WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Fly In Surprise

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<v Speaker 1>Rooking Jewels. Second date update. I'm honestly stumped as to

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<v Speaker 1>why the woman on the phone for a second date

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<v Speaker 1>update today isn't getting a call back. I mean, usually

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<v Speaker 1>when you follow somebody across state lines, no big deal. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>they usually appreciate that when you just show up unannounced

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<v Speaker 1>somewhere right and now we're going to stalk the guy again,

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<v Speaker 1>but yes we are second date. Her name is Abigail, Abigail,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up? Hi, guys. Okay, he's already made you sound

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<v Speaker 1>creepy right from the get go. I'm not a creepy

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<v Speaker 1>and just a bit confused. Okay, sometimes there's a thin

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<v Speaker 1>line between creepy and I've been a victim of that

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<v Speaker 1>many times. You have a pretty interesting situation, Abigail, Why

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<v Speaker 1>don't you tell everybody? First of all, the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>you want to call? What's his name? Brian? Brian? And

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<v Speaker 1>how did you meet Brian? Well, you know, I'm little

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<v Speaker 1>leary on going on online dates and meeting guys on

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<v Speaker 1>dating websites because they're usually either nuts, ugly or snelly

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<v Speaker 1>or just not just not that it sounds like so

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<v Speaker 1>many great options. I don't know why you're so upset

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<v Speaker 1>about this, But you know I tried. I gave it

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<v Speaker 1>a shot one more time, and I met Brian, and

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<v Speaker 1>I gotta tell you that we hit it off immediately.

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<v Speaker 1>It went from zero to sixty in virtually no time.

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<v Speaker 1>So you liked his aroma. He had a good roma.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, for when I could smell over the phone,

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<v Speaker 1>he was great. Oh say, you're saying it from zero

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<v Speaker 1>to sixty before you guys even met in person, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it was instant attraction via conversation. His profile

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<v Speaker 1>picture looked great, and then I did a little more

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<v Speaker 1>digging and found his Facebook profile and I realized it's

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<v Speaker 1>really what he looks like. Huh, how did you get

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<v Speaker 1>his tax returns? It sounds like you put in a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of effort. Have I done a little more digging? Needy? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that's a lot of pressure to put on

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<v Speaker 1>a date when you've been disappointed so many times. Were

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<v Speaker 1>you worried about that? I was, and that's why I

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<v Speaker 1>did my due diligence and we talked for hours. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>there was nothing I couldn't discuss with him. We text

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<v Speaker 1>me at least five times a day. How long was

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<v Speaker 1>this going on before you guys actually decided to meet

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<v Speaker 1>in person just about a month. Whoa, that's a long time.

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<v Speaker 1>I really wanted to see him. But the thing was

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<v Speaker 1>he lived two states away. Oh, so the whole logistics

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<v Speaker 1>of meeting each other was really difficult. I see. I

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<v Speaker 1>was going to say, like, what took so long? Did

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<v Speaker 1>that make sense? But I thought we had kicked it

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<v Speaker 1>off so well. I wanted to do a grand gesture

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<v Speaker 1>of romance. And one night when we were chit chatting,

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<v Speaker 1>he was telling me his best friend's birthday was that

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<v Speaker 1>weekend and where they were going to be and what

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<v Speaker 1>plans were, And I thought, wouldn't it be cool if

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<v Speaker 1>I flew down and surprised him? Who for your first meeting?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, we had chatted for so long, this was

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<v Speaker 1>inevitable that one of us is going to fly in

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<v Speaker 1>to meet the other. But a surprise and just showing

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<v Speaker 1>up as a whole different ball game if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know him that well yet. But it could I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I could see where it could pay off, Like it

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<v Speaker 1>could be amazing thing, or it could be really bad.

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<v Speaker 1>So how was it when you saw him for the

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<v Speaker 1>first time? I just started drooling. He was so gorgeous.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my god, Wow, Well maybe that's why he's not

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<v Speaker 1>calling you back. You just showed up randomly out of

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<v Speaker 1>the blue with drool all over. It's a good boy.

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<v Speaker 1>And how did he react? Was he drooling as well?

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<v Speaker 1>Was it just a big spitfest? He was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>taken aback. I basically came up behind him and tapped

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<v Speaker 1>his shoulder, and he turned around and he got white

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<v Speaker 1>as a ghost. He was shocked. Okay, wait said the scene.

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<v Speaker 1>Where were you guys when you tapped him on the shoulder?

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<v Speaker 1>Were you at the birthday party? Yeah? I showed up

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<v Speaker 1>at the restaurant where the birthday party was. Whoa, that's

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<v Speaker 1>a very bold move. Well, because I didn't know where

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<v Speaker 1>he lives, so this is the only way I could

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<v Speaker 1>get in contact. So what did he do? I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>after he recovered from the initial shock, did he hug you?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he kiss you? I mean the first thing he

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<v Speaker 1>did was say, what are you doing here? And I

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<v Speaker 1>told him I thought it'd be a really cool surprise

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<v Speaker 1>to you know, shock you and be here, and thought

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<v Speaker 1>it'd be really romantic. And then for most of the

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<v Speaker 1>night I ended up speaking to his friends and not

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<v Speaker 1>much to him. But you got to understand I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I knew he had to speak to other people who

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<v Speaker 1>was his best friend's birthday, so I let it go.

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<v Speaker 1>I figured, hey, that's what he has to do. So wait,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, like, how is he introducing you to his friends? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>he really wasn't. I mean, one or two times that

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<v Speaker 1>I'd bump into him, somebody would come up to him

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<v Speaker 1>and say, oh, and you are, and he would say, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>this is a friend of mine. Okay, okay, oh, And

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<v Speaker 1>I thought, well, you know, it is really new. We

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<v Speaker 1>haven't really told people about us. So I get it.

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<v Speaker 1>He wanted to keep it on the down low. I

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<v Speaker 1>get that. I'm starting to worry about you. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>after the birthday party, what happened, Well, when we got

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<v Speaker 1>to the end of the night, people started leaving, and

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<v Speaker 1>it was basically he and I and his best friend.

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<v Speaker 1>And I started talking to him and I said, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here now, and he said how long are you

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<v Speaker 1>here for? And I thought that was odd that he

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<v Speaker 1>would ask me when I'm leaving when we were just met.

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<v Speaker 1>When I said to him, I'm here tomorrow, eve, maybe

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<v Speaker 1>we can have lunch or brunch tomorrow and or maybe

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<v Speaker 1>even right now, let's go for another drink or a

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<v Speaker 1>cup of coffee, and he said he was really busy.

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<v Speaker 1>He had a lot of commitments the next day, but

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, okay, maybe you can spare an hour.

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<v Speaker 1>I did fly all the way out here. He said,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what, we'll set up date for when I

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<v Speaker 1>can either fly out to you. Were you to fly

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<v Speaker 1>out here again? Were you crushed? I was crushed until

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<v Speaker 1>he said, let's see we can figure out a time

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<v Speaker 1>to meet up again. Oh so I thought there was

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<v Speaker 1>some hope there. No, you know, maybe he really was

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<v Speaker 1>busy the next day. I don't know. You are so

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<v Speaker 1>nice to this man. Well he's something special. How many

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<v Speaker 1>times have you tried to get a hold of him

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<v Speaker 1>since that weekend? It's been a week so far and

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<v Speaker 1>I only heard from him once, and that also through texts,

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<v Speaker 1>So it's not like it was before. Oh my gosh.

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<v Speaker 1>And you're sure he's single right from what I understand.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't see any rings on his finger, and I

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<v Speaker 1>see any other woman around. Okay, good, Okay, Well we'll

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<v Speaker 1>play a song, come back call him, and then get

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<v Speaker 1>your second date. Update. Okay, okay, all right, hang on

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<v Speaker 1>looking jubil in the morning. Update If you're just tuning

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<v Speaker 1>in for today's second date update. It's the kind of

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<v Speaker 1>thing that movies are made about. Abigail's on the phone

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<v Speaker 1>and Abigail met the man of her dreams online and

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<v Speaker 1>they chatted back and forth every single day, every single

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<v Speaker 1>night for weeks until Abigail decided to show up unannounced

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<v Speaker 1>at a birthday party. She flew all the way there

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<v Speaker 1>to surprise him, tapped him on the shoulder, and he

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<v Speaker 1>turned around and she said, Abigail's home. Abigail, I think

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<v Speaker 1>I've seen that movie before, but I don't think that's

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<v Speaker 1>what that is. Sort of what happened. Abigail did surprise

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<v Speaker 1>this dude that she'd been talking to online. They live

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<v Speaker 1>in different states, and she actually showed up to a

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<v Speaker 1>birthday party that he was at unannounced and was hoping

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<v Speaker 1>that everything would go great. But when she got there

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<v Speaker 1>and surprised him, he was kind of weird and sort

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<v Speaker 1>of ignored her the rest of the night and they

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<v Speaker 1>haven't really talked since. Abigail, Hi, sounds just like what

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<v Speaker 1>you said, JU, I mean, very similar. I'm really not

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<v Speaker 1>a stalker, I promise. Well. I have a whole different

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<v Speaker 1>scenario in my head. Abigail Abigail, You're so sweet. It

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<v Speaker 1>just makes me so angry because it sounds like you

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<v Speaker 1>guys really connected and he really led you down this

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<v Speaker 1>path and he's just a jerk. I don't know how

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<v Speaker 1>else to say it. She didn't show up out of

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<v Speaker 1>the blue, unannounced, like from states away. That could creep

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<v Speaker 1>a guy out, but he was given her the wrong signals. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I really got the feeling that we had the connection,

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<v Speaker 1>and he would have loved this romantic gesture. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>well we'll find out. I'm a dala his phone of

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<v Speaker 1>her right now and see if we can talk him

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<v Speaker 1>and get your second day up date. Okay, okay, okay, Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>can I speak to Brian please? This is Brian. Here's

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<v Speaker 1>this Hey, what's up? Man? How are you? This is

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<v Speaker 1>Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Sor are

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<v Speaker 1>you Jewbil from Brook and Jewbil in the Morning? Weird? Ways,

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<v Speaker 1>I know it sounds weird. Yeah, I don't. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what you're talking about, man, I figured you wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>That's fine. Brook and Jewil in the Morning is a

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<v Speaker 1>morning radio show. Okay, okay, and that's I'm calling you

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<v Speaker 1>because one of our listeners actually asked us to reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to you. All right, sure you got the hype, Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm pretty sure I do. I'll check. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>know a girl named Abigail? Yeah? Okay, well we know

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<v Speaker 1>a girl named Abigail as well. And she's really confused

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<v Speaker 1>because she thought you guys had a great relay and

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<v Speaker 1>ship for a few weeks until she decided to just

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<v Speaker 1>fly into town and surprise you. And she said you

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<v Speaker 1>seem kind of cold to her, and now you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>really talked to her since you can understand why that.

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<v Speaker 1>She's going to like any length possible to get some

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<v Speaker 1>sort of answer, Like if you put that much energy

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<v Speaker 1>into seeing someone and then they suddenly shut down, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>that's got to be really confusing. Let me get this straight.

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<v Speaker 1>Then she had you guys to reach out to contact me.

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<v Speaker 1>That's what you're selling me, yes, because you won't really

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<v Speaker 1>give her an answer and you're kind of being cold.

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<v Speaker 1>Thicket is this is crazy, man, It's not really that crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, she just wants an answer. I just can't

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<v Speaker 1>believe that she's doing all this just to get in

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<v Speaker 1>touch with me. Yeah, but you guys wish you're like

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<v Speaker 1>texting like five times a day for a whole month

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<v Speaker 1>to nothing. Yeah, and she liked you a lot, Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>and talking to you right now, I can understand why

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<v Speaker 1>you seem like a sweet dude. Yeah, I normally am,

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<v Speaker 1>but not when like radio shoes call me my personal life.

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<v Speaker 1>We get that, we do. Can you just tell us

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<v Speaker 1>anything at least we can talk to her and be like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he just wasn't really feeling you when he saw you

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<v Speaker 1>in person or something like that. Well, don't tell her that,

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<v Speaker 1>because I mean that's not true. Really. Yeah, no, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I actually I really do like her a lot. There's

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<v Speaker 1>this stuff going on, and I just don't want to

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<v Speaker 1>get into Oh, you're in a relationship. I knew it.

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<v Speaker 1>I told her that. I told her that you're She

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<v Speaker 1>swore she thought you were single. Yeah, I know, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>definitely single. That's not it. Really. I thought what we

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<v Speaker 1>had going on was good. I mean, I kind of like,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess the distance aspect of it. And then for

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<v Speaker 1>her to just randomly show up at a friend's birthday party,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not really expecting it at all. But why did

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<v Speaker 1>you spend all night avoiding her? I mean, at some point,

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<v Speaker 1>if you say that you really like her, Yeah. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess I just got too real for me having

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<v Speaker 1>her right there, too real, Like you like talking to

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<v Speaker 1>her online and on the phone, but to realize you

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<v Speaker 1>could actually touch up her person. No, I mean it's

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<v Speaker 1>not necessarily that. It's just there's other stuff. But I

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<v Speaker 1>understand there's other stuff. But right now, all I understand

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<v Speaker 1>is you like her a lot. It shocks you that

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<v Speaker 1>she showed up, and then there's stuff like how is

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<v Speaker 1>that a message to give to her to help her

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<v Speaker 1>understand why you're not talking to her anymore? You know what, whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't I don't care anymore. I just I need

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<v Speaker 1>a kidney transplant. Um whoa, whoa, Yeah, Oh that's serious. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>way to take things down, Brian. You guys asked for it.

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<v Speaker 1>Usually these things end up like, oh I thought they

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<v Speaker 1>smelled funny or they puked in my back seat. Man,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry to hear that. Yeah. Yeah. So is it

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<v Speaker 1>just that you don't want to get involved in a

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<v Speaker 1>relationship because you obviously have some serious health stuff that

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<v Speaker 1>you need to concentrate on pretty much, you know, I

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<v Speaker 1>just I don't want to drag her into this, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean? I feel like this is kind

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<v Speaker 1>of battle right now. By her showing up, I realized,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, that she really does like me a lot,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm just not wanting her to be that close

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<v Speaker 1>to being around all this like stuff going on. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I feel so horrible. I thought these awful things about you,

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<v Speaker 1>and now yeah, look at you, Brooks. Seriously, dude, I

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<v Speaker 1>am sorry. It's all good. It's it's not a big deal.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess. So did you not tell her about your

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<v Speaker 1>situation when you guys were chatting online and on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and stuff. No, you know, I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>tell her this, you know what I mean, Like, that's

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<v Speaker 1>like we kept it from a distance, so you know,

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<v Speaker 1>we can keep it upbeat and I have to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like talk about all this stuff. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just I really just enjoyed her conversation. And sometimes,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, when there's a lot of bad stuff going

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<v Speaker 1>on in your life, to have somebody there to kind

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<v Speaker 1>of just talk to you and you know, just kind

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<v Speaker 1>of laugh with and stuff like that, it kind of

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<v Speaker 1>brings you up. So I didn't want to like kind

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<v Speaker 1>of bring her down by the transplant. Yeah, and you're

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<v Speaker 1>able to escape your own stuff too, you know, Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>You're You're kind of making this difficult on me because

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<v Speaker 1>this would normally be the point where I'd try to

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<v Speaker 1>deliver a witty line and then tell you that the

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<v Speaker 1>person is on the other line listening to the conversation.

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<v Speaker 1>But I don't have any witty lines, so I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>going to connect you too so you can talk. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Wait she on another line now? Or what do you

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<v Speaker 1>mean by connect us? Yeah, she's listening to this phone

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<v Speaker 1>call and wants to talk to you. Oh my god, man,

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<v Speaker 1>are you kidding it? Like I just I didn't even

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<v Speaker 1>want her to know. Yes, Unfortunately she does know, now, Abigail,

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<v Speaker 1>are you there? Hi? Brian? Hey, Sorry, I didn't really

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<v Speaker 1>want you to find out this way. No, I'm sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what to say. I'm sorry. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>sure you don't mean you don't have to say anything.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I know that I didn't tell you, so

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<v Speaker 1>there's no way you could have known. It's just I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know. I didn't know how connected I was going

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<v Speaker 1>to get with you, and then I just, I guess

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<v Speaker 1>I got worried about actually telling you. So, but I

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<v Speaker 1>want you to know something. I care about you more

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<v Speaker 1>than you can imagine. I'm here. If you want to talk,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm here. If you mean to make you laugh, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>there for you. I really appreciate that because, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I got scared once you got down

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<v Speaker 1>there and you know, actually seeing you, and it made

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<v Speaker 1>it seem too real, and I just, I guess I

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<v Speaker 1>pushed you away a little bit and didn't want to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, get too close. Listen, get close if you

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<v Speaker 1>need me to do anything or help you, or just

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<v Speaker 1>put a smile on your face whenever you need me. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I just You're such a sweet person. I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>you to get all caught up in this and then

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<v Speaker 1>something good wrong. Right now, I'm on a waiting list.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not you know, there's no guarantee of when I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna be able to give the transplant. And honestly, Abigail,

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<v Speaker 1>I really care about you and I really want to,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, keep you in my life. And at the

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<v Speaker 1>same time, because I care about you so much, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like I can't. I don't know. I'm just really

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<v Speaker 1>torn right now. I mean, I'm willing to take a

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<v Speaker 1>blood chest. Is there anyway meaning I'm compatible in some way?

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<v Speaker 1>You know, I don't want you to do that, affygel

0:14:51.520 --> 0:14:55.040
<v Speaker 1>I really listen. This is this is about kindness. This

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<v Speaker 1>is the reason why I was put in your life.

0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:02.280
<v Speaker 1>The chances chances are so slim that that's even possible.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't have to go through with that, but Brian,

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<v Speaker 1>there's always a chance. It may be slim, but it's

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<v Speaker 1>still there. Yeah, But it's just I can't. I can't

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<v Speaker 1>think about you actually giving up your kidney for me.

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<v Speaker 1>I can't think about you doing that. I don't. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't want it to happen. Well, I got too, so

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<v Speaker 1>I give one up. It's like a spare time. Wow.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't even know what to say. At least give

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<v Speaker 1>me the chance or the opportunity to look into this.

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<v Speaker 1>Consider it. You have to consider it, Brian. How about this?

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<v Speaker 1>How about we send Abigail out to you and you

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<v Speaker 1>guys can spend the weekend together. You can hang out,

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<v Speaker 1>you can go on a few dates, and you can

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<v Speaker 1>even discuss a possible kidney transplant in the second date

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<v Speaker 1>update before. But I'm saying it so I can't believe

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<v Speaker 1>it's actually happen right now. Oh my god, we've interested

0:15:59.680 --> 0:16:03.840
<v Speaker 1>in that, just checking things out. Um, I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>about the whole kidding. Transplant by the date would be awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>I would I would love to go on a date. Yes, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>so that's it? Yes, yeah, definitely, Yeah, I'm happy to

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<v Speaker 1>Oh me too. I'm really excited that I'll Actually this

0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:24.800
<v Speaker 1>has been a really weird second date update. Normally it's

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<v Speaker 1>the dude who's begging to put his organ in a

0:16:26.800 --> 0:16:39.120
<v Speaker 1>woman into I couldn't help it. In the morning, a

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<v Speaker 1>text in at seven, eight, five to nine too says

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<v Speaker 1>I was not prepared for those feels this morning. Thanks

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<v Speaker 1>a lot, guys, too much feels. Talking about today's second

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<v Speaker 1>day update. It's broken jewil in the morning and if

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<v Speaker 1>you missed it, Brian and Abigail. Abigail met Brian online

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<v Speaker 1>and they talked for a long time, like a month,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she decided to surprise him because he lived

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<v Speaker 1>in a different state. She actually showed up to a

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<v Speaker 1>party that he was at and he was kind of

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<v Speaker 1>cold and weird, and then he didn't talk to her

0:17:07.080 --> 0:17:09.399
<v Speaker 1>after and she was confused, so we got him on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone and found out the reason that he didn't

0:17:12.040 --> 0:17:15.119
<v Speaker 1>call her back was because he is going through some

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<v Speaker 1>health issues and needs a kidney transplant and didn't want

0:17:18.040 --> 0:17:19.760
<v Speaker 1>to call her back because once she showed up, he's like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't put her through all this. Wow. And a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of people texting in at sevent eight five nine

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<v Speaker 1>two say they're in tears from the second day up

0:17:25.960 --> 0:17:28.840
<v Speaker 1>date today, we're so intensely Yeah. I went from like

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<v Speaker 1>zero to one hundred because I thought this guy's a player,

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<v Speaker 1>Like he's got a girl on the side. You're the reason.

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<v Speaker 1>You're like, oh no, did you see the text message

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<v Speaker 1>we got? This says my brother gave a girl a

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<v Speaker 1>kidney and now they have two kids and have been

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<v Speaker 1>married twelve years. Yeah, just even the text message makes

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<v Speaker 1>me weepy. Well, of course you'd stay with somebody like

0:17:47.840 --> 0:17:50.040
<v Speaker 1>that because arguments would be so awesome. You're like, dude,

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<v Speaker 1>take the trash out, I gave you a kidney, take

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<v Speaker 1>it the trash out let. Somebody text it in at

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<v Speaker 1>seven eight five nine two and says, can we get

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<v Speaker 1>back to the yelling and the screaming in the second day?

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<v Speaker 1>Just way too heavy for me today everyone everyone seems

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<v Speaker 1>to have dubbed them the kidney couple. Yeah, it is,

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<v Speaker 1>but it's also kind of sick. Yeah, I know. And

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<v Speaker 1>somebody texted in and said, are you really going to

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<v Speaker 1>send her to meet up with him so they can

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<v Speaker 1>talk about a kidney transplant? Because she said that she

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<v Speaker 1>would even be willing to give him a kidney if

0:18:19.480 --> 0:18:22.600
<v Speaker 1>she was a match. Wow, that's that's love right there.

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<v Speaker 1>And we often to fly her out there so they

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<v Speaker 1>could go on a date at least and hang out

0:18:27.200 --> 0:18:30.600
<v Speaker 1>and talk about it. And are you really going to

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<v Speaker 1>send her out there? No, we're not. We're just it's

0:18:32.440 --> 0:18:36.359
<v Speaker 1>all give cars to Applebe's and tell them to figure

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<v Speaker 1>it out. Of course we're gonna send her there. You'd

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<v Speaker 1>like to lead people on with promises of possible kidneys

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<v Speaker 1>and then rip it away. It's kind of our thing.

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<v Speaker 1>We're a wacky morning radio show. It's what we do.

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<v Speaker 1>So we'll send them out there, and everybody texting in

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<v Speaker 1>at seven, eight, five nine two says you have to

0:18:50.600 --> 0:18:52.400
<v Speaker 1>get an update from that couple. We need a second

0:18:52.480 --> 0:18:55.760
<v Speaker 1>date update update from them, and we will definitely try

0:18:55.760 --> 0:18:58.679
<v Speaker 1>to do that well. And I hope they continue to

0:18:58.720 --> 0:19:00.520
<v Speaker 1>like each other through it all, too, because like, what

0:19:00.600 --> 0:19:02.240
<v Speaker 1>if they are a match and he's like, oh, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>really just not into this, and then it's not he's

0:19:06.760 --> 0:19:08.480
<v Speaker 1>not not calling her back to protect her feelings. He

0:19:08.560 --> 0:19:09.840
<v Speaker 1>just like is calling her all the time to get

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<v Speaker 1>the kidney, and then after that, you're gonna