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Speaker 1: First Day of follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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Speaker 2: Law dot com. Bobby is on the phone today for

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Speaker 2: a first day follow up, but he's getting ghosted by Mila.

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Speaker 2: So in a second we're gonna call her and see

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Speaker 2: if she tll us why she's ghosting him, and hopefully

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Speaker 2: get him another day. But first, Bobby, how long has

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Speaker 2: it vin since you heard from Mela?

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Speaker 3: Git there, It's been about ten days.

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Speaker 2: Have you tried to reach out to her in those sundays?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I've texted her like twice, I sent her a

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Speaker 5: meme or two, but it's been nothing.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well, why don't you tell us about the day?

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Speaker 4: Sure?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, So we met a pot look that a mutual

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Speaker 5: friend friend was throwing and low was her ads makes

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Speaker 5: you know everyone's bringing a homemade dish thing And I

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Speaker 5: love to cook.

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Speaker 3: I love being in the kitchen. So I brought my

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Speaker 3: mom's like famous.

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Speaker 5: And past role and it might have been slightly overcooked,

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Speaker 5: but it was still edible and I think really good.

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Speaker 5: And Mela showed up with like this like amazing, like

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Speaker 5: professional charcutery board, so many different cheeses. I could not

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Speaker 5: stop eating it, and we talked for like the entire night,

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Speaker 5: like for so long.

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Speaker 3: You know, it was like it was a really good vine.

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Speaker 1: That's great. So did you feel like Mila was into

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Speaker 1: the vibe? Does she love that you were eating her cheese?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Absolutely, Like we we were talking with a group outside,

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Speaker 5: and it felt like it was just us too, because

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Speaker 5: like we were just talking between us like the entire time,

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Speaker 5: like back and forth, and uh like we were talking

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Speaker 5: about like cooking too, like the best way to my gualk,

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Speaker 5: which you know I have some very strong feelings about.

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Speaker 3: So I mean it felt really natural and good.

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Speaker 2: Why do you think she might be ghosting you?

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Speaker 3: Okay?

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Speaker 5: Well, the only thing I can think is that I

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Speaker 5: might have like overdone it at the potluck, like we

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Speaker 5: I think I tried to impress her too much. But basically,

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Speaker 5: she mentioned that how much she loves flond and I

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Speaker 5: tried to like whip one up from scratch, just like

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Speaker 5: using whatever I could find in the kitchen. I found

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Speaker 5: it'd be like really cute and romantic, but it did

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Speaker 5: not go very well, Like I set off the smoke

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Speaker 5: alarm and the flawn turned out more like like a soup.

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Speaker 2: It's pretty impressive that you were able to make an

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Speaker 2: impromptu flawn. Yeah, I'm just trying to picture it. She's like,

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Speaker 2: I love flawn, and you go, bet watch this.

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Speaker 3: Yeah I might have. I might have been feeling a

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Speaker 2: Confident, okay, And did the flawn taste any good?

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Speaker 3: You know it? It tasted fine.

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Speaker 5: The consistency was a little weird, but she like laughed

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Speaker 5: it off, you know. But then she's not like kind

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Speaker 5: of quiet after that. So I don't know, Like I

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Speaker 5: don't know if i'd give her the ink or I

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Speaker 2: I was like, how do you recover from a fire alarm?

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Speaker 1: I mean that's quite a like, I mean for the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean he was quick. We just worke the

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Speaker 2: It was big deal, all right. And so the flaw

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Speaker 2: or the failed flawn, I guess, is the only thing

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because like everything else went like so naturally the party.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know.

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Speaker 2: All right, Well we'll see if we can help you out.

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Speaker 2: Then we'll play a song come back and then call

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Speaker 2: her and see if she tell us why she's ghosting

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Speaker 2: you and maybe get you another chance in making some

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Speaker 2: really good flawn for her. We'll play a song come

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Speaker 2: back and get your first a follow up next. Right

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Speaker 2: in the middle of your first day follow up if

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Speaker 2: you're just joining us, Bobby is on the phone and

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Speaker 2: he's getting ghosted by Mila. So we're about to call

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Speaker 2: him and hopefully get him another well first date, I guess,

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Speaker 2: because they haven't really had an official date yet. But Bobby,

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Speaker 2: before we do that, why don't you tell us what

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Speaker 2: happened with Mila again?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: So we met at a popla but a mutual friend

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Speaker 5: but the together, and we really hit it off, your

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Speaker 5: her by like making a flawn from scratch, and it

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Speaker 5: did not go very well. But it's not like anyone

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Speaker 3: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I've never known anybody that's gotten injured from a but

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Speaker 2: it happened. It's possible. We'll see. Are you ready for

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Speaker 2: us to call her?

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Speaker 3: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Okay, here we go. Want a dollar in front of

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Speaker 2: her right now?

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Speaker 4: Hello?

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Speaker 2: Hi, man, I speak to Mela. Please. This is Mila.

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Speaker 2: How are you? This is the Jubil Show. It's a

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Speaker 2: radio show. Hemila, I'm Nina. Hi, I'm Victoria and I'm

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Speaker 2: sure how are you doing?

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Speaker 4: Oh my god? Are you serious?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Do you listen to the show ever?

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Speaker 4: I have heard you guys before? This is this is why?

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Speaker 2: Thank you? Well? You've never heard a first date follow

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Speaker 2: up what you do on the show. That's a segment

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Speaker 2: where if you're ghosting somebody, you can email us and

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Speaker 2: then we call that person and see if they'll tell

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Speaker 2: us why you're ghosting them. So we got an email

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Speaker 2: about you from somebody. Do you know who would email us?

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Speaker 4: Is it about Bobby?

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Speaker 6: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Yes, it is about Bobby. He told us all about

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Speaker 2: meeting you at the party and he said it's been

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Speaker 2: about ten days. Thought you guys really hit it off.

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Speaker 2: Liked you a lot, but doesn't know why you're not

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Speaker 2: calling him back. Would you mind telling us? Uh? Sure?

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Speaker 6: So? Okay, First off, Bobby is sweet, really sweet, but

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Speaker 6: he's kind of chaotic.

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay.

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Speaker 6: The potmuk was fun that I've never seen someone try

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Speaker 2: He told us about that. He thinks that him trying

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Speaker 2: you're ghosting.

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Speaker 6: Oh no, I mean it was.

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Speaker 4: It was very sweet.

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Speaker 6: It was kind of insane, but it was very But

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Speaker 6: there was this girl there, Emily, who would not stop

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Speaker 6: flirting with him.

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Speaker 4: She was trying to help him.

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Speaker 6: She was like, oh my god, you're so brave for

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Speaker 6: making this flawn. It's amazing. It was not an amazing flawn,

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Speaker 6: you know. And I'm just I'm not interested in chasing anyone. Well,

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Speaker 6: I mean, the fire alarm did go off, though, you know,

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Speaker 6: I'm just I'm not interested in like fighting over some guy.

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Speaker 2: You know, he's nice, but he said he texted you

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but I mean, I just it seems messy and

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Speaker 2: Like you think that the other girl that was flirting

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Speaker 6: I mean, I assume so, because she was so flirty.

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Speaker 6: So I'm just kind of like, that's cool, do your thing,

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Speaker 2: Did he flat back though? Was he given her the

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Speaker 6: I mean, he was so excited about the flawn that

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Speaker 6: I'm not sure. He just seemed really really excited about everything.

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Speaker 4: So but it's kind of.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, someone was a little less excited about life.

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Speaker 6: There was just a chaotic element to it that I'm

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Speaker 2: Okay, okay, Well, thank you for telling us why you're

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Speaker 2: not calling him back. Speaking of chaos, Mila, I don't

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Speaker 2: know if you know this or not, but Bobby is

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Speaker 4: Hi.

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Speaker 3: Wait, wait, you really think Emily was slirting with me? Really?

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Speaker 6: She ate two pieces of that fawn, like nobody wanted.

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Speaker 3: I thought she was just being nice.

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Speaker 6: I mean she she was being nice, but like in

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Speaker 4: I mean, obviously this is what women do when they're

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Speaker 3: I guess I didn't notice.

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Speaker 5: I'm honestly, I was really just trying to make sure

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Speaker 4: Be well fair because we're almost it.

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Speaker 2: Neila, where were you this whole time?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 1: Were you off in a corner watching him make it

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Speaker 6: No, I was kind of off in the corner at

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Speaker 6: that point, like I sensed it, and I just was like,

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Speaker 4: Like self defense.

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Speaker 6: I'm just not interested in getting in the middle of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I get that.

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Speaker 1: Sometimes you're just too tired, like for it and be

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Speaker 6: Yeah, but yeah, ye don't really do that, you know.

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Speaker 6: I was just kind of like, you're sweet, don't have fun.

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Speaker 6: She's all over you, like trying not to burn anything down.

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Speaker 2: Well, Mila, would you like to go on another day

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Speaker 2: with Bobby? We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I guess I misread it because I thought

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Speaker 6: you were into Emily. But if she's not in the picture,

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Speaker 6: I would be.

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Speaker 2: Open to that. Y, you got another day with me?

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Speaker 1: La?

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Speaker 5: Well, actually, now that I like I know this about Emily,

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Speaker 5: I think I kind of want to text.

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Speaker 2: Her what wows?

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Speaker 5: Well, I mean, she's like really into me like that

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Speaker 5: and like I kind of be deep and nast to

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Speaker 5: go for it.

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Speaker 4: Well, I guess I did read it right. I don't

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Speaker 4: know what to do now. I feel really weird.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, Mela, like no offense, but like thanks

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Speaker 5: for telling me, like you're you're you're really cool, like

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Speaker 5: your guacrus who sounds awesome. But I mean Emily is

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Speaker 2: Oh wow interesting. All right, well back to that chaotic thing, Miila,

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Speaker 2: thank you for your time, and Bobby, good luck with Emily.

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Speaker 2: I guess Mila, I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Wow, Okay, kind of what I expected to be, honest,

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Speaker 4: So there you go.

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Speaker 3: Wow, guys, thanks so much for doing this. This is

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Speaker 3: so cool. This is

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Speaker 2: Jubile's first day follow up.