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Speaker 1: Rooking Jewels. Second date update. I'm honestly stumped as to

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Speaker 1: why the woman on the phone for a second date

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Speaker 1: update today isn't getting a call back. I mean, usually

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Speaker 1: when you follow somebody across state lines, no big deal. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they usually appreciate that when you just show up unannounced

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Speaker 1: somewhere right and now we're going to stalk the guy again,

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Speaker 1: but yes we are second date. Her name is Abigail, Abigail,

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Speaker 1: what's up? Hi, guys. Okay, he's already made you sound

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Speaker 1: creepy right from the get go. I'm not a creepy

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Speaker 1: and just a bit confused. Okay, sometimes there's a thin

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Speaker 1: line between creepy and I've been a victim of that

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Speaker 1: many times. You have a pretty interesting situation, Abigail, Why

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Speaker 1: don't you tell everybody? First of all, the guy that

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Speaker 1: you want to call? What's his name? Brian? Brian? And

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Speaker 1: how did you meet Brian? Well, you know, I'm little

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Speaker 1: leary on going on online dates and meeting guys on

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Speaker 1: dating websites because they're usually either nuts, ugly or snelly

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Speaker 1: or just not just not that it sounds like so

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Speaker 1: many great options. I don't know why you're so upset

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Speaker 1: about this, But you know I tried. I gave it

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Speaker 1: a shot one more time, and I met Brian, and

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Speaker 1: I gotta tell you that we hit it off immediately.

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Speaker 1: It went from zero to sixty in virtually no time.

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Speaker 1: So you liked his aroma. He had a good roma.

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Speaker 1: I mean, for when I could smell over the phone,

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Speaker 1: he was great. Oh say, you're saying it from zero

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Speaker 1: to sixty before you guys even met in person, right,

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Speaker 1: I mean, it was instant attraction via conversation. His profile

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Speaker 1: picture looked great, and then I did a little more

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Speaker 1: digging and found his Facebook profile and I realized it's

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Speaker 1: really what he looks like. Huh, how did you get

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Speaker 1: his tax returns? It sounds like you put in a

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Speaker 1: lot of effort. Have I done a little more digging? Needy? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean that's a lot of pressure to put on

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Speaker 1: a date when you've been disappointed so many times. Were

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Speaker 1: you worried about that? I was, and that's why I

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Speaker 1: did my due diligence and we talked for hours. I mean,

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Speaker 1: there was nothing I couldn't discuss with him. We text

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Speaker 1: me at least five times a day. How long was

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Speaker 1: this going on before you guys actually decided to meet

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Speaker 1: in person just about a month. Whoa, that's a long time.

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Speaker 1: I really wanted to see him. But the thing was

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Speaker 1: he lived two states away. Oh, so the whole logistics

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Speaker 1: of meeting each other was really difficult. I see. I

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Speaker 1: was going to say, like, what took so long? Did

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Speaker 1: that make sense? But I thought we had kicked it

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Speaker 1: off so well. I wanted to do a grand gesture

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Speaker 1: of romance. And one night when we were chit chatting,

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Speaker 1: he was telling me his best friend's birthday was that

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Speaker 1: weekend and where they were going to be and what

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Speaker 1: plans were, And I thought, wouldn't it be cool if

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Speaker 1: I flew down and surprised him? Who for your first meeting?

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Speaker 1: I mean, we had chatted for so long, this was

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Speaker 1: inevitable that one of us is going to fly in

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Speaker 1: to meet the other. But a surprise and just showing

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Speaker 1: up as a whole different ball game if you don't

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Speaker 1: know him that well yet. But it could I mean

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Speaker 1: I could see where it could pay off, Like it

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Speaker 1: could be amazing thing, or it could be really bad.

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Speaker 1: So how was it when you saw him for the

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Speaker 1: first time? I just started drooling. He was so gorgeous.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Wow, Well maybe that's why he's not

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Speaker 1: calling you back. You just showed up randomly out of

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Speaker 1: the blue with drool all over. It's a good boy.

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Speaker 1: And how did he react? Was he drooling as well?

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Speaker 1: Was it just a big spitfest? He was kind of

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Speaker 1: taken aback. I basically came up behind him and tapped

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Speaker 1: as a ghost. He was shocked. Okay, wait said the scene.

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Speaker 1: Where were you guys when you tapped him on the shoulder?

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Speaker 1: Were you at the birthday party? Yeah? I showed up

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Speaker 1: at the restaurant where the birthday party was. Whoa, that's

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Speaker 1: a very bold move. Well, because I didn't know where

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Speaker 1: get in contact. So what did he do? I mean,

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Speaker 1: after he recovered from the initial shock, did he hug you?

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Speaker 1: hold on, like, how is he introducing you to his friends? Well,

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Speaker 1: he really wasn't. I mean, one or two times that

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Speaker 1: I thought, well, you know, it is really new. We

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Speaker 1: He wanted to keep it on the down low. I

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Speaker 1: after the birthday party, what happened, Well, when we got

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Speaker 1: And I started talking to him and I said, well,

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Speaker 1: When I said to him, I'm here tomorrow, eve, maybe

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Speaker 1: even right now, let's go for another drink or a

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Speaker 1: He had a lot of commitments the next day, but

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Speaker 1: I was like, okay, maybe you can spare an hour.

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Speaker 1: you know what, we'll set up date for when I

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Speaker 1: can either fly out to you. Were you to fly

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Speaker 1: out here again? Were you crushed? I was crushed until

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Speaker 1: he said, let's see we can figure out a time

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Speaker 1: nice to this man. Well he's something special. How many

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Speaker 1: So it's not like it was before. Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 1: And you're sure he's single right from what I understand.

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Speaker 1: I didn't see any rings on his finger, and I

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Speaker 1: your second date. Update. Okay, okay, all right, hang on

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Speaker 1: in for today's second date update. It's the kind of

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Speaker 1: they chatted back and forth every single day, every single

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Speaker 1: turned around and she said, Abigail's home. Abigail, I think

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Speaker 1: I've seen that movie before, but I don't think that's

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Speaker 1: a stalker, I promise. Well. I have a whole different

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Speaker 1: scenario in my head. Abigail Abigail, You're so sweet. It

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Speaker 1: I really got the feeling that we had the connection,

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Speaker 1: well we'll find out. I'm a dala his phone of

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Speaker 1: can I speak to Brian please? This is Brian. Here's

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Speaker 1: this Hey, what's up? Man? How are you? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewel from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Sor are

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Speaker 1: you Jewbil from Brook and Jewbil in the Morning? Weird? Ways,

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Speaker 1: I know it sounds weird. Yeah, I don't. I don't

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Speaker 1: That's fine. Brook and Jewil in the Morning is a

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Speaker 1: That's what you're selling me, yes, because you won't really

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Speaker 1: I mean, she just wants an answer. I just can't

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Speaker 1: texting like five times a day for a whole month

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Speaker 1: and talking to you right now, I can understand why

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Speaker 1: but not when like radio shoes call me my personal life.

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Speaker 1: We get that, we do. Can you just tell us

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Speaker 1: anything at least we can talk to her and be like, oh,

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Speaker 1: he just wasn't really feeling you when he saw you

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Speaker 1: I told her that. I told her that you're She

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Speaker 1: I guess the distance aspect of it. And then for

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Speaker 1: I'm not really expecting it at all. But why did

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