Speaker 1: You know a lot of guys out there like a
Speaker 1: girl with a little bit of an edge. Okay, I
Speaker 1: happened to be one of those dudes. And that's why
Speaker 1: I'm surprised that Amy, who's on the phone for a
Speaker 1: second date update today, isn't getting a call back. She
Speaker 1: did exactly what I like, and she called her date
Speaker 1: an a hole on their first date, and I'm so
Speaker 1: surprised that he's not getting back to her. That's really weird. Amy,
Speaker 1: did you say it in anger too? It was angry? Oh, unfortunately,
Speaker 1: so you angrily called your day in a hole. Whatever.
Speaker 1: I'm glad you want to call him back. How does
Speaker 1: that work? What happened? Well, okay, so I met this
Speaker 1: guy as he was Treasure, Trevor not Treasure. I was, yeah,
Speaker 1: I would hope his name was Treasure. I've never met
Speaker 1: a guy named Treasure, but I wanted to, all right,
Speaker 1: So his name was Trevor, Trevor, Trevor, right, and I
Speaker 1: met him my mind, and I thought he was really cute,
Speaker 1: and you know, he said he liked to work out,
Speaker 1: and he said he loves food. And then that's kind
Speaker 1: of what prompted me to start talking to him and
Speaker 1: we were talking about what the kind of food we love,
Speaker 1: and he was like, there came I be one person
Speaker 1: in this entire world who doesn't like a grilled cheese sandwich.
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god, I feel the
Speaker 1: same way. And that's when you got into it. That's
Speaker 1: when you said, screw you, you a hole. I love
Speaker 1: grilled cheese more. No, no, no, no. This was over
Speaker 1: the app, you know. It was just like back and forth,
Speaker 1: and then we started texting and we were like sending
Speaker 1: pictures of grilled cheeses to each other, and I was saying, like,
Speaker 1: I make like the best grilled cheese, Like it's my
Speaker 1: favorite food. I've got this great recipe. And I was like,
Speaker 1: you should come over and I'll make it for you.
Speaker 1: Are you really now, are you really that passionate about
Speaker 1: grilled cheese or were you just using this as a
Speaker 1: cute ploy back and forth. No, I really love it's seriously,
Speaker 1: it's like my favorite food. I order it any time
Speaker 1: of restaurant has it. I'm like a girl cheese aficionado.
Speaker 1: I always feel like it's a ripoff, like girl cheese
Speaker 1: so cheap to make over charged on the menu. It's
Speaker 1: usually over charged I'll give you that, but you know
Speaker 1: when you got all those different kinds of cheeses in
Speaker 1: it with four dough bread, Oh, I'm into it now.
Speaker 1: The girl the other date, So did he come over?
Speaker 1: And well, yeah, so this is how I ended up
Speaker 1: yelling at him. I was making the sandwiches and we
Speaker 1: were having a couple of drinks and we were talking
Speaker 1: and I was multitasking, and I went over to talk
Speaker 1: with him, and you know, I was nervous and I
Speaker 1: smelled something burning and I realized, crap, I burnt the sandwiches.
Speaker 1: And I felt like such an idiot. Yeah, I felt
Speaker 1: like such an idiot. And after yeah, saying that you're
Speaker 1: an artist, obviously you're not. Yeah, yeah, I talked to
Speaker 1: all this big talk and like, you know, here I
Speaker 1: am screwing it up. And then he came over and
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I'm so sorry here. What if
Speaker 1: you did it this way? What if you did it that?
Speaker 1: And he's not like that? Like I was like, why
Speaker 1: is this guy trying to tell me what to do?
Speaker 1: And so I freaked out. I like slammed down the pan.
Speaker 1: I went over into my room and I yelled out,
Speaker 1: I can do it myself. A hole and I slammed
Speaker 1: the door and say, so it was more than just
Speaker 1: calling him an a hole. You literally had a freak
Speaker 1: out erect your room. Yeah, all right, are you always unstable? No?
Speaker 1: I just did that moment. I mean it was but
Speaker 1: not it. You know, ladies, you know when it's a
Speaker 1: time of the month, what happened, you know, you get
Speaker 1: a little bit more emotional and you know it just
Speaker 1: it wasn't great timing to have a guy over, probably,
Speaker 1: and like I had a day anyway, like that morning
Speaker 1: was hard. So I just emotionally wasn't So it wasn't
Speaker 1: the best first day. You did not plan accordingly? No,
Speaker 1: I did it, but you know, I spent a couple
Speaker 1: of minutes in my room, like it was like, oh,
Speaker 1: I was so stupid. And then I walked out and
Speaker 1: we were laughing about it. Oh he was still there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: he stayed. It was really sweet, and I was like,
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry. I totally freaked out. I don't know
Speaker 1: why I did that. You were just trying to help,
Speaker 1: and he was like, it's totally cool. And then I
Speaker 1: made the sandwiches again. I did not burn them this
Speaker 1: time or recall him an a hole. He even slept over.
Speaker 1: We didn't do anything. He was just like, it's really late.
Speaker 1: Is a COOLF I sleep over? ILL sleep on the couch?
Speaker 1: Totally fine, He's The next morning I woke up got
Speaker 1: a note that said, hey, I had so much fun
Speaker 1: with you. Things again for the girl cheese, and then
Speaker 1: I like texted in the next day saying like, hey,
Speaker 1: I had so much fun too, and he said me too.
Speaker 1: And that's really all the conversation we've had and it's
Speaker 1: been like ten days. Wow, that's crazy. If I was
Speaker 1: hanging out at your house and you freaked out of
Speaker 1: me like that, the last thing I would want to
Speaker 1: do would be asleep there. Yeah, it doesn't make sense, right,
Speaker 1: And that's why I'm like, I'm calling you guys because
Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. I mean, is it
Speaker 1: He went home and he realized, whoa, she freaked out.
Speaker 1: I don't want to have anything to do with her?
Speaker 1: Or was it something else? Was there any moments of
Speaker 1: intimacy or did it just feel like you were hanging
Speaker 1: out his friends the whole time? We kissed right before
Speaker 1: he went to sleep. We had like one kiss, you know,
Speaker 1: nothing crazy, and it was nice and it felt like
Speaker 1: we left on a good note, but I don't know.
Speaker 1: I was confused. The real question is was how was
Speaker 1: your girl cheese? Did it actually hold up? It was
Speaker 1: really good, very good, and he so too. Yeah. I
Speaker 1: mean he said he liked it, but maybe he was lying.
Speaker 1: Maybe it was the grilled cheese that was the problem. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it could be. That's happened to me before. I've not
Speaker 1: called a lot of girls back because of a bad
Speaker 1: grilled cheese. Play a song, come back, call him and
Speaker 1: get your second day update. All right, cool, thanks guys, Okay,
Speaker 1: hang him. Well, if you're just joining us for today's
Speaker 1: second date update. Amy is on the phone, and Amy's
Speaker 1: not getting a call back because she sucks at making
Speaker 1: grilled cheese sandwiches. Don't say that just the worst, am I? Right? Amy,
Speaker 1: don't say that. I'm gonna have to cut you if
Speaker 1: you keep talking him like that. And that's the kind
Speaker 1: of anger that really is behind the reason Amy thinks
Speaker 1: she's not getting a call back. She met this dude
Speaker 1: named Trevor online. They were talking about their love for
Speaker 1: grilled cheese sandwiches, so she invited him over to her
Speaker 1: place to make the best grilled cheese ever. She actually
Speaker 1: ended up kind of starting to burn the sandwich, and
Speaker 1: then when he tried to help her out, she yelled
Speaker 1: at him and said, I could do it myself, You
Speaker 1: a hole, and then went and locked herself in a room.
Speaker 1: And surprisingly he stayed and they finished the date, and
Speaker 1: she said he actually seemed like he had a great time.
Speaker 1: He even stayed the night on her couch and they
Speaker 1: had a kiss. But now he's not calling her back,
Speaker 1: so we're gonna get him on the phone and find
Speaker 1: out why. And you did apologize for the freak out,
Speaker 1: But did you dwell on it too much? I don't
Speaker 1: think so. I mean, it happened and then we laughed
Speaker 1: about it, so I don't really think that it could
Speaker 1: be that, But I don't know what else it could
Speaker 1: be either though. All Right, well, I'm gonna Dallas phone
Speaker 1: Umber and see if we can find out why. Okay, cool? Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Trevor please? Yeah? This is Trevor.
Speaker 1: Hey Trevor, how are you. This is Jewel from Brook
Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, Okay, hi back. Have
Speaker 1: you ever heard of Brooke and Jewel in the Morning before? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I think Okay, what do you think it is. Then
Speaker 1: you guys are like a radio so right, Yes, and
Speaker 1: have you ever really listened? No? Not really? I know
Speaker 1: the name? No, okay, cool. Well that's a start. The
Speaker 1: reason I'm calling you today is because somebody who does
Speaker 1: listen to our show wanted us to call and get
Speaker 1: a hold of you. Cool. Could be cool, could not
Speaker 1: be cool? You don't know yet, I guess not. Her
Speaker 1: name is Amy. Oh okay, yeah, and Amy made you
Speaker 1: a grill cheese sandwich. Yes, she yes, she did about that. Yeah,
Speaker 1: she did tell us all about that. We do a
Speaker 1: segment on our show called the Second Date Update. So
Speaker 1: Amy wants to know why you're not calling her back
Speaker 1: after your date. It's not that I'm not calling you know,
Speaker 1: this is not really I don't want to like it's
Speaker 1: not that I'm not calling her back, but I'm not
Speaker 1: calling her back. I'm not calling No, it's just, you know,
Speaker 1: I don't want to talk about that kind of thing
Speaker 1: on it was we had a nice time, you know,
Speaker 1: it's one of those things. Amy's the one that wants
Speaker 1: to know. I mean, we're asking on her behalf. She
Speaker 1: said she'd be willing to hear whatever it is. I
Speaker 1: don't really know how much you guys already know, Like,
Speaker 1: how much do you guys know? Well, we know that
Speaker 1: you bonded over grilled cheese sandwiches, and you went to
Speaker 1: her house and she made you grilled cheese. But at
Speaker 1: one point she kind of burned it and then yelled
Speaker 1: at you and stormed off to her room, and somehow,
Speaker 1: somehow you stuck around. That was fun. No, that burning
Speaker 1: wasn't the thing, Like she freaked out, but it was
Speaker 1: like cute, it was funny. She wait, she slammed the
Speaker 1: pan down, called you an a hole, and you thought
Speaker 1: that was hysterical. No, it wasn't. I wasn't like dying laughing.
Speaker 1: But like, that's not why I'm not calling back. That
Speaker 1: wasn't an issue at all. Okay, so the anger issue
Speaker 1: is not a big deal with you. No, but I
Speaker 1: slept on her couch. I didn't. We didn't share a bed,
Speaker 1: so I'm not saying that at all. Um. But before,
Speaker 1: like she went to her room and I was on
Speaker 1: the couch, she had some pictures on the wall, like photographs,
Speaker 1: like professionally done ones that people get, and they were
Speaker 1: of her and a guy embracing it and like kissing,
Speaker 1: and these were like big pictures. These weren't like the
Speaker 1: little ones. Did they look like engagement photos or something
Speaker 1: like that style? Yeah, like that kind of thing they like,
Speaker 1: you know, they hired a photographer to take pictures of them,
Speaker 1: like holding each other and stuff. So I was just like,
Speaker 1: what are those and what she say? She went, Oh,
Speaker 1: that's my ex fiance whoa. And I was just like, Oh,
Speaker 1: that's weird. She's not currently with her fiance, then that's
Speaker 1: pretty strange to have engagement photos of herself. Phone three
Speaker 1: of them though, hanging up, and they were big photos.
Speaker 1: I can't stress that enough. Like they were. And you
Speaker 1: would think that if you're having a first date with
Speaker 1: a guy that that would be, I don't know, something
Speaker 1: on the agenda to take down before he comes to
Speaker 1: your house. Yeah, but I was willing, I guess kind
Speaker 1: of the laugh it off because I am going to
Speaker 1: sleep there. I don't want it to be like super
Speaker 1: crazy weird yea. And she goes, yeah, we're still really
Speaker 1: good friends, so right there, I'm like, all right, cool,
Speaker 1: I guess. And then and then she says, I told
Speaker 1: him I would keep them up until I found someone
Speaker 1: that I could replace them with. WHOA Like Oh cool,
Speaker 1: and that's awesome, But like I'm sleeping on her couch,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to have like the greatest night sleep.
Speaker 1: So I would like wake up and then just be
Speaker 1: looking at her and this, you know ex fiance like
Speaker 1: kissing and holding each other. And when you were looking
Speaker 1: at it, you weren't thinking, I hope that's me one day. No, No,
Speaker 1: I wasn't. I was thinking I need to sleep off
Speaker 1: a few drinks that I had and get out of here,
Speaker 1: like really fat. Well, guys, I don't like how this
Speaker 1: is going. I'm not. I'm not what's going on. Oh, Trevor,
Speaker 1: that's Amy. She's actually on the other line listening and
Speaker 1: wants to talk to you. Yeah. I've been listening to
Speaker 1: the whole thing. Heyst to the whole thing. Hi, it's
Speaker 1: nice to hear from you after ten days. It's nice
Speaker 1: to hear from you too, after ten days. I am
Speaker 1: like so disgusted right now. I cannot believe that that's
Speaker 1: the reason that you're like not calling me. You're talking
Speaker 1: to me because it's it's a perfectly good reason. You
Speaker 1: have pictures of you and your exce my relationship. Listen,
Speaker 1: I invited you into my home and it's my space,
Speaker 1: and you asked, and I just met you the first
Speaker 1: time I ever met you. You know why why? This
Speaker 1: guy is my best friend? Okay, and yeah we're broken
Speaker 1: up now, but he's a part of my life and
Speaker 1: he's part of my history and I talked to him
Speaker 1: every day and he's my best friend and I care
Speaker 1: for him. And I don't know why you're you're reacting
Speaker 1: like this. I don't think it's strange. You know, wouldn't
Speaker 1: you have pictures of you in your best friend? So
Speaker 1: what we're kissing in the photos? I think that's the
Speaker 1: point Amy, I would have never had of me and
Speaker 1: another girl kissing if I had anyone. I was kind
Speaker 1: of romantically interested in coming to thank you for the
Speaker 1: first time. This is the first time I ever met you.
Speaker 1: I'm inviting you to my house. The only thing I'm
Speaker 1: inviting you over. You're talking about cooking, and I wanted
Speaker 1: to cook you something. I'm not going to sit here
Speaker 1: and redecorate my house for some guy that you know
Speaker 1: I might not ever see again, which, by the way,
Speaker 1: I'm not going to because it's been ten days we spoke,
Speaker 1: all right, WHOA, you need to slow down this sounds
Speaker 1: way crazier than I already imagined. You crazy? You think
Speaker 1: I'm crazy? Well, you know what, You sound jealous, and
Speaker 1: a real man doesn't get jealous of other guys. I
Speaker 1: don't think you know if that's necessarily jealousy. It's just
Speaker 1: I kind of don't want to see what a mean.
Speaker 1: Can't you see that? Maybe it's a red flag that
Speaker 1: you're not quite over your past engagement, that you haven't
Speaker 1: taken the photos down. Sure, fine, it's it's a red
Speaker 1: flag to some stranger doesn't even know me. But I'm
Speaker 1: explaining to all of you people that he is my
Speaker 1: best friend and I care for him, and why should
Speaker 1: I take down photos for some guy I met online?
Speaker 1: But why would I do that? I have pictures of
Speaker 1: my best friend in my house and none of them
Speaker 1: are me and that person embracing. Oh well, I'm still
Speaker 1: really sorry for you because all of you apparently have
Speaker 1: a problem with intimacy. Oh no, I do have a
Speaker 1: problem with intimacy. I'd like to admit that. But it
Speaker 1: is strange to have a picture of your ex fiance
Speaker 1: on your wall. You don't think so at all. He's
Speaker 1: my best friend, Okay, but why don't you put some
Speaker 1: other pictures of you guys as best friends up and
Speaker 1: not the romantic ones. Listen, I wake up every morning
Speaker 1: and I look at those photos and I set an
Speaker 1: affirmation for the day, and I say, I am going
Speaker 1: to find a best friend just like that. It's my
Speaker 1: motivation and just what gets me through the day. Okay,
Speaker 1: whoa okay? Instead of there, why don't you just try
Speaker 1: some like orange juice and light exercise. I don't think
Speaker 1: that's funny, and I don't appreciate your sarcastic tone, Trevor.
Speaker 1: I spent a lot of money on those damn photos.
Speaker 1: Why would I pitch them out with some piece of
Speaker 1: crap because you're not engaged anymore? Amy? What are you
Speaker 1: my therapist? Are you guys like my therapists? Now? Is
Speaker 1: that why I called into a radio show to get therapy?
Speaker 1: That's not why I called in. And I am so
Speaker 1: upset that these are the results that I'm getting from this. Guys,
Speaker 1: do you still need me on this one? Or can
Speaker 1: I just actually? I no, no, I need him real quick, Trevor,
Speaker 1: would you like to go on a second date with Amy?
Speaker 1: We will pay for it. No, No, come one day
Speaker 1: you're on grilled cheese sandwich. I will happily make grilled
Speaker 1: cheese sandwich is alone. I don't want to we're gonna
Speaker 1: get one. You're never gonna get one like I made
Speaker 1: ever again. You're never going to get another one like that.
Speaker 1: Oh you mean, Burt, You are such an don't say
Speaker 1: anything about my grilled cheese is okay. You'll never get
Speaker 1: anything like that ever again. Oh man, I'm sorry, Trevor.
Speaker 1: It does sound like she hung up to dude. What
Speaker 1: was that? Are you serious? He's an insane person. Oh
Speaker 1: my god. I feel like you should have seen that
Speaker 1: coming after that whole burn grilled cheese incident. I'm just
Speaker 1: happy I'm alive right now. I'm got out of there alive.
Speaker 1: Text in at seven eight five nine two says, I
Speaker 1: definitely am scared of that woman, but I do want
Speaker 1: to try her grilled cheese and I agree. She was
Speaker 1: very passionate about grilled cheese sandwiches. If you don't know
Speaker 1: what I'm talking about, I'm talking about today's second date
Speaker 1: update with Amy and Trevor. We taped that while Brooke
Speaker 1: was still here. Jackie is filling in for Brook on
Speaker 1: maternity leave, but Amy wanted to call Trevor. They made
Speaker 1: grilled cheese together. They bonded over the fact that they
Speaker 1: both loved grilled cheese. We got him on the phone
Speaker 1: and found out the reason that he wasn't calling back
Speaker 1: was because he stayed the night at her house on
Speaker 1: the couch and noticed that on the wall she had
Speaker 1: very very big pictures with her and another guy kissing
Speaker 1: and being romantic. And then we found out that that
Speaker 1: was her fiance or ex fiance, and they're really good
Speaker 1: friends now, but she doesn't want to take the pictures
Speaker 1: down until she finds a replacement for him. That is
Speaker 1: creepy kind of he was creeped out. Trevor was very
Speaker 1: very creeped out by it and did not want to
Speaker 1: go out with her. But then she started calling him
Speaker 1: jealous and saying that it's his fault, like it's wrong
Speaker 1: with him. I don't know. Text in seven eighty five
Speaker 1: nine two Would it bother you if you went over
Speaker 1: to somebody's house and they had pictures of their ex
Speaker 1: fiance on the wall and refused to take them down?
Speaker 1: Neither there was the worst wedding pictures or something, but
Speaker 1: in the big frames, yeah, just still up there. It's
Speaker 1: just kind of sound sort of desperate. I can see though,
Speaker 1: I mean, it's her house. She's not gonna expect to
Speaker 1: have people over. This was a date that turned into
Speaker 1: a better date, but she was required to take down
Speaker 1: her picture. But wasn't the date already planned? Like, if
Speaker 1: you know he's come over, you wouldn't take those down? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I don't know, or aren't you a person who operates
Speaker 1: in life and knows that you shouldn't have pictures of
Speaker 1: your ex fiancee in frames on the wall if you're
Speaker 1: trying to date. Anyway, she hung up on us. Hopefully
Speaker 1: he'll be okay. He might have to get a restraining
Speaker 1: order because she was very pissed at the end of
Speaker 1: the call wherever he wanted to do a second day update.
Speaker 1: All you have to do is email the show and
Speaker 1: we will call the person who didn't call you back.