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Speaker 1: did exactly what I like, and she called her date

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Speaker 1: did you say it in anger too? It was angry? Oh, unfortunately,

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Speaker 1: so you angrily called your day in a hole. Whatever.

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Speaker 1: I'm glad you want to call him back. How does

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Speaker 1: that work? What happened? Well, okay, so I met this

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Speaker 1: So his name was Trevor, Trevor, Trevor, right, and I

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Speaker 1: and you know, he said he liked to work out,

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Speaker 1: and he said he loves food. And then that's kind

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Speaker 1: of what prompted me to start talking to him and

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Speaker 1: we were talking about what the kind of food we love,

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Speaker 1: and he was like, there came I be one person

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Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god, I feel the

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Speaker 1: same way. And that's when you got into it. That's

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Speaker 1: when you said, screw you, you a hole. I love

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Speaker 1: grilled cheese more. No, no, no, no. This was over

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Speaker 1: the app, you know. It was just like back and forth,

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Speaker 1: and then we started texting and we were like sending

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Speaker 1: Are you really now, are you really that passionate about

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Speaker 1: it's like my favorite food. I order it any time

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Speaker 1: I always feel like it's a ripoff, like girl cheese

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Speaker 1: The girl the other date, So did he come over?

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Speaker 1: And well, yeah, so this is how I ended up

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Speaker 1: And I felt like such an idiot. Yeah, I felt

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh, I'm so sorry here. What if

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Speaker 1: And he's not like that? Like I was like, why

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Speaker 1: And so I freaked out. I like slammed down the pan.

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Speaker 1: Maybe it was the grilled cheese that was the problem. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: grilled cheese sandwiches. Don't say that just the worst, am I? Right? Amy,

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Speaker 1: so we're gonna get him on the phone and find

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Speaker 1: out why. And you did apologize for the freak out,

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Speaker 1: But did you dwell on it too much? I don't

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Speaker 1: Umber and see if we can find out why. Okay, cool? Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: can I speak to Trevor please? Yeah? This is Trevor.

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Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning. Okay, Okay, hi back. Have

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Speaker 1: you ever heard of Brooke and Jewel in the Morning before? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I think Okay, what do you think it is. Then

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Speaker 1: you guys are like a radio so right, Yes, and

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Speaker 1: that I could replace them with. WHOA Like Oh cool,

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Speaker 1: and that's awesome, But like I'm sleeping on her couch,

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