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Speaker 2: get into it. There's all kinds of news to get into.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know really where to start, so we'll

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Speaker 2: just start with this. I caught y'all black women out

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Speaker 2: here having a good time and celebrating and making jokes,

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Speaker 2: and I got to tell party over, okay, don't. I

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Speaker 2: don't want to see no black women having no joy

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Speaker 2: on my timeline with you. That's right. Megan Markle then

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Speaker 2: got engaged to Harry.

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Speaker 3: Yah.

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Speaker 2: See, there you go, cares.

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Speaker 4: They got engaged. That's what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 2: There you go with that. All you're doing is encouraging

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Speaker 2: the white supremacists, negro bed winching of these women.

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Speaker 5: Out here, Karen, I am here for and make them

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Speaker 5: white folks cry no.

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Speaker 2: See, that's how they get you. That's how they get.

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Speaker 4: You, black princess.

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Speaker 2: You know. Harry he once got up had a picture

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Speaker 2: taking at a I think it was at a party,

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Speaker 2: and he wore a Nazi costume. It had a swastick

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Speaker 2: on it and everything careen. And you're out here celebrating

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Speaker 2: him just because he got some nice hair and a beard,

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Speaker 2: So you just gonna and you know, she's not gonna

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Speaker 4: I don't care.

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Speaker 2: And she only half black colorism, that's why y'all celebrating

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Speaker 2: now because she lights skin.

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Speaker 4: I don't care.

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Speaker 2: I followed her one drop rule, I know all everybody

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Speaker 4: How they claim they blackness of which you group you

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Speaker 2: Inside the white slave man's white masters. Uh. One drop rule,

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Speaker 2: m okay, all right, I see how it is. All right, y'all.

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Speaker 2: This is what y'all do.

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Speaker 2: I saw the jokes so on Twitter said, no if

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Speaker 4: Come on knocking you bum.

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Speaker 2: Yes, there were a lot of jokes about you know,

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Speaker 2: it's gonna be a head wrap up in Buckingham Palace.

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Speaker 4: Now, come on, satin pillow cases.

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Speaker 2: You know, there was some blue magic. You know, she

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Speaker 4: Gonna be up in there the way some seasoning m Yeah, there.

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Speaker 2: Was a lot of that. You know when they proposed

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Speaker 2: guess what they was eating? Guess chicken? Of course, yes,

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Speaker 4: It was fried to isn't it.

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Speaker 2: It was roasted?

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Speaker 5: I can okay, okay, you got to You got.

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Speaker 2: To think he hit the ring in the slice of

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Speaker 2: watermelon too. You guys, why I can't support this this this.

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Speaker 5: They went, and they're gonna confuse the poor white people.

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Speaker 5: They're gonna be like, what is this?

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Speaker 4: This stuff? And ainte this ain't no god stuff is dressing?

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Speaker 2: Well listen, I uh I saw on the timeline a

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Speaker 4: I didn't realize the only reason why we could.

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Speaker 2: I didn't it was jokes about making Marco get married.

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Speaker 2: That was why we can't be free. I did not

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Speaker 2: know deep yeah, so yeah, a lot of people had

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Speaker 2: getting their life, celebrating like black princes and she ain't

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Speaker 4: Get it come out for.

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Speaker 3: A royal wedding because it has finally been confirmed that

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Speaker 3: Prince Harry and Megan Michael are engaged. The news, which

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Speaker 2: Press, was I will take your time a lot, Dan,

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Speaker 2: since you just started without me playing. I was just

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Speaker 2: gonna let the white people get their news in.

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Speaker 6: But yeah, anyway, Announced Monday by Clarence House, which manages

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Speaker 6: the affairs of Prince Charles Parry's father. The announcement, posted

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Speaker 2: An For the record, I know black people that watched

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Speaker 2: the Royal wedding from like two or three years ago,

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Speaker 2: and Mike Felder is one of them. It was all

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Speaker 3: This, the engagement of Prince Harry to missus Megan.

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Speaker 2: All Right, I just mute it, all right, But number one,

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Speaker 2: I feel like liking the Royal Family is one of

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Speaker 2: I don't care about him. I didn't watch The Crown

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Speaker 2: on Netflix. This is not my thing. That being said,

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Speaker 2: and I don't know that ship doesn't bother me at all,

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Speaker 2: Like I'm just like, okay, it's not my thing. That's

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Speaker 2: what people enjoy. I also understand that, you know, this

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Speaker 2: wore a costume that it was a fucking Hitler costume.

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Speaker 2: So I don't know this nigga, and I don't have

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Speaker 2: no affection for him or not affection for him. Honestly,

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Speaker 2: I do assume every rich white person is racist until

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Speaker 2: proven otherwise. That's just how I've chosen to navigate my life.

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Speaker 2: It's also I feel very, very seldom do I ever

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Speaker 2: feel let down when somebody fucks up them. I was like,

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Speaker 2: I mean, I mean, come on, but anyway, all that

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Speaker 2: being said, the people who are celebrating us mostly Black

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Speaker 2: women are mostly celebrating a black woman like quote unquote

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Speaker 2: being loved winning quote unquote, that you're securing the bag

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Speaker 2: even because he's worth like fifty three million just from

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Speaker 2: point three million. You know, So it's a come up,

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Speaker 2: but it's just a superficial thing. Like it's the same

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Speaker 2: way people felt when Cardi B got engaged the offset.

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Speaker 2: Y'all don't have to invest in these people's lives, no

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Speaker 2: one does, Like you can eat this is easily be

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Speaker 2: like and divest from them as well. Like but the

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Speaker 2: common factor, I think of a lot of stuff, and

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Speaker 2: I hate when people come down on black people about

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Speaker 2: this because one, we have very little power to change

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Speaker 2: these bigger issues that people are always constantly putting on

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Speaker 2: our doorstep. But the thing is they're not celebrating necessarily

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Speaker 2: it was the Obama's entering in a white house. They're

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Speaker 2: not celebrating the white house. And I hate when people

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Speaker 2: know your president, your black president bombs from people and

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Speaker 2: is that what you think we're dumb enough to be

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Speaker 2: like it's different when he do it, or do you

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Speaker 2: think we're like that shit's gonna happen no matter who's

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Speaker 2: And if they're celebrating it, they saying it isn't gonna

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Speaker 2: change anything, which you know, you're freedom, they say, if

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Speaker 2: you feel like that's you're making some grand statement. I've

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Speaker 2: read a lot of the people that were, you know,

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Speaker 2: I felt like, man really nailed it with that. It's

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Speaker 2: all been like, you know what it is, It's like

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Speaker 2: when people get mad about y'all thought healer is your savior.

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Speaker 2: I'm like, no one really thought that, But you do

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Speaker 2: realize by Peggott, by putting that on black people, you're

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Speaker 2: essentially putting that on black women who are the number

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Speaker 2: one voters for the Democratic Party. Don't come in my

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Speaker 2: woman you are while you're also shitting on them like

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Speaker 2: they fucking you know what I mean, Like, just leave

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Speaker 2: me alone, Like one of these is a lot. I

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Speaker 2: don't know whichever one either. You do think they're stupid

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Speaker 2: and they all got conn and you're the only one

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Speaker 2: that was woken up to understand or you recognize that

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Speaker 2: you're lying right now, and that they all held their

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Speaker 2: nose and made a choice that to save us from

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Speaker 2: Trump quote unquote, that many people were too proudful to

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Speaker 2: make themselves right. That's kind of what this shit is

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Speaker 2: to me, Like, I don't see this any difference than

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Speaker 2: Cardi B's married getting engaged to Offset who's a misogynistic,

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Speaker 2: homophobic rapper, Like, okay, that's their relationship. If people want

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Speaker 2: telling women like Cardi B they gonna be alone for

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Speaker 2: their whole lives and they holsing this, that and the other.

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Speaker 5: but you always have somebody that want to be the opposite.

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Speaker 4: But everything that everybody puts out there isn't always up

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Speaker 5: And sometimes I understand that's the social part of social media,

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Speaker 4: You just there's nothing nobody can do right.

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Speaker 4: Everybody is fucked up with you.

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Speaker 5: Nobody got their life together but you and you got

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Speaker 4: Okay, will you be that over there?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's you know, it's just like, don't invite this

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Speaker 2: it's the equivalent of walking into somebody's party. They playing

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Speaker 2: you know, I live Kwali or some ship, and everybody

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Speaker 2: We're not literally in here trying to reform the social

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Speaker 2: Niggas just want to party. As I always say, it's

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Speaker 2: and this news broke and they started making because it

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Speaker 2: It was just like all ship, uh, it's gonna be

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Speaker 4: Like funge hair rollers.

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Speaker 2: It was that kind of shit. And it turned into like, Wow,

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Speaker 5: And like you say something you said that actually struggle me.

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Speaker 5: Sometimes niggas just want to party and there's nothing wrong

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Speaker 5: with you party. And the thing about partying when you

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Speaker 2: Some of that pop culture deep and shit is kind

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Speaker 2: of like it's the psychology. Shit is just kind of

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Speaker 2: how great of an example the marriage or impending marriage

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Speaker 2: I saw too many black women being happy. I'm in

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Speaker 2: you know, you turn off my internet for a little bit,

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Speaker 2: s it's Jesus, she's not no savior, y'all just out

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, oh, black women had too much fun,

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Speaker 2: to be told you ain't shit. He ain't shit. Everybody

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Speaker 2: that kind of thing where I think I'm just getting

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Speaker 4: Yes, sir, particularly if you can see it right.

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Speaker 2: When you can see it coming, it's even worse, you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, And it gets.

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Speaker 4: And was it fun? Telling somebody I think it was fun.

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Speaker 2: He had to ditions himself from black people so he

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Speaker 2: I definitely understand that impulse because it's like, we are

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Speaker 2: it's not, but so much has been done to us

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Speaker 2: that many times we've we step on each other before

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Speaker 2: anybody can step on us, Like, you didn't do this

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Speaker 2: because sometimes I think people over exaggerate on that, right, Like,

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Speaker 2: makes you feel like people are consumable, but not just consumable,

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00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:21,800
Speaker 2: but there's an ownership because what social media has done

434
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:24,760
Speaker 2: has turned us into products. Right, So what I mean

435
00:22:24,800 --> 00:22:28,679
Speaker 2: by that is people follow me because they expect me

436
00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:31,280
Speaker 2: to have certain opinions, they expect me to say certain things,

437
00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:34,000
Speaker 2: and they expect me to make certain jokes and stuff. Right,

438
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:37,000
Speaker 2: People follow you for the same reason people may follow

439
00:22:38,160 --> 00:22:41,480
Speaker 2: you name the person. They like they you are associated

440
00:22:41,520 --> 00:22:44,920
Speaker 2: with certain events. If you're an activist, you're you're supposed

441
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:47,560
Speaker 2: to have certain opinions, you're supposed to do certain things.

442
00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,080
Speaker 2: People look at you that way. They don't want when

443
00:22:50,119 --> 00:22:52,280
Speaker 2: you're quiet about something. It can't be that you use

444
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:54,119
Speaker 2: the bathroom or you just were off the phone for

445
00:22:54,160 --> 00:22:56,879
Speaker 2: a minute so you didn't see it. It's whoa, So

446
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,240
Speaker 2: you don't care that this happened, but you was caring

447
00:22:59,280 --> 00:23:02,480
Speaker 2: about that thing happening that used to not be a thing.

448
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:05,600
Speaker 2: You know, that part of it, Like I've been trying

449
00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:07,120
Speaker 2: to put my finger on it for a long time,

450
00:23:07,200 --> 00:23:10,240
Speaker 2: but it's that part of it that used to not exist,

451
00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:14,360
Speaker 2: this thing where it was like it's almost like social

452
00:23:14,400 --> 00:23:18,439
Speaker 2: media has made people a Netflix que Yeah, you know,

453
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:24,359
Speaker 2: like I specifically don't like you to be doing blank.

454
00:23:24,840 --> 00:23:27,280
Speaker 2: So you know, because when you look at some of

455
00:23:27,280 --> 00:23:30,959
Speaker 2: the fights and how little they are because I like

456
00:23:31,160 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 2: and like I said, I'm not trying to demean anyone here,

457
00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:40,120
Speaker 2: but like, let's think about this, Megan Marko, Shit, how fucking,

458
00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:45,639
Speaker 2: how fucking weird is it that this will have zero

459
00:23:45,760 --> 00:23:48,280
Speaker 2: impact on the world or the lives of any of

460
00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:52,000
Speaker 2: us Yet I've watched people fall out over this. Come on,

461
00:23:52,280 --> 00:23:54,880
Speaker 2: it don't make no sense, you know, like over something

462
00:23:54,920 --> 00:23:58,480
Speaker 2: that essentially should just be either ha ha, you know

463
00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:01,600
Speaker 2: she's getting in this honey, black woman in the or

464
00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 2: it should be eh, it's not for me. It should

465
00:24:04,960 --> 00:24:08,000
Speaker 2: be about that simple for and it's not just her,

466
00:24:08,080 --> 00:24:10,920
Speaker 2: but it's most things right, But it ends up turning

467
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:13,879
Speaker 2: into something bigger, because, like I said, you can be

468
00:24:14,119 --> 00:24:16,600
Speaker 2: most people that have a Facebook page or Twitter page

469
00:24:16,720 --> 00:24:21,440
Speaker 2: or Instagram or whatever, most people are talking to people

470
00:24:21,480 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 2: that they have most things in common with. You know.

471
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 2: Very few people really are out there like I'm gonna

472
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:28,280
Speaker 2: go out here and hang out with the alt right today,

473
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:32,720
Speaker 2: you know, and vice versa. Yet we end up where

474
00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:35,080
Speaker 2: even I agree with you ninety nine percent of the time,

475
00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,359
Speaker 2: but really, you don't like this album, Fuck you, nigga,

476
00:24:37,400 --> 00:24:41,520
Speaker 2: you ain't like I've seen that discussion turn into and

477
00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:44,199
Speaker 2: now we both got each other blocked, you know, and

478
00:24:44,240 --> 00:24:46,480
Speaker 2: it's and it is kind of interesting because I feel

479
00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:51,680
Speaker 2: like that is the promise that social media has given us,

480
00:24:51,800 --> 00:24:55,680
Speaker 2: is that we will never run into opinions of people

481
00:24:55,720 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 2: we don't we disagree with, yeah, and that if we

482
00:24:59,080 --> 00:25:03,280
Speaker 2: dislike someone, or we disagree with someone, get rid of

483
00:25:03,359 --> 00:25:08,320
Speaker 2: him immediately, right, Yes, and I'll easily discarded, Like yeah,

484
00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:11,400
Speaker 2: you're it's easy to it's easier to discard somebody online,

485
00:25:12,000 --> 00:25:15,199
Speaker 2: right Whereas and by discard I don't even mean like

486
00:25:15,280 --> 00:25:18,160
Speaker 2: just because you can hit block or mute or unfollow, right.

487
00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:22,040
Speaker 2: What I mean by discard is like in real life,

488
00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:25,399
Speaker 2: if you knew that person that and maybe this is

489
00:25:25,480 --> 00:25:27,320
Speaker 2: just a thing that happened when we were coming up,

490
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,879
Speaker 2: like I said before the internet, but that was just

491
00:25:29,880 --> 00:25:33,840
Speaker 2: a thing where it's like, oh, I like Jim, but

492
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:39,480
Speaker 2: also Jim is a Duke fan, or I like Jim,

493
00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:43,399
Speaker 2: but also Jim has some issues when it comes to

494
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 2: his politics, like I disagree with him about like sometimes

495
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:52,439
Speaker 2: he'll he's on some respectability politics shit. And it didn't

496
00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:54,240
Speaker 2: mean that you had to agree with him. It didn't

497
00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,800
Speaker 2: mean you never you never fought or just didn't mean

498
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,600
Speaker 2: any of that, but it just meant like, but also,

499
00:25:59,640 --> 00:26:02,080
Speaker 2: you're my friend. So this is an area where I

500
00:26:02,160 --> 00:26:05,639
Speaker 2: disagree with my friend. And I think between you know,

501
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:08,040
Speaker 2: the news with the with the five people on the

502
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:11,960
Speaker 2: panel arguing at each other, social media kind of imitating

503
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 2: that at all times and just the access we have

504
00:26:15,200 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 2: to each other. I feel like that's changed. And I

505
00:26:17,160 --> 00:26:19,800
Speaker 2: think moments like this, which should be kind of like

506
00:26:19,920 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 2: funny moments, end up turning kind of sad for me

507
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:25,440
Speaker 2: because I'm like, are y'all niggas really about to argue?

508
00:26:25,520 --> 00:26:28,359
Speaker 2: Like you and her Christians Christian in for her baby

509
00:26:28,680 --> 00:26:31,439
Speaker 2: and here you are, like, you know, like some of

510
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 2: y'all ain't gonna be free because of this, and some

511
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:35,679
Speaker 2: of y'all ain't gonna be free because of that. And

512
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:38,439
Speaker 2: I'm like, you know, like when you have more in

513
00:26:38,480 --> 00:26:41,680
Speaker 2: common with the races and the hotels about this relationship

514
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 2: than you know the fellow black people, Like, what's the

515
00:26:46,560 --> 00:26:48,000
Speaker 2: whole point of all this? Yeah?

516
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:52,000
Speaker 4: And it's also, in my opinion, I think too, it's that.

517
00:26:54,400 --> 00:26:57,879
Speaker 5: Social media, in my opinion, and I noticed by you

518
00:26:58,000 --> 00:27:02,600
Speaker 5: my age, social media give these people the illusion of

519
00:27:02,720 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 5: relationships and friendships and closeness and tightness than in reality

520
00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 5: is not always there.

521
00:27:10,560 --> 00:27:10,760
Speaker 4: You know.

522
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:14,119
Speaker 5: That's why they're quote unquote friends or quote unquote followers.

523
00:27:14,119 --> 00:27:16,120
Speaker 5: Like they don't name them that just because they name

524
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,840
Speaker 5: them that, you know, for a reason. So that for

525
00:27:19,320 --> 00:27:23,520
Speaker 5: some people, these friends or followers, regardless of how real

526
00:27:23,560 --> 00:27:26,920
Speaker 5: a quote unquote faith they are to you mean something

527
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:30,679
Speaker 5: to a lot of people, and I think for some people,

528
00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:36,320
Speaker 5: they don't build real functioning, working relationships. Like I'm old school,

529
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:40,920
Speaker 5: and I do know that through the internet. I've actually

530
00:27:40,920 --> 00:27:43,000
Speaker 5: met some good friends and some of my best friends,

531
00:27:43,560 --> 00:27:45,719
Speaker 5: but we interacted for a while and then guess, well,

532
00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:48,200
Speaker 5: one day I see you face to face, Like I'm

533
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,600
Speaker 5: real old school, like I got to see you, I

534
00:27:50,640 --> 00:27:52,680
Speaker 5: got to see what you look.

535
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:56,280
Speaker 4: Like, you know, have a real, true interaction with you

536
00:27:58,280 --> 00:28:00,440
Speaker 4: before I go to to.

537
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 2: The level of.

538
00:28:03,359 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 4: That determines the deepness of the relationship.

539
00:28:05,320 --> 00:28:07,680
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, honestly, that's not even it for me,

540
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:10,439
Speaker 2: Like I have friends that I mean, I feel like

541
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:12,760
Speaker 2: me and Chris were really tight before we even met.

542
00:28:12,840 --> 00:28:14,840
Speaker 2: Like it's not really to me, that's not that big

543
00:28:14,880 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 2: a deal meeting face to face. Not that it's not

544
00:28:17,680 --> 00:28:20,720
Speaker 2: a bonus added, but yes, it's not. What I'm saying

545
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:24,800
Speaker 2: is I think of people as people all the time.

546
00:28:25,000 --> 00:28:29,600
Speaker 2: I think I think digitally, there's a disconnecting a lot

547
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:32,800
Speaker 2: of people's minds where we stop being people once we

548
00:28:32,840 --> 00:28:36,960
Speaker 2: get online. And in my mind, I'm seeing hundreds of

549
00:28:37,400 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 2: real ass black women three to mention. No, people who

550
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 2: have very complex, complicated feelings about anti blackness, about whiteness,

551
00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 2: about racism, about not not idiots. They're not they're not sheep,

552
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 2: They're not you know, they're not fools. I'm not I woken,

553
00:28:52,840 --> 00:28:56,400
Speaker 2: y'all stupid. It's not that I'm seeing them have a fun,

554
00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,520
Speaker 2: joyous moment and I'm like, cool, everybody got to have

555
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 2: a little fun this morning. By the afternoon, it's you know,

556
00:29:02,880 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 2: good times, you know.

557
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 4: Correct. And also it's one of those things.

558
00:29:06,400 --> 00:29:11,200
Speaker 5: Too, to where also, and I take that back, it's

559
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 5: not always about physically seeing you. Like you say, I

560
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:19,240
Speaker 5: treat my online interactions like I'm like I'm interacted with

561
00:29:19,280 --> 00:29:21,360
Speaker 5: somebody in real life. Yeah, And so I think that's

562
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 5: why for some times I'm really sensitive to certain things

563
00:29:24,800 --> 00:29:27,160
Speaker 5: because I'm like, hey, would you talk to me like this?

564
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:29,240
Speaker 4: Have you seen me face to face?

565
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,240
Speaker 2: Yeah? I had a guy on Facebook the other day,

566
00:29:32,680 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 2: my friend. I see him. I mean friend is a

567
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:37,239
Speaker 2: little a little heavy of a word for him, but

568
00:29:37,320 --> 00:29:40,400
Speaker 2: like acquaintance, we see each other. We joke all the time.

569
00:29:40,600 --> 00:29:43,320
Speaker 2: I play basketball with him. One of the things we

570
00:29:43,400 --> 00:29:44,720
Speaker 2: do on the side of the court all the time.

571
00:29:44,800 --> 00:29:48,560
Speaker 2: We argue all the time too. Nobody's ever like thrown blows,

572
00:29:48,760 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 2: nobody's ever gotten physical. One time we did have a

573
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 2: bad falling out where we ain't talk for a little bit,

574
00:29:53,800 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 2: but that was actually over basketball. And I've had other

575
00:29:58,040 --> 00:29:59,640
Speaker 2: and he's not the only one that I've had that

576
00:29:59,680 --> 00:30:02,239
Speaker 2: said you question. Still would count him as you know,

577
00:30:02,680 --> 00:30:06,600
Speaker 2: somebody I know, you know. And we were talking on

578
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:08,360
Speaker 2: Facebook and he was like, this is just social media.

579
00:30:08,360 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 2: I said no, I would say this to your face,

580
00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:12,840
Speaker 2: and you know it too, like we both know it,

581
00:30:13,360 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 2: like and not because on some threatening like and I

582
00:30:15,920 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 2: would fuck you up, but like on some to me,

583
00:30:19,440 --> 00:30:22,800
Speaker 2: this discussion that we're having, I don't really care who's

584
00:30:22,880 --> 00:30:25,040
Speaker 2: viewing it right, you know, it's not like I know

585
00:30:25,080 --> 00:30:26,440
Speaker 2: a lot of people do. They're like, well, call me

586
00:30:26,440 --> 00:30:28,160
Speaker 2: on the phone you disagree. I'm like, you don't got

587
00:30:28,160 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 2: to call me on the phone. Just talk to me

588
00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:32,360
Speaker 2: the way we talk like that's it. We don't have

589
00:30:32,440 --> 00:30:35,680
Speaker 2: to fake it or anything. Like we can have a

590
00:30:36,200 --> 00:30:38,360
Speaker 2: I've had conversation on the side of the basketball court

591
00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:41,600
Speaker 2: about things that most people would rather talk about in private.

592
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,760
Speaker 2: It could be about sexual assault, it could be about racism,

593
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:47,360
Speaker 2: it could be about whatever, And if you're my friend,

594
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:50,040
Speaker 2: you already know I'm that kind of person to be honest.

595
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 2: You know, I've had conversations with white dudes that I

596
00:30:53,280 --> 00:30:55,200
Speaker 2: play ball with and I'm like, oh no, I just

597
00:30:55,240 --> 00:30:57,920
Speaker 2: think you're being racist against Cam Newton and you can

598
00:30:57,960 --> 00:31:00,400
Speaker 2: see the room, and I'm like, I if I would

599
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 2: say it to you on Twitter, why the fuck would

600
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 2: I not say it to you in my face? Like

601
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:06,600
Speaker 2: we let's let's be honest with each other. I mean,

602
00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 2: maybe you can convince me that this isn't racism, but

603
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,960
Speaker 2: you know, like some of this shit is is that way,

604
00:31:13,000 --> 00:31:15,080
Speaker 2: and that's just how I operate. I understand that's a

605
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:19,479
Speaker 2: little bit different lot of people. Yeah, I understand it's

606
00:31:19,480 --> 00:31:21,960
Speaker 2: a little bit different than most people. But my point being,

607
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,640
Speaker 2: I think if we treated each other the way we

608
00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 2: would treat each.

609
00:31:27,160 --> 00:31:29,000
Speaker 4: Other to our faces.

610
00:31:29,200 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 2: But I don't think. I think very more often than not,

611
00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:36,560
Speaker 2: we're more like I'm speaking to a too, like I'm

612
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:38,560
Speaker 2: stepping on my soapbox to speak to the church, to

613
00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:42,440
Speaker 2: the congregation, as opposed to my friend, or you know,

614
00:31:42,520 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 2: like I can disagree with my friend and not want

615
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:48,360
Speaker 2: her to die, you know, not want him to stop existing.

616
00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:50,280
Speaker 2: Not need him blocked. But at the same I mean,

617
00:31:50,320 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 2: I remember when we went through all that ship with Firestarter,

618
00:31:55,000 --> 00:31:58,840
Speaker 2: you know, and I'm still happy that we're friends like that.

619
00:31:59,040 --> 00:32:00,760
Speaker 2: That meant more to me than what the fuck the

620
00:32:00,840 --> 00:32:03,880
Speaker 2: internet thought, sir, you know, like I have my personal

621
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:06,560
Speaker 2: integrity that is more important than what the fuck anyone

622
00:32:06,560 --> 00:32:09,920
Speaker 2: else online thinks about me or my integrity. I'm not

623
00:32:10,000 --> 00:32:13,440
Speaker 2: ruining a friendship over some bullshit over what white people

624
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,520
Speaker 2: think about our hashtags, right, Like what white people think

625
00:32:16,600 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 2: about a hashtag should not be the impetus for you know,

626
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:22,120
Speaker 2: a bunch of black podcasts to be at each other's throat,

627
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,520
Speaker 2: and they ain't about to pay none of us, right,

628
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 2: a bunch of shit. They gonna either if they want

629
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:28,560
Speaker 2: us anything from any of us, they gonna want us

630
00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:32,080
Speaker 2: to do it for free. Number one and then number two.

631
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 2: I don't even get down like that, Like I don't

632
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 2: even covet that, right, So, but I remember people being like, nah,

633
00:32:38,120 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 2: fuck them, writing fucked up shit about them, like no, no, no, no,

634
00:32:40,720 --> 00:32:43,320
Speaker 2: don't say that to me, cause I'm like I am

635
00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:45,960
Speaker 2: trying to make sure this is a relationship that's maintained.

636
00:32:46,320 --> 00:32:49,360
Speaker 2: You know, that week of podcast was so important to

637
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:52,320
Speaker 2: me because we had them on. We had been a

638
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:55,480
Speaker 2: mean on and we had Black Girl Jamie from Black

639
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 2: Girl Nerves on. And you know, I don't know that

640
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 2: any of them are even cool with each other, you know,

641
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 2: but I'm cool with all of them because they're all

642
00:33:03,120 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 2: good people. I wish they could see it in each other,

643
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:07,280
Speaker 2: but I can see it in all of them, right,

644
00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:12,000
Speaker 2: you know, So that it's that it just gets so

645
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:15,920
Speaker 2: complicated because we started off talking about Maggan Marco. This

646
00:33:16,000 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 2: is how complicated shit gets when you throw in how

647
00:33:18,480 --> 00:33:22,479
Speaker 2: fucked up we are as a people and the damage

648
00:33:22,480 --> 00:33:24,840
Speaker 2: we continue to do each other, the cycles that we have.

649
00:33:25,200 --> 00:33:27,920
Speaker 2: You know of I've been hurt, So let me hurt you.

650
00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 2: Let me tell you why you're not black enough, let

651
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:32,360
Speaker 2: me question you know. It's that kind of.

652
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:34,040
Speaker 4: Thing, right that hurt people, hurt people.

653
00:33:34,080 --> 00:33:37,760
Speaker 5: People talk about that, but that's a true statement because

654
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:39,720
Speaker 5: I've been in the situation where you'd be like, you

655
00:33:39,720 --> 00:33:42,200
Speaker 5: know what I shouldn't have did that night, lash that

656
00:33:42,320 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 5: you would set these things towards you.

657
00:33:44,040 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 4: Because I was mad at herd or angry, right.

658
00:33:46,280 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 2: And the thing is, I understand that too, right, And

659
00:33:49,240 --> 00:33:52,400
Speaker 2: I've went back and apologized. I'm about me personally, I'm

660
00:33:52,400 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 2: about making things right. But we live in an age

661
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 2: where nobody wants to apologize.

662
00:33:56,920 --> 00:33:59,080
Speaker 5: Nobody wants to admit that they right. Nobody wants to

663
00:33:59,280 --> 00:34:01,720
Speaker 5: admit that I mean, admit that they're wrong. Nobody wants

664
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:04,200
Speaker 5: to come back and say I fucked up, because that

665
00:34:04,240 --> 00:34:07,120
Speaker 5: would mean you, god goddamn human being in Lord have merchany.

666
00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:10,200
Speaker 5: Don't let the social media people know and the niggas

667
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:12,560
Speaker 5: I do on the internet, note that you are a

668
00:34:12,640 --> 00:34:14,960
Speaker 5: human being with feelings and emotions can range, and you're

669
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:16,240
Speaker 5: not a one note machine.

670
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:19,040
Speaker 2: And that's the thing about consuming people too, right, because

671
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:22,759
Speaker 2: what other people also like to do is consume the fight. Yes,

672
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:26,440
Speaker 2: you know, cause I saw I remember it's only been

673
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:28,600
Speaker 2: a few weeks now, but that whole Bourbon ball shit

674
00:34:29,360 --> 00:34:33,520
Speaker 2: when people were I saw so many people go I

675
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 2: didn't see y'all talking to I don't see all y'all

676
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:38,920
Speaker 2: talking about this, and I'm like, everybody's talking about it,

677
00:34:39,160 --> 00:34:42,080
Speaker 2: but it's like, oh, some of y'all ain't saying enough.

678
00:34:42,080 --> 00:34:44,520
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, this is basically like you turning the

679
00:34:44,600 --> 00:34:47,160
Speaker 2: volume up on your TV. Like I want more, like

680
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:50,280
Speaker 2: keep fighting. I need to see more of this discord

681
00:34:50,320 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 2: on my timeline. And it's because they're not people to you, like,

682
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:59,600
Speaker 2: not the people that were that were sexually allegedly sexually assaulted,

683
00:35:00,160 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 2: the people that did it, not the people that were

684
00:35:02,440 --> 00:35:04,719
Speaker 2: just like bystanders, not the people.

685
00:35:04,480 --> 00:35:07,360
Speaker 4: That this was on for today.

686
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:10,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just and then when seventy two hours is gone,

687
00:35:10,880 --> 00:35:12,799
Speaker 2: you know, in seventy two hours, nobody gives a fuck

688
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:15,000
Speaker 2: about it anymore because it was just it literally was

689
00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:17,839
Speaker 2: the TV show for the day. So yeah, I feel

690
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:19,759
Speaker 2: like I'm getting sick of people in a way. I

691
00:35:19,760 --> 00:35:21,920
Speaker 2: mean I'm always kind of sick of people, but I

692
00:35:21,960 --> 00:35:24,400
Speaker 2: don't know. As of late, it's just been like damn, like,

693
00:35:25,080 --> 00:35:27,560
Speaker 2: oh cool, something funny happened up. Never mind, it's already

694
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 2: fucked up, you know what I mean, Like every day

695
00:35:30,760 --> 00:35:34,359
Speaker 2: like this would be cool. Uh this niggas never had,

696
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:37,399
Speaker 2: you know, on seasoning salt on his food. Oh, ain't

697
00:35:37,440 --> 00:35:39,520
Speaker 2: that funny? And it's like, you know, what you're really

698
00:35:39,520 --> 00:35:43,080
Speaker 2: saying is that the patriarchal military system of I'm like, okay,

699
00:35:43,120 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 2: I didn't know. I didn't know that's what was happening.

700
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,640
Speaker 5: I just wanted to make a sweet potato and pumpkin

701
00:35:48,680 --> 00:35:49,200
Speaker 5: pie jokes.

702
00:35:50,160 --> 00:35:52,200
Speaker 2: I thought if Harry put his hair in a dow

703
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:53,960
Speaker 2: rag and was walking around with ways, we could just

704
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:55,200
Speaker 2: get a laugh out of it.

705
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 3: Yes, laugh.

706
00:35:56,239 --> 00:35:58,040
Speaker 2: I didn't know we were gonna have to bring back

707
00:35:58,080 --> 00:36:00,880
Speaker 2: all the old ship and and the thing that same token.

708
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,680
Speaker 2: I'm not even saying everybody got to celebrate it, but

709
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:07,760
Speaker 2: it just feels like when people target folks or celebrating,

710
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 2: it's an extra level to it, like it's one thing

711
00:36:10,200 --> 00:36:13,839
Speaker 2: to be like, well, I I am not celebrating this shit.

712
00:36:13,920 --> 00:36:16,680
Speaker 2: Fuck it, you know, cool? Got it? Hey, Look, ain't

713
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:19,000
Speaker 2: no requirements, No one can force you to do anything.

714
00:36:20,040 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 2: When it becomes y'all niggas is like, oh ouch, so

715
00:36:24,320 --> 00:36:27,120
Speaker 2: black people got too happy today? Okay, cool. I mean

716
00:36:27,280 --> 00:36:29,880
Speaker 2: it'll something Gon'll happen tomorrow, It'll it'll happen again. But

717
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 2: of course, anyway, they got engaged, and I thought it

718
00:36:36,080 --> 00:36:41,640
Speaker 2: was was kind of funny. I did everybody. I thought

719
00:36:41,680 --> 00:36:43,800
Speaker 2: it was funny. Everyone's getting their jokes. And here's the

720
00:36:43,880 --> 00:36:47,719
Speaker 2: other part I would add too. I'm not saying it's

721
00:36:47,719 --> 00:36:52,920
Speaker 2: one hundred percent so asterisk on this on this statement

722
00:36:52,960 --> 00:36:55,040
Speaker 2: I'm about to make. I'm not saying it's one hundred percent,

723
00:36:55,760 --> 00:36:59,799
Speaker 2: but it's very fucking close to one hundred percent. Anything

724
00:37:00,160 --> 00:37:04,319
Speaker 2: that makes racist white people mad bring me joy, And

725
00:37:04,400 --> 00:37:08,120
Speaker 2: I'm not sorry, and I'm never going to be sorry.

726
00:37:08,239 --> 00:37:09,160
Speaker 4: I'm not trying to be funny.

727
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:12,680
Speaker 5: That's one reason why I'm excited, Like like that is

728
00:37:12,760 --> 00:37:15,319
Speaker 5: one of the main reasons why I'm not even from

729
00:37:15,320 --> 00:37:17,479
Speaker 5: the country. But that's one of the main reasons why

730
00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,480
Speaker 5: I'm excited because I know they're gonna be mad because

731
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:22,920
Speaker 5: even before we read articles about how they went so

732
00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:26,440
Speaker 5: fucking hard at her, like they was going hard at

733
00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 5: her when they found out that.

734
00:37:27,960 --> 00:37:28,720
Speaker 4: They were dating.

735
00:37:29,120 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, white people mad. Racist white people are mad as

736
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:36,560
Speaker 2: fuck that he would sully the royal dick with this

737
00:37:36,680 --> 00:37:41,080
Speaker 2: black temptress. And you know what, fuck them right. If

738
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:43,600
Speaker 2: it make them mad, then I'm even more here for it.

739
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:46,960
Speaker 2: Like it's a very simple rule, and like I said, asterisk,

740
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:50,440
Speaker 2: it doesn't apply to everything, but god damn it, I

741
00:37:50,880 --> 00:37:53,120
Speaker 2: like it's very close to one hundred percent. Like if

742
00:37:53,160 --> 00:37:55,200
Speaker 2: it ain't one hundred, it's like nine to nine point

743
00:37:55,320 --> 00:37:57,799
Speaker 2: nine percent. Of shit that makes racist white people mad

744
00:37:58,520 --> 00:38:02,319
Speaker 2: just makes my mother fucking life better, Like it just

745
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:06,120
Speaker 2: smelling things smell, sweeter, food.

746
00:38:05,960 --> 00:38:10,760
Speaker 5: Taste better, better to tears gets harder.

747
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 2: Okay, like it is, it is so much better when

748
00:38:14,480 --> 00:38:17,919
Speaker 2: racist white people are upset about some some trivial Shiit

749
00:38:18,120 --> 00:38:21,560
Speaker 2: essentially like, ain't no, like that's the thing black people.

750
00:38:21,680 --> 00:38:23,880
Speaker 2: Was kind of like ha ha cool, got some jokes

751
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 2: moving on what else y'all doing today? And it turned

752
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:31,799
Speaker 2: into like this fucking cook would dare do this? To

753
00:38:31,880 --> 00:38:34,879
Speaker 2: the to the to the royal penis and the royal line.

754
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:39,240
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, y'all seem quite upset. Let me rewind

755
00:38:39,280 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 2: this and get get my party on, you know, so make.

756
00:38:42,680 --> 00:38:45,759
Speaker 4: Them real mad and have Beyonce and jay Z and

757
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:46,319
Speaker 4: Carter B.

758
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:50,879
Speaker 2: Right. So I'm just saying because I because that's the thing.

759
00:38:51,000 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 2: You take any of the ship that we black quote

760
00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:59,400
Speaker 2: unquote celebrate any critical academic analysis of anything pop culture

761
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,160
Speaker 2: is going to ruin the fun right period. I don't

762
00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:06,440
Speaker 2: care who you are. We're all biased with a D

763
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:10,759
Speaker 2: We're all biased. We all have we all have our

764
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:14,600
Speaker 2: own hang ups. Like, you know, there's a reason people

765
00:39:14,640 --> 00:39:19,239
Speaker 2: celebrate Cardi b as like she's a feminist icon and shit,

766
00:39:19,320 --> 00:39:21,720
Speaker 2: even though she ain't. Never claim that she's not trying

767
00:39:21,719 --> 00:39:25,800
Speaker 2: to give you like some academic like spear of anything.

768
00:39:25,880 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 2: She's living her best life here and out here making

769
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:31,839
Speaker 2: hits and came from the strip of stage to the

770
00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:36,640
Speaker 2: motherfucking number one hit in America. At some point, I'm

771
00:39:36,680 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 2: not going I'm not too far gone down the rabbit

772
00:39:39,120 --> 00:39:42,319
Speaker 2: hole to celebrate that, you know, same way I'm not

773
00:39:42,360 --> 00:39:44,359
Speaker 2: too far gone down the rabbit hole to be like, oh,

774
00:39:44,400 --> 00:39:46,480
Speaker 2: cool black girl getting gonna be a princess, ha ha.

775
00:39:47,400 --> 00:39:49,600
Speaker 2: You know, because to me, a lot of it bulls

776
00:39:49,680 --> 00:39:54,319
Speaker 2: back down to how can I say it when you're

777
00:39:54,360 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 2: talking about Chardi B. A lot of people like you said, no,

778
00:39:56,600 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 2: she didn't claim that role.

779
00:39:57,680 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 5: But her doing though doing what she did is also

780
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 5: a part of feminist.

781
00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 2: Oh for sure, you know.

782
00:40:04,880 --> 00:40:10,640
Speaker 4: But a lot of people have their putt this, they

783
00:40:10,640 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 4: put their genders when it comes to it.

784
00:40:13,320 --> 00:40:16,720
Speaker 2: But here's the thing. Though, yes she did, Yes it's feminist,

785
00:40:16,760 --> 00:40:19,440
Speaker 2: da da da, but she hasn't claimed to be like

786
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:23,560
Speaker 2: some intersectional, well academic woman. So then what happens is

787
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:26,440
Speaker 2: because other women have chosen to take her own as

788
00:40:26,480 --> 00:40:30,160
Speaker 2: like this avatar, like you know, oh, Cardi B did

789
00:40:30,280 --> 00:40:33,880
Speaker 2: said this line that's basically a line about socialism. She

790
00:40:33,920 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 2: said this line, that's a line for corobative economists. Oh,

791
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:38,920
Speaker 2: she said this line, that's a line for she want

792
00:40:38,960 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 2: to be treated right, and like it's that kind of thing, right,

793
00:40:42,120 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 2: And it's like, really, it's just a rapper who you know,

794
00:40:45,040 --> 00:40:46,960
Speaker 2: like you don't like she didn't go to school, Vina,

795
00:40:47,080 --> 00:40:50,239
Speaker 2: She's not trying to do this. But because some women

796
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:53,000
Speaker 2: would celebrate, I actually saw other women come through and

797
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 2: be like, y'all, y'all are promoting this colorist this, that

798
00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:00,880
Speaker 2: and the other woman. And it's like, hmm, okay, unejected

799
00:41:01,120 --> 00:41:04,560
Speaker 2: out of this conversation. I don't think anybody that was

800
00:41:04,600 --> 00:41:07,359
Speaker 2: a fan of hers was actually sitting up here going

801
00:41:07,400 --> 00:41:10,440
Speaker 2: and she passes the ball hooks test of you know,

802
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:15,680
Speaker 2: perfect intersectional black feminism. Like nobody really was saying that,

803
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:19,560
Speaker 2: but people elevated to that way so they can critique it, right,

804
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:21,879
Speaker 2: And that's kind of I don't know, it's just kind

805
00:41:21,880 --> 00:41:23,759
Speaker 2: of whack. But you know, I'll try to stay out

806
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:26,720
Speaker 2: of it because that's the other thing that I always

807
00:41:26,719 --> 00:41:31,279
Speaker 2: will say. It happens every day. Somebody's enjoying some shit

808
00:41:31,680 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 2: on the timeline, on the Twitter, on the Facebook, in

809
00:41:35,120 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 2: the in media and you know what, it ain't my thing,

810
00:41:38,480 --> 00:41:40,239
Speaker 2: And I don't have to like come in and tell

811
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 2: them why it's fucked up.

812
00:41:41,400 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 4: I sure don't hunt. And I let them party just

813
00:41:43,719 --> 00:41:45,440
Speaker 4: like when I'm partying. Y'all, let me.

814
00:41:45,440 --> 00:41:50,160
Speaker 2: Party, don't bother me like like, essentially, it really doesn't

815
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:53,799
Speaker 2: affect anything, you know, no great lesson has learned any

816
00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:56,320
Speaker 2: of this shit. All right, let's talk about other stuff

817
00:41:56,320 --> 00:41:58,640
Speaker 2: that you know, may or may not matter, depends on

818
00:41:58,680 --> 00:42:02,960
Speaker 2: how we feel. Town rallies around shop owners after day

819
00:42:03,080 --> 00:42:08,520
Speaker 2: threatened the Christian boycott for staying open on Sundays. Now,

820
00:42:08,640 --> 00:42:14,640
Speaker 2: see if this was a Muslim town and they threatened

821
00:42:14,680 --> 00:42:18,080
Speaker 2: a store for being opened on their sabbath and said

822
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:21,560
Speaker 2: it was a Sharia law, it would be the number

823
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:27,680
Speaker 2: one story in America. But somehow a Christian town can

824
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:31,160
Speaker 2: be like we boycotting y'all for having the audacity to

825
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 2: work on Sundays. I mean, are y'all boycotten.

826
00:42:35,320 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 5: Walmart Yagoon, Ryan's yagoll McDonald's.

827
00:42:39,640 --> 00:42:43,359
Speaker 2: What do y'all eat at the church? Does everyone? Does

828
00:42:43,400 --> 00:42:45,759
Speaker 2: everyone in town make meals by hand at the church?

829
00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:50,239
Speaker 2: Is that what's happening? All these restaurants open? Yeah, the

830
00:42:50,440 --> 00:42:54,840
Speaker 2: the The store is called tweed Tastic. Owner Leanna Rawlinson.

831
00:42:55,520 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 3: Uh.

832
00:42:56,400 --> 00:42:59,640
Speaker 2: Leona Rolinson got an interested package a Bible company by

833
00:42:59,640 --> 00:43:02,160
Speaker 2: a letter warned her that she remains open on Sundays.

834
00:43:02,480 --> 00:43:06,200
Speaker 2: Some Christian in that tiny town may boycottail. The purpose

835
00:43:06,239 --> 00:43:08,879
Speaker 2: of the letter is certainly not to intimidate you into

836
00:43:08,880 --> 00:43:12,840
Speaker 2: closing on Sunday, nor are we aware of any organized

837
00:43:12,880 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 2: campaign in relation to this matter. A letter from Damn

838
00:43:15,040 --> 00:43:18,920
Speaker 2: mcpheil or in Scotland is on Lewis of Lewis read. However,

839
00:43:19,040 --> 00:43:21,239
Speaker 2: it is a sincere humble request you consider closing the

840
00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:22,359
Speaker 2: shop on the Lord's Day.

841
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 5: Uh see, people like people like y'all is why I

842
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 5: can't get a mimosa before Penn fuck y'all for newn

843
00:43:31,680 --> 00:43:35,480
Speaker 5: care ohne well ship before that, it was before what one?

844
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:36,120
Speaker 4: Two?

845
00:43:36,560 --> 00:43:38,520
Speaker 2: I don't know, but I know it's Neil for sure.

846
00:43:41,040 --> 00:43:48,520
Speaker 2: Uh but yeah, uh Rolinson? Who is uh wait as

847
00:43:48,560 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 2: hemittt met to Apathio's friendly Atheist, writes Michael's letter to

848
00:43:52,600 --> 00:43:56,280
Speaker 2: Rolinson wrote which he wrote as part of his work

849
00:43:56,280 --> 00:43:59,240
Speaker 2: as secretary of the Lord Day Lord's Day of Service Society,

850
00:43:59,560 --> 00:44:01,719
Speaker 2: a Christian group that lobbies for no work on the

851
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:05,920
Speaker 2: Christian sabbath has unintended consequences. Rollins. His partner Martin Fleet,

852
00:44:05,960 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 2: noted on Facebook members of their small community, I've been

853
00:44:08,480 --> 00:44:12,160
Speaker 2: supportive following the Bible mailing incident. Lots of lovely people

854
00:44:12,200 --> 00:44:14,600
Speaker 2: have called into the shop to offer support, people of

855
00:44:14,640 --> 00:44:17,239
Speaker 2: faith and no faith alike. The resounding message, over and

856
00:44:17,239 --> 00:44:19,200
Speaker 2: over again has been that it's not about religious about

857
00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 2: controlling behavior by a tiny, sanctimonious minority that professes to

858
00:44:22,560 --> 00:44:24,840
Speaker 2: speak for the island, but in reality it only speaks

859
00:44:24,840 --> 00:44:28,040
Speaker 2: for it now. Fundamentalist interpretation of Christianity. That is the

860
00:44:28,080 --> 00:44:30,600
Speaker 2: topic in itself, and I may return to it later.

861
00:44:31,719 --> 00:44:37,840
Speaker 2: Oh so yeah, just ridiculous. And for the record, that

862
00:44:38,120 --> 00:44:40,960
Speaker 2: headline was a little misleading because he didn't threaten the boycott.

863
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:44,160
Speaker 2: He is basically just saying it might have unintended consequences,

864
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 2: which I don't know. I'm assuming it is not a threat.

865
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:49,759
Speaker 2: I would like to think. It's just I don't know.

866
00:44:51,640 --> 00:44:54,560
Speaker 2: The five most addictive substances in the world, what are they?

867
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:55,840
Speaker 4: Careen myth?

868
00:44:56,600 --> 00:45:02,360
Speaker 2: Karen saying myth? Okay, okay, t H O. D Man.

869
00:45:04,400 --> 00:45:11,360
Speaker 2: Well we're gonna find out. Okay, guys, we never recommend

870
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:14,160
Speaker 2: anyone does drugs, especially the illegal ones. But if you

871
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:16,399
Speaker 2: do have a heart set on my altering substances, it's

872
00:45:16,400 --> 00:45:21,879
Speaker 2: probably wise to avoid these five as they have been

873
00:45:22,000 --> 00:45:26,720
Speaker 2: found to be the most addictive substances in the world.

874
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:30,799
Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, I said, Myles, but you know, hey, males

875
00:45:30,840 --> 00:45:32,279
Speaker 5: could be internationally known.

876
00:45:32,560 --> 00:45:37,440
Speaker 2: A group of addiction experts, chemist and forensic scientists, and pharmacologists,

877
00:45:37,520 --> 00:45:41,960
Speaker 2: headed up by Professor David Nutt, analyzed the addictive qualities

878
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:47,640
Speaker 2: nut Yeah, on twelve. I mean that you sound more

879
00:45:47,760 --> 00:45:51,080
Speaker 2: like thirteen or fourteen, because I don't think at eight

880
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 2: or nine or ten to twelve, I think kids would

881
00:45:53,080 --> 00:46:05,320
Speaker 2: have said, that's not that funny. But I'm thirteen then, child.

882
00:46:06,280 --> 00:46:12,840
Speaker 2: The researchers anyway, five most addictive services substances in the world.

883
00:46:12,920 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 2: Heroin got a score of three.

884
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:19,239
Speaker 4: We three out of what three oh three out of three?

885
00:46:19,320 --> 00:46:23,080
Speaker 4: So that's the highest, okay the heroine.

886
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:27,359
Speaker 2: Number two cocaine two point four.

887
00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:28,400
Speaker 4: I love you said five.

888
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:32,520
Speaker 2: No, I said, three out of three is the highest

889
00:46:32,560 --> 00:46:36,680
Speaker 2: you can go. Oh, okay, they're five substances. The bottom

890
00:46:36,800 --> 00:46:40,359
Speaker 2: number one heroin th three. That's the most it could

891
00:46:40,360 --> 00:46:44,360
Speaker 2: be with you now. Number two cocaine got a score

892
00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:47,880
Speaker 2: of two point four out of three. That's the second highest.

893
00:46:49,160 --> 00:46:52,920
Speaker 2: Nicotine got two point two out of three. Says a

894
00:46:52,920 --> 00:46:58,080
Speaker 2: lot right, nickea heroin, cocaine, just cigarettes. Yeah, and they

895
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:01,560
Speaker 2: actually not to get off topic, get off topic.

896
00:47:01,560 --> 00:47:05,360
Speaker 5: They're actually having a thing today where they're actually just

897
00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:09,600
Speaker 5: settled with the tobacco company about them doing false advertisement

898
00:47:09,840 --> 00:47:14,440
Speaker 5: and about how they purposely a strategically made cigarettes more addictive,

899
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:18,400
Speaker 5: and also how they had told them to start putting

900
00:47:18,440 --> 00:47:22,520
Speaker 5: stuff publicly out so that people would know, and how

901
00:47:22,760 --> 00:47:26,600
Speaker 5: they actually did their advertisement like very old school ways.

902
00:47:26,600 --> 00:47:27,799
Speaker 4: So you're not reaching young people.

903
00:47:28,080 --> 00:47:30,840
Speaker 5: Young people, they don't most of them don't watch television,

904
00:47:30,880 --> 00:47:35,759
Speaker 5: most of them do do Hulu, Netflix, particularly YouTube, and

905
00:47:35,760 --> 00:47:37,799
Speaker 5: a lot of them don't read newspapers. So they were

906
00:47:37,840 --> 00:47:41,520
Speaker 5: saying they've been fighting them for ten years for them

907
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:42,480
Speaker 5: to get this together.

908
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:44,880
Speaker 4: So when you say that, yeah, they know, they just

909
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:45,439
Speaker 4: don't care.

910
00:47:46,280 --> 00:47:48,920
Speaker 2: M you are a font of college. Where do you

911
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:49,720
Speaker 2: find that out?

912
00:47:50,080 --> 00:47:50,440
Speaker 4: NPR?

913
00:47:50,520 --> 00:47:54,560
Speaker 5: Shout out to NPR, support your local public radio, put

914
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 5: them I know, I do mind WFA.

915
00:47:56,600 --> 00:47:58,799
Speaker 2: We got a cup in the cabinet right now.

916
00:47:59,640 --> 00:48:02,520
Speaker 4: Educated me going down road, I learned like five.

917
00:48:02,360 --> 00:48:08,279
Speaker 2: Different things today barbituous with the score of two barbituous.

918
00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:11,719
Speaker 2: Aren't that like? I won't say it's like beer and ship,

919
00:48:11,800 --> 00:48:14,319
Speaker 2: but I'm not one hundreds in sure. I know it's

920
00:48:14,400 --> 00:48:16,880
Speaker 2: like now you have uppers, they're like the downers.

921
00:48:16,960 --> 00:48:19,600
Speaker 5: Oh okay, I about to say that's sound like a

922
00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 5: monster on Harry Potter.

923
00:48:21,320 --> 00:48:25,360
Speaker 2: The bbituous is coming to get you. Let me see

924
00:48:25,480 --> 00:48:32,200
Speaker 2: barbituate drug. What's an example of a barbituate drug? All right,

925
00:48:32,320 --> 00:48:39,040
Speaker 2: let's see what we got here. Oh, pheno barbitall, metho barbitall.

926
00:48:41,080 --> 00:48:45,160
Speaker 2: Probably that ship future be writing about, you know, maybe

927
00:48:45,200 --> 00:48:49,400
Speaker 2: that kind of stuff. Anyway. The fifth one is alcohol.

928
00:48:49,480 --> 00:48:57,719
Speaker 2: Would it scored one point one point nine. So it's

929
00:48:57,719 --> 00:49:00,120
Speaker 2: worth noting that while alcohol comes in at number five

930
00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 2: in terms of addictive qualities, previous research listed as the

931
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:07,279
Speaker 2: most damaging of the drugs of the Law of the list,

932
00:49:07,840 --> 00:49:10,520
Speaker 2: with the World Health Organization estimating that around five point

933
00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,640
Speaker 2: nine percent of death world whid I attributed to alcohol consumption.

934
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:18,480
Speaker 2: Barbituous Meanwhile, often I prescribe to treat seizures and anxiety.

935
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:20,040
Speaker 4: Also that pios.

936
00:49:22,400 --> 00:49:27,000
Speaker 2: Yep so. And they were also saying that you know,

937
00:49:27,160 --> 00:49:32,320
Speaker 2: three of these five are legal nickeotine, barbituous and alcohol correct.

938
00:49:32,560 --> 00:49:38,640
Speaker 4: Correct. And it's also particularly with alcohol. It's one of

939
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:39,879
Speaker 4: those things where.

940
00:49:39,760 --> 00:49:41,520
Speaker 5: A lot of people can consume alcohol and I have

941
00:49:41,600 --> 00:49:43,480
Speaker 5: a problem. But we talked about before. It's a lot

942
00:49:43,520 --> 00:49:47,440
Speaker 5: of people that consume alcohol and this is an addiction

943
00:49:47,560 --> 00:49:49,160
Speaker 5: for them, and a lot of people don't sit alcohol

944
00:49:49,239 --> 00:49:52,480
Speaker 5: assume an addiction because it's common, you know, because people

945
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:55,880
Speaker 5: think drinking social structures.

946
00:49:55,200 --> 00:49:56,000
Speaker 4: And things like that.

947
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:59,080
Speaker 5: And it's also one of the things too to where

948
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:02,440
Speaker 5: like I've see what can happen to people that become

949
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:04,359
Speaker 5: very very addictive, you know.

950
00:50:04,360 --> 00:50:06,960
Speaker 2: To it addicted to what addicted to alcohol.

951
00:50:07,680 --> 00:50:09,919
Speaker 5: You know, like I had a family member of she

952
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:13,120
Speaker 5: she's been past, one of my older aunt, and she

953
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:15,880
Speaker 5: would drink so much that even when she was not drinking,

954
00:50:15,920 --> 00:50:19,359
Speaker 5: she smelled like alcohol, Like it literally came out how poor,

955
00:50:19,440 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 5: Like it could be something serious, But a lot of people,

956
00:50:21,719 --> 00:50:23,480
Speaker 5: you know, they kind of crossed that off or they

957
00:50:23,480 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 5: don't really think of it like that, like you said,

958
00:50:26,200 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 5: because it's legal here in America and because it's so

959
00:50:29,800 --> 00:50:33,200
Speaker 5: much a normal part about society that people don't even

960
00:50:33,239 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 5: think twice about it.

961
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:37,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, you can tell because whenever I go to a

962
00:50:37,320 --> 00:50:39,319
Speaker 2: doctor and they ask like how much do you drink?

963
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:41,160
Speaker 2: And I always say like, oh, you know, maybe one

964
00:50:41,239 --> 00:50:43,799
Speaker 2: or two the drinks of maybe a week or so,

965
00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:46,839
Speaker 2: like not a lot. That always like damn, that's all

966
00:50:47,000 --> 00:50:49,759
Speaker 2: Like it's always like this kind of hum. You don't

967
00:50:49,800 --> 00:50:52,359
Speaker 2: really be drinking a lot. It's like, what the fuck

968
00:50:52,400 --> 00:50:54,920
Speaker 2: do people be saying when they come in here? You know,

969
00:50:55,200 --> 00:50:57,360
Speaker 2: sixer to the head at lunch, then six.

970
00:50:57,200 --> 00:50:59,440
Speaker 4: And when to get to bed, Like I gotta function.

971
00:50:59,719 --> 00:51:01,680
Speaker 2: I mean because also alcohol is kind of a cheap

972
00:51:01,680 --> 00:51:04,600
Speaker 2: one that people can access. You don't need to go

973
00:51:04,640 --> 00:51:06,640
Speaker 2: to a doctor get a prescription, and I think a

974
00:51:06,640 --> 00:51:08,480
Speaker 2: lot of people self medicate with it. I had a

975
00:51:08,520 --> 00:51:11,000
Speaker 2: friend that was telling me the other day how he

976
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:13,279
Speaker 2: he was like, yeah, you know, I was like he

977
00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:15,680
Speaker 2: was struggling. He was like, yeah, I'm out here struggling

978
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:19,319
Speaker 2: playing basketball. He was like, you know, I was like, wow,

979
00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:22,000
Speaker 2: what's going on? You hungover something? He's like, nah, actually

980
00:51:22,040 --> 00:51:24,120
Speaker 2: because I stopped drinking. And I was like, oh, he's

981
00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:26,719
Speaker 2: like going through a draws. So he's like yeah. I

982
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:29,720
Speaker 2: was like, well, you just drinking going out socially and stuff.

983
00:51:29,719 --> 00:51:32,120
Speaker 2: It's like sometimes I was drinking by myself too. That's

984
00:51:32,160 --> 00:51:33,239
Speaker 2: why I had to stop. I felt like I was

985
00:51:33,239 --> 00:51:35,920
Speaker 2: getting too bad. I was like, well, how much were

986
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:38,840
Speaker 2: he drinking? He was like, you know, like take like

987
00:51:38,880 --> 00:51:41,800
Speaker 2: a fifth of vodka every night. And I was like, oh,

988
00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:45,319
Speaker 2: that is a lot, like just by yourself, and like

989
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:48,880
Speaker 2: I was like yeah. I was like, hey, man, you

990
00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:51,840
Speaker 2: know you might It was like, not for me to presume,

991
00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:55,719
Speaker 2: not an expert. I was like, you might be self medicating,

992
00:51:55,840 --> 00:51:58,480
Speaker 2: like something else might be wrong. That has nothing to

993
00:51:58,520 --> 00:52:00,799
Speaker 2: do with you know, because you're not at this point

994
00:52:00,880 --> 00:52:06,600
Speaker 2: for fun, You're not drinking socially, that's a lot of

995
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:10,200
Speaker 2: that's a lot of alcohol. It will definitely put you out.

996
00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:13,359
Speaker 2: So I was like, yeah, man, like you know, if

997
00:52:13,360 --> 00:52:15,000
Speaker 2: you need to talk to somebody or something, man, you

998
00:52:15,000 --> 00:52:18,160
Speaker 2: should look into it. Don't like being afraid and to

999
00:52:18,360 --> 00:52:22,480
Speaker 2: talk to somebody about that, because you know, whatever's going on,

1000
00:52:22,800 --> 00:52:25,480
Speaker 2: that's definitely not this. That's a solution that's gonna bring

1001
00:52:25,560 --> 00:52:27,560
Speaker 2: way more problems than it's gonna fix.

1002
00:52:27,760 --> 00:52:27,920
Speaker 3: Right.

1003
00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:31,000
Speaker 5: And it's one of those things where people drinking, Like

1004
00:52:31,040 --> 00:52:33,680
Speaker 5: it's nothing wrong with people drinking. It's like everybody knows

1005
00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:36,120
Speaker 5: that limits and a lot of people know when they're

1006
00:52:36,120 --> 00:52:39,399
Speaker 5: consuming too much, like because it's all a personal thing, right,

1007
00:52:40,120 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 5: and you know, it's also you know, one of those things,

1008
00:52:42,880 --> 00:52:45,280
Speaker 5: particularly with alcoholism, for some black people, it's a shame

1009
00:52:45,560 --> 00:52:49,120
Speaker 5: you know, a shamefulness connected to that for whatever reasons.

1010
00:52:50,239 --> 00:52:51,960
Speaker 5: You know, people quote unquote they don't want to be

1011
00:52:52,000 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 5: known as they're drunk, you know, type of thing, particularly

1012
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:57,440
Speaker 5: with black families. And you know, something that a lot

1013
00:52:57,440 --> 00:52:59,759
Speaker 5: of black people might not have realized, you know, just

1014
00:53:00,080 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 5: listening to people on social media, a lot of black

1015
00:53:02,040 --> 00:53:06,720
Speaker 5: people alcohol consumption when Will once Trump got elected, because

1016
00:53:06,719 --> 00:53:09,360
Speaker 5: a lot of black people went through a very serious

1017
00:53:09,440 --> 00:53:13,360
Speaker 5: phase of depression once he got elected, thinking about the

1018
00:53:13,440 --> 00:53:15,840
Speaker 5: things and worry about their friends and their family members

1019
00:53:15,840 --> 00:53:16,680
Speaker 5: and they loved ones.

1020
00:53:16,960 --> 00:53:19,200
Speaker 4: And it's something that people really don't you know, think

1021
00:53:19,239 --> 00:53:20,200
Speaker 4: about at the time.

1022
00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:23,000
Speaker 5: You go with, oh, I'm just drinking, but it comes

1023
00:53:23,040 --> 00:53:24,560
Speaker 5: to the point where you can get to the point

1024
00:53:24,560 --> 00:53:27,600
Speaker 5: where it can start affecting your you just functioning your

1025
00:53:27,640 --> 00:53:28,800
Speaker 5: everyday life.

1026
00:53:29,400 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know, I can. I can definitely understand.

1027
00:53:32,120 --> 00:53:34,960
Speaker 2: I think a lot of people the things that I've

1028
00:53:35,000 --> 00:53:37,600
Speaker 2: been done in this country under and it's not just

1029
00:53:38,200 --> 00:53:41,000
Speaker 2: with Trump, by the way, I mean since in my

1030
00:53:41,040 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 2: opinion since Obama's been elected. And it's not because Oh

1031
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:48,080
Speaker 2: Obama was so terrible. He was doing stuff, but the

1032
00:53:48,200 --> 00:53:52,719
Speaker 2: reaction from white folks to his presidency has put a

1033
00:53:52,760 --> 00:53:55,160
Speaker 2: lot of Black people in some very stressful situations and

1034
00:53:55,239 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 2: things have popped up that I don't think anyone could

1035
00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:00,919
Speaker 2: have necessarily anticipated. But it's definitely in a mental toll

1036
00:54:00,960 --> 00:54:05,600
Speaker 2: on everybody, right, everybody. People are on razors edge sometimes.

1037
00:54:05,680 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 2: Like I said, people are basically fighting about the end

1038
00:54:09,239 --> 00:54:12,720
Speaker 2: friendships over Megan Marco getting married today. That ain't because

1039
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:17,400
Speaker 2: that shits so important. It's because as a distraction, it

1040
00:54:17,400 --> 00:54:22,239
Speaker 2: could be more. It's more, it's an escape. It's still escapism,

1041
00:54:22,239 --> 00:54:23,000
Speaker 2: even if you're fighting.

1042
00:54:23,160 --> 00:54:25,680
Speaker 5: It's still escapism, correct, because it's one of those things

1043
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:29,360
Speaker 5: where you don't have to deal or face reality. And

1044
00:54:29,360 --> 00:54:31,759
Speaker 5: it's something we talked about it before, but particularly in

1045
00:54:31,840 --> 00:54:37,200
Speaker 5: the black community. You know, therapy and therapist and psychology

1046
00:54:37,320 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 5: and psychiatrists and things that are kind of frowned upon,

1047
00:54:40,760 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 5: but it's people that actually need it, Like you actually

1048
00:54:43,640 --> 00:54:46,359
Speaker 5: need these things, and if you can afford it, right,

1049
00:54:46,400 --> 00:54:48,239
Speaker 5: if you can afford it, and that's the thing, it

1050
00:54:48,280 --> 00:54:50,480
Speaker 5: should be free. But if you can afford it, if

1051
00:54:50,520 --> 00:54:52,200
Speaker 5: your insurance covers.

1052
00:54:51,840 --> 00:54:53,719
Speaker 2: It, if you have a job that allows you to

1053
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:55,200
Speaker 2: get that kind of time right.

1054
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:57,399
Speaker 5: Right you have you say time off and stuff like that,

1055
00:54:57,440 --> 00:55:01,399
Speaker 5: and and and those things are are luxury. And it's

1056
00:55:01,440 --> 00:55:03,640
Speaker 5: one of those things where if you can get yourself

1057
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:05,960
Speaker 5: in a position where you can, I say go for it.

1058
00:55:06,000 --> 00:55:10,520
Speaker 4: I say go and talk to somebody that has, by law,

1059
00:55:11,120 --> 00:55:12,680
Speaker 4: has to keep it confidential.

1060
00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 5: They can't go share and spread and things like that,

1061
00:55:15,160 --> 00:55:19,600
Speaker 5: because a lot of people are healed and can move

1062
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:23,360
Speaker 5: on and could be a better person through these things

1063
00:55:23,440 --> 00:55:25,879
Speaker 5: and can just view the world differently. But you've got

1064
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:28,480
Speaker 5: to get yourself to a point that you're willing.

1065
00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:32,160
Speaker 2: To go Yeah, yeah, people, I mean you know, I

1066
00:55:32,200 --> 00:55:34,640
Speaker 2: think you know. I think there's a reason there's been

1067
00:55:34,640 --> 00:55:40,359
Speaker 2: an upticking cancelations per se, so to speak. And it's

1068
00:55:40,400 --> 00:55:42,399
Speaker 2: not all bad. There's some good things that are coming

1069
00:55:42,400 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 2: out of it. I think this new wave of women

1070
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:48,399
Speaker 2: that I really like proactively getting abusive people up out

1071
00:55:48,400 --> 00:55:51,319
Speaker 2: of the paint. Not just women, but people that have

1072
00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:54,840
Speaker 2: been attacked and abused and survived are getting people up

1073
00:55:54,840 --> 00:55:56,360
Speaker 2: out of the paint. I think part of that is

1074
00:55:56,400 --> 00:55:59,440
Speaker 2: a reaction to Trump's and his misogyny. My dad was

1075
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:01,759
Speaker 2: saying that the other day at Thanksgiving. I was like,

1076
00:56:01,880 --> 00:56:04,239
Speaker 2: you know, that's definitely part of it, Like it can't

1077
00:56:04,239 --> 00:56:07,319
Speaker 2: be separated from it. Like maybe the fight isn't gonna

1078
00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:08,960
Speaker 2: be in the voting booth and maybe a lot of

1079
00:56:09,120 --> 00:56:13,640
Speaker 2: but there's some level of fight back when it comes

1080
00:56:13,680 --> 00:56:17,320
Speaker 2: to specifically the misogyny, not necessarily the racism, because I

1081
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:20,239
Speaker 2: think people are already exhausted to that because they won.

1082
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:23,319
Speaker 2: Some of the white people agree with that shit, and

1083
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:26,360
Speaker 2: then two and then two people have been fighting that

1084
00:56:26,480 --> 00:56:28,880
Speaker 2: under Obama for so long it's not new. But the

1085
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:31,560
Speaker 2: way with this was fighting back in the name of

1086
00:56:31,600 --> 00:56:35,080
Speaker 2: being a woman and fighting abusive men and shit. That

1087
00:56:35,080 --> 00:56:39,040
Speaker 2: that feels more freshure, even though, like I said, I

1088
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:41,480
Speaker 2: still feel like that's gonna eventually end and go back

1089
00:56:41,480 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 2: to normal.

1090
00:56:44,000 --> 00:56:44,440
Speaker 4: Debates.

1091
00:56:44,800 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 2: Emotionally intelligent husbands are the key to a lasting relationship

1092
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:51,720
Speaker 2: last of marriage. A long term study of one hundred

1093
00:56:51,719 --> 00:56:55,080
Speaker 2: and thirty newly waded couples, doctor John Godman discovered that

1094
00:56:55,239 --> 00:56:58,600
Speaker 2: men who allowed their wives to influence them have happier

1095
00:56:58,600 --> 00:57:03,640
Speaker 2: marriages and are less likely to wars. How would you

1096
00:57:03,680 --> 00:57:07,839
Speaker 2: get okay? Obviously, it's a thing, but who the fuck

1097
00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:10,200
Speaker 2: gets married? Like, I'm not gonna let this bitch influence me.

1098
00:57:10,239 --> 00:57:14,239
Speaker 2: I know that much. What I won't be doing is

1099
00:57:14,440 --> 00:57:18,520
Speaker 2: allowing you to change me, enhance me in any way,

1100
00:57:18,880 --> 00:57:21,200
Speaker 2: make me a better person. And shit, I definitely won't

1101
00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:23,760
Speaker 2: be learning from your ass. Now take half my stuff.

1102
00:57:25,520 --> 00:57:28,440
Speaker 2: A lot of men, let's have children. I don't respect

1103
00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:29,880
Speaker 2: your opinion. Let's have children.

1104
00:57:30,120 --> 00:57:35,000
Speaker 5: A lot of men, like I don't think people underestimate

1105
00:57:35,120 --> 00:57:41,680
Speaker 5: the power and the influence that patriarchy and sexism rules

1106
00:57:41,920 --> 00:57:44,480
Speaker 5: men's lives like it really does.

1107
00:57:45,160 --> 00:57:47,000
Speaker 4: And it is like racism.

1108
00:57:47,080 --> 00:57:49,520
Speaker 5: This has been something that has been embedded in you

1109
00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 5: since you've been a little boy.

1110
00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:53,680
Speaker 4: You've been told certain things. You've been told that you

1111
00:57:53,760 --> 00:57:55,720
Speaker 4: have the right to a woman. You've been told you

1112
00:57:55,800 --> 00:57:58,280
Speaker 4: go get a good woman. Like you've been told these things.

1113
00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:03,040
Speaker 5: So it's one of the things that uh, as men

1114
00:58:03,080 --> 00:58:06,040
Speaker 5: get older, some men choose to break that, some don't,

1115
00:58:06,720 --> 00:58:06,960
Speaker 5: you know.

1116
00:58:08,600 --> 00:58:11,600
Speaker 4: And also it's one of the things where people grow

1117
00:58:11,640 --> 00:58:12,480
Speaker 4: and people change.

1118
00:58:13,840 --> 00:58:17,520
Speaker 5: And yeah, it's a lot of men that they they

1119
00:58:17,640 --> 00:58:19,880
Speaker 5: gun hold to this. I'm the head of the household

1120
00:58:20,560 --> 00:58:23,760
Speaker 5: or you know, my my woman is supposed to you know,

1121
00:58:23,880 --> 00:58:26,840
Speaker 5: respect me and shit like that. But it's they don't

1122
00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:28,800
Speaker 5: realize it's supposed to be something supposed to be reciprocated

1123
00:58:29,320 --> 00:58:31,520
Speaker 5: your unit. But it's like, oh, I'm the man, I

1124
00:58:31,640 --> 00:58:33,480
Speaker 5: make the find decision. They swing to dick around and

1125
00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:35,640
Speaker 5: act like everybody in the house is a child, even

1126
00:58:35,680 --> 00:58:36,160
Speaker 5: their wife.

1127
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:40,160
Speaker 2: For sure, it's just right right, It's it's stupid, but

1128
00:58:40,200 --> 00:58:44,680
Speaker 2: it's a reality for a lot of people. You know, yeah, right.

1129
00:58:44,720 --> 00:58:46,439
Speaker 4: And it's one of the things where.

1130
00:58:47,960 --> 00:58:51,640
Speaker 5: I can say, for being married for many, many years,

1131
00:58:54,840 --> 00:59:00,600
Speaker 5: being married is interesting, particularly when you first get together,

1132
00:59:00,680 --> 00:59:04,920
Speaker 5: because most men are not open. They're just not open creatures.

1133
00:59:05,320 --> 00:59:07,680
Speaker 5: Women talk, they talk, they talk, they get emotions out.

1134
00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:11,160
Speaker 5: You call your girlfriend, you talk and talking. That's how

1135
00:59:11,160 --> 00:59:14,520
Speaker 5: women go. And men are not taught to be like that.

1136
00:59:14,560 --> 00:59:17,120
Speaker 5: They taught to hold it in. I have to be strong,

1137
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:18,040
Speaker 5: I have to keep it together.

1138
00:59:18,080 --> 00:59:18,760
Speaker 4: I'm the fixer.

1139
00:59:19,600 --> 00:59:22,000
Speaker 5: And so a lot of times when they get a

1140
00:59:22,040 --> 00:59:25,200
Speaker 5: woman in their life that wants that, that truly loves

1141
00:59:25,240 --> 00:59:28,360
Speaker 5: them and wants to hear their opinion and wants to

1142
00:59:28,400 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 5: know how they feel, and wants them to be open

1143
00:59:31,440 --> 00:59:34,880
Speaker 5: and wants them to be honest, and sometimes it's almost

1144
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:36,320
Speaker 5: can be like chipping against.

1145
00:59:36,000 --> 00:59:38,840
Speaker 2: A brick wall. I can also be a tactic for

1146
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:43,960
Speaker 2: like a weird kind of abusive manipulation. You know, I'm

1147
00:59:43,960 --> 00:59:46,360
Speaker 2: going to withhold this intimacy from you. I'm not gonna

1148
00:59:46,360 --> 00:59:48,919
Speaker 2: talk to you, I'm not gonna express my feelings on things.

1149
00:59:48,920 --> 00:59:51,880
Speaker 2: I'm gonna shut down, I'm gonna leave, I'm gonna, you know,

1150
00:59:51,960 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 2: go through long periods of the silent treatment. Like a

1151
00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:56,200
Speaker 2: lot of those are the tactics that most men are

1152
00:59:56,200 --> 00:59:58,840
Speaker 2: tired when dealing with women because we're told that women

1153
00:59:58,880 --> 01:00:02,760
Speaker 2: are wrong. We are taught to be aggressive towards women

1154
01:00:03,920 --> 01:00:06,240
Speaker 2: in a lot of ways that would trigger women, and

1155
01:00:06,240 --> 01:00:08,480
Speaker 2: then when they go off, we go see this what

1156
01:00:08,520 --> 01:00:13,040
Speaker 2: I'm talking about women being crazy, emotionally unstable. I'm a

1157
01:00:13,040 --> 01:00:15,560
Speaker 2: person of logic. It's like, you're not being logical, you're

1158
01:00:15,600 --> 01:00:20,000
Speaker 2: being you're withholding emotionally and calling that not having emotions.

1159
01:00:20,360 --> 01:00:24,040
Speaker 2: But that's not natural. That's not human to not have

1160
01:00:24,080 --> 01:00:26,720
Speaker 2: emotions about things. You know, there's things you have to

1161
01:00:26,760 --> 01:00:30,120
Speaker 2: work through under the gods of masculinity to reach points

1162
01:00:30,120 --> 01:00:32,160
Speaker 2: where you can be more open emotionally. I mean, it's

1163
01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:35,400
Speaker 2: not like I don't think men necessarily walk into a

1164
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:38,280
Speaker 2: relationship trying to do this shit. But society has taught

1165
01:00:38,320 --> 01:00:41,280
Speaker 2: us so much, like you're right about everything? Why could

1166
01:00:41,320 --> 01:00:43,720
Speaker 2: you have a penis and women need to listen to you?

1167
01:00:43,800 --> 01:00:46,200
Speaker 2: Because you have a penis, you automatically can dictate to

1168
01:00:46,280 --> 01:00:51,760
Speaker 2: any woman. Like, for example, I know men who defend

1169
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:57,040
Speaker 2: Tyrese but then like hate Jamila Lemieux. One of them

1170
01:00:57,080 --> 01:00:59,560
Speaker 2: went to school for that shit. The other motherfucker just

1171
01:00:59,600 --> 01:01:02,960
Speaker 2: gotta dick, you know what I mean? Like Tyresta had

1172
01:01:02,960 --> 01:01:08,040
Speaker 2: a TV show I think with Russell Simmons. Okay, interesting,

1173
01:01:08,400 --> 01:01:11,320
Speaker 2: but yeah, telling women what they need to do to

1174
01:01:11,320 --> 01:01:14,840
Speaker 2: get a man. Same thing for Steve Harvey. Yet we

1175
01:01:14,920 --> 01:01:19,960
Speaker 2: have women that have gone to school studied feminism, study

1176
01:01:20,160 --> 01:01:25,960
Speaker 2: like multiple degrees, write concite books and concite like references

1177
01:01:25,960 --> 01:01:29,080
Speaker 2: and everything and all. A man needs a suit with

1178
01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:31,560
Speaker 2: seven buttons on the front and a Bible and he

1179
01:01:31,600 --> 01:01:34,640
Speaker 2: gets to do more than they. I'm supposed to listen

1180
01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:36,320
Speaker 2: to him, more than I'm supposed to listen to them.

1181
01:01:36,600 --> 01:01:39,080
Speaker 2: It's just the way that we've kind of taught things

1182
01:01:39,120 --> 01:01:41,280
Speaker 2: like right for women to be open, for men to

1183
01:01:41,280 --> 01:01:43,920
Speaker 2: be closed. The other thing is like, how do we

1184
01:01:44,000 --> 01:01:46,880
Speaker 2: define open right? Because just because you're talking don't really

1185
01:01:46,960 --> 01:01:50,840
Speaker 2: necessarily mean you open. Correct, you know, like like I'm

1186
01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:54,200
Speaker 2: a person that doesn't really like the kind of small

1187
01:01:54,240 --> 01:01:57,800
Speaker 2: talking shit that's just not my thing, so I don't

1188
01:01:57,840 --> 01:02:01,800
Speaker 2: really respond to it from anyone, you know. But it

1189
01:02:01,880 --> 01:02:03,920
Speaker 2: takes a while to get used to that rhythm because

1190
01:02:04,760 --> 01:02:07,080
Speaker 2: to most of my friends are like, oh, I love Ry,

1191
01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 2: he's one of my like one of my best friends.

1192
01:02:09,160 --> 01:02:11,840
Speaker 2: We talk about all kinds of shit that really gets

1193
01:02:11,840 --> 01:02:14,440
Speaker 2: to the quarter issue. But if that same person hit

1194
01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:15,880
Speaker 2: me up, I'm just like, hey, man, what you thinking

1195
01:02:15,880 --> 01:02:17,880
Speaker 2: about this weather? I'm like to fuck like, I don't

1196
01:02:17,880 --> 01:02:19,960
Speaker 2: want to talk to you today, like call me back

1197
01:02:20,000 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 2: when some shit is happening or something. You know, like

1198
01:02:22,480 --> 01:02:24,920
Speaker 2: this is not count as a conversation. You can't trick

1199
01:02:25,000 --> 01:02:27,720
Speaker 2: me into thinking we're friends because we talked about the

1200
01:02:27,720 --> 01:02:30,280
Speaker 2: weather thirty seven times. It's not the same as being friends.

1201
01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:36,360
Speaker 2: Correct anyway, this But but like you said, the default

1202
01:02:36,400 --> 01:02:39,320
Speaker 2: for women is already to be kind of open. H

1203
01:02:39,680 --> 01:02:41,840
Speaker 2: not necessarily because I feel like women are just so

1204
01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:45,560
Speaker 2: much better. Literally, society beats the shit out of women

1205
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:49,360
Speaker 2: until they have to survive this way, Like my survival

1206
01:02:49,360 --> 01:02:51,520
Speaker 2: instinct is I need to know what the fuck is

1207
01:02:51,560 --> 01:02:52,640
Speaker 2: on your crazy ass.

1208
01:02:52,440 --> 01:02:54,920
Speaker 4: Mine, right, because they might mean the death of me.

1209
01:02:55,200 --> 01:02:57,400
Speaker 2: It could mean, right, it could mean so many things

1210
01:02:57,400 --> 01:03:00,000
Speaker 2: for me, And I'm gonna get blamed for whatever happens. Right.

1211
01:03:00,400 --> 01:03:02,840
Speaker 2: If a man hits a woman, that's her fault. If

1212
01:03:02,840 --> 01:03:05,880
Speaker 2: she gets divorced, that's her fault. If you know, like

1213
01:03:07,400 --> 01:03:10,280
Speaker 2: that's her fault. Everything is her fault. So I feel

1214
01:03:10,280 --> 01:03:12,800
Speaker 2: like women are kind of already feeling things out all

1215
01:03:12,880 --> 01:03:16,600
Speaker 2: the time, you know. Anyway, the critical study is not

1216
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:19,760
Speaker 2: limited to head on sexual couples. It essentially is essentially

1217
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:22,320
Speaker 2: insane SEXU relationships as well. But the research shows that

1218
01:03:22,400 --> 01:03:25,360
Speaker 2: gay and lesbian couples are notably better at it than

1219
01:03:25,400 --> 01:03:29,960
Speaker 2: straight couples. That also makes sense because you have you

1220
01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:34,000
Speaker 2: have less of a rigid what is male what is female?

1221
01:03:34,000 --> 01:03:34,200
Speaker 3: Thing?

1222
01:03:34,920 --> 01:03:39,320
Speaker 2: Less of less of the cis heteroprivileged, right, So you

1223
01:03:39,400 --> 01:03:43,120
Speaker 2: have less of that ship and you're already once again

1224
01:03:43,280 --> 01:03:46,840
Speaker 2: in survival mode. You constantly feeling out your environment to live,

1225
01:03:47,880 --> 01:03:52,080
Speaker 2: you know, So, like, you know, part of what I

1226
01:03:52,120 --> 01:03:56,160
Speaker 2: think being emotionally intelligent and being empathic is about, it's

1227
01:03:56,200 --> 01:03:59,000
Speaker 2: really just a lot of us just feeling out your environment.

1228
01:03:59,640 --> 01:04:01,480
Speaker 2: You know, it's like, how what are you thinking? What

1229
01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:03,600
Speaker 2: is this person thinking? What is that person thinking? That

1230
01:04:03,720 --> 01:04:06,480
Speaker 2: kind of thing. It's not always like a it's not

1231
01:04:06,520 --> 01:04:09,280
Speaker 2: always a good trade, like I said, because sometimes I

1232
01:04:09,320 --> 01:04:11,840
Speaker 2: empathize with people where I'm like, this person's actually fucked up,

1233
01:04:11,920 --> 01:04:13,600
Speaker 2: you know, and I have to find a way to

1234
01:04:13,600 --> 01:04:15,439
Speaker 2: turn it off. So I be like, Nope, not you.

1235
01:04:16,000 --> 01:04:20,360
Speaker 2: But anyway, he goes on, I want you to meet

1236
01:04:20,440 --> 01:04:22,920
Speaker 2: Lauren and Steven. While Stephen becomes an equal partnership is

1237
01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:25,800
Speaker 2: the key to believe the equal partnership is the key

1238
01:04:25,800 --> 01:04:28,560
Speaker 2: to a happy last marriage. His actions speak differently. Steven,

1239
01:04:28,680 --> 01:04:30,960
Speaker 2: the guys and I are going fishing this weekend. We're

1240
01:04:31,000 --> 01:04:33,480
Speaker 2: leaving later tonight, Lauren, but my girlfriends are staying with

1241
01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:35,280
Speaker 2: us Friday, and I need help cleaning the house tonight.

1242
01:04:35,440 --> 01:04:37,480
Speaker 2: We talked about this. How could you forget? Can you

1243
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:40,200
Speaker 2: leave tomorrow morning? Steven? How did you forget? I have

1244
01:04:40,280 --> 01:04:42,640
Speaker 2: my God's trip. I can't change out of partner schedule.

1245
01:04:42,640 --> 01:04:44,520
Speaker 2: We are schedule. We are leaving in a few hours.

1246
01:04:44,920 --> 01:04:48,960
Speaker 2: Lauren anger balls anger. Lauren's anger balls. She calls him

1247
01:04:48,960 --> 01:04:52,120
Speaker 2: a selfish asshole in storms out the kitchen, filling overwhelm.

1248
01:04:52,200 --> 01:04:54,080
Speaker 2: Stephen pulled himself a glass of whiskey and turns on

1249
01:04:54,120 --> 01:04:58,200
Speaker 2: the football game. He could be cleaning anyway. When Lauren

1250
01:04:59,360 --> 01:05:01,280
Speaker 2: to Lauren wall back into the room to talk, he

1251
01:05:01,360 --> 01:05:04,640
Speaker 2: stonewalls her. She starts to cry. He announces he needs

1252
01:05:04,680 --> 01:05:07,120
Speaker 2: to work on his truck and leaves the room. Arguments

1253
01:05:07,160 --> 01:05:09,320
Speaker 2: like these are full of accusations, making the difficult to

1254
01:05:09,320 --> 01:05:12,520
Speaker 2: determine the underlying cause. While it's clear Steven's unwillingness to

1255
01:05:12,560 --> 01:05:17,720
Speaker 2: accept Lawrence's influence rejecting influence, it's not that marriage can't

1256
01:05:17,720 --> 01:05:20,720
Speaker 2: survive moments and anger, complaints or criticism. They can. Couples

1257
01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:24,080
Speaker 2: get in trouble when they match negativity with negativity instead

1258
01:05:24,120 --> 01:05:27,440
Speaker 2: of making repairs to de escalate conflict. Doctor Godman explains

1259
01:05:27,440 --> 01:05:29,439
Speaker 2: and the Seven Principles of Making Marriage Work that sixty

1260
01:05:29,480 --> 01:05:33,520
Speaker 2: five percent of men increase negativity during arguments. Yeah, I

1261
01:05:33,520 --> 01:05:35,919
Speaker 2: can tell you, just as a man arguing with men,

1262
01:05:36,120 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 2: that is probably the number one tactic.

1263
01:05:38,880 --> 01:05:39,080
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1264
01:05:39,120 --> 01:05:41,000
Speaker 5: And they do it to intend, particularly when you did

1265
01:05:41,000 --> 01:05:43,280
Speaker 5: the women that you don't respect, You do that shit

1266
01:05:43,320 --> 01:05:45,280
Speaker 5: to intimidate them, because you could be talking at a

1267
01:05:45,320 --> 01:05:46,960
Speaker 5: normal voice. I was letting the nigga get louder, you

1268
01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:48,840
Speaker 5: like nigga. Why is you got damn raio voice? I

1269
01:05:48,840 --> 01:05:54,040
Speaker 5: can fucking hear you right that. I think that is

1270
01:05:54,120 --> 01:05:56,520
Speaker 5: just the way men are taught to argue, right, And

1271
01:05:56,560 --> 01:05:59,440
Speaker 5: you're like, I want to have a conversation with you

1272
01:05:59,600 --> 01:06:03,680
Speaker 5: like a but you know I'm the emotional one though,

1273
01:06:03,840 --> 01:06:05,920
Speaker 5: all right, hey, I'm the emotional one when you come

1274
01:06:05,960 --> 01:06:08,480
Speaker 5: in here beating your chest and raising your voice and

1275
01:06:08,520 --> 01:06:10,880
Speaker 5: hollering in like a fucking a child.

1276
01:06:11,280 --> 01:06:14,840
Speaker 2: Steven's response doesn't show how he hears Lawrence's complaint. Insteady

1277
01:06:14,880 --> 01:06:18,200
Speaker 2: responds with defensiveness and says a complaint right back? Why

1278
01:06:18,200 --> 01:06:22,720
Speaker 2: didn't she remember his plans? The four horsemen criticism, defensiveness, contempt, in, stonewalling,

1279
01:06:22,840 --> 01:06:24,520
Speaker 2: or tell tale signs that a man is resisting his

1280
01:06:24,560 --> 01:06:27,200
Speaker 2: wife's influence. My point is not to insult men, is

1281
01:06:27,240 --> 01:06:29,480
Speaker 2: to make It takes two to make a marriage work,

1282
01:06:29,480 --> 01:06:30,920
Speaker 2: and it's just as important for wives to treat their

1283
01:06:30,960 --> 01:06:34,200
Speaker 2: husband's with honor and respect. But doctor Godman's research indicates

1284
01:06:34,240 --> 01:06:37,760
Speaker 2: that a majority of wives, even in unhappy marriages, are

1285
01:06:38,200 --> 01:06:43,520
Speaker 2: ready do this. Come on, This doesn't mean women don't

1286
01:06:43,560 --> 01:06:45,920
Speaker 2: get angry, even contemptuous of their husband, just means they

1287
01:06:46,000 --> 01:06:48,120
Speaker 2: let their husbands influence their decision make him by taking

1288
01:06:48,120 --> 01:06:50,720
Speaker 2: their opinions and feelings into account. That is suggests that

1289
01:06:50,760 --> 01:06:53,880
Speaker 2: men do not return to favor. But yeah, also in life,

1290
01:06:53,920 --> 01:06:57,000
Speaker 2: we are constantly reinforcing that women should have a man.

1291
01:06:57,120 --> 01:06:59,560
Speaker 2: If she doesn't have a man, she is less valuable

1292
01:07:00,160 --> 01:07:02,960
Speaker 2: and something's wrong with her. Well worthless is part of

1293
01:07:03,000 --> 01:07:05,360
Speaker 2: or less valuable, like you know, all the way down

1294
01:07:05,400 --> 01:07:07,840
Speaker 2: the workless you know what I mean. But you are

1295
01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:10,840
Speaker 2: less valuable because you did not attract a man to

1296
01:07:10,880 --> 01:07:14,240
Speaker 2: come and be intertwined with you, right, And you don't

1297
01:07:14,280 --> 01:07:14,840
Speaker 2: really do that to.

1298
01:07:14,880 --> 01:07:17,040
Speaker 5: Men, right, And I could just be happy being single.

1299
01:07:17,200 --> 01:07:21,040
Speaker 5: I could be like, I don't want no man, I'm good.

1300
01:07:20,800 --> 01:07:22,520
Speaker 2: Right, But we don't do that to men, That's what

1301
01:07:22,520 --> 01:07:25,720
Speaker 2: I'm saying. So we don't say what's wrong with you?

1302
01:07:25,760 --> 01:07:28,360
Speaker 2: Why you ain't got a wife? You know, we don't

1303
01:07:28,400 --> 01:07:31,640
Speaker 2: say that. Statistically speaking, doctor Godman's research shows there is

1304
01:07:31,680 --> 01:07:34,200
Speaker 2: an eighty one percent chance that a marriage was self

1305
01:07:34,200 --> 01:07:37,160
Speaker 2: employed when a man is unwilling to share power. Eighty

1306
01:07:37,200 --> 01:07:37,760
Speaker 2: one percent.

1307
01:07:39,960 --> 01:07:41,680
Speaker 4: Yeah, cause that shit get old. Now, I don't care

1308
01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:44,840
Speaker 4: who you are. That shit get old. You don't get tired.

1309
01:07:44,880 --> 01:07:47,640
Speaker 5: Of having a conversation, and he's not willing to budge

1310
01:07:47,680 --> 01:07:50,160
Speaker 5: having a conversation, and he don't want to talk having

1311
01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:52,080
Speaker 5: a conversation and he keeps shutting down.

1312
01:07:52,240 --> 01:07:54,440
Speaker 4: Well, you're like, shit, I'm tired of powing. When're you

1313
01:07:54,480 --> 01:07:55,280
Speaker 4: gonna pull into me?

1314
01:07:56,040 --> 01:08:00,439
Speaker 2: And women have choices now right they didn't have before. Yeah,

1315
01:08:00,480 --> 01:08:01,800
Speaker 2: there used to be a time where you could just

1316
01:08:01,800 --> 01:08:04,920
Speaker 2: be like, bitch, on where you going, I'm going to

1317
01:08:04,960 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 2: the mom bit, you know that joke ro like when

1318
01:08:08,000 --> 01:08:11,960
Speaker 2: you getting back? You know, like he used to could

1319
01:08:12,000 --> 01:08:15,560
Speaker 2: do that. But now women got choices, you know, got jobs, education,

1320
01:08:16,200 --> 01:08:18,360
Speaker 2: not to mention when you throw racing there. Like many

1321
01:08:18,560 --> 01:08:22,360
Speaker 2: in many situations, black women are earning more, higher educated,

1322
01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:28,200
Speaker 2: more financially stable, like you know, like to be that

1323
01:08:28,360 --> 01:08:31,400
Speaker 2: kind of asshole in a situation where a woman is

1324
01:08:31,439 --> 01:08:34,280
Speaker 2: better off without your ass is already just begging for it.

1325
01:08:35,360 --> 01:08:37,000
Speaker 2: What men can learn from women? There are books that

1326
01:08:37,000 --> 01:08:38,880
Speaker 2: say men are from Mars, women out for venus. While

1327
01:08:38,880 --> 01:08:41,000
Speaker 2: this isn't literally true, men and women often do feel

1328
01:08:41,040 --> 01:08:43,840
Speaker 2: alien to on another. This starts in childhood when boys

1329
01:08:43,840 --> 01:08:46,040
Speaker 2: play games and focuses on women, not the emotions of

1330
01:08:46,080 --> 01:08:48,639
Speaker 2: the others playing. If one boy gets hurt, he gets ignored.

1331
01:08:48,680 --> 01:08:51,360
Speaker 2: After all the game that's go on with girls, feelings

1332
01:08:51,360 --> 01:08:53,519
Speaker 2: are often the first priority. When a tearful girl says

1333
01:08:53,560 --> 01:08:56,280
Speaker 2: we're not friends anymore, the game stops. Only it only

1334
01:08:56,320 --> 01:08:59,160
Speaker 2: starts again with the girls makeup. The seven principles are

1335
01:08:59,160 --> 01:09:01,559
Speaker 2: making marriage work that God explains. The truth is that

1336
01:09:01,640 --> 01:09:04,680
Speaker 2: girlish games are often far better preparation for marriage and

1337
01:09:04,760 --> 01:09:08,120
Speaker 2: family life because they focus on relationships. There are plenty

1338
01:09:08,120 --> 01:09:11,519
Speaker 2: of women who are unaware of these social nuances and

1339
01:09:11,600 --> 01:09:15,519
Speaker 2: men who are deeply sensitive to others. And doctor Godman's research, however,

1340
01:09:15,560 --> 01:09:18,920
Speaker 2: only thirty five percent of men were emotionally intelligent. Yikes,

1341
01:09:19,200 --> 01:09:23,320
Speaker 2: I believe that. Oh it's true. It's not even debatable.

1342
01:09:23,360 --> 01:09:25,599
Speaker 2: I don't think most.

1343
01:09:25,439 --> 01:09:26,759
Speaker 4: Have to learn as they get older.

1344
01:09:27,000 --> 01:09:30,080
Speaker 5: If they learn, if they if they if they open

1345
01:09:30,240 --> 01:09:32,400
Speaker 5: about it, because you know, it's to me. I know

1346
01:09:32,479 --> 01:09:34,200
Speaker 5: my sound strangely listening to three guys own, but it

1347
01:09:34,280 --> 01:09:38,320
Speaker 5: was fascinating listening to men be open and honest and

1348
01:09:38,320 --> 01:09:40,320
Speaker 5: truthful about some of the things that going through, some

1349
01:09:40,360 --> 01:09:42,000
Speaker 5: of the things they dealt with, some of the things

1350
01:09:42,000 --> 01:09:42,679
Speaker 5: they're dealing.

1351
01:09:42,520 --> 01:09:45,559
Speaker 4: With, and just being really really open, because that is

1352
01:09:45,640 --> 01:09:48,040
Speaker 4: agy for men.

1353
01:09:48,720 --> 01:09:52,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, three guys on had this episode. I won't say

1354
01:09:52,000 --> 01:09:56,599
Speaker 2: the title of it was Scrapple. I'm trying to see

1355
01:09:56,600 --> 01:09:58,880
Speaker 2: if I can tell y'all what number it was or

1356
01:09:58,920 --> 01:10:00,920
Speaker 2: if I don't, I don't think it was behind the

1357
01:10:00,960 --> 01:10:04,639
Speaker 2: paywall either. Sit. Yeah, it was six ninety six, episode

1358
01:10:04,680 --> 01:10:09,320
Speaker 2: six ninety six. It's well worth to listen. But it's

1359
01:10:09,360 --> 01:10:11,479
Speaker 2: a great conversation that happened. I mean, all of it

1360
01:10:11,520 --> 01:10:13,240
Speaker 2: was great, but it is and it's funny too, But

1361
01:10:13,280 --> 01:10:16,680
Speaker 2: there's a great conversation that happened where we talked about, uh,

1362
01:10:17,320 --> 01:10:20,720
Speaker 2: like the things you learned as a man of masculinity

1363
01:10:20,720 --> 01:10:25,120
Speaker 2: and kind of unlearned and how you know, you're thirty five,

1364
01:10:25,320 --> 01:10:28,160
Speaker 2: forty fifty years old and you're still unlearning and shit,

1365
01:10:28,200 --> 01:10:32,040
Speaker 2: and you're still starting to think about, uh, you know,

1366
01:10:32,080 --> 01:10:36,639
Speaker 2: the idea that you know, these are men that are

1367
01:10:36,680 --> 01:10:41,240
Speaker 2: talking about social media and thinking about disappointing people, you know,

1368
01:10:41,479 --> 01:10:44,800
Speaker 2: like that's that's basically a foreign concept to most men

1369
01:10:44,840 --> 01:10:47,000
Speaker 2: when it comes to that kind of thing. Like we

1370
01:10:47,080 --> 01:10:49,639
Speaker 2: are very self assured we don't need to think about

1371
01:10:49,720 --> 01:10:52,599
Speaker 2: letting people down because what because no matter what, we're

1372
01:10:52,600 --> 01:10:56,599
Speaker 2: always right. So if because honestly, tomorrow. I could come

1373
01:10:56,640 --> 01:11:00,320
Speaker 2: out tomorrow and reverse every fucking thing I've ever said

1374
01:11:00,360 --> 01:11:04,200
Speaker 2: about women tomorrow. That would be at least some women

1375
01:11:04,439 --> 01:11:07,320
Speaker 2: who would have my motherfucking back and be like, you

1376
01:11:07,360 --> 01:11:10,439
Speaker 2: know what, Ride is right, and maybe I've just been

1377
01:11:10,479 --> 01:11:13,639
Speaker 2: looking at this wrong or y'all, y'all don't. Don't y'all

1378
01:11:13,640 --> 01:11:15,959
Speaker 2: come for him, you know, like it would happen tomorrow.

1379
01:11:16,000 --> 01:11:19,680
Speaker 2: It would happen. It wouldn't matter because there because that's

1380
01:11:19,680 --> 01:11:22,120
Speaker 2: the default for men. Men are not to be discarded

1381
01:11:22,800 --> 01:11:25,600
Speaker 2: men Like we've found out men are abusive. And what

1382
01:11:25,720 --> 01:11:28,280
Speaker 2: was the first thing that happened? Like forget, Like this

1383
01:11:28,360 --> 01:11:30,960
Speaker 2: is a sea change, a seed change with the lightest

1384
01:11:31,040 --> 01:11:33,640
Speaker 2: like month and a half. But in general, so and

1385
01:11:33,680 --> 01:11:36,080
Speaker 2: so's abusive. But what about all the jobs he creates?

1386
01:11:36,160 --> 01:11:37,880
Speaker 2: What about his So I'm not supposed to go to

1387
01:11:37,880 --> 01:11:39,960
Speaker 2: no more of his concerts, but I can't listen to

1388
01:11:40,040 --> 01:11:43,519
Speaker 2: his music like it immediately becomes about everything except this person.

1389
01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:46,479
Speaker 2: If that was a woman you disagree with, she can go.

1390
01:11:46,680 --> 01:11:49,400
Speaker 2: There'll be another one at fifteen minutes. Women are like buses,

1391
01:11:49,720 --> 01:11:54,000
Speaker 2: replaceable and a new one that arrives soon. Right, that's

1392
01:11:54,040 --> 01:11:56,840
Speaker 2: the difference with men, like men are just seeing as

1393
01:11:56,880 --> 01:11:59,639
Speaker 2: more valuable. You know that thing we talked about yesterday,

1394
01:11:59,800 --> 01:12:01,680
Speaker 2: That woman turned the world on her head by just

1395
01:12:01,720 --> 01:12:05,160
Speaker 2: suggesting that, well, what if we just sacrifice the fucking

1396
01:12:05,680 --> 01:12:10,320
Speaker 2: three percent of men and they lose their jobs, but

1397
01:12:10,720 --> 01:12:13,839
Speaker 2: we end up saving society because there's no more sexual assault.

1398
01:12:13,840 --> 01:12:16,479
Speaker 2: People would be like, no, those three men are more

1399
01:12:16,560 --> 01:12:19,600
Speaker 2: valuable than all the women who are sexually assault and

1400
01:12:19,600 --> 01:12:22,400
Speaker 2: they won't get justice currently those three men. What we

1401
01:12:22,439 --> 01:12:25,200
Speaker 2: can't have is a system that would dare inconvenience three men.

1402
01:12:25,880 --> 01:12:28,720
Speaker 2: They are more three out of every one hundred men

1403
01:12:28,760 --> 01:12:32,640
Speaker 2: accused of sexual assault that that are actually being allowed on.

1404
01:12:33,040 --> 01:12:37,760
Speaker 2: We cannot afford a system that allows that. So this

1405
01:12:37,800 --> 01:12:40,040
Speaker 2: is more important, you know, That's how we feel about

1406
01:12:40,040 --> 01:12:43,680
Speaker 2: this shit. So yeah, I think that's why men are

1407
01:12:43,760 --> 01:12:46,600
Speaker 2: less emotionally intelligent. You don't have to be. You be

1408
01:12:46,680 --> 01:12:49,040
Speaker 2: stupid as bricks, and somebody will defend you. If I

1409
01:12:49,080 --> 01:12:52,320
Speaker 2: said fuck Charlemagne tonight on my face with Page knowing

1410
01:12:52,360 --> 01:12:55,120
Speaker 2: everybody that fucks with me, somebody would be like, why

1411
01:12:55,160 --> 01:12:58,600
Speaker 2: do you guys say that about them? Right? If I

1412
01:12:58,640 --> 01:13:01,400
Speaker 2: said like fuck Angela yee, it's gonna be like, yeah,

1413
01:13:01,400 --> 01:13:03,800
Speaker 2: fuck that bitch too, I hate her like. It's a

1414
01:13:03,840 --> 01:13:10,439
Speaker 2: totally different response. Anyway, those two roads diverge. I take

1415
01:13:10,439 --> 01:13:12,879
Speaker 2: the relationship focus. When the husband who lacks emotional intelligence

1416
01:13:12,920 --> 01:13:15,320
Speaker 2: rejects his wife influence because he fears a loss of power,

1417
01:13:15,560 --> 01:13:18,200
Speaker 2: and because he's unwilling to accept influence, he will not

1418
01:13:18,240 --> 01:13:22,120
Speaker 2: be influential. The emotionally intelligent husband is interested in his

1419
01:13:22,160 --> 01:13:24,960
Speaker 2: wife's emotion because he honors and respects her. While this

1420
01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:27,320
Speaker 2: man may not express his emotions in the same way

1421
01:13:27,360 --> 01:13:29,439
Speaker 2: his wife does, he will learn how to better connect

1422
01:13:29,439 --> 01:13:31,960
Speaker 2: with her When she needs to talk. He'll turn out

1423
01:13:31,960 --> 01:13:34,360
Speaker 2: the football game of list and he'll pick we over me.

1424
01:13:34,479 --> 01:13:37,080
Speaker 2: He will understand his wife's inner world, continue to admire her,

1425
01:13:37,120 --> 01:13:40,840
Speaker 2: and communicate his respect by turning towards her. His relationship, sex, life,

1426
01:13:40,880 --> 01:13:43,120
Speaker 2: or overall joy will be far greater than the man

1427
01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:46,920
Speaker 2: who lacks emotional intelligence. The emotionally intelligent husband will also

1428
01:13:46,960 --> 01:13:49,640
Speaker 2: be a better father because he's not afraid of his feelings.

1429
01:13:49,880 --> 01:13:52,200
Speaker 2: He will teach his children to respect their emotions in themselves.

1430
01:13:52,200 --> 01:13:57,120
Speaker 2: Doctor Godman caused this emotional coaching. Emotion coaching because this

1431
01:13:57,160 --> 01:14:00,559
Speaker 2: man deeply connected to his wife, he will she will

1432
01:14:00,600 --> 01:14:02,840
Speaker 2: go to him when she is stressed, upset, and overjoyed.

1433
01:14:02,880 --> 01:14:05,600
Speaker 2: She even go to him when she is aroused. I

1434
01:14:05,640 --> 01:14:07,120
Speaker 2: love how they always try to get us in with

1435
01:14:07,160 --> 01:14:09,800
Speaker 2: the sex. Though I ain't saying it ain't true caring,

1436
01:14:10,680 --> 01:14:13,120
Speaker 2: This is not a lie. I'm just saying they know

1437
01:14:13,200 --> 01:14:19,680
Speaker 2: that the men value the sex. They're like and I'm

1438
01:14:19,680 --> 01:14:21,880
Speaker 2: gonna go ahead and listen to how her day was then.

1439
01:14:21,960 --> 01:14:24,599
Speaker 2: I didn't know it was pussy on the other end of.

1440
01:14:24,560 --> 01:14:30,879
Speaker 4: This, right, That's what I'm sad. Uh, I ain't getting Yes.

1441
01:14:31,560 --> 01:14:41,360
Speaker 2: It's ridiculous. Uh. How they accept influence? Doctor godsuspects. Men

1442
01:14:41,400 --> 01:14:44,120
Speaker 2: who resist their wives influence do so without realizing that

1443
01:14:44,360 --> 01:14:47,040
Speaker 2: accept the influences both the mindset and the skill cultivated

1444
01:14:47,040 --> 01:14:49,439
Speaker 2: by paying attention to your spouse every day. This means

1445
01:14:49,439 --> 01:14:52,280
Speaker 2: building your love maps, expressing your fondness and admiration, and

1446
01:14:52,320 --> 01:14:56,040
Speaker 2: accepting bids for connection and when conflict happens. The kids

1447
01:14:56,040 --> 01:14:58,040
Speaker 2: that understand your partner's point of view and be willing

1448
01:14:58,080 --> 01:15:02,360
Speaker 2: to compromise. Do this by identify your inflexible areas and

1449
01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:07,839
Speaker 2: searching for something both of you can agree to. For example,

1450
01:15:07,880 --> 01:15:10,639
Speaker 2: Steven understands that Lauren is stressed about having company when

1451
01:15:10,640 --> 01:15:12,360
Speaker 2: the house is a mess. While he may not be

1452
01:15:12,400 --> 01:15:14,200
Speaker 2: able to delay his trip until the morning, he can

1453
01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:16,760
Speaker 2: push it back later that evening so he can help

1454
01:15:16,800 --> 01:15:20,559
Speaker 2: her around the house first. Maybe instead Stephen of Stephen

1455
01:15:20,640 --> 01:15:24,040
Speaker 2: vacuuming and wiping down the counters typically his task, Lauren

1456
01:15:24,120 --> 01:15:25,920
Speaker 2: can wipe them down in the morning for a friends

1457
01:15:25,920 --> 01:15:28,160
Speaker 2: of our so Stephen could leave a little earlier with

1458
01:15:28,200 --> 01:15:31,160
Speaker 2: his buddies. Accepting your partner's influence is a great strategy

1459
01:15:31,439 --> 01:15:34,160
Speaker 2: for gaining more respect, power, and influence. Want to have

1460
01:15:34,200 --> 01:15:37,519
Speaker 2: a happy, stable marriage, make your commitment to your partner

1461
01:15:37,600 --> 01:15:39,439
Speaker 2: stronger than your commitment to winning. If you do that,

1462
01:15:39,520 --> 01:15:41,599
Speaker 2: your marriage wins. If you want to build a deeply

1463
01:15:41,640 --> 01:15:45,760
Speaker 2: meaningful relationship full of trusted intimacy, then it's like go

1464
01:15:45,840 --> 01:15:48,200
Speaker 2: to this block. Here's the thing I would add one.

1465
01:15:49,439 --> 01:15:51,679
Speaker 2: I see that on social media playout every day. Everybody's

1466
01:15:51,680 --> 01:15:55,120
Speaker 2: always talking about winning, winning, like winning, like people talk

1467
01:15:55,120 --> 01:16:00,080
Speaker 2: about their relationships like it's really like like fighting an enemy.

1468
01:16:01,840 --> 01:16:04,400
Speaker 5: I've never understood that, man, when you're talking about that yesterday.

1469
01:16:04,400 --> 01:16:08,920
Speaker 5: I've never understood people in a relationship and it's a

1470
01:16:08,920 --> 01:16:09,719
Speaker 5: power struggle.

1471
01:16:10,160 --> 01:16:11,439
Speaker 4: You're supposed to be my mate, the.

1472
01:16:11,400 --> 01:16:14,559
Speaker 5: Person I love the person I'm intimate with, the person

1473
01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:16,960
Speaker 5: I share all these things about my life and.

1474
01:16:16,920 --> 01:16:19,800
Speaker 4: Who I am with. Why am I fighting with you?

1475
01:16:20,800 --> 01:16:25,160
Speaker 2: Everybody feels differently about this, But my house is one

1476
01:16:25,200 --> 01:16:26,960
Speaker 2: place I refuse to fight.

1477
01:16:27,600 --> 01:16:29,000
Speaker 4: Whenever I open up the door.

1478
01:16:29,479 --> 01:16:32,800
Speaker 5: There's some form of a fight, knowingly or unknowingly, from

1479
01:16:32,840 --> 01:16:34,760
Speaker 5: the time I lead to the time I come home.

1480
01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:39,360
Speaker 5: Like it's something, be it racism, sexism, it's always something.

1481
01:16:40,160 --> 01:16:43,880
Speaker 5: I'm not fighting at home too, because then your mind

1482
01:16:44,000 --> 01:16:46,920
Speaker 5: never gets a chance to rest. You're always on. I

1483
01:16:46,960 --> 01:16:49,080
Speaker 5: don't need to be on all the time. I should

1484
01:16:49,080 --> 01:16:51,599
Speaker 5: beble to come home and be motherfucking off. I should

1485
01:16:51,600 --> 01:16:54,559
Speaker 5: be able to come home and be like, baby, this

1486
01:16:54,640 --> 01:16:56,599
Speaker 5: bitch did this, say work today, and we just talk

1487
01:16:56,680 --> 01:16:58,639
Speaker 5: about a joke about it and move on. I should

1488
01:16:58,680 --> 01:17:00,920
Speaker 5: be able to come home and talk to you about

1489
01:17:01,240 --> 01:17:03,920
Speaker 5: the things that are influenced in me, the my hopes,

1490
01:17:04,040 --> 01:17:05,320
Speaker 5: my dreams, my aspirations.

1491
01:17:05,320 --> 01:17:07,280
Speaker 4: I should share them with you. I shouldn't have.

1492
01:17:07,200 --> 01:17:09,559
Speaker 5: To fight outside of my house and then come home

1493
01:17:09,560 --> 01:17:11,080
Speaker 5: I have to fight your black ass too.

1494
01:17:11,600 --> 01:17:13,920
Speaker 2: Yeah. I always find it funny when people shit on

1495
01:17:13,960 --> 01:17:17,639
Speaker 2: the idea of being best friends in a relationship or marriage.

1496
01:17:18,040 --> 01:17:22,280
Speaker 2: As if it's like some stupid ridiculous Yeah. I always

1497
01:17:22,280 --> 01:17:24,960
Speaker 2: find it weird because and maybe it's because we got

1498
01:17:25,040 --> 01:17:28,599
Speaker 2: together so young. So maybe like the older you get,

1499
01:17:28,600 --> 01:17:31,559
Speaker 2: the more ridiculous it probably does sound, because like, how

1500
01:17:31,600 --> 01:17:34,360
Speaker 2: can anyone replace this fourteen year relationship I have with

1501
01:17:34,400 --> 01:17:37,799
Speaker 2: my best friend? And it's not about replacing somebody or anything,

1502
01:17:37,840 --> 01:17:41,160
Speaker 2: but it's there's something to the idea of this friendship

1503
01:17:41,200 --> 01:17:43,960
Speaker 2: being a foundation for a relationship. In my opinion, every

1504
01:17:43,960 --> 01:17:46,000
Speaker 2: time you listen to some old ass couple that's been

1505
01:17:46,000 --> 01:17:50,519
Speaker 2: together forever, they always say, and she was my best friend,

1506
01:17:50,680 --> 01:17:53,120
Speaker 2: he was my best friend. We you know, like they

1507
01:17:53,160 --> 01:17:55,600
Speaker 2: always say it, and it's like, maybe it sounds like

1508
01:17:55,600 --> 01:17:58,960
Speaker 2: a boring cliche. Some of these niggas need to be bored,

1509
01:18:00,080 --> 01:18:02,320
Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like maybe boring could help

1510
01:18:02,360 --> 01:18:04,439
Speaker 2: your ass out, you know what. You know, it's not

1511
01:18:04,479 --> 01:18:08,440
Speaker 2: boring chaos, you know, it's not conducive to a relationship though, chaos,

1512
01:18:08,520 --> 01:18:12,080
Speaker 2: it's not really the it's hard to grow a plant

1513
01:18:12,120 --> 01:18:15,120
Speaker 2: when you know every day the weather is different, you know.

1514
01:18:15,280 --> 01:18:17,479
Speaker 5: Right, Because if you ask people that's been together for

1515
01:18:17,479 --> 01:18:20,400
Speaker 5: a very long period of time, one thing they tell

1516
01:18:20,439 --> 01:18:23,400
Speaker 5: you is that you know everybody has up and down,

1517
01:18:23,439 --> 01:18:25,320
Speaker 5: but they're like, we don't be fussing and auguing at

1518
01:18:25,360 --> 01:18:25,720
Speaker 5: each other.

1519
01:18:26,000 --> 01:18:28,920
Speaker 2: Yeah, you know, like I mean, look, some couples do.

1520
01:18:29,000 --> 01:18:32,200
Speaker 2: I know, my parents, you know, they they argue sometimes.

1521
01:18:32,040 --> 01:18:34,880
Speaker 5: But it's not all day, every day type of thing.

1522
01:18:35,000 --> 01:18:38,640
Speaker 2: I live there, Okay, I know, but they are you sometimes.

1523
01:18:38,680 --> 01:18:41,600
Speaker 2: But but the thing is, there still has to be

1524
01:18:41,640 --> 01:18:44,920
Speaker 2: some love there. And like I said, and it is boring.

1525
01:18:45,160 --> 01:18:47,479
Speaker 2: My dad was home every night, my mama was home

1526
01:18:47,520 --> 01:18:50,840
Speaker 2: every night. It wasn't a knockdown, drag out every night.

1527
01:18:50,920 --> 01:18:54,360
Speaker 2: You know. You know, they might argue over some you know,

1528
01:18:54,479 --> 01:18:57,240
Speaker 2: like why would you put the I don't know, why

1529
01:18:57,240 --> 01:18:59,760
Speaker 2: would you put the toast on this plate not that plate?

1530
01:18:59,840 --> 01:19:02,519
Speaker 2: Or some stupid shit. But in general, though, you know,

1531
01:19:02,600 --> 01:19:06,479
Speaker 2: there's a friendship underline all that shit, because honestly, at

1532
01:19:07,640 --> 01:19:10,800
Speaker 2: one day, your Dick's not gonna work. One day, you're

1533
01:19:10,800 --> 01:19:16,599
Speaker 2: gonna go through menopause, come one day, you're gonna have children.

1534
01:19:17,280 --> 01:19:19,400
Speaker 2: One day a job is gonna go away, or a

1535
01:19:19,400 --> 01:19:23,240
Speaker 2: different job is gonna take other responsibilities. But a lot

1536
01:19:23,280 --> 01:19:27,040
Speaker 2: of this shit needs to be kind of boring, quote unquote.

1537
01:19:28,160 --> 01:19:30,679
Speaker 2: But the thing is, it's not for me anyway, it's

1538
01:19:30,680 --> 01:19:35,800
Speaker 2: not boring when it's with somebody that you love. It's

1539
01:19:35,800 --> 01:19:38,920
Speaker 2: not like it's not boring to me to watch Netflix,

1540
01:19:39,920 --> 01:19:42,840
Speaker 2: even if it's Netflix, right, it's just watching Netflix, but

1541
01:19:42,880 --> 01:19:46,040
Speaker 2: I'm watching it with somebody I love. It's not boring

1542
01:19:46,080 --> 01:19:49,320
Speaker 2: to me. But you know, like I said, it doesn't

1543
01:19:49,360 --> 01:19:50,680
Speaker 2: mean you have to be in a ructors. I mean,

1544
01:19:50,720 --> 01:19:53,000
Speaker 2: you go on vacation together, you do this, you do that.

1545
01:19:53,080 --> 01:19:56,760
Speaker 2: But I don't know, I feel like I don't know.

1546
01:19:56,800 --> 01:20:04,480
Speaker 2: I feel like the general goal of monogamous lifelong relationship

1547
01:20:05,320 --> 01:20:07,920
Speaker 2: is already like a very thin needle for most people

1548
01:20:07,920 --> 01:20:10,439
Speaker 2: to try to thread correct. And it's unfair that we

1549
01:20:10,479 --> 01:20:13,599
Speaker 2: really put this on each other because you're not a failure.

1550
01:20:13,640 --> 01:20:16,599
Speaker 2: If you can't make it happen, it's not nothing's wrong

1551
01:20:16,720 --> 01:20:19,440
Speaker 2: if it doesn't happen, because it is a very difficult

1552
01:20:19,479 --> 01:20:23,720
Speaker 2: goal and it's very aspirational, right, And like.

1553
01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:25,439
Speaker 5: You say, a lot of it's a lot of shame

1554
01:20:25,560 --> 01:20:28,679
Speaker 5: for men and women more than shame goes to women. Right.

1555
01:20:28,720 --> 01:20:31,040
Speaker 5: But yeah, it's okay if you get divorced. It's okay

1556
01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:33,679
Speaker 5: if you get separated, Like those things are all right,

1557
01:20:33,760 --> 01:20:37,200
Speaker 5: and divorce is not the end divorce, in my opinion,

1558
01:20:37,280 --> 01:20:39,120
Speaker 5: is the beginning of something else. But a lot of

1559
01:20:39,120 --> 01:20:41,439
Speaker 5: people look at it as a death because the death

1560
01:20:41,600 --> 01:20:44,120
Speaker 5: is the marriage, like it's dying. But it can also

1561
01:20:44,240 --> 01:20:46,519
Speaker 5: bloom into better things and it can actually make you

1562
01:20:46,600 --> 01:20:47,439
Speaker 5: a better person.

1563
01:20:47,680 --> 01:20:49,479
Speaker 2: But you do look at it like that, right What

1564
01:20:49,520 --> 01:20:53,240
Speaker 2: I would say though about this article, forget relationship as

1565
01:20:53,280 --> 01:20:58,720
Speaker 2: far as marriage or even you know that what you know,

1566
01:20:59,200 --> 01:21:03,400
Speaker 2: Forget all that stuff. I just think as men, we

1567
01:21:03,439 --> 01:21:07,639
Speaker 2: should value more emotional intelligence. One, it helps you relate

1568
01:21:07,680 --> 01:21:11,080
Speaker 2: to over half the population that you probably can't relate

1569
01:21:11,120 --> 01:21:14,240
Speaker 2: to right now, correct number one, because you're not. Because

1570
01:21:14,280 --> 01:21:18,080
Speaker 2: it's not it's mostly what we would consider in society

1571
01:21:18,120 --> 01:21:23,599
Speaker 2: feminine quote unquote characteristics. So that means it's not just women,

1572
01:21:24,360 --> 01:21:29,240
Speaker 2: it's also you know, people of all LGBTQ spectrum. It's

1573
01:21:29,439 --> 01:21:33,080
Speaker 2: you know, other men that have emotional intelligence. Thirty five

1574
01:21:33,120 --> 01:21:35,360
Speaker 2: percent of men do have it, so you know it's

1575
01:21:35,400 --> 01:21:38,479
Speaker 2: other men. It's like, it's more than just it's a

1576
01:21:38,520 --> 01:21:42,600
Speaker 2: whole world of stuff. And I just think if I

1577
01:21:42,600 --> 01:21:46,360
Speaker 2: could convey to people, you won't be lessened, you won't

1578
01:21:46,400 --> 01:21:49,320
Speaker 2: be less of a man. To take off some of

1579
01:21:49,360 --> 01:21:53,000
Speaker 2: this shit, some of this armor some of this, like

1580
01:21:54,360 --> 01:21:56,240
Speaker 2: this wall that we have to put up against the

1581
01:21:56,240 --> 01:21:59,320
Speaker 2: world to pretend to be tough, and nothing gets to me.

1582
01:22:00,000 --> 01:22:01,600
Speaker 2: I ain't no bitch. Like if we could kind of

1583
01:22:01,640 --> 01:22:03,800
Speaker 2: take that out of ourselves, I really feel like it

1584
01:22:03,840 --> 01:22:07,280
Speaker 2: doesn't just enrich the world for the people around you,

1585
01:22:07,320 --> 01:22:08,880
Speaker 2: because this article is kind of being like and it'll

1586
01:22:08,880 --> 01:22:11,559
Speaker 2: make your wife happy, but it enriches you, as they said,

1587
01:22:11,600 --> 01:22:14,439
Speaker 2: man like you'll feel less stressed, you'll feel like more

1588
01:22:14,439 --> 01:22:20,679
Speaker 2: of a complete person. And there's kind of a there's

1589
01:22:20,680 --> 01:22:24,200
Speaker 2: a power in that too, and being like, oh no, no, no,

1590
01:22:24,240 --> 01:22:26,320
Speaker 2: this is how I really feel about this thing. And

1591
01:22:27,240 --> 01:22:30,559
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna fake that. I don't in order to

1592
01:22:30,600 --> 01:22:36,320
Speaker 2: appease some imaginary you know, masculinity fairy out there in

1593
01:22:36,360 --> 01:22:39,400
Speaker 2: the world that's watching me. Like, this is really how

1594
01:22:39,439 --> 01:22:41,439
Speaker 2: I feel about this thing. Some things are complicated, Some

1595
01:22:41,479 --> 01:22:44,240
Speaker 2: things make me sad, some things make me cry, some

1596
01:22:44,240 --> 01:22:47,880
Speaker 2: things make me happy. Some things sometimes I get scared.

1597
01:22:47,920 --> 01:22:49,960
Speaker 2: I don't have all the answers to everything. Like sometimes

1598
01:22:50,000 --> 01:22:52,519
Speaker 2: when you can drop that shit, it's freeing in a

1599
01:22:52,600 --> 01:22:56,400
Speaker 2: way that I think you don't really get to appreciate

1600
01:22:56,439 --> 01:23:00,639
Speaker 2: when you still hiding behind that wall. All right, Let's

1601
01:23:00,640 --> 01:23:05,599
Speaker 2: see what else you got here, guys, I ain't look

1602
01:23:05,640 --> 01:23:11,720
Speaker 2: at these hard yeah, fuck it, all right, let's do

1603
01:23:12,160 --> 01:23:13,120
Speaker 2: fucking with black people.

1604
01:23:13,160 --> 01:23:25,160
Speaker 7: Guys, you're just fucking with those black people.

1605
01:23:25,280 --> 01:23:28,760
Speaker 2: Were just fucking with those blacks. We're just fucking with

1606
01:23:29,520 --> 01:23:32,320
Speaker 2: fucking with black people. That's right, guys, trying to play

1607
01:23:32,360 --> 01:23:34,200
Speaker 2: the game that we all hate to play. It's fucking

1608
01:23:34,200 --> 01:23:36,320
Speaker 2: with black people. The game. We go all around the globe

1609
01:23:36,360 --> 01:23:38,080
Speaker 2: trying different articles make us feel fucked with them. We'll

1610
01:23:38,120 --> 01:23:39,920
Speaker 2: signed points sports from zee Ti. One hundred animals are

1611
01:23:39,920 --> 01:23:46,519
Speaker 2: twenty five today's contestants. Everybody, yay, alright, who's fucking with

1612
01:23:46,600 --> 01:23:55,760
Speaker 2: us today? Guys? All right, people's fucking uh oh. Men

1613
01:23:55,800 --> 01:23:59,080
Speaker 2: who alleged they were framed by a cricket Chicago cop

1614
01:23:59,760 --> 01:24:04,840
Speaker 2: get a mass exoneration a judge on Thursday through our

1615
01:24:04,880 --> 01:24:10,240
Speaker 2: convictions against fifteen men runs black and brown, who allegedly

1616
01:24:11,160 --> 01:24:14,679
Speaker 2: said who were framed by a corrupt former Chicago police

1617
01:24:14,720 --> 01:24:18,240
Speaker 2: sergeant and his underlings who demanded protection payoffs from residents

1618
01:24:18,240 --> 01:24:22,759
Speaker 2: and drug dealers in the housing project. Judge Leroy Martin Jr.

1619
01:24:23,560 --> 01:24:26,120
Speaker 2: I don't have his picture, but I'm just saying black

1620
01:24:26,680 --> 01:24:29,880
Speaker 2: agreed to dismiss the charges at the Cook County Prosecutors

1621
01:24:29,880 --> 01:24:32,360
Speaker 2: confirmed a brief at a brief hearing that they no

1622
01:24:32,439 --> 01:24:35,440
Speaker 2: longer have faith and the credibility of the condict victions

1623
01:24:35,880 --> 01:24:38,240
Speaker 2: brought against the men who were arrested on various drug

1624
01:24:38,320 --> 01:24:40,880
Speaker 2: charges from two thousand and three to two thousand and

1625
01:24:40,920 --> 01:24:44,639
Speaker 2: eight by the road cop Ronald Watts and officers under

1626
01:24:44,640 --> 01:24:48,040
Speaker 2: his charge. That sound like a brother too and good

1627
01:24:48,080 --> 01:24:51,320
Speaker 2: conduce we could not see these convictions. Stands at Mark Roturt,

1628
01:24:51,800 --> 01:24:55,720
Speaker 2: who has the Cook County State's Attorney Conviction Integrity Unit.

1629
01:24:56,000 --> 01:24:58,439
Speaker 2: The mass exgeneration is the latest mark on the Chicago

1630
01:24:58,479 --> 01:25:01,080
Speaker 2: Police Department, which has come under fire in the city's

1631
01:25:01,080 --> 01:25:05,840
Speaker 2: black and Latino communities for unnecessarily using daily force, police brutality,

1632
01:25:05,920 --> 01:25:07,280
Speaker 2: and mistreatment of minorities.

1633
01:25:07,280 --> 01:25:10,320
Speaker 4: Somebody apartment using and they ain't going.

1634
01:25:10,200 --> 01:25:13,519
Speaker 2: Fuck it right because sometimes they do and be like

1635
01:25:14,400 --> 01:25:17,160
Speaker 2: the US Justice Department. It should have scathing report in

1636
01:25:17,160 --> 01:25:19,760
Speaker 2: the final days of the Obama administration. Remember when they

1637
01:25:19,840 --> 01:25:23,400
Speaker 2: used to do that. Come about the Chicago Police Department

1638
01:25:23,880 --> 01:25:24,839
Speaker 2: finding the city.

1639
01:25:24,600 --> 01:25:28,320
Speaker 4: Oh la New York. They would tell you, Hey, they doing.

1640
01:25:28,200 --> 01:25:32,839
Speaker 2: Y'all and Ferguson, Yeah in Baltimore, Yes, about the Chicago

1641
01:25:32,880 --> 01:25:36,160
Speaker 2: Police Department, finding that the city, finding that the city's

1642
01:25:36,240 --> 01:25:40,280
Speaker 2: police force is beset by widespread racial bias, poor training,

1643
01:25:40,400 --> 01:25:44,000
Speaker 2: and feckless oversight of officers, accused him as conduct feckless.

1644
01:25:44,040 --> 01:25:45,080
Speaker 4: Don't even know what that means.

1645
01:25:45,640 --> 01:25:51,800
Speaker 2: Uh, toothless left you know, no real no realm to it,

1646
01:25:52,200 --> 01:25:55,320
Speaker 2: Like they don't do shit to you. Uh. Following the

1647
01:25:55,400 --> 01:25:58,320
Speaker 2: dismissal of charges against the fifteen men on Thursday, Mayor

1648
01:25:58,400 --> 01:26:03,200
Speaker 2: ramamanol Manyo and the Police Superintendent Eddie Johnson said in

1649
01:26:03,240 --> 01:26:06,920
Speaker 2: a joint statement that they had zero tolerance for abuse, misconduct,

1650
01:26:07,040 --> 01:26:10,720
Speaker 2: or any unlawful actions by law enforcement. More convictions could

1651
01:26:10,760 --> 01:26:13,200
Speaker 2: potentially be overturned as they Integrity Unit says they will

1652
01:26:13,240 --> 01:26:16,000
Speaker 2: review any credible complaints brought by people convicted the crimes

1653
01:26:16,000 --> 01:26:19,320
Speaker 2: that were investigated by WATTS. The actions around the WATS

1654
01:26:19,360 --> 01:26:21,080
Speaker 2: must be condemned by all of us, and we will

1655
01:26:21,120 --> 01:26:23,479
Speaker 2: continue our work to ensure the abuses of the past

1656
01:26:23,479 --> 01:26:27,879
Speaker 2: are never repeated in the future. Zero to one hundred.

1657
01:26:27,720 --> 01:26:33,000
Speaker 5: Can and only twenty five because this is just one

1658
01:26:33,000 --> 01:26:38,120
Speaker 5: person guarantee you over the years and the decades, it's

1659
01:26:38,160 --> 01:26:40,679
Speaker 5: a lot of other people that should be set free.

1660
01:26:40,760 --> 01:26:43,400
Speaker 5: I'm glad they are set free, and I hope more

1661
01:26:43,439 --> 01:26:47,439
Speaker 5: people are set free. But I know if they really

1662
01:26:47,439 --> 01:26:49,960
Speaker 5: did some investigation, it would be a lot of people

1663
01:26:50,200 --> 01:26:52,720
Speaker 5: that got criminal records that y'all should be racing and

1664
01:26:52,760 --> 01:26:54,200
Speaker 5: that's in jailed, that should be out.

1665
01:26:55,560 --> 01:26:57,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I agree with you. I would give it a

1666
01:26:57,800 --> 01:27:00,960
Speaker 2: twenty five. That's about right, you know, for the initial

1667
01:27:01,600 --> 01:27:06,360
Speaker 2: fact that they were even you know, incarcerated. You know.

1668
01:27:06,720 --> 01:27:11,200
Speaker 2: And the thing about this, even if you're a person

1669
01:27:11,320 --> 01:27:17,240
Speaker 2: that is pro police, right, you should feel a measure

1670
01:27:17,479 --> 01:27:22,439
Speaker 2: of anger at people like him, at that woman in

1671
01:27:22,439 --> 01:27:28,000
Speaker 2: Maryland that faked out those forensic reports and frame those people,

1672
01:27:28,960 --> 01:27:32,559
Speaker 2: you should feel angry at them because I don't give

1673
01:27:32,560 --> 01:27:34,280
Speaker 2: a fuck. If these dudes did it or not, they

1674
01:27:34,320 --> 01:27:36,880
Speaker 2: gotta go back on the street. They could all have

1675
01:27:36,960 --> 01:27:39,360
Speaker 2: bodies on them. I don't give a fuck. You know,

1676
01:27:39,600 --> 01:27:41,840
Speaker 2: this is the reason that cops really do need to

1677
01:27:41,880 --> 01:27:43,760
Speaker 2: be above the freight and we can't be lower in

1678
01:27:43,800 --> 01:27:46,120
Speaker 2: the bar because you happen to be a police officer.

1679
01:27:46,439 --> 01:27:48,280
Speaker 2: If anything, the bar has to be hired for a

1680
01:27:48,280 --> 01:27:52,280
Speaker 2: police officer, you know, than a normal regular citizen like you,

1681
01:27:52,520 --> 01:27:55,919
Speaker 2: protecting and serving. You do have to be above reproach.

1682
01:27:56,160 --> 01:27:59,320
Speaker 2: And that's what happens when you have shitty, sloppy or

1683
01:27:59,360 --> 01:28:02,240
Speaker 2: a corrupt at least work. Motherfuckers get to go free

1684
01:28:02,280 --> 01:28:04,200
Speaker 2: that may or may not be criminals. I don't know

1685
01:28:04,320 --> 01:28:08,040
Speaker 2: what happened, you know, maybe all fifteen these dudes are

1686
01:28:08,040 --> 01:28:11,559
Speaker 2: completely framed. Nothing happened. Maybe they were dealing drugs. I

1687
01:28:11,600 --> 01:28:14,920
Speaker 2: don't know. What I do know is you can't using

1688
01:28:14,960 --> 01:28:19,280
Speaker 2: this guy's evidence to convict them. No, come on, California

1689
01:28:19,400 --> 01:28:22,320
Speaker 2: n Double ACP is pushing to remove racist Star Spangled

1690
01:28:22,320 --> 01:28:27,160
Speaker 2: banner as national anthem. The California chapter of the NUBLEACP,

1691
01:28:27,640 --> 01:28:30,280
Speaker 2: one of the same people that met with Donald Sterling,

1692
01:28:30,680 --> 01:28:33,120
Speaker 2: is pushing for the remover of the Star Spangled banner

1693
01:28:33,160 --> 01:28:37,360
Speaker 2: as the national anthem, claiming as much blaming it for

1694
01:28:37,479 --> 01:28:39,840
Speaker 2: much of the controversies around the NFL player's decision to

1695
01:28:39,920 --> 01:28:42,640
Speaker 2: nil during the singing of the Sacramento of It, I

1696
01:28:42,640 --> 01:28:45,920
Speaker 2: guess okay, so says the Sacramento b The group also

1697
01:28:46,040 --> 01:28:48,479
Speaker 2: plans on doing what they can to get Colin Kaepernick

1698
01:28:48,560 --> 01:28:51,720
Speaker 2: hired by another NFL team. We all a lot to

1699
01:28:51,760 --> 01:28:57,120
Speaker 2: call to Kaepernick, say N DOUBLEACP California chapter president ALIXE. Huffman.

1700
01:28:57,640 --> 01:28:59,760
Speaker 2: I think all this controversy about the need will go

1701
01:28:59,760 --> 01:29:05,200
Speaker 2: away once the song is removed. Mat Huffman called the

1702
01:29:05,280 --> 01:29:10,120
Speaker 2: national anthem. Huffman called the National Anthem racist and anti black,

1703
01:29:10,680 --> 01:29:12,960
Speaker 2: citing lyrics in the third stands and during the interview

1704
01:29:12,960 --> 01:29:16,759
Speaker 2: with a local CBS station, we are not anti flag. However,

1705
01:29:16,800 --> 01:29:18,640
Speaker 2: when the star spang Obando was written, it did not

1706
01:29:18,680 --> 01:29:21,320
Speaker 2: include US African Americans. Most Americans only know the first

1707
01:29:21,320 --> 01:29:23,680
Speaker 2: part of the song, but the song's author added a

1708
01:29:23,760 --> 01:29:26,200
Speaker 2: third stanza to the song right after America lost the

1709
01:29:26,240 --> 01:29:29,559
Speaker 2: Battle eighteen fifteen. The crime the former slaves who are

1710
01:29:29,640 --> 01:29:31,920
Speaker 2: now working for the British army. The lines of the

1711
01:29:31,920 --> 01:29:34,760
Speaker 2: third stands are read. Their blood was washed out, their

1712
01:29:34,800 --> 01:29:39,320
Speaker 2: foul footsteps, pollution. No refuge could save the hiring or

1713
01:29:39,360 --> 01:29:42,639
Speaker 2: the slave from the terror of flight or the groom

1714
01:29:42,880 --> 01:29:46,200
Speaker 2: of the grave. Caberinick first knee during the National Anthem

1715
01:29:46,280 --> 01:29:48,519
Speaker 2: last season, he said he was not protesting American flag

1716
01:29:48,560 --> 01:29:50,880
Speaker 2: nor the national Anthem. It's protests against police batality in

1717
01:29:50,880 --> 01:29:53,880
Speaker 2: this country. Yeah, and now see that's the only part

1718
01:29:53,880 --> 01:29:55,880
Speaker 2: that bothers me. It's like, did y'all talk to this nigga,

1719
01:29:55,880 --> 01:30:00,559
Speaker 2: because it don't matter what the song is to him said,

1720
01:30:00,640 --> 01:30:04,040
Speaker 2: that's like, that's not my problem. It's that y'all motherfuckers

1721
01:30:04,120 --> 01:30:07,640
Speaker 2: keep killing us. And I don't think y'all can make him.

1722
01:30:08,080 --> 01:30:09,679
Speaker 2: You know, I don't think y'all can make that stop.

1723
01:30:09,760 --> 01:30:13,400
Speaker 2: That being said, I would only give I would give

1724
01:30:13,439 --> 01:30:15,639
Speaker 2: this a zero. Actually, I'm gonna give this a zero.

1725
01:30:16,840 --> 01:30:19,479
Speaker 2: NAACP said the song Racis need to be taken down.

1726
01:30:19,560 --> 01:30:22,920
Speaker 2: I'm cool, maybe we can replace it, maybe we use

1727
01:30:23,000 --> 01:30:27,320
Speaker 2: lift every voice and saying yea yeah, man, I don't

1728
01:30:27,360 --> 01:30:29,720
Speaker 2: disagree at all with the song and that dance. But

1729
01:30:29,760 --> 01:30:31,200
Speaker 2: what about you, Cam, what would you give it?

1730
01:30:33,800 --> 01:30:36,160
Speaker 5: I'll give you twenty five because the person said they

1731
01:30:36,240 --> 01:30:38,120
Speaker 5: take this down make a difference, and it's not.

1732
01:30:41,800 --> 01:30:47,800
Speaker 2: Let's see here. Let's just go to another section about, uh,

1733
01:30:48,040 --> 01:30:52,519
Speaker 2: we kind of did white people news yesterday, So may

1734
01:30:52,520 --> 01:30:55,360
Speaker 2: well do some guests to race? How about that? Guys?

1735
01:30:57,120 --> 01:30:57,719
Speaker 2: Was my song?

1736
01:31:00,360 --> 01:31:00,439
Speaker 5: It?

1737
01:31:02,320 --> 01:31:06,839
Speaker 2: Now that is time for some guests the race, last riders,

1738
01:31:06,960 --> 01:31:11,679
Speaker 2: guest the race time. Now that is time for some

1739
01:31:11,760 --> 01:31:15,880
Speaker 2: guests the race, last rit is guest the race time.

1740
01:31:16,760 --> 01:31:21,280
Speaker 2: But that's right, it's time for guests. The race the

1741
01:31:21,400 --> 01:31:23,280
Speaker 2: number one game across all the podcasts, and we read

1742
01:31:23,280 --> 01:31:24,519
Speaker 2: to play the news ic for all over the globe.

1743
01:31:24,560 --> 01:31:27,120
Speaker 2: We asked sychon tests to in this case Karen and

1744
01:31:27,160 --> 01:31:30,880
Speaker 2: the chat rooms to guests, the race and the chat

1745
01:31:30,920 --> 01:31:33,040
Speaker 2: room can't play along, and they both races all right,

1746
01:31:35,120 --> 01:31:39,679
Speaker 2: mm hmm, You're thick in all the right places. Cop

1747
01:31:39,720 --> 01:31:45,439
Speaker 2: accused of harassing women he arrested with text black damn

1748
01:31:46,880 --> 01:31:52,320
Speaker 2: A juicy. A New York Police Department cop is accused

1749
01:31:52,360 --> 01:31:54,280
Speaker 2: of sending a string of loud text message to a

1750
01:31:54,320 --> 01:31:58,559
Speaker 2: woman just minutes at the arrested her. Ronnie Santiago twenty

1751
01:31:58,600 --> 01:32:03,760
Speaker 2: four allegedly told kemmy Sirfante twenty two she was thick

1752
01:32:03,800 --> 01:32:06,400
Speaker 2: in all the right places and that he would love

1753
01:32:06,680 --> 01:32:13,559
Speaker 2: a woman who could sit on my face. Yes, I

1754
01:32:13,600 --> 01:32:17,600
Speaker 2: see he using my lines. She is suing the NYPD

1755
01:32:17,840 --> 01:32:21,320
Speaker 2: for around twenty five thousand dollars for extreme and outrageous conduct.

1756
01:32:21,960 --> 01:32:24,799
Speaker 2: That's all that gets. The lawsuit, fied on Monday, outlines

1757
01:32:24,800 --> 01:32:30,519
Speaker 2: how Santiago arrested selfonte for shoplifting at a Target store

1758
01:32:30,560 --> 01:32:33,840
Speaker 2: in November two in the first twenty sixteen. She was

1759
01:32:33,880 --> 01:32:36,320
Speaker 2: giving a ticket at the fifty seconds precinct, then went

1760
01:32:36,360 --> 01:32:39,080
Speaker 2: on her way, but just minutes later she claims she

1761
01:32:39,160 --> 01:32:44,400
Speaker 2: received aggressive text messages from Santiago. He allegedly said you

1762
01:32:44,520 --> 01:32:46,880
Speaker 2: owe me donuts and encouraged her to meet up with

1763
01:32:46,960 --> 01:32:51,400
Speaker 2: him because he's a cop he want some donuts. So

1764
01:32:51,560 --> 01:32:54,400
Speaker 2: Fante said she played along got a fair of repercussions.

1765
01:32:54,400 --> 01:32:56,720
Speaker 2: At one point, she sent a photo of herself. Text

1766
01:32:56,760 --> 01:33:00,479
Speaker 2: from Santiago allegedly became more sexual in nature. One read

1767
01:33:00,600 --> 01:33:04,000
Speaker 2: I think you look better with the cuffs on, and

1768
01:33:04,120 --> 01:33:07,599
Speaker 2: another he said he wanted to indulge in a threesome orgy.

1769
01:33:08,920 --> 01:33:13,600
Speaker 2: H wonder if you was MMF for ff men. So

1770
01:33:13,760 --> 01:33:16,880
Speaker 2: Frante claims she didn't give the cop her number and

1771
01:33:17,160 --> 01:33:20,200
Speaker 2: it must have been taken from police records. She grew

1772
01:33:20,240 --> 01:33:22,400
Speaker 2: scared after say Tiago threatened to turn up at her

1773
01:33:22,439 --> 01:33:23,719
Speaker 2: house for dinner one night.

1774
01:33:23,680 --> 01:33:25,400
Speaker 4: Right because you got a fucking address.

1775
01:33:25,720 --> 01:33:28,720
Speaker 2: So Frante's lawyer, Henry Bell said, it hurts everyone in

1776
01:33:28,720 --> 01:33:31,120
Speaker 2: the community when police officer does something like this. End

1777
01:33:31,120 --> 01:33:35,400
Speaker 2: of the rose. Trust in the community, and trust is essential. Karen,

1778
01:33:35,600 --> 01:33:38,320
Speaker 2: you said black, Let me check the chat room and

1779
01:33:38,360 --> 01:33:44,680
Speaker 2: see what these motherfuckers believe. Uh al wait, let me

1780
01:33:44,680 --> 01:33:48,840
Speaker 2: see Okay, hispanic, says Sean, but he arrested her. You

1781
01:33:48,840 --> 01:33:51,559
Speaker 2: don't get to arrest and harass me Hispanic because English

1782
01:33:51,600 --> 01:33:55,479
Speaker 2: is obviously his second language. Black, says Trey Latino, says

1783
01:33:55,520 --> 01:33:58,479
Speaker 2: Minerva Latino copp who routinely puts twenty people in the

1784
01:33:58,479 --> 01:34:02,719
Speaker 2: backseat of his car, say so racist, Hispanic slash Latino.

1785
01:34:02,800 --> 01:34:05,320
Speaker 2: Santiago had a different choice of weapon for his code

1786
01:34:05,320 --> 01:34:15,679
Speaker 2: red Latino Latino. The correct answer is and uh, most

1787
01:34:15,720 --> 01:34:19,040
Speaker 2: of you missed it. But Karen, you gotta right, he's black.

1788
01:34:32,680 --> 01:34:47,320
Speaker 2: Uh many of you missed it though. How did you

1789
01:34:47,320 --> 01:34:50,080
Speaker 2: know he was black? Karen? He used the word thick

1790
01:34:51,160 --> 01:34:53,120
Speaker 2: thinking all the right places. Is this? Uh? Is it

1791
01:34:53,120 --> 01:34:56,320
Speaker 2: showing in the chat? Huh? All right, you know what,

1792
01:34:57,479 --> 01:34:59,200
Speaker 2: let me refresh. Guys, I don't know why I want

1793
01:34:59,240 --> 01:35:00,920
Speaker 2: show in the chat. Give me one second. I'll be

1794
01:35:00,960 --> 01:35:05,000
Speaker 2: right back. But uh, yeah, he was talking to her

1795
01:35:05,000 --> 01:35:09,679
Speaker 2: like a brother, you know, thaking, Oh the right place.

1796
01:35:09,880 --> 01:35:11,360
Speaker 4: I was going to take l for that one.

1797
01:35:11,400 --> 01:35:14,240
Speaker 2: I was, nah, that's a brother, Yeah, that's sit on

1798
01:35:14,280 --> 01:35:14,759
Speaker 2: my face.

1799
01:35:15,600 --> 01:35:16,040
Speaker 3: Yes.

1800
01:35:16,160 --> 01:35:17,559
Speaker 4: Then I was like, this is.

1801
01:35:19,200 --> 01:35:23,360
Speaker 2: I know that one? Brother? Uh? All right, let's see

1802
01:35:23,360 --> 01:35:30,200
Speaker 2: if I can get this to refresh. All right, I'm

1803
01:35:30,240 --> 01:35:34,639
Speaker 2: almost back, I see Karen, Yes, all right, now, I'm

1804
01:35:34,640 --> 01:35:41,240
Speaker 2: on there, and then I need to share my screen

1805
01:35:43,640 --> 01:35:48,000
Speaker 2: so you guys can see what mister uh, what the

1806
01:35:48,000 --> 01:35:52,960
Speaker 2: fuck is his name? Mister Ronnie Santiago. By the way,

1807
01:35:52,960 --> 01:35:57,080
Speaker 2: they got his picture from Facebook Facebook pick. That's the

1808
01:35:57,120 --> 01:36:00,240
Speaker 2: worst when you get your Facebook pick like that, have

1809
01:36:00,280 --> 01:36:02,240
Speaker 2: him in uniform as all of a sudden, nothing just

1810
01:36:02,600 --> 01:36:04,880
Speaker 2: him about to go to the club. Is it showing up? Now,

1811
01:36:05,840 --> 01:36:10,760
Speaker 2: that's that's him, And then this is her, I guess

1812
01:36:10,760 --> 01:36:14,479
Speaker 2: in the picture with her friend or something. And then

1813
01:36:14,520 --> 01:36:17,519
Speaker 2: that's him again in a different picture. Takes a lot

1814
01:36:17,520 --> 01:36:20,439
Speaker 2: of pictures about to go to the club, don't he Yes,

1815
01:36:20,640 --> 01:36:23,240
Speaker 2: he does well, good ratings. We don't need him on

1816
01:36:23,280 --> 01:36:26,800
Speaker 2: the streets. All right, Let's go to the next one.

1817
01:36:26,840 --> 01:36:29,160
Speaker 2: Karen's one for one so far. Let's see what she

1818
01:36:29,200 --> 01:36:35,160
Speaker 2: can do in this one. A man repeatedly ejaculated into

1819
01:36:35,800 --> 01:36:39,599
Speaker 2: La Palma coworkers water bottles and put seamen in her

1820
01:36:39,640 --> 01:36:40,160
Speaker 2: honey jar.

1821
01:36:41,880 --> 01:36:44,800
Speaker 4: Oh some honey for her honey.

1822
01:36:44,479 --> 01:36:51,920
Speaker 2: Uh, nuts and honey. I guess now that was a

1823
01:36:52,040 --> 01:36:57,559
Speaker 2: honey nut cheer yeos baby. A Palmdale man has been

1824
01:36:57,640 --> 01:37:00,720
Speaker 2: charged with battery and attended vandalism at the legend ejaculating

1825
01:37:00,720 --> 01:37:05,200
Speaker 2: to his female coworker's water bottles, vandalism with the sperm right,

1826
01:37:06,200 --> 01:37:09,400
Speaker 2: putting semen in her honey jar and smearing seeming on

1827
01:37:09,479 --> 01:37:11,040
Speaker 2: her computer mouse and keyboard.

1828
01:37:11,320 --> 01:37:17,360
Speaker 5: Oh no, I don't want your drip drops everywhere.

1829
01:37:17,479 --> 01:37:18,880
Speaker 4: That's disgusting.

1830
01:37:19,240 --> 01:37:25,479
Speaker 2: Oh my god, how do you even Oh what was

1831
01:37:25,560 --> 01:37:28,000
Speaker 2: he like standing over her desk just jacking off?

1832
01:37:28,280 --> 01:37:30,839
Speaker 5: I mean did he rub his hands and then rubbing

1833
01:37:30,920 --> 01:37:33,040
Speaker 5: on every and just touched everything like a little kid?

1834
01:37:33,160 --> 01:37:34,080
Speaker 4: What's happening here?

1835
01:37:34,640 --> 01:37:34,880
Speaker 3: Right?

1836
01:37:35,439 --> 01:37:38,599
Speaker 2: Are you just walking around the damn office like when

1837
01:37:38,680 --> 01:37:41,080
Speaker 2: you wait till everybody leaves, walk around the office with

1838
01:37:41,160 --> 01:37:45,720
Speaker 2: your pants down, jacking off, because that's how you get

1839
01:37:45,800 --> 01:37:47,200
Speaker 2: on a keyboard in the computer?

1840
01:37:47,600 --> 01:37:47,920
Speaker 1: Right?

1841
01:37:48,880 --> 01:37:50,880
Speaker 5: Did they do the fluorescent thing and the ship lit

1842
01:37:50,960 --> 01:37:52,280
Speaker 5: up and everybody was like, what the fuck is this?

1843
01:37:52,760 --> 01:37:54,880
Speaker 2: I guess it's her computer. When it say turned on

1844
01:37:54,960 --> 01:37:59,880
Speaker 2: sticky keys, she know it means something different. Oh yeah,

1845
01:38:00,120 --> 01:38:06,840
Speaker 2: that's right, that is That's that is horrendous, buddy. Mm

1846
01:38:06,920 --> 01:38:13,599
Speaker 2: hm hmmm. His name was Stephen Millan Castro. He's twenty

1847
01:38:13,640 --> 01:38:17,519
Speaker 2: seven years old, allegedly masturbated at his Lapalma place of

1848
01:38:17,560 --> 01:38:20,679
Speaker 2: work and put his seeming in the victim's honey jar White.

1849
01:38:21,600 --> 01:38:28,439
Speaker 2: Uh the two have worked together since twenty fourteen. Think

1850
01:38:28,479 --> 01:38:30,600
Speaker 2: about that. You think you can trust this man? A

1851
01:38:30,640 --> 01:38:34,200
Speaker 2: don't work together. Y'all been hanging out probably he talks

1852
01:38:34,240 --> 01:38:37,840
Speaker 2: to you every day, super nice lunch, right, and then

1853
01:38:38,080 --> 01:38:40,000
Speaker 2: as soon as you go to lunch, he over there

1854
01:38:40,000 --> 01:38:43,519
Speaker 2: at your console, just just hanging out with his y.

1855
01:38:44,280 --> 01:38:51,880
Speaker 2: I be letting, I've been letting, I be letting.

1856
01:38:53,880 --> 01:38:54,720
Speaker 4: New session.

1857
01:38:55,720 --> 01:38:58,439
Speaker 2: Oh, I'm sorry they missed that joke, Yes, they did.

1858
01:38:59,160 --> 01:39:01,640
Speaker 2: Hold all when we go back, they need to hear

1859
01:39:01,680 --> 01:39:05,800
Speaker 2: this live. Ha was it out for a long time?

1860
01:39:06,080 --> 01:39:08,479
Speaker 5: No, you just went off before you played, before you

1861
01:39:08,520 --> 01:39:09,400
Speaker 5: played this song.

1862
01:39:09,640 --> 01:39:12,680
Speaker 2: Oh okay, all right, I'll just do it again. You

1863
01:39:12,720 --> 01:39:15,200
Speaker 2: guys later hear both of us hear both times. But

1864
01:39:15,400 --> 01:39:16,519
Speaker 2: people in the chat deserve.

1865
01:39:17,160 --> 01:39:18,400
Speaker 4: They deserve to hear the joke too.

1866
01:39:18,439 --> 01:39:22,479
Speaker 2: They deserve to hear it too. Guys. All right, I

1867
01:39:22,560 --> 01:39:27,200
Speaker 2: should be live called an audience session and get Karen

1868
01:39:27,240 --> 01:39:31,040
Speaker 2: on screen. Really, which there's a more seamless way to

1869
01:39:31,080 --> 01:39:36,639
Speaker 2: do this, but anyway, and write Karen on screen. There

1870
01:39:36,680 --> 01:39:40,639
Speaker 2: you go. Yeah, all right, I'll set it up again

1871
01:39:41,720 --> 01:39:45,640
Speaker 2: as soon as you get back on screen, all right,

1872
01:39:47,120 --> 01:39:50,360
Speaker 2: So yeah, yeah, imagine they was going to lunch every

1873
01:39:50,439 --> 01:39:54,560
Speaker 2: day or talking, hanging out, and then she go to

1874
01:39:54,640 --> 01:39:57,479
Speaker 2: lunch and and and then he come over there. That's

1875
01:39:57,240 --> 01:40:06,479
Speaker 2: what with his dick out. I'll be letting I.

1876
01:40:09,320 --> 01:40:14,519
Speaker 5: Yep, ive been nothing on these bitches, your computer, monitor

1877
01:40:14,680 --> 01:40:16,040
Speaker 5: and your mouth and keyboard.

1878
01:40:16,080 --> 01:40:18,160
Speaker 4: I'll be nothing on these things.

1879
01:40:18,400 --> 01:40:23,400
Speaker 2: The victim apparently consumed the contaminated honey every other day

1880
01:40:23,680 --> 01:40:29,360
Speaker 2: ah between November twenty fourth, twenty sixteen, and January thirteen,

1881
01:40:29,439 --> 01:40:34,559
Speaker 2: twenty seventeen. He also allegedly ejaculated to a water bottle

1882
01:40:34,600 --> 01:40:38,360
Speaker 2: on two several occasions during the same time frame. The

1883
01:40:38,439 --> 01:40:40,719
Speaker 2: victim noticed the water looked cloudy and threw the bottles

1884
01:40:40,760 --> 01:40:45,400
Speaker 2: away each time. So he did it to and to

1885
01:40:45,439 --> 01:40:47,920
Speaker 2: keep in mind, this is what she knows. She may

1886
01:40:47,960 --> 01:40:51,320
Speaker 2: have drink it once or twice, who knows. January night,

1887
01:40:51,400 --> 01:40:53,720
Speaker 2: the woman identify only as Jane Doe noticed a third

1888
01:40:53,720 --> 01:40:55,600
Speaker 2: bottle on her desk that appeared to be contaminated. Was

1889
01:40:55,640 --> 01:40:58,680
Speaker 2: seeming that she reported listening to a Supervides. Supervides set

1890
01:40:58,720 --> 01:41:00,840
Speaker 2: up a surveillance camera and the victim office that day.

1891
01:41:01,400 --> 01:41:03,680
Speaker 2: The victim sat at her desk on January twenty third,

1892
01:41:03,800 --> 01:41:05,920
Speaker 2: touched her mouse that a smear was seeming to defend

1893
01:41:05,920 --> 01:41:07,920
Speaker 2: it was allegedly seen on some veillance video going into

1894
01:41:07,960 --> 01:41:10,920
Speaker 2: the victim's office before that incident. Jane Doe reported the

1895
01:41:10,920 --> 01:41:14,800
Speaker 2: incidents to the Lapama Police Department, which investigated Milan, who

1896
01:41:15,360 --> 01:41:17,960
Speaker 2: was arrested on Tuesday in connection with the incidents. Neither

1897
01:41:18,000 --> 01:41:20,479
Speaker 2: police nor prosecutors had described the motor for the crimes.

1898
01:41:21,560 --> 01:41:26,000
Speaker 2: What could what the Yeah? What could be the motive? Now?

1899
01:41:26,120 --> 01:41:28,280
Speaker 2: Do I need a motive? Dig right?

1900
01:41:29,360 --> 01:41:30,040
Speaker 4: She was hot?

1901
01:41:30,200 --> 01:41:33,960
Speaker 2: I mean to do a coworker, he's gonna use it.

1902
01:41:34,040 --> 01:41:36,400
Speaker 2: I didn't know I couldn't do that. A cowork at

1903
01:41:36,439 --> 01:41:39,599
Speaker 2: Mega Western Sales with the two words told kt LA victim.

1904
01:41:40,000 --> 01:41:42,679
Speaker 2: The victim had found a sexual harassing complaining against suspect

1905
01:41:42,880 --> 01:41:44,439
Speaker 2: and he had to go through a training program as

1906
01:41:44,439 --> 01:41:49,320
Speaker 2: a result. Yeah, so stay one less than number one

1907
01:41:49,360 --> 01:41:56,200
Speaker 2: of the training program for sexual harassment number It's really

1908
01:41:56,240 --> 01:41:59,439
Speaker 2: a short class, but we really only have this one

1909
01:41:59,520 --> 01:42:02,599
Speaker 2: lesson to stop jacking off on people's shit now, So

1910
01:42:05,280 --> 01:42:08,559
Speaker 2: if anyone has any questions, because there's only one person

1911
01:42:08,600 --> 01:42:10,519
Speaker 2: in this class that's be required to take it, if

1912
01:42:10,560 --> 01:42:14,120
Speaker 2: anyone has any questions, please raise your hand at this time. Okay, oh,

1913
01:42:14,360 --> 01:42:19,679
Speaker 2: I see you have a question. What's going on, mister milan? Okay,

1914
01:42:19,840 --> 01:42:23,559
Speaker 2: so you you have a question about is it okay

1915
01:42:23,760 --> 01:42:27,000
Speaker 2: to jack off people's mouths and keyboard? No, that's the

1916
01:42:27,080 --> 01:42:30,040
Speaker 2: lesson we just did, so, no, you can't do that.

1917
01:42:30,040 --> 01:42:32,640
Speaker 2: That's really the only lesson I got.

1918
01:42:32,720 --> 01:42:32,960
Speaker 4: Hold on.

1919
01:42:33,040 --> 01:42:35,920
Speaker 2: I got another question. What about the water bottle? Yeah?

1920
01:42:36,000 --> 01:42:39,599
Speaker 2: See that would also be an object and a thing

1921
01:42:39,880 --> 01:42:44,599
Speaker 2: that you can't masturbate into and put semen into. Okay,

1922
01:42:44,760 --> 01:42:48,320
Speaker 2: but what all right, so listen, bear with me. What

1923
01:42:48,400 --> 01:42:52,720
Speaker 2: if I jack off put in a syringe and it's

1924
01:42:52,720 --> 01:42:56,960
Speaker 2: shoot it in the water bottle? That is also unacceptable.

1925
01:42:57,120 --> 01:43:00,240
Speaker 2: Do not put your seemen anywhere in the keep and

1926
01:43:00,280 --> 01:43:03,960
Speaker 2: your dick, sir, It shouldn't be anywhere on the premises. Ever.

1927
01:43:04,680 --> 01:43:07,160
Speaker 2: Your seaman should stay inside of you at all times,

1928
01:43:07,479 --> 01:43:09,120
Speaker 2: at all times while.

1929
01:43:08,880 --> 01:43:10,960
Speaker 4: You're at work, Yes, while you at work?

1930
01:43:11,560 --> 01:43:14,120
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Well, I mean I don't want to

1931
01:43:14,120 --> 01:43:16,040
Speaker 2: be I just want to be one hundred, said Claire.

1932
01:43:16,720 --> 01:43:21,960
Speaker 2: So are you saying I can't put my seemen into

1933
01:43:22,000 --> 01:43:24,960
Speaker 2: a coworker's hunting and watch her eat it every other day?

1934
01:43:26,920 --> 01:43:29,479
Speaker 2: That's exactly what I'm saying. You cannot do that that

1935
01:43:30,280 --> 01:43:33,160
Speaker 2: are you? Are you supposed? How did you get hired?

1936
01:43:33,320 --> 01:43:35,759
Speaker 2: What's your what was your resume?

1937
01:43:35,960 --> 01:43:36,040
Speaker 4: Like?

1938
01:43:36,080 --> 01:43:38,600
Speaker 2: Well, it was covered and seemen. I mean it was

1939
01:43:38,680 --> 01:43:41,360
Speaker 2: right there on the resume. I don't know why. I mean,

1940
01:43:41,360 --> 01:43:43,920
Speaker 2: the pages were stuck together in my folder when I

1941
01:43:43,920 --> 01:43:45,599
Speaker 2: handed you the resume. I don't. I mean, I feel

1942
01:43:45,600 --> 01:43:51,559
Speaker 2: like y'all should have known this is gonna happen. The victim.

1943
01:43:51,560 --> 01:43:54,840
Speaker 2: They went to the office manager after Oh, it was

1944
01:43:54,920 --> 01:43:56,960
Speaker 2: after that that the victim noticed a water bottles started

1945
01:43:56,960 --> 01:43:59,600
Speaker 2: appearing cloudy. So you know what, that's what happened. He

1946
01:43:59,680 --> 01:44:02,040
Speaker 2: kept asking questions, he and then he stopped, and then

1947
01:44:02,080 --> 01:44:04,240
Speaker 2: they was like, cool, so you got it. He's like yep,

1948
01:44:04,560 --> 01:44:07,080
Speaker 2: and he was like, they didn't say I couldn't put

1949
01:44:07,120 --> 01:44:11,599
Speaker 2: it in the water bottle? Got him. I guess I'll

1950
01:44:11,600 --> 01:44:14,640
Speaker 2: see you at the next training. He put it in

1951
01:44:14,680 --> 01:44:17,080
Speaker 2: her bottles, and her computer and mouse and keyboard had

1952
01:44:17,080 --> 01:44:18,920
Speaker 2: something on them. The victim then went to the office

1953
01:44:18,960 --> 01:44:21,920
Speaker 2: manager set up a hidden camera and they found out

1954
01:44:22,840 --> 01:44:26,679
Speaker 2: it was dude, that's the alleged culprit. So that sounds

1955
01:44:26,760 --> 01:44:31,000
Speaker 2: like he was sexually harassing her beforehand, right, he wasn't

1956
01:44:31,200 --> 01:44:34,519
Speaker 2: doing the seaman shit. She's was like, I'm founding sexual

1957
01:44:34,520 --> 01:44:39,200
Speaker 2: harassing charges. They put him in training and then he went,

1958
01:44:39,280 --> 01:44:42,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna escalate to putting semen on all her stuff.

1959
01:44:43,400 --> 01:44:46,040
Speaker 2: He new was charged November seventeen for five misdemeanor coounts.

1960
01:44:46,040 --> 01:44:48,559
Speaker 2: That's it. He also faced a special enhancement of committee

1961
01:44:48,560 --> 01:44:51,360
Speaker 2: crimes for the purpose of sexual gratification. I don't understand

1962
01:44:51,360 --> 01:44:54,320
Speaker 2: how that's it. If I consume your seeming unwillingly, that's

1963
01:44:54,320 --> 01:44:58,760
Speaker 2: gotta be some type of medical that's nah. I need more,

1964
01:44:59,200 --> 01:45:03,240
Speaker 2: mister mean and my ass With those charges, d I

1965
01:45:03,439 --> 01:45:05,120
Speaker 2: say it's possible to require him to register as the

1966
01:45:05,120 --> 01:45:07,400
Speaker 2: sex offender he's convicted, even if the charges don't normally

1967
01:45:07,400 --> 01:45:11,200
Speaker 2: carry that penalty. Brock zim zimen I guess a prosecutor

1968
01:45:11,200 --> 01:45:13,200
Speaker 2: for Dad as obviously the sex offender registry can be

1969
01:45:13,240 --> 01:45:17,200
Speaker 2: required if the prosecutor can improve a crime was committed

1970
01:45:17,240 --> 01:45:20,839
Speaker 2: with the purpose of sexual gratification or because of sexual compulsion.

1971
01:45:20,840 --> 01:45:22,599
Speaker 2: He said. It can be applied to any crime, not

1972
01:45:22,720 --> 01:45:25,120
Speaker 2: just one that people traditionally think of a sex related,

1973
01:45:25,160 --> 01:45:27,519
Speaker 2: like rape or sexual assault. As long as prosecutors prove

1974
01:45:27,560 --> 01:45:30,240
Speaker 2: the sex related intentions, it gives the court the discretion

1975
01:45:30,560 --> 01:45:32,479
Speaker 2: to order the registry. At the end of the case,

1976
01:45:32,960 --> 01:45:36,920
Speaker 2: Zimen said, the defendive face is two years and six

1977
01:45:36,960 --> 01:45:40,320
Speaker 2: months in jail with lifetime sex offender registry if he's convicted.

1978
01:45:40,760 --> 01:45:44,719
Speaker 2: Guess the race. Why Karen's going with white?

1979
01:45:45,600 --> 01:45:48,280
Speaker 4: Guessed above me because I had on the other screener.

1980
01:45:48,439 --> 01:45:56,120
Speaker 2: Okay, so Stephens, his name is Stevens Milling Castro the top. Okay,

1981
01:45:56,200 --> 01:45:58,560
Speaker 2: all right, put Mayo on everything white and ask the

1982
01:45:58,600 --> 01:46:02,120
Speaker 2: motherfucker mao packet team White. Uh, do you need a

1983
01:46:02,120 --> 01:46:04,719
Speaker 2: class explain you don't spread your seeming all over the office?

1984
01:46:06,160 --> 01:46:08,479
Speaker 2: He said. We just never said we just we'll just

1985
01:46:08,560 --> 01:46:12,800
Speaker 2: agree to disagree. I can't put seeming over everything. Well,

1986
01:46:12,920 --> 01:46:20,160
Speaker 2: I disagree. I'll see I see it a different way.

1987
01:46:20,920 --> 01:46:23,800
Speaker 2: Weaponized and body floor is cousin of that white college girl. White,

1988
01:46:23,920 --> 01:46:26,360
Speaker 2: plus it was a black. If it was a black

1989
01:46:26,439 --> 01:46:28,920
Speaker 2: or brown, they would have fired him without a video.

1990
01:46:28,920 --> 01:46:32,840
Speaker 2: A white man putting seemen on her. Latte's white. You

1991
01:46:33,000 --> 01:46:36,559
Speaker 2: came up with this idea after drinking his Starbucks latte. White.

1992
01:46:36,960 --> 01:46:39,280
Speaker 2: Don't let him work in the kitchen at prison. White

1993
01:46:40,400 --> 01:46:43,360
Speaker 2: didn't know I couldn't do that. White. Everybody were white. Well,

1994
01:46:43,400 --> 01:46:46,160
Speaker 2: the correct answer is some kind of brown he was

1995
01:46:46,280 --> 01:46:49,880
Speaker 2: like I would say Latin X if I had to

1996
01:46:50,200 --> 01:46:56,880
Speaker 2: guess myself. So everybody missed that. Uh, recount, I'll put

1997
01:46:56,880 --> 01:47:15,880
Speaker 2: the picture up. Damn, they're going off.

1998
01:47:16,280 --> 01:47:18,520
Speaker 4: I know the ground that ain't got at the hostel.

1999
01:47:18,720 --> 01:47:21,599
Speaker 2: I don't think anybody got it right either. Damn. That's

2000
01:47:21,640 --> 01:47:24,679
Speaker 2: sad y'all some terrible racist man. Y'all need to step

2001
01:47:24,720 --> 01:47:27,760
Speaker 2: y'all racism up. That is not a white man. You

2002
01:47:27,760 --> 01:47:30,920
Speaker 2: see it caring did you look white to you? Exactly?

2003
01:47:31,080 --> 01:47:34,519
Speaker 2: Recount that. Stop putting everything on a white man. Blame

2004
01:47:34,640 --> 01:47:36,519
Speaker 2: them for your problems. Next thing you know, you're out

2005
01:47:36,520 --> 01:47:41,800
Speaker 2: here celebrating Meggie Markle getting married to a goddamn white man,

2006
01:47:42,560 --> 01:47:43,759
Speaker 2: a negro Bedwin.

2007
01:47:43,960 --> 01:47:44,680
Speaker 4: I'll take that.

2008
01:47:45,040 --> 01:47:49,160
Speaker 2: L I got your caught out here having fun. Mm hmmm.

2009
01:47:50,120 --> 01:47:53,240
Speaker 2: All right, let's go to the bonus round everyone. You

2010
01:47:53,240 --> 01:48:06,160
Speaker 2: guys almost had it off saying the race that was up,

2011
01:48:07,520 --> 01:48:10,800
Speaker 2: saying the race that's right, dol the points do the race,

2012
01:48:10,840 --> 01:48:12,559
Speaker 2: and the bonus fround the guest. The race. So far,

2013
01:48:12,800 --> 01:48:17,639
Speaker 2: everybody is just about one and one or two. Uh,

2014
01:48:17,800 --> 01:48:20,120
Speaker 2: we'll see how you guys shake out in the last one.

2015
01:48:21,320 --> 01:48:26,120
Speaker 2: All right, bonus round time guys. Police bust prostitution ring

2016
01:48:26,880 --> 01:48:33,360
Speaker 2: run out of senior living facility. Them old hips was

2017
01:48:33,360 --> 01:48:38,920
Speaker 2: getting smashed the smither rings, y'all. A police and Massachusetts

2018
01:48:38,960 --> 01:48:41,559
Speaker 2: have arrested two men they say ran a prostitution ring

2019
01:48:41,960 --> 01:48:46,080
Speaker 2: out of an apartment at a senior living facility. Damn,

2020
01:48:47,320 --> 01:48:47,720
Speaker 2: I mean we.

2021
01:48:47,760 --> 01:48:54,800
Speaker 5: Got oxygen tanks and shitting down and they don't kill.

2022
01:48:53,360 --> 01:48:58,280
Speaker 2: Police, uh, police say uh. Sixty five year old Joseph

2023
01:48:58,400 --> 01:49:01,320
Speaker 2: van Wert and forty five year old rand Lomback have

2024
01:49:01,479 --> 01:49:04,840
Speaker 2: been held without bell penning the dangerous in his hearing.

2025
01:49:06,200 --> 01:49:10,760
Speaker 2: Authority say lamb Backs recruited drug addicts from Pittsfield, took

2026
01:49:10,760 --> 01:49:13,920
Speaker 2: photos of them and posted ass on adult websites. Police

2027
01:49:13,920 --> 01:49:16,400
Speaker 2: say he scheduled and drove them to and from meetings

2028
01:49:16,400 --> 01:49:18,720
Speaker 2: with men, keeping most of the proceeds, and paid the

2029
01:49:18,720 --> 01:49:22,439
Speaker 2: women in drugs. The women were recruited by Lambash, then

2030
01:49:22,520 --> 01:49:25,599
Speaker 2: photographed and advertised on social media sites. Lambatch facilitated meeting

2031
01:49:25,640 --> 01:49:29,760
Speaker 2: locations with Perspective John's and trustported these women to specify locations.

2032
01:49:30,040 --> 01:49:32,920
Speaker 2: He would often await nearby to take a portion of

2033
01:49:32,920 --> 01:49:35,360
Speaker 2: the earnings. He would also compensate the women with narcotics

2034
01:49:35,360 --> 01:49:39,639
Speaker 2: and little cash, which included heroin, cocaine, and prescription medication. Ooh,

2035
01:49:39,840 --> 01:49:46,760
Speaker 2: three of the top five Pittsburgh Police say Lieutenant Michael Madelina. Oh,

2036
01:49:46,960 --> 01:49:48,800
Speaker 2: he was the person that said that. Okay, police say,

2037
01:49:48,920 --> 01:49:51,759
Speaker 2: Van Werk used his apartment at a senior livings facility

2038
01:49:51,760 --> 01:49:54,879
Speaker 2: as a place to conduct the prostitution. I can't imagine

2039
01:49:54,920 --> 01:49:58,200
Speaker 2: the old ass pimp. Let me see which one of

2040
01:49:58,240 --> 01:50:02,439
Speaker 2: these niggas the old one work and so Van Work

2041
01:50:02,560 --> 01:50:06,800
Speaker 2: was out there using this pimping at sixty five, he's old.

2042
01:50:06,840 --> 01:50:14,479
Speaker 2: He retired lamback lab I mean, I know, you know, no,

2043
01:50:14,520 --> 01:50:15,599
Speaker 2: you just brown kicked forever.

2044
01:50:15,640 --> 01:50:17,080
Speaker 4: But don't it come up period of time.

2045
01:50:16,960 --> 01:50:19,760
Speaker 2: Where don't you know well pimping ain't got nothing to

2046
01:50:19,800 --> 01:50:21,920
Speaker 2: do with having sex with him necessarily. He was getting

2047
01:50:21,960 --> 01:50:26,640
Speaker 2: the money. The giants were the ones, you know paying.

2048
01:50:26,960 --> 01:50:29,960
Speaker 2: I just imagine adorable man from up with that walker

2049
01:50:30,120 --> 01:50:33,880
Speaker 2: the tennis balls, pimping out women. Was he talking to

2050
01:50:33,960 --> 01:50:38,280
Speaker 2: him listen, bitch or his all from from my god

2051
01:50:38,400 --> 01:50:44,680
Speaker 2: damn money, Get off of me, bitch. He was like

2052
01:50:44,680 --> 01:50:49,400
Speaker 2: slapping them all light because he you know, old, get

2053
01:50:49,400 --> 01:50:51,360
Speaker 2: a heart attack, chasing that thieves drug add it?

2054
01:50:52,600 --> 01:50:52,760
Speaker 5: Uh?

2055
01:50:53,000 --> 01:50:55,640
Speaker 2: Lambackh allegedly threatened to turn the women in if they

2056
01:50:55,720 --> 01:51:00,920
Speaker 2: stopped working for him. You know that is that says

2057
01:51:00,920 --> 01:51:03,840
Speaker 2: something that says a lot. Done it that says a lot.

2058
01:51:03,880 --> 01:51:09,479
Speaker 2: It's just like that thing we Centoia yesterday where it's like,

2059
01:51:09,960 --> 01:51:13,759
Speaker 2: let's arrest the woman who's being prostituted. That's that's who's

2060
01:51:13,920 --> 01:51:17,719
Speaker 2: the real criminal here. Let's charge you with prostitution, sex slave.

2061
01:51:18,760 --> 01:51:21,400
Speaker 2: And I'm sure pimps use that to the advantage, like

2062
01:51:21,479 --> 01:51:24,960
Speaker 2: I'll report that you're a hooker and on drugs and

2063
01:51:25,000 --> 01:51:26,920
Speaker 2: it's like I'm gonna go to but you pimping me?

2064
01:51:27,200 --> 01:51:30,400
Speaker 2: They ain't look you wanna go jail or not? Anyway,

2065
01:51:30,400 --> 01:51:32,840
Speaker 2: I guess the race of these two old.

2066
01:51:32,720 --> 01:51:36,360
Speaker 4: Pimps white and one of them sound like a vampire.

2067
01:51:37,160 --> 01:51:38,760
Speaker 2: All right, let's take the chat room and see what

2068
01:51:38,800 --> 01:51:46,880
Speaker 2: they say. Rip van white. Uh, I know these motherfuckers

2069
01:51:46,880 --> 01:51:50,040
Speaker 2: are white. Okay, I'm going to say agent because I

2070
01:51:50,080 --> 01:51:52,920
Speaker 2: haven't gotten any of these right today. Then there's bonus

2071
01:51:52,920 --> 01:51:54,800
Speaker 2: points in the goldens round. I see you, dog, try

2072
01:51:54,840 --> 01:51:57,799
Speaker 2: to get them double points. White men pimping nice pretty

2073
01:51:57,840 --> 01:52:01,960
Speaker 2: young bitch right this the bitch right here? Hold on

2074
01:52:02,640 --> 01:52:09,760
Speaker 2: a pimp name hunchback god, white, white and white. The

2075
01:52:09,840 --> 01:52:12,160
Speaker 2: correct answer is I think everyone will white except the

2076
01:52:12,200 --> 01:52:15,200
Speaker 2: person that saying Asian. And you're all correct except for

2077
01:52:15,240 --> 01:52:30,320
Speaker 2: that question. Bitch, when I get my walker, bitch is oh,

2078
01:52:30,360 --> 01:52:32,679
Speaker 2: I'm gonna come over there and get my Oh wait

2079
01:52:32,720 --> 01:52:34,880
Speaker 2: till I put these hands on. You have to I

2080
01:52:34,880 --> 01:52:36,880
Speaker 2: if I could just get up, can't you help me up?

2081
01:52:36,960 --> 01:52:37,559
Speaker 2: Can't you help me?

2082
01:52:38,120 --> 01:52:38,320
Speaker 3: Oh?

2083
01:52:38,439 --> 01:52:41,400
Speaker 4: Wait till I charged this wheelchair. I'm gonna roll my

2084
01:52:41,479 --> 01:52:42,960
Speaker 4: ass over there and roll you over.

2085
01:52:43,479 --> 01:52:46,280
Speaker 2: Bitch, Just let me get my give my my medications,

2086
01:52:46,320 --> 01:52:48,040
Speaker 2: and then I'm all I'm gonna fuck you up. As

2087
01:52:48,040 --> 01:52:50,679
Speaker 2: soon as I get my hard medication. I don't wanna

2088
01:52:50,680 --> 01:52:54,000
Speaker 2: give my give my blood pressure going too hard. And

2089
01:52:54,320 --> 01:53:10,200
Speaker 2: somebody said Asian mm hm hmmm. The Senior living facility

2090
01:53:10,439 --> 01:53:11,320
Speaker 2: me and are trash.

2091
01:53:13,640 --> 01:53:15,760
Speaker 4: Somebody sending the chairman said, bitch, get my bed pan.

2092
01:53:16,040 --> 01:53:25,080
Speaker 2: Bitch better have my bed pan. Oh man? All right, uh,

2093
01:53:25,640 --> 01:53:29,120
Speaker 2: let's time. All right, let's you know, let's do one

2094
01:53:29,120 --> 01:53:33,960
Speaker 2: more for you guys. All right, you guys are being

2095
01:53:34,000 --> 01:53:43,960
Speaker 2: real cool tonight. Let's see how about how about all right,

2096
01:53:44,000 --> 01:53:48,559
Speaker 2: here's the one. A Florida woman is accused of killing

2097
01:53:48,760 --> 01:53:51,800
Speaker 2: her husband and hiding his duct taped body in the

2098
01:53:51,880 --> 01:53:57,080
Speaker 2: closet and walling over it. What I know, that's an

2099
01:53:57,120 --> 01:54:02,040
Speaker 2: industrious ass, lady. I mean I wouldn't even know how

2100
01:54:02,040 --> 01:54:04,640
Speaker 2: to begin to wall over a closet. I mean I

2101
01:54:04,680 --> 01:54:09,200
Speaker 2: can't even. A Florida woman killed her seventy two year

2102
01:54:09,200 --> 01:54:11,599
Speaker 2: old husband and then went to great lens to hide

2103
01:54:11,640 --> 01:54:14,720
Speaker 2: his body in the closet in their home. Authorities have

2104
01:54:14,840 --> 01:54:15,679
Speaker 2: changed charge.

2105
01:54:15,720 --> 01:54:17,639
Speaker 4: She must have found out he was over there pimping.

2106
01:54:18,800 --> 01:54:21,479
Speaker 2: I think she was old there like what happened to

2107
01:54:21,479 --> 01:54:22,000
Speaker 2: your husband?

2108
01:54:22,479 --> 01:54:22,639
Speaker 5: Oh?

2109
01:54:22,680 --> 01:54:25,400
Speaker 2: I didn't tell you. He was in the closet the

2110
01:54:25,400 --> 01:54:29,280
Speaker 2: whole time, and I said, you ain't coming out of the

2111
01:54:29,240 --> 01:54:33,880
Speaker 2: closet on me, so he left U Uncleloosa, the deputy said.

2112
01:54:34,040 --> 01:54:38,320
Speaker 2: Alfred Washniact was shot in the left temple and his wife,

2113
01:54:38,360 --> 01:54:42,560
Speaker 2: Barbara Wrose in Act sixty five, was charged with murder. Ooh, oh,

2114
01:54:42,600 --> 01:54:46,160
Speaker 2: you get that old and you're still almost made it out.

2115
01:54:47,000 --> 01:54:51,840
Speaker 2: Oh damn to death. Do your part, I guess, but Jesus,

2116
01:54:52,320 --> 01:54:54,720
Speaker 2: you make it that long and next when you decide.

2117
01:54:54,440 --> 01:54:56,720
Speaker 4: To do a murder, they don't talk about. Right you

2118
01:54:56,960 --> 01:54:57,560
Speaker 4: did you get old?

2119
01:54:57,560 --> 01:54:58,280
Speaker 2: Ship? That lady?

2120
01:54:58,320 --> 01:55:00,000
Speaker 4: You fuck it. We're gonna die soon.

2121
01:55:00,400 --> 01:55:03,560
Speaker 2: Y'all must have been getting on each other nerve bad. Uh.

2122
01:55:03,600 --> 01:55:09,200
Speaker 2: They lived in Shallamar in the Florida Panhandle. Uh. The

2123
01:55:09,240 --> 01:55:12,640
Speaker 2: investigators obtained the search warrant and found a fabricated brick

2124
01:55:12,720 --> 01:55:17,560
Speaker 2: wall inside of a closet under a stairway. After removing

2125
01:55:17,600 --> 01:55:21,680
Speaker 2: the bricks in the drywall, a large, dark plastic type

2126
01:55:21,720 --> 01:55:24,960
Speaker 2: of tart was observed shaped in the consistency of an

2127
01:55:25,000 --> 01:55:29,960
Speaker 2: adult body. The material had been thoroughly duct taped. She

2128
01:55:30,080 --> 01:55:37,440
Speaker 2: was handed the Magaba murder over here Wasnak was accused

2129
01:55:37,440 --> 01:55:39,640
Speaker 2: of duct taping her husband's wrist and ankles in midsection

2130
01:55:39,720 --> 01:55:45,160
Speaker 2: before covering it with a tight tartu Debuty said. Debute

2131
01:55:45,240 --> 01:55:47,880
Speaker 2: said the woman told her to adult children that she

2132
01:55:48,280 --> 01:55:50,640
Speaker 2: what she did, and they called now on one Wednesday.

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01:55:51,880 --> 01:55:55,600
Speaker 2: Ain't you know how un duct tape y'all? Daddy over here,

2134
01:55:56,120 --> 01:55:58,920
Speaker 2: Mama put them in the closet, got some bricks and mortar,

2135
01:55:59,000 --> 01:56:00,760
Speaker 2: walled up the closet under the stage.

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01:56:00,880 --> 01:56:03,520
Speaker 5: I got tired of him being non emotional and talking

2137
01:56:03,560 --> 01:56:05,160
Speaker 5: shit about my pumpkin pie.

2138
01:56:05,720 --> 01:56:09,560
Speaker 2: He wouldn't he said, I gotta go, I can't clean up.

2139
01:56:09,640 --> 01:56:11,640
Speaker 2: I gotta go on a fisher trip with the boys

2140
01:56:11,640 --> 01:56:12,840
Speaker 2: in the morning, got a.

2141
01:56:12,840 --> 01:56:15,840
Speaker 4: Bit of the last time he talked about my stuffing.

2142
01:56:16,200 --> 01:56:19,160
Speaker 2: So I had to kill his ass. According to the station,

2143
01:56:19,400 --> 01:56:21,600
Speaker 2: the debutie said Wyse Act told him she killed their

2144
01:56:21,600 --> 01:56:23,840
Speaker 2: father in self defense after he tried to choke her

2145
01:56:23,840 --> 01:56:26,280
Speaker 2: on nove ever ten. Oh that's a tough sell. Now,

2146
01:56:27,000 --> 01:56:30,520
Speaker 2: investigator said the trajectory of the bullet contradicted her explanation

2147
01:56:30,640 --> 01:56:32,640
Speaker 2: or aving to the chill. That's what that's an episode

2148
01:56:32,640 --> 01:56:34,240
Speaker 2: of Snap coming now. I can't wait for this to

2149
01:56:34,240 --> 01:56:34,720
Speaker 2: be on Snap.

2150
01:56:34,840 --> 01:56:36,200
Speaker 4: Yes, it's gonna be on Snap.

2151
01:56:36,560 --> 01:56:40,000
Speaker 2: That's gonna that's definitely gonna be on Snap because that

2152
01:56:40,120 --> 01:56:43,640
Speaker 2: whole whenever the ballistics don't match up with the lie,

2153
01:56:44,840 --> 01:56:47,560
Speaker 2: especially when it's like there was no evidence of abuse

2154
01:56:47,640 --> 01:56:50,760
Speaker 2: ever in the relationship. Because listen, you go to court

2155
01:56:50,840 --> 01:56:53,600
Speaker 2: every single episode of Snap in the same way. It

2156
01:56:53,640 --> 01:56:58,320
Speaker 2: don't matter how diabolical that woman was, he beat me, period,

2157
01:56:58,480 --> 01:57:01,360
Speaker 2: And that's you would think that's something about how deceitful

2158
01:57:01,400 --> 01:57:03,960
Speaker 2: women are. No, that says how fucked up men are.

2159
01:57:04,520 --> 01:57:07,360
Speaker 2: That we that every courtroom is like, well, you do

2160
01:57:07,400 --> 01:57:10,040
Speaker 2: gotta consider that he may no matter what evidence, is

2161
01:57:11,200 --> 01:57:15,160
Speaker 2: a dick so men ain't ship. He might have been beaten.

2162
01:57:15,360 --> 01:57:16,560
Speaker 2: He might have been beaten. You know, it was a

2163
01:57:16,600 --> 01:57:20,360
Speaker 2: high probability that you can never one hundred percent say

2164
01:57:20,680 --> 01:57:22,440
Speaker 2: she wasn't beating her. You know, I mean he wasn't

2165
01:57:22,440 --> 01:57:25,720
Speaker 2: beating her. It don't matter what she fucked his brother.

2166
01:57:26,320 --> 01:57:28,600
Speaker 2: She had let her say I'm gonna kill this nigga tonight.

2167
01:57:29,280 --> 01:57:32,880
Speaker 2: The gun. She bought the gun that morning. She you

2168
01:57:32,920 --> 01:57:38,000
Speaker 2: know she uh, she wrote a note before that said

2169
01:57:38,040 --> 01:57:39,760
Speaker 2: this nigga has never put his hands on me and

2170
01:57:39,800 --> 01:57:43,000
Speaker 2: his motherfucking life. I wish he would. And then she

2171
01:57:43,120 --> 01:57:45,560
Speaker 2: killed him, and she said he beat me, and there

2172
01:57:45,560 --> 01:57:48,480
Speaker 2: was abusive relationship, and the court is like, we gotta

2173
01:57:48,520 --> 01:57:52,400
Speaker 2: consider it anyway. I guess the race. Uh, let me

2174
01:57:52,440 --> 01:57:55,760
Speaker 2: see white. Karen's going white. Let's take the chat room.

2175
01:57:55,880 --> 01:57:59,440
Speaker 2: Ex Librrian re enacting the tailtale heart white. Do it

2176
01:57:59,520 --> 01:58:02,400
Speaker 2: yourself white? Yeah, she should get a home improvement show

2177
01:58:02,480 --> 01:58:09,280
Speaker 2: on U H g Ag Walling up your husband, How

2178
01:58:09,320 --> 01:58:12,640
Speaker 2: to turn your turn murder into a do it yourself product,

2179
01:58:13,000 --> 01:58:19,360
Speaker 2: Flip your husband, flip my spouse, Yeah, slip my style,

2180
01:58:19,800 --> 01:58:26,040
Speaker 2: flip oh Man murder. She drywall the white her flastic furniture, covers,

2181
01:58:26,200 --> 01:58:29,720
Speaker 2: kept his blood off her couch white white and design

2182
01:58:29,840 --> 01:58:33,680
Speaker 2: on a dime white, that food dead white. The correct

2183
01:58:33,680 --> 01:58:46,720
Speaker 2: answer is white. Everyone got it. Let me tell you something.

2184
01:58:47,880 --> 01:58:49,920
Speaker 2: In a way, I kind of respect it, but it's

2185
01:58:49,920 --> 01:58:52,360
Speaker 2: it's I mean, it's terrible what she did. But I

2186
01:58:52,360 --> 01:58:58,600
Speaker 2: can't imagine sixty five drywalling. No damn nothing by myself,

2187
01:58:59,040 --> 01:59:01,560
Speaker 2: by yourself, not even come up with murder. I just

2188
01:59:01,880 --> 01:59:03,960
Speaker 2: you know what, I've made it this far. Just come

2189
01:59:04,080 --> 01:59:07,480
Speaker 2: get them. You know, the body's on the couch, all right.

2190
01:59:07,680 --> 01:59:11,560
Speaker 2: Last thing I noticed about an effort. Damn, she must

2191
01:59:11,640 --> 01:59:15,000
Speaker 2: have hated that nigga kill him after all that time,

2192
01:59:15,120 --> 01:59:16,360
Speaker 2: they almost made it to death.

2193
01:59:18,480 --> 01:59:20,560
Speaker 4: We wait that long, We just gonna die baby, like

2194
01:59:20,600 --> 01:59:21,920
Speaker 4: a natural divorce.

2195
01:59:22,240 --> 01:59:23,360
Speaker 2: Man, It ain't that important.

2196
01:59:23,720 --> 01:59:24,920
Speaker 4: It ain't that important.

2197
01:59:39,680 --> 01:59:44,040
Speaker 2: Police two are arrested after Oklahoma man was murdered with

2198
01:59:44,120 --> 01:59:47,920
Speaker 2: a sword. Ah, you hate to hear these. These are

2199
01:59:47,920 --> 01:59:54,400
Speaker 2: the worst kind, the kind of ending murder. And then

2200
01:59:54,440 --> 01:59:58,360
Speaker 2: Oklahoma too, such a great state to show me state

2201
01:59:59,080 --> 02:00:02,600
Speaker 2: and then show me that sword. Authorities mad? Is it

2202
02:00:02,680 --> 02:00:04,800
Speaker 2: just is Oklahoma's showed me? Say, I feel like I

2203
02:00:04,840 --> 02:00:08,440
Speaker 2: fucked that up. Authorities made a grusome discovery inside of

2204
02:00:08,480 --> 02:00:12,400
Speaker 2: Clairemore home as they were asked to check the well

2205
02:00:12,520 --> 02:00:16,240
Speaker 2: being of the residentury. Oh okay, well, I guess they close,

2206
02:00:16,560 --> 02:00:19,120
Speaker 2: They said so many They was talking to Oklahoma in Missouri,

2207
02:00:19,160 --> 02:00:22,560
Speaker 2: show me your sword. On Sunday morning, officers arrived at

2208
02:00:22,560 --> 02:00:25,880
Speaker 2: home on North dak who cares an address? They found

2209
02:00:25,920 --> 02:00:27,920
Speaker 2: the body of a man. Best got to tell Fox

2210
02:00:27,920 --> 02:00:30,080
Speaker 2: twenty three. The victims, identified as fifty one year old

2211
02:00:30,120 --> 02:00:33,680
Speaker 2: Mark McKinnie, was killed with a sword as a violent struggle.

2212
02:00:33,920 --> 02:00:37,600
Speaker 2: At violent death of mister McKinnie, officers ultimately arrested Michael

2213
02:00:37,640 --> 02:00:42,240
Speaker 2: Eugenie Spears appropriate in connection with mckennie's death. Another man,

2214
02:00:43,080 --> 02:00:46,320
Speaker 2: Larry McCoy senior, was also arrested after he was accused

2215
02:00:46,320 --> 02:00:48,960
Speaker 2: of taking property from mckinnie's body. Oh that's the worst

2216
02:00:50,080 --> 02:00:52,360
Speaker 2: you got, cock, because you fucking took his wallet. And

2217
02:00:52,400 --> 02:00:54,560
Speaker 2: now you're going now that's a that's murder. Now I've

2218
02:00:54,600 --> 02:00:57,080
Speaker 2: seen the first forty eight r your ass did it too?

2219
02:00:58,160 --> 02:01:04,400
Speaker 2: All right, guys, we will see you tomorrow. Hopefully we'll

2220
02:01:04,400 --> 02:01:07,720
Speaker 2: also see you guys at the royal wedding. We'll all

2221
02:01:07,800 --> 02:01:13,040
Speaker 2: be talking in horrible British accents that I can pretending

2222
02:01:13,040 --> 02:01:16,760
Speaker 2: to care one day of being able to escape this

2223
02:01:16,880 --> 02:01:19,240
Speaker 2: Trump nightmare that we wake up to every single day.

2224
02:01:19,280 --> 02:01:21,800
Speaker 2: Come just whatever it takes to get through the next day. Man,

2225
02:01:21,840 --> 02:01:23,040
Speaker 2: find your joy where you can go.

2226
02:01:23,240 --> 02:01:24,160
Speaker 4: Find your joy?

2227
02:01:24,440 --> 02:01:27,120
Speaker 2: Okay. I saw the soul training towards is on last night,

2228
02:01:27,600 --> 02:01:29,360
Speaker 2: and I didn't even go up to people and say,

2229
02:01:29,400 --> 02:01:31,840
Speaker 2: I thought, y'all cancel that because they tributed to R Kelly.

2230
02:01:31,920 --> 02:01:34,080
Speaker 2: You know why, because I understand get your joy where

2231
02:01:34,080 --> 02:01:35,840
Speaker 2: you can. Man. A lot of people enjoyed that and

2232
02:01:35,920 --> 02:01:38,120
Speaker 2: a lot left. All Right, y'all talk to y'all some

2233
02:01:38,440 --> 02:01:39,880
Speaker 2: until then. I love you.

2234
02:01:39,920 --> 02:01:40,280
Speaker 4: I love you.

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02:01:40,680 --> 02:01:40,920
Speaker 2: Why