1 00:00:10,720 --> 00:00:13,360 Speaker 1: Hey, what's up guys, Thanks for hanging out. Sunday Sampler Time. 2 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: Some highlight clips from the podcast. This week on the 3 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:19,639 Speaker 1: Nashville Podcast Network on Four Things with Amy Brown, Amy 4 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 1: talked with color analyst Hannah Garber about color matching. 5 00:00:23,320 --> 00:00:24,439 Speaker 2: Hannah breaks down how. 6 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 1: The colors we wear can affect our confidence and help 7 00:00:27,480 --> 00:00:31,080 Speaker 1: us look our best. On Movie Mike's movie podcast sad 8 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:33,959 Speaker 1: romantic Movies, and he has a personal connection with each 9 00:00:33,960 --> 00:00:35,880 Speaker 1: of the movies he talks about. And then the Bobby Cast, 10 00:00:35,960 --> 00:00:38,560 Speaker 1: I talked with Dan and read Isabelle aka the Brothers Hunt. 11 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:42,199 Speaker 1: They've written number ones for Luke Combs, they've written John Party. 12 00:00:42,440 --> 00:00:45,000 Speaker 1: But they have a new podcast called God's Country, so 13 00:00:45,040 --> 00:00:47,720 Speaker 1: we talk about that. And really it's Sunday, so there 14 00:00:47,720 --> 00:00:49,559 Speaker 1: aren't a lot of new podcasts going up. We put 15 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:51,960 Speaker 1: this up. Maybe give you something to listen to. Maybe 16 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:54,400 Speaker 1: it'll give you a new podcast to subscribe to. Let's 17 00:00:54,400 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: start with a clip from this week's Bobbycast. Help me 18 00:00:58,160 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 1: you lived on a boat for four years? What's it 19 00:01:00,240 --> 00:01:01,720 Speaker 1: were you have to pay like slip Rount. 20 00:01:01,880 --> 00:01:03,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's four hundred dollars, So we split it was 21 00:01:05,640 --> 00:01:07,080 Speaker 3: I was there first and then Dan got out of 22 00:01:07,120 --> 00:01:12,240 Speaker 3: the closet then came out of the closet and moved 23 00:01:12,240 --> 00:01:14,040 Speaker 3: on the boat with us. And uh and yeah, we 24 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 3: pay two hundred dollars apiece. And but do we had 25 00:01:16,240 --> 00:01:18,160 Speaker 3: WiFi there? 26 00:01:18,280 --> 00:01:18,640 Speaker 4: Yeah? 27 00:01:18,680 --> 00:01:21,040 Speaker 3: We we I put a I put an Intenta up 28 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:22,039 Speaker 3: so we could have direct TV. 29 00:01:22,160 --> 00:01:27,800 Speaker 5: It wasn't that bad until like until legit girlfriend started 30 00:01:27,840 --> 00:01:30,399 Speaker 5: coming around, you know what I mean, because like two 31 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 5: dudes on a boat's not a not a bad scheme, 32 00:01:32,959 --> 00:01:36,520 Speaker 5: but like when when you have frozen sewage and a 33 00:01:36,560 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 5: girlfriend over it. 34 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:39,280 Speaker 3: Just I used to tell I used to tell people 35 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:42,440 Speaker 3: I lived there. When I graduated, I moved onto the boat. 36 00:01:42,680 --> 00:01:47,520 Speaker 5: Technically once again, we didn't live there. We just visited supposed. 37 00:01:47,200 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 4: To five days. 38 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:54,680 Speaker 5: But anyway, so you can be there every day except once, 39 00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:56,280 Speaker 5: you can't claim residency. 40 00:01:56,680 --> 00:01:57,680 Speaker 4: You have to just visit. 41 00:01:58,080 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: So like, for example, it if I stay in California 42 00:02:01,320 --> 00:02:03,960 Speaker 1: a bunch, which I don't, but if I were, because 43 00:02:03,960 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: there were times when I was doing shows, or even 44 00:02:06,200 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: Mike and I lived in California for a few months 45 00:02:07,640 --> 00:02:10,400 Speaker 1: at a time, like doing TV shows, they were like, well, 46 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 1: as long as you don't live here more than six months, 47 00:02:13,120 --> 00:02:15,080 Speaker 1: you can claim residency everywhere else, which you wanted to 48 00:02:15,080 --> 00:02:17,440 Speaker 1: because taxes are ridiculous, right, But I never heard of 49 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:21,680 Speaker 1: three fifty five well or whatever that or three sixty. 50 00:02:23,000 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 6: If you don't, if. 51 00:02:23,600 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: You're not there every day and you stay one more 52 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:29,200 Speaker 1: day somewhere else, you claim residency in the one day, Well, you. 53 00:02:29,160 --> 00:02:32,360 Speaker 5: Just you can't get mail there because technically you're not 54 00:02:32,480 --> 00:02:33,120 Speaker 5: on land. 55 00:02:33,480 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 4: So there's it. 56 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:37,920 Speaker 3: Was, Yeah, you can't own it because it's you. 57 00:02:37,919 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 5: Can't own it because corp of Engineer Land, the state 58 00:02:40,919 --> 00:02:44,919 Speaker 5: owns that late, right, So you just visit a whole lot. 59 00:02:44,960 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 1: Every time you walk to the boat. You wink you guys, 60 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:48,799 Speaker 1: I'm just here visiting here. 61 00:02:49,040 --> 00:02:50,880 Speaker 3: Yeah, but no, I used to tell people like I 62 00:02:51,080 --> 00:02:54,560 Speaker 3: used to tell like it was story, Like it was 63 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:57,440 Speaker 3: easy to say, Hey, you know, live on a boat. 64 00:02:57,440 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 3: When you're in college. You're like, oh, that's cool, let's 65 00:02:59,160 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 3: go you hang out. But then like when four years later, 66 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 3: when you're twenty seven and you still live on a 67 00:03:04,240 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 3: boat moving furnture, it's not. 68 00:03:06,520 --> 00:03:08,600 Speaker 5: I had a legitim mental breakdown on that on that 69 00:03:08,760 --> 00:03:10,840 Speaker 5: boat or panic attack, sorry, panic attack, I had a 70 00:03:10,960 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 5: legiti panic attack on that boat. 71 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:13,880 Speaker 4: What triggered did. 72 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:19,080 Speaker 5: Lack of movement in my life and hand on the 73 00:03:19,080 --> 00:03:23,519 Speaker 5: boat and well, literally I had gotten canceled. 74 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:25,400 Speaker 4: It was the I was driving into town. 75 00:03:25,480 --> 00:03:28,120 Speaker 5: It was rain, and I remember I got canceled on 76 00:03:28,320 --> 00:03:30,440 Speaker 5: of course, because nobody. 77 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:31,120 Speaker 4: Wanted to ride with me at all. 78 00:03:31,160 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 5: I didn't even have a deal at the time, and 79 00:03:33,400 --> 00:03:35,800 Speaker 5: so I was like, gosh, man, and. 80 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:38,560 Speaker 4: I had this. I had this like little coop and 81 00:03:38,600 --> 00:03:40,600 Speaker 4: it had a it had a uh. 82 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:45,680 Speaker 1: Vertible like uh sunt sun sunder. 83 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 5: So it didn't work. Water's pouring in through the sun roof. 84 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:52,720 Speaker 5: I pulled back up. Sorry, I walked back. 85 00:03:52,560 --> 00:03:53,080 Speaker 4: To the boat. 86 00:03:53,080 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 7: Man. 87 00:03:53,240 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 5: I'm just like defeated all my buddies. I mean not 88 00:03:56,640 --> 00:03:58,640 Speaker 5: all my buddies, but I see people that are my 89 00:03:58,720 --> 00:03:59,640 Speaker 5: age at the time. 90 00:03:59,640 --> 00:04:01,200 Speaker 4: I'm like pween nine thirty. 91 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:05,360 Speaker 5: They're like buying houses, buying new trucks. Check out my 92 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:07,800 Speaker 5: number one. You know, Oh this plaque is so cool. 93 00:04:08,000 --> 00:04:09,360 Speaker 5: Look at all these things I get to go to. 94 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:13,120 Speaker 6: And I was just like, I probably had taco salad made. 95 00:04:13,360 --> 00:04:15,320 Speaker 4: Well, no, you were cooking. I remember you were cooking. 96 00:04:15,360 --> 00:04:18,240 Speaker 4: I loved life. You were down in the in the gallery. Well, yeah, 97 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 4: I was older and you're. 98 00:04:19,279 --> 00:04:21,599 Speaker 2: Four years younger. Yeah, and four years you were gonna 99 00:04:21,600 --> 00:04:22,200 Speaker 2: have ban attack. 100 00:04:22,480 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, oh I did ironic you say that, so I 101 00:04:26,279 --> 00:04:27,440 Speaker 3: probably like, what were we gonna do tonight? 102 00:04:27,480 --> 00:04:27,560 Speaker 8: Bro? 103 00:04:27,760 --> 00:04:29,599 Speaker 5: I came in and I was just like, and there's 104 00:04:29,640 --> 00:04:31,360 Speaker 5: nowhere to hide, right, You're on a boat. 105 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:34,800 Speaker 4: It's like fifty square feet. So uh, I. 106 00:04:34,760 --> 00:04:37,080 Speaker 5: Pulled the I was just like, oh my gosh, I 107 00:04:37,200 --> 00:04:38,880 Speaker 5: canceled them again. I was like, I don't know what 108 00:04:38,920 --> 00:04:41,880 Speaker 5: I'm doing. Nobody cares about what I'm doing. I'm turning 109 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:44,760 Speaker 5: these songs and nobody gives a rip. Dude, I got 110 00:04:44,800 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 5: no artist friends. Why would anybody. I wouldn't want to 111 00:04:48,000 --> 00:04:48,480 Speaker 5: ride with me. 112 00:04:48,480 --> 00:04:51,200 Speaker 4: Either, you know. So I was just like, hey man, 113 00:04:51,480 --> 00:04:53,800 Speaker 4: he was like, man, you want some of this croppy walk? 114 00:04:53,800 --> 00:04:56,440 Speaker 5: Come down here frying croppy and got some corn, some 115 00:04:56,480 --> 00:04:58,520 Speaker 5: del money corn on us. I was like, man, I'm good, 116 00:04:58,680 --> 00:05:01,279 Speaker 5: I'm just gonna chill. And we had a couch that 117 00:05:01,400 --> 00:05:03,839 Speaker 5: was kind of like a three quarter cat. It wasn't 118 00:05:03,839 --> 00:05:05,479 Speaker 5: like a full size, but you had a couch there, 119 00:05:05,520 --> 00:05:07,520 Speaker 5: and I just that's where that was like my room 120 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 5: was like the couch. 121 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:10,440 Speaker 4: So I just kind of pulled the covers over my 122 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:11,839 Speaker 4: head and just as. 123 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 5: Soon as as my my covers got over my head. 124 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:17,200 Speaker 5: I felt the boat go like, which means somebody was 125 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:21,359 Speaker 5: coming it stepping. The tiny door is open, and my 126 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:24,080 Speaker 5: Dad's like, hey, boys, broke, I brought pork steaks. 127 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:24,920 Speaker 4: Who's ready to eat? 128 00:05:24,960 --> 00:05:26,800 Speaker 5: And I was just like, oh my god, It's like, 129 00:05:27,520 --> 00:05:29,800 Speaker 5: can I just And he's like, hey, what do you do? 130 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:32,000 Speaker 4: You know, just insult to injury, right, He's. 131 00:05:31,880 --> 00:05:33,919 Speaker 9: Like, what are you doing when you got the covers 132 00:05:33,960 --> 00:05:36,920 Speaker 9: over head? Dana's it's eleven o' clopping in the morning, Man, 133 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:38,320 Speaker 9: what do you do? And I was like, man, I 134 00:05:38,440 --> 00:05:41,440 Speaker 9: just like have a second like that. And Read was like, yeah, 135 00:05:41,520 --> 00:05:42,120 Speaker 9: what's up, Dan? 136 00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:42,680 Speaker 4: What you know? 137 00:05:42,720 --> 00:05:45,080 Speaker 5: We're all trying to, you know, hang out, and he 138 00:05:45,200 --> 00:05:47,760 Speaker 5: was like, what's going on with you dad? And finally 139 00:05:47,800 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 5: I just come on glue and was like, I'll tell 140 00:05:50,120 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 5: you what's happening. 141 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:53,960 Speaker 4: I'm thirty years old. I got nothing going on. All 142 00:05:53,960 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 4: my buddies are buying their second trucks. 143 00:05:56,680 --> 00:05:59,119 Speaker 5: I'm stuck on the house boat with you cats, eating 144 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 5: crappy every time. Two days, I'm exhausted. Nobody wants to 145 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 5: write with me, and I'm a little. 146 00:06:04,040 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 4: Pissed off about it. 147 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:07,840 Speaker 5: And it was just like it was legit the moment 148 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:11,080 Speaker 5: when I always go back to that because people are like, 149 00:06:11,120 --> 00:06:14,080 Speaker 5: oh yeah you and oh Luke Combs just fell into 150 00:06:14,120 --> 00:06:16,280 Speaker 5: your lap, didn't he, And You're like, no, man, there 151 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:19,120 Speaker 5: was some really, really really. 152 00:06:18,800 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 4: Hard days that earned me the spot that I have. 153 00:06:22,440 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: Now, you know, or at least made you appreciate it 154 00:06:24,520 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 1: even more. Understand hard it is to get it too, 155 00:06:28,440 --> 00:06:29,120 Speaker 1: and I pressure it. 156 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 5: So hard, man, And I mean it even delays everything. 157 00:06:33,520 --> 00:06:39,239 Speaker 5: It delays everything because you're so focused on having that 158 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:41,719 Speaker 5: thing work because it's like the padlock. 159 00:06:41,839 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 4: Right. 160 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:45,159 Speaker 5: Once you unlock a publishing deal and a hit song 161 00:06:45,200 --> 00:06:47,359 Speaker 5: in your brain at the time, well then you have 162 00:06:47,440 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 5: enough money to support a family and to buy a 163 00:06:49,240 --> 00:06:51,599 Speaker 5: place and to get married, and then you can have kids. 164 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:54,160 Speaker 5: And you know what I mean, it's like this whole effect. 165 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:56,840 Speaker 5: And Hardy and Read and I were talking about that. 166 00:06:56,880 --> 00:06:59,720 Speaker 5: It's it's almost like if you come into this thing 167 00:06:59,760 --> 00:07:03,000 Speaker 5: and you're just running at it as hard as you can, 168 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:11,880 Speaker 5: it delays a lot of the other things in your life. 169 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:22,560 Speaker 6: Good cass up, little food for yourself. 170 00:07:24,080 --> 00:07:28,760 Speaker 1: Life ain't always pretty, but it's pretty beautiful thing beautiful laughs. 171 00:07:28,760 --> 00:07:29,680 Speaker 10: A little more. 172 00:07:33,280 --> 00:07:37,760 Speaker 2: Said he can you're kicking it with Full Thing with 173 00:07:37,880 --> 00:07:38,520 Speaker 2: Amy Brown. 174 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:41,679 Speaker 11: Hey, it's Amy Brown from four Things with Amy Brown. 175 00:07:41,840 --> 00:07:46,559 Speaker 11: And here's what we talked about this week on my podcast. Okay, 176 00:07:46,640 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 11: so let's say I have a very important meeting. I 177 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:53,600 Speaker 11: walk in with my French Navy. Now, I know that 178 00:07:53,760 --> 00:07:57,560 Speaker 11: I feel more confident, But why are other people taking 179 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:59,800 Speaker 11: me more seriously if I'm in my power color. 180 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:04,880 Speaker 12: So the brain loves to see things in harmony. For example, 181 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 12: if you've ever been online and you watch the video, 182 00:08:07,880 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 12: this is a wild example, but like you're literally watching 183 00:08:10,360 --> 00:08:14,200 Speaker 12: someone just stack things up esthetically. Maybe they're cleaning their refrigerator. 184 00:08:14,240 --> 00:08:17,880 Speaker 12: Everything is in alignment. When you are in a color 185 00:08:18,000 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 12: that is in alignment with who you are, truly like 186 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:26,840 Speaker 12: your internal coloring. Everything looks in line to the brain, 187 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:29,440 Speaker 12: and that makes us think that is a good thing. 188 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:33,160 Speaker 12: Like everything looks as it should be, and so therefore 189 00:08:33,800 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 12: I immediately feel like you are more trustworthy, You're more believable, 190 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:42,840 Speaker 12: versus you coming in in olive green. I would actually 191 00:08:42,880 --> 00:08:45,120 Speaker 12: be concerned potentially for your well being. 192 00:08:45,200 --> 00:08:46,439 Speaker 11: Because I just think I was sick. 193 00:08:47,040 --> 00:08:48,920 Speaker 12: Be like, ooh, maybe Amy needs to go home today 194 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:50,880 Speaker 12: and not I don't know, be here for her meeting. 195 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:54,720 Speaker 12: But the brain can recognize things that are in alignment. 196 00:08:55,200 --> 00:08:57,920 Speaker 12: And so when we see that, it's good. 197 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:01,320 Speaker 11: Well and being a female walking into a room, especially 198 00:09:01,360 --> 00:09:04,360 Speaker 11: if we're giving a presentation or we are wanting to 199 00:09:04,360 --> 00:09:07,679 Speaker 11: be taken more seriously. Like I know that men do 200 00:09:07,720 --> 00:09:10,679 Speaker 11: the color matching, but even if they didn't, I feel 201 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:13,160 Speaker 11: like they get a certain amount of attention by depically 202 00:09:13,240 --> 00:09:13,880 Speaker 11: for being a man. 203 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:15,800 Speaker 12: That's just the reality of it. So men when they 204 00:09:15,800 --> 00:09:19,200 Speaker 12: walk into a room, whether they have a dirty golf 205 00:09:19,200 --> 00:09:23,440 Speaker 12: shirt on or a suit, they just already command a 206 00:09:23,440 --> 00:09:26,719 Speaker 12: little bit more power than women. That is just the reality. 207 00:09:26,840 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 12: And so when we walk into a room where we 208 00:09:28,960 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 12: want to be on an equal playing field, we have 209 00:09:31,679 --> 00:09:35,640 Speaker 12: to bring more authority. So having this superpower in your 210 00:09:35,679 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 12: pocket is going to give you that ability to walk 211 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 12: in and be at a level playing field. 212 00:09:41,760 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 11: And so what is it with the jewelry part too, 213 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:47,480 Speaker 11: Because I was shocked to know that silver looks good 214 00:09:47,520 --> 00:09:50,240 Speaker 11: on some people and gold like, yes, you were even 215 00:09:50,320 --> 00:09:52,000 Speaker 11: showing me, like you held it up and you're like 216 00:09:52,040 --> 00:09:55,280 Speaker 11: this silver on someone that shouldn't be wearing it. It's 217 00:09:55,320 --> 00:09:58,120 Speaker 11: going to look really cheap, yes, but you put it 218 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:00,559 Speaker 11: on the right person, which I should be wearing silver 219 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:03,320 Speaker 11: and I definitely always have worn more golds, right, And 220 00:10:03,360 --> 00:10:05,520 Speaker 11: you're like, it will look great on you, which I'm 221 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:09,240 Speaker 11: hoping so because I just ordered nine dollars silver earrings 222 00:10:09,280 --> 00:10:10,920 Speaker 11: on Amazon and I would like for them to look 223 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:11,400 Speaker 11: at st r. 224 00:10:11,520 --> 00:10:14,040 Speaker 12: We need that nine dollars to stretch too. So no, 225 00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:17,200 Speaker 12: so if you are warm based, so think about gold 226 00:10:17,280 --> 00:10:20,200 Speaker 12: by nature. If you think about the color, it's warmer, 227 00:10:20,720 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 12: so it is just going to amplify off of those 228 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:27,080 Speaker 12: warm colors and warmer skin tones. And it's just the 229 00:10:27,080 --> 00:10:31,560 Speaker 12: opposite with cool. So cool looks better with icy or silver. 230 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 12: As a summer you also get rose gold a little 231 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:38,120 Speaker 12: extra something special for you as well, So you get gold, 232 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:40,640 Speaker 12: but it's like a pinkish rose gold and it's just 233 00:10:40,679 --> 00:10:41,920 Speaker 12: gonna harmonize beautifully. 234 00:10:42,320 --> 00:10:45,360 Speaker 11: And you can still mix metals, oh whatever your primary 235 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 11: metal is, So like I should stick with silver, but 236 00:10:47,679 --> 00:10:48,559 Speaker 11: I can throw. 237 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:51,959 Speaker 12: In gold absolutely. So for example, my sister she had 238 00:10:51,960 --> 00:10:54,600 Speaker 12: her colors done. She's a Gucci girl, so like you know, 239 00:10:54,679 --> 00:10:57,800 Speaker 12: it's everything is with the gold, right, the embellishments, all 240 00:10:57,800 --> 00:10:59,800 Speaker 12: the Gucci stuff. She's like, I have so much gold? 241 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:01,040 Speaker 12: Do you mean what do you mean you want me 242 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 12: to wear silver? I said, just drip some in, do 243 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:06,439 Speaker 12: a mixed metal. I'm okay with that. I'm okay with that. 244 00:11:06,640 --> 00:11:09,920 Speaker 12: But also, jewelry is smaller scale on your body, you know, 245 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 12: like for example, your jacket that is like covering half 246 00:11:12,760 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 12: of your body, where jewelry isn't going to do that. 247 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 12: So it's a smaller scale. Tools not rules. But yeah, 248 00:11:19,200 --> 00:11:20,840 Speaker 12: I prefer a little silver on you. 249 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:23,439 Speaker 11: I love that saying tools. 250 00:11:23,280 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 12: Tools not rules. I have to remind people because people 251 00:11:25,400 --> 00:11:27,400 Speaker 12: get pretty militant about it. I mean they will go 252 00:11:27,440 --> 00:11:29,800 Speaker 12: burn down their closets and I'm like, you can't also 253 00:11:29,880 --> 00:11:32,920 Speaker 12: be naked, like you have to have clothing, so don't 254 00:11:33,080 --> 00:11:35,440 Speaker 12: put this pressure on yourself that you know, we did 255 00:11:35,440 --> 00:11:37,400 Speaker 12: a quick walk through your closet and there's a lot 256 00:11:37,440 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 12: of autumn in there. 257 00:11:38,480 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 11: But like, yes, of course, that's why I wanted to 258 00:11:40,440 --> 00:11:42,600 Speaker 11: be autumn, because I that just what I am. 259 00:11:42,600 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 12: You're masking. 260 00:11:43,559 --> 00:11:46,680 Speaker 11: You're masking even this room in my house, in these chairs, 261 00:11:46,720 --> 00:11:48,679 Speaker 11: like I love these burnt orange chairs. 262 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:52,080 Speaker 12: Now love color, and that's okay, And honestly, like we 263 00:11:52,120 --> 00:11:54,280 Speaker 12: can love and appreciate color. You just won't wear a 264 00:11:54,360 --> 00:11:57,800 Speaker 12: dress like that or you also can, but. 265 00:11:57,679 --> 00:12:00,800 Speaker 11: We know not anymore that I won't feel as confident. 266 00:12:00,840 --> 00:12:02,200 Speaker 11: I do think there is something to it, and you 267 00:12:02,200 --> 00:12:05,199 Speaker 11: mentioned earlier it is science. There is a reason why. 268 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:08,360 Speaker 11: And now I know my undertone. I now have the 269 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:12,000 Speaker 11: tools and you know I will follow the rules ish, 270 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 11: but I can see how people might go overboard and 271 00:12:14,400 --> 00:12:16,280 Speaker 11: be like, oh now I can't wear anything. Well, it's 272 00:12:16,320 --> 00:12:18,600 Speaker 11: already helped me weed out some things that was holding 273 00:12:18,640 --> 00:12:21,160 Speaker 11: onto that I was unsure. Do I want to give 274 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:23,480 Speaker 11: this away? Do I want to sell it? And now 275 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:26,960 Speaker 11: I know with clarity, oh, perfect, this is a no brainer. 276 00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:29,040 Speaker 11: I'm going to get rid of this. I'm going to 277 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 11: either put it on poshmark or I'm gonna donate it 278 00:12:31,920 --> 00:12:33,760 Speaker 11: or give it to a friend that may want it. 279 00:12:33,920 --> 00:12:36,839 Speaker 11: And it's made that process easier for me because I 280 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:38,920 Speaker 11: don't know why. Sometimes we hold on to stuff that 281 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:44,960 Speaker 11: we know we just should go upstment. Yeah, permission, permission, 282 00:12:45,040 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 11: Yeah it is. 283 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:49,800 Speaker 12: And then the next time, so for example, the rehearsal dinner, right, 284 00:12:50,160 --> 00:12:52,880 Speaker 12: you can now make a choice based on what you 285 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:56,679 Speaker 12: do have on hand to decide do I want to 286 00:12:56,679 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 12: break the rules or do I really want to show 287 00:12:58,640 --> 00:13:00,840 Speaker 12: up as my best do I really want to Like, 288 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 12: if we're running to the grocery store and it's not 289 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:05,040 Speaker 12: that serious and you want to wear all black and 290 00:13:05,080 --> 00:13:07,679 Speaker 12: your fuzzy shoes, then do it. But also, if you're 291 00:13:07,679 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 12: going to walk into a contract negotiation, we're not going 292 00:13:11,080 --> 00:13:12,520 Speaker 12: to be wearing all black, like we're going to be 293 00:13:12,520 --> 00:13:14,559 Speaker 12: coming into power color. Or if we're going on a 294 00:13:14,600 --> 00:13:17,520 Speaker 12: first day, you know, we're going on a powerful zoom call. 295 00:13:17,640 --> 00:13:19,400 Speaker 12: We're going to be in your best. We're gonna make 296 00:13:19,440 --> 00:13:22,000 Speaker 12: intentional decisions based on that, which. 297 00:13:21,840 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 11: I'm so thankful for this information for myself because I 298 00:13:24,440 --> 00:13:27,040 Speaker 11: would have normally walked into a business meeting in all 299 00:13:27,080 --> 00:13:30,120 Speaker 11: black because I would have thought that demanded attention and 300 00:13:30,200 --> 00:13:31,280 Speaker 11: that equaled power. 301 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:34,480 Speaker 12: Here's the thing about black, You could also use it 302 00:13:34,520 --> 00:13:38,080 Speaker 12: as a weapon, So be careful because it's not your best. 303 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:44,200 Speaker 12: Black can look too heavy and kind of garish on you. Meaning, Hm, 304 00:13:44,440 --> 00:13:46,000 Speaker 12: I don't know that I like her as much as 305 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:48,240 Speaker 12: I thought I did. I don't know that I'm going 306 00:13:48,320 --> 00:13:50,600 Speaker 12: to give her the bonus. I don't know if I 307 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:53,200 Speaker 12: want to give her that sponsorship deal because she's rather 308 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:57,840 Speaker 12: intimidating in all black, right, But then you appear in 309 00:13:57,880 --> 00:14:04,480 Speaker 12: your beautiful summer hues, immediately appear more open, more trustworthy, relatable. 310 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 12: They're like, who do I write the check to? 311 00:14:21,080 --> 00:14:21,920 Speaker 2: Let's do it live? 312 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:23,800 Speaker 13: Oh? 313 00:14:23,920 --> 00:14:26,760 Speaker 6: The two so losers? 314 00:14:28,840 --> 00:14:29,200 Speaker 4: What up? 315 00:14:29,240 --> 00:14:31,880 Speaker 6: Everybody? I am lunchbox. I know the most about sports, 316 00:14:31,880 --> 00:14:35,000 Speaker 6: so I'll give you the sports facts, my sports opinions, 317 00:14:35,240 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 6: because I'm pretty much a sports genius. 318 00:14:38,440 --> 00:14:39,080 Speaker 2: What up, y'all? 319 00:14:39,120 --> 00:14:41,320 Speaker 13: At his scison, I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male. 320 00:14:41,360 --> 00:14:43,440 Speaker 13: I live on the West side of Nashville with Baser, 321 00:14:43,560 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 13: my wife. We do have a white picket fence at 322 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:47,600 Speaker 13: the apartment complex. 323 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:47,880 Speaker 4: Soon. 324 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:50,840 Speaker 13: I'm gonna have two point five kids, and yes, sadly, 325 00:14:50,880 --> 00:14:52,640 Speaker 13: I will die of a heart attack when I'm seventy 326 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:57,239 Speaker 13: two years old. Here's a clip from the last podcast. 327 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:01,360 Speaker 6: My wife was cooking dinner the other night and she 328 00:15:01,640 --> 00:15:04,320 Speaker 6: sent me a text like, Hey, I went to the 329 00:15:04,360 --> 00:15:08,640 Speaker 6: grocery store and I was trying to find some kind 330 00:15:08,680 --> 00:15:10,680 Speaker 6: of lemons. I don't know exactly what kind of lemons 331 00:15:10,720 --> 00:15:13,080 Speaker 6: I was looking for, make some lemonade, but she sent 332 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:14,680 Speaker 6: me a picture of them. She goes, can you stop 333 00:15:15,080 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 6: at the store on your way home from work and 334 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:18,960 Speaker 6: see if they have them? It says they will be 335 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 6: on Aisle three at this location of the Kroger. 336 00:15:22,880 --> 00:15:23,840 Speaker 13: What research. 337 00:15:24,480 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 6: Well, she needed them for the recipe, and I was like, okay, 338 00:15:26,960 --> 00:15:30,880 Speaker 6: got it. So I go to the Kroger, got some lemonade. 339 00:15:30,920 --> 00:15:34,800 Speaker 6: I go to Aisle three and I'm looking. I'm like, God, 340 00:15:34,880 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 6: they don't have them. Oh man, let's see. Let's keep looking, 341 00:15:40,040 --> 00:15:43,040 Speaker 6: and oh boom, there they are. And I said, do 342 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:45,040 Speaker 6: you need one jar or two jars? 343 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:49,160 Speaker 2: Jar? I thought they were a fruit from the tree. 344 00:15:49,320 --> 00:15:50,080 Speaker 4: Yeah. I don't know. 345 00:15:50,120 --> 00:15:51,960 Speaker 6: They were in a jar. They were lemons in a jar. 346 00:15:52,080 --> 00:15:53,360 Speaker 6: Don't understand it. Never heard of it. 347 00:15:53,400 --> 00:15:56,239 Speaker 2: Okay, some of those shoppers you went to Whole Foods. 348 00:15:56,560 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 6: I just told you. Was it Kroger? And so I 349 00:16:00,720 --> 00:16:03,280 Speaker 6: go to the cash register and I'm gonna I'm waiting 350 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:04,280 Speaker 6: in line to check out. 351 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:11,240 Speaker 13: And the day ray was Wednesday? What part what podcast 352 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:12,160 Speaker 13: comes out on Wednesday? 353 00:16:12,200 --> 00:16:12,480 Speaker 2: Okay? 354 00:16:12,800 --> 00:16:15,920 Speaker 6: But what else was going on? Pretty big on Wednesday? 355 00:16:15,960 --> 00:16:16,760 Speaker 2: President's Day? 356 00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:20,520 Speaker 6: Nope, that's coming up on Monday. I'm talking about what 357 00:16:20,560 --> 00:16:21,200 Speaker 6: was hump Day? 358 00:16:22,080 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 1: That was? 359 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 6: It was hump Day. That's a great observation. 360 00:16:25,160 --> 00:16:28,680 Speaker 2: Payday things that were all legitimate. 361 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 6: It was not on Wednesday. Yes, it was on the eleventh. 362 00:16:32,880 --> 00:16:35,800 Speaker 13: I'm all salaried on the fifteenth. I see what you're saying, 363 00:16:35,960 --> 00:16:37,760 Speaker 13: us weekly guys get paid every other week. 364 00:16:37,840 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 6: It was on the fourteenth. That's the fourteenth. That wasn't pay. 365 00:16:40,800 --> 00:16:43,200 Speaker 2: I'm salary. I get direct deposit on Tuesday. 366 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:51,400 Speaker 6: Anyway, Ray, it was the Kansas City Chiefs Super Bowl paray. Yes, okay, Well, 367 00:16:51,440 --> 00:16:54,200 Speaker 6: I get in line and the guy checking out in 368 00:16:54,240 --> 00:17:01,640 Speaker 6: front of me has a Patrick Mahomes jersey on. So 369 00:17:02,000 --> 00:17:07,080 Speaker 6: I in my brain, I think I have something that 370 00:17:07,200 --> 00:17:08,280 Speaker 6: is so funny. 371 00:17:09,119 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 2: You're gonna talk to a guy in line? 372 00:17:10,880 --> 00:17:16,359 Speaker 13: Continue he has a dozen roses, a Teddy Bear, What. 373 00:17:16,480 --> 00:17:18,680 Speaker 2: Are you gonna go? Touch? Patrick at home? 374 00:17:19,119 --> 00:17:21,880 Speaker 6: And he has a big I Love You balloon and 375 00:17:22,119 --> 00:17:25,399 Speaker 6: a box of Heart chocolates because it's also Valentine's Day. 376 00:17:25,480 --> 00:17:27,560 Speaker 2: Ray, Oh hey, Brittany, how are you doing? 377 00:17:27,960 --> 00:17:30,800 Speaker 6: And I said in my head, I was like, this 378 00:17:30,880 --> 00:17:35,840 Speaker 6: is great, and so I went for it. I said, Patty, Patty, 379 00:17:35,880 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 6: what are you doing? 380 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:36,720 Speaker 7: Man? 381 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:48,000 Speaker 6: You're missing the parade? And he goes what I said, Patty, Dude, 382 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:49,639 Speaker 6: aren't you supposed to be on the float? All the 383 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:52,320 Speaker 6: fans are gonna be so sad. You're here buying Valentine's 384 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:57,440 Speaker 6: Day for Brittany. He says, what the do you said to. 385 00:17:57,440 --> 00:18:03,880 Speaker 2: Me that part of time? I know, just the Kroger, 386 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:05,640 Speaker 2: I wouldn't be cracking jokes there. 387 00:18:05,440 --> 00:18:10,359 Speaker 6: Man, And I said, and just to describe him, he 388 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 6: looks exactly like Patrick Mahomes senior, Like looks exactly. 389 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:14,360 Speaker 4: Like the dad. 390 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:17,040 Speaker 6: Well, that guy's in jail. No, no, he's out man. 391 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 6: And I was like, yeah, man, you guys are celebrating 392 00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:23,640 Speaker 6: in your like, is this the only time you can 393 00:18:23,640 --> 00:18:25,959 Speaker 6: come shopping when all the fans are at the parade? 394 00:18:27,359 --> 00:18:30,479 Speaker 6: He goes, are you trying to be funny? 395 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:34,840 Speaker 2: You barked up the wrong tree? Boy? 396 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:38,240 Speaker 6: And I said there. I was like, oh no, this 397 00:18:38,280 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 6: is not going way I thought I was gonna go. 398 00:18:40,320 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 13: I didn't express item. I'll go to the other lane 399 00:18:42,600 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 13: and see myself out. 400 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:46,840 Speaker 6: I said, well, yeah, I mean yeah, because you're wearing 401 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:50,639 Speaker 6: a Patrick Mahomes jersey. So I'm calling you Patrick Mahomes. 402 00:18:51,880 --> 00:18:53,600 Speaker 6: He goes, I'm not Patrick Mahomes. 403 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:59,600 Speaker 13: Oh, ray, is wasn't my demographic of humor? I said, 404 00:18:59,600 --> 00:19:03,280 Speaker 13: you are a truck driver type human. He wasn't a 405 00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:04,240 Speaker 13: trucker obviously. 406 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:04,760 Speaker 8: No. 407 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:05,679 Speaker 6: I don't know what he was. 408 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:07,120 Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know what. 409 00:19:07,560 --> 00:19:11,399 Speaker 6: Was he a farmer? Do not think he was a farmer? 410 00:19:11,400 --> 00:19:11,560 Speaker 8: Man? 411 00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:12,880 Speaker 2: Was it one of our tuggers? 412 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:19,040 Speaker 6: No, he wasn't a tugger, I don't think, not that 413 00:19:19,080 --> 00:19:21,199 Speaker 6: I could tell. Maybe he had the day off, but 414 00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 6: he definitely had a girl that he was trying to woo. 415 00:19:23,840 --> 00:19:26,480 Speaker 6: And I was like, I said, he's. 416 00:19:26,400 --> 00:19:28,919 Speaker 2: Rolling over there with a Patty Mahomes football jersey. 417 00:19:29,000 --> 00:19:31,439 Speaker 13: I mean, yeah, blocks of chocolates and he's trying to 418 00:19:31,440 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 13: get honey on his stinger. 419 00:19:32,760 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 6: And I said, I said, I really think Britney's gonna 420 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:36,800 Speaker 6: like that balloon. 421 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:41,240 Speaker 13: Oh coach, you're still going in on this dude. 422 00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:46,040 Speaker 6: And that's where he goes. That's from a girl think 423 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:51,880 Speaker 6: for some bus named Britney. Mike all right jokes over. 424 00:19:51,920 --> 00:19:53,639 Speaker 6: I was like, my bad. I was like, have a 425 00:19:53,640 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 6: good day, man, it goes. Do we need to get 426 00:19:58,119 --> 00:20:01,360 Speaker 6: do to wait outside for you? 427 00:20:01,560 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 2: Pah? 428 00:20:03,000 --> 00:20:03,960 Speaker 6: I said, no, we're. 429 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:05,320 Speaker 2: Good, man, I got a crime podcast. 430 00:20:05,440 --> 00:20:07,800 Speaker 6: I said, we're good. We're good. Like I'm sorry. I 431 00:20:08,000 --> 00:20:10,920 Speaker 6: was just saying, the chiefs paradees going on right now. 432 00:20:11,240 --> 00:20:13,800 Speaker 6: You have a Mahomes jersey. So I was making a 433 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:17,680 Speaker 6: joke about you being Patrick Mahomes. 434 00:20:17,320 --> 00:20:19,320 Speaker 2: And the way you're explaining this is exactly how. 435 00:20:19,240 --> 00:20:20,879 Speaker 13: You explained in real life. 436 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:24,600 Speaker 6: I said, and you know, Patrick Mahomes's wife is named Brittany. 437 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,480 Speaker 6: So I was making a joke that you were getting 438 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:32,240 Speaker 6: the Valentine stuff for and he was like, stupid ass 439 00:20:32,359 --> 00:20:34,240 Speaker 6: mother and he walked out. 440 00:20:35,200 --> 00:20:39,040 Speaker 13: Yeah, so it could have been crime scene podcasts there. 441 00:20:39,359 --> 00:20:43,840 Speaker 6: So then I'm gonna check out and the cashier was like, 442 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:47,879 Speaker 6: why are you messing with people? I'm like, okay, Like 443 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:50,199 Speaker 6: I was just trying to be funny. I was just 444 00:20:50,240 --> 00:20:51,240 Speaker 6: trying to have a little joke. 445 00:20:51,480 --> 00:20:53,480 Speaker 13: It was a time to be funny, though, just for once. 446 00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:55,480 Speaker 13: You went in too many times and he wasn't liking 447 00:20:55,520 --> 00:20:56,960 Speaker 13: your kind of humor. 448 00:20:56,800 --> 00:21:00,439 Speaker 6: Right, but then the cashier obviously didn't like my humor. 449 00:21:01,000 --> 00:21:03,119 Speaker 13: Well, the cashier's coach. I mean, let's be real, what 450 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:06,160 Speaker 13: are they podcast operated? I mean it's the cashier. 451 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:06,840 Speaker 6: I understand. 452 00:21:06,840 --> 00:21:08,400 Speaker 13: All they do was scan items? Man, what are they 453 00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:10,480 Speaker 13: the definition of comedy Central jam. 454 00:21:10,280 --> 00:21:12,760 Speaker 6: I'd get through. The cashier didn't. Maybe maybe he's not 455 00:21:12,880 --> 00:21:15,960 Speaker 6: the level of person I like he shouldn't. I shouldn't 456 00:21:16,040 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 6: judge my comedy. You know what I would have said, 457 00:21:17,920 --> 00:21:19,640 Speaker 6: the cash here, what are you, Dave Chappelle? You little 458 00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:23,439 Speaker 6: scan my items? You like continue it? 459 00:21:23,600 --> 00:21:23,960 Speaker 8: They dude? 460 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:25,160 Speaker 2: Then there's two people ready. 461 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:25,439 Speaker 1: To fight you. 462 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:27,560 Speaker 6: I'man like, I know, I would have been like, yo, Kelsey, 463 00:21:27,640 --> 00:21:30,120 Speaker 6: I mean I know, like, what are you his boy? 464 00:21:30,280 --> 00:21:30,520 Speaker 4: Yeah? 465 00:21:30,560 --> 00:21:32,080 Speaker 6: Like I know you got his back and everything. He 466 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:33,920 Speaker 6: throws you the football, like, well, let's call him down, 467 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:36,600 Speaker 6: Like I'm sorry I made fun of your quarterback, okayo, 468 00:21:37,040 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 6: but he did. He was just like people just come 469 00:21:40,480 --> 00:21:42,000 Speaker 6: here to shop man. They don't want you to mess 470 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:44,840 Speaker 6: with him. And I'm like, okay, like I understand that. 471 00:21:44,960 --> 00:21:46,800 Speaker 6: Just get me the freaking lemons and let me get 472 00:21:46,800 --> 00:21:48,440 Speaker 6: out of here. You know what pisses me off. 473 00:21:48,440 --> 00:21:51,639 Speaker 13: You weren't rolling audio for the Big Show or video 474 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:53,919 Speaker 13: for the Little show YouTube page. 475 00:21:54,720 --> 00:21:57,560 Speaker 6: Well, I think if I'd have been videoing, he would 476 00:21:57,560 --> 00:21:59,919 Speaker 6: have turned around with my ass, that's our ten thousand. 477 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:03,439 Speaker 6: Not really what I was looking for. I didn't know. Listen, 478 00:22:04,040 --> 00:22:07,840 Speaker 6: it was a literally a two second filter of he's 479 00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,000 Speaker 6: in a Patty Mahomes jersey. It is in the middle 480 00:22:10,040 --> 00:22:12,440 Speaker 6: of the parade. Let me make this joke. This wasn't 481 00:22:12,480 --> 00:22:14,920 Speaker 6: like planned out let me, have my phone out, let's go. 482 00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,399 Speaker 6: It was just I put it down on lone on 483 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:20,679 Speaker 6: the conveyor belt, the lemons in a jar, and I 484 00:22:20,720 --> 00:22:22,639 Speaker 6: looked up and I saw him in his mahomes jersey, 485 00:22:22,960 --> 00:22:26,439 Speaker 6: and I went there was no let's roll on this, 486 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:30,960 Speaker 6: Let's roll ray And so it was a very awkward 487 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,720 Speaker 6: trip to the grocery store. And then and then, I 488 00:22:33,800 --> 00:22:36,120 Speaker 6: gotta be honest, I was a little nervous to walk 489 00:22:36,119 --> 00:22:38,080 Speaker 6: out of the store because he said, do I need 490 00:22:38,080 --> 00:22:39,080 Speaker 6: to wait outside for you? 491 00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,920 Speaker 13: That didn't that seem like you added that everything else 492 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:45,720 Speaker 13: sounded real. He wanted to fight you over something you 493 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:48,560 Speaker 13: said doing. Yeah, yeah, I would never go shopping at 494 00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:49,040 Speaker 13: that grocery. 495 00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:50,639 Speaker 6: Well it's not the grocery store that I usually go to. 496 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 6: It's not the one by my house. 497 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:54,400 Speaker 13: Well, I mean I have grocery stores back in sis 498 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,880 Speaker 13: and Raymond no married Debay from the west side of town. 499 00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,600 Speaker 13: From the west side of town. Dude, that I would 500 00:22:59,640 --> 00:23:02,040 Speaker 13: not go because of stuff like that. There was one 501 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:03,520 Speaker 13: time where me and Beze are shopping. 502 00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:06,720 Speaker 2: Hey, get out, he get over him. Mouk heid man 503 00:23:06,840 --> 00:23:07,800 Speaker 2: hi hi do. 504 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:09,399 Speaker 13: Right in front of me and Beze We're trying to 505 00:23:09,440 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 13: get milk and eggs. We never went back there again. 506 00:23:12,720 --> 00:23:14,480 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's probably good idea. He went out though, he 507 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:16,320 Speaker 6: went out, He went out the left doors. He went 508 00:23:16,359 --> 00:23:18,600 Speaker 6: over to the left doors, and that's where the car was, 509 00:23:18,600 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 6: was the left doors. 510 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:21,480 Speaker 2: Hey, dad, we're part to the left, but. 511 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:24,520 Speaker 6: I definitely went to the right. I definitely went right 512 00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:27,120 Speaker 6: and went out the far exit, just and walked across 513 00:23:27,119 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 6: the parking lot. 514 00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:31,200 Speaker 2: Hey, hey a tail operators, there a bloating dock. I 515 00:23:31,240 --> 00:23:33,040 Speaker 2: can go get to my car easier. 516 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:34,080 Speaker 6: Can you guys sneek me out the background? 517 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:39,800 Speaker 14: Hey, it's Mike d from Movie Mike's Movie Podcast. This week, 518 00:23:39,880 --> 00:23:42,680 Speaker 14: I had the theme of sad romance. When I go 519 00:23:42,760 --> 00:23:46,200 Speaker 14: to watching a romantic movie, I just leaned towards watching 520 00:23:46,280 --> 00:23:49,120 Speaker 14: the sad one. So I shared my top seven sad 521 00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:52,160 Speaker 14: romantic movies of all time. Be sure to check out 522 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:54,920 Speaker 14: this entire episode to hear the full list, but here 523 00:23:55,000 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 14: are a few highlights from this week's Movie Mike's Movie Podcast. 524 00:23:58,720 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 14: Enjoy At number four for the longest time was the 525 00:24:03,359 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 14: movie I just identified with, And I think it's because 526 00:24:07,080 --> 00:24:10,320 Speaker 14: I had a strong connection to Jim Carey's character in 527 00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:13,320 Speaker 14: this film, who is a guy just going through this 528 00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:18,440 Speaker 14: really weird time, and I can explain the entire sentiment 529 00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:21,359 Speaker 14: of my existence in this one line that he says 530 00:24:21,760 --> 00:24:23,240 Speaker 14: at the beginning of the movie. 531 00:24:23,160 --> 00:24:25,840 Speaker 10: Why do I fall in love with every woman I 532 00:24:25,960 --> 00:24:27,880 Speaker 10: see who shows me the least bit of attention? 533 00:24:28,359 --> 00:24:31,600 Speaker 14: So in that scene, he is sitting writing in his 534 00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 14: journal and he sees Kate Winslet's character across from him, 535 00:24:35,240 --> 00:24:38,399 Speaker 14: and she really just gives him a look, and from 536 00:24:38,440 --> 00:24:41,520 Speaker 14: that look, like he said, he immediately falls in love 537 00:24:41,560 --> 00:24:45,600 Speaker 14: with her. That was me all in my teenage years, 538 00:24:45,640 --> 00:24:49,840 Speaker 14: all in my twenties, any girl that talked to me, 539 00:24:50,800 --> 00:24:53,399 Speaker 14: I was immediately in love with if they were single, 540 00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:56,040 Speaker 14: Like that is how I was, because I was so 541 00:24:56,240 --> 00:25:00,600 Speaker 14: lonely and because oh I was desperate, and I had 542 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:03,720 Speaker 14: never heard anybody else talk about that of falling in 543 00:25:03,760 --> 00:25:08,560 Speaker 14: love that quickly and immediately upon meeting somebody that you think, hey, 544 00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:11,439 Speaker 14: there could be something here. I think she likes me, 545 00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:14,520 Speaker 14: We're going to end up dating, we're going to get married, 546 00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:17,080 Speaker 14: we're going to move here out into the country, and 547 00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:19,719 Speaker 14: you go through all these things in your head, and 548 00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:23,560 Speaker 14: all this person has said was hello, Maybe you held 549 00:25:23,600 --> 00:25:26,920 Speaker 14: the door open for him, And they were just being courteous, 550 00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:30,160 Speaker 14: saying thank you when you think this woman is about 551 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:33,119 Speaker 14: to be my wife. I found her walking into the 552 00:25:33,200 --> 00:25:36,879 Speaker 14: Piggly Wiggly. That is how I was not above shopping 553 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:39,600 Speaker 14: at Pickley Wiggly. I loved it, have great honey buns. 554 00:25:39,720 --> 00:25:43,199 Speaker 14: But anyway, that is how I felt, And that was 555 00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 14: the tone that this movie started out with. And the 556 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:52,320 Speaker 14: entire movie is about their relationship and how they both 557 00:25:52,440 --> 00:25:56,720 Speaker 14: decided to erase each other from their memories. 558 00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:58,359 Speaker 6: So the idea is. 559 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,840 Speaker 14: If you had such a bad relationship and had the 560 00:26:01,840 --> 00:26:05,720 Speaker 14: ability to erase somebody from your mind, would you do it? 561 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:07,280 Speaker 6: That is what they did. 562 00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:10,600 Speaker 14: But yet in this scene you find that they still 563 00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:13,919 Speaker 14: end up encountering. So are you doomed to repeat that 564 00:26:14,160 --> 00:26:17,960 Speaker 14: entire relationship all over again? Then how do you feel 565 00:26:17,960 --> 00:26:21,760 Speaker 14: about it? The movie feels so intimate and like it's 566 00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:23,920 Speaker 14: an indie movie. But then you have Jim Carrey, who 567 00:26:23,960 --> 00:26:25,760 Speaker 14: is one of the biggest movie stars of all time, 568 00:26:26,320 --> 00:26:28,480 Speaker 14: Kate Winslett, who is also one of the biggest movie 569 00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,760 Speaker 14: stars of all time, and they are perfect together. Their 570 00:26:31,840 --> 00:26:36,120 Speaker 14: chemistry is beautiful in a way that you don't really 571 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:40,320 Speaker 14: realize how great their chemistry is because you just view 572 00:26:40,359 --> 00:26:44,480 Speaker 14: these two characters as an iconic couple, and I don't 573 00:26:44,520 --> 00:26:48,200 Speaker 14: really have to question any emotions or any action between 574 00:26:48,200 --> 00:26:51,280 Speaker 14: an iconic couple because this movie is set in history. 575 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:54,600 Speaker 14: That is how it is. I would change nothing about it. 576 00:26:55,080 --> 00:26:57,800 Speaker 14: And then you have kind of a b story with 577 00:26:57,880 --> 00:27:01,879 Speaker 14: the other characters involved in this movie in another weird 578 00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 14: love thing. So the movie explores a lot of different 579 00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:08,879 Speaker 14: types of romance, but they are all sad because this 580 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:10,840 Speaker 14: movie will make you feel all the things, but you 581 00:27:11,080 --> 00:27:15,040 Speaker 14: never really watch any scene in particular and feel happy. 582 00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,840 Speaker 14: That is why I included it on this list at 583 00:27:17,960 --> 00:27:23,160 Speaker 14: number four. At number three was another movie in the 584 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,600 Speaker 14: Prime of Me Being Lonely in twenty thirteen. The movie 585 00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:30,800 Speaker 14: is called About Time. You have Rachel McAdams, who has 586 00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:34,720 Speaker 14: been in so many great romance movies. I mean The Notebook. 587 00:27:35,080 --> 00:27:37,679 Speaker 14: I don't really feel like that enters this list, but 588 00:27:37,960 --> 00:27:41,480 Speaker 14: arguably one of the greatest romance movies of all time. 589 00:27:41,560 --> 00:27:45,080 Speaker 14: She has had a great run in this type of movie, 590 00:27:45,119 --> 00:27:48,080 Speaker 14: but hands down, this one is my favorite because not 591 00:27:48,119 --> 00:27:50,440 Speaker 14: only is it sad, but it also has a little 592 00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:53,400 Speaker 14: bit of fantasy. Because this movie is about a guy 593 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,719 Speaker 14: who learns that all the men in his family have 594 00:27:56,840 --> 00:28:00,119 Speaker 14: the ability to travel through time, So what is does 595 00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:00,919 Speaker 14: he use it for? 596 00:28:01,240 --> 00:28:02,480 Speaker 6: He uses it to. 597 00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:06,520 Speaker 14: Fall in love with Rachel McAdams, and any little thing 598 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:09,600 Speaker 14: that goes wrong, well doesn't really matter because I can 599 00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:11,960 Speaker 14: travel through time and I can fix it all. It's 600 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:16,960 Speaker 14: kind of like Click with Adam Sandler, but not as gaggy, 601 00:28:17,200 --> 00:28:22,399 Speaker 14: not as comedic, a lot more of the consequences that 602 00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:25,119 Speaker 14: you feel later in Click. But what would actually happen 603 00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:29,040 Speaker 14: if you had this ability to travel through time? And 604 00:28:29,119 --> 00:28:33,360 Speaker 14: realizing that it's not going to fix everything. Just because 605 00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:36,880 Speaker 14: you can go back and redo things doesn't mean that 606 00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:40,680 Speaker 14: some things aren't meant to happen, and coming to grips 607 00:28:40,680 --> 00:28:43,000 Speaker 14: with some things you really just can't change. 608 00:28:43,240 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 2: But I really love. 609 00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:47,840 Speaker 14: The chemistry between Rachel McAdams and Donald gleeson in this film, 610 00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:50,600 Speaker 14: and you feel that chemistry from the very first time 611 00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:51,600 Speaker 14: they meet on screen. 612 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:53,960 Speaker 1: Would it be very wrong if I asked you for 613 00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:54,520 Speaker 1: your number? 614 00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:56,760 Speaker 6: No, just in case I ever, you know, I. 615 00:28:56,840 --> 00:28:59,360 Speaker 4: Have to cool you about stuff. 616 00:29:00,680 --> 00:29:04,120 Speaker 3: Okay, I thought this phone was old, but suddenly it's 617 00:29:04,120 --> 00:29:05,280 Speaker 3: my most valuable position. 618 00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 8: You really like me? 619 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:11,320 Speaker 14: What a line you put a girl's phone number in? 620 00:29:11,800 --> 00:29:14,160 Speaker 14: And you're like, Oh, suddenly, this phone is the most 621 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 14: important thing in the world. I should have stolen that line, 622 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,080 Speaker 14: but I don't want to reveal all the sad things 623 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:23,320 Speaker 14: that happen in this movie. I will say this was 624 00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:26,720 Speaker 14: the movie I would recommend for the longest time to 625 00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:29,400 Speaker 14: anybody wanting to watch a movie to make you cry. 626 00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:32,080 Speaker 14: I think also in the early twenty tens, even though 627 00:29:32,080 --> 00:29:34,560 Speaker 14: I wasn't in the best mental state, I had a 628 00:29:34,600 --> 00:29:37,040 Speaker 14: real hard time crying, and this was the movie that 629 00:29:37,080 --> 00:29:41,520 Speaker 14: cracked me. So aside from it being a romantic movie, 630 00:29:41,960 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 14: take Valentine's Day completely out of this episode. If you 631 00:29:45,000 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 14: just want a movie to make you cry, I think 632 00:29:47,440 --> 00:29:49,720 Speaker 14: about Time could be that one for you. So that 633 00:29:49,840 --> 00:30:10,320 Speaker 14: is why I put this one at number three. 634 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:18,200 Speaker 10: A Carol n she's a queen and talking and so 635 00:30:20,320 --> 00:30:21,520 Speaker 10: she's getting really. 636 00:30:21,240 --> 00:30:24,000 Speaker 4: Not afraid to feed this episode or so just let 637 00:30:24,080 --> 00:30:24,440 Speaker 4: it flow. 638 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:31,320 Speaker 10: No one can do we quiet car line is sound Caroline. 639 00:30:32,280 --> 00:30:35,360 Speaker 15: Hey, y'all, it's Caroline Hobby from Get Real with Caroline Hobby. 640 00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:38,040 Speaker 15: And here is a clip from this week's. 641 00:30:37,720 --> 00:30:40,600 Speaker 8: Episode, We're Back. 642 00:30:40,960 --> 00:30:44,360 Speaker 15: It's a bonus episode of Monday's episode. We had Morgan 643 00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:47,600 Speaker 15: mass and Gill, the president of the National Podcast Network, 644 00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 15: uh huh, the manager of Bobby Bones's, former producer of 645 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:53,200 Speaker 15: The Bobby Bone Show. 646 00:30:53,640 --> 00:30:54,440 Speaker 8: We have Morgan with. 647 00:30:54,440 --> 00:30:56,320 Speaker 15: Us and we had quite the interview on Monday. 648 00:30:56,320 --> 00:30:59,680 Speaker 8: We covered a lot of fun. We covered so much ground. 649 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:01,160 Speaker 15: You were wondering what was going to go down. I mean, 650 00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,760 Speaker 15: she got crowned. She has a tr and a crown 651 00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:05,320 Speaker 15: and a cape. 652 00:31:05,360 --> 00:31:07,280 Speaker 8: That happened. We talked about to sucking. 653 00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:10,800 Speaker 15: That was a lot from left field and we really 654 00:31:10,800 --> 00:31:12,040 Speaker 15: got into that one for a minute. 655 00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:13,720 Speaker 8: I think I brought that up. Would you did a 656 00:31:13,800 --> 00:31:16,160 Speaker 8: shocking for me? But yeah, it was fun. Go check 657 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:18,000 Speaker 8: it out, check it out. Check this out first, but 658 00:31:18,040 --> 00:31:18,760 Speaker 8: then check that out. 659 00:31:18,880 --> 00:31:20,680 Speaker 15: So we have some burning questions and a lot of 660 00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:24,280 Speaker 15: you guys are big fans of Morgan, as we all are. 661 00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:26,680 Speaker 8: And you have three of you. Thank you for joining us. 662 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:30,400 Speaker 15: You call in and you have some big questions for 663 00:31:30,480 --> 00:31:32,720 Speaker 15: mid Days with Morgan. She answers your burning questions, and 664 00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:35,480 Speaker 15: so we have decided to meld the two mid Days 665 00:31:35,480 --> 00:31:37,720 Speaker 15: with Morgan and just one more nudge to make this 666 00:31:37,760 --> 00:31:40,400 Speaker 15: a podcast. We're putting in that out there in the universe. Yeah, 667 00:31:40,440 --> 00:31:42,080 Speaker 15: and we're going to answer some of these burning questions 668 00:31:42,080 --> 00:31:44,600 Speaker 15: from Morgan and see what she has to say. So 669 00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:46,640 Speaker 15: welcome to this bonus episode of Cack Caroline and what 670 00:31:46,720 --> 00:31:48,720 Speaker 15: you have to say too. Oh yes, but we'll listen 671 00:31:48,800 --> 00:31:49,320 Speaker 15: to Morgan First. 672 00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:52,080 Speaker 8: Shit, Abby, I. 673 00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:55,680 Speaker 7: Have been together with my husband now husband for over 674 00:31:55,840 --> 00:32:00,640 Speaker 7: a decade, and when I was very pregnant with our 675 00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:05,080 Speaker 7: first I had gone out to brunch with my mother 676 00:32:05,160 --> 00:32:09,600 Speaker 7: in law and we've always had a rough relationship. But 677 00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:14,520 Speaker 7: she at the end of the conversation she said to me, 678 00:32:15,080 --> 00:32:18,040 Speaker 7: I am not excited for this child. Oh, And I 679 00:32:18,120 --> 00:32:23,560 Speaker 7: was like, what, Like, I get being nervous, but I 680 00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:28,240 Speaker 7: was nervous. This was my first and you're just the grandma. 681 00:32:29,440 --> 00:32:33,280 Speaker 7: And so it has been difficult ever since. She doesn't 682 00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:37,520 Speaker 7: have a great filter and we don't connect well. So 683 00:32:39,120 --> 00:32:43,880 Speaker 7: don't tell your pregnant person of any sort that you're 684 00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:45,200 Speaker 7: not excited for their child. 685 00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:46,160 Speaker 6: Seems rude. 686 00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:47,760 Speaker 13: Seems rude? 687 00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 8: Okay, a little speechless? 688 00:32:51,320 --> 00:32:53,160 Speaker 15: How was I saying, I'm not excited for you to 689 00:32:53,200 --> 00:32:56,840 Speaker 15: be married to my husband or my son or something, 690 00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:57,440 Speaker 15: But like, to. 691 00:32:57,360 --> 00:33:00,760 Speaker 2: Not be excited for the child child is a. 692 00:33:00,680 --> 00:33:01,800 Speaker 8: True gift from God. 693 00:33:02,360 --> 00:33:04,080 Speaker 6: Like, that's on a whole other level. 694 00:33:04,200 --> 00:33:08,440 Speaker 8: That sounds like some toxic family stuff. And I am 695 00:33:08,520 --> 00:33:12,880 Speaker 8: not above. If there's a sister hmmm, that's hard because 696 00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:16,760 Speaker 8: it is your husband's mom. But she got to her 697 00:33:16,840 --> 00:33:19,760 Speaker 8: heart is dark to feel that way, you know, that 698 00:33:19,920 --> 00:33:24,520 Speaker 8: energy around. If it were me, i'd be cutting ties. 699 00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:27,920 Speaker 8: I would be cutting I think, so setting some really 700 00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:31,480 Speaker 8: firm boundaries and that would be a talk between me 701 00:33:31,560 --> 00:33:35,600 Speaker 8: and my husband of and he needs to support you, yes, 702 00:33:35,880 --> 00:33:40,160 Speaker 8: because when you get married, that's your family. You're becoming one. 703 00:33:40,400 --> 00:33:43,960 Speaker 8: You're the unit and everything else is secondary, you know 704 00:33:43,960 --> 00:33:44,360 Speaker 8: what I mean. 705 00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:47,840 Speaker 15: And if anybody in your family, regardless of how they 706 00:33:47,880 --> 00:33:51,000 Speaker 15: feel about your relationship with their person, that they're like, 707 00:33:51,200 --> 00:33:55,240 Speaker 15: you know, protective over, if they can't like see the 708 00:33:55,320 --> 00:33:58,520 Speaker 15: gift of a child, then that's, like you said, Marian, 709 00:33:58,560 --> 00:34:00,560 Speaker 15: you got to have some serious boundaries. 710 00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:04,120 Speaker 8: I think what it is, Oh my gosh, I'm about 711 00:34:04,120 --> 00:34:05,360 Speaker 8: to make some people mad. 712 00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:06,080 Speaker 2: Okay. 713 00:34:06,240 --> 00:34:10,360 Speaker 8: I think some moms have this tendency to idolize their 714 00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:13,319 Speaker 8: sons so much for whatever reason, because I think maybe 715 00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:18,080 Speaker 8: they don't really like their husband, maybe didn't treat them 716 00:34:18,120 --> 00:34:19,040 Speaker 8: the best, or. 717 00:34:19,080 --> 00:34:21,000 Speaker 15: So they get all their like male attentions, so they're 718 00:34:21,040 --> 00:34:22,080 Speaker 15: like raising. 719 00:34:21,719 --> 00:34:24,920 Speaker 8: This son up to be what they really wanted their 720 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 8: husband to be for them, and then they just have 721 00:34:27,640 --> 00:34:30,279 Speaker 8: these super high expected and this is look, I know 722 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:33,239 Speaker 8: it's case by case, but they have these super high 723 00:34:33,280 --> 00:34:37,480 Speaker 8: expectations of who's gonna marry their son, and you see it. 724 00:34:37,560 --> 00:34:39,960 Speaker 8: Not every mother in law is like this, thank God, 725 00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:43,440 Speaker 8: but you see it where it's like you're his mom, 726 00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:46,120 Speaker 8: you can't be married to him, like so sorry, I 727 00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:48,560 Speaker 8: hate to bring it to you, and I'm his wife, Like, 728 00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,239 Speaker 8: I just think I don't know the inner dynamics of 729 00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:57,080 Speaker 8: their relationship. Who's the good person, who's the quote unquote 730 00:34:57,080 --> 00:35:00,640 Speaker 8: bad person. Maybe there isn't, maybe there's mix a both. 731 00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:04,960 Speaker 8: But if someone wasn't excited for a child, child I'm 732 00:35:05,000 --> 00:35:08,919 Speaker 8: bringing into the world, that is a true angel. Okay, noted, 733 00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:11,200 Speaker 8: don't show up at the hospital because he ain't be 734 00:35:11,239 --> 00:35:13,840 Speaker 8: an admitted end a visit, Like, that's not the energy 735 00:35:13,960 --> 00:35:18,280 Speaker 8: that we're bringing the next generation in on, because those 736 00:35:20,000 --> 00:35:24,280 Speaker 8: kids pick up on so much and that negative energy 737 00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:27,440 Speaker 8: is so toxic for a child. Like, regardless of how 738 00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:30,839 Speaker 8: you feel about your mother in law, if she's gonna 739 00:35:30,880 --> 00:35:33,160 Speaker 8: be talking shit about you to your kid when you're 740 00:35:33,200 --> 00:35:34,160 Speaker 8: not around. 741 00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:37,960 Speaker 15: Or just not even loving this kid, like already deciding 742 00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:39,680 Speaker 15: that she's not going to embrace this child. 743 00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:41,239 Speaker 8: Yeah, do you like your mom in law? 744 00:35:41,800 --> 00:35:45,080 Speaker 15: She's the sweet She's a sweetheart, Mary. Hey, Mary, she's 745 00:35:45,080 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 15: probably listening. 746 00:35:45,719 --> 00:35:47,240 Speaker 8: She is a shout out Mary. 747 00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:50,440 Speaker 15: She's about as sweet as anyone I've ever met, Just 748 00:35:50,480 --> 00:35:52,200 Speaker 15: a pure little angel soul. 749 00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:54,960 Speaker 8: I would really love that if I get married one day. 750 00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,640 Speaker 8: I really want to be super tight with my mother 751 00:35:57,680 --> 00:36:03,359 Speaker 8: in law. I just I would love to just you know, 752 00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:07,240 Speaker 8: bees be besties, do things together, go to the movies. 753 00:36:07,400 --> 00:36:10,520 Speaker 8: You kind of like Taylor's with Donna Kelsey. Yeah, I 754 00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,720 Speaker 8: mean yeah, I kind of You're more. 755 00:36:12,560 --> 00:36:14,479 Speaker 15: Thinking like Goldie and Kate Hudson stuff. 756 00:36:14,560 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 8: Yeah yeah, something like that, not like chest bumping like 757 00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:19,200 Speaker 8: on the field after But maybe I don't know. 758 00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:23,640 Speaker 15: Hever say never say never, But I just think also 759 00:36:23,719 --> 00:36:25,680 Speaker 15: back to this question first off, like. 760 00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:28,440 Speaker 8: I want to get to the source of like your relationship. 761 00:36:28,920 --> 00:36:31,120 Speaker 15: Make sure you're in check with your husband, like he 762 00:36:31,160 --> 00:36:34,200 Speaker 15: needs to be fully like boundaries up with his mom, 763 00:36:34,360 --> 00:36:37,040 Speaker 15: like because he is now a father. And if she, 764 00:36:37,360 --> 00:36:40,640 Speaker 15: like you said, Morgan, is gonna put this negative energy 765 00:36:40,680 --> 00:36:43,839 Speaker 15: of not even wanting this child to be born, like he. 766 00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:44,680 Speaker 8: Needs to be protecting. 767 00:36:44,680 --> 00:36:47,799 Speaker 15: He's got to protect his family and his child. And like, 768 00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:52,200 Speaker 15: I honestly think if she could say that to your face, 769 00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:55,120 Speaker 15: like she might have to be cut out. Yeah, I 770 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:58,200 Speaker 15: don't know strong boundaries because you have to protect your 771 00:36:58,239 --> 00:36:58,799 Speaker 15: child's well being. 772 00:36:58,920 --> 00:37:01,439 Speaker 8: I feel sure. I get they say blood is thicker 773 00:37:01,480 --> 00:37:03,600 Speaker 8: than water, But if not, you're going to be an asshole. 774 00:37:03,719 --> 00:37:06,200 Speaker 8: What is making you miserable and putting you in fight 775 00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:09,000 Speaker 8: or flight all the time, wishing your child wasn't born. 776 00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:12,880 Speaker 8: Then blood needs to check itself. Yeah, blood needs to 777 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:14,960 Speaker 8: choke it. Yeah, you need to get a pulse on 778 00:37:15,000 --> 00:37:17,759 Speaker 8: that heartbeat. So that's my thoughts on that. Agreed, Do 779 00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:18,840 Speaker 8: we have another caller? 780 00:37:20,360 --> 00:37:21,400 Speaker 6: Don't get us started. 781 00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:28,360 Speaker 2: That was this week's Sunday sampler. All episodes go out weekly. 782 00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:31,439 Speaker 1: The Bobby Cast, Four Things, Sore Losers Movie, Mike Get 783 00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:32,640 Speaker 1: Real with Caroline Hobby. 784 00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:33,520 Speaker 2: All that is there. 785 00:37:33,800 --> 00:37:35,560 Speaker 1: Subscribe if you don't mind, If you like any of that, 786 00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:36,000 Speaker 1: Thank you guys. 787 00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:36,919 Speaker 2: Hope you have a great week.