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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Hey Shelby, good morning, Welcome to

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Speaker 2: the program. How are you? I'm so wild?

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Speaker 3: Good morning?

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Speaker 1: So what's going on with this guy James? We got

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Speaker 1: to know everything? How did you meet? Tell us about

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Speaker 1: any dates that you've been on, and then where things

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Speaker 1: are now?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Sure, So we met on the apps and.

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Speaker 3: You know, we chatted for a little bit and then

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Speaker 3: he suggested that we like go for drinks, and so

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Speaker 3: we met and had some drinks and it was so

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Speaker 3: nice and he was so sweet and like so cute,

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Speaker 3: and you know, we just kept drinking and then they

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Speaker 3: just got a little titsy and a little flirty and

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Speaker 3: we ended up going back to his place and.

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Speaker 1: We hucks up.

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Speaker 2: Okay, and it.

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Speaker 3: Was great, Like it was really fun and nice, and

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Speaker 3: you know, I ended up leaving and going home just

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Speaker 3: because you know, it's like first date.

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Speaker 2: I don't think it's a sleepover situation. But since then, he.

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Speaker 3: Like hasn't texted me back at all, like he kind

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Speaker 3: of did, you know, just sort of like a that

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Speaker 3: was fun and then but he hasn't responded.

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Speaker 2: At all since Wow.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so I'm starting to feel a little insecure, right,

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Speaker 3: everything right?

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Speaker 1: Because you go on his great day, Shelby, and you

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Speaker 1: feel like everything went really well, and you know there

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Speaker 1: was a hookup in the whole thing, so that's that's

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Speaker 1: usually all a pretty good sign. And then to not

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Speaker 1: hear from him afterwards, you're puzzled.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, it doesn't feel great.

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Speaker 1: No, I get that. So let's see what we can

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Speaker 1: figure out here on your behalf. We're gonna call James

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Speaker 1: in just a second. We're gonna ask him questions and

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Speaker 1: see what's going on. Maybe the guy has a good explanation,

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Speaker 1: and if so, hopefully we can set you guys up

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Speaker 1: on another date that we pay for. Sound good perfectly?

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Speaker 1: All right, hang on one second, gonna play one song.

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Speaker 1: We'll come back and do it. Shelby, stay right there.

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Speaker 1: Let's see what happens next. Part two of Waiting by

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Speaker 1: the Phone after this song on The Fred Show. Good morning,

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Speaker 1: It's the Fred Show. Part two of Waiting by the Phone. Hey, Shelby, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: all right, welcome back. Let's call James. You guys met

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Speaker 1: on the apps, had a great date, you hooked up,

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Speaker 1: and you haven't heard from this guy since, and it's

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Speaker 1: bugging you as it would most people, and you want

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Speaker 1: to know what's going on, if you're being ghosted or what.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, let's call him right now.

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Speaker 1: Good luck, Shelby, hellosus.

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Speaker 2: James, Hey James, good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 1: I'm calling from the Fred Show, the morning radio program,

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Speaker 1: and I do have to tell you that we are

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Speaker 1: on the radio right now, and I would need your

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Speaker 1: permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 2: Said, okay if we chat for just a little bit. Okay, Well,

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Speaker 2: thank you. I know it's sure, you're right.

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Speaker 1: Kind of strange you get called from the radio, but

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Speaker 1: we appreciate your cooperation. But we're calling on behalf of

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Speaker 1: a woman who says she met you on the dating apps.

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Speaker 1: Her name is Shelby. You guys went out recently. Do

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Speaker 1: you remember it, Shelby?

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Speaker 2: I hope yes, I do.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, all right, James. She called us and told

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Speaker 1: us that she had met you and liked you, and

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Speaker 1: that you had a great date, a really great date

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Speaker 1: in her estimation, but that she hasn't heard from you

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Speaker 1: since it hasn't been able to get ahold of you.

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Speaker 1: We were able to get ahold of you, obviously, So

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Speaker 1: what's your side of the story.

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Speaker 2: What's going on?

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Speaker 4: Okay, it was a good date. I had a good time.

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Speaker 4: I had fun with her, but she just did something

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Speaker 4: that was like really weird, and that just freaked me out.

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Speaker 2: What did you do?

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 4: Okay, we went out for a drink and we wounded

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Speaker 4: back in my place.

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Speaker 5: We looked up, but after we had finished, she asked

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Speaker 5: me if she could keep the condom for her journal.

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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, huh, okay, okay, I mean the one

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Speaker 1: that was just used. Yeah, she wanted to have that

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Speaker 1: her journal. Yeah, okay, And what was your response?

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Speaker 4: I mean I was I ad a loss for words.

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Speaker 4: I've never heard of anyone doing that in my entire life.

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Speaker 2: I too, have met a loss for words.

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Speaker 1: I think the whole room is sort of wondering how

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Speaker 1: and why and where this journal is and if it

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Speaker 1: should be probably uh burned with medical waste of something

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Speaker 1: that's like a haz mad situation. Let me bring Shelby in.

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Speaker 1: I'm James, I'm so forgetful. I forgot to tell you

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Speaker 1: that Shelby was here. What Shelby?

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Speaker 4: Uh?

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Speaker 2: What are you? Okay?

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Speaker 3: Okay, it is not that weird.

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Speaker 2: It is that weird.

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Speaker 3: It is no, I mean, eventually it like drives up

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Speaker 3: number one.

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Speaker 6: Okay, I'm saying the visual person like I like to

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Speaker 6: be able to like see everything, and I like memories.

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Speaker 1: It's not I mean like a mole skin right, I

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Speaker 1: mean actually that no, pun, I don't know. What do

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Speaker 1: you have like a like a trapper keeper that you

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Speaker 1: keep in like I mean, what on earth?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 3: I mean they get like a clear everything, like a

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Speaker 3: clear car.

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Speaker 2: Is like a baseball card, like the sleep that a

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Speaker 2: baseball car goes into.

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Speaker 1: This is this is the weirdest thing I've ever heard. Actually,

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Speaker 1: it's not that weird. It's extremely weird.

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Speaker 2: Very what nasty?

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Speaker 3: No, I mean I took one of the like drink

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Speaker 3: coasters from the bar too, Like I mean, I just

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Speaker 3: grab lots of.

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Speaker 1: Things, and so what do you do with them? Like

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Speaker 1: like someday if you marry somebody, then what do you like?

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Speaker 1: Is it like a scrap book you go through and

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Speaker 1: be like, oh, this was a good night right here

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Speaker 1: this dried up one?

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Speaker 2: Like what?

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean it's more for me, I guess. I

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Speaker 3: mean depending, I probably wouldn't show my kids like the

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Speaker 3: used condes.

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Speaker 2: That's good to me.

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Speaker 3: Okay, this is where you came from almost let's be careful,

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Speaker 3: Morning Radio God.

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Speaker 2: Like, do you keep it clean or do you keep whatever?

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Speaker 1: I don't know that if you know, if you know,

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Speaker 1: you know, and if you don't know, we don't need

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Speaker 1: to explain it. So you keep these things? I mean,

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Speaker 1: how many would you say you have in the collection?

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Speaker 2: My god, like.

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Speaker 3: The condoms specifically? Are you asking me like how many

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Speaker 3: journal collections do I have?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 1: I mean, is this a standard? Is this standard like

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Speaker 1: that you would ask for that? Or is it just special?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Or I mean is it just any momento?

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Speaker 3: Lots of more, lots of momentum. I would say, I

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Speaker 3: don't ask for every time.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but like you did feel special?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, this isn't weird.

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Speaker 2: It is extremely weird. It is so weird.

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Speaker 1: And I'll be honest with you, if somebody asked me

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Speaker 1: for that, I would assume they were like trying to

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Speaker 1: do something with the DNA.

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Speaker 2: Didn't the happen the Drake? Yes, then he put well

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Speaker 2: and almost Chris Rock too. I think he put hot

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Speaker 2: sauce in. It started flam. I mean I do the

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Speaker 2: same to Drake.

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Speaker 1: So wow, wow, So James, obviously this is very very

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Speaker 1: strange and and you are not into it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I think I'm more freaked.

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Speaker 2: Out than I was.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think we are too. I've Shelby, Okay, I've

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Speaker 1: been around a minute. Okay, I've never heard of anything

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Speaker 1: like this. I've heard of people keeping you know, scruvenirs

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Speaker 1: per se, you know, maybe like I don't know, other things,

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Speaker 1: but not.

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Speaker 2: That well, I don't know.

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Speaker 3: It's like it's just kind of like my art project.

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Speaker 1: I know, I'm stopping this before allowed to talk. I

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Speaker 1: mean like we just did the whole thing where it

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Speaker 1: was like if the people who understand what this is

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Speaker 1: about they already know, and then the ones who don't

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Speaker 1: they don't maybe need to know. Okay, look, James, I'll

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Speaker 1: ask the question, would you like to go on another

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Speaker 1: day with her?

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Speaker 2: We'll pay for it.

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Speaker 4: I will respectfully decline.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, I think that that might be a

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Speaker 1: savvy move, Shelby. Look, I don't I don't know you

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Speaker 1: do you but that I think that's a little strange

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Speaker 1: and you don't. But we can agree to disagree, but

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Speaker 1: it's not going to work out. And I wish you

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Speaker 1: the best of luck. Same to you, James. Thanks for

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Speaker 1: your time.

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Speaker 4: Oh sure, yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 3: Well, what I mean, would you guys mind sending me

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Speaker 3: like a bumper sticker or something, just so I.

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Speaker 1: Can, like, what do I have to do to the

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Speaker 1: bumper sticker for you? No, no answer.

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Speaker 2: No, I'll send you a nice photo. The answer.

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Speaker 1: The answer is no, No, we're not gonna do that.

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Speaker 1: Our good luck, guys,