Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect
Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.
Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably SHAKEE d I am
Speaker 2: Giselle Bryant. What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon.
Speaker 2: Thank you for being here. Yes, what's again? Yes? Indeed,
Speaker 2: and it is full fledged March. Get into it, Robin
Speaker 2: finally woke up mode. This with us twenty twenty five
Speaker 2: is looking bright for you? Yes, yes, January and February
Speaker 2: we're not bright for you. But March, goddamn it. It's
Speaker 2: your month, by the way, your birthday month. It is
Speaker 2: your month. Oh yeah, I forgot about that. What do
Speaker 2: you mean? You know? I never like to celebrate re bird. No,
Speaker 2: but we're celebrating this year. Do I have to come
Speaker 2: over here? Do I have a Yeah? I don't know. Yeah,
Speaker 2: we're doing this is not monumental, no, okay, but we
Speaker 2: gotta do something. It's forty six. Yeah, I like it.
Speaker 2: What is still just looking good? You look good? You
Speaker 2: look good, by the way, if anybody didn't tell you,
Speaker 2: I'm here to tell you you're looking good. I appreciate
Speaker 2: your trying and be like you. So what's going on
Speaker 2: with low thirty these days. Oh it's it's going well.
Speaker 2: I mean it's it's it's going well. Yeah. Staff is great.
Speaker 2: Love that, love our members okay, you know.
Speaker 1: And it's a responsibility, yes, it is. It is a
Speaker 1: responsibility that outside of having kids, this.
Speaker 2: Is like yeah and a husband. Yes, it's like the
Speaker 2: biggest responsibility really. Yeah. Oh wow that's good to know. Yeah, okay,
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Speaker 1: Come get facials and your boat tacks and your laser
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Speaker 1: to all of the reasonably shady listeners who are Glow
Speaker 1: thirty members.
Speaker 2: I love that. Oh yes, love love seeing you guys.
Speaker 2: And they come in, Yes, they live in the area, Okay,
Speaker 2: got it.
Speaker 1: They'll come in and they'll, like, you know, comment on
Speaker 1: stuff that we've talked about.
Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, it was funny. I was when I was
Speaker 2: which show was this? I think it was my New
Speaker 2: Orleans show. I said something and somebody screamed out what
Speaker 2: I had said on that Monday's podcast. So I was like,
Speaker 2: y'all listen. I was so excited. Yes, so, and we
Speaker 2: forget what we say so the time, so when people
Speaker 2: do say something, I'd be like, huh to talk about
Speaker 2: I forget what I say as soon as I say
Speaker 2: me too, exactly. But we have a special announcement before
Speaker 2: we get into our shady bow. Yes, we have a
Speaker 2: website people, we revumped it. It's new and improved.
Speaker 1: Yes, and we have merch on their new merch new merch. Yes, yes,
Speaker 1: so we launched a new website. We already had a website,
Speaker 1: but patar who handles our social media, he was like,
Speaker 1: this website isn't cutting it and you all.
Speaker 2: Need to upgrade.
Speaker 1: Yes, indeed, and so we allowed Petard to do his thing.
Speaker 1: So he did his thing. We have a great new website,
Speaker 1: and we also have some exciting new merch.
Speaker 2: Yes we do.
Speaker 1: So get into rita reasonably shady dot com.
Speaker 2: That's it. That's that's it. And if you want to
Speaker 2: just you know, see pictures of me and Robin or
Speaker 2: get some merch, and then we're gonna have a fun
Speaker 2: merch relate, We're gonna have a fun event coming up. Yes, yes,
Speaker 2: that's an online event, so we stay tuned for that. Yay. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: so you have a reasonably shady moment, I do a
Speaker 2: shady moment. I just say shady moment.
Speaker 1: So, like the other day, I'm on Instagram.
Speaker 2: This is like actually a couple of weeks ago.
Speaker 1: So I'm on Instagram, and you know Bravo Daily Dish,
Speaker 1: right that page they.
Speaker 2: Love you, by the way, Oh thank you. I think
Speaker 2: they do, not like Queen's of Bravo, but like, well,
Speaker 2: Bravo Daily Dish is like a brav they like work
Speaker 2: for Bravo. Oh they do. Yeah, Oh, I didn't know that.
Speaker 2: You know what. I think Donald does that. No, Donald
Speaker 2: does Bravo TV social media. Okay, I don't don't. I
Speaker 2: don't know. Maybe he does.
Speaker 1: He maybe does something. So Bravo Daily Dish is like
Speaker 1: the it's like the news updates on Bravo on like
Speaker 1: the Bravo website. Yes, it's like on BravoTV dot com.
Speaker 1: It's the Bravo Daily Dish and now update on stuff
Speaker 1: that's going on with Bravo talent.
Speaker 2: Love that right, Okay, So I follow.
Speaker 1: That page and so in one of their stories, it
Speaker 1: was a picture of me and Wan, and it was like,
Speaker 1: you know, click the link for a big update on
Speaker 1: Robin and Wan's marriage or something.
Speaker 2: It was like I was like, Oh, what's what's my
Speaker 2: big update? Like what's going on? What's yes? Uh huh.
Speaker 2: So I clicked on it and then the so then
Speaker 2: the headline was like Robin talks about her sad, the sad,
Speaker 2: her sad marriage. Oh my, what are they talking about?
Speaker 2: Right soon I read it and I'm like, oh my gosh,
Speaker 2: this some freaking click bait for your mama. Like it was. So.
Speaker 1: I had done an interview when I was doing press
Speaker 1: for Traders, and I guess one of the people I
Speaker 1: interviewed with was affiliated with Peacock or Daily Dish whatever,
Speaker 1: and they asked me what I was what our plans
Speaker 1: for Valentine's Day was, oh yeah, And I was like, well,
Speaker 1: to be honest, we don't have any like whamas. He
Speaker 1: was on going to be traveling for NBA All Star
Speaker 1: weekend and I said, and my son Corey has a
Speaker 1: basketball game. I said, really, like this time of year,
Speaker 1: basketball really runs our lives, Like we're always in the
Speaker 1: gym and we it's really hard to plan around that.
Speaker 1: I'm like it's really sad, you know, like being kind.
Speaker 2: Of it's very sad. Yes, yes, you know, just being
Speaker 2: like I wasn't like it's not that sad, but I
Speaker 2: was like, you know, just being whatever, dramatic, dramatic, Okay,
Speaker 2: So yeah, it's really sad, like we just don't have
Speaker 2: a life. We just you know, do we're always in
Speaker 2: the basketball gym, like our kids basketball schedule? Run your life?
Speaker 2: And that was the freaking headline. That's that's the headline. Well,
Speaker 2: did do you have a follow up? I mean like
Speaker 2: did so did he send anything? Like did you send flowers?
Speaker 2: Or he did? Yeah, well then you need to take
Speaker 2: the picture of that and post that. But I mean
Speaker 2: I don't, I have nothing to prove, like, but I mean,
Speaker 2: let the people know. But I was just like when
Speaker 2: I saw the headline, I'm like, what is this. I'm like,
Speaker 2: what are y'all talking about? And then I clicked and
Speaker 2: then it was just it's just so funny, like how
Speaker 2: media outlets they they traumatized. Yes, the clickbait is real, Yes,
Speaker 2: yeah for clickbait. I mean that was some real legit clickbait.
Speaker 2: So did they get paid off of clicks? Yeah? Oh,
Speaker 2: they get paid for the number of people that click
Speaker 2: on their site. Yes, because they have ads.
Speaker 1: Like so their site, there's a bunch of advertisers, you know,
Speaker 1: on the on the column, top and the bottom and
Speaker 1: all that and throughout. So they get paid for those
Speaker 1: ads and so got it. Yeah, they get paid if
Speaker 1: people click on the link.
Speaker 2: Let's say something clickbaity right now? Okay, hmm, oh my gosh, Kanye,
Speaker 2: that's not click bait.
Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone, Look, it don't matter what we say, people
Speaker 1: turn it into clickbait.
Speaker 2: We have definitely been clickbait. We have been clickbaited many, many,
Speaker 2: many many times. Yeah, I know, like, all right, let's
Speaker 2: i'll pips up holes down? What is it? What do
Speaker 2: you say? It makes the merry men? It would be
Speaker 2: like if I saw a clickbait. So if I was like,
Speaker 2: I really can't stand you right now, like you either right,
Speaker 2: you're brestack. I don't like your you're ring No no, no, no,
Speaker 2: so you're taking it too far? Oh oh okay. The
Speaker 2: clickbait is yeah, like dad, you really feel that way? No, no, okay,
Speaker 2: she'll take it to my I was crazy.
Speaker 1: No, the clickbait would be just all I really can't
Speaker 1: stand you, right now, So that's the clickbait, right, and
Speaker 1: then I'd be like, because you're over here making me laugh.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, okay. So the clickbait is like taking
Speaker 2: something that sounds really bad but when it's out of context. Yes, yes, right,
Speaker 2: anything for the clicks and the likes. Yeah, okay, I
Speaker 2: got it, girl. I can't be your friend anymore. What
Speaker 2: you always give me your trouble because I'm laughing all
Speaker 2: the time. You know what I'm saying, Like I don't
Speaker 2: like you anyway? Okay, do it? I get out of
Speaker 2: my system, I can. I love you, Robin, I love
Speaker 2: you too. Yes, But Bravo Daily dishy'all are y'all did
Speaker 2: the most bake headline that y'all did the most, but
Speaker 2: they got to pay the mans. They gotta make sure
Speaker 2: the mans keep coming in. We'll pay me, damn it.
Speaker 2: Robin said, I want to chicks, run me my check. Okay.
Speaker 2: So Mike getting no check from y'all, nour no. And
Speaker 2: you know what, I do have a bone to pick
Speaker 2: with Bravo. And then I'm gonna get into my shady moment.
Speaker 2: This is gonna be my shady moment. So I got
Speaker 2: an email like get the new Potomac merch or something.
Speaker 2: So I clicked on it and it was like this
Speaker 2: cute little hoodie. It was like pink hoodie instead of
Speaker 2: Real Housewives with Tomake, and that's like cute updated march. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I haven't gotten a dime from any of this march
Speaker 2: that they be selling.
Speaker 1: Well, you do get dimes from it from being on
Speaker 1: the show.
Speaker 2: Okay, but no, this is a separate This should be
Speaker 2: a separate check. No, it's not just like you don't
Speaker 2: get residuals. Yeah, I get no residuals me and Chris Brown. Yeah, yes,
Speaker 2: reside all of that when you sign that contract. They said, listen,
Speaker 2: we can we can make money x y ye any
Speaker 2: type of way we want to offer you. You want
Speaker 2: to take this? Bunny can get n I l isn't
Speaker 2: this name and likeness? Shouldn't I get something?
Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're so so called Bethany Frankles.
Speaker 2: She for some reason, has is not She's now she's
Speaker 2: giving she's been quiet, well, she's been talking about other things.
Speaker 2: She's been like giving reviews of like stick in Caviar
Speaker 2: and as opposed to like really, well, I don't want
Speaker 2: her to come after bravo. I want her to help
Speaker 2: me for the future, get my residuals.
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I don't think anyone like showed her support.
Speaker 2: Well, the current employees we cut our hands are kind
Speaker 2: of tied. So yeah, okay, anyway, moving on, Not my
Speaker 2: shady moment. My shady moment is I went got my
Speaker 2: hair done, okay from Callisto Blount, Yes, also known as Cal.
Speaker 2: We love Cal, who looked at me and now, mind you,
Speaker 2: so I had this was just my hair, no extensions,
Speaker 2: no nothing, it's my hair. I'm went in there to
Speaker 2: get some color. And he looks at me and he
Speaker 2: was like, your hair looks horrible. Oh. He was like,
Speaker 2: what the hell happened to your hair? He was like,
Speaker 2: what are you doing? What are we gonna talk about
Speaker 2: your drop ends? Oh my god? And he's talking to
Speaker 2: me just like that, like, no sugar, that's how Sureley
Speaker 2: talks to me. Yes, okay, we go about your dry ends.
Speaker 2: I said, god damn. So I just sat down in
Speaker 2: his chair and proceeded to get my hair done. But
Speaker 2: he said, tell me what you're doing. What are you doing?
Speaker 2: Because Cal's thing is healthy hair. Okay, he wants everybody's
Speaker 2: hair to look healthy, be shiny and sacred. No, no,
Speaker 2: beyond miss said this Beyonce hater.
Speaker 1: By the way, I'm not going to Cowboy Cawdor toy
Speaker 1: Okay tour, I can't talk?
Speaker 2: Okay, when to get sat in a second. So anyway,
Speaker 2: my shading moment is Cal gave it to me straight,
Speaker 2: which was my hair was looking dry and brittle and damaged.
Speaker 1: Okay, Cal like, does your hair That's.
Speaker 2: What I'm saying, But he really, I mean, I've been
Speaker 2: kind of doing it myself because I've been on the road,
Speaker 2: and but He's like, just ol, you have to come
Speaker 2: get your hair done. Do you know you don't come
Speaker 2: and get your hair done? And I was like, I'm sorry.
Speaker 2: So he was like, when you go to Robin's house,
Speaker 2: just come and get your hair done. And I was like,
Speaker 2: because he had me, you know, sit under this steam
Speaker 2: all it's nonsense. Anyway, my hair feels very luxurious right now.
Speaker 2: But the shady part was Col was just so mean
Speaker 2: to me and told me my edges was dry d
Speaker 2: why speaking of Cowboy Carter, Yes, Robbin, Yeah, I decided
Speaker 2: not to go. Why. I don't know. I just like,
Speaker 2: do I want to spin an arm? And a leg
Speaker 2: to like see her sing these songs. Yeah really, yes, okay,
Speaker 2: well I was there. You know you got your ticket?
Speaker 2: Yeah too, me and Cal for the DC shows. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: fourth of July. Yeah, I was looking at it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I thought about it. I actually would like thought about
Speaker 2: getting the ones on the stage, like the b Hive ones.
Speaker 2: Really the five thousand dollars ones, the six thousand dollar ones.
Speaker 2: I said, hell no, I thought they were like twenty
Speaker 2: four hundred or something. Well there was okay, okay, Beyonce,
Speaker 2: like seriously, like the range of price for these tickets
Speaker 2: was absurd, Yes, because on the floor floor like where
Speaker 2: you're talking about, what I was looking at was like
Speaker 2: six thousand, five thousand, four thousand, and then there was
Speaker 2: some twenty five hundred. MoMA's twelve and I felt like
Speaker 2: twelve hundreds is it? Because I had to buy two?
Speaker 2: So like, no, that's it. Yeah, I don't think I'm
Speaker 2: doing it. I just don't, okay, because I'll tell you why.
Speaker 2: And I understand because I mean, like it's it's crazy
Speaker 2: times out here. Yeah, financially, yeah, it is, but it's
Speaker 2: not even that. It's just like I you know, you
Speaker 2: remember how I you know I went to Renaissance. I
Speaker 2: enjoyed it, but I wasn't like, Ooh, I'm so happy
Speaker 2: I went. Oh I loved it, but go ahead, and
Speaker 2: then I feel like I'm going to see enough on
Speaker 2: social media. I'm going to see the whole show. But
Speaker 2: it's a different experience with you being there in me.
Speaker 2: I know, but it's all right. If I don't make it,
Speaker 2: it is fiance won't be mad. She won't. Yeah, she
Speaker 2: con miss me if I'm nothing, so I must be there.
Speaker 2: Yeah she has.
Speaker 1: Specifically, I did learn like the day of the show
Speaker 1: or the day before the show, people got tickets for
Speaker 1: like much less much less expense.
Speaker 2: I'm good decent seats.
Speaker 1: So that tells me, like if when when the time
Speaker 1: comes for the show, if I'm feeling a little, you know,
Speaker 1: fomo left out, Okay, I'm bored, let me go do something.
Speaker 2: Then I'll just buy my ticket that day. Okay, that's fine. Yeah.
Speaker 2: We also want to say that jay Z's the lady
Speaker 2: that was suing jay Z or pressing charges against jay
Speaker 2: Z that has been thrown out. So he's acquitted not acquitted.
Speaker 1: No, I don't even know, Like I mean, it wasn't
Speaker 1: even dismissed.
Speaker 2: It was dismissed. Yeah, yeah, this is much of malarkey.
Speaker 2: Yes that's what he said. It was some bo shiggitty. Okay,
Speaker 2: So I have a letter here. This actually was sent.
Speaker 2: By the way, we have not heard from Dick Hurts,
Speaker 2: and I have a feeling. Oh you missed it. No,
Speaker 2: I do not, but we If you have been with
Speaker 2: us for a while, you know that we have someone
Speaker 2: that actually loves us. He likes to act like he
Speaker 2: does n't, but he really loves us. His name is
Speaker 2: Dick Hurtz and he sends us horrible, horrible emails, horrible,
Speaker 2: and we told him he can no longer write us
Speaker 2: unless he sends a picture of himself not catfish. We
Speaker 2: have not heard from Dick Hurts, so we already know Dick,
Speaker 2: you look crazy. Oh yes, okay, So moving on. This
Speaker 2: is from Meredith Stokely and this was written a while ago.
Speaker 2: This is actually written in July. She said, Hi, ladies,
Speaker 2: love your show. And this is the first time I've
Speaker 2: written in because Gieselle had me in stitches this week
Speaker 2: when y'all were discussing deodorant products and Gazelle admitted she
Speaker 2: has butt sweat. I just wanted to let Giselle know
Speaker 2: that the fl term I guess the Oh, the Florida
Speaker 2: term for summer butt sweat is literally called swamp as swamp.
Speaker 2: Did you know this? No. I was a bit surprised
Speaker 2: our Louisiana girl did not know the term. But girl,
Speaker 2: we in Florida all know. You gotta how you feel.
Speaker 2: I got a little junk in my trunk too, So
Speaker 2: it's usually swampy from May to September. Oh, she got
Speaker 2: a swamp ass. Give us poor Charlotte Florida girls a
Speaker 2: shoutout for living daily with swamp ass and use the
Speaker 2: term proudly. So I say to my Florida and Charlotte girls, listen,
Speaker 2: get your swamp ass on one. Oh my gosh, I love it.
Speaker 2: She said, keep doing what you're doing, and Robin, you'll
Speaker 2: be missed on r H O P. Yes she was missed,
Speaker 2: but there's something bigger coming your way. Thank you. Yes,
Speaker 2: many blessings. Swamp ass Meredith, all right, yes, look swamp
Speaker 2: ass Meredith sounds like she's okay with it. I was like, well,
Speaker 2: I mean, what can you do? I know, but it's
Speaker 2: one of those it's like, really, yeah, that's what I hate.
Speaker 2: It's like, Okay, when is cold, we're like, oh my god,
Speaker 2: it's so cold. But then when it's hot, we're like, oh,
Speaker 2: it's all hot. My ass is sweating, like we can't win.
Speaker 2: But when it's sticky hot, that's a whole nother thing.
Speaker 2: If it's dry hot, I'm cool with that, yeah, but
Speaker 2: like underwear sticking to your ass hot is not cool,
Speaker 2: not comfortable. Yeah, and so and if. But now I
Speaker 2: can just say I have swampy ass. Yes, yes, that's
Speaker 2: what I'm gonna say. So, thank you, Meredith. I will
Speaker 2: be changing my terms. I will be swamp ass up
Speaker 2: with your swamp ass. Yes, and I always say because
Speaker 2: me and my mom says that, like people are putting
Speaker 2: like deodorant down there butt crack. So maybe I'll try it. Yeah, yeah,
Speaker 2: see if it works, yeah for swampy ass. Meredith, you
Speaker 2: tried to report back, got back Okay. So I have
Speaker 2: a email.
Speaker 1: From Yvette Martinez and the subject is Robin Doppelganger. She said, Hello, ladies, Robin,
Speaker 1: I found your doppo Ganger while watching The Bold and
Speaker 1: the Beautiful. Please see attached photo. Having a wonderful day.
Speaker 1: Tell me do you think this is my doppleganger, and
Speaker 1: I don't know who this person. She didn't tell me Beautiful. Okay,
Speaker 1: is this my dapple ganger?
Speaker 2: So I have seen her on Beautiful? Yeah, I've seen
Speaker 2: her on like sometimes my TV's on. I've seen her
Speaker 2: and I didn't think she's very pretty, very very pretty.
Speaker 2: But I don't think you only because we gotta we
Speaker 2: gotta find out her name.
Speaker 1: I'm showing this to our YouTubers.
Speaker 2: Yes, only because well maybe if she had blonde hair,
Speaker 2: maybe all right, let me find her name because she
Speaker 2: has green eyes. She does, or if I had dark,
Speaker 2: dark hair, all right. So but she she is very
Speaker 2: pretty and she's I don't know if this is her
Speaker 2: real accent, but on the show she has like a
Speaker 2: British accent. Yes, so she's like sexy. Oh yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: all right, let me see. I'm doing a Google picture
Speaker 2: reverse search of her Google lens. Did you know you
Speaker 2: can do that? No? Did have no clue. Okay, So
Speaker 2: so here's a little a little t for you. Sometimes,
Speaker 2: like if you see something online and you're like, oh,
Speaker 2: like like say it's an outfit someone's wearing, and.
Speaker 1: You're like, oh, I really like her outfit. Say I
Speaker 1: really like her outfit, right, Okay, she must be French.
Speaker 1: Maybe murrayel Hilaire's name, Yeah.
Speaker 2: Okay, Mary L h lea very pretty? Does she have
Speaker 2: any pictures of her with lighter hair? Hold on, I'm
Speaker 2: looking hold on? OKAYR What did I just say? Her
Speaker 2: name was Mary l Helene Hilaire And maybe we can
Speaker 2: put some blonde hair on her and see if she
Speaker 2: then becomes it looks like me? Yes, okay, see like this, Yeah,
Speaker 2: that doesn't look like me. All right, But the name
Speaker 2: that it's spelled, M you are if you guys want
Speaker 2: to look it up and give us your opinion, M
Speaker 2: you are I E L L E and last name
Speaker 2: Hilaire h I L A I R E. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: this looks nothing like me. Yeah, but she's super pretty like.
Speaker 1: This one picture, this picture I could see like where
Speaker 1: you could be Like, okay, maybe, but like these.
Speaker 2: Pictures that I'm googling. Yeah, I don't see it. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I mean, y'all not even the same family. Yeah, all right, y'all,
Speaker 2: I'm not in the same tribe, right, No, no, no,
Speaker 2: we're not related.
Speaker 1: No, okay, all right, So anyway, I was telling you
Speaker 1: about Google lens. So if you see something, you're like, oh,
Speaker 1: I want to know where that person bought that or whatever,
Speaker 1: or I want a dupe or whatever. So you like
Speaker 1: take a picture of it or screenshot it. Then you
Speaker 1: open it in Google Photos. You have Google Photos maybe okay,
Speaker 1: if you don't download it, you open it, open it
Speaker 1: in Google Photos. And then they have a feature called lens,
Speaker 1: So you click on lens and it'll like pull up
Speaker 1: pictures that are like similar, similar, and then you can
Speaker 1: click on the link. Let me find one that has
Speaker 1: like an outfit where I can show you like it
Speaker 1: and then.
Speaker 2: You can buy it. And then this is dangerous. Okay.
Speaker 2: So here's there's a picture of a drift. Okay, all right,
Speaker 2: are you Are you wearing that dress? It was one
Speaker 2: of my options for for the Traders re union? Okay,
Speaker 2: but I'm not wearing this one.
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, so then it like did they okay, it
Speaker 1: pulls up?
Speaker 2: I love that dress? I love that yeah. Okay. So
Speaker 2: your Traders reunion, which you've already done, Yes, did they
Speaker 2: give you guys a theme? No? They said where whatever
Speaker 2: you want? No freaking way. Yeah, So so you'll probably
Speaker 2: have like, you know, well, do they want you to
Speaker 2: be glam. They don't tell you anything. They just say,
Speaker 2: we're having no reunion from X time to X time. Yeah,
Speaker 2: wow etime on this day. I don't like, I don't
Speaker 2: know what time, but yeah. But yeah.
Speaker 1: So it's like, so I can't really speak on the
Speaker 1: one season three one, but like just so I looked
Speaker 1: up season two reunions okay, yeah, and it was like
Speaker 1: the gamut of what people wore.
Speaker 2: Okay, you know, was anybody like background I bought, like,
Speaker 2: you know.
Speaker 1: So you had like Phaser that had like a beaded dress,
Speaker 1: one that was like glam, and then you had you know,
Speaker 1: Tamra who just had more of like a long dress
Speaker 1: but more subtle.
Speaker 2: You had another lady that had like maybe like a
Speaker 2: cocktail dress that was just kind of basic like yeah.
Speaker 2: Then you have guys that are just in like a
Speaker 2: blazer and jeans, and then yeah, and then you had
Speaker 2: one of the drag queens what was her name, damn,
Speaker 2: Peppermint Peppermint, and Peppermint had on this big oh you
Speaker 2: already no, no, she can't with it? Yeah, Okay. For me,
Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, this doesn't help. I'm like, what am
Speaker 2: I doing? I don't know? So I just like, yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: so do they say does everybody come out and sit
Speaker 2: out together at the same time or do they bring
Speaker 2: you guys out. Wait, it's a combination. Okay, okay, I'm
Speaker 2: looking forward to it. Yeah, I can't wait. I actually
Speaker 2: have to admit I stopped watching because you were murdered.
Speaker 2: Really yes, yes, and I was mad about it, so
Speaker 2: I actually in protest decided I'm done. Yeah, I know,
Speaker 2: I was protesting. By the way, Speaking of things to watch, Okay,
Speaker 2: did we talk about Harlem with Yeah? Making good? With
Speaker 2: Making Good? So they have their third seasons out and
Speaker 2: it's their last season. So good. I mean, mind you, guys,
Speaker 2: this is entertainment. This is like, don't get too involved
Speaker 2: with like storyline and all that. But it's just so good.
Speaker 2: It's kind of like a version of like Sex and
Speaker 2: the City, but with like, you know, all black girls.
Speaker 2: It's just really good.
Speaker 1: I've seen like promos for it, and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: I want to watch it, and I just never get.
Speaker 2: You never watched it from the beginning. Oh you should
Speaker 2: watch it. Okay, Yeah, I actually want to think might
Speaker 2: like it too a little bit. Yeah, Like one of
Speaker 2: the girls is dating NBA guy. He doesn't believe in monogamy,
Speaker 2: that kind of thing. Yeah, so this is a lot
Speaker 2: going on. Yeah, yes, get into it. Okay. So, so,
Speaker 2: speaking of our dating situation in life, I want to
Speaker 2: read this letter from Josh Thomas because we're still matchmaking,
Speaker 2: y'all sending stuff in. Yes, we're having somebody. Y'all send
Speaker 2: so much shit in that we need to get somebody
Speaker 2: to like go through it. Yeah, we gotta give real
Speaker 2: organized chat. But we're coming. We're coming. We're gonna match off.
Speaker 2: We're going to match all real good. Okay, So Joh says, Hi, there,
Speaker 2: a friend just sent me your Instagram post about your
Speaker 2: new matchmaking service, and I figured you couldn't do any
Speaker 2: worse then I've been. Oh, I couldn't do any worse
Speaker 2: that I've been doing trying to find a boyfriend. So
Speaker 2: here we are, I said. His name is Josh, she's
Speaker 2: forty four and currently in Minneapolis. Okay, so this is
Speaker 2: for our Minneapolis people, or not really, but anywhere anywhere. Yeah.
Speaker 2: At this point, I like music, staying active, hanging out
Speaker 2: with friends, and relaxing with my cat Ali. For work,
Speaker 2: I'm an associate creative director for a software company and
Speaker 2: I'm working on also getting my personal training and nutrition
Speaker 2: coaching license. As for what I'm looking for, I'd love
Speaker 2: to find sweet, fun, cute guide to do life with. Basically,
Speaker 2: I like guys who equally enjoyed going out and staying
Speaker 2: in and who also enjoy fitness as it's such a
Speaker 2: big part of my life. I've even recently started competing
Speaker 2: in physique bodybuilding competitions. Ooh, so he is fit. Okay,
Speaker 2: I like that, love it. No hang ups on age,
Speaker 2: hair color, or race, but some well kept facial hair
Speaker 2: and tattoos are a huge plus. Okay. Also, anybody who
Speaker 2: didn't vote blue in our most recent election won't be
Speaker 2: a match for me. Okay, I've attached a few recent picks.
Speaker 2: Feel free to check out the Instagram. Thank you and
Speaker 2: I appreciate your help. Doesella and Robin want to give
Speaker 2: in my search for a new favorite plus one? Okay? So,
Speaker 2: and his name is Josh Thomas. So if that speaks
Speaker 2: to you, yes, let us know, yeah right in, Yeah,
Speaker 2: say I want to up with Josh. Yeah, Josh, who's
Speaker 2: the bodybuilding Yes?
Speaker 1: Okay, so I have a question since we're along lines
Speaker 1: of like dating and stuff. Yes, my favorite subject is
Speaker 1: not necessarily just dating. Just when you go out to
Speaker 1: dinner with other people.
Speaker 2: Is this a date?
Speaker 1: No, it doesn't have to be. That's what I'm saying,
Speaker 1: Like it can be a day, it doesn't have to be.
Speaker 1: Have you ever had experienced anyone asking the waiter for
Speaker 1: a cup of hot water so that they can put
Speaker 1: their silverware into the cup of hot water to clean it.
Speaker 2: No, no, you haven't, have you this is something you did.
Speaker 2: You did that.
Speaker 1: No, this is something that one did and does sometimes does.
Speaker 1: So he did it, so he doesn't do it as
Speaker 1: much now now that like we're older and we go
Speaker 1: like nicer restaurants. Oh okay, But like when I first
Speaker 1: met him, and for a long long time, it didn't
Speaker 1: like whenever we would be out at a restaurant, it's
Speaker 1: like can I get a Can I get a can I.
Speaker 2: Get a cup of hot water? And they'd be like yeah, sure,
Speaker 2: I'm like okay, what's this work? Yeah? And then hot
Speaker 2: water comes and then he takes the silverware and dumps
Speaker 2: it in, puts it in the hot water. Okay, because
Speaker 2: you know, he doesn't trust that the silverware is clean,
Speaker 2: And so for me, I'm like it makes sense. I
Speaker 2: get it, yes, but it's just so like, oh, like
Speaker 2: I don't. I don't. I'm like why, Like it's like
Speaker 2: I don't want to use the word ghetto. It's like
Speaker 2: we can't use that on ghetto. I mean, I don't
Speaker 2: know what do we call it. It's just like no,
Speaker 2: like why why are you doing this? Why are you
Speaker 2: doing this? Sir?
Speaker 1: Be at like a nice restaurant or a restaurant and
Speaker 1: he asks for plastic plastic?
Speaker 2: What forks and eyes? Why because it's in the plastic
Speaker 2: because he's a germophobe or you know, like you can't
Speaker 2: for him? Does it? Does he has he ever talked
Speaker 2: about therapist about this. He will get more sick from
Speaker 2: the food, right than the utensils. I just need for
Speaker 2: him to know.
Speaker 1: But when you think about it, think about it, the
Speaker 1: utensils and the plates in the in the city. That's
Speaker 1: when you just start going and it's like deep dive
Speaker 1: the cups, the glasses.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you don't know who's been using this stuff. No,
Speaker 2: you don't know how well it's been Why No, but
Speaker 2: you don't. But again, he'll get more sick from the
Speaker 2: food and the preparation of the food as opposed to
Speaker 2: the plates, the cups, the forks, the knives. True, so
Speaker 2: he needs to know that. Okay, so if a man
Speaker 2: did that, if you're on a date, yeah, so Jesus
Speaker 2: and a man did that. Yeah, okay, Well, first of all,
Speaker 2: I'm not going to like a booty restaurant. No, No, you're
Speaker 2: at a good rest a nice restaurant. You at a
Speaker 2: nice restaurant. And I'm on a date with wine walk
Speaker 2: it's our first date. Why am not going on my
Speaker 2: first day? And he asked the guy for the waiter
Speaker 2: for a hot water and then I see him take
Speaker 2: his utensils and slam them into the cup of our water.
Speaker 2: But yes, that's probably our last date. Yes, no question,
Speaker 2: because I'll be like what are you doing? What are
Speaker 2: you doing? And like what else are you going to
Speaker 2: be doing? Right? And like okay, and I'm okay, let
Speaker 2: me just say this. I there might be times where,
Speaker 2: unique to him, I know other people that do it. Okay,
Speaker 2: we're gonna take wine out of this, but there are
Speaker 2: times where like I'm not like, let's say it's a
Speaker 2: passionate moment and it's just like I mean, like all
Speaker 2: day sweat. Yeah, weeks, we're getting it on, like this
Speaker 2: person that takes the hot water and sixty's utensils, then
Speaker 2: it might require that I take a shower before you
Speaker 2: get it on. But but like if it's a hot,
Speaker 2: sexy moment, like I don't want him to be like, oh,
Speaker 2: go jump in the shower right yet No, right, that
Speaker 2: would piss me off. Okay, Okay, yeah, I mean I
Speaker 2: understand where you're going with that. Yes, let's just be
Speaker 2: in the moment. Yes, And I mean I mean I'm
Speaker 2: normally clean, right, yes, But if that person is like
Speaker 2: with you, like clearly they know you, they trust you,
Speaker 2: like you know, they're willing to I mean I feel
Speaker 2: like if you're willing to like kiss somebody, then like, yeah,
Speaker 2: the germ thing is not an issue true. So so
Speaker 2: like I don't think that I don't really relate the two. Okay,
Speaker 2: I don't think they apply. It's more on like I
Speaker 2: don't know who was here eating, drinking or you know,
Speaker 2: using the Does he deal with hotels? He hates them
Speaker 2: because somebody has slept in that? Yeah? Okay, yeah, I
Speaker 2: mean the whole thing it's it's it's a it's a production,
Speaker 2: it's and I'm kind of like that too, like as
Speaker 2: soon as we step foot in the hotel, it's we
Speaker 2: are wiping spring everything. Okay, and yes, and it is.
Speaker 2: And we don't walk barefoot. We don't you know, we
Speaker 2: don't really touch anything type of stuff. Okay. So it's
Speaker 2: a it's a thing, it's a production. Okay, all right,
Speaker 2: So we don't feel like we need therapy for this, No,
Speaker 2: the Dixons not because we don't just send one. We're
Speaker 2: sitting both of you, okay, maybe even Corey like, oh
Speaker 2: oh yeah, my kids do, ye, yeah, they don't. All
Speaker 2: y'all are going together. Yeah, we we're all like, yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna send a person to the house, so y'all
Speaker 2: don't have to, like because we know you don't want
Speaker 2: to leave, so right, but that's in our house. So
Speaker 2: it's more like we gotta but y'all have to venture
Speaker 2: out at some point. Yeah. Yeah, so you have to
Speaker 2: be comfortable venturing out. I know. I'm sitting a therapist over. Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's gonna be my Christmas your birthday present. Okay, great,
Speaker 2: thank you, And the therapy is for the entire freaking family. Okay.
Speaker 2: Do you have any other questions? I might okay, because
Speaker 2: that was a doozy. Yes, while you're looking that up,
Speaker 2: I want to read that. Hi, Robin and Joseille. My
Speaker 2: name is Andrea Anderson by the way, Okay, can we pause? Yeah?
Speaker 2: What exactly does a doozy mean? That's a doozy? Yeah?
Speaker 2: What exactly does that mean? That's big? Doozy is big?
Speaker 2: So I feel like sometimes it's like bad and sometimes
Speaker 2: it's good. That's a doozy, you know what I mean?
Speaker 2: Like it was a doozy. It could be it's howthic,
Speaker 2: it's how you use it. Yeah, but it's a big thing. Okay, Yeah,
Speaker 2: it's a big situation, right right. I guess I don't know,
Speaker 2: but I feel like sometimes it's like, oh, that was
Speaker 2: that was a doozy? Yes, yeah, which was, but it
Speaker 2: was whatever you're referring to is a big Yeah. I'm
Speaker 2: like I want to I want like, okay, something unique, Okay,
Speaker 2: something outstanding or unique of it's kind. Yeah, big large
Speaker 2: penises Okay, moving.
Speaker 1: On, extraordinary, unusual, or unprecedented okay.
Speaker 2: Oh.
Speaker 1: It can be used to describe something that is good
Speaker 1: or bad.
Speaker 2: Yeah, or big penises okay, anyway, this is the counseling
Speaker 2: Greek dates subject is dating. Oh, Okay, there's another dating
Speaker 2: one because we got to give y'all people to figure
Speaker 2: out whether or not you want to be with them. Okay,
Speaker 2: So this is Hey, Robin and Gioselle. My name is
Speaker 2: Andrea Anderson, and I'm fifty nine years old living in
Speaker 2: charl Carrollton, Virginia, which is fifteen to twenty minutes from Hampton.
Speaker 2: Newport News. Y'all know I know about Hampton. I'm a
Speaker 2: professional school counselor in Newport News Public School District. As
Speaker 2: well as starting my e commerce business online. I'm interested
Speaker 2: in dating within and outside of my race, preferably with
Speaker 2: men who are fifty five to sixty five, okay, that
Speaker 2: are easy on the eyes and take care of their
Speaker 2: bodies like I do. Thank you, ladies. So if you're
Speaker 2: easy on the eyes, if you are available, because like,
Speaker 2: don't be coming trying to date somebody and you got
Speaker 2: like a wife in three side chicks like no. So
Speaker 2: if you're available then and you live in like the
Speaker 2: Newport News Hampton area, then let us know so we
Speaker 2: can hook you up with Andrea. Okay, and we'll say,
Speaker 2: man between fifty five and sixty five, fifty five to
Speaker 2: sixty five, yeah, all right, or if you know a man, yeah,
Speaker 2: so if you five, that's single one looking, if you
Speaker 2: weren't married, what would your range be for you to date? Hmmm?
Speaker 2: It would probably be forty and up forty to like
Speaker 2: sixty maybe, okay, forty to fifty two? Why fifty two
Speaker 2: because fifty three is too old? Don't joking?
Speaker 1: Okay, because okay, because fifty two is like pushing it
Speaker 1: for me. So yeah, okay, I think why, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I mean, okay, okay, maybe maybe fifty five, fifty two okay, three, okay, fine,
Speaker 1: fifty five okay, fine, all right, forty to fifty five?
Speaker 2: All right. What if he was like thirty eight hmm,
Speaker 2: and he did be on probation, he'd be on probation, yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: he might get fired, yeah, okay, yeah, yeah he would. Yeah,
Speaker 2: he'd be on like, yeah, it would be probation. And
Speaker 2: for how long is probation? Six months a year? Ninety
Speaker 2: days at least six months, at least six months? Yeah, okay, yeah,
Speaker 2: I feel that. I like that. Yeah. So I'm not
Speaker 2: saying like I wouldn't talk to a thirty eight year old,
Speaker 2: but I would n't take him seriously, you know, it
Speaker 2: would just be like, you know, you kind of hang
Speaker 2: out or whatever, and yeah, have zero expectations, zero expectations,
Speaker 2: just sex, yeah, sure, okay, and companionship in going to
Speaker 2: the movies that you don't go to. Yeah, okay, all right,
Speaker 2: very speaking of married and kids and all that type
Speaker 2: of stuff. Yeah, we have a scenario, oh okay that
Speaker 2: somebody emailed us. Okay, one of our favorites may shout
Speaker 2: out to me me maybe this is a what would
Speaker 2: you do? Scenario? This is not her scenario, but maybe
Speaker 2: Lyon maybe Lion because it's hard, sir. She's always sending
Speaker 2: us these good scenarios. Okay, but this is an interesting one,
Speaker 2: I thought.
Speaker 1: So the title reads, my husband is mourning his dead mistress.
Speaker 2: What okay? By the way, do you ever come across
Speaker 2: on Instagram people are like they're like sharing these stories. Yes,
Speaker 2: and when you're when they're sharing them, you're like, damn,
Speaker 2: like girl, you got a lot going on? Yeah, like
Speaker 2: what's going on? And then you realize like they're reading
Speaker 2: other people's stories. No, so like every so, so they're
Speaker 2: they're and this is probably where it's coming from. They're
Speaker 2: like Reddit.
Speaker 1: Posts or stories from Reddit, and the person is reading
Speaker 1: it like it's like them. Yeah, but it's like story time.
Speaker 2: Okay, because and then if you so, if you scroll
Speaker 2: their page, then they're reading another story time and it's
Speaker 2: like a completely different story. Okay, because this girl, because
Speaker 2: I was on a deep dive with this girl that
Speaker 2: knew that her husband was cheating and he was with
Speaker 2: his mistress when he said he kept going on these
Speaker 2: work trips. So that was all fake. So it's probably
Speaker 2: not really her. She's it's like story she's having story time.
Speaker 2: She's reading someone else, really story. I listened to the
Speaker 2: whole thing, right, and then she said, okay, stay tuned
Speaker 2: for what's gonna happen when they when they land, I
Speaker 2: stay tuned. I tried to scroll to figure out, like
Speaker 2: what happened, but I couldn't get that information. Okay, so
Speaker 2: maybe it was story time with story time. Okay, y'all
Speaker 2: stop doing that. Yeah, so, by the way, this is
Speaker 2: a story time. By the way, are you ever on
Speaker 2: read it? No? Okay? Sood I know people on Reddit
Speaker 2: and they enjoy it because you know how X is
Speaker 2: too toxic huh, so they say read it is better toxic,
Speaker 2: but not as docic. Okay, but it's given you the
Speaker 2: truth about like what's really going on with the government
Speaker 2: and with Trump and all that. See. I feel like
Speaker 2: Reddit sometimes when I like I google something, yeah, like search,
Speaker 2: some of the stuff comes up from like Reddit or whatever,
Speaker 2: like a response or whatever, and.
Speaker 1: It just seems like Reddit can take you on this
Speaker 1: like rabbit hole that you just can't get out of.
Speaker 2: Okay, probably probably. Yeah. Well they was entertaining trying to
Speaker 2: find out thread. Yeah, and oh that's intriguing. Okay, that's interesting. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 2: all right, Okay, Yeah, I'm sure there's a lot. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm sure we're missing out. I heard that people talk
Speaker 2: about you know, us on Reddit a lot too, like
Speaker 2: just reality people in general. Okay, like, yeah, I don't
Speaker 2: know people like oh yeah, they always talking about you
Speaker 2: on Reddit. Oh okay, yeah I don't have Reddit. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna there. Okay.
Speaker 1: So three months ago, Yeah, the woman who was having
Speaker 1: an affair with my husband died suddenly from an accident.
Speaker 2: Okay that did she kill him? Kill her? Did the
Speaker 2: wife kill the side chick? No? Okay, she said.
Speaker 1: I found out about the affair only two days after
Speaker 1: to her funeral. I thought she was simply a coworker,
Speaker 1: and I was wondering why my husband was so disturbed
Speaker 1: and emotional. He quit his job, saying it was too traumatic,
Speaker 1: too traumatic to go to work. She was in the
Speaker 1: early weeks of pregnancy when she died, and my husband
Speaker 1: doesn't know whether he or her husband was the father.
Speaker 2: Ooh.
Speaker 1: So on top of everything, he's also grieving for a
Speaker 1: baby which may or may not have been his. I
Speaker 1: find it extremely difficult to be emotionally supportive when he
Speaker 1: wakes up at three am crying and trembling. Yet I
Speaker 1: don't have the heart to yell at him like I
Speaker 1: want to. He says she's dead, so there's no reason
Speaker 1: for me to feel jealous or threatened and ask for
Speaker 1: my understanding as he grieves. We've barely talked these last
Speaker 1: weeks because I don't know how to respond to him
Speaker 1: when he cries and says he misses her and wishes
Speaker 1: she were here. Then also how much he loves me
Speaker 1: and that he never intended to leave me what. I
Speaker 1: asked him to visit a marriage therapist together, and he
Speaker 1: said he is not ready to work on our marriage
Speaker 1: and thinks he needs to see a grief therapist instead.
Speaker 1: Do I need to give him time to mourn the
Speaker 1: loss of his mistress. Hell, or should I demand he
Speaker 1: focused on our marriage?
Speaker 2: Right? This is why? Okay, so is this reasonable? Shady's
Speaker 2: that the question? No, it's what would you do? What
Speaker 2: would you do? Okay? What would I divorce? Lase? Yes? Yeah,
Speaker 2: this I feel.
Speaker 1: Like you can't get You're never gonna work through this, no, like.
Speaker 2: Ever, even though she's dead and she's quote not a
Speaker 2: threat anymore. Like, I can't help you with your grief.
Speaker 1: Like, so I can't be a spout a wife to you, right,
Speaker 1: to my husband that's grieving, I can't help you.
Speaker 2: Well, it's kind of similar to when your husband cheats
Speaker 2: and there's a baby, Like he wants you to then
Speaker 2: be nice to the baby, right, and I can't even
Speaker 2: be nice to you. To you, so you got to go,
Speaker 2: right and God bless you with the baby? Right? Yeah,
Speaker 2: that's how I feel about this. Yeah, this is me too.
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, no, like, forget working on the marriage.
Speaker 2: I can't.
Speaker 1: I can't even help you recover from your grief in
Speaker 1: order to work on the marriage.
Speaker 2: Yeah, so you know, like we can't do this? No
Speaker 2: me me? Yeah that does that mean? Yeah? Okay, so
Speaker 2: which one I gotta ask, Mamie, tell us which one
Speaker 2: on you are you the she's not married, she's not married,
Speaker 2: she's not the mistress that died. Yeah, so she's got
Speaker 2: to be the wife. Yeah ish yeah, Yeah, that was wild.
Speaker 2: I was like, oh, this is juicy.
Speaker 1: Okay, I have another random question.
Speaker 2: Okay, Okay.
Speaker 1: When you're on the phone talking to someone HM and
Speaker 1: you get a call coming in, yeah, do you click
Speaker 1: over or do you just let it go to voicemail
Speaker 1: and then call the person back.
Speaker 2: I let it go to voicemail and call the person back,
Speaker 2: unless it's like somebody, I need to talk to you
Speaker 2: right then I'll be like hold on a second, but
Speaker 2: it'll be something like that's ten seconds, right, like not.
Speaker 2: I think at this point, like I never want to
Speaker 2: be my phone anyway. So anybody disturbing the conversation that
Speaker 2: I really don't want to even have, can wait? Yes? Yeah, yes,
Speaker 2: so that is like a huge issue in my house.
Speaker 2: I want to say a huge issue, not a huge okay,
Speaker 2: because I don't like to click over. So if I'm
Speaker 2: on the phone with someone, I want to finish my conversation, yeah,
Speaker 2: and then I'll call the person back, one who's calling
Speaker 2: me right incessantly. Yes, okay, yes, you know, but he
Speaker 2: is like he so when I do that, it drives
Speaker 2: him crazy because he's like, just click over, just stay
Speaker 2: hold on and click over and tell me you're gonna
Speaker 2: call me back. And I'm like, no, like I would
Speaker 2: rather finish my conversation, especially if the other person is
Speaker 2: in the middle of like talking, right, So like totally,
Speaker 2: if I'm the one that's talking, then I might be.
Speaker 1: Like, oh wait, hold on for a second. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: I don't like to interrupt people.
Speaker 2: Right, right, And okay, when you do, because it's wine,
Speaker 2: no shade to wine. But when you know that when
Speaker 2: you click over, he's saying nothing, right, right, why are
Speaker 2: we doing this? Right? That's why I'm like, you're just
Speaker 2: gonna be like what are you doing? Where are you
Speaker 2: or like what time are we picking the core up? Yes,
Speaker 2: I'm like that's not urgent, But it's not urgent. How
Speaker 2: about this? Wan sent a text and I'll text you
Speaker 2: back because you can. I can talk in text. Right. No,
Speaker 2: I don't like to do it, but I mean a
Speaker 2: little bit, I can do that. Yeah, but yeah, no,
Speaker 2: and because this is what you'll do because because I
Speaker 2: know this scenario, you'd be like, oh my god, you
Speaker 2: that wants blowing me up. I gotta go because he
Speaker 2: didn't call four times. Just by the time stop. If
Speaker 2: we're on the phone and the phone is like he calls,
Speaker 2: I don't answer that, he calls back, I don't answer,
Speaker 2: and he calls again, I'm like, all right, let me
Speaker 2: I gotta go, gotta go, And then you click over
Speaker 2: and he's like, Ron, what's up? Will we have for dinner? What? Boy?
Speaker 2: I mean? I guess so I can't get mad. I've
Speaker 2: tried to get divorced, but okay, but take him out
Speaker 2: of it. Just in general, they're like that to my kids,
Speaker 2: do that to me, and I'm just like, Quary will
Speaker 2: blow me up? What is it? What is so important? Right? Nothing? Yes?
Speaker 2: And a door will be like sitting in her bed
Speaker 2: and she's just like, oh mom, I just want to
Speaker 2: talk to you, yes about what? Right? I need to
Speaker 2: know about what? Yes? Yes, Corey will blow me up
Speaker 2: if I don't answer. But in general, if I'm on
Speaker 2: the phone, I'm talking to someone, I want to finish
Speaker 2: that conversation. Yeah before moving on clicking over. Yeah, No, totally,
Speaker 2: totally it's rude. Well, it's not really rude, but it's
Speaker 2: just like, oh yeah, it's just it's not rude, it's
Speaker 2: just yeah, it's yeah, I just want to finish my conversation. Yeah,
Speaker 2: to help people at our age lose their train of thought.
Speaker 2: It's quick, quick, even with my blueberries quick. I'm like,
Speaker 2: what was I talking about? It happens all the time exactly. Yeah,
Speaker 2: So like, let's just finish conversation. Okay, I think that's it.
Speaker 2: You No, you don't have another moment? Okay? One more? Yeah,
Speaker 2: one more? Okay, this is cute. Okay, this is really cute.
Speaker 2: This is from Donna because the reason why I'm telling
Speaker 2: you to read this last one because somebody has been
Speaker 2: dming me saying, y'all can make the podcast longer. Oh
Speaker 2: are y'all getting like? And I'm like, okay, so I
Speaker 2: think I feel like a good forty five minutes is
Speaker 2: a good time frame for people's attention. It is good. Yeah,
Speaker 2: but sometimes you don't get screen dad, but they love us.
Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, you want to hear more? Okay, so fine,
Speaker 1: here's one more.
Speaker 2: It's really cute.
Speaker 1: This is from Donna Daferin aka Weezer weezer.
Speaker 2: I think that's her grandma name.
Speaker 1: Okay, so she says, hello, beautiful ladies. My granddaughter will
Speaker 1: be three in March.
Speaker 2: I was recently diagnosed with level three severe autism.
Speaker 1: Oh, they stated, she would probably only mimic not really
Speaker 1: connect with what she is learning. Without obviously having special
Speaker 1: needs classes, she does have a tablet that she works
Speaker 1: with ABC's one, two, three's colors, et cetera. Still, we
Speaker 1: thought she was just mimicking because when we try to
Speaker 1: engage her, she doesn't stay on tasks. She also isn't
Speaker 1: very verbal. So last week we all went out to
Speaker 1: eat and I was trying to engage her with I
Speaker 1: was trying to engage with her so her mother, who's
Speaker 1: my daughter, could enjoy her dinner with other family members.
Speaker 1: Oh you're good, grandma. We were doing patty cake, and
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, she looks up and then back
Speaker 1: at me, and then back up and points up at
Speaker 1: my hat and says are.
Speaker 2: E.
Speaker 1: And when she said ay, I realized what she was doing.
Speaker 1: She was calling out the letters on my reasonably shady hat.
Speaker 1: She said every letter in reasonably and that was not mimicking.
Speaker 2: Oh I love this, she said. I was cheering, like,
Speaker 2: what does that spell reasonably? And what do we want
Speaker 2: to be shady? Oh?
Speaker 1: I love that, but no, I didn't cheer that, but
Speaker 1: I was cheering so big inside. I just told her yay,
Speaker 1: not to overstimulate, especially since the restaurant is enough. Just
Speaker 1: wanted to let y'all know how my favorite hat made
Speaker 1: my life.
Speaker 2: Life this weekend.
Speaker 1: This mean old Weezer yes that's my grandma name, was
Speaker 1: almost brought to tears all because of my reasonably shady hat.
Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Thank you, lady, so much much.
Speaker 1: Love Donna Daffern aka Weezer.
Speaker 2: Ps. I also have two embellished hats. Love them. I
Speaker 2: love that. Okay, so wait a minute, how old was
Speaker 2: the child for? Three? Three? Three year old?
Speaker 1: A three year old in general, and a three year
Speaker 1: old with severe autism?
Speaker 2: Yeah, make up the letters.
Speaker 1: That's awesome. So hopefully your granddaughter continues. You didn't tell
Speaker 1: us her name.
Speaker 2: But hopefully I love the news to be able to
Speaker 2: identify her numbers and letters and colors on her own.
Speaker 2: And Yeesmber, Yeah, that's beautiful. I think that's amazing. That
Speaker 2: was a good story. I needed to hear that. Listen,
Speaker 2: we're changing the world, one person at a time. Robin, Yes,
Speaker 2: we are the green eyed Vandon's are doing it, get
Speaker 2: into it, and we absolutely love y'all. So but we're
Speaker 2: out of here. Yep, now we're really out here. Yes,
Speaker 2: So thank you for listening to our episodes, and don't
Speaker 2: never forget to live your life either, Reasonable Shady, We're
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