WEBVTT - | Ep 171 | Shady Clickbait!

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<v Speaker 1>Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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<v Speaker 1>Podcast Network and iHeartRadio.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to another episode of Reasonably SHAKEE d I am

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<v Speaker 2>Giselle Bryant. What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you for being here. Yes, what's again? Yes? Indeed,

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<v Speaker 2>and it is full fledged March. Get into it, Robin

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<v Speaker 2>finally woke up mode. This with us twenty twenty five

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<v Speaker 2>is looking bright for you? Yes, yes, January and February

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<v Speaker 2>we're not bright for you. But March, goddamn it. It's

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<v Speaker 2>your month, by the way, your birthday month. It is

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<v Speaker 2>your month. Oh yeah, I forgot about that. What do

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<v Speaker 2>you mean? You know? I never like to celebrate re bird. No,

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<v Speaker 2>but we're celebrating this year. Do I have to come

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<v Speaker 2>over here? Do I have a Yeah? I don't know. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>we're doing this is not monumental, no, okay, but we

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<v Speaker 2>gotta do something. It's forty six. Yeah, I like it.

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<v Speaker 2>What is still just looking good? You look good? You

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<v Speaker 2>look good, by the way, if anybody didn't tell you,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm here to tell you you're looking good. I appreciate

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<v Speaker 2>your trying and be like you. So what's going on

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<v Speaker 2>with low thirty these days. Oh it's it's going well.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it's it's it's going well. Yeah. Staff is great.

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<v Speaker 2>Love that, love our members okay, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's a responsibility, yes, it is. It is a

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<v Speaker 1>responsibility that outside of having kids, this.

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<v Speaker 2>Is like yeah and a husband. Yes, it's like the

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<v Speaker 2>biggest responsibility really. Yeah. Oh wow that's good to know. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so but but it's going well. Okay, great, And even

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<v Speaker 2>if you're not in like the Columbia area, get into

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<v Speaker 2>it and get your Blow thirty is a subscription, is membership, membership,

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<v Speaker 2>Get your membership, get your membership.

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<v Speaker 1>Come get facials and your boat tacks and your laser

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<v Speaker 1>and all the good stuff things. And just shout out

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<v Speaker 1>to all of the reasonably shady listeners who are Glow

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<v Speaker 1>thirty members.

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<v Speaker 2>I love that. Oh yes, love love seeing you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>And they come in, Yes, they live in the area, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>got it.

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<v Speaker 1>They'll come in and they'll, like, you know, comment on

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<v Speaker 1>stuff that we've talked about.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, yeah, it was funny. I was when I was

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<v Speaker 2>which show was this? I think it was my New

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<v Speaker 2>Orleans show. I said something and somebody screamed out what

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<v Speaker 2>I had said on that Monday's podcast. So I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>y'all listen. I was so excited. Yes, so, and we

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<v Speaker 2>forget what we say so the time, so when people

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<v Speaker 2>do say something, I'd be like, huh to talk about

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<v Speaker 2>I forget what I say as soon as I say

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<v Speaker 2>me too, exactly. But we have a special announcement before

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<v Speaker 2>we get into our shady bow. Yes, we have a

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<v Speaker 2>website people, we revumped it. It's new and improved.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, and we have merch on their new merch new merch. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>so we launched a new website. We already had a website,

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<v Speaker 1>but patar who handles our social media, he was like,

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<v Speaker 1>this website isn't cutting it and you all.

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<v Speaker 2>Need to upgrade.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, indeed, and so we allowed Petard to do his thing.

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<v Speaker 1>So he did his thing. We have a great new website,

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<v Speaker 1>and we also have some exciting new merch.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes we do.

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<v Speaker 1>So get into rita reasonably shady dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>That's it. That's that's it. And if you want to

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<v Speaker 2>just you know, see pictures of me and Robin or

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<v Speaker 2>get some merch, and then we're gonna have a fun

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<v Speaker 2>merch relate, We're gonna have a fun event coming up. Yes, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>that's an online event, so we stay tuned for that. Yay. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>so you have a reasonably shady moment, I do a

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<v Speaker 2>shady moment. I just say shady moment.

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<v Speaker 1>So, like the other day, I'm on Instagram.

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<v Speaker 2>This is like actually a couple of weeks ago.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm on Instagram, and you know Bravo Daily Dish,

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<v Speaker 1>right that page they.

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<v Speaker 2>Love you, by the way, Oh thank you. I think

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<v Speaker 2>they do, not like Queen's of Bravo, but like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>Bravo Daily Dish is like a brav they like work

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<v Speaker 2>for Bravo. Oh they do. Yeah, Oh, I didn't know that.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what. I think Donald does that. No, Donald

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<v Speaker 2>does Bravo TV social media. Okay, I don't don't. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know. Maybe he does.

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<v Speaker 1>He maybe does something. So Bravo Daily Dish is like

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<v Speaker 1>the it's like the news updates on Bravo on like

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<v Speaker 1>the Bravo website. Yes, it's like on BravoTV dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the Bravo Daily Dish and now update on stuff

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<v Speaker 1>that's going on with Bravo talent.

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<v Speaker 2>Love that right, Okay, So I follow.

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<v Speaker 1>That page and so in one of their stories, it

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<v Speaker 1>was a picture of me and Wan, and it was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, click the link for a big update on

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<v Speaker 1>Robin and Wan's marriage or something.

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<v Speaker 2>It was like I was like, Oh, what's what's my

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<v Speaker 2>big update? Like what's going on? What's yes? Uh huh.

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<v Speaker 2>So I clicked on it and then the so then

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<v Speaker 2>the headline was like Robin talks about her sad, the sad,

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<v Speaker 2>her sad marriage. Oh my, what are they talking about?

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<v Speaker 2>Right soon I read it and I'm like, oh my gosh,

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<v Speaker 2>this some freaking click bait for your mama. Like it was. So.

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<v Speaker 1>I had done an interview when I was doing press

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<v Speaker 1>for Traders, and I guess one of the people I

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<v Speaker 1>interviewed with was affiliated with Peacock or Daily Dish whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>and they asked me what I was what our plans

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<v Speaker 1>for Valentine's Day was, oh yeah, And I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest, we don't have any like whamas. He

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<v Speaker 1>was on going to be traveling for NBA All Star

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<v Speaker 1>weekend and I said, and my son Corey has a

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<v Speaker 1>basketball game. I said, really, like this time of year,

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<v Speaker 1>basketball really runs our lives, Like we're always in the

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<v Speaker 1>gym and we it's really hard to plan around that.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like it's really sad, you know, like being kind.

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<v Speaker 2>Of it's very sad. Yes, yes, you know, just being

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<v Speaker 2>like I wasn't like it's not that sad, but I

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<v Speaker 2>was like, you know, just being whatever, dramatic, dramatic, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So yeah, it's really sad, like we just don't have

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<v Speaker 2>a life. We just you know, do we're always in

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<v Speaker 2>the basketball gym, like our kids basketball schedule? Run your life?

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<v Speaker 2>And that was the freaking headline. That's that's the headline. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>did do you have a follow up? I mean like

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<v Speaker 2>did so did he send anything? Like did you send flowers?

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<v Speaker 2>Or he did? Yeah, well then you need to take

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<v Speaker 2>the picture of that and post that. But I mean

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<v Speaker 2>I don't, I have nothing to prove, like, but I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>let the people know. But I was just like when

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<v Speaker 2>I saw the headline, I'm like, what is this. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 2>what are y'all talking about? And then I clicked and

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<v Speaker 2>then it was just it's just so funny, like how

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<v Speaker 2>media outlets they they traumatized. Yes, the clickbait is real, Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>yeah for clickbait. I mean that was some real legit clickbait.

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<v Speaker 2>So did they get paid off of clicks? Yeah? Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>they get paid for the number of people that click

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<v Speaker 2>on their site. Yes, because they have ads.

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<v Speaker 1>Like so their site, there's a bunch of advertisers, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>on the on the column, top and the bottom and

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<v Speaker 1>all that and throughout. So they get paid for those

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<v Speaker 1>ads and so got it. Yeah, they get paid if

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<v Speaker 1>people click on the link.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's say something clickbaity right now? Okay, hmm, oh my gosh, Kanye,

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<v Speaker 2>that's not click bait.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, everyone, Look, it don't matter what we say, people

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<v Speaker 1>turn it into clickbait.

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<v Speaker 2>We have definitely been clickbait. We have been clickbaited many, many,

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<v Speaker 2>many many times. Yeah, I know, like, all right, let's

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<v Speaker 2>i'll pips up holes down? What is it? What do

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<v Speaker 2>you say? It makes the merry men? It would be

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<v Speaker 2>like if I saw a clickbait. So if I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>I really can't stand you right now, like you either right,

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<v Speaker 2>you're brestack. I don't like your you're ring No no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>so you're taking it too far? Oh oh okay. The

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<v Speaker 2>clickbait is yeah, like dad, you really feel that way? No, no, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>she'll take it to my I was crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>No, the clickbait would be just all I really can't

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<v Speaker 1>stand you, right now, So that's the clickbait, right, and

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<v Speaker 1>then I'd be like, because you're over here making me laugh.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, okay, okay, okay. So the clickbait is like taking

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<v Speaker 2>something that sounds really bad but when it's out of context. Yes, yes, right,

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<v Speaker 2>anything for the clicks and the likes. Yeah, okay, I

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<v Speaker 2>got it, girl. I can't be your friend anymore. What

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<v Speaker 2>you always give me your trouble because I'm laughing all

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<v Speaker 2>the time. You know what I'm saying, Like I don't

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<v Speaker 2>like you anyway? Okay, do it? I get out of

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<v Speaker 2>my system, I can. I love you, Robin, I love

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<v Speaker 2>you too. Yes, But Bravo Daily dishy'all are y'all did

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<v Speaker 2>the most bake headline that y'all did the most, but

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<v Speaker 2>they got to pay the mans. They gotta make sure

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<v Speaker 2>the mans keep coming in. We'll pay me, damn it.

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<v Speaker 2>Robin said, I want to chicks, run me my check. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So Mike getting no check from y'all, nour no. And

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<v Speaker 2>you know what, I do have a bone to pick

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<v Speaker 2>with Bravo. And then I'm gonna get into my shady moment.

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<v Speaker 2>This is gonna be my shady moment. So I got

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<v Speaker 2>an email like get the new Potomac merch or something.

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<v Speaker 2>So I clicked on it and it was like this

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<v Speaker 2>cute little hoodie. It was like pink hoodie instead of

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<v Speaker 2>Real Housewives with Tomake, and that's like cute updated march. Yeah. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't gotten a dime from any of this march

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<v Speaker 2>that they be selling.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, you do get dimes from it from being on

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<v Speaker 1>the show.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, but no, this is a separate This should be

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<v Speaker 2>a separate check. No, it's not just like you don't

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<v Speaker 2>get residuals. Yeah, I get no residuals me and Chris Brown. Yeah, yes,

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<v Speaker 2>reside all of that when you sign that contract. They said, listen,

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<v Speaker 2>we can we can make money x y ye any

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<v Speaker 2>type of way we want to offer you. You want

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<v Speaker 2>to take this? Bunny can get n I l isn't

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<v Speaker 2>this name and likeness? Shouldn't I get something?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but you're so so called Bethany Frankles.

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<v Speaker 2>She for some reason, has is not She's now she's

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<v Speaker 2>giving she's been quiet, well, she's been talking about other things.

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<v Speaker 2>She's been like giving reviews of like stick in Caviar

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<v Speaker 2>and as opposed to like really, well, I don't want

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<v Speaker 2>her to come after bravo. I want her to help

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<v Speaker 2>me for the future, get my residuals.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, I don't think anyone like showed her support.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, the current employees we cut our hands are kind

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<v Speaker 2>of tied. So yeah, okay, anyway, moving on, Not my

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<v Speaker 2>shady moment. My shady moment is I went got my

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<v Speaker 2>hair done, okay from Callisto Blount, Yes, also known as Cal.

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<v Speaker 2>We love Cal, who looked at me and now, mind you,

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<v Speaker 2>so I had this was just my hair, no extensions,

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<v Speaker 2>no nothing, it's my hair. I'm went in there to

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<v Speaker 2>get some color. And he looks at me and he

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<v Speaker 2>was like, your hair looks horrible. Oh. He was like,

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<v Speaker 2>what the hell happened to your hair? He was like,

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<v Speaker 2>what are you doing? What are we gonna talk about

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<v Speaker 2>your drop ends? Oh my god? And he's talking to

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<v Speaker 2>me just like that, like, no sugar, that's how Sureley

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<v Speaker 2>talks to me. Yes, okay, we go about your dry ends.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, god damn. So I just sat down in

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<v Speaker 2>his chair and proceeded to get my hair done. But

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<v Speaker 2>he said, tell me what you're doing. What are you doing?

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<v Speaker 2>Because Cal's thing is healthy hair. Okay, he wants everybody's

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<v Speaker 2>hair to look healthy, be shiny and sacred. No, no,

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<v Speaker 2>beyond miss said this Beyonce hater.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, I'm not going to Cowboy Cawdor toy

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<v Speaker 1>Okay tour, I can't talk?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, when to get sat in a second. So anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>my shading moment is Cal gave it to me straight,

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<v Speaker 2>which was my hair was looking dry and brittle and damaged.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, Cal like, does your hair That's.

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<v Speaker 2>What I'm saying, But he really, I mean, I've been

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<v Speaker 2>kind of doing it myself because I've been on the road,

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<v Speaker 2>and but He's like, just ol, you have to come

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<v Speaker 2>get your hair done. Do you know you don't come

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<v Speaker 2>and get your hair done? And I was like, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 2>So he was like, when you go to Robin's house,

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<v Speaker 2>just come and get your hair done. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 2>because he had me, you know, sit under this steam

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<v Speaker 2>all it's nonsense. Anyway, my hair feels very luxurious right now.

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<v Speaker 2>But the shady part was Col was just so mean

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<v Speaker 2>to me and told me my edges was dry d

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<v Speaker 2>why speaking of Cowboy Carter, Yes, Robbin, Yeah, I decided

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<v Speaker 2>not to go. Why. I don't know. I just like,

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<v Speaker 2>do I want to spin an arm? And a leg

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<v Speaker 2>to like see her sing these songs. Yeah really, yes, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>well I was there. You know you got your ticket?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah too, me and Cal for the DC shows. Yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>fourth of July. Yeah, I was looking at it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I thought about it. I actually would like thought about

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<v Speaker 2>getting the ones on the stage, like the b Hive ones.

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<v Speaker 2>Really the five thousand dollars ones, the six thousand dollar ones.

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<v Speaker 2>I said, hell no, I thought they were like twenty

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<v Speaker 2>four hundred or something. Well there was okay, okay, Beyonce,

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<v Speaker 2>like seriously, like the range of price for these tickets

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<v Speaker 2>was absurd, Yes, because on the floor floor like where

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<v Speaker 2>you're talking about, what I was looking at was like

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<v Speaker 2>six thousand, five thousand, four thousand, and then there was

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<v Speaker 2>some twenty five hundred. MoMA's twelve and I felt like

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<v Speaker 2>twelve hundreds is it? Because I had to buy two?

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<v Speaker 2>So like, no, that's it. Yeah, I don't think I'm

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<v Speaker 2>doing it. I just don't, okay, because I'll tell you why.

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<v Speaker 2>And I understand because I mean, like it's it's crazy

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<v Speaker 2>times out here. Yeah, financially, yeah, it is, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>not even that. It's just like I you know, you

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<v Speaker 2>remember how I you know I went to Renaissance. I

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<v Speaker 2>enjoyed it, but I wasn't like, Ooh, I'm so happy

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<v Speaker 2>I went. Oh I loved it, but go ahead, and

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<v Speaker 2>then I feel like I'm going to see enough on

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<v Speaker 2>social media. I'm going to see the whole show. But

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<v Speaker 2>it's a different experience with you being there in me.

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<v Speaker 2>I know, but it's all right. If I don't make it,

0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:45.959
<v Speaker 2>it is fiance won't be mad. She won't. Yeah, she

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<v Speaker 2>con miss me if I'm nothing, so I must be there.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah she has.

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<v Speaker 1>Specifically, I did learn like the day of the show

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<v Speaker 1>or the day before the show, people got tickets for

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<v Speaker 1>like much less much less expense.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm good decent seats.

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<v Speaker 1>So that tells me, like if when when the time

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<v Speaker 1>comes for the show, if I'm feeling a little, you know,

0:14:08.360 --> 0:14:11.120
<v Speaker 1>fomo left out, Okay, I'm bored, let me go do something.

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<v Speaker 2>Then I'll just buy my ticket that day. Okay, that's fine. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>We also want to say that jay Z's the lady

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<v Speaker 2>that was suing jay Z or pressing charges against jay

0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:24.640
<v Speaker 2>Z that has been thrown out. So he's acquitted not acquitted.

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<v Speaker 1>No, I don't even know, Like I mean, it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>even dismissed.

0:14:27.760 --> 0:14:29.800
<v Speaker 2>It was dismissed. Yeah, yeah, this is much of malarkey.

0:14:30.160 --> 0:14:40.600
<v Speaker 2>Yes that's what he said. It was some bo shiggitty. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>So I have a letter here. This actually was sent.

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<v Speaker 2>By the way, we have not heard from Dick Hurts,

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<v Speaker 2>and I have a feeling. Oh you missed it. No,

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<v Speaker 2>I do not, but we If you have been with

0:14:54.320 --> 0:14:56.040
<v Speaker 2>us for a while, you know that we have someone

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<v Speaker 2>that actually loves us. He likes to act like he

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<v Speaker 2>does n't, but he really loves us. His name is

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<v Speaker 2>Dick Hurtz and he sends us horrible, horrible emails, horrible,

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<v Speaker 2>and we told him he can no longer write us

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<v Speaker 2>unless he sends a picture of himself not catfish. We

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<v Speaker 2>have not heard from Dick Hurts, so we already know Dick,

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<v Speaker 2>you look crazy. Oh yes, okay, So moving on. This

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<v Speaker 2>is from Meredith Stokely and this was written a while ago.

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<v Speaker 2>This is actually written in July. She said, Hi, ladies,

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<v Speaker 2>love your show. And this is the first time I've

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<v Speaker 2>written in because Gieselle had me in stitches this week

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<v Speaker 2>when y'all were discussing deodorant products and Gazelle admitted she

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<v Speaker 2>has butt sweat. I just wanted to let Giselle know

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<v Speaker 2>that the fl term I guess the Oh, the Florida

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<v Speaker 2>term for summer butt sweat is literally called swamp as swamp.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you know this? No. I was a bit surprised

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<v Speaker 2>our Louisiana girl did not know the term. But girl,

0:16:06.160 --> 0:16:09.320
<v Speaker 2>we in Florida all know. You gotta how you feel.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a little junk in my trunk too, So

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<v Speaker 2>it's usually swampy from May to September. Oh, she got

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<v Speaker 2>a swamp ass. Give us poor Charlotte Florida girls a

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<v Speaker 2>shoutout for living daily with swamp ass and use the

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<v Speaker 2>term proudly. So I say to my Florida and Charlotte girls, listen,

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<v Speaker 2>get your swamp ass on one. Oh my gosh, I love it.

0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:38.840
<v Speaker 2>She said, keep doing what you're doing, and Robin, you'll

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<v Speaker 2>be missed on r H O P. Yes she was missed,

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<v Speaker 2>but there's something bigger coming your way. Thank you. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>many blessings. Swamp ass Meredith, all right, yes, look swamp

0:16:49.840 --> 0:16:54.960
<v Speaker 2>ass Meredith sounds like she's okay with it. I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, what can you do? I know, but it's

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<v Speaker 2>one of those it's like, really, yeah, that's what I hate.

0:17:02.280 --> 0:17:04.440
<v Speaker 2>It's like, Okay, when is cold, we're like, oh my god,

0:17:04.480 --> 0:17:06.560
<v Speaker 2>it's so cold. But then when it's hot, we're like, oh,

0:17:06.640 --> 0:17:09.320
<v Speaker 2>it's all hot. My ass is sweating, like we can't win.

0:17:09.520 --> 0:17:12.400
<v Speaker 2>But when it's sticky hot, that's a whole nother thing.

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<v Speaker 2>If it's dry hot, I'm cool with that, yeah, but

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<v Speaker 2>like underwear sticking to your ass hot is not cool,

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<v Speaker 2>not comfortable. Yeah, and so and if. But now I

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<v Speaker 2>can just say I have swampy ass. Yes, yes, that's

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<v Speaker 2>what I'm gonna say. So, thank you, Meredith. I will

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<v Speaker 2>be changing my terms. I will be swamp ass up

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<v Speaker 2>with your swamp ass. Yes, and I always say because

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<v Speaker 2>me and my mom says that, like people are putting

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<v Speaker 2>like deodorant down there butt crack. So maybe I'll try it. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>see if it works, yeah for swampy ass. Meredith, you

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<v Speaker 2>tried to report back, got back Okay. So I have

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<v Speaker 2>a email.

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<v Speaker 1>From Yvette Martinez and the subject is Robin Doppelganger. She said, Hello, ladies, Robin,

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<v Speaker 1>I found your doppo Ganger while watching The Bold and

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<v Speaker 1>the Beautiful. Please see attached photo. Having a wonderful day.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell me do you think this is my doppleganger, and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know who this person. She didn't tell me Beautiful. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>is this my dapple ganger?

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<v Speaker 2>So I have seen her on Beautiful? Yeah, I've seen

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<v Speaker 2>her on like sometimes my TV's on. I've seen her

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<v Speaker 2>and I didn't think she's very pretty, very very pretty.

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<v Speaker 2>But I don't think you only because we gotta we

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<v Speaker 2>gotta find out her name.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm showing this to our YouTubers.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, only because well maybe if she had blonde hair,

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<v Speaker 2>maybe all right, let me find her name because she

0:18:36.000 --> 0:18:39.760
<v Speaker 2>has green eyes. She does, or if I had dark,

0:18:39.840 --> 0:18:43.160
<v Speaker 2>dark hair, all right. So but she she is very

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<v Speaker 2>pretty and she's I don't know if this is her

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<v Speaker 2>real accent, but on the show she has like a

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<v Speaker 2>British accent. Yes, so she's like sexy. Oh yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>all right, let me see. I'm doing a Google picture

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<v Speaker 2>reverse search of her Google lens. Did you know you

0:19:03.119 --> 0:19:05.679
<v Speaker 2>can do that? No? Did have no clue. Okay, So

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<v Speaker 2>so here's a little a little t for you. Sometimes,

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<v Speaker 2>like if you see something online and you're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>like like say it's an outfit someone's wearing, and.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, oh, I really like her outfit. Say I

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<v Speaker 1>really like her outfit, right, Okay, she must be French.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe murrayel Hilaire's name, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Mary L h lea very pretty? Does she have

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<v Speaker 2>any pictures of her with lighter hair? Hold on, I'm

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<v Speaker 2>looking hold on? OKAYR What did I just say? Her

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<v Speaker 2>name was Mary l Helene Hilaire And maybe we can

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<v Speaker 2>put some blonde hair on her and see if she

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<v Speaker 2>then becomes it looks like me? Yes, okay, see like this, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that doesn't look like me. All right, But the name

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<v Speaker 2>that it's spelled, M you are if you guys want

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<v Speaker 2>to look it up and give us your opinion, M

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<v Speaker 2>you are I E L L E and last name

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<v Speaker 2>Hilaire h I L A I R E. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>this looks nothing like me. Yeah, but she's super pretty like.

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<v Speaker 1>This one picture, this picture I could see like where

0:20:04.680 --> 0:20:07.440
<v Speaker 1>you could be Like, okay, maybe, but like these.

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<v Speaker 2>Pictures that I'm googling. Yeah, I don't see it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, y'all not even the same family. Yeah, all right, y'all,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not in the same tribe, right, No, no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>we're not related.

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<v Speaker 1>No, okay, all right, So anyway, I was telling you

0:20:22.320 --> 0:20:24.800
<v Speaker 1>about Google lens. So if you see something, you're like, oh,

0:20:24.840 --> 0:20:26.760
<v Speaker 1>I want to know where that person bought that or whatever,

0:20:26.880 --> 0:20:29.520
<v Speaker 1>or I want a dupe or whatever. So you like

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<v Speaker 1>take a picture of it or screenshot it. Then you

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<v Speaker 1>open it in Google Photos. You have Google Photos maybe okay,

0:20:37.119 --> 0:20:39.600
<v Speaker 1>if you don't download it, you open it, open it

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<v Speaker 1>in Google Photos. And then they have a feature called lens,

0:20:44.920 --> 0:20:48.840
<v Speaker 1>So you click on lens and it'll like pull up

0:20:49.320 --> 0:20:52.040
<v Speaker 1>pictures that are like similar, similar, and then you can

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<v Speaker 1>click on the link. Let me find one that has

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<v Speaker 1>like an outfit where I can show you like it

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<v Speaker 1>and then.

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<v Speaker 2>You can buy it. And then this is dangerous. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>So here's there's a picture of a drift. Okay, all right,

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<v Speaker 2>are you Are you wearing that dress? It was one

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<v Speaker 2>of my options for for the Traders re union? Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>but I'm not wearing this one.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, so then it like did they okay, it

0:21:10.359 --> 0:21:10.840
<v Speaker 1>pulls up?

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<v Speaker 2>I love that dress? I love that yeah. Okay. So

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<v Speaker 2>your Traders reunion, which you've already done, Yes, did they

0:21:18.560 --> 0:21:21.520
<v Speaker 2>give you guys a theme? No? They said where whatever

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<v Speaker 2>you want? No freaking way. Yeah, So so you'll probably

0:21:25.680 --> 0:21:28.639
<v Speaker 2>have like, you know, well, do they want you to

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<v Speaker 2>be glam. They don't tell you anything. They just say,

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<v Speaker 2>we're having no reunion from X time to X time. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>wow etime on this day. I don't like, I don't

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<v Speaker 2>know what time, but yeah. But yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>So it's like, so I can't really speak on the

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<v Speaker 1>one season three one, but like just so I looked

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<v Speaker 1>up season two reunions okay, yeah, and it was like

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<v Speaker 1>the gamut of what people wore.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, you know, was anybody like background I bought, like,

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<v Speaker 2>you know.

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<v Speaker 1>So you had like Phaser that had like a beaded dress,

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<v Speaker 1>one that was like glam, and then you had you know,

0:22:01.520 --> 0:22:03.800
<v Speaker 1>Tamra who just had more of like a long dress

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<v Speaker 1>but more subtle.

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<v Speaker 2>You had another lady that had like maybe like a

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<v Speaker 2>cocktail dress that was just kind of basic like yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>Then you have guys that are just in like a

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<v Speaker 2>blazer and jeans, and then yeah, and then you had

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<v Speaker 2>one of the drag queens what was her name, damn,

0:22:24.080 --> 0:22:27.560
<v Speaker 2>Peppermint Peppermint, and Peppermint had on this big oh you

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<v Speaker 2>already no, no, she can't with it? Yeah, Okay. For me,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, okay, this doesn't help. I'm like, what am

0:22:34.119 --> 0:22:36.879
<v Speaker 2>I doing? I don't know? So I just like, yeah, okay,

0:22:36.960 --> 0:22:39.680
<v Speaker 2>so do they say does everybody come out and sit

0:22:39.760 --> 0:22:42.360
<v Speaker 2>out together at the same time or do they bring

0:22:42.359 --> 0:22:46.520
<v Speaker 2>you guys out. Wait, it's a combination. Okay, okay, I'm

0:22:46.520 --> 0:22:49.040
<v Speaker 2>looking forward to it. Yeah, I can't wait. I actually

0:22:49.040 --> 0:22:51.760
<v Speaker 2>have to admit I stopped watching because you were murdered.

0:22:51.840 --> 0:22:56.159
<v Speaker 2>Really yes, yes, and I was mad about it, so

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<v Speaker 2>I actually in protest decided I'm done. Yeah, I know,

0:23:01.960 --> 0:23:06.280
<v Speaker 2>I was protesting. By the way, Speaking of things to watch, Okay,

0:23:06.359 --> 0:23:09.600
<v Speaker 2>did we talk about Harlem with Yeah? Making good? With

0:23:09.720 --> 0:23:13.280
<v Speaker 2>Making Good? So they have their third seasons out and

0:23:13.320 --> 0:23:17.080
<v Speaker 2>it's their last season. So good. I mean, mind you, guys,

0:23:17.080 --> 0:23:20.679
<v Speaker 2>this is entertainment. This is like, don't get too involved

0:23:20.880 --> 0:23:24.240
<v Speaker 2>with like storyline and all that. But it's just so good.

0:23:24.320 --> 0:23:26.520
<v Speaker 2>It's kind of like a version of like Sex and

0:23:26.600 --> 0:23:29.200
<v Speaker 2>the City, but with like, you know, all black girls.

0:23:29.200 --> 0:23:29.960
<v Speaker 2>It's just really good.

0:23:30.040 --> 0:23:31.760
<v Speaker 1>I've seen like promos for it, and I'm like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I want to watch it, and I just never get.

0:23:33.200 --> 0:23:34.960
<v Speaker 2>You never watched it from the beginning. Oh you should

0:23:34.960 --> 0:23:37.360
<v Speaker 2>watch it. Okay, Yeah, I actually want to think might

0:23:37.440 --> 0:23:40.760
<v Speaker 2>like it too a little bit. Yeah, Like one of

0:23:40.800 --> 0:23:45.280
<v Speaker 2>the girls is dating NBA guy. He doesn't believe in monogamy,

0:23:45.400 --> 0:23:46.760
<v Speaker 2>that kind of thing. Yeah, so this is a lot

0:23:46.760 --> 0:23:51.040
<v Speaker 2>going on. Yeah, yes, get into it. Okay. So, so,

0:23:51.119 --> 0:23:56.840
<v Speaker 2>speaking of our dating situation in life, I want to

0:23:57.160 --> 0:24:02.879
<v Speaker 2>read this letter from Josh Thomas because we're still matchmaking,

0:24:03.560 --> 0:24:06.240
<v Speaker 2>y'all sending stuff in. Yes, we're having somebody. Y'all send

0:24:06.280 --> 0:24:08.680
<v Speaker 2>so much shit in that we need to get somebody

0:24:08.760 --> 0:24:10.679
<v Speaker 2>to like go through it. Yeah, we gotta give real

0:24:10.760 --> 0:24:13.120
<v Speaker 2>organized chat. But we're coming. We're coming. We're gonna match off.

0:24:13.200 --> 0:24:15.960
<v Speaker 2>We're going to match all real good. Okay, So Joh says, Hi, there,

0:24:16.200 --> 0:24:19.360
<v Speaker 2>a friend just sent me your Instagram post about your

0:24:19.560 --> 0:24:23.040
<v Speaker 2>new matchmaking service, and I figured you couldn't do any

0:24:23.119 --> 0:24:26.120
<v Speaker 2>worse then I've been. Oh, I couldn't do any worse

0:24:26.119 --> 0:24:28.520
<v Speaker 2>that I've been doing trying to find a boyfriend. So

0:24:28.920 --> 0:24:31.800
<v Speaker 2>here we are, I said. His name is Josh, she's

0:24:31.840 --> 0:24:35.440
<v Speaker 2>forty four and currently in Minneapolis. Okay, so this is

0:24:35.440 --> 0:24:39.480
<v Speaker 2>for our Minneapolis people, or not really, but anywhere anywhere. Yeah.

0:24:39.560 --> 0:24:43.000
<v Speaker 2>At this point, I like music, staying active, hanging out

0:24:43.040 --> 0:24:46.840
<v Speaker 2>with friends, and relaxing with my cat Ali. For work,

0:24:46.880 --> 0:24:49.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm an associate creative director for a software company and

0:24:49.280 --> 0:24:52.480
<v Speaker 2>I'm working on also getting my personal training and nutrition

0:24:52.640 --> 0:24:56.720
<v Speaker 2>coaching license. As for what I'm looking for, I'd love

0:24:56.760 --> 0:25:00.520
<v Speaker 2>to find sweet, fun, cute guide to do life with. Basically,

0:25:00.920 --> 0:25:03.520
<v Speaker 2>I like guys who equally enjoyed going out and staying

0:25:03.560 --> 0:25:07.399
<v Speaker 2>in and who also enjoy fitness as it's such a

0:25:07.440 --> 0:25:11.679
<v Speaker 2>big part of my life. I've even recently started competing

0:25:11.800 --> 0:25:15.760
<v Speaker 2>in physique bodybuilding competitions. Ooh, so he is fit. Okay,

0:25:16.160 --> 0:25:18.399
<v Speaker 2>I like that, love it. No hang ups on age,

0:25:18.480 --> 0:25:21.080
<v Speaker 2>hair color, or race, but some well kept facial hair

0:25:21.119 --> 0:25:24.960
<v Speaker 2>and tattoos are a huge plus. Okay. Also, anybody who

0:25:25.400 --> 0:25:29.320
<v Speaker 2>didn't vote blue in our most recent election won't be

0:25:29.359 --> 0:25:34.960
<v Speaker 2>a match for me. Okay, I've attached a few recent picks.

0:25:34.960 --> 0:25:38.560
<v Speaker 2>Feel free to check out the Instagram. Thank you and

0:25:38.560 --> 0:25:40.600
<v Speaker 2>I appreciate your help. Doesella and Robin want to give

0:25:41.359 --> 0:25:44.639
<v Speaker 2>in my search for a new favorite plus one? Okay? So,

0:25:44.720 --> 0:25:47.560
<v Speaker 2>and his name is Josh Thomas. So if that speaks

0:25:47.600 --> 0:25:50.160
<v Speaker 2>to you, yes, let us know, yeah right in, Yeah,

0:25:50.280 --> 0:25:52.840
<v Speaker 2>say I want to up with Josh. Yeah, Josh, who's

0:25:52.840 --> 0:25:53.800
<v Speaker 2>the bodybuilding Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so I have a question since we're along lines

0:25:55.960 --> 0:25:58.520
<v Speaker 1>of like dating and stuff. Yes, my favorite subject is

0:25:58.560 --> 0:26:01.840
<v Speaker 1>not necessarily just dating. Just when you go out to

0:26:01.880 --> 0:26:03.159
<v Speaker 1>dinner with other people.

0:26:04.119 --> 0:26:04.680
<v Speaker 2>Is this a date?

0:26:04.840 --> 0:26:06.200
<v Speaker 1>No, it doesn't have to be. That's what I'm saying,

0:26:06.280 --> 0:26:07.600
<v Speaker 1>Like it can be a day, it doesn't have to be.

0:26:09.680 --> 0:26:14.560
<v Speaker 1>Have you ever had experienced anyone asking the waiter for

0:26:14.600 --> 0:26:16.720
<v Speaker 1>a cup of hot water so that they can put

0:26:16.760 --> 0:26:19.920
<v Speaker 1>their silverware into the cup of hot water to clean it.

0:26:20.040 --> 0:26:23.520
<v Speaker 2>No, no, you haven't, have you this is something you did.

0:26:23.720 --> 0:26:24.359
<v Speaker 2>You did that.

0:26:24.960 --> 0:26:30.479
<v Speaker 1>No, this is something that one did and does sometimes does.

0:26:30.680 --> 0:26:32.119
<v Speaker 1>So he did it, so he doesn't do it as

0:26:32.200 --> 0:26:34.080
<v Speaker 1>much now now that like we're older and we go

0:26:34.320 --> 0:26:38.440
<v Speaker 1>like nicer restaurants. Oh okay, But like when I first

0:26:38.480 --> 0:26:41.280
<v Speaker 1>met him, and for a long long time, it didn't

0:26:41.320 --> 0:26:44.440
<v Speaker 1>like whenever we would be out at a restaurant, it's

0:26:44.520 --> 0:26:46.520
<v Speaker 1>like can I get a Can I get a can I.

0:26:46.480 --> 0:26:48.320
<v Speaker 2>Get a cup of hot water? And they'd be like yeah, sure,

0:26:48.760 --> 0:26:51.320
<v Speaker 2>I'm like okay, what's this work? Yeah? And then hot

0:26:51.320 --> 0:26:54.119
<v Speaker 2>water comes and then he takes the silverware and dumps

0:26:54.119 --> 0:26:56.960
<v Speaker 2>it in, puts it in the hot water. Okay, because

0:26:57.119 --> 0:26:59.640
<v Speaker 2>you know, he doesn't trust that the silverware is clean,

0:27:01.560 --> 0:27:04.159
<v Speaker 2>And so for me, I'm like it makes sense. I

0:27:04.320 --> 0:27:07.879
<v Speaker 2>get it, yes, but it's just so like, oh, like

0:27:08.000 --> 0:27:10.159
<v Speaker 2>I don't. I don't. I'm like why, Like it's like

0:27:10.200 --> 0:27:12.280
<v Speaker 2>I don't want to use the word ghetto. It's like

0:27:13.720 --> 0:27:15.400
<v Speaker 2>we can't use that on ghetto. I mean, I don't

0:27:15.400 --> 0:27:17.440
<v Speaker 2>know what do we call it. It's just like no,

0:27:17.840 --> 0:27:20.720
<v Speaker 2>like why why are you doing this? Why are you

0:27:20.760 --> 0:27:21.440
<v Speaker 2>doing this? Sir?

0:27:22.480 --> 0:27:24.359
<v Speaker 1>Be at like a nice restaurant or a restaurant and

0:27:24.400 --> 0:27:26.480
<v Speaker 1>he asks for plastic plastic?

0:27:26.520 --> 0:27:29.760
<v Speaker 2>What forks and eyes? Why because it's in the plastic

0:27:30.080 --> 0:27:32.920
<v Speaker 2>because he's a germophobe or you know, like you can't

0:27:32.960 --> 0:27:34.760
<v Speaker 2>for him? Does it? Does he has he ever talked

0:27:34.760 --> 0:27:37.720
<v Speaker 2>about therapist about this. He will get more sick from

0:27:37.760 --> 0:27:41.119
<v Speaker 2>the food, right than the utensils. I just need for

0:27:41.200 --> 0:27:41.520
<v Speaker 2>him to know.

0:27:41.560 --> 0:27:44.600
<v Speaker 1>But when you think about it, think about it, the

0:27:44.720 --> 0:27:47.000
<v Speaker 1>utensils and the plates in the in the city. That's

0:27:47.000 --> 0:27:48.480
<v Speaker 1>when you just start going and it's like deep dive

0:27:48.600 --> 0:27:49.919
<v Speaker 1>the cups, the glasses.

0:27:50.000 --> 0:27:53.679
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, you don't know who's been using this stuff. No,

0:27:54.000 --> 0:27:56.520
<v Speaker 2>you don't know how well it's been Why No, but

0:27:56.600 --> 0:27:59.160
<v Speaker 2>you don't. But again, he'll get more sick from the

0:27:59.160 --> 0:28:03.240
<v Speaker 2>food and the preparation of the food as opposed to

0:28:03.320 --> 0:28:07.000
<v Speaker 2>the plates, the cups, the forks, the knives. True, so

0:28:07.280 --> 0:28:09.160
<v Speaker 2>he needs to know that. Okay, so if a man

0:28:09.200 --> 0:28:11.240
<v Speaker 2>did that, if you're on a date, yeah, so Jesus

0:28:11.359 --> 0:28:14.639
<v Speaker 2>and a man did that. Yeah, okay, Well, first of all,

0:28:14.640 --> 0:28:16.959
<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to like a booty restaurant. No, No, you're

0:28:16.960 --> 0:28:19.080
<v Speaker 2>at a good rest a nice restaurant. You at a

0:28:19.160 --> 0:28:22.360
<v Speaker 2>nice restaurant. And I'm on a date with wine walk

0:28:22.800 --> 0:28:27.000
<v Speaker 2>it's our first date. Why am not going on my

0:28:27.080 --> 0:28:30.600
<v Speaker 2>first day? And he asked the guy for the waiter

0:28:30.720 --> 0:28:33.480
<v Speaker 2>for a hot water and then I see him take

0:28:34.240 --> 0:28:37.359
<v Speaker 2>his utensils and slam them into the cup of our water.

0:28:37.840 --> 0:28:42.520
<v Speaker 2>But yes, that's probably our last date. Yes, no question,

0:28:43.000 --> 0:28:45.240
<v Speaker 2>because I'll be like what are you doing? What are

0:28:45.240 --> 0:28:46.840
<v Speaker 2>you doing? And like what else are you going to

0:28:46.880 --> 0:28:50.000
<v Speaker 2>be doing? Right? And like okay, and I'm okay, let

0:28:50.040 --> 0:28:52.240
<v Speaker 2>me just say this. I there might be times where,

0:28:52.440 --> 0:28:54.680
<v Speaker 2>unique to him, I know other people that do it. Okay,

0:28:54.720 --> 0:28:57.040
<v Speaker 2>we're gonna take wine out of this, but there are

0:28:57.040 --> 0:29:00.280
<v Speaker 2>times where like I'm not like, let's say it's a

0:29:00.320 --> 0:29:03.520
<v Speaker 2>passionate moment and it's just like I mean, like all

0:29:03.600 --> 0:29:06.680
<v Speaker 2>day sweat. Yeah, weeks, we're getting it on, like this

0:29:06.840 --> 0:29:09.920
<v Speaker 2>person that takes the hot water and sixty's utensils, then

0:29:09.960 --> 0:29:12.400
<v Speaker 2>it might require that I take a shower before you

0:29:12.520 --> 0:29:15.600
<v Speaker 2>get it on. But but like if it's a hot,

0:29:15.640 --> 0:29:18.040
<v Speaker 2>sexy moment, like I don't want him to be like, oh,

0:29:18.120 --> 0:29:20.600
<v Speaker 2>go jump in the shower right yet No, right, that

0:29:20.640 --> 0:29:23.600
<v Speaker 2>would piss me off. Okay, Okay, yeah, I mean I

0:29:23.720 --> 0:29:26.360
<v Speaker 2>understand where you're going with that. Yes, let's just be

0:29:26.440 --> 0:29:29.600
<v Speaker 2>in the moment. Yes, And I mean I mean I'm

0:29:29.640 --> 0:29:34.000
<v Speaker 2>normally clean, right, yes, But if that person is like

0:29:34.800 --> 0:29:38.240
<v Speaker 2>with you, like clearly they know you, they trust you,

0:29:38.600 --> 0:29:40.840
<v Speaker 2>like you know, they're willing to I mean I feel

0:29:40.880 --> 0:29:43.120
<v Speaker 2>like if you're willing to like kiss somebody, then like, yeah,

0:29:43.160 --> 0:29:46.160
<v Speaker 2>the germ thing is not an issue true. So so

0:29:46.280 --> 0:29:49.120
<v Speaker 2>like I don't think that I don't really relate the two. Okay,

0:29:49.160 --> 0:29:52.080
<v Speaker 2>I don't think they apply. It's more on like I

0:29:52.080 --> 0:29:54.760
<v Speaker 2>don't know who was here eating, drinking or you know,

0:29:54.840 --> 0:29:58.360
<v Speaker 2>using the Does he deal with hotels? He hates them

0:29:58.800 --> 0:30:01.680
<v Speaker 2>because somebody has slept in that? Yeah? Okay, yeah, I

0:30:01.680 --> 0:30:04.360
<v Speaker 2>mean the whole thing it's it's it's a it's a production,

0:30:04.640 --> 0:30:07.000
<v Speaker 2>it's and I'm kind of like that too, like as

0:30:07.000 --> 0:30:08.920
<v Speaker 2>soon as we step foot in the hotel, it's we

0:30:09.080 --> 0:30:13.120
<v Speaker 2>are wiping spring everything. Okay, and yes, and it is.

0:30:13.320 --> 0:30:16.120
<v Speaker 2>And we don't walk barefoot. We don't you know, we

0:30:16.160 --> 0:30:19.440
<v Speaker 2>don't really touch anything type of stuff. Okay. So it's

0:30:19.440 --> 0:30:22.040
<v Speaker 2>a it's a thing, it's a production. Okay, all right,

0:30:22.160 --> 0:30:24.880
<v Speaker 2>So we don't feel like we need therapy for this, No,

0:30:25.360 --> 0:30:27.760
<v Speaker 2>the Dixons not because we don't just send one. We're

0:30:27.800 --> 0:30:31.760
<v Speaker 2>sitting both of you, okay, maybe even Corey like, oh

0:30:31.840 --> 0:30:33.959
<v Speaker 2>oh yeah, my kids do, ye, yeah, they don't. All

0:30:34.080 --> 0:30:36.840
<v Speaker 2>y'all are going together. Yeah, we we're all like, yeah,

0:30:37.200 --> 0:30:39.040
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna send a person to the house, so y'all

0:30:39.080 --> 0:30:40.400
<v Speaker 2>don't have to, like because we know you don't want

0:30:40.400 --> 0:30:44.000
<v Speaker 2>to leave, so right, but that's in our house. So

0:30:44.040 --> 0:30:46.640
<v Speaker 2>it's more like we gotta but y'all have to venture

0:30:46.640 --> 0:30:49.520
<v Speaker 2>out at some point. Yeah. Yeah, so you have to

0:30:49.520 --> 0:30:53.480
<v Speaker 2>be comfortable venturing out. I know. I'm sitting a therapist over. Yeah,

0:30:53.560 --> 0:30:56.120
<v Speaker 2>that's gonna be my Christmas your birthday present. Okay, great,

0:30:56.200 --> 0:31:07.640
<v Speaker 2>thank you, And the therapy is for the entire freaking family. Okay.

0:31:07.640 --> 0:31:10.520
<v Speaker 2>Do you have any other questions? I might okay, because

0:31:10.520 --> 0:31:13.640
<v Speaker 2>that was a doozy. Yes, while you're looking that up,

0:31:14.280 --> 0:31:17.800
<v Speaker 2>I want to read that. Hi, Robin and Joseille. My

0:31:17.880 --> 0:31:21.760
<v Speaker 2>name is Andrea Anderson by the way, Okay, can we pause? Yeah?

0:31:21.800 --> 0:31:24.680
<v Speaker 2>What exactly does a doozy mean? That's a doozy? Yeah?

0:31:25.400 --> 0:31:28.800
<v Speaker 2>What exactly does that mean? That's big? Doozy is big?

0:31:28.960 --> 0:31:31.840
<v Speaker 2>So I feel like sometimes it's like bad and sometimes

0:31:31.840 --> 0:31:34.760
<v Speaker 2>it's good. That's a doozy, you know what I mean?

0:31:34.880 --> 0:31:38.040
<v Speaker 2>Like it was a doozy. It could be it's howthic,

0:31:38.080 --> 0:31:41.360
<v Speaker 2>it's how you use it. Yeah, but it's a big thing. Okay, Yeah,

0:31:41.480 --> 0:31:45.560
<v Speaker 2>it's a big situation, right right. I guess I don't know,

0:31:45.600 --> 0:31:48.440
<v Speaker 2>but I feel like sometimes it's like, oh, that was

0:31:48.640 --> 0:31:51.440
<v Speaker 2>that was a doozy? Yes, yeah, which was, but it

0:31:51.480 --> 0:31:54.760
<v Speaker 2>was whatever you're referring to is a big Yeah. I'm

0:31:54.760 --> 0:31:57.520
<v Speaker 2>like I want to I want like, okay, something unique, Okay,

0:31:57.560 --> 0:32:02.880
<v Speaker 2>something outstanding or unique of it's kind. Yeah, big large

0:32:03.160 --> 0:32:05.400
<v Speaker 2>penises Okay, moving.

0:32:05.120 --> 0:32:09.040
<v Speaker 1>On, extraordinary, unusual, or unprecedented okay.

0:32:09.240 --> 0:32:09.400
<v Speaker 2>Oh.

0:32:09.520 --> 0:32:11.920
<v Speaker 1>It can be used to describe something that is good

0:32:12.200 --> 0:32:12.720
<v Speaker 1>or bad.

0:32:12.880 --> 0:32:20.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, or big penises okay, anyway, this is the counseling

0:32:21.480 --> 0:32:27.360
<v Speaker 2>Greek dates subject is dating. Oh, Okay, there's another dating

0:32:27.360 --> 0:32:30.320
<v Speaker 2>one because we got to give y'all people to figure

0:32:30.360 --> 0:32:31.800
<v Speaker 2>out whether or not you want to be with them. Okay,

0:32:31.960 --> 0:32:33.920
<v Speaker 2>So this is Hey, Robin and Gioselle. My name is

0:32:33.960 --> 0:32:38.000
<v Speaker 2>Andrea Anderson, and I'm fifty nine years old living in

0:32:39.040 --> 0:32:43.360
<v Speaker 2>charl Carrollton, Virginia, which is fifteen to twenty minutes from Hampton.

0:32:43.440 --> 0:32:46.600
<v Speaker 2>Newport News. Y'all know I know about Hampton. I'm a

0:32:46.680 --> 0:32:50.479
<v Speaker 2>professional school counselor in Newport News Public School District. As

0:32:50.480 --> 0:32:53.480
<v Speaker 2>well as starting my e commerce business online. I'm interested

0:32:53.520 --> 0:32:56.520
<v Speaker 2>in dating within and outside of my race, preferably with

0:32:56.680 --> 0:33:00.479
<v Speaker 2>men who are fifty five to sixty five, okay, that

0:33:00.560 --> 0:33:02.480
<v Speaker 2>are easy on the eyes and take care of their

0:33:02.520 --> 0:33:06.120
<v Speaker 2>bodies like I do. Thank you, ladies. So if you're

0:33:06.160 --> 0:33:11.320
<v Speaker 2>easy on the eyes, if you are available, because like,

0:33:11.400 --> 0:33:14.040
<v Speaker 2>don't be coming trying to date somebody and you got

0:33:14.080 --> 0:33:18.560
<v Speaker 2>like a wife in three side chicks like no. So

0:33:18.600 --> 0:33:22.280
<v Speaker 2>if you're available then and you live in like the

0:33:22.320 --> 0:33:25.240
<v Speaker 2>Newport News Hampton area, then let us know so we

0:33:25.280 --> 0:33:27.520
<v Speaker 2>can hook you up with Andrea. Okay, and we'll say,

0:33:27.560 --> 0:33:30.160
<v Speaker 2>man between fifty five and sixty five, fifty five to

0:33:30.360 --> 0:33:33.720
<v Speaker 2>sixty five, yeah, all right, or if you know a man, yeah,

0:33:34.040 --> 0:33:36.080
<v Speaker 2>so if you five, that's single one looking, if you

0:33:36.120 --> 0:33:42.640
<v Speaker 2>weren't married, what would your range be for you to date? Hmmm?

0:33:45.640 --> 0:33:52.880
<v Speaker 2>It would probably be forty and up forty to like

0:33:53.000 --> 0:33:58.040
<v Speaker 2>sixty maybe, okay, forty to fifty two? Why fifty two

0:33:58.240 --> 0:34:01.160
<v Speaker 2>because fifty three is too old? Don't joking?

0:34:03.360 --> 0:34:07.320
<v Speaker 1>Okay, because okay, because fifty two is like pushing it

0:34:07.360 --> 0:34:11.440
<v Speaker 1>for me. So yeah, okay, I think why, I don't know,

0:34:11.640 --> 0:34:17.279
<v Speaker 1>I mean, okay, okay, maybe maybe fifty five, fifty two okay, three, okay, fine,

0:34:17.320 --> 0:34:20.040
<v Speaker 1>fifty five okay, fine, all right, forty to fifty five?

0:34:20.040 --> 0:34:23.359
<v Speaker 2>All right. What if he was like thirty eight hmm,

0:34:23.960 --> 0:34:27.400
<v Speaker 2>and he did be on probation, he'd be on probation, yeah, okay,

0:34:27.680 --> 0:34:30.480
<v Speaker 2>he might get fired, yeah, okay, yeah, yeah he would. Yeah,

0:34:30.480 --> 0:34:32.440
<v Speaker 2>he'd be on like, yeah, it would be probation. And

0:34:32.480 --> 0:34:35.520
<v Speaker 2>for how long is probation? Six months a year? Ninety

0:34:35.600 --> 0:34:40.359
<v Speaker 2>days at least six months, at least six months? Yeah, okay, yeah,

0:34:40.400 --> 0:34:42.080
<v Speaker 2>I feel that. I like that. Yeah. So I'm not

0:34:42.120 --> 0:34:44.040
<v Speaker 2>saying like I wouldn't talk to a thirty eight year old,

0:34:44.080 --> 0:34:46.239
<v Speaker 2>but I would n't take him seriously, you know, it

0:34:46.239 --> 0:34:48.480
<v Speaker 2>would just be like, you know, you kind of hang

0:34:48.480 --> 0:34:52.280
<v Speaker 2>out or whatever, and yeah, have zero expectations, zero expectations,

0:34:52.360 --> 0:34:57.279
<v Speaker 2>just sex, yeah, sure, okay, and companionship in going to

0:34:57.320 --> 0:34:59.480
<v Speaker 2>the movies that you don't go to. Yeah, okay, all right,

0:34:59.760 --> 0:35:03.239
<v Speaker 2>very speaking of married and kids and all that type

0:35:03.280 --> 0:35:07.640
<v Speaker 2>of stuff. Yeah, we have a scenario, oh okay that

0:35:07.760 --> 0:35:10.720
<v Speaker 2>somebody emailed us. Okay, one of our favorites may shout

0:35:10.719 --> 0:35:13.279
<v Speaker 2>out to me me maybe this is a what would

0:35:13.280 --> 0:35:16.439
<v Speaker 2>you do? Scenario? This is not her scenario, but maybe

0:35:16.560 --> 0:35:20.680
<v Speaker 2>Lyon maybe Lion because it's hard, sir. She's always sending

0:35:20.760 --> 0:35:23.399
<v Speaker 2>us these good scenarios. Okay, but this is an interesting one,

0:35:23.400 --> 0:35:23.800
<v Speaker 2>I thought.

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<v Speaker 1>So the title reads, my husband is mourning his dead mistress.

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<v Speaker 2>What okay? By the way, do you ever come across

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<v Speaker 2>on Instagram people are like they're like sharing these stories. Yes,

0:35:36.960 --> 0:35:39.760
<v Speaker 2>and when you're when they're sharing them, you're like, damn,

0:35:40.000 --> 0:35:42.080
<v Speaker 2>like girl, you got a lot going on? Yeah, like

0:35:42.120 --> 0:35:44.840
<v Speaker 2>what's going on? And then you realize like they're reading

0:35:45.320 --> 0:35:49.200
<v Speaker 2>other people's stories. No, so like every so, so they're

0:35:49.280 --> 0:35:51.359
<v Speaker 2>they're and this is probably where it's coming from. They're

0:35:51.400 --> 0:35:52.359
<v Speaker 2>like Reddit.

0:35:52.160 --> 0:35:55.960
<v Speaker 1>Posts or stories from Reddit, and the person is reading

0:35:56.000 --> 0:35:59.280
<v Speaker 1>it like it's like them. Yeah, but it's like story time.

0:36:00.080 --> 0:36:02.320
<v Speaker 2>Okay, because and then if you so, if you scroll

0:36:02.360 --> 0:36:04.839
<v Speaker 2>their page, then they're reading another story time and it's

0:36:04.840 --> 0:36:07.279
<v Speaker 2>like a completely different story. Okay, because this girl, because

0:36:07.280 --> 0:36:09.680
<v Speaker 2>I was on a deep dive with this girl that

0:36:10.440 --> 0:36:13.680
<v Speaker 2>knew that her husband was cheating and he was with

0:36:13.719 --> 0:36:15.680
<v Speaker 2>his mistress when he said he kept going on these

0:36:15.719 --> 0:36:19.040
<v Speaker 2>work trips. So that was all fake. So it's probably

0:36:19.120 --> 0:36:21.799
<v Speaker 2>not really her. She's it's like story she's having story time.

0:36:21.960 --> 0:36:25.719
<v Speaker 2>She's reading someone else, really story. I listened to the

0:36:25.719 --> 0:36:27.600
<v Speaker 2>whole thing, right, and then she said, okay, stay tuned

0:36:27.600 --> 0:36:29.840
<v Speaker 2>for what's gonna happen when they when they land, I

0:36:29.880 --> 0:36:31.920
<v Speaker 2>stay tuned. I tried to scroll to figure out, like

0:36:31.960 --> 0:36:34.680
<v Speaker 2>what happened, but I couldn't get that information. Okay, so

0:36:34.719 --> 0:36:36.839
<v Speaker 2>maybe it was story time with story time. Okay, y'all

0:36:36.880 --> 0:36:38.360
<v Speaker 2>stop doing that. Yeah, so, by the way, this is

0:36:38.360 --> 0:36:40.160
<v Speaker 2>a story time. By the way, are you ever on

0:36:40.320 --> 0:36:43.840
<v Speaker 2>read it? No? Okay? Sood I know people on Reddit

0:36:44.200 --> 0:36:47.440
<v Speaker 2>and they enjoy it because you know how X is

0:36:47.480 --> 0:36:51.280
<v Speaker 2>too toxic huh, so they say read it is better toxic,

0:36:51.320 --> 0:36:53.799
<v Speaker 2>but not as docic. Okay, but it's given you the

0:36:53.840 --> 0:36:57.200
<v Speaker 2>truth about like what's really going on with the government

0:36:57.480 --> 0:37:00.759
<v Speaker 2>and with Trump and all that. See. I feel like

0:37:01.840 --> 0:37:05.960
<v Speaker 2>Reddit sometimes when I like I google something, yeah, like search,

0:37:07.239 --> 0:37:09.760
<v Speaker 2>some of the stuff comes up from like Reddit or whatever,

0:37:09.880 --> 0:37:11.640
<v Speaker 2>like a response or whatever, and.

0:37:11.600 --> 0:37:14.279
<v Speaker 1>It just seems like Reddit can take you on this

0:37:14.440 --> 0:37:16.800
<v Speaker 1>like rabbit hole that you just can't get out of.

0:37:16.920 --> 0:37:20.520
<v Speaker 2>Okay, probably probably. Yeah. Well they was entertaining trying to

0:37:20.560 --> 0:37:26.600
<v Speaker 2>find out thread. Yeah, and oh that's intriguing. Okay, that's interesting. Yeah, okay,

0:37:26.600 --> 0:37:28.160
<v Speaker 2>all right, Okay, Yeah, I'm sure there's a lot. Yeah,

0:37:28.160 --> 0:37:30.680
<v Speaker 2>I'm sure we're missing out. I heard that people talk

0:37:30.680 --> 0:37:33.719
<v Speaker 2>about you know, us on Reddit a lot too, like

0:37:33.800 --> 0:37:37.920
<v Speaker 2>just reality people in general. Okay, like, yeah, I don't

0:37:37.920 --> 0:37:39.640
<v Speaker 2>know people like oh yeah, they always talking about you

0:37:39.640 --> 0:37:42.839
<v Speaker 2>on Reddit. Oh okay, yeah I don't have Reddit. Yeah,

0:37:42.880 --> 0:37:44.400
<v Speaker 2>I'm not gonna there. Okay.

0:37:45.080 --> 0:37:48.120
<v Speaker 1>So three months ago, Yeah, the woman who was having

0:37:48.160 --> 0:37:51.680
<v Speaker 1>an affair with my husband died suddenly from an accident.

0:37:51.800 --> 0:37:54.800
<v Speaker 2>Okay that did she kill him? Kill her? Did the

0:37:54.840 --> 0:37:57.359
<v Speaker 2>wife kill the side chick? No? Okay, she said.

0:37:57.400 --> 0:37:59.920
<v Speaker 1>I found out about the affair only two days after

0:38:00.080 --> 0:38:02.960
<v Speaker 1>to her funeral. I thought she was simply a coworker,

0:38:03.000 --> 0:38:05.440
<v Speaker 1>and I was wondering why my husband was so disturbed

0:38:05.480 --> 0:38:08.600
<v Speaker 1>and emotional. He quit his job, saying it was too traumatic,

0:38:08.760 --> 0:38:11.080
<v Speaker 1>too traumatic to go to work. She was in the

0:38:11.120 --> 0:38:14.120
<v Speaker 1>early weeks of pregnancy when she died, and my husband

0:38:14.160 --> 0:38:17.239
<v Speaker 1>doesn't know whether he or her husband was the father.

0:38:17.440 --> 0:38:17.840
<v Speaker 2>Ooh.

0:38:18.040 --> 0:38:20.480
<v Speaker 1>So on top of everything, he's also grieving for a

0:38:20.480 --> 0:38:23.200
<v Speaker 1>baby which may or may not have been his. I

0:38:23.239 --> 0:38:27.279
<v Speaker 1>find it extremely difficult to be emotionally supportive when he

0:38:27.360 --> 0:38:31.400
<v Speaker 1>wakes up at three am crying and trembling. Yet I

0:38:31.400 --> 0:38:33.480
<v Speaker 1>don't have the heart to yell at him like I

0:38:33.560 --> 0:38:36.280
<v Speaker 1>want to. He says she's dead, so there's no reason

0:38:36.320 --> 0:38:39.239
<v Speaker 1>for me to feel jealous or threatened and ask for

0:38:39.360 --> 0:38:43.279
<v Speaker 1>my understanding as he grieves. We've barely talked these last

0:38:43.320 --> 0:38:45.319
<v Speaker 1>weeks because I don't know how to respond to him

0:38:45.320 --> 0:38:48.360
<v Speaker 1>when he cries and says he misses her and wishes

0:38:48.440 --> 0:38:51.360
<v Speaker 1>she were here. Then also how much he loves me

0:38:51.480 --> 0:38:54.239
<v Speaker 1>and that he never intended to leave me what. I

0:38:54.280 --> 0:38:56.560
<v Speaker 1>asked him to visit a marriage therapist together, and he

0:38:56.640 --> 0:38:58.760
<v Speaker 1>said he is not ready to work on our marriage

0:38:59.000 --> 0:39:01.880
<v Speaker 1>and thinks he needs to see a grief therapist instead.

0:39:02.640 --> 0:39:04.680
<v Speaker 1>Do I need to give him time to mourn the

0:39:04.760 --> 0:39:07.680
<v Speaker 1>loss of his mistress. Hell, or should I demand he

0:39:07.800 --> 0:39:09.680
<v Speaker 1>focused on our marriage?

0:39:11.320 --> 0:39:18.920
<v Speaker 2>Right? This is why? Okay, so is this reasonable? Shady's

0:39:18.920 --> 0:39:20.799
<v Speaker 2>that the question? No, it's what would you do? What

0:39:20.840 --> 0:39:24.200
<v Speaker 2>would you do? Okay? What would I divorce? Lase? Yes? Yeah,

0:39:24.480 --> 0:39:25.600
<v Speaker 2>this I feel.

0:39:25.280 --> 0:39:30.399
<v Speaker 1>Like you can't get You're never gonna work through this, no, like.

0:39:30.480 --> 0:39:32.960
<v Speaker 2>Ever, even though she's dead and she's quote not a

0:39:33.000 --> 0:39:36.160
<v Speaker 2>threat anymore. Like, I can't help you with your grief.

0:39:36.400 --> 0:39:39.880
<v Speaker 1>Like, so I can't be a spout a wife to you, right,

0:39:40.440 --> 0:39:42.719
<v Speaker 1>to my husband that's grieving, I can't help you.

0:39:43.160 --> 0:39:46.320
<v Speaker 2>Well, it's kind of similar to when your husband cheats

0:39:46.840 --> 0:39:50.879
<v Speaker 2>and there's a baby, Like he wants you to then

0:39:50.920 --> 0:39:53.919
<v Speaker 2>be nice to the baby, right, and I can't even

0:39:53.920 --> 0:39:56.000
<v Speaker 2>be nice to you. To you, so you got to go,

0:39:56.280 --> 0:39:58.640
<v Speaker 2>right and God bless you with the baby? Right? Yeah,

0:39:58.680 --> 0:40:01.279
<v Speaker 2>that's how I feel about this. Yeah, this is me too.

0:40:01.320 --> 0:40:05.040
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, yeah, no, like, forget working on the marriage.

0:40:05.120 --> 0:40:05.560
<v Speaker 2>I can't.

0:40:05.640 --> 0:40:10.759
<v Speaker 1>I can't even help you recover from your grief in

0:40:10.920 --> 0:40:12.240
<v Speaker 1>order to work on the marriage.

0:40:12.280 --> 0:40:14.840
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so you know, like we can't do this? No

0:40:14.960 --> 0:40:18.440
<v Speaker 2>me me? Yeah that does that mean? Yeah? Okay, so

0:40:18.480 --> 0:40:20.839
<v Speaker 2>which one I gotta ask, Mamie, tell us which one

0:40:20.840 --> 0:40:24.200
<v Speaker 2>on you are you the she's not married, she's not married,

0:40:24.320 --> 0:40:26.200
<v Speaker 2>she's not the mistress that died. Yeah, so she's got

0:40:26.239 --> 0:40:33.080
<v Speaker 2>to be the wife. Yeah ish yeah, Yeah, that was wild.

0:40:33.160 --> 0:40:34.600
<v Speaker 2>I was like, oh, this is juicy.

0:40:35.880 --> 0:40:37.920
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I have another random question.

0:40:38.040 --> 0:40:38.920
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Okay.

0:40:39.640 --> 0:40:42.640
<v Speaker 1>When you're on the phone talking to someone HM and

0:40:42.680 --> 0:40:45.320
<v Speaker 1>you get a call coming in, yeah, do you click

0:40:45.360 --> 0:40:47.040
<v Speaker 1>over or do you just let it go to voicemail

0:40:47.080 --> 0:40:48.000
<v Speaker 1>and then call the person back.

0:40:48.400 --> 0:40:50.120
<v Speaker 2>I let it go to voicemail and call the person back,

0:40:50.239 --> 0:40:52.040
<v Speaker 2>unless it's like somebody, I need to talk to you

0:40:52.160 --> 0:40:53.880
<v Speaker 2>right then I'll be like hold on a second, but

0:40:53.920 --> 0:40:56.640
<v Speaker 2>it'll be something like that's ten seconds, right, like not.

0:40:57.360 --> 0:40:59.880
<v Speaker 2>I think at this point, like I never want to

0:40:59.880 --> 0:41:03.000
<v Speaker 2>be my phone anyway. So anybody disturbing the conversation that

0:41:03.040 --> 0:41:06.399
<v Speaker 2>I really don't want to even have, can wait? Yes? Yeah, yes,

0:41:06.680 --> 0:41:09.520
<v Speaker 2>so that is like a huge issue in my house.

0:41:09.760 --> 0:41:12.600
<v Speaker 2>I want to say a huge issue, not a huge okay,

0:41:12.640 --> 0:41:15.160
<v Speaker 2>because I don't like to click over. So if I'm

0:41:15.200 --> 0:41:18.879
<v Speaker 2>on the phone with someone, I want to finish my conversation, yeah,

0:41:19.320 --> 0:41:22.120
<v Speaker 2>and then I'll call the person back, one who's calling

0:41:22.160 --> 0:41:26.400
<v Speaker 2>me right incessantly. Yes, okay, yes, you know, but he

0:41:26.680 --> 0:41:31.000
<v Speaker 2>is like he so when I do that, it drives

0:41:31.080 --> 0:41:34.000
<v Speaker 2>him crazy because he's like, just click over, just stay

0:41:34.000 --> 0:41:36.239
<v Speaker 2>hold on and click over and tell me you're gonna

0:41:36.239 --> 0:41:37.759
<v Speaker 2>call me back. And I'm like, no, like I would

0:41:37.840 --> 0:41:41.719
<v Speaker 2>rather finish my conversation, especially if the other person is

0:41:41.760 --> 0:41:44.880
<v Speaker 2>in the middle of like talking, right, So like totally,

0:41:44.920 --> 0:41:46.600
<v Speaker 2>if I'm the one that's talking, then I might be.

0:41:46.719 --> 0:41:48.560
<v Speaker 1>Like, oh wait, hold on for a second. Yeah, but

0:41:48.600 --> 0:41:50.240
<v Speaker 1>I don't like to interrupt people.

0:41:50.680 --> 0:41:53.920
<v Speaker 2>Right, right, And okay, when you do, because it's wine,

0:41:54.120 --> 0:41:57.239
<v Speaker 2>no shade to wine. But when you know that when

0:41:57.320 --> 0:42:00.920
<v Speaker 2>you click over, he's saying nothing, right, right, why are

0:42:00.960 --> 0:42:03.120
<v Speaker 2>we doing this? Right? That's why I'm like, you're just

0:42:03.120 --> 0:42:05.000
<v Speaker 2>gonna be like what are you doing? Where are you

0:42:05.080 --> 0:42:07.279
<v Speaker 2>or like what time are we picking the core up? Yes,

0:42:07.719 --> 0:42:10.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm like that's not urgent, But it's not urgent. How

0:42:10.000 --> 0:42:12.279
<v Speaker 2>about this? Wan sent a text and I'll text you

0:42:12.320 --> 0:42:14.360
<v Speaker 2>back because you can. I can talk in text. Right. No,

0:42:14.560 --> 0:42:15.719
<v Speaker 2>I don't like to do it, but I mean a

0:42:15.719 --> 0:42:19.520
<v Speaker 2>little bit, I can do that. Yeah, but yeah, no,

0:42:19.680 --> 0:42:22.160
<v Speaker 2>and because this is what you'll do because because I

0:42:22.200 --> 0:42:24.400
<v Speaker 2>know this scenario, you'd be like, oh my god, you

0:42:24.520 --> 0:42:26.680
<v Speaker 2>that wants blowing me up. I gotta go because he

0:42:26.680 --> 0:42:30.719
<v Speaker 2>didn't call four times. Just by the time stop. If

0:42:30.719 --> 0:42:34.080
<v Speaker 2>we're on the phone and the phone is like he calls,

0:42:34.120 --> 0:42:36.000
<v Speaker 2>I don't answer that, he calls back, I don't answer,

0:42:36.000 --> 0:42:38.200
<v Speaker 2>and he calls again, I'm like, all right, let me

0:42:38.520 --> 0:42:41.600
<v Speaker 2>I gotta go, gotta go, And then you click over

0:42:41.800 --> 0:42:47.280
<v Speaker 2>and he's like, Ron, what's up? Will we have for dinner? What? Boy?

0:42:49.840 --> 0:42:51.799
<v Speaker 2>I mean? I guess so I can't get mad. I've

0:42:51.800 --> 0:42:54.440
<v Speaker 2>tried to get divorced, but okay, but take him out

0:42:54.440 --> 0:42:57.920
<v Speaker 2>of it. Just in general, they're like that to my kids,

0:42:57.960 --> 0:43:00.640
<v Speaker 2>do that to me, and I'm just like, Quary will

0:43:00.640 --> 0:43:04.360
<v Speaker 2>blow me up? What is it? What is so important? Right? Nothing? Yes?

0:43:04.680 --> 0:43:06.279
<v Speaker 2>And a door will be like sitting in her bed

0:43:06.320 --> 0:43:08.279
<v Speaker 2>and she's just like, oh mom, I just want to

0:43:08.280 --> 0:43:11.600
<v Speaker 2>talk to you, yes about what? Right? I need to

0:43:11.640 --> 0:43:15.560
<v Speaker 2>know about what? Yes? Yes, Corey will blow me up

0:43:15.640 --> 0:43:18.560
<v Speaker 2>if I don't answer. But in general, if I'm on

0:43:18.600 --> 0:43:20.879
<v Speaker 2>the phone, I'm talking to someone, I want to finish

0:43:20.960 --> 0:43:25.560
<v Speaker 2>that conversation. Yeah before moving on clicking over. Yeah, No, totally,

0:43:25.960 --> 0:43:28.279
<v Speaker 2>totally it's rude. Well, it's not really rude, but it's

0:43:28.320 --> 0:43:31.640
<v Speaker 2>just like, oh yeah, it's just it's not rude, it's

0:43:31.760 --> 0:43:35.279
<v Speaker 2>just yeah, it's yeah, I just want to finish my conversation. Yeah,

0:43:36.000 --> 0:43:38.279
<v Speaker 2>to help people at our age lose their train of thought.

0:43:38.400 --> 0:43:42.520
<v Speaker 2>It's quick, quick, even with my blueberries quick. I'm like,

0:43:42.520 --> 0:43:45.799
<v Speaker 2>what was I talking about? It happens all the time exactly. Yeah,

0:43:45.880 --> 0:43:51.640
<v Speaker 2>So like, let's just finish conversation. Okay, I think that's it.

0:43:51.719 --> 0:43:54.399
<v Speaker 2>You No, you don't have another moment? Okay? One more? Yeah,

0:43:54.400 --> 0:43:57.680
<v Speaker 2>one more? Okay, this is cute. Okay, this is really cute.

0:43:57.719 --> 0:44:01.399
<v Speaker 2>This is from Donna because the reason why I'm telling

0:44:01.400 --> 0:44:03.880
<v Speaker 2>you to read this last one because somebody has been

0:44:03.920 --> 0:44:07.319
<v Speaker 2>dming me saying, y'all can make the podcast longer. Oh

0:44:07.560 --> 0:44:10.480
<v Speaker 2>are y'all getting like? And I'm like, okay, so I

0:44:10.480 --> 0:44:13.080
<v Speaker 2>think I feel like a good forty five minutes is

0:44:13.120 --> 0:44:17.120
<v Speaker 2>a good time frame for people's attention. It is good. Yeah,

0:44:17.160 --> 0:44:19.640
<v Speaker 2>but sometimes you don't get screen dad, but they love us.

0:44:19.880 --> 0:44:22.959
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, all right, you want to hear more? Okay, so fine,

0:44:22.960 --> 0:44:23.560
<v Speaker 1>here's one more.

0:44:24.080 --> 0:44:24.799
<v Speaker 2>It's really cute.

0:44:24.840 --> 0:44:29.759
<v Speaker 1>This is from Donna Daferin aka Weezer weezer.

0:44:30.000 --> 0:44:31.080
<v Speaker 2>I think that's her grandma name.

0:44:31.120 --> 0:44:34.120
<v Speaker 1>Okay, so she says, hello, beautiful ladies. My granddaughter will

0:44:34.160 --> 0:44:35.120
<v Speaker 1>be three in March.

0:44:35.239 --> 0:44:39.480
<v Speaker 2>I was recently diagnosed with level three severe autism.

0:44:39.640 --> 0:44:42.840
<v Speaker 1>Oh, they stated, she would probably only mimic not really

0:44:42.880 --> 0:44:46.640
<v Speaker 1>connect with what she is learning. Without obviously having special

0:44:46.680 --> 0:44:49.600
<v Speaker 1>needs classes, she does have a tablet that she works

0:44:49.640 --> 0:44:52.560
<v Speaker 1>with ABC's one, two, three's colors, et cetera. Still, we

0:44:52.600 --> 0:44:54.799
<v Speaker 1>thought she was just mimicking because when we try to

0:44:54.840 --> 0:44:57.919
<v Speaker 1>engage her, she doesn't stay on tasks. She also isn't

0:44:58.040 --> 0:45:01.000
<v Speaker 1>very verbal. So last week we all went out to

0:45:01.080 --> 0:45:03.640
<v Speaker 1>eat and I was trying to engage her with I

0:45:03.680 --> 0:45:06.120
<v Speaker 1>was trying to engage with her so her mother, who's

0:45:06.160 --> 0:45:08.680
<v Speaker 1>my daughter, could enjoy her dinner with other family members.

0:45:08.680 --> 0:45:11.600
<v Speaker 1>Oh you're good, grandma. We were doing patty cake, and

0:45:11.680 --> 0:45:14.000
<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, she looks up and then back

0:45:14.040 --> 0:45:16.759
<v Speaker 1>at me, and then back up and points up at

0:45:16.760 --> 0:45:18.760
<v Speaker 1>my hat and says are.

0:45:20.280 --> 0:45:20.360
<v Speaker 2>E.

0:45:21.719 --> 0:45:25.680
<v Speaker 1>And when she said ay, I realized what she was doing.

0:45:26.160 --> 0:45:29.720
<v Speaker 1>She was calling out the letters on my reasonably shady hat.

0:45:31.600 --> 0:45:36.760
<v Speaker 1>She said every letter in reasonably and that was not mimicking.

0:45:37.160 --> 0:45:41.480
<v Speaker 2>Oh I love this, she said. I was cheering, like,

0:45:41.520 --> 0:45:45.040
<v Speaker 2>what does that spell reasonably? And what do we want

0:45:45.080 --> 0:45:48.160
<v Speaker 2>to be shady? Oh?

0:45:48.239 --> 0:45:50.279
<v Speaker 1>I love that, but no, I didn't cheer that, but

0:45:50.280 --> 0:45:52.840
<v Speaker 1>I was cheering so big inside. I just told her yay,

0:45:53.520 --> 0:45:56.600
<v Speaker 1>not to overstimulate, especially since the restaurant is enough. Just

0:45:56.640 --> 0:45:59.640
<v Speaker 1>wanted to let y'all know how my favorite hat made

0:45:59.719 --> 0:46:00.200
<v Speaker 1>my life.

0:46:00.000 --> 0:46:01.000
<v Speaker 2>Life this weekend.

0:46:01.560 --> 0:46:04.400
<v Speaker 1>This mean old Weezer yes that's my grandma name, was

0:46:04.400 --> 0:46:07.080
<v Speaker 1>almost brought to tears all because of my reasonably shady hat.

0:46:07.320 --> 0:46:09.160
<v Speaker 1>Thank you so much, Thank you, lady, so much much.

0:46:09.200 --> 0:46:10.840
<v Speaker 1>Love Donna Daffern aka Weezer.

0:46:10.920 --> 0:46:13.719
<v Speaker 2>Ps. I also have two embellished hats. Love them. I

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<v Speaker 2>love that. Okay, so wait a minute, how old was

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<v Speaker 2>the child for? Three? Three? Three year old?

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<v Speaker 1>A three year old in general, and a three year

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<v Speaker 1>old with severe autism?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, make up the letters.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awesome. So hopefully your granddaughter continues. You didn't tell

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<v Speaker 1>us her name.

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<v Speaker 2>But hopefully I love the news to be able to

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<v Speaker 2>identify her numbers and letters and colors on her own.

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<v Speaker 2>And Yeesmber, Yeah, that's beautiful. I think that's amazing. That

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<v Speaker 2>was a good story. I needed to hear that. Listen,

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