Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second date update. I'm honestly stumped as to
Speaker 1: why the woman on the phone for a second date
Speaker 1: update today isn't getting a call back. I mean, usually
Speaker 1: when you follow somebody across state lines, no big deal. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they usually appreciate that when you just show up unannounced
Speaker 1: somewhere right and now we're going to stalk the guy again,
Speaker 1: but yes we are second date. Her name is Abigail, Abigail,
Speaker 1: what's up? Hi, guys. Okay, he's already made you sound
Speaker 1: creepy right from the get go. I'm not a creepy
Speaker 1: and just a bit confused. Okay, sometimes there's a thin
Speaker 1: line between creepy and I've been a victim of that
Speaker 1: many times. You have a pretty interesting situation, Abigail, Why
Speaker 1: don't you tell everybody? First of all, the guy that
Speaker 1: you want to call? What's his name? Brian? Brian? And
Speaker 1: how did you meet Brian? Well, you know, I'm little
Speaker 1: leary on going on online dates and meeting guys on
Speaker 1: dating websites because they're usually either nuts, ugly or snelly
Speaker 1: or just not just not that it sounds like so
Speaker 1: many great options. I don't know why you're so upset
Speaker 1: about this, But you know I tried. I gave it
Speaker 1: a shot one more time, and I met Brian, and
Speaker 1: I gotta tell you that we hit it off immediately.
Speaker 1: It went from zero to sixty in virtually no time.
Speaker 1: So you liked his aroma. He had a good roma.
Speaker 1: I mean, for when I could smell over the phone,
Speaker 1: he was great. Oh say, you're saying it from zero
Speaker 1: to sixty before you guys even met in person, right,
Speaker 1: I mean, it was instant attraction via conversation. His profile
Speaker 1: picture looked great, and then I did a little more
Speaker 1: digging and found his Facebook profile and I realized it's
Speaker 1: really what he looks like. Huh, how did you get
Speaker 1: his tax returns? It sounds like you put in a
Speaker 1: lot of effort. Have I done a little more digging? Needy? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean that's a lot of pressure to put on
Speaker 1: a date when you've been disappointed so many times. Were
Speaker 1: you worried about that? I was, and that's why I
Speaker 1: did my due diligence and we talked for hours. I mean,
Speaker 1: there was nothing I couldn't discuss with him. We text
Speaker 1: me at least five times a day. How long was
Speaker 1: this going on before you guys actually decided to meet
Speaker 1: in person just about a month. Whoa, that's a long time.
Speaker 1: I really wanted to see him. But the thing was
Speaker 1: he lived two states away. Oh, so the whole logistics
Speaker 1: of meeting each other was really difficult. I see. I
Speaker 1: was going to say, like, what took so long? Did
Speaker 1: that make sense? But I thought we had kicked it
Speaker 1: off so well. I wanted to do a grand gesture
Speaker 1: of romance. And one night when we were chit chatting,
Speaker 1: he was telling me his best friend's birthday was that
Speaker 1: weekend and where they were going to be and what
Speaker 1: plans were, And I thought, wouldn't it be cool if
Speaker 1: I flew down and surprised him? Who for your first meeting?
Speaker 1: I mean, we had chatted for so long, this was
Speaker 1: inevitable that one of us is going to fly in
Speaker 1: to meet the other. But a surprise and just showing
Speaker 1: up as a whole different ball game if you don't
Speaker 1: know him that well yet. But it could I mean
Speaker 1: I could see where it could pay off, Like it
Speaker 1: could be amazing thing, or it could be really bad.
Speaker 1: So how was it when you saw him for the
Speaker 1: first time? I just started drooling. He was so gorgeous.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Wow, Well maybe that's why he's not
Speaker 1: calling you back. You just showed up randomly out of
Speaker 1: the blue with drool all over. It's a good boy.
Speaker 1: And how did he react? Was he drooling as well?
Speaker 1: Was it just a big spitfest? He was kind of
Speaker 1: taken aback. I basically came up behind him and tapped
Speaker 1: his shoulder, and he turned around and he got white
Speaker 1: as a ghost. He was shocked. Okay, wait said the scene.
Speaker 1: Where were you guys when you tapped him on the shoulder?
Speaker 1: Were you at the birthday party? Yeah? I showed up
Speaker 1: at the restaurant where the birthday party was. Whoa, that's
Speaker 1: a very bold move. Well, because I didn't know where
Speaker 1: he lives, so this is the only way I could
Speaker 1: get in contact. So what did he do? I mean,
Speaker 1: after he recovered from the initial shock, did he hug you?
Speaker 1: Did he kiss you? I mean the first thing he
Speaker 1: did was say, what are you doing here? And I
Speaker 1: told him I thought it'd be a really cool surprise
Speaker 1: to you know, shock you and be here, and thought
Speaker 1: it'd be really romantic. And then for most of the
Speaker 1: night I ended up speaking to his friends and not
Speaker 1: much to him. But you got to understand I mean,
Speaker 1: I knew he had to speak to other people who
Speaker 1: was his best friend's birthday, so I let it go.
Speaker 1: I figured, hey, that's what he has to do. So wait,
Speaker 1: hold on, like, how is he introducing you to his friends? Well,
Speaker 1: he really wasn't. I mean, one or two times that
Speaker 1: I'd bump into him, somebody would come up to him
Speaker 1: and say, oh, and you are, and he would say, oh,
Speaker 1: this is a friend of mine. Okay, okay, oh, And
Speaker 1: I thought, well, you know, it is really new. We
Speaker 1: haven't really told people about us. So I get it.
Speaker 1: He wanted to keep it on the down low. I
Speaker 1: get that. I'm starting to worry about you. I mean
Speaker 1: after the birthday party, what happened, Well, when we got
Speaker 1: to the end of the night, people started leaving, and
Speaker 1: it was basically he and I and his best friend.
Speaker 1: And I started talking to him and I said, well,
Speaker 1: I'm here now, and he said how long are you
Speaker 1: here for? And I thought that was odd that he
Speaker 1: would ask me when I'm leaving when we were just met.
Speaker 1: When I said to him, I'm here tomorrow, eve, maybe
Speaker 1: we can have lunch or brunch tomorrow and or maybe
Speaker 1: even right now, let's go for another drink or a
Speaker 1: cup of coffee, and he said he was really busy.
Speaker 1: He had a lot of commitments the next day, but
Speaker 1: I was like, okay, maybe you can spare an hour.
Speaker 1: I did fly all the way out here. He said,
Speaker 1: you know what, we'll set up date for when I
Speaker 1: can either fly out to you. Were you to fly
Speaker 1: out here again? Were you crushed? I was crushed until
Speaker 1: he said, let's see we can figure out a time
Speaker 1: to meet up again. Oh so I thought there was
Speaker 1: some hope there. No, you know, maybe he really was
Speaker 1: busy the next day. I don't know. You are so
Speaker 1: nice to this man. Well he's something special. How many
Speaker 1: times have you tried to get a hold of him
Speaker 1: since that weekend? It's been a week so far and
Speaker 1: I only heard from him once, and that also through texts,
Speaker 1: So it's not like it was before. Oh my gosh.
Speaker 1: And you're sure he's single right from what I understand.
Speaker 1: I didn't see any rings on his finger, and I
Speaker 1: see any other woman around. Okay, good, Okay, Well we'll
Speaker 1: play a song, come back call him, and then get
Speaker 1: your second date. Update. Okay, okay, all right, hang on
Speaker 1: looking jubil in the morning. Update If you're just tuning
Speaker 1: in for today's second date update. It's the kind of
Speaker 1: thing that movies are made about. Abigail's on the phone
Speaker 1: and Abigail met the man of her dreams online and
Speaker 1: they chatted back and forth every single day, every single
Speaker 1: night for weeks until Abigail decided to show up unannounced
Speaker 1: at a birthday party. She flew all the way there
Speaker 1: to surprise him, tapped him on the shoulder, and he
Speaker 1: turned around and she said, Abigail's home. Abigail, I think
Speaker 1: I've seen that movie before, but I don't think that's
Speaker 1: what that is. Sort of what happened. Abigail did surprise
Speaker 1: this dude that she'd been talking to online. They live
Speaker 1: in different states, and she actually showed up to a
Speaker 1: birthday party that he was at unannounced and was hoping
Speaker 1: that everything would go great. But when she got there
Speaker 1: and surprised him, he was kind of weird and sort
Speaker 1: of ignored her the rest of the night and they
Speaker 1: haven't really talked since. Abigail, Hi, sounds just like what
Speaker 1: you said, JU, I mean, very similar. I'm really not
Speaker 1: a stalker, I promise. Well. I have a whole different
Speaker 1: scenario in my head. Abigail Abigail, You're so sweet. It
Speaker 1: just makes me so angry because it sounds like you
Speaker 1: guys really connected and he really led you down this
Speaker 1: path and he's just a jerk. I don't know how
Speaker 1: else to say it. She didn't show up out of
Speaker 1: the blue, unannounced, like from states away. That could creep
Speaker 1: a guy out, but he was given her the wrong signals. Man.
Speaker 1: I really got the feeling that we had the connection,
Speaker 1: and he would have loved this romantic gesture. All right,
Speaker 1: well we'll find out. I'm a dala his phone of
Speaker 1: her right now and see if we can talk him
Speaker 1: and get your second day up date. Okay, okay, okay, Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Brian please? This is Brian. Here's
Speaker 1: this Hey, what's up? Man? How are you? This is
Speaker 1: Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Sor are
Speaker 1: you Jewbil from Brook and Jewbil in the Morning? Weird? Ways,
Speaker 1: I know it sounds weird. Yeah, I don't. I don't
Speaker 1: know what you're talking about, man, I figured you wouldn't.
Speaker 1: That's fine. Brook and Jewil in the Morning is a
Speaker 1: morning radio show. Okay, okay, and that's I'm calling you
Speaker 1: because one of our listeners actually asked us to reach
Speaker 1: out to you. All right, sure you got the hype, Brian,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm pretty sure I do. I'll check. Do you
Speaker 1: know a girl named Abigail? Yeah? Okay, well we know
Speaker 1: a girl named Abigail as well. And she's really confused
Speaker 1: because she thought you guys had a great relay and
Speaker 1: ship for a few weeks until she decided to just
Speaker 1: fly into town and surprise you. And she said you
Speaker 1: seem kind of cold to her, and now you haven't
Speaker 1: really talked to her since you can understand why that.
Speaker 1: She's going to like any length possible to get some
Speaker 1: sort of answer, Like if you put that much energy
Speaker 1: into seeing someone and then they suddenly shut down, Like,
Speaker 1: that's got to be really confusing. Let me get this straight.
Speaker 1: Then she had you guys to reach out to contact me.
Speaker 1: That's what you're selling me, yes, because you won't really
Speaker 1: give her an answer and you're kind of being cold.
Speaker 1: Thicket is this is crazy, man, It's not really that crazy.
Speaker 1: I mean, she just wants an answer. I just can't
Speaker 1: believe that she's doing all this just to get in
Speaker 1: touch with me. Yeah, but you guys wish you're like
Speaker 1: texting like five times a day for a whole month
Speaker 1: to nothing. Yeah, and she liked you a lot, Brian,
Speaker 1: and talking to you right now, I can understand why
Speaker 1: you seem like a sweet dude. Yeah, I normally am,
Speaker 1: but not when like radio shoes call me my personal life.
Speaker 1: We get that, we do. Can you just tell us
Speaker 1: anything at least we can talk to her and be like, oh,
Speaker 1: he just wasn't really feeling you when he saw you
Speaker 1: in person or something like that. Well, don't tell her that,
Speaker 1: because I mean that's not true. Really. Yeah, no, yeah,
Speaker 1: I actually I really do like her a lot. There's
Speaker 1: this stuff going on, and I just don't want to
Speaker 1: get into Oh, you're in a relationship. I knew it.
Speaker 1: I told her that. I told her that you're She
Speaker 1: swore she thought you were single. Yeah, I know, I'm
Speaker 1: definitely single. That's not it. Really. I thought what we
Speaker 1: had going on was good. I mean, I kind of like,
Speaker 1: I guess the distance aspect of it. And then for
Speaker 1: her to just randomly show up at a friend's birthday party,
Speaker 1: I'm not really expecting it at all. But why did
Speaker 1: you spend all night avoiding her? I mean, at some point,
Speaker 1: if you say that you really like her, Yeah. Well,
Speaker 1: I guess I just got too real for me having
Speaker 1: her right there, too real, Like you like talking to
Speaker 1: her online and on the phone, but to realize you
Speaker 1: could actually touch up her person. No, I mean it's
Speaker 1: not necessarily that. It's just there's other stuff. But I
Speaker 1: understand there's other stuff. But right now, all I understand
Speaker 1: is you like her a lot. It shocks you that
Speaker 1: she showed up, and then there's stuff like how is
Speaker 1: that a message to give to her to help her
Speaker 1: understand why you're not talking to her anymore? You know what, whatever,
Speaker 1: I don't I don't care anymore. I just I need
Speaker 1: a kidney transplant. Um whoa, whoa, Yeah, Oh that's serious. Yeah,
Speaker 1: way to take things down, Brian. You guys asked for it.
Speaker 1: Usually these things end up like, oh I thought they
Speaker 1: smelled funny or they puked in my back seat. Man,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to hear that. Yeah. Yeah. So is it
Speaker 1: just that you don't want to get involved in a
Speaker 1: relationship because you obviously have some serious health stuff that
Speaker 1: you need to concentrate on pretty much, you know, I
Speaker 1: just I don't want to drag her into this, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? I feel like this is kind
Speaker 1: of battle right now. By her showing up, I realized,
Speaker 1: you know, that she really does like me a lot,
Speaker 1: and I'm just not wanting her to be that close
Speaker 1: to being around all this like stuff going on. Oh,
Speaker 1: I feel so horrible. I thought these awful things about you,
Speaker 1: and now yeah, look at you, Brooks. Seriously, dude, I
Speaker 1: am sorry. It's all good. It's it's not a big deal.
Speaker 1: I guess. So did you not tell her about your
Speaker 1: situation when you guys were chatting online and on the
Speaker 1: phone and stuff. No, you know, I didn't want to
Speaker 1: tell her this, you know what I mean, Like, that's
Speaker 1: like we kept it from a distance, so you know,
Speaker 1: we can keep it upbeat and I have to kind
Speaker 1: of like talk about all this stuff. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: I just I really just enjoyed her conversation. And sometimes,
Speaker 1: you know, when there's a lot of bad stuff going
Speaker 1: on in your life, to have somebody there to kind
Speaker 1: of just talk to you and you know, just kind
Speaker 1: of laugh with and stuff like that, it kind of
Speaker 1: brings you up. So I didn't want to like kind
Speaker 1: of bring her down by the transplant. Yeah, and you're
Speaker 1: able to escape your own stuff too, you know, Brian,
Speaker 1: You're You're kind of making this difficult on me because
Speaker 1: this would normally be the point where I'd try to
Speaker 1: deliver a witty line and then tell you that the
Speaker 1: person is on the other line listening to the conversation.
Speaker 1: But I don't have any witty lines, so I'm just
Speaker 1: going to connect you too so you can talk. Okay,
Speaker 1: Wait she on another line now? Or what do you
Speaker 1: mean by connect us? Yeah, she's listening to this phone
Speaker 1: call and wants to talk to you. Oh my god, man,
Speaker 1: are you kidding it? Like I just I didn't even
Speaker 1: want her to know. Yes, Unfortunately she does know, now, Abigail,
Speaker 1: are you there? Hi? Brian? Hey, Sorry, I didn't really
Speaker 1: want you to find out this way. No, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I don't even know what to say. I'm sorry. I'm
Speaker 1: sure you don't mean you don't have to say anything.
Speaker 1: I mean I know that I didn't tell you, so
Speaker 1: there's no way you could have known. It's just I
Speaker 1: don't know. I didn't know how connected I was going
Speaker 1: to get with you, and then I just, I guess
Speaker 1: I got worried about actually telling you. So, but I
Speaker 1: want you to know something. I care about you more
Speaker 1: than you can imagine. I'm here. If you want to talk,
Speaker 1: I'm here. If you mean to make you laugh, I'm
Speaker 1: there for you. I really appreciate that because, I mean,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I got scared once you got down
Speaker 1: there and you know, actually seeing you, and it made
Speaker 1: it seem too real, and I just, I guess I
Speaker 1: pushed you away a little bit and didn't want to,
Speaker 1: you know, get too close. Listen, get close if you
Speaker 1: need me to do anything or help you, or just
Speaker 1: put a smile on your face whenever you need me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I just You're such a sweet person. I don't want
Speaker 1: you to get all caught up in this and then
Speaker 1: something good wrong. Right now, I'm on a waiting list.
Speaker 1: I'm not you know, there's no guarantee of when I'm
Speaker 1: gonna be able to give the transplant. And honestly, Abigail,
Speaker 1: I really care about you and I really want to,
Speaker 1: you know, keep you in my life. And at the
Speaker 1: same time, because I care about you so much, I
Speaker 1: feel like I can't. I don't know. I'm just really
Speaker 1: torn right now. I mean, I'm willing to take a
Speaker 1: blood chest. Is there anyway meaning I'm compatible in some way?
Speaker 1: You know, I don't want you to do that, affygel
Speaker 1: I really listen. This is this is about kindness. This
Speaker 1: is the reason why I was put in your life.
Speaker 1: The chances chances are so slim that that's even possible.
Speaker 1: I don't have to go through with that, but Brian,
Speaker 1: there's always a chance. It may be slim, but it's
Speaker 1: still there. Yeah, But it's just I can't. I can't
Speaker 1: think about you actually giving up your kidney for me.
Speaker 1: I can't think about you doing that. I don't. I
Speaker 1: don't want it to happen. Well, I got too, so
Speaker 1: I give one up. It's like a spare time. Wow.
Speaker 1: I don't even know what to say. At least give
Speaker 1: me the chance or the opportunity to look into this.
Speaker 1: Consider it. You have to consider it, Brian. How about this?
Speaker 1: How about we send Abigail out to you and you
Speaker 1: guys can spend the weekend together. You can hang out,
Speaker 1: you can go on a few dates, and you can
Speaker 1: even discuss a possible kidney transplant in the second date
Speaker 1: update before. But I'm saying it so I can't believe
Speaker 1: it's actually happen right now. Oh my god, we've interested
Speaker 1: in that, just checking things out. Um, I don't know
Speaker 1: about the whole kidding. Transplant by the date would be awesome.
Speaker 1: I would I would love to go on a date. Yes, Okay,
Speaker 1: so that's it? Yes, yeah, definitely, Yeah, I'm happy to
Speaker 1: Oh me too. I'm really excited that I'll Actually this
Speaker 1: has been a really weird second date update. Normally it's
Speaker 1: the dude who's begging to put his organ in a
Speaker 1: woman into I couldn't help it. In the morning, a
Speaker 1: text in at seven, eight, five to nine too says
Speaker 1: I was not prepared for those feels this morning. Thanks
Speaker 1: a lot, guys, too much feels. Talking about today's second
Speaker 1: day update. It's broken jewil in the morning and if
Speaker 1: you missed it, Brian and Abigail. Abigail met Brian online
Speaker 1: and they talked for a long time, like a month,
Speaker 1: and then she decided to surprise him because he lived
Speaker 1: in a different state. She actually showed up to a
Speaker 1: party that he was at and he was kind of
Speaker 1: cold and weird, and then he didn't talk to her
Speaker 1: after and she was confused, so we got him on
Speaker 1: the phone and found out the reason that he didn't
Speaker 1: call her back was because he is going through some
Speaker 1: health issues and needs a kidney transplant and didn't want
Speaker 1: to call her back because once she showed up, he's like,
Speaker 1: I can't put her through all this. Wow. And a
Speaker 1: lot of people texting in at sevent eight five nine
Speaker 1: two say they're in tears from the second day up
Speaker 1: date today, we're so intensely Yeah. I went from like
Speaker 1: zero to one hundred because I thought this guy's a player,
Speaker 1: Like he's got a girl on the side. You're the reason.
Speaker 1: You're like, oh no, did you see the text message
Speaker 1: we got? This says my brother gave a girl a
Speaker 1: kidney and now they have two kids and have been
Speaker 1: married twelve years. Yeah, just even the text message makes
Speaker 1: me weepy. Well, of course you'd stay with somebody like
Speaker 1: that because arguments would be so awesome. You're like, dude,
Speaker 1: take the trash out, I gave you a kidney, take
Speaker 1: it the trash out let. Somebody text it in at
Speaker 1: seven eight five nine two and says, can we get
Speaker 1: back to the yelling and the screaming in the second day?
Speaker 1: Just way too heavy for me today everyone everyone seems
Speaker 1: to have dubbed them the kidney couple. Yeah, it is,
Speaker 1: but it's also kind of sick. Yeah, I know. And
Speaker 1: somebody texted in and said, are you really going to
Speaker 1: send her to meet up with him so they can
Speaker 1: talk about a kidney transplant? Because she said that she
Speaker 1: would even be willing to give him a kidney if
Speaker 1: she was a match. Wow, that's that's love right there.
Speaker 1: And we often to fly her out there so they
Speaker 1: could go on a date at least and hang out
Speaker 1: and talk about it. And are you really going to
Speaker 1: send her out there? No, we're not. We're just it's
Speaker 1: all give cars to Applebe's and tell them to figure
Speaker 1: it out. Of course we're gonna send her there. You'd
Speaker 1: like to lead people on with promises of possible kidneys
Speaker 1: and then rip it away. It's kind of our thing.
Speaker 1: We're a wacky morning radio show. It's what we do.
Speaker 1: So we'll send them out there, and everybody texting in
Speaker 1: at seven, eight, five nine two says you have to
Speaker 1: get an update from that couple. We need a second
Speaker 1: date update update from them, and we will definitely try
Speaker 1: to do that well. And I hope they continue to
Speaker 1: like each other through it all, too, because like, what
Speaker 1: if they are a match and he's like, oh, I'm
Speaker 1: really just not into this, and then it's not he's
Speaker 1: not not calling her back to protect her feelings. He
Speaker 1: just like is calling her all the time to get
Speaker 1: the kidney, and then after that, you're gonna