1 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:15,280 Speaker 1: Crime Stories with Nancy Grace. When you see her, you 2 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:19,680 Speaker 1: may think she's a model. This young mother of two 3 00:00:20,040 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 1: goes missing. The mystery surrounding the disappearance Melissa Trumpy is swirling, 4 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: and the more I investigate, it seems as if the 5 00:00:34,760 --> 00:00:41,760 Speaker 1: more tentacles it develops, and the mercier the mystery becomes. 6 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:45,400 Speaker 1: I'm Nancy Grace. This is Crime Stories. Thank you for 7 00:00:45,479 --> 00:00:48,560 Speaker 1: being with us here at Fox Nation and Serious XM 8 00:00:48,760 --> 00:00:54,560 Speaker 1: one eleven. The more idelve into the disappearance of Melissa Trumpy, 9 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: the more I find out, the more obscure and odd 10 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:04,440 Speaker 1: different players in this scenario are, the more possibilities as 11 00:01:04,440 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 1: to her whereabouts develop. First of all, take a listen 12 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 1: to our friends WMTV right now. A search underway to 13 00:01:11,720 --> 00:01:15,560 Speaker 1: find a woman from Monticello. The Greene County Sheriff's office 14 00:01:15,640 --> 00:01:19,880 Speaker 1: says Melissa Trumpy was last seen on Tuesday in Monroe. 15 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:23,840 Speaker 1: NBC fifteen Disagambriella Rosque spoke with her family today, who 16 00:01:23,840 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 1: are desperately looking to bring her home. Authority say Melissa 17 00:01:28,200 --> 00:01:31,200 Speaker 1: is believed to have traveled to Shannon, Illinois the night 18 00:01:31,280 --> 00:01:34,680 Speaker 1: she went missing. Shannon is about an hour away from 19 00:01:34,720 --> 00:01:38,120 Speaker 1: Monroe and that area is where loved one spent hours 20 00:01:38,360 --> 00:01:45,000 Speaker 1: searching for her in cornfields, in woods, under bridges, in creeks. 21 00:01:45,520 --> 00:01:49,240 Speaker 1: While searching for Melissa Trumpy. Yes, she deserved better than that. 22 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:52,280 Speaker 1: She really did. That family say, the thirty seven year 23 00:01:52,280 --> 00:01:55,560 Speaker 1: old is a loving mother. She's got three beautiful kids, 24 00:01:55,720 --> 00:02:01,520 Speaker 1: amazing kids, and you love her very much. And the 25 00:02:01,560 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 1: Carroll County Sheriff's Office believes Melissa may have been driving 26 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:08,800 Speaker 1: a Tan Toyota Sedan. Anyone with any information is asked 27 00:02:08,800 --> 00:02:12,480 Speaker 1: to call Carroll County Crimestoppers. Just wait for a moment. 28 00:02:12,520 --> 00:02:17,280 Speaker 1: And when I tried cases, you could not say this 29 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 1: to a jury, but I can say it now to you. 30 00:02:21,480 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: Put yourself in the position of Melissa's family. Think about it. 31 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: I don't like thinking about one of my children being missing, 32 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 1: or my husband being missing. I don't like to do that. 33 00:02:34,639 --> 00:02:38,040 Speaker 1: But just go with it for one moment. Think in 34 00:02:38,040 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: your mind. You don't have to say it out loud. 35 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:45,600 Speaker 1: The person you love the most in the world. Now, 36 00:02:45,840 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: imagine yourself driving aimlessly around town, around the area, looking 37 00:02:52,840 --> 00:02:58,799 Speaker 1: in cornfields. Will you ever been in a cornfield? That's 38 00:02:58,800 --> 00:03:01,400 Speaker 1: why they make maze is out of them. You can't 39 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 1: see a thing. The corn is much taller than you are, 40 00:03:04,320 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 1: and you're just going through it randomly, and sometimes you 41 00:03:07,720 --> 00:03:09,440 Speaker 1: can't even get out of it. You don't know which 42 00:03:09,440 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 1: way to turn, fighting your way through cornfields, under bridges, 43 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:20,440 Speaker 1: looking under bridges. Have you ever driven by bridges on 44 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:25,960 Speaker 1: the interstate and you see homeless encampments there? Imagine looking 45 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: through that looking for that person, that needle in a haystack. 46 00:03:32,080 --> 00:03:38,640 Speaker 1: Corn Fields in woods, in creeks. You know, when you're 47 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:41,480 Speaker 1: looking for somebody in a creek, you're assuming that they're 48 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:46,680 Speaker 1: dead and they're lying in a creek. Under bridges, driving 49 00:03:46,760 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: through neighborhood after neighborhood looking That's what her family has 50 00:03:54,280 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 1: gone through, and her children are wondering, where's mommy. When 51 00:03:58,680 --> 00:04:01,000 Speaker 1: I go out of town for one or two days 52 00:04:01,120 --> 00:04:07,320 Speaker 1: for work, when I come home, the house is the wreck. Fine, 53 00:04:07,440 --> 00:04:11,160 Speaker 1: don't care, But I look in the twins backpacks and 54 00:04:11,200 --> 00:04:13,240 Speaker 1: they have all this stuff in there for like two 55 00:04:13,320 --> 00:04:18,080 Speaker 1: or three days. Everything's just gone to well, hell hell 56 00:04:18,160 --> 00:04:20,880 Speaker 1: in a handbasket and it looks like there's no food 57 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:23,360 Speaker 1: and the cat and dog's bowl. I'm like, what have 58 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:28,599 Speaker 1: they been eating and drinking? It's just these children don't 59 00:04:28,640 --> 00:04:31,200 Speaker 1: have their mom to hold it all together for them? 60 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: Why where is she with me? An all star panel 61 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:41,960 Speaker 1: to make sense of what we know right now? James 62 00:04:41,960 --> 00:04:46,320 Speaker 1: Shellnut twenty seven years mastro major case now lawyer at 63 00:04:46,360 --> 00:04:51,039 Speaker 1: Shellnut Law from dot com. Doctor Sherry Schwartz forensic psychologists 64 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:55,719 Speaker 1: specializing in crimes and victim advocacy. She is the author 65 00:04:55,760 --> 00:05:00,760 Speaker 1: of Criminal Behavior and When Where Law and Psychology to Intersect. 66 00:05:01,240 --> 00:05:05,080 Speaker 1: Lisa M. Daddy O, former police lieutenant in New Haven, 67 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:10,520 Speaker 1: Senior lecturer and the director for the Center of Advanced Policing. 68 00:05:11,240 --> 00:05:15,280 Speaker 1: Stephanie Quirk joining US multi media journalist reporter ki f 69 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:21,040 Speaker 1: R twenty three. Benny Affronti is joining us. He is 70 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:27,600 Speaker 1: the father of Melissa's youngest children. Benny, that is a 71 00:05:27,720 --> 00:05:34,880 Speaker 1: huge hurdle to get over where you tell yourself she's 72 00:05:34,920 --> 00:05:41,240 Speaker 1: not missing, she's dead, and that's your mindset. It's no 73 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: longer search, it's recovery. How old are her youngest children? 74 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:54,039 Speaker 1: Matteo is six almost seven, and Josie is eight. Oh, 75 00:05:54,120 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 1: my stars, I didn't realize they were that little. Mateo 76 00:05:58,080 --> 00:06:03,560 Speaker 1: is six and Josie is eight. Yeah, And if Mandy 77 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:08,000 Speaker 1: embOS this is Melissa's sister Mandy, what are you saying 78 00:06:08,040 --> 00:06:12,320 Speaker 1: about the oldest child. She's fifteen. So there's Delana who's fifteen. 79 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:17,040 Speaker 1: She was born with Melissa's first husband, and then they 80 00:06:17,240 --> 00:06:19,200 Speaker 1: did worse than then Bunny and hermant and they had 81 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 1: Josie Matteo who's eight and six, So eight six and fifteen. 82 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:30,000 Speaker 1: My children, Mandy are they're twins and they're fourteen, and 83 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:33,680 Speaker 1: you know, you think, wow, this is the year they 84 00:06:33,800 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 1: needed me the most. You know, I thought that when 85 00:06:36,520 --> 00:06:39,320 Speaker 1: they were born, because they were really premature, and I 86 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:43,440 Speaker 1: struggled every day just to keep them alive, especially Lucy. 87 00:06:43,960 --> 00:06:46,599 Speaker 1: Then you know, they started walking, and then this and 88 00:06:46,640 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 1: then that, and then they went to school and thought, wow, 89 00:06:48,960 --> 00:06:53,800 Speaker 1: they really need a mom somebody there in these first 90 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:56,680 Speaker 1: years of school. Then they got in middle school. Now 91 00:06:56,720 --> 00:07:00,000 Speaker 1: they're going to high school and it's a whole knee 92 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:04,680 Speaker 1: you minefield of bombs that could go off and and 93 00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:09,039 Speaker 1: needs and wants for that parent. So there is no 94 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:14,760 Speaker 1: good age to be without your mom. And you told me, 95 00:07:15,400 --> 00:07:18,440 Speaker 1: Benny that Josie h eight, will just start crying all 96 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 1: the time all the time. You know, I miss mommy. 97 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: I want mommy back. And even though it's been explained 98 00:07:29,960 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 1: to the kids, you know that mommy probably is not 99 00:07:34,240 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 1: coming back. Oh they still have that hope, you know, 100 00:07:39,240 --> 00:07:44,760 Speaker 1: they still Josie will still say, well, I hope mommy 101 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 1: does come back, you know. And that's even after me explaining, 102 00:07:49,600 --> 00:07:52,320 Speaker 1: you know, they don't think, Benny, that she left because 103 00:07:52,360 --> 00:07:56,360 Speaker 1: she wanted to do they? Oh, they know? Oh, because 104 00:07:56,360 --> 00:07:59,000 Speaker 1: that would even be worse. I mean, doctor Sherry Schwartz. 105 00:07:59,000 --> 00:08:02,840 Speaker 1: Wouldn't that be worse if your child thought you left 106 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 1: them and never came back, as opposed to your mom 107 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 1: being taken away. Absolutely, it would. You know. The thing is, 108 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 1: it's a major trauma when one parent is absent, and 109 00:08:14,280 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 1: it but it will impact a child's self esteem if 110 00:08:17,520 --> 00:08:21,560 Speaker 1: they believe that the parent left because of something. You know, 111 00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:25,000 Speaker 1: kids naturally internalized and so they think, oh, mom left 112 00:08:25,120 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: because of me. So in a way, them knowing that, 113 00:08:29,000 --> 00:08:32,760 Speaker 1: you know, parent left through no fault of theirs, through 114 00:08:32,800 --> 00:08:34,720 Speaker 1: no faults of the parents, and they would come back 115 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:38,920 Speaker 1: if they could. Even though it's it's very little consolation, 116 00:08:39,360 --> 00:08:42,559 Speaker 1: it's some what was that last sentence? Even though it's 117 00:08:42,679 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 1: very little consolation to the child, right, it's a little, 118 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:49,120 Speaker 1: but it is some consolation to know mom would be 119 00:08:49,200 --> 00:08:51,720 Speaker 1: here if she could. Oh gosh, you know to you. 120 00:08:51,840 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 1: Stephanie Quirk joining me from w i f R, I 121 00:08:56,400 --> 00:09:00,720 Speaker 1: got off on a tangent with Benny and many because 122 00:09:01,559 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 1: you know, I'm projecting my own family if I or 123 00:09:06,360 --> 00:09:09,160 Speaker 1: David were to go missing. But let's get down to 124 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:13,600 Speaker 1: what really happened. Take a listen to our friends at 125 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 1: wi FR. She just disappeared into this air late. That 126 00:09:19,559 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 1: doesn't happen. The sisters say they assume Trump is most 127 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 1: likely dead, and their hopes to find a body so 128 00:09:27,080 --> 00:09:30,679 Speaker 1: her children can finally have closure. They say they are 129 00:09:30,760 --> 00:09:34,600 Speaker 1: frustrated the police haven't given them any more information, but 130 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:37,480 Speaker 1: understand that a lot of it has to be off 131 00:09:37,520 --> 00:09:40,240 Speaker 1: the record. Yeah, it was supplied me and Poor to 132 00:09:40,360 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 1: help them during some of their law enforcement operations Stone 133 00:09:43,360 --> 00:09:50,520 Speaker 1: in Illinois. But to this point, Melissa's unfortunately is still missing. 134 00:10:02,880 --> 00:10:07,720 Speaker 1: Time stories with Nancy Grace, Let's start at the very beginning. 135 00:10:07,720 --> 00:10:11,520 Speaker 1: Stephanie Court joining me, multi media journalist and reporter at 136 00:10:11,640 --> 00:10:15,760 Speaker 1: wi f R twenty three. I know this went down 137 00:10:15,800 --> 00:10:20,080 Speaker 1: and the monte Cello Monroe area of Wisconsin. Tell me 138 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:23,920 Speaker 1: about that? Is that rural suburban? Urban? Is it a city? 139 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 1: What is it so. Monta Cello is more of a 140 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:31,600 Speaker 1: rural area. That's where Melissa's actually from. It's about twelve 141 00:10:31,720 --> 00:10:34,960 Speaker 1: hundred people, very low crime, not a lot of crime 142 00:10:35,000 --> 00:10:40,000 Speaker 1: at all. And Monroe is a city about ten thousand people, 143 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:48,000 Speaker 1: but where she was headed is about and Shannon is 144 00:10:48,040 --> 00:10:51,280 Speaker 1: about eight hundred people, and that's about an hour drive 145 00:10:51,800 --> 00:10:55,200 Speaker 1: from Monte Cello, also a very rural town, considered very 146 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:57,960 Speaker 1: low crime, almost none at all. You know, when I 147 00:10:58,040 --> 00:11:02,480 Speaker 1: was researching her just appearance, I saw that Monte Solo 148 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:07,439 Speaker 1: is actually described as a village. Oh yeah, the village, yes, 149 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 1: very small because you know, to you James Shelnutt, twenty 150 00:11:13,400 --> 00:11:18,960 Speaker 1: seven years Metro major case now lawyer with the Shelnutt Firm. James, 151 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:23,520 Speaker 1: I'm projecting again. I grew up in a very rural area. 152 00:11:23,559 --> 00:11:28,800 Speaker 1: It's more grown up now, but it was the Rutland community. 153 00:11:28,960 --> 00:11:32,040 Speaker 1: It was not even a village. And to even get 154 00:11:32,080 --> 00:11:34,720 Speaker 1: to a McDonald's, we had to drive twenty five minutes. 155 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:38,360 Speaker 1: Twenty five minutes to get to a McDonald's. So let 156 00:11:38,440 --> 00:11:40,839 Speaker 1: me just say we never went out to eat. I 157 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:44,840 Speaker 1: can tell you that much. So the reason I'm asking 158 00:11:45,040 --> 00:11:49,800 Speaker 1: is because that bears on what happened this mom, Melissa 159 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:52,679 Speaker 1: Trumpy did not just walk off on our own. That 160 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 1: did not happen. Correct me if I'm wrong. Lisa Daddio, 161 00:11:56,840 --> 00:12:00,920 Speaker 1: former police lieutenant in New Haven, PD. There's been no 162 00:12:01,040 --> 00:12:05,760 Speaker 1: ATM movement, no credit card, no gas cards, no cell 163 00:12:05,800 --> 00:12:11,480 Speaker 1: phone calls, no nothing, nothing, no anything has happened since 164 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 1: she went missing. Right, It's terrible, And the fact that 165 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:22,880 Speaker 1: there's been absolutely nothing is um it is telling. It's scary. 166 00:12:23,240 --> 00:12:26,560 Speaker 1: Of course, you've always got a Sherry Peppini type thing, 167 00:12:27,080 --> 00:12:32,719 Speaker 1: a gone girl scenario, but there's no indication that happened here. 168 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:37,160 Speaker 1: So back to you, shell Nutt. The area says she 169 00:12:37,360 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: we don't believe she left on her own becomes significant 170 00:12:40,280 --> 00:12:42,440 Speaker 1: because then you're looking at a pool of suspects, and 171 00:12:42,480 --> 00:12:47,120 Speaker 1: if it's rural, it's highly unlikely that this is a 172 00:12:47,200 --> 00:12:49,680 Speaker 1: stranger on a stranger kid that. Oh, I agree with 173 00:12:49,720 --> 00:12:53,040 Speaker 1: you one and especially you know you're gonna want to 174 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:56,120 Speaker 1: look for sure at who she was with and where 175 00:12:56,120 --> 00:12:58,800 Speaker 1: she went missing from. And if she went missing from 176 00:12:58,800 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 1: a small town, you're right, based off just population numbers, 177 00:13:02,200 --> 00:13:04,640 Speaker 1: there's a smaller group of people to look at, a 178 00:13:04,800 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 1: smaller chance that she's going to come in contact with 179 00:13:07,200 --> 00:13:10,240 Speaker 1: someone who's transient that did something to her, and it 180 00:13:10,480 --> 00:13:13,520 Speaker 1: certainly helps narrow down the search. I mean, we've had 181 00:13:14,559 --> 00:13:17,160 Speaker 1: a lot of cases, not a lot. We've had some 182 00:13:17,320 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 1: cases where a stranger attack occurred in a rural area 183 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:26,520 Speaker 1: by happenstance they were traveling through. There's a possibility of 184 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:30,560 Speaker 1: a stranger and let's just say the Delphi murders of 185 00:13:30,960 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 1: two little girls, Abigail and Liberty Libby. But it is 186 00:13:37,000 --> 00:13:40,240 Speaker 1: few and far between that in a rural setting, especially 187 00:13:40,280 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 1: this small twelve hundred people and in the next village 188 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:47,559 Speaker 1: over eight hundred, that a stranger is going to swoop 189 00:13:47,640 --> 00:13:51,600 Speaker 1: in and take this young mom without leaving a trace, 190 00:13:51,960 --> 00:13:55,199 Speaker 1: highly unlikely. Back to you, Stephanie Quar joining me w 191 00:13:55,400 --> 00:14:00,960 Speaker 1: I f R twenty three. Stephanie, tell me about when 192 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:05,280 Speaker 1: she went missing. So she was last seen October twenty six. 193 00:14:05,960 --> 00:14:09,520 Speaker 1: Police say in Monroe she was believed to be heading 194 00:14:09,559 --> 00:14:13,000 Speaker 1: towards her boyfriend's house in Shannon, Illinois. How far away 195 00:14:13,080 --> 00:14:15,880 Speaker 1: is that between each other. That's about an hour from 196 00:14:15,880 --> 00:14:18,720 Speaker 1: monte Cello, so one hour. Hold on just a second, 197 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:21,680 Speaker 1: and Stephanie Cort, do we know what time of the 198 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:24,320 Speaker 1: day or not it was that she was heading to 199 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:29,760 Speaker 1: the one hour drive. I believe it was night. Okay, 200 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 1: what about it, Banny or Mandy jump? At what time 201 00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:35,720 Speaker 1: did she set off? Ten thirty? She left her job 202 00:14:35,840 --> 00:14:38,400 Speaker 1: here in Monroe and head to day. What was her job? 203 00:14:38,720 --> 00:14:41,920 Speaker 1: She was a care provider for her best friend. Her 204 00:14:41,920 --> 00:14:44,440 Speaker 1: best friend since they were in kindergarten when she was 205 00:14:44,480 --> 00:14:46,800 Speaker 1: around eighteen, got into a car accident with a drunk 206 00:14:46,880 --> 00:14:51,320 Speaker 1: driver and became paralyzed. So she committed her life to 207 00:14:51,440 --> 00:14:53,840 Speaker 1: taking care of her best friend. So she went in 208 00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:57,200 Speaker 1: home every day, got her up to care of her 209 00:14:57,240 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 1: throughout the day, and then she'd go home and put 210 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:01,040 Speaker 1: her about it. She did this for years. Did she 211 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:04,800 Speaker 1: get paid for that? Did? Yeah? So she's a professional caregiver. 212 00:15:04,960 --> 00:15:07,320 Speaker 1: I gotta tell you there is a special place in 213 00:15:07,360 --> 00:15:11,240 Speaker 1: heaven for caregivers. I have my soon to be ninety 214 00:15:11,320 --> 00:15:15,400 Speaker 1: one year old mother with me, lives with us, and 215 00:15:16,160 --> 00:15:19,720 Speaker 1: my husband takes you know, and he didn't sign up 216 00:15:19,720 --> 00:15:23,760 Speaker 1: for that. He takes care of her. I take care 217 00:15:23,800 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 1: of her. And you have to have a certain disposition 218 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:32,080 Speaker 1: to take care of someone day in day out, you know, 219 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 1: a lot of love, got to have a big heart, 220 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:39,280 Speaker 1: you just told me a lot about Melissa by telling 221 00:15:39,320 --> 00:15:43,240 Speaker 1: me what you just said. So she gets off and 222 00:15:43,760 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 1: hops in her car. Tell me about her car, Stephanie 223 00:15:47,080 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 1: kirk No. The next day after she was last seen, 224 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:56,920 Speaker 1: her trump was found in Bolton Road near Freeport. That's 225 00:15:56,920 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 1: about twenty minutes north of Shannon, and all her belongings 226 00:16:01,560 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 1: were in the vehicle with no sign of Melissa hold On. 227 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:08,880 Speaker 1: One moment out earlier, I heard that she was driving 228 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:15,240 Speaker 1: a Tan Sedan. So that's wrong, right, thank you. Let's 229 00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:21,000 Speaker 1: fix that. A Toyota Tundra and color like a two 230 00:16:21,080 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 1: toned gray and silver, gray and silver. Yeah, And I'm 231 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:26,440 Speaker 1: asking for a reason. I know it's been recovered, but 232 00:16:26,480 --> 00:16:30,320 Speaker 1: I'm asking for a reason. Gray silver, two toned Toyota Tundra. 233 00:16:30,520 --> 00:16:33,160 Speaker 1: Do you have the year? Just by chance? Brand News? 234 00:16:33,160 --> 00:16:36,240 Speaker 1: She got it from Enterprise, So I'm getting twenty twenty one, 235 00:16:36,320 --> 00:16:39,320 Speaker 1: twenty twenty two Toyota Tundra. You know, one of the 236 00:16:39,360 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 1: first things that should have been done. I don't know 237 00:16:41,640 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 1: if this was dumb. I know it's a small town. 238 00:16:45,320 --> 00:16:48,560 Speaker 1: I know that, but a lot of people, including myself, 239 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:53,040 Speaker 1: have ring doorbell cams and do you yeah, and do 240 00:16:53,160 --> 00:16:56,440 Speaker 1: you know Lisa Daddio, and I've got to tell you 241 00:16:56,680 --> 00:17:01,120 Speaker 1: a wonderful example of this. Um gosh, so many spring 242 00:17:01,160 --> 00:17:03,680 Speaker 1: to mind. We all know about Colt mom, Laurie Vallo, 243 00:17:04,800 --> 00:17:08,080 Speaker 1: and we know about how her children, seven year old 244 00:17:08,640 --> 00:17:13,440 Speaker 1: JJ and teen girl Tiley, just disappeared. There remains found 245 00:17:13,560 --> 00:17:17,840 Speaker 1: later on Coult mom's new husband's property dead. But the 246 00:17:17,920 --> 00:17:22,000 Speaker 1: last you know to start your timeline, the last video 247 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:26,520 Speaker 1: of JJ is on a ring doorbell and you see 248 00:17:26,600 --> 00:17:30,119 Speaker 1: him running across the street at Plague, jumping up in 249 00:17:30,119 --> 00:17:34,800 Speaker 1: the air, happy, just playing. He's seven years old. Yeah, 250 00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 1: so there's that. There is a cost. There's so many. 251 00:17:38,200 --> 00:17:41,600 Speaker 1: I always think of the missing Connecticut mom of five, 252 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 1: Jennifer Dulos, where police did this fantastic job putting together 253 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:50,760 Speaker 1: a video timeline of where husband photo Dulos had been 254 00:17:50,840 --> 00:17:53,560 Speaker 1: around the time of her disappearance. For instance, they have 255 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:57,920 Speaker 1: ring doorbell, they have a bus door opening a public 256 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:01,480 Speaker 1: bus and the camp catches his car go by. They 257 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:04,439 Speaker 1: have video surveillance from all over the place. Now, I know, 258 00:18:04,520 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 1: these small towns may not have red light red light camps, 259 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:13,879 Speaker 1: they may not have security camps and big parking lots 260 00:18:13,920 --> 00:18:18,520 Speaker 1: at Walmart, but there are ring doorbells. That's the first thing, 261 00:18:18,640 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 1: Lisa Daddio is to get on every possible surveillance video 262 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:31,760 Speaker 1: around absolutely Nancy looking at stores or any type of businesses. 263 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 1: From where she was last known to be her friend's 264 00:18:34,600 --> 00:18:37,160 Speaker 1: house at ten three at night, to where her car 265 00:18:37,280 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 1: was found, and going every route possible to see if 266 00:18:41,640 --> 00:18:44,640 Speaker 1: there's any cameras that would have picked up anything from anywhere, 267 00:18:44,680 --> 00:18:46,879 Speaker 1: because you just never know. I want to talk about 268 00:18:46,960 --> 00:18:52,800 Speaker 1: where her vehicle was found to Stephanie joining us WI 269 00:18:52,920 --> 00:18:57,919 Speaker 1: Fr twenty three, Where exactly between her job as a 270 00:18:57,960 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 1: caregiver and going to see the boy friend an hour away. 271 00:19:02,200 --> 00:19:06,680 Speaker 1: Was her truck excuse me, not the Sedan, the Toyota 272 00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:10,200 Speaker 1: Tundra found. So it was Bolton Road, which is near 273 00:19:10,320 --> 00:19:15,719 Speaker 1: Freeport Freeports City about twenty four thousand people in Stevenson County, 274 00:19:16,080 --> 00:19:20,560 Speaker 1: twenty four thousand. Yeah, okay, that's getting bigger. Bolton Road 275 00:19:20,680 --> 00:19:25,639 Speaker 1: near did you say Fremont Freeport Freeport? Okay, huh would 276 00:19:25,640 --> 00:19:28,639 Speaker 1: that have been in route to the boyfriends? Yeah? Okay, 277 00:19:28,840 --> 00:19:34,080 Speaker 1: was it halfway? I wonder if they halfway? Like forty minute? Okay, 278 00:19:34,160 --> 00:19:36,560 Speaker 1: now just think about it. Let's set the Saints ten 279 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:39,040 Speaker 1: thirty at night. Was it ten thirty at nine or 280 00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:43,119 Speaker 1: in the morning. Okay, ten thirty at nine, you're forty 281 00:19:43,119 --> 00:19:50,280 Speaker 1: minutes in, so you're now looking at eleven ten, eleven, fifteen. 282 00:19:50,640 --> 00:19:56,520 Speaker 1: She's driving along in her vehicle. Now where Bendy Benny 283 00:19:56,680 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 1: Affrontie her cars found on Bolton Road near Freeport. Was 284 00:20:02,520 --> 00:20:04,400 Speaker 1: it on the side of the road, did it did 285 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:08,040 Speaker 1: it look like she'd had some kind of crash. Did 286 00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:10,560 Speaker 1: she strike a Hick's vehicle? Did it go off the 287 00:20:10,680 --> 00:20:12,880 Speaker 1: road or is it just neatly parked on the side 288 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:16,200 Speaker 1: of the road, neatly parked in the ditch. It wasn't 289 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 1: crashed into the ditch. We believe it was parked there. Okay, 290 00:20:21,119 --> 00:20:25,080 Speaker 1: let me understand this. This is staging, guys. This is 291 00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 1: staging because if she in other words, after a crime scene, 292 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:33,440 Speaker 1: you adjust the crime scene in some way. You could 293 00:20:33,480 --> 00:20:36,840 Speaker 1: put a blanket over the dead person's head. You could 294 00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:41,919 Speaker 1: make the house look like it was ransacked or burglarized. 295 00:20:42,359 --> 00:20:47,040 Speaker 1: You could cover up the body with some leaves or branches. 296 00:20:47,080 --> 00:20:50,000 Speaker 1: I've seen that. You did so many things. You could 297 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:52,760 Speaker 1: put a gun in the victim's hand. There's so many 298 00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:56,479 Speaker 1: ways to stage a scene. You could send fake text 299 00:20:56,560 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 1: like Brian Laundry sent fake text reportedly coming from Gabby, 300 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:06,720 Speaker 1: his fiance that he murdered. So all of that is staging. 301 00:21:06,760 --> 00:21:10,240 Speaker 1: It can be elaborate or it can be simple. But 302 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:12,840 Speaker 1: if she were to run off the road, she would 303 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:15,680 Speaker 1: not have neatly parkened down in a ditch. Should pull 304 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 1: it over in the emergency lane or right beside the 305 00:21:18,680 --> 00:21:21,400 Speaker 1: road for people to see it. Maybe let the hood up, 306 00:21:21,720 --> 00:21:25,760 Speaker 1: maybe turn on emergency lights, but you don't go down 307 00:21:25,760 --> 00:21:28,960 Speaker 1: into a ditch and then neatly park your car. No, 308 00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:32,400 Speaker 1: was the car locked? And what condition was the car? 309 00:21:32,760 --> 00:21:38,600 Speaker 1: And was there the windows busted out? Was the car locked? 310 00:21:38,840 --> 00:21:41,040 Speaker 1: What can you tell me? Oh? And where was the 311 00:21:41,119 --> 00:21:43,560 Speaker 1: driver's seat? Had it been pushed back for a man 312 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:46,159 Speaker 1: to drive that's taller than her? What does anybody know 313 00:21:46,200 --> 00:21:47,960 Speaker 1: the answer to any of that? Well, that's a good 314 00:21:48,040 --> 00:21:50,760 Speaker 1: question because the police haven't really answered a whole lot 315 00:21:50,800 --> 00:21:53,639 Speaker 1: of questions. Everything seems to be very secretive. But we 316 00:21:53,680 --> 00:21:56,760 Speaker 1: did have this one police officer from Stevenson Horny, an 317 00:21:56,760 --> 00:22:00,840 Speaker 1: investigative detective. We did tell us oliver personal effects were 318 00:22:00,880 --> 00:22:03,399 Speaker 1: found in that vehicle. So when you say staging, he 319 00:22:03,520 --> 00:22:06,480 Speaker 1: took the vehicle there, put her phone, her purse, all 320 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:08,959 Speaker 1: her belongings, even her shoes and her coat were in 321 00:22:09,000 --> 00:22:13,840 Speaker 1: that vehicle. A minute I've got I didn't want to 322 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:16,679 Speaker 1: agree with you being a AFFRONTI that she has passed on. 323 00:22:17,600 --> 00:22:19,840 Speaker 1: I did not want to agree with you. She walked 324 00:22:19,840 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 1: away with no money, no coat, no shoes, and my 325 00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:27,679 Speaker 1: sister she took. You know, she's a typical woman. She 326 00:22:27,800 --> 00:22:30,000 Speaker 1: drives down with a lot of bags, bags for everything, 327 00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:33,360 Speaker 1: you know, begs for makeup. She wouldn't ever leave without 328 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:38,600 Speaker 1: her phone, her purse, her makeup bag, her shoes, her coat, 329 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,399 Speaker 1: I mean everything was found in there. And where her 330 00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:45,640 Speaker 1: vehicle was parked, there was a few houses up the road. 331 00:22:45,680 --> 00:22:47,919 Speaker 1: And the frust rating part for us was when we 332 00:22:47,960 --> 00:22:51,480 Speaker 1: went door to door to them to look for ring cameras, 333 00:22:51,480 --> 00:22:53,919 Speaker 1: like you were saying, we were the first ones to 334 00:22:53,960 --> 00:22:56,439 Speaker 1: knock down their door, and it was right up the 335 00:22:56,480 --> 00:22:58,600 Speaker 1: road from where her truck was parked, which means the 336 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,040 Speaker 1: police did not go there to see if they had 337 00:23:01,119 --> 00:23:04,120 Speaker 1: ring cameras or nothing. And this is about two months 338 00:23:04,119 --> 00:23:06,480 Speaker 1: after she went missing. Nobody went door to door there. 339 00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:10,240 Speaker 1: James shell Nutt, please tell me the good news is 340 00:23:10,280 --> 00:23:15,000 Speaker 1: that ring doorbell cam video is stored in the cloud, right, 341 00:23:15,160 --> 00:23:18,320 Speaker 1: that's right, so you can go back and get that 342 00:23:18,680 --> 00:23:23,439 Speaker 1: even months and months later. So I'm not quite sure 343 00:23:23,520 --> 00:23:26,320 Speaker 1: how to go about this, but i can tell you 344 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,680 Speaker 1: the Carroll County Sheriff's Office at eight one five two 345 00:23:29,760 --> 00:23:33,720 Speaker 1: four four two six three five or the Freeport Police 346 00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:37,120 Speaker 1: Department eight one five two three five eight two two 347 00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:42,200 Speaker 1: two would have some answers. Jackie. Let's get in touch 348 00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:44,280 Speaker 1: with them after today's program and see what they can 349 00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:47,159 Speaker 1: tell us. But that's very disturbing that they have not 350 00:23:47,359 --> 00:23:51,600 Speaker 1: gathered that. So we know that our truck was sitting there. 351 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:54,000 Speaker 1: Do we know if it was locked? Don't know that part. 352 00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:57,720 Speaker 1: We know her cell phone was in there. Her phone, Yeah, 353 00:23:58,040 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 1: it had a VPN. He had some mouse set up 354 00:24:00,280 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 1: a vp her phone and we had heard that her 355 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:06,240 Speaker 1: phone was bounced it off Kansas City and Singapore at night. 356 00:24:06,560 --> 00:24:11,080 Speaker 1: Who tells you that the investigative detective from Steven Fanhara. Okay, 357 00:24:11,520 --> 00:24:14,320 Speaker 1: for those of you that don't know, out to Lisa 358 00:24:14,400 --> 00:24:19,960 Speaker 1: Daddy explain a vp N and how that can work. 359 00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:29,040 Speaker 1: So a VPN allows a user to tap into For example, 360 00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:31,199 Speaker 1: if I'm working from home, I could tap into my 361 00:24:31,240 --> 00:24:35,359 Speaker 1: work computer, utilizing a VPN a portal to get me 362 00:24:35,359 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 1: in where I actually access my desktop, and I can 363 00:24:39,119 --> 00:24:42,240 Speaker 1: go ahead and do work as if I was sitting 364 00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:44,840 Speaker 1: in my office from my desktop computer and all the 365 00:24:44,840 --> 00:24:47,400 Speaker 1: files and everything that are on there. So it allows 366 00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,400 Speaker 1: me to look like I'm in my office, but I'm 367 00:24:50,400 --> 00:24:54,679 Speaker 1: actually not in my office. A VPN, you can get 368 00:24:55,320 --> 00:25:03,160 Speaker 1: VPN protection, for instance from McAfee, but can confuse where 369 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:06,960 Speaker 1: your phone appears to be. But there are ways for 370 00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:12,199 Speaker 1: police to break a VPN and triangulate where that phone 371 00:25:12,560 --> 00:25:17,560 Speaker 1: physically was. Do you know Melissa Melissa is the sister 372 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:21,320 Speaker 1: of missing mom Melissa Trumpy. Do you know the cops 373 00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:24,159 Speaker 1: have done that yet? I believe they were trying to 374 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 1: get the last We knew that ABI was working with 375 00:25:28,040 --> 00:25:30,840 Speaker 1: the technology part of the way. Did you say the 376 00:25:30,840 --> 00:25:33,680 Speaker 1: FBI has been called in? Oh, that'd be I hadn't 377 00:25:33,720 --> 00:25:35,720 Speaker 1: been yet. Okay, Well, then you're going to get some 378 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:39,920 Speaker 1: answers if they're in on it. I find this very 379 00:25:40,560 --> 00:25:47,120 Speaker 1: very interesting, the fact that none of that ring doorbell 380 00:25:47,240 --> 00:25:53,320 Speaker 1: cam video had been sought by sheriffs or police. I wonder, 381 00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:58,439 Speaker 1: do you know Benny Affrontie if her truck was taken 382 00:25:58,480 --> 00:26:02,760 Speaker 1: and processed. I believe that her truck is still an 383 00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:06,720 Speaker 1: impound good so nobody can tamper with it. It's actually 384 00:26:06,760 --> 00:26:10,800 Speaker 1: a rental vehicle. Ah, that's really good. You know why 385 00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:13,439 Speaker 1: that's good because it's probably got a NAV system in 386 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:17,359 Speaker 1: it because rentals. I mean, that's the next thing I 387 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:21,359 Speaker 1: would find out where that rental car had been that night. 388 00:26:21,840 --> 00:26:26,560 Speaker 1: I mean, it ain't rocket science, people, but you have 389 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:29,879 Speaker 1: to What it is is diligence. That's our cases are 390 00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:33,280 Speaker 1: quite diligence. I mean we're throwing things out right here 391 00:26:33,480 --> 00:26:35,960 Speaker 1: and we don't know if any of that has been 392 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,560 Speaker 1: done yet. But you know what, I may not be 393 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,320 Speaker 1: a rocket scientist. I may not be able to explain 394 00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:48,280 Speaker 1: to you exactly how technical data is gathered or interpreted, 395 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:52,800 Speaker 1: but I do know this. Take listen to our cut four. 396 00:26:53,440 --> 00:26:57,560 Speaker 1: This is marked to Bergland wif R. Individual was held 397 00:26:57,600 --> 00:26:59,760 Speaker 1: in front of the last place Trump. He was seen 398 00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:04,639 Speaker 1: at her boyfriend Derek Hall's family house. Trumpy's family members 399 00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:08,040 Speaker 1: say their absence is telling. I would say it's a 400 00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 1: clear sign that they're trying to hide something, but I'm 401 00:27:11,600 --> 00:27:13,199 Speaker 1: not the one to say that, but I have a 402 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,840 Speaker 1: pretty good instinct that that is what's happening. They've done 403 00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:19,119 Speaker 1: with them to avoid us from the very beginning. Everybody's 404 00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:21,919 Speaker 1: lawyered up and not talking in hush hush. But and 405 00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:24,159 Speaker 1: the crazy thing is my sister thought the world of 406 00:27:24,200 --> 00:27:29,080 Speaker 1: his family. Okay right there, it's giving me a horrible 407 00:27:29,200 --> 00:27:36,719 Speaker 1: flashback to Lacy Peterson. Do you remember that doctor Sherry 408 00:27:36,760 --> 00:27:43,359 Speaker 1: Schwartz where at the vigil for Lacy Scott Paterson would 409 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,960 Speaker 1: not speak? Do you remember that? I do remember that 410 00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:51,320 Speaker 1: he was in the background and he wouldn't speak, and 411 00:27:51,640 --> 00:27:55,640 Speaker 1: he wasn't asking for help to look for Lacy. Remember 412 00:27:56,359 --> 00:28:03,240 Speaker 1: killer fiance Patrick Frazy when his fiance goes missing Kelsey Barrett. 413 00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:08,159 Speaker 1: He did not go out and make public requests or 414 00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 1: please for her to be found here. This family is 415 00:28:13,320 --> 00:28:17,240 Speaker 1: not coming to the vigil. Why are they not coming 416 00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:21,520 Speaker 1: to the vigil? You know, it's interesting to doctor Sherry Schwartz. 417 00:28:22,600 --> 00:28:25,199 Speaker 1: Maybe they felt that they were under fire. Maybe they 418 00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:30,440 Speaker 1: didn't want her boyfriend Derek Hamer to be under suspicion 419 00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:33,199 Speaker 1: in any way, because she was headed to his house 420 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:37,080 Speaker 1: the last night she was seen alive. But to come 421 00:28:37,080 --> 00:28:39,960 Speaker 1: to the vigil, I find that a very curious move 422 00:28:40,000 --> 00:28:44,160 Speaker 1: on their part. Well, it's deeply troubling, right because we 423 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,840 Speaker 1: know from other cases, and most recently, what comes to 424 00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:49,960 Speaker 1: my mind is the Laundry family, Brian Laundry in the 425 00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:53,920 Speaker 1: Gabby Petito case. Although there wasn't necessarily a vigil the 426 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:57,760 Speaker 1: family wouldn't cooperate at all in giving her family any 427 00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:01,320 Speaker 1: information about why he showed up at home without her. 428 00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:04,480 Speaker 1: So it is very curious and it's deeply troubling. Why 429 00:29:04,520 --> 00:29:22,000 Speaker 1: wouldn't you engage in the search crime stories with Nancy Grace? 430 00:29:25,640 --> 00:29:28,560 Speaker 1: I want to talk about where she was last seyn 431 00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:35,600 Speaker 1: to Mandy embOS, this is Melissa's sister. I've got conflicting 432 00:29:35,720 --> 00:29:40,040 Speaker 1: reports about where she was last seen, and both of 433 00:29:40,040 --> 00:29:43,840 Speaker 1: the reports do not place her in her Toyota tundra 434 00:29:44,080 --> 00:29:46,720 Speaker 1: where her remember her cars found neatly put on the 435 00:29:46,760 --> 00:29:50,640 Speaker 1: side of the road. Now, let me understand the boyfriend, 436 00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:55,200 Speaker 1: Derek Hammer thirty five years old, isn't his mother the 437 00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:59,480 Speaker 1: town clerk, yes, the town treasurer to that every town 438 00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:02,920 Speaker 1: hall meeting where this is all not. She controls the paper, 439 00:30:03,040 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 1: the website and all of which have not publicized her 440 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:10,880 Speaker 1: that she went missing down there, which I mean, and 441 00:30:10,960 --> 00:30:14,600 Speaker 1: we'd think Roman area of her people. Somebody goes missing 442 00:30:14,600 --> 00:30:18,000 Speaker 1: in your town, it would be big news, huge, big news, right, 443 00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:22,000 Speaker 1: And nachos and football was on the front page the 444 00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,200 Speaker 1: day her article was in there. But did you say 445 00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:28,120 Speaker 1: nachos and football were on the front page yet, that's 446 00:30:28,200 --> 00:30:30,680 Speaker 1: what I said on the front page and hers was 447 00:30:30,760 --> 00:30:33,080 Speaker 1: a small little article on the second page with a 448 00:30:33,160 --> 00:30:38,719 Speaker 1: tiny little picture. Yeah. The reason I asked about Derek Hammer, 449 00:30:38,800 --> 00:30:42,480 Speaker 1: age thirty five, the boyfriend of missing mom Melissa Trumpy, 450 00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:48,440 Speaker 1: is because one of the signings apparently placed her at 451 00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:52,680 Speaker 1: Hammer's mother, the town clark or treasurer, as you said, 452 00:30:53,040 --> 00:30:56,240 Speaker 1: at her home around midnight. What can you tell me 453 00:30:56,280 --> 00:31:01,640 Speaker 1: about that been near frontie? Yeah, Melissa was seen. I 454 00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:06,080 Speaker 1: believe even Derek's mother had told police that she was 455 00:31:06,120 --> 00:31:10,040 Speaker 1: there around midnight, and we had that confirmed by the 456 00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:15,440 Speaker 1: Stevenson Colny Lieutenant Bradley Curtis, who he's the head of investigations. 457 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:19,760 Speaker 1: She herself, according to your sources, states that Melissa was 458 00:31:19,800 --> 00:31:24,600 Speaker 1: at her house the night she goes missing October twenty six, 459 00:31:24,920 --> 00:31:28,800 Speaker 1: at midnight. Is that correct? Yeah? Okay, then I've got 460 00:31:28,800 --> 00:31:34,280 Speaker 1: a conflicting statement. Where else do we know either a 461 00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:39,120 Speaker 1: Mandy and bog or Benny Affrontee. She was later seen 462 00:31:39,640 --> 00:31:46,160 Speaker 1: we think with Derek Hammer, the son, the town clerk's son, 463 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 1: later that night at a cousin's house. Is that correct, ye, 464 00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,840 Speaker 1: Stephen Derek pres he was, they were a leader. The 465 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:59,560 Speaker 1: witness testimony is Melissa came to derek house that night. 466 00:32:00,440 --> 00:32:02,480 Speaker 1: What it sounds like is Derek and Melissa got ready, 467 00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:05,120 Speaker 1: they picked up his cousin, Stephen, who's Steve across the 468 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:09,000 Speaker 1: street from his mom sometimes and then the three of 469 00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:12,120 Speaker 1: them all went out to his apartment that night. Whose 470 00:32:12,200 --> 00:32:21,880 Speaker 1: apartment Stephen Dakiss Stephen dap Kiss is boyfriend Derek Hammer's cousin. Okay, 471 00:32:22,280 --> 00:32:25,800 Speaker 1: and the two mothers, the town clark and the cousin's 472 00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:29,120 Speaker 1: mom live across the street from each other. Yes, no, yes, ma'am. 473 00:32:29,320 --> 00:32:33,520 Speaker 1: So let me get this straight. Melissa's saying at boyfriend 474 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:37,560 Speaker 1: mom town Clark's house at midnight according to the mom, 475 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:43,200 Speaker 1: and then later we think across the street at cousin's house. No, 476 00:32:44,680 --> 00:32:47,000 Speaker 1: this is what we believe is that Melissa was it 477 00:32:47,440 --> 00:32:53,640 Speaker 1: Denise Hammer's house. Derek's mothers now Stephen Daphkiss is Derek's cousin. 478 00:32:53,920 --> 00:32:57,920 Speaker 1: Stephen Daphkiss's mother lives across the street from Derek's mother, 479 00:32:58,520 --> 00:33:02,000 Speaker 1: but we believe that Stephen was at his mother's house 480 00:33:02,040 --> 00:33:05,800 Speaker 1: across the street when Melissa got to Derek's mother's house, 481 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:09,520 Speaker 1: and then Stephen joined them, came across the street from 482 00:33:09,560 --> 00:33:13,200 Speaker 1: his mother's house, and then we've been told there's not one. 483 00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:16,600 Speaker 1: There's there's a lot of speculation, but we've been told 484 00:33:16,680 --> 00:33:21,360 Speaker 1: that the three of them together, Derek, Melissa, and Stephen 485 00:33:21,960 --> 00:33:26,440 Speaker 1: drove from both of the mother's houses of the cousins 486 00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:31,360 Speaker 1: to an apartment building outside of Mount Carroll where Stephen 487 00:33:31,480 --> 00:33:34,080 Speaker 1: has his own apartment, So that may have been her 488 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:37,440 Speaker 1: life last signing. I think the police really need to 489 00:33:37,480 --> 00:33:43,040 Speaker 1: press his cousin, Stephen Dak because but there's another clue. 490 00:33:43,760 --> 00:33:48,040 Speaker 1: Take a listen to our cut eleven. Our friend Rachel 491 00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:52,400 Speaker 1: Perry at WTVO core Documents show Hammer has a history 492 00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,640 Speaker 1: with her. He went the next day and told his 493 00:33:54,720 --> 00:33:58,000 Speaker 1: teacher that he'd witness his mother being struck in the 494 00:33:58,040 --> 00:34:00,680 Speaker 1: face by Derek Hammer. Just more than a month before 495 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:04,080 Speaker 1: Melissa Trumpy was last seen. Her boyfriend, Derek Hammer was 496 00:34:04,160 --> 00:34:07,680 Speaker 1: charged with domestic abuse. His arrest came after Melissa's son 497 00:34:07,880 --> 00:34:11,360 Speaker 1: told his teacher he saw hammer yelling at Melissa before 498 00:34:11,400 --> 00:34:14,560 Speaker 1: the night turned violent and Derek pointed a shotgun at 499 00:34:14,640 --> 00:34:17,840 Speaker 1: Melissa in front of my six year olds on Mato. 500 00:34:18,760 --> 00:34:22,560 Speaker 1: So he went into school he told a teacher about that. 501 00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:26,319 Speaker 1: Benefronti is the father of Melissa's kids. He says, they 502 00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:29,880 Speaker 1: desperately want their mom back. It's hard. I mean, it's heartbreaking. 503 00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:33,920 Speaker 1: I had my daughter wrote a Christmas wish list to 504 00:34:34,000 --> 00:34:37,200 Speaker 1: Santa Claus a couple days ago and came and handed 505 00:34:37,239 --> 00:34:40,400 Speaker 1: me to that, and I mean, the the biggest thing 506 00:34:40,400 --> 00:34:42,759 Speaker 1: on there. She wanted it was Santa to bring mom home. 507 00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:51,520 Speaker 1: Mandy and bes he bat her before. Yeah, So the 508 00:34:51,680 --> 00:34:55,000 Speaker 1: year leading up to my sister's disappearance, we all actually 509 00:34:55,000 --> 00:34:59,640 Speaker 1: had lived together, Me, Melissa, Benn and the kids. And 510 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:03,120 Speaker 1: then and Ben and Melissa broke up in Derek literally 511 00:35:03,440 --> 00:35:05,400 Speaker 1: seemed to like move in by the end of the week. 512 00:35:07,239 --> 00:35:12,080 Speaker 1: It started by it was slow things. I noticed. It 513 00:35:12,200 --> 00:35:16,440 Speaker 1: was like he was grooming her. He started controlling everywhere 514 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:20,760 Speaker 1: she went, everywhere, everybody she talked to. He was looking 515 00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:24,160 Speaker 1: at her phone. She couldn't even go to Dungeonnas with 516 00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:27,040 Speaker 1: her daughter without him calling and accusing her of having 517 00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:31,080 Speaker 1: sexual relations with someone. Or walmarts. One time we tried 518 00:35:31,080 --> 00:35:34,240 Speaker 1: to get groceries and he was blowing her up, fighting 519 00:35:34,280 --> 00:35:36,480 Speaker 1: with her the whole time we were trying to get groceries. 520 00:35:37,360 --> 00:35:40,640 Speaker 1: It started by him having tantrum outbursts and then it 521 00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:44,520 Speaker 1: developed into a full on domestic case where Ben affront 522 00:35:44,560 --> 00:35:49,880 Speaker 1: to you say, according to your son, Matteo, age six, 523 00:35:50,560 --> 00:35:53,520 Speaker 1: he saw, according to the six year old little boy, 524 00:35:53,960 --> 00:35:57,680 Speaker 1: Derek Hammer hit Melissa, slap her in the face and 525 00:35:57,719 --> 00:36:03,640 Speaker 1: pull a gun. Yeah, he had. Derek was screaming at 526 00:36:03,719 --> 00:36:08,520 Speaker 1: Melissa about some pills that he couldn't find. He struck. 527 00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:11,000 Speaker 1: I don't know if he thought Melissa took his pills 528 00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:14,400 Speaker 1: or he just couldn't find them or whatnot. But both 529 00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:17,120 Speaker 1: of the kids were actually their present, my sixth and 530 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:19,759 Speaker 1: my eight year old. My six year old son was 531 00:36:19,800 --> 00:36:23,160 Speaker 1: actually the one that witnessed it, and I think my 532 00:36:23,239 --> 00:36:25,480 Speaker 1: daughter was in the home, but this happened I think 533 00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,120 Speaker 1: in the garage, and so they go tell their teacher, 534 00:36:28,520 --> 00:36:31,440 Speaker 1: and that is how the whole thing ends up being reported. 535 00:36:31,640 --> 00:36:36,160 Speaker 1: She Melissa did not report it. Stephanie Quirt joining me 536 00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:40,960 Speaker 1: WIFR twenty three. That's not uncommon. Women so afraid they 537 00:36:41,000 --> 00:36:45,600 Speaker 1: won't tell anybody they're getting beaten and terrorized at home, Stephanie. 538 00:36:46,480 --> 00:36:52,000 Speaker 1: Derek Hammer has been nabbed on other charges. What are they? 539 00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:55,319 Speaker 1: He has a lengthy list of charges. If I read 540 00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:58,359 Speaker 1: them all, we'd be here a very long time. I mean. 541 00:36:59,000 --> 00:37:03,040 Speaker 1: He has charged for bail jumping, alluding an officer, just 542 00:37:03,200 --> 00:37:08,400 Speaker 1: orderly contact, possession of a firearm, drug trafficking, battery charges 543 00:37:08,960 --> 00:37:13,040 Speaker 1: alluding to domestic violence. In Las Vegas, he strangled a 544 00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:17,520 Speaker 1: woman and reports say the woman thought he was going 545 00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:22,200 Speaker 1: to kill her and throw her over the balcony. On 546 00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:26,520 Speaker 1: top of that, he has explosive charges ieed explosive charges 547 00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:30,840 Speaker 1: and unlawsable use of a firearm that he actually fired 548 00:37:30,840 --> 00:37:34,720 Speaker 1: at one of his ex girlfriends while she was running away. Guys, 549 00:37:34,760 --> 00:37:40,760 Speaker 1: please help us. This family has said they feel quote defeated. 550 00:37:42,880 --> 00:37:46,920 Speaker 1: They have nowhere else to turn. They're not getting answers. 551 00:37:47,880 --> 00:37:53,200 Speaker 1: Melissa Trump is missing her three children beg for mommy 552 00:37:53,280 --> 00:37:58,320 Speaker 1: to come home. Imagine if it were your children begging. 553 00:37:59,440 --> 00:38:02,520 Speaker 1: Let me give you the tip lines eight one five, two, four, 554 00:38:02,680 --> 00:38:07,279 Speaker 1: four two six three five repeat eight one five two 555 00:38:07,400 --> 00:38:11,960 Speaker 1: four four two six three five or eight one five 556 00:38:12,600 --> 00:38:18,239 Speaker 1: two three, five, eight two two two repeat eight one five, two, three, 557 00:38:18,400 --> 00:38:22,719 Speaker 1: five eight two two two. You can also go to 558 00:38:22,960 --> 00:38:27,560 Speaker 1: change dot org and look for missing Melissa Trumpy. Keep 559 00:38:28,120 --> 00:38:34,480 Speaker 1: Derek Hammer in jail, and that's what I advise, Keep 560 00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:38,520 Speaker 1: him in jail until you can build a case to 561 00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:44,080 Speaker 1: find Melissa Trumpy. And as I sign off, let me 562 00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:48,160 Speaker 1: remind you no one has been named a person of interest. 563 00:38:48,320 --> 00:38:51,080 Speaker 1: No one has been named a suspect. No one has 564 00:38:51,120 --> 00:38:57,879 Speaker 1: been charged or arrested in Melissa's disappearance. We wait, as 565 00:38:58,360 --> 00:39:03,480 Speaker 1: God willing just to unfolds Nancy Grace Crime Stories. Signing up, 566 00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:04,760 Speaker 1: goodbye friend,