Speaker 1: Second date update. There's so many different themed bars nowadays
Speaker 1: that are like fun and kitchy. Yeah, but there's one
Speaker 1: where you can get drinks on a working carnival carousel.
Speaker 2: Oh that's so cool.
Speaker 1: You just go up and down on your horse sea
Speaker 1: while getting schwasted. Yeah, that's part of the fun. And
Speaker 1: there's another one that's called the Ping Pong Emporium with
Speaker 1: over one hundred ping pong tables. You just play and drink.
Speaker 2: It's like beer pong or whatever pong you want.
Speaker 1: Whatever type. My personal favorite, though, is Lose gas Station
Speaker 1: just off the highway. It is themed. It's just like
Speaker 1: a gas station and you can actually pump gas there.
Speaker 1: You just get a six piece sushi and a forty
Speaker 1: of mickeys and then you head into the restroom see
Speaker 1: what happens. That's my style. But I guess one of
Speaker 1: our listeners did a themed bar for his first date
Speaker 1: the other night. His name is Matt, so let's talk
Speaker 1: to him.
Speaker 3: Matt.
Speaker 1: How you doing, I'm doing okay?
Speaker 3: How are you? Guys?
Speaker 2: Are you wishing you knew about Lose sooner so you
Speaker 2: could have taken her there?
Speaker 1: I can show you where it is.
Speaker 3: I mean, I'm open to a new places.
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's my guy. Maybe i'll see you in the
Speaker 1: restaurant there. But first, let's focus on this date you
Speaker 1: went on. Who is the woman that you met?
Speaker 3: Tanita is her name?
Speaker 2: Did you guys meet online on app?
Speaker 1: No?
Speaker 3: Actually it was a she's a friend of a coworker.
Speaker 2: Of mine who we never hear about things like people.
Speaker 1: This is weird.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm recently single and my coworker just was like, oh,
Speaker 3: she's recently single too, so showed me a picture. I
Speaker 3: was like, oh, yeah, she's cute.
Speaker 1: I hate that.
Speaker 2: Okay, I mean he thought she was cute. That's exciting.
Speaker 1: Nobody sets you up unless they're taking pity on.
Speaker 2: You looking for a rebounds. I got sat up with
Speaker 2: my husband about pity.
Speaker 1: Someone felt bad for you and hooked you up with
Speaker 1: some stranger gat man.
Speaker 2: He turned out to be the best guy ever.
Speaker 1: Yeah he is. You you're the party.
Speaker 2: To say.
Speaker 1: Anyway, back to Matt Brook, let's not focus on your
Speaker 1: pitifull life. Matt tell us about yours.
Speaker 3: Well, I was kind of trying to make it a
Speaker 3: year of of yes, so I can understand where you're
Speaker 3: coming from. So I just I was like, you know what,
Speaker 3: I'm just going to say yes to these things.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what was it like when you guys first met.
Speaker 3: We first we talked on the phone and we decided like, yeah,
Speaker 3: let's meet in person. So we went to this bar
Speaker 3: that is like a bar and board games place.
Speaker 4: Okay, why do you say, Oh, like it's negative.
Speaker 1: Chef bord for like, you know, romantic activity.
Speaker 2: I don't know how that goes, but that's fun.
Speaker 1: Yes, for like a family game night, But I don't
Speaker 1: know about a date. What what games were you playing?
Speaker 3: So, like, my favorite game is Connect four and hers
Speaker 3: is Sorry, So we grabbed one of those too, And.
Speaker 4: Those are perfect because they're easy to have conversation at
Speaker 4: the same time you're playing them.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's what I like about Next four.
Speaker 3: It's like it forces you to look at the person
Speaker 3: because it's vertical, you know.
Speaker 1: You apologize. I've definitely played both of those games before,
Speaker 1: but with blindfolds and handcuffs on. So it's probably a
Speaker 1: little bit different rules than you played.
Speaker 2: How do you know when you win Connect four?
Speaker 3: Yeah, that seems like there were some different rules.
Speaker 1: Yea, yeah, we don't talk about that. You did the
Speaker 1: childhood rules.
Speaker 2: Yeah, what was it like it was great.
Speaker 3: Neither one of us were like overly competitive. We had
Speaker 3: some drinks. I mean, your producer even asked me, He
Speaker 3: was like, is there anything that you could think of
Speaker 3: that went wrong? And honestly, there was nothing that was weird.
Speaker 3: We got to know each other and it felt really cool.
Speaker 2: Do you think it was too boring?
Speaker 4: I mean, like that's the only thing, like, if there's
Speaker 4: nothing that stood out, Yeah.
Speaker 3: No, it was fun. Another thing is after the dates
Speaker 3: is kind of a different story. Why So I fully
Speaker 3: intended to go out with her again, and she was
Speaker 3: into it. We talked about it. So the next day
Speaker 3: I sent her a text and I didn't get any response.
Speaker 3: So after a few hours, I was feeling a little antsy,
Speaker 3: so I sent another and I'll just I'll read it
Speaker 3: to you guys. Hold on, So I wrote, you better
Speaker 3: text me back because I might go out with someone
Speaker 3: else tonight, and like a bunch of cute emojis.
Speaker 1: Oh no, I mean I see what you were trying
Speaker 1: to do there.
Speaker 4: Read if you spoke it, maybe, but reading it, especially
Speaker 4: when you read it from someone you don't know.
Speaker 3: That one absolutely I thought you would see that it
Speaker 3: was a joke and she'd be like, yeah, what's his name?
Speaker 3: You know, like I thought she was gonna rip me
Speaker 3: back on it.
Speaker 2: So what did she say back? Anything?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 3: And so I just kind of sent a few more texts,
Speaker 3: Oh God.
Speaker 2: What did you say? As a follow up.
Speaker 3: I just kind of stuck with the same theme. I
Speaker 3: just was like, all right, I'm going out. I like,
Speaker 3: send her a picture of some shoes. I was like, damn,
Speaker 3: getting balled up.
Speaker 1: Years from now, I'm gonna walk down the island say
Speaker 1: I do you don't text me back? Don't bro try?
Speaker 2: That is so cry.
Speaker 1: I love at all.
Speaker 2: Have you talked to the coworker that set you guys up?
Speaker 3: No? Because I just feel like it's embarrassed.
Speaker 2: It's too embarrassed.
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I mean I haven't sent her a sorry
Speaker 3: jiff with like the commercial from the board game.
Speaker 2: Okay, trying to make an inside joke. This doesn't really happening.
Speaker 1: There just too far fast exactly. This might be too
Speaker 1: far gone, but there's a chance we could bring it back.
Speaker 2: Can we delete the text? Isn't too late for that,
Speaker 2: it'd be too late.
Speaker 1: For that, but hopefully we can get her on the
Speaker 1: phone and sweetly convince her to give it another try.
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean I really, I mean, you guys
Speaker 3: know that. So if you can help me, i'd appreciate it.
Speaker 1: Just don't start the conbo with you better text me bad. Yeah,
Speaker 1: well you better stay on hold this entire time. Well,
Speaker 1: we're gonna move on to a different person and get
Speaker 1: them a second.
Speaker 2: Date update, get you a picture of my shoes.
Speaker 3: I deserve that.
Speaker 1: We're gonna do your second ate update right after this.
Speaker 1: Hold on that second date update if you're just joining us.
Speaker 1: We're on the phone with Matt, who says he went
Speaker 1: out on the perfect first date beers board games, It's
Speaker 1: fun body flirtations. That night was flawless. After the date,
Speaker 1: though a little bit of a different story, Matt admits
Speaker 1: he may have messed up because she wasn't responding to
Speaker 1: his text yeah, and in a misguided effort to get
Speaker 1: to Nita to respond, he tried to egger on a
Speaker 1: little bit with something like, Hey, if you don't respond
Speaker 1: to me, I'm gonna go out with someone else.
Speaker 2: Oh my god.
Speaker 4: And he'd only given it a couple hours two for
Speaker 4: her to respond. Yeah, she'd like left him on red
Speaker 4: for a day or two, and.
Speaker 1: When he still got no reply back. He kept teasing
Speaker 1: for a while, saying, I'm serious. I'm gonna swipe on
Speaker 1: someone else soon. Now I'm putting on my shoes if
Speaker 1: you don't call me back.
Speaker 5: Are you a.
Speaker 2: Dad, because dad's never known when the joke's over either.
Speaker 3: I am not a Dade.
Speaker 1: But the thing is, he hasn't said like he's in
Speaker 1: love with her, but you can tell that he does
Speaker 1: like her, and you might do some questionable things when
Speaker 1: you're really into someone.
Speaker 4: No, I really truly think you read it as a joke.
Speaker 4: I think she did not.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's the basis of it. I think
Speaker 3: I just figured. I'm already embarrassed. Lean in.
Speaker 2: Yeah, he tried. We're gonna try harder. We're gonna try harder.
Speaker 1: We're gonna call to Nita here in just a second.
Speaker 2: Digging out of a hole.
Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, you're not painting it very nicely for him,
Speaker 1: You're I'm just saying, I like to get a little
Speaker 1: positivity before we make these calls, a little forward momentum.
Speaker 2: Oh okay, then maybe she blocked you before she saw
Speaker 2: the rest of them.
Speaker 1: Forward, thinking that we need Don't you feel a little
Speaker 1: bit better now, Matty thrilled. Good news is we're not blocked.
Speaker 1: So let's see what she has to say. Here we go. Hello,
Speaker 1: Hey is this Tanita? It is hey Tanita. You're on
Speaker 1: the radio right now with a fun morning show called
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey.
Speaker 2: Welcome to the show, Tanita.
Speaker 5: Yeah, oh, let me get another cup of coffee.
Speaker 2: Okay, wait, that's actually our tagline.
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not really, but I know this might be weird,
Speaker 1: but we do want to talk to you about your
Speaker 1: dating life a little bit. If you have a second.
Speaker 5: What do you mean, what are you talking about.
Speaker 1: It's a segment that we do on our show called
Speaker 1: Second Date Update, and one of our listeners has reached
Speaker 1: out because he went out with you recently, had a
Speaker 1: great time, and now hasn't been able to arrange that
Speaker 1: second meet up. His name is Matt.
Speaker 5: Oh okay, yeah.
Speaker 4: He said, Yeah, has played board games together, which sounded
Speaker 4: really fun.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it was fun. The whole date was fun until
Speaker 5: after the date.
Speaker 1: After the date wasn't fun.
Speaker 5: Well yeah, I mean I don't know. I don't know
Speaker 5: if he told you anything or whatever.
Speaker 1: But I did hear that there were some texts exchanged,
Speaker 1: And by exchanged, I mean just from.
Speaker 4: Him and the good us he's self aware at how
Speaker 4: embarrassing those are.
Speaker 5: Oh really, well, there were a lot more than just
Speaker 5: some texts. It was like, I mean, I don't know
Speaker 5: to the extent of what he said, but like he said, there.
Speaker 1: Was a lot that he was trying to like egg
Speaker 1: you on and say he was going to go on
Speaker 1: a date with somebody else if he didn't reply.
Speaker 4: He was trying to joke, but we also understand how
Speaker 4: it could be read not as a joke, Saul, and
Speaker 4: by like read literally just as.
Speaker 2: A red flag.
Speaker 5: Yeah. Well, he like literally walks from me through an
Speaker 5: entire date with somebody. And that's where I kind of
Speaker 5: was like, maybe, yeah, what do.
Speaker 1: You mean, Wait, what do you mean you walked you
Speaker 1: through a date?
Speaker 3: Oh yeah.
Speaker 5: It was first like he was talking about like let's
Speaker 5: meet up, and then he's like, oh, I'm going to
Speaker 5: go out with somebody if you don't text me back,
Speaker 5: and then it was like I'm out with the girl now.
Speaker 1: Out Wait wait, he really went out on dates.
Speaker 2: No, I think it was a joke. I think he
Speaker 2: was just joking.
Speaker 1: Well I thought that was that was that was the
Speaker 1: perspective that we got hold on you read us the
Speaker 1: text and maybe we can decide.
Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, okay, hold one sec.
Speaker 3: I'm gonna look it up.
Speaker 1: You didn't really go on dates, I don't think so.
Speaker 3: Okay.
Speaker 5: I'm walking out the door out that was the last Okay, okay,
Speaker 5: I just bought a drink. Everything's going well.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, I think he's trying to be funny
Speaker 4: to this.
Speaker 1: Feels achy now though.
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll read you his next text. I'm playing pinball
Speaker 5: with her. But sure, wish I was playing games with you.
Speaker 1: The board games that you were playing on your date.
Speaker 2: Still get Wait, there's work. I like that you can
Speaker 2: find the humor in this, though I appreciate that.
Speaker 5: It's a little bit terrifying. Actually, But his neck text,
Speaker 5: this is the last one I got. So I kissed
Speaker 5: her at the end of the night, but was thinking
Speaker 5: of you the whole time. Smiley face, winkie, faith, hurt.
Speaker 1: Oh no, that's like me.
Speaker 4: And this is this is over like a what three
Speaker 4: hour time span that he said any of these.
Speaker 5: Well, it was like a whole day from the beginning of.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, how how did you not respond?
Speaker 3: For the first one, I was at work.
Speaker 5: It was like there wasn't even even enough time between
Speaker 5: the I mean to answer him, and then it just
Speaker 5: went off the rail.
Speaker 1: Did he make up that date too? Is that a
Speaker 1: real thing?
Speaker 2: I mean, like literally texting at the same time he's
Speaker 2: kissing someone after.
Speaker 1: I'm very curious, and I just want to ask him directly,
Speaker 1: because I need to tell you, Tanita that Matt's on
Speaker 1: the other line right now listening to.
Speaker 3: This yeah with a hey, yeah, man, I thought I
Speaker 3: was embarrassed before.
Speaker 1: That philis in buddy, what what's going on?
Speaker 3: I mean, what do you want me to say? I
Speaker 3: told you guys and sent some embarrassing texts already.
Speaker 4: Well, yeah, but you said you sat like four not
Speaker 4: a whole day's worth not I just made out by date?
Speaker 3: Yeah here, I don't remember getting that number. I mean date, what.
Speaker 1: Were you on a date with another woman for real?
Speaker 1: Or was that all just like made up as a joke.
Speaker 3: I really don't want to have to say, well, it's
Speaker 3: fun at that you were like ha ha guy, No, look, look, okay,
Speaker 3: here's what I so. I went on another date. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 3: o my god, to me, I thought about you the
Speaker 3: whole time.
Speaker 4: Doesn't matter.
Speaker 2: Nothing in the last two minutes, arged you but I was.
Speaker 1: Thinking about you the whole I mean, Tina, does it
Speaker 1: change your mind a little bit that he actually followed
Speaker 1: through and went out with a real girl. It's like
Speaker 1: kind of sweet and truthful in that way. It it
Speaker 1: kind of it's arranged. If he made that whole thing up.
Speaker 5: Yeah, if he made it up, I would have gone
Speaker 5: out with him again because that was like I totally
Speaker 5: would have because he's really really trying hard and maybe
Speaker 5: making a joke. But no, this is like a hard pass,
Speaker 5: hard pass.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, he got into that part yet.
Speaker 3: Okay, hey, can I change my answer? I made the
Speaker 3: whole thing up.
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, let's let's rewind the tape and delete.
Speaker 2: I feel like I feel like this is the first
Speaker 2: time ever.
Speaker 4: It's like, normally people want what they can't have, and
Speaker 4: Tanita just doesn't want.
Speaker 1: It, just doesn't. We don't know that for sure.
Speaker 2: Yet, but go ahead. I mean, it's part of before
Speaker 2: I asked.
Speaker 1: Obviously, he's very embarrassed by what happened, but he knows
Speaker 1: he made a mistake. And sometimes when you really really
Speaker 1: are into someone, you do really really dumb stuff because
Speaker 1: you're afraid.
Speaker 4: Of losing, like make out with other women I mean
Speaker 4: that happens.
Speaker 1: Plus, Matt, you're not still seeing that girl?
Speaker 3: Right? No?
Speaker 1: No, I mean good answer. Okay.
Speaker 2: He was just about to say.
Speaker 1: Let's stop and stop asking if you'd like to go
Speaker 1: out with Matt one more time and we'd pay for it.
Speaker 5: You know, he was so good at Connect four and
Speaker 5: so good at Sorry. He wins all the games, so
Speaker 5: he's really good at playing games. I'm gonna say no.
Speaker 3: Look like.
Speaker 1: Hope, something.
Speaker 2: Like, what are you doing all right?
Speaker 1: Matt? Answer? Yeah, we we can't catch another date, buddy.
Speaker 5: Yeah.
Speaker 3: I thought of something to say, but I almost feel
Speaker 3: like it's worse than the other stuff.
Speaker 2: I don't think that the whole can't get deeper at
Speaker 2: this point.
Speaker 3: Matt, go ahead, Yeah, go ahead, Tonita. I just wish
Speaker 3: you would quit playing games with my heart. Oh my god,
Speaker 3: cringing as I said it, but I have.
Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're all of our listeners, So thank you
Speaker 1: for that, Matt brookd Jeffrey in the morning. Oh man,
Speaker 1: I was so hoping when we asked the question, tell
Speaker 1: me that wasn't a real date. I really wanted him
Speaker 1: to say, no, that's not real, Are you crazy? I
Speaker 1: made that up to get under her skin. Yeah, that's
Speaker 1: exactly what he should have said, even if it was
Speaker 1: a lot.
Speaker 4: Oh my god, this man, I swear like that he
Speaker 4: didn't fill us in on that part, like when we
Speaker 4: first talked to him.
Speaker 2: Yeah, this is like important information.
Speaker 1: So when he told us he really did go out
Speaker 1: with someone else, you could hear all of our reactions.
Speaker 1: Plus the textboard was lighting up with people.
Speaker 2: Just call him an idiot.
Speaker 1: Yeah, not happy. No, they said ditch this guy. We
Speaker 1: did get one text in support of Matt, though.
Speaker 2: Was it the the other person he was out with.
Speaker 1: No, it turns out it was from Matt himself. He said, Hey,
Speaker 1: this is Matt. I'm listening to myself on the radio,
Speaker 1: and I think she should reconsider. It's not as bad
Speaker 1: as it sounds.
Speaker 2: Come on, man, you get a texting while he does.
Speaker 1: Matt, It was as bad as it sounds.
Speaker 2: But it's amazing he can get a lot of first dates.
Speaker 1: Yeah, he had too, Mats back, is that next one?
Speaker 1: We'll keep working on that for you. But if you
Speaker 1: want some help getting another date, we can try. Just
Speaker 1: email the show. We'll call that person. Wasn't calling you
Speaker 1: back