1 00:00:01,240 --> 00:00:03,960 Speaker 1: It is time now for today's Strawberry Letter, and if 2 00:00:03,960 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting, and more, 3 00:00:07,520 --> 00:00:11,240 Speaker 1: please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com 4 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:14,920 Speaker 1: and click submit Strawberry Letter and we could be reading 5 00:00:14,920 --> 00:00:17,279 Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're going 6 00:00:17,360 --> 00:00:19,759 Speaker 1: to read this one right here, right now, and you 7 00:00:19,880 --> 00:00:24,480 Speaker 1: never know it could be yours. All right, buckle up, 8 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:26,400 Speaker 1: hold on site. We got it for you here. It 9 00:00:26,520 --> 00:00:32,080 Speaker 1: is Strawberry Letter. Subject whose side is he on? Dear 10 00:00:32,120 --> 00:00:35,280 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. My husband and I bicker a lot, and 11 00:00:35,360 --> 00:00:38,479 Speaker 1: he repeats things to his mama and daddy, and they 12 00:00:38,600 --> 00:00:41,720 Speaker 1: judge me from what he's told them. Over the holidays, 13 00:00:41,760 --> 00:00:44,159 Speaker 1: we went to his parents' house in Ohio, and I 14 00:00:44,280 --> 00:00:48,479 Speaker 1: was miserable the entire time because his mom is a trip. 15 00:00:48,840 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 1: Before we got married, we had a huge argument in 16 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:54,000 Speaker 1: front of his parents, and his mother told me that 17 00:00:54,040 --> 00:00:56,400 Speaker 1: I should know my place with my husband and stop 18 00:00:56,520 --> 00:01:00,360 Speaker 1: challenging him whenever he tells me things. I understand that 19 00:01:00,640 --> 00:01:04,080 Speaker 1: and promised myself that I would do better. Her advice 20 00:01:04,200 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: has continued, and four years later, she still only has 21 00:01:08,840 --> 00:01:12,839 Speaker 1: advice from me when my husband and I get into arguments. Yes, 22 00:01:12,920 --> 00:01:16,400 Speaker 1: we argue over stupid stuff all the time. His dad 23 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:18,760 Speaker 1: knows the stuff is stupid, but he's always on my 24 00:01:18,880 --> 00:01:22,920 Speaker 1: husband's side. I texted an online therapist for help and 25 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:25,520 Speaker 1: was told that if the group thinks I'm wrong, then 26 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:29,520 Speaker 1: I'm wrong, So I need your opinion. I take care 27 00:01:29,560 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 1: of all the laundry and dry cleaning. My husband will 28 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:35,479 Speaker 1: want to wear a particular shirt one day, but it's 29 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:38,559 Speaker 1: still at the dry cleaners. I told him to communicate 30 00:01:38,600 --> 00:01:42,200 Speaker 1: with me, and that can stop happening. He will say 31 00:01:42,280 --> 00:01:44,839 Speaker 1: things like, we don't have any children, so why can't 32 00:01:44,880 --> 00:01:47,800 Speaker 1: I go to the dry cleaner more often? His parents 33 00:01:47,800 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: have agreed with him on little issues like this, when 34 00:01:51,080 --> 00:01:54,880 Speaker 1: the underlying issue is they're mad because they want grandchildren 35 00:01:54,920 --> 00:01:57,720 Speaker 1: and I'm not ready. I'm not having a baby with 36 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:00,600 Speaker 1: a man that talks down to me and pick fights 37 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 1: over petty bs. When his mom talks to me crazy 38 00:02:03,760 --> 00:02:06,240 Speaker 1: and i'd tell her to watch her tone, he sides 39 00:02:06,320 --> 00:02:09,119 Speaker 1: with her. I don't have my family, and I don't 40 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: have my family in our personal affairs, so why can't 41 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:15,160 Speaker 1: he keep them out of our business? Well? I think 42 00:02:15,200 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 1: that's kind of simple. It seems like they've coddled him 43 00:02:19,040 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: all of his life, and he's really never stood up 44 00:02:21,720 --> 00:02:25,920 Speaker 1: to them about anything, especially you know about you, his spouse. 45 00:02:26,200 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: They still treat him like he's their little boy, and 46 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:32,520 Speaker 1: anyone who speaks up or challenges him like you is 47 00:02:32,600 --> 00:02:35,240 Speaker 1: the enemy or she should know her place or whatever. 48 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 1: And he never followed that principle in the Bible that says, 49 00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: you know, to leave all others and cleave to the wife. 50 00:02:42,440 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 1: He doesn't put you or the marriage first. There's also 51 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 1: a saying that goes what happens in the house stays 52 00:02:48,600 --> 00:02:51,800 Speaker 1: in the house or house business. And there's no way 53 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:54,239 Speaker 1: that as a grown man, he should be running back 54 00:02:54,280 --> 00:02:57,880 Speaker 1: to his parents telling them what goes on at home. 55 00:02:58,560 --> 00:03:01,000 Speaker 1: Of course they're going to dislike you and resent you 56 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 1: if he's only telling one side of the story. I mean, 57 00:03:04,360 --> 00:03:07,960 Speaker 1: do you and your husband even like each other? Because 58 00:03:08,320 --> 00:03:10,720 Speaker 1: it doesn't sound like it. I mean, what is all 59 00:03:10,720 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 1: this arguing and fighting about anyway? And why are you 60 00:03:14,480 --> 00:03:18,799 Speaker 1: guys arguing in front of his folks. You really need 61 00:03:18,840 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 1: to stop that because if you do it in front 62 00:03:21,080 --> 00:03:24,280 Speaker 1: of them, they're most likely going to be in the business. 63 00:03:24,560 --> 00:03:27,640 Speaker 1: I would say, don't even respond when his mom talks 64 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:30,480 Speaker 1: to you crazy because telling her to watch her tone 65 00:03:31,040 --> 00:03:34,360 Speaker 1: is disrespectful and that's why he sides with her. You know, 66 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:38,320 Speaker 1: it just sounds crazy. That sounds crazy too. I think 67 00:03:38,360 --> 00:03:40,680 Speaker 1: this can be fixed if you guys stop being so 68 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:44,480 Speaker 1: petty with each other and just grow up. That both 69 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 1: of you should seek marriage marital counseling, and please don't 70 00:03:49,040 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 1: have a baby until after you finish your therapy sessions, please, 71 00:03:53,480 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 1: Steve Well well, well, well, this type of letter that 72 00:03:58,880 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 1: I specializing because it's called reading between the lines? Whose 73 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 1: side is he on? When you say who? Who do 74 00:04:07,600 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 1: you mean? Who is he? She must be referring to 75 00:04:10,960 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 1: her husband. Well throughout the letter it ain't on your side, 76 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:20,320 Speaker 1: So let's just figure this out. This Stephen Sherley, my 77 00:04:20,440 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 1: husband and I bicker a lot that he repeats things 78 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:25,440 Speaker 1: to his mom and dadd and they judge me from 79 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:30,560 Speaker 1: what he's told him Mama's boy. Over the holidays, we 80 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: went to his parents' house in Ohio, and I was 81 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:35,800 Speaker 1: miserable the entire time because his mom is a trip 82 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: mama's boy. Before we got married, we got into a 83 00:04:41,040 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: huge argument in front of his parents and his mother 84 00:04:43,279 --> 00:04:45,640 Speaker 1: told me that I should know my place with my 85 00:04:45,800 --> 00:04:48,640 Speaker 1: husband and stopped challenging him whenever he tells me things. 86 00:04:50,440 --> 00:04:54,800 Speaker 1: Mama's boy. I understood that and promised myself that I 87 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:59,760 Speaker 1: would do better. You can't. You're married to a mama's boy. 88 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:05,159 Speaker 1: Her advice has continued. That's caused he's a mama's boy, 89 00:05:05,839 --> 00:05:08,800 Speaker 1: and four years later, she still only has advice from 90 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:16,200 Speaker 1: me when my husband and I get into argument. Mama's boy, Yes, 91 00:05:16,440 --> 00:05:18,960 Speaker 1: we all go over stupid stuff all the time. His 92 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:21,960 Speaker 1: dad knows the stuff is stupid, but he's always on 93 00:05:22,000 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: my husband's side. He's scared at a mama too. I 94 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:34,760 Speaker 1: text and online now here we go. I text and 95 00:05:35,040 --> 00:05:38,559 Speaker 1: online therapist for help and was told if the group 96 00:05:38,640 --> 00:05:43,039 Speaker 1: thinks I'm wrong, then I'm wrong. Now you know me 97 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:47,840 Speaker 1: and therapist. But therapy is real. So if you're gonna go, 98 00:05:48,440 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 1: I suggest you get offline. Sound to me like you 99 00:05:51,720 --> 00:05:55,040 Speaker 1: need to go, sit somewhere and see somebody lie see 100 00:05:55,080 --> 00:05:58,320 Speaker 1: you online telling them what's wrong and they can't see 101 00:05:58,360 --> 00:06:02,880 Speaker 1: your face. Therapists work better when they can see your 102 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 1: damn face, when they can hear you heavy breathing. You 103 00:06:07,040 --> 00:06:09,160 Speaker 1: know when they when they do a response you don't like, 104 00:06:09,279 --> 00:06:11,920 Speaker 1: and you fold your arms see all this can't come 105 00:06:12,000 --> 00:06:16,440 Speaker 1: cross on the line. You know, like even when we zoom, 106 00:06:16,440 --> 00:06:20,159 Speaker 1: you can't tell the whole story when we zoom. See, 107 00:06:20,200 --> 00:06:22,920 Speaker 1: you don't really know what I'm doing right now, not everything. 108 00:06:22,960 --> 00:06:24,640 Speaker 1: You can't see both my hands. You don't know what 109 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:29,359 Speaker 1: I'm doing. See, that's why on line therapy might not 110 00:06:29,520 --> 00:06:32,000 Speaker 1: be best for you. You need to take your ass 111 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:36,520 Speaker 1: somewhere and see somebody live. Thank you wrong? Then you're wrong. 112 00:06:36,640 --> 00:06:38,280 Speaker 1: Then we want to hear you go talk to the 113 00:06:38,279 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 1: group instead of the therapy. Hold that thought, Steve. Okay, 114 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 1: we'll have part two of your response coming up at 115 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:48,240 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry letter, subject 116 00:06:48,279 --> 00:06:51,760 Speaker 1: whose side is he on? We'll get back into it 117 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:57,320 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening show, all right, Steve, come on, 118 00:06:57,400 --> 00:07:00,840 Speaker 1: let's recap today's strawberry letter, the subject who side is 119 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 1: he on? Well, you know, we didn't talked about this 120 00:07:04,120 --> 00:07:06,760 Speaker 1: being a mama's boy, and I think that's what's true 121 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 1: because a lot of stuff in here. When they argue, 122 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:12,720 Speaker 1: she takes his side mama's boy. Every time they have 123 00:07:12,760 --> 00:07:14,640 Speaker 1: a dispute, he run home and tell his mom and 124 00:07:14,720 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 1: daddy mama's boy. You know, you ought to know your 125 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 1: place with your husband and stop challenging whenever he tell you. 126 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:23,080 Speaker 1: Think that's what his mama said to you. That's called 127 00:07:23,080 --> 00:07:27,000 Speaker 1: her mama's boy. His father know y'all all over stupid stuff, 128 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:29,600 Speaker 1: but he takes his son's side too. That's called the 129 00:07:29,720 --> 00:07:33,600 Speaker 1: daddy's scared of the mama too. Okay, now we didn't 130 00:07:33,640 --> 00:07:36,560 Speaker 1: got this cleared up. The mama's running things over there, 131 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:40,960 Speaker 1: So now you didn't got so tired of this that 132 00:07:41,120 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 1: you didn't decided to go to an online therapist for him, 133 00:07:45,560 --> 00:07:48,400 Speaker 1: and was told that if the group thinks I'm wrong, 134 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 1: I'm wrong. My suggestion is you need to quit going 135 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 1: online to this therapist and you need to take your 136 00:07:54,600 --> 00:07:57,960 Speaker 1: ass down to her office. You need somebody to see 137 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:01,600 Speaker 1: your face in your therapists. You need somebody. He's somebody 138 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 1: to hear you heavy breathing, didn't you see? A therapist 139 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:12,200 Speaker 1: can help you better if they see all the nuances 140 00:08:12,200 --> 00:08:23,600 Speaker 1: of your frustration. Lip smacking, heavy breathing, underbreath muthering. They 141 00:08:23,640 --> 00:08:28,320 Speaker 1: needs to hit this a therapist to help you. They 142 00:08:28,440 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 1: need to hear this. You ain't getting it online. So 143 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:33,839 Speaker 1: I suggest going down that lab. Now here we go 144 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:38,680 Speaker 1: so I need your opinion. I take care of all 145 00:08:38,720 --> 00:08:41,440 Speaker 1: our laundry and dry cleaning. My husband will want to 146 00:08:41,480 --> 00:08:44,240 Speaker 1: wear a particular shirt one day, but it's still at 147 00:08:44,240 --> 00:08:46,920 Speaker 1: the dry cleaners. I told him to communicate with me, 148 00:08:47,120 --> 00:08:49,880 Speaker 1: and that can stop happening. He will say things like, 149 00:08:49,960 --> 00:08:52,360 Speaker 1: we don't have any children, so why can't I go 150 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 1: through the dry cleaners more often. Let's take this line 151 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: right here, this poe As statement right here. You do 152 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 1: all the dry cleaning. Your husband wants to wear a 153 00:09:02,800 --> 00:09:05,360 Speaker 1: particular shirt one day, but it's at the dry cleaner. 154 00:09:05,840 --> 00:09:08,880 Speaker 1: You told him to communicate with you. Monam, his ass 155 00:09:08,960 --> 00:09:13,599 Speaker 1: need two shirts, that's all this his? See what is 156 00:09:13,640 --> 00:09:15,840 Speaker 1: you in my ass about this wreck? Funky little shirt 157 00:09:15,880 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 1: you're talking about when you just need another shirt? And 158 00:09:18,280 --> 00:09:20,280 Speaker 1: then he gonna tell you we ain't got no kids. 159 00:09:20,520 --> 00:09:21,880 Speaker 1: You ought to be able to go to the dry 160 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: cleaning more. Well, if we ain't got no kids, you 161 00:09:23,800 --> 00:09:28,520 Speaker 1: all to be buying another damn shirt. See, you gotta 162 00:09:28,559 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 1: get this stuff off you. You keep letting them dump 163 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:35,400 Speaker 1: stuff on you with his inadequate behind. Now his short 164 00:09:35,480 --> 00:09:38,200 Speaker 1: comes as a man. He got to run to his 165 00:09:38,240 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: mom with everything he can't a forward two shirts. What 166 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:42,880 Speaker 1: y'all off in to have a baby for? You know 167 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:44,559 Speaker 1: what much stuff you got to buy for a baby? 168 00:09:44,559 --> 00:09:48,600 Speaker 1: He can't even before another damn shirt, y'all agging about 169 00:09:48,600 --> 00:09:50,880 Speaker 1: stupid stuff. He wanted to particularly shirt and it's at 170 00:09:50,880 --> 00:09:54,280 Speaker 1: the dry cleaning. You Jeff Walter damned shirt Monday. The 171 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:57,200 Speaker 1: damn it is Thursday. Everybody gonna see you with that 172 00:09:57,280 --> 00:10:01,800 Speaker 1: damned shirt though, because you don't you like it? Because 173 00:10:01,800 --> 00:10:03,640 Speaker 1: he got the little bumble bee on the college. He 174 00:10:03,679 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 1: got one damn Guccie shirt. Now he won't everybody to 175 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:10,199 Speaker 1: see he got it on. Told you not to buy 176 00:10:10,240 --> 00:10:12,400 Speaker 1: that shirt with the bumble bee on neck anyway, because 177 00:10:12,400 --> 00:10:15,440 Speaker 1: everybody gonna know it's the same damn shirt with you, Poe. 178 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:20,200 Speaker 1: You can't get extravagant stuff. You gotta stay simple. Take 179 00:10:20,240 --> 00:10:22,360 Speaker 1: your heads down to Mace's and get you white shirt 180 00:10:22,559 --> 00:10:24,160 Speaker 1: and you can wear it many times you want you. 181 00:10:24,400 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 1: Oh no, you're gonna go down there and get the 182 00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 1: Guccia white shirt with the be on the college. Now, 183 00:10:28,400 --> 00:10:32,160 Speaker 1: I guess what everybody? Now, you got nicknames cheerios? You 184 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:34,040 Speaker 1: know they calling your stuff at work. You don't even 185 00:10:34,040 --> 00:10:38,560 Speaker 1: know nothing about cheerios. Why they call it? You know, 186 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:41,720 Speaker 1: you know, Cheerio got the little bee on it. You know, 187 00:10:41,760 --> 00:10:45,000 Speaker 1: Black people have slick stuff when they do. His parents 188 00:10:45,000 --> 00:10:48,880 Speaker 1: have agreed with him on little issues like this, when 189 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:52,120 Speaker 1: the underlying issue is they're mad because they want a 190 00:10:52,360 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 1: grandchildren and I'm not ready and I'm not having a 191 00:10:55,600 --> 00:10:57,600 Speaker 1: baby with a man that talks down to me and 192 00:10:57,640 --> 00:11:03,679 Speaker 1: picks fights over petty bs. You, young lady, are absolutely correct. 193 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:09,480 Speaker 1: It's your body, it's your life, and it's your husband. 194 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:12,920 Speaker 1: When his mom talks to me crazy, I tell her 195 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:16,280 Speaker 1: to watch your tone. He sides with herne because you 196 00:11:16,320 --> 00:11:19,920 Speaker 1: don't got tired him. So now, Shirley, you're gonna be 197 00:11:20,000 --> 00:11:22,160 Speaker 1: the mother and I'm gonna be the daughter, and I'm 198 00:11:22,160 --> 00:11:23,679 Speaker 1: gonna tell you how the ways you can have this 199 00:11:23,800 --> 00:11:28,000 Speaker 1: because you because this brigs ain't gonna make it no way. Now. Baby, 200 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:30,560 Speaker 1: you know you're supposed to listen to your husband and 201 00:11:30,559 --> 00:11:35,360 Speaker 1: go get that shirt out the cleaners. Baby, Yes, baby, 202 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:39,600 Speaker 1: the baby. Don't call me a baby. He the baby. Well, 203 00:11:39,640 --> 00:11:43,520 Speaker 1: it's a term of endearment, honey, don't take offense to it. 204 00:11:44,240 --> 00:11:47,400 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, honey, honey, if he had some money, 205 00:11:47,600 --> 00:11:51,960 Speaker 1: we could have two shirts. Well, sweetie, it sounds like 206 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 1: you have an attitude. What's the problem. I got an 207 00:11:55,440 --> 00:11:59,800 Speaker 1: attitude because I didn't married your damn boy. That's why 208 00:11:59,840 --> 00:12:04,120 Speaker 1: I got well to he He is my baby. He 209 00:12:04,360 --> 00:12:06,920 Speaker 1: is my baby, but he's a grown man. He married you. 210 00:12:07,559 --> 00:12:09,440 Speaker 1: He couldn't be a baby and a grown man at 211 00:12:09,440 --> 00:12:14,920 Speaker 1: the same time. Lady, you can call me mamma. You 212 00:12:15,040 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: call you sweetie. Now, I'm nothing to call your mama. 213 00:12:17,880 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 1: You're already too many mamas around here. Now, what is 214 00:12:21,520 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 1: this attitude? I got a mama. Well, that's what the 215 00:12:27,200 --> 00:12:30,000 Speaker 1: attitude is. I got a mama and I left her 216 00:12:30,080 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 1: to marry my husband, who is stuck up under his mama. 217 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:35,920 Speaker 1: You need to cut the apron strings and what you 218 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:38,600 Speaker 1: need to do, well, you know what. I think the 219 00:12:38,640 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 1: apron strings are cut. You have your house, we have 220 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:43,880 Speaker 1: our house, and we could along just fine. What's what's 221 00:12:43,920 --> 00:12:48,000 Speaker 1: the problem? Baby? Nobody like you. You're mad a lot. 222 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:51,560 Speaker 1: We ain't getting along. We're about to get home. It's 223 00:12:51,600 --> 00:12:53,440 Speaker 1: what we're fitting to do. And I'm not fitting to 224 00:12:53,480 --> 00:12:56,679 Speaker 1: have a grandchild with that ragged ass boy. You than may. 225 00:12:58,000 --> 00:13:00,800 Speaker 1: My baby is just fine. You just got to know 226 00:13:00,840 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 1: how to love them. Listen, we're out of time. Steve, 227 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:08,679 Speaker 1: Please leave your comments on Today's letter on Instagram and 228 00:13:11,600 --> 00:13:16,000 Speaker 1: I'm surely now and check out the Struwberry You're standing character. 229 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:19,560 Speaker 1: Check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand coming up 230 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:22,480 Speaker 1: next day, his Junior and Sports Talk. Right after this, 231 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 1: you're listening to The Stave Harvey Morning Show