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Speaker 3: I sobbed to my boyfriend after I felt unseen. He

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Speaker 4: That's really depressing.

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Speaker 3: I twenty five female, have been dating my boyfriend twenty

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Speaker 3: five mail for about five months. Overall, the relationship felt good.

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Speaker 3: We spent a lot of time together when on trips

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Speaker 3: and things seem pretty serious. And I've already met his

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Speaker 3: parents and extended family multiple times. He hasn't met mine yet,

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Speaker 3: but they live states away, so that's understandable. By the way,

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Speaker 3: here to give some good advice poopfully, but we do

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Speaker 3: not have all of the answers. We'd only let you

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Speaker 3: know what we would do in this situation, but let

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Speaker 3: us know what your big brains would do down in

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Speaker 3: them comments as op. He says. However, I had started

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Speaker 3: to have this sneaky feeling coming up every once in

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Speaker 3: a while where I realized he might not actually know

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Speaker 3: that much about me, Like something would come up in

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Speaker 3: my life, or I'd be talking with friends about a

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Speaker 3: story from my past and I'd think, wow, he's never

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Speaker 3: even asked me about that, things like my childhood, what

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Speaker 3: my family dynamic is, like details about my work, or

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Speaker 3: even the summer I spent living in another state for

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Speaker 3: an internship, or none of those things had really come

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Speaker 3: up because he'd asked about them. At the time. I

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Speaker 3: kind of brushed it off. I figured maybe we just

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Speaker 3: more context for how I found this out. Should I

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Speaker 3: have talked to him about this in a different situation, Probably,

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Speaker 3: but whatever, it's too late now. We were out at

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Speaker 3: few drinks in oh no recipes, full disest. At one

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Speaker 3: it asked for the drop off address, he couldn't remember

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Speaker 3: something just came over me. Yes, Booze was definitely involved.

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Speaker 3: But I suddenly got curious and asked him if he

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Speaker 3: knew my family's cat's name, literally grasping for straws he's

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Speaker 3: Realizing he didn't know any of those basic things about

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Speaker 3: He did apologize for forgetting those things, but he didn't

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Speaker 3: He mostly just kept saying how he was wasted and

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Speaker 3: There are some relevant comments passed away by the broom.

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Speaker 3: Are these things you have specifically told him about yourself?

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Speaker 3: Because I think the context matters a lot. Oh, he responds,

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Speaker 4: It just proves he's not listening.

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Speaker 3: It's who you are. Yeah, you need a good listener.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, let me talk about how I need a better partner.

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Speaker 1: Just be the better partner and this would be avoided.

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Speaker 3: Yep, yep, yeah, Just I don't know, put some effort

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Speaker 3: like when he wrote in my Valentine's Day card that

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Speaker 1: It's not inherently bad unless it's all he wrote, which

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Speaker 1: He should be grateful for how amazing I am as

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Speaker 3: And not the things I do for you. Reading your

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Speaker 3: some of the self doubt I had. It is definitely

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Speaker 3: appreciate kind, slash andsightful comments rather than comments telling me

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Speaker 3: I was just a warm hole for him. Eh. Eh,

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Speaker 3: who's saying that? Freaks Eh? Thanks guys, And that's the

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend's cousin called me a bully at my own party, then.

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Speaker 3: Got caught in every line way to ruin up party bully.

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Speaker 4: This happened yesterday.

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Speaker 1: My boyfriend and I were throwing a little hang for

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Speaker 5: Here to give good advice. Goofily, but we.

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Speaker 4: No way, this story is real.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Suzama is not. No, I just none of this

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Speaker 3: Nobody can tacked. Nobody is getting their information stolen. Like no. Edit.

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Speaker 1: This little girl is a compulsive liar. I just can't

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Speaker 3: And she's like what that's no no wait, and now

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Speaker 4: Like she wants to ope.

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Speaker 4: Maybe she'll like try to go around it or something.

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Speaker 1: I honestly think she just got embarrassed for getting caught

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Speaker 1: I heard another side of her story from my friend,

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Speaker 3: My fiance's friend tried to wear white to our wedding.

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Speaker 3: He refused to tolerate it, good as he shouldn't. Essentially,

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Speaker 3: comes from dumpster Fire underscore x and if you want

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Speaker 3: to submit your own stories, go to the r slash

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Speaker 3: okay storytime subreddit. I'm Savannah, I'm Carly, and we're here

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Speaker 3: to give some good advice. Goofly, but we don't have

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Speaker 3: None of us are particularly conservative, but the cut feels

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Speaker 3: It's not even just the dress color, but the fact

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Speaker 3: I can sort of see how it could be deemed yellow,

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Speaker 3: And OPI added some context in the comments, Yeah, I

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Speaker 3: winky kissy face. It's like, calm down, sweetie, No, do

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Speaker 3: not send that to me. If I'm getting married. Don't

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Speaker 3: And that's an uninvite some context, since a few people

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Speaker 3: it's just not the case for her. She's either wearing

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Speaker 3: That was attitude in any context. If you tell a

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Speaker 4: Being like, well, I'll invite me if you want.

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Speaker 3: And for that, Sharks, you're out of my wedding. There

435
00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:35,240
Speaker 3: are some comments. Majestic Shoe fifty one to seventy five

436
00:20:35,320 --> 00:20:38,359
Speaker 3: said she clearly doesn't like you. I would not feel

437
00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:41,159
Speaker 3: bad at all telling her not to come. She's acting

438
00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:43,919
Speaker 3: like her not coming would be the biggest blow to

439
00:20:43,960 --> 00:20:46,720
Speaker 3: your wedding, and it's kind of hilarious. Gotta love a

440
00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:49,719
Speaker 3: bee who thinks they are main character in everyone's lives,

441
00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:53,159
Speaker 3: not the a hole. I'd reply, Okay, great, babes, you

442
00:20:53,200 --> 00:20:57,120
Speaker 3: can officially not worry about coming. Opie replies, Oh yeah, no,

443
00:20:57,400 --> 00:20:59,880
Speaker 3: I knew she didn't like me. She got crap face

444
00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,600
Speaker 3: the first time I met her and called me effing

445
00:21:02,800 --> 00:21:05,840
Speaker 3: stupid during a girl's night game we were playing.

446
00:21:06,280 --> 00:21:09,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, So, like a person who I know actively dislikes

447
00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:11,679
Speaker 1: me is not getting an invite to my wedding.

448
00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:14,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, no, no, that's just I Number.

449
00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:17,200
Speaker 4: One, you don't like me, we're not friends. You're not coming.

450
00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:20,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I owe you nothing, Yeah, and you owe me

451
00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:24,040
Speaker 3: everything and an apology. Like, I don't know. I don't

452
00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:25,520
Speaker 3: know why she would even want to come to the wedding.

453
00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:27,480
Speaker 3: I don't want to go to weddings that I don't

454
00:21:27,560 --> 00:21:29,320
Speaker 3: like the people. I don't want to see anyone else

455
00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,199
Speaker 3: like I just like, I don't know, I wouldn't want to.

456
00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:35,679
Speaker 3: Everyone was just looking at her like ever since I

457
00:21:35,760 --> 00:21:40,040
Speaker 3: avoid her like the plague. She's very pick me. She's

458
00:21:40,160 --> 00:21:42,440
Speaker 3: usually nice to your face and speaks poorly when you're

459
00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:44,879
Speaker 3: not around. That said, a lot of the group seems

460
00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:47,280
Speaker 3: to still like hanging out with her on occasion, and

461
00:21:47,800 --> 00:21:50,080
Speaker 3: we will have so many people at our wedding that

462
00:21:50,119 --> 00:21:52,159
Speaker 3: I figured I wouldn't see her for longer than a

463
00:21:52,240 --> 00:21:55,159
Speaker 3: few minutes, which is how she got her invite. Still

464
00:21:55,200 --> 00:21:59,119
Speaker 3: caught between still having her and having our photographer photoshop

465
00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,879
Speaker 3: the dress or just tell her not to come through.

466
00:22:02,160 --> 00:22:05,119
Speaker 1: No, that's such a big charge to have a photographer

467
00:22:05,240 --> 00:22:08,200
Speaker 1: do that, though, unless you personally know the photographer, there's

468
00:22:08,200 --> 00:22:11,200
Speaker 1: no way that's not gonna be like a hundred plus.

469
00:22:11,280 --> 00:22:14,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's gonna put you, put you over the edge.

470
00:22:14,119 --> 00:22:17,200
Speaker 3: Maybe I know the mature and right thing to do

471
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,560
Speaker 3: is just uninvite her, But the joke could be legendary

472
00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:22,119
Speaker 3: and maybe teach her a lesson.

473
00:22:22,200 --> 00:22:22,480
Speaker 7: Ha ha.

474
00:22:23,160 --> 00:22:24,440
Speaker 4: I really don't think it would.

475
00:22:24,560 --> 00:22:26,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't think that would teach her a lesson

476
00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:27,119
Speaker 3: at all.

477
00:22:27,480 --> 00:22:29,720
Speaker 1: I think if you heard of Maide of Dishonors, I

478
00:22:29,760 --> 00:22:34,919
Speaker 1: always bring this up. It's literally a bridesmaid that you

479
00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:37,560
Speaker 1: put in charge of, like dealing with all the bs

480
00:22:37,560 --> 00:22:39,560
Speaker 1: so that you don't have to so like if someone

481
00:22:39,560 --> 00:22:41,600
Speaker 1: shows up in white made of dishonor kicks them.

482
00:22:41,480 --> 00:22:43,879
Speaker 3: Out made of dishonor is so fun?

483
00:22:43,960 --> 00:22:46,240
Speaker 1: I want one someone wants to complain made of dishonor

484
00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:48,040
Speaker 1: takes care of it. You don't hear about a thing

485
00:22:48,080 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 1: because the madive dishonnors on the bs while the maid

486
00:22:50,880 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 1: of honors helping things like run smoothly.

487
00:22:52,920 --> 00:22:55,960
Speaker 3: Kind of, That's actually a great idea because I can

488
00:22:55,960 --> 00:22:58,520
Speaker 3: only imagine like trying to like figure out everything, and.

489
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:00,560
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna know if someone's.

490
00:23:00,280 --> 00:23:03,160
Speaker 3: Wearing a whiter I'll have no idea.

491
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:04,000
Speaker 4: I don't even know if I am.

492
00:23:04,040 --> 00:23:07,800
Speaker 3: I'm just kidding, where am I? What am I doing?

493
00:23:08,240 --> 00:23:11,920
Speaker 3: There is an update. I got tons of feedback from

494
00:23:11,920 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 3: people giving me ideas of how to spite her, to

495
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:17,920
Speaker 3: people calling me a raging control freak for wanting people

496
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:20,360
Speaker 3: to follow a dress code for a wedding. My fiance

497
00:23:20,520 --> 00:23:24,520
Speaker 3: and I am spending a lot of money on for

498
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,200
Speaker 3: it to be a good experience for us and all

499
00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:30,240
Speaker 3: of our adorned guests. I know I don't have to,

500
00:23:30,320 --> 00:23:32,719
Speaker 3: but I do want to defend myself to a point.

501
00:23:33,320 --> 00:23:35,359
Speaker 3: Skip ahead if you don't care. Of course, while I

502
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:39,399
Speaker 3: can see the side of people having autonomy over their dress,

503
00:23:39,520 --> 00:23:40,840
Speaker 3: I stand by my thought.

504
00:23:41,040 --> 00:23:43,560
Speaker 1: No, any commenter that said that you're being stupid, I

505
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:45,560
Speaker 1: address that is basically white to.

506
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:49,200
Speaker 4: A wedding is like the only rule of a wedding.

507
00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:52,600
Speaker 3: It's like, I don't even think I think people still

508
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:55,000
Speaker 3: Like I was gonna say, it's kind of like an

509
00:23:55,119 --> 00:23:57,120
Speaker 3: unsaid rule, but I feel like it's it's.

510
00:23:56,960 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 4: A pretty talked about rule.

511
00:23:58,359 --> 00:23:59,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's pretty talking about.

512
00:24:00,119 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 1: No, just that you have one event where you can't

513
00:24:02,520 --> 00:24:06,000
Speaker 1: wear one color too. You can be a big girl,

514
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:07,600
Speaker 1: put on your big girl dress that's.

515
00:24:07,440 --> 00:24:10,119
Speaker 3: Not white, and go to the wedding. Yeah, it's not

516
00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 3: your day.

517
00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:13,439
Speaker 1: You can have your day eventually, maybe you already had

518
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 1: your day, but this one's not your day. You go,

519
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,359
Speaker 1: you'd be a good little wedding guest. You dance a

520
00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:21,280
Speaker 1: little bit with whoever you're there with, thank them, and

521
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:22,040
Speaker 1: go home.

522
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:25,440
Speaker 3: Like literally like they're doing all of this little Yeah,

523
00:24:25,480 --> 00:24:28,400
Speaker 3: they're like trying to, like, you know, get everyone to celebrate.

524
00:24:28,440 --> 00:24:30,080
Speaker 3: And it's like, why do you have to be that

525
00:24:30,119 --> 00:24:33,359
Speaker 3: one person that causes issues over what a freaking dress?

526
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:36,240
Speaker 3: While I see the side of people having autonomy over

527
00:24:36,240 --> 00:24:38,639
Speaker 3: their dress. I stand by my thought that it is

528
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,400
Speaker 3: reasonable to have a standard of dress for your guests

529
00:24:41,720 --> 00:24:44,359
Speaker 3: should a guest be unable to afford something suitable for

530
00:24:44,400 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 3: the dress code. A majority of our guests know that

531
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:48,960
Speaker 3: they can contact me and we can work something out

532
00:24:49,000 --> 00:24:51,840
Speaker 3: slash and or help them get something they're comfortable and

533
00:24:51,920 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 3: that fits the vibe.

534
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:54,119
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's a dress code.

535
00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:56,919
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not losing autonomy over what you're wearing. It's

536
00:24:56,920 --> 00:24:58,560
Speaker 1: a dress code exactly one color.

537
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,840
Speaker 3: And I feel like dress code are very standard, Yeah,

538
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 3: very standard for a wedding and also are very just

539
00:25:06,280 --> 00:25:08,040
Speaker 3: like no one's I don't know, there's some people that

540
00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:11,720
Speaker 3: are super particular, but then there's you know, there just

541
00:25:11,920 --> 00:25:15,200
Speaker 3: is a dress code like for stuff like this, because

542
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 3: this is like one time that everyone can get together

543
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:21,160
Speaker 3: to celebrate this big thing. It's like it's not gonna

544
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 3: be like multiple days of this, like you know, it's

545
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:25,639
Speaker 3: literally one day. You have to suck it up for

546
00:25:25,680 --> 00:25:29,560
Speaker 3: one day. Additionally, we were advised by our venue to

547
00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:32,920
Speaker 3: enforce us to enforce a dress code, which they said

548
00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:36,719
Speaker 3: protects their reputation. There you go, so like it's not

549
00:25:36,760 --> 00:25:39,200
Speaker 3: even just them wanting the dress code. The venue says

550
00:25:39,200 --> 00:25:41,720
Speaker 3: there has to be a dress code, so like, no

551
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:44,760
Speaker 3: one can show up, you know, in overalls and a

552
00:25:44,760 --> 00:25:48,200
Speaker 3: T shirt. Yeah, take that how you will. I've never

553
00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,760
Speaker 3: been referred to as a control freak, But if not

554
00:25:50,800 --> 00:25:52,879
Speaker 3: wanting a guess to wear a whitish dress to my

555
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:54,800
Speaker 3: wedding makes me one so be.

556
00:25:54,880 --> 00:25:57,440
Speaker 4: It, well, then I guess we're all control freak exactly.

557
00:25:57,480 --> 00:26:00,840
Speaker 3: Yeah. My upset comes more from a place of lack

558
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 3: of respect for myself and our event and the concern

559
00:26:03,880 --> 00:26:05,080
Speaker 3: of being upstaged.

560
00:26:05,760 --> 00:26:08,160
Speaker 4: Yeah. She doesn't like you.

561
00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 1: She's made it very clear, and now she's doing anything

562
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:13,120
Speaker 1: she can to make you uncomfortable and feel disrespected.

563
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:18,679
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, Intentionally wearing something revealing and white to a

564
00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:21,639
Speaker 3: wedding is a show of disrespect. In my opinion, I

565
00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:25,520
Speaker 3: have absolutely zero concerns about being upstaged, regardless of what

566
00:26:25,600 --> 00:26:28,879
Speaker 3: anyone wears. There was someone that said I needed a

567
00:26:28,880 --> 00:26:31,640
Speaker 3: better designer if that was a concern, But I love

568
00:26:31,760 --> 00:26:34,439
Speaker 3: my dress and that's all that matters. I showed my

569
00:26:34,480 --> 00:26:36,960
Speaker 3: fiance the original post and he said, it's like if

570
00:26:37,000 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 3: someone wears muddy sneakers into your brand new Ferrari You're

571
00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 3: not worried about them getting more attention because they're wearing

572
00:26:43,320 --> 00:26:46,600
Speaker 3: muddy sneakers. You're worried because they don't respect your ferrari

573
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:50,680
Speaker 3: and are taken away from what makes it nice.

574
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 4: Sure I couldn't.

575
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:57,679
Speaker 3: Okay, I see it, but weird analogy in regard to

576
00:26:57,720 --> 00:26:59,919
Speaker 3: me seeing her post in the first place. I followed

577
00:26:59,920 --> 00:27:02,240
Speaker 3: the entire friend group on Instagram and followed her the

578
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:05,439
Speaker 3: day I met her and never unfollowed. Honestly, even though

579
00:27:05,480 --> 00:27:08,199
Speaker 3: I don't like her, I do enjoy her shopping content.

580
00:27:08,560 --> 00:27:11,119
Speaker 3: Obviously this ended that, but I did enjoy watching some

581
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 3: of her content. I definitely do not want to go

582
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:16,360
Speaker 3: out of my way to stalk her, as some have claimed.

583
00:27:16,680 --> 00:27:19,440
Speaker 3: It showed up on my feed and I watched casually.

584
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:21,879
Speaker 3: I just got lucky to have the post that she

585
00:27:22,040 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 3: mentioned our wedding in on my feed, I guess. But

586
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 3: we were told by someone else in the friend group

587
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,160
Speaker 3: that is friends with her that they planned to tell

588
00:27:30,240 --> 00:27:32,679
Speaker 3: us what she was going to wear. Since it again

589
00:27:32,960 --> 00:27:36,600
Speaker 3: showed up very white on camera. We would have found

590
00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:39,359
Speaker 3: out about this eventually because she was pretty obvious about it.

591
00:27:39,840 --> 00:27:42,480
Speaker 3: A complete stranger even commented on the post and said

592
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:49,000
Speaker 3: you're wearing a white gown to a wedding. That's a choice, right. Lastly,

593
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:51,480
Speaker 3: a lot of people attack me for not immediately learning

594
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 3: my fiance about the situation. For context, my fiance works

595
00:27:54,880 --> 00:27:56,880
Speaker 3: night shifts and this began while he was at work.

596
00:27:57,400 --> 00:27:59,640
Speaker 3: He came home from work at six am and went

597
00:27:59,640 --> 00:28:03,359
Speaker 3: straight asleep. I didn't want to interrupt him working. What

598
00:28:03,440 --> 00:28:05,720
Speaker 3: he does is important in him. Being distracted can be

599
00:28:05,800 --> 00:28:08,199
Speaker 3: dangerous for others, and I didn't want that, and I

600
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:10,520
Speaker 3: definitely didn't want to prevent him from getting his sleep

601
00:28:10,560 --> 00:28:12,680
Speaker 3: once he was home. I thought that this wasn't a

602
00:28:12,680 --> 00:28:15,639
Speaker 3: big enough deal to affect his job or health, and

603
00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:19,000
Speaker 3: that it could wait until tonight and honestly stand by

604
00:28:19,000 --> 00:28:23,119
Speaker 3: the now for the real update. Okay, so none of

605
00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,520
Speaker 3: that was the actual update. Okay, now, the real one

606
00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:30,080
Speaker 3: those who Friday night. I showed him the messages and

607
00:28:30,119 --> 00:28:34,280
Speaker 3: explained what happened. He said absolutely not and agreed that

608
00:28:34,359 --> 00:28:36,800
Speaker 3: it was one not following the dress code expressed on

609
00:28:36,840 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 3: our invitation and too way too white for comfort. He

610
00:28:40,080 --> 00:28:42,360
Speaker 3: was beyond pissed at the way that she talked to

611
00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:45,120
Speaker 3: me and said he'd handle it. I wanted to be involved,

612
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 3: but as many of you pointed out it could very

613
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 3: easily be spun that I'm some crazy bridezilla. Should I

614
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:52,360
Speaker 3: be the one to pull the plug on her coming?

615
00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 3: He called her on speaker, and she immediately asked if

616
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:57,600
Speaker 3: it was about me making a big deal about address.

617
00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 3: He said, no, it's about me making a big deal

618
00:29:00,760 --> 00:29:02,960
Speaker 3: about the dress. You're not wearing that to our wedding.

619
00:29:03,560 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 3: You could tell she was already escalated and went off

620
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:09,240
Speaker 3: about how she won't allow anyone to say what she

621
00:29:09,360 --> 00:29:10,960
Speaker 3: can and can't put on her body.

622
00:29:11,120 --> 00:29:13,200
Speaker 1: Well, I can ban you for my wedding, and that's

623
00:29:13,240 --> 00:29:15,640
Speaker 1: what you are, honestly. Yeah, at that point, I'm like,

624
00:29:15,680 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 1: I'm not even having a discussion about this dress anymore.

625
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:19,640
Speaker 4: This is me calling you about not.

626
00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:22,960
Speaker 1: Being invited to the wedding. Yeah, because you're disrespecting my fiance.

627
00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:25,760
Speaker 3: It's just literally like how many times, Like it's so

628
00:29:26,000 --> 00:29:29,320
Speaker 3: easy to just like not wear that dress and just

629
00:29:29,600 --> 00:29:32,560
Speaker 3: either wear like something else you have or get another one.

630
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:33,480
Speaker 4: Yeah, seems like she.

631
00:29:33,400 --> 00:29:35,040
Speaker 3: Goes shopping all the time, so it seems like she

632
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 3: has you know, the financial like you know, the financial rights.

633
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,000
Speaker 3: I guess to go and get a new one.

634
00:29:42,680 --> 00:29:46,239
Speaker 1: So she probably has another one. Yeah, she's doing it

635
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:47,840
Speaker 1: on purpose, It's just he.

636
00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 3: Stayed quiet while she ranted for at least a couple

637
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:52,239
Speaker 3: of minutes. Took all I had in me to not

638
00:29:52,400 --> 00:29:57,880
Speaker 3: chime in, calm down, funny, and waiting for her to

639
00:29:57,880 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 3: go silent. As soon as she did, he's something to

640
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:04,080
Speaker 3: the effect of you are no longer invited and hung up.

641
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:07,000
Speaker 3: It only took about ten minutes before we had someone

642
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 3: reaching out to us asking for the full story. She

643
00:30:09,720 --> 00:30:11,880
Speaker 3: told one of my fiance's friends that I freaked out

644
00:30:11,920 --> 00:30:14,960
Speaker 3: about her dressing like a witch. Mind you, I said

645
00:30:15,120 --> 00:30:17,920
Speaker 3: nothing about the style to her, and I haven't said

646
00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 3: anything about her looking like a witch anywhere, including here

647
00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 3: on Reddit. The post blew up, and she may have

648
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:27,640
Speaker 3: seen it at some point, but I know I never

649
00:30:27,680 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 3: said anything like that. A lot of commenters did, though.

650
00:30:30,800 --> 00:30:33,840
Speaker 3: We explained our stance and that her behavior surrounding everything

651
00:30:33,880 --> 00:30:36,239
Speaker 3: was unacceptable and we did not want problems on our

652
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Speaker 3: big day, and everyone seemed to just let it go.

653
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:41,800
Speaker 3: People that know her are still reaching out and probably

654
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:44,680
Speaker 3: will continue as she makes her rounds freaking out to people.

655
00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 3: I wanted to see if she was going to blast

656
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Speaker 3: us on social media, but we both have been blocked,

657
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Speaker 3: which is fine. Honestly, she's just a mean.

658
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Speaker 1: Girl who's just being entitled for no reason. You guys

659
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Speaker 1: did what was right. I really, I don't know how.

660
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:02,960
Speaker 1: I don't have time for bs like that.

661
00:31:03,120 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 3: Probably doesn't have time for this, she said.

662
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Speaker 1: All she means, Yeah, I'm not dismissing the story, but no,

663
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Speaker 1: I'm just like I would not have the time of

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Speaker 1: day for her yet my brain.

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Speaker 3: I I mean, I'm glad they are out of her

666
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Speaker 3: because it just seems like she was going to cause

667
00:31:15,880 --> 00:31:18,400
Speaker 3: problems anyway. Yeah, like whether she Yeah, she.

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Speaker 4: Would have continued to try stuff at the wedding, I'm sure.

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00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, like make comments or say something you know

670
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Speaker 3: to someone else, or.

671
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Speaker 1: Be so much happier post someone up to make sure

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Speaker 1: she doesn't try to come in.

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Speaker 3: Yes, get made of dishonor all in all, I stand

674
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Speaker 3: by the fact that having a dress code at a

675
00:31:36,280 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 3: wedding is fine. She is no longer coming. No word

676
00:31:39,880 --> 00:31:42,240
Speaker 3: on if her boyfriend is coming, but I suspect not.

677
00:31:43,320 --> 00:31:45,400
Speaker 3: I plan to just move on in alert security that

678
00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 3: she is not to be let in. Thankfully, we will

679
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Speaker 3: have security and a day of coordination to hide behind

680
00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 3: so she tried to pull anything crazy since she does

681
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Speaker 3: know the venue ann date. If you come across on

682
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Speaker 3: Instagram reel or TikTok of a girl upset that she

683
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:02,760
Speaker 3: was uninvited to a wedding because of her dressed choice,

684
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:05,120
Speaker 3: just note that it could be my wedding and the

685
00:32:05,200 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 3: dress was only part of it. Lol. And that's the end. Well,

686
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:11,960
Speaker 3: good for you, open you got her out of there,

687
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,240
Speaker 3: and I'm glad your husband was on your side. We

688
00:32:14,280 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 3: get a lot of stories where it's like, no, we like,

689
00:32:16,880 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 3: I want that person, So I'm glad you guys were

690
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,280
Speaker 3: on the same page. She seemed like she was gonna

691
00:32:21,320 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 3: beat drama anyway. So get her out of here and

692
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 3: now you can enjoy your big day when you can

693
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Speaker 3: own with you only wearing white.

694
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Speaker 5: And that's the end of this story. We're gonna go

695
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Speaker 5: to the next one.

696
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Speaker 3: My brother wanted to propose at my wedding. I told

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Speaker 3: him he'd be removed.

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Speaker 2: Oh, your brother is a big dufish.

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Speaker 3: I twenty five male, am getting married in December. My fiance,

700
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 3: twenty four female, and I both are very excited and

701
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 3: busy planning, and this incident is making things much more stressful.

702
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Speaker 3: By the way. This comes from Bradzilla thirteen and if

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Speaker 3: you want to submit your own stories, go to the

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Speaker 3: r slash okay story time subreddit. I'm Savannah, I'm.

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Speaker 6: Dakota, I'm Kean, and we are here to give some

706
00:33:05,200 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 6: advice to you.

707
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Speaker 3: It may be good, but it may be better than good.

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Speaker 8: We don't know.

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Speaker 9: It could be the best thing you've ever heard. That's true,

710
00:33:13,040 --> 00:33:15,040
Speaker 9: and we're gonna tell it to you right here, right now.

711
00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:18,240
Speaker 9: And what you're gonna do is you're gonna listen, repeat

712
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Speaker 9: after me, and do exactly what I do. And then

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Speaker 9: you're gonna write it down in the comments every single

714
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:24,280
Speaker 9: word I say.

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Speaker 2: Document transcribe us.

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Speaker 3: Please, as Ophie says a couple weeks ago, I was

717
00:33:31,080 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 3: talking about the wedding with my brother thirty mail, and

718
00:33:33,800 --> 00:33:36,160
Speaker 3: he asked if it'd be okay for him to propose

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Speaker 3: to his girlfriend at our wedding.

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Speaker 6: Immediate No, yeah, hey, oh no, worst idea I've ever heard.

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00:33:41,960 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, hey, would it be cool if I lit the

722
00:33:43,720 --> 00:33:47,720
Speaker 2: house on fire? No? No, that should be obvious.

723
00:33:47,960 --> 00:33:50,840
Speaker 3: I laughed and said, yeah, sure, if you want to

724
00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:54,400
Speaker 3: get your butt handed to you by my fiance. He laughed,

725
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:56,720
Speaker 3: and I figured he got the message. The other day,

726
00:33:56,760 --> 00:33:59,000
Speaker 3: my fiance came to me in tears, saying that my

727
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:02,440
Speaker 3: brother had called her and thanked her for letting him

728
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:06,640
Speaker 3: propose at the wedding. Oh, she told him that had

729
00:34:06,760 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 3: never happened and he wasn't allowed to do that, and

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00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:13,040
Speaker 3: he just laughed and thanked her again. Yes, so you're

731
00:34:13,080 --> 00:34:17,280
Speaker 3: telling him no, and he's like, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, funny.

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Speaker 6: Remember that thing we talked about how everything you say,

733
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:24,560
Speaker 6: I'd do the opposite and that's the truth. Yeah, I

734
00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 6: got it.

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Speaker 2: I got it.

736
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Speaker 3: I called my brother back and asked him what was

737
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:32,120
Speaker 3: going on. He's insisting that he's going to propose to

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Speaker 3: his girlfriend at the wedding. He claims it's getting even

739
00:34:35,760 --> 00:34:38,800
Speaker 3: for when I announced her engagement at the same family dinner,

740
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:41,799
Speaker 3: he brought his girlfriend to meet the family. I had

741
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,400
Speaker 3: no idea. They arrived separately and she got there after

742
00:34:44,560 --> 00:34:47,920
Speaker 3: I made the announcement, So that makes no sense.

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Speaker 6: False equivalency, Yeah, not even close. You stepped on my

744
00:34:52,360 --> 00:34:55,240
Speaker 6: tennis shoe, so I hit you with car.

745
00:34:57,080 --> 00:34:58,920
Speaker 3: I told him if he doesn't get it through his

746
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:02,200
Speaker 3: head that he is absolute not allowed to propose. Both

747
00:35:02,280 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 3: him and his girlfriend won't be allowed into the wedding

748
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:06,800
Speaker 3: at all, and if he tries to pull a stunt,

749
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 3: he'll beked out immediately. He didn't take it well and

750
00:35:10,800 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 3: told the whole family. My fiance and I have been

751
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:16,720
Speaker 3: getting calls and messages from them telling us how crappy

752
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:18,920
Speaker 3: we are for doing that. How dare I turn my

753
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:19,760
Speaker 3: back on my brother?

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Speaker 6: What are you talking about? He wants to propose it's

755
00:35:22,920 --> 00:35:25,480
Speaker 6: someone else's wedding. Yeah, I feel like that's just like

756
00:35:25,520 --> 00:35:28,400
Speaker 6: a given. You just don't do that, Like, do it

757
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 6: the next day, do it the day before, any other day,

758
00:35:31,120 --> 00:35:34,400
Speaker 6: but that day. He's also now blaming me for spoiling

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00:35:34,480 --> 00:35:37,359
Speaker 6: the proposal to his girlfriend and the family, because if

760
00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:40,319
Speaker 6: I hadn't been such a but, he wouldn't have had

761
00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 6: to break the news to the family like this. I

762
00:35:42,840 --> 00:35:44,120
Speaker 6: still stand by what I did.

763
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Speaker 3: I don't think I was out of line at all.

764
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Speaker 3: But my fiance thinks we should have just led him

765
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Speaker 3: propose to avoid conflict.

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00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:52,919
Speaker 2: Oh my god, don't marry that man.

767
00:35:53,160 --> 00:35:59,080
Speaker 6: Yeah, noodle man, noodle spine, wet toast, spine, having little man.

768
00:35:59,560 --> 00:36:02,880
Speaker 3: Yeah here, it's just like huh, like I don't understand

769
00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:03,280
Speaker 3: the reasoning.

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00:36:03,440 --> 00:36:05,400
Speaker 6: Yeah, no, for sure, let your let your let your

771
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:07,480
Speaker 6: brother propose at our wedding.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I just I'm scared.

773
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:12,440
Speaker 3: I know it means a lot to her that everyone

774
00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:15,640
Speaker 3: gets along and that there's no hard feelings, especially since

775
00:36:15,640 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 3: she's feeling stresses as is. But I don't want to

776
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:21,319
Speaker 3: give in to my brother. Am I the a hole

777
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:25,480
Speaker 3: to address something? While I understand the intent behind the suggestions,

778
00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:27,720
Speaker 3: my fiance and I will not be telling my brother

779
00:36:27,760 --> 00:36:30,799
Speaker 3: that will announce a pregnancy at his wedding in retaliation.

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00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 8: Oh oh, we're just doing the eye for an eye thing.

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00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:36,040
Speaker 3: Guys, this is not gonna get well.

782
00:36:36,120 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 6: If there's anything we've learned about eye for an eye

783
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:41,040
Speaker 6: since I don't know Mesopotamia.

784
00:36:41,239 --> 00:36:43,400
Speaker 2: Instead, it's a lawless, perfect system.

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00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:47,040
Speaker 8: Don't worry, he'll announce his divorce at your birthday. Then

786
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:49,280
Speaker 8: boom uh there is an update.

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Speaker 3: Firstly, thank you all so much for the crazy response

788
00:36:53,320 --> 00:36:56,880
Speaker 3: on my original post. Totally unexpected but very much appreciated

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00:36:56,920 --> 00:36:59,399
Speaker 3: by my fiance and I. As I mentioned a couple

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00:36:59,480 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 3: times in the car comments of my original post, my

791
00:37:01,520 --> 00:37:03,880
Speaker 3: fiance and I wrote up a Facebook post to explain

792
00:37:03,920 --> 00:37:07,840
Speaker 3: the situation to our families, mostly mine. It is the most.

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00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:11,440
Speaker 6: Cursed thing I've ever heard. We wrote up a Facebook post.

794
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:16,600
Speaker 6: Shut up, make a phone call you sickos.

795
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,879
Speaker 3: Or just like put it on Reddit and be done. Yeah,

796
00:37:20,040 --> 00:37:25,000
Speaker 3: or do that, don't put it on Facebook? Ew yeah,

797
00:37:25,040 --> 00:37:28,400
Speaker 3: including screenshots of texts with my brother. I decided I

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00:37:28,440 --> 00:37:30,360
Speaker 3: didn't want to link the post here as it feels

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00:37:30,360 --> 00:37:32,480
Speaker 3: a little too personal to be slapping on Reddit.

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Speaker 2: Sorry, I'm gonna find you, dude.

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00:37:35,160 --> 00:37:38,640
Speaker 8: What do you mean You're like, I'm gonna tell you everything,

802
00:37:39,320 --> 00:37:40,160
Speaker 8: but not everything.

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00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 3: I'm gonna give you everything except this one crucial detail.

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00:37:44,800 --> 00:37:47,200
Speaker 8: That's for the family members on Facebook.

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00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:50,040
Speaker 3: As expected, once the family heard our side of the

806
00:37:50,080 --> 00:37:52,920
Speaker 3: story and put everything together, many of them changed their tune.

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00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:55,759
Speaker 3: Most of the family members who had been calling me

808
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:58,120
Speaker 3: in a hole ended up apologizing and siding with me

809
00:37:58,160 --> 00:38:02,520
Speaker 3: and my fiance. My brother was livid. He called me

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00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:06,279
Speaker 3: about an hour after the post went up and demanded

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Speaker 3: that I take it down because it made him look bad.

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00:38:09,960 --> 00:38:14,960
Speaker 6: Oh no, bad guy does bad? Thing looks bad? Is upset?

813
00:38:15,520 --> 00:38:16,600
Speaker 6: Stop the presses.

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00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:20,200
Speaker 3: He said he was being unfairly attacked and even blamed

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Speaker 3: me for his girlfriend breaking up with him.

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00:38:22,400 --> 00:38:25,799
Speaker 8: Oh oh oh, announce that at the wedding Yuh.

817
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:28,960
Speaker 6: Maybe your girlfriend broke up with you because she realized

818
00:38:29,000 --> 00:38:31,920
Speaker 6: that you kind of think a little kind of you

819
00:38:32,000 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 6: stink Ooh, she probably broke up with him because she realized, Oh,

820
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:41,440
Speaker 6: he's using his proposal to me as just leverage to

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Speaker 6: annoy someone else. So I'm gonna leave you because your

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Speaker 6: proposal to me should just be about me and you,

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00:38:50,400 --> 00:38:53,040
Speaker 6: not about getting even with your sister.

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00:38:53,440 --> 00:38:55,600
Speaker 2: Because what are we talking about?

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00:38:55,800 --> 00:38:56,320
Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Hashtag you're a freaking morn hash tag you freaking more

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Speaker 2: on you?

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00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:02,600
Speaker 6: What?

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00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:05,240
Speaker 2: That's what you are? Why you know that?

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00:39:06,000 --> 00:39:09,120
Speaker 3: My brother has formerly been banned from the entire wedding,

831
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:12,239
Speaker 3: and we've asked any family members who continue to side

832
00:39:12,239 --> 00:39:15,959
Speaker 3: with him to RSVP that they will not be attending. Wow,

833
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:18,600
Speaker 3: our parents aren't happy with the turnout, and my mother

834
00:39:18,680 --> 00:39:21,160
Speaker 3: has decided she won't be attending my wedding because of

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00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:24,360
Speaker 3: how I'm alienating my brother during an important event. I

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00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:27,239
Speaker 3: don't mind. I've never been very close with her, and

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Speaker 3: while it is a bit sad that she's choosing my

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00:39:29,719 --> 00:39:33,480
Speaker 3: hard headed brother over my wedding, I still have my

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00:39:33,560 --> 00:39:37,960
Speaker 3: father's full support. My brother's now ex girlfriend is still invited.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's petty Yeah, that's so petted down. I'm only

841
00:39:44,200 --> 00:39:45,800
Speaker 2: down for real, I'm down for that.

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00:39:46,640 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 3: Uh, and got promoted to bridesmaid because of how helpful

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00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:52,720
Speaker 3: and supportive she's been to my fiance.

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00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:53,240
Speaker 4: Not petty.

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Speaker 3: Oh oh, I don't know.

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00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 9: Oh ah, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Shore running there. Hopefully this is the last issue we'll

848
00:40:02,800 --> 00:40:07,719
Speaker 3: run into during wedding planning. That's the freaking end. I

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Speaker 3: just ah, I don't know. I didn't like any of

850
00:40:13,960 --> 00:40:15,839
Speaker 3: that situation, and it kind of like pissed me off

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00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:16,439
Speaker 3: how it ended.

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Speaker 8: I think it really is a family that does goes

853
00:40:19,640 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 8: an eye for an eye or how can I one

854
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,319
Speaker 8: up my sibling that's just like so.

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00:40:24,560 --> 00:40:27,520
Speaker 3: Petty for no reason why there shouldn't be competition at

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00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:29,880
Speaker 3: all in a family like you are all there to

857
00:40:29,880 --> 00:40:31,719
Speaker 3: support each other. I don't understand why there has to

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00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:34,240
Speaker 3: be competition at all. But if there is a competition,

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00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:38,879
Speaker 3: I'm winning it, and I will win. She's a winner, folks.

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00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:41,360
Speaker 3: I'm just saying she's got the hunger.

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Speaker 5: And that's the end of this story. We're going to

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Speaker 5: go to the next one.

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Speaker 2: Hey, this is Riley the host. I can't really read that. Well,

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Speaker 2: We're gonna get back to the stories. But here's three

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Speaker 6: I expose my girlfriend's sister's affair, and her family came

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Speaker 6: after me.

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00:41:00,480 --> 00:41:01,640
Speaker 3: That's me coming after you.

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Speaker 1: Wow.

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Speaker 6: I seventeen male work at a coffee shop and I

871
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:09,760
Speaker 6: saw my girlfriend's sister, twenty four female, full on making

872
00:41:09,800 --> 00:41:11,000
Speaker 6: out with this guy.

873
00:41:11,480 --> 00:41:12,799
Speaker 2: They were all over each other.

874
00:41:13,239 --> 00:41:15,280
Speaker 6: We were really busy, and I never would have noticed

875
00:41:15,320 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 6: them except that my coworkers pointed them out because they

876
00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:20,000
Speaker 6: were all, like, they need a room.

877
00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:21,680
Speaker 2: This is a coffee shop.

878
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,480
Speaker 6: I immediately recognized her, and she is supposed to get

879
00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:28,000
Speaker 6: married in July to another guy. By the way, this

880
00:41:28,040 --> 00:41:30,520
Speaker 6: comes from user no Name Barista, and if you want

881
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Speaker 6: to submit your own stories, go to the r slage

882
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:33,480
Speaker 6: showcase Storytime Separated.

883
00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:36,200
Speaker 2: I'm Dakota, I'm Savannah, I'm Kean.

884
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Speaker 6: And we're gonna give good advice goofy about this story.

885
00:41:39,040 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 2: But we're freaking goofs Lily. Oh, we don't know everything.

886
00:41:43,000 --> 00:41:46,280
Speaker 6: Let us know the things you know that we don't

887
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 6: in the comments, all right. They could not see me.

888
00:41:51,080 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 6: I didn't want to get involved, but after they left,

889
00:41:53,680 --> 00:41:56,280
Speaker 6: I came out to clean some tables, thinking the coast

890
00:41:56,400 --> 00:41:59,359
Speaker 6: was clear. She came back in for something. I think

891
00:41:59,520 --> 00:42:02,839
Speaker 6: to use the restroom or she forgot something. She saw

892
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:06,520
Speaker 6: me and flipped and started begging me to tell her

893
00:42:06,560 --> 00:42:10,360
Speaker 6: what I saw. I said, I didn't see anything, but

894
00:42:10,480 --> 00:42:14,879
Speaker 6: she somehow knew. She left but told me that we

895
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 6: weren't done and that we had to talk. I just

896
00:42:18,120 --> 00:42:21,160
Speaker 6: got home. My girlfriend texted me, asking me what's going

897
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:23,960
Speaker 6: on with me and her sister. I don't know what

898
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:27,040
Speaker 6: she told her, but I said I don't know. She

899
00:42:27,120 --> 00:42:29,120
Speaker 6: keeps texting me that her sister is upset and that

900
00:42:29,200 --> 00:42:32,000
Speaker 6: I should come over. Not to sound like a little kid,

901
00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:34,320
Speaker 6: but I'm not allowed to leave the house at this time.

902
00:42:34,840 --> 00:42:41,280
Speaker 6: Oh for guy P seventeen. I texted her and he said,

903
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:44,440
Speaker 6: my parents won't let me go there. She said that

904
00:42:44,440 --> 00:42:46,200
Speaker 6: they'll drive to my house if I sneak out to

905
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:49,040
Speaker 6: meet them. I said that would be hard. She said, please?

906
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:52,200
Speaker 6: What can I do? What should I do? I'm a

907
00:42:52,280 --> 00:42:55,000
Speaker 6: little freaked out right now, and there's an update. What

908
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:58,560
Speaker 6: would you do, Savannah, Uma, What do you think.

909
00:42:58,320 --> 00:42:58,880
Speaker 2: He should do?

910
00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 8: I mean I got my answer, well technically.

911
00:43:03,080 --> 00:43:04,800
Speaker 3: Like what he should say?

912
00:43:04,880 --> 00:43:06,440
Speaker 2: Like should he what does he do?

913
00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:11,279
Speaker 3: I mean? I would expose the truth. Yeah, as in,

914
00:43:12,120 --> 00:43:14,320
Speaker 3: this woman is cheating?

915
00:43:15,239 --> 00:43:18,359
Speaker 2: Correct, Yes, what do your notes say?

916
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:22,040
Speaker 3: I didn't get to finish them, but it says ope,

917
00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:25,120
Speaker 3: coffee shop. And then there's little lips that say smooch.

918
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:27,160
Speaker 3: And then I was gonna put little cook you guy,

919
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:31,400
Speaker 3: but I only got Wet'll see. Yeah, I missed the

920
00:43:31,480 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 3: last part of what you just said, sue me.

921
00:43:36,880 --> 00:43:40,680
Speaker 8: Yeah, they're trying to bribe him, bribe op.

922
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:42,520
Speaker 2: I would take that bribe.

923
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:45,120
Speaker 8: I would take that bribe, and then I'd still tattle.

924
00:43:45,239 --> 00:43:48,240
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's exactly what I would do. You take the bribe.

925
00:43:48,280 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 6: You say, hey, maybe maybe a little this, maybe a

926
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:54,040
Speaker 6: little of that. Maybe I learned how to keep quiet.

927
00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:56,040
Speaker 6: And then they do it and then you go, I said,

928
00:43:56,080 --> 00:43:59,280
Speaker 6: maybe cheating, cheating.

929
00:43:59,680 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 8: I just do one of these. Wait, one of these back,

930
00:44:02,239 --> 00:44:04,360
Speaker 8: I said, yeah, no, I promise. Easy.

931
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:08,400
Speaker 6: So okay ya da da da We've got an update.

932
00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:16,759
Speaker 6: Oh by ten years later, I mean days looking wo

933
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 6: we got ten days later?

934
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:18,799
Speaker 2: All right, here we go.

935
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:22,719
Speaker 6: I finally told my girlfriend that I definitely could not

936
00:44:22,840 --> 00:44:25,240
Speaker 6: sneak out of my house the night of the kissing.

937
00:44:25,840 --> 00:44:27,479
Speaker 2: I told my girlfriend what I.

938
00:44:27,400 --> 00:44:30,160
Speaker 6: Saw the next day, she said, her sister is saying

939
00:44:30,160 --> 00:44:32,160
Speaker 6: that that's not what happened at all. She says that

940
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:34,200
Speaker 6: she hugged the guy hello because she knows him, and

941
00:44:34,320 --> 00:44:37,640
Speaker 6: ran into him there. Then she says she hugged him

942
00:44:37,680 --> 00:44:39,600
Speaker 6: and kissed him on the cheek, but that he did

943
00:44:39,640 --> 00:44:41,560
Speaker 6: get a little two hands on with her and she

944
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:46,040
Speaker 6: immediately stopped it. You're disgusting, I said, Okay, if that's

945
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 6: what it is, then that's what it is. I was

946
00:44:48,600 --> 00:44:52,120
Speaker 6: working anyway, so whatever she says is what must have happened.

947
00:44:52,640 --> 00:44:54,840
Speaker 6: So she texted me later saying, the sister wants to

948
00:44:54,840 --> 00:44:56,680
Speaker 6: talk to me, but by then I was out with

949
00:44:56,719 --> 00:44:58,879
Speaker 6: my parents. They have a no cell phone rule when

950
00:44:58,920 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 6: we're in family outings, so my phone was in the

951
00:45:01,000 --> 00:45:03,680
Speaker 6: car all day. When I did talk to the sister,

952
00:45:03,800 --> 00:45:05,440
Speaker 6: she told me that the guy tried to get too

953
00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 6: touchy with her and that's probably the part I had seen,

954
00:45:08,640 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 6: but that it wasn't the makeout session that I thought

955
00:45:10,600 --> 00:45:13,880
Speaker 6: it was. I said, that's not what I saw, but

956
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,360
Speaker 6: it's not my business. He was really pissed that I

957
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:19,319
Speaker 6: wouldn't budge. But then I got some voicemails from the

958
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:20,560
Speaker 6: guy she kissed that night.

959
00:45:21,160 --> 00:45:22,399
Speaker 2: He said that if I.

960
00:45:22,520 --> 00:45:25,279
Speaker 6: Didn't answer his calls he would personally come see me

961
00:45:25,440 --> 00:45:28,560
Speaker 6: at work. I didn't know if this was a threat,

962
00:45:29,160 --> 00:45:32,080
Speaker 6: but I did get kind of nervous. I told my

963
00:45:32,120 --> 00:45:34,759
Speaker 6: supervisor at work. He said, if the guy shows up,

964
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 6: he'll take care of it. The guy showed up and

965
00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,239
Speaker 6: asked for me, So he got booted out of the

966
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:41,880
Speaker 6: coffee shop and got in a big, heated argument with

967
00:45:41,920 --> 00:45:45,319
Speaker 6: my supervisor outside. He never came back. So I was

968
00:45:45,320 --> 00:45:48,080
Speaker 6: glad about that. My girlfriend broke up with me right

969
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:48,520
Speaker 6: after that.

970
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:50,879
Speaker 3: Why why?

971
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:53,279
Speaker 6: I mean, it also makes sense. She's seventeen. Who you

972
00:45:53,360 --> 00:45:55,400
Speaker 6: gonna believe your boyfriend or your sister?

973
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:57,480
Speaker 8: I get, yeah, and then I guarantee you the sister

974
00:45:57,520 --> 00:46:00,360
Speaker 8: who's cheating. He's like, he's just jealous of you, you

975
00:46:00,440 --> 00:46:02,920
Speaker 8: know all this stuff, like yeah, he doesn't know anything.

976
00:46:03,160 --> 00:46:04,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, who are you going.

977
00:46:04,360 --> 00:46:06,840
Speaker 8: To believe your blood or this guy you've been dating

978
00:46:06,840 --> 00:46:08,239
Speaker 8: for like a couple years.

979
00:46:08,960 --> 00:46:11,840
Speaker 2: Believe the evidence of your eyes and ears?

980
00:46:12,560 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 6: Anyway, broke up, got broke up with, so I decided

981
00:46:18,120 --> 00:46:19,799
Speaker 6: to just concentrate on finishing the school.

982
00:46:19,880 --> 00:46:20,440
Speaker 2: Ye're strong.

983
00:46:21,440 --> 00:46:24,319
Speaker 6: There are other girls that I have possible dates with,

984
00:46:24,440 --> 00:46:27,880
Speaker 6: but losing my girlfriend is hard. I'm Facebook friends with

985
00:46:27,920 --> 00:46:30,360
Speaker 6: the guy who got cheated on. I like him, he

986
00:46:30,440 --> 00:46:32,080
Speaker 6: was always cool to me, but I'm not sure he

987
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 6: would ever believe me anyway. My ex girlfriend texts me

988
00:46:35,560 --> 00:46:39,200
Speaker 6: really often, but I rarely respond to those as much

989
00:46:39,239 --> 00:46:41,799
Speaker 6: as I want to. I'm still confused as to how

990
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:44,240
Speaker 6: we're the ones that ended up breaking up over someone

991
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:44,960
Speaker 6: else's cheating.

992
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 2: And there's an edit.

993
00:46:46,719 --> 00:46:49,239
Speaker 6: I came into work today and spoke to my supervisor again,

994
00:46:49,280 --> 00:46:51,000
Speaker 6: since he was one of the witnesses to the cheating.

995
00:46:51,360 --> 00:46:53,439
Speaker 6: I told him I'm kind of friends with the guy

996
00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 6: being cheated on. He said, call the guy and tell

997
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:57,759
Speaker 6: him to come in for some coffee on the house.

998
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:00,120
Speaker 6: Then we can talk to him in the office. And

999
00:47:00,200 --> 00:47:02,279
Speaker 6: at that point, he says, I could show him what

1000
00:47:02,440 --> 00:47:04,960
Speaker 6: I have and he can also talk to the girls

1001
00:47:05,000 --> 00:47:07,319
Speaker 6: who witnessed the whole thing with us. So I'm going

1002
00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:09,280
Speaker 6: to message him on Facebook and see if he answers.

1003
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:13,760
Speaker 6: If he does, I'm sure all heck will break loose.

1004
00:47:14,320 --> 00:47:17,759
Speaker 6: And there is another update three days after this one.

1005
00:47:17,800 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 8: Shout out to your supervisor. I mean, I know the

1006
00:47:20,680 --> 00:47:22,239
Speaker 8: supervisor is actually like me.

1007
00:47:22,680 --> 00:47:25,680
Speaker 3: He's a homie. He's like really like, Okay, if he comes,

1008
00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:27,839
Speaker 3: I'll take care of it and he actually does, and

1009
00:47:27,880 --> 00:47:29,680
Speaker 3: he's like, you know what, I'll you know, like, I

1010
00:47:29,680 --> 00:47:32,359
Speaker 3: think you should call this guy, come in Hartfield House whatever,

1011
00:47:32,400 --> 00:47:36,840
Speaker 3: bah ba, like, let's get it done. I'm like, Okay, guys, cool,

1012
00:47:37,040 --> 00:47:37,840
Speaker 3: this guy's cool.

1013
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:41,319
Speaker 2: Oh my god, cool guy. Here we go. Okay, all right,

1014
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:42,600
Speaker 2: we've got a second update.

1015
00:47:42,719 --> 00:47:45,120
Speaker 6: I messaged the guy who got cheated on and his

1016
00:47:45,160 --> 00:47:49,719
Speaker 6: first initial is S for Sam. Sam sent me a

1017
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:52,520
Speaker 6: message back with his number, so I called. He said

1018
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 6: that he was told that I started a nasty rumor

1019
00:47:55,440 --> 00:47:58,280
Speaker 6: about his fiance. I told him that it was about

1020
00:47:58,440 --> 00:48:01,839
Speaker 6: him and that it's true. I told him all about it,

1021
00:48:02,200 --> 00:48:03,840
Speaker 6: but then he could come to the coffee shop and

1022
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:07,319
Speaker 6: see for himself. He came Wednesday afternoon. My boss and

1023
00:48:07,360 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 6: I talked to him and told him the girls saw

1024
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:12,520
Speaker 6: it too. He believes us, but he's coming back Sunday

1025
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:15,680
Speaker 6: because the video system holds the last thirty days in memory.

1026
00:48:16,000 --> 00:48:18,680
Speaker 6: My boss is going to show him. Sam was a

1027
00:48:18,680 --> 00:48:21,640
Speaker 6: little mad, but didn't look shocked. He thinks he knows

1028
00:48:21,640 --> 00:48:25,920
Speaker 6: who the guy is. Now this is where the nightmare begins.

1029
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:31,320
Speaker 6: Sam broke up with his fiance. So that's it. No wedding.

1030
00:48:31,840 --> 00:48:34,600
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean don't cheat. I don't know.

1031
00:48:35,200 --> 00:48:37,600
Speaker 6: You shouldn't marry the girl cheating on you in the

1032
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:38,360
Speaker 6: coffee shop.

1033
00:48:38,560 --> 00:48:42,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I completely agree, and it wasn't a nasty arm

1034
00:48:42,520 --> 00:48:43,720
Speaker 3: because it was the truth.

1035
00:48:44,239 --> 00:48:46,520
Speaker 6: I got a text from my ex that said she

1036
00:48:46,680 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 6: hoped I was happy and that her sister's life is ruined.

1037
00:48:51,200 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 2: I mean that gets who have ruined it her like

1038
00:48:54,560 --> 00:48:58,040
Speaker 2: she did it to herself. I do feel bad, don't.

1039
00:48:58,480 --> 00:49:01,319
Speaker 6: Last night I was working, my ex's dad barges into

1040
00:49:01,360 --> 00:49:03,120
Speaker 6: the coffee shop, points his finger right.

1041
00:49:03,040 --> 00:49:08,879
Speaker 2: At me and says, you let's go outside. We're going

1042
00:49:08,960 --> 00:49:11,560
Speaker 2: it top. Oh.

1043
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:14,280
Speaker 8: I could just see this seventeen year old guys getting

1044
00:49:14,280 --> 00:49:15,480
Speaker 8: ready to pour a cup of coffee.

1045
00:49:15,480 --> 00:49:15,640
Speaker 1: Bike.

1046
00:49:17,040 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 8: My break's in fifteen hold on.

1047
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:22,520
Speaker 6: Yeah, I also just want you to go.

1048
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:28,080
Speaker 3: No, how about how are you actually I'm working? My

1049
00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 3: break's not for another hour and a half.

1050
00:49:30,400 --> 00:49:34,000
Speaker 6: He said it very very loudly, and in front of

1051
00:49:34,080 --> 00:49:37,719
Speaker 6: all the customers. I froze for a second, and he said,

1052
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:41,640
Speaker 6: I'm sorry, right now, let's go. I said, let me

1053
00:49:41,680 --> 00:49:44,560
Speaker 6: clock out first. I walked to the back of my

1054
00:49:44,600 --> 00:49:47,239
Speaker 6: boss's office and told him my exes dad is here

1055
00:49:47,320 --> 00:49:49,279
Speaker 6: and he's demanding I go outside.

1056
00:49:49,320 --> 00:49:49,920
Speaker 1: With him.

1057
00:49:50,239 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 2: My boss goes over and says, hey, excuse me, man,

1058
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:53,759
Speaker 2: can I help you.

1059
00:49:54,719 --> 00:49:57,440
Speaker 6: My ex'es dad told him it's none of his business

1060
00:49:57,600 --> 00:49:59,840
Speaker 6: and that he wanted me outside like he had all

1061
00:49:59,880 --> 00:50:03,400
Speaker 6: the authority in the world. My boss says, well, now

1062
00:50:03,480 --> 00:50:06,920
Speaker 6: this is my place, and you either buy coffee or

1063
00:50:07,040 --> 00:50:09,840
Speaker 6: you get out. Don't come in here and bother my

1064
00:50:09,920 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 6: employees like you own the place. And by the way,

1065
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:13,719
Speaker 6: in case you were wondering, I'm the one who spoke

1066
00:50:13,760 --> 00:50:16,839
Speaker 6: to Sam and told him what the cheater did hear?

1067
00:50:17,280 --> 00:50:19,760
Speaker 2: So you and I need to go outside and talk.

1068
00:50:20,120 --> 00:50:22,560
Speaker 8: They marched out, Due, your supervisor's the MVP.

1069
00:50:22,840 --> 00:50:24,600
Speaker 3: Wow, I like the supervisor.

1070
00:50:24,600 --> 00:50:26,160
Speaker 8: By your supervisor dinner or something?

1071
00:50:26,320 --> 00:50:30,560
Speaker 2: This guy and more is a super advisor. He's a

1072
00:50:30,719 --> 00:50:34,719
Speaker 2: super oh be continuos. Everybody was staring at me.

1073
00:50:35,040 --> 00:50:37,520
Speaker 6: One customer said, what did you do to that man's

1074
00:50:37,560 --> 00:50:40,160
Speaker 6: coffee to make him so mad at you? So they

1075
00:50:40,160 --> 00:50:41,960
Speaker 6: talked for like ten minutes and it looked more like

1076
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:44,920
Speaker 6: a yelling match. Then he left and my boss came

1077
00:50:44,960 --> 00:50:50,239
Speaker 6: in and said, everything's cool, it's all right. I believe that,

1078
00:50:50,480 --> 00:50:54,840
Speaker 6: and I believe it. So this morning at school, I

1079
00:50:54,840 --> 00:50:56,799
Speaker 6: got a text from my ex that said, please don't

1080
00:50:56,800 --> 00:50:59,440
Speaker 6: go to work tonight because my sister's friends are planning something.

1081
00:50:59,560 --> 00:51:03,120
Speaker 2: Oh my god, what's wrong with these people? Stop up?

1082
00:51:03,280 --> 00:51:05,720
Speaker 2: I asked her what, and she just said just please

1083
00:51:05,760 --> 00:51:08,400
Speaker 2: don't go, and that she loved me. I'm not gonna lie.

1084
00:51:08,640 --> 00:51:11,400
Speaker 6: I did kind of get scared, but not to be

1085
00:51:11,440 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 6: a wuss, so I called my dad at work and

1086
00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:16,200
Speaker 6: told him everything. My parents came to get me at school,

1087
00:51:16,400 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 6: but when I went in the office, the cops were

1088
00:51:18,640 --> 00:51:21,520
Speaker 6: there with my ex in the assistant principal's office, and

1089
00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 6: I could see she was crying.

1090
00:51:23,480 --> 00:51:25,279
Speaker 2: One of the cops came out, and my dad gave

1091
00:51:25,320 --> 00:51:25,960
Speaker 2: him my phone.

1092
00:51:26,320 --> 00:51:28,800
Speaker 6: My mom took me home and gave me her phone

1093
00:51:29,160 --> 00:51:31,240
Speaker 6: and then went back to the school.

1094
00:51:31,719 --> 00:51:31,959
Speaker 1: What.

1095
00:51:32,520 --> 00:51:35,120
Speaker 6: I called my boss and he said he is sure

1096
00:51:35,200 --> 00:51:37,799
Speaker 6: the cops will come talk to me later. He told

1097
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:39,799
Speaker 6: me to keep cool and let him know if I

1098
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:44,120
Speaker 6: need anything. Then I got a text from Sam that said, Hey,

1099
00:51:44,160 --> 00:51:44,840
Speaker 6: this is Sam.

1100
00:51:45,360 --> 00:51:47,560
Speaker 2: Are you okay? Your boss just called me.

1101
00:51:48,320 --> 00:51:50,040
Speaker 6: I called him and told him what I knew, but

1102
00:51:50,120 --> 00:51:52,759
Speaker 6: I'm not sure what's going on right now, So I'm

1103
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:54,839
Speaker 6: waiting for my parents to get home to find out.

1104
00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:58,000
Speaker 6: I know Sam had to know, and he said that

1105
00:51:58,080 --> 00:52:00,719
Speaker 6: I did the absolute best thing by telling him, and

1106
00:52:00,760 --> 00:52:02,080
Speaker 6: that he owes me big time.

1107
00:52:02,239 --> 00:52:03,279
Speaker 3: But I can't.

1108
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:06,759
Speaker 6: Say I feel totally great. It's not your average high

1109
00:52:06,760 --> 00:52:09,600
Speaker 6: school drama. It feels like I started something then a

1110
00:52:09,640 --> 00:52:11,839
Speaker 6: tornado picked me up and there's nothing I can do

1111
00:52:11,960 --> 00:52:14,839
Speaker 6: as it spins me around. You don't know where you're

1112
00:52:14,840 --> 00:52:17,640
Speaker 6: gonna end up, and you have no control. It's not easy,

1113
00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:20,040
Speaker 6: and that's all I'm saying. But right now it's just

1114
00:52:20,080 --> 00:52:23,520
Speaker 6: a waiting game. And then we've got another update seven

1115
00:52:23,640 --> 00:52:24,360
Speaker 6: days later.

1116
00:52:25,400 --> 00:52:27,600
Speaker 2: What in the world is going on?

1117
00:52:27,920 --> 00:52:30,520
Speaker 3: What is happening in the story? It was just about

1118
00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:32,840
Speaker 3: I thought it was just about these people cheating, and

1119
00:52:33,000 --> 00:52:35,120
Speaker 3: it's turned into like this whole big thing. Why are

1120
00:52:35,120 --> 00:52:37,600
Speaker 3: the police coming to the school? Why are the police

1121
00:52:37,640 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 3: being called? Period?

1122
00:52:38,719 --> 00:52:39,759
Speaker 2: Yeah? Because I don't know.

1123
00:52:39,840 --> 00:52:45,200
Speaker 6: Because your ex's older sister had some sort of unhinged plan.

1124
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:49,720
Speaker 2: I don't to freaking get you, ye know, like what,

1125
00:52:50,080 --> 00:52:50,440
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1126
00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:53,040
Speaker 6: What are they gonna do? Like throw a firebomb into

1127
00:52:53,040 --> 00:52:54,200
Speaker 6: the freaking who knows?

1128
00:52:54,480 --> 00:52:56,080
Speaker 3: I don't know what are you gonna do?

1129
00:52:56,760 --> 00:53:04,440
Speaker 6: You're seventeen, You're just like I'm studying for history. What

1130
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:07,520
Speaker 6: are we doing here, but we have another update. Okay,

1131
00:53:08,280 --> 00:53:10,839
Speaker 6: long week. A lot has happened, but at the same time,

1132
00:53:10,920 --> 00:53:13,640
Speaker 6: nothing much has happened. My dad gave the cops my

1133
00:53:13,680 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 6: phone because my ex denied that she texted me to

1134
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:18,600
Speaker 6: warn me. They needed a warrant to search her phone,

1135
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:21,760
Speaker 6: so they wanted mine instead. They also heard the threatening

1136
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:24,239
Speaker 6: voicemails and texts from the guy who came looking for me.

1137
00:53:24,760 --> 00:53:27,680
Speaker 6: The school called the cops after my dad called them.

1138
00:53:28,120 --> 00:53:31,480
Speaker 6: My ex'es dad showed up too, and Dad confronted him

1139
00:53:31,520 --> 00:53:34,560
Speaker 6: about coming to look for me at work. He denied

1140
00:53:34,560 --> 00:53:36,480
Speaker 6: it and said that he came looking for my boss.

1141
00:53:37,080 --> 00:53:39,720
Speaker 6: That's a total lie. The cops ordered him to stay

1142
00:53:39,760 --> 00:53:41,919
Speaker 6: away from me. They sent two cops to my house

1143
00:53:41,960 --> 00:53:44,000
Speaker 6: to talk to me. I can honestly say they were

1144
00:53:44,040 --> 00:53:47,360
Speaker 6: totally shocked that all this started because that girl cheated

1145
00:53:47,360 --> 00:53:50,400
Speaker 6: on her boyfriend. They both gave me business cards and

1146
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:51,960
Speaker 6: their cell numbers for emergencies.

1147
00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:55,520
Speaker 2: You got the personal business card of two different cops

1148
00:53:55,520 --> 00:54:00,319
Speaker 2: for a business card. If you remember, what do they

1149
00:54:00,360 --> 00:54:03,359
Speaker 2: got they? What are they doing? The constant surveillance on

1150
00:54:03,400 --> 00:54:04,640
Speaker 2: you to make sure you're hey?

1151
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:08,520
Speaker 8: No, what to your real I think officers actually have

1152
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:12,080
Speaker 8: like personal like numbers they especially miners, can reach out to.

1153
00:54:13,840 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 3: Yeah that's okay, all right, and a nut o good.

1154
00:54:18,600 --> 00:54:19,160
Speaker 4: Yeah.

1155
00:54:19,280 --> 00:54:23,040
Speaker 6: So my ex finally admitted that her sister's friends were

1156
00:54:23,080 --> 00:54:26,000
Speaker 6: planning on coming to the coffee shop and jumping me

1157
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:27,680
Speaker 6: and even.

1158
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:29,040
Speaker 2: Bragged about what they would do.

1159
00:54:29,760 --> 00:54:30,400
Speaker 3: WHOA.

1160
00:54:30,719 --> 00:54:33,640
Speaker 6: I overheard my parents talking about her. My mom said

1161
00:54:33,680 --> 00:54:36,680
Speaker 6: her dad tried to shut her up. She's very worried

1162
00:54:36,680 --> 00:54:39,280
Speaker 6: about what will happen to her at home. The cops

1163
00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:41,520
Speaker 6: talked to my boss on Friday after talking to me

1164
00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:44,160
Speaker 6: and warned him to call if anything suspicious happened.

1165
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:46,960
Speaker 2: So guess what. Something suspicious happened.

1166
00:54:47,640 --> 00:54:50,800
Speaker 6: The guy who cheated with the sister was parked behind

1167
00:54:50,880 --> 00:54:54,120
Speaker 6: the coffee shop with an older man. My boss spotted

1168
00:54:54,120 --> 00:54:56,400
Speaker 6: them and they flashed a baseball bat again.

1169
00:54:56,560 --> 00:55:00,680
Speaker 3: Whoa? This is crazy over what.

1170
00:55:01,040 --> 00:55:06,200
Speaker 6: Over your own personal decisions to make out with each

1171
00:55:06,239 --> 00:55:09,759
Speaker 6: other in a public place while one of you is

1172
00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:17,000
Speaker 6: engaged to someone, and you geniuses forgot your little sister's

1173
00:55:17,760 --> 00:55:20,040
Speaker 6: freaking boyfriend works at this coffee shop.

1174
00:55:21,719 --> 00:55:25,319
Speaker 3: Why is this turning into like a mobster? I don't understand. Also,

1175
00:55:25,560 --> 00:55:27,400
Speaker 3: I'm gonna whack you if you tell anyone.

1176
00:55:27,920 --> 00:55:30,479
Speaker 8: You did nothing wrong, You did the right thing.

1177
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:33,880
Speaker 3: Hope he literally did the right thing. Hope. He's like, listen,

1178
00:55:34,000 --> 00:55:35,920
Speaker 3: I just saw what I saw. I don't know yet.

1179
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:38,080
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna lie to a cop. I don't know.

1180
00:55:39,280 --> 00:55:42,640
Speaker 3: And they're like in the parking lot.

1181
00:55:45,400 --> 00:55:49,799
Speaker 2: That's crazy. People get way too comfortable, man. I'll tell

1182
00:55:49,840 --> 00:55:50,040
Speaker 2: you what.

1183
00:55:50,560 --> 00:55:53,640
Speaker 6: No one has ever checked these people properly. These people

1184
00:55:53,640 --> 00:55:54,480
Speaker 6: have never been checked.

1185
00:55:54,920 --> 00:55:57,600
Speaker 8: This is getting to become like an episode of The Sopranos.

1186
00:55:57,600 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 2: I think I know who's gonna check these people.

1187
00:56:00,080 --> 00:56:05,080
Speaker 8: Boss, Yes, yeah, come super viting Boss and the guy

1188
00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:06,600
Speaker 8: who got cheated on Sam.

1189
00:56:07,120 --> 00:56:08,640
Speaker 2: Let's go all right.

1190
00:56:09,680 --> 00:56:12,239
Speaker 6: So he saw them, He got their license plates and

1191
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:14,439
Speaker 6: called the cops, but they were gone when they got there.

1192
00:56:15,000 --> 00:56:16,839
Speaker 6: But I'm pretty sure I have to quit my job

1193
00:56:16,880 --> 00:56:19,719
Speaker 6: now because my parents are gonna make me now.

1194
00:56:19,800 --> 00:56:21,600
Speaker 2: My mom or dad is taking me to work and my.

1195
00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:23,560
Speaker 6: Boss is taking me home since I used to walk.

1196
00:56:24,480 --> 00:56:28,000
Speaker 6: My ex texted me all week begging to talk to me. Wednesday,

1197
00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:30,879
Speaker 6: I agreed to meet her before her softball practice. When

1198
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:34,120
Speaker 6: I got there, the same two guys were parked across

1199
00:56:34,160 --> 00:56:36,640
Speaker 6: the street. Last night, my dad called me at work

1200
00:56:36,680 --> 00:56:38,239
Speaker 6: to tell me that the cops went to the house

1201
00:56:38,280 --> 00:56:41,480
Speaker 6: to tell them. The two men were arrested. He said

1202
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:46,120
Speaker 6: multiple charges, including holding stolen property. Cops also said their

1203
00:56:46,160 --> 00:56:48,560
Speaker 6: criminal problems are big and they won't see the light

1204
00:56:48,600 --> 00:56:51,960
Speaker 6: of day for quite some time. My ex has been

1205
00:56:52,000 --> 00:56:54,160
Speaker 6: texting me non stop, swearing she didn't know they were

1206
00:56:54,160 --> 00:56:56,360
Speaker 6: there and didn't know how they knew I was coming.

1207
00:56:56,880 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 2: I don't believe her. Man. This is why self defense

1208
00:57:01,600 --> 00:57:04,000
Speaker 2: is important. We got to know how to defend ourselves.

1209
00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:07,480
Speaker 8: That's one thing. But also, yeah, I've never gotten to

1210
00:57:07,520 --> 00:57:08,160
Speaker 8: this point.

1211
00:57:08,600 --> 00:57:10,800
Speaker 6: Well yeah, but it's like, you can't control other people

1212
00:57:10,840 --> 00:57:16,640
Speaker 6: being insane whack jobs. Yeah, you can only control your

1213
00:57:16,640 --> 00:57:19,240
Speaker 6: ability to defend yourself from insane whack jobs.

1214
00:57:19,320 --> 00:57:24,680
Speaker 2: It's kids seventeen. It's fine, his own phone, but it's like, yeah,

1215
00:57:24,920 --> 00:57:27,080
Speaker 2: what are we talking about? What are we talking about?

1216
00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:30,080
Speaker 6: From a criminal conspiracy for all of the people involved

1217
00:57:30,080 --> 00:57:32,120
Speaker 6: in your you know, hypothetical jumping.

1218
00:57:32,680 --> 00:57:36,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, and the fact that like they're like following him

1219
00:57:36,440 --> 00:57:39,240
Speaker 3: to his work, like probably know where he lives, you know,

1220
00:57:39,280 --> 00:57:40,960
Speaker 3: all these things, and it's like coming to the school,

1221
00:57:41,000 --> 00:57:44,240
Speaker 3: like these are all this is threatening to a seven

1222
00:57:44,320 --> 00:57:46,880
Speaker 3: year old or seven to a seventeen year old guy

1223
00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:49,440
Speaker 3: who's just trying to be like guys, I ain't trying

1224
00:57:49,440 --> 00:57:53,680
Speaker 3: to afford a new car like I don't know. It

1225
00:57:53,840 --> 00:57:55,000
Speaker 3: just seems so much.

1226
00:57:55,640 --> 00:57:58,040
Speaker 6: So I was scared but tried not to show it

1227
00:57:58,040 --> 00:58:01,200
Speaker 6: to my parents. I still think telling Sam was the

1228
00:58:01,200 --> 00:58:03,680
Speaker 6: best thing, but it's just more troubled than I was

1229
00:58:03,760 --> 00:58:07,600
Speaker 6: ready for. I've never been this stressed out in my life.

1230
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:09,800
Speaker 6: Sam saw the video and my boss said that he

1231
00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:12,360
Speaker 6: broke down, but that there is no way he's ever

1232
00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:16,040
Speaker 6: taking her back. He is moving to Utah. His dad

1233
00:58:16,080 --> 00:58:19,040
Speaker 6: owns a big trucking company, so he's transferring there. He

1234
00:58:19,120 --> 00:58:21,160
Speaker 6: told my boss that his ex told him that she

1235
00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:24,360
Speaker 6: will follow him to Utah and that she will camp out.

1236
00:58:24,240 --> 00:58:26,400
Speaker 2: In his driveway until he forgives her.

1237
00:58:26,880 --> 00:58:29,240
Speaker 3: Oh what and he's crazy? Y.

1238
00:58:29,680 --> 00:58:32,840
Speaker 2: I did ask my boss what his favorite bottle was,

1239
00:58:32,920 --> 00:58:35,480
Speaker 2: and he said Jack Dagdals. So I got him a

1240
00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:36,800
Speaker 2: bobble of Jack Dangles.

1241
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:37,240
Speaker 8: Aw.

1242
00:58:37,600 --> 00:58:40,200
Speaker 2: I won't say how I got it, but I asked someone.

1243
00:58:40,440 --> 00:58:41,560
Speaker 2: You just said how you got it?

1244
00:58:41,600 --> 00:58:44,600
Speaker 3: You just ride yourself out? You know what? Get them sick?

1245
00:58:44,680 --> 00:58:47,800
Speaker 3: The police? This guy right here who it was? All?

1246
00:58:47,800 --> 00:58:51,840
Speaker 6: It comes back to op op continues, Man, that is all. Now,

1247
00:58:52,240 --> 00:58:55,720
Speaker 6: that's all for now, freaking bs drama and that's the

1248
00:58:55,800 --> 00:58:56,440
Speaker 6: end of that tour.

1249
00:58:57,320 --> 00:58:59,680
Speaker 5: Hey, it's Carly, your favorite Jersey girl.

1250
00:58:59,720 --> 00:58:59,919
Speaker 3: Here.

1251
00:59:00,200 --> 00:59:02,200
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1252
00:59:02,240 --> 00:59:04,400
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1253
00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:07,520
Speaker 7: My brother lied to get me to his bachelor party.

1254
00:59:07,840 --> 00:59:10,200
Speaker 7: I had to tell his fiance.

1255
00:59:10,760 --> 00:59:12,840
Speaker 3: Layah Liyah pants for hire.

1256
00:59:13,360 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 7: My twenty four male brother's thirty mail bachelor party was

1257
00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:19,880
Speaker 7: about a week before his actual wedding and he's getting

1258
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:22,880
Speaker 7: married in about four days. Just to give some timeline.

1259
00:59:23,360 --> 00:59:25,360
Speaker 7: By the way, this comes from deleted and if you

1260
00:59:25,360 --> 00:59:27,280
Speaker 7: want to spit your own stories, go to the r slash.

1261
00:59:27,320 --> 00:59:31,240
Speaker 3: Okay, storytime separate. I'm Sophia, I'm Savannah, and we're here

1262
00:59:31,280 --> 00:59:36,120
Speaker 3: to give Oh.

1263
00:59:34,080 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 8: She does it all the time and I'm forgotten.

1264
00:59:36,600 --> 00:59:40,240
Speaker 3: Yeah it's true, and OP says, Okay.

1265
00:59:40,280 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 7: So my brother's bachelor party that I did not plan

1266
00:59:43,480 --> 00:59:47,320
Speaker 7: is best man died, is located at a spicy club.

1267
00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:50,880
Speaker 7: Ew come on, dude, I didn't know where we were

1268
00:59:50,880 --> 00:59:53,080
Speaker 7: going before this because I was kept in the dark

1269
00:59:53,120 --> 00:59:56,160
Speaker 7: and invited last minute. I have told my brother very

1270
00:59:56,160 --> 00:59:58,920
Speaker 7: openly that I would not go to a spicy club

1271
00:59:59,280 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 7: because I am not comfortable with it, and my girlfriend

1272
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:04,680
Speaker 7: wouldn't want me to either, and I'm respecting her boundaries.

1273
01:00:05,600 --> 01:00:07,400
Speaker 3: That is so messed up of your brother.

1274
01:00:08,400 --> 01:00:10,560
Speaker 7: I said I would happily go if his party was

1275
01:00:10,600 --> 01:00:12,720
Speaker 7: at a bar, or if we just hung around doing

1276
01:00:12,760 --> 01:00:13,480
Speaker 7: stuff he likes.

1277
01:00:14,000 --> 01:00:16,320
Speaker 3: He agreed and said he could do that. Then I

1278
01:00:16,400 --> 01:00:17,360
Speaker 3: never got an invite.

1279
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:19,680
Speaker 7: I was pretty okay with it because I just thought

1280
01:00:19,720 --> 01:00:21,600
Speaker 7: he was going to a spicy club for what he

1281
01:00:21,720 --> 01:00:23,640
Speaker 7: likes to do, and I don't have to be part

1282
01:00:23,640 --> 01:00:26,480
Speaker 7: of it. Then, like two hours before his party, he

1283
01:00:26,560 --> 01:00:28,840
Speaker 7: tells me to meet him at his house and me

1284
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:31,640
Speaker 7: and his buddies will go somewhere. He stated it would

1285
01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:35,760
Speaker 7: not be at a spicy club. I think he's lying.

1286
01:00:36,600 --> 01:00:39,000
Speaker 7: Oh if he's like, it's not at a spicy club.

1287
01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:41,040
Speaker 7: And then it gets there and he's like, it's at

1288
01:00:41,080 --> 01:00:48,000
Speaker 7: a gentleman's club, totally different a gentleman. Eventually we get

1289
01:00:48,000 --> 01:00:51,640
Speaker 7: to the place and it is, in fact, everyone's shocked

1290
01:00:51,840 --> 01:00:57,080
Speaker 7: a spicy, spicy, but not just a spicy club. It's

1291
01:00:57,080 --> 01:01:00,120
Speaker 7: like a place where you can rent a room. I

1292
01:01:00,160 --> 01:01:02,560
Speaker 7: basically told him that I respect his choice and this

1293
01:01:02,600 --> 01:01:05,959
Speaker 7: is between him and his fiance. But in my relationship

1294
01:01:06,080 --> 01:01:10,280
Speaker 7: with my girlfriend and our boundaries, I don't feel comfortable

1295
01:01:10,360 --> 01:01:12,760
Speaker 7: going inside, but I can wait in the car. He

1296
01:01:12,880 --> 01:01:16,160
Speaker 7: keeps telling me to come in and stop getting rid

1297
01:01:16,160 --> 01:01:20,040
Speaker 7: of the bus. I say I won't, and he eventually

1298
01:01:20,120 --> 01:01:23,520
Speaker 7: goes inside with his friends. Like ten minutes goes by

1299
01:01:23,960 --> 01:01:26,000
Speaker 7: and I'm listening to music and he knocks on the

1300
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:28,760
Speaker 7: window to let him in. I unlocked the door, and

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Speaker 7: he brings in one of the ladies from the club

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01:01:32,080 --> 01:01:35,680
Speaker 7: and tells me to drive them somewhere. What drive him

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01:01:35,680 --> 01:01:38,880
Speaker 7: to his I exited the car by this point and

1304
01:01:38,920 --> 01:01:41,640
Speaker 7: said once again that I'm not comfortable with this, and

1305
01:01:41,680 --> 01:01:44,400
Speaker 7: his best man can drive him. He keeps telling me

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01:01:44,480 --> 01:01:47,120
Speaker 7: I'm being selfish on his last day of freedom.

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01:01:47,200 --> 01:01:49,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, see, I told you. It's like they say, like,

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01:01:49,520 --> 01:01:53,280
Speaker 3: oh last day, why are you getting married? Yeah? If

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01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:54,400
Speaker 3: you are so.

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01:01:54,280 --> 01:01:56,480
Speaker 7: Sure that this is going to lock you down and

1311
01:01:56,560 --> 01:01:59,560
Speaker 7: you are going to lose all of your freedom, then

1312
01:01:59,600 --> 01:02:01,040
Speaker 7: why are you marrying this woman?

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01:02:01,400 --> 01:02:01,760
Speaker 3: You suck?

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01:02:02,240 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 2: Yep, keep in mine.

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01:02:03,920 --> 01:02:07,680
Speaker 7: He's basically flammable by this point. I just try explaining,

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01:02:07,720 --> 01:02:09,720
Speaker 7: these are my boundaries, and I can leave if I'm

1317
01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:12,280
Speaker 7: really affecting his party that much. He said that I

1318
01:02:12,280 --> 01:02:14,920
Speaker 7: shouldn't do that because I'm the designated driver and that

1319
01:02:14,960 --> 01:02:18,320
Speaker 7: would be worse. I basically said, okay, but I'm not

1320
01:02:18,480 --> 01:02:22,720
Speaker 7: driving his spicy service provider. But then he told me

1321
01:02:22,800 --> 01:02:26,240
Speaker 7: to stop being a baby. I told him that I

1322
01:02:26,280 --> 01:02:28,000
Speaker 7: was leaving and I can get an uber for him

1323
01:02:28,040 --> 01:02:30,360
Speaker 7: if he needs, but he was really angry and said

1324
01:02:30,360 --> 01:02:33,960
Speaker 7: I should go, so I did. Personally, if I were Opie,

1325
01:02:34,000 --> 01:02:36,800
Speaker 7: I'd be texting my girlfriend like, you will not believe

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01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:37,840
Speaker 7: what my brother did?

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01:02:38,080 --> 01:02:41,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, like, oh my goodness. Oh immediately I'd be on

1328
01:02:41,080 --> 01:02:42,960
Speaker 3: the phone be like, yeah, go do I got the

1329
01:02:43,120 --> 01:02:45,080
Speaker 3: story for you? I got hot goss.

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01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:48,720
Speaker 7: The next morning, he keeps texting me about how selfish

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01:02:48,800 --> 01:02:51,440
Speaker 7: I was, how much I ruined his night, and then

1332
01:02:51,440 --> 01:02:54,840
Speaker 7: I should go to Eck for what you me have done.

1333
01:02:54,720 --> 01:02:56,000
Speaker 3: To your own brother him.

1334
01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:58,440
Speaker 7: And when we met up in person, he kept hinting

1335
01:02:58,440 --> 01:03:00,600
Speaker 7: at how much I ruined the mood it was the

1336
01:03:00,640 --> 01:03:03,920
Speaker 7: worst bachelor party ever and called me an ale for

1337
01:03:04,000 --> 01:03:06,760
Speaker 7: not being there for him and abandoning him. So am

1338
01:03:06,800 --> 01:03:08,360
Speaker 7: I the a hole in this situation?

1339
01:03:08,880 --> 01:03:12,880
Speaker 3: I don't think I am. But should I have not left? Savannah?

1340
01:03:13,160 --> 01:03:13,880
Speaker 3: Was the answer here?

1341
01:03:14,520 --> 01:03:19,160
Speaker 10: Not the ale ale no no no, no, oh no, no

1342
01:03:19,160 --> 01:03:23,000
Speaker 10: no no, no, big old no, double no, triple no,

1343
01:03:23,360 --> 01:03:25,960
Speaker 10: because a double no would be a double negative and

1344
01:03:26,000 --> 01:03:28,480
Speaker 10: we need to cancel that back out and go right back.

1345
01:03:28,360 --> 01:03:29,440
Speaker 3: To no at it.

1346
01:03:30,120 --> 01:03:32,400
Speaker 7: I realized that some people are saying that I should

1347
01:03:32,400 --> 01:03:35,400
Speaker 7: work with my boundaries and don't base my opinions on

1348
01:03:35,440 --> 01:03:39,160
Speaker 7: my girlfriend. Spicy clubs are something I am uncomfortable with,

1349
01:03:39,280 --> 01:03:42,000
Speaker 7: and in my relationship with my girlfriend, we have said

1350
01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:45,200
Speaker 7: that neither me or her will participate in anything like

1351
01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:49,360
Speaker 7: a spicy club. I am respecting my relationships boundaries as

1352
01:03:49,400 --> 01:03:51,800
Speaker 7: well as my own. The reason I felt it was

1353
01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:54,480
Speaker 7: important to state my girlfriend was uncomfortable as well is

1354
01:03:54,480 --> 01:03:55,440
Speaker 7: because it doesn't just.

1355
01:03:55,400 --> 01:03:56,480
Speaker 3: Concern me anymore.

1356
01:03:56,920 --> 01:03:58,880
Speaker 7: If it was me, as a single guy, I probably

1357
01:03:58,920 --> 01:04:00,880
Speaker 7: would have been more inclined to stay in the parking

1358
01:04:00,880 --> 01:04:04,200
Speaker 7: lot until they were ready to go, disregarding my own

1359
01:04:04,400 --> 01:04:08,040
Speaker 7: discomfort for my brother's sake. But because it was also

1360
01:04:08,080 --> 01:04:11,560
Speaker 7: a set in stone boundary in my relationship, that was

1361
01:04:11,560 --> 01:04:14,240
Speaker 7: a no go and there was no doubt of me leaving,

1362
01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:18,120
Speaker 7: especially because he brought the spicy dancer into the car.

1363
01:04:18,480 --> 01:04:21,520
Speaker 7: I would have left even if my girlfriend and I

1364
01:04:21,520 --> 01:04:23,920
Speaker 7: didn't have a boundary, and there is an update.

1365
01:04:23,960 --> 01:04:28,520
Speaker 3: Folks. Yeah I would, I don't know. I mean, like,

1366
01:04:29,400 --> 01:04:32,920
Speaker 3: would you still go to the wedding? I mean probably not.

1367
01:04:33,640 --> 01:04:37,240
Speaker 3: It's just like probably not icky. I would feel icky

1368
01:04:37,800 --> 01:04:40,560
Speaker 3: about the whole situation. It doesn't seem right because I'd

1369
01:04:40,600 --> 01:04:42,720
Speaker 3: be like, dude, I don't know what you're trying to

1370
01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:45,280
Speaker 3: like prove here, Yeah, And then I feel bad for

1371
01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:47,400
Speaker 3: the fiance honesty. And it's like if you know, like

1372
01:04:47,480 --> 01:04:50,600
Speaker 3: because I don't know, girls don't really go out just

1373
01:04:52,280 --> 01:04:54,880
Speaker 3: like that. It's more of like a bachelor party thing.

1374
01:04:55,160 --> 01:04:56,880
Speaker 3: Like I mean, I guess bachelords could do it too,

1375
01:04:56,960 --> 01:04:58,600
Speaker 3: not saying they don't, but I just hear more about

1376
01:04:58,640 --> 01:05:01,320
Speaker 3: like that more bachelor parties. Dude, Yeah, dude, And like,

1377
01:05:01,520 --> 01:05:04,800
Speaker 3: I don't understand why that's like a thing. It's it's

1378
01:05:04,880 --> 01:05:08,080
Speaker 3: very it's honestly, when you think about it, like, it's

1379
01:05:08,080 --> 01:05:09,000
Speaker 3: a totally different thing.

1380
01:05:09,040 --> 01:05:12,400
Speaker 7: If you guys are single, or if you have that

1381
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:16,560
Speaker 7: already like as an okay in your relationship, that's totally fine.

1382
01:05:17,120 --> 01:05:20,680
Speaker 7: But when you're in a relationship and the other partner

1383
01:05:20,680 --> 01:05:23,120
Speaker 7: has expressed his comfort, why would you be doing that?

1384
01:05:23,680 --> 01:05:26,120
Speaker 7: But we got an update folks, I read a lot

1385
01:05:26,120 --> 01:05:28,360
Speaker 7: of these comments, and you guys made great points on

1386
01:05:28,520 --> 01:05:30,440
Speaker 7: why I should tell his fiance.

1387
01:05:31,280 --> 01:05:31,800
Speaker 3: I don't know why.

1388
01:05:31,840 --> 01:05:33,520
Speaker 7: I thought she must have known he went to a

1389
01:05:33,560 --> 01:05:37,200
Speaker 7: spicy club when I didn't. And if you're wondering, yes,

1390
01:05:37,240 --> 01:05:39,600
Speaker 7: my girlfriend knows about the spicy club thing, and I

1391
01:05:39,720 --> 01:05:42,800
Speaker 7: explained it. We also thought that telling his fiance was

1392
01:05:42,840 --> 01:05:45,760
Speaker 7: the correct choice, especially because my brother and her have

1393
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:50,840
Speaker 7: been together for five years. Oh oh, I'm really shocked

1394
01:05:50,880 --> 01:05:54,320
Speaker 7: he would destroy his relationship like this. I texted her,

1395
01:05:54,440 --> 01:05:56,760
Speaker 7: his fiance, and asked if it was okay with her

1396
01:05:57,200 --> 01:06:00,560
Speaker 7: for my brother to go to spicy clubs. He said,

1397
01:06:00,680 --> 01:06:05,840
Speaker 7: and I quote f no Ooh, well, do.

1398
01:06:05,880 --> 01:06:07,040
Speaker 3: I have a story for you?

1399
01:06:08,680 --> 01:06:11,320
Speaker 7: Well, crap, I'm gonna sit down with her and discuss

1400
01:06:11,360 --> 01:06:11,760
Speaker 7: it today.

1401
01:06:11,880 --> 01:06:14,640
Speaker 3: We are meeting up later today and we got an

1402
01:06:14,680 --> 01:06:18,280
Speaker 3: update too. Let's just dive right in. Yeah.

1403
01:06:18,440 --> 01:06:21,240
Speaker 7: I sat down with his fiance and basically told her

1404
01:06:21,280 --> 01:06:24,280
Speaker 7: everything about the spicy dancer, the lying about it, and

1405
01:06:24,320 --> 01:06:27,120
Speaker 7: the woman in the car. She rarely spoke I don't

1406
01:06:27,120 --> 01:06:31,480
Speaker 7: blame her, and got really quiet, then started crying. He

1407
01:06:31,560 --> 01:06:33,720
Speaker 7: then got angry and called my brother to come home

1408
01:06:33,800 --> 01:06:37,000
Speaker 7: because they need to talk We waited like thirty minutes

1409
01:06:37,040 --> 01:06:39,320
Speaker 7: while she stayed sitting looking red as a hot iron

1410
01:06:39,440 --> 01:06:39,880
Speaker 7: or something.

1411
01:06:40,360 --> 01:06:44,280
Speaker 3: He came home and she just blew up. Yeah, this guy,

1412
01:06:44,520 --> 01:06:47,920
Speaker 3: I mean, he basically literally ruined his marriage, Yeah, before

1413
01:06:47,920 --> 01:06:48,560
Speaker 3: it even started.

1414
01:06:48,640 --> 01:06:52,840
Speaker 7: It literally didn't even get there, didn't get the okay

1415
01:06:53,040 --> 01:06:54,440
Speaker 7: from home, he nothing.

1416
01:06:54,840 --> 01:06:56,360
Speaker 3: But there's a little bit left to this story.

1417
01:06:56,800 --> 01:06:59,320
Speaker 7: She started yelling at him, telling him he's an effing

1418
01:06:59,400 --> 01:07:02,000
Speaker 7: piece of and she said the one thing he can't

1419
01:07:02,000 --> 01:07:06,720
Speaker 7: do is have or go to a spicy club. Apparently

1420
01:07:06,760 --> 01:07:09,200
Speaker 7: he has cheated on her in the past.

1421
01:07:09,760 --> 01:07:10,480
Speaker 2: I did not know that.

1422
01:07:11,400 --> 01:07:13,360
Speaker 3: I left at that point, but my brother kept telling

1423
01:07:13,400 --> 01:07:13,880
Speaker 3: me to stay.

1424
01:07:13,960 --> 01:07:18,120
Speaker 7: I was like, uh, nope, and was about to leave.

1425
01:07:18,720 --> 01:07:20,440
Speaker 7: I know, it seems like I'm leaving quite a bit

1426
01:07:20,520 --> 01:07:23,280
Speaker 7: in this post, and told me she wants me to

1427
01:07:23,320 --> 01:07:24,360
Speaker 7: stay for her safety.

1428
01:07:24,560 --> 01:07:25,960
Speaker 3: So I waited in the other room.

1429
01:07:26,600 --> 01:07:28,920
Speaker 7: They were full on yelling at the top of their

1430
01:07:29,000 --> 01:07:34,880
Speaker 7: lungs about cheating, betrayal, someone named effing Mia what and

1431
01:07:34,960 --> 01:07:36,040
Speaker 7: apparently my brother.

1432
01:07:35,880 --> 01:07:41,240
Speaker 3: Is an SDD. Oh nope, he's gone. I'm sitting in

1433
01:07:41,240 --> 01:07:43,560
Speaker 3: the room and they're still going at it. This is

1434
01:07:43,600 --> 01:07:45,240
Speaker 3: more just to put it out here.

1435
01:07:46,080 --> 01:07:48,760
Speaker 7: I'm guessing there's not gonna be a wedding, but they

1436
01:07:48,760 --> 01:07:50,640
Speaker 7: are still fighting coobly.

1437
01:07:52,480 --> 01:07:53,760
Speaker 3: That's the whole story, folks.

1438
01:07:54,280 --> 01:07:56,240
Speaker 7: Good luck o Pie. I'm glad that you stood up

1439
01:07:56,240 --> 01:08:00,120
Speaker 7: for your girlfriend, for yourself and for your brother's ex y.

1440
01:08:00,240 --> 01:08:04,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I agree you. That's just a crazy turn

1441
01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:07,960
Speaker 3: of events here, but yeah, I'm glad everything got out

1442
01:08:07,960 --> 01:08:11,480
Speaker 3: in the open and she dodged up Rick and bullet

1443
01:08:11,720 --> 01:08:12,960
Speaker 5: And that's the end of this story.