WEBVTT - Quite a Week! 

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<v Speaker 1>Wind down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast Ellies.

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<v Speaker 2>We are back. I take back everything I said last week.

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<v Speaker 2>The movie was great. It was honorable.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh boy, it's so good. I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>what are we taking back?

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<v Speaker 2>I still hat football.

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<v Speaker 1>It was so good.

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<v Speaker 2>I was obviously very nervous, and I was downplaying, as

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<v Speaker 2>I do because that's just what I do. But I'm

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<v Speaker 2>watching it and I'm like hearing people laughing in the

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<v Speaker 2>premiere and I I saw a few people kind of

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<v Speaker 2>wipe a little tear away, and I'm like, this isn't

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<v Speaker 2>the same. It's good. You have elevated yourself and you

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<v Speaker 2>don't even know it. Well, it's the material. But I'm

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<v Speaker 2>so excited. I hope you guys go see it. It's

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<v Speaker 2>still in theaters, so go see it because it's.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so good. You'll love it.

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<v Speaker 2>It was exciting. What an experience we had a of

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<v Speaker 2>a dress malfunction.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, that I'd.

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<v Speaker 2>Be freaking out.

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<v Speaker 1>Already running late, already we were running late.

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<v Speaker 2>Your timing was magnificent, thank god. Yeah he made me happy,

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<v Speaker 2>but yes, but it was so I put on a thong,

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<v Speaker 2>but I go Catherine and this is a tan thong

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<v Speaker 2>and I'm like, you can see the thong and then

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<v Speaker 2>she's like, well, how shere is it? And I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I guess I really didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>Try it on that well. It was very sheer.

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<v Speaker 2>So at the end when they called us up and

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<v Speaker 2>I'm like, oh god, spotlights. This is why my hands

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<v Speaker 2>were right.

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<v Speaker 1>From big feather.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I already don't like being in front of people,

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<v Speaker 2>so I'm already you know, I get a little, you know, weird,

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<v Speaker 2>but that was I was like, I have to have

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<v Speaker 2>all the feathers right in front just in case she shines.

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<v Speaker 2>That is not what needs to be shining.

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<v Speaker 1>What was so weird is it never looked that way

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<v Speaker 1>that night. No, No, I would know the house. It

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<v Speaker 1>was like whoa house lighting?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Great? And then we got there and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>okause I kept an eye on it, and.

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<v Speaker 2>We were Pam drove over uh spanks because the spanks

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<v Speaker 2>thing too that I have, we're not you can see

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<v Speaker 2>the line. So yeah, we're trying to find the seamless

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<v Speaker 2>ones and so Pam had.

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<v Speaker 1>I need you to do something right now, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>like so slow. You know how we talked about men

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<v Speaker 1>are really slow.

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, no, no, no, like nothing beat Scottish time. Okay, truth, Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>I will give you that.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I got to see that one firsthand too.

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<v Speaker 2>She did, did I need let's go day by day

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<v Speaker 2>by day by day by day? Oh did you see that?

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<v Speaker 3>When do we get to know about kit Kat's bts?

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<v Speaker 2>And it's a long week.

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<v Speaker 1>It was a very long, busy week.

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<v Speaker 2>So premiere went, great, thank you guys for showing up. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that's a pleasure of our life. Are you kidding me?

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<v Speaker 2>So fun? I do have a wine about it that

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<v Speaker 2>pertains to that night, so stay tuned. Okay, but let's

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<v Speaker 2>continue on with me. Let's go to Wednesday. Wednesday, so

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<v Speaker 2>the next day opry okay, So I again don't really

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<v Speaker 2>try on the outfit. I sent Jesse a few photos

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<v Speaker 2>and said, uh, you know which one because because she

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<v Speaker 2>asked what I was wearing, and I said, girl, I don't,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, you know. So I took a couple

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<v Speaker 2>of pictures and she said that with that great that

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<v Speaker 2>I brought another pair of pants just in case. Right,

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<v Speaker 2>Oh it wasn't looking good? No, but yeah, it was

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<v Speaker 2>like an hour away. But what was worse? No, you guys,

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<v Speaker 2>I was mortified. I don't feel like you get easily mortified,

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<v Speaker 2>is that true? M Not easily, not easily. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like all the three of us have a great deal

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<v Speaker 2>of humility. So we're just like, oh, yes, happened embarrassing,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, So bring the kids, it's really fun and

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<v Speaker 2>we can go back to the Scottish time. But I

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<v Speaker 2>so we sound and there's no wedge in front, and

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<v Speaker 2>so we were doing in ears, but the person that

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<v Speaker 2>was singing before us had a wedge. But I didn't

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<v Speaker 2>rehearse with the wedge, and so when I went out

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<v Speaker 2>there that first verse, I was so pitchy because the

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<v Speaker 2>wedge was there because I had in ear and one

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<v Speaker 2>ear in, one in ear in and one ear out

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<v Speaker 2>that I couldn't find because because I couldn't hear the

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<v Speaker 2>band because I just heard the wedge in me. And

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<v Speaker 2>it was one of those moments where I was like shit,

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<v Speaker 2>like I know, I can't restart, no like that she

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<v Speaker 2>was sailed and we're there and oh my god, but

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<v Speaker 2>it and so then I just moved away from the

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<v Speaker 2>wedge and then put my ear back in and then

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<v Speaker 2>finally found the note.

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<v Speaker 3>For people listening the wedge would be she can hear herself.

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<v Speaker 3>The in ears are what like would make her connect

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<v Speaker 3>to the band in the back, So like, do you

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<v Speaker 3>always see musicians with their little ears in they call ears?

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<v Speaker 3>Which is funny because I said I found Preston's ears

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<v Speaker 3>in the garage and Christine was like, whoa, but like,

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<v Speaker 3>so that is what she's saying. So when you get

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<v Speaker 3>disconnected from one, you can't hear the other.

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<v Speaker 2>Right And I'm already guys, not selin beyond, so like

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<v Speaker 2>and it's opry too. Opry comes at the different levels

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<v Speaker 2>like pressure and it's not your people there. I saw

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<v Speaker 2>real sweet person that had a little poster, so it's

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<v Speaker 2>already you're not comfy. And I don't sing out a lot,

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<v Speaker 2>so it had nerves attached to it. But what I

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<v Speaker 2>love about Catherine is she may come off stage and

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<v Speaker 2>she's like, great job, and I go, no that first

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<v Speaker 2>first she goes, yeah, that was bad, and she goes,

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<v Speaker 2>but you collected yourself, And I'm like, but this is

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<v Speaker 2>what I love about Catherine because she's like yeah, everyone

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, no, it was great. I was like no, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I like even Catherine said, okay, I know it.

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<v Speaker 3>SCD like, did you call me and you're like and

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<v Speaker 3>Catherine even told me it sounds.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>That that's what. Yeah, first, I love you, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>because you're gonna be honest with me when everyone else

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<v Speaker 2>is like no, it was great. I'm like no, but

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<v Speaker 2>I right, you know. But anyways, there was that. But

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<v Speaker 2>we did have a food dilemma and she saw the

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<v Speaker 2>Scottish time. Would you like to let.

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<v Speaker 1>Me just say back to the you being off Other

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<v Speaker 1>people didn't notice, like I think they truly didn't notice,

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<v Speaker 1>but I would know, so I mean, but yes, it

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<v Speaker 1>was fine. You locked in quickly and everything sounded great

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<v Speaker 1>after that.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, it was the grim scene front row that makes

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<v Speaker 3>you feel differently.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a crowd, it was it happened to the

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<v Speaker 2>worst of them.

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<v Speaker 1>I can tell you that Oprey crowd no offense, probably

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<v Speaker 1>had no clue, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and also like they're excited to be entertained. So yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>and she just pumped. Yeah, she did great.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me start the food conversation by We had to

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<v Speaker 1>be there at five o'clock for five thirty rehearsals, knowing

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<v Speaker 1>the traffic would be terrible, like we have got to

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<v Speaker 1>leave by four jan She's like, I get it, blah

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<v Speaker 1>blah blah. So we did. He picked up the trads.

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<v Speaker 2>Early, yeah, from school, got them all ready because they

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<v Speaker 2>really wanted to come to So I changed the days

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<v Speaker 2>because usually Mike has Wednesdays. And I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 2>the kids really want to go with the opera. He's

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<v Speaker 2>like absolutely. So that was all great, settled planned. We

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<v Speaker 2>left right at four yep, and still didn't get their

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<v Speaker 2>jell about five fifteen.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, try to thank you. This is a four o'clock

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<v Speaker 1>leave for a eight forty pm performance. And Jana Kramer

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<v Speaker 1>has to eat dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>No no, no, not just me, oh the kids, no no,

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<v Speaker 2>but I mean yeah, people have to eat. Everybody has

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<v Speaker 2>to everyone has to eat. It was a little just me.

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<v Speaker 1>I like this about you, that you need to eat dinner,

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<v Speaker 1>that you're not going to.

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<v Speaker 2>Just wait until you are not one. I'm not an

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<v Speaker 2>ale skipper. Having said that, I do skip lunch at

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<v Speaker 2>times and I eat.

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<v Speaker 1>A bar, but you're not eating, You're not missing dinner.

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<v Speaker 2>Dinner is my favorite meal the day. It's my favorite

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<v Speaker 2>part about being on tour.

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<v Speaker 1>And that's very healthy and very good, and I'm glad

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<v Speaker 1>that we don't just skip dinner when we are working.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you at four o'clock to nine o'clock is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of my point in all of that. But yes, everyone

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<v Speaker 1>needed to eat dinner, so we're already missing dinner time.

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<v Speaker 2>So what I said was, let's and I'm a I'm

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<v Speaker 2>a one up ahead. I would be the best personal

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<v Speaker 2>Assistan ever. So I'm like, I'm going to order the

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<v Speaker 2>food so that it's there pretty much when we get there.

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<v Speaker 2>So when we get there, we can eat, we can

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<v Speaker 2>sound check, and then we can eat and everybody's happy

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<v Speaker 2>and fed. So I go on door dash and I

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<v Speaker 2>deliver U, which looking back, I should have just gone

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<v Speaker 2>to the restaurant and picked it up. But again, timing wise, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>So I ordered cheesecake and put to the delivery to

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<v Speaker 2>the artist entrance.

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<v Speaker 1>And then well, first we get there, and when we're

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<v Speaker 1>checking in at the artist entrance, we let them know, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>we're going to have a door dash. He's like, okay, great,

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<v Speaker 1>just let the guy inside know, like I'll video or

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<v Speaker 1>I'll i'll walk youe them, blah blah blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 1>So we go in and we said it and we

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<v Speaker 1>tell him he's like, oh, good luck, and I'm like

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<v Speaker 1>the sweet o man, We're not ever getting this food,

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<v Speaker 1>Like they're never going to figure out how to get

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<v Speaker 1>here ever, Like.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not gonna I've been there a trillion times and

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<v Speaker 3>I sometimes don't remember how.

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<v Speaker 1>To get to the artists. They're super confused.

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<v Speaker 2>It is.

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<v Speaker 1>It's super confusing.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, so they dropped the order off. Have no idea

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<v Speaker 2>where this said drop off location was. They took a

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<v Speaker 2>picture of it, but now.

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<v Speaker 1>Now it becomes a skencher. There was a mess So

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<v Speaker 1>she goes to rehearse. I go out there with her,

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<v Speaker 1>but I have her phone and so I'm looking at

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<v Speaker 1>it and I'm like, okay. They had messaged. They're like, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>can I meet you at the welcome peer? So I

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<v Speaker 1>text Alan. I'm like, hey, I'm gonna get some videos

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<v Speaker 1>of her. He's not up there with us, and I said,

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<v Speaker 1>it says the welcome peer if you can kind of figure.

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<v Speaker 1>So he's like where's that. I'm like, I have no idea.

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<v Speaker 1>He's asking people all the things. So then we come

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<v Speaker 1>off from rehearsal and I'm like, y'all go back there.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to go venture. So I just go out front.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, there's no way this guy figured out how

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<v Speaker 1>to go to the back. So I'm just going to

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<v Speaker 1>go out front, which is in and of itself a

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing to do because I don't have a ticket,

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<v Speaker 1>got to go through security, you gotta do all this stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>It's raining, you know all the things. Your hair is

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<v Speaker 1>at a blow dry. Now it's not. I already felt it

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<v Speaker 1>for you when you said rain, but I was so

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<v Speaker 1>it was literally like, I'm like, I'm gonna find this food.

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<v Speaker 1>The very least, I'm going to find the welcome center.

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<v Speaker 2>It will be frozen by the time we get it.

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<v Speaker 2>Was fine with this food, so I did.

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<v Speaker 1>I talked to all these really really sweet people, found

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<v Speaker 1>the welcome peer, but there is no food to be found.

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<v Speaker 1>So I don't know if he ever dropped it off

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<v Speaker 1>at all, because the photo like you can see it

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<v Speaker 1>in the back, but it looks like it's in his

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<v Speaker 1>car and then or somebody took the food. We found it,

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<v Speaker 1>but no food. So then we go back and we're like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like probably closer.

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<v Speaker 2>Kids have asked a million times, yeah, their food. They're

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<v Speaker 2>they're hungry, and it's like that's stressing because I want

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<v Speaker 2>them to be fed first and.

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<v Speaker 1>Foremost, and there's only popcorn there. Yes, it's like even

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<v Speaker 1>if you could choose to just eat a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>junk for dinner, you know what I mean, Like there's

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<v Speaker 1>like there's no there's.

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<v Speaker 2>Already lets them split a bag to just hold them

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<v Speaker 2>over right, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Like there was truly no options, you know. I so

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<v Speaker 1>so this. So Alan's like, Okay, I'll order it and

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<v Speaker 1>go kick it up, oh boy, to which this is

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<v Speaker 1>probably close to six At this point, Jana is doing

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<v Speaker 1>her hair makeup and I'm just sitting here watching this

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<v Speaker 1>gym go down. You know. It's just like, so, Alan,

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<v Speaker 1>what time is is pick up?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm like, I don't even know.

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<v Speaker 2>What he was He wasn't even saying. He wasn't really

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<v Speaker 2>saying much because it's we already knew the order in

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<v Speaker 2>which I ordered it within less than five minutes, no joke.

0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:16.559
<v Speaker 2>It probably took this me in thirty minutes to actually

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<v Speaker 2>order the food because I kept saying how many times

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<v Speaker 2>did I nicely say too, like yeah, maybebe so did

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<v Speaker 2>you put the order in?

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<v Speaker 1>You asked a couple of times if he'd put the

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<v Speaker 1>order in.

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<v Speaker 4>He didn't really give us a direct ND no, I

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<v Speaker 4>really did not thinking back now he really didn't, because

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<v Speaker 4>I'm watching this whole thing go down and going I

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<v Speaker 4>don't know if he's ordered the food because it wasn't

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<v Speaker 4>like a yes I ordered yeah, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's also kind of like weird in those moments

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<v Speaker 1>because like for me, because I'm like, wait, should I

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<v Speaker 1>be the one ordering the food and going to get it?

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<v Speaker 1>But like sometimes you would rather them go get it

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe with you, And so it's kind of this

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<v Speaker 1>awkward kind of figuring it out anyway, but there's part

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<v Speaker 1>of me that wants to.

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<v Speaker 2>Go, I want me to just order it, yeah, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And so like finally she's like okay, So she takes

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<v Speaker 1>a different approach and she's like, hey, Alan, so where

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<v Speaker 1>time is pickup?

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<v Speaker 2>And he's like, because all's gonna go to pickug He's like, well,

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<v Speaker 2>I just placed order.

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<v Speaker 1>Now he had still not even placed. He was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm working on it, and he's like still still in

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<v Speaker 1>his lab trying to load the door dash. So finally

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<v Speaker 1>gets it ordered and then she's like okay, so what

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<v Speaker 1>times pick up or whatever? And so she puts out

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<v Speaker 1>the whole thing and how she would handle this and like, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so if pick up is six forty five, let's say,

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<v Speaker 1>why don't we get there twenty minutes early and like

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<v Speaker 1>you can say that you're there and then like maybe

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<v Speaker 1>they'll bring it out early blah blah blah. And he

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<v Speaker 1>still doesn't really say much. He's kind of just sitting there,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like nervous because like, we got hungry kids,

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<v Speaker 1>we get hungry, and he's just sitting here. Yeah, it was,

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<v Speaker 1>and they were getting hungry and they were getting like

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<v Speaker 1>super antsy, and it also would keep them like contained

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<v Speaker 1>and like sitting and not being.

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<v Speaker 2>And they have all the thing's place.

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<v Speaker 1>The ways gets kids to just like children on it too.

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<v Speaker 1>But so then finally after a while he's like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll just go ahead and put that I'm on my way.

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<v Speaker 2>Lord, we're timing with the calendar on my way button.

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<v Speaker 2>She's like, yeah, that's a great idea, but are you

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<v Speaker 2>on your way?

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<v Speaker 1>I go there's an I'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, well I would have already pressed that, and I

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<v Speaker 2>go same, oh, Alan, and I think he's He's like

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<v Speaker 2>I think I'm gonna go and I'm like that sounds

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<v Speaker 2>like a great idea.

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<v Speaker 1>So calm and not in the least worried in that moment, though,

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm sitting here just going you can feel it well,

0:13:29.880 --> 0:13:33.880
<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, like, women get angry. I get I

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<v Speaker 1>get angry, get hangry, I get angry, I get angry

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<v Speaker 1>all the things. I am actually kind of okay because

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<v Speaker 1>I'd eaten a little bit later, so like I was fine,

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<v Speaker 1>but I know how I would be in that moment.

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm just sitting back and I'm like, and he's

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<v Speaker 1>so calm, which would drive me a little bit more

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<v Speaker 1>crazy if I'm being completely But I was like the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that like you're saying these things and he's not

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<v Speaker 1>even really responding, I'm like, oh God, is she gonna

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<v Speaker 1>lose it? Because I might lose it, didn't it you'd

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<v Speaker 1>be proud of you. Yeah, you did great.

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<v Speaker 2>But I was just like, I think you should go now.

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<v Speaker 3>I think you should do something anything do I like,

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<v Speaker 3>give me the illusion of progress.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I told my husband. Just been in a circle,

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<v Speaker 2>stand up and start your arms. Make me feel like

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<v Speaker 2>you were en route to something.

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<v Speaker 1>He could have left twenty minutes earlier. He might have

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<v Speaker 1>come back at the same time with the food, but

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<v Speaker 1>it would have felt like we were getting somewhere.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, it just felt so far away. But when

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<v Speaker 2>it came back, it was, yeah, it was it was good.

0:14:30.600 --> 0:14:34.000
<v Speaker 2>And then the performance went down to the cold.

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<v Speaker 1>It was not that.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a tumultuous Wednesday. So let's just oh good,

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<v Speaker 2>fast forward through Wednesday.

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<v Speaker 1>So then it was what did we do Thursday?

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<v Speaker 2>Something? I feel like I had football game that night. Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't remember. But then we went to then Halloween Halloween.

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<v Speaker 2>Halloween Halloween was great. It was so fun. It was

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<v Speaker 2>so you know, just so great dressing up. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>we had Mike come over. I've always invited. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like that's kind and the right thing to do for

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<v Speaker 2>the kiddos, and so that was nice. And uh and

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<v Speaker 2>then Saturday morning, we had a three in front of

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<v Speaker 2>our alarm number and we flew to One Tree Hill,

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<v Speaker 2>One Treill, Wilmington for One Tree Hill Convention, which is

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<v Speaker 2>always so fun, and Catherine came.

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<v Speaker 1>And uh, yeah, yeah, that was great.

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<v Speaker 2>It was fun. Yeah, I love a good convention. It

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<v Speaker 2>was the last one of the year. They love so

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so grateful that show just keeps seeing people keep

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<v Speaker 2>watching and they want us to be there and it's

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<v Speaker 2>it's you know, I had such a small part, but

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<v Speaker 2>yet it's been really fun to be included.

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<v Speaker 1>And Alex and then you did the drama Queen's Podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>which that was really fun to watch all of y'all

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<v Speaker 1>reminisce on all of the things. Everybody was funny, it

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<v Speaker 1>was it was. That was fun to watch.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it was. It was really nice. Yeah, so yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>it was. It was quite a week. And we also

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<v Speaker 2>got a call. Oh, I knew it was coming. I

0:16:06.240 --> 0:16:09.600
<v Speaker 2>was laying it was Homer Simpson. It was hearing into

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<v Speaker 2>the bushes. We got a call. You were in the car,

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<v Speaker 2>got sam it. I thought maybe I could go a

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<v Speaker 2>whole episode without it. Oh, we don't have to. We

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<v Speaker 2>can skirt buy it. Yeah, let's skirt. We can skirt

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<v Speaker 2>by it, and you can bring it up when you

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<v Speaker 2>want to chat about it. But it was one of

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<v Speaker 2>those it was been it an emotional phone call from

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<v Speaker 2>me on speakerphone. Well I didn't know, friend, no, I answer.

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<v Speaker 2>I got the kiddos in the car, which I had

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<v Speaker 2>left that piece out, And then.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, you said, Janna, you said that.

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<v Speaker 2>You said it was you and Catherine and Allen, and

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<v Speaker 2>I was like, that seems like good safe, please lost it.

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<v Speaker 2>We were had a hard Wednesday for KB.

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<v Speaker 3>We did have a hard Wednesday. Everyone's by life so

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<v Speaker 3>excited for you. I'm excited for me too, and I

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<v Speaker 3>honestly have a very different attitude this week. Also, last

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<v Speaker 3>week was and this is sweet. We have a really

0:17:03.120 --> 0:17:05.600
<v Speaker 3>precious ballet studio, but love goes five days right now

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<v Speaker 3>to ballet.

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<v Speaker 2>And so every day was a theme day last week.

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<v Speaker 2>So we had Neon Day, and.

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<v Speaker 3>We had you know, and then there was a movie

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<v Speaker 3>premiere in the middle, and we had Disney Day and

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<v Speaker 3>Superhero Day and Crazy Hair Day at school and then

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<v Speaker 3>crazy Hair Day in socc day at ballet.

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<v Speaker 2>It was just like a lot.

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<v Speaker 3>And so by the time I got to Wednesday and

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<v Speaker 3>I found out that my sweet Saint Christine will no

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<v Speaker 3>longer be working with us.

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<v Speaker 2>I was just like, you might as well have put me. Oh,

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<v Speaker 2>you might as well just put me on an island.

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<v Speaker 3>I was like, I don't have family here and I'm alone,

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<v Speaker 3>and I don't have a husband home, and I'm already

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<v Speaker 3>shuffling kids and how am I going to do this?

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<v Speaker 3>And I it felt overwhelming. I did and I allowed

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<v Speaker 3>myself to spiral. The thing is when you share forty

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<v Speaker 3>hours a week with someone, you grow to love them.

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<v Speaker 3>And I love her and she's twenty eight and she

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<v Speaker 3>keeps me young and she's fun and listen, it's a

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<v Speaker 3>new season for both.

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<v Speaker 2>Of us, and I I feel excited. I feel really

0:18:01.920 --> 0:18:03.440
<v Speaker 2>excited for me this week.

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<v Speaker 3>Last week, I think it was hard to We're coming

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<v Speaker 3>into CMA week, so we have like late nights and

0:18:09.400 --> 0:18:12.560
<v Speaker 3>a lot of moving pieces and CMA prep week where

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<v Speaker 3>you're trying to get hot in a week, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>and you're doing all the things maintenance, and then there's

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<v Speaker 3>Thanksgiving in December and the Christmas. It just was all

0:18:20.240 --> 0:18:23.960
<v Speaker 3>at once and I just cried, which I I know

0:18:24.040 --> 0:18:25.520
<v Speaker 3>I cry a lot on here, but I actually don't

0:18:25.640 --> 0:18:29.000
<v Speaker 3>cry outside of youre ever, which is embarrassing to say.

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<v Speaker 2>But I like allowed myself to just be sad, good.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and phone a front or three with the family

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<v Speaker 3>for five and I might have thrown an egg mins

0:18:38.160 --> 0:18:39.639
<v Speaker 3>in their boop. And that's when Jan was like and

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<v Speaker 3>the kids are in the car, and I was like, oh,

0:18:42.640 --> 0:18:46.600
<v Speaker 3>I literally answered, speak and he's in the car.

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<v Speaker 1>Even though I mean you can guess in front of

0:18:48.440 --> 0:18:50.320
<v Speaker 1>her it doesn't really matter. But I usually just I

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<v Speaker 1>announced it from.

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<v Speaker 2>The get go. Well, I do take you off to

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<v Speaker 2>within a few minutes because I didn't want you to

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<v Speaker 2>feel uncomfortable.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I also you writ cap like out yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>Well the good news is with Alan, I know n

0:19:02.480 --> 0:19:06.159
<v Speaker 3>F Bomb's welcome, so that's why this will be cozy. Anyways,

0:19:06.200 --> 0:19:07.119
<v Speaker 3>happens to the best of us.

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<v Speaker 2>There's that. Anything you want to share from your week.

0:19:10.200 --> 0:19:13.880
<v Speaker 1>Or Halloween was great. My daughter had a great Halloween.

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<v Speaker 1>It was she met some new friends. It was awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>It was great. That's all I can ask for. I

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<v Speaker 1>got to I did leave Ramsey for like half a

0:19:21.520 --> 0:19:23.320
<v Speaker 1>second to take inmy to a party and came back.

0:19:23.400 --> 0:19:25.960
<v Speaker 1>She didn't even notice I was gone. Everybody was happy,

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<v Speaker 1>So I'm happy. It was good.

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<v Speaker 2>It was a great week. Yeah, we're going to read

0:19:29.960 --> 0:19:30.920
<v Speaker 2>happy Halloween.

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<v Speaker 1>It's funny though, because my sister in law showed up

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<v Speaker 1>and she was like, oh my gosh, this is going

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<v Speaker 1>on with my son and this is going She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I hate Halloween, and I was like, it's something about

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<v Speaker 1>It's just it's it's a hard season when kids grow

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<v Speaker 1>up and like who are they with? Who are they

0:19:43.520 --> 0:19:45.720
<v Speaker 1>trick or treating with? Like it can be a moment

0:19:45.760 --> 0:19:48.200
<v Speaker 1>of feeling very left out, and so it was just

0:19:48.280 --> 0:19:49.960
<v Speaker 1>saving space for her, and I'm like, I'm sorry, I've

0:19:49.960 --> 0:19:51.320
<v Speaker 1>been there. I think it's hard.

0:19:51.440 --> 0:19:53.480
<v Speaker 2>But it was good though. I got so many messages

0:19:53.840 --> 0:19:54.520
<v Speaker 2>on your behalf.

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<v Speaker 1>Ah, that's sweet.

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<v Speaker 2>I got so I bet you Denny because I got

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<v Speaker 2>residual and I.

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<v Speaker 1>Was like, whoa, Okay, I think almost the most on

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<v Speaker 1>this one.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what else. I got a lot of messages on.

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<v Speaker 1>Football.

0:20:05.960 --> 0:20:06.840
<v Speaker 2>People hate football.

0:20:07.280 --> 0:20:09.080
<v Speaker 1>I'm not all people hate football.

0:20:09.080 --> 0:20:12.119
<v Speaker 2>I gotta say, I'm quite shocked about that. I mean people,

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<v Speaker 2>but they're they're they're with they're with you in the comments.

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<v Speaker 2>I didn't.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't try to look at the comments. I get

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<v Speaker 3>very nervous about the comment comments. But the dms came

0:20:20.800 --> 0:20:22.840
<v Speaker 3>a flood in and I was like, oh, we are

0:20:22.880 --> 0:20:23.119
<v Speaker 3>in it.

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<v Speaker 2>O good. Yeah, I feel really supported.

0:20:26.000 --> 0:20:28.879
<v Speaker 1>Everybody know I still support you. I just added to

0:20:29.240 --> 0:20:30.159
<v Speaker 1>did you watch football?

0:20:30.240 --> 0:20:33.960
<v Speaker 2>Guy? I sure didn't, and I will try again next Sunday.

0:20:34.080 --> 0:20:37.240
<v Speaker 3>Wait was that video not of y'all watching football? That

0:20:37.359 --> 0:20:41.240
<v Speaker 3>was the Saturday football? He was watching football. I sat

0:20:41.320 --> 0:20:44.560
<v Speaker 3>on the ground and attempted, okay, to watch the football.

0:20:44.600 --> 0:20:47.159
<v Speaker 3>Tempt Yeah, I made. I made it five minutes.

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<v Speaker 1>But okay, well that's it.

0:20:48.320 --> 0:21:03.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, okay, so I have a whine about it. I

0:21:03.480 --> 0:21:08.760
<v Speaker 2>think I have already processed what I'm going to do. Okay, okay,

0:21:09.359 --> 0:21:11.920
<v Speaker 2>because I've taken some time with it. It's fun to

0:21:11.960 --> 0:21:15.800
<v Speaker 2>see if what we want you to do will match. Yeah, right, Yeah,

0:21:15.880 --> 0:21:19.200
<v Speaker 2>it's interesting to say because so I've made what I'm

0:21:19.320 --> 0:21:23.159
<v Speaker 2>going to do. It might be nothing, it might be something. Okay,

0:21:23.760 --> 0:21:27.720
<v Speaker 2>we'll get there. So I invited someone to the premiere.

0:21:29.040 --> 0:21:32.280
<v Speaker 2>That was a friend. I'm not going to say good friend.

0:21:32.320 --> 0:21:33.960
<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to say I'm not even going to

0:21:34.000 --> 0:21:38.680
<v Speaker 2>give the the the Internet's loose anything with this one. Okay,

0:21:39.080 --> 0:21:43.159
<v Speaker 2>just going to say a friend. And I had gotten

0:21:43.160 --> 0:21:45.639
<v Speaker 2>a message from one of my other friends, lovely friend,

0:21:45.720 --> 0:21:51.119
<v Speaker 2>who had texted me saying, oh, their sitter had canceled

0:21:51.960 --> 0:21:55.120
<v Speaker 2>and left them in a buye. And I said reply back, girl,

0:21:55.320 --> 0:21:58.800
<v Speaker 2>no worries at all, I love you. Let's get together soon.

0:21:59.000 --> 0:22:03.600
<v Speaker 2>It's been a minute. But this said friend did not text,

0:22:03.920 --> 0:22:06.160
<v Speaker 2>didn't say that they weren't coming. And by the way,

0:22:06.359 --> 0:22:09.760
<v Speaker 2>I had very limited seats, very small theater. It's a

0:22:09.880 --> 0:22:14.480
<v Speaker 2>very small theater, and I was very mindful of the

0:22:15.440 --> 0:22:17.439
<v Speaker 2>people that I gave seats to.

0:22:17.800 --> 0:22:22.240
<v Speaker 1>And I think that people knew that too, I would assume.

0:22:22.440 --> 0:22:24.920
<v Speaker 1>So I got the group that I was on, it

0:22:25.040 --> 0:22:27.439
<v Speaker 1>was like, hey, can I have my kids? Can?

0:22:27.520 --> 0:22:29.560
<v Speaker 2>I not? Right? And I had said, if it's going

0:22:29.600 --> 0:22:33.400
<v Speaker 2>there to be yeah, if there's room, then yes you can, right.

0:22:33.520 --> 0:22:35.800
<v Speaker 1>So I think we all kind of knew, like, hey,

0:22:35.920 --> 0:22:38.520
<v Speaker 1>we're on like a seat budget here, right it did

0:22:39.000 --> 0:22:41.320
<v Speaker 1>you framed it that way from the beginning, yeah?

0:22:41.440 --> 0:22:47.720
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. And so when that person didn't show up, it

0:22:47.840 --> 0:22:51.399
<v Speaker 2>was obvious because I'd put them in our section, right,

0:22:51.840 --> 0:22:57.080
<v Speaker 2>But what hurt was that there wasn't a message saying, hey,

0:22:58.160 --> 0:23:02.640
<v Speaker 2>can't make it, and you know, I've even I've thought

0:23:02.680 --> 0:23:05.359
<v Speaker 2>about it, but there's okay, there's two pieces. But they

0:23:05.440 --> 0:23:09.120
<v Speaker 2>had told one of our other friends that they weren't coming.

0:23:09.680 --> 0:23:10.680
<v Speaker 1>Oh I didn't know that part.

0:23:10.920 --> 0:23:13.200
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so they had. When the person was going to

0:23:13.320 --> 0:23:18.600
<v Speaker 2>try to maybe drive together or coordinate, they said, oh,

0:23:18.680 --> 0:23:23.440
<v Speaker 2>actually i'm you know, because of X, I'm not going

0:23:23.520 --> 0:23:26.439
<v Speaker 2>to be able to. Now I was invited to something

0:23:27.080 --> 0:23:30.040
<v Speaker 2>someone's place that we that we know, and I'm not

0:23:30.280 --> 0:23:33.120
<v Speaker 2>really close with this person. But I even was like, hey,

0:23:33.840 --> 0:23:36.000
<v Speaker 2>you know, thank you so much for the invite. I'm

0:23:36.040 --> 0:23:38.720
<v Speaker 2>not going to be able to make it, you know,

0:23:38.760 --> 0:23:39.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm not.

0:23:39.160 --> 0:23:39.359
<v Speaker 1>I did.

0:23:39.480 --> 0:23:41.440
<v Speaker 2>I've been doing this eboo treatment and I wasn't feeling

0:23:41.520 --> 0:23:43.720
<v Speaker 2>well and so I'm just going to stay home tonight.

0:23:44.880 --> 0:23:49.280
<v Speaker 2>So I always think it's kind to say that you're

0:23:49.400 --> 0:23:52.320
<v Speaker 2>not going to come. Now. Having said that, there have

0:23:52.400 --> 0:23:55.119
<v Speaker 2>been times where if it's a big mass thing, like

0:23:55.440 --> 0:23:59.880
<v Speaker 2>I got invited to our neighbor's Halloween party, I r SVPDES,

0:24:00.359 --> 0:24:03.520
<v Speaker 2>but I didn't text because it was just a Halloween party,

0:24:03.680 --> 0:24:06.320
<v Speaker 2>and honestly I forgot. I didn't forget about the party,

0:24:06.359 --> 0:24:11.879
<v Speaker 2>but I forgot to text, and thinking back like I

0:24:11.960 --> 0:24:15.240
<v Speaker 2>probably should have, but it was a lot of moving

0:24:15.280 --> 0:24:18.240
<v Speaker 2>pieces and I didn't. So there are times when I

0:24:18.440 --> 0:24:22.600
<v Speaker 2>also fall short of replying. But most times I will

0:24:22.720 --> 0:24:25.280
<v Speaker 2>respond I can't come. And in that instance, when I

0:24:25.359 --> 0:24:29.000
<v Speaker 2>think about it, if it's a friend that's having a premiere,

0:24:30.200 --> 0:24:32.680
<v Speaker 2>I would have at least said, like I knew if

0:24:33.320 --> 0:24:37.959
<v Speaker 2>Legends Baseball you had said, well, you know, I might

0:24:38.040 --> 0:24:39.800
<v Speaker 2>not be able to go one hundred percent. I totally

0:24:39.840 --> 0:24:41.159
<v Speaker 2>get that. You know, we all have life, Just like

0:24:41.200 --> 0:24:43.320
<v Speaker 2>I couldn't show up to your event because I had

0:24:43.359 --> 0:24:45.800
<v Speaker 2>to go to be a jolie. I was three kids,

0:24:45.840 --> 0:24:48.800
<v Speaker 2>three different ways. Yeah, different practices and games. But that's

0:24:48.840 --> 0:24:51.240
<v Speaker 2>again reiterating how I knew it was. The seat count

0:24:51.320 --> 0:24:52.960
<v Speaker 2>was important because I said, if you need to give

0:24:53.040 --> 0:24:55.760
<v Speaker 2>up our seeds, totally do that. We weren't known till

0:24:55.800 --> 0:24:56.879
<v Speaker 2>closer to right.

0:24:57.000 --> 0:24:59.439
<v Speaker 1>Well, I could have used an extra seed, was going

0:24:59.480 --> 0:25:00.679
<v Speaker 1>to be that my other daughter could have come.

0:25:00.920 --> 0:25:04.639
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, exactly. And so the thing that bothers me is

0:25:04.800 --> 0:25:07.280
<v Speaker 2>when I think about it, I'm like close enough as

0:25:07.320 --> 0:25:11.960
<v Speaker 2>a friend to say, hey, you know, sorry, I can't

0:25:12.040 --> 0:25:15.280
<v Speaker 2>make it. And also either congrats or I don't even

0:25:15.280 --> 0:25:17.480
<v Speaker 2>need a congrats. But more so just the even the

0:25:17.520 --> 0:25:20.520
<v Speaker 2>one girlfriend that I'm not as close to had said,

0:25:20.680 --> 0:25:22.920
<v Speaker 2>you know, congrats on the premiere. Are so excited for you.

0:25:23.280 --> 0:25:26.080
<v Speaker 2>So sorry we can't make it. So it really a

0:25:26.200 --> 0:25:29.320
<v Speaker 2>piece of me. So there was two things where do

0:25:29.480 --> 0:25:33.040
<v Speaker 2>I respond, Again, I've already made my decision, but I'm

0:25:33.040 --> 0:25:34.480
<v Speaker 2>going to bring it to you guys. I guess my

0:25:34.560 --> 0:25:37.280
<v Speaker 2>wine about it is now again where I said, I've

0:25:37.280 --> 0:25:40.480
<v Speaker 2>fallen short before, but I do think it's nice to

0:25:40.760 --> 0:25:43.560
<v Speaker 2>respond and say I can't make it. So I guess

0:25:43.600 --> 0:25:46.199
<v Speaker 2>that's my wine. Again. I know I've fallen short at

0:25:46.240 --> 0:25:50.560
<v Speaker 2>times with that, but so I was gonna maybe text

0:25:50.640 --> 0:25:53.480
<v Speaker 2>this person and say, hey, really bummed that I didn't

0:25:53.480 --> 0:25:55.639
<v Speaker 2>hear from you and that you had told someone else

0:25:55.680 --> 0:25:57.760
<v Speaker 2>you weren't coming, but you didn't give me I could

0:25:57.800 --> 0:26:01.520
<v Speaker 2>have used the extra seat. And also, you know, I

0:26:01.560 --> 0:26:04.280
<v Speaker 2>guess it just bummed me out. But then the other

0:26:04.520 --> 0:26:07.320
<v Speaker 2>side of it is not to because that kind of

0:26:07.400 --> 0:26:11.040
<v Speaker 2>just shows me what the friendship is. So where I've

0:26:11.080 --> 0:26:12.720
<v Speaker 2>come to it, Do you guys want to answer? And

0:26:12.800 --> 0:26:14.399
<v Speaker 2>then I tell you what I'm going to do? Or

0:26:14.920 --> 0:26:18.639
<v Speaker 2>is this JD or is it ww KD? What do

0:26:18.680 --> 0:26:21.159
<v Speaker 2>you mean? What would you do? Are we answering or

0:26:21.200 --> 0:26:23.720
<v Speaker 2>what do you want to know? What I'm gonna do?

0:26:23.800 --> 0:26:26.920
<v Speaker 2>Or do you guys want to answer? What you answer? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Well, first of all, I want to say with your thing,

0:26:30.200 --> 0:26:34.080
<v Speaker 1>I felt awful because she has sent it. Yeah, you

0:26:34.240 --> 0:26:36.399
<v Speaker 1>had sent a group thing. I don't even know if

0:26:36.400 --> 0:26:38.000
<v Speaker 1>I responded when you said it. If I don't, I

0:26:38.040 --> 0:26:40.080
<v Speaker 1>know I said I know, I didn't say I could come.

0:26:41.000 --> 0:26:43.680
<v Speaker 1>But when it came around and you posted, I was like,

0:26:43.920 --> 0:26:46.200
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, that was tonight.

0:26:46.720 --> 0:26:47.760
<v Speaker 2>Like and so I don't.

0:26:47.880 --> 0:26:49.720
<v Speaker 1>I know, I'm saying that to all say we have

0:26:49.920 --> 0:26:52.520
<v Speaker 1>all fallen short on that, and then there is like, uh,

0:26:52.640 --> 0:26:54.280
<v Speaker 1>you know, so I'm glad you bring that up because

0:26:54.359 --> 0:26:57.320
<v Speaker 1>like I hated that, Like I'm sure you didn't think

0:26:57.359 --> 0:26:57.800
<v Speaker 1>anything of it.

0:26:58.000 --> 0:27:00.760
<v Speaker 3>No, what I would say is you too there, which

0:27:00.840 --> 0:27:02.560
<v Speaker 3>is really sweet. So I will I just want to

0:27:02.600 --> 0:27:05.000
<v Speaker 3>say this part because this is actually really sweet. You

0:27:05.160 --> 0:27:07.280
<v Speaker 3>two there makes me feel comfortable because that's what we

0:27:07.400 --> 0:27:09.560
<v Speaker 3>usually do together, right, right, So I was like, if

0:27:09.600 --> 0:27:12.520
<v Speaker 3>I have you, it'll be like a superpower, right. But also,

0:27:12.880 --> 0:27:15.239
<v Speaker 3>this is my It was probably the biggest thing I've

0:27:15.280 --> 0:27:18.119
<v Speaker 3>done by myself, so I was like, all the way

0:27:18.160 --> 0:27:19.200
<v Speaker 3>it was supposed to work.

0:27:19.359 --> 0:27:22.320
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, But still, like we have those moments of where

0:27:22.600 --> 0:27:25.080
<v Speaker 1>we meant to text and say that we weren't or whatever,

0:27:25.160 --> 0:27:27.200
<v Speaker 1>and then we feel terrible about it or whatever. So

0:27:27.840 --> 0:27:30.359
<v Speaker 1>I do think sometime maybe there's a little bit of

0:27:30.440 --> 0:27:32.639
<v Speaker 1>a benefit of the doubt with people on things like that,

0:27:32.920 --> 0:27:34.560
<v Speaker 1>like oh, they just got wrapped up in life and

0:27:34.640 --> 0:27:37.760
<v Speaker 1>they didn't remember her telling the other friend that she

0:27:38.000 --> 0:27:40.560
<v Speaker 1>wasn't going or whatever. That that makes it a little

0:27:40.560 --> 0:27:41.080
<v Speaker 1>bit different.

0:27:42.560 --> 0:27:45.240
<v Speaker 2>It's also hard when it's a ticketed. This is sidificated.

0:27:45.400 --> 0:27:48.040
<v Speaker 1>She said she'd be there how many she wanted. You know,

0:27:48.160 --> 0:27:50.440
<v Speaker 1>that definitely feels a little bit different. But yeah, we

0:27:50.520 --> 0:27:52.840
<v Speaker 1>all do fall short on stuff like that in life,

0:27:53.000 --> 0:27:55.320
<v Speaker 1>you know, in our life, and but when it happens

0:27:55.359 --> 0:27:58.000
<v Speaker 1>to us, it hurts and it's you know, it's it's hard.

0:27:59.240 --> 0:28:02.719
<v Speaker 1>Having said that, my answer would be as hard as

0:28:02.880 --> 0:28:05.159
<v Speaker 1>this is for me. I would not say anything, and

0:28:05.240 --> 0:28:06.760
<v Speaker 1>I would just know that's where the friendship is.

0:28:07.400 --> 0:28:14.480
<v Speaker 3>Okay, I'm trying to put on my objective. Here's what

0:28:14.560 --> 0:28:17.320
<v Speaker 3>I'll say you if it would make me.

0:28:18.160 --> 0:28:18.200
<v Speaker 1>So.

0:28:18.320 --> 0:28:20.080
<v Speaker 3>Sometimes I like to write the response. You and I

0:28:20.160 --> 0:28:21.800
<v Speaker 3>have this in common. We'll write the response and not

0:28:21.880 --> 0:28:23.560
<v Speaker 3>send it all. Sometimes I just need it out of

0:28:23.600 --> 0:28:26.560
<v Speaker 3>my body the yeah time. So I would write it

0:28:26.680 --> 0:28:30.120
<v Speaker 3>no matter what. And then I think I also would

0:28:30.280 --> 0:28:34.119
<v Speaker 3>just make note of where the friendship. I would venture

0:28:34.240 --> 0:28:38.440
<v Speaker 3>to say that this isn't surprising maybe or maybe this

0:28:38.680 --> 0:28:42.400
<v Speaker 3>feels in character for where the friendship has been, so

0:28:42.840 --> 0:28:45.040
<v Speaker 3>it could be fine just to leave it and to know.

0:28:45.880 --> 0:28:49.280
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, and that does feel a little bit different, you know.

0:28:50.480 --> 0:28:53.800
<v Speaker 1>If I can say, y'all haven't been as close probably

0:28:53.880 --> 0:28:56.400
<v Speaker 1>as y'all have been in the past quite possibly, so

0:28:56.520 --> 0:28:58.760
<v Speaker 1>that also and I have that with another friend, So

0:28:58.800 --> 0:29:01.560
<v Speaker 1>that's why maybe it feels a little bit different versus

0:29:01.680 --> 0:29:04.840
<v Speaker 1>had y'all been, you know, hanging out all the time

0:29:04.920 --> 0:29:06.360
<v Speaker 1>in the last little you know or.

0:29:06.360 --> 0:29:09.840
<v Speaker 3>Whatever, right and no tech sense correct, just to clarify, okay,

0:29:09.880 --> 0:29:12.000
<v Speaker 3>because I also think there's obviously we're like the three

0:29:12.080 --> 0:29:13.360
<v Speaker 3>most grace giving people.

0:29:13.480 --> 0:29:15.480
<v Speaker 2>So if it was like a there's been a DM

0:29:15.720 --> 0:29:20.480
<v Speaker 2>shared but not of a but of a meme, oh

0:29:23.040 --> 0:29:26.760
<v Speaker 2>something like funny anything about anything about that?

0:29:27.080 --> 0:29:33.520
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I'm in the season of I'm in the

0:29:33.600 --> 0:29:35.840
<v Speaker 3>season of just allowing people to show me who they are.

0:29:37.080 --> 0:29:40.960
<v Speaker 3>I'm trying and I and not even it's not judgmental,

0:29:41.120 --> 0:29:44.560
<v Speaker 3>it's not bad. It's just I love who I love

0:29:44.680 --> 0:29:47.120
<v Speaker 3>so deeply, and I have to remember not maybe everybody

0:29:47.200 --> 0:29:50.240
<v Speaker 3>feels that same way back or counts it as important

0:29:50.400 --> 0:29:54.840
<v Speaker 3>or you know, like there was something that happened recently

0:29:55.040 --> 0:29:58.880
<v Speaker 3>that I wasn't invited to and I was like, huh.

0:30:00.320 --> 0:30:00.760
<v Speaker 1>A little.

0:30:00.960 --> 0:30:03.080
<v Speaker 3>I don't want to say hurt, because that's not fair

0:30:03.240 --> 0:30:06.160
<v Speaker 3>and there's enough on someone's plate during a special time

0:30:06.280 --> 0:30:09.760
<v Speaker 3>like this, but I just was like whoa, Okay, But

0:30:09.840 --> 0:30:11.520
<v Speaker 3>then I also was like, how much of effort have

0:30:11.600 --> 0:30:15.760
<v Speaker 3>I put into a friendship? So I wouldn't I'm not,

0:30:16.120 --> 0:30:18.120
<v Speaker 3>I don't. I don't think this person's wrong for not

0:30:18.200 --> 0:30:20.760
<v Speaker 3>inviting me at all at all, but I it just

0:30:20.840 --> 0:30:22.520
<v Speaker 3>kind of was a sobering moment of like, I haven't

0:30:22.520 --> 0:30:24.440
<v Speaker 3>put much energy in because I've probably just been tending

0:30:24.480 --> 0:30:25.200
<v Speaker 3>to babies, you know.

0:30:25.600 --> 0:30:27.480
<v Speaker 1>Well, I think it's fair to feel hurt in that

0:30:27.640 --> 0:30:31.480
<v Speaker 1>moment and then also go okay, but why yeah and

0:30:31.640 --> 0:30:34.840
<v Speaker 1>evaluate how I even say as a friend versus that's

0:30:34.880 --> 0:30:36.800
<v Speaker 1>what I'm also trying to do. I'm like, well, what

0:30:36.960 --> 0:30:39.560
<v Speaker 1>have I done to contribute if I'm not invited? Like

0:30:39.600 --> 0:30:42.640
<v Speaker 1>instead of just getting hurt because I'm so sensitive to that, sure, okay,

0:30:42.680 --> 0:30:45.080
<v Speaker 1>but what have I been doing to contribute to this friendship?

0:30:45.160 --> 0:30:47.840
<v Speaker 1>And trying to do It's not easy, but trying to

0:30:47.920 --> 0:30:48.400
<v Speaker 1>do more of that.

0:30:48.560 --> 0:30:50.520
<v Speaker 3>So I actually invited her out to lunch. I was like,

0:30:50.560 --> 0:30:52.200
<v Speaker 3>I really would love to just like get I miss

0:30:52.240 --> 0:30:53.720
<v Speaker 3>you yeah instead.

0:30:53.880 --> 0:30:57.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, So yeah, I'm not saying anything okay, good, good, good,

0:30:57.680 --> 0:31:00.440
<v Speaker 2>because it's just because I did the I did wrote

0:31:00.480 --> 0:31:02.760
<v Speaker 2>it out good, and then I just I can tell

0:31:02.760 --> 0:31:04.960
<v Speaker 2>you wrote it out yeah, because that's the way he

0:31:05.080 --> 0:31:07.960
<v Speaker 2>framed it. I looked at it and I go and

0:31:08.040 --> 0:31:09.840
<v Speaker 2>I even had it in the message was about to

0:31:09.920 --> 0:31:12.520
<v Speaker 2>hit sen and I do this almost all the time.

0:31:13.200 --> 0:31:15.520
<v Speaker 2>I just went click click click click click, deleat because

0:31:15.560 --> 0:31:19.240
<v Speaker 2>it's just for what Yeah, you know, and it's it

0:31:19.360 --> 0:31:21.480
<v Speaker 2>is what it is love. There's no fallout, there's no

0:31:21.600 --> 0:31:25.040
<v Speaker 2>bad blow. It's just sure not as close and that's okay. Yeah,

0:31:25.240 --> 0:31:29.080
<v Speaker 2>season it's not not friends. Yeah no, I but I

0:31:29.120 --> 0:31:32.800
<v Speaker 2>also know what I know now and I'm okay, yeah

0:31:33.640 --> 0:31:51.520
<v Speaker 2>that makes sense. Yeah, yeah, I'm proud of you. Jonathan

0:31:51.560 --> 0:31:55.360
<v Speaker 2>Bailey is the Sexiest Man Alive twenty twenty five. Agree

0:31:55.400 --> 0:31:58.040
<v Speaker 2>or disagree? I agree? Agree or disagree?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, I think I agree.

0:32:01.080 --> 0:32:02.960
<v Speaker 2>Do you disagree? I think he's fine.

0:32:03.040 --> 0:32:06.400
<v Speaker 1>I mean, yeah, I don't like have a huge sexiest.

0:32:05.960 --> 0:32:07.560
<v Speaker 3>Man Alive is so awesome to me. I love that

0:32:07.600 --> 0:32:08.920
<v Speaker 3>they still do it. I feel like there's going to

0:32:09.000 --> 0:32:10.600
<v Speaker 3>come a time or we're going to get way too.

0:32:10.920 --> 0:32:12.480
<v Speaker 3>I just think George Schlooney should always be it.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he is the most handsome minus my husband,

0:32:18.320 --> 0:32:22.080
<v Speaker 2>of course, but like he's just yeah, no, he is

0:32:22.280 --> 0:32:24.880
<v Speaker 2>for sure, So to me, he is a mixture between

0:32:25.640 --> 0:32:28.600
<v Speaker 2>Hugh Jackman and Tom Hardy. Look at this photo right there,

0:32:29.080 --> 0:32:32.360
<v Speaker 2>a little bit of Tom, like a skinny Tom Hardy. Yeah,

0:32:32.440 --> 0:32:35.240
<v Speaker 2>I could see it's Hugh Jackman. But yeah, I mean

0:32:35.280 --> 0:32:38.840
<v Speaker 2>he is. I think he's very handsome. Again, I would

0:32:38.840 --> 0:32:40.800
<v Speaker 2>I would vote for my Scottish husband to be on there,

0:32:40.960 --> 0:32:44.520
<v Speaker 2>but I vote Preston. Preston. I think that Nick Woodard

0:32:44.520 --> 0:32:50.680
<v Speaker 2>would also make it. He is the first openly I

0:32:50.760 --> 0:32:53.840
<v Speaker 2>believe that I read that right? Did I believe that right?

0:32:53.920 --> 0:32:56.880
<v Speaker 2>Did I read that right? The first openly gay man

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<v Speaker 2>on the man?

0:32:59.760 --> 0:33:03.000
<v Speaker 3>But I'm like, okay, and yeah, I actually couldn't. I

0:33:03.040 --> 0:33:04.960
<v Speaker 3>didn't know that there wasn't one before him. Yeah, no,

0:33:06.600 --> 0:33:10.200
<v Speaker 3>we're talking about the specimen, not who cares the specimen dates.

0:33:10.320 --> 0:33:14.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah. Yeah, so yeah, I think what an honor may'd

0:33:14.520 --> 0:33:19.240
<v Speaker 2>be great. Speaking of George Clooney though he's classic, he

0:33:20.200 --> 0:33:22.960
<v Speaker 2>opens up about marriage with wife Emal and why they've

0:33:23.080 --> 0:33:25.680
<v Speaker 2>never had an argument, and I gotta say so they say,

0:33:25.800 --> 0:33:28.920
<v Speaker 2>you know, people actually get frustrated with them that they

0:33:28.920 --> 0:33:32.080
<v Speaker 2>don't have an argument. But he's like, man, you want

0:33:32.120 --> 0:33:34.520
<v Speaker 2>to paint the wall collar red? Paint the wall collar red.

0:33:34.640 --> 0:33:37.600
<v Speaker 2>You know it's you don't really don't care about these things.

0:33:37.680 --> 0:33:39.680
<v Speaker 2>But do you guys agree that they've never had an argument?

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<v Speaker 1>No, Nope, not even in the least.

0:33:43.680 --> 0:33:43.720
<v Speaker 4>No.

0:33:43.960 --> 0:33:47.760
<v Speaker 1>I could see where maybe you someone avoids it going

0:33:47.960 --> 0:33:50.000
<v Speaker 1>to a place and just not having an opinion or

0:33:50.080 --> 0:33:51.240
<v Speaker 1>not like whatever.

0:33:51.560 --> 0:33:55.120
<v Speaker 2>But I love arguments because it means passion. Yeah, and

0:33:55.280 --> 0:33:57.640
<v Speaker 2>I don't mean like, you know, the drag out crazy

0:33:57.680 --> 0:33:59.760
<v Speaker 2>I'm not talking about that, but like any kind of Yeah.

0:34:00.120 --> 0:34:02.000
<v Speaker 3>Preston has said to me before, He's like, no one's

0:34:02.040 --> 0:34:04.280
<v Speaker 3>ever gotten me to in place where I've just been like, ah,

0:34:04.520 --> 0:34:05.960
<v Speaker 3>you know, And he's like, but you've done that, and

0:34:06.040 --> 0:34:09.600
<v Speaker 3>I said, I know. But it's also because we're fighting

0:34:09.680 --> 0:34:11.240
<v Speaker 3>for something in those moments.

0:34:11.320 --> 0:34:13.719
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, maybe what's the definition of Maybe their definition of

0:34:13.760 --> 0:34:14.600
<v Speaker 1>an argument is different.

0:34:14.680 --> 0:34:16.120
<v Speaker 2>That's what I was just going to say. I think

0:34:16.160 --> 0:34:19.320
<v Speaker 2>there's a definition because I don't I don't believe that

0:34:19.440 --> 0:34:24.320
<v Speaker 2>someone can't have a disagreement or an right right a

0:34:24.480 --> 0:34:27.560
<v Speaker 2>slash argument, now a blow up fight. I don't think

0:34:27.600 --> 0:34:30.160
<v Speaker 2>everyone has a blow up sure, No, yeah, I would.

0:34:30.280 --> 0:34:32.279
<v Speaker 2>I would agree that he could say that we've never

0:34:32.360 --> 0:34:35.680
<v Speaker 2>had a big blow up argument, and maybe that's what

0:34:35.800 --> 0:34:37.160
<v Speaker 2>he thinks is an argument.

0:34:37.239 --> 0:34:37.640
<v Speaker 1>Probably.

0:34:38.040 --> 0:34:39.920
<v Speaker 2>Now I love for that person to go back and

0:34:39.960 --> 0:34:41.880
<v Speaker 2>be like, well, have you had a disagreement even though

0:34:41.920 --> 0:34:44.640
<v Speaker 2>he says a paint you know, why would that be

0:34:44.719 --> 0:34:48.879
<v Speaker 2>a discussion or an argument. I believe they've probably had

0:34:49.760 --> 0:34:55.880
<v Speaker 2>tension in discussion, which would be I would think an argument, argumentment.

0:34:55.960 --> 0:35:02.920
<v Speaker 2>But I think we probably say a different description of

0:35:03.000 --> 0:35:03.440
<v Speaker 2>what that is.

0:35:03.600 --> 0:35:07.400
<v Speaker 1>I just think humans have arguments and disagreements in life

0:35:07.560 --> 0:35:08.720
<v Speaker 1>and in general friends.

0:35:08.840 --> 0:35:10.640
<v Speaker 2>Do people do that? Are? You know?

0:35:10.760 --> 0:35:14.080
<v Speaker 1>So it's just really hard to imagine living with someone,

0:35:14.600 --> 0:35:16.719
<v Speaker 1>being with someone that want and not having any kind

0:35:16.760 --> 0:35:19.359
<v Speaker 1>of arguments. Yeah, I just can't. Yeah.

0:35:19.400 --> 0:35:21.279
<v Speaker 3>It's funny because I actually have a family member and

0:35:21.440 --> 0:35:25.160
<v Speaker 3>like their tagline is I don't do conflict, And I

0:35:25.280 --> 0:35:27.480
<v Speaker 3>remember bringing it to therapist I am. At one point

0:35:27.560 --> 0:35:30.680
<v Speaker 3>she was like, well, that means they're not doing life.

0:35:30.640 --> 0:35:33.520
<v Speaker 1>That's what I mean. It's just that's the avoid right.

0:35:34.120 --> 0:35:36.320
<v Speaker 2>Well, and that's the thing too, you know, interesting the

0:35:36.360 --> 0:35:38.239
<v Speaker 2>conflict comment because Alan used to say that a lot.

0:35:38.280 --> 0:35:41.799
<v Speaker 2>He's like, I don't I struggle with conflict, And that's

0:35:41.880 --> 0:35:44.680
<v Speaker 2>his own you know, there's reasons why in his personal

0:35:45.080 --> 0:35:48.040
<v Speaker 2>you know, life, maybe in childhood, whatever, but for him

0:35:48.239 --> 0:35:52.080
<v Speaker 2>it's when you don't have conflict, then you're holding resentment,

0:35:52.239 --> 0:35:54.279
<v Speaker 2>that's right, and that's not fair to the other person, right,

0:35:54.440 --> 0:35:56.879
<v Speaker 2>you know, so you I don't want you and I've

0:35:56.880 --> 0:35:58.880
<v Speaker 2>said this many times to him, you know, and he

0:35:58.960 --> 0:36:01.480
<v Speaker 2>knows this. Now it's good, but it's like, I don't

0:36:01.520 --> 0:36:04.279
<v Speaker 2>want you to hold something in that might be frustrating you,

0:36:04.520 --> 0:36:08.200
<v Speaker 2>or or to avoid conflict, because then you're just shoving

0:36:08.280 --> 0:36:10.520
<v Speaker 2>stuff in that I have no control how to help

0:36:10.840 --> 0:36:12.480
<v Speaker 2>or make the situation better, and that's not really fair

0:36:12.520 --> 0:36:12.680
<v Speaker 2>to me.

0:36:13.080 --> 0:36:16.400
<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I would say, George is older, and so I know,

0:36:16.719 --> 0:36:19.560
<v Speaker 3>even as we're getting into charities like you just know

0:36:19.719 --> 0:36:22.720
<v Speaker 3>what's worth your effort or what you can see quickly?

0:36:22.880 --> 0:36:24.200
<v Speaker 3>Is this even about the paink color?

0:36:24.360 --> 0:36:24.520
<v Speaker 1>You know?

0:36:24.680 --> 0:36:27.279
<v Speaker 2>So the blow up fights don't really happen, right, it's

0:36:27.440 --> 0:36:32.640
<v Speaker 2>just you're like, okay, yeah, right, go get the door out, right,

0:36:32.800 --> 0:36:38.320
<v Speaker 2>Yeah yeah, yeah, right, right. But I'm sure there is

0:36:38.480 --> 0:36:40.920
<v Speaker 2>some sort of I'm sure they've had a tip. I

0:36:41.000 --> 0:36:43.359
<v Speaker 2>want them to have that because a tiff. I want

0:36:43.480 --> 0:36:46.120
<v Speaker 2>him to be passionate. I don't want he's less hot

0:36:46.160 --> 0:36:48.359
<v Speaker 2>to me if he's passing a guy I don't love.

0:36:48.680 --> 0:36:50.319
<v Speaker 2>I want him to be guy that's like I kind

0:36:50.360 --> 0:36:52.400
<v Speaker 2>of like it green instead of I don't think you

0:36:52.560 --> 0:36:55.719
<v Speaker 2>have to have a tiff to be passionate. I hear

0:36:55.800 --> 0:36:59.560
<v Speaker 2>what you're saying. I like, I like independence still matters.

0:36:59.800 --> 0:37:01.719
<v Speaker 2>Still think you can and people can still get like.

0:37:01.800 --> 0:37:03.000
<v Speaker 2>I also don't think it has.

0:37:02.960 --> 0:37:04.040
<v Speaker 1>To be that hard too.

0:37:04.280 --> 0:37:07.080
<v Speaker 2>Oh agreed, you know, Like I remember someone telling me

0:37:07.160 --> 0:37:10.200
<v Speaker 2>that one time. He's like, it doesn't have to be

0:37:10.239 --> 0:37:14.400
<v Speaker 2>as hard. It's like maybe just nobody wrongs. You know,

0:37:14.600 --> 0:37:16.800
<v Speaker 2>it's just we can't we can't fit, you know, And

0:37:16.920 --> 0:37:19.040
<v Speaker 2>that's where then you realize, all right, we're not we

0:37:19.080 --> 0:37:22.200
<v Speaker 2>don't work. But you know, with them, like they might

0:37:22.480 --> 0:37:25.360
<v Speaker 2>just again be at that age too where it's just okay,

0:37:25.560 --> 0:37:31.200
<v Speaker 2>yeah again. Though I do think being married, and I mean, gosh,

0:37:31.239 --> 0:37:32.799
<v Speaker 2>if you're them though, and you get all that money,

0:37:33.000 --> 0:37:36.120
<v Speaker 2>what are you guys you're staring at George Clooney about.

0:37:38.520 --> 0:37:40.839
<v Speaker 1>But maybe maybe it's just about the money.

0:37:40.880 --> 0:37:41.279
<v Speaker 2>Maybe you.

0:37:43.120 --> 0:37:43.440
<v Speaker 3>Don't know.

0:37:45.440 --> 0:37:47.040
<v Speaker 2>Many people. I would love to.

0:37:49.760 --> 0:37:51.520
<v Speaker 1>Do that work, gat let's try it on.

0:37:51.640 --> 0:37:54.240
<v Speaker 2>Anybody want to involved Cat and I in their experiment.

0:37:55.600 --> 0:37:58.040
<v Speaker 2>I want to strengthen my relationship with God. I'm forty three.

0:37:58.160 --> 0:38:00.520
<v Speaker 2>I was born and raised Catholic, somewhere between an every

0:38:00.560 --> 0:38:03.400
<v Speaker 2>Sunday Mass Catholic and a Christmas Easter Catholic. That was

0:38:03.440 --> 0:38:05.879
<v Speaker 2>the same to me. As I've gotten older, I've really

0:38:06.120 --> 0:38:08.480
<v Speaker 2>only gone to Mass for weddings, funerals, and holidays. I

0:38:08.480 --> 0:38:10.640
<v Speaker 2>don't feel closeness with a Catholic church, nor do I

0:38:10.680 --> 0:38:13.239
<v Speaker 2>feel like I get anything out of going to a

0:38:13.320 --> 0:38:16.160
<v Speaker 2>traditional Catholic Mass. But I've been dealing with a lot

0:38:16.200 --> 0:38:18.600
<v Speaker 2>of stress, depression, anxiety for about five years now, and

0:38:18.719 --> 0:38:20.520
<v Speaker 2>for about six to ten years have been wanting to

0:38:20.560 --> 0:38:22.920
<v Speaker 2>find a type of service that's more relatable. Also, I

0:38:22.960 --> 0:38:25.080
<v Speaker 2>want to find ways to build my relationship with God

0:38:25.480 --> 0:38:27.759
<v Speaker 2>on my own time outside of going to Mass or

0:38:27.800 --> 0:38:30.920
<v Speaker 2>traditionally reading the Bible, because I frankly just don't get

0:38:31.440 --> 0:38:33.800
<v Speaker 2>messages out of it. It's like I need a Bible

0:38:33.880 --> 0:38:36.480
<v Speaker 2>for Dummi's book. I'd love any suggestions you all have

0:38:36.760 --> 0:38:40.400
<v Speaker 2>on what has worked for you. Love your question, great question.

0:38:40.800 --> 0:38:43.759
<v Speaker 2>I recently just got a new Bible. I got the

0:38:43.840 --> 0:38:47.719
<v Speaker 2>She Reads Truth Bible, and that that has because I

0:38:49.160 --> 0:38:51.759
<v Speaker 2>have opened my Bible, and you know, I try, and

0:38:51.880 --> 0:38:56.320
<v Speaker 2>it's just really hard for me to connect to it

0:38:56.840 --> 0:38:59.680
<v Speaker 2>and to read it and to understand it, and so

0:39:00.040 --> 0:39:02.279
<v Speaker 2>I'm like, why do I keep doing this? There has

0:39:02.400 --> 0:39:06.680
<v Speaker 2>to be something that's a little bit more traditional non traditional?

0:39:07.000 --> 0:39:07.320
<v Speaker 2>Is that that?

0:39:07.560 --> 0:39:07.759
<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

0:39:08.200 --> 0:39:11.600
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, And so I got that one and I

0:39:11.840 --> 0:39:14.840
<v Speaker 2>love it. Okay, it's been working great. Does it have

0:39:15.000 --> 0:39:17.040
<v Speaker 2>like a reading plan with it has a reading plan?

0:39:17.640 --> 0:39:21.440
<v Speaker 2>It has it walks you through like Okay, this is

0:39:21.480 --> 0:39:23.520
<v Speaker 2>what they were talking about shame or this is when

0:39:23.600 --> 0:39:26.279
<v Speaker 2>it talks about this. And I really like it and

0:39:26.400 --> 0:39:29.600
<v Speaker 2>it makes me, it makes me want to open it.

0:39:30.080 --> 0:39:32.640
<v Speaker 2>It takes a great overwhelmingness out of it. Yeah, where

0:39:32.719 --> 0:39:33.680
<v Speaker 2>do you start? What do you do?

0:39:33.800 --> 0:39:34.399
<v Speaker 1>Where do you Yeah?

0:39:34.480 --> 0:39:36.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, absolutely, And then i'd also say, listen, I'm not

0:39:36.600 --> 0:39:38.319
<v Speaker 2>going to tell you to walk away from the Catholic church,

0:39:38.440 --> 0:39:42.279
<v Speaker 2>but I love going to the non denominational Christian church

0:39:42.320 --> 0:39:44.960
<v Speaker 2>that we go to, and it maybe just and if

0:39:45.000 --> 0:39:47.320
<v Speaker 2>you don't, if you're afraid to try that on in person,

0:39:47.480 --> 0:39:49.319
<v Speaker 2>you can go to crosspoint dot com and you can

0:39:49.400 --> 0:39:52.279
<v Speaker 2>watch their services or any other like that church, and

0:39:52.360 --> 0:39:53.960
<v Speaker 2>then you might be able to get more out of

0:39:54.040 --> 0:39:56.360
<v Speaker 2>a type of message like that. Because I always struggled

0:39:56.440 --> 0:40:00.320
<v Speaker 2>in mass getting a message that I could understand relate to.

0:40:00.719 --> 0:40:03.040
<v Speaker 3>And also there's just a lot of structure and rules

0:40:03.400 --> 0:40:08.680
<v Speaker 3>and tradition, which I adore about Catholicism, but I also

0:40:09.560 --> 0:40:12.640
<v Speaker 3>feel like almost Catholic people sometimes need a recovery program.

0:40:12.760 --> 0:40:14.919
<v Speaker 3>Like there's a lot of guilt and shame, guilt and shame,

0:40:14.960 --> 0:40:19.600
<v Speaker 3>guilt and shame like cycles. One thing I love is

0:40:19.920 --> 0:40:23.920
<v Speaker 3>the Bible app So if you are new to just

0:40:24.000 --> 0:40:26.680
<v Speaker 3>wanting to learn the different versions, like you can literally

0:40:26.800 --> 0:40:29.040
<v Speaker 3>highlight a passage and so if it's in a very

0:40:29.080 --> 0:40:32.439
<v Speaker 3>traditional sense or like old school speak, you can click

0:40:32.480 --> 0:40:35.360
<v Speaker 3>a different version of it and it will allow you

0:40:35.440 --> 0:40:37.040
<v Speaker 3>to read it in like several different versions.

0:40:37.080 --> 0:40:38.880
<v Speaker 2>So there's like the new living translation.

0:40:38.960 --> 0:40:42.520
<v Speaker 3>It's just very like common language feeling, and that's also helpful,

0:40:42.680 --> 0:40:44.920
<v Speaker 3>and send you a daily Bible verse and it's just

0:40:45.000 --> 0:40:49.040
<v Speaker 3>not so overwhelming. It's tiptoe. I also just love conversational prayer.

0:40:49.080 --> 0:40:51.279
<v Speaker 3>I tell a lot of people this, but I love

0:40:51.400 --> 0:40:54.520
<v Speaker 3>just like chatting it out. I think it doesn't have

0:40:54.600 --> 0:40:57.239
<v Speaker 3>to be so there's like this overwhelming Where do you

0:40:57.360 --> 0:40:59.799
<v Speaker 3>start things sometimes with people in prayer and coming back

0:40:59.840 --> 0:41:01.120
<v Speaker 3>in to have religion.

0:41:01.600 --> 0:41:03.400
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, just conversationally.

0:41:03.719 --> 0:41:06.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm a devotional girl. I mean, I love I am

0:41:06.600 --> 0:41:08.880
<v Speaker 1>not as good as I would like to be just

0:41:09.040 --> 0:41:12.239
<v Speaker 1>opening the Bible and just like reading, but I love

0:41:12.320 --> 0:41:15.360
<v Speaker 1>to do several different devotionals and get different things. And

0:41:15.480 --> 0:41:17.279
<v Speaker 1>then I'll open up my Bible and go to the

0:41:17.360 --> 0:41:19.520
<v Speaker 1>verses that are in there and stuff like that. But

0:41:21.520 --> 0:41:24.920
<v Speaker 1>I just posted one I loved. I love the one

0:41:25.000 --> 0:41:28.080
<v Speaker 1>that I just got. I don't remember the names of them, unfortunately.

0:41:28.760 --> 0:41:29.279
<v Speaker 2>Is my favor.

0:41:30.000 --> 0:41:32.840
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm done the favor that was so good. Love Sabor,

0:41:32.960 --> 0:41:37.279
<v Speaker 1>She's the best. Yeah, but that's kind of my go to.

0:41:37.560 --> 0:41:39.360
<v Speaker 1>And then I was gonna say with I don't know

0:41:39.480 --> 0:41:41.759
<v Speaker 1>anything about Catholicism, and I don't know if it's like

0:41:41.880 --> 0:41:44.480
<v Speaker 1>frowned upon to go, but I have heard that it

0:41:44.560 --> 0:41:48.680
<v Speaker 1>is definitely easier message wise and to feel more connected

0:41:48.800 --> 0:41:52.719
<v Speaker 1>and a more non denominational situation. Maybe try that.

0:41:53.840 --> 0:41:56.840
<v Speaker 2>Well, ladies, see you next week. So yeah, I