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Speaker 1: Okay, good people. Listen, it's thirty three days until election day.

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Speaker 1: Thirty three days. November third is the election day for

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Speaker 1: thirty three days, people, we gotta get this man out

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Speaker 1: of here. Thirty three days. But now it's time now

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Speaker 1: for today's Strawberry letter. And if you need advice on

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Speaker 1: the relationship, dayton worked, sex, parenting, and whatever else you're

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Speaker 1: going through, submitter Strawberry Letters to Steve Harvey FM dot

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Speaker 1: com and click submit Strawberry Letter. There we go. Just

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Speaker 1: get into it. Goad on, Oh, I don't share. This

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Speaker 1: is not here. You know I don't let you do that.

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Speaker 1: When you know I take on the island as for

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Speaker 1: you can still tell you what to do it. Go ahead,

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Speaker 1: go ahead and do it. Hold on tight head is

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Speaker 1: I don't right, it's all dry stone bug it upld

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Speaker 1: on tight here letter. That's too much. Buckle up, hold

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Speaker 1: on tight here it is letter man. You ain't proper.

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Speaker 1: Let's see subject. He left my sister for my girlfriend?

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Speaker 1: Did Stephen Shirley. I'm a twenty eight year old man,

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Speaker 1: and I need your advice because the only way I

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Speaker 1: know how to solve a problem like like mine is

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Speaker 1: with my fist. My best friend since college started dating

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Speaker 1: my sister year ago. I wasn't cool with it at first,

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Speaker 1: take good care of her because he knows I don't

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Speaker 1: play about my sister. My sister was happy, so I

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Speaker 1: was happy. Well. That all changed two weeks ago when

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Speaker 1: a small group of my college buddies came to my

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Speaker 1: house for my girlfriend's birthday. We had a lot to drink,

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Speaker 1: we smoked a little weed. I was feeling good and

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Speaker 1: laid back, so I didn't notice at first that my

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Speaker 1: girlfriend and best friend were missing. Now, my sister was

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Speaker 1: So I walked up to the car and I saw

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Speaker 1: The girl popped up and I saw it was my girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: She jumped out the car ran down the street. My

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend up. I called her all night until I

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Speaker 1: from my girlfriend, and my best friend was on the

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Speaker 1: phone too. They apologized for how I found out that

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Speaker 1: they had been messing around, and they told me they

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Speaker 1: wanted to be together. Then he asked me if I

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Speaker 1: could talk to my sister for him. I cursed him

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Speaker 1: out and hung up. I woke my little sister up

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Speaker 1: and told her what was going on. She was devastated.

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Speaker 1: Should I move on and let this go or trust

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Speaker 1: Call her all right, Steve, I mean, you know your

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Speaker 1: best friend David, your little sister in college. You didn't

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Speaker 1: like it. She was happy things were good at a

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Speaker 1: party for your girlfriend. Later on, you busted your best

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Speaker 1: head on his lap. They took off, she went running

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Speaker 1: down the street. You broke the news to your little sister.

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Speaker 1: She was heartbroken. So they finally called you and admitted

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Speaker 1: they were together, but apologize to you about how you

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Speaker 1: found out, So you want to know if you should

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Speaker 1: go and kick your best friends behind for your little sister. Listen,

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Speaker 1: it's just a waste of time. It really will be

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Speaker 1: a waste of time. They didn't have the decency to

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Speaker 1: let you know things up front. You had to find out,

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Speaker 1: like like you were on an episode of Cheaters. Your

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Speaker 1: girlfriend she ran away down the street. She was totally

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Speaker 1: totally wrong for that. And please don't get into that.

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Speaker 1: Don't fight, as you know, it's just not good. Violence

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Speaker 1: is not good in this situation. You're fighting for somebody

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Speaker 1: who doesn't want you, for somebody who doesn't want your

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Speaker 1: little sister. Move on, find someone who loves you. Tell

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Speaker 1: take time, but it's your ex best friend, your ex

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Speaker 1: best friend, and your ex girlfriend. They aren't worth it.

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Speaker 1: Move on. This is a car caller. He called caller

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Speaker 1: saying this it's not worth it. You're fighting for somebody

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Speaker 1: that don't want you. Steve, that's a nice response you

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Speaker 1: gave caller. But there's a line in this show. They're

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Speaker 1: line in this letter that I so am attracted to

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Speaker 1: what he said. The only way I know how to

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Speaker 1: to see no other way to resolve this at all.

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Speaker 1: I can't see avoiding this ass whipping under no circumstance. Now,

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Speaker 1: I ain't gonna tell it to you right now, but

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Speaker 1: It's very It's all in the letter. Justification is in

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Speaker 1: the letter, and as I read it, I'm gonna show

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Speaker 1: you how this ass Whooper was building up throughout the letter. Okay,

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Speaker 1: don't tell them no motive, were gonna have part two

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Speaker 1: at three minute after the hour. I'm sorry you're listening. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's up. Let's don't get to a man. Just tell

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Speaker 1: them to go in. I'm gonna recap it, but listen

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Speaker 1: As I read to letter. When I pause, I want

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Speaker 1: y'all to say the words Saul, Saul, Saul, and I'm

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Speaker 1: gonna show you how, Saul. I'm gonna show you how

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Speaker 1: this letter builds up to what I'm suggesting he do.

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Speaker 1: All Right, here we go, this twenty eight year old man,

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Speaker 1: My best friend since college started dating my sister a

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Speaker 1: year ago. Now, I wasn't cool with it at first,

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Speaker 1: good care of her because he knows I don't play

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Speaker 1: about my sister, Salve, I tell it to you in in

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Speaker 1: the future so you can get into it. First, my

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Speaker 1: sister was happy, so I was happy that all changed.

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Speaker 1: Two weeks ago, sah see, this is building up. When

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Speaker 1: my girlfriend and best friend were missing. Now, just so

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Speaker 1: I can want you to understand what's Saul. Saul is

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Speaker 1: an acronym caller. We're building up to the saw. Saul

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Speaker 1: stands for severe a SQUI we saw it. We saw wood.

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Speaker 1: We saw it wood. This story is a chopp of wood.

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Speaker 1: We saw it. My sister was drunk and asleep in

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Speaker 1: his head was back, and his mouth was widened. So,

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Speaker 1: His head was back, mouth wide open eyes. I walked

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Speaker 1: in his lamp. So what Oh? So now I'm first

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking to myself, my boy dog out hill putting

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Speaker 1: wasn't sure if he was passed out or not. So

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Speaker 1: be damned. Saw the girl that popped up was my

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Speaker 1: damn girl. Oh. Now, at this point in the letter,

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Speaker 1: my best friend sped off stopped near the corner to

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Speaker 1: Ain't nobody speeding off. You ain't dropping it in gil,

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Speaker 1: So they apologize for how I find out, and they

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Speaker 1: can I talk to my sister? Fund him south South?

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Speaker 1: I custom out and hung up. Then I go in here.

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Speaker 1: it himself. Your damn Fred for being over your house,

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Speaker 1: for drinking you all your liquor, smoking up your weed.

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Speaker 1: You gotta come over here, for screwing her, and then

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