1 00:00:01,000 --> 00:00:01,680 Speaker 1: You can't. 2 00:00:03,160 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 2: Confession. I can't take back earl arms. 3 00:00:08,520 --> 00:00:10,720 Speaker 1: Little mouse Speak. 4 00:00:11,440 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 3: Text to seven eighty five ninety two says I dumped 5 00:00:13,680 --> 00:00:16,120 Speaker 3: a guy once because he would always set the volume 6 00:00:16,160 --> 00:00:19,800 Speaker 3: on our TV to odd numbers like twenty three, and 7 00:00:19,840 --> 00:00:22,239 Speaker 3: it drove me crazy. 8 00:00:22,280 --> 00:00:23,800 Speaker 2: Oh that was it. 9 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:27,360 Speaker 3: I'm with this girl. What a monster that she was dating. 10 00:00:27,400 --> 00:00:27,640 Speaker 2: I am. 11 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 3: I am glad that you dodged that bullet girl. 12 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:31,760 Speaker 2: I'm an odd number type of lady. 13 00:00:32,080 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I bet you set your alarm to seven 14 00:00:34,680 --> 00:00:36,080 Speaker 3: to eleven instead of seventy ten. 15 00:00:36,159 --> 00:00:37,480 Speaker 2: Don't actually my favorite number? 16 00:00:37,560 --> 00:00:41,920 Speaker 3: Oh wow, nightmare. Luckily, there is one place where you're 17 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:44,880 Speaker 3: safe from all the bad things and the bad relationships 18 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:47,559 Speaker 3: that you've been in. Here bad numbers, that's right, it's 19 00:00:47,640 --> 00:00:49,839 Speaker 3: right here on the mass speaker where we protect your 20 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 3: identity so you can safely give us the dirt and 21 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:57,960 Speaker 3: we suck that dirt up like hungry little roombus. And 22 00:00:57,960 --> 00:00:59,760 Speaker 3: we got a woman ready to lay down some dirt. 23 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:04,280 Speaker 3: It's for us today. She's chosen Becky as her fake name. Becky. 24 00:01:04,640 --> 00:01:05,440 Speaker 3: Welcome to the show. 25 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:08,119 Speaker 1: Hi, how are you guys? 26 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:10,120 Speaker 2: After hearing the headspace, Jeff, is it? 27 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:12,600 Speaker 3: Are you sure you want to continue with this call. 28 00:01:13,360 --> 00:01:15,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, I really need to get this off my chest. 29 00:01:15,560 --> 00:01:17,319 Speaker 1: I've been holding it in for so long. 30 00:01:17,520 --> 00:01:20,319 Speaker 3: Dust bins are empty. We are ready for you to 31 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:23,600 Speaker 3: drop your knowledge. Voice changer is on. You're the mass speaker. 32 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:24,920 Speaker 3: Let's hear your confession. 33 00:01:25,840 --> 00:01:29,240 Speaker 1: Okay, So not too long ago, I was dating this 34 00:01:29,319 --> 00:01:32,560 Speaker 1: guy and there was this girl in his office who 35 00:01:32,680 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 1: clearly had a big crush on him. And she was 36 00:01:36,640 --> 00:01:39,679 Speaker 1: always funny if she used just to hang around, she 37 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,280 Speaker 1: was real flirty, like even in front of me. You know. 38 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:46,800 Speaker 1: She'd do it at work function, happy hours, and she 39 00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: would find reasons to text him all time of day 40 00:01:50,520 --> 00:01:52,600 Speaker 1: at night, like late at night when he and I 41 00:01:52,680 --> 00:01:53,600 Speaker 1: were hanging out. 42 00:01:53,880 --> 00:01:58,160 Speaker 3: Okay, okay, was she texting him work questions or was 43 00:01:58,200 --> 00:01:59,919 Speaker 3: it more like personal stuff? 44 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: Come well, I didn't look at his phone. I just 45 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:05,720 Speaker 1: brought it up to him and I said, this is 46 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:11,520 Speaker 1: really making me uncomfortable. This girl clearly has feelings for you, 47 00:02:11,639 --> 00:02:14,880 Speaker 1: and I really don't think it's cool that you text 48 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:17,080 Speaker 1: her back all the time if it's not about work. 49 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:19,440 Speaker 1: And he's like, well, it is about work, so don't 50 00:02:19,440 --> 00:02:20,240 Speaker 1: worry about it. 51 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 2: Oh Okay. It sounds like from the way you toned 52 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:25,360 Speaker 2: that that you didn't like that response. 53 00:02:26,760 --> 00:02:28,760 Speaker 1: Two things you don't tell a woman, don't worry about 54 00:02:28,760 --> 00:02:29,720 Speaker 1: it and calm down. 55 00:02:29,919 --> 00:02:32,840 Speaker 2: Yeah, yes, I like it when you say that to 56 00:02:32,880 --> 00:02:34,440 Speaker 2: them though. Yeah. Men love that. 57 00:02:35,360 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they love to not worry about anything. 58 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:40,880 Speaker 3: Ever, I'm with you, Becky. Now just calm down and 59 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 3: continue the story. Okay, all right, we made it work. 60 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 1: So as I was suggesting to him, maybe you should 61 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:54,040 Speaker 1: set some work boundaries, like you don't text her after 62 00:02:54,080 --> 00:02:59,519 Speaker 1: a certain hour, you let her know. So he's like, yeah, yeah, okay, okay, okay. 63 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: So we're at this work function and I thought she 64 00:03:04,120 --> 00:03:07,000 Speaker 1: was thinking I left the room because she had her 65 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:12,640 Speaker 1: hands all over him. She's closing up next to him. Yeah, 66 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:15,320 Speaker 1: like Blake, hits okay. 67 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 2: So now we got to be placing some blame on 68 00:03:17,240 --> 00:03:17,799 Speaker 2: the boyfriend. 69 00:03:19,880 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 3: Yeah, because it can't. It can't fully be on you 70 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 3: to have to go up and make a scene with 71 00:03:24,360 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 3: the girl or make a scene with your boyfriend. Yeah, 72 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 3: you're across in the boundary on my girlfriend's here. Wait 73 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:36,120 Speaker 3: till she's not in the building and we're at I mean, 74 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:36,800 Speaker 3: what do you do? 75 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:40,760 Speaker 1: So I went over to them, and I pulled her 76 00:03:40,800 --> 00:03:45,240 Speaker 1: aside okay, and I was like, hey, listen, obviously you 77 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:48,640 Speaker 1: have a thing for my boyfriend, but the things you're 78 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:52,240 Speaker 1: doing are really disrespectful to me and to our relationship, 79 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: so please just cut it out. 80 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:57,600 Speaker 2: Yeah, and I'm sure any woman who's hitting on another 81 00:03:57,640 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 2: person's boyfriend is going to be reasonable understand. 82 00:04:01,560 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 1: If they're a decent person. Right. She was like, you 83 00:04:06,080 --> 00:04:08,760 Speaker 1: think I have a thing for him, he has a 84 00:04:08,800 --> 00:04:16,640 Speaker 1: thing for me. So I pulled him outside calm me 85 00:04:16,720 --> 00:04:19,080 Speaker 1: in the hallway, and I was like, hey, here's what 86 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:20,640 Speaker 1: this chick just said to me. 87 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:25,159 Speaker 2: Okay, dude, I bet all the coworkers over hearing this 88 00:04:25,240 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 2: are like, there's so much deeds for the office. 89 00:04:27,880 --> 00:04:30,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I hope nobody over heard. It was so 90 00:04:30,200 --> 00:04:33,680 Speaker 1: embarrassing you guys. But when I told him what she said, 91 00:04:33,960 --> 00:04:38,000 Speaker 1: he kind of froze and he was like, well, I 92 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:42,480 Speaker 1: guess that's kind of true. Oh yeah, I'm like, what 93 00:04:42,800 --> 00:04:43,920 Speaker 1: the actual. 94 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:47,640 Speaker 3: I can't believe he said that to you. 95 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:51,880 Speaker 2: I mean, if your voice got that loud with us 96 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:56,080 Speaker 2: right now, I'm pretty sure other coworkers definitely. Yeah. 97 00:04:56,120 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 1: At that point, I just went off. But he was like, 98 00:04:58,960 --> 00:05:00,840 Speaker 1: I've been trying to figure we had a good time 99 00:05:00,880 --> 00:05:05,479 Speaker 1: to break up with you. Wow, I mean, what's this? 100 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:08,200 Speaker 2: Why are you like on the mass speaker though, like 101 00:05:08,279 --> 00:05:12,040 Speaker 2: this guy sucks, but like, are you still with him? No? 102 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 1: I'm not. I just noticed recently they got engaged. 103 00:05:18,760 --> 00:05:19,839 Speaker 2: So what's the confession? 104 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 3: Though? 105 00:05:20,880 --> 00:05:23,840 Speaker 1: It's just humiliating you got Wow. 106 00:05:24,440 --> 00:05:26,280 Speaker 3: I understand why you why you might be a little 107 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:29,080 Speaker 3: bit embarrassed about that story not want to tell people 108 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:30,760 Speaker 3: that you were dumped at a work function out of 109 00:05:30,760 --> 00:05:33,320 Speaker 3: sizzlers like that. 110 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:37,480 Speaker 2: I don't think you should be embarrassed. We've all been dumble. 111 00:05:37,560 --> 00:05:38,600 Speaker 3: You shouldn't be embarrassed. 112 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:41,680 Speaker 2: You did nothing wrong, You handled it very well. 113 00:05:41,680 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: It's embarrassing for him he got caught cheating in front 114 00:05:43,720 --> 00:05:44,560 Speaker 1: of all his coworkers. 115 00:05:45,560 --> 00:05:47,240 Speaker 2: Guaranteed that's still being talked about. 116 00:05:47,360 --> 00:05:51,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what, you're probably right, Yeah, that's not 117 00:05:51,000 --> 00:05:54,880 Speaker 1: going away in that work life. Would you ever want 118 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:57,239 Speaker 1: to marry somebody you worked with like I would? 119 00:05:57,240 --> 00:06:02,640 Speaker 3: Not? Well, in our industry, it's like common and they're not. 120 00:06:03,440 --> 00:06:04,520 Speaker 2: You got divorced years ago. 121 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:12,120 Speaker 3: I think you're actually in a better place. And what 122 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:14,799 Speaker 3: Brooke wants to say to you is just don't worry 123 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 3: about it. Calm down, You're fine. 124 00:06:17,040 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 1: Okay, Brooke would never say. 125 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:24,560 Speaker 3: That, but thank you for coming on the show, Becky 126 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:25,800 Speaker 3: and getting that out in the open. 127 00:06:26,320 --> 00:06:28,440 Speaker 1: Thank you. You know what. It feels really really good 128 00:06:28,560 --> 00:06:31,520 Speaker 1: just to tell somebody about this jerk and get it 129 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:32,280 Speaker 1: off my chest. 130 00:06:32,360 --> 00:06:34,520 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I love it. I think you could tell 131 00:06:34,560 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 2: anybody that story. It's really not humiliation. 132 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 3: You can text into seven eight five nine too, if 133 00:06:42,120 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 3: you have a confession you've been holding on to. Will 134 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:45,920 Speaker 3: hide your identity, mask your voice, and make you our 135 00:06:46,000 --> 00:06:48,719 Speaker 3: next mass speaker. Your phone TAP's coming up right after this.