1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:04,360 Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect 2 00:00:04,400 --> 00:00:12,640 Speaker 1: Podcast Network and iHeartRadio. 3 00:00:14,680 --> 00:00:17,720 Speaker 2: Welcome to another episode of Reasonably SHAKEE d I am 4 00:00:17,760 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 2: Giselle Bryant. What's up? What's up? This is Robin Dixon. 5 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:24,000 Speaker 2: Thank you for being here. Yes, what's again? Yes? Indeed, 6 00:00:24,079 --> 00:00:27,760 Speaker 2: and it is full fledged March. Get into it, Robin 7 00:00:27,800 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 2: finally woke up mode. This with us twenty twenty five 8 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:35,159 Speaker 2: is looking bright for you? Yes, yes, January and February 9 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,599 Speaker 2: we're not bright for you. But March, goddamn it. It's 10 00:00:37,600 --> 00:00:41,320 Speaker 2: your month, by the way, your birthday month. It is 11 00:00:41,360 --> 00:00:44,320 Speaker 2: your month. Oh yeah, I forgot about that. What do 12 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:46,839 Speaker 2: you mean? You know? I never like to celebrate re bird. No, 13 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:49,120 Speaker 2: but we're celebrating this year. Do I have to come 14 00:00:49,159 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 2: over here? Do I have a Yeah? I don't know. Yeah, 15 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 2: we're doing this is not monumental, no, okay, but we 16 00:00:55,800 --> 00:00:58,880 Speaker 2: gotta do something. It's forty six. Yeah, I like it. 17 00:00:59,040 --> 00:01:01,280 Speaker 2: What is still just looking good? You look good? You 18 00:01:01,320 --> 00:01:03,400 Speaker 2: look good, by the way, if anybody didn't tell you, 19 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:05,120 Speaker 2: I'm here to tell you you're looking good. I appreciate 20 00:01:05,160 --> 00:01:08,760 Speaker 2: your trying and be like you. So what's going on 21 00:01:08,800 --> 00:01:12,120 Speaker 2: with low thirty these days. Oh it's it's going well. 22 00:01:12,160 --> 00:01:16,120 Speaker 2: I mean it's it's it's going well. Yeah. Staff is great. 23 00:01:16,360 --> 00:01:19,440 Speaker 2: Love that, love our members okay, you know. 24 00:01:19,760 --> 00:01:23,280 Speaker 1: And it's a responsibility, yes, it is. It is a 25 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:28,399 Speaker 1: responsibility that outside of having kids, this. 26 00:01:28,480 --> 00:01:31,120 Speaker 2: Is like yeah and a husband. Yes, it's like the 27 00:01:31,120 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 2: biggest responsibility really. Yeah. Oh wow that's good to know. Yeah, okay, 28 00:01:36,080 --> 00:01:39,080 Speaker 2: so but but it's going well. Okay, great, And even 29 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 2: if you're not in like the Columbia area, get into 30 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:46,319 Speaker 2: it and get your Blow thirty is a subscription, is membership, membership, 31 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:48,160 Speaker 2: Get your membership, get your membership. 32 00:01:48,360 --> 00:01:50,840 Speaker 1: Come get facials and your boat tacks and your laser 33 00:01:50,880 --> 00:01:53,200 Speaker 1: and all the good stuff things. And just shout out 34 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:56,320 Speaker 1: to all of the reasonably shady listeners who are Glow 35 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:57,240 Speaker 1: thirty members. 36 00:01:57,640 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 2: I love that. Oh yes, love love seeing you guys. 37 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 2: And they come in, Yes, they live in the area, Okay, 38 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:05,120 Speaker 2: got it. 39 00:02:05,160 --> 00:02:07,720 Speaker 1: They'll come in and they'll, like, you know, comment on 40 00:02:07,760 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: stuff that we've talked about. 41 00:02:09,040 --> 00:02:11,720 Speaker 2: Yes, yeah, it was funny. I was when I was 42 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:13,440 Speaker 2: which show was this? I think it was my New 43 00:02:13,520 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 2: Orleans show. I said something and somebody screamed out what 44 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:22,600 Speaker 2: I had said on that Monday's podcast. So I was like, 45 00:02:23,080 --> 00:02:26,080 Speaker 2: y'all listen. I was so excited. Yes, so, and we 46 00:02:26,120 --> 00:02:29,360 Speaker 2: forget what we say so the time, so when people 47 00:02:29,400 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 2: do say something, I'd be like, huh to talk about 48 00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:33,639 Speaker 2: I forget what I say as soon as I say 49 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:37,160 Speaker 2: me too, exactly. But we have a special announcement before 50 00:02:37,160 --> 00:02:39,240 Speaker 2: we get into our shady bow. Yes, we have a 51 00:02:39,400 --> 00:02:44,520 Speaker 2: website people, we revumped it. It's new and improved. 52 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:48,680 Speaker 1: Yes, and we have merch on their new merch new merch. Yes, yes, 53 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 1: so we launched a new website. We already had a website, 54 00:02:51,639 --> 00:02:55,640 Speaker 1: but patar who handles our social media, he was like, 55 00:02:56,919 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 1: this website isn't cutting it and you all. 56 00:03:00,400 --> 00:03:01,720 Speaker 2: Need to upgrade. 57 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,639 Speaker 1: Yes, indeed, and so we allowed Petard to do his thing. 58 00:03:04,760 --> 00:03:07,400 Speaker 1: So he did his thing. We have a great new website, 59 00:03:07,480 --> 00:03:10,320 Speaker 1: and we also have some exciting new merch. 60 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 2: Yes we do. 61 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:14,480 Speaker 1: So get into rita reasonably shady dot com. 62 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 2: That's it. That's that's it. And if you want to 63 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 2: just you know, see pictures of me and Robin or 64 00:03:18,680 --> 00:03:20,280 Speaker 2: get some merch, and then we're gonna have a fun 65 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:23,520 Speaker 2: merch relate, We're gonna have a fun event coming up. Yes, yes, 66 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:29,320 Speaker 2: that's an online event, so we stay tuned for that. Yay. Yeah, okay, 67 00:03:29,360 --> 00:03:32,040 Speaker 2: so you have a reasonably shady moment, I do a 68 00:03:32,040 --> 00:03:34,440 Speaker 2: shady moment. I just say shady moment. 69 00:03:40,080 --> 00:03:42,360 Speaker 1: So, like the other day, I'm on Instagram. 70 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:45,120 Speaker 2: This is like actually a couple of weeks ago. 71 00:03:45,400 --> 00:03:50,000 Speaker 1: So I'm on Instagram, and you know Bravo Daily Dish, 72 00:03:50,120 --> 00:03:52,200 Speaker 1: right that page they. 73 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:55,400 Speaker 2: Love you, by the way, Oh thank you. I think 74 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 2: they do, not like Queen's of Bravo, but like, well, 75 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:00,560 Speaker 2: Bravo Daily Dish is like a brav they like work 76 00:04:00,640 --> 00:04:02,960 Speaker 2: for Bravo. Oh they do. Yeah, Oh, I didn't know that. 77 00:04:03,880 --> 00:04:06,800 Speaker 2: You know what. I think Donald does that. No, Donald 78 00:04:06,840 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 2: does Bravo TV social media. Okay, I don't don't. I 79 00:04:10,320 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 2: don't know. Maybe he does. 80 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:13,480 Speaker 1: He maybe does something. So Bravo Daily Dish is like 81 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:17,200 Speaker 1: the it's like the news updates on Bravo on like 82 00:04:17,200 --> 00:04:20,000 Speaker 1: the Bravo website. Yes, it's like on BravoTV dot com. 83 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:22,920 Speaker 1: It's the Bravo Daily Dish and now update on stuff 84 00:04:22,920 --> 00:04:26,000 Speaker 1: that's going on with Bravo talent. 85 00:04:26,440 --> 00:04:29,279 Speaker 2: Love that right, Okay, So I follow. 86 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:32,960 Speaker 1: That page and so in one of their stories, it 87 00:04:33,080 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 1: was a picture of me and Wan, and it was like, 88 00:04:35,680 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 1: you know, click the link for a big update on 89 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:41,800 Speaker 1: Robin and Wan's marriage or something. 90 00:04:42,080 --> 00:04:44,320 Speaker 2: It was like I was like, Oh, what's what's my 91 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:48,760 Speaker 2: big update? Like what's going on? What's yes? Uh huh. 92 00:04:48,760 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 2: So I clicked on it and then the so then 93 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:57,400 Speaker 2: the headline was like Robin talks about her sad, the sad, 94 00:04:57,480 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 2: her sad marriage. Oh my, what are they talking about? 95 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:04,920 Speaker 2: Right soon I read it and I'm like, oh my gosh, 96 00:05:04,960 --> 00:05:10,200 Speaker 2: this some freaking click bait for your mama. Like it was. So. 97 00:05:10,279 --> 00:05:13,200 Speaker 1: I had done an interview when I was doing press 98 00:05:13,279 --> 00:05:15,960 Speaker 1: for Traders, and I guess one of the people I 99 00:05:15,960 --> 00:05:20,400 Speaker 1: interviewed with was affiliated with Peacock or Daily Dish whatever, 100 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:22,679 Speaker 1: and they asked me what I was what our plans 101 00:05:22,680 --> 00:05:25,279 Speaker 1: for Valentine's Day was, oh yeah, And I was like, well, 102 00:05:25,279 --> 00:05:27,960 Speaker 1: to be honest, we don't have any like whamas. He 103 00:05:28,120 --> 00:05:30,600 Speaker 1: was on going to be traveling for NBA All Star 104 00:05:30,640 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 1: weekend and I said, and my son Corey has a 105 00:05:32,440 --> 00:05:35,479 Speaker 1: basketball game. I said, really, like this time of year, 106 00:05:35,560 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 1: basketball really runs our lives, Like we're always in the 107 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 1: gym and we it's really hard to plan around that. 108 00:05:40,400 --> 00:05:42,880 Speaker 1: I'm like it's really sad, you know, like being kind. 109 00:05:42,680 --> 00:05:47,600 Speaker 2: Of it's very sad. Yes, yes, you know, just being 110 00:05:47,680 --> 00:05:50,200 Speaker 2: like I wasn't like it's not that sad, but I 111 00:05:50,279 --> 00:05:54,120 Speaker 2: was like, you know, just being whatever, dramatic, dramatic, Okay, 112 00:05:53,760 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 2: So yeah, it's really sad, like we just don't have 113 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:58,039 Speaker 2: a life. We just you know, do we're always in 114 00:05:58,040 --> 00:06:01,400 Speaker 2: the basketball gym, like our kids basketball schedule? Run your life? 115 00:06:01,520 --> 00:06:04,960 Speaker 2: And that was the freaking headline. That's that's the headline. Well, 116 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 2: did do you have a follow up? I mean like 117 00:06:06,880 --> 00:06:09,839 Speaker 2: did so did he send anything? Like did you send flowers? 118 00:06:09,960 --> 00:06:13,760 Speaker 2: Or he did? Yeah, well then you need to take 119 00:06:13,800 --> 00:06:16,120 Speaker 2: the picture of that and post that. But I mean 120 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 2: I don't, I have nothing to prove, like, but I mean, 121 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 2: let the people know. But I was just like when 122 00:06:19,960 --> 00:06:22,960 Speaker 2: I saw the headline, I'm like, what is this. I'm like, 123 00:06:23,040 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 2: what are y'all talking about? And then I clicked and 124 00:06:25,000 --> 00:06:27,880 Speaker 2: then it was just it's just so funny, like how 125 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:33,880 Speaker 2: media outlets they they traumatized. Yes, the clickbait is real, Yes, 126 00:06:34,160 --> 00:06:38,479 Speaker 2: yeah for clickbait. I mean that was some real legit clickbait. 127 00:06:38,560 --> 00:06:40,840 Speaker 2: So did they get paid off of clicks? Yeah? Oh, 128 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 2: they get paid for the number of people that click 129 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:46,159 Speaker 2: on their site. Yes, because they have ads. 130 00:06:45,800 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 1: Like so their site, there's a bunch of advertisers, you know, 131 00:06:48,480 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 1: on the on the column, top and the bottom and 132 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 1: all that and throughout. So they get paid for those 133 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:58,479 Speaker 1: ads and so got it. Yeah, they get paid if 134 00:06:58,480 --> 00:06:59,960 Speaker 1: people click on the link. 135 00:07:00,480 --> 00:07:07,520 Speaker 2: Let's say something clickbaity right now? Okay, hmm, oh my gosh, Kanye, 136 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:10,160 Speaker 2: that's not click bait. 137 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:13,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone, Look, it don't matter what we say, people 138 00:07:13,640 --> 00:07:14,680 Speaker 1: turn it into clickbait. 139 00:07:15,000 --> 00:07:18,600 Speaker 2: We have definitely been clickbait. We have been clickbaited many, many, 140 00:07:18,640 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 2: many many times. Yeah, I know, like, all right, let's 141 00:07:20,960 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 2: i'll pips up holes down? What is it? What do 142 00:07:25,000 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 2: you say? It makes the merry men? It would be 143 00:07:28,000 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 2: like if I saw a clickbait. So if I was like, 144 00:07:31,400 --> 00:07:34,600 Speaker 2: I really can't stand you right now, like you either right, 145 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:38,280 Speaker 2: you're brestack. I don't like your you're ring No no, no, no, 146 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:40,720 Speaker 2: so you're taking it too far? Oh oh okay. The 147 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:46,280 Speaker 2: clickbait is yeah, like dad, you really feel that way? No, no, okay, 148 00:07:46,600 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 2: she'll take it to my I was crazy. 149 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 1: No, the clickbait would be just all I really can't 150 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:53,120 Speaker 1: stand you, right now, So that's the clickbait, right, and 151 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:55,840 Speaker 1: then I'd be like, because you're over here making me laugh. 152 00:07:57,280 --> 00:08:00,600 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, okay. So the clickbait is like taking 153 00:08:00,600 --> 00:08:07,200 Speaker 2: something that sounds really bad but when it's out of context. Yes, yes, right, 154 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:09,640 Speaker 2: anything for the clicks and the likes. Yeah, okay, I 155 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 2: got it, girl. I can't be your friend anymore. What 156 00:08:12,240 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 2: you always give me your trouble because I'm laughing all 157 00:08:14,200 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 2: the time. You know what I'm saying, Like I don't 158 00:08:17,240 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 2: like you anyway? Okay, do it? I get out of 159 00:08:20,680 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 2: my system, I can. I love you, Robin, I love 160 00:08:25,680 --> 00:08:29,520 Speaker 2: you too. Yes, But Bravo Daily dishy'all are y'all did 161 00:08:29,560 --> 00:08:33,480 Speaker 2: the most bake headline that y'all did the most, but 162 00:08:33,480 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 2: they got to pay the mans. They gotta make sure 163 00:08:35,240 --> 00:08:37,640 Speaker 2: the mans keep coming in. We'll pay me, damn it. 164 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 2: Robin said, I want to chicks, run me my check. Okay. 165 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:46,000 Speaker 2: So Mike getting no check from y'all, nour no. And 166 00:08:46,040 --> 00:08:48,120 Speaker 2: you know what, I do have a bone to pick 167 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:50,800 Speaker 2: with Bravo. And then I'm gonna get into my shady moment. 168 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:55,080 Speaker 2: This is gonna be my shady moment. So I got 169 00:08:55,080 --> 00:08:59,920 Speaker 2: an email like get the new Potomac merch or something. 170 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 2: So I clicked on it and it was like this 171 00:09:02,360 --> 00:09:04,199 Speaker 2: cute little hoodie. It was like pink hoodie instead of 172 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 2: Real Housewives with Tomake, and that's like cute updated march. Yeah. Yeah, 173 00:09:09,679 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 2: I haven't gotten a dime from any of this march 174 00:09:11,960 --> 00:09:12,800 Speaker 2: that they be selling. 175 00:09:12,960 --> 00:09:16,120 Speaker 1: Well, you do get dimes from it from being on 176 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:16,600 Speaker 1: the show. 177 00:09:16,720 --> 00:09:18,760 Speaker 2: Okay, but no, this is a separate This should be 178 00:09:18,840 --> 00:09:21,840 Speaker 2: a separate check. No, it's not just like you don't 179 00:09:21,840 --> 00:09:26,360 Speaker 2: get residuals. Yeah, I get no residuals me and Chris Brown. Yeah, yes, 180 00:09:26,720 --> 00:09:31,520 Speaker 2: reside all of that when you sign that contract. They said, listen, 181 00:09:31,559 --> 00:09:34,960 Speaker 2: we can we can make money x y ye any 182 00:09:34,960 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 2: type of way we want to offer you. You want 183 00:09:36,800 --> 00:09:40,960 Speaker 2: to take this? Bunny can get n I l isn't 184 00:09:41,000 --> 00:09:43,679 Speaker 2: this name and likeness? Shouldn't I get something? 185 00:09:43,840 --> 00:09:47,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, but you're so so called Bethany Frankles. 186 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:52,280 Speaker 2: She for some reason, has is not She's now she's 187 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:56,080 Speaker 2: giving she's been quiet, well, she's been talking about other things. 188 00:09:56,200 --> 00:10:01,320 Speaker 2: She's been like giving reviews of like stick in Caviar 189 00:10:01,720 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 2: and as opposed to like really, well, I don't want 190 00:10:06,280 --> 00:10:08,120 Speaker 2: her to come after bravo. I want her to help 191 00:10:08,160 --> 00:10:10,839 Speaker 2: me for the future, get my residuals. 192 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, I don't think anyone like showed her support. 193 00:10:15,679 --> 00:10:20,520 Speaker 2: Well, the current employees we cut our hands are kind 194 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 2: of tied. So yeah, okay, anyway, moving on, Not my 195 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:26,640 Speaker 2: shady moment. My shady moment is I went got my 196 00:10:26,640 --> 00:10:31,200 Speaker 2: hair done, okay from Callisto Blount, Yes, also known as Cal. 197 00:10:31,480 --> 00:10:37,000 Speaker 2: We love Cal, who looked at me and now, mind you, 198 00:10:37,160 --> 00:10:40,600 Speaker 2: so I had this was just my hair, no extensions, 199 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:42,560 Speaker 2: no nothing, it's my hair. I'm went in there to 200 00:10:42,559 --> 00:10:44,400 Speaker 2: get some color. And he looks at me and he 201 00:10:44,520 --> 00:10:47,920 Speaker 2: was like, your hair looks horrible. Oh. He was like, 202 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:50,840 Speaker 2: what the hell happened to your hair? He was like, 203 00:10:52,720 --> 00:10:55,160 Speaker 2: what are you doing? What are we gonna talk about 204 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:57,719 Speaker 2: your drop ends? Oh my god? And he's talking to 205 00:10:57,760 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 2: me just like that, like, no sugar, that's how Sureley 206 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 2: talks to me. Yes, okay, we go about your dry ends. 207 00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:06,440 Speaker 2: I said, god damn. So I just sat down in 208 00:11:06,480 --> 00:11:09,880 Speaker 2: his chair and proceeded to get my hair done. But 209 00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:11,839 Speaker 2: he said, tell me what you're doing. What are you doing? 210 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:14,720 Speaker 2: Because Cal's thing is healthy hair. Okay, he wants everybody's 211 00:11:14,760 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 2: hair to look healthy, be shiny and sacred. No, no, 212 00:11:19,840 --> 00:11:23,839 Speaker 2: beyond miss said this Beyonce hater. 213 00:11:24,800 --> 00:11:26,600 Speaker 1: By the way, I'm not going to Cowboy Cawdor toy 214 00:11:26,679 --> 00:11:27,920 Speaker 1: Okay tour, I can't talk? 215 00:11:27,960 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 2: Okay, when to get sat in a second. So anyway, 216 00:11:30,320 --> 00:11:32,520 Speaker 2: my shading moment is Cal gave it to me straight, 217 00:11:32,600 --> 00:11:35,400 Speaker 2: which was my hair was looking dry and brittle and damaged. 218 00:11:35,480 --> 00:11:38,679 Speaker 1: Okay, Cal like, does your hair That's. 219 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 2: What I'm saying, But he really, I mean, I've been 220 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:43,480 Speaker 2: kind of doing it myself because I've been on the road, 221 00:11:43,600 --> 00:11:46,120 Speaker 2: and but He's like, just ol, you have to come 222 00:11:46,160 --> 00:11:47,959 Speaker 2: get your hair done. Do you know you don't come 223 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:51,600 Speaker 2: and get your hair done? And I was like, I'm sorry. 224 00:11:51,720 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 2: So he was like, when you go to Robin's house, 225 00:11:53,200 --> 00:11:55,719 Speaker 2: just come and get your hair done. And I was like, 226 00:11:55,760 --> 00:11:58,120 Speaker 2: because he had me, you know, sit under this steam 227 00:11:58,840 --> 00:12:02,320 Speaker 2: all it's nonsense. Anyway, my hair feels very luxurious right now. 228 00:12:02,720 --> 00:12:05,120 Speaker 2: But the shady part was Col was just so mean 229 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:08,760 Speaker 2: to me and told me my edges was dry d 230 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:13,360 Speaker 2: why speaking of Cowboy Carter, Yes, Robbin, Yeah, I decided 231 00:12:13,440 --> 00:12:16,000 Speaker 2: not to go. Why. I don't know. I just like, 232 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:17,840 Speaker 2: do I want to spin an arm? And a leg 233 00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:22,439 Speaker 2: to like see her sing these songs. Yeah really, yes, okay, 234 00:12:22,440 --> 00:12:25,480 Speaker 2: well I was there. You know you got your ticket? 235 00:12:25,559 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 2: Yeah too, me and Cal for the DC shows. Yeah, okay, 236 00:12:29,640 --> 00:12:31,960 Speaker 2: fourth of July. Yeah, I was looking at it. Yeah, 237 00:12:32,040 --> 00:12:34,240 Speaker 2: I thought about it. I actually would like thought about 238 00:12:34,280 --> 00:12:36,640 Speaker 2: getting the ones on the stage, like the b Hive ones. 239 00:12:36,920 --> 00:12:39,280 Speaker 2: Really the five thousand dollars ones, the six thousand dollar ones. 240 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 2: I said, hell no, I thought they were like twenty 241 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:44,720 Speaker 2: four hundred or something. Well there was okay, okay, Beyonce, 242 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:48,360 Speaker 2: like seriously, like the range of price for these tickets 243 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:51,800 Speaker 2: was absurd, Yes, because on the floor floor like where 244 00:12:51,800 --> 00:12:53,920 Speaker 2: you're talking about, what I was looking at was like 245 00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:58,000 Speaker 2: six thousand, five thousand, four thousand, and then there was 246 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 2: some twenty five hundred. MoMA's twelve and I felt like 247 00:13:02,000 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 2: twelve hundreds is it? Because I had to buy two? 248 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:07,880 Speaker 2: So like, no, that's it. Yeah, I don't think I'm 249 00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 2: doing it. I just don't, okay, because I'll tell you why. 250 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:14,480 Speaker 2: And I understand because I mean, like it's it's crazy 251 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:17,959 Speaker 2: times out here. Yeah, financially, yeah, it is, but it's 252 00:13:18,040 --> 00:13:22,079 Speaker 2: not even that. It's just like I you know, you 253 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 2: remember how I you know I went to Renaissance. I 254 00:13:25,440 --> 00:13:27,439 Speaker 2: enjoyed it, but I wasn't like, Ooh, I'm so happy 255 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 2: I went. Oh I loved it, but go ahead, and 256 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:32,880 Speaker 2: then I feel like I'm going to see enough on 257 00:13:32,920 --> 00:13:36,920 Speaker 2: social media. I'm going to see the whole show. But 258 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:38,839 Speaker 2: it's a different experience with you being there in me. 259 00:13:39,679 --> 00:13:42,960 Speaker 2: I know, but it's all right. If I don't make it, 260 00:13:42,960 --> 00:13:45,959 Speaker 2: it is fiance won't be mad. She won't. Yeah, she 261 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:48,600 Speaker 2: con miss me if I'm nothing, so I must be there. 262 00:13:48,720 --> 00:13:50,160 Speaker 2: Yeah she has. 263 00:13:50,280 --> 00:13:54,720 Speaker 1: Specifically, I did learn like the day of the show 264 00:13:54,880 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 1: or the day before the show, people got tickets for 265 00:13:57,640 --> 00:14:00,000 Speaker 1: like much less much less expense. 266 00:14:00,520 --> 00:14:02,319 Speaker 2: I'm good decent seats. 267 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:05,800 Speaker 1: So that tells me, like if when when the time 268 00:14:05,800 --> 00:14:08,200 Speaker 1: comes for the show, if I'm feeling a little, you know, 269 00:14:08,360 --> 00:14:11,120 Speaker 1: fomo left out, Okay, I'm bored, let me go do something. 270 00:14:11,600 --> 00:14:14,679 Speaker 2: Then I'll just buy my ticket that day. Okay, that's fine. Yeah. 271 00:14:14,720 --> 00:14:17,120 Speaker 2: We also want to say that jay Z's the lady 272 00:14:17,160 --> 00:14:19,960 Speaker 2: that was suing jay Z or pressing charges against jay 273 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:24,640 Speaker 2: Z that has been thrown out. So he's acquitted not acquitted. 274 00:14:24,840 --> 00:14:26,720 Speaker 1: No, I don't even know, Like I mean, it wasn't 275 00:14:26,760 --> 00:14:27,560 Speaker 1: even dismissed. 276 00:14:27,760 --> 00:14:29,800 Speaker 2: It was dismissed. Yeah, yeah, this is much of malarkey. 277 00:14:30,160 --> 00:14:40,600 Speaker 2: Yes that's what he said. It was some bo shiggitty. Okay, 278 00:14:40,720 --> 00:14:46,000 Speaker 2: So I have a letter here. This actually was sent. 279 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:48,360 Speaker 2: By the way, we have not heard from Dick Hurts, 280 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 2: and I have a feeling. Oh you missed it. No, 281 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:54,280 Speaker 2: I do not, but we If you have been with 282 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:56,040 Speaker 2: us for a while, you know that we have someone 283 00:14:56,080 --> 00:14:59,640 Speaker 2: that actually loves us. He likes to act like he 284 00:14:59,640 --> 00:15:01,560 Speaker 2: does n't, but he really loves us. His name is 285 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:06,480 Speaker 2: Dick Hurtz and he sends us horrible, horrible emails, horrible, 286 00:15:06,520 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 2: and we told him he can no longer write us 287 00:15:09,160 --> 00:15:14,520 Speaker 2: unless he sends a picture of himself not catfish. We 288 00:15:14,560 --> 00:15:17,160 Speaker 2: have not heard from Dick Hurts, so we already know Dick, 289 00:15:17,640 --> 00:15:21,560 Speaker 2: you look crazy. Oh yes, okay, So moving on. This 290 00:15:21,600 --> 00:15:24,480 Speaker 2: is from Meredith Stokely and this was written a while ago. 291 00:15:24,800 --> 00:15:29,760 Speaker 2: This is actually written in July. She said, Hi, ladies, 292 00:15:30,320 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 2: love your show. And this is the first time I've 293 00:15:32,760 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 2: written in because Gieselle had me in stitches this week 294 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 2: when y'all were discussing deodorant products and Gazelle admitted she 295 00:15:41,480 --> 00:15:45,440 Speaker 2: has butt sweat. I just wanted to let Giselle know 296 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 2: that the fl term I guess the Oh, the Florida 297 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 2: term for summer butt sweat is literally called swamp as swamp. 298 00:15:58,440 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 2: Did you know this? No. I was a bit surprised 299 00:16:03,120 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 2: our Louisiana girl did not know the term. But girl, 300 00:16:06,160 --> 00:16:09,320 Speaker 2: we in Florida all know. You gotta how you feel. 301 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:14,040 Speaker 2: I got a little junk in my trunk too, So 302 00:16:14,120 --> 00:16:18,720 Speaker 2: it's usually swampy from May to September. Oh, she got 303 00:16:18,720 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 2: a swamp ass. Give us poor Charlotte Florida girls a 304 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:27,840 Speaker 2: shoutout for living daily with swamp ass and use the 305 00:16:27,960 --> 00:16:33,680 Speaker 2: term proudly. So I say to my Florida and Charlotte girls, listen, 306 00:16:33,720 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 2: get your swamp ass on one. Oh my gosh, I love it. 307 00:16:36,680 --> 00:16:38,840 Speaker 2: She said, keep doing what you're doing, and Robin, you'll 308 00:16:38,880 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 2: be missed on r H O P. Yes she was missed, 309 00:16:42,240 --> 00:16:45,800 Speaker 2: but there's something bigger coming your way. Thank you. Yes, 310 00:16:45,880 --> 00:16:49,840 Speaker 2: many blessings. Swamp ass Meredith, all right, yes, look swamp 311 00:16:49,840 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 2: ass Meredith sounds like she's okay with it. I was like, well, 312 00:16:55,000 --> 00:16:58,240 Speaker 2: I mean, what can you do? I know, but it's 313 00:16:58,240 --> 00:17:02,160 Speaker 2: one of those it's like, really, yeah, that's what I hate. 314 00:17:02,280 --> 00:17:04,440 Speaker 2: It's like, Okay, when is cold, we're like, oh my god, 315 00:17:04,480 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 2: it's so cold. But then when it's hot, we're like, oh, 316 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 2: it's all hot. My ass is sweating, like we can't win. 317 00:17:09,520 --> 00:17:12,400 Speaker 2: But when it's sticky hot, that's a whole nother thing. 318 00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 2: If it's dry hot, I'm cool with that, yeah, but 319 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:18,280 Speaker 2: like underwear sticking to your ass hot is not cool, 320 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:21,920 Speaker 2: not comfortable. Yeah, and so and if. But now I 321 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:24,520 Speaker 2: can just say I have swampy ass. Yes, yes, that's 322 00:17:24,560 --> 00:17:26,400 Speaker 2: what I'm gonna say. So, thank you, Meredith. I will 323 00:17:26,400 --> 00:17:29,639 Speaker 2: be changing my terms. I will be swamp ass up 324 00:17:29,760 --> 00:17:32,400 Speaker 2: with your swamp ass. Yes, and I always say because 325 00:17:32,400 --> 00:17:34,440 Speaker 2: me and my mom says that, like people are putting 326 00:17:34,440 --> 00:17:37,720 Speaker 2: like deodorant down there butt crack. So maybe I'll try it. Yeah, yeah, 327 00:17:37,760 --> 00:17:40,919 Speaker 2: see if it works, yeah for swampy ass. Meredith, you 328 00:17:40,960 --> 00:17:43,960 Speaker 2: tried to report back, got back Okay. So I have 329 00:17:44,200 --> 00:17:46,000 Speaker 2: a email. 330 00:17:45,720 --> 00:17:53,399 Speaker 1: From Yvette Martinez and the subject is Robin Doppelganger. She said, Hello, ladies, Robin, 331 00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:56,320 Speaker 1: I found your doppo Ganger while watching The Bold and 332 00:17:56,359 --> 00:18:00,240 Speaker 1: the Beautiful. Please see attached photo. Having a wonderful day. 333 00:18:00,320 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 1: Tell me do you think this is my doppleganger, and 334 00:18:02,800 --> 00:18:05,960 Speaker 1: I don't know who this person. She didn't tell me Beautiful. Okay, 335 00:18:06,520 --> 00:18:07,679 Speaker 1: is this my dapple ganger? 336 00:18:08,280 --> 00:18:11,640 Speaker 2: So I have seen her on Beautiful? Yeah, I've seen 337 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:14,200 Speaker 2: her on like sometimes my TV's on. I've seen her 338 00:18:15,040 --> 00:18:19,480 Speaker 2: and I didn't think she's very pretty, very very pretty. 339 00:18:19,720 --> 00:18:25,399 Speaker 2: But I don't think you only because we gotta we 340 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:26,240 Speaker 2: gotta find out her name. 341 00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:28,080 Speaker 1: I'm showing this to our YouTubers. 342 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:34,080 Speaker 2: Yes, only because well maybe if she had blonde hair, 343 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:36,000 Speaker 2: maybe all right, let me find her name because she 344 00:18:36,000 --> 00:18:39,760 Speaker 2: has green eyes. She does, or if I had dark, 345 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:43,160 Speaker 2: dark hair, all right. So but she she is very 346 00:18:43,160 --> 00:18:45,239 Speaker 2: pretty and she's I don't know if this is her 347 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:49,280 Speaker 2: real accent, but on the show she has like a 348 00:18:49,760 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 2: British accent. Yes, so she's like sexy. Oh yeah, okay, 349 00:18:54,280 --> 00:18:58,800 Speaker 2: all right, let me see. I'm doing a Google picture 350 00:18:58,920 --> 00:19:03,080 Speaker 2: reverse search of her Google lens. Did you know you 351 00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:05,679 Speaker 2: can do that? No? Did have no clue. Okay, So 352 00:19:05,680 --> 00:19:10,440 Speaker 2: so here's a little a little t for you. Sometimes, 353 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:12,280 Speaker 2: like if you see something online and you're like, oh, 354 00:19:12,520 --> 00:19:14,560 Speaker 2: like like say it's an outfit someone's wearing, and. 355 00:19:14,560 --> 00:19:18,240 Speaker 1: You're like, oh, I really like her outfit. Say I 356 00:19:18,280 --> 00:19:21,679 Speaker 1: really like her outfit, right, Okay, she must be French. 357 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:25,680 Speaker 1: Maybe murrayel Hilaire's name, Yeah. 358 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:28,760 Speaker 2: Okay, Mary L h lea very pretty? Does she have 359 00:19:28,800 --> 00:19:30,439 Speaker 2: any pictures of her with lighter hair? Hold on, I'm 360 00:19:30,480 --> 00:19:33,159 Speaker 2: looking hold on? OKAYR What did I just say? Her 361 00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:37,600 Speaker 2: name was Mary l Helene Hilaire And maybe we can 362 00:19:37,640 --> 00:19:39,760 Speaker 2: put some blonde hair on her and see if she 363 00:19:40,560 --> 00:19:44,920 Speaker 2: then becomes it looks like me? Yes, okay, see like this, Yeah, 364 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:47,440 Speaker 2: that doesn't look like me. All right, But the name 365 00:19:47,560 --> 00:19:50,080 Speaker 2: that it's spelled, M you are if you guys want 366 00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:51,760 Speaker 2: to look it up and give us your opinion, M 367 00:19:51,800 --> 00:19:54,600 Speaker 2: you are I E L L E and last name 368 00:19:54,680 --> 00:19:58,359 Speaker 2: Hilaire h I L A I R E. Okay, yeah, 369 00:19:58,520 --> 00:20:01,400 Speaker 2: this looks nothing like me. Yeah, but she's super pretty like. 370 00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:04,640 Speaker 1: This one picture, this picture I could see like where 371 00:20:04,680 --> 00:20:07,440 Speaker 1: you could be Like, okay, maybe, but like these. 372 00:20:07,200 --> 00:20:11,280 Speaker 2: Pictures that I'm googling. Yeah, I don't see it. Yeah, 373 00:20:12,359 --> 00:20:15,960 Speaker 2: I mean, y'all not even the same family. Yeah, all right, y'all, 374 00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:18,560 Speaker 2: I'm not in the same tribe, right, No, no, no, 375 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:19,440 Speaker 2: we're not related. 376 00:20:19,960 --> 00:20:22,320 Speaker 1: No, okay, all right, So anyway, I was telling you 377 00:20:22,320 --> 00:20:24,800 Speaker 1: about Google lens. So if you see something, you're like, oh, 378 00:20:24,840 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 1: I want to know where that person bought that or whatever, 379 00:20:26,880 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 1: or I want a dupe or whatever. So you like 380 00:20:29,600 --> 00:20:32,199 Speaker 1: take a picture of it or screenshot it. Then you 381 00:20:32,280 --> 00:20:37,120 Speaker 1: open it in Google Photos. You have Google Photos maybe okay, 382 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 1: if you don't download it, you open it, open it 383 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 1: in Google Photos. And then they have a feature called lens, 384 00:20:44,920 --> 00:20:48,840 Speaker 1: So you click on lens and it'll like pull up 385 00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:52,040 Speaker 1: pictures that are like similar, similar, and then you can 386 00:20:52,080 --> 00:20:53,640 Speaker 1: click on the link. Let me find one that has 387 00:20:53,640 --> 00:20:55,160 Speaker 1: like an outfit where I can show you like it 388 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:55,520 Speaker 1: and then. 389 00:20:55,440 --> 00:20:58,280 Speaker 2: You can buy it. And then this is dangerous. Okay. 390 00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:00,760 Speaker 2: So here's there's a picture of a drift. Okay, all right, 391 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:03,440 Speaker 2: are you Are you wearing that dress? It was one 392 00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:06,160 Speaker 2: of my options for for the Traders re union? Okay, 393 00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:07,040 Speaker 2: but I'm not wearing this one. 394 00:21:07,080 --> 00:21:10,280 Speaker 1: Okay, okay, so then it like did they okay, it 395 00:21:10,359 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 1: pulls up? 396 00:21:11,359 --> 00:21:14,160 Speaker 2: I love that dress? I love that yeah. Okay. So 397 00:21:14,600 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 2: your Traders reunion, which you've already done, Yes, did they 398 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 2: give you guys a theme? No? They said where whatever 399 00:21:21,520 --> 00:21:25,639 Speaker 2: you want? No freaking way. Yeah, So so you'll probably 400 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:28,639 Speaker 2: have like, you know, well, do they want you to 401 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 2: be glam. They don't tell you anything. They just say, 402 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:35,199 Speaker 2: we're having no reunion from X time to X time. Yeah, 403 00:21:35,400 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 2: wow etime on this day. I don't like, I don't 404 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:39,480 Speaker 2: know what time, but yeah. But yeah. 405 00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:42,840 Speaker 1: So it's like, so I can't really speak on the 406 00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:46,119 Speaker 1: one season three one, but like just so I looked 407 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:49,119 Speaker 1: up season two reunions okay, yeah, and it was like 408 00:21:49,160 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 1: the gamut of what people wore. 409 00:21:51,240 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 2: Okay, you know, was anybody like background I bought, like, 410 00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 2: you know. 411 00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:58,119 Speaker 1: So you had like Phaser that had like a beaded dress, 412 00:21:58,119 --> 00:22:01,399 Speaker 1: one that was like glam, and then you had you know, 413 00:22:01,520 --> 00:22:03,800 Speaker 1: Tamra who just had more of like a long dress 414 00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:04,679 Speaker 1: but more subtle. 415 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:07,119 Speaker 2: You had another lady that had like maybe like a 416 00:22:07,160 --> 00:22:11,080 Speaker 2: cocktail dress that was just kind of basic like yeah. 417 00:22:11,240 --> 00:22:13,159 Speaker 2: Then you have guys that are just in like a 418 00:22:13,440 --> 00:22:17,360 Speaker 2: blazer and jeans, and then yeah, and then you had 419 00:22:18,560 --> 00:22:23,439 Speaker 2: one of the drag queens what was her name, damn, 420 00:22:24,080 --> 00:22:27,560 Speaker 2: Peppermint Peppermint, and Peppermint had on this big oh you 421 00:22:28,080 --> 00:22:31,679 Speaker 2: already no, no, she can't with it? Yeah, Okay. For me, 422 00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:34,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, okay, this doesn't help. I'm like, what am 423 00:22:34,119 --> 00:22:36,879 Speaker 2: I doing? I don't know? So I just like, yeah, okay, 424 00:22:36,960 --> 00:22:39,680 Speaker 2: so do they say does everybody come out and sit 425 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:42,360 Speaker 2: out together at the same time or do they bring 426 00:22:42,359 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 2: you guys out. Wait, it's a combination. Okay, okay, I'm 427 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 2: looking forward to it. Yeah, I can't wait. I actually 428 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:51,760 Speaker 2: have to admit I stopped watching because you were murdered. 429 00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:56,159 Speaker 2: Really yes, yes, and I was mad about it, so 430 00:22:56,320 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 2: I actually in protest decided I'm done. Yeah, I know, 431 00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:06,280 Speaker 2: I was protesting. By the way, Speaking of things to watch, Okay, 432 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:09,600 Speaker 2: did we talk about Harlem with Yeah? Making good? With 433 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:13,280 Speaker 2: Making Good? So they have their third seasons out and 434 00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:17,080 Speaker 2: it's their last season. So good. I mean, mind you, guys, 435 00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:20,679 Speaker 2: this is entertainment. This is like, don't get too involved 436 00:23:20,880 --> 00:23:24,240 Speaker 2: with like storyline and all that. But it's just so good. 437 00:23:24,320 --> 00:23:26,520 Speaker 2: It's kind of like a version of like Sex and 438 00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:29,200 Speaker 2: the City, but with like, you know, all black girls. 439 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:29,960 Speaker 2: It's just really good. 440 00:23:30,040 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 1: I've seen like promos for it, and I'm like, oh, 441 00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:33,159 Speaker 1: I want to watch it, and I just never get. 442 00:23:33,200 --> 00:23:34,960 Speaker 2: You never watched it from the beginning. Oh you should 443 00:23:34,960 --> 00:23:37,360 Speaker 2: watch it. Okay, Yeah, I actually want to think might 444 00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:40,760 Speaker 2: like it too a little bit. Yeah, Like one of 445 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 2: the girls is dating NBA guy. He doesn't believe in monogamy, 446 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:46,760 Speaker 2: that kind of thing. Yeah, so this is a lot 447 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:51,040 Speaker 2: going on. Yeah, yes, get into it. Okay. So, so, 448 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:56,840 Speaker 2: speaking of our dating situation in life, I want to 449 00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:02,879 Speaker 2: read this letter from Josh Thomas because we're still matchmaking, 450 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:06,240 Speaker 2: y'all sending stuff in. Yes, we're having somebody. Y'all send 451 00:24:06,280 --> 00:24:08,680 Speaker 2: so much shit in that we need to get somebody 452 00:24:08,760 --> 00:24:10,679 Speaker 2: to like go through it. Yeah, we gotta give real 453 00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,120 Speaker 2: organized chat. But we're coming. We're coming. We're gonna match off. 454 00:24:13,200 --> 00:24:15,960 Speaker 2: We're going to match all real good. Okay, So Joh says, Hi, there, 455 00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,360 Speaker 2: a friend just sent me your Instagram post about your 456 00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:23,040 Speaker 2: new matchmaking service, and I figured you couldn't do any 457 00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:26,120 Speaker 2: worse then I've been. Oh, I couldn't do any worse 458 00:24:26,119 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 2: that I've been doing trying to find a boyfriend. So 459 00:24:28,920 --> 00:24:31,800 Speaker 2: here we are, I said. His name is Josh, she's 460 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:35,440 Speaker 2: forty four and currently in Minneapolis. Okay, so this is 461 00:24:35,440 --> 00:24:39,480 Speaker 2: for our Minneapolis people, or not really, but anywhere anywhere. Yeah. 462 00:24:39,560 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 2: At this point, I like music, staying active, hanging out 463 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 2: with friends, and relaxing with my cat Ali. For work, 464 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:49,240 Speaker 2: I'm an associate creative director for a software company and 465 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:52,480 Speaker 2: I'm working on also getting my personal training and nutrition 466 00:24:52,640 --> 00:24:56,720 Speaker 2: coaching license. As for what I'm looking for, I'd love 467 00:24:56,760 --> 00:25:00,520 Speaker 2: to find sweet, fun, cute guide to do life with. Basically, 468 00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:03,520 Speaker 2: I like guys who equally enjoyed going out and staying 469 00:25:03,560 --> 00:25:07,399 Speaker 2: in and who also enjoy fitness as it's such a 470 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:11,679 Speaker 2: big part of my life. I've even recently started competing 471 00:25:11,800 --> 00:25:15,760 Speaker 2: in physique bodybuilding competitions. Ooh, so he is fit. Okay, 472 00:25:16,160 --> 00:25:18,399 Speaker 2: I like that, love it. No hang ups on age, 473 00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:21,080 Speaker 2: hair color, or race, but some well kept facial hair 474 00:25:21,119 --> 00:25:24,960 Speaker 2: and tattoos are a huge plus. Okay. Also, anybody who 475 00:25:25,400 --> 00:25:29,320 Speaker 2: didn't vote blue in our most recent election won't be 476 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:34,960 Speaker 2: a match for me. Okay, I've attached a few recent picks. 477 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:38,560 Speaker 2: Feel free to check out the Instagram. Thank you and 478 00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:40,600 Speaker 2: I appreciate your help. Doesella and Robin want to give 479 00:25:41,359 --> 00:25:44,639 Speaker 2: in my search for a new favorite plus one? Okay? So, 480 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 2: and his name is Josh Thomas. So if that speaks 481 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,160 Speaker 2: to you, yes, let us know, yeah right in, Yeah, 482 00:25:50,280 --> 00:25:52,840 Speaker 2: say I want to up with Josh. Yeah, Josh, who's 483 00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:53,800 Speaker 2: the bodybuilding Yes? 484 00:25:53,840 --> 00:25:55,920 Speaker 1: Okay, so I have a question since we're along lines 485 00:25:55,960 --> 00:25:58,520 Speaker 1: of like dating and stuff. Yes, my favorite subject is 486 00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 1: not necessarily just dating. Just when you go out to 487 00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:03,159 Speaker 1: dinner with other people. 488 00:26:04,119 --> 00:26:04,680 Speaker 2: Is this a date? 489 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:06,200 Speaker 1: No, it doesn't have to be. That's what I'm saying, 490 00:26:06,280 --> 00:26:07,600 Speaker 1: Like it can be a day, it doesn't have to be. 491 00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 1: Have you ever had experienced anyone asking the waiter for 492 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,720 Speaker 1: a cup of hot water so that they can put 493 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,920 Speaker 1: their silverware into the cup of hot water to clean it. 494 00:26:20,040 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 2: No, no, you haven't, have you this is something you did. 495 00:26:23,720 --> 00:26:24,359 Speaker 2: You did that. 496 00:26:24,960 --> 00:26:30,479 Speaker 1: No, this is something that one did and does sometimes does. 497 00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:32,119 Speaker 1: So he did it, so he doesn't do it as 498 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:34,080 Speaker 1: much now now that like we're older and we go 499 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:38,440 Speaker 1: like nicer restaurants. Oh okay, But like when I first 500 00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:41,280 Speaker 1: met him, and for a long long time, it didn't 501 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:44,440 Speaker 1: like whenever we would be out at a restaurant, it's 502 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 1: like can I get a Can I get a can I. 503 00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 2: Get a cup of hot water? And they'd be like yeah, sure, 504 00:26:48,760 --> 00:26:51,320 Speaker 2: I'm like okay, what's this work? Yeah? And then hot 505 00:26:51,320 --> 00:26:54,119 Speaker 2: water comes and then he takes the silverware and dumps 506 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:56,960 Speaker 2: it in, puts it in the hot water. Okay, because 507 00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:59,640 Speaker 2: you know, he doesn't trust that the silverware is clean, 508 00:27:01,560 --> 00:27:04,159 Speaker 2: And so for me, I'm like it makes sense. I 509 00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:07,879 Speaker 2: get it, yes, but it's just so like, oh, like 510 00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:10,159 Speaker 2: I don't. I don't. I'm like why, Like it's like 511 00:27:10,200 --> 00:27:12,280 Speaker 2: I don't want to use the word ghetto. It's like 512 00:27:13,720 --> 00:27:15,400 Speaker 2: we can't use that on ghetto. I mean, I don't 513 00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:17,440 Speaker 2: know what do we call it. It's just like no, 514 00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:20,720 Speaker 2: like why why are you doing this? Why are you 515 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:21,440 Speaker 2: doing this? Sir? 516 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,359 Speaker 1: Be at like a nice restaurant or a restaurant and 517 00:27:24,400 --> 00:27:26,480 Speaker 1: he asks for plastic plastic? 518 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:29,760 Speaker 2: What forks and eyes? Why because it's in the plastic 519 00:27:30,080 --> 00:27:32,920 Speaker 2: because he's a germophobe or you know, like you can't 520 00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 2: for him? Does it? Does he has he ever talked 521 00:27:34,760 --> 00:27:37,720 Speaker 2: about therapist about this. He will get more sick from 522 00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:41,119 Speaker 2: the food, right than the utensils. I just need for 523 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:41,520 Speaker 2: him to know. 524 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:44,600 Speaker 1: But when you think about it, think about it, the 525 00:27:44,720 --> 00:27:47,000 Speaker 1: utensils and the plates in the in the city. That's 526 00:27:47,000 --> 00:27:48,480 Speaker 1: when you just start going and it's like deep dive 527 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:49,919 Speaker 1: the cups, the glasses. 528 00:27:50,000 --> 00:27:53,679 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you don't know who's been using this stuff. No, 529 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:56,520 Speaker 2: you don't know how well it's been Why No, but 530 00:27:56,600 --> 00:27:59,160 Speaker 2: you don't. But again, he'll get more sick from the 531 00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 2: food and the preparation of the food as opposed to 532 00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:07,000 Speaker 2: the plates, the cups, the forks, the knives. True, so 533 00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:09,160 Speaker 2: he needs to know that. Okay, so if a man 534 00:28:09,200 --> 00:28:11,240 Speaker 2: did that, if you're on a date, yeah, so Jesus 535 00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,639 Speaker 2: and a man did that. Yeah, okay, Well, first of all, 536 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,959 Speaker 2: I'm not going to like a booty restaurant. No, No, you're 537 00:28:16,960 --> 00:28:19,080 Speaker 2: at a good rest a nice restaurant. You at a 538 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,360 Speaker 2: nice restaurant. And I'm on a date with wine walk 539 00:28:22,800 --> 00:28:27,000 Speaker 2: it's our first date. Why am not going on my 540 00:28:27,080 --> 00:28:30,600 Speaker 2: first day? And he asked the guy for the waiter 541 00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:33,480 Speaker 2: for a hot water and then I see him take 542 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:37,359 Speaker 2: his utensils and slam them into the cup of our water. 543 00:28:37,840 --> 00:28:42,520 Speaker 2: But yes, that's probably our last date. Yes, no question, 544 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,240 Speaker 2: because I'll be like what are you doing? What are 545 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 2: you doing? And like what else are you going to 546 00:28:46,880 --> 00:28:50,000 Speaker 2: be doing? Right? And like okay, and I'm okay, let 547 00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:52,240 Speaker 2: me just say this. I there might be times where, 548 00:28:52,440 --> 00:28:54,680 Speaker 2: unique to him, I know other people that do it. Okay, 549 00:28:54,720 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 2: we're gonna take wine out of this, but there are 550 00:28:57,040 --> 00:29:00,280 Speaker 2: times where like I'm not like, let's say it's a 551 00:29:00,320 --> 00:29:03,520 Speaker 2: passionate moment and it's just like I mean, like all 552 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,680 Speaker 2: day sweat. Yeah, weeks, we're getting it on, like this 553 00:29:06,840 --> 00:29:09,920 Speaker 2: person that takes the hot water and sixty's utensils, then 554 00:29:09,960 --> 00:29:12,400 Speaker 2: it might require that I take a shower before you 555 00:29:12,520 --> 00:29:15,600 Speaker 2: get it on. But but like if it's a hot, 556 00:29:15,640 --> 00:29:18,040 Speaker 2: sexy moment, like I don't want him to be like, oh, 557 00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:20,600 Speaker 2: go jump in the shower right yet No, right, that 558 00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:23,600 Speaker 2: would piss me off. Okay, Okay, yeah, I mean I 559 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:26,360 Speaker 2: understand where you're going with that. Yes, let's just be 560 00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:29,600 Speaker 2: in the moment. Yes, And I mean I mean I'm 561 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:34,000 Speaker 2: normally clean, right, yes, But if that person is like 562 00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:38,240 Speaker 2: with you, like clearly they know you, they trust you, 563 00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:40,840 Speaker 2: like you know, they're willing to I mean I feel 564 00:29:40,880 --> 00:29:43,120 Speaker 2: like if you're willing to like kiss somebody, then like, yeah, 565 00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:46,160 Speaker 2: the germ thing is not an issue true. So so 566 00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:49,120 Speaker 2: like I don't think that I don't really relate the two. Okay, 567 00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:52,080 Speaker 2: I don't think they apply. It's more on like I 568 00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:54,760 Speaker 2: don't know who was here eating, drinking or you know, 569 00:29:54,840 --> 00:29:58,360 Speaker 2: using the Does he deal with hotels? He hates them 570 00:29:58,800 --> 00:30:01,680 Speaker 2: because somebody has slept in that? Yeah? Okay, yeah, I 571 00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:04,360 Speaker 2: mean the whole thing it's it's it's a it's a production, 572 00:30:04,640 --> 00:30:07,000 Speaker 2: it's and I'm kind of like that too, like as 573 00:30:07,000 --> 00:30:08,920 Speaker 2: soon as we step foot in the hotel, it's we 574 00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:13,120 Speaker 2: are wiping spring everything. Okay, and yes, and it is. 575 00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:16,120 Speaker 2: And we don't walk barefoot. We don't you know, we 576 00:30:16,160 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 2: don't really touch anything type of stuff. Okay. So it's 577 00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,040 Speaker 2: a it's a thing, it's a production. Okay, all right, 578 00:30:22,160 --> 00:30:24,880 Speaker 2: So we don't feel like we need therapy for this, No, 579 00:30:25,360 --> 00:30:27,760 Speaker 2: the Dixons not because we don't just send one. We're 580 00:30:27,800 --> 00:30:31,760 Speaker 2: sitting both of you, okay, maybe even Corey like, oh 581 00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:33,959 Speaker 2: oh yeah, my kids do, ye, yeah, they don't. All 582 00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:36,840 Speaker 2: y'all are going together. Yeah, we we're all like, yeah, 583 00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,040 Speaker 2: I'm gonna send a person to the house, so y'all 584 00:30:39,080 --> 00:30:40,400 Speaker 2: don't have to, like because we know you don't want 585 00:30:40,400 --> 00:30:44,000 Speaker 2: to leave, so right, but that's in our house. So 586 00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:46,640 Speaker 2: it's more like we gotta but y'all have to venture 587 00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:49,520 Speaker 2: out at some point. Yeah. Yeah, so you have to 588 00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:53,480 Speaker 2: be comfortable venturing out. I know. I'm sitting a therapist over. Yeah, 589 00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:56,120 Speaker 2: that's gonna be my Christmas your birthday present. Okay, great, 590 00:30:56,200 --> 00:31:07,640 Speaker 2: thank you, And the therapy is for the entire freaking family. Okay. 591 00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:10,520 Speaker 2: Do you have any other questions? I might okay, because 592 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:13,640 Speaker 2: that was a doozy. Yes, while you're looking that up, 593 00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:17,800 Speaker 2: I want to read that. Hi, Robin and Joseille. My 594 00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:21,760 Speaker 2: name is Andrea Anderson by the way, Okay, can we pause? Yeah? 595 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,680 Speaker 2: What exactly does a doozy mean? That's a doozy? Yeah? 596 00:31:25,400 --> 00:31:28,800 Speaker 2: What exactly does that mean? That's big? Doozy is big? 597 00:31:28,960 --> 00:31:31,840 Speaker 2: So I feel like sometimes it's like bad and sometimes 598 00:31:31,840 --> 00:31:34,760 Speaker 2: it's good. That's a doozy, you know what I mean? 599 00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:38,040 Speaker 2: Like it was a doozy. It could be it's howthic, 600 00:31:38,080 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 2: it's how you use it. Yeah, but it's a big thing. Okay, Yeah, 601 00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:45,560 Speaker 2: it's a big situation, right right. I guess I don't know, 602 00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:48,440 Speaker 2: but I feel like sometimes it's like, oh, that was 603 00:31:48,640 --> 00:31:51,440 Speaker 2: that was a doozy? Yes, yeah, which was, but it 604 00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:54,760 Speaker 2: was whatever you're referring to is a big Yeah. I'm 605 00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:57,520 Speaker 2: like I want to I want like, okay, something unique, Okay, 606 00:31:57,560 --> 00:32:02,880 Speaker 2: something outstanding or unique of it's kind. Yeah, big large 607 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:05,400 Speaker 2: penises Okay, moving. 608 00:32:05,120 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 1: On, extraordinary, unusual, or unprecedented okay. 609 00:32:09,240 --> 00:32:09,400 Speaker 2: Oh. 610 00:32:09,520 --> 00:32:11,920 Speaker 1: It can be used to describe something that is good 611 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:12,720 Speaker 1: or bad. 612 00:32:12,880 --> 00:32:20,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, or big penises okay, anyway, this is the counseling 613 00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:27,360 Speaker 2: Greek dates subject is dating. Oh, Okay, there's another dating 614 00:32:27,360 --> 00:32:30,320 Speaker 2: one because we got to give y'all people to figure 615 00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:31,800 Speaker 2: out whether or not you want to be with them. Okay, 616 00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:33,920 Speaker 2: So this is Hey, Robin and Gioselle. My name is 617 00:32:33,960 --> 00:32:38,000 Speaker 2: Andrea Anderson, and I'm fifty nine years old living in 618 00:32:39,040 --> 00:32:43,360 Speaker 2: charl Carrollton, Virginia, which is fifteen to twenty minutes from Hampton. 619 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:46,600 Speaker 2: Newport News. Y'all know I know about Hampton. I'm a 620 00:32:46,680 --> 00:32:50,479 Speaker 2: professional school counselor in Newport News Public School District. As 621 00:32:50,480 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 2: well as starting my e commerce business online. I'm interested 622 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:56,520 Speaker 2: in dating within and outside of my race, preferably with 623 00:32:56,680 --> 00:33:00,479 Speaker 2: men who are fifty five to sixty five, okay, that 624 00:33:00,560 --> 00:33:02,480 Speaker 2: are easy on the eyes and take care of their 625 00:33:02,520 --> 00:33:06,120 Speaker 2: bodies like I do. Thank you, ladies. So if you're 626 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:11,320 Speaker 2: easy on the eyes, if you are available, because like, 627 00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:14,040 Speaker 2: don't be coming trying to date somebody and you got 628 00:33:14,080 --> 00:33:18,560 Speaker 2: like a wife in three side chicks like no. So 629 00:33:18,600 --> 00:33:22,280 Speaker 2: if you're available then and you live in like the 630 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,240 Speaker 2: Newport News Hampton area, then let us know so we 631 00:33:25,280 --> 00:33:27,520 Speaker 2: can hook you up with Andrea. Okay, and we'll say, 632 00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:30,160 Speaker 2: man between fifty five and sixty five, fifty five to 633 00:33:30,360 --> 00:33:33,720 Speaker 2: sixty five, yeah, all right, or if you know a man, yeah, 634 00:33:34,040 --> 00:33:36,080 Speaker 2: so if you five, that's single one looking, if you 635 00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:42,640 Speaker 2: weren't married, what would your range be for you to date? Hmmm? 636 00:33:45,640 --> 00:33:52,880 Speaker 2: It would probably be forty and up forty to like 637 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:58,040 Speaker 2: sixty maybe, okay, forty to fifty two? Why fifty two 638 00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:01,160 Speaker 2: because fifty three is too old? Don't joking? 639 00:34:03,360 --> 00:34:07,320 Speaker 1: Okay, because okay, because fifty two is like pushing it 640 00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:11,440 Speaker 1: for me. So yeah, okay, I think why, I don't know, 641 00:34:11,640 --> 00:34:17,279 Speaker 1: I mean, okay, okay, maybe maybe fifty five, fifty two okay, three, okay, fine, 642 00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:20,040 Speaker 1: fifty five okay, fine, all right, forty to fifty five? 643 00:34:20,040 --> 00:34:23,359 Speaker 2: All right. What if he was like thirty eight hmm, 644 00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:27,400 Speaker 2: and he did be on probation, he'd be on probation, yeah, okay, 645 00:34:27,680 --> 00:34:30,480 Speaker 2: he might get fired, yeah, okay, yeah, yeah he would. Yeah, 646 00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:32,440 Speaker 2: he'd be on like, yeah, it would be probation. And 647 00:34:32,480 --> 00:34:35,520 Speaker 2: for how long is probation? Six months a year? Ninety 648 00:34:35,600 --> 00:34:40,359 Speaker 2: days at least six months, at least six months? Yeah, okay, yeah, 649 00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:42,080 Speaker 2: I feel that. I like that. Yeah. So I'm not 650 00:34:42,120 --> 00:34:44,040 Speaker 2: saying like I wouldn't talk to a thirty eight year old, 651 00:34:44,080 --> 00:34:46,239 Speaker 2: but I would n't take him seriously, you know, it 652 00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:48,480 Speaker 2: would just be like, you know, you kind of hang 653 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:52,280 Speaker 2: out or whatever, and yeah, have zero expectations, zero expectations, 654 00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:57,279 Speaker 2: just sex, yeah, sure, okay, and companionship in going to 655 00:34:57,320 --> 00:34:59,480 Speaker 2: the movies that you don't go to. Yeah, okay, all right, 656 00:34:59,760 --> 00:35:03,239 Speaker 2: very speaking of married and kids and all that type 657 00:35:03,280 --> 00:35:07,640 Speaker 2: of stuff. Yeah, we have a scenario, oh okay that 658 00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,720 Speaker 2: somebody emailed us. Okay, one of our favorites may shout 659 00:35:10,719 --> 00:35:13,279 Speaker 2: out to me me maybe this is a what would 660 00:35:13,280 --> 00:35:16,439 Speaker 2: you do? Scenario? This is not her scenario, but maybe 661 00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:20,680 Speaker 2: Lyon maybe Lion because it's hard, sir. She's always sending 662 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,399 Speaker 2: us these good scenarios. Okay, but this is an interesting one, 663 00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:23,800 Speaker 2: I thought. 664 00:35:23,920 --> 00:35:28,560 Speaker 1: So the title reads, my husband is mourning his dead mistress. 665 00:35:29,120 --> 00:35:32,240 Speaker 2: What okay? By the way, do you ever come across 666 00:35:32,239 --> 00:35:36,640 Speaker 2: on Instagram people are like they're like sharing these stories. Yes, 667 00:35:36,960 --> 00:35:39,760 Speaker 2: and when you're when they're sharing them, you're like, damn, 668 00:35:40,000 --> 00:35:42,080 Speaker 2: like girl, you got a lot going on? Yeah, like 669 00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:44,840 Speaker 2: what's going on? And then you realize like they're reading 670 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:49,200 Speaker 2: other people's stories. No, so like every so, so they're 671 00:35:49,280 --> 00:35:51,359 Speaker 2: they're and this is probably where it's coming from. They're 672 00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:52,359 Speaker 2: like Reddit. 673 00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:55,960 Speaker 1: Posts or stories from Reddit, and the person is reading 674 00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:59,280 Speaker 1: it like it's like them. Yeah, but it's like story time. 675 00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:02,320 Speaker 2: Okay, because and then if you so, if you scroll 676 00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:04,839 Speaker 2: their page, then they're reading another story time and it's 677 00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:07,279 Speaker 2: like a completely different story. Okay, because this girl, because 678 00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:09,680 Speaker 2: I was on a deep dive with this girl that 679 00:36:10,440 --> 00:36:13,680 Speaker 2: knew that her husband was cheating and he was with 680 00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:15,680 Speaker 2: his mistress when he said he kept going on these 681 00:36:15,719 --> 00:36:19,040 Speaker 2: work trips. So that was all fake. So it's probably 682 00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:21,799 Speaker 2: not really her. She's it's like story she's having story time. 683 00:36:21,960 --> 00:36:25,719 Speaker 2: She's reading someone else, really story. I listened to the 684 00:36:25,719 --> 00:36:27,600 Speaker 2: whole thing, right, and then she said, okay, stay tuned 685 00:36:27,600 --> 00:36:29,840 Speaker 2: for what's gonna happen when they when they land, I 686 00:36:29,880 --> 00:36:31,920 Speaker 2: stay tuned. I tried to scroll to figure out, like 687 00:36:31,960 --> 00:36:34,680 Speaker 2: what happened, but I couldn't get that information. Okay, so 688 00:36:34,719 --> 00:36:36,839 Speaker 2: maybe it was story time with story time. Okay, y'all 689 00:36:36,880 --> 00:36:38,360 Speaker 2: stop doing that. Yeah, so, by the way, this is 690 00:36:38,360 --> 00:36:40,160 Speaker 2: a story time. By the way, are you ever on 691 00:36:40,320 --> 00:36:43,840 Speaker 2: read it? No? Okay? Sood I know people on Reddit 692 00:36:44,200 --> 00:36:47,440 Speaker 2: and they enjoy it because you know how X is 693 00:36:47,480 --> 00:36:51,280 Speaker 2: too toxic huh, so they say read it is better toxic, 694 00:36:51,320 --> 00:36:53,799 Speaker 2: but not as docic. Okay, but it's given you the 695 00:36:53,840 --> 00:36:57,200 Speaker 2: truth about like what's really going on with the government 696 00:36:57,480 --> 00:37:00,759 Speaker 2: and with Trump and all that. See. I feel like 697 00:37:01,840 --> 00:37:05,960 Speaker 2: Reddit sometimes when I like I google something, yeah, like search, 698 00:37:07,239 --> 00:37:09,760 Speaker 2: some of the stuff comes up from like Reddit or whatever, 699 00:37:09,880 --> 00:37:11,640 Speaker 2: like a response or whatever, and. 700 00:37:11,600 --> 00:37:14,279 Speaker 1: It just seems like Reddit can take you on this 701 00:37:14,440 --> 00:37:16,800 Speaker 1: like rabbit hole that you just can't get out of. 702 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:20,520 Speaker 2: Okay, probably probably. Yeah. Well they was entertaining trying to 703 00:37:20,560 --> 00:37:26,600 Speaker 2: find out thread. Yeah, and oh that's intriguing. Okay, that's interesting. Yeah, okay, 704 00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:28,160 Speaker 2: all right, Okay, Yeah, I'm sure there's a lot. Yeah, 705 00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:30,680 Speaker 2: I'm sure we're missing out. I heard that people talk 706 00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:33,719 Speaker 2: about you know, us on Reddit a lot too, like 707 00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:37,920 Speaker 2: just reality people in general. Okay, like, yeah, I don't 708 00:37:37,920 --> 00:37:39,640 Speaker 2: know people like oh yeah, they always talking about you 709 00:37:39,640 --> 00:37:42,839 Speaker 2: on Reddit. Oh okay, yeah I don't have Reddit. Yeah, 710 00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:44,400 Speaker 2: I'm not gonna there. Okay. 711 00:37:45,080 --> 00:37:48,120 Speaker 1: So three months ago, Yeah, the woman who was having 712 00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:51,680 Speaker 1: an affair with my husband died suddenly from an accident. 713 00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:54,800 Speaker 2: Okay that did she kill him? Kill her? Did the 714 00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:57,359 Speaker 2: wife kill the side chick? No? Okay, she said. 715 00:37:57,400 --> 00:37:59,920 Speaker 1: I found out about the affair only two days after 716 00:38:00,080 --> 00:38:02,960 Speaker 1: to her funeral. I thought she was simply a coworker, 717 00:38:03,000 --> 00:38:05,440 Speaker 1: and I was wondering why my husband was so disturbed 718 00:38:05,480 --> 00:38:08,600 Speaker 1: and emotional. He quit his job, saying it was too traumatic, 719 00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:11,080 Speaker 1: too traumatic to go to work. She was in the 720 00:38:11,120 --> 00:38:14,120 Speaker 1: early weeks of pregnancy when she died, and my husband 721 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:17,239 Speaker 1: doesn't know whether he or her husband was the father. 722 00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:17,840 Speaker 2: Ooh. 723 00:38:18,040 --> 00:38:20,480 Speaker 1: So on top of everything, he's also grieving for a 724 00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:23,200 Speaker 1: baby which may or may not have been his. I 725 00:38:23,239 --> 00:38:27,279 Speaker 1: find it extremely difficult to be emotionally supportive when he 726 00:38:27,360 --> 00:38:31,400 Speaker 1: wakes up at three am crying and trembling. Yet I 727 00:38:31,400 --> 00:38:33,480 Speaker 1: don't have the heart to yell at him like I 728 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:36,280 Speaker 1: want to. He says she's dead, so there's no reason 729 00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:39,239 Speaker 1: for me to feel jealous or threatened and ask for 730 00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:43,279 Speaker 1: my understanding as he grieves. We've barely talked these last 731 00:38:43,320 --> 00:38:45,319 Speaker 1: weeks because I don't know how to respond to him 732 00:38:45,320 --> 00:38:48,360 Speaker 1: when he cries and says he misses her and wishes 733 00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:51,360 Speaker 1: she were here. Then also how much he loves me 734 00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:54,239 Speaker 1: and that he never intended to leave me what. I 735 00:38:54,280 --> 00:38:56,560 Speaker 1: asked him to visit a marriage therapist together, and he 736 00:38:56,640 --> 00:38:58,760 Speaker 1: said he is not ready to work on our marriage 737 00:38:59,000 --> 00:39:01,880 Speaker 1: and thinks he needs to see a grief therapist instead. 738 00:39:02,640 --> 00:39:04,680 Speaker 1: Do I need to give him time to mourn the 739 00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:07,680 Speaker 1: loss of his mistress. Hell, or should I demand he 740 00:39:07,800 --> 00:39:09,680 Speaker 1: focused on our marriage? 741 00:39:11,320 --> 00:39:18,920 Speaker 2: Right? This is why? Okay, so is this reasonable? Shady's 742 00:39:18,920 --> 00:39:20,799 Speaker 2: that the question? No, it's what would you do? What 743 00:39:20,840 --> 00:39:24,200 Speaker 2: would you do? Okay? What would I divorce? Lase? Yes? Yeah, 744 00:39:24,480 --> 00:39:25,600 Speaker 2: this I feel. 745 00:39:25,280 --> 00:39:30,399 Speaker 1: Like you can't get You're never gonna work through this, no, like. 746 00:39:30,480 --> 00:39:32,960 Speaker 2: Ever, even though she's dead and she's quote not a 747 00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:36,160 Speaker 2: threat anymore. Like, I can't help you with your grief. 748 00:39:36,400 --> 00:39:39,880 Speaker 1: Like, so I can't be a spout a wife to you, right, 749 00:39:40,440 --> 00:39:42,719 Speaker 1: to my husband that's grieving, I can't help you. 750 00:39:43,160 --> 00:39:46,320 Speaker 2: Well, it's kind of similar to when your husband cheats 751 00:39:46,840 --> 00:39:50,879 Speaker 2: and there's a baby, Like he wants you to then 752 00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:53,919 Speaker 2: be nice to the baby, right, and I can't even 753 00:39:53,920 --> 00:39:56,000 Speaker 2: be nice to you. To you, so you got to go, 754 00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:58,640 Speaker 2: right and God bless you with the baby? Right? Yeah, 755 00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:01,279 Speaker 2: that's how I feel about this. Yeah, this is me too. 756 00:40:01,320 --> 00:40:05,040 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, no, like, forget working on the marriage. 757 00:40:05,120 --> 00:40:05,560 Speaker 2: I can't. 758 00:40:05,640 --> 00:40:10,759 Speaker 1: I can't even help you recover from your grief in 759 00:40:10,920 --> 00:40:12,240 Speaker 1: order to work on the marriage. 760 00:40:12,280 --> 00:40:14,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, so you know, like we can't do this? No 761 00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:18,440 Speaker 2: me me? Yeah that does that mean? Yeah? Okay, so 762 00:40:18,480 --> 00:40:20,839 Speaker 2: which one I gotta ask, Mamie, tell us which one 763 00:40:20,840 --> 00:40:24,200 Speaker 2: on you are you the she's not married, she's not married, 764 00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:26,200 Speaker 2: she's not the mistress that died. Yeah, so she's got 765 00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:33,080 Speaker 2: to be the wife. Yeah ish yeah, Yeah, that was wild. 766 00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:34,600 Speaker 2: I was like, oh, this is juicy. 767 00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:37,920 Speaker 1: Okay, I have another random question. 768 00:40:38,040 --> 00:40:38,920 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay. 769 00:40:39,640 --> 00:40:42,640 Speaker 1: When you're on the phone talking to someone HM and 770 00:40:42,680 --> 00:40:45,320 Speaker 1: you get a call coming in, yeah, do you click 771 00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:47,040 Speaker 1: over or do you just let it go to voicemail 772 00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:48,000 Speaker 1: and then call the person back. 773 00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:50,120 Speaker 2: I let it go to voicemail and call the person back, 774 00:40:50,239 --> 00:40:52,040 Speaker 2: unless it's like somebody, I need to talk to you 775 00:40:52,160 --> 00:40:53,880 Speaker 2: right then I'll be like hold on a second, but 776 00:40:53,920 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 2: it'll be something like that's ten seconds, right, like not. 777 00:40:57,360 --> 00:40:59,880 Speaker 2: I think at this point, like I never want to 778 00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:03,000 Speaker 2: be my phone anyway. So anybody disturbing the conversation that 779 00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:06,399 Speaker 2: I really don't want to even have, can wait? Yes? Yeah, yes, 780 00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:09,520 Speaker 2: so that is like a huge issue in my house. 781 00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:12,600 Speaker 2: I want to say a huge issue, not a huge okay, 782 00:41:12,640 --> 00:41:15,160 Speaker 2: because I don't like to click over. So if I'm 783 00:41:15,200 --> 00:41:18,879 Speaker 2: on the phone with someone, I want to finish my conversation, yeah, 784 00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:22,120 Speaker 2: and then I'll call the person back, one who's calling 785 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:26,400 Speaker 2: me right incessantly. Yes, okay, yes, you know, but he 786 00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:31,000 Speaker 2: is like he so when I do that, it drives 787 00:41:31,080 --> 00:41:34,000 Speaker 2: him crazy because he's like, just click over, just stay 788 00:41:34,000 --> 00:41:36,239 Speaker 2: hold on and click over and tell me you're gonna 789 00:41:36,239 --> 00:41:37,759 Speaker 2: call me back. And I'm like, no, like I would 790 00:41:37,840 --> 00:41:41,719 Speaker 2: rather finish my conversation, especially if the other person is 791 00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:44,880 Speaker 2: in the middle of like talking, right, So like totally, 792 00:41:44,920 --> 00:41:46,600 Speaker 2: if I'm the one that's talking, then I might be. 793 00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:48,560 Speaker 1: Like, oh wait, hold on for a second. Yeah, but 794 00:41:48,600 --> 00:41:50,240 Speaker 1: I don't like to interrupt people. 795 00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:53,920 Speaker 2: Right, right, And okay, when you do, because it's wine, 796 00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:57,239 Speaker 2: no shade to wine. But when you know that when 797 00:41:57,320 --> 00:42:00,920 Speaker 2: you click over, he's saying nothing, right, right, why are 798 00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:03,120 Speaker 2: we doing this? Right? That's why I'm like, you're just 799 00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 2: gonna be like what are you doing? Where are you 800 00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,279 Speaker 2: or like what time are we picking the core up? Yes, 801 00:42:07,719 --> 00:42:10,000 Speaker 2: I'm like that's not urgent, But it's not urgent. How 802 00:42:10,000 --> 00:42:12,279 Speaker 2: about this? Wan sent a text and I'll text you 803 00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:14,360 Speaker 2: back because you can. I can talk in text. Right. No, 804 00:42:14,560 --> 00:42:15,719 Speaker 2: I don't like to do it, but I mean a 805 00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:19,520 Speaker 2: little bit, I can do that. Yeah, but yeah, no, 806 00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:22,160 Speaker 2: and because this is what you'll do because because I 807 00:42:22,200 --> 00:42:24,400 Speaker 2: know this scenario, you'd be like, oh my god, you 808 00:42:24,520 --> 00:42:26,680 Speaker 2: that wants blowing me up. I gotta go because he 809 00:42:26,680 --> 00:42:30,719 Speaker 2: didn't call four times. Just by the time stop. If 810 00:42:30,719 --> 00:42:34,080 Speaker 2: we're on the phone and the phone is like he calls, 811 00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:36,000 Speaker 2: I don't answer that, he calls back, I don't answer, 812 00:42:36,000 --> 00:42:38,200 Speaker 2: and he calls again, I'm like, all right, let me 813 00:42:38,520 --> 00:42:41,600 Speaker 2: I gotta go, gotta go, And then you click over 814 00:42:41,800 --> 00:42:47,280 Speaker 2: and he's like, Ron, what's up? Will we have for dinner? What? Boy? 815 00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:51,799 Speaker 2: I mean? I guess so I can't get mad. I've 816 00:42:51,800 --> 00:42:54,440 Speaker 2: tried to get divorced, but okay, but take him out 817 00:42:54,440 --> 00:42:57,920 Speaker 2: of it. Just in general, they're like that to my kids, 818 00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 2: do that to me, and I'm just like, Quary will 819 00:43:00,640 --> 00:43:04,360 Speaker 2: blow me up? What is it? What is so important? Right? Nothing? Yes? 820 00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:06,279 Speaker 2: And a door will be like sitting in her bed 821 00:43:06,320 --> 00:43:08,279 Speaker 2: and she's just like, oh mom, I just want to 822 00:43:08,280 --> 00:43:11,600 Speaker 2: talk to you, yes about what? Right? I need to 823 00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:15,560 Speaker 2: know about what? Yes? Yes, Corey will blow me up 824 00:43:15,640 --> 00:43:18,560 Speaker 2: if I don't answer. But in general, if I'm on 825 00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:20,879 Speaker 2: the phone, I'm talking to someone, I want to finish 826 00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:25,560 Speaker 2: that conversation. Yeah before moving on clicking over. Yeah, No, totally, 827 00:43:25,960 --> 00:43:28,279 Speaker 2: totally it's rude. Well, it's not really rude, but it's 828 00:43:28,320 --> 00:43:31,640 Speaker 2: just like, oh yeah, it's just it's not rude, it's 829 00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:35,279 Speaker 2: just yeah, it's yeah, I just want to finish my conversation. Yeah, 830 00:43:36,000 --> 00:43:38,279 Speaker 2: to help people at our age lose their train of thought. 831 00:43:38,400 --> 00:43:42,520 Speaker 2: It's quick, quick, even with my blueberries quick. I'm like, 832 00:43:42,520 --> 00:43:45,799 Speaker 2: what was I talking about? It happens all the time exactly. Yeah, 833 00:43:45,880 --> 00:43:51,640 Speaker 2: So like, let's just finish conversation. Okay, I think that's it. 834 00:43:51,719 --> 00:43:54,399 Speaker 2: You No, you don't have another moment? Okay? One more? Yeah, 835 00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:57,680 Speaker 2: one more? Okay, this is cute. Okay, this is really cute. 836 00:43:57,719 --> 00:44:01,399 Speaker 2: This is from Donna because the reason why I'm telling 837 00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:03,880 Speaker 2: you to read this last one because somebody has been 838 00:44:03,920 --> 00:44:07,319 Speaker 2: dming me saying, y'all can make the podcast longer. Oh 839 00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,480 Speaker 2: are y'all getting like? And I'm like, okay, so I 840 00:44:10,480 --> 00:44:13,080 Speaker 2: think I feel like a good forty five minutes is 841 00:44:13,120 --> 00:44:17,120 Speaker 2: a good time frame for people's attention. It is good. Yeah, 842 00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:19,640 Speaker 2: but sometimes you don't get screen dad, but they love us. 843 00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:22,959 Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, you want to hear more? Okay, so fine, 844 00:44:22,960 --> 00:44:23,560 Speaker 1: here's one more. 845 00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:24,799 Speaker 2: It's really cute. 846 00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:29,759 Speaker 1: This is from Donna Daferin aka Weezer weezer. 847 00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:31,080 Speaker 2: I think that's her grandma name. 848 00:44:31,120 --> 00:44:34,120 Speaker 1: Okay, so she says, hello, beautiful ladies. My granddaughter will 849 00:44:34,160 --> 00:44:35,120 Speaker 1: be three in March. 850 00:44:35,239 --> 00:44:39,480 Speaker 2: I was recently diagnosed with level three severe autism. 851 00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:42,840 Speaker 1: Oh, they stated, she would probably only mimic not really 852 00:44:42,880 --> 00:44:46,640 Speaker 1: connect with what she is learning. Without obviously having special 853 00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:49,600 Speaker 1: needs classes, she does have a tablet that she works 854 00:44:49,640 --> 00:44:52,560 Speaker 1: with ABC's one, two, three's colors, et cetera. Still, we 855 00:44:52,600 --> 00:44:54,799 Speaker 1: thought she was just mimicking because when we try to 856 00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:57,919 Speaker 1: engage her, she doesn't stay on tasks. She also isn't 857 00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:01,000 Speaker 1: very verbal. So last week we all went out to 858 00:45:01,080 --> 00:45:03,640 Speaker 1: eat and I was trying to engage her with I 859 00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:06,120 Speaker 1: was trying to engage with her so her mother, who's 860 00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:08,680 Speaker 1: my daughter, could enjoy her dinner with other family members. 861 00:45:08,680 --> 00:45:11,600 Speaker 1: Oh you're good, grandma. We were doing patty cake, and 862 00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:14,000 Speaker 1: all of a sudden, she looks up and then back 863 00:45:14,040 --> 00:45:16,759 Speaker 1: at me, and then back up and points up at 864 00:45:16,760 --> 00:45:18,760 Speaker 1: my hat and says are. 865 00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:20,360 Speaker 2: E. 866 00:45:21,719 --> 00:45:25,680 Speaker 1: And when she said ay, I realized what she was doing. 867 00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:29,720 Speaker 1: She was calling out the letters on my reasonably shady hat. 868 00:45:31,600 --> 00:45:36,760 Speaker 1: She said every letter in reasonably and that was not mimicking. 869 00:45:37,160 --> 00:45:41,480 Speaker 2: Oh I love this, she said. I was cheering, like, 870 00:45:41,520 --> 00:45:45,040 Speaker 2: what does that spell reasonably? And what do we want 871 00:45:45,080 --> 00:45:48,160 Speaker 2: to be shady? Oh? 872 00:45:48,239 --> 00:45:50,279 Speaker 1: I love that, but no, I didn't cheer that, but 873 00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:52,840 Speaker 1: I was cheering so big inside. I just told her yay, 874 00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:56,600 Speaker 1: not to overstimulate, especially since the restaurant is enough. Just 875 00:45:56,640 --> 00:45:59,640 Speaker 1: wanted to let y'all know how my favorite hat made 876 00:45:59,719 --> 00:46:00,200 Speaker 1: my life. 877 00:46:00,000 --> 00:46:01,000 Speaker 2: Life this weekend. 878 00:46:01,560 --> 00:46:04,400 Speaker 1: This mean old Weezer yes that's my grandma name, was 879 00:46:04,400 --> 00:46:07,080 Speaker 1: almost brought to tears all because of my reasonably shady hat. 880 00:46:07,320 --> 00:46:09,160 Speaker 1: Thank you so much, Thank you, lady, so much much. 881 00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:10,840 Speaker 1: Love Donna Daffern aka Weezer. 882 00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:13,719 Speaker 2: Ps. I also have two embellished hats. Love them. I 883 00:46:13,760 --> 00:46:15,360 Speaker 2: love that. Okay, so wait a minute, how old was 884 00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:18,879 Speaker 2: the child for? Three? Three? Three year old? 885 00:46:19,239 --> 00:46:21,120 Speaker 1: A three year old in general, and a three year 886 00:46:21,120 --> 00:46:22,320 Speaker 1: old with severe autism? 887 00:46:22,400 --> 00:46:23,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, make up the letters. 888 00:46:23,440 --> 00:46:27,960 Speaker 1: That's awesome. So hopefully your granddaughter continues. You didn't tell 889 00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:28,840 Speaker 1: us her name. 890 00:46:28,680 --> 00:46:31,759 Speaker 2: But hopefully I love the news to be able to 891 00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:34,879 Speaker 2: identify her numbers and letters and colors on her own. 892 00:46:34,960 --> 00:46:37,840 Speaker 2: And Yeesmber, Yeah, that's beautiful. I think that's amazing. That 893 00:46:37,880 --> 00:46:40,359 Speaker 2: was a good story. I needed to hear that. Listen, 894 00:46:40,400 --> 00:46:42,879 Speaker 2: we're changing the world, one person at a time. Robin, Yes, 895 00:46:42,960 --> 00:46:46,200 Speaker 2: we are the green eyed Vandon's are doing it, get 896 00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:49,920 Speaker 2: into it, and we absolutely love y'all. So but we're 897 00:46:49,920 --> 00:46:51,919 Speaker 2: out of here. Yep, now we're really out here. Yes, 898 00:46:52,120 --> 00:46:55,359 Speaker 2: So thank you for listening to our episodes, and don't 899 00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:58,080 Speaker 2: never forget to live your life either, Reasonable Shady, We're 900 00:46:58,120 --> 00:47:07,920 Speaker 2: both bye bye. 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