1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: Wait a second, who's calling me? They didn't text first. 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:05,680 Speaker 1: It's one more thing, Armstrong and Getty. 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:07,080 Speaker 2: One more thing. 4 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:12,160 Speaker 1: So we've got a list out from some organization on 5 00:00:12,320 --> 00:00:15,200 Speaker 1: things that cause anxiety and people in the modern world. 6 00:00:15,400 --> 00:00:17,120 Speaker 1: We'll get to that coming up in just a little bit. 7 00:00:18,360 --> 00:00:21,280 Speaker 1: Before that, we had a couple of funny things happened 8 00:00:21,320 --> 00:00:23,600 Speaker 1: during the show today we thought might be worth repeating. 9 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:26,600 Speaker 1: And then one maybe you haven't heard unless you've been 10 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:30,960 Speaker 1: a really long time listener to the Armstrong Ingetty Show. First, 11 00:00:31,840 --> 00:00:35,040 Speaker 1: Michael's story of his mom ordering at In and Out. 12 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:39,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, In and Out has a secret menu. First of all, 13 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:41,120 Speaker 3: In and Out is a popular burger chain. I'm assuming 14 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:42,040 Speaker 3: most people have been there. 15 00:00:42,080 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: I don't like the fact that their menu is incredibly basic. 16 00:00:45,320 --> 00:00:46,919 Speaker 1: When you walk in or you go to the drive through, 17 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:51,880 Speaker 1: it's just cheeseburger, double cheeseburger, fries, milkshake. That's about it. 18 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:53,480 Speaker 1: I mean, there is not much more. 19 00:00:54,280 --> 00:00:57,160 Speaker 3: Well, I found out there's a secret menu that spices 20 00:00:57,240 --> 00:00:59,800 Speaker 3: things up, and apparently you can get your fries where 21 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 3: they take the sauce from the burgers and they'll put 22 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 3: it over the fry. So, yeah, you have sauce and 23 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:05,679 Speaker 3: fries together. 24 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,840 Speaker 1: That's what my son likes, and that's animal style. And 25 00:01:08,880 --> 00:01:09,959 Speaker 1: that's the key here. 26 00:01:11,080 --> 00:01:14,480 Speaker 3: Instead of animal style, my mom ordered that she for 27 00:01:14,520 --> 00:01:16,639 Speaker 3: the first time, and she called it doggie style. 28 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:19,160 Speaker 1: I like my doggie style. 29 00:01:19,560 --> 00:01:24,720 Speaker 3: And you have to know that my mom is very sweet. 30 00:01:24,840 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 3: And yeah, I would never say anything like that on purpose. 31 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:30,520 Speaker 4: He's not to discuss sex positions with fast Foot. 32 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:31,920 Speaker 1: Now, is that what you're saying? 33 00:01:32,040 --> 00:01:36,120 Speaker 5: Yes, man, this isn't in and out yes, hello? 34 00:01:37,240 --> 00:01:40,600 Speaker 4: Or is she just a huge Snoop dogg fan. That 35 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 4: was debut. 36 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:44,760 Speaker 3: You could hear the kid laughing in the back of 37 00:01:44,800 --> 00:01:46,400 Speaker 3: my God, I would have died. 38 00:01:46,520 --> 00:01:49,040 Speaker 1: I would have to say, hey, this lady just said 39 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:51,000 Speaker 1: she wants her fries doggies style. 40 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:53,280 Speaker 5: Oh yeah, that story was on repeat for a couple 41 00:01:53,320 --> 00:01:53,720 Speaker 5: of days. 42 00:01:53,720 --> 00:01:57,360 Speaker 4: Oh yeah, he's telling it today. Yeah, i'd probably ware 43 00:01:58,280 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 4: meeting strangers on. 44 00:01:59,400 --> 00:02:01,840 Speaker 1: A bus he tells him that story. Oh my god, 45 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:05,480 Speaker 1: that's good. And what's funny is that it's genetic obviously, 46 00:02:05,560 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 1: because Michael has this story that he told us many, 47 00:02:07,920 --> 00:02:10,240 Speaker 1: many years ago. Yeah, this is Katie. 48 00:02:10,320 --> 00:02:11,799 Speaker 3: This is a long time ago to so you know, 49 00:02:11,960 --> 00:02:14,760 Speaker 3: but I was about twenty three years old, maybe maybe 50 00:02:14,800 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 3: a little older twenty five. Okay, I was at a 51 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:20,799 Speaker 3: bank and I was getting my before direct deposits, so 52 00:02:20,840 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 3: i'd have to take it in and get it cashed. 53 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:26,840 Speaker 3: And so there's a beautiful woman at the as a 54 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 3: bank teller, and she's got large breast, and she's bending 55 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:34,600 Speaker 3: down to the you know, get the dollar bills out 56 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 3: of the out of the drawer, and you could pretty 57 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:39,919 Speaker 3: much see just about everything, if you know what I'm saying, 58 00:02:40,960 --> 00:02:42,320 Speaker 3: and well. 59 00:02:42,120 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 5: Everything but the nip. 60 00:02:45,360 --> 00:02:51,600 Speaker 1: Exactly. Abn, that's funny, Katie. 61 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,240 Speaker 3: So she's leaning over and she looks up and smiles. 62 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 3: She goes, would you like big bills for your check? 63 00:02:56,440 --> 00:02:58,360 Speaker 3: And I said, yes, big boobs would be fine. 64 00:02:58,680 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 5: Oh Michael, she set you up for that. 65 00:03:01,680 --> 00:03:04,800 Speaker 1: No, I wouldn't be coming on. I would not have 66 00:03:04,919 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: said fine. 67 00:03:08,400 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 3: And I was just horrified. And she handed me that 68 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:12,359 Speaker 3: money and I just walked out. I didn't even know 69 00:03:12,400 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 3: if it was a correct amount. I got to my car. 70 00:03:14,520 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 3: I said, you know, thank god, it's the right amount. 71 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,680 Speaker 1: Horrified too. So this is a good question for you 72 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:23,360 Speaker 1: as a lady. How aware are you as a woman 73 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:26,000 Speaker 1: when you're bent over and your shirt is hanging down 74 00:03:26,280 --> 00:03:27,799 Speaker 1: to her like a fight glance, or I got to 75 00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,560 Speaker 1: look away really hard, or I'm staring right at your breasts. 76 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:33,360 Speaker 1: You know what's happening. 77 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 5: Without a doubt, and you know, you know when your 78 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:38,520 Speaker 5: shirt is providing just a little bit of a peek, 79 00:03:38,640 --> 00:03:42,800 Speaker 5: you're very super aware. Yeah, yep, that's happened to me 80 00:03:42,880 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 5: yesterday at the gym. 81 00:03:44,800 --> 00:03:46,800 Speaker 1: But but you weren't doing it on purpose. It just happened. 82 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:49,360 Speaker 5: No, we we were We've been talking about planking. We 83 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:51,280 Speaker 5: were planking, and I wasn't paying attention. I looked at 84 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 5: I was like, WHOA given a show? 85 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:55,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know it happens. 86 00:03:55,640 --> 00:03:57,760 Speaker 4: Well, what are you gonna do? Or a turtleneck? You know, 87 00:03:57,800 --> 00:03:59,880 Speaker 4: when you're planking, that's hard, hard to prevent. 88 00:04:00,120 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 1: The keepers agree with the Taliban, you got to keep 89 00:04:03,160 --> 00:04:04,000 Speaker 1: these things covered up. 90 00:04:04,280 --> 00:04:08,120 Speaker 5: Yeah, but it was it was just you know, that's 91 00:04:08,120 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 5: an example of how aware you know. I'm at the gym. 92 00:04:10,680 --> 00:04:12,560 Speaker 5: I know nobody's looking at me in that exactly. 93 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:15,120 Speaker 1: But you know, as a guy, that's one of the 94 00:04:15,160 --> 00:04:21,960 Speaker 1: great I'm gonna say, unfair, but uncomfortable, unfair something things 95 00:04:21,960 --> 00:04:26,479 Speaker 1: that go on in society. Women who you know, like 96 00:04:27,200 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 1: dress provocatively or that situation there knowingly, and then you're 97 00:04:33,400 --> 00:04:36,680 Speaker 1: like a pervo if you if you get caught looking 98 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:39,000 Speaker 1: in that direction. I always look away because I don't 99 00:04:39,000 --> 00:04:41,280 Speaker 1: want to get caught looking that way at that direction. 100 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,840 Speaker 1: But they go, oh, Cable'll get over there. But then 101 00:04:44,880 --> 00:04:47,320 Speaker 1: you're well, then why are you doing that? 102 00:04:47,680 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 4: I don't know. 103 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:50,400 Speaker 5: There's the only reason to dress that way is to 104 00:04:50,400 --> 00:04:52,440 Speaker 5: get the looks. That's the whole one. 105 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:54,279 Speaker 1: You only want to looks from some people. Is that 106 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:54,720 Speaker 1: the deal? 107 00:04:56,279 --> 00:05:00,599 Speaker 5: Uh? No, no, because every woman wants to feel hot 108 00:05:00,680 --> 00:05:03,599 Speaker 5: at all times when they're dressed like that, and it's 109 00:05:04,000 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 5: and you know, it's there's a fine line to cross, 110 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:10,080 Speaker 5: but it is flattering when you know that guys are 111 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:10,640 Speaker 5: looking at you. 112 00:05:11,120 --> 00:05:13,240 Speaker 4: That's why I go into a meeting. I'll just say, hey, 113 00:05:13,320 --> 00:05:16,320 Speaker 4: nice tits, just to clear the air because then we 114 00:05:16,360 --> 00:05:17,360 Speaker 4: can do business. 115 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:19,679 Speaker 5: Well, you're so clear that you have it on a shirt, 116 00:05:19,839 --> 00:05:20,880 Speaker 5: it's just as nice rack. 117 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:24,720 Speaker 4: Well that's that was a business that sold racks. 118 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:28,360 Speaker 3: Now see in my case, she was literally talking to 119 00:05:28,520 --> 00:05:30,479 Speaker 3: me like in that position. 120 00:05:30,560 --> 00:05:33,800 Speaker 5: So yeah, but she knew what shirt she put on 121 00:05:33,839 --> 00:05:35,200 Speaker 5: that morning, Michael. Is what I'm saying. 122 00:05:36,240 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 4: She was using her womanly whiles to seduce you, but 123 00:05:39,600 --> 00:05:42,840 Speaker 4: you're too innocent and pure of heart and didn't take 124 00:05:42,880 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 4: the baint. 125 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:47,279 Speaker 1: Big boobs will be fine. That's a good again, it's genetic. 126 00:05:48,720 --> 00:05:52,680 Speaker 5: I love that Michael glitched out over over some cleavage. 127 00:05:52,520 --> 00:05:58,520 Speaker 1: Right dang? Okay, So this is a list of the 128 00:05:58,839 --> 00:06:05,080 Speaker 1: ten smallest things that cause stress. Man, A very very 129 00:06:05,120 --> 00:06:07,640 Speaker 1: long list, and this was your top ten small things 130 00:06:07,680 --> 00:06:10,320 Speaker 1: that cause you stress. I guess I'll work from the 131 00:06:10,320 --> 00:06:13,400 Speaker 1: bottom to the I'll start at the top bottom. 132 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:14,039 Speaker 5: Dress me out. 133 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:18,880 Speaker 1: Phone notifications going off during a meeting fifteen percent. Yeah, 134 00:06:18,960 --> 00:06:22,240 Speaker 1: that rarely happens with me. I'm pretty disciplined about making 135 00:06:22,240 --> 00:06:24,480 Speaker 1: sure my phone's off, but that stresses me out. I 136 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:30,520 Speaker 1: don't want to be interrupts meeting. Guy, Sure all people do. 137 00:06:30,760 --> 00:06:33,200 Speaker 4: Does this happen everybody? I have a number of people 138 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 4: who will say, hey, I'm sorry to text you so 139 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 4: early or so late or whatever I was telling them. 140 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:44,080 Speaker 4: I have do not disturb on or sleep mode? Doesn't everybody? 141 00:06:44,360 --> 00:06:47,479 Speaker 1: I don't I have. I don't even know how to 142 00:06:47,480 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: turn that on. Oh my god, you're killing if I've 143 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: never used it in my life, when would I use it. 144 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:56,000 Speaker 4: All the time every day when you're sleeping? 145 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:59,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. I have certainly sleep through the ding, 146 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,479 Speaker 1: so it doesn't matter to man. Oh wow, and I 147 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:05,160 Speaker 1: sleep alone, which is sad but makes it easier. 148 00:07:06,880 --> 00:07:11,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's wild. Yeah, I'm constantly changing the status to 149 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:14,400 Speaker 4: you know, stay focused, and because I I don't want 150 00:07:14,440 --> 00:07:15,840 Speaker 4: my phone to you know. 151 00:07:15,840 --> 00:07:17,680 Speaker 1: What it is, he's me around by the nose, you 152 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 1: know what it is. I'm not trying to come off 153 00:07:19,080 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 1: as extra pathetic, but I get very few texts per day. 154 00:07:22,760 --> 00:07:22,880 Speaker 5: Oh. 155 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:25,200 Speaker 1: I don't have much of a social network, so I 156 00:07:25,240 --> 00:07:27,840 Speaker 1: really get very very few texts, might get three texts 157 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:31,080 Speaker 1: a day. Mmmm, So makes it less likely that it's 158 00:07:31,080 --> 00:07:33,520 Speaker 1: going to be disturbing. I mean that pretty much explains 159 00:07:33,560 --> 00:07:35,280 Speaker 1: why I don't even know how to turn that on. 160 00:07:36,720 --> 00:07:37,480 Speaker 1: Do not disturb. 161 00:07:38,040 --> 00:07:40,040 Speaker 5: Yeah, I have do not disturb, but I have certain 162 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 5: contacts that can still get through it. 163 00:07:42,880 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 4: Well, yeah, Jack, you might be fascinated to hear this. 164 00:07:45,880 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 4: If you have do not disturb on and somebody on 165 00:07:48,080 --> 00:07:50,240 Speaker 4: your favorites list, which would be you know, all my 166 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:55,400 Speaker 4: kids and Judy. Obviously, if they call you twice, it 167 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:59,120 Speaker 4: busts through. It realizes Okay, this is an emergency, so 168 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 4: you just call your hang out up. You call again, 169 00:08:00,960 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 4: and your phone rings and you can wake somebody up 170 00:08:03,440 --> 00:08:03,760 Speaker 4: or whatever. 171 00:08:03,920 --> 00:08:11,840 Speaker 1: Interesting text message alerts in general cause people anxiety. Usually 172 00:08:11,840 --> 00:08:16,120 Speaker 1: it's like a shot of kind of excitement, excitement anxiety. 173 00:08:16,240 --> 00:08:18,680 Speaker 1: Maybe that's where you gotta start define anxiety. And I 174 00:08:18,680 --> 00:08:20,360 Speaker 1: have trouble with that a little bit myself, since I 175 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 1: got a one kid that deals with anxiety and takes medication. 176 00:08:23,360 --> 00:08:26,200 Speaker 4: Yeah, and there's but that's that's an all purpose term 177 00:08:26,240 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 4: that's used in a bunch of different ways. That's I 178 00:08:28,480 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 4: knew going into this that this would come up. I mean, 179 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:37,200 Speaker 4: there's anxiety, and it's generally used sense nervousness. Then there's 180 00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:40,679 Speaker 4: anxiety disorders and anxiety attacks. 181 00:08:40,840 --> 00:08:43,360 Speaker 1: I usually think think of anxiety as a negative though 182 00:08:43,400 --> 00:08:46,560 Speaker 1: it's an unpleasant feeling, whereas excitement isn't a positive, right, 183 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:50,520 Speaker 1: Anxiety is like dread. I don't have anxiety for whatever reason. 184 00:08:50,520 --> 00:08:52,640 Speaker 1: It might be my lack I should care more and 185 00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: I don't care enough, so that lowered that. That's like 186 00:08:55,240 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 1: my older son who's just so far down the Spacoli 187 00:08:58,679 --> 00:09:00,280 Speaker 1: road on that just like you know, you know what, 188 00:09:00,440 --> 00:09:02,200 Speaker 1: if you don't care, it's really easy. That's what he 189 00:09:02,240 --> 00:09:04,440 Speaker 1: says about practically. 190 00:09:03,920 --> 00:09:06,200 Speaker 4: Everything the Woody Harrelson effect. 191 00:09:06,280 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 1: Yeah, he is not anxious. He's the least anxious person around. 192 00:09:09,760 --> 00:09:09,960 Speaker 2: Wow. 193 00:09:10,000 --> 00:09:12,360 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know, as you're born with it. My 194 00:09:12,440 --> 00:09:17,479 Speaker 4: first two kids came a year apart. One utterly fearless, 195 00:09:17,920 --> 00:09:21,959 Speaker 4: plunge down slides, swinging on bars that were so high 196 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:24,120 Speaker 4: that he gave me a heart attack. The kid number 197 00:09:24,160 --> 00:09:27,680 Speaker 4: two very cautious, always very cautious from day. 198 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: One, and just on the positivity happiness gene. This is 199 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:33,719 Speaker 1: going to sidetrack us. But I was talking to our 200 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 1: most recent sitter who's leaving. Got our first job out 201 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,440 Speaker 1: of college. She's twenty two. She's driving to Colorado starting 202 00:09:39,480 --> 00:09:41,640 Speaker 1: a new job. Very very cool. I'm very excited for her. 203 00:09:43,520 --> 00:09:47,079 Speaker 1: Graduated with a very fancy degree. She grew up in 204 00:09:47,160 --> 00:09:51,480 Speaker 1: foster homes her whole life. Oh wow, many of them horrific. 205 00:09:52,080 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 1: She spent some times went in between foster homes where 206 00:09:55,400 --> 00:09:58,439 Speaker 1: she was just alone in like the big giant holding 207 00:09:58,559 --> 00:10:01,480 Speaker 1: pen for foster kids. She was eleven years old. She 208 00:10:02,360 --> 00:10:04,679 Speaker 1: was in by herself in one of these places with 209 00:10:04,720 --> 00:10:06,960 Speaker 1: all kinds of abusive kids, just on her own until 210 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:09,320 Speaker 1: a family came up on the list. I mean, just 211 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 1: an amazing story. Walks around with a smile on her 212 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:15,199 Speaker 1: face all the time. She's one of those perma smile people, 213 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:19,800 Speaker 1: just has a positive attitude. And I said, that's interesting 214 00:10:19,800 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: because she's telling me more about it yesterday. Is helping 215 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:22,959 Speaker 1: her take stuff to the dumb She said, yeah, I 216 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:24,440 Speaker 1: don't know what are you gonna do about it? But 217 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 1: you know, you're just you know, I'm not plenty of 218 00:10:27,320 --> 00:10:30,400 Speaker 1: other people who had pretty good lives who were grimacing 219 00:10:30,440 --> 00:10:32,600 Speaker 1: all the time. So how much of that is genetic 220 00:10:32,640 --> 00:10:34,160 Speaker 1: and how much of that is choice? They need to 221 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:36,240 Speaker 1: figure that out. I would like to know how much 222 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:38,319 Speaker 1: myself I can control, or so they can tell me 223 00:10:38,600 --> 00:10:40,560 Speaker 1: there's nothing you can do about that. You're like eighty 224 00:10:40,600 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 1: percent grimace. So he's just there's nothing, there's nothing, there's 225 00:10:44,000 --> 00:10:44,600 Speaker 1: no change in that. 226 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:47,800 Speaker 4: Yeah, I've always believed that that sort of inborn thing 227 00:10:47,840 --> 00:10:50,400 Speaker 4: you can maybe and this is just a spitball number, 228 00:10:50,400 --> 00:10:53,280 Speaker 4: but you can maybe change it twenty percent. You can 229 00:10:53,320 --> 00:10:58,240 Speaker 4: remind yourself constantly, you know, gratitude or remember your blessings, 230 00:10:58,280 --> 00:11:00,959 Speaker 4: that sort of thing. I often joke that I came 231 00:11:01,000 --> 00:11:05,679 Speaker 4: out of the womb annoyed. You can alter that sum, 232 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:09,840 Speaker 4: but you're not gonna change your makeup, your emotional makeup. 233 00:11:10,120 --> 00:11:12,520 Speaker 1: She did. I did say, it's goin to bother you 234 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 1: sometimes when like people have had, you know, much easier 235 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 1: lives than you complain. She said, oh yeah, yeah, it 236 00:11:18,920 --> 00:11:21,720 Speaker 1: makes me crazy when somebody's you know, their parents won't 237 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:24,440 Speaker 1: get them the newest iPhone. When she had foster parents 238 00:11:24,440 --> 00:11:27,880 Speaker 1: who wouldn't feed her as punishment for not doing the laundry, 239 00:11:27,920 --> 00:11:31,199 Speaker 1: write or something, Good Lord, she had one foster parent 240 00:11:31,520 --> 00:11:35,240 Speaker 1: group take her in. She actually asked the woman because 241 00:11:35,280 --> 00:11:37,280 Speaker 1: she thought this woman was a nice person. She knew 242 00:11:37,280 --> 00:11:39,880 Speaker 1: her somehow. I forget it was like a teacher or 243 00:11:39,960 --> 00:11:41,559 Speaker 1: neighbor or something, but she knew this woman and ask, 244 00:11:41,679 --> 00:11:43,720 Speaker 1: you know, they're going to send me out to the 245 00:11:43,720 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: foster home. Would you be willing to take me in? 246 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:47,160 Speaker 1: And that a woman said yeah, And she thought it 247 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 1: was so great. Bake basically took her in as a 248 00:11:49,679 --> 00:11:52,600 Speaker 1: slave to work and wouldn't feed her if she didn't 249 00:11:52,679 --> 00:11:54,719 Speaker 1: do all the work that was expected to be done. 250 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:59,719 Speaker 1: Good Lord, and that unbelievable, Wow awful. Yeah, this girl 251 00:11:59,760 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 1: turned out fantastic. 252 00:12:01,520 --> 00:12:03,959 Speaker 4: Yeah, wow, that's that's a wonderful story. 253 00:12:04,040 --> 00:12:05,440 Speaker 1: I know I thought about having her on the air. 254 00:12:05,480 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 1: I mean, every one of her stories was so compelling. 255 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:08,960 Speaker 4: Wow. 256 00:12:09,360 --> 00:12:11,200 Speaker 1: And I talked to her about how we were well 257 00:12:11,200 --> 00:12:13,480 Speaker 1: aware of the statistics, and she started rattling off the 258 00:12:13,920 --> 00:12:16,880 Speaker 1: statistics of foster kids and the likelihood you end up 259 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:21,320 Speaker 1: in prison or pregnant blah blah blah blah blah. Can 260 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:23,200 Speaker 1: I get back to anxiety at thisappoint or Yeah, we 261 00:12:23,200 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 1: want to. 262 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:25,439 Speaker 4: Talk to her about that. You know, that's been a 263 00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:27,480 Speaker 4: cause we've both supported for a long time. I'd love 264 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:29,600 Speaker 4: to get to double down on that, honestly. 265 00:12:29,800 --> 00:12:31,920 Speaker 1: Yeah. 266 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:35,120 Speaker 4: But anyway, she's sunshiny and has kind of an internal 267 00:12:35,160 --> 00:12:37,720 Speaker 4: optimism that's that's amazing and not anxious. 268 00:12:38,280 --> 00:12:40,920 Speaker 1: Okay, so now we've worked our ways up to our 269 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:43,720 Speaker 1: way up to twenty one percent. My alarm clock, alarm, 270 00:12:43,880 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 1: that makes you anxious? Okay, yeah it does, Katie. 271 00:12:47,280 --> 00:12:52,920 Speaker 5: Uh the night before Yeah, honestly, yeah, I'll go I 272 00:12:53,040 --> 00:12:55,320 Speaker 5: probably checked my phone like three times a night. 273 00:12:55,240 --> 00:12:59,199 Speaker 1: Before I go to That's the OCD thing, right, N 274 00:12:59,480 --> 00:12:59,840 Speaker 1: I don't. 275 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:02,240 Speaker 5: I think it's just because I've forgotten to set it 276 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:05,520 Speaker 5: before and then all, you know, all hell breaks loose. 277 00:13:05,559 --> 00:13:12,239 Speaker 1: So uh, someone near me, heavy breathing, Yes. 278 00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:14,600 Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that drives me nuts. 279 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:18,240 Speaker 4: Oh that doesn't surprise me a bit, knowing you as 280 00:13:18,240 --> 00:13:20,600 Speaker 4: I do that you've got a bit of the missophonia. 281 00:13:20,880 --> 00:13:23,600 Speaker 5: Oh big time. Oh my god, my poor husband Drew 282 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 5: on his birthday. I was driving him to dinner and 283 00:13:26,160 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 5: he had he had those nose whistles, you know, when 284 00:13:28,440 --> 00:13:34,400 Speaker 5: somebody's like God, I was doing everything in my power, like, 285 00:13:34,440 --> 00:13:37,719 Speaker 5: you know, just pick pick your battles. He can't control this, 286 00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:40,120 Speaker 5: not out of you deal. And finally I just just went, 287 00:13:40,480 --> 00:13:42,880 Speaker 5: are you whistling a tune with your nozzle? 288 00:13:45,920 --> 00:13:50,400 Speaker 4: Stops whistling through your nose or I will murder you. 289 00:13:50,840 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 1: Hey, what's up? Nose whistle? Yeah? 290 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 4: God, you are so my daughter's sister from another mother? 291 00:13:57,920 --> 00:13:58,440 Speaker 4: That is? 292 00:13:58,520 --> 00:13:59,400 Speaker 1: That is a good one. 293 00:14:00,240 --> 00:14:02,000 Speaker 4: Alternate Papa, any. 294 00:14:01,880 --> 00:14:04,120 Speaker 1: Phone calls when I'm not expecting, when a third of 295 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:07,360 Speaker 1: people get anxious for that, I don't. But maybe it's 296 00:14:07,360 --> 00:14:09,240 Speaker 1: because I grew up before you ever knew who was 297 00:14:09,240 --> 00:14:09,640 Speaker 1: calling you. 298 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:12,079 Speaker 4: Yeah, I got to tell you. I have one friend 299 00:14:12,080 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 4: in particular, who is I will call you if I 300 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:19,360 Speaker 4: have a question guy, And he's an older guy than me. 301 00:14:20,120 --> 00:14:25,320 Speaker 4: And the first few times it was weird, like, why 302 00:14:25,360 --> 00:14:28,320 Speaker 4: didn't you just text me what's going on here? But 303 00:14:28,480 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 4: now I'm back to old school Joe. I'm like, oh, 304 00:14:31,480 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 4: look it is, and I pick up the phone then 305 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:37,640 Speaker 4: talk to him, which is interesting, as you've often pointed 306 00:14:37,640 --> 00:14:42,000 Speaker 4: out Jack kids who've never lived that life at all. 307 00:14:43,160 --> 00:14:47,320 Speaker 4: They can't get back to being comfortable with something they've 308 00:14:47,320 --> 00:14:48,400 Speaker 4: never been comfortable with. 309 00:14:49,640 --> 00:14:52,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know. I mean I think we text 310 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 1: too much, no call enough. But if you just have 311 00:14:54,440 --> 00:14:57,160 Speaker 1: like a one word answer sort of question for me, 312 00:14:57,280 --> 00:14:58,240 Speaker 1: please text. 313 00:14:59,480 --> 00:15:01,400 Speaker 5: Oh, I'm so calling you with one word and. 314 00:15:01,440 --> 00:15:03,320 Speaker 1: What time am I supposed to be there? Seven o'clock 315 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:08,160 Speaker 1: is a text, not a call. Maybe if you weren't 316 00:15:08,160 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 1: so hostile, you get more texts. Perhaps Listening to someone 317 00:15:13,600 --> 00:15:16,720 Speaker 1: chew loudly, it's a different than breathe loudly forty percent 318 00:15:17,480 --> 00:15:20,440 Speaker 1: per chewing will make me uh, I will pluck your 319 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:23,160 Speaker 1: eyes out and feed them to you. I can't handle 320 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:24,240 Speaker 1: people chewing, and. 321 00:15:24,200 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 5: Then I'll get mad at you for loudly chewing on 322 00:15:26,160 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 5: your eyeballs. 323 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 4: I leave you're going to feed me eyeballs. They sound 324 00:15:29,560 --> 00:15:30,040 Speaker 4: chewing to me. 325 00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 1: I realize it's my problem, not yours. I leave the room. 326 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:34,960 Speaker 1: If somebody's chewing loudly, and I've been asked before, where'd 327 00:15:34,960 --> 00:15:36,440 Speaker 1: you go? I I just had to leave because I 328 00:15:36,440 --> 00:15:38,680 Speaker 1: can't listen to your chew. Not your fault, it just 329 00:15:38,720 --> 00:15:43,960 Speaker 1: it makes me insane. When the Wi fi is lagging 330 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:47,400 Speaker 1: or cuts out, that kind of makes me. I don't 331 00:15:47,440 --> 00:15:49,640 Speaker 1: know why that bothers me trying to watch a video 332 00:15:49,680 --> 00:15:53,840 Speaker 1: or something. It just keeps locking up. Yeah. 333 00:15:54,000 --> 00:15:55,920 Speaker 4: If I didn't depend on it for work, I think 334 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:58,280 Speaker 4: I would probably just grab a book or go play 335 00:15:58,320 --> 00:15:58,960 Speaker 4: golf or something. 336 00:15:59,160 --> 00:16:00,560 Speaker 1: Grab a book. Aren't you a saint? 337 00:16:02,280 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 4: Wow? Okay, says your eyeball. Sure. 338 00:16:05,400 --> 00:16:10,400 Speaker 1: Oh h People talking to me when I want silence, well, 339 00:16:10,480 --> 00:16:17,080 Speaker 1: oh yeah, that's always so that doesn't work. My youngest 340 00:16:17,160 --> 00:16:19,240 Speaker 1: is really good at just telling me, Dad, I would 341 00:16:19,280 --> 00:16:20,680 Speaker 1: love it if you left the room and I would 342 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:21,960 Speaker 1: just got to see her by myself. 343 00:16:22,600 --> 00:16:27,040 Speaker 4: Okay, good communication, a little alone time recharge. 344 00:16:27,200 --> 00:16:29,800 Speaker 5: These are more annoyances than an anxieties. 345 00:16:29,920 --> 00:16:33,120 Speaker 1: I agree, That's why I have trouble. Let's define anxiety here. 346 00:16:33,600 --> 00:16:36,120 Speaker 1: A knock on the front door when I'm prepared for guests, 347 00:16:36,160 --> 00:16:38,720 Speaker 1: when I'm not preparing prepared for guests, A knock on 348 00:16:38,760 --> 00:16:39,400 Speaker 1: the front door. 349 00:16:40,640 --> 00:16:45,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, the unannounced arrival at my door. How often is 350 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:48,120 Speaker 4: it ever positive? When it is, it's. 351 00:16:47,960 --> 00:16:51,280 Speaker 1: Always oh okay, yeah, you know your neighbors said, we 352 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:55,360 Speaker 1: have leftover pie or whatever it is. But it's almost 353 00:16:55,480 --> 00:16:58,920 Speaker 1: never left over pie. It's somebody trying to sell me something. 354 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:00,720 Speaker 5: Yeah, or Amazon. 355 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 3: They'll knock on the door sometimes. 356 00:17:02,600 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, that's weird. How random that is? Like one out 357 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:07,200 Speaker 1: of a hundred deliveries they knock on the door, and 358 00:17:07,280 --> 00:17:08,840 Speaker 1: I think, why this one? Why? 359 00:17:08,960 --> 00:17:09,200 Speaker 2: Yeah? 360 00:17:09,359 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: All the other ones you just drop it at my 361 00:17:10,800 --> 00:17:14,480 Speaker 1: front door. And I always say to the people trying 362 00:17:14,480 --> 00:17:16,159 Speaker 1: to sell me stuff, if I want to buy this, 363 00:17:16,320 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 1: I know where to find it. Can you take me 364 00:17:18,600 --> 00:17:21,920 Speaker 1: off whatever list I am on? You ass hat? I 365 00:17:22,000 --> 00:17:25,399 Speaker 1: say at the end as they walk away under my breath. Nice. 366 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:25,800 Speaker 2: Uh. 367 00:17:25,920 --> 00:17:28,680 Speaker 1: And then finally when I see someone that I don't 368 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:31,919 Speaker 1: want to talk to about half of people. 369 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:35,280 Speaker 5: Saw one of my mom's friends the other day, and 370 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 5: I ducked into the wine aisle like a dumb ass 371 00:17:38,240 --> 00:17:42,200 Speaker 5: because that's the first place she'd got. 372 00:17:41,000 --> 00:17:43,920 Speaker 1: A bit of a betty and you know she's coming 373 00:17:43,960 --> 00:17:44,600 Speaker 1: to the wine Now. 374 00:17:44,640 --> 00:17:47,520 Speaker 5: She comes around the corner, kiddy, I'm like, shit. 375 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:52,400 Speaker 1: Oh, sorry, that's funny. I don't have much of that 376 00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:55,080 Speaker 1: when I see some maybe at work at work sometimes 377 00:17:55,520 --> 00:17:56,720 Speaker 1: in my real life, I don't know. 378 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:58,679 Speaker 5: Probably looked like I was trying to steal something with 379 00:17:58,720 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 5: the way that I was like kind of looking around 380 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:02,520 Speaker 5: trying to find her. It was was that was awkward 381 00:18:02,560 --> 00:18:02,720 Speaker 5: of me? 382 00:18:02,840 --> 00:18:05,280 Speaker 1: Oh no, here comes How often does that happen to you? 383 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:10,480 Speaker 4: Joe my now and again? And it's it's people who 384 00:18:10,520 --> 00:18:13,200 Speaker 4: I know who are very very chatty. 385 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:15,440 Speaker 1: Yeah that I. 386 00:18:15,400 --> 00:18:18,600 Speaker 4: Think, Oh oh no, oh no, oh no, we're walking 387 00:18:18,600 --> 00:18:22,480 Speaker 4: our dogs in the same direction. Oh no, But I 388 00:18:22,640 --> 00:18:23,760 Speaker 4: just I'm not chatty. 389 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:26,040 Speaker 5: That's when you put your phone up to your ear, 390 00:18:26,080 --> 00:18:28,640 Speaker 5: pretend you're talking into it, and then you just kind 391 00:18:28,640 --> 00:18:30,040 Speaker 5: of give them the hey, how's it going. 392 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 1: That's pretty good? And that's pretty good, Michael. 393 00:18:33,400 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 3: Women do that to me all the time. 394 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:43,199 Speaker 4: Yeah, I am compulsively honest. I know that sounds like 395 00:18:43,240 --> 00:18:44,600 Speaker 4: self congratulations. 396 00:18:45,119 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 1: It. I have a hard time doing stuff like I 397 00:18:48,720 --> 00:18:50,359 Speaker 1: don't think I never have, and I don't think I 398 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:52,359 Speaker 1: could either for some reason. It's weird. I don't know. 399 00:18:52,400 --> 00:18:53,760 Speaker 1: I just don't think I could pretend to be on 400 00:18:53,760 --> 00:18:56,800 Speaker 1: a phone call. Yeah. I have a couple of times, 401 00:18:57,200 --> 00:19:00,800 Speaker 1: but yeah, I don't like it final story on that, 402 00:19:00,960 --> 00:19:02,760 Speaker 1: the whole thing, chatty people. I was at the car 403 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:04,399 Speaker 1: show the other day with my son. I told him, 404 00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:06,400 Speaker 1: I said, before I got there, I said, don't let 405 00:19:06,400 --> 00:19:09,400 Speaker 1: me forget to ask somebody there how do they clean windshields? 406 00:19:09,440 --> 00:19:11,920 Speaker 1: Because it's been driving me crazy. You get a new car, 407 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 1: the windshield is spotless, and it's never that way again. 408 00:19:15,160 --> 00:19:17,719 Speaker 1: It's never as clean again as it is when you 409 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:20,080 Speaker 1: bought it. And I wonder what do people do to 410 00:19:20,119 --> 00:19:22,159 Speaker 1: clean the inside and outside of the windshield to make 411 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:24,119 Speaker 1: it clean? And I thought, some of these people that 412 00:19:24,200 --> 00:19:27,520 Speaker 1: show cars are going to have the product. But we're 413 00:19:27,520 --> 00:19:28,879 Speaker 1: getting toward the end of the show. It's hot. I 414 00:19:28,880 --> 00:19:30,119 Speaker 1: want to go home. And I said, I got to 415 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:32,440 Speaker 1: pick a guy who looks like he's not going to 416 00:19:32,480 --> 00:19:34,879 Speaker 1: talk to me for half an hour about this. No, 417 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,440 Speaker 1: I ask him, because that's how what I want. He said, 418 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:40,200 Speaker 1: pick a young person. You pick anybody under twenty five. 419 00:19:40,480 --> 00:19:42,159 Speaker 1: They're going to be worried that you're the guy who 420 00:19:42,200 --> 00:19:44,520 Speaker 1: wants to talk about this for fifteen minutes. They're just 421 00:19:44,520 --> 00:19:46,280 Speaker 1: going to tell you the product and put their earpiece 422 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 1: back in. And he was right, ask you good advice. Yeah, 423 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 1: young people, don't want to talk, old guy. He's got 424 00:19:53,119 --> 00:19:56,200 Speaker 1: all day. He got nothing better to talk about. 425 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:56,240 Speaker 5: That. 426 00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:57,400 Speaker 1: How you clean weed shields? 427 00:19:57,520 --> 00:19:59,960 Speaker 2: I want to tell you it's important it keeps his 428 00:20:00,160 --> 00:20:04,520 Speaker 2: wind setled clean because in nineteen fifty GM switched to 429 00:20:04,600 --> 00:20:08,560 Speaker 2: a maalchemated glass. Switch was an inferior glass to the 430 00:20:08,600 --> 00:20:09,600 Speaker 2: previous one. 431 00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:13,200 Speaker 1: And of course we all used wind max in the seventies, 432 00:20:13,200 --> 00:20:15,399 Speaker 1: but they stopped making that thanks to Carter. So I 433 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:19,240 Speaker 1: swid Yeah, okay, just because of that DDT. There's too 434 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:24,000 Speaker 1: many birds, says Hi. So they're clean. Clean one shoe 435 00:20:24,520 --> 00:20:25,119 Speaker 1: and that's that. 436 00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:27,520 Speaker 3: Mose Days used to remember the street race. You bang 437 00:20:27,560 --> 00:20:29,520 Speaker 3: them on the curve, get him rusty, Put them in 438 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 3: a rain barrel, get him rusty. 439 00:20:34,440 --> 00:20:34,880 Speaker 4: Real quick. 440 00:20:34,880 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 3: Here, guys, Katie has something for me, The In and 441 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:39,000 Speaker 3: Out Secret Menu. 442 00:20:39,119 --> 00:20:42,440 Speaker 5: Right, I do have the In and Out Secret Menu. 443 00:20:42,520 --> 00:20:45,119 Speaker 5: Did you want to know some of the particular just 444 00:20:45,119 --> 00:20:49,560 Speaker 5: a few items. Okay, the flying Dutchman, the double cheeseburger, 445 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:50,240 Speaker 5: put her. 446 00:20:50,200 --> 00:20:52,720 Speaker 1: Put her ankles on your shoulders. Hey, hang on, no, 447 00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 1: you see what you just. 448 00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:55,600 Speaker 5: Went straight there? 449 00:20:56,640 --> 00:20:57,040 Speaker 4: Uh? 450 00:20:57,640 --> 00:20:58,399 Speaker 5: What was I saying? 451 00:20:58,480 --> 00:20:58,640 Speaker 1: Oh? 452 00:20:58,720 --> 00:21:03,560 Speaker 5: Yeah, flying Dutchman, double cheeseburger instead of the bun grilled onions. 453 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 5: They keep the onions in the full circle and they 454 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:10,960 Speaker 5: just keep it in the flat. Give us one more 455 00:21:11,400 --> 00:21:15,040 Speaker 5: and uh they've They have the road kill fries, which 456 00:21:15,040 --> 00:21:18,000 Speaker 5: it's like animal fries, but they crumble a ham. 457 00:21:18,160 --> 00:21:20,280 Speaker 1: A crushed o possum that's been sitting in the sun. 458 00:21:22,080 --> 00:21:27,199 Speaker 5: Yes, they crumble a burger on it, and always remember 459 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 5: your fries. Well man, that's the that's the only way 460 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:30,399 Speaker 5: to order the fries. 461 00:21:30,440 --> 00:21:34,359 Speaker 4: There tip, you got to give us one more. That 462 00:21:34,600 --> 00:21:35,960 Speaker 4: sounds like a sex position. 463 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,440 Speaker 5: I'm not seeing. I'm not I'm not seeing. 464 00:21:43,880 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 1: Do they sell a Cleveland steamer. 465 00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:48,800 Speaker 5: The fudge packer. 466 00:21:51,359 --> 00:21:54,440 Speaker 1: Where we are definitely? Well, I guess that's it. 467 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:57,680 Speaker 5: An you stop you guys. 468 00:21:57,800 --> 00:22:00,280 Speaker 4: You know se fudge it in and out, you idiot. 469 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:01,000 Speaker 1: Everybody knows that