1 00:00:03,400 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 1: Welcome to Before Breakfast, a production of I Heart Radio. 2 00:00:09,240 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: Good Morning. This is Laura, Welcome to the Before Breakfast podcast. 3 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 1: Today's tip is that not all messes in complexity have 4 00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:25,040 Speaker 1: to be dealt with. Sometimes you can just sweep it 5 00:00:25,120 --> 00:00:30,080 Speaker 1: under the rug. I recently recorded some time makeover videos 6 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:33,040 Speaker 1: to illustrate the nine time rules in my forthcoming book, 7 00:00:33,240 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: Tranquility by Tuesday. Most of the video was filmed in 8 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 1: readers homes, but we also filmed in my kitchen, which 9 00:00:40,680 --> 00:00:44,400 Speaker 1: is command central from my family of seven. You can 10 00:00:44,440 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: imagine what my kitchen looks like on a typical Thursday. 11 00:00:47,960 --> 00:00:50,440 Speaker 1: Even if we are on top of the dishes, we 12 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:54,520 Speaker 1: wind up with stuff on the counter, random toys, mail, 13 00:00:54,880 --> 00:00:58,560 Speaker 1: and people's art supplies. So what did I do before 14 00:00:58,600 --> 00:01:02,440 Speaker 1: the Tranquility by Tuesday film crew arrived. I moved the 15 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 1: random stuff to a pile by the stairs and put 16 00:01:05,360 --> 00:01:10,080 Speaker 1: a wooden crate of papers and old magazines in the pantry. Miraculously, 17 00:01:10,400 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: the counter was now clear, perfect for video. As we've 18 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:17,440 Speaker 1: needed things, we've dug them out, and yes, the mail 19 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:22,240 Speaker 1: pile has re established itself it always does, but when needed, 20 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:27,280 Speaker 1: everything was out of sight. There's a saying that you 21 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:30,679 Speaker 1: can't just sweep it under the rug. Presumably you should 22 00:01:30,720 --> 00:01:33,920 Speaker 1: sweep messes into a dustpan and empty the dustpan into 23 00:01:33,959 --> 00:01:39,200 Speaker 1: the trash instead, And that's generally a good idea literally 24 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:44,760 Speaker 1: and metaphorically. If you have a significant conflict with your spouse, 25 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: if your finances are in disarray, if you're dealing with 26 00:01:49,080 --> 00:01:53,080 Speaker 1: the aftermath of a traumatic experience, you probably need to 27 00:01:53,120 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 1: deal with the issue thoroughly, get to the bottom of it, 28 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 1: understand it, work through it. Some physical complexity needs to 29 00:02:02,360 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 1: be dealt with systematically too. If your attic is such 30 00:02:05,880 --> 00:02:08,280 Speaker 1: a disaster that you re buy things that you know 31 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:12,320 Speaker 1: you have stored, you should probably clean it out. If 32 00:02:12,360 --> 00:02:14,480 Speaker 1: you have stacks of paper on your desk and you 33 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:17,239 Speaker 1: can't get your work done because you're unable to find 34 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 1: the materials you need, you would make your life better 35 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: by getting organized, but sometimes that is just not necessary. 36 00:02:26,960 --> 00:02:29,600 Speaker 1: Sometimes you can deal with a mess by sweeping it 37 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:33,880 Speaker 1: under the rug, like my ten minute kitchen cleaning. Sometimes 38 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:37,880 Speaker 1: getting disorder out of sight is really all you need. 39 00:02:39,240 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: Maybe your desktop is covered with downloaded files and documents 40 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:44,760 Speaker 1: you're working on that you intend to deal with but 41 00:02:45,120 --> 00:02:48,760 Speaker 1: never get around to. No worries if you need to 42 00:02:48,800 --> 00:02:51,520 Speaker 1: screen share during a video conference, just drag all the 43 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:54,760 Speaker 1: files into a folder labeled desktop and you're good to go. 44 00:02:56,040 --> 00:02:59,440 Speaker 1: Your kids scattered toys all around your living room really 45 00:02:59,480 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 1: don't have to be neatly organized every night. That is 46 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:05,960 Speaker 1: truly a waste of time, as they are just going 47 00:03:06,040 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 1: to come out again the next morning. So if you 48 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,960 Speaker 1: value the place looking orderly, just throw all the toys 49 00:03:12,000 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 1: into a basket in the corner for your kids to 50 00:03:13,919 --> 00:03:17,880 Speaker 1: find another day. Better yet, have them throw them in there. 51 00:03:18,880 --> 00:03:21,359 Speaker 1: Perhaps you can sort through the basket once or twice 52 00:03:21,360 --> 00:03:25,880 Speaker 1: a year to give away anything they've outgrown. That's enough. 53 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:30,320 Speaker 1: All the documentation for your taxes can just go in 54 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:33,560 Speaker 1: a file. If you have the data in a spreadsheet, 55 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:37,920 Speaker 1: it doesn't really matter if the paper documentation is organized. 56 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:41,680 Speaker 1: If you do need to produce the documentation in the future, 57 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 1: you can dig through the file to access the documents 58 00:03:44,880 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 1: you need. Otherwise, what matters is that you have the documents, 59 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:54,920 Speaker 1: not that they're perfectly organized. Before you spend a lot 60 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:59,720 Speaker 1: of time organizing, think through whether the organization is necessary. 61 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 1: Sometimes you really can get a mess out of sight 62 00:04:03,000 --> 00:04:05,880 Speaker 1: and put it out of mind and save your time 63 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:11,480 Speaker 1: for more important things in the meantime. This is Laura. 64 00:04:12,360 --> 00:04:16,560 Speaker 1: Thanks for listening and here's to making the most of 65 00:04:16,560 --> 00:04:25,839 Speaker 1: our times. Hey, everybody, I'd love to hear from you. 66 00:04:25,839 --> 00:04:28,720 Speaker 1: You can send me your tips, your questions, or anything else. 67 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: Just connect with me on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram at 68 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:38,640 Speaker 1: Before Breakfast pod. That's B the number four, then breakfast 69 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,760 Speaker 1: p o D. 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