1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 1: Second date up date, when you have that option to 2 00:00:05,400 --> 00:00:08,680 Speaker 1: spend the night over at your date's place the first 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:12,559 Speaker 1: time you hang out, Yeah, how do you make that decision? 4 00:00:12,880 --> 00:00:13,120 Speaker 2: Wait? 5 00:00:13,440 --> 00:00:15,760 Speaker 3: People say no, well yeah. 6 00:00:15,640 --> 00:00:17,560 Speaker 2: I mean do you pull a brok and just consult 7 00:00:17,600 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 2: your bottle of wine until you say yes, give me 8 00:00:20,880 --> 00:00:24,120 Speaker 2: ten minutes. Why do you pull a Jose and check 9 00:00:24,160 --> 00:00:26,800 Speaker 2: their fridge to make sure they have good breakfast options 10 00:00:26,840 --> 00:00:30,160 Speaker 2: for the next morning? Or do you pull a Batman 11 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:34,080 Speaker 2: villain move like two face and flip a double headed coin? 12 00:00:35,840 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 2: That's again the same answer that again, Yeah, and see 13 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,879 Speaker 2: that coming. Guess I'm staying the night with you. The 14 00:00:42,920 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 2: other way you have imagine telling the girl I gotta 15 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:45,440 Speaker 2: go the coin. 16 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:47,519 Speaker 3: Think that. 17 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:49,960 Speaker 2: But I only asked because one of our listeners had 18 00:00:50,040 --> 00:00:53,840 Speaker 2: to make that decision, wondering do I stay over or 19 00:00:54,080 --> 00:00:56,200 Speaker 2: do I go home to night? Now I'm back with 20 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 2: Brook though, like, is this a really difficult way to. 21 00:00:59,240 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 3: Pack a bag? Actually was leaving your car. 22 00:01:02,760 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 2: You guys have much more of a game plan than 23 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:05,480 Speaker 2: I realized. 24 00:01:05,520 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 3: But we are so easy on this show. 25 00:01:07,200 --> 00:01:11,560 Speaker 2: Clearly, Let's talk to our listener and see how she feels. Jackie, 26 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 2: Welcome to the show. 27 00:01:13,000 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 3: Hi, you guys, Hi, jack are you better at playing 28 00:01:15,880 --> 00:01:17,400 Speaker 3: hard to get than we are? Jackie? 29 00:01:17,400 --> 00:01:22,800 Speaker 2: Stop hitting on us. I don't know how did you 30 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:24,280 Speaker 2: make your bedtime decision? 31 00:01:24,959 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 4: Well it was really for the moment, I guess. 32 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:30,959 Speaker 3: I So you didn't pack a bag like Alexis is 33 00:01:31,000 --> 00:01:31,639 Speaker 3: what you're saying. 34 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: No, okay, okay. 35 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 3: Who did you go out with? 36 00:01:36,319 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 5: His name is Miguel? 37 00:01:37,840 --> 00:01:43,440 Speaker 2: Okay, okay, you like the Latin boys. I mean, it 38 00:01:43,440 --> 00:01:45,319 Speaker 2: doesn't mean he is for sure, but most likely I 39 00:01:45,319 --> 00:01:47,920 Speaker 2: don't want to assume anything about him. He's probably like 40 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: a super white guy. 41 00:01:48,960 --> 00:01:51,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, no, he is Latin. 42 00:01:51,760 --> 00:01:55,760 Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, I don't feel excited you like you. What 43 00:01:55,840 --> 00:01:57,440 Speaker 2: was the lead up before that decision? 44 00:01:58,080 --> 00:01:58,360 Speaker 3: Well? 45 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:00,800 Speaker 4: I met him on Tinder, so we have been like 46 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:02,040 Speaker 4: communicating for a while. 47 00:02:02,240 --> 00:02:05,320 Speaker 5: And I was out with my girlfriend and they were 48 00:02:05,360 --> 00:02:06,080 Speaker 5: like taking like. 49 00:02:06,160 --> 00:02:09,200 Speaker 4: You know, cute girl snaps. It's Friday night. My homegirl 50 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:10,920 Speaker 4: was like, he just sit in this snap you look 51 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:12,720 Speaker 4: so cute and like invite and mom, I'm like, oh my. 52 00:02:12,760 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 2: God, right, your girl asked you up. 53 00:02:15,639 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 4: And they're the ones I told you. 54 00:02:16,840 --> 00:02:19,520 Speaker 3: Don't dude, I've been out with a single girl before 55 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 3: where we're like, yeah, have them come and they meet 56 00:02:21,639 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 3: for the first time while we're all there. 57 00:02:24,520 --> 00:02:26,880 Speaker 2: As a guy intimidated. 58 00:02:27,000 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I know, but that's a test, right, He's a 59 00:02:29,520 --> 00:02:30,320 Speaker 3: guy up for it. 60 00:02:30,440 --> 00:02:31,360 Speaker 2: So how did it go? 61 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:34,080 Speaker 4: It went great? He showed up. It was like a 62 00:02:34,200 --> 00:02:38,000 Speaker 4: bar club like they played music though he actually did dance. 63 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:39,359 Speaker 4: And when I tell. 64 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:45,120 Speaker 5: You he can move, Oh okay, really dance? 65 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:47,799 Speaker 4: You are a gitty right now? 66 00:02:47,840 --> 00:02:48,520 Speaker 2: I love it? 67 00:02:48,880 --> 00:02:50,040 Speaker 5: Well, he just I don't know. 68 00:02:50,400 --> 00:02:52,040 Speaker 4: It was a good date, right, I had fun? 69 00:02:52,200 --> 00:02:55,400 Speaker 3: Can I ask how much alcohol was consumed at this point? 70 00:02:55,680 --> 00:02:58,679 Speaker 2: A lot? How much before he got there? Did he 71 00:02:58,760 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 2: show up and you were already? 72 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 4: I wasn't like gone. I was like everybody at the 73 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:04,359 Speaker 4: bargaining tipsy, Like you know. 74 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:07,760 Speaker 2: Okay, you weren't brooking it on the first kid, that's fun. 75 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:10,200 Speaker 3: I'm never gone. The key is a glass of water 76 00:03:10,280 --> 00:03:11,040 Speaker 3: after every drink. 77 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:14,720 Speaker 2: That sounds way too responsible. We're gonna edit that out, okay, 78 00:03:14,960 --> 00:03:17,320 Speaker 2: So Jackie keep going. What happens after that? 79 00:03:17,960 --> 00:03:21,079 Speaker 4: So then like the lights come on and everyone's gone, 80 00:03:21,160 --> 00:03:22,440 Speaker 4: Like my friends are gone? 81 00:03:23,120 --> 00:03:25,120 Speaker 5: What letters are like cleaning up? 82 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:26,639 Speaker 4: Yes, they left me. 83 00:03:26,880 --> 00:03:28,959 Speaker 2: But isn't that a good sign? Like when the girls 84 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:31,160 Speaker 2: feel like you're safe enough to be on your own 85 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 2: with this person. They're like, okay, she's got it. 86 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:36,200 Speaker 3: No, you don't ever leave a girlfriend without checking in. Yeah, 87 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:37,040 Speaker 3: first ever. 88 00:03:37,520 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 4: Remember I was drinking like a lot, so there's a 89 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 4: high persent chance that I told them that I was okay. 90 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:47,280 Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, okay, okay, and you felt safe with this guy. 91 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:50,280 Speaker 2: So the lights came on, they're shutting the bar down, 92 00:03:50,280 --> 00:03:53,200 Speaker 2: and your friends aren't there. What happens next? 93 00:03:53,560 --> 00:03:55,839 Speaker 4: We were hungry because you know, we've been drinking, so 94 00:03:56,160 --> 00:03:59,280 Speaker 4: he got like, yes, some hot dogs and like tug. 95 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 3: I like how you're trying to make this sound all 96 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 3: very classy. We've talked. I mean, we made out because 97 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 3: you were making out at this point, right. 98 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:12,040 Speaker 4: I mean yeah, in between bites. 99 00:04:14,560 --> 00:04:20,480 Speaker 2: Hot dog bites. Yes, yeah, okay. So obviously this ends 100 00:04:20,560 --> 00:04:23,360 Speaker 2: up over back at Miguel's place somehow. 101 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 4: Yeah. He said that his place was like up the street, 102 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:30,440 Speaker 4: and it's not normally something. 103 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:30,839 Speaker 2: I would do. 104 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:35,120 Speaker 3: We all say that you don't need to though, but 105 00:04:35,760 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 3: I said, yes, okay, had a good time. I mean, 106 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 3: the description of this though, just sounds like, I don't know, 107 00:04:45,760 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 3: I feel like he was maybe under the understanding this 108 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 3: was one night of. 109 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:53,479 Speaker 2: Fun Brook, How dare you it's Tinder? And are you 110 00:04:53,560 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 2: not remembering the hot makeout session in between wiener bites and. 111 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:01,400 Speaker 3: I just I don't know if you're expectations are matching. 112 00:05:01,440 --> 00:05:02,520 Speaker 3: Maybe what his work? 113 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:06,960 Speaker 4: Well, I kind of wanted to continue to get to 114 00:05:07,120 --> 00:05:10,160 Speaker 4: know him, Like, I didn't see this as a one off. 115 00:05:10,360 --> 00:05:12,120 Speaker 3: Did you tell him that? 116 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:14,440 Speaker 4: I felt like it was implied for my profile? 117 00:05:14,760 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 2: No, it's good. You do not want to be on 118 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:17,960 Speaker 2: the first day, Like, by the way I see this 119 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:24,600 Speaker 2: going long term, that's not a good thing. By the way, I. 120 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:27,280 Speaker 3: Could die like this, you guys. So the next morning 121 00:05:27,400 --> 00:05:30,040 Speaker 3: they could obviously talk about how she hopes this isn't 122 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:32,200 Speaker 3: the last time she sees them and that she sees 123 00:05:32,279 --> 00:05:36,919 Speaker 3: something more with him. I'm just say, like, what was 124 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:37,320 Speaker 3: that like? 125 00:05:38,320 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 4: So we didn't have like a ton of times to 126 00:05:41,400 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 4: talk because I got picked up, but I did text 127 00:05:44,279 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 4: him later. 128 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:46,839 Speaker 2: Did you respond? 129 00:05:47,400 --> 00:05:47,679 Speaker 5: See? 130 00:05:47,720 --> 00:05:50,520 Speaker 4: That's why he helped, because when I readed, it sounds 131 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:54,039 Speaker 4: like he's just being polite, like it's a different tone 132 00:05:54,200 --> 00:05:57,960 Speaker 4: to his text now rather when when we were snapping 133 00:05:58,400 --> 00:05:59,920 Speaker 4: the night before, it was the. 134 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:05,799 Speaker 2: That's weird when I text super drunk and super sober 135 00:06:05,839 --> 00:06:07,120 Speaker 2: I sound exactly. 136 00:06:06,720 --> 00:06:09,840 Speaker 3: The same ways, but she hadn't talked to him sober, 137 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:11,520 Speaker 3: you know, like you said, you had been talking to 138 00:06:11,640 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 3: him for a couple of weeks on TikTok, so you 139 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:17,640 Speaker 3: can tell a vibe. 140 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:17,800 Speaker 2: Like you woke up and you're like, oh, you don't 141 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:18,280 Speaker 2: look like what. 142 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:22,359 Speaker 3: I remember the bar in full light. 143 00:06:23,160 --> 00:06:28,359 Speaker 2: Bar light. But clearly something is off here and you 144 00:06:28,480 --> 00:06:31,160 Speaker 2: deserve some answers. So let's come back and call Miguel 145 00:06:31,480 --> 00:06:34,040 Speaker 2: and hopefully he picks up and gives us a little 146 00:06:34,040 --> 00:06:36,200 Speaker 2: bit of insight when we do your second date update. 147 00:06:36,480 --> 00:06:43,039 Speaker 2: Right after this second date update, if you missed Jackie's 148 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:46,400 Speaker 2: first date, let's quickly go down the checklist of her 149 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:51,400 Speaker 2: hangout with Miguel. Okay, so is he a good dancer? Check? 150 00:06:52,400 --> 00:06:53,920 Speaker 2: Did her friends approve? 151 00:06:54,920 --> 00:06:56,800 Speaker 3: Chick? Those are two good things. 152 00:06:57,240 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 2: Could he make out while also eating a street meat 153 00:07:00,440 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 2: dog at the same time? Check and checks. 154 00:07:06,360 --> 00:07:08,120 Speaker 3: I may have the same type of men in mind. 155 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:13,040 Speaker 2: No wonder, people wonder it ended with a little sleepover 156 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 2: back at his place, But Jackie's hoping it wasn't just 157 00:07:16,120 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 2: a one night stand thing for sure. The thing is, 158 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:21,760 Speaker 2: she can't deny that Miguel has been acting differently towards her, 159 00:07:21,920 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 2: at least over text. He's being more polite now than 160 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 2: he is being flirty, and we just want to help 161 00:07:27,800 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 2: her figure out the reason why we just think. 162 00:07:29,840 --> 00:07:32,760 Speaker 3: He's the One thing I'm concerned about is that you 163 00:07:32,800 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 3: were sounds like pretty drunk that night, and he may 164 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 3: share a story that could be embarrassing. 165 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 2: Did you consider that, Jackie? 166 00:07:42,240 --> 00:07:47,640 Speaker 4: I don't think there was anything embarrassing that happened. 167 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:50,960 Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, so you're willing to hear whatever it is. 168 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:54,840 Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, But that's why I'm calling because I 169 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:58,160 Speaker 4: like this guy. I thought we had a good connection 170 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 4: on Tinder and were fine with my friends. Even my 171 00:08:01,560 --> 00:08:03,800 Speaker 4: friends are like, well, where's Miguel, And I'm like. 172 00:08:04,920 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 3: I don't know. 173 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:08,600 Speaker 2: Well, here's the thing. If it does happen to be 174 00:08:08,640 --> 00:08:12,680 Speaker 2: something embarrassing that you don't remember, the good news is 175 00:08:13,080 --> 00:08:16,040 Speaker 2: Brooke has done something ten times more embarrassing. 176 00:08:16,760 --> 00:08:19,960 Speaker 3: Sober probably even Yeah, in fact, we all have. 177 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:21,960 Speaker 5: That makes me feel better. 178 00:08:22,200 --> 00:08:26,040 Speaker 2: Okay. The comparison bar is very low, so we're always here. 179 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:27,600 Speaker 2: Do we want to go around the room and give 180 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 2: awful examples of embarrass ourselves. Maybe we should save that 181 00:08:30,840 --> 00:08:32,640 Speaker 2: for once we hear what the issue is? 182 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:33,040 Speaker 3: Got it? 183 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:35,720 Speaker 2: Okay, let's see if Miguel answers the phone. I'm gonna 184 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:45,560 Speaker 2: dial his number right now. Here we go. Hello, Hey 185 00:08:45,640 --> 00:08:50,600 Speaker 2: is this Miguel. Yeah, Hey man, we're a radio show. 186 00:08:50,600 --> 00:08:56,040 Speaker 2: We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hey, there's more. 187 00:08:56,520 --> 00:09:00,599 Speaker 5: Yeah, I Miguel, How can I How can I help you? 188 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:01,080 Speaker 4: Guys? 189 00:09:01,280 --> 00:09:04,320 Speaker 2: Uh, we're calling because we're in the middle of a 190 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:06,320 Speaker 2: second right now. That's called a second date update. 191 00:09:07,360 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 5: Sorry, well, I'm just confused. What to do with me? 192 00:09:09,960 --> 00:09:11,160 Speaker 3: Great question? Yeah? 193 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:13,120 Speaker 2: Yeah, Well if you don't if you don't know what 194 00:09:13,160 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 2: it is, it's where we have a listener who has 195 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 2: gone out with you and had a really nice time, 196 00:09:19,160 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 2: was hoping to meet up again, but that hasn't been happening, 197 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:26,280 Speaker 2: and she's not really sure why. 198 00:09:27,600 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 5: Who is it? 199 00:09:28,440 --> 00:09:30,320 Speaker 2: I don't know if you're seeing multiple people. But the 200 00:09:30,320 --> 00:09:32,440 Speaker 2: girl who reached out to us about you today, her 201 00:09:32,480 --> 00:09:33,199 Speaker 2: name is Jackie. 202 00:09:35,040 --> 00:09:37,800 Speaker 5: Jackie Okay, Jackie from Tinda. 203 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:42,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, he saved in the phone. Sounds like, yeah, it 204 00:09:42,920 --> 00:09:45,040 Speaker 3: sounds like your name. You guys met up? 205 00:09:45,679 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, I met her and her friends at the club. 206 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:50,840 Speaker 2: Right. We heard the story from her and it sounded 207 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:53,880 Speaker 2: like a really fun night. We started the club and 208 00:09:53,920 --> 00:09:56,240 Speaker 2: it ended up back at your place after some street 209 00:09:56,240 --> 00:09:57,240 Speaker 2: food hot dogs. 210 00:09:57,679 --> 00:10:00,000 Speaker 3: She said, her friends even liked you. 211 00:10:00,160 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 5: Yeah, she's okay. 212 00:10:04,960 --> 00:10:08,080 Speaker 3: Were you going into the night just expecting to just 213 00:10:08,120 --> 00:10:09,440 Speaker 3: have fun for one night? 214 00:10:09,760 --> 00:10:10,000 Speaker 4: Like you? 215 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:13,280 Speaker 3: Weren't thinking of her? Maybe as a multi night type 216 00:10:13,280 --> 00:10:17,599 Speaker 3: of lady. I don't want to say relationship because I 217 00:10:17,600 --> 00:10:19,280 Speaker 3: don't know that that's what she's looking for. 218 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:24,480 Speaker 5: But no, we we had a situation the next morning. 219 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:27,080 Speaker 2: What a situation? What happened? 220 00:10:27,720 --> 00:10:30,080 Speaker 3: She said she had to hurry out because the car 221 00:10:30,160 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 3: was waiting for her. 222 00:10:32,360 --> 00:10:38,240 Speaker 5: Well, yeah, so I heard her get up and call 223 00:10:38,320 --> 00:10:41,679 Speaker 5: somebody to pick her up, and I told her, like, 224 00:10:41,720 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 5: you know, I can call you or whatever, and she said, no, no, 225 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:46,720 Speaker 5: it's it's okay, it's okay. So then she jumps in 226 00:10:46,720 --> 00:10:51,200 Speaker 5: the shower and about five minutes later, there's a knock 227 00:10:51,240 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 5: at the door and I opened up and it's her mom. 228 00:10:55,200 --> 00:10:58,839 Speaker 3: What your mother is standing at your door? 229 00:11:00,400 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 2: Yeah? 230 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:02,960 Speaker 5: Apparently she was her ride. 231 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 3: Oh wow, I cannot imagine calling my mother after a. 232 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 4: Night like that. 233 00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:11,320 Speaker 5: Yeah, she wasn't happy. 234 00:11:12,320 --> 00:11:14,960 Speaker 2: Unhappy, Yes, she was not happy. 235 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:17,439 Speaker 3: Oh wait, what did she say? 236 00:11:18,320 --> 00:11:21,040 Speaker 5: She started grilling me like, did you have fun last night? 237 00:11:21,080 --> 00:11:22,240 Speaker 5: She said, how many partners have. 238 00:11:22,280 --> 00:11:23,679 Speaker 2: You been with? Oh? 239 00:11:23,840 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 5: No, it was really really awkward. 240 00:11:27,760 --> 00:11:28,400 Speaker 4: Yeah, that. 241 00:11:30,640 --> 00:11:31,520 Speaker 2: Would be calling people. 242 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,440 Speaker 3: So wait, did Jackie ever come and interfere or know 243 00:11:34,640 --> 00:11:35,559 Speaker 3: that this was happening. 244 00:11:35,960 --> 00:11:37,440 Speaker 5: It took her a while to get out of a 245 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:41,319 Speaker 5: shower and get her stuff on everything. So in my mind, 246 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:45,240 Speaker 5: before that whole awkward situation with her mom, I was 247 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:48,880 Speaker 5: probably going to hang out with her again. But meet 248 00:11:48,920 --> 00:11:51,360 Speaker 5: her mom on the first day like that where she's 249 00:11:51,400 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 5: grilling me. 250 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:53,080 Speaker 2: Yeah, and. 251 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 3: It's the morning after, like, your mom will always think 252 00:11:57,080 --> 00:11:58,080 Speaker 3: of you as that guy. 253 00:11:58,240 --> 00:12:00,560 Speaker 2: But it could be a funny story if you're able 254 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:02,239 Speaker 2: to spin it the right way, depending. 255 00:12:03,040 --> 00:12:05,080 Speaker 3: Why would Jackie call her mother? 256 00:12:05,520 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 2: That's a good question, Broke, And actually we should find 257 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 2: out because I have to tell you Miguel that Jackie 258 00:12:10,840 --> 00:12:13,240 Speaker 2: is on the other line right now listening to this 259 00:12:13,280 --> 00:12:13,679 Speaker 2: phone call. 260 00:12:14,800 --> 00:12:18,079 Speaker 5: Yeah, it's her mom on the line too. 261 00:12:19,320 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 2: I don't know Jackie talk to Miguel here. 262 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 5: Geezhi, girl, I'm so sorry you read all that. 263 00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:34,000 Speaker 4: I I'm just I don't know. It's it's weird because 264 00:12:34,120 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 4: like I was waiting for you to like call me back, 265 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 4: you know, just like text, text me back or something. 266 00:12:40,840 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 2: Well, Jackie, did you yet? 267 00:12:42,080 --> 00:12:44,079 Speaker 3: Stuff like why didn't you take up his offer on 268 00:12:44,160 --> 00:12:46,480 Speaker 3: getting an uber instead of calling your mom? Okay, well 269 00:12:46,600 --> 00:12:48,080 Speaker 3: I get that because you're in your you look like 270 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:48,680 Speaker 3: the morning after. 271 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:52,080 Speaker 2: It's tough an uber with your mom. I'm just saying, 272 00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 2: but what if the uber driver's cute? Yeah? I get 273 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 2: where is coming from? 274 00:12:56,160 --> 00:12:56,559 Speaker 4: What you have? 275 00:12:56,640 --> 00:12:57,600 Speaker 2: All your friends you went out. 276 00:12:57,480 --> 00:13:02,320 Speaker 4: With, Like my mom she was like nearby, she was 277 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:05,760 Speaker 4: leaving church, and it's like, oh, I spend money. 278 00:13:05,440 --> 00:13:06,040 Speaker 3: On a uber. 279 00:13:06,360 --> 00:13:09,080 Speaker 2: She came from church to pick her daughter up after 280 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 2: a one night stand. 281 00:13:10,800 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 4: Yeah, she's not. She was upset. 282 00:13:13,960 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 2: Wow, did you know that? 283 00:13:15,600 --> 00:13:17,640 Speaker 3: She was so upset she had to have lectured you. 284 00:13:17,600 --> 00:13:19,200 Speaker 2: In the car something to you. 285 00:13:19,840 --> 00:13:22,840 Speaker 4: My mom usually picks me up from my one night stands. 286 00:13:23,200 --> 00:13:30,000 Speaker 2: Oh oh, she's used to this. That mom knows the rundown. Okay, 287 00:13:30,280 --> 00:13:31,920 Speaker 2: it's another Sunday, you know what to do. 288 00:13:32,679 --> 00:13:35,360 Speaker 3: This is probably why they're all one night and not more. 289 00:13:35,720 --> 00:13:39,319 Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a good point, and she doesn't need everybody. 290 00:13:39,400 --> 00:13:42,800 Speaker 4: I just happened to be in the shower. I didn't 291 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:46,080 Speaker 4: know she was gonna grill you the gall I'm so sorry, 292 00:13:46,280 --> 00:13:48,760 Speaker 4: I had no idea she was going to do that. 293 00:13:48,960 --> 00:13:51,560 Speaker 4: I mean, my mom is my best friend. She's my 294 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:54,360 Speaker 4: favorite person in the whole world, and I brilliant see 295 00:13:54,360 --> 00:13:57,560 Speaker 4: anything wrong as you're coming to pick me up after church? 296 00:13:57,760 --> 00:13:59,120 Speaker 3: I mean she was in the area. 297 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 4: I didn't you have to send money on over. 298 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 5: I didn't want to inconvenience to anybody. 299 00:14:04,080 --> 00:14:07,600 Speaker 2: I mean, Miguel, what do you think I get it? 300 00:14:07,640 --> 00:14:09,920 Speaker 5: Like, I'm super close with my mom too, and I've 301 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:12,600 Speaker 5: had my mom picked me up from some really sticky situations. 302 00:14:12,600 --> 00:14:15,400 Speaker 5: But I wasn't under eighteen at the time, and you know, 303 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 5: I'm an adult. 304 00:14:17,559 --> 00:14:18,360 Speaker 2: It's been a while. 305 00:14:18,840 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 5: It was just really off putting for you to feel 306 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:22,680 Speaker 5: like your mom doesn't like me already, you know, like 307 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 5: that was weird. 308 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 3: Love you. She was just asking about like the other day, 309 00:14:28,040 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 3: Like wait, she was asking about Miguel. 310 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:33,040 Speaker 4: Yeah, she was asking, like have you heard from him? 311 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:36,560 Speaker 4: And he seemed like a nice guy. 312 00:14:36,600 --> 00:14:40,320 Speaker 2: Sometimes mom's coming really really hot when they just want 313 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:42,160 Speaker 2: to like make sure that he's a good guy. They're 314 00:14:42,160 --> 00:14:43,320 Speaker 2: not actually angry. 315 00:14:43,400 --> 00:14:45,120 Speaker 3: And you already ripped the band aid off with her, 316 00:14:45,320 --> 00:14:46,880 Speaker 3: like there's no way you could get lower. 317 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:48,560 Speaker 2: And she knows where you live for the next time. 318 00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:51,760 Speaker 4: Yeah, oh yeah, I mean she did say that she 319 00:14:51,800 --> 00:14:55,680 Speaker 4: would pick me up if it ever did happen again. Okay, man, 320 00:14:55,800 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 4: this is so. 321 00:14:56,760 --> 00:14:59,360 Speaker 5: Weird, Like I've never dealt with anything like this before. 322 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:02,480 Speaker 2: Well, we'd like to let you deal with it one 323 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 2: more time and send you on another date with Jackie 324 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:06,080 Speaker 2: and we'd pay for it. 325 00:15:06,320 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 3: I bet Jackie could even promise that her mom won't 326 00:15:08,840 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 3: come or pick her up or or maybe any interaction 327 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:14,080 Speaker 3: with you. 328 00:15:14,080 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 2: No, she'll have her grandma coming together. 329 00:15:17,160 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 4: I mean, Miguel, I thought that we had like a 330 00:15:19,800 --> 00:15:22,840 Speaker 4: really great time. I think it's gonna be better, like 331 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:26,200 Speaker 4: mom doesn't have to come. But I also just want 332 00:15:26,200 --> 00:15:29,600 Speaker 4: to say, like, isn't my mom really hot? Like that's 333 00:15:29,720 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 4: I'm going to look in like the next twenty years, 334 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 4: Like she looks amazing. 335 00:15:33,160 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 2: So if you if you pick me. 336 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 4: If you pick me, Miguel, like, and then he hot 337 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 4: for the rest of my life. 338 00:15:39,520 --> 00:15:41,640 Speaker 2: That is not a lot of people come on the 339 00:15:41,640 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 2: show and try to sell themselves by saying how hot 340 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:48,440 Speaker 2: their mom is. But I should try this. Yeah, but 341 00:15:48,520 --> 00:15:50,760 Speaker 2: it's up to you, Miguel. We're running out of time here, 342 00:15:50,800 --> 00:15:51,720 Speaker 2: so we need an answer. 343 00:15:52,360 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 5: Honestly, that was the weirdest pitch I ever heard. But Jackie, 344 00:15:55,120 --> 00:15:55,880 Speaker 5: I'm done for it. 345 00:15:56,440 --> 00:16:03,080 Speaker 3: Yeah those good yes? Oh my god. Okay, you know 346 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:05,040 Speaker 3: the first person she's calling after this is her mom? 347 00:16:05,120 --> 00:16:08,920 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, Jeffrey in the morning. 348 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:12,120 Speaker 2: Before I say anything about this, I just want to 349 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:14,560 Speaker 2: say make sure if you miss any of our second 350 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:16,760 Speaker 2: date updates, you go to our YouTube page at Brooke 351 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:17,320 Speaker 2: and Jeffrey. 352 00:16:17,360 --> 00:16:17,880 Speaker 3: Yeah. 353 00:16:18,680 --> 00:16:20,880 Speaker 2: We put them up every week along with our awkward 354 00:16:20,920 --> 00:16:23,960 Speaker 2: Tuesday calls. And man, maybe this should have been an 355 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 2: awkward Tuesday phone call, having your mom come from church 356 00:16:27,120 --> 00:16:29,480 Speaker 2: to pick you up after your one night stand. 357 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 3: And then lecture the one night stand? Oh yeah, like 358 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 3: that was the part that how did she go from 359 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:36,960 Speaker 3: like lecturing him to I like him? Where is Miguel? 360 00:16:37,120 --> 00:16:39,600 Speaker 2: Mom came in with the tough love after every one 361 00:16:39,680 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 2: night stand? 362 00:16:40,480 --> 00:16:42,520 Speaker 3: That was going to be one mother in law to 363 00:16:42,560 --> 00:16:43,800 Speaker 3: handle for somebody's. 364 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:45,840 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, man, why didn't we ask? Though? We should 365 00:16:45,840 --> 00:16:49,560 Speaker 2: have specifically asked who picked her up after the date. 366 00:16:49,520 --> 00:16:51,560 Speaker 3: Because who would have been a million years thought it 367 00:16:51,560 --> 00:16:52,480 Speaker 3: would be her mother? 368 00:16:52,640 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 2: Well, whose job is it to ask that question? Alexis 369 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:58,080 Speaker 2: we need to put you on this Okay? From now on. Okay, 370 00:16:58,240 --> 00:17:00,520 Speaker 2: anytime we do a second date, you are asked the 371 00:17:00,600 --> 00:17:05,200 Speaker 2: driver's name, a physical description, license plate number, and relationship status. 372 00:17:05,200 --> 00:17:07,159 Speaker 3: It's not gonna give you like flag during anything for us. 373 00:17:07,240 --> 00:17:09,879 Speaker 2: You don't let him. It's just gonna help us. This 374 00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:12,160 Speaker 2: is a good learning moment so that we can help 375 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 2: our listeners. Email the show and we will call the 376 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:17,399 Speaker 2: person who's not calling you back and grill them like 377 00:17:17,440 --> 00:17:18,040 Speaker 2: her mom did. 378 00:17:18,119 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right, Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.