Speaker 1: Rooking Jubels second date update. The guy on the phone
Speaker 1: for a second date update today is a bit of
Speaker 1: a ladies man. He spent his first date with two women. Yeah, work,
Speaker 1: that's impressive. One of them is named Jamie and she's
Speaker 1: not calling him back now. The other is a hot
Speaker 1: little side piece he likes to call mama. Yeah, he
Speaker 1: went out on a date with his mom and another girl.
Speaker 1: Talking about I'll let him explain it, Ben, how you doing?
Speaker 1: It's not hi, it's it wasn't as weird as it
Speaker 1: if your mom was on a first date, it's as
Speaker 1: weird as it sounds. No, No No, you haven't heard the
Speaker 1: whole story yet. Don't judge until you've heard the whole thing.
Speaker 1: All right, Well, we'll get to the mom thing in
Speaker 1: just a second, because I'm also curious how your mom
Speaker 1: ended up on your first date. But first, let's talk
Speaker 1: about the girl that you want to call. Her name
Speaker 1: is Jamie. Yeah, Jamie? And how did you meet Jamie
Speaker 1: a dating app? Okay? And what stood out about her? Jamie?
Speaker 1: Oh man, Jamie. She has this like curly blonde hair
Speaker 1: and like beautiful like tan like like like skin like
Speaker 1: chocolate like beautiful, milky tan. I don't know. I don't
Speaker 1: know why, Ben, but your description of her is creeping
Speaker 1: me out. Why. I mean, I know tan scan blonde hair,
Speaker 1: but the way you say it, it just sounds like
Speaker 1: you want to make like luggage out of her. Nice
Speaker 1: she she's she's a pretty girl. I was enthralled by
Speaker 1: her beauty, but no, I'm not. I don't want to
Speaker 1: make luggage. Okay, I don't know why. Just the way
Speaker 1: you described it seemed like that. So you obviously thought
Speaker 1: she was attractive and very much. How long did you
Speaker 1: guys talk on this app or whatever before you guys
Speaker 1: went out a couple of changes a day for like
Speaker 1: a few days, maybe three or four days. But I
Speaker 1: was playing of cool, not texting back too fast, you know.
Speaker 1: So what did you end up doing on your date?
Speaker 1: So we met for drinks? She got a beer, which
Speaker 1: I think is cool, No cool for a lady to
Speaker 1: get a beer. Again, your description of things really creeping
Speaker 1: me out. I don't know why. He hasn't even brought
Speaker 1: his mom into and you're already bagging on him. Man,
Speaker 1: Just picture you look you get her skin like I
Speaker 1: could condition that like a nice leather. And then we
Speaker 1: had a drink to drinks beer. I'm not trying to
Speaker 1: creep anybody out. I'm just I'm nervous. I'm telling the story.
Speaker 1: I know. I think you're doing just fine. Then don't
Speaker 1: listen to him. You don't sound like a serial killer.
Speaker 1: Thank you, I'm welcome. So how did you go from
Speaker 1: beers to hanging out with your mom? Okay, so we
Speaker 1: were gonna get some beers and then we were gonna
Speaker 1: go see this play. All right, We're gonna go see
Speaker 1: Death of a Salesman and Death I got it more death.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, what is wrong with you? Baby? Let
Speaker 1: him tell the story. It's into the name of the play.
Speaker 1: I can't change the name of the play. I didn't
Speaker 1: make the playoff. Okay, so you took here to see
Speaker 1: Death of a Salesman and then what, well, we're hanging
Speaker 1: out in the lobby. You know. We got our tickets,
Speaker 1: but I had a third ticket to the play. I
Speaker 1: have a friend in the show. It gave me three tickets.
Speaker 1: So I thought it'd be fun to surprise my date
Speaker 1: with my mom. WHOA is that like a real thought?
Speaker 1: You add it would be fun to surprise your date,
Speaker 1: your first date with your mom? Well, I know my
Speaker 1: mom always wanted to see the play. And then I
Speaker 1: also thought, what a great person to have around as
Speaker 1: a buffer, you know, so that it's not all the
Speaker 1: pressures on me. What what universe are you living in?
Speaker 1: That this is fun and a date would enjoy talking
Speaker 1: to your mom. I could nervous on dates, and it's
Speaker 1: a really good thing for me to have another person
Speaker 1: there to steal some of the thunder. And who better
Speaker 1: than my mom, you know, who knows me great friends.
Speaker 1: Maybe you're like another friend who could sell you a
Speaker 1: little bit. I called a lot of my friends, I
Speaker 1: couldn't make it. My mom was the only one available.
Speaker 1: I guess if anybody's going to be an advocate for you,
Speaker 1: it's probably your mom, right. She she knows me, you know.
Speaker 1: And on top of that, she's a huge theater buff
Speaker 1: and she just she she's talked for hours but Arthur
Speaker 1: Miller And that was great because I didn't have to
Speaker 1: do anything. So yeah, it sounds like the girl who's
Speaker 1: not calling you back must have had a wonderful time
Speaker 1: talking about death of a salesman with your mom. Well,
Speaker 1: she seemed like she was having a fun time, you know,
Speaker 1: she was laughing and enjoying the conversation that she seemed
Speaker 1: into it. So that moment wasn't awkward. Was there any
Speaker 1: other awkward moments between you, your mom, and your date? Well,
Speaker 1: you know there was one thing. It wasn't awkward for me.
Speaker 1: Maybe was awkward for my date, but you know, we
Speaker 1: we ubered to the show and I don't have a car,
Speaker 1: and so my mom gave us a ride home. But uh,
Speaker 1: that might have been awkward. So your mom dropped you
Speaker 1: off from your first date. She didn't drop me off.
Speaker 1: She waited for me while I walked to Amy to
Speaker 1: the door. So wait, did you did you go in
Speaker 1: for a first kiss at the door while your mom
Speaker 1: was sitting in the car. No, I'm not that kind
Speaker 1: of guy. Yeah, silly. So how did you win things
Speaker 1: with her? Then? Did you give her a handshake, a hug?
Speaker 1: I gave her a hug, but it was like it
Speaker 1: was like an emotional hug, Like I think she knew
Speaker 1: that there's something more between us. Okay, so you let
Speaker 1: her fill your emotions through your hug? Exactly? Okay, So
Speaker 1: how long has it been since your date that she
Speaker 1: hasn't called you? It's like two and a half weeks.
Speaker 1: Two half weeks. All right, that's a good amount of time.
Speaker 1: How many times have you tried to call her? Maybe
Speaker 1: four or five? Top five? Okay, top five. I don't
Speaker 1: think it was the best idea to go on a
Speaker 1: first date with your mother, But we'll find out. We'll
Speaker 1: play a song, come back, call your date, and find
Speaker 1: out why she's not getting back to you. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: all right, we'll get your second date update right after this.
Speaker 1: Looking jubil in the morning. It's always good to be
Speaker 1: a little spontaneous when you're on a date. Yeah, and Ben,
Speaker 1: who's on the phone to do a second date update today,
Speaker 1: was very spontaneous on his date, did something a little
Speaker 1: wild and unpredictable. He brought his mom along, and that's
Speaker 1: why we think he's not getting a call back from Jamie,
Speaker 1: who is the girl that he went out with. He
Speaker 1: took her to a play and he had an extra ticket,
Speaker 1: so he gave that ticket to his mom. He says
Speaker 1: that his mom and his date actually bonded quite a bit,
Speaker 1: and he thinks that it didn't ruin anything at all.
Speaker 1: So we're about to find out what went wrong. Okay.
Speaker 1: As a woman, I just want to tell you when
Speaker 1: you go out on a date, you don't want to
Speaker 1: date someone and their mom. You just want to date them.
Speaker 1: You want to make sure that the umbilical cord has
Speaker 1: been cut. I mean, I get it, but you weren't there.
Speaker 1: They loved each other, they were laughing and had a
Speaker 1: great time. Well, Ben, when's the last time you heard
Speaker 1: from your mom? I talked to her two hours ago.
Speaker 1: She loved Jamie. Oh yeah, well I wondered if maybe
Speaker 1: they ran off together. It sounds like they had a
Speaker 1: better time than you had. Well. Hey, hey, if they're
Speaker 1: hanging out, then now that's awesome. I just hope I can.
Speaker 1: I can hang out to the party. All right. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna dial Jamie's phone number right now, see if we
Speaker 1: can get her on the phone and find out if
Speaker 1: that's the reason she's not calling you back. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: let's do this all right. Here we go. Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: I was looking for Jamie. This is Jamie. Hi Jamie.
Speaker 1: This is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning.
Speaker 1: What this is Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Okay,
Speaker 1: do you know what that is? Um? You guys there
Speaker 1: the radio show? Yes, that's it. Oh my god. Awesome.
Speaker 1: Most of the time when I call people, they have
Speaker 1: no idea who I am. No, No, I mean I've
Speaker 1: heard of you. Awesome. That's good. Well, the reason I'm
Speaker 1: calling today is you recently went out on a date
Speaker 1: with one of our listeners. Oh his name is Ben.
Speaker 1: Oh okay. Ben told us a little bit about your date.
Speaker 1: He said that he liked you a lot, but he
Speaker 1: can't figure out why It's been two and a half
Speaker 1: weeks and you haven't returned any of his phone calls.
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Okay, I don't know what to say. Well,
Speaker 1: you could start off by maybe telling us if you
Speaker 1: liked him. Yeah, I mean he was really, really nice.
Speaker 1: He was a nice guy, so you did like him.
Speaker 1: Let me ask you a more important question. What do
Speaker 1: you think of his mom? Oh my god, Oh my god.
Speaker 1: How do you know that? Well, because Ben talked to
Speaker 1: us about your date. He told us how you guys
Speaker 1: went out for drinks and then went to go see
Speaker 1: a play and his mom showed up before the play
Speaker 1: and then joined you guys on the date, and not
Speaker 1: only that, but drops you off apparently at the end
Speaker 1: of the evening too. That is romance. Oh wow, what
Speaker 1: did you think when his mom walked into the lobby
Speaker 1: of the theater it was really weird. I can't you're
Speaker 1: on the same page as we are there because we
Speaker 1: tried to explain to him that's a strange move to
Speaker 1: do on a first date, and he was like, no,
Speaker 1: I swear my mom and her hit it off. She
Speaker 1: thought it was great. She had a wonderful time. Actually
Speaker 1: that part was totally true. She really it was weird
Speaker 1: at first. It was it was weird at first. It
Speaker 1: was totally weird at first, but she was actually really
Speaker 1: really cool. I'm really into theater, and she knows so
Speaker 1: much about theater and theater history, and she was like
Speaker 1: telling Mellie's stories. And so you actually enjoyed your time
Speaker 1: with his mother. I really did. All right, Well, if
Speaker 1: you if you enjoyed his mom so much, why aren't
Speaker 1: you calling him back for another date? I mean, that
Speaker 1: could be your mother in life. You play your cards, right.
Speaker 1: I don't think that I should say. I I mean,
Speaker 1: we have to know. If it wasn't the mom, what
Speaker 1: could it be. Oh God, I just I don't want
Speaker 1: to heard his feelings. I think he's actually pretty resilient.
Speaker 1: We poked fun at him pretty hard when we talk
Speaker 1: to him, and he seemed to take it pretty well.
Speaker 1: I really, I don't know. It sounds pretty bad to me. Well,
Speaker 1: here's the thing, right, whenever somebody signs up to do
Speaker 1: one of these second date updates, we let them know
Speaker 1: that they might hear something they don't want to, right,
Speaker 1: So Ben is willing to hear whatever news it is
Speaker 1: that you have to say. We'll clean it up a
Speaker 1: little bit when we talk to him, you know, sugarcoat
Speaker 1: it if we need to. But if you can just
Speaker 1: tell us what it is, at least he will know. Yeah, okay, okay.
Speaker 1: During the play, I was sitting in between them. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, that's so awkward. I didn't realize that piece.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, No, no, honestly, it was good. It was.
Speaker 1: She was really great to talk to and I like
Speaker 1: talking to him too, so it really wasn't okay. But
Speaker 1: about halfway through the play she was whispering to me
Speaker 1: about the play and stuff, and then she's said there
Speaker 1: was an actor in the play, the one that I
Speaker 1: guess got Ben the tickets, and he was, you know,
Speaker 1: really cute. And Ben's mom was talking about him and
Speaker 1: commenting on it and she said she thought we would like,
Speaker 1: really hit it off, and that she wanted to set
Speaker 1: me up with Ben's friend. What a second, His mom
Speaker 1: is trying to set you up with somebody other than him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: why would she do that? I mean, I was a
Speaker 1: little surprised that she said that. I even said that
Speaker 1: I am on a date with your son. But she said,
Speaker 1: I know, but I've met this guy. He's really, really hot,
Speaker 1: and he's got a great personality. And she said after
Speaker 1: the show she would take me backstage and introduce me
Speaker 1: to him. I think his mom trying to live vicariously
Speaker 1: through you, hoping that you'll look up with this dude. No,
Speaker 1: I didn't go backstage. I didn't meet him after the show.
Speaker 1: But at the end of the night she gave me
Speaker 1: his phone number. Oh my god, you called up because
Speaker 1: that cell was too good. I did not call him.
Speaker 1: I really I didn't call him. I don't believe you
Speaker 1: one bit. I really didn't call. What I would call
Speaker 1: this guy sounds amazing. Look, I just I don't know
Speaker 1: if the mom is willing to throw her son under
Speaker 1: the box, there must be something magical about this man.
Speaker 1: I later on, I did text him, and I haven't
Speaker 1: gone out with him yet, but I am supposed to.
Speaker 1: So you have a date with his buddy who was
Speaker 1: in the play that you guys saw, and his mom
Speaker 1: is the one who set it up. Yeah. I don't
Speaker 1: know what to say. I know, I don't I don't know.
Speaker 1: I can't believe I'm hearing this. Jamie that's been this
Speaker 1: might be confused, but Ben is actually on the phone
Speaker 1: listening and wants to talk to you. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, Jamie, that didn't really happen, dude, Ben,
Speaker 1: I didn't know you were on the phone. I am
Speaker 1: on the phone and I heard everything you just said.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Well, Ben, you can't really be too
Speaker 1: mad at Jamie, right, you gotta be more mad at
Speaker 1: your mom. I think in this instance, I don't know.
Speaker 1: The whole thing is poor Ben. Everyone. Well, she didn't
Speaker 1: have to listen to my mom. Yeah, I mean, I
Speaker 1: guess you should. She could have said no, I am
Speaker 1: so so sorry that you had to hear it like this.
Speaker 1: I wouldn't have wanted that, but honestly, it was your
Speaker 1: mom was like, she really wanted me to meet this guy.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Man, He kept like talking about his
Speaker 1: body and like how cool he is, and I just
Speaker 1: I she was like all she was talking about. I
Speaker 1: don't my mom was talking about a bunch of actressuits
Speaker 1: to meet in the play. I'm not gonna like hit
Speaker 1: him off and call him everybody. Well, you brought your
Speaker 1: mom on the date, Ben, I mean you kind of
Speaker 1: filled your own fate with that. She loved the theater.
Speaker 1: I told her, just talked about the theater. That's it.
Speaker 1: That's I mean, she really was. She was talking about
Speaker 1: that actor. I don't. I'm sorry. Oh, and he's a
Speaker 1: good friend of mine. Man, you can't win at all
Speaker 1: in this. I really don't know what to say. I'm
Speaker 1: really sorry, Ben. I mean, I am going out with him,
Speaker 1: but I don't. I mean, if it doesn't work out,
Speaker 1: who knows. Oh, well, there you go, Ben, Hey Ben, Well,
Speaker 1: I guess Jamie, would you like to go out in
Speaker 1: a second date with Ben? We will pay for it.
Speaker 1: Come on, Jamie, he was your first pick. You can
Speaker 1: you can put this other guy off until after you
Speaker 1: do one more date. Give Ben the chance. Honestly, at
Speaker 1: this point, I think I'm gonna go with the hot actor. Sorry,
Speaker 1: what hold on? I'm really sorry, Ben, I just I
Speaker 1: want to see this goes. Your mom was very confident
Speaker 1: that it was the right moon. I cannot believe it's happened.
Speaker 1: I'm so pissed at my mom. It seems like you
Speaker 1: need to have conversations with a few people. Been in
Speaker 1: the morning text in at seven, eight, five, nine two
Speaker 1: said the only winner in that second date update was
Speaker 1: the mom in the morning. Talking about today's second date update,
Speaker 1: this guy Ben wanted to call a girl named Jamie
Speaker 1: to try to figure out why she wasn't calling him
Speaker 1: back after they went on a date to the theater.
Speaker 1: And they actually went on the date to the theater
Speaker 1: and his mom came along because he's good friends with
Speaker 1: his mom. She likes the theater. He had an extra ticket.
Speaker 1: Kind of weird to take a first date out with
Speaker 1: your mother. But the real reason she wasn't calling back
Speaker 1: was because the mom was trying to hook her up
Speaker 1: with the dude that was in the play, who both
Speaker 1: her and her son knew. She's like, yeah, yeah, my
Speaker 1: son's cool, but what about the guy on the plays hot? Right?
Speaker 1: You should totally go out with him instead of my son.
Speaker 1: And she listened like trying to look up with that
Speaker 1: dude instead of the instead of being I can't imagine
Speaker 1: what it feels like to be blocked by your mom.
Speaker 1: I know, I know, she's supposed to be the ultimate wingwoman, right.
Speaker 1: It sounds like stories about what a lovely person he is.
Speaker 1: He wants to keep him single as long as possible,
Speaker 1: so he has no other women in his life other
Speaker 1: than MoMA. That's probably what it is. You know, if
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