WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Trying To Connect 4

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<v Speaker 1>Second date update. There's so many different themed bars nowadays

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<v Speaker 1>that are like fun and kitchy. Yeah, but there's one

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<v Speaker 1>where you can get drinks on a working carnival carousel.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's so cool.

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<v Speaker 1>You just go up and down on your horse sea

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<v Speaker 1>while getting schwasted. Yeah, that's part of the fun. And

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<v Speaker 1>there's another one that's called the Ping Pong Emporium with

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<v Speaker 1>over one hundred ping pong tables. You just play and drink.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like beer pong or whatever pong you want.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever type. My personal favorite, though, is Lose gas Station

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<v Speaker 1>just off the highway. It is themed. It's just like

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<v Speaker 1>a gas station and you can actually pump gas there.

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<v Speaker 1>You just get a six piece sushi and a forty

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<v Speaker 1>of mickeys and then you head into the restroom see

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<v Speaker 1>what happens. That's my style. But I guess one of

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<v Speaker 1>our listeners did a themed bar for his first date

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<v Speaker 1>the other night. His name is Matt, so let's talk

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<v Speaker 1>to him.

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<v Speaker 3>Matt.

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing, I'm doing okay?

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<v Speaker 3>How are you? Guys?

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<v Speaker 2>Are you wishing you knew about Lose sooner so you

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<v Speaker 2>could have taken her there?

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<v Speaker 1>I can show you where it is.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, I'm open to a new places.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, that's my guy. Maybe i'll see you in the

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<v Speaker 1>restaurant there. But first, let's focus on this date you

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<v Speaker 1>went on. Who is the woman that you met?

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<v Speaker 3>Tanita is her name?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you guys meet online on app?

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<v Speaker 1>No?

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<v Speaker 3>Actually it was a she's a friend of a coworker.

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<v Speaker 2>Of mine who we never hear about things like people.

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<v Speaker 1>This is weird.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I'm recently single and my coworker just was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 3>she's recently single too, so showed me a picture. I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, oh, yeah, she's cute.

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<v Speaker 1>I hate that.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I mean he thought she was cute. That's exciting.

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<v Speaker 1>Nobody sets you up unless they're taking pity on.

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<v Speaker 2>You looking for a rebounds. I got sat up with

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<v Speaker 2>my husband about pity.

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<v Speaker 1>Someone felt bad for you and hooked you up with

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<v Speaker 1>some stranger gat man.

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<v Speaker 2>He turned out to be the best guy ever.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah he is. You you're the party.

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<v Speaker 2>To say.

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<v Speaker 1>Anyway, back to Matt Brook, let's not focus on your

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<v Speaker 1>pitifull life. Matt tell us about yours.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I was kind of trying to make it a

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<v Speaker 3>year of of yes, so I can understand where you're

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<v Speaker 3>coming from. So I just I was like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm just going to say yes to these things.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what was it like when you guys first met.

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<v Speaker 3>We first we talked on the phone and we decided like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>let's meet in person. So we went to this bar

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<v Speaker 3>that is like a bar and board games place.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, why do you say, Oh, like it's negative.

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<v Speaker 1>Chef bord for like, you know, romantic activity.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know how that goes, but that's fun.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, for like a family game night, But I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know about a date. What what games were you playing?

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<v Speaker 3>So, like, my favorite game is Connect four and hers

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<v Speaker 3>is Sorry, So we grabbed one of those too, And.

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<v Speaker 4>Those are perfect because they're easy to have conversation at

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<v Speaker 4>the same time you're playing them.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean that's what I like about Next four.

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<v Speaker 3>It's like it forces you to look at the person

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<v Speaker 3>because it's vertical, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>You apologize. I've definitely played both of those games before,

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<v Speaker 1>but with blindfolds and handcuffs on. So it's probably a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit different rules than you played.

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<v Speaker 2>How do you know when you win Connect four?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, that seems like there were some different rules.

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<v Speaker 1>Yea, yeah, we don't talk about that. You did the

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<v Speaker 1>childhood rules.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what was it like it was great.

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<v Speaker 3>Neither one of us were like overly competitive. We had

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<v Speaker 3>some drinks. I mean, your producer even asked me, He

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<v Speaker 3>was like, is there anything that you could think of

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<v Speaker 3>that went wrong? And honestly, there was nothing that was weird.

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<v Speaker 3>We got to know each other and it felt really cool.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you think it was too boring?

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, like that's the only thing, like, if there's

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<v Speaker 4>nothing that stood out, Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>No, it was fun. Another thing is after the dates

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<v Speaker 3>is kind of a different story. Why So I fully

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<v Speaker 3>intended to go out with her again, and she was

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<v Speaker 3>into it. We talked about it. So the next day

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<v Speaker 3>I sent her a text and I didn't get any response.

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<v Speaker 3>So after a few hours, I was feeling a little antsy,

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<v Speaker 3>so I sent another and I'll just I'll read it

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<v Speaker 3>to you guys. Hold on, So I wrote, you better

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<v Speaker 3>text me back because I might go out with someone

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<v Speaker 3>else tonight, and like a bunch of cute emojis.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, I mean I see what you were trying

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<v Speaker 1>to do there.

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<v Speaker 4>Read if you spoke it, maybe, but reading it, especially

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<v Speaker 4>when you read it from someone you don't know.

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<v Speaker 3>That one absolutely I thought you would see that it

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<v Speaker 3>was a joke and she'd be like, yeah, what's his name?

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<v Speaker 3>You know, like I thought she was gonna rip me

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<v Speaker 3>back on it.

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<v Speaker 2>So what did she say back? Anything?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 3>And so I just kind of sent a few more texts,

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<v Speaker 3>Oh God.

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<v Speaker 2>What did you say? As a follow up.

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<v Speaker 3>I just kind of stuck with the same theme. I

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<v Speaker 3>just was like, all right, I'm going out. I like,

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<v Speaker 3>send her a picture of some shoes. I was like, damn,

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<v Speaker 3>getting balled up.

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<v Speaker 1>Years from now, I'm gonna walk down the island say

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<v Speaker 1>I do you don't text me back? Don't bro try?

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<v Speaker 2>That is so cry.

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<v Speaker 1>I love at all.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you talked to the coworker that set you guys up?

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<v Speaker 3>No? Because I just feel like it's embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 2>It's too embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah yeah, I mean I haven't sent her a sorry

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<v Speaker 3>jiff with like the commercial from the board game.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, trying to make an inside joke. This doesn't really happening.

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<v Speaker 1>There just too far fast exactly. This might be too

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<v Speaker 1>far gone, but there's a chance we could bring it back.

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<v Speaker 2>Can we delete the text? Isn't too late for that,

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<v Speaker 2>it'd be too late.

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<v Speaker 1>For that, but hopefully we can get her on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone and sweetly convince her to give it another try.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, I mean I really, I mean, you guys

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<v Speaker 3>know that. So if you can help me, i'd appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Just don't start the conbo with you better text me bad. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>well you better stay on hold this entire time. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna move on to a different person and get

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<v Speaker 1>them a second.

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<v Speaker 2>Date update, get you a picture of my shoes.

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<v Speaker 3>I deserve that.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna do your second ate update right after this.

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on that second date update if you're just joining us.

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<v Speaker 1>We're on the phone with Matt, who says he went

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<v Speaker 1>out on the perfect first date beers board games, It's

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<v Speaker 1>fun body flirtations. That night was flawless. After the date,

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<v Speaker 1>though a little bit of a different story, Matt admits

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<v Speaker 1>he may have messed up because she wasn't responding to

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<v Speaker 1>his text yeah, and in a misguided effort to get

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<v Speaker 1>to Nita to respond, he tried to egger on a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit with something like, Hey, if you don't respond

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<v Speaker 1>to me, I'm gonna go out with someone else.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 4>And he'd only given it a couple hours two for

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<v Speaker 4>her to respond. Yeah, she'd like left him on red

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<v Speaker 4>for a day or two, and.

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<v Speaker 1>When he still got no reply back. He kept teasing

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<v Speaker 1>for a while, saying, I'm serious. I'm gonna swipe on

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<v Speaker 1>someone else soon. Now I'm putting on my shoes if

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<v Speaker 1>you don't call me back.

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<v Speaker 5>Are you a.

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<v Speaker 2>Dad, because dad's never known when the joke's over either.

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<v Speaker 3>I am not a Dade.

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<v Speaker 1>But the thing is, he hasn't said like he's in

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<v Speaker 1>love with her, but you can tell that he does

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<v Speaker 1>like her, and you might do some questionable things when

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<v Speaker 1>you're really into someone.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I really truly think you read it as a joke.

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<v Speaker 4>I think she did not.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean that's the basis of it. I think

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<v Speaker 3>I just figured. I'm already embarrassed. Lean in.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, he tried. We're gonna try harder. We're gonna try harder.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna call to Nita here in just a second.

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<v Speaker 2>Digging out of a hole.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, yeah, you're not painting it very nicely for him,

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<v Speaker 1>You're I'm just saying, I like to get a little

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<v Speaker 1>positivity before we make these calls, a little forward momentum.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh okay, then maybe she blocked you before she saw

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<v Speaker 2>the rest of them.

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<v Speaker 1>Forward, thinking that we need Don't you feel a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit better now, Matty thrilled. Good news is we're not blocked.

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<v Speaker 1>So let's see what she has to say. Here we go. Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Hey is this Tanita? It is hey Tanita. You're on

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<v Speaker 1>the radio right now with a fun morning show called

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<v Speaker 1>Brooke and Jeffrey.

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<v Speaker 2>Welcome to the show, Tanita.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, oh, let me get another cup of coffee.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, wait, that's actually our tagline.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's not really, but I know this might be weird,

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<v Speaker 1>but we do want to talk to you about your

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<v Speaker 1>dating life a little bit. If you have a second.

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<v Speaker 5>What do you mean, what are you talking about.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a segment that we do on our show called

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<v Speaker 1>Second Date Update, and one of our listeners has reached

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<v Speaker 1>out because he went out with you recently, had a

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<v Speaker 1>great time, and now hasn't been able to arrange that

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<v Speaker 1>second meet up. His name is Matt.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh okay, yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>He said, Yeah, has played board games together, which sounded

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<v Speaker 4>really fun.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it was fun. The whole date was fun until

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<v Speaker 5>after the date.

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<v Speaker 1>After the date wasn't fun.

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<v Speaker 5>Well yeah, I mean I don't know. I don't know

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<v Speaker 5>if he told you anything or whatever.

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<v Speaker 1>But I did hear that there were some texts exchanged,

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<v Speaker 1>And by exchanged, I mean just from.

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<v Speaker 4>Him and the good us he's self aware at how

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<v Speaker 4>embarrassing those are.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh really, well, there were a lot more than just

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<v Speaker 5>some texts. It was like, I mean, I don't know

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<v Speaker 5>to the extent of what he said, but like he said, there.

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<v Speaker 1>Was a lot that he was trying to like egg

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<v Speaker 1>you on and say he was going to go on

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<v Speaker 1>a date with somebody else if he didn't reply.

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<v Speaker 4>He was trying to joke, but we also understand how

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<v Speaker 4>it could be read not as a joke, Saul, and

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<v Speaker 4>by like read literally just as.

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<v Speaker 2>A red flag.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah. Well, he like literally walks from me through an

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<v Speaker 5>entire date with somebody. And that's where I kind of

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<v Speaker 5>was like, maybe, yeah, what do.

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<v Speaker 1>You mean, Wait, what do you mean you walked you

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<v Speaker 1>through a date?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>It was first like he was talking about like let's

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<v Speaker 5>meet up, and then he's like, oh, I'm going to

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<v Speaker 5>go out with somebody if you don't text me back,

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<v Speaker 5>and then it was like I'm out with the girl now.

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<v Speaker 1>Out Wait wait, he really went out on dates.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I think it was a joke. I think he

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<v Speaker 2>was just joking.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I thought that was that was that was the

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<v Speaker 1>perspective that we got hold on you read us the

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<v Speaker 1>text and maybe we can decide.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, okay, okay, hold one sec.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm gonna look it up.

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<v Speaker 1>You didn't really go on dates, I don't think so.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm walking out the door out that was the last Okay, okay,

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<v Speaker 5>I just bought a drink. Everything's going well.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, I think he's trying to be funny

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<v Speaker 4>to this.

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<v Speaker 1>Feels achy now though.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I'll read you his next text. I'm playing pinball

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<v Speaker 5>with her. But sure, wish I was playing games with you.

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<v Speaker 1>The board games that you were playing on your date.

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<v Speaker 2>Still get Wait, there's work. I like that you can

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<v Speaker 2>find the humor in this, though I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a little bit terrifying. Actually, But his neck text,

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<v Speaker 5>this is the last one I got. So I kissed

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<v Speaker 5>her at the end of the night, but was thinking

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<v Speaker 5>of you the whole time. Smiley face, winkie, faith, hurt.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, that's like me.

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<v Speaker 4>And this is this is over like a what three

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<v Speaker 4>hour time span that he said any of these.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, it was like a whole day from the beginning of.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, how how did you not respond?

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<v Speaker 3>For the first one, I was at work.

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<v Speaker 5>It was like there wasn't even even enough time between

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<v Speaker 5>the I mean to answer him, and then it just

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<v Speaker 5>went off the rail.

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<v Speaker 1>Did he make up that date too? Is that a

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<v Speaker 1>real thing?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, like literally texting at the same time he's

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<v Speaker 2>kissing someone after.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm very curious, and I just want to ask him directly,

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<v Speaker 1>because I need to tell you, Tanita that Matt's on

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<v Speaker 1>the other line right now listening to.

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<v Speaker 3>This yeah with a hey, yeah, man, I thought I

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<v Speaker 3>was embarrassed before.

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<v Speaker 1>That philis in buddy, what what's going on?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, what do you want me to say? I

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<v Speaker 3>told you guys and sent some embarrassing texts already.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, yeah, but you said you sat like four not

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<v Speaker 4>a whole day's worth not I just made out by date?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah here, I don't remember getting that number. I mean date, what.

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<v Speaker 1>Were you on a date with another woman for real?

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<v Speaker 1>Or was that all just like made up as a joke.

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<v Speaker 3>I really don't want to have to say, well, it's

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<v Speaker 3>fun at that you were like ha ha guy, No, look, look, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>here's what I so. I went on another date. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>o my god, to me, I thought about you the

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<v Speaker 3>whole time.

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<v Speaker 4>Doesn't matter.

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<v Speaker 2>Nothing in the last two minutes, arged you but I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Thinking about you the whole I mean, Tina, does it

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<v Speaker 1>change your mind a little bit that he actually followed

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<v Speaker 1>through and went out with a real girl. It's like

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<v Speaker 1>kind of sweet and truthful in that way. It it

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<v Speaker 1>kind of it's arranged. If he made that whole thing up.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, if he made it up, I would have gone

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<v Speaker 5>out with him again because that was like I totally

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<v Speaker 5>would have because he's really really trying hard and maybe

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<v Speaker 5>making a joke. But no, this is like a hard pass,

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<v Speaker 5>hard pass.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god, he got into that part yet.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, hey, can I change my answer? I made the

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<v Speaker 3>whole thing up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, let's let's rewind the tape and delete.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like I feel like this is the first

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<v Speaker 2>time ever.

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<v Speaker 4>It's like, normally people want what they can't have, and

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<v Speaker 4>Tanita just doesn't want.

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<v Speaker 1>It, just doesn't. We don't know that for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Yet, but go ahead. I mean, it's part of before

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<v Speaker 2>I asked.

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<v Speaker 1>Obviously, he's very embarrassed by what happened, but he knows

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<v Speaker 1>he made a mistake. And sometimes when you really really

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<v Speaker 1>are into someone, you do really really dumb stuff because

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<v Speaker 1>you're afraid.

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<v Speaker 4>Of losing, like make out with other women I mean

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<v Speaker 4>that happens.

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<v Speaker 1>Plus, Matt, you're not still seeing that girl?

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<v Speaker 3>Right? No?

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<v Speaker 1>No, I mean good answer. Okay.

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<v Speaker 2>He was just about to say.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's stop and stop asking if you'd like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Matt one more time and we'd pay for it.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, he was so good at Connect four and

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<v Speaker 5>so good at Sorry. He wins all the games, so

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<v Speaker 5>he's really good at playing games. I'm gonna say no.

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<v Speaker 3>Look like.

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<v Speaker 1>Hope, something.

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<v Speaker 2>Like, what are you doing all right?

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<v Speaker 1>Matt? Answer? Yeah, we we can't catch another date, buddy.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>I thought of something to say, but I almost feel

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<v Speaker 3>like it's worse than the other stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't think that the whole can't get deeper at

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<v Speaker 2>this point.

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<v Speaker 3>Matt, go ahead, Yeah, go ahead, Tonita. I just wish

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<v Speaker 3>you would quit playing games with my heart. Oh my god,

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<v Speaker 3>cringing as I said it, but I have.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so we're all of our listeners, So thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for that, Matt brookd Jeffrey in the morning. Oh man,

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<v Speaker 1>I was so hoping when we asked the question, tell

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<v Speaker 1>me that wasn't a real date. I really wanted him

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<v Speaker 1>to say, no, that's not real, Are you crazy? I

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<v Speaker 1>made that up to get under her skin. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what he should have said, even if it was

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<v Speaker 1>a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh my god, this man, I swear like that he

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<v Speaker 4>didn't fill us in on that part, like when we

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<v Speaker 4>first talked to him.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, this is like important information.

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<v Speaker 1>So when he told us he really did go out

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<v Speaker 1>with someone else, you could hear all of our reactions.

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<v Speaker 1>Plus the textboard was lighting up with people.

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<v Speaker 2>Just call him an idiot.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, not happy. No, they said ditch this guy. We

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<v Speaker 1>did get one text in support of Matt, though.

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<v Speaker 2>Was it the the other person he was out with.

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<v Speaker 1>No, it turns out it was from Matt himself. He said, Hey,

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<v Speaker 1>this is Matt. I'm listening to myself on the radio,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think she should reconsider. It's not as bad

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<v Speaker 1>as it sounds.

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<v Speaker 2>Come on, man, you get a texting while he does.

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<v Speaker 1>Matt, It was as bad as it sounds.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's amazing he can get a lot of first dates.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, he had too, Mats back, is that next one?

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<v Speaker 1>We'll keep working on that for you. But if you

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<v Speaker 1>want some help getting another date, we can try. Just

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<v Speaker 1>email the show. We'll call that person. Wasn't calling you

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<v Speaker 1>back