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Speaker 1: All right, So Steve, this is from Karen and Kenner.

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Speaker 2: KARENN says, my husband picked me up for lunch, and

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Speaker 2: when I got back to work, I couldn't find my phone.

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Speaker 2: I asked my male coworker to call my phone to

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Speaker 2: see if it was somewhere in my office. No luck,

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Speaker 2: my husband said my phone wasn't in his car. As

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Speaker 2: I was leaving work, coworker rushed over to me to

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Speaker 2: tell me that my husband called him back and asked

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Speaker 2: how he knows me, and he asked if we were

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Speaker 2: having an affair. I'm so irritated that my husband kept

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Speaker 2: my phone and called my co worker. I wish my

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Speaker 2: co worker had told him the truth that we are

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Speaker 2: having an affair.

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Speaker 1: Should I tell my husband the truth? Or does he

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Speaker 1: even deserve that?

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Speaker 3: Wow? Lady, what? Wow? Lady?

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Speaker 4: Lady took him off to where this thing came from,

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Speaker 4: out of know where like this. But let me give

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Speaker 4: you some real advice. Your husband took your phone because

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Speaker 4: he suspected something. You stupid for having him call your

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Speaker 4: phone because how would he know your number? So now

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Speaker 4: your husband that call this man back and said, are

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Speaker 4: you having an affair with my wife? He did the

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Speaker 4: smart thing and said, no, you're mad talking about he

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Speaker 4: should have told him the truth and said we are

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Speaker 4: should I tell him we, lady, for what what do

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Speaker 4: you want?

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Speaker 3: Why don't y'all just get the divorce? Why don't y'all

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Speaker 3: just get the divorce?

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Speaker 4: He don't trust you, You can't be trusted, and you've

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Speaker 4: done some untrustworthy activity.

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Speaker 3: Now that's the cat's out the bag. But go on

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Speaker 3: and get a divorce.

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Speaker 4: But you walking in, When you walk in and tell

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Speaker 4: that man, that's that's what happened, that's gonna be there's

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Speaker 4: gonna be a trickle down effect. I don't think you understand.

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Speaker 4: I don't think you understand. There's gonna be some problems

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Speaker 4: for you. And that dude that called that, he called

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Speaker 4: your husband on the phone. Be very careful, Yeah, be

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Speaker 4: very careful.

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Speaker 2: Yep, great advice. Sorry, we have time for another one, Steve.

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Speaker 2: This one's from Tiffany and Saint Louis. Tiffany said, I

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Speaker 2: told my ex husband he could stay with us a

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Speaker 2: couple of days around Christmas to spend time with our

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Speaker 2: two children. It's what my children requested, so I want

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Speaker 2: to make them happy. But I made those plans before

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Speaker 2: I started dating this new guy two months ago. My

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Speaker 2: new guy said it would be a deal breaker and

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Speaker 2: he won't commit to me if I like playing house

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Speaker 2: with my ex.

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Speaker 1: Why is this such a big deal to him?

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Speaker 4: Because he don't want no woman that's still playing house

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Speaker 4: with her ex, because it's gonna be a problem that

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Speaker 4: he gonna have to deal with that he don't have

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Speaker 4: in his life right now. Why would you invite a

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Speaker 4: problem in that's a problem. That's a problem. If you've

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Speaker 4: told your ex husband that he can spend the night

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Speaker 4: at y'all's house for Christmas because that's what the keys want,

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Speaker 4: then go on and have that relationship the new guy.

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Speaker 4: He ain't buying into that, because that ain't nothing but

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Speaker 4: a problem. That is a deal breaker, because if y'all

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Speaker 4: still spending the night together, y'all still playing family. Y'all

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Speaker 4: need just gonna be a family. They gonna do. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: ain't nobody signing up for that mess? Man, That ain't

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Speaker 4: none of that whipping in the in the waiting. That's

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Speaker 4: all that is. Now your man. He can't come over

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Speaker 4: there during the holidays and see his girl because you're

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Speaker 4: sitting to have been in the house with your ex husband.

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Speaker 4: So now his holiday plans is gone. So now where

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Speaker 4: him and his girl at for the holidays? Can't go

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Speaker 4: over to the house. Now you got to go pick

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Speaker 4: up stay in the car. She come out like like

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Speaker 4: her daddy in the house? Man, anybody doing that with you?

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Speaker 1: So is he gonna be in the house acting like

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Speaker 1: he's king of the castle and all that?

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Speaker 3: Well, yeah, because that's what the kids want in his draw.

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Speaker 4: Knocking boots, walking around like walking and change nothing.

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Speaker 1: Yes, So what should she do? Tell the ex husband

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Speaker 1: that he can't come now?

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Speaker 4: No, she ain't finna do that because she didne already

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Speaker 4: promise the kids. She ain't gonna hurt the kids. She

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Speaker 4: didn't promise the kids. But you're not finna be able

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Speaker 4: to move on. You can't drive your car looking in

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Speaker 4: the rear view mirror. You keep doing what you're doing,

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Speaker 4: been doing. You're gonna keep getting what you've been getting.

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Speaker 4: While all these sayings apply, all the over and over

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Speaker 4: and over and over and over.

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Speaker 3: You ain't going nowhere.

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Speaker 4: You ain't finna get nobody new because you still stuck

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Speaker 4: on who you had that was old, and you letting

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Speaker 4: this food keep wedding his way in your life.

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Speaker 3: And he happy now because you sitting up at the

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Speaker 3: house you need him.

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