WEBVTT - Getting Social... at a Distance 0:00:00.480 --> 0:00:04.680 Hell, I Suck at Dating with Denungler and Jared Haven 0:00:04.920 --> 0:00:10.959 and I Heart Radio podcast What is Up? Suck Army, 0:00:11.280 --> 0:00:14.920 We are still coming at you, even in the midst 0:00:14.920 --> 0:00:16.840 of this quarantine. I hope you can hear me all right, 0:00:16.880 --> 0:00:21.320 because I'm recording from Kalin's apartment here in Santa Monica, Jared, Torry, 0:00:21.560 --> 0:00:24.680 and Easton all from their respective locations as well. Are 0:00:24.680 --> 0:00:29.440 you guys there? I am here, I'm here, baby. How 0:00:29.480 --> 0:00:31.280 do I How do I sound? You guys sound good 0:00:31.280 --> 0:00:35.400 to me? But how do I sound? Right? Well? You, 0:00:35.520 --> 0:00:38.440 I didn't hear anything. You just said ki sterous? You 0:00:38.440 --> 0:00:40.360 didn't hear me? Well, it was kind of it was 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:42.320 kind of choppy, But we're gonna work with it. Anyways. 0:00:42.600 --> 0:00:44.800 We know that our Suck Army can't make it more 0:00:44.840 --> 0:00:47.760 than a week without tuning in to help I Suck 0:00:47.760 --> 0:00:51.160 at Dating and so pushing through and we're fighting on 0:00:51.320 --> 0:00:55.720 and the Army will continue to rise together but separately 0:00:55.800 --> 0:01:00.360 in our isolated quarantine, sterilized zones. Um, We've got a 0:01:00.360 --> 0:01:02.280 good episode for you guys. Today. We're gonna call some 0:01:02.320 --> 0:01:05.800 of our friends around Bachelor Nation, checking with them and 0:01:05.840 --> 0:01:08.640 see how they're handling the quarantine. How they're staying busy 0:01:08.760 --> 0:01:12.000 and what advice they can offer you to kind of 0:01:12.040 --> 0:01:14.800 pass the time while all this, you know, goes about 0:01:15.160 --> 0:01:17.039 dealing with whatever it's going to deal with before we 0:01:17.080 --> 0:01:19.680 can resume our lives as normal. But Jared, how are 0:01:19.680 --> 0:01:23.440 you doing? You're good? Yeah, I'm doing all right. Ashley 0:01:23.440 --> 0:01:27.600 and I are hungering down. Obviously we've been quarantined for 0:01:28.240 --> 0:01:31.759 a little of our week now, and you know, things 0:01:31.760 --> 0:01:34.080 are good. I mean, it's just crazy times right now. 0:01:34.120 --> 0:01:35.560 I mean, this is a time that we're never going 0:01:35.600 --> 0:01:38.280 to forget. It's gonna be written in history books. I 0:01:38.280 --> 0:01:42.480 mean it's insane to truly think that we're voluntarily, um 0:01:42.520 --> 0:01:45.360 crashing our economy for this. And it's the right move obviously, 0:01:45.400 --> 0:01:49.000 because the health of the public comes first. But um, 0:01:49.000 --> 0:01:53.960 it's it's nerve wracking times. Um, it's it's scary times. 0:01:53.960 --> 0:01:57.120 But also, um, you know, I do think that we're 0:01:57.120 --> 0:02:00.720 taking the necessary steps. Uh and hopefully, uh in the 0:02:00.760 --> 0:02:04.840 coming weeks we'll see that that that cases will start 0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:06.400 going down. I mean, I do think it's going to 0:02:06.480 --> 0:02:08.639 get worse before it gets better, like everybody has been saying, 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:11.480 and I believe that. But hopefully these steps that we're 0:02:11.480 --> 0:02:15.120 taking will start, uh, you know, showing face in the 0:02:15.160 --> 0:02:17.200 coming weeks that we did make a difference and we 0:02:17.200 --> 0:02:20.440 weren't too late. Yeah, that's an interesting thing that we 0:02:20.480 --> 0:02:23.280 said about voluntarily crashing our economy because someone one of 0:02:23.320 --> 0:02:25.400 my friends made that point the other day. They were 0:02:25.440 --> 0:02:30.680 saying that we're staying inside to protect the immuno compromised 0:02:30.720 --> 0:02:35.720 and elderly people, but by doing so, our economy is suffering, 0:02:35.760 --> 0:02:37.919 which will like then in turn make the young people 0:02:37.960 --> 0:02:40.680 suffer a lot more for a lot longer. And I 0:02:40.720 --> 0:02:42.080 was like, yeah, it's an interesting point. I guess I 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:43.799 never really thought of it that way, and I guess 0:02:43.840 --> 0:02:45.480 it's like it's really kind of remains to be seen 0:02:45.480 --> 0:02:48.519 what's gonna happen economically with what's going on. But I 0:02:48.560 --> 0:02:50.400 don't know, it's crazy. You're absolutely right, So what do 0:02:50.440 --> 0:02:52.240 you what do you actually do to pass the time 0:02:52.280 --> 0:02:55.400 in your quarantine? We've been making videos and follow us 0:02:55.400 --> 0:02:58.760 on Instagram and now we just formed a TikTok, which 0:02:58.880 --> 0:03:00.680 I have mixed feelings of out I have a lot 0:03:00.720 --> 0:03:04.280 of ex feelings about TikTok, but I made uh a 0:03:04.400 --> 0:03:06.760 very I've obviously made a couple of tom Brady videos 0:03:06.840 --> 0:03:09.120 because while quarantined, we got the news that Tom Brady 0:03:09.120 --> 0:03:11.760 will no longer be returned to New England Patriots and 0:03:11.760 --> 0:03:13.720 and uh, you know, so that was like a stab 0:03:13.760 --> 0:03:17.160 to the heart. But it's okay, it's okay. So we've 0:03:17.200 --> 0:03:20.440 been making videos, We've been working out, reading, uh, playing 0:03:20.480 --> 0:03:24.840 board games, watching movies. Um, you know, we've been um 0:03:25.400 --> 0:03:28.160 try we've been mixing in cooking at home and then 0:03:28.280 --> 0:03:32.760 ordering um doorstep service from local businesses because we've also 0:03:32.840 --> 0:03:36.000 been trying to eat out and support local restaurants that 0:03:36.040 --> 0:03:40.600 are obviously having difficult times right now. But uh yeah, 0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:43.360 I mean that's all we've been really doing. Also, it's 0:03:43.360 --> 0:03:46.119 only been you know, about nine you know, about nine 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:48.520 days or so nine ten days. And so talk to 0:03:48.560 --> 0:03:50.720 me in a week how we're doing next week's episode. 0:03:50.760 --> 0:03:52.839 Help buy second Day, and we'll determine if I've lost 0:03:52.880 --> 0:03:54.640 my mind or not. Well, we are going to be 0:03:54.640 --> 0:03:56.320 able to talk to you in a week. And it 0:03:56.360 --> 0:03:59.880 does sound like you are lost your mind, but we do. 0:04:00.000 --> 0:04:03.880 You have one of bachel Nation's favorite contestants on the 0:04:03.920 --> 0:04:05.760 phone we can check in with and see how he's 0:04:06.120 --> 0:04:09.840 handling quarantine himself. Uh so we're gonna get Mike Johnson 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:11.920 brought into the conversation, as we love to hear he's 0:04:11.920 --> 0:04:14.520 been up to well. He I imagine he's been tough 0:04:14.560 --> 0:04:16.720 quarantining as well. So let's if you can get him 0:04:16.760 --> 0:04:22.000 on the phone here. Whoa Mike, what's going on? Big money? 0:04:22.680 --> 0:04:25.960 What's up? Gentlemen? How y'all living? We're doing all right, man, 0:04:26.320 --> 0:04:28.240 We're trying to trying to stay alive. How are you? Yeah, 0:04:28.279 --> 0:04:32.960 you can probably guess it, dude. I love watching your 0:04:32.960 --> 0:04:34.919 I g when it comes to town, Brady Man, so 0:04:34.960 --> 0:04:38.880 I want to give him my condolences to you. Much appreciated. Man. 0:04:38.960 --> 0:04:41.200 It was great twenty years. It's just sad that he's 0:04:41.240 --> 0:04:44.120 good Tampa Bay. I don't even get me started. It's 0:04:44.160 --> 0:04:47.279 been a long week discussing Tampa Bay Buccaneers. I can't 0:04:47.279 --> 0:04:50.320 believe I gotta watch that franchise. But anyway, I digress. 0:04:50.640 --> 0:04:52.640 How are you doing? Like? How's the quarantine treating you? 0:04:53.960 --> 0:04:56.720 I'm happy, man, Quarantine is cool for me. I'm naturally 0:04:56.760 --> 0:04:59.320 an introvert, so I'm getting a lot of work done. 0:05:00.360 --> 0:05:02.760 I'm over here. I just had a full on arguing 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:06.000 with my homies over WhatsApp. In three different countries. You say, 0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:12.360 that's pretty fun, are you about the stupidest thing? We got? 0:05:13.040 --> 0:05:16.480 One is over and um England, and one is in Germany, 0:05:16.480 --> 0:05:18.159 and then you know, I'm over here in the US. 0:05:19.120 --> 0:05:25.000 So we just arguing about sports and everything between. It 0:05:26.400 --> 0:05:28.960 is pretty funny that even though we're all like quarantined 0:05:29.000 --> 0:05:32.800 and isolated, it kind of like makes us forces us 0:05:32.839 --> 0:05:35.200 to connect with our friends a little bit more often 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:39.520 and more deeply deeper. Right, So, like me personally, I've 0:05:39.520 --> 0:05:40.640 been talking to my friends a lot more than I 0:05:40.680 --> 0:05:42.880 would normally, just because everyone else is kind of like 0:05:42.880 --> 0:05:46.200 sitting around not really doing anything, you know what I mean. Absolutely, 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:48.000 That's why I think this is I'm trying to see 0:05:48.000 --> 0:05:50.360 the positive American you two know me know that, And 0:05:50.440 --> 0:05:53.719 so for me personally, it's a time for us to 0:05:53.720 --> 0:05:55.719 talk to those people that we kind of like not 0:05:55.800 --> 0:05:59.360 giving our attention to. Yeah, I spoke to my grandma 0:05:59.440 --> 0:06:01.520 quite a bit, and you know, getting to learn my 0:06:01.600 --> 0:06:03.520 sister a bit more and things of that nature. So 0:06:04.400 --> 0:06:07.560 not only can we focus on thanks we've been pushing 0:06:07.600 --> 0:06:10.559 to the side, but just building those connections. Playing board 0:06:10.560 --> 0:06:12.640 games with people, you know, that's really fun to do. 0:06:12.960 --> 0:06:15.360 It's something that as we, you know, become young, as 0:06:15.400 --> 0:06:17.440 we've become young adults too, like full on adults like 0:06:17.440 --> 0:06:21.159 three uless, you kind of forget how how much fun 0:06:21.200 --> 0:06:24.400 you can have with someone without like drinking obnoxially all 0:06:24.440 --> 0:06:27.280 the time and going out. So, Mike, have you been 0:06:27.320 --> 0:06:31.679 doing anything innovative like to try to keep yourself busy 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:34.440 past the time? Have you been doing anything differently but 0:06:34.520 --> 0:06:37.280 like you said, with friends, like, for example, our very 0:06:37.279 --> 0:06:39.680 own Tanya, Tanya Rat. She set up her dining room 0:06:39.680 --> 0:06:42.279 table as if it was a restaurant. She had menus 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:44.560 and candles, She got all dressed up by herself, She 0:06:44.600 --> 0:06:46.839 set up flowers. She kind of made a night of herself. 0:06:47.160 --> 0:06:49.200 Have you been doing anything like that, something out of 0:06:49.200 --> 0:06:51.680 the box? Well, damn all right, that's what you know 0:06:51.760 --> 0:06:54.359 what you just said. That's like having the greatest speaker 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:56.159 of all time go on stage and then you have 0:06:56.200 --> 0:06:59.880 to go on after that. I have not done nothing. 0:07:00.279 --> 0:07:03.920 Really amazing is that I would have been mepping, you know. 0:07:04.000 --> 0:07:07.080 The amazing is that I've just been playing grab bads, 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:13.560 watching Netflix. Netflix movie you've watched lately? Have you guys 0:07:13.600 --> 0:07:17.600 seen Days It's a little Dicky's new TV showing here. Yeah, 0:07:17.600 --> 0:07:21.000 my guy episode three, I just died. I just I 0:07:21.080 --> 0:07:24.840 was just hope fun. Everyone should check that out. I 0:07:24.880 --> 0:07:27.440 was watching Don't Cats. I know I'm kind of late 0:07:27.480 --> 0:07:30.560 to the game, but that's crazy. I think today I'm 0:07:30.560 --> 0:07:34.640 gonna watch that that Tiger one everyone talking about. Yeah, 0:07:34.720 --> 0:07:36.720 we can started that on this morning to Caitlin and I. 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:40.120 It's it's pretty weird. There's a lot of I don't know, 0:07:40.160 --> 0:07:41.680 I heard it gets weirder and weirder too. I like 0:07:41.680 --> 0:07:43.920 posted something and someone's like, you gotta watch that documentary. 0:07:43.960 --> 0:07:45.760 So that's kind of what we've been doing too. It's 0:07:45.760 --> 0:07:50.520 a lot of documentaries and like podcasts and stuff like that. Nice, same, same. 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:52.679 I just finished writing my book, so that's pretty dope. 0:07:54.200 --> 0:07:58.520 That the book. Yeah, I've been writing it, but you know, 0:07:59.440 --> 0:08:01.040 I finished it. What do you say? I'm sorry, Dean, 0:08:01.560 --> 0:08:03.520 So let's tell us some more about that, because I 0:08:03.560 --> 0:08:04.920 think you and I have talked about it a little bit, 0:08:04.920 --> 0:08:06.720 but I want to hear more for whatever you feel 0:08:06.720 --> 0:08:10.240 comfortable sharing, obviously for the listeners, but no, definitely, so 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:12.440 bro u Let's it's a book about, you know, how 0:08:12.480 --> 0:08:16.360 to be authentic to who you are and focusing on 0:08:17.160 --> 0:08:19.080 self intimacy so you could be the best person that 0:08:19.080 --> 0:08:20.960 you can never be, and how to obtain your freedom 0:08:20.960 --> 0:08:26.360 and joy. Okay, so is it written from like personal 0:08:26.400 --> 0:08:29.960 experiences or what do you kind of draw off from 0:08:30.000 --> 0:08:32.960 It's written well, to be honest, I you know, off 0:08:32.960 --> 0:08:35.760 the shows, we get a lot of messages and I'll 0:08:35.760 --> 0:08:38.280 started reading my dms that people would you know, I say, 0:08:38.280 --> 0:08:42.199 I'm going through this, I'm going through that, and it 0:08:42.280 --> 0:08:44.640 was I was taking like deep thought into responding to them, 0:08:44.679 --> 0:08:46.920 and it kind of just after responding so many times, 0:08:46.920 --> 0:08:49.000 it just developed and you know, it just turned into 0:08:49.040 --> 0:08:51.199 paper and I wrote a book on it. So there's 0:08:51.240 --> 0:08:53.400 different I have mantras in a book at the end 0:08:53.400 --> 0:08:55.760 of every chapter that you'll have a mantra. I have 0:08:55.800 --> 0:08:59.439 different exercises. You're looking a book multiple ones. I speak 0:08:59.480 --> 0:09:03.920 from stories that are of my own of insecurities I've 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:06.480 had to overcome, and then I speak from insecurities of 0:09:06.600 --> 0:09:08.360 others and had and those things that they had to 0:09:08.400 --> 0:09:12.200 overcome in our problems. So we talked from anything from 0:09:12.400 --> 0:09:18.200 UH sexual traumas to sexual abuse to UH drugs, overdosing 0:09:18.280 --> 0:09:22.360 on that too, just being a mom and your body changing. Right, 0:09:22.440 --> 0:09:23.800 So I mean we talk on so many different things 0:09:23.840 --> 0:09:26.400 within the book, to having you know, your favorite player, 0:09:26.760 --> 0:09:33.199 you know, leave your franchise. That's amazing, man. Good luck 0:09:33.240 --> 0:09:36.320 with that. So the book is finished. Um, we'll be 0:09:36.440 --> 0:09:38.320 very excited to read the books, So please keep us 0:09:38.400 --> 0:09:41.679 updated about when it's published and when people can get 0:09:41.720 --> 0:09:43.719 their hands on this. But I do have to ask 0:09:43.720 --> 0:09:46.800 you one question before you go, because Mike, Mike Johnson, 0:09:46.800 --> 0:09:50.439 you're recently in the news because there's some dating rumors 0:09:51.160 --> 0:09:56.040 about you and a former Bachelor contestant who was on 0:09:56.080 --> 0:10:00.200 Peter season, Kelly Flannagan. And so give us a Mike, 0:10:00.280 --> 0:10:03.240 what's going on? Are you social distance dating right now 0:10:03.240 --> 0:10:07.559 with Kelly Flinn again? Zero? First thing shake you knows. 0:10:08.080 --> 0:10:10.360 I was just on the phone with the homie last 0:10:10.600 --> 0:10:13.080 Hunter on i G Live. He just asked me, you know, 0:10:13.120 --> 0:10:15.040 like if I was talking to you, are being just 0:10:15.120 --> 0:10:17.360 on i G or whatever, And he asked me a 0:10:17.440 --> 0:10:19.920 question about Kelly, and I just said, I think she 0:10:20.000 --> 0:10:24.160 got some really cute dimples, um, and I think she 0:10:24.200 --> 0:10:25.800 comes from a good family. I think that's pretty much 0:10:25.800 --> 0:10:27.360 all I said. I probably said she was a bad too, 0:10:27.840 --> 0:10:30.320 you know, I talk and that was pretty much it. 0:10:30.400 --> 0:10:36.160 There's nothing going on in regards to that. Well, oh well, 0:10:36.200 --> 0:10:38.080 thank you for the update. Well, we're wishing nothing but 0:10:38.160 --> 0:10:40.480 the best, Mike. And if there's a Bachelor in Paradise 0:10:40.480 --> 0:10:43.560 this upcoming season, uh, you know, if everybody's safe, then 0:10:43.559 --> 0:10:45.080 I would I would love to see you out there 0:10:45.120 --> 0:10:47.200 and then maybe Kelly will be on there too with 0:10:47.240 --> 0:10:49.400 her dimples and who knows what will happen, But I 0:10:49.400 --> 0:10:51.079 wish you nothing but the best, Mike. You're a great guy, 0:10:51.120 --> 0:10:54.120 and stay safe. Okay, I appreciate that. You guys as well, 0:10:54.559 --> 0:10:58.320 we'll see you like how it going and too man, 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:00.600 Well there you go, and I think that's what we're 0:11:00.600 --> 0:11:02.520 gonna talk. We're gonna have a couple more guests from 0:11:02.559 --> 0:11:06.439 Bachelor Nation call in and share some of their experiences 0:11:06.520 --> 0:11:08.880 during quarantine as well. But I think that's gonna be 0:11:08.960 --> 0:11:12.800 kind of the root of the episode is how our 0:11:12.880 --> 0:11:16.600 friends are staying connected socially during this time that none 0:11:16.600 --> 0:11:19.000 of us have really been forced to endure at any 0:11:19.000 --> 0:11:20.760 point in lives. Because I guess that's interesting to think 0:11:20.800 --> 0:11:23.520 about is none of us have ever experienced anything like 0:11:23.600 --> 0:11:28.480 this before, obviously, and so how are we all handling it? Right? Yeah? 0:11:28.559 --> 0:11:32.320 I think, um, uh, you know, I was talking to 0:11:32.360 --> 0:11:34.640 my parents, and the other thing they can really really 0:11:34.640 --> 0:11:38.640 relate this time too, was back towards nine eleven. Obviously 0:11:38.720 --> 0:11:42.480 a different a different circumstance, but in terms of you know, 0:11:42.559 --> 0:11:45.679 the country and just shutting down, you know, back then 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:48.080 after nine eleven, really the country shut down for you know, 0:11:48.679 --> 0:11:51.040 a week, and it was just nothing was happening, and 0:11:51.040 --> 0:11:53.960 and uh, and now here we are going through the 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:57.840 COVID nineteen pandemic. I think, Dean and you can probably 0:11:58.360 --> 0:11:59.959 do the best of this because you're such an over 0:12:00.000 --> 0:12:04.120 are all positive and optimistic and wonderful human being and 0:12:04.160 --> 0:12:06.600 always happy that I do think that we do have 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:08.960 to kind of look at this in a um and 0:12:08.960 --> 0:12:10.839 and try to keep our spirits up because we all 0:12:10.840 --> 0:12:13.960 know that stress and anxiety only you know, damages the 0:12:13.960 --> 0:12:16.960 immune system. That's a scientific fact. And so I don't 0:12:17.000 --> 0:12:20.600 think we can really make decisions based out of fear, 0:12:20.720 --> 0:12:22.000 and we have to try to live our lives the 0:12:22.000 --> 0:12:25.400 best as possible with also, uh, you know, living within 0:12:25.679 --> 0:12:28.800 the rules that the CDC and the w h O 0:12:29.000 --> 0:12:32.359 and the United States government is giving us right now. UM. 0:12:32.520 --> 0:12:35.440 So that's my two cents on it. Deaners how are 0:12:35.440 --> 0:12:38.920 you feeling? I mean, you're you know, I remember talking 0:12:38.920 --> 0:12:41.640 to a couple of weeks about this and uh, you know, 0:12:41.679 --> 0:12:45.480 before everything started going down, and and how are you 0:12:45.480 --> 0:12:47.280 feeling about it now? How are you feeling about everything 0:12:47.280 --> 0:12:50.280 that's going on? Um? Well, I guess just to bring 0:12:50.280 --> 0:12:51.720 it back to your point real quick, to one of 0:12:51.720 --> 0:12:55.560 the things that I think are important to stay and 0:12:55.600 --> 0:12:58.240 happy and like not getting your best and all that 0:12:58.280 --> 0:12:59.800 kind of stuff, is at least getting outside of a 0:12:59.800 --> 0:13:04.360 little little bit every day, obviously abiding by the regulations 0:13:04.400 --> 0:13:05.880 I've been put in place, you know, stick keep your 0:13:05.880 --> 0:13:08.040 distance from people, but like get some sun exposure at 0:13:08.080 --> 0:13:11.319 the very least. Um. But I've been good man, you know, 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:14.640 I've just just been hanging out at me and Kaylin. Um. 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:17.280 I got some poison ivy that tags me pretty bad 0:13:17.320 --> 0:13:22.000 in Oregon. So I've been like scratching and itching and 0:13:22.000 --> 0:13:24.800 and pussing and oh my god, that's so that's honestly 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:31.439 laws being quarantined with you right now. Just dude, It's 0:13:31.559 --> 0:13:35.080 it's actually works. I'm like, I like, I'm rubbing cortizone 0:13:35.120 --> 0:13:37.880 on my body every hour on the hour. It's just 0:13:37.920 --> 0:13:40.080 like it's so painful, but It's not the first time 0:13:40.120 --> 0:13:42.080 I've had it, but this is definitely like the most. 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:44.400 It's like covering a good portion of both my legs 0:13:44.920 --> 0:13:46.840 and like my back a little bit and a little 0:13:46.840 --> 0:13:49.080 bit of my arm. So like at this point, I'm like, 0:13:49.120 --> 0:13:51.480 I'd rather have coronavirus than be covered in poison out 0:13:52.640 --> 0:13:55.200 Jared having me to ask you, are you trying to 0:13:55.240 --> 0:13:58.400 pick up any new interesting hobbies or interests while you're 0:13:58.440 --> 0:14:02.360 spending so much time self isolating. Uh? Not yet. So 0:14:03.200 --> 0:14:05.600 I actually want to learn how to play piano. So 0:14:05.679 --> 0:14:10.600 We're at Ashley's parents house and there is a piano here, 0:14:11.320 --> 0:14:13.560 so I would love to learn how to play. But 0:14:13.600 --> 0:14:16.400 there's a small problem. And the problem is the piano 0:14:17.160 --> 0:14:19.720 is in the middle of the damn house, and so 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:24.080 if I play, literally everybody will hear how much I suck, 0:14:24.800 --> 0:14:27.920 so my insecurities come out. So I I choose not 0:14:28.000 --> 0:14:30.200 to play because I know the only way I'm going 0:14:30.280 --> 0:14:31.800 to get better is to play. But I don't want 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:33.760 to play because I suck right now and everybody's gonna 0:14:33.760 --> 0:14:37.320 hear me. Instead, I'd rather be like in the basement, quarantined, 0:14:37.400 --> 0:14:40.480 buy myself down there, isolated so no one can hear 0:14:40.520 --> 0:14:43.800 about how bad I am when I try to play smooth, 0:14:44.040 --> 0:14:48.000 you know what I mean, I think, just yeah, I 0:14:48.000 --> 0:14:50.480 don't know. You wear some headphones that way. Well now 0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:52.080 I don't know, maybe you make them all their heads 0:14:52.120 --> 0:14:54.880 so I can't hear how bad I suck. Yeah, you 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:58.720 might think that you're playing really well. Yeah maybe I'm 0:14:58.720 --> 0:15:00.400 sure the family would be supported, but you know, I 0:15:00.440 --> 0:15:02.480 don't really need to add any more anxiety to their 0:15:02.520 --> 0:15:06.240 life by hearing me play the piano. But other hobbies, man, 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:08.000 I don't know. I've just been, like you said, trying 0:15:08.000 --> 0:15:10.040 to get some fresh air anytime I can. We take 0:15:10.080 --> 0:15:13.600 the dogs for walks. Um. It was. It's very awkward 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:16.080 because when I go on a walk, when we pass people, 0:15:16.720 --> 0:15:19.400 it's always that, you know, I go to the furthest 0:15:19.560 --> 0:15:21.560 right i possibly can, and then they'll go to the 0:15:21.640 --> 0:15:27.080 furthest right, and it's like this unspeakable not tension, but 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:30.160 like you know, you're supposed to stay as far away 0:15:30.200 --> 0:15:32.960 from people as possible, so even walking past someone's like 0:15:33.280 --> 0:15:35.280 all right, let's hurry up, let's go, let's go, let's go, 0:15:35.760 --> 0:15:39.800 and it's just it's, uh, it's weird. Man. I'm I'm 0:15:39.840 --> 0:15:43.520 I'm very uh anxious to like, see what the hell 0:15:43.600 --> 0:15:45.360 is going to happen here for the next month. I 0:15:45.400 --> 0:15:47.720 hate to interrupt, Jared, we don't know what's going to 0:15:47.800 --> 0:15:49.720 happen over the next month, but I do know that 0:15:50.440 --> 0:15:53.080 Katie Morton is on the phone with us and would 0:15:53.080 --> 0:15:56.400 love to share her thoughts of let's get Katie to 0:15:56.440 --> 0:16:01.040 dial in here. Here she is, Katie, what's going on? 0:16:02.000 --> 0:16:06.840 My dude? Hi, what's up? It's our favorite Katie Morton 0:16:07.160 --> 0:16:09.760 co host and welcome back. It's good to have you, 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:12.440 good to hear your voice. It's good to be back 0:16:12.520 --> 0:16:18.120 in stuck army. Who are starting to get those beanies 0:16:18.160 --> 0:16:20.280 out there? Dean? I know we need to figure that out. 0:16:20.280 --> 0:16:22.960 But Katie, how are you handling this the self isolation 0:16:23.080 --> 0:16:29.800 slash quarantine that we've all been obviously enduring lately. Well, honestly, 0:16:29.960 --> 0:16:37.760 the first week has been feeling almost freakishly normal because 0:16:38.520 --> 0:16:41.400 I think I live alone and I'm with my dog 0:16:41.440 --> 0:16:46.600 all the time, and I essentially work from home, so um, 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:49.640 it kind of felt normal. But the no human contact 0:16:49.680 --> 0:16:51.840 for me has been a little bit rough because I'm 0:16:51.880 --> 0:16:55.880 such a hugger and I haven't hugged someone in ten dates. 0:16:55.920 --> 0:16:58.560 Which is crazy to think about you and you should 0:16:58.560 --> 0:17:03.880 not be hugging someone for sometime unfortunately unfortunately. Yeah, So 0:17:03.960 --> 0:17:08.280 it's it's weird because human connection and touch is so 0:17:08.880 --> 0:17:12.320 imperative for our mental health, and there's so many people 0:17:12.320 --> 0:17:14.439 out there that are quarantined alone think, God, I have 0:17:14.520 --> 0:17:19.679 my dog. What are you doing to combat that? Um, 0:17:19.720 --> 0:17:23.000 honestly just cuddling with my dog and say I'm face 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:27.960 timing people, but they say, um, that actual human touch 0:17:28.040 --> 0:17:31.840 is so important. So unluckily for me, I didn't get 0:17:31.880 --> 0:17:34.840 linked up with a pod before or when quarantine was 0:17:34.880 --> 0:17:37.840 going down. I was by myself, um, and kind of 0:17:37.880 --> 0:17:40.600 just have to stick to stay by myself. I have asthma, 0:17:40.680 --> 0:17:43.880 so'm I am one of those groups that can't really 0:17:43.880 --> 0:17:47.000 be messing around out here. No, don't mess around at all. 0:17:47.040 --> 0:17:49.199 No one should be messing around. But I'm just saying, like, 0:17:49.400 --> 0:17:54.240 especially people that I have, like asthma or any pulmary issues. 0:17:54.800 --> 0:17:59.000 It's just like, it's it feels crazy. It's interesting that 0:17:59.040 --> 0:18:01.320 we're in this in death in its space right now. 0:18:01.480 --> 0:18:03.760 And I think I overheard Chaired when I was waiting 0:18:03.800 --> 0:18:08.520 to come on talking about walking the dog. It's it's weird. 0:18:08.600 --> 0:18:10.280 Out there when you're you kind of have a weird 0:18:10.320 --> 0:18:12.919 stared on with someone and you just do this docy 0:18:13.000 --> 0:18:19.600 doll around each other in the streets and just keep walking. Yeah, Kayla, 0:18:19.640 --> 0:18:22.679 And just sent me this video of a owner that 0:18:22.760 --> 0:18:24.760 was walking his dog with his drone. He tied his 0:18:24.840 --> 0:18:26.720 drone to the dog's leash, and I think that's time 0:18:26.800 --> 0:18:31.960 we start walking Pappy. Please do. And then that's the 0:18:32.040 --> 0:18:34.400 only Instagram footage you're allowed to post for the rest 0:18:34.400 --> 0:18:36.720 of the year. I know that's the thing too. It's like, 0:18:36.960 --> 0:18:38.879 what are we supposed to post on Instagram? Just pictures 0:18:38.880 --> 0:18:41.400 of us sitting around her house being boring and lazy. 0:18:42.720 --> 0:18:46.040 I mean yeah, essentially, Yeah, just post pantry photos just 0:18:46.080 --> 0:18:51.480 whoever is that the best pantry or starts thinking of 0:18:51.520 --> 0:18:55.320 different things to post around the house or like create videos. Yeah, 0:18:55.400 --> 0:18:58.400 I think I'm gonna just make a TikTok and and 0:18:58.560 --> 0:19:00.240 make fun of every one of you guys is that 0:19:00.280 --> 0:19:03.720 has TikTok dance videos. That's well if that would be 0:19:03.800 --> 0:19:06.639 me being I'm obsessed with TikTok and so yes, please 0:19:06.680 --> 0:19:09.159 come do a duet with me on TikTok. It's like 0:19:09.240 --> 0:19:11.359 basically a little dance battle. I would love for you 0:19:11.400 --> 0:19:13.399 to make a TikTok and do it with me. No, 0:19:13.520 --> 0:19:15.439 I don't think if you understand I wouldn't do it 0:19:15.600 --> 0:19:19.480 with you. I would um, I would mock you. No, 0:19:19.600 --> 0:19:21.879 I get that you could do a duet of my 0:19:22.080 --> 0:19:24.720 video next to your video and you directly mocking me. 0:19:24.880 --> 0:19:28.320 I see, okay, okay, yeah, I'll think. I'm thinking about it, 0:19:28.359 --> 0:19:30.440 you know, I'm I'm slowly warming up to the video 0:19:30.440 --> 0:19:33.320 of making a TikTok Jared. Jared said he made one. 0:19:33.359 --> 0:19:39.520 So yeah, there's most TikTok in general. It's what there's 0:19:39.560 --> 0:19:42.040 different types. You don't have to just do a dance TikTok. 0:19:42.080 --> 0:19:45.760 There's there's other tiktoks. There's artie tiktoks. There's just ones 0:19:45.840 --> 0:19:49.639 with animals. You could do a pappy TikTok. Um you 0:19:49.640 --> 0:19:51.639 could do you could put all of your you know, 0:19:51.760 --> 0:19:55.080 some of the coolest tiktoks are traveled. There are drone 0:19:55.160 --> 0:19:58.480 videos on TikTok. If you go into the depths of TikTok, 0:19:58.920 --> 0:20:01.400 it's a bunch of there's some travel ones out there. 0:20:01.440 --> 0:20:04.560 Being that some of your previous content would be really 0:20:04.600 --> 0:20:06.840 cool on. So it's not all dancing. A lot of 0:20:06.840 --> 0:20:09.560 it's cringey dancing, but there's more to it. I'll think 0:20:09.560 --> 0:20:11.440 about it. I don't know if I'm seeking on the 0:20:11.520 --> 0:20:13.359 dance on TikTok. That's all I want to say. I 0:20:13.400 --> 0:20:14.800 don't know if I'm too keen on the idea of 0:20:14.800 --> 0:20:17.800 the Chinese government having all my information. But that's okay, 0:20:17.840 --> 0:20:22.080 that's that's neither here nor there. But what else have 0:20:22.119 --> 0:20:25.040 you been doing during the quarantine? How do you besides 0:20:25.040 --> 0:20:27.920 like face timing? Are you binging any shows on Netflix 0:20:28.000 --> 0:20:31.400 or Hulu or anything like that? Um? Yeah, I actually 0:20:31.480 --> 0:20:33.880 restarted Sex in the City. I think it's on it's 0:20:33.920 --> 0:20:36.880 on Prime video. I restarted the Sex in the City series, 0:20:37.000 --> 0:20:41.120 and that show is way ahead of its time. Tell 0:20:41.240 --> 0:20:44.000 us more, what do you mean? I mean it's in't 0:20:44.119 --> 0:20:49.040 it was started and the first episode, the first four episodes, 0:20:49.240 --> 0:20:53.880 they talked about their talking about gay marriage. They're talking about, um, 0:20:53.880 --> 0:20:56.199 it's it's just talking about a lot of things that 0:20:56.240 --> 0:20:59.520 would at that time be considered some taboo topics, and 0:20:59.560 --> 0:21:03.000 they're talking about I think the first first episode is 0:21:03.040 --> 0:21:06.359 talking about women having sex like men and treating it 0:21:06.440 --> 0:21:10.359 like how men treat on like with dating. So it 0:21:10.440 --> 0:21:14.119 was just a really interesting kind of way that I 0:21:14.119 --> 0:21:16.520 went back to Tex in the City was watching. It 0:21:16.680 --> 0:21:19.000 was like people are now talking about this stuff and 0:21:19.840 --> 0:21:23.760 that was so I wonder what the controversy was during 0:21:23.760 --> 0:21:27.800 this time about this show. H interesting. Well, Sex of 0:21:27.840 --> 0:21:30.760 the City we had we had this guy Greg barrent 0:21:31.040 --> 0:21:34.080 On before. He was actually a script consultant for Sex 0:21:34.080 --> 0:21:37.320 in the City and he also uh co authored. He's 0:21:37.359 --> 0:21:40.320 just not that into and the dude is probably one 0:21:40.359 --> 0:21:42.399 of the most fascinating guys I've ever talked to and 0:21:42.440 --> 0:21:45.359 one of the most knowledgeable guys within dating. He should 0:21:45.560 --> 0:21:47.920 really be hosting his podcast, not us, but I digress. 0:21:48.480 --> 0:21:54.600 He uh, he was awesome, and he told me that 0:21:54.720 --> 0:22:00.119 like he was a part of creating bit and that 0:22:00.280 --> 0:22:04.359 character of who Big is, he what he represents for 0:22:04.480 --> 0:22:11.000 all of mankind, the dynamic between Big and Sarah Parker's character, 0:22:11.320 --> 0:22:13.320 like he was involved in all that, and that is 0:22:13.400 --> 0:22:15.960 fascinating to me because as you are watching Sex in 0:22:16.040 --> 0:22:18.320 the City, Dean is definitely not paying attention anymore. But 0:22:18.600 --> 0:22:22.879 I'm fascinated by the idea of a big someone's big. 0:22:24.240 --> 0:22:25.840 So let me ask you. I want to ask you, 0:22:25.880 --> 0:22:29.200 k because I talked about this podcast before Ashley says 0:22:29.320 --> 0:22:34.760 I'm not her Big, because she says that her big 0:22:35.000 --> 0:22:38.240 is someone that like tortured her, that like she loved 0:22:38.280 --> 0:22:42.359 so much but just tortured her. And then apparently, even 0:22:42.359 --> 0:22:46.080 though spoiler alert, Sarah Jessica Parker ends up with Big 0:22:46.119 --> 0:22:48.600 at the end of the movie, one of the creators 0:22:48.600 --> 0:22:51.240 of Sex in the City says that's their biggest regret 0:22:51.600 --> 0:22:53.639 is that she should not have ended up with Big. 0:22:53.880 --> 0:22:57.840 So what are your thoughts about Yeah, they said that 0:22:57.920 --> 0:22:59.280 I forgot I can't bring it up and now I 0:22:59.320 --> 0:23:01.440 can't think of it. But one of the creators said 0:23:01.480 --> 0:23:03.159 that they thought was one of the biggest regrets of 0:23:03.200 --> 0:23:05.000 the show and the movies, that she ended up with 0:23:05.160 --> 0:23:08.520 Big when she shouldn't have. You know what, that's funny 0:23:08.560 --> 0:23:11.280 because as I'm watching it now, I've definitely had a 0:23:11.320 --> 0:23:14.480 Big and I back then I used to be like, Wow, 0:23:14.600 --> 0:23:17.320 where's my Big? Now I know I've had a Big before, 0:23:17.400 --> 0:23:19.520 and I'm like, I'm so glad I'm not with Dick. 0:23:19.680 --> 0:23:23.720 I would have picked eight in all day. Yeah, better 0:23:23.760 --> 0:23:27.240 than Big. You still there, head, you guys. I just 0:23:27.320 --> 0:23:29.120 don't know. This cool new game on my phone called 0:23:29.200 --> 0:23:33.040 Ultimate Disc. It's so fun. I sure, I don't know 0:23:33.080 --> 0:23:35.080 what Dean was doing, but Dean, I just got the 0:23:35.119 --> 0:23:38.919 Nintendo Switching today, got Animal Crossing and Super Smash. So 0:23:39.000 --> 0:23:41.800 I don't know if you're on Nintendo sw yes, you 0:23:41.960 --> 0:23:44.480 actually got the switch. That's badass. I haven't got Animal 0:23:44.520 --> 0:23:46.720 Crossing yet. But isn't it like Chrissy Teagan's favorite game? 0:23:48.080 --> 0:23:50.919 Um I saw her. I don't know if it is 0:23:51.040 --> 0:23:55.240 been wow, she's my idol um. I love Christy Teagan. 0:23:55.400 --> 0:23:57.679 But yeah, I just got in Animal Crossing today. It 0:23:57.760 --> 0:23:59.560 was late from the pre order and I didn't know 0:23:59.560 --> 0:24:01.840 I could did really download it like a like a loser, 0:24:01.960 --> 0:24:04.919 But uh, I totally just got it in today my 0:24:04.960 --> 0:24:08.600 switch came, so I'm pumped. I'll give you some advice. 0:24:08.640 --> 0:24:10.840 Download Reath of the Wild, the Legend of Elba game. 0:24:10.920 --> 0:24:13.560 It's uh, it's one of the games where I've beaten 0:24:13.560 --> 0:24:14.920 it a couple of times, but I can never put 0:24:14.920 --> 0:24:16.280 it down. I always pick it back up. It's my 0:24:16.320 --> 0:24:22.280 it's my recommendation for you for you, Katie. So, because 0:24:22.640 --> 0:24:24.399 I'm curious, there's probably a lot of people listening to 0:24:24.400 --> 0:24:27.440 this podcast right now that might be socially isolated by themselves, 0:24:27.520 --> 0:24:33.600 like yourself, So how are you remaining social during this 0:24:33.800 --> 0:24:37.720 social distancing and social isolation? Are you doing anything innovative 0:24:37.800 --> 0:24:43.600 between FaceTime, Skype or anything like that. So I'm actually 0:24:43.960 --> 0:24:49.280 I have scheduled little FaceTime dates with my girls night 0:24:49.640 --> 0:24:53.200 in with my girls from back home. But we we 0:24:53.200 --> 0:24:55.480 were asking ourselves why we didn't do this sooner because 0:24:55.480 --> 0:24:58.640 my friends from back home I haven't seen in months anyway, 0:24:58.640 --> 0:25:02.160 because they're in Louisiana. So um, I think the reason 0:25:02.200 --> 0:25:03.600 we didn't do it is because they all get to 0:25:03.600 --> 0:25:05.480 see each other at like for a little wine nights 0:25:05.480 --> 0:25:07.680 and stuff, and I was just always the one not included. 0:25:07.920 --> 0:25:09.920 But now I'm just included in wine nights, so it's 0:25:09.960 --> 0:25:13.360 kind of nice. Um, since they're all having to stay 0:25:13.359 --> 0:25:17.320 in their houses and um, I'm on, I'm on dating 0:25:17.359 --> 0:25:21.840 app because I just got bored and but it's those 0:25:21.880 --> 0:25:24.520 are kind of boring too. So that's why I bought 0:25:24.520 --> 0:25:27.119 the Nintendo Switch, because I was, like, you know what, 0:25:27.800 --> 0:25:29.960 back home with my brother, I would have preferred to 0:25:29.960 --> 0:25:32.359 play video games, and since I'm not there, I needed 0:25:32.400 --> 0:25:35.680 to get some type of console. Would you be open 0:25:35.680 --> 0:25:38.280 to the idea of face timing with with somebody from 0:25:38.320 --> 0:25:43.560 the dating app. Um, yeah, it's yeah, I mean I'm 0:25:43.560 --> 0:25:46.520 open to Yeah, I'm open to the idea that, Yeah, 0:25:46.600 --> 0:25:49.720 depending on the connection, depending on a couple of teams. 0:25:51.520 --> 0:25:53.520 One of my friends I won't say who it is 0:25:53.560 --> 0:25:58.240 because this was so stupid of them. Uh, they were 0:25:58.280 --> 0:26:00.240 talking to someone on the dating app. And this was 0:26:00.280 --> 0:26:02.880 only a few days ago, and there was some sort 0:26:02.920 --> 0:26:08.040 of social distancing party that she went to where it 0:26:08.119 --> 0:26:11.480 was I know, it was so stupid. So she went 0:26:11.520 --> 0:26:13.960 to this this party with the guy that she meant 0:26:13.960 --> 0:26:17.119 on HMS. They all stayed six ft apart, but there 0:26:17.200 --> 0:26:18.919 was there was still like eight to ten of them 0:26:18.920 --> 0:26:22.919 there apparently, and so and then of course what happens 0:26:22.960 --> 0:26:25.680 at the end of the night, she makes out of him. 0:26:26.840 --> 0:26:32.000 I know. It was just so people don't really off 0:26:32.720 --> 0:26:37.639 I know, so don't do that. Uh was a mistake. 0:26:37.920 --> 0:26:39.840 She recognized it was a mistake, but it was just 0:26:40.440 --> 0:26:42.200 they you know, of course, you like had a couple 0:26:42.200 --> 0:26:44.280 of glasses of wine or whatever, and then you know, 0:26:44.320 --> 0:26:45.959 it was just like the end of the night, and 0:26:46.000 --> 0:26:49.640 then they were six ft apart, and then two seconds later, 0:26:50.320 --> 0:26:55.200 Uh they were not six ft apart. So uh, people 0:26:55.240 --> 0:26:58.359 need to you know, I laughed, but it's really not funny. 0:26:58.359 --> 0:27:01.600 Actually at these times, uh, people need to stay the 0:27:01.720 --> 0:27:05.439 ft home like Katie's doing, and especially like you know, 0:27:05.480 --> 0:27:09.040 everybody says, you know, the young and healthy are not 0:27:09.359 --> 0:27:12.800 as as much to risk of this, which is true 0:27:13.080 --> 0:27:15.600 by the numbers. But at the same time, someone like 0:27:15.680 --> 0:27:18.040 Katie is not. You know, like you said, Katie, you 0:27:18.040 --> 0:27:20.080 have asthma and and you know you you can't take 0:27:20.160 --> 0:27:21.919 this lightly. So no one in this world should take 0:27:21.920 --> 0:27:26.080 it lightly either. Um no, And it's it's it's just 0:27:26.160 --> 0:27:28.959 starting to get really selfish right now. People are saying, oh, 0:27:29.040 --> 0:27:30.920 it's not a big dealer. Oh I don't have corona. 0:27:30.960 --> 0:27:33.640 I'm like, oh you don't. Do you really know that? 0:27:33.680 --> 0:27:38.040 When people because I've had friends even to recently asked 0:27:38.080 --> 0:27:39.600 me to come over, and the fact that people are 0:27:39.640 --> 0:27:41.880 asking me to randomly come over and it's seeming so 0:27:42.000 --> 0:27:44.879 chilled there the words are flowing out of their mouths 0:27:44.880 --> 0:27:47.760 that easily. They're like, oh, you're bored, come over. I'm like, wait, 0:27:47.840 --> 0:27:51.040 what whoa why is your brain thinking this way? That's 0:27:51.080 --> 0:27:54.119 concerning to me because someone like me saying no, but 0:27:54.160 --> 0:27:56.480 there could be someone out there that's like, oh sure, 0:27:56.640 --> 0:28:00.600 why not? I mean I don't understand what people don't 0:28:00.720 --> 0:28:06.800 understand about staying home and not like not separating from 0:28:06.800 --> 0:28:09.199 the pod that you were with when you when everything 0:28:09.240 --> 0:28:13.200 went down and when we decided to quarantine. Um, it's 0:28:13.240 --> 0:28:15.840 super of course attempting to some people that are alone. 0:28:15.920 --> 0:28:18.600 I understand that mental health out there. I'm really concerned 0:28:18.640 --> 0:28:22.280 for people because, um, it's it's easy to stay inside 0:28:22.359 --> 0:28:25.600 right now, obviously because we are supposed to. But it's 0:28:25.800 --> 0:28:28.920 very imperative for people to get some sort of sunlight 0:28:29.119 --> 0:28:33.000 and some sort of exercise just to maintain uh, the 0:28:33.000 --> 0:28:35.920 their mental health and to keep anxiety levels down. And 0:28:36.040 --> 0:28:38.080 I really want people to stress that, and I also 0:28:38.120 --> 0:28:43.280 want people to just be smarter. It's it's hard to cope, um. 0:28:43.360 --> 0:28:45.440 But at the same time, I think this is a 0:28:45.440 --> 0:28:47.760 good time for people to try and start building routines 0:28:47.760 --> 0:28:50.840 that they otherwise would have said that they don't have 0:28:50.920 --> 0:28:53.640 enough time for before because they're too busy rushing to work. 0:28:53.680 --> 0:28:56.360 So this is the time to start figuring that kind 0:28:56.360 --> 0:28:59.200 of stuff out. In my opinion is we're just take 0:28:59.200 --> 0:29:02.000 a break or just take a break because we were 0:29:02.040 --> 0:29:04.880 all people out there in America. A lot of people 0:29:04.920 --> 0:29:09.200 are overworked anyway, I know, I feel really bad, but 0:29:09.240 --> 0:29:13.720 there's so many businesses and small businesses, large businesses, people 0:29:13.760 --> 0:29:18.000 everywhere losing jobs and that is heartbreaking. Uh, the world 0:29:18.040 --> 0:29:20.080 just it seems to be crumbling. But in this time, 0:29:20.240 --> 0:29:23.880 just people need to come together. Really, I mean, it's 0:29:23.880 --> 0:29:26.760 not all about digging deep. There's so many different factors 0:29:26.800 --> 0:29:30.960 to everything that's going on and money and everything. It's 0:29:31.000 --> 0:29:33.160 just like, it's just really heartbreaking to see our world 0:29:33.200 --> 0:29:36.120 is kind of somewhat crumbling, crumbling. But at the same time, 0:29:36.880 --> 0:29:39.840 there's a part of me that feels really positive and 0:29:40.000 --> 0:29:42.920 uplifted about how many people are able to connect at 0:29:43.000 --> 0:29:46.520 this time and um, come together right now. Um, there's 0:29:46.560 --> 0:29:48.720 a lot of there's a lot of connection happening in 0:29:48.800 --> 0:29:52.120 social media that I think wasn't present before. So that's 0:29:52.200 --> 0:29:56.160 kind of a nice little upside that's going on. Yeah, 0:29:56.320 --> 0:29:59.320 I agree, I think we're stronger together before we go. 0:29:59.360 --> 0:30:02.040 I just have one quite and since uh, neither Jared 0:30:02.040 --> 0:30:04.400 nor me can be on the dating apps now, obviously, 0:30:04.440 --> 0:30:07.160 what is it like being on the apps during a 0:30:07.240 --> 0:30:13.320 time like this? The guys, it's so weird. Um, First 0:30:13.320 --> 0:30:16.240 of all, you can't talk about things you've done that 0:30:16.320 --> 0:30:18.960 day because at this point, you know, a guy's telling me, 0:30:19.360 --> 0:30:21.520 I claimed my room and did my laundry, Like normally, 0:30:21.560 --> 0:30:23.240 I don't think you're talking about it about that in 0:30:23.320 --> 0:30:25.160 dating apps, but at this point people are down to 0:30:25.200 --> 0:30:29.480 listening what their chores were that day. Um, the only 0:30:29.480 --> 0:30:31.920 thing you can really do is ask people, you know, 0:30:32.200 --> 0:30:34.120 play the questions game. I ask people a bunch of 0:30:34.200 --> 0:30:37.880 questions or uh, I don't know. There's not much to 0:30:37.960 --> 0:30:40.160 do out there. So that's why I haven't really been 0:30:40.200 --> 0:30:42.600 investing a lot of time in dating apps. I think 0:30:42.640 --> 0:30:46.480 that I piddle around here and there. Sometimes I just 0:30:46.520 --> 0:30:49.000 like do a little ways and then most of the 0:30:49.000 --> 0:30:51.240 time you get the same questions, how's your quarantine going? 0:30:51.320 --> 0:30:53.720 Not great? How is yours going to start crazy? Whatever? 0:30:54.040 --> 0:30:57.320 It's kind of it's like, how's your quarantine going wonderful? 0:30:58.000 --> 0:31:01.440 I'm so happy? How about you? It's like three answers 0:31:01.440 --> 0:31:03.760 you can answer, and then the conversation kind of goes 0:31:03.800 --> 0:31:07.600 in circles. So, UM, I don't know. I would love 0:31:07.640 --> 0:31:09.840 to see how many people come out of this, or 0:31:09.880 --> 0:31:14.520 the numbers to how many people UH found themselves in 0:31:14.560 --> 0:31:19.200 a love is blind situation and actually made solid connections 0:31:19.240 --> 0:31:21.520 after this quarantine I would love to know the actual 0:31:21.600 --> 0:31:24.760 numbers after this. Well, I guess we can only wait 0:31:24.800 --> 0:31:26.400 and find out. But Katie, thank you so much for 0:31:26.480 --> 0:31:35.280 joining us everything you said as always, Yeah, I love 0:31:35.360 --> 0:31:40.880 you to take care. I'm kind of this is going 0:31:40.920 --> 0:31:42.880 to come across probably it sounds really bad. I'm kind 0:31:42.880 --> 0:31:44.160 of jealous that she gets to be on the dating 0:31:44.200 --> 0:31:48.920 app right now. Don't tell Kalen. Obviously it's a joke. 0:31:49.080 --> 0:31:50.920 But like, you know, if she gets to just fill 0:31:50.960 --> 0:31:52.760 her time by talking to a bunch of random strangers, 0:31:52.760 --> 0:31:57.400 and that sounds pretty fun? Does it sound fun? Yeah, dude, 0:31:57.440 --> 0:32:00.160 I mean maybe like in moderation, you know, to a 0:32:00.160 --> 0:32:03.200 certain extent. All right, let me let me ask you this, 0:32:03.240 --> 0:32:06.720 would you if you had the option, uh, would you 0:32:06.880 --> 0:32:11.880 rather be quarantined for a month by yourself or quarantined 0:32:12.320 --> 0:32:15.640 with your significant other for a month. Well, if we're 0:32:15.640 --> 0:32:17.320 playing the would you ralegant? I mean obviously, Look, I'd 0:32:17.400 --> 0:32:19.960 rather be with Caitlin for any extended period of time. 0:32:20.040 --> 0:32:23.360 There's no question. I'm just saying there's I'm trying to 0:32:23.400 --> 0:32:26.080 make it provide a silver lining for those that are, 0:32:26.360 --> 0:32:29.080 you know, maybe not in a relationship. Well, I guess 0:32:29.120 --> 0:32:31.480 my question was uh, and and and we have Peter 0:32:31.720 --> 0:32:33.600 on the line too, so maybe we'll come back to 0:32:33.640 --> 0:32:37.920 that question for Dean. Um. So we have Peter Cross, yes, 0:32:38.040 --> 0:32:40.440 But before before we take Peter though, Jared, let's take 0:32:40.440 --> 0:32:41.959 a quick break and it'll come back and get him 0:32:41.960 --> 0:32:52.600 on the phone. All right, we're back from the break, 0:32:52.680 --> 0:32:56.680 and now we have everyone's favorite Peter Krause on the line. 0:32:56.800 --> 0:33:00.040 Ladies and gentlemen, Peter, how's it going, good man? I 0:33:00.040 --> 0:33:01.800 haven't heard your voice a little bit? How you I 0:33:01.880 --> 0:33:04.000 was just about to say we just I missed out 0:33:04.040 --> 0:33:08.360 on your birthday this year because you just turned thirty one. Wow, 0:33:08.520 --> 0:33:12.480 way off, man, thirty four I'm getting up there. Thirty four, 0:33:13.680 --> 0:33:23.240 Um obviously right, uh, twenty five next month? Actually, what hey, 0:33:23.280 --> 0:33:25.320 I'm sorry you're You've got a youthful spirit, you know, 0:33:25.400 --> 0:33:28.600 so it's better to be younger than to seem older, 0:33:28.640 --> 0:33:31.200 I guess. But how's it going? Man? It's gonna hear 0:33:31.240 --> 0:33:36.000 your voice too, Yeah, dude, I'm weather in the storm 0:33:36.080 --> 0:33:38.640 right now. We'll go with that. Yeah. So obviously, for 0:33:38.680 --> 0:33:41.840 the listeners out there, I'm certain that you already know 0:33:41.880 --> 0:33:45.720 who Peter is. But he owns his own gym, out 0:33:45.760 --> 0:33:48.560 in Madison, Wisconsin. But obviously with everything that's going on, 0:33:48.760 --> 0:33:50.960 you've been focusing a lot more on like workout at 0:33:50.960 --> 0:33:55.000 home type stuff. Right yeah, well right now, the so 0:33:55.080 --> 0:33:56.880 like I just got off a long conference call about 0:33:56.960 --> 0:34:01.520 finding ways to find basically funding with our doors are 0:34:01.520 --> 0:34:04.440 now closed, and you know, there's memberships and all that 0:34:04.440 --> 0:34:07.240 that are being canceled and classes that are no longer happening, 0:34:07.240 --> 0:34:09.759 and so there's a huge deficit and income and so 0:34:09.840 --> 0:34:12.920 trying to find ways to make up for that because 0:34:12.960 --> 0:34:15.200 it's you know, my main source of income and I 0:34:15.239 --> 0:34:17.520 got to support a gym and all that. So it's 0:34:17.520 --> 0:34:19.200 been interesting for these the last couple of weeks trying 0:34:19.200 --> 0:34:22.920 to figure out ways to find new sources of incomes. 0:34:22.920 --> 0:34:26.239 So now I'm doing online video and boot camps and 0:34:26.280 --> 0:34:28.800 all that. Well, So I guess it's interesting because we 0:34:28.880 --> 0:34:30.680 had a couple of our other bachelor friends on the 0:34:30.719 --> 0:34:33.960 podcast today, but you're the first that's like a legitimate 0:34:34.000 --> 0:34:37.319 business owner like that. So what is it it's for you? 0:34:37.400 --> 0:34:40.200 I mean, it's like obviously there's an added fear of people, 0:34:40.320 --> 0:34:43.480 like you said, canceling their memberships. What what has it 0:34:43.560 --> 0:34:46.319 happen like, Like, I mean it's pretty stressful. I would 0:34:46.320 --> 0:34:50.440 imagine I don't want to more stress to it. But basically, 0:34:50.440 --> 0:34:53.799 all right, so the gym costs tens of thousands of 0:34:53.840 --> 0:34:56.800 dollars a month to keep a float basically, and imagine 0:34:56.800 --> 0:34:59.080 you get that instantly cut in half when you have 0:34:59.120 --> 0:35:03.600 to cancel class is because of social distancing, and so 0:35:03.680 --> 0:35:06.200 that goes for a week, two weeks, something like that, 0:35:06.400 --> 0:35:09.000 and then all of a sudden they say that you 0:35:09.000 --> 0:35:13.000 can't even open your doors to general population um and 0:35:13.080 --> 0:35:17.040 so it brings up like an inner turmoil. It's do 0:35:17.239 --> 0:35:20.480 I follow all guidelines and shut doors completely, or do 0:35:20.560 --> 0:35:23.160 I allow people to make their own decisions that have 0:35:23.239 --> 0:35:25.360 memberships and allow them to continue to come in, because 0:35:25.640 --> 0:35:27.920 if I tell them they can't, they'll cancel their memberships. 0:35:27.960 --> 0:35:31.040 And then you know, I'm not a millionaire. I don't 0:35:31.080 --> 0:35:35.400 have money just waiting in hidden places to bail myself 0:35:35.440 --> 0:35:37.879 out when I need it. Like when you owe ten 0:35:37.920 --> 0:35:40.440 plus grand a month and there's zero dollars coming in, 0:35:40.480 --> 0:35:44.120 it disappears quickly. That's crazy. Are you coping them just 0:35:44.239 --> 0:35:47.239 personally outside of the business aspect of things like are 0:35:47.280 --> 0:35:50.040 you continuing to talk to people that your friends with 0:35:50.200 --> 0:35:52.000 are you still like seeing your friends or are you 0:35:52.040 --> 0:35:55.680 just face timing or what are you doing? Been talking 0:35:55.680 --> 0:35:57.279 to my family a lot more. That's been nights have 0:35:57.320 --> 0:36:00.719 been fati my brother and his kids, and talking to 0:36:00.719 --> 0:36:02.799 my parents. They wanted me to come out to their 0:36:02.800 --> 0:36:05.640 house for my birthday, and I said for safety purposes no, 0:36:05.880 --> 0:36:08.920 So I spent my birthday alone, but FaceTime with some 0:36:08.960 --> 0:36:10.440 people and caught up with some friends I had in 0:36:10.440 --> 0:36:15.400 a while. It's it's different. It's been forcing inter personal 0:36:15.400 --> 0:36:17.480 communication that maybe had fallen off the period of time 0:36:17.480 --> 0:36:20.560 because we're all so busy with our general daily lives 0:36:20.560 --> 0:36:23.080 that we kind of forget about close friendships and family 0:36:23.120 --> 0:36:26.200 and all that at times. Yeah, that's fair. So for 0:36:26.200 --> 0:36:30.719 for the listeners too that maybe aren't as familiar with 0:36:30.800 --> 0:36:36.000 Peter so beyond just a beautiful, perfectly toned face and body, 0:36:36.080 --> 0:36:38.239 he's actually an incredible artist too. So have you been 0:36:38.320 --> 0:36:40.440 have you been painting or anything like that while you've 0:36:40.480 --> 0:36:45.239 been self isolating? So unfortunately, my art comes from like 0:36:45.280 --> 0:36:48.160 a calm, quiet place, and with all the stress of 0:36:48.200 --> 0:36:50.680 the situation right now, there's been not much of that, 0:36:50.880 --> 0:36:53.520 So I'm sure will come. I think the longer this goes, 0:36:54.360 --> 0:36:56.279 I was even saying like, I feel like this whole 0:36:56.320 --> 0:36:58.880 thing is gonna being a bring a bloom of the 0:36:59.000 --> 0:37:01.680 arts where people have no choice but to find things 0:37:01.680 --> 0:37:04.440 to do. And so many people have hidden art tent 0:37:04.719 --> 0:37:09.560 or talents like musically, painting, sculpting, whatever it may be, 0:37:09.600 --> 0:37:12.719 And when you're forced to do nothing else, those things 0:37:12.719 --> 0:37:16.320 may start to pick back up again. Right, So hopefully 0:37:16.360 --> 0:37:20.040 I guess your situation alleviates itself so you can start 0:37:20.080 --> 0:37:23.280 doing kind of having fun. At least you're enjoying yourself 0:37:23.280 --> 0:37:26.680 a little bit. Hey, Peter, Jared, how are you, bud 0:37:27.360 --> 0:37:30.200 um Jared? Man? Are you I'm doing well. Man, It's 0:37:30.239 --> 0:37:32.000 good to hear your voice. I hope you're staying safe 0:37:32.000 --> 0:37:35.880 over there. I just got a question. So, um, during 0:37:35.920 --> 0:37:39.920 this you know, crazy time, you're obviously keeping social distancing, 0:37:39.960 --> 0:37:44.200 So how are you keeping sane during this time? You know, 0:37:44.239 --> 0:37:49.719 how are you staying social? But also listened to sing 0:37:50.280 --> 0:37:54.480 to the rules of self isolation? Yeah, well, so Madison 0:37:54.520 --> 0:37:56.680 hasn't been put on a full lockdown yet. Supposely it's 0:37:56.719 --> 0:38:01.200 coming tomorrow. Um, as far as social been saying, I 0:38:01.239 --> 0:38:04.200 take my dog out, come home, stay back inside, and 0:38:05.320 --> 0:38:10.880 um focus on online programming from my clients talking the family. Um, 0:38:10.920 --> 0:38:12.440 I still go to the gym every single day, just 0:38:12.480 --> 0:38:15.480 make sure thing's impact, and I wipe down every service 0:38:15.520 --> 0:38:17.440 because there's still people going in there from time to 0:38:17.520 --> 0:38:21.680 time to work out. Um. But yeah, find finding ways. 0:38:22.520 --> 0:38:24.719 I don't surprised that I've I've not had a moment 0:38:24.719 --> 0:38:26.719 where I'm like, wow, I need to find something to do. Yet. 0:38:27.080 --> 0:38:29.080 That's good. That's not come across from it just yet. 0:38:30.400 --> 0:38:33.440 That's good. That's good man. Yeah. Surprisingly, I feel the 0:38:33.480 --> 0:38:36.120 exact same way Ashley and I were talking about the 0:38:36.120 --> 0:38:38.120 you know, the day how you know, knocked on wood. 0:38:38.160 --> 0:38:40.759 We haven't been really bored yet, but then we came 0:38:40.840 --> 0:38:43.200 to the conclusion. Talk to us in a week and 0:38:43.200 --> 0:38:46.319 a half to see how we feel then. But then 0:38:46.360 --> 0:38:48.919 it's crazy. So Madison is not in complete lockdown? How 0:38:48.920 --> 0:38:52.680 has it been over there in Wisconsin? I'm not I'm 0:38:52.719 --> 0:38:58.239 actually not aware of how coronavirus has been impacting that state. Uh, 0:38:58.600 --> 0:39:00.759 I mean everything is definitely being acted at this point. 0:39:00.800 --> 0:39:06.560 Businesses are closing their doors willingly more so than being 0:39:06.600 --> 0:39:09.600 mandated to. And there's certain businesses have been forced to 0:39:09.760 --> 0:39:13.400 like things where it's hand on hand contact, like uh, 0:39:13.800 --> 0:39:18.799 Salon's massage, chiropractical stuff has been forced to close. UM 0:39:19.520 --> 0:39:22.799 businesses that you know, all for food service have been 0:39:22.840 --> 0:39:25.640 forced to do just delivery or pick up, and most 0:39:25.680 --> 0:39:30.320 have closed completely. UM tomorrow supposedly goes into full effect 0:39:30.360 --> 0:39:33.440 that you have to be in your house unless like 0:39:33.480 --> 0:39:37.800 emergency purposes. I guess it is UM. But overall the 0:39:38.000 --> 0:39:41.160 streets are empty. People are staying inside. I haven't seen 0:39:41.200 --> 0:39:44.920 any like congregating of people anywhere. It's funny to see 0:39:44.920 --> 0:39:47.000 people kind of standing out in their individual yards talking 0:39:47.000 --> 0:39:49.400 across the street in the smaller neighborhoods. I had a 0:39:49.480 --> 0:39:51.879 d m V appointment today because at dmbn L at 0:39:51.920 --> 0:39:53.440 least right now is appointment only, but I had a 0:39:53.440 --> 0:39:55.799 couple of things that were time sensitive, so like an 0:39:55.840 --> 0:39:58.279 eight thirty am appointment and driving out. The streets were 0:39:58.280 --> 0:40:01.280 completely empty. Even the hairs in the d NB office 0:40:01.520 --> 0:40:03.759 space six ft apart from each other, so there's like 0:40:03.880 --> 0:40:06.279 twenty chairs in the entire office. I don't know, it's 0:40:06.280 --> 0:40:08.600 pretty crazy. It's like kind of it's like eerie to 0:40:08.680 --> 0:40:11.640 see at times, you know what I mean. Well, l 0:40:11.680 --> 0:40:14.200 A is on full lockdown at this point, right, yeah, 0:40:14.320 --> 0:40:17.040 we are, So it's like only essential businesses are allowed 0:40:17.080 --> 0:40:19.680 to stay open at the moment, which it sounds like 0:40:19.680 --> 0:40:21.359 you guys are basically there. But I guess it's gonna 0:40:21.360 --> 0:40:25.279 be official tomorrow, like you're saying, But I don't know. 0:40:25.280 --> 0:40:29.000 It's like there are essential businesses, like that's basically all 0:40:29.320 --> 0:40:32.320 we ever go to anyway. It's like food stores, gas 0:40:32.320 --> 0:40:36.680 stations and you know whatever, like a financial institution, like 0:40:37.640 --> 0:40:39.800 Peter were saying though, like his gym had to shut doors, 0:40:39.920 --> 0:40:41.560 you know, so like a lot of places are being 0:40:41.600 --> 0:40:45.480 affected that more groceries and so forth. It's been so 0:40:45.560 --> 0:40:46.759 long since I've been to a gym. I kind of 0:40:46.800 --> 0:40:52.640 space that one. Um. So, Peter, you know, at one 0:40:52.680 --> 0:40:56.400 point this quarantine will end, um and um. You know. 0:40:56.520 --> 0:40:59.719 I'm curious because I don't know. This is obviously a 0:40:59.760 --> 0:41:04.440 dating podcast. I don't know your relationship status, and you are, 0:41:04.600 --> 0:41:07.600 in my eyes, from all the girls that I'm friends with, 0:41:08.320 --> 0:41:11.360 uh from Bachelor Nation, you are one of the most 0:41:11.480 --> 0:41:14.880 coveted men I can in the history of the Bachelor franchise. 0:41:14.920 --> 0:41:16.760 And I don't really think I'm overstepping in my grounds 0:41:16.760 --> 0:41:20.120 by saying that. So do you think is the door 0:41:20.320 --> 0:41:24.719 open for you to return to the franchise. Oh wow, 0:41:24.760 --> 0:41:28.240 that that was an interesting way to get to that question. Well, 0:41:28.280 --> 0:41:32.280 the reason I say that is because, like I said, 0:41:32.400 --> 0:41:36.400 you know, okay, full disclosure. Actually talked about this earlier. 0:41:36.480 --> 0:41:38.960 We were born the other night and we're playing with 0:41:39.680 --> 0:41:42.880 one of her friends, like who would you rather date? 0:41:43.000 --> 0:41:44.800 Type of thing, and I was giving guys from the franchise. 0:41:44.840 --> 0:41:46.359 They were giving me girls, and Ashley and I were 0:41:46.440 --> 0:41:49.160 very cool with it. We were, you know, we're just 0:41:49.200 --> 0:41:54.880 having fun. And you just like continued slightly. You were like, like, 0:41:54.920 --> 0:41:56.879 if this is the end, stay you were at least 0:41:56.880 --> 0:41:58.520 the number two seed, if not the number one. And 0:41:58.520 --> 0:42:00.520 so my question is would you come back to the 0:42:00.560 --> 0:42:05.399 frantise because I think there'd be some intrigue there. Well, 0:42:05.400 --> 0:42:08.000 if that's the case, it's news to me because nobody's 0:42:08.000 --> 0:42:12.440 sliding in my d M from that franchise. I don't know. 0:42:12.560 --> 0:42:15.719 So Peters, I'm just up on Jared's team here real 0:42:15.800 --> 0:42:18.560 quick and say let's say this, Uh, this shutdown goes 0:42:18.600 --> 0:42:21.400 on a little longer than we want. They somehow film paradise, 0:42:21.440 --> 0:42:23.319 but you're still not able to open your gym. What 0:42:23.360 --> 0:42:27.480 do you think was there a possibility? All Right? My 0:42:27.560 --> 0:42:29.120 question is right back at you. Guys. Do you think 0:42:29.120 --> 0:42:30.840 they would actually ask for me to come back to 0:42:30.880 --> 0:42:33.239 the franchise? And my answer to that is not a 0:42:33.600 --> 0:42:39.120 hundred You're insane, I think I think that's crazy. I 0:42:39.120 --> 0:42:41.360 think it depends on who you ask, because if you 0:42:41.400 --> 0:42:45.279 knew the whole background, the story of why like I 0:42:45.360 --> 0:42:47.520 never went back onto a show. I actually at one 0:42:47.520 --> 0:42:50.160 point decided, after like a year of being away from it, 0:42:50.320 --> 0:42:52.640 like I'd be interested in talking to some people again. 0:42:53.600 --> 0:42:55.960 And uh, it seems to get shut down right at 0:42:55.960 --> 0:42:59.600 the source. It's just like, uh, you know, no, well, 0:42:59.640 --> 0:43:01.719 I don't how it ended. I mean, unless you want 0:43:01.719 --> 0:43:04.239 to tell ushunt and between you and production, is there 0:43:04.280 --> 0:43:07.760 a reason why they wouldn't want you back on the show. 0:43:07.880 --> 0:43:11.160 Obviously you don't have to talk about you don't feel comfortable, No, 0:43:11.280 --> 0:43:14.319 I honestly, I don't know. I feel like, um, I'm 0:43:14.360 --> 0:43:16.239 friends with all you guys from friends with everybody on 0:43:16.280 --> 0:43:22.360 the show, and um, just never been given an opportunity 0:43:22.440 --> 0:43:26.800 I guess to go back. Well, I think uh that 0:43:27.400 --> 0:43:29.759 uh you would be a great fit for the show 0:43:29.840 --> 0:43:32.520 once again, especially if you came back to Paradise. You 0:43:32.520 --> 0:43:36.680 would uh be a very popular contestant. Uh, and then 0:43:36.719 --> 0:43:38.719 who knows what the future of the franchise has with 0:43:38.800 --> 0:43:42.839 future bachelors. Uh. You know, because we've seen with you know, 0:43:42.920 --> 0:43:47.040 Ari and when they pick Nick that they don't mind 0:43:47.040 --> 0:43:49.040 going back in the franchise. So I hope that you 0:43:49.080 --> 0:43:50.719 leave that door open. So I would love to see 0:43:50.800 --> 0:43:53.120 you know you back in the Bachelor franchise at some point, 0:43:53.200 --> 0:43:55.239 especially if you're single, which is crazy to think that 0:43:55.280 --> 0:43:58.040 you've been single for this long because I agree with 0:43:58.080 --> 0:44:00.800 Dean where you know, you've got a great face, funny congratulation. 0:44:02.280 --> 0:44:04.160 You're pretty good artists too. I'm just saying you got 0:44:04.200 --> 0:44:07.680 your the whole package. In my eyes, I'm glad it 0:44:07.719 --> 0:44:12.560 only takes those two things. Thank you. Alex is between 0:44:12.600 --> 0:44:16.000 two Thorns. Thing was pretty funny with you guys in it. Dude, 0:44:16.000 --> 0:44:19.080 Alex corrects me up that man has endless and as 0:44:19.120 --> 0:44:22.280 a comedy built into him. That. I was more impressed 0:44:22.320 --> 0:44:24.879 with your your acting ability to be honest, you were 0:44:24.920 --> 0:44:29.160 like pretty pretty convincing and most of that stuff. Thank you, yeah, 0:44:29.239 --> 0:44:31.120 thank you. He uh he ran through at once and 0:44:31.160 --> 0:44:33.440 I couldn't stop laughing the entire time. She's like, all right, 0:44:33.480 --> 0:44:35.360 we obviously have to do this again a little more serious, 0:44:36.840 --> 0:44:39.520 I mean exactly. He was some pretty harsh questions, but 0:44:39.520 --> 0:44:42.520 it was still pretty funny, was pretty good. It was hilarious, 0:44:43.320 --> 0:44:44.920 all right, buddy, Well, hey, thanks for calling in. Good 0:44:45.000 --> 0:44:48.080 luck with your gym and figuring all that out. Hopefully 0:44:48.080 --> 0:44:50.200 you'll have some times of solitude piece where you can 0:44:50.239 --> 0:44:52.759 break out the paintbrushes and do something a little bit 0:44:52.760 --> 0:44:56.680 more creative too. If I do, I'll show it to you. Yeah, 0:44:56.800 --> 0:44:59.439 sounds good. All right, we'll take care. Well, well, we'll 0:44:59.440 --> 0:45:01.759 have to talk later. On happy belated birthday thirty one. 0:45:02.040 --> 0:45:04.719 Remember if you, if you're listening to this, jump into 0:45:04.719 --> 0:45:06.680 Peters d MS and wish him a happy birthday because 0:45:06.719 --> 0:45:10.080 he definitely needs some extra loving on there. Uh apparently. 0:45:10.200 --> 0:45:13.120 But I love you, buddy, Thanks for taking the time today. 0:45:13.520 --> 0:45:15.879 Thanks buddy. Good talking to you, guys. Do we good 0:45:15.880 --> 0:45:30.600 talking to you? Alight? Thanks you too, But alright bye, guys. Alrighty, 0:45:30.719 --> 0:45:32.799 dang if it's gonna be tough for him, because, like, 0:45:32.800 --> 0:45:36.000 like I said that a little news in there, I 0:45:36.040 --> 0:45:39.360 didn't know that he was open to coming back to 0:45:39.400 --> 0:45:44.040 the franchise and then apparently it didn't work out. I 0:45:44.080 --> 0:45:48.879 had always assumed that he didn't want to come back. 0:45:49.239 --> 0:45:53.880 So that's interesting. Yeah, I don't know who knows, who 0:45:53.960 --> 0:45:57.000 ever really knows you know this is true, But I 0:45:57.040 --> 0:45:59.279 agree with you, Gene. I mean, it's it's you know, 0:45:59.560 --> 0:46:02.160 Peter is a small business owner, and then you hear, 0:46:02.320 --> 0:46:05.200 you know, constantly on the news about how small business 0:46:05.200 --> 0:46:08.720 owners are going to get killed throughout this time, um, 0:46:08.800 --> 0:46:10.680 and then you're seeing it, you know, you're hearing it 0:46:10.719 --> 0:46:14.480 from the horse's mouth right there, someone who's who's um 0:46:14.480 --> 0:46:17.600 going through some troubling times with everything that's going on, 0:46:17.719 --> 0:46:21.280 and so it's you know, the priority, like we talked about, 0:46:21.360 --> 0:46:23.680 is the health of the public, but you know, there's 0:46:23.680 --> 0:46:26.960 going to be some serious financial crisis after this, and 0:46:27.000 --> 0:46:30.160 so it's it's turbulent times. But again, uh, you know, 0:46:30.160 --> 0:46:33.479 we gotta try to stay positive, stay optimistic, and also 0:46:33.600 --> 0:46:36.600 just uh not let fear or stress affect us because 0:46:36.680 --> 0:46:38.719 I think that's the worst thing for our mental health, 0:46:39.000 --> 0:46:42.040 our physical health and everything else. And so you know, 0:46:42.200 --> 0:46:44.480 just keep doing what Dean does. Just keep on swimming, 0:46:44.560 --> 0:46:48.480 Keep on swimming, people, keep just keep swimming. That's what 0:46:48.600 --> 0:46:51.560 story did and that's what we gotta do, all right, 0:46:51.840 --> 0:46:54.239 And we're gonna end this part well, I guess not 0:46:54.320 --> 0:46:58.520 ending yet, but we're gonna end this batch of isolated 0:46:58.800 --> 0:47:03.040 former bachelor contest with the biggest fan of help I 0:47:03.080 --> 0:47:06.680 suck at Dating that has ever existed on planet Earth. 0:47:06.920 --> 0:47:09.280 And that's what I'm pretty sure. He was our first 0:47:09.520 --> 0:47:14.840 subscriber my second dating podcast, and he writes fan mail. 0:47:14.960 --> 0:47:17.800 He'd d m us all the time. He would actually 0:47:17.840 --> 0:47:20.759 create a fake emails just so he could leave us 0:47:20.800 --> 0:47:23.560 multiple five star reviews, which we appreciate and we encourage you, 0:47:23.600 --> 0:47:27.399 our fellow listeners, to do the same. But we have 0:47:27.640 --> 0:47:30.480 Nick fi All now as a guest. And yet the 0:47:30.600 --> 0:47:34.040 fun fact, Nick File is actually the anonymous emailer that 0:47:34.080 --> 0:47:37.759 we always get. He is anonymous, yes, yes, and he's 0:47:37.760 --> 0:47:39.680 been begging us for weeks. He's been asking to come 0:47:39.719 --> 0:47:41.360 on the podcast, and so we finally were like, you 0:47:41.400 --> 0:47:44.120 know what, Nick, Sure, let's do this. Yeah, we'll give 0:47:44.160 --> 0:47:47.080 you five minutes. We'll give you five minutes. Yeah, So Nick, 0:47:47.120 --> 0:47:48.920 are you there? I'm sorry, guys, I was I was 0:47:49.040 --> 0:47:52.920 podcasting from the comfort of my home. Well that's what 0:47:52.960 --> 0:47:56.240 you're doing right now, your podcast. Yeah, welcome to another podcast. 0:47:57.080 --> 0:48:01.879 I was podcasting my hit show and I'm well, are 0:48:01.880 --> 0:48:03.840 you are you? Are you guys? Are you guys the 0:48:03.840 --> 0:48:08.200 studio practicing being irresponsible? Are you guys also calling from 0:48:08.400 --> 0:48:12.480 the comfort of your home? We're We're fully comfortable. I'm 0:48:12.480 --> 0:48:17.120 in bed. I'm currently in a closet, Nick, So are 0:48:17.160 --> 0:48:20.160 you really that's where I'm podcasting from. Well, it's probably 0:48:20.200 --> 0:48:23.160 the best for the sound quality of the podcast. I'm 0:48:23.200 --> 0:48:26.320 surrounded by clothes. I'm I'm in the corner of a house. 0:48:27.040 --> 0:48:32.239 That's where I'm at. That's great. I'm I haven't left 0:48:32.239 --> 0:48:34.440 my house in a seven days, so it's something like 0:48:34.440 --> 0:48:36.480 a grand old time we I. I do very much 0:48:36.560 --> 0:48:43.120 enjoy your videos of dealing with yourself. Thanks a new title, 0:48:43.239 --> 0:48:47.680 hanging with Me, because um, the Paul Rudd show Living 0:48:47.719 --> 0:48:51.640 with Yourself was was already taken. Got it? That makes 0:48:51.640 --> 0:48:55.040 perfect sense. Nick, How are you dealing with this self isolation? 0:48:55.160 --> 0:48:58.760 Because you, as everybody knows who follows you on social media, 0:48:58.880 --> 0:49:03.560 you are self corny to yourself by yourself. So how 0:49:03.600 --> 0:49:09.439 are you doing through it? I'm a little bored. Um. 0:49:09.480 --> 0:49:15.120 I'm well, I've partly been um quarantine myself because I've 0:49:15.360 --> 0:49:18.759 quite honestly have some symptoms that would suggest that I 0:49:18.840 --> 0:49:22.680 possibly have coronavirus, so that sucks. But I do want 0:49:22.719 --> 0:49:25.879 to say obviously that I'm overall in good health, just 0:49:26.560 --> 0:49:30.920 some some chest tightness and shortness of breath and um, 0:49:30.960 --> 0:49:35.920 thankfully I started experiencing these systems after I was staying 0:49:35.920 --> 0:49:39.200 by myself, so hopefully it hasn't affected others if I 0:49:39.239 --> 0:49:42.560 do have it. But um, yeah, I talked to my 0:49:42.600 --> 0:49:44.520 doctor and it's told me to stay home, so I'm 0:49:44.640 --> 0:49:47.080 I'm not I'm not too worried for myself. But uh, 0:49:47.160 --> 0:49:49.600 and I can't really confirm anything because obviously testo limited. 0:49:49.640 --> 0:49:52.719 But other than that, super lonely, super bored. But it 0:49:52.760 --> 0:49:55.960 hadn't stopped me from you know, making videos or podcasting. 0:49:56.000 --> 0:49:59.560 But it certainly makes it feel all that more real. 0:49:59.719 --> 0:50:03.520 I will said. Up, I think that's the funniest juxtaposition 0:50:03.680 --> 0:50:07.000 of that's the way that's ever been said, I'm super lonely. 0:50:08.120 --> 0:50:11.880 You just said so a beat when you said it, Uh, 0:50:12.000 --> 0:50:15.279 you know, what are you gonna do? And all honestly though, 0:50:15.360 --> 0:50:19.520 I mean, uh, it's not too much there for them 0:50:19.520 --> 0:50:23.440 my norm so everything's fine. Yeah, I get that. Nick. 0:50:23.480 --> 0:50:26.080 I have a question for you, as someone that's just 0:50:26.200 --> 0:50:30.560 painfully single, what is it like being single during the 0:50:30.680 --> 0:50:34.080 quarantine are you are you taking FaceTime dates? Are you 0:50:34.160 --> 0:50:40.360 just completely disregarding it altogether? What are you doing? I'm 0:50:40.400 --> 0:50:43.440 you know, again, I haven't been feeling the best, and 0:50:43.440 --> 0:50:45.359 and then when I have energy, I've been kind of 0:50:45.480 --> 0:50:49.400 keeping busy with with work. Um, so my my daily 0:50:49.400 --> 0:50:53.520 life hasn't been very active quarantine lines. But I do 0:50:53.680 --> 0:50:56.279 think in general, for the people who are single out there, 0:50:56.360 --> 0:51:00.920 this is a quite honestly a great time to to 0:51:01.000 --> 0:51:03.800 get to know someone. I mean, tech still work, phones 0:51:03.840 --> 0:51:07.680 still work, FaceTime still works, stripes still works. And for 0:51:07.760 --> 0:51:11.279 other people out there dating who um, I feel like 0:51:11.400 --> 0:51:16.240 sometimes sexual tension or or the pressure of being intimate 0:51:16.280 --> 0:51:21.319 with someone sometimes um confuses an early dating situation. Wing 0:51:21.400 --> 0:51:25.440 a great opportunity to remove that from the equation and 0:51:26.120 --> 0:51:30.239 just get to know someone through old fashioned conversation. Yeah, 0:51:30.320 --> 0:51:33.120 what a concept, getting to know someone through old fashioned conversation. 0:51:33.160 --> 0:51:35.040 I mean, I'm sure you've seen the show on Netflix 0:51:35.120 --> 0:51:37.439 Love is Blind. It's just it's just a real layed 0:51:37.520 --> 0:51:40.880 version of that. Essentially. I've seen the first two episodes, 0:51:40.960 --> 0:51:43.920 is certainly enough to know the concept. But yeah, well 0:51:43.960 --> 0:51:48.000 you know, you can still see what people look like um. 0:51:48.040 --> 0:51:50.160 But yeah, if you if you are like, let's say 0:51:50.160 --> 0:51:52.840 you meet someone on a dating app, you know, um 0:51:53.000 --> 0:51:55.040 set up the old fashioned I think it's gonna say, hey, 0:51:55.080 --> 0:51:56.879 do you wanna have a FaceTime date. I think that's 0:51:56.920 --> 0:51:59.960 a I think that's a funny thing for people out 0:52:00.000 --> 0:52:03.000 there who maybe they matched with someone, They've been talking 0:52:03.040 --> 0:52:07.680 to someone for a couple of days and this broke out. 0:52:08.080 --> 0:52:10.200 They maybe had plans to get together and have a 0:52:10.239 --> 0:52:14.360 cup of coffee or a drink, etcetera, etcetera. I would 0:52:14.600 --> 0:52:17.400 I would encourage people to say, you know what, let's 0:52:17.400 --> 0:52:21.799 not put this potential budding glove affair on hold. Let's 0:52:21.920 --> 0:52:25.040 uh make it make it official, like, you know, get 0:52:25.120 --> 0:52:28.279 dressed up, set up a little date, hopefully stocked up 0:52:28.280 --> 0:52:31.359 on some wine or a beer or whatever whatever your 0:52:31.400 --> 0:52:33.960 drink is, and um, set up a little date, be 0:52:34.000 --> 0:52:36.239 a FaceTime I think that's could be a fun idea 0:52:36.280 --> 0:52:38.800 for people. Am I on the only one here? Or 0:52:39.000 --> 0:52:41.319 what do you guys think? Guys who are in love? 0:52:42.960 --> 0:52:46.520 I mean, since Jared seems to broke into microphone, I 0:52:46.560 --> 0:52:49.040 think I think it's a great idea. Obviously, we're kind 0:52:49.040 --> 0:52:52.560 of in different boats because we're essentially spending. We have 0:52:52.600 --> 0:52:55.400 a quarantine partner if you will. You know, like Kaylin 0:52:55.440 --> 0:52:57.520 and I have basically been together since the quarantine started, 0:52:57.560 --> 0:53:00.040 Jared has been with Ashley. It's kind of an I 0:53:00.040 --> 0:53:02.120 saying they don't have to worry about I. I gotta say, 0:53:02.239 --> 0:53:05.120 you know, it's like, uh, as fun as that sounds, 0:53:05.120 --> 0:53:07.600 and as interesting and creative you can get with it, 0:53:07.719 --> 0:53:11.759 I'm glad that I don't have to bother with it. Fortunately. No. 0:53:11.880 --> 0:53:13.399 I agree with Nick. I think it's a good idea, 0:53:13.480 --> 0:53:16.319 especially you gotta keep yourself busy right now and try 0:53:16.360 --> 0:53:19.760 to keep your spirits high as much as possible, because, 0:53:20.200 --> 0:53:22.760 as we all know, watching the news, it just seems 0:53:22.800 --> 0:53:24.799 like there's more bad news every ten minutes. So I 0:53:24.800 --> 0:53:28.920 think the idea of of maybe setting up a FaceTime 0:53:29.040 --> 0:53:32.880 or skype date where you know you you you maybe 0:53:32.880 --> 0:53:35.399 put on a button down T shirt that you haven't 0:53:35.400 --> 0:53:38.520 worn because you've been in sweatpants and sweatshirts all weak. Um. 0:53:38.680 --> 0:53:40.440 I agree with I agree with Nick, and plus, like 0:53:40.560 --> 0:53:42.239 Nick said, I think it's a good time to get 0:53:42.280 --> 0:53:45.880 to know someone because there is uh at least a 0:53:45.920 --> 0:53:48.319 part of the sexual attention that's removed. Still, you know, 0:53:48.400 --> 0:53:51.839 you can still see how somebody looks, uh and how 0:53:51.880 --> 0:53:55.520 they vibe with you, um, even over the phone. But 0:53:55.800 --> 0:54:00.160 there is that element of awkwardness or uncomfortability that is 0:54:00.239 --> 0:54:02.560 with meeting someone in person the first time that has 0:54:02.600 --> 0:54:05.239 been removed. So I do agree. I think there's nothing 0:54:05.280 --> 0:54:08.600 wrong with setting up a nice, little fun FaceTime date. 0:54:08.640 --> 0:54:14.719 Why not? Absolutely? Nick? Or are you what are you doing? 0:54:14.760 --> 0:54:16.439 Are you on dating apps right now? Just to pass 0:54:16.480 --> 0:54:18.760 the time too? We had a Petie Morton on earlier 0:54:18.760 --> 0:54:21.880 who's on the dating apps, and I said jokingly obviously 0:54:21.960 --> 0:54:24.440 that I would. I'm almost envious of it, just because 0:54:24.440 --> 0:54:26.040 it kind of keeps saying interesting too? Or what do 0:54:26.080 --> 0:54:28.320 you do when you're just when you're not obviously resting 0:54:28.360 --> 0:54:30.440 and taking care of yourself and hopefully you don't have corona, 0:54:30.480 --> 0:54:35.440 but you know you gotta past the time somehow, right? Uh? Well, 0:54:35.840 --> 0:54:39.920 I mean regardless, Yeah, I mean I'm not currently active 0:54:39.960 --> 0:54:43.319 on on dating apps, but I still think there it's 0:54:43.360 --> 0:54:45.959 a great thing. I think I am pro dating app 0:54:46.000 --> 0:54:48.520 in general, whether I'm on it or not. I think 0:54:49.560 --> 0:54:52.759 it's one avenue to meet someone. You know, there's no 0:54:52.800 --> 0:54:56.960 there's no wrong way to connect with people. Um, I 0:54:57.000 --> 0:55:00.840 don't everyone loves to have a story. Uh, but I 0:55:00.840 --> 0:55:05.000 don't think. I don't think that really matters too much. Um, 0:55:05.080 --> 0:55:07.400 if you're lucky enough to find somebody, you know, the 0:55:07.440 --> 0:55:09.960 big story of how you met is you know whatever, 0:55:11.160 --> 0:55:13.080 I agree with you. You just go after the things 0:55:13.080 --> 0:55:15.680 you want and let go of how they come to be. Nick. 0:55:15.680 --> 0:55:17.480 I have a question though, for other people that are 0:55:17.680 --> 0:55:19.799 maybe experiencing the same thing where they're not sure if 0:55:19.840 --> 0:55:23.040 they have coronavirus and on, and there may be feeling 0:55:23.080 --> 0:55:25.799 a tickle on their throat or a cought Um, are 0:55:25.880 --> 0:55:28.319 you stock Are you stocked up? Or you still? Like? 0:55:29.040 --> 0:55:31.239 Are you you know if you don't, if you can't 0:55:31.320 --> 0:55:36.880 leave the house for two weeks, are you okay? I 0:55:36.920 --> 0:55:39.360 mean I I am stocked up again. I mean I 0:55:39.840 --> 0:55:41.799 think you know, that's the thing. It's just like the 0:55:42.960 --> 0:55:46.879 UM I think right now is is a society as 0:55:47.080 --> 0:55:49.839 a country. I think quite honestly, I think people need 0:55:49.880 --> 0:55:52.640 to all act like they could possibly have it. I mean, 0:55:53.280 --> 0:55:56.400 I'm experiencing some symptoms that suggest that I might have it, 0:55:56.560 --> 0:55:58.320 And obviously I was in New York and I was 0:55:58.400 --> 0:56:01.080 flying a couple weeks ago with might you know have 0:56:01.280 --> 0:56:03.799 led to that. But there's also a lot of young 0:56:03.880 --> 0:56:06.680 people who wouldn't show any signs of symptoms, and that 0:56:06.760 --> 0:56:12.040 symptoms could also just be a headache or a running nose. Um, 0:56:12.080 --> 0:56:14.560 And so you know, personally, yeah, I am fine. I 0:56:14.600 --> 0:56:17.399 am stocked up. I also have you know, friends and 0:56:17.400 --> 0:56:19.719 and and people in the area that if I need 0:56:19.840 --> 0:56:21.719 something and I don't want to go outside, I could 0:56:21.719 --> 0:56:23.560 have them drop it off at my door or something 0:56:23.600 --> 0:56:25.719 like that. So I'm not too worried about myself. But 0:56:25.760 --> 0:56:28.839 I think the important thing is is, uh, we need 0:56:28.920 --> 0:56:33.840 to all do our part um and um, you know 0:56:33.920 --> 0:56:36.080 what's interesting about you know, the symptoms I have. Again, 0:56:36.080 --> 0:56:37.239 I don't know for sure that I have it, and 0:56:37.280 --> 0:56:39.520 the reason I've chosen not to get tested is because 0:56:40.000 --> 0:56:43.480 they're not readily available. And um, as of this moment, 0:56:43.640 --> 0:56:47.200 I'm I'm not considered at risk for getting serious and 0:56:47.200 --> 0:56:51.040 I'm a healthy person and my symptoms are well, they're 0:56:51.080 --> 0:56:52.960 noticeable enough that I know it's not normal. They're not 0:56:53.000 --> 0:56:57.960 severe enough that I have any concerns. But um, so 0:56:58.000 --> 0:57:00.239 I'm just doing my part and acting like I do. 0:57:00.320 --> 0:57:02.959 And again, like for everyone, you know, I think we're 0:57:04.040 --> 0:57:07.600 I'm I'm hearing too many stories of people still going 0:57:07.640 --> 0:57:11.040 out and hanging groups. I live in Venice, California, and 0:57:11.160 --> 0:57:14.120 you know before I've kind of isolated myself totally. You know, 0:57:14.200 --> 0:57:17.360 just a few days ago, I stepped outside for some 0:57:17.400 --> 0:57:20.120 fresh air, and uh, you know, too many people hanging 0:57:20.120 --> 0:57:23.520 out in groups and playing pick up basketball and groups 0:57:23.560 --> 0:57:28.640 and things like that, hanging out and coffee shops and etcetera, etcetera. 0:57:28.760 --> 0:57:32.080 So UM, I think people need to take it seriously 0:57:32.320 --> 0:57:35.120 and do their part. And obviously we're gonna have to 0:57:35.160 --> 0:57:37.000 get out. You'll have to get supplies, you have to 0:57:37.040 --> 0:57:39.600 do what you need to do and wash your hands 0:57:39.680 --> 0:57:43.000 and and all those things. But I think everyone needs 0:57:43.000 --> 0:57:45.720 to air on the side of caution because you test, 0:57:45.760 --> 0:57:47.440 there's not enough test for everyone to get tested, which 0:57:47.440 --> 0:57:50.520 is unfortunate. But just because you can't get tested or 0:57:50.600 --> 0:57:52.640 have him been tested, doesn't mean that you couldn't be 0:57:52.680 --> 0:57:56.720 a carrier. So just protect those people UM around you 0:57:56.920 --> 0:57:58.840 and yourself. I wouldn't even know where to beginning to 0:57:58.840 --> 0:58:01.520 get a testing kit from, but then I saw obviously 0:58:01.520 --> 0:58:06.200 we saw that Coulton tested positive for it. UM. So 0:58:06.560 --> 0:58:08.800 what have you gone through the process of like searching 0:58:08.800 --> 0:58:10.520 out a testing kit or are you kind of just 0:58:10.560 --> 0:58:14.040 like since your symptoms aren't super sucred. Yeah, when Colton 0:58:14.080 --> 0:58:15.680 announced that they had it, I actually reached out to 0:58:15.720 --> 0:58:19.720 him and asked him, um, and and then I called 0:58:19.800 --> 0:58:21.640 you know it is that I called a few places. 0:58:21.720 --> 0:58:23.120 It's hard to find and there's not a lot of 0:58:23.120 --> 0:58:27.000 clarity on it. Then more importantly, I reached out to 0:58:27.040 --> 0:58:29.080 my doctor and some you know, I have access from 0:58:29.120 --> 0:58:32.720 people who are you know, first responders. And again, because 0:58:32.760 --> 0:58:35.120 tests are so limited and I'm not considered at risk, 0:58:35.520 --> 0:58:39.760 and not to criticize Colton or anything, but um, I 0:58:39.920 --> 0:58:42.160 decided not to do it and not to contain to 0:58:42.200 --> 0:58:44.880 look for a place because if let's say I went 0:58:44.920 --> 0:58:47.760 and gotten tested, and let's say I went and tested positive, 0:58:48.360 --> 0:58:50.880 they would basically tell me to do what I'm already doing, 0:58:50.960 --> 0:58:55.840 and that is staying inside and in isolating myself. Um. 0:58:55.880 --> 0:58:57.120 And you know what, I might not have it. I 0:58:57.160 --> 0:59:00.000 might just have a I might just have a you know, um, 0:58:59.840 --> 0:59:02.960 another type of bug. It's entirely possible. But the point 0:59:03.040 --> 0:59:04.800 is I'm acting like I could have it and just 0:59:04.840 --> 0:59:10.600 being extra cautious and extra safe. And you know, I'm 0:59:10.720 --> 0:59:13.360 those tests for people who are more at risk and 0:59:13.360 --> 0:59:15.320 and and need to be identified if they do have 0:59:15.400 --> 0:59:18.320 it as having it. Um, I'll leave that to those people. 0:59:18.360 --> 0:59:20.080 So I don't have any clarity on where people can 0:59:20.120 --> 0:59:22.560 get tested, because I mean Calton told me where he did, 0:59:22.640 --> 0:59:27.440 but UM, quite honestly, it was not that close. And 0:59:27.440 --> 0:59:30.760 and more importantly, UM, after talking to you know, my 0:59:30.800 --> 0:59:34.680 healthcare provider, that it seemed like it wasn't necessary at 0:59:34.680 --> 0:59:38.720 this point. Right. Well, before you go, nick, uh, let's 0:59:38.720 --> 0:59:40.640 try to leave off on a positive note. Have you 0:59:40.680 --> 0:59:43.320 been you know, during this time? Have you been been 0:59:43.440 --> 0:59:46.240 watching any shows movies? Is there any recommendations that you 0:59:46.280 --> 0:59:48.440 have for the people listening to this podcast? Yeah? Have 0:59:48.480 --> 0:59:52.440 you guys been watching Tiger King? I just started today. 0:59:52.800 --> 0:59:59.360 I've been hearing all about the baby. Hey, wow one 0:59:59.400 --> 1:00:06.360 that's good stuff. You got another one? Uh? I just 1:00:06.520 --> 1:00:08.520 that's that's what I've been watching. I don't know. I 1:00:08.560 --> 1:00:11.360 watched Tutti the other night, which is an old Dustin 1:00:11.440 --> 1:00:14.440 Offting movie that's on Netflix. I think that's a good movie. 1:00:15.560 --> 1:00:17.360 I have no I have, but I watched it again. 1:00:17.360 --> 1:00:19.000 But it's a nice throwback that a lot of people 1:00:19.080 --> 1:00:22.160 might not have seen. It's a nice quality, fun movieh 1:00:22.280 --> 1:00:24.440 There we go, all right, a nice little recommendation from 1:00:24.440 --> 1:00:26.920 your good pal Nick Vile, which you can also listen to, 1:00:27.280 --> 1:00:33.240 of course with his hit hit super hit podcast The Vile. Secondly, 1:00:33.440 --> 1:00:36.480 it's only the second to your your guys there it is. 1:00:37.040 --> 1:00:40.120 I appreciate it. But well, you're always a joy to 1:00:40.120 --> 1:00:42.160 have on the podcast, and I hope you feel about 1:00:42.160 --> 1:00:45.240 every buddy, and keep us updated and stay home, stay 1:00:45.280 --> 1:00:46.960 safe and love you. Let me know if you need 1:00:47.080 --> 1:00:48.840 me to run over in the orange juice or anything 1:00:48.880 --> 1:00:50.520 like that. Okay, I can move it on your front doorstep. 1:00:50.960 --> 1:00:54.240 I'm stocked up. Man. I love your hair, your picture 1:00:54.280 --> 1:00:57.160 of that Kala post. Did you look really hot? Team? Oh? Thanks, 1:00:57.280 --> 1:00:58.960 it's actually there's a lot shorter back then. I've been 1:00:59.000 --> 1:01:02.520 thinking about going for a shorter look. But tbd, I 1:01:02.560 --> 1:01:05.120 miss you well. I miss you too. If anything, I 1:01:05.120 --> 1:01:06.960 can use this quarantine as a time to get ads 1:01:06.960 --> 1:01:08.920 like you, because every time I see you're one of 1:01:08.960 --> 1:01:10.720 your pictures, I'm always I always looked down at my 1:01:10.760 --> 1:01:18.280 gut and I questioned my existence. No, man'll be fine. Hey, 1:01:18.360 --> 1:01:20.040 if you're looking for another good before you go, If 1:01:20.080 --> 1:01:23.480 you're looking for another good dust In Hoffman movie Outbreak 1:01:23.600 --> 1:01:27.640 is a really uplifting, joyful movie for for I watched 1:01:27.640 --> 1:01:30.400 that last week. Yeah, great movie. Good to your ahead 1:01:30.400 --> 1:01:32.480 of the curve. Then al right, buddy, I'll talk to 1:01:32.480 --> 1:01:34.600 you later. All right? Do you take care of yourself? 1:01:34.760 --> 1:01:46.440 All right? All right? Jared? What else do we what 1:01:46.440 --> 1:01:47.840 else do you want to talk about before we head 1:01:47.840 --> 1:01:51.520 out here? It's crazy the Outbreak is everybody's watching this 1:01:51.560 --> 1:01:55.880 movie either it's Outbreak or what's the other one, contagion? Contagion? Yeah, 1:01:56.360 --> 1:01:58.760 what so people just want to make themselves even more 1:01:58.800 --> 1:02:00.840 paranoid than they are right now. I don't get it, 1:02:01.000 --> 1:02:05.440 Like I want to watch, you know, Cinderella. I just 1:02:05.480 --> 1:02:07.800 want to watch not Cinderella, Like I want to watch 1:02:07.840 --> 1:02:11.520 something that just brings me joy and happiness and distracts 1:02:11.560 --> 1:02:14.840 me from the bad news that is happening in the 1:02:14.880 --> 1:02:18.720 world right now. And it's crazy that everybody is watching 1:02:18.720 --> 1:02:22.080 what's happening and then they immediately flock. Okay, let's watch 1:02:22.080 --> 1:02:27.040 a movie about a deadly disease that spreads and there's 1:02:27.080 --> 1:02:30.640 no cure, and it's like, why just watch the news? 1:02:30.920 --> 1:02:33.240 Why are you watching the Outbreak? Yeah? But in the 1:02:33.360 --> 1:02:35.160 end they find a cure, so it is kind of uplifting. 1:02:35.240 --> 1:02:37.080 At the end of it all, you know, I guess 1:02:37.200 --> 1:02:40.120 that doesn't like spoiler alert, doesn't like Renee Russo die. 1:02:40.480 --> 1:02:45.640 This is horrible. I don't remember, but I don't who's 1:02:45.680 --> 1:02:48.800 Renee Russo. She's an actress. You don't know who Renee 1:02:48.880 --> 1:02:51.640 Russo is. It doesn't Hoppin's wife in it. No, she 1:02:51.680 --> 1:02:55.120 doesn't die. She gets saved. Okay, thank god. I don't know. 1:02:55.320 --> 1:02:57.960 But yeah, because I went on Netflix and we're like, okay, let's, 1:02:58.000 --> 1:02:59.800 you know, find some stuff to watch, and that was 1:03:00.080 --> 1:03:02.400 this in one of the number one trending and it 1:03:02.480 --> 1:03:04.280 was like, good god, I don't know. I can I 1:03:04.360 --> 1:03:06.680 can watch her right now. I need to just distract myself. 1:03:06.680 --> 1:03:11.240 But anyway, Yeah, do you have any uh so I asked, 1:03:11.280 --> 1:03:12.840 I didn't ask you, And before we go, I want 1:03:12.840 --> 1:03:16.600 to ask you really quickly, what hobbies are you doing. Well, 1:03:16.680 --> 1:03:18.560 it's funny that you brought up the piano because I've 1:03:18.600 --> 1:03:24.920 actually been taking saxophone lessons. You've been taking sorry actually 1:03:24.960 --> 1:03:26.760 actually just walked in the room, but you just took 1:03:26.920 --> 1:03:30.960 saxophone lessons. Well, I've been taking them for like a month, 1:03:31.040 --> 1:03:34.360 over a month, so even before the quarantine started. But 1:03:34.560 --> 1:03:36.240 the kind of the shame you think about a saxophone. 1:03:36.320 --> 1:03:38.800 It's really loud, so I can't really practice it in 1:03:38.880 --> 1:03:44.040 Kiln's department. Dude, That's what I've been saying about the piano. Yeah, well, 1:03:44.560 --> 1:03:47.440 you understand my troubles. I'm still finding ways. I like, 1:03:47.480 --> 1:03:49.840 take my van out into the you know wherever and 1:03:49.840 --> 1:03:51.640 just stay in the van and practice that in there, 1:03:51.760 --> 1:03:54.240 and I find ways to do it. But yeah, I 1:03:54.240 --> 1:03:56.360 can't think of really anything worse than the idea of 1:03:56.400 --> 1:03:59.680 being quarantined with someone who's trying to learn saxophone. Yeah, 1:04:00.040 --> 1:04:03.760 I mean, yeah, exactly. Piano is at least semi tolerable. 1:04:03.920 --> 1:04:06.720 With saxophone, it's idiots unless you know how to play it, 1:04:06.960 --> 1:04:08.720 which I don't yet. But you know, give me a couple, 1:04:09.080 --> 1:04:10.560 give me like a week or two, and I'm gonna 1:04:10.600 --> 1:04:13.320 be playing like the greats. I think definitely. Well, actually, 1:04:13.360 --> 1:04:15.880 just walked in and she's tapping me on the shoulder 1:04:15.920 --> 1:04:18.600 saying she wants to add something to this conversation. And 1:04:19.040 --> 1:04:21.560 so Ashley, the floor is yours. Who are you one 1:04:21.600 --> 1:04:24.720 with me on the phone? I'm doing Why is it 1:04:24.800 --> 1:04:29.400 still on? We got a lot to talk about, okay, 1:04:29.520 --> 1:04:31.800 Because you guys have gone over an hour and a half. 1:04:31.840 --> 1:04:35.120 So this is it took your husband about twenty five 1:04:35.120 --> 1:04:36.760 minutes to figure ot how to set up his microphone. 1:04:36.800 --> 1:04:40.120 So she was on the call, Thank you very much. 1:04:40.120 --> 1:04:42.400 She was helping me. But still since then like we 1:04:42.600 --> 1:04:46.680 are anyway. So I just walked into the closet crying 1:04:47.240 --> 1:04:52.720 because my mom is being crazy. She's like, I don't 1:04:52.760 --> 1:04:56.080 know why why you haven't gotten pregnant yet? Why are 1:04:56.200 --> 1:04:58.840 you pregnant? And then she's like and then I was like, Mom, 1:04:58.880 --> 1:05:00.400 I told you, do you just can We just being 1:05:00.480 --> 1:05:02.800 married for a whole year and we just wanted to 1:05:02.840 --> 1:05:05.280 have a little bit more time alone. And she was 1:05:05.320 --> 1:05:09.600 just like until September. Why would you ever wait till september. 1:05:09.800 --> 1:05:13.720 You're never gonna conceive, and then you're gonna have problems 1:05:14.200 --> 1:05:16.160 when you have the second child because you're gonna be 1:05:16.160 --> 1:05:21.360 too old. Oh my god. Okay, well that's what she 1:05:21.400 --> 1:05:24.320 wanted to add. Thank you for bulging our family problems 1:05:24.800 --> 1:05:29.840 podcasts good good stuff. That would be good quarantine content. 1:05:30.040 --> 1:05:32.640 She literally walked, So I'm sitting in a closet right now, 1:05:32.800 --> 1:05:36.120 surrounded her mom's closet, surrounded by her mom's clothing. And 1:05:36.160 --> 1:05:38.280 then she walked into the closet, fallowing her eyes out, 1:05:38.320 --> 1:05:41.120 said she wanted to say something. It's like, Okay, I guess, 1:05:41.400 --> 1:05:43.520 I guess we're gonna go down this road. I thought 1:05:43.520 --> 1:05:45.960 it was gonna be something completely different, but no, apparently 1:05:46.000 --> 1:05:48.800 it's about the prefetcy. Well, the good thing is, Ashlely, 1:05:48.960 --> 1:05:51.640 that decision is left to you and I about when 1:05:51.640 --> 1:05:55.080 we want to have children. And when she goes, she 1:05:55.120 --> 1:05:58.360 goes think about Nancy and Fred. She doesn't think about 1:05:58.360 --> 1:06:00.880 me and Dad. I'm like, I'm pretty are not supposed 1:06:00.880 --> 1:06:04.280 to think of the grand Well, I think they're included 1:06:04.320 --> 1:06:07.360 in the the conversation, but a very minimal amount, you know. 1:06:07.400 --> 1:06:09.120 I think the most important thing is what we want 1:06:09.160 --> 1:06:12.720 to do. Okay, well that's great. Can't wait to go downstairs. 1:06:12.760 --> 1:06:15.200 It should be a good old time, nice family dinner. 1:06:15.280 --> 1:06:18.480 Looking forward to that tonight. Jared sounds like this is 1:06:18.520 --> 1:06:21.760 something that you are fully in control of. Uh, maybe 1:06:21.800 --> 1:06:24.280 amending the situation. You know, all you gotta do is 1:06:24.280 --> 1:06:28.360 start putting some buns in the oven. Uh. Yeah, well 1:06:29.240 --> 1:06:32.200 I don't want to amend the situation right now. Actually 1:06:32.200 --> 1:06:36.080 a higher uh you know, good with the plan that 1:06:36.120 --> 1:06:40.080 we have, and obviously you know, plans change, but we'll see. Uh. 1:06:40.280 --> 1:06:41.840 I thought you were going to go in a different direction. 1:06:41.880 --> 1:06:43.320 I thought you were gonna be like, well, Jared, you're 1:06:43.320 --> 1:06:47.360 the one who really decides to like whether you want 1:06:47.360 --> 1:06:49.680 to plant that seed or not. So I think you 1:06:49.960 --> 1:06:53.120 get I think I'm ready to be a godfather, and 1:06:53.720 --> 1:06:57.240 I think that you guys are in a really good spot. 1:06:57.320 --> 1:06:58.760 I think you should just kind of go for it. 1:07:00.240 --> 1:07:02.040 Maybe we'll see. I'm sure there's gonna be a lot 1:07:02.080 --> 1:07:04.760 of babies born from this quarantine. It's gonna you know, 1:07:04.920 --> 1:07:07.520 people are you know, couples are just hanging out with 1:07:07.560 --> 1:07:11.040 each other, you know, don't have much to do. How 1:07:11.040 --> 1:07:14.240 about those nine months ten months from now, it's gonna 1:07:14.280 --> 1:07:18.720 be a whole new generation of COVID nineteen babies. I 1:07:18.800 --> 1:07:21.800 kind of agree with you, to be honest, I'm looking 1:07:21.840 --> 1:07:23.720 forward to it. But that'll do it for this book's episode. 1:07:23.720 --> 1:07:25.560 It sounds like Jared naturally have some stuff to go. 1:07:25.800 --> 1:07:30.919 Uh yeah, discuss yes, before we go. I just want 1:07:30.920 --> 1:07:34.240 to emphasize to everybody listening, please, please please try to 1:07:34.920 --> 1:07:39.760 remain calm throughout this time. Try to uh have certainly, 1:07:39.760 --> 1:07:42.840 I'm I don't want to say upbeat but try to 1:07:42.920 --> 1:07:46.680 remain as uh you know, find ways to bring peace 1:07:46.680 --> 1:07:48.920 and happiness to your life throughout this time, because we're 1:07:48.920 --> 1:07:52.760 not sure how long quarantine is gonna last. Also, be safe, 1:07:52.880 --> 1:07:57.280 stay inside if you can. Um, you know, take social 1:07:57.280 --> 1:08:01.480 distancing and self isolation serious. UM. I also don't think 1:08:01.520 --> 1:08:05.760 that you should panic or live in fear. Um you know, 1:08:05.800 --> 1:08:08.120 those two are not mutually exclusive. You can take this 1:08:08.440 --> 1:08:12.360 situation very seriously. And also, um, you know, listen to 1:08:12.400 --> 1:08:15.880 the guidelines that the your local and federal government are 1:08:15.920 --> 1:08:17.960 giving you right now. And so that's my two cents. 1:08:18.240 --> 1:08:22.800 Daddy's home anyway. Yeah, so Dad's I guess, so we'll 1:08:23.280 --> 1:08:27.040 we'll see. I don't know what the hell else to 1:08:27.080 --> 1:08:31.800 say about that one. Back to you, Dean, all right, 1:08:31.840 --> 1:08:35.120 we guys, you guys go go talk to Daddy and 1:08:35.280 --> 1:08:37.120 UH for the listeners out there, thank you for tuning 1:08:37.160 --> 1:08:40.320 this week. 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