in it, you'll have

584
00:28:04,760 --> 00:28:05,360
Speaker 6: your experience.

585
00:28:05,400 --> 00:28:07,400
Speaker 4: I hate the fuck are we fucking mommy bloggers?

586
00:28:07,440 --> 00:28:10,280
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you are a blogger?

587
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,879
Speaker 5: I refuse, Well, blogger is like a loose term to

588
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:15,800
Speaker 5: I feel like it's like a more professional way of

589
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:16,439
Speaker 5: explaining it.

590
00:28:16,440 --> 00:28:20,120
Speaker 3: You probably I'm a mommy Instagram or no, I am

591
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:21,679
Speaker 3: a thought leader.

592
00:28:23,119 --> 00:28:26,360
Speaker 5: There's a do you know ninety three percent of influencers

593
00:28:26,560 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 5: don't identify themselves as influencers, of course, because it's embarrassing

594
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:31,200
Speaker 5: to call yourself.

595
00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:33,959
Speaker 3: That, not even mommy blogger.

596
00:28:34,440 --> 00:28:36,720
Speaker 5: So my thing is I identify as a content creator.

597
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:39,280
Speaker 5: I feel like that's like the most At the end

598
00:28:39,280 --> 00:28:40,320
Speaker 5: of the day, it's all the same ship.

599
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:40,960
Speaker 3: I'm a mom.

600
00:28:42,920 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 5: It's a title. It's it is what it is. But also,

601
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,400
Speaker 5: you guys have to do a podcast. You guys also podcasters, right,

602
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:48,760
Speaker 5: that sounds you know what I mean?

603
00:28:48,800 --> 00:28:50,320
Speaker 3: That sounds I don't know my embarrassed to say that.

604
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:54,400
Speaker 1: Yea, everyone has a goddamn podcast, so what I know?

605
00:28:54,560 --> 00:28:56,960
Speaker 3: My god, this is acause I feel I.

606
00:28:56,880 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 1: Feel like I think because of that, I feel like

607
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:00,960
Speaker 1: it discredits ours. I'm like, I felt people be like, oh,

608
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:02,520
Speaker 1: they got like two hundred listens.

609
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 3: I'm like, no, bitch, people are listening.

610
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 6: Kind of talking about I have a pretty successful podcast.

611
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:12,240
Speaker 1: I'm pretty successful. I I heard, I heard you say

612
00:29:12,240 --> 00:29:14,880
Speaker 1: it once. It's like, yes, you have to own it.

613
00:29:14,960 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 5: Like when I was at a workshop, they were talking

614
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,800
Speaker 5: about how a lot of times we undersell ourselves when

615
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 5: we do stuff. So I made business cards. My business

616
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 5: card don't say nothing, but my social media handles. You'll

617
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 5: figure it out there you go look at that exactly.

618
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:33,959
Speaker 3: But you know what, I agree. I think that people.

619
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:36,480
Speaker 6: I feel like the people who do the work try

620
00:29:36,480 --> 00:29:37,920
Speaker 6: to like tone themselves down.

621
00:29:38,520 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 3: But then like the people.

622
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:44,200
Speaker 9: Influencer of like this bitch that we're talking about, like

623
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 9: I am, and she has a four pages first of

624
00:29:47,360 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 9: all the baby now, the baby daddy, her, the business.

625
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 10: One, Like, bitch, this relationship is done for I don't care.

626
00:29:56,400 --> 00:29:57,040
Speaker 3: No, I don't care.

627
00:29:57,080 --> 00:29:58,920
Speaker 5: I feel like, even just like having this conversation right now,

628
00:29:58,920 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 5: I'm realizing, like how like fake and bullshites and how

629
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:02,320
Speaker 5: I shouldn't.

630
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 3: Care, you know, because I just feel like I'm always

631
00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:05,240
Speaker 3: trying to play it safe.

632
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 5: I'm so easily impacted by other people's opinions, which is

633
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,680
Speaker 5: a flaw of mine that I feel like I tend

634
00:30:11,720 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 5: to be overly conscious of other people's, like I would

635
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 5: hate to make someone feel the way.

636
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:17,160
Speaker 3: That I feel.

637
00:30:17,400 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 5: But I also feel like she's technically contributing to a

638
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:24,120
Speaker 5: lot of people not feeling as worthy or good or

639
00:30:24,320 --> 00:30:27,120
Speaker 5: The thing I'm kind of not validated but like confirmed

640
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:30,520
Speaker 5: for me is that once her interactions with other people,

641
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:32,520
Speaker 5: like I was like, ok, I know that she like

642
00:30:32,560 --> 00:30:33,000
Speaker 5: I was like.

643
00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:36,040
Speaker 3: Share our people, shame our people.

644
00:30:36,320 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 1: But then once like people like you and like we

645
00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:40,600
Speaker 1: have a few other friends that have had interactions with

646
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 1: the specific person.

647
00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:42,680
Speaker 2: They've been like.

648
00:30:42,720 --> 00:30:43,360
Speaker 3: Yeah she was.

649
00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 1: I'm like yeah, right, And I haven't even met the

650
00:30:46,560 --> 00:30:49,600
Speaker 1: bitch and I literally have never set foot in front

651
00:30:49,640 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 1: of this woman. I just know off the strength of

652
00:30:52,400 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 1: how our interactions went versus what she portrays on the

653
00:30:55,800 --> 00:30:59,280
Speaker 1: interwebs that they're not aligned and so like.

654
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 5: She's just yeah, And I haven't met her in like

655
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:06,920
Speaker 5: real life person, but I've had like we have this

656
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:08,880
Speaker 5: phone number, we've been on the phone together, we text,

657
00:31:08,960 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 5: we call. But there's been so many times where she

658
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:14,000
Speaker 5: were things supposed to have been for us to like

659
00:31:14,680 --> 00:31:17,360
Speaker 5: interact or meet up or do something. And it's funny

660
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,560
Speaker 5: because I backed out of the initial offer for some

661
00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 5: stuff she wanted me to collaborate on her with and

662
00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:25,800
Speaker 5: looking at it retrospectively, now it was all for a reason.

663
00:31:25,920 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 5: The reason that I backed out initially was in my head,

664
00:31:28,840 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 5: I was like, why I can do this. I can

665
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:33,560
Speaker 5: have my own group or my own situation like this.

666
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:36,120
Speaker 5: Why would I contribute to someone else's Like not in

667
00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:37,760
Speaker 5: a fucked up way. There's there's times where you should

668
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:40,240
Speaker 5: collaborate with other there's other times where it is just

669
00:31:40,280 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 5: for you. It does it make sense, But not looking

670
00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:46,280
Speaker 5: back at it, it was just like not an authentic.

671
00:31:47,480 --> 00:31:48,960
Speaker 3: It was not an authentic Like.

672
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 1: There's going to be imposters in every industry, no matter

673
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 1: if you're a doctor, you're a lawyer, you're a podcaster,

674
00:31:54,280 --> 00:31:56,120
Speaker 1: you're a mommy blogger, you're an influencer.

675
00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 3: There's impostors in every.

676
00:31:57,400 --> 00:32:01,080
Speaker 6: Single space, and we're here to call them out.

677
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:04,800
Speaker 3: Episode No. I thought about that, but.

678
00:32:04,840 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 6: It's not as being mean as being real. And I

679
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:10,200
Speaker 6: think she's mean. I think the bigger I think.

680
00:32:10,280 --> 00:32:13,920
Speaker 5: I think it's less about anyone that that is, you know,

681
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 5: posing as anything online, as much as it is an

682
00:32:17,040 --> 00:32:20,920
Speaker 5: important conversation for people to to hear and see that

683
00:32:21,040 --> 00:32:24,920
Speaker 5: everything online is not real unless it's our pages.

684
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 6: But you know what, it took us a long time

685
00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:32,600
Speaker 6: to hit ten thousand, and when we did and we

686
00:32:32,640 --> 00:32:33,120
Speaker 6: posted it.

687
00:32:33,080 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 8: I was like, not one circle heard like our follow

688
00:32:38,280 --> 00:32:40,920
Speaker 8: because I see you and I see it all the time,

689
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 8: and I'm like, and it sucks.

690
00:32:42,760 --> 00:32:45,160
Speaker 3: It sucks because people.

691
00:32:44,920 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 8: Are actually grinding, like we're trying to figure out who's

692
00:32:48,280 --> 00:32:50,040
Speaker 8: gonna fucking post every day.

693
00:32:50,200 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 6: Is fucking annoying. And if it's good enough because I

694
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:53,760
Speaker 6: did the same thing, look at our feet?

695
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 4: Is it pretty?

696
00:32:54,800 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 3: We put the box around everything they said to go

697
00:32:56,960 --> 00:32:59,200
Speaker 3: with the last thing? Is this too much ass? It's

698
00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 3: too much ass there? And oh but it's next to

699
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 3: Sean King can't put a Sean you know what I'm.

700
00:33:04,000 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 1: Saying conversation, Oh wait, there was. I was calling to

701
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:10,840
Speaker 1: Mila because we had like.

702
00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:12,080
Speaker 2: What did we have with Sean?

703
00:33:12,160 --> 00:33:15,480
Speaker 1: And then like little my Little Stuff Vagina okay, and

704
00:33:15,600 --> 00:33:17,200
Speaker 1: we were promoting we had an episode called My Little

705
00:33:17,200 --> 00:33:19,760
Speaker 1: Stuff Vachina because we were we did I saw the toy, yeah,

706
00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 1: which is a great my Little Yoni, but it's literally

707
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:25,120
Speaker 1: Sean the Activist next to a Vagina toy.

708
00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 3: I'm like, are we going to extreme hare?

709
00:33:26,760 --> 00:33:29,920
Speaker 6: I don't know, but like constantly second guessing are real,

710
00:33:29,960 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 6: authentic selves the ship we do anyway, and then trying

711
00:33:33,440 --> 00:33:35,960
Speaker 6: to put ourselves in these box of these fake ass bitches.

712
00:33:36,160 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 6: But you can't go in the box with the fake

713
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:40,760
Speaker 6: ass bitches because I'm real and this is real, and

714
00:33:40,800 --> 00:33:42,640
Speaker 6: like what we're talking about is real. And of course

715
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,480
Speaker 6: we have we are content creators, so we know we

716
00:33:45,520 --> 00:33:47,320
Speaker 6: have to post every day and we do visit things

717
00:33:47,320 --> 00:33:49,360
Speaker 6: that are real and sometimes it's like a picture from

718
00:33:49,440 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 6: last week.

719
00:33:50,160 --> 00:33:52,120
Speaker 4: But the point is it is just like.

720
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, there's a certain sense of curation and

721
00:33:54,680 --> 00:33:57,440
Speaker 5: automation that comes I'm good, a certain sense of curation

722
00:33:57,480 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 5: and automation that comes with running like online pages, that

723
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:05,280
Speaker 5: doesn't make you any less authentic. I know there's something

724
00:34:05,280 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 5: I'm like going through my pictures, like what is the

725
00:34:06,640 --> 00:34:07,400
Speaker 5: old ass picture?

726
00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:10,760
Speaker 1: And there's certain pages that I look at for certain reasons,

727
00:34:10,800 --> 00:34:12,799
Speaker 1: like I have a page, I have a paid this

728
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:14,040
Speaker 1: girl she's fashion.

729
00:34:14,200 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 3: Her page is beautifully curated.

730
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:19,800
Speaker 1: She's always traveling somewhere new, and you really want to

731
00:34:19,800 --> 00:34:21,680
Speaker 1: feel bad about And that's what and that's.

732
00:34:21,560 --> 00:34:23,759
Speaker 2: The reason why I follow her, you know what I mean.

733
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,759
Speaker 1: And she's probably making I mean, I don't know what

734
00:34:26,800 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 1: her engagement is or whatever. And then there's people like

735
00:34:29,400 --> 00:34:32,320
Speaker 1: I follow like I like be, I like to watch,

736
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,239
Speaker 1: like I like to show Sebastian yesterday. This this page

737
00:34:35,239 --> 00:34:37,399
Speaker 1: I followed with this girl like ties herself up, like

738
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:42,719
Speaker 1: my ship is like her whole page is like like

739
00:34:43,600 --> 00:34:47,400
Speaker 1: bonded on the bombs.

740
00:34:47,440 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, this is kind of hot.

741
00:34:51,200 --> 00:34:57,839
Speaker 1: Have them all on her saved folder like blue legs.

742
00:34:56,320 --> 00:34:59,200
Speaker 3: Oh my god, because the bond makes your legs. Oh

743
00:34:59,320 --> 00:35:00,680
Speaker 3: my god, it's extreme.

744
00:35:00,719 --> 00:35:02,520
Speaker 4: I'm like, I don't know how the discoloration.

745
00:35:02,680 --> 00:35:03,799
Speaker 3: Cutting off circulations.

746
00:35:04,160 --> 00:35:04,879
Speaker 4: I don't know that.

747
00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:06,560
Speaker 3: I don't want to be able to walk when I get.

748
00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:10,600
Speaker 1: Right, I bet she takes beautiful pictures, really beautifully die.

749
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:13,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, and it's not even sexual. You go to certain

750
00:35:13,760 --> 00:35:17,400
Speaker 3: people and certain for certain things. Yeah, it's big facts.

751
00:35:17,440 --> 00:35:19,560
Speaker 5: That's what I had to learn, like because I just

752
00:35:19,600 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 5: recently went full time with the whole internet thing, and

753
00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 5: I spent I wasted a lot of time the first

754
00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,960
Speaker 5: two months trying to do things that I saw everyone

755
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 5: on YouTube doing. So I'm doing these challenges or I'm

756
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:31,960
Speaker 5: doing this kind of video, or I'm reviewing this or that.

757
00:35:33,239 --> 00:35:36,239
Speaker 3: But here's the thing, I'm good, It's okay.

758
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 2: The thing is.

759
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:44,480
Speaker 5: Everyone that follows me is like, bitch rap right, Nobody

760
00:35:44,520 --> 00:35:47,680
Speaker 5: fucking cares about you trying to learn how to use

761
00:35:47,760 --> 00:35:50,200
Speaker 5: TikTok or doing this that and the third. So for me,

762
00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:52,479
Speaker 5: I've come to the understanding as a creator that I

763
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:55,600
Speaker 5: don't feel like I'm supposed to post every day because

764
00:35:56,520 --> 00:36:01,280
Speaker 5: I need to post what's relevant to my audio. Because

765
00:36:01,920 --> 00:36:06,320
Speaker 5: as much as we're talking about people artificially inflating followers

766
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,839
Speaker 5: and likes, it is important to know that good engagement

767
00:36:10,000 --> 00:36:14,799
Speaker 5: is a possible thing. It's not organic good organ like

768
00:36:15,080 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 5: there are people who really stay in their lane, keep

769
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 5: their audience engaged. And like, have a consistent group of

770
00:36:22,760 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 5: people supporting their posts and engaging with them, and your

771
00:36:25,239 --> 00:36:26,759
Speaker 5: people will find your.

772
00:36:26,480 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 3: People will find you.

773
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:30,120
Speaker 5: But also like everybody is going to be there for

774
00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:34,120
Speaker 5: something and the algorithm specifically knows that and that's why

775
00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 5: they send stuff.

776
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 3: I post the mommy remix.

777
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:37,680
Speaker 5: That shit sits at the top of the feeds for

778
00:36:37,760 --> 00:36:40,680
Speaker 5: people that they know, like my mommy remixes versus me

779
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:43,040
Speaker 5: posting a picture, them post picture of myself. I fucking

780
00:36:43,239 --> 00:36:45,520
Speaker 5: I posted a story that was too long and eighty

781
00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:49,640
Speaker 5: niggas unfolded me because I was talking too much. You

782
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:52,720
Speaker 5: need to wrap exactly. So it's just like, no your stuff.

783
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:54,799
Speaker 5: So it's possible to have good engagement. So I'm not

784
00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 5: saying you look online and everyone that has like really

785
00:36:58,200 --> 00:37:00,000
Speaker 5: good engagement is buying life.

786
00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 3: But let me tell you something. We've been trying hard

787
00:37:03,760 --> 00:37:07,560
Speaker 3: out here and it's not easy to have that. So

788
00:37:07,680 --> 00:37:09,799
Speaker 3: a lot of times, to me, it's inflated and it's fake.

789
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:12,000
Speaker 5: I know people that don't even have businesses and shit

790
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:13,200
Speaker 5: that are inflating their likes.

791
00:37:13,239 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 3: And that's how you know. It's really based off of

792
00:37:15,040 --> 00:37:17,080
Speaker 3: like self validation over anything.

793
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:17,839
Speaker 2: It's so deep.

794
00:37:18,120 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, deeper than that.

795
00:37:19,719 --> 00:37:24,400
Speaker 6: Jessica watched a post go from like one hundred and

796
00:37:24,440 --> 00:37:29,360
Speaker 6: fifty to like three hundred within like that was like

797
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:30,399
Speaker 6: an hour or two.

798
00:37:31,320 --> 00:37:32,520
Speaker 3: It was six hours.

799
00:37:33,280 --> 00:37:37,320
Speaker 5: The photograph capped out at three hundred likes six hours.

800
00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:39,960
Speaker 5: A post has been up for six hours and it

801
00:37:40,000 --> 00:37:44,560
Speaker 5: only has three hundred likes, not only because that's relative perspective, right,

802
00:37:44,840 --> 00:37:47,919
Speaker 5: it has three hundred likes. Then at the eight hour mark,

803
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 5: only two hours later, you now have six thousand likes, ma'am.

804
00:37:55,320 --> 00:38:04,040
Speaker 3: But ma'am, bitch your busted chuck something something.

805
00:38:05,239 --> 00:38:08,839
Speaker 4: Department India didn't like you that much.

806
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 5: And then go through the actual likes and the engagement.

807
00:38:13,440 --> 00:38:18,319
Speaker 5: And this is not racist, every yo, every everyone ain't

808
00:38:18,320 --> 00:38:22,520
Speaker 5: from an Indian girl, you know what I mean? Well,

809
00:38:22,719 --> 00:38:25,440
Speaker 5: you can tell by comments because it's just random like

810
00:38:26,280 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 5: emojis or like stupid stuff or like.

811
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:31,560
Speaker 3: This photo is on point.

812
00:38:32,880 --> 00:38:36,279
Speaker 6: But also there's the things that you mentioned earlier but

813
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:38,000
Speaker 6: I totally didn't understand.

814
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:39,360
Speaker 4: But it's called ghost sloops.

815
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:41,759
Speaker 3: That's oh yeah, that's it. And and so I was

816
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 3: doing my research on was last night too. Now there there.

817
00:38:44,600 --> 00:38:45,680
Speaker 3: I've been a part of one of.

818
00:38:45,600 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 5: Those before, not not a hierarchy one where anyone's paying.

819
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:52,799
Speaker 5: But like, I posted a Facebook feed, I had like

820
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:55,960
Speaker 5: around like three or four thousand followers, and I posted

821
00:38:55,960 --> 00:38:58,240
Speaker 5: a Facebook thing and a group and we all decided

822
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:00,840
Speaker 5: to get together about twenty of us, and every single

823
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 5: time that one of us posted something, we would send

824
00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:04,839
Speaker 5: it to the group and everyone in that group had

825
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,359
Speaker 5: to engage with it. And the thought process behind it

826
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,960
Speaker 5: is that the more people engage with something from different

827
00:39:10,680 --> 00:39:13,879
Speaker 5: you know, realms or niches, the further it we'll push

828
00:39:13,920 --> 00:39:15,719
Speaker 5: it up in the algorithm so that more people will

829
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:18,560
Speaker 5: see it. The problem was that I found myself having

830
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 5: to like things that I didn't like or that I

831
00:39:21,080 --> 00:39:23,759
Speaker 5: didn't care for. I eventually just like remove myself from

832
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 5: the group and it wasn't that big of an impact.

833
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:27,720
Speaker 3: Now, however, these higher influencer people.

834
00:39:28,280 --> 00:39:30,799
Speaker 5: Now, if you have like a group that you guys

835
00:39:30,840 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 5: are basically paying into where you guys all have these

836
00:39:33,760 --> 00:39:37,239
Speaker 5: like high followings or people that are verified, because that's

837
00:39:37,280 --> 00:39:37,680
Speaker 5: the thing too.

838
00:39:37,760 --> 00:39:38,840
Speaker 3: If you see people.

839
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:41,600
Speaker 5: That are verified interacting with another person's content, at least

840
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:44,680
Speaker 5: from a brand's perspective, it gives you, or it gives

841
00:39:44,719 --> 00:39:45,400
Speaker 5: that person.

842
00:39:45,120 --> 00:39:47,120
Speaker 3: A little bit more credibility.

843
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:52,279
Speaker 1: So weird how it checkmark it triggers that in your brain.

844
00:39:53,080 --> 00:39:55,200
Speaker 1: You see it, because honestly, I'll see a checkmark like

845
00:39:55,480 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 1: who's that important?

846
00:39:57,239 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 3: Right click?

847
00:39:57,920 --> 00:39:58,239
Speaker 2: And then I.

848
00:39:59,760 --> 00:40:01,680
Speaker 1: Click, I'm like, why you have seven thousand likes, I

849
00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:06,360
Speaker 1: mean followers, like yeah, like Isaac.

850
00:40:07,080 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 5: Here's the thing, though, Some people are buying check marks too.

851
00:40:11,440 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 5: People can buy fucking verified check marks. I figure you

852
00:40:14,560 --> 00:40:16,759
Speaker 5: can buy them in the shave room comments. Bitch, look

853
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 5: they're selling them in the shave room comments. Go to

854
00:40:18,640 --> 00:40:20,759
Speaker 5: a shaved room comment and tell me there's not some

855
00:40:20,800 --> 00:40:23,359
Speaker 5: spam ask page that was like, come to me right now.

856
00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 5: Get verified on my page all the time.

857
00:40:27,320 --> 00:40:30,960
Speaker 3: We want to want to get emails all the time

858
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:31,560
Speaker 3: about that ship.

859
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:35,160
Speaker 5: Here's the thing, though, there are people that are verified

860
00:40:35,440 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 5: that don't have super high followings. For instance, I have

861
00:40:39,160 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 5: a friend of mine and he works for Fox and

862
00:40:42,560 --> 00:40:45,120
Speaker 5: he does really important ship for Fox. He doesn't even

863
00:40:45,200 --> 00:40:47,879
Speaker 5: have more He has less than ten thousand followers, but

864
00:40:48,760 --> 00:40:53,640
Speaker 5: he's verified through association through certain companies. So it's all relative,

865
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:55,839
Speaker 5: and then some of it is fake. The important thing

866
00:40:55,920 --> 00:40:59,239
Speaker 5: is to disconnect from all of it. Consume what you

867
00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:02,000
Speaker 5: want to consume. Watch, and engage with what you want

868
00:41:02,000 --> 00:41:04,480
Speaker 5: to engage with, and stop comparing yourself to other people,

869
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 5: because there's it's very hard to tell what's fake and

870
00:41:09,239 --> 00:41:12,520
Speaker 5: what's real unless you've been up all night typing fast

871
00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:15,720
Speaker 5: on third party websites verifying people's information.

872
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:22,359
Speaker 3: Which I have for us and we trust her.

873
00:41:24,440 --> 00:41:27,479
Speaker 5: But I think, I think that that's a really important thing.

874
00:41:27,960 --> 00:41:28,600
Speaker 7: Is just not.

875
00:41:31,120 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 5: Taking it in too much because it's like, yeah, but

876
00:41:33,280 --> 00:41:37,640
Speaker 5: what if that guy just works somewhere at Sony for something.

877
00:41:37,440 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 3: And then that is valid. But because you you're associating the.

878
00:41:41,719 --> 00:41:45,640
Speaker 1: US, valuation volume is based on his following his verification.

879
00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:49,239
Speaker 1: That's how you value people, and we decide where they

880
00:41:49,239 --> 00:41:54,360
Speaker 1: fall when then yeah, because it's true most of the most.

881
00:41:54,520 --> 00:41:56,520
Speaker 5: There's people that I know never fuck with me. There's

882
00:41:56,520 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 5: people that fuck with me. Now that I've been sending

883
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:02,560
Speaker 5: my mommy videos like celebrities and ship, I've been blindly

884
00:42:02,680 --> 00:42:04,080
Speaker 5: dming them. Back in the day when I was just

885
00:42:04,120 --> 00:42:06,600
Speaker 5: doing my little thing, my whole thing, my my strategy

886
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 5: to get myself seen was I was fucking dming everybody

887
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:10,000
Speaker 5: my ship.

888
00:42:10,160 --> 00:42:11,879
Speaker 3: Look at my ship, you know what I mean?

889
00:42:12,200 --> 00:42:14,839
Speaker 5: Not crazy spammy, but like if the right person like

890
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:17,200
Speaker 5: my social media growth has been based off of the

891
00:42:17,280 --> 00:42:19,320
Speaker 5: right people seeing something and feeling like it was worthy

892
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 5: enough to share, and then other people coming to me

893
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 5: from that, you know what I mean.

894
00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:24,520
Speaker 3: But it's so funny to me. The people that FOCU

895
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:27,359
Speaker 3: my ship, Now, I don't think that's worthy. I think

896
00:42:27,440 --> 00:42:29,000
Speaker 3: maybe they connected to it.

897
00:42:29,080 --> 00:42:33,399
Speaker 5: You know, that's what right, that's true too, But I've

898
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:35,640
Speaker 5: been doing the same thing, do you know what I mean?

899
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:42,120
Speaker 3: So I don't know. It's all it's all it's all fake.

900
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:42,799
Speaker 3: It's all fake.

901
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:46,960
Speaker 1: Both listenings that don't give talk about social media like

902
00:42:47,120 --> 00:42:49,200
Speaker 1: what is this conversation.

903
00:42:50,680 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 2: Mommy and this ship?

904
00:42:53,280 --> 00:42:57,160
Speaker 5: But those, yeah, we live in now like people are

905
00:42:57,239 --> 00:42:59,959
Speaker 5: this is people these are. This is how people get paid,

906
00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:04,239
Speaker 5: is because their jobs engagement social media are like full

907
00:43:04,360 --> 00:43:05,480
Speaker 5: blown careers.

908
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:10,080
Speaker 1: You know, it's it's it's where it is, not not.

909
00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:12,399
Speaker 6: Not like I mean, it is where it is. Look

910
00:43:12,400 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 6: where we're sitting, that's what we're doing. I like, it's

911
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:19,960
Speaker 6: sounds like that's where it's hot. I mean, I'm drunk, guys,

912
00:43:21,480 --> 00:43:22,759
Speaker 6: have you've forgotten that I'm drunk?

913
00:43:23,480 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 3: Sounded very smart?

914
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:32,080
Speaker 5: Yeah, but yeah, I know I'm definitely I'm done with

915
00:43:32,080 --> 00:43:35,560
Speaker 5: with with Karen about the circle back thing too, because

916
00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:38,239
Speaker 5: I just feel like I personally feel like I'm kind

917
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:39,759
Speaker 5: of at the point. Obviously there's going to be new

918
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:43,839
Speaker 5: people and new experiences that I encounter like that are

919
00:43:43,840 --> 00:43:46,320
Speaker 5: like valuable friendships, but I also feel at a pretty

920
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:51,839
Speaker 5: good spot in my social media presence or career, however

921
00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 5: you want to say it, where I'm happy with the

922
00:43:53,880 --> 00:43:58,399
Speaker 5: like the the network that I have, where I don't necessarily.

923
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:04,400
Speaker 3: Need to be so concerned with like offending everyone. Yeah, well, because.

924
00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 5: I think that's a that's a huge, huge fear of

925
00:44:07,400 --> 00:44:09,759
Speaker 5: mine not speaking on things and.

926
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:11,319
Speaker 3: Also have to be careful based you know how I

927
00:44:11,360 --> 00:44:12,840
Speaker 3: fucking put.

928
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:16,160
Speaker 5: So don't have my homegirl Resa, she did some work

929
00:44:16,200 --> 00:44:17,279
Speaker 5: for someone and they didn't pair.

930
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:19,360
Speaker 3: So I hop on my Instagram story.

931
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:21,799
Speaker 5: This is the power of the internet in I hop

932
00:44:21,840 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 5: on my Instagram story and I'm like tag the girl,

933
00:44:25,640 --> 00:44:29,120
Speaker 5: and I'm like, y'all should go tell this person that

934
00:44:29,160 --> 00:44:30,920
Speaker 5: they shouldn't do work for other people.

935
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 3: They shouldn't have people do work and then not compensate them,

936
00:44:34,480 --> 00:44:34,920
Speaker 3: do you know?

937
00:44:35,120 --> 00:44:35,279
Speaker 7: Well?

938
00:44:35,320 --> 00:44:37,839
Speaker 3: First of all, so I guess a lot of people

939
00:44:37,880 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 3: went and told her, Okay, I'm calling you and I

940
00:44:41,200 --> 00:44:43,360
Speaker 3: got a per She blocked me.

941
00:44:43,440 --> 00:44:45,880
Speaker 5: She reported me to the North Hollywood and Burbank police,

942
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:55,040
Speaker 5: the police districts.

943
00:44:55,280 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 3: She was, I was, can I tell you I'm a

944
00:44:59,560 --> 00:45:04,040
Speaker 3: real to I was shook. I was sitting there. I

945
00:45:04,120 --> 00:45:05,480
Speaker 3: was like, I got some shit. I gotta post for

946
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 3: we TV. If my fucking account is taken down and

947
00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:10,760
Speaker 3: I can't pay my rent, I'm really gonna beat this bitches.

948
00:45:11,520 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 5: I didn't really beat you up, You're gonna have a problem.

949
00:45:14,400 --> 00:45:19,000
Speaker 5: So yeah, So she started reporting my page. Instagram started

950
00:45:19,080 --> 00:45:21,239
Speaker 5: slowing my shit down. Like I would try to do

951
00:45:21,239 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 5: stuff and it'd be like that action.

952
00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:24,680
Speaker 3: Is blocked right now. That action was blocked right now.

953
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:27,200
Speaker 5: Like they were like basically going through my page trying

954
00:45:27,200 --> 00:45:30,360
Speaker 5: to verify whether or not I was doing online bullying.

955
00:45:31,280 --> 00:45:35,080
Speaker 5: And I was so And that's the other thing. All

956
00:45:35,120 --> 00:45:37,359
Speaker 5: of this shit is not real. None of this ship

957
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:40,560
Speaker 5: is ours. The only thing that is real is mailing list.

958
00:45:40,640 --> 00:45:44,040
Speaker 5: That is your direct fucking connection to all of these people.

959
00:45:44,120 --> 00:45:48,600
Speaker 5: Right at any moment, I can no longer have any

960
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:50,680
Speaker 5: type of following because I don't own Instagram, I don't

961
00:45:50,719 --> 00:45:51,920
Speaker 5: own YouTube, I don't own Facebook.

962
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:53,799
Speaker 3: They can shut all my shit down whatever they want to.

963
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:57,759
Speaker 3: I was sitting there so shook like fuck, like my

964
00:45:57,920 --> 00:45:59,840
Speaker 3: whole shit is about to be fucked. My life.

965
00:46:00,400 --> 00:46:02,759
Speaker 5: It's based on this ship, I think, and I and

966
00:46:02,800 --> 00:46:03,920
Speaker 5: I played into my anxiety.

967
00:46:03,920 --> 00:46:05,200
Speaker 3: I was like, you know what, I just don't have

968
00:46:05,239 --> 00:46:08,160
Speaker 3: no mother's fucking opinions on ship. No more, you know.

969
00:46:08,680 --> 00:46:11,759
Speaker 3: But you know, did she get her money?

970
00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:12,239
Speaker 6: No?

971
00:46:14,160 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 3: No, I'm not all of it. What is the police

972
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:19,920
Speaker 3: really gonna do? They're gonna arrest you.

973
00:46:20,040 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 5: But then I'm looking and then so I started my research,

974
00:46:22,880 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 5: like what So I went onto the Instagram community guidelines

975
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:30,479
Speaker 5: and I technically violated the Instagram community guidelines I got

976
00:46:30,760 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 5: and I was on a that was like a second

977
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:34,440
Speaker 5: strike for me because I posted a picture of Nilan

978
00:46:34,520 --> 00:46:35,839
Speaker 5: the beds of me with just her underwear, and they

979
00:46:35,840 --> 00:46:37,839
Speaker 5: gave me like a community guidline strike for that too,

980
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:39,440
Speaker 5: because they said she was too exposed.

981
00:46:39,440 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 3: They took it off. She was. It was like a

982
00:46:40,960 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 3: funny picture and we were like in pajamas and.

983
00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 4: She sh she's a kid.

984
00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:45,399
Speaker 3: I know.

985
00:46:45,560 --> 00:46:48,480
Speaker 5: Yeah, just like that also irritates me, and I know

986
00:46:48,520 --> 00:46:52,279
Speaker 5: people personally, how would you post your kids? You guys

987
00:46:52,280 --> 00:46:54,520
Speaker 5: are so up, Like I'm sorry my daughter doesn't have

988
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:57,840
Speaker 5: titties because she's barely five, and you guys are so

989
00:46:57,920 --> 00:47:00,879
Speaker 5: obsessed with sexualizing children that the sight of my child

990
00:47:01,000 --> 00:47:03,719
Speaker 5: and so that's supposed to be my problem because you

991
00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:06,480
Speaker 5: don't have a funk that my story got taken down.

992
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:09,560
Speaker 5: Iran the bathtub, I'm telling you, Instagram is not playing

993
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:09,880
Speaker 5: about that.

994
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:10,560
Speaker 3: I was like what.

995
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:12,120
Speaker 5: I didn't even realize that I got taken down until

996
00:47:12,120 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 5: like later, and I was like, what if they snatched

997
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:18,239
Speaker 5: my whole thing? So technically me telling a group of people.

998
00:47:19,480 --> 00:47:19,759
Speaker 3: A lot.

999
00:47:19,880 --> 00:47:22,680
Speaker 5: And that's the other thing too. The larger you are,

1000
00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:25,200
Speaker 5: the more impact you have, and the more it seems

1001
00:47:25,280 --> 00:47:29,040
Speaker 5: like that, right, because if I have fucking five hundred

1002
00:47:29,080 --> 00:47:30,000
Speaker 5: followers and I'm like.

1003
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:33,600
Speaker 3: Everybody go tell that big so WOOTI WOOTI Well.

1004
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:36,279
Speaker 5: No one cares because no one did anything. Twelve people

1005
00:47:36,280 --> 00:47:39,120
Speaker 5: watch on Instagram right exactly me.

1006
00:47:41,480 --> 00:47:47,680
Speaker 1: I take it, baby, You're about life outside of that.

1007
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:48,879
Speaker 4: You show me that.

1008
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:50,640
Speaker 3: I don't know why I didn't.

1009
00:47:51,000 --> 00:47:53,360
Speaker 5: She's she's been funny to me, but she's been canceled

1010
00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:55,000
Speaker 5: over that ship she was talking about with the braids

1011
00:47:55,000 --> 00:47:55,320
Speaker 5: and stuff.

1012
00:47:55,320 --> 00:47:57,840
Speaker 1: But she's saying she had like she got braids and

1013
00:47:57,880 --> 00:48:00,399
Speaker 1: everyone said it was like a cultural appropriation. I didn't

1014
00:48:00,440 --> 00:48:01,719
Speaker 1: read the whole. I didn't read any of it. I

1015
00:48:01,760 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 1: just saw she wrote a lot, and I was like, oh,

1016
00:48:03,280 --> 00:48:06,880
Speaker 1: I don't need to read anything that the sentences she

1017
00:48:06,960 --> 00:48:08,399
Speaker 1: was not going to start making sense.

1018
00:48:08,480 --> 00:48:09,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, she was finding the wrong way.

1019
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:14,600
Speaker 5: She's also she did the whole well, y'all, uh straying

1020
00:48:14,640 --> 00:48:17,440
Speaker 5: your hair and and do white people colors?

1021
00:48:17,520 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 3: And you know what I mean?

1022
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 2: Blonde?

1023
00:48:19,320 --> 00:48:21,840
Speaker 5: So what's the difference between me doing this? The difference

1024
00:48:21,880 --> 00:48:23,080
Speaker 5: is how do you even graduate?

1025
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:25,799
Speaker 3: All? I read all?

1026
00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:26,239
Speaker 4: I read.

1027
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:28,400
Speaker 1: The one sentence that I read which convinced me I

1028
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:31,759
Speaker 1: needed to read no more, was yeah I like my hair,

1029
00:48:31,800 --> 00:48:33,640
Speaker 1: and so does your or your man's on his way

1030
00:48:33,640 --> 00:48:34,680
Speaker 1: to come over, I said.

1031
00:48:34,520 --> 00:48:39,080
Speaker 3: Bitch who was a man is coming over underage?

1032
00:48:39,760 --> 00:48:43,040
Speaker 1: She's like nineteen now maybe yeah, maybe let me.

1033
00:48:43,040 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 3: Say something that bitch made a lot of money.

1034
00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:45,439
Speaker 4: Oh yeah she did.

1035
00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:51,560
Speaker 3: She's making money outside. No, well that's what song. Go it,

1036
00:48:51,840 --> 00:48:55,520
Speaker 3: go it go, Bessie. You can't fuck I know the words.

1037
00:48:55,239 --> 00:48:55,640
Speaker 10: Which.

1038
00:48:56,960 --> 00:49:00,440
Speaker 3: I read some of it. She probably she Paly has

1039
00:49:00,480 --> 00:49:01,000
Speaker 3: a good writer.

1040
00:49:01,680 --> 00:49:05,080
Speaker 5: I mean, no period, that's my Ultimately, I'm just trying

1041
00:49:05,080 --> 00:49:06,799
Speaker 5: to write raps for people. I'm going to be on

1042
00:49:06,840 --> 00:49:09,040
Speaker 5: the back end because that's where the real money is.

1043
00:49:09,040 --> 00:49:11,400
Speaker 5: That too, Yeah, that's really where it's at.

1044
00:49:11,840 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 1: I don't like any of any of my my value

1045
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:16,440
Speaker 1: and my money being tied to something that could be

1046
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:18,960
Speaker 1: deleted at any moment, right, this is what my So

1047
00:49:19,080 --> 00:49:21,879
Speaker 1: that's why I think the goal for me always like, Okay,

1048
00:49:22,080 --> 00:49:27,280
Speaker 1: we make money on the interweb or whatever, Instagram.

1049
00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:26,600
Speaker 3: I need something.

1050
00:49:26,640 --> 00:49:30,200
Speaker 1: I want something more sustainable, something more rooted, because this.

1051
00:49:30,200 --> 00:49:32,919
Speaker 3: Ship is not that's not guaranteed.

1052
00:49:33,440 --> 00:49:33,839
Speaker 6: I need.

1053
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:36,560
Speaker 3: I need guaranteed. You know. I'm a guaranteed type of bitch.

1054
00:49:37,080 --> 00:49:38,200
Speaker 3: I'm like a writer.

1055
00:49:38,520 --> 00:49:41,480
Speaker 5: That's my thing. Like I'm not on the internet. I'm

1056
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:44,040
Speaker 5: a parody writer, a parody rapper, a content creator. I

1057
00:49:44,120 --> 00:49:47,439
Speaker 5: am a fucking writer. When I'm not posting raps, I'm

1058
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:48,640
Speaker 5: freelance writing.

1059
00:49:48,440 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 3: Articles for people. I want to be a ghostwriter, like

1060
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:53,680
Speaker 3: I want to be a published author. That's the end goal.

1061
00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:56,320
Speaker 5: And sometimes it takes a lot of theatrics to build

1062
00:49:56,360 --> 00:49:58,120
Speaker 5: up a following for people to take you seriously for

1063
00:49:58,200 --> 00:49:58,799
Speaker 5: that type of shit.

1064
00:49:59,200 --> 00:50:00,839
Speaker 3: So that is a part of it.

1065
00:50:01,080 --> 00:50:05,320
Speaker 5: But the Internet is not fucking real, and these bitches

1066
00:50:05,360 --> 00:50:07,840
Speaker 5: on the Internet are not fucking real. These bitches wouldn't

1067
00:50:07,840 --> 00:50:11,239
Speaker 5: even get on here and say that they want to

1068
00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:13,799
Speaker 5: have goals outside of that because they want people to

1069
00:50:13,840 --> 00:50:17,879
Speaker 5: be so sold to the idea of being that that

1070
00:50:17,920 --> 00:50:19,000
Speaker 5: they stay relevant.

1071
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:19,720
Speaker 4: True.

1072
00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:23,080
Speaker 3: Well, but then yeah, that's true. But now it's cool

1073
00:50:23,120 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 3: to be uncensored, So.

1074
00:50:25,360 --> 00:50:28,759
Speaker 1: It is you'll start to see more bitches try to

1075
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:29,680
Speaker 1: be unssor.

1076
00:50:29,840 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 4: But it's cool to be uncensored. But also it's being

1077
00:50:34,200 --> 00:50:35,560
Speaker 4: actually uncensored, is.

1078
00:50:35,560 --> 00:50:38,440
Speaker 3: It's actually it takes some balls.

1079
00:50:38,719 --> 00:50:40,480
Speaker 6: Yes, you know what I'm saying, Like nobody really wants

1080
00:50:40,480 --> 00:50:42,840
Speaker 6: to ship all the like the real shit away and

1081
00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:47,839
Speaker 6: and and be honest about shit like you could say

1082
00:50:47,840 --> 00:50:49,400
Speaker 6: you're uncensored, but bitch, I see you.

1083
00:50:49,760 --> 00:50:52,680
Speaker 3: Yep, even me, I'm not fully all the way even unsonsored.

1084
00:50:52,760 --> 00:50:53,960
Speaker 4: You know how much shit we don't say.

1085
00:50:54,239 --> 00:50:54,439
Speaker 8: Yeah.

1086
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:57,320
Speaker 5: Also people also a lot of people will want to

1087
00:50:57,360 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 5: be that until they have to experience the backlash or something.

1088
00:51:00,520 --> 00:51:02,480
Speaker 3: I know we haven't really experienced backlash, so maybe I

1089
00:51:02,520 --> 00:51:06,799
Speaker 3: have Maybe actually why need the scale back?

1090
00:51:07,400 --> 00:51:08,880
Speaker 5: I feel like you, I mean, you guys already have

1091
00:51:08,960 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 5: like the mental mind, I mean throughout just are the

1092
00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:12,560
Speaker 5: conversations with you guys.

1093
00:51:12,400 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 3: Right now, I've like accepted some.

1094
00:51:14,560 --> 00:51:18,120
Speaker 5: Things good or lots of Hell yeah, no for sure,

1095
00:51:18,200 --> 00:51:20,319
Speaker 5: So I think you guys would handle it should that

1096
00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:21,000
Speaker 5: fucks you up.

1097
00:51:21,280 --> 00:51:22,799
Speaker 3: I think if you have to care about certain ship

1098
00:51:22,840 --> 00:51:24,840
Speaker 3: and then there's certain people that just antient people and

1099
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:27,960
Speaker 3: some build your own table.

1100
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:30,840
Speaker 6: And I think we've come across that, not just in

1101
00:51:30,920 --> 00:51:35,400
Speaker 6: this stupid mom bea but.

1102
00:51:34,160 --> 00:51:37,080
Speaker 10: But like in real life, like Okay, well some people

1103
00:51:37,080 --> 00:51:39,000
Speaker 10: are just not our people, you know, and like, like

1104
00:51:39,040 --> 00:51:41,080
Speaker 10: you said, I'm so cool, but I was like, well,

1105
00:51:41,080 --> 00:51:43,040
Speaker 10: maybe we should start her own group and she's like, bitch,

1106
00:51:43,120 --> 00:51:47,800
Speaker 10: already do that because we support each other's like, oh yeah.

1107
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:51,080
Speaker 4: I never already go sleeping. It's just real.

1108
00:51:52,239 --> 00:51:55,680
Speaker 6: We do have a cool ass crew of people, you

1109
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:57,080
Speaker 6: know what I mean, Like who we're cool with.

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00:51:57,160 --> 00:51:57,879
Speaker 3: I'm cool with that.

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00:51:58,719 --> 00:52:01,480
Speaker 5: And I think even just like all of our associations

1112
00:52:01,520 --> 00:52:04,920
Speaker 5: with each other like help that. Like for instance, I

1113
00:52:04,960 --> 00:52:07,480
Speaker 5: met Carmen because she showed up to help me with

1114
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:09,960
Speaker 5: a music video because I just posted about something. And

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00:52:10,000 --> 00:52:11,480
Speaker 5: I feel like it has a lot to do with

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00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 5: all of our network. Everyone's seeing that we all interact.

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00:52:13,680 --> 00:52:15,759
Speaker 5: She was comfortable showing up to an Airbnb meeting me

1118
00:52:15,800 --> 00:52:19,319
Speaker 5: for the first time, right, yeah, you know, so like

1119
00:52:19,480 --> 00:52:22,120
Speaker 5: especially like that being like a mom vibe, Like I

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00:52:22,200 --> 00:52:25,080
Speaker 5: really I really like this our whole little our ghost

1121
00:52:25,120 --> 00:52:29,080
Speaker 5: loop without a loop, right ye a.

1122
00:52:29,040 --> 00:52:33,480
Speaker 1: Live loop right, love loop, living loop.

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00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 4: I know I am grateful for it, but I'm cool did.

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00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:42,960
Speaker 3: Some pretty awesome ship already do.

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00:52:43,320 --> 00:52:47,640
Speaker 4: And I just feel like people gotta wish they were cooler.

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00:52:49,600 --> 00:52:52,360
Speaker 8: You're gonna wish she was actually just cool and normal,

1127
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:54,279
Speaker 8: that she had to be funny acting bitch.

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Speaker 4: You know, we would have taken you too, but decided

1129
00:52:56,600 --> 00:52:57,160
Speaker 4: to be stupid.

1130
00:52:57,640 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 3: Yeah you know what I'm saying.

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00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:00,600
Speaker 8: I just like, you never know, like you could base

1132
00:53:00,640 --> 00:53:03,080
Speaker 8: your whole shit on And I noticed that too, and

1133
00:53:03,400 --> 00:53:05,200
Speaker 8: Eric and I like not that we're like so poppin,

1134
00:53:05,760 --> 00:53:08,160
Speaker 8: but like just in our growth in a short amount

1135
00:53:08,200 --> 00:53:10,080
Speaker 8: of time, people who weren't willing to.

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00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:12,280
Speaker 4: Fuck with us in the beginning and then kind of now.

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00:53:12,200 --> 00:53:15,399
Speaker 8: Like who circle back around, Cause I know, like at

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00:53:15,400 --> 00:53:16,360
Speaker 8: face front, we could.

1139
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,080
Speaker 6: Look like a whole lot and like, if you know,

1140
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:22,120
Speaker 6: certain mommy people don't want to be associated with really

1141
00:53:22,200 --> 00:53:26,880
Speaker 6: bad mom So I just that even that's funny and

1142
00:53:26,960 --> 00:53:28,640
Speaker 6: I just see how that works out too. Like either

1143
00:53:28,640 --> 00:53:30,399
Speaker 6: people are cool or not. It doesn't matter how much

1144
00:53:30,520 --> 00:53:32,400
Speaker 6: the following you had. You came and sat with us

1145
00:53:32,400 --> 00:53:34,520
Speaker 6: and fuck with us, didn't know us came to the house.

1146
00:53:34,840 --> 00:53:35,399
Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying.

1147
00:53:35,400 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 6: You could have been totally different, and so many people

1148
00:53:38,080 --> 00:53:40,800
Speaker 6: are like waiting for you to have the blue check

1149
00:53:41,280 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 6: or x amount of followers and then you're appealing.

1150
00:53:44,120 --> 00:53:46,120
Speaker 4: But it's like anybody got time for that picture.

1151
00:53:46,880 --> 00:53:48,839
Speaker 5: I just feel like you'll always remember, no matter how

1152
00:53:48,920 --> 00:53:51,719
Speaker 5: like expansive like my stuff gets, I always remember like

1153
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:55,480
Speaker 5: that poor people that like helped it to get there, right,

1154
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:56,120
Speaker 5: do you know.

1155
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:56,439
Speaker 3: What I mean?

1156
00:53:56,840 --> 00:53:56,920
Speaker 7: So?

1157
00:53:57,200 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 2: Do you guys hear this right?

1158
00:53:58,640 --> 00:54:03,439
Speaker 3: I was like, you couldn't rain, actually summer winter range

1159
00:54:03,680 --> 00:54:07,200
Speaker 3: winter rain? Is it technically winter or is it no?

1160
00:54:07,239 --> 00:54:07,839
Speaker 2: It's still fall?

1161
00:54:07,920 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 6: Okay, m December twenty third, we're time to hear this

1162
00:54:12,719 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 6: though it maybe.

1163
00:54:14,560 --> 00:54:17,160
Speaker 1: Oh wait, or did winter start November twenty first? November

1164
00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:18,080
Speaker 1: December winter?

1165
00:54:20,400 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 4: But you solses? I think I want to say December

1166
00:54:23,320 --> 00:54:24,839
Speaker 4: first first.

1167
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:25,800
Speaker 3: Yeah.

1168
00:54:26,120 --> 00:54:27,080
Speaker 2: I don't know why about that either.

1169
00:54:27,840 --> 00:54:30,479
Speaker 3: I feel like because you guys know that like astrology ship.

1170
00:54:30,800 --> 00:54:31,520
Speaker 2: Oh maybe I.

1171
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:33,480
Speaker 4: Know socie is next to my birthday, But.

1172
00:54:33,480 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 3: What's your son again, Leo. That's right, that's right, that's right.

1173
00:54:38,200 --> 00:54:39,680
Speaker 2: Leo's always have big hair, swear to.

1174
00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:43,720
Speaker 3: God, or they really know about their hair, their.

1175
00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:45,840
Speaker 1: Hair, they or they just look like like little lions.

1176
00:54:45,840 --> 00:54:47,360
Speaker 1: They have little lion features.

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00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:51,000
Speaker 7: Oh my god. Mira is a Leo my friend in Atlanta.

1178
00:54:51,560 --> 00:54:53,280
Speaker 7: And while we were down there, I was like getting

1179
00:54:53,320 --> 00:54:55,680
Speaker 7: drunk every night. And one night and left and I

1180
00:54:55,800 --> 00:54:57,279
Speaker 7: told her I was gonna help her take out her hair.

1181
00:54:57,320 --> 00:54:58,320
Speaker 7: But I went out, so I don't know why she

1182
00:54:58,320 --> 00:55:00,319
Speaker 7: does gonna wake up and take out her hair. She

1183
00:55:00,400 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 7: called me in the morning. I was like, come help me.

1184
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:04,560
Speaker 7: My appointments are almost this time.

1185
00:55:04,600 --> 00:55:05,960
Speaker 6: If I don't make it, she's not going to do

1186
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:07,719
Speaker 6: my hair, and I like just hung up before and

1187
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:08,400
Speaker 6: went back to sleep.

1188
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:11,719
Speaker 4: I got to her house, she didn't take it out

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00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:12,120
Speaker 4: on time.

1190
00:55:12,640 --> 00:55:15,480
Speaker 6: She went off on me so hard to tell me

1191
00:55:15,560 --> 00:55:16,399
Speaker 6: to get the fuck out.

1192
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 4: We're gonna fucking help me, And no, you're fucking inconcerted.

1193
00:55:21,239 --> 00:55:22,680
Speaker 4: You didn't get to get your ship and get the

1194
00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:23,239
Speaker 4: fuck out.

1195
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:25,479
Speaker 6: I was like, this bitch is kicking me out because

1196
00:55:25,520 --> 00:55:27,840
Speaker 6: I didn't help her take out her hair. She missed

1197
00:55:27,840 --> 00:55:29,640
Speaker 6: her hair forms like she can't do my hair Now.

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00:55:30,360 --> 00:55:32,120
Speaker 6: I was like, she's so mad at me. I just

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Speaker 6: I'm not leaving.

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00:55:33,680 --> 00:55:35,200
Speaker 3: So did you did you leave?

1201
00:55:35,520 --> 00:55:37,080
Speaker 6: I heard her the hairdresser paw from the other room

1202
00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:38,759
Speaker 6: and said she gets to scheduled her in after she

1203
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:39,160
Speaker 6: comes back.

1204
00:55:39,200 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 3: I was like, oh God, Lord, thank you Jesus.

1205
00:55:44,520 --> 00:55:49,640
Speaker 1: I got my child, you too, and this rain is aggressive. Yeah, okay,

1206
00:55:49,680 --> 00:55:53,240
Speaker 1: we're logging off here. Well, thank you jess for coming

1207
00:55:53,280 --> 00:55:57,200
Speaker 1: on and chatting with us. Can you tell our listeners

1208
00:55:57,239 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 1: where they can find you? Yeah, so on in better

1209
00:56:00,320 --> 00:56:01,640
Speaker 1: to get closer because oh.

1210
00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:03,879
Speaker 5: Sorry, I'm gonna get closer because on Instagram you can

1211
00:56:03,880 --> 00:56:06,120
Speaker 5: find me at this is Jessica Rose on YouTube and

1212
00:56:06,239 --> 00:56:08,000
Speaker 5: she really had a baby. She really had a baby

1213
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:09,759
Speaker 5: dot com from my blog and you can find me

1214
00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:10,920
Speaker 5: on Facebook at Jessica.

1215
00:56:10,719 --> 00:56:13,680
Speaker 2: Shrone and you know where to find us.

1216
00:56:13,760 --> 00:56:17,160
Speaker 6: Right, good moms, I'm just going to Bad Choices, Good Drums,

1217
00:56:17,280 --> 00:56:18,400
Speaker 6: Bad Choices dot com.

1218
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Speaker 2: Join our newsletter.

1219
00:56:20,120 --> 00:56:20,760
Speaker 4: Send a hory.

1220
00:56:21,120 --> 00:56:22,320
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, please send horries.

1221
00:56:22,320 --> 00:56:22,920
Speaker 3: We need horries.

1222
00:56:22,920 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 2: We're like having a horry drought.

1223
00:56:24,280 --> 00:56:27,120
Speaker 4: It's because we're not selling our own starting.

1224
00:56:27,280 --> 00:56:31,759
Speaker 1: Well, I had a hory last night, mind us, Well,

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00:56:31,840 --> 00:56:34,560
Speaker 1: it's not really a horry it's just it's not really horror.

1226
00:56:35,120 --> 00:56:37,200
Speaker 1: I got drunk, I had sex. He wanted me to

1227
00:56:37,200 --> 00:56:39,000
Speaker 1: put in this. He wanted to be to play with

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00:56:39,000 --> 00:56:39,520
Speaker 1: his butt.

1229
00:56:40,360 --> 00:56:43,400
Speaker 2: That was it, and he did and I did it.

1230
00:56:45,880 --> 00:56:51,719
Speaker 2: My earring in there, My earing got stuck. Oh my god,

1231
00:56:51,840 --> 00:56:54,840
Speaker 2: you have but yeah.

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00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:58,840
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, Well that's a horri quick short straight to

1233
00:56:58,880 --> 00:56:59,240
Speaker 6: the point.

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00:56:59,280 --> 00:57:06,839
Speaker 1: Has trembling lip base in case you wonder, yep, because

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00:57:06,840 --> 00:57:07,920
Speaker 1: we go backwards here.

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00:57:09,280 --> 00:57:12,520
Speaker 3: Sometimes we go backwards. Is a trembling lip like Olivia

1237
00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:13,680
Speaker 3: Pope trembling lip.

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00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:16,080
Speaker 1: Or no, like when we kiss and it happened again,

1239
00:57:16,080 --> 00:57:19,480
Speaker 1: it always happens. What when we kiss his like his

1240
00:57:19,800 --> 00:57:24,200
Speaker 1: lip like quivers. He's quivering crazy. Here's a quivering look.

1241
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 1: I can feel it in my mouth.

1242
00:57:28,520 --> 00:57:28,720
Speaker 7: Yeah.

1243
00:57:29,440 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 1: When we kiss harder than it stops. When we do

1244
00:57:31,440 --> 00:57:33,840
Speaker 1: like gentle kisses, it's very whoa.

1245
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:35,200
Speaker 2: I don't know how to describe it.

1246
00:57:35,200 --> 00:57:35,800
Speaker 3: It's interesting.

1247
00:57:35,960 --> 00:57:39,360
Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, well trembling lippe got some ass action last night.

1248
00:57:40,480 --> 00:57:41,320
Speaker 2: He's cool or whatever.

1249
00:57:43,360 --> 00:57:43,800
Speaker 3: It's cool.

1250
00:57:43,800 --> 00:57:46,840
Speaker 1: Anyway, We will.

1251
00:57:46,720 --> 00:57:49,160
Speaker 3: Catch you next week. Have a great week.

1252
00:57:49,400 --> 00:58:03,520
Speaker 11: Bye, let's say asked, but mister mans and don't do so.

1253
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:17,360
Speaker 11: Then the servant mister Sonns and in course, yeah,