1 00:00:00,760 --> 00:00:03,720 Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya Red and I 2 00:00:03,880 --> 00:00:12,200 Speaker 1: Heart Radio podcast. Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in and 3 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:16,960 Speaker 1: we're together but not together. But we're on the podcast 4 00:00:17,000 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 1: again together. No, but it doesn't feel the same. I 5 00:00:20,440 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: know it's not the same. But we haven't been on 6 00:00:22,560 --> 00:00:26,000 Speaker 1: the podcast together in three weeks and way too long. 7 00:00:26,640 --> 00:00:29,080 Speaker 1: It feels like I feel like I've been gone for months. 8 00:00:29,080 --> 00:00:31,040 Speaker 1: It's been two weeks, which just was like time. It 9 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,360 Speaker 1: feels like you've been gone for forever. And also I 10 00:00:33,360 --> 00:00:35,239 Speaker 1: don't know if you know this, but like I did 11 00:00:35,240 --> 00:00:38,720 Speaker 1: a whole manifestation like coaching session while you were gone, 12 00:00:38,720 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 1: and I'm a totally different Tanya. Now when did you 13 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:47,440 Speaker 1: do that? I did it? Um August. Uh the date 14 00:00:47,560 --> 00:00:50,600 Speaker 1: escapes me, but a few weeks ago. Yeah, I was 15 00:00:50,680 --> 00:00:54,120 Speaker 1: still here when you did that. Yes, you were okay, 16 00:00:54,560 --> 00:00:57,120 Speaker 1: I thought you were acting like that was I have 17 00:00:57,320 --> 00:01:00,200 Speaker 1: We have talked about this, so yeah, I don't do Tan, 18 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: Mark can vouch for this, Tan. This is like Tanya 19 00:01:05,400 --> 00:01:09,520 Speaker 1: five point oh by this point, you mean it's like 20 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:11,680 Speaker 1: I can't keep up with me, you know, I just 21 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:15,479 Speaker 1: keep growing and evolving and changing and just in some 22 00:01:15,480 --> 00:01:19,639 Speaker 1: ways it's Tania thirty five point Oh yeah, because Tanya 23 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:21,479 Speaker 1: when she was seven, it was different than Tanya when 24 00:01:21,480 --> 00:01:26,680 Speaker 1: she was six. Exact Tanya has always Tanya has always said, like, 25 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:29,600 Speaker 1: I'm talkinga two point oh, but we're way past two 26 00:01:29,600 --> 00:01:34,520 Speaker 1: point Oh, we're way past Yeah, so you're acknowledging my growth. Yeah, 27 00:01:34,560 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 1: I just wanted to say we are. I don't know 28 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:39,680 Speaker 1: what point oh we're on, but we're not at two anymore. 29 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:44,880 Speaker 1: And that's exciting. What what feels different? What just my 30 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: whole perspective? You just wait, you just wait, you don't 31 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: notice it. I'm so chill like Antarctica. That's right. Wow, 32 00:01:58,480 --> 00:02:02,160 Speaker 1: just like one one and one coaching session and you're 33 00:02:02,200 --> 00:02:05,800 Speaker 1: just not You're just no longer the same. No, not 34 00:02:05,960 --> 00:02:09,160 Speaker 1: wound up, not not tightly wound. Nope, that girl is 35 00:02:09,280 --> 00:02:14,120 Speaker 1: gone wuntil I had my second session. Wow, we're not ready. 36 00:02:14,320 --> 00:02:20,359 Speaker 1: You're not ready because you've been Uh I can can 37 00:02:20,400 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 1: we call you a groupie if it's your girlfriend? Yeah, 38 00:02:23,560 --> 00:02:26,800 Speaker 1: Well I'm calling myself a groupie. I mean, I'll know 39 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:30,080 Speaker 1: if I can. But I am. I'm the number one groupie, 40 00:02:30,120 --> 00:02:33,160 Speaker 1: I would say, but I um, I've been on my 41 00:02:33,240 --> 00:02:38,800 Speaker 1: own tour alongside of Hailey Store. So I originally flew 42 00:02:38,840 --> 00:02:42,000 Speaker 1: out to New York to go to her two shows there, 43 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:43,760 Speaker 1: and then I went to a New Jersey show, and 44 00:02:43,760 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 1: then I met up with Laura, whose birthday is today. 45 00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:52,680 Speaker 1: Happy birthday. So for those of you who are new 46 00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:55,239 Speaker 1: the podcast or I've never heard of, Laura's my best 47 00:02:55,280 --> 00:02:57,800 Speaker 1: friend from high school. We met freshman year of high school. 48 00:02:58,160 --> 00:03:00,680 Speaker 1: And she's also the person who needed me to go 49 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 1: on the Bachelor. So the reason you're I'm even here 50 00:03:03,639 --> 00:03:06,080 Speaker 1: talking to you right now is really all things to Laura, 51 00:03:06,160 --> 00:03:10,799 Speaker 1: because she did made that move. You know. Yeah, Tanya 52 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:12,920 Speaker 1: would argue that fate would have brought you two together 53 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:18,000 Speaker 1: anyway because you're soldier. Yeah, well that was the old Tanya. 54 00:03:18,120 --> 00:03:21,880 Speaker 1: The new Tanya is like if the wind blew us 55 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:27,480 Speaker 1: this way, we'd be blowing together. Baby wow. I don't 56 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 1: know what that means, but exactly. Yeah. So, yeah, it's 57 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:35,640 Speaker 1: always birthday, and every year we try to do a 58 00:03:35,680 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 1: birthday trip around this time around her birthday. So this 59 00:03:39,840 --> 00:03:42,160 Speaker 1: year we met up and we went to Martha's Vineyard 60 00:03:42,400 --> 00:03:45,880 Speaker 1: and then we went to Nashville, and she kind of 61 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: was like the groupie with me because we went on 62 00:03:48,320 --> 00:03:52,120 Speaker 1: like Hayley's next few tour stops and she she ditched 63 00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:55,560 Speaker 1: us in Dallas. But it's the tour life is so 64 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:58,160 Speaker 1: interesting to me because I will say when I was 65 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 1: on when I was on my vacation, I found it 66 00:04:01,200 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: very weird to wake up and like not have a 67 00:04:05,400 --> 00:04:07,080 Speaker 1: sense of my day, do you know what I mean? 68 00:04:07,720 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: And when you're on tour, that's kind of how you're living. 69 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:12,000 Speaker 1: You like wake up and you're like, don't know where 70 00:04:12,000 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 1: the wind's gonna blow you. Well, I feel like on tour, 71 00:04:15,760 --> 00:04:19,240 Speaker 1: like haley schedule, it's just new cities, but her schedule 72 00:04:19,320 --> 00:04:21,240 Speaker 1: is the same, so like there is some sort of 73 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:24,040 Speaker 1: routine to it because it's like I know, I have 74 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:26,360 Speaker 1: to start getting ready at this time and then I 75 00:04:26,400 --> 00:04:28,680 Speaker 1: have the show. But you don't have to, Like, you 76 00:04:28,720 --> 00:04:30,160 Speaker 1: don't have to go to the show if you don't 77 00:04:30,160 --> 00:04:35,480 Speaker 1: want to like the artist, know you? Like you me, 78 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, she does have to go to the show. 79 00:04:39,080 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: But I'm saying, your life right now is very like 80 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:45,000 Speaker 1: go with the flow. Yeah, I mean, it's been fun 81 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:48,559 Speaker 1: because like we I broke off from from Hailey Store 82 00:04:48,600 --> 00:04:50,880 Speaker 1: and we went on our own little journey Laura and 83 00:04:50,880 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 1: I and then we went to Nashville and had time. 84 00:04:54,960 --> 00:04:56,800 Speaker 1: They're together, and so it's just kind of been like, 85 00:04:57,040 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: you know, bebopping around and then go into the show. 86 00:04:59,800 --> 00:05:02,000 Speaker 1: But it's been fun, Like I I've gone to sound 87 00:05:02,040 --> 00:05:04,760 Speaker 1: check almost every show, and like I've seen the show. 88 00:05:04,800 --> 00:05:07,440 Speaker 1: I basically know the I know everything about the show 89 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:09,040 Speaker 1: at this point, and I still love it. And it's 90 00:05:09,080 --> 00:05:11,960 Speaker 1: really fun seeing like the people I love that live 91 00:05:12,000 --> 00:05:14,120 Speaker 1: in these different cities getting to come in and watch 92 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:17,760 Speaker 1: Haley performed for the first time, which is really cool. Yeah. So, 93 00:05:18,320 --> 00:05:21,800 Speaker 1: and I've gotten to meet so many scrubbers you guys it. 94 00:05:22,120 --> 00:05:26,880 Speaker 1: So I do want to talk about how dark you 95 00:05:26,880 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 1: were getting though before you went on tour. Yeah, I 96 00:05:30,680 --> 00:05:35,080 Speaker 1: got pretty dark. I feel like, um, I was not 97 00:05:36,480 --> 00:05:43,000 Speaker 1: prepared to feel so um dark. But I think there 98 00:05:43,080 --> 00:05:46,440 Speaker 1: was like a combination of I mean, seeing hayley schedule 99 00:05:46,480 --> 00:05:48,760 Speaker 1: and what her day to day looks like being on tour, 100 00:05:48,920 --> 00:05:50,440 Speaker 1: I kind of get it a little more like it 101 00:05:50,520 --> 00:05:54,360 Speaker 1: almost like if I had just gotten to see it sooner, 102 00:05:54,440 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 1: I feel like I wouldn't have been so you know, 103 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 1: dark spirally, because as soon as I saw her, it 104 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:04,640 Speaker 1: was like everything was fine. I was I think the 105 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:07,040 Speaker 1: differences is that our love languages are kind of different, 106 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:10,599 Speaker 1: like my top two talk to me my top two 107 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:14,200 Speaker 1: or physical touch and quality time and not even like 108 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:16,520 Speaker 1: I'm not even talking about like sex when I talk 109 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:18,680 Speaker 1: about physical touch, I'm just talking about like being with 110 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:23,520 Speaker 1: the person and holding hands and and and also quality time, 111 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:26,920 Speaker 1: and hers are more like those are kind of maybe 112 00:06:26,960 --> 00:06:30,040 Speaker 1: in the middle to less important to her. I feel like, 113 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:32,680 Speaker 1: but but you know, you know what you're good at. 114 00:06:32,720 --> 00:06:34,640 Speaker 1: And I think I'm not to toot my own horn, 115 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:37,680 Speaker 1: but I feel like our friendship has has created this 116 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:41,160 Speaker 1: in you, because I feel like you're good at speaking 117 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 1: other people's love languages. Now, oh I do. Yeah, I 118 00:06:45,120 --> 00:06:47,920 Speaker 1: mean I've I've had to learn for both you and Haley. 119 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:53,200 Speaker 1: I really challenged me in that area. But yeah, um, 120 00:06:53,320 --> 00:06:56,560 Speaker 1: but I will say Haley handled because I've I've never 121 00:06:56,600 --> 00:06:58,560 Speaker 1: been you know me, I've never been the one to 122 00:06:58,720 --> 00:07:04,480 Speaker 1: like need reassurance reassurance, and she did. She was so 123 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:06,919 Speaker 1: patient and calm with me. I know she wanted to 124 00:07:06,960 --> 00:07:09,920 Speaker 1: be like, what the heck is going on? Who is 125 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:12,800 Speaker 1: this person? But I really do have to give her credit. 126 00:07:12,880 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 1: She was a champ during this. Do you have to 127 00:07:15,280 --> 00:07:18,000 Speaker 1: say it was nice it's like an onlooker because I 128 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: feel like I really relate to Haley in a lot 129 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:22,320 Speaker 1: of ways, and I feel like you and Robbie are 130 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:26,240 Speaker 1: very similar. So it was I was sad to see 131 00:07:26,280 --> 00:07:28,320 Speaker 1: you so sad and dark, but in a weird way, 132 00:07:28,320 --> 00:07:33,320 Speaker 1: I was like, it felt validating. Yeah, just because like 133 00:07:33,360 --> 00:07:35,360 Speaker 1: to give you to let you see from our perspective 134 00:07:35,360 --> 00:07:38,480 Speaker 1: a little bit. You know, Yeah, it sucks. I don't 135 00:07:38,520 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 1: actually want to have that again. I'd prefer to not 136 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:45,920 Speaker 1: have that perspective. But um, I well, when Jojo was 137 00:07:45,960 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 1: on the podcast, we were talking about it because Jordan's 138 00:07:47,880 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 1: football season starting and so he's gone like basically every 139 00:07:51,080 --> 00:07:54,400 Speaker 1: weekend now from like I think Thursday to Sunday, which 140 00:07:54,480 --> 00:07:56,720 Speaker 1: is different. I mean it's like, you know, you have 141 00:07:56,920 --> 00:07:59,400 Speaker 1: those four days and then you get to see that 142 00:07:59,800 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: you know, she she'll get to see him again. But 143 00:08:01,440 --> 00:08:03,920 Speaker 1: she was saying like at first, when they were first together, 144 00:08:03,960 --> 00:08:06,520 Speaker 1: it was a really hard adjustment and like they got 145 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:08,160 Speaker 1: in a lot of fights and stuff, and she was like, 146 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 1: but I realized that being his partner, I needed to 147 00:08:11,480 --> 00:08:13,920 Speaker 1: support his dreams and his passions and this is what 148 00:08:13,960 --> 00:08:17,920 Speaker 1: he loves to do, and like be supportive as opposed 149 00:08:17,960 --> 00:08:20,160 Speaker 1: to like making it harder for the both of us, 150 00:08:20,200 --> 00:08:28,200 Speaker 1: and I was like ding ding ding. Luckily I got 151 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:32,079 Speaker 1: to see Haley like three days after that, So, um, 152 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:35,319 Speaker 1: now I feel I feel good. But that's because I'm 153 00:08:35,360 --> 00:08:38,000 Speaker 1: here with not just Jojo know a lot about football 154 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 1: because of Jordan's I think. I think like that there's 155 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:44,880 Speaker 1: such a culture around football and sports in the South, 156 00:08:44,960 --> 00:08:47,160 Speaker 1: like you just kind of grow up knowing about football. 157 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:50,080 Speaker 1: But she probably knows more about specific things than she 158 00:08:50,160 --> 00:08:54,319 Speaker 1: did before Jordan's I would imagine, because what are you 159 00:08:54,400 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 1: learning about sports? Because you let me tell you? Yeah, 160 00:08:58,480 --> 00:09:00,880 Speaker 1: let me tell you. So tonight's the big draft. Um, 161 00:09:00,960 --> 00:09:03,960 Speaker 1: so Robbie and the Boys are in this league right 162 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:10,280 Speaker 1: this like fake league. Yeah, they're in a fantasy football league. 163 00:09:10,320 --> 00:09:11,439 Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what, I'm going to 164 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:13,679 Speaker 1: create my own team and I'm gonna play you and 165 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 1: I'm gonna whip your ask did you are you going 166 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:21,600 Speaker 1: to I'm gonna create one, but I need so christ 167 00:09:21,600 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: and Harper who filled in for you last week while 168 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:26,720 Speaker 1: you were gone. She is dating Jared Goff, so she's 169 00:09:26,760 --> 00:09:30,439 Speaker 1: like very no, start not dating engaged. Um, she's in 170 00:09:30,480 --> 00:09:32,320 Speaker 1: the know with all like the football stuff. So she 171 00:09:32,360 --> 00:09:34,120 Speaker 1: said she would help me with these things. But I 172 00:09:34,160 --> 00:09:36,440 Speaker 1: feel like I need somebody that I can like. I 173 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:38,280 Speaker 1: feel like Jojo I can pest her more. I feel 174 00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:40,880 Speaker 1: like I'm not as close with Kristen to like badger 175 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:43,520 Speaker 1: her with texts where Jojo, I'd feel like, give me 176 00:09:43,559 --> 00:09:45,800 Speaker 1: something good here to say, because I wanted just like 177 00:09:45,880 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 1: I don't know if you've seen those TikTok's where the 178 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 1: girls like videotape their guys and they're dropping all these 179 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:53,959 Speaker 1: like knowledge bombs about football and the guys just like 180 00:09:54,040 --> 00:09:58,520 Speaker 1: what's going on? Yeah, I know, my brother in law 181 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:02,200 Speaker 1: has like multiple radios shows around football, so he could 182 00:10:02,240 --> 00:10:04,440 Speaker 1: also be of help and give you some slang to 183 00:10:04,520 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 1: throw it again. I feel like I can't like badge 184 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:09,559 Speaker 1: your your brother in law. I need somebody that I 185 00:10:09,600 --> 00:10:13,960 Speaker 1: can be annoying to. Yeah, I don't. I wouldn't want 186 00:10:14,000 --> 00:10:17,200 Speaker 1: to do that to him. You're right, so Jojo feels 187 00:10:17,240 --> 00:10:21,240 Speaker 1: like the better. She might not answer you, but she'll 188 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:24,959 Speaker 1: she's still so love you. You You know, um, how was 189 00:10:25,000 --> 00:10:27,000 Speaker 1: your trip to the Hampton's. You were gone for a 190 00:10:27,040 --> 00:10:30,720 Speaker 1: minute too. I was gone and off the grid. And 191 00:10:30,800 --> 00:10:37,840 Speaker 1: let me tell you, I am a living life. I 192 00:10:38,080 --> 00:10:42,040 Speaker 1: ate so much ice cream. I slept ten hours a night, 193 00:10:42,120 --> 00:10:46,760 Speaker 1: like I didn't even know who I was on vacation. Yeah, 194 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:50,640 Speaker 1: you were just like vacation Montonia five point Oh yeah. 195 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:52,400 Speaker 1: But I do get a little restless, like I was 196 00:10:52,400 --> 00:10:55,760 Speaker 1: getting a little kind of like, I don't know. I 197 00:10:55,840 --> 00:10:59,560 Speaker 1: don't do well with no structure to my day. Okay, 198 00:10:59,559 --> 00:11:01,800 Speaker 1: but this is the difference because this is like the 199 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:05,520 Speaker 1: first long trip with with the Robbie and the kids, 200 00:11:05,600 --> 00:11:08,800 Speaker 1: right the yid. We've never gone away for that long 201 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:12,840 Speaker 1: together before. Was it a different experience versus your like, 202 00:11:13,040 --> 00:11:23,200 Speaker 1: uh st, Bart's very different. I realized that vacation without 203 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:28,040 Speaker 1: children is very different than vacation with children. Um, not 204 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 1: a bad way, it's just so different, you know what 205 00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 1: I mean. Like we were playing football and going like, um, 206 00:11:33,160 --> 00:11:35,840 Speaker 1: there's so many more activities, whereas like when we go 207 00:11:35,840 --> 00:11:38,880 Speaker 1: on vacations, the two of us, we like chill. We'd 208 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:41,200 Speaker 1: like to chill and like drink and eat and like 209 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:43,360 Speaker 1: work out. That's kind of like our vibe. But then 210 00:11:43,360 --> 00:11:46,160 Speaker 1: when there's kids have involved, it's like I watched Kissing 211 00:11:46,200 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 1: Booth one, two and three. I watched to All the 212 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 1: Boys I loved before to All the Boys, I loved again, 213 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:55,079 Speaker 1: into all the Boys, ps, I Love you or whatever, 214 00:11:55,160 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 1: like I watched We just watched all these movies because 215 00:11:57,720 --> 00:12:00,520 Speaker 1: that's just what we would do at night. Wow, that's 216 00:12:00,520 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 1: so fun though. Yeah it was fun. Yeah, it was 217 00:12:04,400 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 1: good times. But I'm back. You're back, Mark, Where are 218 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 1: you right now? Are you at home? I am home. Yes, 219 00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:12,439 Speaker 1: we got away as well. We went to Wisconsin with 220 00:12:12,480 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 1: the family with the kids, and then we escaped just 221 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 1: the two of us and went to Cape Cod for 222 00:12:16,800 --> 00:12:20,520 Speaker 1: our twentieth wedding anniversary. So you had the instant concrested 223 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:23,679 Speaker 1: vacation with the kids, vacation without the kids, and then 224 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 1: went to Ohai for a weekend, and then we got 225 00:12:26,480 --> 00:12:28,640 Speaker 1: separate hotel rooms for the first time ever, Like we've 226 00:12:28,640 --> 00:12:31,360 Speaker 1: always had a joining hotel rooms. Yeah, but there are 227 00:12:31,400 --> 00:12:33,840 Speaker 1: separate hotels in different parts of the building. And that 228 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 1: was a game changer too. Everybody loved that. Even the 229 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:37,920 Speaker 1: kids were like, oh, freedom, this is fantastic. So that 230 00:12:37,960 --> 00:12:40,280 Speaker 1: was a big win. That's so the girls got their 231 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:43,920 Speaker 1: own room. Yeah that's fun. Yeah, they liked that a lot. 232 00:12:44,000 --> 00:12:47,320 Speaker 1: That was cool. Yeah, we were we were talking to 233 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:50,400 Speaker 1: um so Laura and I this is a this is 234 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:53,080 Speaker 1: like a cool story. But we landed in Dallas and 235 00:12:53,120 --> 00:12:54,760 Speaker 1: there was this woman who was like sitting in the 236 00:12:54,760 --> 00:12:57,800 Speaker 1: baggage claim waiting and um, she had like a boot 237 00:12:57,840 --> 00:12:59,640 Speaker 1: on her foot because she had had surgery and she 238 00:12:59,760 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 1: was talking. We were just like talking back and forth, 239 00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:08,120 Speaker 1: and um, she when the we were talking something about, oh, 240 00:13:08,120 --> 00:13:10,120 Speaker 1: her kids, they had had like a bad layover and 241 00:13:10,120 --> 00:13:12,640 Speaker 1: they all had to sleep in the same room. And 242 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 1: she had made a comment about her dad, her husband snoring, 243 00:13:16,080 --> 00:13:19,080 Speaker 1: and I was like, I vividly remember the last time 244 00:13:19,120 --> 00:13:21,280 Speaker 1: I ever stayed in a room with my parents because 245 00:13:21,280 --> 00:13:23,160 Speaker 1: my dad snored so loud. I was like, I'll never 246 00:13:23,840 --> 00:13:25,880 Speaker 1: I'll never do this again. None of us slept. We 247 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 1: were all like in the worst mood, and he felt 248 00:13:28,200 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 1: I felt bad for him because he didn't mean to 249 00:13:30,160 --> 00:13:32,480 Speaker 1: do it, but we were all like, uh, none of 250 00:13:32,559 --> 00:13:37,080 Speaker 1: us slept. But anyways, that lady, when the bags were 251 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:38,920 Speaker 1: coming around, I was like, let me get your bag 252 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:40,520 Speaker 1: for you because she had the boot on her foot, 253 00:13:40,559 --> 00:13:43,640 Speaker 1: and you know, I was like strain, So I got 254 00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:46,560 Speaker 1: the bags for and she. Um, she like gave us 255 00:13:46,600 --> 00:13:49,120 Speaker 1: a hundred dollar bill and was like, have dinner on me. Tonight, 256 00:13:49,120 --> 00:13:52,200 Speaker 1: like I'll remember y'all for being so sweet. So then 257 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:55,280 Speaker 1: we went to dinner with my family that was in Dallas, 258 00:13:55,360 --> 00:13:58,680 Speaker 1: and we were like, we're paying for it because Maggie 259 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:03,200 Speaker 1: from the airport. Shout out to Maggie paid it forward. 260 00:14:03,520 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 1: That's so nice. I figured out Tanya would like that. 261 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 1: I love that. I feel like I need something, like, um, 262 00:14:13,480 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: I need to do something outside myself right now. Oh 263 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:21,200 Speaker 1: what is that? Like? I don't know, like that like 264 00:14:21,280 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 1: go somewhere and give someone, like I don't know, buy 265 00:14:23,720 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 1: somebody their coffee. There's just you know, there's something to 266 00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:30,080 Speaker 1: that that's just like it's what it's all about. It's true. 267 00:14:31,040 --> 00:14:34,240 Speaker 1: So I every show I've been to, I've gotten to 268 00:14:34,240 --> 00:14:36,960 Speaker 1: talk to scrubbers and it has been the coolest thing, 269 00:14:37,480 --> 00:14:42,040 Speaker 1: like having this community of people that like merged with 270 00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:46,920 Speaker 1: this other community of people, you know. And I just said, 271 00:14:47,040 --> 00:14:49,600 Speaker 1: I felt so proud. I felt so proud of like 272 00:14:49,680 --> 00:14:52,240 Speaker 1: what we've created. Like three of the girls that we 273 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:54,880 Speaker 1: met at the Dallas show they met. She was like, 274 00:14:54,960 --> 00:14:58,080 Speaker 1: we became friends because of the podcast, and we have 275 00:14:58,160 --> 00:15:00,600 Speaker 1: like a book club. It's a scrubbing in book club 276 00:15:00,640 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 1: that we created, and um, like some of the other 277 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:05,520 Speaker 1: girls weren't able to make it, but you know, we're here. 278 00:15:05,640 --> 00:15:10,040 Speaker 1: And they were just the sweetest, kindest humans. Everyone that 279 00:15:10,120 --> 00:15:12,880 Speaker 1: came up. They'd be like, please tell Tanya High like 280 00:15:12,960 --> 00:15:15,680 Speaker 1: it's Tania coming to any of the shows, Like it's 281 00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:19,600 Speaker 1: just been really really cool. I'm like, you know, I 282 00:15:19,680 --> 00:15:23,560 Speaker 1: love I love this community and our Scrubbers and they're 283 00:15:23,600 --> 00:15:27,600 Speaker 1: just the best. I couldn't agree more, not on this, 284 00:15:27,680 --> 00:15:29,960 Speaker 1: this this is a life changer for me, honestly and 285 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:32,320 Speaker 1: not The Scrubbers have changed all of our lives of course, 286 00:15:32,360 --> 00:15:34,080 Speaker 1: and Easter and I was talking about that the other day, like, 287 00:15:34,120 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 1: can you believe how the Scrubbers come through for us? 288 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 1: It's incredible. I talked a couple of weeks ago about 289 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:42,280 Speaker 1: Vanessa works for the Milwaukee Brewers, who have loved since 290 00:15:42,320 --> 00:15:44,240 Speaker 1: I was six, and she got us on the field 291 00:15:44,280 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 1: and that was amazing and awesome and and I'll never 292 00:15:46,400 --> 00:15:48,960 Speaker 1: forget it. So then she was I had mentioned that 293 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:50,440 Speaker 1: I'm going to see the Brewers when they played the 294 00:15:50,480 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 1: Dodgers in Los Angeles, and she said, oh, I know 295 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:54,160 Speaker 1: someone who works for the Dodgers if you want to 296 00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:56,240 Speaker 1: go on the field for batting practice. Again, we can 297 00:15:56,280 --> 00:15:58,080 Speaker 1: do that said, oh my gosh that Yeah, they're be incredible. 298 00:15:58,120 --> 00:16:00,600 Speaker 1: Thank you so much. So you set that up. And 299 00:16:00,840 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 1: I'm on the field at Dodger Stadium watching batting practice, 300 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 1: and I'm seeing all my favorite players go by and 301 00:16:05,680 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 1: something like, oh, there's Tyrone Taylor, No, there's Hunter Renfro 302 00:16:08,800 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 1: and it's just so exciting for me every new Brewer 303 00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:13,920 Speaker 1: I see. So then I see Brandon Woodruff was one 304 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:15,800 Speaker 1: of the Brewer's best pictures, and he comes running out 305 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 1: of the dug. I was like, Oh, there's Brandon Woodruff. 306 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 1: How exciting there he is. I wonder what he's doing. Gosh, 307 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:21,800 Speaker 1: he's running over in this direction. I wonder if he 308 00:16:21,800 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 1: knows somebody over here among those of us watching. Boy, 309 00:16:24,800 --> 00:16:27,200 Speaker 1: it really looks like he's running right at me. This 310 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 1: is weird. And then he comes out to me and 311 00:16:28,920 --> 00:16:34,040 Speaker 1: he says, are you Mark? I said yeah. He said, oh, man, 312 00:16:34,120 --> 00:16:35,640 Speaker 1: I just had to come meet you. My wife's a 313 00:16:35,640 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 1: big fan of the podcast. Are you say crazy? Say 314 00:16:41,800 --> 00:16:46,280 Speaker 1: you gotta be kidding me right now, because this podcast 315 00:16:47,280 --> 00:16:51,080 Speaker 1: it's incredible. So we had a nice chat. We took 316 00:16:51,080 --> 00:16:54,560 Speaker 1: a picture, so so it was Vanessa and his and 317 00:16:54,640 --> 00:16:57,840 Speaker 1: Brendan's wife, Joni Woodruff, heard me talking on the podcast 318 00:16:57,920 --> 00:17:00,360 Speaker 1: saying I was gonna see the on the field anyway. 319 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:05,280 Speaker 1: Thank you Joni Woodruff, Thank you Vanessa again that it's 320 00:17:05,359 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 1: so incredible. I can't even put it into words what 321 00:17:08,840 --> 00:17:11,359 Speaker 1: that was like for me. Were you with anyone on 322 00:17:11,400 --> 00:17:13,600 Speaker 1: the field where you not my buddy Teddy who lives 323 00:17:13,680 --> 00:17:17,879 Speaker 1: up the street, and he was what is this podcast 324 00:17:18,720 --> 00:17:21,960 Speaker 1: that is? Like? Honestly, it makes me so like there 325 00:17:21,960 --> 00:17:29,760 Speaker 1: have been moments that are really just um, once in 326 00:17:29,800 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 1: a lifetime moment come from this podcast and it's the 327 00:17:33,280 --> 00:17:36,159 Speaker 1: one you are for, like Taylor Swift or something. Every Brewer. 328 00:17:36,720 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 1: That's how I am with every Brewer. Anybody who puts 329 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:41,320 Speaker 1: on that jersey, I don't know, it's just a shirt, 330 00:17:41,359 --> 00:17:43,239 Speaker 1: who cares? But if they put on that jersey, there 331 00:17:43,240 --> 00:17:45,280 Speaker 1: in my hero and he's one of our actual'st Like, 332 00:17:45,320 --> 00:17:47,920 Speaker 1: he's a bullpen catcher, he's one of our best starting pitchers. 333 00:17:47,920 --> 00:17:49,439 Speaker 1: So for me to be able to, hey, how you 334 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:51,680 Speaker 1: doing he wanted to meet me, Oh my god, I'll 335 00:17:51,720 --> 00:18:01,040 Speaker 1: never forget that. That's really cool. Um, why you brought 336 00:18:01,119 --> 00:18:03,120 Speaker 1: up Taylor Swift? And I do want to talk about 337 00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:04,840 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift, but I think we should take a break 338 00:18:04,880 --> 00:18:22,639 Speaker 1: and then come back. All right, Okay, we are back. 339 00:18:22,680 --> 00:18:25,000 Speaker 1: There's there's a lot to talk about in the pop 340 00:18:25,040 --> 00:18:28,159 Speaker 1: culture world because um, we haven't talked in a minute. 341 00:18:29,119 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 1: Don't even get me started on the Don't Worry Darling draw. 342 00:18:31,960 --> 00:18:34,160 Speaker 1: Oh my, Okay, Well we can get to that because 343 00:18:34,200 --> 00:18:37,160 Speaker 1: I have there's so many aspects of it to talk about, 344 00:18:37,560 --> 00:18:40,000 Speaker 1: many aspects. I want to talk about Taylor Swift. So, 345 00:18:40,000 --> 00:18:41,920 Speaker 1: Taylor Swift has a new album coming out. It's called 346 00:18:41,960 --> 00:18:45,439 Speaker 1: Midnights and it comes out October one, and there's this 347 00:18:45,880 --> 00:18:51,040 Speaker 1: all this chatter about what the album is like about 348 00:18:51,359 --> 00:18:54,320 Speaker 1: you know, where it's coming from. So they're canna tell 349 00:18:54,359 --> 00:18:57,439 Speaker 1: you what I can tell you. It's coming from her 350 00:18:57,480 --> 00:19:04,639 Speaker 1: sleep thirteen Sleepless Nights, which what's the understory of. Okay, 351 00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:07,800 Speaker 1: there's a lot of speculation on TikTok and I'm not 352 00:19:07,880 --> 00:19:10,480 Speaker 1: one for like speculating, especially when it comes to like 353 00:19:10,560 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 1: people's sexuality, because I have been there. But a Rolling 354 00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:18,600 Speaker 1: Stones article came out talking about all this conspiracies about 355 00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:23,440 Speaker 1: if Taylor's coming out or all these The article is 356 00:19:23,480 --> 00:19:26,879 Speaker 1: based on conspiracies about it, but I thought it was 357 00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:29,840 Speaker 1: weird that a publication like Rolling Stone, that Taylor has 358 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,800 Speaker 1: been on the cover of like multiple multiple times would 359 00:19:32,840 --> 00:19:36,200 Speaker 1: release something like that if it could ruin the relationship 360 00:19:36,240 --> 00:19:41,200 Speaker 1: with her. So they're saying that the album is a 361 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:45,600 Speaker 1: coming out album. There's God, You're obviously not on the 362 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:48,120 Speaker 1: side of TikTok. I'm not on the side of TikTok. 363 00:19:49,320 --> 00:19:52,600 Speaker 1: Some Taylor Swift stands hunt for clues to queerness in 364 00:19:52,640 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 1: promost for new album Midnights. They won't give up, such 365 00:19:55,880 --> 00:20:00,879 Speaker 1: as what what are these hints? The noun game? They 366 00:20:00,880 --> 00:20:03,760 Speaker 1: feel like some of the songs and lyrics that they've 367 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:07,119 Speaker 1: heard before are clever with pronouns, which I mean, we 368 00:20:07,160 --> 00:20:12,000 Speaker 1: have experiences, we know pronoun cleverness. Yeah, who knows. I mean, 369 00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:13,720 Speaker 1: it could be something, could be nothing. But Becka makes 370 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:17,240 Speaker 1: a good point, that is an interesting story for Rolling 371 00:20:17,240 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 1: Stone to post. That's what I'm saying, Like I I hoped, 372 00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:23,640 Speaker 1: I don't care who I just I don't care who 373 00:20:23,640 --> 00:20:26,360 Speaker 1: anyone dates or their sexuality, and obviously the number want 374 00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:28,720 Speaker 1: to out someone or force someone to out themselves. But 375 00:20:29,160 --> 00:20:33,320 Speaker 1: I did think that that specific thing was fascinating because 376 00:20:33,960 --> 00:20:36,719 Speaker 1: no one wants to ruin like their relations if they 377 00:20:36,720 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 1: have a good relationship with especially with Taylor Swift. That's 378 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:45,119 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. So I'm like, maybe one of the 379 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:48,360 Speaker 1: sleepless nights was when she was dating Carly Class. Well 380 00:20:48,400 --> 00:20:54,840 Speaker 1: that's also a rumor, but these are conspiracies only. But 381 00:20:55,720 --> 00:20:58,240 Speaker 1: I thought it was interesting because people when she came 382 00:20:58,240 --> 00:21:01,359 Speaker 1: out with Lover, she was obviously a lot of the 383 00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:05,240 Speaker 1: songs were kind of in support of the LGBTQ community, 384 00:21:05,320 --> 00:21:07,720 Speaker 1: and she talked a lot about that. She surrounded herself 385 00:21:07,760 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 1: like Haley was in the You Need to Calm Down 386 00:21:09,920 --> 00:21:13,840 Speaker 1: video along with a lot of other queer artists. But um, 387 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:16,120 Speaker 1: I don't know. I found I just found that specific 388 00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:20,040 Speaker 1: because there's been conspiracies and rumors about this forever. But 389 00:21:20,320 --> 00:21:23,720 Speaker 1: I did find that one little detail about the rolling 390 00:21:23,720 --> 00:21:29,200 Speaker 1: Stone thing interesting, like who who approved this? Who approved this? Tree? 391 00:21:29,440 --> 00:21:33,400 Speaker 1: Was tree involved? Is what I need to know involved? 392 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:35,400 Speaker 1: That's what I need to know because that will tell 393 00:21:35,440 --> 00:21:39,359 Speaker 1: me everything. It's everything we need to know anyways, regardless 394 00:21:39,359 --> 00:21:41,800 Speaker 1: of what it's about or it has anything to do 395 00:21:41,880 --> 00:21:47,000 Speaker 1: with anyone's sexuality. I'm so excited, so excited. She's the gift. 396 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:48,879 Speaker 1: She's the gift that keeps on giving, Like if you 397 00:21:48,880 --> 00:21:50,680 Speaker 1: think about it, in the last three years, like since 398 00:21:50,720 --> 00:21:54,639 Speaker 1: the pandemic, it we've got so many new songs from Taylor. 399 00:21:54,800 --> 00:21:59,720 Speaker 1: It's like we're not worthy. She she she never stops 400 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:05,960 Speaker 1: giving to the fans, whether it's East directing, Easter directing, 401 00:22:06,240 --> 00:22:09,199 Speaker 1: Easter egging as either like she she keeps it like 402 00:22:09,200 --> 00:22:11,640 Speaker 1: so clever. She announces the album and then she goes 403 00:22:11,640 --> 00:22:13,280 Speaker 1: to the v M A after party and she's wearing 404 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:16,000 Speaker 1: like a star dress because it's like midnight is the 405 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:20,480 Speaker 1: theme Midnight Midnight or Midnight's Midnight Midnight's yeah, with the 406 00:22:20,520 --> 00:22:24,000 Speaker 1: stars all over it, And I'm like, this girl doesn't quit. 407 00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:29,400 Speaker 1: It's it's honestly so iconic. And I've said it once 408 00:22:29,440 --> 00:22:32,480 Speaker 1: and I'll say it forever. I feel so lucky to 409 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:35,240 Speaker 1: be in the generation of Taylor Swift. She really I'm 410 00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 1: not I feel the same way. She really inspires me 411 00:22:37,440 --> 00:22:40,080 Speaker 1: and it's so funny. So I'm working on a project 412 00:22:40,200 --> 00:22:42,040 Speaker 1: that I will be able to talk about very soon, 413 00:22:42,680 --> 00:22:46,320 Speaker 1: but we're working on it, and I keep telling my girlfriend, 414 00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:49,399 Speaker 1: I'm like, I I want to Taylor Swift this like 415 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:53,119 Speaker 1: I want to Like, I'm not just it's not just 416 00:22:53,119 --> 00:22:55,320 Speaker 1: gonna be like, oh, this is a project I'm doing, 417 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,320 Speaker 1: Like I'm gonna have some Easter eggs, and I want 418 00:22:57,320 --> 00:22:59,280 Speaker 1: to like make this like a fun thing because for me, 419 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:01,720 Speaker 1: as a fan of Taylor, it's so fun to like 420 00:23:01,840 --> 00:23:04,399 Speaker 1: decode and get this stuff and like, oh my gosh, 421 00:23:04,400 --> 00:23:06,000 Speaker 1: she did like more this than it does. So I'm 422 00:23:06,040 --> 00:23:08,679 Speaker 1: gonna I'm gonna pull my best Taylor Swift in the 423 00:23:08,720 --> 00:23:11,359 Speaker 1: next few months. So I think that was so cool. 424 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:18,159 Speaker 1: She's inspired people to She's changed the game of releasing art. Yeah, 425 00:23:18,280 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 1: speaking of speculation, you brought it up a second ago 426 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 1: that don't worry, Darling. Premiere has everyone up in arms. 427 00:23:25,720 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 1: I didn't think I cared, and all of a sudden, 428 00:23:27,840 --> 00:23:32,679 Speaker 1: I need to know everything, like I need answers to everything. Well, 429 00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:37,000 Speaker 1: it bummed me out initially because the drama started. I 430 00:23:37,040 --> 00:23:40,520 Speaker 1: think it started between Olivia Wilde and Florence Pew and 431 00:23:40,560 --> 00:23:43,280 Speaker 1: how Florence wasn't going to be doing any promo for 432 00:23:43,320 --> 00:23:46,000 Speaker 1: the movie because there was like some squabble with her 433 00:23:46,000 --> 00:23:48,720 Speaker 1: and Olivia, and that bummed me out because I like 434 00:23:48,760 --> 00:23:51,800 Speaker 1: Olivia wild and so I choose not to believe. Also 435 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,159 Speaker 1: that there's like women fighting. I hate that. That's like 436 00:23:54,200 --> 00:23:59,040 Speaker 1: the narrative, right, But then there's the Olivia Wild Shyla 437 00:23:59,080 --> 00:24:01,920 Speaker 1: Buff drama where she's saying she fired him and he's 438 00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:06,040 Speaker 1: saying he quit the movie. And then this video gets released, 439 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 1: and that's when all hell broke loose for me, because 440 00:24:08,840 --> 00:24:12,359 Speaker 1: now there's tension between her and her and Harry styles 441 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:18,199 Speaker 1: there's there's just tension all over that red carpet. I 442 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,560 Speaker 1: have to say, I can't tell if this is just 443 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:25,000 Speaker 1: the most genius pr thing ever. And because every it's 444 00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:28,119 Speaker 1: everyone's talking about it, so everyone's gonna go see the 445 00:24:28,119 --> 00:24:30,359 Speaker 1: movie because it's like, what is going on? I have 446 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:32,600 Speaker 1: no interest in seeing the movie now because of all this, 447 00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:38,000 Speaker 1: Like it's the reverse effect on me, Like I'm like everybody, yeah, 448 00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:41,479 Speaker 1: it's past the tipping point now, yeah, Like it's not 449 00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:43,920 Speaker 1: like now we're just kind of stressed, like we're we're 450 00:24:43,960 --> 00:24:46,840 Speaker 1: all like the little looking I think it was building, building, building, 451 00:24:46,880 --> 00:24:48,879 Speaker 1: but now I think everyone's over because that's some of 452 00:24:48,920 --> 00:24:50,959 Speaker 1: the reviews are coming on. They're like, man, and so 453 00:24:51,000 --> 00:24:53,240 Speaker 1: I think it's different now. But I have watched that 454 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:55,600 Speaker 1: video of Harry spitting and Chris Pine's lap probably a 455 00:24:55,680 --> 00:24:58,159 Speaker 1: hundred times. But then Chris Pine just came out and 456 00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:01,800 Speaker 1: said it. He was not sure, absolutely not what happened. 457 00:25:01,840 --> 00:25:03,919 Speaker 1: I don't buy it. But I also don't buy that 458 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:05,800 Speaker 1: it was malicious on Harry's part. I think it might 459 00:25:05,800 --> 00:25:09,439 Speaker 1: have just been a silly thing, funny bro out. You know, 460 00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:14,280 Speaker 1: how guys are, they smack each other, growing friend. I'm 461 00:25:14,320 --> 00:25:16,200 Speaker 1: not a friend of Harry. I'm not a best friend 462 00:25:16,200 --> 00:25:19,720 Speaker 1: of Harry, but you know we talked time to time. 463 00:25:20,920 --> 00:25:23,760 Speaker 1: He would never disrespect somebody like that. He would never 464 00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 1: spit on somebody intentionally. That's just not dropping a gum 465 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:30,439 Speaker 1: or dropping something could have something could could have fallen 466 00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:34,239 Speaker 1: out of his mouth. And watch the video. It's not 467 00:25:34,280 --> 00:25:36,919 Speaker 1: but his space isn't. It's not like like he like 468 00:25:37,000 --> 00:25:38,840 Speaker 1: talked and it fell out. It was like if I may, 469 00:25:39,040 --> 00:25:42,680 Speaker 1: if I may. Harry is not that kind of guy. 470 00:25:42,720 --> 00:25:47,040 Speaker 1: Harry is a gentleman. Harry is a stand up man 471 00:25:47,080 --> 00:25:53,399 Speaker 1: with integrity. He's not spitting or projectiling anything out of 472 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:58,320 Speaker 1: his mouth. Tell me, nothing happens in that video. You can't, 473 00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:02,560 Speaker 1: you can't. It's true. Something kind of slipped out like 474 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:06,280 Speaker 1: a TikTok. I need to sit down on his scene. 475 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:09,000 Speaker 1: What you kind of just yes, No, he leans over 476 00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:11,479 Speaker 1: something falls out of his mouth into Chrispin's lap. Chris 477 00:26:11,560 --> 00:26:14,120 Speaker 1: Pine stops clapping and looks down at it and then 478 00:26:14,200 --> 00:26:17,479 Speaker 1: just kind of looks around. If anybody saw that, believe me, 479 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:19,159 Speaker 1: I just like this a Pruder film. I've seen it 480 00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 1: frame by frame, but like it makes me sad seeing 481 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:23,960 Speaker 1: all this stuff because I feel like none of them 482 00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:25,560 Speaker 1: want to be there, do you know what I mean? 483 00:26:25,640 --> 00:26:28,919 Speaker 1: Like all of them look like they're like for crawling 484 00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:31,800 Speaker 1: to get out of there, which makes me sad. It 485 00:26:31,960 --> 00:26:35,399 Speaker 1: is sad. But also we have to discuss why won't 486 00:26:35,800 --> 00:26:38,520 Speaker 1: Harry stand next to Olivia on the red carpet because 487 00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:41,240 Speaker 1: I heard there's tension there too because of the Shaya 488 00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:44,720 Speaker 1: Shaya Shaya. I don't think he was aware that she 489 00:26:44,960 --> 00:26:50,159 Speaker 1: begged him to stay on the movie in speculation, Like 490 00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 1: none of these reports, everything we talked about so far 491 00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,760 Speaker 1: as rumor in speculation. Do you think that would make 492 00:26:55,760 --> 00:26:57,400 Speaker 1: me sad? If like I was in love with someone 493 00:26:57,440 --> 00:26:59,440 Speaker 1: I spent the last year and a half dating them 494 00:26:59,480 --> 00:27:01,800 Speaker 1: and then this video comes out that I didn't know existed, 495 00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:05,120 Speaker 1: that would make me sad too. But it's been a 496 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 1: while that, Like they didn't start dating un till Harry 497 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,400 Speaker 1: was like hired to be in the movie, right, correct, 498 00:27:11,520 --> 00:27:14,160 Speaker 1: But I feel like I feel like it probably blindsided him, 499 00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,720 Speaker 1: like maybe she told him that she fired him or something. 500 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,959 Speaker 1: Do you know what I mean? Like I don't know, 501 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,639 Speaker 1: well I do because I was telling Hayley because she 502 00:27:22,720 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 1: was like, you know, they've kept their relationship private, like 503 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:28,160 Speaker 1: we understand that. And I'm like, yeah, but if we 504 00:27:28,160 --> 00:27:30,280 Speaker 1: were in a red carpet, even if we were private, 505 00:27:30,320 --> 00:27:32,440 Speaker 1: and you wouldn't even look at me or like smile 506 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:37,120 Speaker 1: at me or hug me done, be done, Yeah, I'd 507 00:27:37,160 --> 00:27:39,520 Speaker 1: be so pissed. I mean, what's one thing if it's 508 00:27:39,520 --> 00:27:44,000 Speaker 1: a complete secret, we all know that together, right, But 509 00:27:44,119 --> 00:27:46,480 Speaker 1: they're never thinking I'm rethinking this whole thing because I 510 00:27:46,520 --> 00:27:47,760 Speaker 1: told you, I don't know if you know this. It's 511 00:27:47,800 --> 00:27:50,200 Speaker 1: like a on a on my you know, ten fifteen 512 00:27:50,280 --> 00:27:53,640 Speaker 1: year plan. When I am married with a significant other, 513 00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:56,399 Speaker 1: I want to have some sort of like job, I 514 00:27:56,400 --> 00:27:58,600 Speaker 1: want to do something with my partner, like some sort 515 00:27:58,600 --> 00:28:03,000 Speaker 1: of Juliana Bill ran Sick type endeavor. And this has 516 00:28:03,000 --> 00:28:08,879 Speaker 1: made me rethink things. I think that's smart. Agree, I 517 00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:14,720 Speaker 1: don't know that like getting involved it's always the key 518 00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:17,920 Speaker 1: to success. Julianna and Bill do it and they are 519 00:28:17,960 --> 00:28:22,040 Speaker 1: having a pie of a time. Hi, Pie in the 520 00:28:22,080 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 1: sky Time, Pie in the sky Time. Just looks like 521 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:29,639 Speaker 1: they're just loving life, loving each other. Oh. If I 522 00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:31,560 Speaker 1: could work with Robbie, I would love it. I just 523 00:28:35,080 --> 00:28:37,640 Speaker 1: what is that? Okay, so you want to get much done? 524 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:42,800 Speaker 1: Then that's true. It would be distracting and he was 525 00:28:42,800 --> 00:28:48,440 Speaker 1: like sitting right here, I'd be like, yeah, same reaction. 526 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:51,480 Speaker 1: You guys are gonna get it when he's on the 527 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:55,000 Speaker 1: podcast soon. I know I was gonna. I was just 528 00:28:55,040 --> 00:29:00,240 Speaker 1: about to say next week, right, yeah, but we're gonna 529 00:29:00,280 --> 00:29:02,400 Speaker 1: do We're gonna do one episode with Haley and we're 530 00:29:02,400 --> 00:29:04,760 Speaker 1: gonna do one episode with Robbie. I think, because I 531 00:29:04,800 --> 00:29:06,560 Speaker 1: think it's too much to have all of us in 532 00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:08,280 Speaker 1: the same one. It would be to play some sort 533 00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:12,760 Speaker 1: of a newly wed game. You know, this is no 534 00:29:12,760 --> 00:29:20,400 Speaker 1: no bad ideas. Okay, this is no bad ideas, This 535 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:22,880 Speaker 1: is no bad ideas. I just feel like there's so much, 536 00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:25,640 Speaker 1: like I feel like Haley needs a whole episode, you 537 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:27,640 Speaker 1: know what I mean? Yeah, No, I agree, I mean 538 00:29:27,680 --> 00:29:30,360 Speaker 1: we could we could probably do three episodes just because 539 00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:31,720 Speaker 1: you know what I'm going to ask her at the 540 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:34,640 Speaker 1: very end. I don't think I'm gonna tell you because 541 00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:35,880 Speaker 1: I don't want you to. I don't want you to 542 00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:41,120 Speaker 1: to to tee her up. Yeah, you're gonna ask about 543 00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:46,000 Speaker 1: the percentage of our relationship. You already told me. I've 544 00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:48,960 Speaker 1: literally been asked this in like every interview I've done 545 00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:52,760 Speaker 1: since we come out. But she hasn't. She has not, 546 00:29:53,040 --> 00:29:56,680 Speaker 1: she has not been asked what the percentages? So that 547 00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:01,280 Speaker 1: enter Oprah Tanya. That's I just think it's wonderful that 548 00:30:01,360 --> 00:30:03,200 Speaker 1: we are in the stage of calling them Robbie and 549 00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:06,600 Speaker 1: Haley instead of calling the Red Star. It's just refreshing 550 00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:09,000 Speaker 1: and wonderful. And I'm not even used to it. I know, 551 00:30:09,160 --> 00:30:13,040 Speaker 1: I know, but you know I also have a very 552 00:30:13,200 --> 00:30:16,400 Speaker 1: fond spot in my heart for those times. If you too, 553 00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:19,440 Speaker 1: I do too. It was such a team effort and 554 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:21,960 Speaker 1: like a sense of just like respect on all of 555 00:30:22,000 --> 00:30:27,200 Speaker 1: our behalfs, especially y'all for me for for navigating those 556 00:30:27,280 --> 00:30:33,600 Speaker 1: challenging times and I really were really rough. But because no, 557 00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 1: I don't feel like we slipped up a lot. I 558 00:30:35,360 --> 00:30:39,840 Speaker 1: feel like, considering the circumstances and how long that time was, 559 00:30:39,920 --> 00:30:42,120 Speaker 1: I don't think we slipped up that much. I think 560 00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:43,800 Speaker 1: there were like a few here and there, but we 561 00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:46,920 Speaker 1: got pretty pretty locked up. It was very impressed with you, Becca. 562 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:49,400 Speaker 1: You you can you know your way around a sentence. 563 00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:51,760 Speaker 1: You really it's a very impressive the way you would 564 00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:55,440 Speaker 1: rework a paragraph on the fly to avoid even having 565 00:30:55,440 --> 00:30:59,080 Speaker 1: a pronoun at all. Yeah, Like I commend you because 566 00:30:59,120 --> 00:31:00,760 Speaker 1: I would just give up. I would be like what 567 00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 1: if never mind, Like they it's gonna draw attention to it, 568 00:31:07,200 --> 00:31:09,040 Speaker 1: and so you just would rework a sense to remove 569 00:31:09,080 --> 00:31:10,760 Speaker 1: all pronouns. I was like, Wow, she did that on 570 00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:15,000 Speaker 1: the fly. That's impressive. You know this, I've probably like 571 00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:18,200 Speaker 1: gained it back on this trip, but I literally lost 572 00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:20,240 Speaker 1: weight after Haley and I came out. I didn't do anything, 573 00:31:20,240 --> 00:31:22,840 Speaker 1: and I think it was the storage stress of avoiding 574 00:31:22,880 --> 00:31:28,040 Speaker 1: pronouns that I lost. I really I literally felt like 575 00:31:28,160 --> 00:31:34,520 Speaker 1: I like physically and mentally got lighter from just life. 576 00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:37,680 Speaker 1: I do think stress like and I don't think I 577 00:31:37,720 --> 00:31:41,000 Speaker 1: even realized that it was stressful. I just think it 578 00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:43,920 Speaker 1: because you do that, you suppress. You're suppressed things. You 579 00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:45,920 Speaker 1: just like sweep them under the rug. You're like it's fine, 580 00:31:45,920 --> 00:31:48,640 Speaker 1: it's fine. But like really, like you were struggling and 581 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:52,640 Speaker 1: trying to trying to avoid doing that anymore. But yeah, 582 00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 1: I mean that is what I do. It's like make 583 00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:58,080 Speaker 1: it easier on everybody. Know you know what, Rebecca, We 584 00:31:58,120 --> 00:32:01,320 Speaker 1: are all just works in progress. And oh, Tony, you 585 00:32:01,360 --> 00:32:05,080 Speaker 1: are just doing your best to just to not sweep 586 00:32:05,080 --> 00:32:07,240 Speaker 1: things under the rug when you've been doing that for 587 00:32:07,320 --> 00:32:09,480 Speaker 1: so many years of your life, Like that is what 588 00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:11,480 Speaker 1: you are used to doing. And the fact that you 589 00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:14,040 Speaker 1: are challenging that now and you are trying to be different, 590 00:32:14,720 --> 00:32:20,440 Speaker 1: that just shows that you're a fighter. You're a grower 591 00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:23,000 Speaker 1: and a shower, you know what I'm saying. I do 592 00:32:23,160 --> 00:32:25,680 Speaker 1: have to say. So I realized something about myself on 593 00:32:25,680 --> 00:32:27,480 Speaker 1: this trip, and I think I've always known it, but 594 00:32:27,520 --> 00:32:30,520 Speaker 1: I really realized it. So we went to this um 595 00:32:30,520 --> 00:32:33,760 Speaker 1: in Nashville. They have like there's only a handful of 596 00:32:33,880 --> 00:32:39,120 Speaker 1: lesbian karaoke bars and or maybe bars lesbian bars in 597 00:32:39,240 --> 00:32:41,600 Speaker 1: the country, like there's very few, but there was one 598 00:32:41,640 --> 00:32:44,840 Speaker 1: in Nashville. So we went after Haley Show and it 599 00:32:44,960 --> 00:32:46,920 Speaker 1: was like there was I mean, there was like a 600 00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:49,400 Speaker 1: few people. It wasn't like a packed house, but it 601 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:54,840 Speaker 1: was so fun and I love watching people karaoke. But 602 00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:58,280 Speaker 1: everyone like Laura was like, Becca, let's go up there 603 00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 1: and do it. And I literally felt like I was 604 00:33:01,080 --> 00:33:03,400 Speaker 1: gonna throw up. I was so nervous about about the 605 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,040 Speaker 1: thought of it, and so I was karaoke so fun. 606 00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:09,080 Speaker 1: I don't think I think it's fun, like I realized 607 00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:11,600 Speaker 1: that night I did it, and I think Backstreet Boys 608 00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:15,360 Speaker 1: and I was so uncomfortable. And I feel like what 609 00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:19,440 Speaker 1: I realized, unless I'm like on the verge of blackout drunk, 610 00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:25,840 Speaker 1: I just don't think I enjoy karaoke. That's an interesting factoid. 611 00:33:26,240 --> 00:33:29,720 Speaker 1: But I had the best time watching people do karaoke, 612 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:34,520 Speaker 1: and it's really and karaoke really shows you people's personalities 613 00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:36,960 Speaker 1: because they either get up there to just be an 614 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:39,760 Speaker 1: absolute fool and they don't care at all what they 615 00:33:39,800 --> 00:33:41,880 Speaker 1: sound will look like, or they go up to give 616 00:33:41,920 --> 00:33:45,840 Speaker 1: the performance of a lifetime. There's no in bet Like, no, 617 00:33:45,960 --> 00:33:48,080 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know where why why my 618 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:49,480 Speaker 1: head went here, But I think it's because you were 619 00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:53,000 Speaker 1: talking about karaoke and like hobbies and if you have 620 00:33:53,200 --> 00:33:57,480 Speaker 1: some time today and you just need to chuckle, do 621 00:33:57,760 --> 00:34:03,720 Speaker 1: read reviews on what do you call vibrators? Read the 622 00:34:03,800 --> 00:34:08,120 Speaker 1: reviews on vibrators because well, I had to order. I 623 00:34:08,120 --> 00:34:09,960 Speaker 1: had to order a new vibrator because I lost my 624 00:34:10,040 --> 00:34:13,359 Speaker 1: charger for my old one and lost that charger more 625 00:34:13,400 --> 00:34:16,080 Speaker 1: than anyone I know said the same thing. He's like, 626 00:34:16,120 --> 00:34:17,839 Speaker 1: why are you always I'm like, I don't know. It's 627 00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,160 Speaker 1: like I can't because I don't charge it very often, 628 00:34:20,640 --> 00:34:22,480 Speaker 1: and so I guess I just misplay because like my 629 00:34:22,560 --> 00:34:24,400 Speaker 1: charger from my phone is like by the bed, but 630 00:34:24,480 --> 00:34:26,680 Speaker 1: like this one, like who knows where I put it. Anyways, 631 00:34:26,680 --> 00:34:29,040 Speaker 1: I ordered a new one that doesn't charge it, so 632 00:34:29,080 --> 00:34:30,680 Speaker 1: I ended up I had to get a whole new 633 00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 1: UH vibrator system. And for some reason, I was like, 634 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:36,040 Speaker 1: I just want to read the reviews, just to like, 635 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:37,560 Speaker 1: I know this one's good, but like I don't want 636 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:41,200 Speaker 1: to see what people say. This chick wrote like a 637 00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:46,680 Speaker 1: five page debrief of like how good this product is 638 00:34:46,840 --> 00:34:49,600 Speaker 1: and why it's so unique, and that she would try 639 00:34:49,640 --> 00:34:52,880 Speaker 1: and have her partners create the same section or whatever. 640 00:34:53,000 --> 00:34:59,560 Speaker 1: Like it was such a time I was peeing my 641 00:34:59,640 --> 00:35:02,080 Speaker 1: pants reading it out loud. So you know, if you're 642 00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:04,160 Speaker 1: just in the market for a laugh today, you can 643 00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:07,080 Speaker 1: just go to Amazon and uh just read some of 644 00:35:07,080 --> 00:35:12,200 Speaker 1: those reviews, because let me tell you that was very funny. 645 00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:18,920 Speaker 1: Same one. So Robbie has no problem with that being 646 00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:23,920 Speaker 1: involved when he's available. Uh, no, no problem at all. 647 00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:25,800 Speaker 1: I mean I don't use it. I don't use it. 648 00:35:26,080 --> 00:35:29,040 Speaker 1: Here's the thing, because someone relationships say, you don't need 649 00:35:29,080 --> 00:35:31,640 Speaker 1: to do that anymore. You have me, you know, but 650 00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:35,439 Speaker 1: let me tell you, a guy's thing can't do the same. 651 00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:39,400 Speaker 1: It's just different. It's just different. And it's not like 652 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:42,080 Speaker 1: I don't prefer one, Like it's like I prefer him obviously, 653 00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:47,319 Speaker 1: but like sometimes it's you know, it's fine and he's 654 00:35:47,360 --> 00:35:49,560 Speaker 1: just like awesome, you know, like he's not going to 655 00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:54,840 Speaker 1: judge me for anything. Yeah, he just wants going to 656 00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:59,960 Speaker 1: be me. Let me fly. Yeah. You know, I really 657 00:36:00,040 --> 00:36:02,319 Speaker 1: admire the fact that you talk about these things on 658 00:36:02,360 --> 00:36:06,279 Speaker 1: the podcast because thinking of all the people in your life, 659 00:36:06,280 --> 00:36:10,120 Speaker 1: you could listen and know these things. I wish. I 660 00:36:10,160 --> 00:36:15,000 Speaker 1: hope to one day vis free as you want a gift, 661 00:36:15,320 --> 00:36:17,600 Speaker 1: who do you give us all? Yeah? I'm like, I'm 662 00:36:17,600 --> 00:36:21,160 Speaker 1: trying to think of who listens to the podcast. Didn't 663 00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:25,399 Speaker 1: my mom still listens? My mom does remember what she said? 664 00:36:25,440 --> 00:36:27,400 Speaker 1: What was it like the egg plant? What was the 665 00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:30,399 Speaker 1: egg play thing that I talked about like forever ago. Yeah, 666 00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:35,359 Speaker 1: my mom is yeah, and I'm listen intentionally, I think 667 00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:38,879 Speaker 1: not to hear these things. Yeah, it's probably for the best. Yeah, 668 00:36:39,040 --> 00:36:42,279 Speaker 1: it's probably for the best. Well, I'm happy you have. 669 00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:45,319 Speaker 1: I mean you have like four now I feel like 670 00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:49,120 Speaker 1: just with but one charger I guess left. So they're 671 00:36:49,160 --> 00:36:51,839 Speaker 1: all like different versions. So the chargers don't It's like 672 00:36:51,960 --> 00:36:56,160 Speaker 1: I just only have. It's it's a mess. Oh, they 673 00:36:56,200 --> 00:37:00,400 Speaker 1: were different, different versions. They're like two point They're like me, 674 00:37:00,480 --> 00:37:02,399 Speaker 1: you know, they just like keep growing and getting better year. 675 00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:10,040 Speaker 1: Tanya and the Satisfier pro one point out, two point out, 676 00:37:10,120 --> 00:37:14,319 Speaker 1: three point out. Okay, we're gonna take a break and 677 00:37:14,360 --> 00:37:32,560 Speaker 1: we'll be back with emails. All right, you guys, we 678 00:37:32,680 --> 00:37:37,440 Speaker 1: are back. We have two emails. Mark, were you on 679 00:37:37,480 --> 00:37:40,879 Speaker 1: the podcast last week with Kristin'll do emails? Did you'll 680 00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:45,920 Speaker 1: do emails? I was on with last week but did 681 00:37:45,960 --> 00:37:48,880 Speaker 1: not do emails. Well, you weren't there when I was 682 00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:52,400 Speaker 1: with Jojo either, So this is like a homecoming for 683 00:37:52,400 --> 00:37:54,200 Speaker 1: all of us. Sure is it's good to be home. 684 00:37:55,080 --> 00:37:57,520 Speaker 1: We'll take it away. Here we go, Taylor says, my 685 00:37:57,600 --> 00:37:59,520 Speaker 1: girlfriend and I we're out for drinks. Last night we 686 00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:01,080 Speaker 1: got on the topic of when do we make our 687 00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:05,000 Speaker 1: significant others our emergency contact and when do we give 688 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,240 Speaker 1: them a key to our places. We all have different 689 00:38:07,239 --> 00:38:08,960 Speaker 1: opinions on this, and I would love to hear Becca 690 00:38:09,040 --> 00:38:14,399 Speaker 1: an Tanya's thoughts are stories about this. Mm hmmm. So 691 00:38:14,600 --> 00:38:17,280 Speaker 1: I mean, right right away, is Robbie your emergency contact? 692 00:38:17,960 --> 00:38:23,799 Speaker 1: Mm hm No, my Haley is not mine either. To 693 00:38:23,800 --> 00:38:27,520 Speaker 1: have a key to your place? Yes, okay, So but 694 00:38:27,680 --> 00:38:31,040 Speaker 1: it tells us something right there. Well, I've been for 695 00:38:31,120 --> 00:38:34,680 Speaker 1: four years, so she didn't have a key to my place, 696 00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:41,440 Speaker 1: I would be concerning a little bit. Yeah, the emergency 697 00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:44,200 Speaker 1: contact thing is interesting because it's like you have to 698 00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:47,719 Speaker 1: actively change that. Like I haven't been filling out paperwork new, 699 00:38:47,920 --> 00:38:49,120 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like all my stuff just 700 00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:50,680 Speaker 1: kind of old. So I just sign it. I'm like, 701 00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:53,880 Speaker 1: it's just still the same. That's your girl. I was 702 00:38:53,880 --> 00:38:59,480 Speaker 1: gonna say Tanya's mine too, and that would say, if 703 00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,160 Speaker 1: you're a doctor's moment tomorrow, you would just keep it. Yeah, 704 00:39:02,960 --> 00:39:06,719 Speaker 1: because yeah, because I do feel like if it was 705 00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:09,440 Speaker 1: between me and like Haley is on a shoot or something, 706 00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:14,640 Speaker 1: she'd be like can't sorry, no, can do But I 707 00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:18,080 Speaker 1: know Daniel would most I'm pretty sure would drop everything 708 00:39:18,120 --> 00:39:23,400 Speaker 1: if there was an emergency for me. Yeah, for sure. Yeah. Um. 709 00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:26,520 Speaker 1: And then the key thing, I'm trying to think when 710 00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:29,200 Speaker 1: we exchanged keys. I don't think it was that far 711 00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:33,600 Speaker 1: into our relationship, to be honest. Hayley was gone for 712 00:39:33,640 --> 00:39:36,200 Speaker 1: a long time when we first started dating though, because 713 00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:38,600 Speaker 1: she was on tour, so it wasn't like we were 714 00:39:39,960 --> 00:39:44,919 Speaker 1: do it like she needed it yet. But interesting because 715 00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,600 Speaker 1: it's like it's it really goes to like when you 716 00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:49,959 Speaker 1: need it, because if you're always going over when they're there, 717 00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:52,560 Speaker 1: you don't really need it. And I think that I 718 00:39:52,600 --> 00:39:55,080 Speaker 1: gave Robbie my key to my place before he gave 719 00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:57,759 Speaker 1: me his his place, which is so telling him our relationship. 720 00:39:58,440 --> 00:40:02,719 Speaker 1: But um, I remember I never really needed the key 721 00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,440 Speaker 1: to his place for such a long time. And then 722 00:40:05,480 --> 00:40:09,359 Speaker 1: it got to a point where I was like, uh, 723 00:40:09,600 --> 00:40:12,360 Speaker 1: doing the passive aggressive like, well, I just like I 724 00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:14,279 Speaker 1: can't go because I don't have a key, don't know. 725 00:40:14,360 --> 00:40:15,719 Speaker 1: I was like doing that whole thing, and then he 726 00:40:15,800 --> 00:40:17,400 Speaker 1: finally got the hint and he was like, do you 727 00:40:17,440 --> 00:40:19,479 Speaker 1: want a key? I'm happy to give you a key 728 00:40:19,600 --> 00:40:21,160 Speaker 1: if I would have just asked, he would have been 729 00:40:21,160 --> 00:40:23,680 Speaker 1: happy to give me a key. That's a lesson here. 730 00:40:23,840 --> 00:40:26,160 Speaker 1: You don't need to be passive aggressive to get what 731 00:40:26,239 --> 00:40:29,600 Speaker 1: you want. Yeah, because guys can just be dumb and 732 00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:33,040 Speaker 1: not think about it. Yeah, like he just didn't like 733 00:40:33,120 --> 00:40:35,120 Speaker 1: it wasn't even like a thing I think he was. 734 00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:37,440 Speaker 1: And then when my passive aggressive miss got to the 735 00:40:37,440 --> 00:40:39,239 Speaker 1: point where he was like, oh, like you could have 736 00:40:39,239 --> 00:40:42,279 Speaker 1: just asked, I'm happy to give you a key. Nothing 737 00:40:42,280 --> 00:40:46,799 Speaker 1: would make me happier. Key whenever you feel comfortable, and 738 00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:50,319 Speaker 1: no rush on the emergency contact. I say emergency contact 739 00:40:50,719 --> 00:40:54,640 Speaker 1: when if you feel like they're if you feel like 740 00:40:54,680 --> 00:40:56,640 Speaker 1: they're going to be the best person to reach in 741 00:40:56,640 --> 00:40:58,960 Speaker 1: case of emergency, like the most available. I don't think it. 742 00:40:59,280 --> 00:41:01,120 Speaker 1: I don't. I'm out like one of those people who 743 00:41:01,160 --> 00:41:05,200 Speaker 1: thinks you're significant other has to be everything in your life, 744 00:41:05,239 --> 00:41:08,719 Speaker 1: Like I feel like Tanya. I would. I feel like 745 00:41:08,760 --> 00:41:12,880 Speaker 1: Tanya is more of a like nurturing and would you know, 746 00:41:13,000 --> 00:41:17,880 Speaker 1: be like, okay, I gotta drop everything friend type of friend. 747 00:41:18,480 --> 00:41:21,239 Speaker 1: I feel like I see just the f I I 748 00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:24,480 Speaker 1: By the way, I told Tanya while being gone, I 749 00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:26,560 Speaker 1: was the one who told her I missed her. That 750 00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:29,480 Speaker 1: was such a treat to see in my inbox, like 751 00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:34,279 Speaker 1: an unsolicited text like that. You know, I've seen you 752 00:41:34,320 --> 00:41:36,760 Speaker 1: in so long. I do miss you. I miss you too. 753 00:41:36,800 --> 00:41:38,359 Speaker 1: But I agree with that. I feel like I might 754 00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:42,480 Speaker 1: switch my emergency contact. Maybe marriage might be when I 755 00:41:42,520 --> 00:41:46,400 Speaker 1: switch it. Yeah, that's that's like when you're legally bound. 756 00:41:46,440 --> 00:41:50,600 Speaker 1: That feels good engagement. I think, yeah, when you're potentially 757 00:41:50,760 --> 00:41:55,480 Speaker 1: when you're promised to be legally bound. Because right now, 758 00:41:55,680 --> 00:41:59,640 Speaker 1: like I'm just boyfriend girlfriend, you know, like those comf 759 00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:03,000 Speaker 1: yeah and go, yeah, I don't need to put him 760 00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:07,920 Speaker 1: on my emergency contact quite yet, Okay, so yeah, whenever's comfortable. 761 00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:11,040 Speaker 1: And he says, So I started seeing this guy. He's 762 00:42:11,040 --> 00:42:13,640 Speaker 1: twenty nine and I'm twenty five. Who met my sister's wedding. 763 00:42:13,719 --> 00:42:17,360 Speaker 1: It's her new husband's best friend. He's super sweet. I'm interested, 764 00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:20,120 Speaker 1: would love another date. We went on a date. He's 765 00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:23,360 Speaker 1: such a gentleman, and after we made out, he went 766 00:42:23,480 --> 00:42:25,920 Speaker 1: for it like not just a little sash, but like 767 00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:29,720 Speaker 1: the touch, all over makeout session. Honestly, I was okay 768 00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:32,680 Speaker 1: with it, but he kept biting my lip. I woke 769 00:42:32,760 --> 00:42:34,799 Speaker 1: up the next morning with a swollen and bruised lip. 770 00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:37,279 Speaker 1: It's been two days and it's still tender. What do 771 00:42:37,360 --> 00:42:39,480 Speaker 1: I say to him? Slash make it playful and not 772 00:42:39,560 --> 00:42:43,400 Speaker 1: hurt his feelings, but a little less chomping place. I 773 00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:47,600 Speaker 1: don't like chomping first of all, Like, okay, you there 774 00:42:47,719 --> 00:42:52,320 Speaker 1: is nothing better than a lipsuckle. Okay, Tanya, I'm talking. 775 00:42:52,440 --> 00:42:55,480 Speaker 1: I don't like the word chomping to describe. What's the 776 00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:58,040 Speaker 1: fine line between chomp and suckle? You know, it's a 777 00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:01,960 Speaker 1: there's a thin line, That's what I'm saying. I agree, 778 00:43:02,440 --> 00:43:05,759 Speaker 1: but a chumping that sounds this is personally what I 779 00:43:05,760 --> 00:43:09,600 Speaker 1: would do. Send him a picture of it. I would 780 00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:12,800 Speaker 1: send a picture and be like, excuse me, like that 781 00:43:13,000 --> 00:43:15,440 Speaker 1: fun last night, and then like make a joke. And 782 00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,440 Speaker 1: then if he's doing like if you are making out again, um, 783 00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:21,040 Speaker 1: I would just be like, oh like I'm still start 784 00:43:21,080 --> 00:43:25,160 Speaker 1: and be like that, you know, I love like she'd 785 00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:27,440 Speaker 1: be like let me show you what I like, or 786 00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:30,120 Speaker 1: or or to be like because I feel like men 787 00:43:30,239 --> 00:43:35,880 Speaker 1: might they get that that's good early on? I don't know, 788 00:43:35,960 --> 00:43:38,880 Speaker 1: but you could be like, uh, send the picture of 789 00:43:38,920 --> 00:43:41,719 Speaker 1: the you know, your bruised tongue or whatever and be 790 00:43:41,800 --> 00:43:45,400 Speaker 1: like next time you or like next time go go gentler. 791 00:43:45,520 --> 00:43:47,520 Speaker 1: I can't. There's only so many things I can say. 792 00:43:47,560 --> 00:43:49,799 Speaker 1: The spider bit my mouth to my coworkers, or something 793 00:43:49,840 --> 00:43:51,480 Speaker 1: about like how you had to lie to your coworkers 794 00:43:51,480 --> 00:43:53,759 Speaker 1: about how you got it. Yeah, you gotta be a 795 00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:56,200 Speaker 1: little more. But if she's like, let me show you, 796 00:43:56,239 --> 00:43:57,560 Speaker 1: and then she could be like, let me show you 797 00:43:57,600 --> 00:43:59,759 Speaker 1: how like and then she shows him and that's like 798 00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:05,160 Speaker 1: sexy but cute and like gentle but also yeah, like 799 00:44:05,600 --> 00:44:11,520 Speaker 1: trumping sounds very painful. Yeah, good luck out there, Annie, Yeah, 800 00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:16,280 Speaker 1: good luck. But you know what fine line? Oh, Tanya, 801 00:44:16,360 --> 00:44:18,279 Speaker 1: I saw this in the scrubbing in group. It was 802 00:44:18,400 --> 00:44:21,160 Speaker 1: I think it was posted anonymously, but it said what 803 00:44:21,200 --> 00:44:23,800 Speaker 1: if you're what would you do if your husband left 804 00:44:24,160 --> 00:44:26,560 Speaker 1: and went out with friends and he was wearing his 805 00:44:26,640 --> 00:44:28,799 Speaker 1: wedding ring when he left, but he came back and 806 00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:32,040 Speaker 1: it wasn't on anymore. You best believe I'd be like, 807 00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:35,399 Speaker 1: what where were you? Where is that ring? What's going on? 808 00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:40,040 Speaker 1: You better have a damn good explanation for it, Like 809 00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:42,680 Speaker 1: I lost it. Well, it's a good explanation for that. 810 00:44:42,680 --> 00:44:44,640 Speaker 1: I feel like I want to trust anything I don't know, 811 00:44:44,760 --> 00:44:46,600 Speaker 1: or like I don't know. I was eating chicken wings, 812 00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:48,240 Speaker 1: and I took it off and put it in my pocket. 813 00:44:48,280 --> 00:44:50,720 Speaker 1: Here it is. I forgot I would trust my partner. 814 00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:55,120 Speaker 1: If you said that, I'd be like, Okay, okay, so 815 00:44:55,200 --> 00:44:59,839 Speaker 1: chicken wings. Man, if you're listening to chicken wings, will 816 00:45:00,040 --> 00:45:03,439 Speaker 1: you get you good job the hook? Ye just say 817 00:45:03,440 --> 00:45:06,600 Speaker 1: you're eating some chicken wings. Yeah. I was I like 818 00:45:06,719 --> 00:45:08,920 Speaker 1: gased when I read that. I was like, oh, I'd 819 00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:11,200 Speaker 1: be so stressed about that. But a lot of the 820 00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:13,319 Speaker 1: scrubber I will say, the scrubbers do a good job 821 00:45:13,360 --> 00:45:15,719 Speaker 1: because they're like, you know, don't panic like he may 822 00:45:15,760 --> 00:45:19,040 Speaker 1: have and may have my husband's rings like slipped off before. 823 00:45:19,280 --> 00:45:22,000 Speaker 1: And that's what I'm saying. If you trust your partner, 824 00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:25,480 Speaker 1: like I trust Robbie completely, so like he wasn't wearing it, 825 00:45:26,040 --> 00:45:27,480 Speaker 1: I would know that there was either it was like 826 00:45:27,520 --> 00:45:29,839 Speaker 1: an accent or something happened, like I would I trust him, 827 00:45:29,880 --> 00:45:32,200 Speaker 1: So that doesn't my mind didn't go there. If he 828 00:45:32,239 --> 00:45:34,000 Speaker 1: had done something in the past to make me not 829 00:45:34,080 --> 00:45:37,239 Speaker 1: trust him, my mind would go into many places. I 830 00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:40,520 Speaker 1: was just about to say, someone said the first question 831 00:45:41,120 --> 00:45:46,680 Speaker 1: or the first thing is like if you immediately assume 832 00:45:47,640 --> 00:45:50,600 Speaker 1: something bad about that, like that's not a good sign 833 00:45:50,640 --> 00:45:55,480 Speaker 1: or something along those lines. You're right, it's a good point. Yeah. Um. 834 00:45:55,920 --> 00:45:58,800 Speaker 1: I was also this was this will be my last story. 835 00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:00,600 Speaker 1: So I was in this uber and this was when 836 00:46:00,600 --> 00:46:03,960 Speaker 1: I was going from Hailey show in New Jersey and 837 00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:05,480 Speaker 1: then they were they were getting on the bus to 838 00:46:05,520 --> 00:46:08,720 Speaker 1: go to like Virginia or something. But I was um 839 00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:11,040 Speaker 1: leaving for Boston to meet Laura, and so I was 840 00:46:11,040 --> 00:46:12,879 Speaker 1: in this uber ride. It was like an hour long, 841 00:46:13,280 --> 00:46:16,319 Speaker 1: and it's like one one in the morning, and with 842 00:46:16,360 --> 00:46:20,360 Speaker 1: this guy this like he's like this like Italian New Yorker. 843 00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:25,880 Speaker 1: Mm hmm, no, not no, And he had asked me 844 00:46:25,920 --> 00:46:28,359 Speaker 1: he said something about his wife or something. So it's 845 00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:30,719 Speaker 1: just he's talking the whole time. So I'm just like, 846 00:46:31,200 --> 00:46:34,000 Speaker 1: it's I don't I hate talking in ubers, but I'm 847 00:46:34,040 --> 00:46:35,920 Speaker 1: just I'm just like, okay, well I'll go along with this. 848 00:46:36,080 --> 00:46:38,040 Speaker 1: So you know, I started asking about, like, oh, how 849 00:46:38,080 --> 00:46:39,680 Speaker 1: do you meet your wife? Well he starts going on 850 00:46:39,719 --> 00:46:43,760 Speaker 1: this tangent about how he slept around all these years 851 00:46:43,840 --> 00:46:46,360 Speaker 1: after his he and his other wife divorced, and but 852 00:46:46,480 --> 00:46:49,120 Speaker 1: I got way too too much information about this man. 853 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:51,560 Speaker 1: Like literally, I was just kind of like, okay, we 854 00:46:51,640 --> 00:46:53,400 Speaker 1: have crossed the line here and now I just like 855 00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,399 Speaker 1: need to get to my destination. Started sharing my ride 856 00:46:56,400 --> 00:47:02,520 Speaker 1: with everyone I know, um, and so I he goes, oh, 857 00:47:02,600 --> 00:47:04,879 Speaker 1: because I guess he saw Haley and I kiss before 858 00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:06,840 Speaker 1: I got in the car, and he was like, so 859 00:47:07,000 --> 00:47:10,879 Speaker 1: that's your girlfriend or you know whatever, and I go, oh, yeah. 860 00:47:11,040 --> 00:47:14,000 Speaker 1: He was asking like how long we've been together, and 861 00:47:14,000 --> 00:47:17,440 Speaker 1: then he was like, so I would ask a question, 862 00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:21,440 Speaker 1: but I don't want to make it in appropriate, and 863 00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:24,600 Speaker 1: I just don't say. I don't say, like, oh, ask it. 864 00:47:24,640 --> 00:47:28,320 Speaker 1: I'm like, okay, I know what he was about to ask. 865 00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:32,239 Speaker 1: He was about to be something about like our sex life, 866 00:47:32,239 --> 00:47:33,960 Speaker 1: and so I'm like, I'm not going to give him 867 00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:37,320 Speaker 1: any space to ask this question. And he goes, okay, 868 00:47:37,320 --> 00:47:40,120 Speaker 1: So like when two women or you know, like how 869 00:47:40,160 --> 00:47:42,239 Speaker 1: do y'all do it? Blah blah blah. And in my 870 00:47:42,280 --> 00:47:45,239 Speaker 1: mind him like the nerve, like the absolute nerve, like 871 00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:49,759 Speaker 1: use your brain, you know, like I was. I was 872 00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:53,360 Speaker 1: just like, oh, I kept it just very basic and 873 00:47:53,520 --> 00:47:56,239 Speaker 1: was like, you know, pretty much the same way I 874 00:47:56,360 --> 00:48:01,239 Speaker 1: just won one part, you know. So at this point, 875 00:48:01,239 --> 00:48:03,680 Speaker 1: in like five minutes from from the building, so I'm 876 00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:07,080 Speaker 1: just like I'm switching this subject and stuff. And so 877 00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:09,200 Speaker 1: then I got out of the car and he's like 878 00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:11,600 Speaker 1: thank you. He was like, thanks for talking to me 879 00:48:11,640 --> 00:48:13,880 Speaker 1: and thanks for answering my question. My dude, this guy's 880 00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:17,120 Speaker 1: like probably early seventies, and he's like, can I give 881 00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:22,480 Speaker 1: you a hug? And I'm like, I am so upset that, 882 00:48:22,560 --> 00:48:26,200 Speaker 1: like my natural response is like no, I don't know. 883 00:48:26,760 --> 00:48:31,160 Speaker 1: I'm like okay. He gives me the most, the longest 884 00:48:31,280 --> 00:48:34,680 Speaker 1: hug and like tight squeeze ever. And I was just like, 885 00:48:35,440 --> 00:48:41,000 Speaker 1: I was like, hi, nice, I would love that, but 886 00:48:41,120 --> 00:48:44,480 Speaker 1: not after that creepy question, I know. And so I 887 00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:46,799 Speaker 1: like started I was thinking about it and I was like, 888 00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:49,520 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, why is it so like, why do 889 00:48:49,600 --> 00:48:53,040 Speaker 1: we make ourselves uncomfortable for the sake of like other people? 890 00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:56,880 Speaker 1: Why do we do that? You you do that? But 891 00:48:57,040 --> 00:48:59,360 Speaker 1: so many people were like, oh my gosh, I relate 892 00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:02,239 Speaker 1: to this. I I do want to hug a stranger 893 00:49:02,400 --> 00:49:06,160 Speaker 1: be asked, and I would have liked it, Tanya, don't 894 00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:11,359 Speaker 1: be sick. I would have not when they're creepy like that. No, Yeah, 895 00:49:11,400 --> 00:49:13,480 Speaker 1: that was creepy. It's just a boundary. So if you're 896 00:49:13,480 --> 00:49:15,600 Speaker 1: a man listening and I guess if you're a woman listening, 897 00:49:15,600 --> 00:49:20,320 Speaker 1: don't be creepy. Don't ask strangers creepy questions, don't be creepy. 898 00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:27,160 Speaker 1: Just be cool. Don't be creepy to be cool exactly. 899 00:49:27,800 --> 00:49:32,120 Speaker 1: Um so that was. But yeah, my my tour ends. 900 00:49:32,120 --> 00:49:35,719 Speaker 1: I'm coming home tomorrow for now, but then it continues. 901 00:49:36,040 --> 00:49:38,120 Speaker 1: I could have used you. I'm doing a little Taco 902 00:49:38,200 --> 00:49:44,480 Speaker 1: Tuesday tonight and durn Yeah, but I'll be there next week. 903 00:49:44,520 --> 00:49:47,799 Speaker 1: If you are doing Taco Tuesday, great, Okay, I know 904 00:49:47,840 --> 00:49:50,480 Speaker 1: we're gonna be in Uh, I don't know, yeah next Tuesday. 905 00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:53,759 Speaker 1: I think we leave the next day. Um, but we 906 00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:59,160 Speaker 1: will be back next week for a Robbie Hailey, Tanya 907 00:49:59,320 --> 00:50:04,879 Speaker 1: Becca uh spectacular multiple episode arcs like a double date. 908 00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:09,600 Speaker 1: It'll be like the double scrubbing in Double Date. Yude. 909 00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:14,319 Speaker 1: But we can't wait. It felt so good to be 910 00:50:14,400 --> 00:50:17,239 Speaker 1: back on the podcast with you all, and I can't 911 00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:22,120 Speaker 1: wait to be together again in person, same same, same, 912 00:50:22,280 --> 00:50:24,920 Speaker 1: same time. I love you guys, Love you have a 913 00:50:24,920 --> 00:50:27,960 Speaker 1: good week. Bye,