WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Grilled Cheese Factory

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<v Speaker 1>You know a lot of guys out there like a

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<v Speaker 1>girl with a little bit of an edge. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>happened to be one of those dudes. And that's why

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<v Speaker 1>I'm surprised that Amy, who's on the phone for a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update today, isn't getting a call back. She

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<v Speaker 1>did exactly what I like, and she called her date

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<v Speaker 1>an a hole on their first date, and I'm so

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<v Speaker 1>surprised that he's not getting back to her. That's really weird. Amy,

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<v Speaker 1>did you say it in anger too? It was angry? Oh, unfortunately,

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<v Speaker 1>so you angrily called your day in a hole. Whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm glad you want to call him back. How does

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<v Speaker 1>that work? What happened? Well, okay, so I met this

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<v Speaker 1>guy as he was Treasure, Trevor not Treasure. I was, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I would hope his name was Treasure. I've never met

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<v Speaker 1>a guy named Treasure, but I wanted to, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>So his name was Trevor, Trevor, Trevor, right, and I

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<v Speaker 1>met him my mind, and I thought he was really cute,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, he said he liked to work out,

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<v Speaker 1>and he said he loves food. And then that's kind

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<v Speaker 1>of what prompted me to start talking to him and

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<v Speaker 1>we were talking about what the kind of food we love,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was like, there came I be one person

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<v Speaker 1>in this entire world who doesn't like a grilled cheese sandwich.

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<v Speaker 1>And I was like, oh my god, I feel the

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<v Speaker 1>same way. And that's when you got into it. That's

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<v Speaker 1>when you said, screw you, you a hole. I love

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<v Speaker 1>grilled cheese more. No, no, no, no. This was over

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<v Speaker 1>the app, you know. It was just like back and forth,

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<v Speaker 1>and then we started texting and we were like sending

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<v Speaker 1>pictures of grilled cheeses to each other, and I was saying, like,

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<v Speaker 1>I make like the best grilled cheese, Like it's my

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<v Speaker 1>favorite food. I've got this great recipe. And I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you should come over and I'll make it for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you really now, are you really that passionate about

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<v Speaker 1>grilled cheese or were you just using this as a

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<v Speaker 1>cute ploy back and forth. No, I really love it's seriously,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like my favorite food. I order it any time

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<v Speaker 1>of restaurant has it. I'm like a girl cheese aficionado.

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<v Speaker 1>I always feel like it's a ripoff, like girl cheese

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<v Speaker 1>so cheap to make over charged on the menu. It's

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<v Speaker 1>usually over charged I'll give you that, but you know

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<v Speaker 1>when you got all those different kinds of cheeses in

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<v Speaker 1>it with four dough bread, Oh, I'm into it now.

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<v Speaker 1>The girl the other date, So did he come over?

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<v Speaker 1>And well, yeah, so this is how I ended up

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<v Speaker 1>yelling at him. I was making the sandwiches and we

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<v Speaker 1>were having a couple of drinks and we were talking

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<v Speaker 1>and I was multitasking, and I went over to talk

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<v Speaker 1>with him, and you know, I was nervous and I

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<v Speaker 1>smelled something burning and I realized, crap, I burnt the sandwiches.

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<v Speaker 1>And I felt like such an idiot. Yeah, I felt

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<v Speaker 1>like such an idiot. And after yeah, saying that you're

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<v Speaker 1>an artist, obviously you're not. Yeah, yeah, I talked to

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<v Speaker 1>all this big talk and like, you know, here I

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<v Speaker 1>am screwing it up. And then he came over and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, I'm so sorry here. What if

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<v Speaker 1>you did it this way? What if you did it that?

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<v Speaker 1>And he's not like that? Like I was like, why

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<v Speaker 1>is this guy trying to tell me what to do?

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<v Speaker 1>And so I freaked out. I like slammed down the pan.

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<v Speaker 1>I went over into my room and I yelled out,

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<v Speaker 1>I can do it myself. A hole and I slammed

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<v Speaker 1>the door and say, so it was more than just

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<v Speaker 1>calling him an a hole. You literally had a freak

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<v Speaker 1>out erect your room. Yeah, all right, are you always unstable? No?

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<v Speaker 1>I just did that moment. I mean it was but

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<v Speaker 1>not it. You know, ladies, you know when it's a

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<v Speaker 1>time of the month, what happened, you know, you get

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit more emotional and you know it just

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<v Speaker 1>it wasn't great timing to have a guy over, probably,

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<v Speaker 1>and like I had a day anyway, like that morning

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<v Speaker 1>was hard. So I just emotionally wasn't So it wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>the best first day. You did not plan accordingly? No,

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<v Speaker 1>I did it, but you know, I spent a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of minutes in my room, like it was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I was so stupid. And then I walked out and

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<v Speaker 1>we were laughing about it. Oh he was still there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>he stayed. It was really sweet, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so sorry. I totally freaked out. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>why I did that. You were just trying to help,

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<v Speaker 1>and he was like, it's totally cool. And then I

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<v Speaker 1>made the sandwiches again. I did not burn them this

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<v Speaker 1>time or recall him an a hole. He even slept over.

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<v Speaker 1>We didn't do anything. He was just like, it's really late.

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<v Speaker 1>Is a COOLF I sleep over? ILL sleep on the couch?

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<v Speaker 1>Totally fine, He's The next morning I woke up got

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<v Speaker 1>a note that said, hey, I had so much fun

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<v Speaker 1>with you. Things again for the girl cheese, and then

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<v Speaker 1>I like texted in the next day saying like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>I had so much fun too, and he said me too.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's really all the conversation we've had and it's

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<v Speaker 1>been like ten days. Wow, that's crazy. If I was

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out at your house and you freaked out of

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<v Speaker 1>me like that, the last thing I would want to

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<v Speaker 1>do would be asleep there. Yeah, it doesn't make sense, right,

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<v Speaker 1>And that's why I'm like, I'm calling you guys because

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what to do. I mean, is it

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<v Speaker 1>He went home and he realized, whoa, she freaked out.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to have anything to do with her?

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<v Speaker 1>Or was it something else? Was there any moments of

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<v Speaker 1>intimacy or did it just feel like you were hanging

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<v Speaker 1>out his friends the whole time? We kissed right before

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<v Speaker 1>he went to sleep. We had like one kiss, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>nothing crazy, and it was nice and it felt like

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<v Speaker 1>we left on a good note, but I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I was confused. The real question is was how was

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<v Speaker 1>your girl cheese? Did it actually hold up? It was

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<v Speaker 1>really good, very good, and he so too. Yeah. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean he said he liked it, but maybe he was lying.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe it was the grilled cheese that was the problem. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>it could be. That's happened to me before. I've not

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<v Speaker 1>called a lot of girls back because of a bad

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<v Speaker 1>grilled cheese. Play a song, come back, call him and

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<v Speaker 1>get your second day update. All right, cool, thanks guys, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>hang him. Well, if you're just joining us for today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Amy is on the phone, and Amy's

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<v Speaker 1>not getting a call back because she sucks at making

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<v Speaker 1>grilled cheese sandwiches. Don't say that just the worst, am I? Right? Amy,

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<v Speaker 1>don't say that. I'm gonna have to cut you if

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<v Speaker 1>you keep talking him like that. And that's the kind

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<v Speaker 1>of anger that really is behind the reason Amy thinks

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<v Speaker 1>she's not getting a call back. She met this dude

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<v Speaker 1>named Trevor online. They were talking about their love for

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<v Speaker 1>grilled cheese sandwiches, so she invited him over to her

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<v Speaker 1>place to make the best grilled cheese ever. She actually

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<v Speaker 1>ended up kind of starting to burn the sandwich, and

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<v Speaker 1>then when he tried to help her out, she yelled

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<v Speaker 1>at him and said, I could do it myself, You

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<v Speaker 1>a hole, and then went and locked herself in a room.

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<v Speaker 1>And surprisingly he stayed and they finished the date, and

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<v Speaker 1>she said he actually seemed like he had a great time.

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<v Speaker 1>He even stayed the night on her couch and they

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<v Speaker 1>had a kiss. But now he's not calling her back,

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<v Speaker 1>so we're gonna get him on the phone and find

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<v Speaker 1>out why. And you did apologize for the freak out,

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<v Speaker 1>But did you dwell on it too much? I don't

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<v Speaker 1>think so. I mean, it happened and then we laughed

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<v Speaker 1>about it, so I don't really think that it could

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<v Speaker 1>be that, But I don't know what else it could

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<v Speaker 1>be either though. All Right, well, I'm gonna Dallas phone

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<v Speaker 1>Umber and see if we can find out why. Okay, cool? Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Trevor please? Yeah? This is Trevor.

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<v Speaker 1>Hey Trevor, how are you. This is Jewel from Brook

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<v Speaker 1>and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, Okay, hi back. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you ever heard of Brooke and Jewel in the Morning before? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I think Okay, what do you think it is. Then

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<v Speaker 1>you guys are like a radio so right, Yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>have you ever really listened? No? Not really? I know

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<v Speaker 1>the name? No, okay, cool. Well that's a start. The

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<v Speaker 1>reason I'm calling you today is because somebody who does

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<v Speaker 1>listen to our show wanted us to call and get

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<v Speaker 1>a hold of you. Cool. Could be cool, could not

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<v Speaker 1>be cool? You don't know yet, I guess not. Her

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<v Speaker 1>name is Amy. Oh okay, yeah, and Amy made you

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<v Speaker 1>a grill cheese sandwich. Yes, she yes, she did about that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>she did tell us all about that. We do a

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<v Speaker 1>segment on our show called the Second Date Update. So

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<v Speaker 1>Amy wants to know why you're not calling her back

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<v Speaker 1>after your date. It's not that I'm not calling you know,

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<v Speaker 1>this is not really I don't want to like it's

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<v Speaker 1>not that I'm not calling her back, but I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>calling her back. I'm not calling No, it's just, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to talk about that kind of thing

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<v Speaker 1>on it was we had a nice time, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>it's one of those things. Amy's the one that wants

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<v Speaker 1>to know. I mean, we're asking on her behalf. She

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<v Speaker 1>said she'd be willing to hear whatever it is. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't really know how much you guys already know, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>how much do you guys know? Well, we know that

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<v Speaker 1>you bonded over grilled cheese sandwiches, and you went to

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<v Speaker 1>her house and she made you grilled cheese. But at

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<v Speaker 1>one point she kind of burned it and then yelled

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<v Speaker 1>at you and stormed off to her room, and somehow,

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<v Speaker 1>somehow you stuck around. That was fun. No, that burning

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't the thing, Like she freaked out, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>like cute, it was funny. She wait, she slammed the

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<v Speaker 1>pan down, called you an a hole, and you thought

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<v Speaker 1>that was hysterical. No, it wasn't. I wasn't like dying laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>But like, that's not why I'm not calling back. That

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<v Speaker 1>wasn't an issue at all. Okay, so the anger issue

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<v Speaker 1>is not a big deal with you. No, but I

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<v Speaker 1>slept on her couch. I didn't. We didn't share a bed,

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<v Speaker 1>so I'm not saying that at all. Um. But before,

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<v Speaker 1>like she went to her room and I was on

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<v Speaker 1>the couch, she had some pictures on the wall, like photographs,

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<v Speaker 1>like professionally done ones that people get, and they were

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<v Speaker 1>of her and a guy embracing it and like kissing,

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<v Speaker 1>and these were like big pictures. These weren't like the

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<v Speaker 1>little ones. Did they look like engagement photos or something

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<v Speaker 1>like that style? Yeah, like that kind of thing they like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they hired a photographer to take pictures of them,

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<v Speaker 1>like holding each other and stuff. So I was just like,

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<v Speaker 1>what are those and what she say? She went, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's my ex fiance whoa. And I was just like, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>that's weird. She's not currently with her fiance, then that's

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<v Speaker 1>pretty strange to have engagement photos of herself. Phone three

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<v Speaker 1>of them though, hanging up, and they were big photos.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't stress that enough. Like they were. And you

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<v Speaker 1>would think that if you're having a first date with

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<v Speaker 1>a guy that that would be, I don't know, something

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<v Speaker 1>on the agenda to take down before he comes to

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<v Speaker 1>your house. Yeah, but I was willing, I guess kind

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<v Speaker 1>of the laugh it off because I am going to

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<v Speaker 1>sleep there. I don't want it to be like super

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<v Speaker 1>crazy weird yea. And she goes, yeah, we're still really

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<v Speaker 1>good friends, so right there, I'm like, all right, cool,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess. And then and then she says, I told

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<v Speaker 1>him I would keep them up until I found someone

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<v Speaker 1>that I could replace them with. WHOA Like Oh cool,

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<v Speaker 1>and that's awesome, But like I'm sleeping on her couch,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to have like the greatest night sleep.

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<v Speaker 1>So I would like wake up and then just be

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<v Speaker 1>looking at her and this, you know ex fiance like

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<v Speaker 1>kissing and holding each other. And when you were looking

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<v Speaker 1>at it, you weren't thinking, I hope that's me one day. No, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I wasn't. I was thinking I need to sleep off

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<v Speaker 1>a few drinks that I had and get out of here,

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<v Speaker 1>like really fat. Well, guys, I don't like how this

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<v Speaker 1>is going. I'm not. I'm not what's going on. Oh, Trevor,

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<v Speaker 1>that's Amy. She's actually on the other line listening and

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<v Speaker 1>wants to talk to you. Yeah. I've been listening to

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing. Heyst to the whole thing. Hi, it's

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<v Speaker 1>nice to hear from you after ten days. It's nice

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<v Speaker 1>to hear from you too, after ten days. I am

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<v Speaker 1>like so disgusted right now. I cannot believe that that's

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<v Speaker 1>the reason that you're like not calling me. You're talking

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<v Speaker 1>to me because it's it's a perfectly good reason. You

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<v Speaker 1>have pictures of you and your exce my relationship. Listen,

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<v Speaker 1>I invited you into my home and it's my space,

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<v Speaker 1>and you asked, and I just met you the first

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<v Speaker 1>time I ever met you. You know why why? This

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<v Speaker 1>guy is my best friend? Okay, and yeah we're broken

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<v Speaker 1>up now, but he's a part of my life and

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<v Speaker 1>he's part of my history and I talked to him

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<v Speaker 1>every day and he's my best friend and I care

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<v Speaker 1>for him. And I don't know why you're you're reacting

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<v Speaker 1>like this. I don't think it's strange. You know, wouldn't

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<v Speaker 1>you have pictures of you in your best friend? So

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<v Speaker 1>what we're kissing in the photos? I think that's the

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<v Speaker 1>point Amy, I would have never had of me and

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<v Speaker 1>another girl kissing if I had anyone. I was kind

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<v Speaker 1>of romantically interested in coming to thank you for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time. This is the first time I ever met you.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm inviting you to my house. The only thing I'm

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<v Speaker 1>inviting you over. You're talking about cooking, and I wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to cook you something. I'm not going to sit here

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<v Speaker 1>and redecorate my house for some guy that you know

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<v Speaker 1>I might not ever see again, which, by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not going to because it's been ten days we spoke,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, WHOA, you need to slow down this sounds

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<v Speaker 1>way crazier than I already imagined. You crazy? You think

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<v Speaker 1>I'm crazy? Well, you know what, You sound jealous, and

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<v Speaker 1>a real man doesn't get jealous of other guys. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think you know if that's necessarily jealousy. It's just

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<v Speaker 1>I kind of don't want to see what a mean.

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<v Speaker 1>Can't you see that? Maybe it's a red flag that

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<v Speaker 1>you're not quite over your past engagement, that you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>taken the photos down. Sure, fine, it's it's a red

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<v Speaker 1>flag to some stranger doesn't even know me. But I'm

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<v Speaker 1>explaining to all of you people that he is my

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<v Speaker 1>best friend and I care for him, and why should

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<v Speaker 1>I take down photos for some guy I met online?

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<v Speaker 1>But why would I do that? I have pictures of

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<v Speaker 1>my best friend in my house and none of them

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<v Speaker 1>are me and that person embracing. Oh well, I'm still

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<v Speaker 1>really sorry for you because all of you apparently have

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<v Speaker 1>a problem with intimacy. Oh no, I do have a

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<v Speaker 1>problem with intimacy. I'd like to admit that. But it

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<v Speaker 1>is strange to have a picture of your ex fiance

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<v Speaker 1>on your wall. You don't think so at all. He's

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<v Speaker 1>my best friend, Okay, but why don't you put some

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<v Speaker 1>other pictures of you guys as best friends up and

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<v Speaker 1>not the romantic ones. Listen, I wake up every morning

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<v Speaker 1>and I look at those photos and I set an

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<v Speaker 1>affirmation for the day, and I say, I am going

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<v Speaker 1>to find a best friend just like that. It's my

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<v Speaker 1>motivation and just what gets me through the day. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>whoa okay? Instead of there, why don't you just try

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<v Speaker 1>some like orange juice and light exercise. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that's funny, and I don't appreciate your sarcastic tone, Trevor.

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<v Speaker 1>I spent a lot of money on those damn photos.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would I pitch them out with some piece of

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<v Speaker 1>crap because you're not engaged anymore? Amy? What are you

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<v Speaker 1>my therapist? Are you guys like my therapists? Now? Is

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<v Speaker 1>that why I called into a radio show to get therapy?

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<v Speaker 1>That's not why I called in. And I am so

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<v Speaker 1>upset that these are the results that I'm getting from this. Guys,

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<v Speaker 1>do you still need me on this one? Or can

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<v Speaker 1>I just actually? I no, no, I need him real quick, Trevor,

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<v Speaker 1>would you like to go on a second date with Amy?

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<v Speaker 1>We will pay for it. No, No, come one day

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<v Speaker 1>you're on grilled cheese sandwich. I will happily make grilled

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<v Speaker 1>cheese sandwich is alone. I don't want to we're gonna

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<v Speaker 1>get one. You're never gonna get one like I made

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<v Speaker 1>ever again. You're never going to get another one like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you mean, Burt, You are such an don't say

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<v Speaker 1>anything about my grilled cheese is okay. You'll never get

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<v Speaker 1>anything like that ever again. Oh man, I'm sorry, Trevor.

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<v Speaker 1>It does sound like she hung up to dude. What

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<v Speaker 1>was that? Are you serious? He's an insane person. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. I feel like you should have seen that

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<v Speaker 1>coming after that whole burn grilled cheese incident. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>happy I'm alive right now. I'm got out of there alive.

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<v Speaker 1>Text in at seven eight five nine two says, I

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<v Speaker 1>definitely am scared of that woman, but I do want

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<v Speaker 1>to try her grilled cheese and I agree. She was

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<v Speaker 1>very passionate about grilled cheese sandwiches. If you don't know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm talking about, I'm talking about today's second date

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<v Speaker 1>update with Amy and Trevor. We taped that while Brooke

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<v Speaker 1>was still here. Jackie is filling in for Brook on

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<v Speaker 1>maternity leave, but Amy wanted to call Trevor. They made

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<v Speaker 1>grilled cheese together. They bonded over the fact that they

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<v Speaker 1>both loved grilled cheese. We got him on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and found out the reason that he wasn't calling back

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<v Speaker 1>was because he stayed the night at her house on

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<v Speaker 1>the couch and noticed that on the wall she had

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<v Speaker 1>very very big pictures with her and another guy kissing

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<v Speaker 1>and being romantic. And then we found out that that

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<v Speaker 1>was her fiance or ex fiance, and they're really good

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<v Speaker 1>friends now, but she doesn't want to take the pictures

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<v Speaker 1>down until she finds a replacement for him. That is

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<v Speaker 1>creepy kind of he was creeped out. Trevor was very

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<v Speaker 1>very creeped out by it and did not want to

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<v Speaker 1>go out with her. But then she started calling him

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<v Speaker 1>jealous and saying that it's his fault, like it's wrong

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<v Speaker 1>with him. I don't know. Text in seven eighty five

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<v Speaker 1>nine two Would it bother you if you went over

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<v Speaker 1>to somebody's house and they had pictures of their ex

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<v Speaker 1>fiance on the wall and refused to take them down?

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<v Speaker 1>Neither there was the worst wedding pictures or something, but

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<v Speaker 1>in the big frames, yeah, just still up there. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just kind of sound sort of desperate. I can see though,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it's her house. She's not gonna expect to

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<v Speaker 1>have people over. This was a date that turned into

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<v Speaker 1>a better date, but she was required to take down

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<v Speaker 1>her picture. But wasn't the date already planned? Like, if

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<v Speaker 1>you know he's come over, you wouldn't take those down? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, or aren't you a person who operates

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<v Speaker 1>in life and knows that you shouldn't have pictures of

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<v Speaker 1>your ex fiancee in frames on the wall if you're

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<v Speaker 1>trying to date. Anyway, she hung up on us. Hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>he'll be okay. He might have to get a restraining

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<v Speaker 1>order because she was very pissed at the end of

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<v Speaker 1>the call wherever he wanted to do a second day update.

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<v Speaker 1>All you have to do is email the show and

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<v Speaker 1>we will call the person who didn't call you back.