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Speaker 1: Wind down with Janet Kramer and I'm Heeart Radio podcast Ellies.

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Speaker 2: We are back. I take back everything I said last week.

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Speaker 2: The movie was great. It was honorable.

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Speaker 1: I was like, oh boy, it's so good. I was like,

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Speaker 1: what are we taking back?

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Speaker 2: I still hat football.

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Speaker 1: It was so good.

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Speaker 2: I was obviously very nervous, and I was downplaying, as

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Speaker 2: I do because that's just what I do. But I'm

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Speaker 2: watching it and I'm like hearing people laughing in the

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Speaker 2: premiere and I I saw a few people kind of

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Speaker 2: wipe a little tear away, and I'm like, this isn't

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Speaker 2: the same. It's good. You have elevated yourself and you

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Speaker 2: don't even know it. Well, it's the material. But I'm

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Speaker 2: so excited. I hope you guys go see it. It's

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Speaker 2: still in theaters, so go see it because it's.

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Speaker 1: It's so good. You'll love it.

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Speaker 2: It was exciting. What an experience we had a of

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Speaker 2: a dress malfunction.

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, that I'd.

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Speaker 2: Be freaking out.

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Speaker 1: Already running late, already we were running late.

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Speaker 2: Your timing was magnificent, thank god. Yeah he made me happy,

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Speaker 2: but yes, but it was so I put on a thong,

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Speaker 2: but I go Catherine and this is a tan thong

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, you can see the thong and then

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Speaker 2: she's like, well, how shere is it? And I was like, well,

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Speaker 2: I guess I really didn't.

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Speaker 1: Try it on that well. It was very sheer.

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Speaker 2: So at the end when they called us up and

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Speaker 2: I'm like, oh god, spotlights. This is why my hands

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Speaker 2: were right.

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Speaker 1: From big feather.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I already don't like being in front of people,

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Speaker 2: so I'm already you know, I get a little, you know, weird,

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Speaker 2: but that was I was like, I have to have

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Speaker 2: all the feathers right in front just in case she shines.

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Speaker 2: That is not what needs to be shining.

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Speaker 1: What was so weird is it never looked that way

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Speaker 1: that night. No, No, I would know the house. It

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Speaker 1: was like whoa house lighting?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Great? And then we got there and I was like,

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Speaker 1: okause I kept an eye on it, and.

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Speaker 2: We were Pam drove over uh spanks because the spanks

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Speaker 2: thing too that I have, we're not you can see

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Speaker 2: the line. So yeah, we're trying to find the seamless

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Speaker 2: ones and so Pam had.

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Speaker 1: I need you to do something right now, and he's

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Speaker 1: like so slow. You know how we talked about men

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Speaker 1: are really slow.

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Speaker 2: I was like, no, no, no, like nothing beat Scottish time. Okay, truth, Oh,

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Speaker 2: I will give you that.

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Speaker 1: Oh I got to see that one firsthand too.

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Speaker 2: She did, did I need let's go day by day

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Speaker 2: by day by day by day? Oh did you see that?

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Speaker 3: When do we get to know about kit Kat's bts?

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Speaker 2: And it's a long week.

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Speaker 1: It was a very long, busy week.

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Speaker 2: So premiere went, great, thank you guys for showing up. Oh,

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Speaker 2: that's a pleasure of our life. Are you kidding me?

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Speaker 2: So fun? I do have a wine about it that

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Speaker 2: pertains to that night, so stay tuned. Okay, but let's

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Speaker 2: continue on with me. Let's go to Wednesday. Wednesday, so

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Speaker 2: the next day opry okay, So I again don't really

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Speaker 2: try on the outfit. I sent Jesse a few photos

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Speaker 2: and said, uh, you know which one because because she

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Speaker 2: asked what I was wearing, and I said, girl, I don't,

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Speaker 2: I don't know, you know. So I took a couple

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Speaker 2: of pictures and she said that with that great that

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Speaker 2: I brought another pair of pants just in case. Right,

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Speaker 2: Oh it wasn't looking good? No, but yeah, it was

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Speaker 2: like an hour away. But what was worse? No, you guys,

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Speaker 2: I was mortified. I don't feel like you get easily mortified,

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Speaker 2: is that true? M Not easily, not easily. I feel

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Speaker 2: like all the three of us have a great deal

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Speaker 2: of humility. So we're just like, oh, yes, happened embarrassing,

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Speaker 2: you know, So bring the kids, it's really fun and

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Speaker 2: we can go back to the Scottish time. But I

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Speaker 2: so we sound and there's no wedge in front, and

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Speaker 2: so we were doing in ears, but the person that

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Speaker 2: was singing before us had a wedge. But I didn't

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Speaker 2: rehearse with the wedge, and so when I went out

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Speaker 2: there that first verse, I was so pitchy because the

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Speaker 2: that I couldn't find because because I couldn't hear the

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Speaker 2: it was one of those moments where I was like shit,

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Speaker 2: like I know, I can't restart, no like that she

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Speaker 2: was sailed and we're there and oh my god, but

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Speaker 2: finally found the note.

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Speaker 3: For people listening the wedge would be she can hear herself.

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Speaker 3: The in ears are what like would make her connect

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Speaker 3: to the band in the back, So like, do you

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Speaker 3: always see musicians with their little ears in they call ears?

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Speaker 3: Which is funny because I said I found Preston's ears

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Speaker 3: in the garage and Christine was like, whoa, but like,

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Speaker 3: so that is what she's saying. So when you get

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Speaker 2: Right And I'm already guys, not selin beyond, so like

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Speaker 2: and it's opry too. Opry comes at the different levels

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Speaker 2: like pressure and it's not your people there. I saw

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Speaker 2: real sweet person that had a little poster, so it's

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Speaker 2: already you're not comfy. And I don't sing out a lot,

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Speaker 2: so it had nerves attached to it. But what I

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Speaker 2: love about Catherine is she may come off stage and

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Speaker 2: she's like, great job, and I go, no that first

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Speaker 2: first she goes, yeah, that was bad, and she goes,

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Speaker 2: but you collected yourself, And I'm like, but this is

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Speaker 2: what I love about Catherine because she's like yeah, everyone

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Speaker 2: I was like, no, it was great. I was like no, no,

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Speaker 2: I like even Catherine said, okay, I know it.

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Speaker 3: SCD like, did you call me and you're like and

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Speaker 3: Catherine even told me it sounds.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: That that's what. Yeah, first, I love you, you know,

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Speaker 2: because you're gonna be honest with me when everyone else

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Speaker 2: is like no, it was great. I'm like no, but

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Speaker 2: I right, you know. But anyways, there was that. But

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Speaker 2: we did have a food dilemma and she saw the

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Speaker 2: Scottish time. Would you like to let.

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Speaker 1: Me just say back to the you being off Other

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Speaker 1: people didn't notice, like I think they truly didn't notice,

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Speaker 1: but I would know, so I mean, but yes, it

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Speaker 3: Okay, it was the grim scene front row that makes

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Speaker 2: It was a crowd, it was it happened to the

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Speaker 1: I can tell you that Oprey crowd no offense, probably

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and also like they're excited to be entertained. So yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 3: and she just pumped. Yeah, she did great.

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Speaker 1: Let me start the food conversation by We had to

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Speaker 1: be there at five o'clock for five thirty rehearsals, knowing

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Speaker 2: Early, yeah, from school, got them all ready because they

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Speaker 2: really wanted to come to So I changed the days

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Speaker 2: because usually Mike has Wednesdays. And I was like, hey,

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Speaker 2: the kids really want to go with the opera. He's

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Speaker 2: like absolutely. So that was all great, settled planned. We

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Speaker 2: left right at four yep, and still didn't get their

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Speaker 1: Yeah, try to thank you. This is a four o'clock

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Speaker 1: leave for a eight forty pm performance. And Jana Kramer

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Speaker 1: has to eat dinner.

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Speaker 2: No no, no, not just me, oh the kids, no no,

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Speaker 2: but I mean yeah, people have to eat. Everybody has

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Speaker 2: to everyone has to eat. It was a little just me.

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Speaker 1: I like this about you, that you need to eat dinner,

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Speaker 2: Just wait until you are not one. I'm not an

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Speaker 2: ale skipper. Having said that, I do skip lunch at

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Speaker 2: times and I eat.

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Speaker 1: A bar, but you're not eating, You're not missing dinner.

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Speaker 2: Dinner is my favorite meal the day. It's my favorite

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Speaker 2: part about being on tour.

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Speaker 1: And that's very healthy and very good, and I'm glad

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Speaker 1: Thank you at four o'clock to nine o'clock is kind

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Speaker 1: of my point in all of that. But yes, everyone

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Speaker 2: So what I said was, let's and I'm a I'm

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Speaker 2: So when we get there, we can eat, we can

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Speaker 2: sound check, and then we can eat and everybody's happy

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Speaker 1: And then well, first we get there, and when we're

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Speaker 1: the sweet o man, We're not ever getting this food,

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Speaker 1: Like they're never going to figure out how to get

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Speaker 3: I sometimes don't remember how.

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Speaker 1: It's super confusing.

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Speaker 2: Well, so they dropped the order off. Have no idea

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Speaker 1: Now it becomes a skencher. There was a mess So

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Speaker 1: it and I'm like, okay. They had messaged. They're like, hey,

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Speaker 1: So he's like where's that. I'm like, I have no idea.

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Speaker 1: He's asking people all the things. So then we come

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Speaker 1: It's raining, you know all the things. Your hair is

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Speaker 1: at a blow dry. Now it's not. I already felt it

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Speaker 2: happy Halloween.

437
00:19:30,960 --> 00:19:32,600
Speaker 1: It's funny though, because my sister in law showed up

438
00:19:32,600 --> 00:19:33,800
Speaker 1: and she was like, oh my gosh, this is going

439
00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:35,240
Speaker 1: on with my son and this is going She's like,

440
00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:37,800
Speaker 1: I hate Halloween, and I was like, it's something about

441
00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:41,520
Speaker 1: It's just it's it's a hard season when kids grow

442
00:19:41,640 --> 00:19:43,520
Speaker 1: up and like who are they with? Who are they

443
00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:45,720
Speaker 1: trick or treating with? Like it can be a moment

444
00:19:45,760 --> 00:19:48,200
Speaker 1: of feeling very left out, and so it was just

445
00:19:48,280 --> 00:19:49,960
Speaker 1: saving space for her, and I'm like, I'm sorry, I've

446
00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:51,320
Speaker 1: been there. I think it's hard.

447
00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:53,480
Speaker 2: But it was good though. I got so many messages

448
00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:54,520
Speaker 2: on your behalf.

449
00:19:54,800 --> 00:19:55,480
Speaker 1: Ah, that's sweet.

450
00:19:55,520 --> 00:19:57,679
Speaker 2: I got so I bet you Denny because I got

451
00:19:57,800 --> 00:19:58,560
Speaker 2: residual and I.

452
00:19:58,600 --> 00:20:01,240
Speaker 1: Was like, whoa, Okay, I think almost the most on

453
00:20:01,400 --> 00:20:01,760
Speaker 1: this one.

454
00:20:02,000 --> 00:20:03,520
Speaker 2: You know what else. I got a lot of messages on.

455
00:20:05,160 --> 00:20:05,600
Speaker 1: Football.

456
00:20:05,960 --> 00:20:06,840
Speaker 2: People hate football.

457
00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:09,080
Speaker 1: I'm not all people hate football.

458
00:20:09,080 --> 00:20:12,119
Speaker 2: I gotta say, I'm quite shocked about that. I mean people,

459
00:20:12,400 --> 00:20:14,840
Speaker 2: but they're they're they're with they're with you in the comments.

460
00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:15,920
Speaker 2: I didn't.

461
00:20:15,960 --> 00:20:17,560
Speaker 3: I don't try to look at the comments. I get

462
00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:20,640
Speaker 3: very nervous about the comment comments. But the dms came

463
00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:22,840
Speaker 3: a flood in and I was like, oh, we are

464
00:20:22,880 --> 00:20:23,119
Speaker 3: in it.

465
00:20:23,320 --> 00:20:25,600
Speaker 2: O good. Yeah, I feel really supported.

466
00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:28,879
Speaker 1: Everybody know I still support you. I just added to

467
00:20:29,240 --> 00:20:30,159
Speaker 1: did you watch football?

468
00:20:30,240 --> 00:20:33,960
Speaker 2: Guy? I sure didn't, and I will try again next Sunday.

469
00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:37,240
Speaker 3: Wait was that video not of y'all watching football? That

470
00:20:37,359 --> 00:20:41,240
Speaker 3: was the Saturday football? He was watching football. I sat

471
00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:44,560
Speaker 3: on the ground and attempted, okay, to watch the football.

472
00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:47,159
Speaker 3: Tempt Yeah, I made. I made it five minutes.

473
00:20:47,200 --> 00:20:48,240
Speaker 1: But okay, well that's it.

474
00:20:48,320 --> 00:21:03,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, so I have a whine about it. I

475
00:21:03,480 --> 00:21:08,760
Speaker 2: think I have already processed what I'm going to do. Okay, okay,

476
00:21:09,359 --> 00:21:11,920
Speaker 2: because I've taken some time with it. It's fun to

477
00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 2: see if what we want you to do will match. Yeah, right, Yeah,

478
00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:19,200
Speaker 2: it's interesting to say because so I've made what I'm

479
00:21:19,320 --> 00:21:23,159
Speaker 2: going to do. It might be nothing, it might be something. Okay,

480
00:21:23,760 --> 00:21:27,720
Speaker 2: we'll get there. So I invited someone to the premiere.

481
00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:32,280
Speaker 2: That was a friend. I'm not going to say good friend.

482
00:21:32,320 --> 00:21:33,960
Speaker 2: I'm not going to say I'm not even going to

483
00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:38,680
Speaker 2: give the the the Internet's loose anything with this one. Okay,

484
00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:43,159
Speaker 2: just going to say a friend. And I had gotten

485
00:21:43,160 --> 00:21:45,639
Speaker 2: a message from one of my other friends, lovely friend,

486
00:21:45,720 --> 00:21:51,119
Speaker 2: who had texted me saying, oh, their sitter had canceled

487
00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:55,120
Speaker 2: and left them in a buye. And I said reply back, girl,

488
00:21:55,320 --> 00:21:58,800
Speaker 2: no worries at all, I love you. Let's get together soon.

489
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:03,600
Speaker 2: It's been a minute. But this said friend did not text,

490
00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:06,160
Speaker 2: didn't say that they weren't coming. And by the way,

491
00:22:06,359 --> 00:22:09,760
Speaker 2: I had very limited seats, very small theater. It's a

492
00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:14,480
Speaker 2: very small theater, and I was very mindful of the

493
00:22:15,440 --> 00:22:17,439
Speaker 2: people that I gave seats to.

494
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:22,240
Speaker 1: And I think that people knew that too, I would assume.

495
00:22:22,440 --> 00:22:24,920
Speaker 1: So I got the group that I was on, it

496
00:22:25,040 --> 00:22:27,439
Speaker 1: was like, hey, can I have my kids? Can?

497
00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 2: I not? Right? And I had said, if it's going

498
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:33,400
Speaker 2: there to be yeah, if there's room, then yes you can, right.

499
00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 1: So I think we all kind of knew, like, hey,

500
00:22:35,920 --> 00:22:38,520
Speaker 1: we're on like a seat budget here, right it did

501
00:22:39,000 --> 00:22:41,320
Speaker 1: you framed it that way from the beginning, yeah?

502
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:47,720
Speaker 2: Yeah. And so when that person didn't show up, it

503
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:51,399
Speaker 2: was obvious because I'd put them in our section, right,

504
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:57,080
Speaker 2: But what hurt was that there wasn't a message saying, hey,

505
00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:02,640
Speaker 2: can't make it, and you know, I've even I've thought

506
00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,359
Speaker 2: about it, but there's okay, there's two pieces. But they

507
00:23:05,440 --> 00:23:09,120
Speaker 2: had told one of our other friends that they weren't coming.

508
00:23:09,680 --> 00:23:10,680
Speaker 1: Oh I didn't know that part.

509
00:23:10,920 --> 00:23:13,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, so they had. When the person was going to

510
00:23:13,320 --> 00:23:18,600
Speaker 2: try to maybe drive together or coordinate, they said, oh,

511
00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:23,440
Speaker 2: actually i'm you know, because of X, I'm not going

512
00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,439
Speaker 2: to be able to. Now I was invited to something

513
00:23:27,080 --> 00:23:30,040
Speaker 2: someone's place that we that we know, and I'm not

514
00:23:30,280 --> 00:23:33,120
Speaker 2: really close with this person. But I even was like, hey,

515
00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:36,000
Speaker 2: you know, thank you so much for the invite. I'm

516
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:38,720
Speaker 2: not going to be able to make it, you know,

517
00:23:38,760 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 2: I'm not.

518
00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:39,359
Speaker 1: I did.

519
00:23:39,480 --> 00:23:41,440
Speaker 2: I've been doing this eboo treatment and I wasn't feeling

520
00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:43,720
Speaker 2: well and so I'm just going to stay home tonight.

521
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:49,280
Speaker 2: So I always think it's kind to say that you're

522
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 2: not going to come. Now. Having said that, there have

523
00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:55,119
Speaker 2: been times where if it's a big mass thing, like

524
00:23:55,440 --> 00:23:59,880
Speaker 2: I got invited to our neighbor's Halloween party, I r SVPDES,

525
00:24:00,359 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 2: but I didn't text because it was just a Halloween party,

526
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:06,320
Speaker 2: and honestly I forgot. I didn't forget about the party,

527
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:11,879
Speaker 2: but I forgot to text, and thinking back like I

528
00:24:11,960 --> 00:24:15,240
Speaker 2: probably should have, but it was a lot of moving

529
00:24:15,280 --> 00:24:18,240
Speaker 2: pieces and I didn't. So there are times when I

530
00:24:18,440 --> 00:24:22,600
Speaker 2: also fall short of replying. But most times I will

531
00:24:22,720 --> 00:24:25,280
Speaker 2: respond I can't come. And in that instance, when I

532
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:29,000
Speaker 2: think about it, if it's a friend that's having a premiere,

533
00:24:30,200 --> 00:24:32,680
Speaker 2: I would have at least said, like I knew if

534
00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:37,959
Speaker 2: Legends Baseball you had said, well, you know, I might

535
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:39,800
Speaker 2: not be able to go one hundred percent. I totally

536
00:24:39,840 --> 00:24:41,159
Speaker 2: get that. You know, we all have life, Just like

537
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 2: I couldn't show up to your event because I had

538
00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:45,800
Speaker 2: to go to be a jolie. I was three kids,

539
00:24:45,840 --> 00:24:48,800
Speaker 2: three different ways. Yeah, different practices and games. But that's

540
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 2: again reiterating how I knew it was. The seat count

541
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:52,960
Speaker 2: was important because I said, if you need to give

542
00:24:53,040 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 2: up our seeds, totally do that. We weren't known till

543
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:56,879
Speaker 2: closer to right.

544
00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,439
Speaker 1: Well, I could have used an extra seed, was going

545
00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:00,679
Speaker 1: to be that my other daughter could have come.

546
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 2: Yeah, exactly. And so the thing that bothers me is

547
00:25:04,800 --> 00:25:07,280
Speaker 2: when I think about it, I'm like close enough as

548
00:25:07,320 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 2: a friend to say, hey, you know, sorry, I can't

549
00:25:12,040 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 2: make it. And also either congrats or I don't even

550
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:17,480
Speaker 2: need a congrats. But more so just the even the

551
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,520
Speaker 2: one girlfriend that I'm not as close to had said,

552
00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:22,920
Speaker 2: you know, congrats on the premiere. Are so excited for you.

553
00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,080
Speaker 2: So sorry we can't make it. So it really a

554
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 2: piece of me. So there was two things where do

555
00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:33,040
Speaker 2: I respond, Again, I've already made my decision, but I'm

556
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:34,480
Speaker 2: going to bring it to you guys. I guess my

557
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 2: wine about it is now again where I said, I've

558
00:25:37,280 --> 00:25:40,480
Speaker 2: fallen short before, but I do think it's nice to

559
00:25:40,760 --> 00:25:43,560
Speaker 2: respond and say I can't make it. So I guess

560
00:25:43,600 --> 00:25:46,199
Speaker 2: that's my wine. Again. I know I've fallen short at

561
00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:50,560
Speaker 2: times with that, but so I was gonna maybe text

562
00:25:50,640 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 2: this person and say, hey, really bummed that I didn't

563
00:25:53,480 --> 00:25:55,639
Speaker 2: hear from you and that you had told someone else

564
00:25:55,680 --> 00:25:57,760
Speaker 2: you weren't coming, but you didn't give me I could

565
00:25:57,800 --> 00:26:01,520
Speaker 2: have used the extra seat. And also, you know, I

566
00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:04,280
Speaker 2: guess it just bummed me out. But then the other

567
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:07,320
Speaker 2: side of it is not to because that kind of

568
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:11,040
Speaker 2: just shows me what the friendship is. So where I've

569
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 2: come to it, Do you guys want to answer? And

570
00:26:12,800 --> 00:26:14,399
Speaker 2: then I tell you what I'm going to do? Or

571
00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:18,639
Speaker 2: is this JD or is it ww KD? What do

572
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:21,159
Speaker 2: you mean? What would you do? Are we answering or

573
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,720
Speaker 2: what do you want to know? What I'm gonna do?

574
00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:26,920
Speaker 2: Or do you guys want to answer? What you answer? Yeah?

575
00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,680
Speaker 1: Well, first of all, I want to say with your thing,

576
00:26:30,200 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 1: I felt awful because she has sent it. Yeah, you

577
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:36,399
Speaker 1: had sent a group thing. I don't even know if

578
00:26:36,400 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 1: I responded when you said it. If I don't, I

579
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,080
Speaker 1: know I said I know, I didn't say I could come.

580
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:43,680
Speaker 1: But when it came around and you posted, I was like,

581
00:26:43,920 --> 00:26:46,200
Speaker 1: oh my god, that was tonight.

582
00:26:46,720 --> 00:26:47,760
Speaker 2: Like and so I don't.

583
00:26:47,880 --> 00:26:49,720
Speaker 1: I know, I'm saying that to all say we have

584
00:26:49,920 --> 00:26:52,520
Speaker 1: all fallen short on that, and then there is like, uh,

585
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,280
Speaker 1: you know, so I'm glad you bring that up because

586
00:26:54,359 --> 00:26:57,320
Speaker 1: like I hated that, Like I'm sure you didn't think

587
00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:57,800
Speaker 1: anything of it.

588
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:00,760
Speaker 3: No, what I would say is you too there, which

589
00:27:00,840 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 3: is really sweet. So I will I just want to

590
00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,000
Speaker 3: say this part because this is actually really sweet. You

591
00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:07,280
Speaker 3: two there makes me feel comfortable because that's what we

592
00:27:07,400 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 3: usually do together, right, right, So I was like, if

593
00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 3: I have you, it'll be like a superpower, right. But also,

594
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:15,239
Speaker 3: this is my It was probably the biggest thing I've

595
00:27:15,280 --> 00:27:18,119
Speaker 3: done by myself, so I was like, all the way

596
00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:19,200
Speaker 3: it was supposed to work.

597
00:27:19,359 --> 00:27:22,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, But still, like we have those moments of where

598
00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,080
Speaker 1: we meant to text and say that we weren't or whatever,

599
00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:27,200
Speaker 1: and then we feel terrible about it or whatever. So

600
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,359
Speaker 1: I do think sometime maybe there's a little bit of

601
00:27:30,440 --> 00:27:32,639
Speaker 1: a benefit of the doubt with people on things like that,

602
00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 1: like oh, they just got wrapped up in life and

603
00:27:34,640 --> 00:27:37,760
Speaker 1: they didn't remember her telling the other friend that she

604
00:27:38,000 --> 00:27:40,560
Speaker 1: wasn't going or whatever. That that makes it a little

605
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:41,080
Speaker 1: bit different.

606
00:27:42,560 --> 00:27:45,240
Speaker 2: It's also hard when it's a ticketed. This is sidificated.

607
00:27:45,400 --> 00:27:48,040
Speaker 1: She said she'd be there how many she wanted. You know,

608
00:27:48,160 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 1: that definitely feels a little bit different. But yeah, we

609
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:52,840
Speaker 1: all do fall short on stuff like that in life,

610
00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:55,320
Speaker 1: you know, in our life, and but when it happens

611
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:58,000
Speaker 1: to us, it hurts and it's you know, it's it's hard.

612
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:02,719
Speaker 1: Having said that, my answer would be as hard as

613
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:05,159
Speaker 1: this is for me. I would not say anything, and

614
00:28:05,240 --> 00:28:06,760
Speaker 1: I would just know that's where the friendship is.

615
00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:14,480
Speaker 3: Okay, I'm trying to put on my objective. Here's what

616
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 3: I'll say you if it would make me.

617
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:18,200
Speaker 1: So.

618
00:28:18,320 --> 00:28:20,080
Speaker 3: Sometimes I like to write the response. You and I

619
00:28:20,160 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 3: have this in common. We'll write the response and not

620
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:23,560
Speaker 3: send it all. Sometimes I just need it out of

621
00:28:23,600 --> 00:28:26,560
Speaker 3: my body the yeah time. So I would write it

622
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:30,120
Speaker 3: no matter what. And then I think I also would

623
00:28:30,280 --> 00:28:34,119
Speaker 3: just make note of where the friendship. I would venture

624
00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:38,440
Speaker 3: to say that this isn't surprising maybe or maybe this

625
00:28:38,680 --> 00:28:42,400
Speaker 3: feels in character for where the friendship has been, so

626
00:28:42,840 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 3: it could be fine just to leave it and to know.

627
00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:49,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that does feel a little bit different, you know.

628
00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:53,800
Speaker 1: If I can say, y'all haven't been as close probably

629
00:28:53,880 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 1: as y'all have been in the past quite possibly, so

630
00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:58,760
Speaker 1: that also and I have that with another friend, So

631
00:28:58,800 --> 00:29:01,560
Speaker 1: that's why maybe it feels a little bit different versus

632
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 1: had y'all been, you know, hanging out all the time

633
00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:06,360
Speaker 1: in the last little you know or.

634
00:29:06,360 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 3: Whatever, right and no tech sense correct, just to clarify, okay,

635
00:29:09,880 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 3: because I also think there's obviously we're like the three

636
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 3: most grace giving people.

637
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 2: So if it was like a there's been a DM

638
00:29:15,720 --> 00:29:20,480
Speaker 2: shared but not of a but of a meme, oh

639
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:26,760
Speaker 2: something like funny anything about anything about that?

640
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm in the season of I'm in the

641
00:29:33,600 --> 00:29:35,840
Speaker 3: season of just allowing people to show me who they are.

642
00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:40,960
Speaker 3: I'm trying and I and not even it's not judgmental,

643
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:44,560
Speaker 3: it's not bad. It's just I love who I love

644
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:47,120
Speaker 3: so deeply, and I have to remember not maybe everybody

645
00:29:47,200 --> 00:29:50,240
Speaker 3: feels that same way back or counts it as important

646
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:54,840
Speaker 3: or you know, like there was something that happened recently

647
00:29:55,040 --> 00:29:58,880
Speaker 3: that I wasn't invited to and I was like, huh.

648
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 1: A little.

649
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:03,080
Speaker 3: I don't want to say hurt, because that's not fair

650
00:30:03,240 --> 00:30:06,160
Speaker 3: and there's enough on someone's plate during a special time

651
00:30:06,280 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 3: like this, but I just was like whoa, Okay, But

652
00:30:09,840 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 3: then I also was like, how much of effort have

653
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Speaker 3: I put into a friendship? So I wouldn't I'm not,

654
00:30:16,120 --> 00:30:18,120
Speaker 3: I don't. I don't think this person's wrong for not

655
00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:20,760
Speaker 3: inviting me at all at all, but I it just

656
00:30:20,840 --> 00:30:22,520
Speaker 3: kind of was a sobering moment of like, I haven't

657
00:30:22,520 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 3: put much energy in because I've probably just been tending

658
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 3: to babies, you know.

659
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Speaker 1: Well, I think it's fair to feel hurt in that

660
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:31,480
Speaker 1: moment and then also go okay, but why yeah and

661
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Speaker 1: evaluate how I even say as a friend versus that's

662
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Speaker 1: what I'm also trying to do. I'm like, well, what

663
00:30:36,960 --> 00:30:39,560
Speaker 1: have I done to contribute if I'm not invited? Like

664
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Speaker 1: instead of just getting hurt because I'm so sensitive to that, sure, okay,

665
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:45,080
Speaker 1: but what have I been doing to contribute to this friendship?

666
00:30:45,160 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 1: And trying to do It's not easy, but trying to

667
00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:48,400
Speaker 1: do more of that.

668
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 3: So I actually invited her out to lunch. I was like,

669
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Speaker 3: I really would love to just like get I miss

670
00:30:52,240 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 3: you yeah instead.

671
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:57,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, So yeah, I'm not saying anything okay, good, good, good,

672
00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:00,440
Speaker 2: because it's just because I did the I did wrote

673
00:31:00,480 --> 00:31:02,760
Speaker 2: it out good, and then I just I can tell

674
00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:04,960
Speaker 2: you wrote it out yeah, because that's the way he

675
00:31:05,080 --> 00:31:07,960
Speaker 2: framed it. I looked at it and I go and

676
00:31:08,040 --> 00:31:09,840
Speaker 2: I even had it in the message was about to

677
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 2: hit sen and I do this almost all the time.

678
00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:15,520
Speaker 2: I just went click click click click click, deleat because

679
00:31:15,560 --> 00:31:19,240
Speaker 2: it's just for what Yeah, you know, and it's it

680
00:31:19,360 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 2: is what it is love. There's no fallout, there's no

681
00:31:21,600 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 2: bad blow. It's just sure not as close and that's okay. Yeah,

682
00:31:25,240 --> 00:31:29,080
Speaker 2: season it's not not friends. Yeah no, I but I

683
00:31:29,120 --> 00:31:32,800
Speaker 2: also know what I know now and I'm okay, yeah

684
00:31:33,640 --> 00:31:51,520
Speaker 2: that makes sense. Yeah, yeah, I'm proud of you. Jonathan

685
00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:55,360
Speaker 2: Bailey is the Sexiest Man Alive twenty twenty five. Agree

686
00:31:55,400 --> 00:31:58,040
Speaker 2: or disagree? I agree? Agree or disagree?

687
00:31:58,160 --> 00:31:59,640
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I think I agree.

688
00:32:01,080 --> 00:32:02,960
Speaker 2: Do you disagree? I think he's fine.

689
00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:06,400
Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, I don't like have a huge sexiest.

690
00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 3: Man Alive is so awesome to me. I love that

691
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 3: they still do it. I feel like there's going to

692
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 3: come a time or we're going to get way too.

693
00:32:10,920 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 3: I just think George Schlooney should always be it.

694
00:32:15,360 --> 00:32:18,280
Speaker 2: I think he is the most handsome minus my husband,

695
00:32:18,320 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 2: of course, but like he's just yeah, no, he is

696
00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:24,880
Speaker 2: for sure, So to me, he is a mixture between

697
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:28,600
Speaker 2: Hugh Jackman and Tom Hardy. Look at this photo right there,

698
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 2: a little bit of Tom, like a skinny Tom Hardy. Yeah,

699
00:32:32,440 --> 00:32:35,240
Speaker 2: I could see it's Hugh Jackman. But yeah, I mean

700
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:38,840
Speaker 2: he is. I think he's very handsome. Again, I would

701
00:32:38,840 --> 00:32:40,800
Speaker 2: I would vote for my Scottish husband to be on there,

702
00:32:40,960 --> 00:32:44,520
Speaker 2: but I vote Preston. Preston. I think that Nick Woodard

703
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:50,680
Speaker 2: would also make it. He is the first openly I

704
00:32:50,760 --> 00:32:53,840
Speaker 2: believe that I read that right? Did I believe that right?

705
00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 2: Did I read that right? The first openly gay man

706
00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 2: on the man?

707
00:32:59,760 --> 00:33:03,000
Speaker 3: But I'm like, okay, and yeah, I actually couldn't. I

708
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 3: didn't know that there wasn't one before him. Yeah, no,

709
00:33:06,600 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 3: we're talking about the specimen, not who cares the specimen dates.

710
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:14,480
Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah, so yeah, I think what an honor may'd

711
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:19,240
Speaker 2: be great. Speaking of George Clooney though he's classic, he

712
00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,960
Speaker 2: opens up about marriage with wife Emal and why they've

713
00:33:23,080 --> 00:33:25,680
Speaker 2: never had an argument, and I gotta say so they say,

714
00:33:25,800 --> 00:33:28,920
Speaker 2: you know, people actually get frustrated with them that they

715
00:33:28,920 --> 00:33:32,080
Speaker 2: don't have an argument. But he's like, man, you want

716
00:33:32,120 --> 00:33:34,520
Speaker 2: to paint the wall collar red? Paint the wall collar red.

717
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:37,600
Speaker 2: You know it's you don't really don't care about these things.

718
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:39,680
Speaker 2: But do you guys agree that they've never had an argument?

719
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:43,240
Speaker 1: No, Nope, not even in the least.

720
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:43,720
Speaker 4: No.

721
00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:47,760
Speaker 1: I could see where maybe you someone avoids it going

722
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 1: to a place and just not having an opinion or

723
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:51,240
Speaker 1: not like whatever.

724
00:33:51,560 --> 00:33:55,120
Speaker 2: But I love arguments because it means passion. Yeah, and

725
00:33:55,280 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 2: I don't mean like, you know, the drag out crazy

726
00:33:57,680 --> 00:33:59,760
Speaker 2: I'm not talking about that, but like any kind of Yeah.

727
00:34:00,120 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 3: Preston has said to me before, He's like, no one's

728
00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:04,280
Speaker 3: ever gotten me to in place where I've just been like, ah,

729
00:34:04,520 --> 00:34:05,960
Speaker 3: you know, And he's like, but you've done that, and

730
00:34:06,040 --> 00:34:09,600
Speaker 3: I said, I know. But it's also because we're fighting

731
00:34:09,680 --> 00:34:11,240
Speaker 3: for something in those moments.

732
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:13,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe what's the definition of Maybe their definition of

733
00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:14,600
Speaker 1: an argument is different.

734
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:16,120
Speaker 2: That's what I was just going to say. I think

735
00:34:16,160 --> 00:34:19,320
Speaker 2: there's a definition because I don't I don't believe that

736
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:24,320
Speaker 2: someone can't have a disagreement or an right right a

737
00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 2: slash argument, now a blow up fight. I don't think

738
00:34:27,600 --> 00:34:30,160
Speaker 2: everyone has a blow up sure, No, yeah, I would.

739
00:34:30,280 --> 00:34:32,279
Speaker 2: I would agree that he could say that we've never

740
00:34:32,360 --> 00:34:35,680
Speaker 2: had a big blow up argument, and maybe that's what

741
00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:37,160
Speaker 2: he thinks is an argument.

742
00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:37,640
Speaker 1: Probably.

743
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:39,920
Speaker 2: Now I love for that person to go back and

744
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:41,880
Speaker 2: be like, well, have you had a disagreement even though

745
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:44,640
Speaker 2: he says a paint you know, why would that be

746
00:34:44,719 --> 00:34:48,879
Speaker 2: a discussion or an argument. I believe they've probably had

747
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:55,880
Speaker 2: tension in discussion, which would be I would think an argument, argumentment.

748
00:34:55,960 --> 00:35:02,920
Speaker 2: But I think we probably say a different description of

749
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:03,440
Speaker 2: what that is.

750
00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:07,400
Speaker 1: I just think humans have arguments and disagreements in life

751
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:08,720
Speaker 1: and in general friends.

752
00:35:08,840 --> 00:35:10,640
Speaker 2: Do people do that? Are? You know?

753
00:35:10,760 --> 00:35:14,080
Speaker 1: So it's just really hard to imagine living with someone,

754
00:35:14,600 --> 00:35:16,719
Speaker 1: being with someone that want and not having any kind

755
00:35:16,760 --> 00:35:19,359
Speaker 1: of arguments. Yeah, I just can't. Yeah.

756
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:21,279
Speaker 3: It's funny because I actually have a family member and

757
00:35:21,440 --> 00:35:25,160
Speaker 3: like their tagline is I don't do conflict, And I

758
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,480
Speaker 3: remember bringing it to therapist I am. At one point

759
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:30,680
Speaker 3: she was like, well, that means they're not doing life.

760
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:33,520
Speaker 1: That's what I mean. It's just that's the avoid right.

761
00:35:34,120 --> 00:35:36,320
Speaker 2: Well, and that's the thing too, you know, interesting the

762
00:35:36,360 --> 00:35:38,239
Speaker 2: conflict comment because Alan used to say that a lot.

763
00:35:38,280 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 2: He's like, I don't I struggle with conflict, And that's

764
00:35:41,880 --> 00:35:44,680
Speaker 2: his own you know, there's reasons why in his personal

765
00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:48,040
Speaker 2: you know, life, maybe in childhood, whatever, but for him

766
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:52,080
Speaker 2: it's when you don't have conflict, then you're holding resentment,

767
00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:54,279
Speaker 2: that's right, and that's not fair to the other person, right,

768
00:35:54,440 --> 00:35:56,879
Speaker 2: you know, so you I don't want you and I've

769
00:35:56,880 --> 00:35:58,880
Speaker 2: said this many times to him, you know, and he

770
00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:01,480
Speaker 2: knows this. Now it's good, but it's like, I don't

771
00:36:01,520 --> 00:36:04,279
Speaker 2: want you to hold something in that might be frustrating you,

772
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 2: or or to avoid conflict, because then you're just shoving

773
00:36:08,280 --> 00:36:10,520
Speaker 2: stuff in that I have no control how to help

774
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:12,480
Speaker 2: or make the situation better, and that's not really fair

775
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:12,680
Speaker 2: to me.

776
00:36:13,080 --> 00:36:16,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would say, George is older, and so I know,

777
00:36:16,719 --> 00:36:19,560
Speaker 3: even as we're getting into charities like you just know

778
00:36:19,719 --> 00:36:22,720
Speaker 3: what's worth your effort or what you can see quickly?

779
00:36:22,880 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 3: Is this even about the paink color?

780
00:36:24,360 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 1: You know?

781
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 2: So the blow up fights don't really happen, right, it's

782
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:32,640
Speaker 2: just you're like, okay, yeah, right, go get the door out, right,

783
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:38,320
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah, right, right. But I'm sure there is

784
00:36:38,480 --> 00:36:40,920
Speaker 2: some sort of I'm sure they've had a tip. I

785
00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:43,359
Speaker 2: want them to have that because a tiff. I want

786
00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,120
Speaker 2: him to be passionate. I don't want he's less hot

787
00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:48,359
Speaker 2: to me if he's passing a guy I don't love.

788
00:36:48,680 --> 00:36:50,319
Speaker 2: I want him to be guy that's like I kind

789
00:36:50,360 --> 00:36:52,400
Speaker 2: of like it green instead of I don't think you

790
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:55,719
Speaker 2: have to have a tiff to be passionate. I hear

791
00:36:55,800 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 2: what you're saying. I like, I like independence still matters.

792
00:36:59,800 --> 00:37:01,719
Speaker 2: Still think you can and people can still get like.

793
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 2: I also don't think it has.

794
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 1: To be that hard too.

795
00:37:04,280 --> 00:37:07,080
Speaker 2: Oh agreed, you know, Like I remember someone telling me

796
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:10,200
Speaker 2: that one time. He's like, it doesn't have to be

797
00:37:10,239 --> 00:37:14,400
Speaker 2: as hard. It's like maybe just nobody wrongs. You know,

798
00:37:14,600 --> 00:37:16,800
Speaker 2: it's just we can't we can't fit, you know, And

799
00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:19,040
Speaker 2: that's where then you realize, all right, we're not we

800
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:22,200
Speaker 2: don't work. But you know, with them, like they might

801
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:25,360
Speaker 2: just again be at that age too where it's just okay,

802
00:37:25,560 --> 00:37:31,200
Speaker 2: yeah again. Though I do think being married, and I mean, gosh,

803
00:37:31,239 --> 00:37:32,799
Speaker 2: if you're them though, and you get all that money,

804
00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 2: what are you guys you're staring at George Clooney about.

805
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:40,839
Speaker 1: But maybe maybe it's just about the money.

806
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:41,279
Speaker 2: Maybe you.

807
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:43,440
Speaker 3: Don't know.

808
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:47,040
Speaker 2: Many people. I would love to.

809
00:37:49,760 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 1: Do that work, gat let's try it on.

810
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:54,240
Speaker 2: Anybody want to involved Cat and I in their experiment.

811
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 2: I want to strengthen my relationship with God. I'm forty three.

812
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:00,520
Speaker 2: I was born and raised Catholic, somewhere between an every

813
00:38:00,560 --> 00:38:03,400
Speaker 2: Sunday Mass Catholic and a Christmas Easter Catholic. That was

814
00:38:03,440 --> 00:38:05,879
Speaker 2: the same to me. As I've gotten older, I've really

815
00:38:06,120 --> 00:38:08,480
Speaker 2: only gone to Mass for weddings, funerals, and holidays. I

816
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:10,640
Speaker 2: don't feel closeness with a Catholic church, nor do I

817
00:38:10,680 --> 00:38:13,239
Speaker 2: feel like I get anything out of going to a

818
00:38:13,320 --> 00:38:16,160
Speaker 2: traditional Catholic Mass. But I've been dealing with a lot

819
00:38:16,200 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 2: of stress, depression, anxiety for about five years now, and

820
00:38:18,719 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 2: for about six to ten years have been wanting to

821
00:38:20,560 --> 00:38:22,920
Speaker 2: find a type of service that's more relatable. Also, I

822
00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:25,080
Speaker 2: want to find ways to build my relationship with God

823
00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:27,759
Speaker 2: on my own time outside of going to Mass or

824
00:38:27,800 --> 00:38:30,920
Speaker 2: traditionally reading the Bible, because I frankly just don't get

825
00:38:31,440 --> 00:38:33,800
Speaker 2: messages out of it. It's like I need a Bible

826
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 2: for Dummi's book. I'd love any suggestions you all have

827
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:40,400
Speaker 2: on what has worked for you. Love your question, great question.

828
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 2: I recently just got a new Bible. I got the

829
00:38:43,840 --> 00:38:47,719
Speaker 2: She Reads Truth Bible, and that that has because I

830
00:38:49,160 --> 00:38:51,759
Speaker 2: have opened my Bible, and you know, I try, and

831
00:38:51,880 --> 00:38:56,320
Speaker 2: it's just really hard for me to connect to it

832
00:38:56,840 --> 00:38:59,680
Speaker 2: and to read it and to understand it, and so

833
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 2: I'm like, why do I keep doing this? There has

834
00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:06,680
Speaker 2: to be something that's a little bit more traditional non traditional?

835
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:07,320
Speaker 2: Is that that?

836
00:39:07,560 --> 00:39:07,759
Speaker 1: Yeah?

837
00:39:08,200 --> 00:39:11,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, And so I got that one and I

838
00:39:11,840 --> 00:39:14,840
Speaker 2: love it. Okay, it's been working great. Does it have

839
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 2: like a reading plan with it has a reading plan?

840
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 2: It has it walks you through like Okay, this is

841
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:23,520
Speaker 2: what they were talking about shame or this is when

842
00:39:23,600 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 2: it talks about this. And I really like it and

843
00:39:26,400 --> 00:39:29,600
Speaker 2: it makes me, it makes me want to open it.

844
00:39:30,080 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 2: It takes a great overwhelmingness out of it. Yeah, where

845
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 2: do you start? What do you do?

846
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:34,399
Speaker 1: Where do you Yeah?

847
00:39:34,480 --> 00:39:36,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, absolutely, And then i'd also say, listen, I'm not

848
00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 2: going to tell you to walk away from the Catholic church,

849
00:39:38,440 --> 00:39:42,279
Speaker 2: but I love going to the non denominational Christian church

850
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:44,960
Speaker 2: that we go to, and it maybe just and if

851
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:47,320
Speaker 2: you don't, if you're afraid to try that on in person,

852
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:49,319
Speaker 2: you can go to crosspoint dot com and you can

853
00:39:49,400 --> 00:39:52,279
Speaker 2: watch their services or any other like that church, and

854
00:39:52,360 --> 00:39:53,960
Speaker 2: then you might be able to get more out of

855
00:39:54,040 --> 00:39:56,360
Speaker 2: a type of message like that. Because I always struggled

856
00:39:56,440 --> 00:40:00,320
Speaker 2: in mass getting a message that I could understand relate to.

857
00:40:00,719 --> 00:40:03,040
Speaker 3: And also there's just a lot of structure and rules

858
00:40:03,400 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 3: and tradition, which I adore about Catholicism, but I also

859
00:40:09,560 --> 00:40:12,640
Speaker 3: feel like almost Catholic people sometimes need a recovery program.

860
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:14,919
Speaker 3: Like there's a lot of guilt and shame, guilt and shame,

861
00:40:14,960 --> 00:40:19,600
Speaker 3: guilt and shame like cycles. One thing I love is

862
00:40:19,920 --> 00:40:23,920
Speaker 3: the Bible app So if you are new to just

863
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 3: wanting to learn the different versions, like you can literally

864
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 3: highlight a passage and so if it's in a very

865
00:40:29,080 --> 00:40:32,439
Speaker 3: traditional sense or like old school speak, you can click

866
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:35,360
Speaker 3: a different version of it and it will allow you

867
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Speaker 3: to read it in like several different versions.

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Speaker 2: So there's like the new living translation.

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Speaker 3: It's just very like common language feeling, and that's also helpful,

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Speaker 3: and send you a daily Bible verse and it's just

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Speaker 3: not so overwhelming. It's tiptoe. I also just love conversational prayer.

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Speaker 3: I tell a lot of people this, but I love

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Speaker 3: just like chatting it out. I think it doesn't have

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Speaker 3: to be so there's like this overwhelming Where do you

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Speaker 3: start things sometimes with people in prayer and coming back

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Speaker 3: in to have religion.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, just conversationally.

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Speaker 1: I'm a devotional girl. I mean, I love I am

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Speaker 1: not as good as I would like to be just

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Speaker 1: opening the Bible and just like reading, but I love

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Speaker 1: to do several different devotionals and get different things. And

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Speaker 1: then I'll open up my Bible and go to the

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Speaker 1: verses that are in there and stuff like that. But

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Speaker 1: I just posted one I loved. I love the one

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Speaker 1: that I just got. I don't remember the names of them, unfortunately.

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Speaker 2: Is my favor.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm done the favor that was so good. Love Sabor,

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Speaker 1: She's the best. Yeah, but that's kind of my go to.

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Speaker 1: And then I was gonna say with I don't know

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Speaker 1: anything about Catholicism, and I don't know if it's like

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Speaker 1: frowned upon to go, but I have heard that it

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Speaker 1: is definitely easier message wise and to feel more connected

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Speaker 1: and a more non denominational situation. Maybe try that.

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Speaker 2: Well, ladies, see you next week. So yeah, I